Podcast appearances and mentions of David Deida

Intimrelationens evolutionære formålNår to felter mødes som ét og skaber universer sammenEpisode 52 fungerer som en naturlig overbygning til episode 51, der handlede om sjælens initieringer. Hvor episode 51 tegnede det store overordnede landkort for menneskets spirituelle modningsrejse, zoomer episode 52 helt ind på det evolutionære formål med intimrelationen.Episoden dykker ned i, hvad parforholdets sande potentiale er, og hvordan fremtidens kærlighedsrelationer kan se ud, når to mennesker beslutter sig for at bruge forholdet som en aktiv udviklingsvej frem for blot et praktisk fællesskab.Fra overlevelse til bevidst samskabelseHistorisk og evolutionært set har parforholdets primære driver været reproduktion og overlevelse – at skabe kroppe, så nye sjæle kan inkarnere. Udfordringen i det moderne liv er dog, at vi som mennesker er langt mere komplekse end det; vi har tanker, følelser og dybe sjælelige længsler. Det er i dag ekstremt sjældent at finde et parforhold, hvor parterne harmonerer og inspirerer hinanden gnidningsfrit på tværs af både det mentale, det følelsesmæssige og det kropslige/seksuelle plan.Parforholdets "Stadie 4" – radikalt selvansvarEpisoden bygger videre på tre traditionelle parforholdsstadier (inspireret af forfatteren David Deida) og introducerer det, vi kalder Stadie 4.På Stadie 1 er kønnene meget karikerede og polariserede (f.eks. macho-manden og den overfladiske kvinde).På Stadie 2 mødes man i en 50/50-ligestilling, hvor man er gode venner og fordeler opgaverne lige, men hvor den seksuelle polaritet og tiltrækning ofte dør ud.På Stadie 3 leger man bevidst med polariteten igen — to frie, uafhængige mennesker træder frivilligt tilbage i den maskuline "gøren" og den feminine "væren" for at genantænde den seksuelle gnist, uden at miste den tryghed og ligeværd, de har opbygget.Stadie 4 er derimod kendetegnet ved et radikalt selvansvar. Her har man forladt ideen om, at ens partner skal opfylde ens umodne behov, fikse ens følelser eller fungere som en forælder. Hvis den ene part lukker ned eller bliver stiv og afvisende, prøver man ikke febrilsk at redde dem eller lave dem om; man tillader dem at være i deres proces, mens man kigger indad og tager ansvar for den smerte, afvisningen vækker i én selv.Seksualiteten som den ultimative lærermesterEt af de mest dybdegående emner er seksualitet — det ubetinget sværeste område at forløse i et parforhold, og oftest det sidste der lander. Seksualiteten er uløselig i traditionel forstand, fordi den rummer så intense urkræfter, der fungerer som en trykkoger for alle ubevidste mønstre, traumer og kollektive sår. Når lysten stopper, opfordres parterne i Stadie 4 til ikke at lade det blive til en kold mur, men at undersøge låsningen — at holde den intense spænding i energisystemet og møde hinanden uden at flygte ind i fantasier, krav eller vrede.Når kun den ene vil rejsenHvad sker der, når den ene part begynder at tage denne dybe modningsrejse, og den anden nægter? Man kan ikke tvinge eller trække en anden ind i Stadie 4. Hvis den ene tager sit eget energifelt hjem og sætter radikale grænser, og den anden overhovedet ikke flytter sig eller bliver direkte fjendtlig, vil det uundgåeligt lede til et brud. Fremtidens parforhold kræver to mennesker, der begge har et dybt, indre commitment til at kigge på deres eget mørke.Pionerarbejde og muligheden for at "skabe universer"Episoden slutter med håb. Der findes lige nu en relativt lille gruppe pionerer — herunder nogle af vores egne klienter — som rent faktisk begynder at leve dette Stadie 4-parforhold ud i praksis. De skændes markant mindre; de mærker lynhurtigt en konflikt, tager ansvar for deres egen andel og lander friktionen, inden den sætter sig som en kuldebro. Når to mennesker, der hver især mestrer deres eget energisystem, kobler sig bevidst sammen, opstår der et nyt og kraftfuldt fællesfelt — hvor intimrelationen ikke længere er en kamp for at få behov opfyldt, men en mulighed for at række ud over sig selv i dyb kærlighed.Hør også E11 og E12 om polaritet (den feminine og den maskuline vej), og Mettes bog "Samtaler med min imaginære datter".Magdalene Effektens hjemmesideThe Magdalene Effect hompage

What happens when a man runs out of purpose—and doesn't collapse? Tami Simon speaks with wisdom teacher and bestselling author David Deida about his new book, The Man of Zero: A Guide to Primal Power, Boundless Sex, and the Freedom Beyond Ambition—exploring the phase beyond drive, ambition, and meaning-making, and what becomes possible when a man learns to live from the depths of pure presence.This conversation offers genuine transmission—not just concepts about awakening, but the palpable presence of realized teachers exploring the growing edge of spiritual understanding together. Originally aired on Sounds True One.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode of the Man Talk Show, I am joined by the legendary author David Deida to explore his profound new book, The Man of Zero. We dive deep into the concept of "zero"—a unique phase of emptiness, purposelessness, and outgrowing standard adulthood that many successful men eventually encounter.Together, we unpack how to view depression as a powerful gateway, navigate relationship dynamics with strong partners, and shift from a life driven by constant doing into the effortless strength of pure presence. Whether you are currently feeling completely unmotivated or are looking to cultivate a deeper devotional polarity in your intimacy, this conversation offers a paradigm-shifting roadmap for the modern man.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00:08 - Introduction to David Deida and The Man of Zero00:02:32 - Defining the "Zero" Phase of Emptiness and Purposelessness00:06:57 - Exploring Depression as a Gateway00:11:12 - The Power of Pure Being and Universal Alignment00:14:40 - The Three Phases of Masculinity: Basic Man, Superior Man, and the Man of Zero00:23:10 - Connecting with Universal Awareness in Ourselves and Others00:30:34 - Shifting From the Experience of Numbness to the Space of the Perceiver00:36:40 - Navigating Relationship Conflict and the Clinging to Peace00:43:56 - Cultivating Sexual Attraction and Devotional Polarity from Zero00:51:38 - Processing Inherited Patterns of Shame and Guilt00:57:00 - Finding Freedom and Deep Presence with Strong Partners01:02:29 - Closing Thoughts and Where to Find Free Resources***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don't know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they're looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | SpotifyFor more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | InstagramMentioned in this episode:Self Worth

Send us Fan MailMost men leave an interaction having done everything right — approached, connected, built rapport for forty-five minutes — and then walked away without ever pulling the trigger. They got the number. They didn't invite. And those are not the same thing.In this episode, Zan and Jordan return to one of the most fundamental and most overlooked principles in the Ars Amorata: the invitation. Not as a technique for scheduling a meeting, but as a spirit — a way of being that tells every woman in your orbit, I would rather have you near me than not.They get into why most men's invitational energy has an invisible ceiling on it: come close, but not too close. The father archetype Zan reaches for when explaining how a man can contain feminine chaos without walling himself off from it. The David Deida debate — whether the male nervous system is inherently stressed by female proximity, or whether that's just a man who hasn't found gratitude yet. And the single sentence that Zan says captures everything: I don't know you at all, but I would love to have you around me.Watch until the end for the practical layer: when to invite, how to invite, and why it doesn't matter at all whether she says yes or no.

David Deida is a spiritual teacher, researcher, speaker, and author. What happens when desire and ambition fade? As we age, the urgency and purpose that once defined us can begin to shift. But when that shift leaves us feeling empty, how do we understand it, and how do we build meaning again when the old sources no longer drive us? Expect to learn what a Man of Zero is, if the man of zero is the next stage of the superior man, what happens to ambition and motivation as a man ages, why talking about intimacy is hard for men, what the core of someone's masculine essence is, if masculinity is built by avoiding emptiness, and much more… Sponsors: See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: ⁠⁠https://chriswillx.com/deals⁠⁠ Get 10% discount on all Gymshark products at https://gym.sh/modernwisdom (use code MODERNWISDOM10) Get 160+ lab tests for just $365 and save an extra $25 at https://functionhealth.com/modernwisdom Get 15% off your first order of my favourite Non-Alcoholic Brew at https://athleticbrewing.com/modernwisdom Get a Free Sample Pack of LMNT's most popular flavours with your first purchase at https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom Get ChatGPT to explore ideas, solve problems, and learn faster at ⁠https://chatgpt.com Timestamps: (0:00) Intro (0:21) What Is a “Man of Zero”? (5:48) The Signs You're Becoming a “Man of Zero” (11:49) Why Success Starts to Feel Empty (13:33) Does Achievement Lead to Being a “Man of Zero”? (17:49) The Psychological Experience of Hitting Zero (19:34) How to Make Peace With Hitting Zero (25:11) Does Effectiveness Decline Over Time? (29:20) Is Self-Improvement Delaying Your Freedom? (30:30) How Sex Changes At Zero (39:13) Why Do Men Struggle to Talk About Intimacy? (43:14) The Best Ways to Move From Sex to Real Intimacy (50:47) What Comes After Hitting Zero? (57:57) How to Tell If Someone Is Truly Integrated (58:58) The Role of Discipline After Purpose (01:01:26) How Culture Around Men Has Shifted (01:03:32) What's David's End Goal? (01:07:51) How to Stay Fulfilled Long-Term (01:19:37) The Top Practices to Maximise Your Development Extra Stuff: Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: ⁠⁠https://chriswillx.com/books⁠⁠ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: ⁠⁠https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom⁠⁠ Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: ⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins⁠⁠ #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: ⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠⁠ #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: ⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman⁠⁠ - Get In Touch: Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast⁠⁠ Email: ⁠⁠https://chriswillx.com/contact⁠⁠ - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"Healing is not becoming someone new; it's returning to the parts of yourself you abandoned." What happens when the goals that once drove you no longer fulfill you? What happens when achievement, success, ambition, and even purpose begin to lose their meaning? In this deeply revealing episode of Soul Talk, Kute Blackson sits down with legendary teacher and bestselling author David Deida to explore the evolving journey of modern masculinity through the lens of his powerful new work, The Man of Zero. Together, they dive into a conversation that goes far beyond self-help or traditional ideas of success, exploring the deeper emotional, spiritual, and psychological crisis many men silently face today. This episode explores the different stages of masculine development, why so many men feel disconnected despite outward success, and the subtle difference between true emptiness and emotional collapse. David Deida unpacks what happens when a man can no longer rely on achievement, identity, or external purpose to define himself and why this stage, though deeply uncomfortable, may actually be the doorway to a more authentic, liberated way of living. Rather than offering quick answers or surface-level motivation, this conversation challenges the listener to look deeper at the patterns of striving, control, and self-definition that quietly shape modern life. It is a powerful exploration of purpose, surrender, emotional honesty, relationships, and what it truly means to evolve as a human being, both externally and internally. If you've ever felt exhausted from chasing, uncertain about your direction, or sensed that there must be more to life than achievement alone, this episode may completely change how you understand growth, fulfillment, and freedom.   Timestamps (00:02:14) – Why emotional pain doesn't disappear when ignored (00:05:28) – The survival patterns formed in childhood (00:08:47) – How unhealed wounds shape relationships and identity (00:12:05) – The exhausting cycle of emotional avoidance (00:16:42) – Why self-awareness alone doesn't create transformation (00:21:18) – Meeting the parts of yourself you rejected (00:26:30)– What true healing actually requires (00:31:05) – Breaking free from survival and reconnecting with yourself Some Questions I Ask What parts of yourself did you learn were unsafe to feel or express? Are you reacting to life… or reliving old emotional patterns? How much of your identity was built around survival? What pain are you still trying to outrun? Who would you be without the defenses you created to protect yourself? What if healing begins the moment you stop abandoning yourself?  In This Episode You'll Learn • The different stages of masculine evolution and growth • Why many successful men still feel disconnected or unfulfilled • The difference between emotional collapse and "zero" • How identity and achievement can quietly become emotional addictions • Why purpose alone cannot sustain deeper fulfillment • What happens when you stop defining yourself through performance • How surrender can become a doorway to deeper freedom and clarity Get in Touch: Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com Get your free gift on: www.eightlevelsofgratitude.com David Deida  https://www.deida.training 

David Deida discusses how The Man of Zero differs from The Superior Man, why there's more to life than purpose, and how meaningless is the doorway to something truly fulfilling. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/05/david-deida-man-of-zero COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Lian Brook-Tyler and Jonathan Wilkinson, Wild Sovereign Soul co-founders, trace how the rise of individualism severed our connection to community and spirit, what Jung's individuation actually meant before it was reduced to self-improvement, and what these times are really calling us to. Lian and Jonathan sit down together for their monthly, free-flowing conversation honouring the path of the Wild Sovereign Soul. It's challenging to live in this crazy modern world, the Wild Sovereign Soul path is what we know will help. Each month, they meet live themes from the modern world head on, weaving together what they're currently consuming and creating, how wildness, sovereignty, and soul are showing up in their own lives, and the patterns they're seeing across our students and clients. There is room for curiosity, disagreement, and humour, alongside reflections drawn from their own experiences and initiations, as well as insights from ancient wisdom traditions, astrology, Gene Keys, shamanism, and more. In this episode, Lian and Jonathan explore how individualism became the water we swim in, tracing the distance between what Jung meant by individuation and what it has been flattened into, drawing on Kabbalah, shamanism, David Deida's three stages, and Dr. Jeffrey Martin's cross-tradition research into what union actually looks like when people get far enough along any genuine path. They look at how the self-development world inherited Jung's language while losing his meaning, and how that has left many people cycling through spiritual frameworks in the same way they once cycled through self-help. From there, the conversation opens into what might be reclaimed, what the shaman's role reveals about service and the whole, and what it means that the word "individual" once meant something that could not be divided from everything around it. Listen if you have poured time, energy and money into a spiritual or personal path and sometimes find yourself wondering whether you are actually moving somewhere, or mostly just getting better at thinking about yourself. We'd love to know what YOU think about this week's show. Let's carry on the conversation… please leave a comment wherever you are listening or in any of our other spaces to engage. What you'll receive from this episode: What the true cost of individualism is, not just for the individual, but for our relationship to community, spirit, and the whole Why individuation, as Jung understood it, has almost nothing to do with becoming more your separate self, and how the gap between that and how it is now used has fuelled a culture of self-obsession How almost every mystical and religious tradition, however different their language, can converge on the same destination when followed far enough What the traditional shaman's role reveals about what goes missing the moment any path of soul becomes primarily about personal development Resources and stuff Lian spoke about: Register your interest for the upcoming Wild Sovereign Soul Pilgrimage here. (https://www.wildsovereignsoul.com/pilgrimage) Join UNIO, The Community for Wild Sovereign Souls: (https://www.unioacademy.com/) This is for the old souls in this new world… Discover your kin & unite with your soul's calling to truly live your myth. Wild Sovereign Soul Join our mailing list for soul stirring goodness: https://www.wildsovereignsoul.com/moonly Discover your kin & unite with your soul's calling to truly live your myth: https://wildsovereignsoul.com/unio Go Deeper: https://wildsovereignsoul.com/godeeper Follow us: Facebook Instagram TikTok YouTube Thank you for listening! There's a fresh episode released each week here and on most podcast platforms - and video too on YouTube. If you subscribe then you'll get each new episode delivered to your device every week automagically. (that way you'll never miss a show).

In this episode, I break down one of the most misunderstood connections in personal development: the relationship between success and sex. This is not a conversation about physical intimacy. It is a deep dive into mindset, discipline, and energy management — the same principles Napoleon Hill introduced in Think and Grow Rich, including sex transmutation.Drawing from Mitch Horowitz's The Power of Sex Transmutation, Jay Onwukwe's Sexual Energy Transmutation, and David Deida's The Way of the Superior Man, I explore how sexual energy can become your greatest creative fuel when it is directed with purpose. You will hear how winners convert desire into focus, how discipline turns temptation into drive, and how controlled energy leads to clarity, confidence, and long-term success.This episode explains why many ambitious people rise or fall based on how well they manage their sexual impulses, and how mastering this inner power strengthens your purpose, relationships, and emotional stability. If you want to elevate your performance, sharpen your ambition, and learn how to channel your deepest energy toward your goals, this is the episode to listen to.Tune in for a grounded, eye-opening conversation about the mental, emotional, and spiritual discipline behind true success.Check us out - Instagram and Twitter: JeroldJax Facebook: Jerold Action Jackson and Zone Of Action JeroldJackson.com Happiness starts with you. Not with your relationship, not with your job, not with your money, but with you in the Zone of Action.

Struggling in your relationship or wanting to become a better man? (This episode is useful for all genders too). In this powerful episode of The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset, we're breaking down the life-changing relationship lessons from David Deida's iconic book "The Way of the Superior Man" that transformed how I show up in relationships, embody masculine energy, and build authentic confidence as a man.David Deida's timeless wisdom on masculine purpose, polarity, and intimate relationships has helped millions of men understand what it truly means to be strong, present, and emotionally intelligent. If you're ready to level up your relationship game and become the man your partner needs, these lessons are essential.In this episode, you'll discover:The most powerful relationship lessons from "The Way of the Superior Man"What masculine energy really means and how to embody it with confidenceHow to balance purpose and relationship without losing yourselfThe importance of masculine-feminine polarity in attraction and intimacyWhy nice guys finish last (and what superior men do differently)How to lead in your relationship while honoring your partner's feminine energyOvercoming neediness, people-pleasing, and approval-seeking in relationshipsThe role of purpose, mission, and direction in masculine confidenceHow to communicate, set boundaries, and show up authentically in loveWhy understanding masculine and feminine dynamics saves relationshipsWhether you're single, dating, married, or navigating relationship challenges, these lessons will help you become a more confident, purposeful, and emotionally strong man who knows how to love and lead with integrity.Perfect for: Men seeking relationship advice, masculine development, dating tips, marriage improvement, understanding feminine energy, personal growth for men, building confidence, alpha male mindset, and healthy masculinity in 2025Looking for ways to think more clear, confidently and calmly check out Kaye's links here:⁠⁠microdosingforhealing.com⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠@kaysegehret

Of je relatie nu in een sleur zit, je vaak ruzie hebt of juist in een chille vibe met elkaar bent: het is eigenlijk altijd een goed moment om te kijken hoe je elkaar nog beter lief kunt hebben. Soms sluiten we onze harten voor elkaar, stoppen we met ‘geven' en wordt de relatie heel transactioneel. We willen pas weer genereus zijn in de liefde wanneer het tekort op onze emotionele bankrekening is aangevuld. We bespreken David Deida's 3 stages of love, wat mannen en vrouwen het diepst van elkaar verlangen en wanneer wij onszelf het meest geliefd hebben gevoeld.Ontdek hoe jij je liefdesleven kunt verrijken met producten die niet alleen jou, maar ook de wereld een beetje gelukkiger maken. Met de kortingscode MAKELOVEWORK krijgen onze luisteraars 10% korting op het gehele assortiment. Ga snel naar ⁠lielei.nl⁠ en let the fun begin!

Text Us Your Feedback! (Likes, Dislikes, Guest/Conversation Recommendations). In this episode, Brandon sits down with evolutionary psychology expert and bestselling author Tim Ash to break down why modern dating feels like a disaster for so many men and women. Tim explains how technology, culture shifts, online dating, and evolutionary wiring have collided to create a dating marketplace filled with confusion, frustration, and unmet expectations.You'll learn:Why men under 30 are having less sex than ever recordedHow women's economic rise reshaped the dating landscapeThe real evolutionary roots behind the “red pill vs feminist” warWhy online dating skews the marketplace and inflates perceived valueThe three key decision points in mate selectionHow men can boost both attraction and provisioning skillsWhy confidence and competence beat cheesy pickup tacticsWhat women are really optimizing for when selecting a partnerLinks Mentioned• Tim Ash website: https://primaldating.com • “Primal Dating” book info and resources: https://primaldating.com • “Unleash Your Primal Brain” by Tim Ash: https://timash.com/books • David Deida's “The Way of the Superior Man”: https://deida.info/the-way-of-the-superior-man • Mankind Project: https://mankindproject.org BetterHelp: Get 10% Off Your First Month Of Therapy The ManKind Podcast has partnered with Betterhelp to make it easier for listeners to access licensed mental health therapists who can aid them in their mental health journey. Brandon and Boysen stand by this service as they use BetterHelp for their therapy needs.#Sponsorship #AdSupport the showGet up to 48% off Magic Mind with our link:https://magicmind.com/MANKIND50 Subscribe/Rate/Review on iTunes ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐: >>>HERE

In this episode, Roy shares a recording from one of his favorite spiritual teachers, David Deida. Deida is a leading voice in conscious relationships, especially when it comes to masculine/feminine dynamics.   Given the culture wars going on these days around sex and gender, David's message is even more necessary and powerful.   Don't miss this episode!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy's Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy's Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy's 4 Books: ·      Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/ ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy's Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy's Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

How can we have more meaningful, connected sex? Many couples today are stuck in a low-sex or no-sex dynamic, while others struggle to break a routine that feels unbearably dull. In this classic reissued episode, Jan Day, a relationship expert and psycho-spirital teacher,  discusses “Living Tantra”. Andrew and Jan cover how to “resensitise” in a world where there is not enough touch. Coming off autopilot and being open to depth and mystery can lead to a richer connection with the world and with our partners. Jan Day has been teaching and leading workshops in Europe and Hawaii since 1999. Her life and work have been influenced by both Eastern and Western spiritual teachers. She was a sanyassin of Osho for 15 years. Over a period of 20 years Jan trained and then taught with Alan Lowen, founder of _The Art of Being®. The Living Tantra series of workshops that she offers is based on the Body, Heart & Soul®_ series created by Alan. She has also been influenced by and/or worked with Jack Kornfield, David Deida, Ron Kurtz, Ken Wilber, Genpo Roshi, Thomas Hübl and Ammachi. If You're Looking for More…. You can subscribe to The Meaningful Life (via Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Google Podcasts) and hear a bonus mini-episode every week. Or you can join our Supporters Club on Patreon to also access exclusive behind-the-scenes content, fan requests  and the chance to ask Andrew your own questions. Membership starts at just £4.50 This week supporters will hear: Andrew's favourite exercises from Jan's book to try yourself Three things Jan Day knows to be true.  AND subscribers also access all of our previous bonus content - a rich trove of insight on love, life and meaning created by Andrew and his interviewees. Follow Up Get Andrew's free guide to difficult conversations with your partner: How to Tell Your Partner Difficult Things  Read Jan Day's book Living Tantra: A Journey into Sex, Spirit and Relationship  Visit Jan Day's website to learn more about the courses and workshops she offers.  Read Andrew's book Have the Sex You Want: A Couple's Guide to Getting the Spark Back  Take a look at Andrew's new online relationship course: My Best Relationship Tools  Join our Supporters Club to access exclusive behind-the-scenes content, fan requests and the chance to ask Andrew your own questions. Membership starts at just £4.50 https://www.patreon.com/andrewgmarshall  Andrew offers regular advice on love, marriage and finding meaning in your life via his social channels. Follow him on Twitter, Facebook and YouTube @andrewgmarshall 

SEXTA PARTE: Atracción femenina Cap 39: Lo femenino es abundante 03:05 Cap 40: Permite que las mujeres maduras manifiesten su magia07:57 Cap 41: Convierte tu deseo en un regalo 12:07: Cap 42: Nunca dejes que tú deseo quede reprimido o despolarizado20:22 Cap 43: Usa su atractivo para traspasar las apariencias 27:51 SÉPTIMA PARTE: Prácticas corporales 38:45 Cap 45: Respira por delante 46:51 Cap 46: Eyacula subiendo la energía por la columna

OCTAVA PARTE: El yoga en las relaciones entre hombres y mujeres Cap 47: Ten en cuenta la Asimetría Primaria 09:23 Cap 48: Eres responsable del crecimiento de la relación 15:55 Cap 49: Insiste en la práctica y en el crecimiento 20:57 Cap 50: Restaura tu propósito en soledad y con otros hombres 30:16 Cap 51: Práctica la disolución FIN DEL LIBRO

"Polarity" is a term we throw around a lot on this podcast, and a concept that has gained popularity in discussions on masculinity, femininity, sacred sexuality, and conscious relationship over the last few decades.Here we delve into what it actually means ... and how it connect to hot sexy sex. ;)Seriously, though, polarity is a big part of how to generate attraction regardless of what type of body you're in, and it also relates to how to generate safety within relationship.If you want to be magnetic to your current or future partner(s); if you're interested in keeping sexy time passionate over time within a committed relationship, if you like the idea of knowing how to effortlessly encourage a partner to soften and relax into their body -- or step up and step into their power; or you want to know how to make a new dating relationship extra rich and deep, you'll get a lot out of this one.---Work with usReady to go deeper than the podcast and take action? Jason and I can help you break old patterns and transform your sex & love life for good. To see if you're a fit for our flagship program, Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)---Mentioned on this episode:Book rec: Way of the Superior Man by David Deida; Dear Lover by David Deida; Blue Truth by David DeidaThe Love Field (new course by Violet Lange): violetlange.com/lovefield/

Adeyemi Adeyosoye is a transformational coach and spiritual teacher whose work bridges the realms of business, energy, and men's activation. With a foundation in Mechanical Engineering and business, Adeyemi once built a successful career driving company growth and chasing the external markers of success.At one stage, he landed the career opportunity of a lifetime, was in a loving relationship, and appeared to have everything he had ever wanted.But behind the surface, he felt increasingly empty, out of alignment with himself, his purpose, and his own truth. That disconnection led him to a breaking point, where the life he had built began to crumble.In the search for answers, he turned his attention to the formative years that shaped him, marked by abuse, suppression, and the pain of feeling like a black sheep. He realized he had learned to cope by chasing achievement, money, and external validation. But as everything began to crumble, he chose to face the pain he had been carrying, and that choice changed everything for him.Over the last decade, Adeyemi has immersed himself in deep inner work through dozens of psychedelic journeys, Tantra, sexual activation, inner child healing, and embodiment work. Through these explorations, he began unravelingthe pain he had carried, the disconnection, shame, and unworthiness, and discovered a pathway back to intimacy, fulfillment, and purpose.I first met Adeyemi during an intensive with David Deida, and from the first moment I encountered his presence, I knew I would love to have him on the show, and this conversation absolutely did not disappoint. In this fast-paced dialogue, we cover a wide range of topics:How Adeyemi moved from working as a cleaner in Germany for 7 euros an hour to becoming a sales and partnerships manager in the fintech industry in the UK in a short period of timeHow a man can learn to navigate fearHow he can lead with self-belief in the face of uncertaintyWhy learning to lead in the bedroom is deeply connected to leading in the boardroomWhy letting go of control, and leaning into trust might lead you to the very success you could be looking forAnd so much more...One of my favorite moments came toward the final third of our conversation. I experienced this palpable shift. All of a sudden, there was more flow guiding us, more vitality was present, and more play. I encourage you to listen all the way through and notice where that turning point came. I hold deep respect for Adeyemi and the work he's bringing into the world, and I am confident that his fierce, penetrating presence in this conversation will inspire that same fire that lives inside of you. —Connect with Adeyemi Adeyosoye: Website: https://www.adeyemiadeyosoye.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adeyemiadeyosoyeDiscover more about "Reborn": https://www.joinotherside.com/rebornDiscover more about "Otherside" :https://www.joinotherside.com/—Connect with Alex Lehmann: Website: https://www.alexlehmann.co/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexlehmann_Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@heartofmanpodcastLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/alexlehmann-homListen to this conversation on Apple Podcasts and leave a review: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/heart-of-man/id1697289478Email: alexlehmanncoaching@gmail.comThink we might be a good fit to work together? Let's find out & schedule a free connection call (two spots available at present time): https://ahb8n7i1908.typeform.com/to/ddTCwpJPEpisodes you might enjoy:Chris Bale: How Can Men Today Reclaim Their Boldness? | EP 44: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4c4UtA1P9cKQbUUG3zEtgB?si=Ndr3YpFzQDm4hy85xB4gTQChris Bale: Why Are Men Struggling Today & What Can They Do? | EP 27:https://open.spotify.com/episode/3vLPotDJsjkrfmkyWUeYXJ?si=cPg3YCrxSUaqI68YVnabTg

In this episode I sat down with Shah from his ‘This is Shah' channel - https://www.youtube.com/@thisisshahWe dove into why the divorce rate is so high and what's happening with modern dating and relating? Shah is extremely knowledgeable about family law and the court systems and we have an extensive conversation about dowry and bride price systems from the past.Listen in to learn about whether the dowry has wisdom we could implement today, why caricatures of men and women are shaping modern dating dilemmas, Barbies and Bugattis, whether Andrew Tate would become monogamous if he was presented with a dowry, what the purpose of a prenup is and why it began, what the three stages of relating are based on David Deida's work are, which stage are we in now, how we can define actually love? And so much more.Such a great conversation with Shah, enjoy. TIMESTAMPS:00:00 - 00:30 Episode Trailer and Intro00:30 - 01:39 Episode Overview and 'This is Shah' Introduction01:39 - 03:40 Who is 'This is Shah'03:40 - 04:44 Is a dowry a sacrifice?04:44 - 06:59 Is a dowry tantamount to buying someone06:59 - 09:33 Bride price is a compensation for labour value lost by the bride's family09:33 - 10:35 Why did we move from bride price to dowry10:35 - 12:44 When did people start hating dowry and bride price rituals12:44 - 14:53 Did feminism start because men stopped paying dowries?14:53 - 17:25 'You're a high status man if you can manage a housewife'17:25 - 19:11 Courtly love and romance used to be separate from marriage19:11 - 21:16 Love means something different to almost everyone21:16 - 22:36 Alex and Leila Hormozi's relationship22:36 - 23:54 What is love?23:54 - 25:16 Dowry payments are much like child support payments25:16 - 28:08 Why prenups are funny to me28:08 - 29:29 The three stages of relating29:29 - 32:05 Andrew Tate is the male version of The Barbie ideal32:05 - 32:46 What is the number one thing that any woman wants32:46 - 35:19 The Quiet Man35:19 - 37:09 The second stage of relating37:09 - 39:45 Dowry societies see fewer divorces than bride price societies39:45 - 41:50 Society has abandoned initiations41:50 - 43:46 Does being religious reduce divorce rates?43:46 - 47:20 Your upbringing determines your choice of romantic partners47:20 - 48:30 Did no-fault divorce make it too easy to separate48:30 - 52:03 Did industrialism ruin it for women52:03 - 53:57 Why I believe hooking up is bad for you53:57 - 55:50 What do you bring to the table?55:50 - 58:26 What is a good romantic scenario when two people meet58:26 - 01:01:50 Look at their credit report before getting married01:01:50 - 01:02:48 How to really lower divorce rates01:02:48 - 01:05:28 The only good thing about red pill 01:05:28 - 01:06:12 The Romance game01:06:12 - 01:07:04 The hedonism wall01:07:04 - 01:12:21 Can women stick with you when you have nothing01:12:21 - 01:13:18 Is income separate from attraction01:13:18 - 01:17:35 Are there other men besides Nice guys and Bad boys01:17:35 - 01:21:09 What is missing from how we behave these days?01:21:09 - 01:23:35 My take on how to change the world of dating01:23:35 - 01:26:37 how would I get Andrew Tate to be monogamous01:26:37 - 01:28:40 Beauty that inspires action in a man01:28:40 - 01:29:45 The one point men should take from this conversation01:29:45 - 01:30:49 Key takeaways for women01:30:49 - 01:31:27 Outro_______________________If you found some value today then help me spread the word! Share this episode with a friend or leave a review. This helps the podcast grow.You can also watch the episodes on youtube hereFollow me on Instagram @anyashakhYou can book a discovery call at anyashakh.com

John and Mike continue their conversation. In Part 1, Mike shared his journey from being an entrepreneur to becoming a strategic advisor, author, and creator of the DecideFast app. In this episode, Mike explains how the DecideFast app works, what inspired him to build it, and why he believes it can be life-changing. They also discuss authenticity, masculinity, leadership, and much more. Listen to this episode to learn more: [00:00] - DecideFast app [02:09] - Who the app is for & its functionality [04:48] - The thinking behind the app [06:10] - What's next for Mike [07:24] - Building a community around the app [08:43] - How Mike improves his significant relationships [10:30] - Healthy masculinity and why society often mislabels it as toxic [12:14] - The broken bridge analogy [14:53] - Complaining vs. action in relationships [17:57] - John's belief in the institution of marriage [22:33] - Mike's definition of success [23:47] - Traits of a great leader [24:56] - How Mike invests in his growth [25:27] - Best way to connect with Mike [27:23] - Books recommendation [27:34] - Podcasts Mike listens to most [28:20] - John's book, The F6 Secrets of Relationships [30:59] - Closing thoughts NOTABLE QUOTES: “Fix yourself first. You do whatever you can to try to save that marriage. And if, at that point, the marriage doesn't work, then it's time to move on.” “You gotta become the best version of yourself to be able to lead anybody. Because if you can't lead yourself, you can't lead anybody else.” “Be yourself. Just be authentic. Don't try to be anything you're not. When you're authentic, you attract the right person anyway.” “A lot of times, people focus on the exterior, the outside world. You've got to fix the inside world first. If you fix that, the inside world, you're going to be pretty good in life.” BOOKS MENTIONED: The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire by David Deida (https://a.co/d/dy5bNSu) Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill (https://a.co/d/aahwGeE) The 7 Love Agreements by Dr. Douglas Weiss (https://a.co/d/5ssuwF3) PODCAST MENTIONED: The Game with Alex Hormozi (https://tinyurl.com/TheGamePodcastAH) CONTENT CREATORS MENTIONED: Brian Tracy (https://www.instagram.com/thebriantracy/) Gary Vaynerchuk (https://www.instagram.com/garyvee/) USEFUL RESOURCES: https://mikepedersen.com/ https://decidefastapp.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/mikepedersen/ https://www.instagram.com/michaeltpedersen/ https://www.instagram.com/decidefastapp/ https://www.facebook.com/mikepedersen https://www.facebook.com/getdecidefast https://x.com/mikepedersen https://x.com/decidefastapp Man Awakened: Rediscovering Purpose and Vitality After 50 (https://a.co/d/aAHCtao) Atomic Actions: Experience Transformative Breakthroughs and Unstoppable Momentum (https://a.co/d/gYzOol4) Dominate Your Market: NO BS Impact Strategies to Explode Your Business Revenues, Have More Energy, and Get the Life You Really Want (https://a.co/d/j3wkZcG) CONNECT WITH JOHN Website - https://iamjohnhulen.com    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnhulen    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/johnhulen    X - https://x.com/johnhulen    LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnhulen    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLX_NchE8lisC4NL2GciIWA    EPISODE CREDITS Intro and Outro music provided by Jeff Scheetz - https://jeffscheetz.com/ 

Keith Martin-Smith explores the contemporary crisis of masculinity through an Integral lens, challenging reductive narratives and inviting a richer, more multidimensional understanding of what it means to be a man in today's world. Drawing on decades of men's work, leadership coaching, and deep spiritual practice, Keith begins by naming a cultural paradox: while nearly everyone can define toxic masculinity, few can describe what healthy masculinity actually looks like. He traces this confusion to the collapse of traditional masculine scripts—stoicism, sacrifice, emotional coolness—that no longer resonate in a post-MeToo, pluralistic society. At the same time, newer ideals often leave men feeling neutered, ashamed, or adrift, with many retreating from relationships or quietly imploding under the weight of conflicting expectations. Rather than offering yet another rigid definition, Keith argues for a more integrative, developmental approach. He critiques David Deida's popular three-stage model of masculinity—macho, nice guy, spiritual superhero—as overly idealized and psychologically naive, particularly in its neglect of trauma, shadow, and real-world complexity. Instead, Keith proposes that we recognize at least four major cultural expressions of masculinity, each with their healthy potentials and toxic distortions: Power-Based (Red) – Embodied presence, courage, and command; but prone to narcissism, domination, and emotional detachment. Traditional (Amber) – Duty, stoicism, service, and loyalty; but often repressive, rigid, and emotionally inaccessible. Modern (Orange) – Autonomy, achievement, innovation, and rational mastery; but risks burnout, detachment, and status addiction. Pluralistic (Green) – Emotional fluency, empathy, cultural humility, and relational depth; but susceptible to self-erasure, performative empathy, and ideological coercion. Rather than pitting these stages against each other, Keith calls for an integration of all four, turning masculinity from a fixed identity into a responsive, embodied capacity. A healthy man, he argues, learns to inhabit any of these modes depending on what the moment calls for—whether it's the fierce protection of the Red warrior, the principled resolve of the Traditionalist, the clarity and execution of the Modernist, or the open-hearted presence of the Pluralist. He further warns that every level of masculinity can become domineering when it loses connection to service and heart. Whether through brute force, righteous tradition, technocratic elitism, or virtue-based moralism, each mode carries a potential for shadow—especially when weaponized in the name of power or purity. Keith closes with a spiritual invitation: that no identity—masculine, feminine, cultural, psychological—is ultimately who we are. Lasting transformation arises not from performing better roles, but from anchoring ourselves in something deeper than the constructed self. Through spiritual practice, disciplined shadow work, and developmental integration, men can begin to shed limiting scripts and show up as whole, multidimensional human beings. Not by abandoning the masculine—but by rediscovering it as an evolving, relational, and embodied art.

I loved interviewing longtime friend, Bryan Reeves—a former Air Force captain turned relationship coach, author, and speaker—about deep themes of love, grief, surrender, and conscious partnership. Bryan shared his and his wife's experience of enduring 18 major life challenges in five years, many of these were ambiguous losses—grief over things never fully materialized. We've both been Inspired by Michael Singer's Surrender Experiment and Bryan reflected on surrendering to life's challenges without giving up, choosing instead to fully engage with each moment, seeing surrender as the ultimate form of freedom. I love learning about the complex dynamics of partnership with his wife, Silvy—balancing personal truths, holding space for differences, and learning how to share power in a relationship rather than dominate or withdraw. In this deeply connected reunion of sorts in person in Austin, we also discussed... -How much Bryan loves Silva! I asked him to describe qualities he appreciates about her—he lit up! He spoke of her warmth, humor, depth, and emotional availability—and three things that turn him on, from her sensuality to her emotional support. -How Bryan openly owns his shortcomings—like struggling to offer the depth of emotional connection Silvy craves—and apologizes for past choices that unintentionally hurt her, including the decision to leave LA. -How we both emphasized that true love and partnership are not about perfection, but about willingness to stay present in the messiness. We explored how real intimacy requires patience, compassion, and truth-telling. -How Bryan's guiding principle in his partnership with his wife is serving love, rather than ego. -How I vulnerably opened up about my own struggles with being single, practicing self-care, and asking my staff for loving accountability—showing that intimacy begins with ourselves. -This nearly yearly podcast swap between old friends ends with mutual appreciation, humor, and heartfelt acknowledgment of the growth they've witnessed in each other over 15 years. -I'm so grateful for the depth and realness of our shared journey and we invite listeners to reflect and take meaningful action in their own lives… tiny hinges swing big door… you'd be amazed what consistent aligned action will create for your intimate relationships. ➡️ Go check out patreon.com/allanapratt for Exclusive content! About Bryan Reeves:   A former US Air Force Captain, Bryan is now an international coach and blogger who's blogs, videos, online courses, and books have been experienced by over 30 million people in every country in the world (except North Korea apparently). He's worked and studied with the top spiritual teachers of our time, including Marianne Williamson, David Deida, Byron Katie, Eckhart Tolle, and others. With a Masters Degree in Human Relations, he now coaches men and women to creating thriving lives and relationships. Check out his amazing podcast, Men this Way! and his NEW BOOK: Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her) Website: https://bryanreeves.com/ Facebook URL https://www.facebook.com/bryanreevesofficial Twitter URL: https://twitter.com/thebryanreeves Instagram URL https://www.instagram.com/bryanreevesinsight/ YouTube URL ​https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjeDDgvGtFmYq2bTfSzSutg Gift or Product Link Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her) https://bryanreeves.com/book/   Schedule your Intimacy Breakthrough Experience with me today https://allanapratt.com/connect Scholarship Code: READYNOW ________________________________________________________ ❤️ Finding the One is Bullsh*t. Becoming the One is brilliant and beautiful, and ironically the key to attracting your ideal partner. Move beyond the fear of getting hurt again. Register for Become the One Introductory Program. http://allanapratt.com/becomeintro Use Code: BTO22 to get over 40% off ________________________________________________________ ❤️ We're thrilled to partner with Magic Mind for this episode. Go to https://magicmind.com/INTIMATECONVERSATIONS40 to avail exciting offers! ________________________________________________________ ❤️ Let's stay connected: Exclusive Video Newsletter: http://allanapratt.com/newsletter Instagram - @allanapratt [ / allanapratt ] Facebook - @coachallanapratt [ / coachallanapratt ]

In this powerful episode, Smith sits down with Dan Martin - he's lived the life that many silently struggle with: outwardly successful but inwardly lost, addicted, ashamed, and stuck in cycles that only seemed to confirm his worst fears about himself. This is a raw, unfiltered dive into what it means to rebuild your life from the inside out and why the work begins long before the behaviour changes. We explore the relationship between childhood trauma and adult addiction, the difference between guilt and shame, and the often-overlooked link between early attachment wounds and modern-day dysfunction. From accidentally taking too much LSD on a Wednesday morning, to growing weed in a Welsh barn with a retired pensioner, this one covers everything from psychospiritual breakdowns to rebuilding purpose. Dan's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thedanmartin/   Resources from this episode "The Compound Effect" by Darren Hardy : https://www.amazon.co.uk/Compound-Effect-Darren-Hardy/dp/159315724X "Atomic Habits" by James Clear : https://www.amazon.co.uk/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break/dp/0735211299 "The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida : https://www.amazon.co.uk/Way-Superior-Man-Spiritual-Challenges/dp/1591792576 "Start with Why" by Simon Sinek  : https://www.amazon.co.uk/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone/dp/1591846447 Adam Smith From depressed and suicidal to the happiest and fittest he's ever been, Adam Smith's self-development journey hasn't been easy but it has been worth it. Today, he's a qualified mindset coach in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and a certified Time Line Therapist®. Adam has coached many high performers, using NLP to rewire his clients' thoughts and behaviours so they can destroy limiting beliefs and engineer the change needed to excel. Connect with Adam Smith: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-smith-high-performance-coach/ Adam Mayhew Adam Mayhew swapped burnout and binge drinking for ultra marathons, CrossFit and sobriety. A registered nutritional therapist specialising in performance nutrition, Adam supports everyone from office workers to athletes to build healthy eating habits. Using science (and never fad diets, quick fixes or gym bro culture) he helps clients target their problem areas and confidently master diet, training and lifestyle. Connect with Adam Mayhew: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-mayhew-nutrition-coaching/ To find out more about Smith & Mayhew: https://agameconsultancy.com/about/

This is one of my favorite books to gift to my men friends.Watch the look on their face when they open their Christmas/Bday gift...PRICELESS!

In a world so focused on productivity, Coach's Journey founder and host Robbie Swale is interrogating what this word really means.His work on the concept of meaningful productivity explores up questions like: “What do I need to do in order to be at peace with myself?” And: “Do I want to be more productive or simply not feel like I'm failing all the time?”In this episode of The Coach's Journey Podcast, Robbie joins Joey Owen for a conversation that gets to the very heart of Robbie's work as a leadership and careers coach with over 2000 hours' experience, and as an author whose decade-long writing practice has led to valuable contributions to the field, such as The 12-Minute Method and The Coaching Business Flywheel. Robbie and Joey tackle fundamentally important questions about how coaches can make a difference in a world ravaged by conflict and division, how to stay humble in our work, and how to ensure we feel at peace with ourselves.You will hear Robbie and Joey speak about the importance of living and working with a code of honour, about learning to trust the strange and unexpected things that arise in coaching sessions, and how to integrate spiritual practices into your life through the rituals, hobbies, passions and habits you already do.If you would like to be doing more of what really matters to you, feeling better about the work you are doing, and living a rich life regardless of your financial situation, this episode is for you.Robbie and Joey also talk about:- How to cultivate a practice of trust that conversations happen at the right time- Not lying to ourselves about what we “have” to doThe places in our lives where we can practise presence and connection- How to manage your focus, attention and attitude in order to actively work towards the goals that matter most to you- The power of telling a story twice to embed an idea in your memoryThey also explore practical ways to keep yourself in the energy possibility, and Robbie shares the story of how “crashing and burning” while running a coaching event taught him powerful lessons about group dynamics, scapegoating and the importance of contracting.THINGS WE TALKED ABOUT THAT YOU MIGHT BE INTERESTED IN:- Episode 45 of The Coach's Journey Podcast, with Raquel Ark https://www.thecoachsjourney.com/podcast/episode-45-doing-the-right-thing-even-when-its-hard-raquel-ark-interviews-robbie- Rich Litvin https://richlitvin.com/- The 12-Minute Method https://www.robbieswale.com/the12minutemethod- Workshop with Robbie and Claire Pedrick https://www.3dcoaching.com/artful-coach-soulful-business/- Robbie's article about leading with honour (A Man Got to Have a Code) https://www.robbieswale.com/writing/2024/10/11/a-man-got-to-have-a-code-leading-with-honour-iii- The Meaningful Productivity Blueprint https://www.robbieswale.com/meaningful-productivity-blueprint-download-page- Gay Hendricks, Zone of Genius https://www.robbieswale.com/the-12-minute-blog/2022/2/3/the-zone-of-genius-the-most-powerful-thought-experiment-for-personal-transformation- Robert Holden, questions about purpose https://www.robertholden.com/blog/9-questions-help-find-purpose/- A Warren Buffet story about how he helped the pilot of his private jet prioritise more https://passionateaboutoss.com/the-story-of-mike-flint- Seth Godin on setting fees https://seths.blog/2024/11/understanding-pricing/- Parkinson's law https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parkinson%27s_law- Douglas Hoffstatter's law https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hofstadter%27s_law- Ramit Sethi's podcast https://www.iwillteachyoutoberich.com/podcast/- Ffelyn Uchaf https://www.felinwales.org/- Jim Dethmer and Joel Monk on Coaching from Sourcehttps://www.coachesrising.com/podcast/jim-dethmer-coaching-from-source/- Frank Turner, The Way I Tend to Be https://frank-turner.com/tracks/the-way-i-tend-to-be/- Frank Turner, The Gathering https://frank-turner.com/tracks/the-gathering/- Frank Turner, Journey of the Magi https://frank-turner.com/tracks/journey-of-the-magi/- Internal Family Systems (IFS) drama triangle https://www.stroudtherapy.com/news/2024/02/25/dramatriangleifs- David Gemmell https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Gemmell- The Wheel of Time novel series https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Wheel_of_Time- The ‘Yes, And' teambuilding exercise https://openpracticelibrary.com/practice/yes-and/https://www.radicalagreement.com/post/yes-and-and-improv-teamwork- David Deida https://deida.info/- Freedom to Learn https://freedomtolearn.org.uk/- An Introduction to The Coach's Journey Flywheel https://www.thecoachsjourney.com/the-coaching-business-flywheel

Let me know your thoughts on the show and what topic you would like me to discuss next.Have you and your spouse drifted from passionate partners to practical roommates? For many men, that's exactly where we find ourselves - the sparks gone, connections dulled, and intimacy feeling more like a distant memory than daily reality. But there's hope in understanding a fundamental truth: passion doesn't die, it drifts.This deeply personal exploration cuts through surface-level marriage advice to address what's really happening when men stop pursuing their own edge and growth. When we trade emotional authenticity for approval and hide behind "nice guy" behavior, we create the very disconnection we're trying to avoid. The missing ingredient isn't more date nights or better communication techniques - it's reclaiming our masculine presence.Women crave men who can pierce their hearts with presence, not predictability. When a man becomes domesticated and avoids depth, his wife feels that loss physically and emotionally. The passion wanes not because of age or time but because his consciousness no longer leads her to that moment of connection.Through practical wisdom drawn from David Deida, Robert Glover, and Jack Donovan's work, we explore how vulnerability fuels passion and why leading your marriage like a CEO kills attraction. You'll discover why the myth that passion should be spontaneous is holding you back and how comfort collapses the very polarity that creates desire.The transformation starts when you stop asking "what happened to us?" and start asking "who do I need to become to reignite what we had?" Through emotional presence, reclaimed polarity, strategic disruption of routines, and reconnection to purpose, you can lead your marriage back to fire - not through manipulation, but through authentic leadership.Ready to stop coasting and start leading your marriage with depth, strength and clarity? Take our free integrity challenge at members.theawakenedman.net and begin the journey back to the man you were meant to be.Key moments in this episode:01:48 The Reality of Modern Marriages05:18 The Role of Masculine Presence06:37 The Myth of Spontaneous Passion08:26 Leading Your Marriage: Avoiding the CEO Trap10:25 The Power of Vulnerability12:39 A Story of Transformation: Ryan's Journey16:39 Practical Tips for Reigniting Passion21:53 Recommended Resources for MenSupport the showThanks for listening to the Revolutionary Man Podcast. If you want more information about our programs use the links below to check us out. It could be the step that changes your life.

Have you been asking yourself lately:   What the actual f* is going on in relationships right now?!   Because SAME.   So I brought back my soul bro, spiritual philosopher, and YouTube king himself—Aaron Doughty—to channel the masculine, while I spoke on behalf of you: The divine feminine, goddess-coded, shadow-integrating, boss babe who just wants a relationship that actually feels good.   And let me tell you… we WENT IN.   We talk about: The three levels of consciousness in dating + relationships (yes, David Deida style) The unconscious roles of victim, perpetrator, and rescuer—and how we're all playing them Why you might be confusing love with a full-time healing project What to do if your partner isn't growing with you How to stop being your partner's coach and start being their equal And why some relationships are meant for love, joy, and family—not shadow work 24/7 We also get super real about the fantasy so many spiritual women are holding onto:   That someday, someone will come along who's fully healed, fully conscious, and doesn't trigger any part of your trauma…   Yeah. About that..   This episode is your permission slip to stop fixing, stop overanalyzing, and stop trying to spiritually engineer your soulmate into existence.   Because the tea is: maybe the healing is in letting go of the need to “do the work” for your partner—and finally trusting yourself to choose peace, clarity, and connection.   This one's for the girlies who are tired of dating emotional projects, want actual polarity, and are ready to understand wtf is really going on between men and women right now—from a high-vibe, grounded, actually-helpful perspective.   Become a Certified Dharma Coach  here: https://highestselfinstitute.com/spring-2025   Connect with Aaron here: https://www.instagram.com/aarondoughty44/?hl=en   Discover Aaron's youtube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC48MclMZIY_EaOQwatzCpvw   Discover Your Dharma - Order your copy now  - https://iamsahararose.com/dharma   Stream the Intro + Outro Music: Trust Flow by Sahara Rose ft. WillyNoir here and watch the music video here.   To receive a free womb mediation, email a screenshot of your review of the Highest Self Podcast to sahara@iamsahararose.com    Follow me your spiritual bestie to active your fullest expression + laugh along the way: https://www.Instagram.com/iamsahararose  https://www.tiktok.com/@iamsahararose  https://www.Facebook.com/iamsahararose    Order My Books: https://www.iamsahararose.com/books    By accessing this Podcast, I acknowledge that the entire contents are the property of Sahara Rose, or used by Sahara Rose with permission, and are protected under U.S. and international copyright and trademark laws. Except as otherwise provided herein, users of this Podcast may save and use information contained in the Podcast only for personal or other non-commercial, educational purposes. No other use, including, without limitation, reproduction, retransmission or editing, of this Podcast may be made without the prior written permission of the Sahara Rose, which may be requested by contacting pr@iamsahararose.com.   This podcast is for educational purposes only. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein.  

A série Adolescência escancara feridas profundas da nossa sociedade — movimentos conservadores e misóginos, ausência de referências saudáveis, crise na saúde mental dos meninos, descompasso entre as gerações — quando é que vamos entender a urgência de olhar para a formação dos nossos meninos? — isso me abriu espaço para aprofundar um tema que venho trazendo há tempos: a importância de integrar as energias masculina e feminina em um mundo ainda marcado pelo machismo.O que me leva a falar sobre o workshop que fiz com David Deida, um dos mestres mais importantes da minha jornada. Ele trabalha justamente essa integração — e ali, entre homens do mundo todo, ficou ainda mais claro o quanto precisamos de espaços seguros onde os homens possam acessar sua sensibilidade, vulnerabilidade e escuta. O feminismo vem cumprindo esse papel necessário com as mulheres, mas ainda há uma enorme lacuna quando falamos dos homens — agravada por discursos inflamados nas redes e figuras de liderança que perpetuam a desconexão!Essa conversa é mais um convite para a reflexão e talvez um pedido de esperança para celebrarmos espaços e encontros que nos transformam e nos honram, lembrando que o caminho é a gente quem busca! Que nós assumamos o compromisso de integrar nossas polaridades, acolher nossos processos de cura e reconstruir, juntos, novos modelos de masculinidades. Quem sabe, esse episódio pode ser o início desse processo?! O que eu mais quero é trocar com vocês, bom play! Host:Marcelo CardosoProdução:Gabriela Szulcsewski@travs.estudio

In this episode, we talk about one of the top books all men should read. The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida.

"The hardest moments in your relationship—the storms, the wounds, the messiness—are the exact moments that can create the deepest healing and growth."  - Nina LombardoToday on Embodied Relationship Experience:What does devotion mean, and how do we live it in daily life?Understanding and applying David Deida's Three Stages of RelatingNavigating relationship challenges through presence and practiceMoving from wounds to artful expression in relationshipThe true essence of masculine leadershipConnect with Nina:Instagram:  @wayofdevotionWebsite: Way of Devotion Women's Retreat (April 2025)Join: Love Deeper MembershipConnect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comJoin our exclusive offer for feminine practitioners: The Body of LoveJoin our exclusive offer for masculine practitioners: The Body of DepthStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformPrivate coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.com

Is it painful for you when you feel that your woman is closed? Do you long for more ways to help her open up fully? (Not just sexually, but that is included!)Most dating and relationship advice doesn't include the concept of polarity and the three stages of relationship, but it can be nothing less than magical when worked with properly.According to polarity work (originated primarily by David Deida), there are two primary forces in dating, relationships and sex: alpha energy (what we sometimes refer to as masculine) and omega energy (aka feminine energy).The vast majority of omega partners have a deep longing to surrender to a trustable partner. They want to be able to be fully expressed and be met.Yet in many cases, they feel like they're too much. Their emotions are too much; they're too fiery; they feel like they'll never be able to fully express themselves with a partner.The lesser-known part of polarity work involves the three stages. As we grow in relationships, we have the capacity to graduate from stage 1 (rigid roles, often dictated by society), to stage 2 (we rely on talking to resolve tension), to stage three — which brings us to this episode. In polarized stage three relationships we bring in creativity, embodiment, and edgy play. We use breath, sound, and movement to move through tension or discomfort between us. Stage three is exciting, risky, and powerful. And as Jason puts it, "it tends to *wake us up* as men."If you want to lead your woman into depths of safety, red-hot sex, and surrender in ways neither of you has perhaps ever experienced ways — if you want to help her feel even more of her heart, her spirit, and her sex, listen on.Note: Credit to David Deida's work on the stages of relationship and polarity. Work with usReady to go deeper than the podcast? Jason and I are ready to work with you! We specialize in helping men break old patterns and transform their sex & love lives for good.To see if there's a fit for our flagship program Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)---Memorable quotes from this episode:"Through your direction, you can invite expression.""In stage two we just want it to end. In stage three it's like, 'Bring it all. Let's ride this wave.'""You don't have to do nearly as much as you think.""Tell me that again, but like a hippo."

Las siguientes 7 ideas extraídas del libro El Camino Del Hombre Superior de David Deida te ayudarán a tener mayor claridad en tu camino.

Once again, it is time for a refresher course inspired by the teaching of four-time podcast guest John Gray, the #1 bestselling relationship author of all-time with his Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus franchise. In this highlight episode, you will hear life-changing advice and insights into relationship health, including the specific “assignments” John Gray has designated for men and women and why. You will learn about the importance of being a “Kung Fu Master”, why men should never speak when they have a negative emotional charge, and the #1 danger women face today. I also include tips from author David Deida, talk about the effects of complaining or nitpicking and what happens when you instead express everything as a preference, and how to overcome emotionally fragile reactions. You will also learn what causes arguments to escalate, why women just need to vent, what kills the passion in a relationship, what causes women to end up anxious and depressed, and more details about the different fundamental biological drives and hormonal underpinnings that influence our behavior and wants and needs. TIMESTAMPS: After the first two highlight podcasts, Brad looks at relationship insights. [01:04] The male’s relationship assignment is to be a kung fu master by remaining calm, cool and collected. [02:43] The female needs to vent, to talk out her problems, concerns, challenges, and complaints. [09:55] Leave the petty grievances alone. Decide what is really important. [14:59] The female should never complain and nitpick your male partner. [18:11] You are responsible for your own happiness. You cannot depend on another person to make you happy. [20:10] The evolving culture and evolving relationship roles lead to challenges, mainly with the female. [23:23] Another dynamic is the increased isolation of society. [26:16] John Gray’s anatomy of an argument: Female feels unhappy and starts to feel disconnected. The males responds by telling her why she shouldn’t feel that way. [30:27] LINKS: Brad Kearns.com Brad’s Shopping page B.rad Whey Protein Isolate Superfuel - The Best Protein on The Planet! Available in Three Delicious Flavors: Vanilla Bean and Cocoa Bean and our Newest Flavor, Peanut Butter! B.rad Superfruits - Organic Freeze-Dried Exotic Fruit Powder! Natural Electrolyte Hydration & Energy Powder MarsVenus.com Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus Beyond Mars and Venus Way of the Superior Man Life changing episode - John Gray Join Brad for more fun on: Instagram: @bradkearns1 Facebook: @bradkearnsjumphigh Twitter: @bradleykearns YouTube: @brad.kearns TikTok: @bradkearns We appreciate all feedback, and questions for Q&A shows, emailed to podcast@bradventures.com. If you have a moment, please share an episode you like with a quick text message, or leave a review on your podcast app. Thank you! Check out each of these companies because they are absolutely awesome or they wouldn’t occupy this revered space. Seriously, I won’t promote anything that I don't absolutely love and use in daily life: Peluva: Comfortable, functional, stylish five-toe minimalist shoe to reawaken optimal foot function. Use code BRADPODCAST for 15% off! Mito Red Light: Photobiomodulation light panels to enhance cellular energy production, improve recovery, and optimize circadian rhythm. Use code BRAD for 5% discount! GAINSWave: Enhance sexual function with high frequency shockwave therapy. Buy 6 and get one treatment free with code: BRAD Wild Health: Comprehensive online health consultation with blood and DNA testing, personal coaching and precision medicine. Get things dialed in! Use discount code BRAD20 for 20% off! Take The Cold Plunge online course! B.rad Whey + Creatine Superfuel: Premium quality, all-natural supplement for peak performance, recovery, and longevity. New Cocoa Bean flavor! Online educational courses: Numerous great offerings for an immersive home-study educational experience Primal Fitness Expert Certification: The most comprehensive online course on all aspects of traditional fitness programming and a total immersion fitness lifestyle. Save 25% on tuition with code BRAD! Male Optimization Formula with Organs (MOFO): Optimize testosterone naturally with 100% grassfed animal organ supplement Brad's Favorites on Amazon I have a newly organized shopping experience at BradKearns.com/Shop. Visit here and you can navigate to my B.rad Nutrition products (for direct order or Amazon order), my library of online multimedia educational courses, great discounts from my affiliate favorites, and my recommended health&fitness products on Amazon.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In the first weeks of the year, I'm returning to the fundamentals to make sure the basic habits are in place for the new year. In this episode, Hamza talks about The Way Of The Superior Man by David Deida. Don't just listen, take action! All necessary links: https://linktr.ee/alphawolfpack    Welcome to the Wolfpack, your go-to show for deep dives into entrepreneurship, fitness, and philosophy. Each episode brings you valuable insights from some of the most successful and influential figures in fields from scaling businesses and personal growth to optimizing fitness and mental resilience. Tune in to lectures from Alex Hormozi, a serial entrepreneur and business expert known for his no-nonsense approach to scaling companies. Learn how to maximize profits and streamline operations from one of the best in the business. Explore self-improvement and productivity hacks with Hamza Ahmed, a rising star in the personal development space. Get practical tips on building discipline and mental toughness to stay ahead of the competition. In our fitness episodes, Mike Israetel, a PhD in Sports Physiology and co-founder of Renaissance Periodization, shares expert advice on strength training, nutrition, and achieving peak physical performance. For a deep dive into high-level business strategies, Sam Ovens, founder of Consulting.com, offers his wisdom on entrepreneurship, online business growth, and how to create a successful consulting practice. We also feature Jack Hopkins, challenging conventional thinking, and offering new perspectives on life, purpose, and success. Join the Wolfpack for expert discussions that will inspire you to achieve greatness in business, fitness, and life. Don't miss out on actionable advice from some of the best minds in the world of entrepreneurship, fitness, and philosophy!   Entrepreneurship podcast, fitness podcast, philosophy podcast, Alex Hormozi podcast, Hamza Ahmed podcast, Mike Israetel fitness tips, Sam Ovens business strategies, Jack Hopkins, how to scale a business, mental toughness, strength training for entrepreneurs, philosophy  Join the Wolfpack: https://plus.acast.com/s/wolfpack. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Brannon and Tyler explore the principles and philosophies outlined in the book by David Deida, focusing on how men can live with purpose, authenticity, and integrity. It delves into the challenges men face in balancing their masculine and feminine energies and how embracing vulnerability can lead to personal growth and stronger relationships. The discussion also highlights practical advice for men to navigate their roles in modern society while staying true to their core values.  // SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN // We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠ // Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" // Free Consultation Call: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com/consultation-call⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Love Strong | Experience Therapy For Trauma, Shame & Fear: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ // Brannon Patrick LCSW | "The Expert" // Brannon's Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.brannonpatrick.com⁠⁠⁠ Therapy Utah: ⁠⁠⁠https://therapyutah.org/⁠⁠⁠ // COURSES // The Healing Journey: ⁠https://join.reclaimyourheart.com/ ⁠Brannon's Boundary Bootcamp: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.brannonpatrick.com/boundarybootcamp⁠⁠⁠ Tyler's Pornography Addiction Recovery Kickstart: ⁠⁠⁠https://lovestrong.com/courses/overcome-pornography-addiction/⁠⁠⁠ // EVENTS // + Radiant Dawn | Women's Retreat: ⁠https://radiantdawn.org⁠ + Rising Son | Men's Retreat: ⁠⁠⁠https://risingson.org⁠⁠⁠ + Vibrant Love | Couple's Retreat: ⁠⁠⁠https://vibrantlove.org⁠⁠ // RECLAIM YOUR HEART // Join our new community for quality exclusive content, incredible courses, and real connection: ⁠https://join.reclaimyourheart.com/

This is an important teaching episode where I share what the true divine masculine and feminine really are vs. the lower shadow side of each.  I also get into David Deida's three stages of relationships as well as Jung's concepts of anima/animus integration and how these each relate to the path to divine union.  Here are links to the resources I mentioned in this episode.My Story, Part 1:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-evolved-with-leigh-anne-lopinto-conscious/id1589898399?i=1000650388992My Story, Part 2:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-evolved-with-leigh-anne-lopinto-conscious/id1589898399?i=1000650999284Alchemy, Divine Union and Spiritual Enlightenment:https://leighannelopinto.substack.com/p/alchemy-divine-union-spiritual-enlightenmentTowards Sexual Sovereignty:https://leighannelopinto.substack.com/p/towards-sexual-sovereignty-the-alchemicalThe War on Love, Sex + Relationships:https://leighannelopinto.substack.com/p/the-war-on-love-sex-relationshipsShannon Port:https://www.youtube.com/@ShannonPortIG post:https://www.instagram.com/p/DAT-D7xzukw/?img_index=1The Way of the Superior Man:https://www.amazon.com/Way-Superior-Man-Challenges-Anniversary/dp/1622038320King, Warrior, Magician, Lover:https://www.amazon.com/King-Warrior-Magician-Lover-Rediscovering/dp/0062506064Connect with Leigh-Anne below:Book a Free 30 Minute Call:https://calendly.com/leighannel/free-30-minute-call The Wayshowers: Mentorship Leigh-Anne's Instagram Leigh-Anne's Website Leigh-Anne's Substack Telegram Group The Trap of Codependency (free teaching video) I hope you enjoy this episode - please share this with anyone who may need to listen.I'd also LOVE if you could rate, review and subscribe to the podcast if you find it useful. Thanks so much, I appreciate you all!Intro + Outro music: "Medicine" by HOL + Layv:https://open.spotify.com/track/4BqVa6DrpX8h7RWEBIcy6H?si=01c847feae5c45dehttps://www.instagram.com/hollygottlieb/

Way of the Superior Man by David Deida, a true classic, is that it becomes more relevant with the passage of time Twenty years ago, David Deida wrote The Way of the Superior Man share lessons on how a man can grow spiritually. Today, men of all ages continue to struggle with these universal challenges, and the practical insights found in this book will help each one of us to give the gifts we were born to give. A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire "Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida - Book PReview Book of the Week - BOTW - Season 7 Book 47 Buy the book on Amazon https://amzn.to/3OuRms2 GET IT. READ :) #superiorman #way #awareness  FIND OUT which HUMAN NEED is driving all of your behavior http://6-human-needs.sfwalker.com/ Human Needs Psychology + Emotional Intelligence + Universal Laws of Nature = MASTER OF LIFE AWARENESS https://www.sfwalker.com/master-life-awareness --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sfwalker/support

In the pantheon of self-development thought leaders for men, no one looms larger than Dr. Robert Glover. A therapist, coach and public speaker for 30 years, Dr. Glover has helped countless men transform from passive and resentful to empowered and confident. His bestselling book, “No More Nice Guy,” is a self-help classic, sharing the same rarified air as David Deida's “The Way of the Superior Man” and Brene Brown's “Daring Greatly.”In this encore episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett and Dr. Glover—author of “The Dating Essentials for Men”—will discuss:(5:03) How Connell's Nerdy Client Ken Got His Very First Kiss Ever(12:19) A Simple Tip on How to Always Know What to Say to Women(19:57) Dr. Glover Reveals Why “Nice Guy Syndrome” Is Hurting Your Love Life(26:20) How Dr. Glover Cracked the Code in His Own Dating Life(30:33) How Shame Can Hurt Your Self-Esteem(34:22) Why Indian and Asian Men Struggle with Dating in the U.S.(42:11) Why a Woman Wants a Little “Caveman” in the Guy She Dates(43:35) How to Confident and Strong without Being an A-Hole(50:22) Dr. Glover's Formula to Be a Man of “Loving Dominance”(55:11) Why Rejection is Good for You(1:01:03) How to Stop Feeling Needy with Women(1:07:01) The Easy Way to Get a Woman's Phone Number(1:09:45) Dr. Glover's Top Tip to Stay out of the Friend ZoneAre you ready to stop being “Mr. Nice Guy” and start being the man women want you to be? Listen now, and take one step closer to getting a great girlfriend!TO LEARN ABOUT DR. GLOVER'S COACHING, COURSES AND HIS BOOK, “DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN”http://www.drglover.comFOLLOW DR. GLOVER ON TWITTER/Xhttp://www.twitter.com/dr_r_gloverFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

Hey Friends. Matt is diving back into some self-awareness books directed toward men and found 'Way of the Superior Man' by David Deida. He and Jeannie talk about the first section their usual balance of between taking is seriously, and not taking it seriously at all.

In the previous episode, Roy shared something that no one had ever told him (and something you've probably never been told either): That although masculine people crave freedom at their core, they will never get it from either Woman or World, and likewise, although feminine people crave love at their core, they too will never get it from either Man or World.   Because that is such an outrageous truth to hear, Roy thought it needed to be unpacked further. To do that, he shares a talk by the world's leading expert on Masculine/Feminine dynamics, David Deida.   In this episode, David Deida addresses, “His Freedom, Her Love,” offering a powerful and inspiring perspective on our desire for freedom and love and how it plays out between two people in intimacy.   This is one of the deepest, most difficult-to-swallow things you'll ever hear, so be ready for it.   To learn more about David Deida, see: www.deida.info   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy's Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy's Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy's 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy's Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy's Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

Join me, as I welcome GS Youngblood, renowned author and men's coach, to the Building Men Podcast. In this episode, GS shares his profound insights on healthy masculinity, inspired by his own journey and the teachings of David Deida. Our discussion delves into the concept of masculine-feminine polarity and how young men can harness their power to foster stronger connections and personal growth.We address the pervasive "nice guy" syndrome, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and boundary setting. GS introduces a modern model for masculinity that balances personal sovereignty with contemporary societal norms. Drawing from resources like "No More Mr. Nice Guy," GS provides young men with a practical blueprint for developing a grounded, confident, and emotionally connected masculine identity.Listeners will benefit from GS's practical three-part framework that includes grounding, leadership, and emotional connection. This framework aims to cultivate healthier relationship dynamics, grounded nervous systems, clear leadership, and emotional safety. Don't miss out on actionable steps and embodiment practices that can be implemented immediately to make positive changes in your life.Chapter Summaries:(0:00:02) - Exploring Masculinity and Relationship Dynamics (8 Minutes)Introduction to GS Youngblood and his work in men's coaching.Discussion on the importance of masculine-feminine polarity and personal power in relationships.GS shares his personal journey and influences, including David Deida's "The Way of the Superior Man."(0:07:38) - Exploring Masculinity and Self-Discovery (5 Minutes)Examination of "nice guy" syndrome and its roots in childhood experiences.Emphasis on self-awareness and understanding one's own needs and boundaries.Introduction of the "masculine blueprint" as a model for healthy masculinity.(0:12:29) - Developing Masculine Leadership and Connection (12 Minutes)Outline of a three-part framework for cultivating masculinity: grounding, leadership, and emotional connection.Practical advice on grounding the nervous system, offering inclusive leadership, and creating emotional safety in relationships.(0:24:41) - Masculine Energy and Relationship Dynamics (6 Minutes)Exploration of the dynamics between masculine and feminine energies within relationships.Discussion on the imbalance of these energies and how to address it through grounding, leadership, and emotional connection.Challenges boys face in schools and the need for better support structures.(0:30:34) - Cultivating Vulnerability and Courage (13 Minutes)Discussion on selfless leadership and serving others.Importance of balancing vulnerability with strength and expressing emotions succinctly.Real-life examples and advice on how small acts of kindness can create a positive ripple effect.(0:43:13) - Masculine Blueprint and Embodiment Practice (4 Minutes)How to connect with GS Youngblood and access his work, particularly through his book "The Masculine in Relationship."Importance of embodiment practices and envisioning one's most courageous self.Special offer for listeners to receive a free copy of GS's book.(0:47:20) - Embodying Masculine Practices for Growth (0 Minutes)Encouragement for listeners to engage with the podcast by rating, reviewing, and sharing.Emphasis on pushing beyond perceived limits and striving for personal growth.Connect with GS Youngblood:https://www.gsyoungblood.com/https://www.instagram.com/gsyoungbloodmir/Book: "The Masculine in Relationship" available on Amazon.Engage with the Podcast:Rate, review, and share the episode.Visit our website for more information on mentorship, coaching, and the Building Men community.Thank you for listening to the Building Men Podcast with Dennis Morolda. I hope this episode with GS Youngblood inspires you to redefine masculinity and navigate healthy relationships and personal growth. THE FOUNDATION - Virtual Community for Young MenBuilding Men InstagramBuilding Men WebsiteBuilding Men YouTubeBuilding Men FacebookWork with Dennis as your 1 on 1 coach If our podcast resonates with you, please consider rating, reviewing and sharing it with anyone who you believe would benefit from the message.Visit our sponsors - Finish The Race – Home of the official Building Men gear

In this podcast, I interview Satyen and Suzanne, both long-time students of David Deida. These two are super honest, loving individuals, and wow have they been through a lot! There share some very vulnerable details about how they navigated religion, affairs, and fighting. They give you concrete practical tools you can try right now with your partner. These guys live it! SHOWNOTES How did Satyen and Suzanne start caring about relationships? [4:27] Why did Satyen resist marriage? [7:00] What ingredient was the “it” factor for Suzanne's attraction to Satyen? [7:44] What role did religion play in their relationship? [10:42] How did fighting about food bring them closer? [12:15] What impact did David Deida have on their connection? [14:28] How did they create a new template for their relationship? [16:06] The most challenging period of their relationship [18:02] One really important practice to heal from infidelity [20:15] Satyen and Suzanne demonstrate a powerful tool to express emotional pain to your partner [26:30] The often-missed key to understanding your partner [32:43] What is PCP and ISE and how do they create connection and turn-on? [34:50] Links: FREE Webinar: How To Resolve Conflict & Create Powerful Relationships Enroll in Relationship Mastery U.S. listeners, sign up for relationship tips and support direct to your phone by texting this number: 720-704-4850 http://warriorsage.com http://ignitepassionnow.tv http://acceleratedevolutionacademy.com http://dyad.org Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok   Satyen and Suzanne are the authorities on relationship – passionately intwined for twenty-seven years and sought after by people over the the world for their powerful and cutting edge trainings. With over two decades of study, teaching and facilitation in this area, they have taught tens of thousands of singles and couples the art of creating passionate, juicy intimacy that lasts a lifetime. A living demonstration of a couple who are continually re-igniting their spark, passion and love, Satyen and Suzanne practically distill what for many can be a confusing, frustrating and even painful topic down to its very workable, irresistible essence. Whether on radio, tv or in auditoriums of thousands, their style is provocative, inspiring, and above all, full of practical wisdom. They have a unique gift for hearing what lies beneath your questions, and giving you answers that convey deep truths with incredible heart. Never shy of controversy, they are willing to take conventional wisdom to task where it falls short in order to help you learn and live the most effective relationship skills. Satyen and Suzanne are committed to, and superlatively skilled at, saying the things that no one else says, going places that no one else goes — so that you can have the hot, deep, loving, passionate relationship that you deserve…starting now! http://acceleratedevolutionacademy.com

Unlock the power of confidence and energy – these are currencies just as impactful as the dollars in your bank account! Join me on a profound exploration of how discipline is the key to accumulating the self-assurance you need to thrive. I get personal and share my own skirmishes with the snooze button, revealing how the victory of a disciplined morning ritual has compounded interest into robust confidence. As we navigate daily decisions and relationships, we're constantly 'spending' our confidence. It's a valuable currency that, when managed wisely, can unlock doors to opportunities and foster stronger connections.This episode isn't just about personal growth; it's a call to action for all aspiring leaders out there. I dissect the unique energy men wield – an energy that, when channeled appropriately, has the power to create, influence, and leave a lasting mark on the world. Drawing from the insights of David Deida's "The Way of the Superior Man," I delve into the stewardship of this potent force. It's an invitation to reflect on how you invest your own confidence and energy – are you fueling your leadership journey and empowering others to soar to new heights? Listen in, and let's master these invisible currencies together, shaping a legacy of positive impact and heightened influence. If you enjoyed this episode, please share it on social media and tag Ken Joslin.

When Erwin McManus and I sat down, we unearthed some truths about leadership that go beyond the boardroom. Our heartfelt conversation taps into the power of mastering emotions, showing how loving in the face of the unlovable isn't just noble—it's necessary for personal growth. This episode is a deep dive into 'the code', my own life's framework, inspired by David Deida's work, focusing on thought life, language, energy, finances, and sexual desires. It's not just talk; it's about harnessing the creative power that aligns with entrepreneurial spirit and faith, the kind that's echoed in scripture and fuels vision.Have you ever wondered what sets apart a disciplined individual from the rest? I'll walk you through my transformation from average to exceptional athlete, not through inherent talent, but through the rigorous application of daily discipline. This episode isn't merely about sharing my journey—it's a roadmap for structuring your life, from establishing morning routines to overcoming losses and betrayals. As I relate my experiences, it becomes clear: the resilience we build through discipline is the same quality that ignites the entrepreneurial fire, allowing us to navigate life's challenging waters with conviction.This isn't just another motivational talk. It's a candid look into the synergy of stillness, discipline, and faith, particularly through the unique lens of faith-based entrepreneurship. I share moments of my life where discipline meant self-love, even when the odds were stacked against me. The 46:10 challenge anecdotes are here to prove that maintaining discipline in the face of praise as well as adversity is crucial in staying true to our goals and faith. Join us as we explore these principles, fostering resilience, and inspiring one another to achieve our fullest potential, and carry this sense of purpose into our next gathering as leaders. If you enjoyed this episode, please share it on social media and tag Ken Joslin.

* Congratulations to John Hulen for the release of Episode 200! * This week, John has guest Ken Joslin – entrepreneur and speaker, founder and CEO of the Ken Joslin Team & GROW STACK DRIVE, host of the podcast As the Leader Grows, author of the book As the Leader Grows: How to Crush Limiting Beliefs, Create Winning Strategies, and Champion a Culture of Leadership, former pastor, generous father and grandfather. Listen to this episode to learn more:  [00:00] - Intro [00:29] - Ken's bio [01:27] - Ken's three-day conference (March 14-6) [04:46] - Raw and real storytelling style [08:14] - Journey into ministry and business [13:02] - Ken's experience as a bi-vocational minister [15:26] - Ways to serve faith beyond vocational ministry [18:04] - Ken's podcast: As the Leader Grows [22:13] - Pain and personal growth [27:46] - Loving life's journey  [29:09] - Ken's book: As the Leader Grows [30:58] - True leaders serve others [33:12] - How Ken improves his relationships [35:38] - Significance of relationships and mentors in Ken's journey [38:41] - Book recommendations [39:32] - Podcast recommendations NOTABLE QUOTES: “Authenticity is the highest frequency that we admit as human beings. It's also the most sought after.” “When you find authentic people, you better gravitate towards them. Because they make life better, easier, more enjoyable. And then when you're going through tough times, they're the people there to encourage you and breathe life into you.” “The people that truly care about you, you know them when the tough times come. You might not hear from them for an entire year. But when they hear about something hard that's happened in your life, you're going to hear from them in some way.” “When you're in a healthy relationship, and you understand how to give grace and put your partner's needs before your own, and you really live a life that way, it's amazing the person you can become and the person your partner can become.” “The greatest leaders I've ever seen start by serving other people. They are never at the top of the pyramid.” “Relationships are absolutely necessary. If you don't have the right relationships, you will never get out of you the potential that God has on the inside of you.” “Success cannot escape you when you do the right things every single day.” “Life is a journey and a process. And the quicker you can fall in love with the journey, not the destination, the better off you'll be.” “Success cannot escape you when you do the right things every single day.” BOOKS MENTIONED: Dating 911: The Ultimate Guide to Internet Dating by Dennis Nagy (https://a.co/d/5C9lQnY) The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida (https://a.co/d/1DHbgec) PODCASTS MENTIONED: Mosaic - Erwin McManus (https://tinyurl.com/MosaicErwinMcManusPodcast) The EntreLeadership Podcast (https://tinyurl.com/EntreLeadershipPodcast) A Bit of Optimism with Simon Sinek (https://tinyurl.com/ABitOfOptimismPodcast) At The Table with Patrick Lencioni (https://tinyurl.com/AtTheTablePLPodcast) USEFUL RESOURCES: https://www.growstackdrive.com  https://book.growstackdrive.com  https://tinyurl.com/AsTheLeaderGrowsPodcast  https://www.kenjoslinteam.com  https://www.instagram.com/kenjoslin/  https://www.facebook.com/kenjoslingroup  https://www.linkedin.com/in/ken-joslin-86812b197/  https://twitter.com/kenjoslin  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCH4r3LJBXm6d5qYrJACHtFw  As the Leader Grows: How to Crush Limiting Beliefs, Create Winning Strategies, and Champion a Culture of Leadership - (https://a.co/d/8otBqeh) CONNECT WITH JOHN Website - https://thejohnhulen.com     Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnhulen     Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/johnhulen     Twitter - https://www.twitter.com/johnhulen     LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnhulen     YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLX_NchE8lisC4NL2GciIWA     EPISODE CREDITS Intro and Outro music provided by Jeff Scheetz - https://jeffscheetz.com/

Does it feel exiting for your woman to be fully open with you, feel deeply cherished, and want to f*** your brains out?Then you're going to want to listen to this one. You're likely familiar with polarity — that sacred dance between alpha & omega. It's a potent force that shows up in dating, sex, love relationships, and beyond (and helps explain the mystery of attraction).But polarity also includes the 3 stages of relating. As we mature in relationships, we can graduate from stage 1 (we're in rigidly-defined roles), to stage 2 (we talk through everything), to stage 3 — the topic of this episode. Stage 3 relationships are cutting-edge. They go beyond societal norms. Stage 3 is exciting, pioneering, and embodied. And in Jason's words, “it tends to *wake us up* as men.” This kind of relating makes things sexy in relationship, and it also makes things deeply safe — if you know how to work it. The truth is, most omega partners deeply yearn to be fully, truly expressed, and in stage 3, that's the name of the game. In Jason's words, “Through your direction, you can invite expression.”If you want to lead your woman in ways you've never even considered — if you want to provide a space within which she can both deeply relax and feel even more of her heart, and even soul, listen on.Note: Credit to David Deida's work on polarity and the stages of relationships. Work with usReady to go deeper than the podcast? Jason and I are ready to work with you! We specialize in helping men break old patterns and transform their sex & love lives for good.To see if there's a fit for our flagship program Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)---Memorable quotes from this episode:“I used to try to explain why what she was feeling was wrong.”“I had so much resistance to the Hot Mess archetype because I was punished by my parents for being that.”“In stage 2 it's about wanting it to end — I want to release and get us back to peace. But in stage 3, it's like, ‘Bring it all. Let's ride this wave.'”“Tell me that again, but like a hippo.”“Once we welcome the expression of energy fully, it often resolves itself … you don't have to do nearly as much as you think.”

If you want a thriving sex and relationship life, you'll benefit from knowing about polarity. Polarity, shorthand for the healthy dance between omega energy (aka feminine) and alpha energy (aka masculine), is both life-affirming and hot, whether it's in the context of dating or a long-term relationship.In man/woman relationships, when a man embodies alpha and a woman embodies omega a good amount of the time (not all the time, but in certain key moments), the result is a thriving sex life.But the opposite is also true -- when a woman is more in her alpha energy and a man is more in his omega, you can get "reverse polarity." This can, among other things, damage your sex life as a couple.We see this a lot in our work, and explore the concept in more depth here. It may be a bit confronting to hear about the pattern in such detail, and it's important to keep in mind that nothing is fixed. Human beings, including couple and those in love relationships, can always grow.Even if you're experiencing reverse polarity, you can both grow in different ways and generate polarity again. We can always expand our consciousness and capacity -- it just takes some work and sometimes some skilled guidance to get there. The good news? Figuring this out can lead to the most satisfying sex and connection of your life.Note: The concept of polarity comes in part from David Deida's work, and in addition to reverse polarity, here we also delve into the concepts of first-, second-, and third-stage relationships.Work with usReady to go deeper than the podcast? Jason and I are ready to work with you! We specialize in helping men break old patterns and transform their sex & love lives for good.To see if there's a fit for our flagship program Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)

Confused by "podcast bros" and "high-value men"?  Ditch the toxic stereotypes and join us as we explore divine masculinity, what it ACTUALLY is and healthy expressions of strength, leadership and emotional intelligence in men.Some things that we talked about in this episode: Want to read that book on masculinity (or gift it to one of your favorite men)? You can find THE WAY OF THE SUPERIOR MAN by David Deida on Amazon.*In the LA area and want to attend the next Brotherhood on the Beach with Mik?  Visit theinnervictory.com/events for more information.  *Note: As Amazon Associates, we earn from qualifying Amazon purchases.Support the showClick here to join our mailing list, support our Patreon, or check out our merch store.