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Did you see the latest Jonah Hill controversy with his ex-girlfriend? She shared their text exchange on Instagram, and while they both brought up some good therapeutic points, each of them handled the situation in a poor manner for varying reasons. Since many listeners have written in wondering what I thought about this exchange, I figured I'd dedicate an entire episode to it. What Jonah did wrong, what he did right, and what he should've done in this situation if he was fully mature through his own therapeutic process. In this episode, besides revealing what Jonah Hill should've done, I'm also going to cover what healthy boundaries are and why they're so important to understand. Why you need to get clear on your values and standards before looking for a partner. And most importantly, why you need to allow for grace when evaluating other people. Listen now! Show Highlights: The “room temperature water” reason why picking a high-quality woman is the single most important thing you can do in your life (0:20) How using passive aggressive sarcasm when communicating your boundaries backfires and can even make your partner despise you (9:26) Did you see the Jonah Hill controversy with his ex-girlfriend? Here's what Jonah should've done instead… (14:24) The single biggest mistake men make in the earlier stages of their relationship that all but guarantees your relationship won't become a happy and healthy 50-year marriage (17:41) Mark Manson's “F Yes, or No” rule for deciding with certainty whether your relationship will last or not (even if you're still in the honeymoon phase) (23:28) The weird way you owe being a player or pickup artist now to your future wife (25:18) How simply staying curious about your feelings and emotions can prevent massive arguments and fights from erupting in your relationship (29:59) How to have tough conversations with your partner without coming across like an icky controlling boyfriend (34:31) Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now. For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Emotional Mastery is David Tian's step-by-step system to transform, regulate, and control your emotions... so that you can master yourself, your interactions with others, and your relationships... and live a life worth living. Learn more here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/emotionalmasteryThis episode features guest Steve Mayeda, a father of four and a life coach specializing in men's personal development. You can learn more about Steve and his work here: https://www.stevemayeda.com/
Just because you haven't found love or a successful relationship doesn't mean those two things don't exist. Yet, this is one of the many myths the Red Pill movement tricks you into believing. The truth? The truth is that the Red Pill community reeks of immature masculinity, marinating in suffering. Inside of everyone fooled by the Red Pill is a little boy who just wants unconditional love. But instead of using the pain to break past your own barriers, the Red Pill dupes you into creating more barriers, further pushing peace and happiness and love away from you. And the worst part? Following this Red Pill route will never result in what you're truly looking for: Unconditional love. But here's the good news: In this episode, my friend and men's coach, Steve Mayeda joins me again to rip the Red Pill movement to shreds for you, so you can find the unconditional love and happiness you're after. Listen now! Show Highlights: The bizarre “all women have an eating disorder” hypergamy myth peddled in Red Pill circles that's easily disproved at (4:43) How submitting yourself to your higher self magnetizes women to you (and enhances the health of your relationships) (8:17) The lethal “white knight narcissism” many Red Pill guys corner themselves in without even realizing it (11:25) Why following the “Iron Rules of Tomassi” fills you with a deep, inescapable insecurity that will make quality women run away from you (13:20) How asking yourself these simple questions gives you a tremendous insight into your deeply-held traumas (29:27) The tragic truth about why Red Pill guys will never experience true love and connection (even if they're in a “successful” marriage) (31:13) How integrating feminine energy in your healing makes you irresistible to women (even if Red Pill guys scream you have to be an “alpha”) (42:58) Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now. For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Emotional Mastery is David Tian's step-by-step system to transform, regulate, and control your emotions... so that you can master yourself, your interactions with others, and your relationships... and live a life worth living. Learn more here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/emotionalmasteryThis episode features guest Steve Mayeda, a father of four and a life coach specializing in men's personal development. You can learn more about Steve and his work here: https://www.stevemayeda.com/
Listeners and fans have written in for quite a while now wondering what my opinions are about the Red Pill movement, which was largely inspired by Rollo Tomassi's book, The Rational Male. The Rational Male and the Red Pill movement tries to teach guys how to be “alpha.” But there's a big, fat problem with this ideology: It's filled with bitter resentment: Towards “alphas.” Towards women. And worst of all? Towards yourself. In this episode, my friend and men's coach, Steve Mayeda, and I reveal why The Rational Male is white knight syndrome masquerading as alpha, the problem with trying to be alpha (and why it shows immature masculinity at its worst), and why following the preachings of the Red Pill will leave you alone and miserable. Listen now! Show Highlights: The insidious “slave to your hatred” trap Red Pill guys fall into that ruins their chances of finding a high-quality woman (8:18) Can't find a good girl? You may be acting like a “compensatory narcissist,” here's how to fix it… (10:17) Why adopting an alpha mindset will make women you're interested in laugh behind your back (12:51) The counterintuitive reason Red Pill guys are just white knights masquerading as alphas (and why falling for their lies will leave you alone and miserable) (20:39) Do you feel like you have to sacrifice and compromise in your relationship? Here's the weird reason it's destined to fail… (31:29) How to make almost anyone you talk to love you simply by listening as your true self (41:10) Tony Robbins's “APR” secret for making your girlfriend or wife so happy in your relationship that breaking up never even crosses her mind (46:42) Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now. For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Emotional Mastery is David Tian's step-by-step system to transform, regulate, and control your emotions... so that you can master yourself, your interactions with others, and your relationships... and live a life worth living. Learn more here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/emotionalmastery
In this episode, men's coach and addiction specialist, Steve Mayeda, explores the brutality that can exist in sex. He shares his exploration into the hyper-sexual, pain, and how he finds beauty through this entire process. Steve is very blunt in his descriptions, but it is that rawness that enabled an honest and accurate conversation on these dynamic dimensions that exist in sex. Timestamps 3:02 Who is Steve Mayeda 08:55 Trauma and finding healing in sex 12:13 Steve's hyper-sexual journey 17:42 What matters as a man when he is in front of a woman, and the common confusion in men 23:16 The importance of exploring the darkside of your sexuality and how to navigate it 27:50 Why unity is necessary when exploring aggressive sex 34:49 What do men actually want from women 42:18 The role of pain in our lives 49:35 What can the feminine do to call men into their masculine 54:06 What is Steve's favorite part of the feminine Steve Mayeda is a Men's Coach that has been coaching for 15 years working in over 20 countries. He specializes in trauma, sexual trauma and addiction. He is a father of 4 young men. A 10th planet jiujitsu instructor and a world traveler. You can find out more about Steve at thesexuallife.com For more on Sophie Josephina, check out her work on instagram @sophie.josephina or www.sophiejosephina.com
Join Jared and Steve as they cover a wide range of topics concerning your sexual life.
Steve Mayeda is the founder of The Sexual Life & Austin Men's Development. Listen as he talks about how he made his living from stealing stuff to making a six-figure income off his coaching business for over 10 years. Get your cheatsheet for Steve's episode at unstoppablebusiness.com/podcast
In this episode, Hans interviews men's development coach, Steve Mayeda. They explore the realities of divorce, addiction, and how the true meaning of seduction is interwoven into becoming a better man. You can join Steve Mayeda's Austin Men's Development community at https://www.facebook.com/groups/AustinMensDevelopment/ and http://thesexuallife.com/ To meet women without pick-up, go here https://www.hanscomyn.com/ ** PLUS Whenever you're ready... here are 3 ways I can help you 'get' women. 1. Be a guest on "The Seduction Show." My favorite thing to do is to apply the 8 keys to success with women to your personal situation and come up with a specific strategy for you. Whether that is in meeting women, dating, or long term relationships. Click here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScwHUVaCxuKepFraDwbkkCwre8kIPU_N1Wb9JdezI6hnsxnIQ/viewform 2. Join our Getting Women Course and be a Case Study I'm putting together a new case study group at Getting Women this month... stay tuned for details. If you'd like to work with me on the way you bring women in your life and keep them... just reply to this message and put “Getting Women” in the subject line. 3. Work with me One-on-One If you'd like to work directly with me on getting the women you fancy... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... tell me a little about your situation in the land of women and what you'd like to work on together, and I'll get you all the details! Also... check these out
In this interview with Steve Mayeda, we're cover a ton of bases. Feminism, Male Empowerment and Liberation. The Myth of Male Power, and let me tell you, if you want a Men's Movement ... here it is!
2 Dating professionals discuss the good, the bad, and the ugly in their experiences with open relationships with their long term partners. Are open relationships the natural path for humans? Or is monogamy still the way to go?How do you bring up conversations about open relationships with your partner? How should you react if she brings up the idea of an open relationship with you?
I saw Steve speak back in 2012 when I was first training to be a dating coach. He made an offhand remark that helped totally shift my life trajectory. We ran into each more recently doing Jiu-Jitsu. We riffed on masculinity, purpose, martial arts, relationships, fatherhood and other man stuff.Podcast.Ruwando.comITunes.Ruwando.comSteve Mayeda is a men’s coach dedicated to helping men achieve personal excellence since 2006. He is the father of 4 boys and lives in Austin TX with his wife Maria. When he’s not working with men he’s a film and bjj enthusiast.TheSexualLife.comAlso check out Austin Men’s Development on Facebook.#Psychology #SelfActualization #Archetype #Psychology #Masculinity #Dating #Pua #HerosJourney #Fatherhood #BJJ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
THE ART OF F*CKING FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP209Recorded on – Aug 15, 2018 on an MD Excellence Call The art of seduction is something we overlook. We over look it so much we walk around as sexually frustrated men confused looking for our identity in controlling and overly defining our masculinity without ever acting on it.Steve Mayeda is a Men's ... Read More
Steve Mayeda is a lifestyle and men's development coach, and the founder of Austin Men's Development and The Sexual Life Connect with Steve on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter Connect with Adam on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter Also, follow the Outside Perspective podcast on Instagram and Facebook And for all your CBD needs, go to: Jambo Superfoods Save 20% at checkout with COUPON CODE: Outside
START THE CONVERSATION FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP207 Recorded on – May 2, 2018 on an MD Excellence Call How to start a conversation on a first date and use it to get laid. In this tutorial, Steve Mayeda takes small talk and turns it into an engine for getting laid. You will see how you can take a simple conversation ... Read More
WHAT'S UP MGTOW & RED PILL FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP205 Recorded on – Feb 24, 2018 What's up people I am Steve Mayeda and if you don't know me, well I have been making videos for a while now on Men's Issues. Mainly dating and issues around men and women. I have made some videos on Men's Rights, MGTOW and ... Read More
FREE STUFF – http://bit.ly/TSLP199 BUY ‘Militant Nice Guy' by Terrence Terry – http://bit.ly/MilitantNiceGuy In today's TSL Podcast (TSLP), Steve Mayeda (21 convention and Daily Awesome Podcast) talks about ‘No More Mr Nice Guy' and how our perspective on dating, sex, relationships as well as most PUA advice is a little off. Most of it is right, but some of it ... Read More
FREE STUFF – http://bit.ly/TSLP198 SEX & FEMINISM – In today's TSL Podcast, Steve Mayeda is talking about Being A Sexual Man in A Feminized World – Sexual Masculinity and Feminism. Steve Mayeda, 21 Convention and Daily Awesome Podcast is speaking to men about how the misinterpretation of the male, or masculine culture and feminine culture – feminism – can be ... Read More
FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP197 Recorded on – Jan 5, 2018 on a LIVE Broadcast In today's TSL Podcast, Steve Mayeda (21 Convention & TSL Podcast) is talking about The Break Up…we have heard it over and over again ‘My ex is a Psycho' and she very well may be, but what does that have to do with you? Is this ... Read More
FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP194 “Men's perspective on pussy.” Today on the TSL Podcast Steve Mayeda talk about Sex Advice for the recovering PUA. Diving into how we get started with sex when we are meeting women. Getting sexual and having good sex is a huge part of life's fulfillment. You may have seen Steve Mayeda 21 Convention, he's a ... Read More
RELATIONSHIPS ADVICE FOR SAVAGE MEN FREE STUFF LINK –http://bit.ly/TSLP193 Recorded on – Dec 20, 2017 on an MD Excellence Call On today's TSL Podcast, Steve Mayeda is talking about being emotionally healthy & relationship advice for men & recovering PUAs. We dive into the myths of masculinity, the myth of the alpha male and how to be emotionally healthy and ... Read More
FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP192 Here Steve Mayeda breaks down sex, sex addiction and how PUA (Pick Up Artist Lifestyles) can conflict with true men's development. Now more than ever men seeking dating advice or advice on masculinity are sexually confused. Sexuality speaks a language of war rather than connection. Steve Mayeda is a Men's Coach in Austin Texas also ... Read More
FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLP186 Start a conversation and make a connection, this isn't easy when you don't' have the conversation starers you think are necessary. Let's see how to make them, customize them and show ourselves in the best way. Dating advice for men expert Steve Mayeda is going to breakdown how to start a conversation, hold it, and ... Read More
FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/DAP115 Recorded on – Aug 21, 2017 on an AMD PLUS Facebook Live How to handle an emergency. We confuse ourselves with ambition and emergency all the time. We need to know that our primal drive to handle emergency situations is something that we access far too often. Part of our duty as a man is to ... Read More
ASPERGERS & DATING Recorded on Aug 23, 2017 on a TSL Online Call FREE STUFF LINK – http://bit.ly/TSLPAspie Dating Advice for Aspergers Syndrome, how to get an amazing social and sexual life while having Aspergers Syndrome. We hear about the frustrations of dating someone with Aspergers, or cheap dating advice for Aspys or even an Aspergers test can somehow help us ... Read More
with Steve Mayeda, founder of The Sexual Life, and Erin Russell, writer/blogger - Live from Collide ATX. Tinder vs Bumble. Profiles that (don't) suck. The lost art of human interaction. Dinner/movie vs coffee. Making excuses to leave. Turn-offs. Dick pics. Being authentic. European dating vs American dating. Sex on first date. Thanks for our sponsors: http://empireatx.com/shows/ (Heard Entertainment) - use promo code FDBK for 10% off show tickets http://realdopebbq.com/ (Slab BBQ & Beer) - mention The FeedBak at checkout for 10% off your meal. 2 locations in Austin: Burnet/183 and Oak Hill.
Intro: Hang out in the type of strip clubs where you like the vibe and the girls. You need to go to different ones and see which scene you like. They all have different cultures. Don't tell strippers they're hot. Pry deeper and tap into the other aspects of their personality. Show Notes: What kind [...]
Intro: Hang out in the type of strip clubs where you like the vibe and the girls. You need to go to different ones and see which scene you like. They all have different cultures. Don t tell strippers they re hot. Pry deeper and tap into the other aspects of their personality. Show Notes: What kind […] The post 45: Steve Mayeda – Stripper Game (Part 2) appeared first on Inner Confidence.
Intro: Gaming waitresses, bottle girls, strippers, etc. is all pretty much the same. If you're not living a partying type life where you're up until 6am every night, working on getting these girls full time won't be that fun. You need to be comfortable in a strip club, first of all. Be cool and act [...]
Intro: Gaming waitresses, bottle girls, strippers, etc. is all pretty much the same. If you re not living a partying type life where you re up until 6am every night, working on getting these girls full time won t be that fun. You need to be comfortable in a strip club, first of all. Be cool and act […] The post 44: Steve Mayeda – Stripper Game (Part 1) appeared first on Inner Confidence.
Steve Mayeda, dating and life coach, speaker, and the host of The 21 Convention, joins our show today! Steve talks about his start in the self-development community and how he became a dating coach. He also gives us a behind-the-scenes look at the rise of The 21 Convention. And also, Steve goes into great depth […] The post How To Sell Any Product – With Steve Mayeda (Episode 50) appeared first on Elite Man Magazine.
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In this Episode we talk to guest Steve Mayeda (El Topo) from The Sexual Life107| How to Become the Most Attractive Version of Yourself - Steve Mayeda (El Topo).Link: https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-107-most-attractive-version-of-yourself-steve-mayeda/
The Sexual Life with Steve Mayeda. Steve joins Stephen Nash on this week's Lifestyle Arts podcast to discuss the sexual life, masculinity, community, relationships, sex, kids...you name it. Learn all about his remarkable journey, from shilling out every last cent for a pick-up program nearly 8 years ago to now leading seminars empowering men to experience their own wild success with women, dating and in life. The post LSA 022: Steve Mayeda Interview – “The Sexual Life” appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.
Man’s Great Journey Bravo (Steve) & Steve Mayeda on the TSL Podcast Sign up on Our NewsLetter – Get Daily Videos, Free Lesson Plans & All the Resources Necessary to Be the Better Man! TSL Podcast – The Journey to be the Better Man Means Being Responsible with one’s life… Our Best World […]
Over Coming Sexual Dysfunction Empowering the Male Urge Eric Von Sydow (Hypnotica) & Steve Mayeda on the TSL Podcast Sign up on Our NewsLetter – Get Daily Videos, Free Lesson Plans & All the Resources Necessary to Be the Better Man! TSL Podcast – Man’s Journey of Sex and Fulfillment The Solution to Erectile Dysfunction […]
Man’s Journey of Sex & Fulfillment Eric Von Sydow (Hypnotica) & Steve Mayeda on the TSL Podcast Sign up on Our NewsLetter – Get Daily Videos, Free Lesson Plans & All the Resources Necessary to Be the Better Man! TSL Podcast – Man’s Journey of Sex and Fulfillment Eric Von Sydow is a legend […]
The Call of Man -The Ultimate Fighting Mentality & the Mentality of Failure Ed Aiken & Steve Mayeda on the TSL Podcast Sign up on Our NewsLetter – Get Daily Videos, Free Lesson Plans & All the Resources Necessary to Be the Better Man! TSL Podcast – The Ultimate Fighting Mentality & the Mentality […]
The Best Dating Advice in 5 Mins Greg Swann & Steve Mayeda on the TSL Podcast Sign up on Our NewsLetter – Get Daily Videos, Free Lesson Plans & All the Resources Necessary to Be the Better Man! TSL Podcast – The Best Dating Advice in 5 Mins Greg Swann is an Author, Speaker […]
Fatherhood has felt like a continuation of my previous pursuit to become a good lover... Similar traits apply. Which is why I wanted to speak to my friend Steve Mayeda. I know Steve from way back in dating coaching days in the infamous PUA world. Steve is a father of 4 and currently runs Austin Men's Development. He shares about his divorce, balancing providing with presence, and fatherhood (and motherhood) in modern culture.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands