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This ep features our review of John Harvey Kellogg's book, "Plain Facts about Sexual Life", the celebs who frequented the Battle Creek Sanitarium, and more Check out the Patreon for bonus content, standup comedy sets, and more. https://www.patreon.com/overshadowedpodcast Check out other places to listen here: https://linktr.ee/overshadowed_podcast Recorded September 2024 Produced by Zach Russell Intro/Outro music by Mokka!
Ever wondered how technology can improve your intimate life? In this episode of The Little Blue Pill for Business I interviewed Dr. Soumyadip Rakshit. He is the CEO & Co-Founder at MysteryVibe, world-leader in women's & men's health devices that are deeply researched, doctor-recommended, award-winning OTC medical devices to make sexual health accessible to all. We delve into the science behind the devices, the research, and the clinical trials that ensure their efficacy and safety. But this episode isn't just about the devices; it's about the impact they have on people's lives. We hear stories of individuals reclaiming their sexual health after major life events such as childbirth or cancer recovery. We learn about the importance of addressing sexual health issues not just for personal satisfaction but for overall well-being, including mental health and relationship dynamics.Moreover, the episode takes an unexpected turn towards the business world. It's revealed how a fulfilling sex life can influence creativity, productivity, and success in one's professional life. This connection between the bedroom and the boardroom is a refreshing take on the integral role sexual health plays in our daily functioning.Explore the intimate link between pleasure, health, and happiness. Check this out!MysteryVibe Website: https://world.mysteryvibe.com/Soumyadip Rakshit LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/soum/Book a call with Michelle: https://www.AwarenessStrategies.com/m30Join our Facebook group for business owners to get help or help other business owners! The Business Ownership Group - Secrets to Scaling: https://www.facebook.com/groups/businessownershipsecretstoscalingLooking to scale your business? Get free gifts here to help you on your way: https://www.awarenessstrategies.com/
Sexual life skills: “Core Skills The World Health Organization in 1999 identified the following core cross-cultural areas of life skills:[8][9] decision-making and problem-solving; creative thinking (see also: lateral thinking) and critical thinking; communication and interpersonal skills; self-awareness and empathy; assertiveness and equanimity; and resilience and coping with emotions and coping with stress. Attitude Emotional intelligence Emotional literacy Emotional self-regulation Gelotology Hope theory Impermanence Kindness Empathy Life skills-based education Moral development People skills Personal boundaries Positive psychology RULER Social intelligence Social skills Soft skills Study skills Theory of multiple intelligences Vocational skills.” --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/support
Ever wondered if the secret to a fulfilling sex life might lie in the quality of your sleep? Dive into the intriguing crossroads of sleep patterns and their undeniable impact on your sex life. Discover how catching those Z's can elevate more than just your mood.Let's uncover the deep relationship between the sheets of our beds and the secrets they hold.--------------If you liked this episode, please SUBSCRIBE, like, leave a comment, and share so we can keep bringing you valuable content that gets results!--------------Follow Me On:InstagramTwitterFacebookTikTokYouTube--------------For all links and resources mentioned on the show and where to subscribe to the podcast, please visit https://sexualhealthformenpodcast.com/sleep-sex-life-connection--------------Ready to empower your health journey? Secure your FREE PDF copy of the “5 Natural Solutions to Overcome ED” today! Dive into knowledge that could transform your life. Click the link below to claim your copy
A new exposé delves into the background of Lori Vallow, providing insights into the potentially twisted sexual environment she grew up in. The article explores Vallow's upbringing and family dynamics, suggesting that these factors may have influenced her later behavior and involvement in the Daybell case. It raises questions about whether any early exposure to unconventional relationships or beliefs could have played a role in shaping her adult actions. As the trial continues, these revelations about Vallow's past may offer some context for understanding the complex and controversial figure at the center of this high-profile case. Want to listen to ALL of our Podcasts Ad-Free? Subscribe through Apple Podcasts, and try it for 3 days free: https://tinyurl.com/ycw626tj Follow Our Other Cases: Hidden Killers With Tony Brueski (All Cases) - https://audioboom.com/channels/5040505-hidden-killers-with-tony-brueski-breaking-news-commentary Chad & Lori Daybell - https://audioboom.com/channels/5098105-demise-of-the-daybells-the-lori-chad-daybell-story The Murder of Ana Walshe - https://audioboom.com/channels/5093967-finding-ana-this-disappearance-of-ana-walshe Alex Murdaugh - https://audioboom.com/channels/5097527-the-trial-of-alex-murdaugh The Idaho Murders, The Case Against Bryan Kohberger - https://audioboom.com/channels/5098223-the-idaho-murders-the-case-against-bryan-kohberger Lucy Letby - https://audioboom.com/channels/5099406-nurse-of-death-the-lucy-letby-story
Demise Of the Daybells | The Lori Vallow Daybell & Chad Daybell Story
A new exposé delves into the background of Lori Vallow, providing insights into the potentially twisted sexual environment she grew up in. The article explores Vallow's upbringing and family dynamics, suggesting that these factors may have influenced her later behavior and involvement in the Daybell case. It raises questions about whether any early exposure to unconventional relationships or beliefs could have played a role in shaping her adult actions. As the trial continues, these revelations about Vallow's past may offer some context for understanding the complex and controversial figure at the center of this high-profile case. Want to listen to ALL of our Podcasts Ad-Free? Subscribe through Apple Podcasts, and try it for 3 days free: https://tinyurl.com/ycw626tj Follow Our Other Cases: Hidden Killers With Tony Brueski (All Cases) - https://audioboom.com/channels/5040505-hidden-killers-with-tony-brueski-breaking-news-commentary Chad & Lori Daybell - https://audioboom.com/channels/5098105-demise-of-the-daybells-the-lori-chad-daybell-story The Murder of Ana Walshe - https://audioboom.com/channels/5093967-finding-ana-this-disappearance-of-ana-walshe Alex Murdaugh - https://audioboom.com/channels/5097527-the-trial-of-alex-murdaugh The Idaho Murders, The Case Against Bryan Kohberger - https://audioboom.com/channels/5098223-the-idaho-murders-the-case-against-bryan-kohberger Lucy Letby - https://audioboom.com/channels/5099406-nurse-of-death-the-lucy-letby-story
Leave a voice message to Marga or Olivier here to the Vodio platform (it's free). Don't forget to mention if you allow us to use your message and your voice in a future episode.This podcast is the 41st episode of the Love Health Center in Europe about sex positivism, relationship and sexuality. Olivier interviews Marga Berlinski, a sex, intimacy and relationship coach from Amsterdam, The Netherlands. They discuss Marga's life journey, her passion for educating and supporting people in their growth path and how important it is to bring more love and awareness in the world through intimacy and relating. They also talk about the significance of sexuality as an area of life to play and grow. Finally, they emphasize the need to share experiences, to learn and practice. Especially in a culture where it's rare to speak with authenticity and vulnerability about sexual life.From disappointment and resignation to a fulfilling sexual life and relationship, listen how Marga made such progress what are her advices to you.Websites : Turn-On-NLSequencing of the podcast :00:18 Introduction et presentation of Marga01:04 What is your intention today recording this podcast?01:54 Can you share with us what means for you the sexuality?03:36 Can you share with us what was your journey until now?05:45 What was the major steps that changed your life from resignation to hope and then wellness?09:56 Is there some advice you would give to people?13:01 What would be some advice about the love?17:39 As a sexual coach, is there something you would love to share with people, to help them to progress in their sexuality that is really vivid for you today or any important message?20:52 In your personal life, is there a funny moment you remember it gives you the most confidence, freedom, or wellness?27:24 What would be your last advice to listeners which is important for you in your life, in your profession?28:54 How people can contact you and what kind of activities you are proposing?32:23 We love to end the podcast with gratitudes…34:44 Listeners can leave a voice message to Marga35:51 Closure of the podcast
Simona Rose is a professional wellness healer specializing in Sexuality, Chinese medicine rituals and Balance of mind and body. Growing up, she developed stressful behavioral patterns balancing work and home life and upon graduating with a Masters in Pharmacology she decided to learn about the natural world of medicines. What she learned was that modern medicine is fragmented but by cultivating ourselves and digging deeper, we can connect our emotions, our body and our being into one sexual life force. We ended with a rapid round of “10 quickies with Dr. Tara” Listen and learn my luvs…oh and have an orgasmic day! For more sex and relationship realness, follow me on social media” Luvbites.co and subscribe to my juicy newsletter at www.Luvbites.co In this episode: +Vibrational therapies +Magnetism through sacred sexuality +Chinese medicine studies +Cultivating sexual life forces +Growing our internal Intelligence +Connecting with your feminine cycle +Yoni egg practices +Sexual mantra movements Links: https://www.instagram.com/simonarose_/ https://www.tiktok.com/@simonarose_?lang=en https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGBBDdFxGetFz2T4Z4ZMUQQ?app=desktop Giddy Health-Supplements https://giddyhealth.com/libido Use Code: GIDDY10 for 10% off Pulse-Luxury Lube Dispenser and Lubricants https://lovemypulse.com/ Use Code: TARA10 for $10 off *All Rights Reserved. Dr Tara International Inc
“You could have sex for hours and hours, but if you're not actually opening up and you haven't revealed yourself in a deep way, it doesn't matter.” Episode Summary: On today's episode of Soul Talk, holistic sex and relationship coach Kim Anami teaches how to infuse passion and love into every area of your life. She opens our minds to sex beyond just a physical experience but also a spiritual one. Kim advocates that everyone ought to be having more sex. And better sex. Even with yourself. That accessing your sexual energy, can help enhance your creativity and ability manifest in the world. Sexual energy is your super fuel. It is a vastly underused and sometimes misunderstood resource that you can tap into to boost your physical and emotional vitality, mental clarity and spiritual well-being. Learn how the 11 different types of orgasms have their own qualities of pleasure and self-actualization, as well as how to heal from past sexual trauma and supercharge your love life Timestamps: (00:08:26) – How Kim became a Sex and Relationship coach. (00:17:01) – Letting go of misconceptions regarding sex. (00:25:53) - How to help a partner heal from past sexual traumas. (00:30:20) – The different types of orgasm. (00:32:42) - How men can consciously control ejaculation. (00:42:53) - How to fully surrender during sexual encounters. (00:48:12) - The importance of being completely honest with your partner. (00:53:52) - How to forgive when hurt. (00:56:17) - Monogamy and sexuality. (01:01:03) - Meditate, masturbate and create. In This Episode You Will Learn: How to become a multi orgasmic man or woman. The 11 different types of orgasms. The power of Authenticity and truth in sex. The Meditate-Masturbate-Create Technique for manifesting. The breathing technique for men. Conscious celibacy as a tool to attract your life partner. Some Questions I Ask: How did you decide you want to become a holistic sex teacher? How can someone get connected to their sexual energy? Why some women claim not to have had sexual pleasure? What advice can you give to that partner whose partner has a sexual trauma? Is there a difference between male and female orgasm? Can you give a concise masterclass on sexuality? Does someone have to be in a committed relationship to go to the depths that you're talking about? GUEST LINKS kimanami.com Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com Download the full interview transcript HERE. Events with Kute Blackson: Missed the Surrender Summit? There's still time to purchase the Upgrade Package for lifetime access to the interviews and more here: www.thesurrendersummit.com. Join me on a life-changing journey in Bali this December. Apply here: www.boundlessblissbali.com
Chelom meets with Carlie Palmer-Webb, a Christian sex educator, to discuss how open and vulnerable communication about sex can bless a relationship. They suggest that intentionality, agency, a sense of humor, and a growth mentality are just a few ways to enhance your sexual relationship with your partner. You can learn more about Carlie and the various courses that she offers by visiting her website: https://thechristiansexeducator.com/
* SUPPORT THE SHOW * Donations are so appreciated (PayPal Me ) One of my original intents when starting this podcast was to talk about this breakdown I see in women (and honestly men too) : where we've lost touch with our life force energy and therefore our sexual potential our sensuality and even our creativity and drive. Many people think about their libido or sexual energy solely in terms of what's happening or not happening, as the case may be in their bedroom. I like to use a broader definition of the word libido: your ability to give and receive pleasure, enjoyment and acknowledgement. Try thinking about your libido like this if you want to be turned on in bed (or with a partner), you need to feel turned on during your daily life. I think we often think of pleasure as sensual pleasure when we hear the word - but I like to think of it as pleasuring my senses all day. It's enormously difficult to fully surrender to pleasure during sex - or ever to want sex - if the pleasure in your life has run dry. Learn more about how you can work with me: Email: connect@lydiajoy.meWebsite: https://lydiajoy.mykajabi.comBook a breakthrough session: https://lydiajoy.mykajabi.com/intuitive-breakthrough-coaching
Join us in the Strawbale House at Ängsbacka where we, throughout the summer of 2021, recorded a series of podcasts from the heart. Meet different teachers, musicians, and emblematic Ängsbacka figures sharing about their journeys and walking us home to ourselves.In this episode, Robin Christoffer Hallsten sits down with Lin Holmquist to explore her different roles in Ängsbacka, the Tantra festival, and Kundalini.Are you curious what Ängsbacka is all about? Each week we meet with another key-person in the spreading of the Ängsbacka magic.——————————————————————————————————————01:54 Lin's journey in Ängsbacka04:18 From a volunteer to a program coordinator07:58 Running the first Tantra festival in Ängsbacka15:49 Create a sexual life aligned to your truth18:49 Kundalini awakening23:41 Neo tantra and sexual healing32:18 Meeting yourself in Ängsbacka——————————————————————————————————————Ängsbacka is a Course and Festival Center for personal and spiritual growth located in the beautiful deep forests of Värmland, Sweden. We support people in their paths to sustainable development, well-being and harmony.For 25 years already Ängsbacka has served as an internationally renowned source of inspiration and meeting place where tens of thousands of people have participated in our events, courses and volunteering programs. We believe that the magic of Ängsbacka lies in authentic connection with yourself, the people and the nature around you.You can read more about all different ways to interact with Ängsbacka at www.angsbacka.com.Support the show
Welcome to The Philosophy of Sex, long-play, I'm your host Caroline Moreau-Hammond. You might remember the name Jeanne Proust from our third episode of season 1 ‘Why is sex still taboo?'. Professor and Philosopher, Jeanne Proust (no relation to Marcel Proust) is a post-doctoral teaching fellow at Fordham University and an adjunct professor at New York University and Pace University in the United States. She has studied Philosophy and Visual Arts in Bordeaux, Berlin, and Paris and her PhD dissertation at the Panthéon-Sorbonne focused on the pathologies of willpower, both in philosophical and psychological perspectives, but her interests are wide including, Ethics, Philosophy of Technologies, Bioethics, Feminist theory, and Aesthetics. Jeanne is an advocate for a widening of philosophical education beyond academic frontiers; she regularly gives public talks in philosophy and produces her own podcast, "Can You Phil It?” which aims to make philosophical texts and ideas accessible to a wider audience.In this episode, Jeanne and I examine taboo, the important role transgression plays in desire, the trivialisation of sexuality and the need for more nuanced conversations about taboo and sexuality. Because we weren't able to include everything in Episode 1 of The Philosophy of Sex, please enjoy our full interview. Resources:Can You Phil It podcast: Apple & Spotify Recommended reading by Jeanne: Virginie Despentes, King Kong Theory, 2006.Michael Sandel, What Money Can't Buy: The Moral Limits of Markets, 2012. Andrea Dworkin, Pornography: Men Possessing Women, 1981. Catherine Millet, The Sexual Life of Catherine M., 2001Ann Cahill, Overcoming objectification, A Carnal Ethics, 2011. Connect with us:@becuming.meBecuming takes the frustration out of finding the perfect sex toy by sending you personalised recommendations. Check it out at www.becuming.me. Credits:Creator & host: Caroline Moreau-HammondEditor & original music: Zoltan Fecso Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Presenting the third episode of 'Intimate Animation' season 4, brought to you by the online animation magazine skwigly.com Join Skwigly's Ben Mitchell and Laura-Beth Cowley as they explore, discuss and interview the talents behind animation that deals with adult themes of love, relationships and sexuality. In this episode we meet Renee Zhan, whose film 'Soft Animals' is presently screening as part of this year's Encounters Film Festival having premiered earlier this year at Annecy. Since beginning her animation studies at Harvard University under Ruth Lingford, Renee's films also include the Sundance Jury Award-winning 'Reneepoptosis' and last year's National Film and Television School mini-epic 'O Black Hole'. Last month saw the director join BlinkInk's talent roster following her contribution to their Adult Swim 'Off The Air' episode 'Progress'. Also discussed in this episode: Encounters highlights including Animated Encounters Grand Prix winner 'Farce' (dir. Robin Jensen), Best of British Animation Award winner 'Eating in the Dark' (Dir. Inari Sirola), 'Annah la Javanaise' (dir. Fatimah Tobing Rony), 'Self Scratch' (dir. Chenghua Yang), 'Night of the Living Dread' (dir. Ida Melum), 'Trona Pinnacles' (dir. Mathilde Parquet), 'Breaking Bread' (dir. Yuan Li Elizabeth Xu), 'Jeijay' (dir. Petra Stipetic/Maren Wiese), 'Günter Falls In Love' (dir. Josephine Lohoar Self), 'Love is Just a Death Away' (dir. Bára Anna Stejskalová), 'Sweet Nothing' (dir. Joana Fischer/Marie Kenov), 'Lolos' (dir. Marie Valade) and 'Granny's Sexual Life' (dir. Urška Djukić) plus recent work from Henriette Reitz, Christa Jarrold and Future Power Station. Presented by Ben Mitchell and Laura-Beth Cowley Interview conducted by Laura-Beth Cowley Produced and edited by Ben Mitchell
STEVEN WEBER JOINS NBC'S CHICAGO MED (FROM DEADLINE) NBC's Chicago Med is leaning into Dr. Dean Archer's controversial promotion to interim chief of the ED by upping Steven Weber to series regular. The news comes after the explosive Season 6 finale in May that saw power-hungry Dean continue to dangerously bend the rules to suit his agenda. Additionally, two new doctors are joining Gaffney Chicago Medical Center as Guy Lockard and Kristen Hager have landed series regular roles on the Dick Wolf-produced procedural, which returns for its seventh season this fall. The new cast additions follow the shocking departures of Yaya DaCosta and Torrey DeVitto at the end of last season.Lockard will portray Dr. Dylan Scott, who left a career as a Chicago police officer to become a doctor. Whether the doctor has any connections to characters in Chicago P.D. is as yet unknown. Hager plays Dr. Stevie Hammer, a brilliant and scrappy emergency room attending physician. NBC's One Chicago Wednesday lineup, anchored by Chicago Med at 8 PM, returns Sep. 22. The franchise is produced by Wolf Entertainment and Universal Television, part of Universal Studio Group. STEVEN WEBER BIO (FROM IMDB.COM) This Queens-born actor has certainly proven himself adept at everything from quirky comedy to flat-out melodrama earning TV stardom in the early 1990's and maintaining a strong foothold on stage, film and TV in its aftermath. Steven Robert Weber was born on March 4, 1961, to Fran (Frankel), a nightclub singer, and Stuart Weber, a nightclub performer, and Borscht Belt comic and manager. He was already appearing in television commercials by elementary school age. He later studied at the High School of the Performing Arts in New York and graduated from New York State University. The fair-haired, fair-skinned actor worked a series of menial jobs during his salad days as a struggling thespian (custodian, elevator operator, singing waiter) until earning his break on TV in a presentation of one of Mark Twain's stories. Quickly making his film debut in the popular comedy The Flamingo Kid, he nabbed a running role on the soap opera As the World Turns a year later. On the set he met first wife Finn Carter, another co-star on the daytime drama. Steven stayed put for a year then went on to gain recognition in more offbeat and/or prestigious productions on film and prime-time TV. He played a rock star in the thoroughly offbeat foreign-made film Angels and showed real command as John F. Kennedy in the epic miniseries The Kennedys of Massachusetts. That same year TV stardom came his way with the sitcom Wings. Co-starring with Tim Daly as Brian Hackett, the looser, goofier more aimless half of the brotherly team who co-owned a one-plane, Nantucket-based airline, the actors' chemistry, not to mention a terrifically eclectic supporting cast, kept the show on a steady course for seven seasons. Easily typed now as a genial, lovable loser type, Weber faced the prospect of severe pigeon-holing. So during the show's off season, he started showing up in more serious roles. He suffered at the hands of the deranged Jennifer Jason Leigh in Single White Female; appeared in a second chiller with The Temp; and made a cameo in the highly depressing, award-winning Leaving Las Vegas. His flair for comedy shone in is straight-man role as Johathan Harker in the critically acclaimed horror spoof, Dracula: Dead and Loving It He truly impressed both critics and audiences alike as the complex title character in Jeffrey, a gay romantic film comedy, and then completely defied all odds by starring in an epic TV-movie version of Stephen King's horror classic The Shining, seizing the role inherited from Jack Nicholson and brilliantly making it his own while earning a Saturn award for his chilling efforts. By the time "Wings" came to an end in 1997, Weber had divorced his actress/wife Finn Carter (they had no children) and married actress/TV executive Juliette Hohnen on July 9, 1995. They have two children, Jack and Alfie. He and Laura Linney were selected to play the TV-movie leads in the popular A.R. Gurney theater piece Love Letters. While other TV series comebacks have fared less well, including the short runs of The Weber Show (which he produced), The D.A., Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip, Happy Town and Chasing Life. Steven bounced around solidly in other venues. In 2002, he joined the cast of the smash Broadway musical "The Producers," taking over the nebbish Matthew Broderick role. In 2004, he went to London to appear on stage with Kevin Spacey and Mary Stuart Masterson in "National Anthems." Other plays over the years have included "Throwing Your Voice," "Something in the Air" and "Design for Living." Steven has remained quite productive into the millennium with recent film outings in Sexual Life, The Amateurs, Inside Out, the title role in Choose Connor, Farm House, My One and Only, A Little Bit of Heaven, Son of Morning, the comedy Being Bin Laden in which he played Osama Bin Laden, Crawlspace, Kiss Me, Amateur Night, A Thousand Junkies, The Perfection and Allan the Dog. Seen even more prolifically on TV, he has graced such popular shows as "The D.A.," "Will & Grace" (as Will's brother Sam), "Monk," "Law & Order: Special Victims Unit," "Desperate Housewives," "Hot in Cleveland," "Parenthood," "Curb Your Enthusiasm," "Sleepy Hollow" and "This Close." The actor continues to play a stream of comedic and dramatic recurring roles on such TV programs as Without a Trace, Brothers & Sisters, Dallas (the New Generation), Murder in the First, Helix, iZombie, House of Lies, NCIS: New Orleans, Ballers and Get Shorty and more recently appeared as a regular on the mystery series 13 Reasons Why and comedy series Indebted. In addition, he has given voice to a few animated programs including Ultimate Spider-Man, Avengers Assemble The Bravest Knight and Puppy Dog Pals.https://www.nbc.com/chicago-med
Having a healthy sex life is essential for your well-being and happiness. This week my guest, Lou Paget, is a speaker, an entrepreneur, and an International best-selling-author of 5 books in the area of Sexual Health and Relationships: How to Be a Great Lover, How To Give Her Absolute Pleasure, The Big O, The Great Lover Playbook, and Hot Mamas. She As an AASECT* Certified Sex Educator she created her Women's and Men's seminars, that she has presented worldwide that resulted in her five books. Paget has had over three million books sold, and they are translated into 28 languages and represented in over 60 countries. Lou is joining me to share her expertise and discuss about sex and happiness. Let's say Yes and release our Happiness Hormones…
Having a healthy sex life is essential for your well-being and happiness. This week my guest, Lou Paget, is a speaker, an entrepreneur, and an International best-selling-author of 5 books in the area of Sexual Health and Relationships: How to Be a Great Lover, How To Give Her Absolute Pleasure, The Big O, The Great Lover Playbook, and Hot Mamas. She As an AASECT* Certified Sex Educator she created her Women's and Men's seminars, that she has presented worldwide that resulted in her five books. Paget has had over three million books sold, and they are translated into 28 languages and represented in over 60 countries. Lou is joining me to share her expertise and discuss about sex and happiness. Let's say Yes and release our Happiness Hormones…
In this episode Jesse drunkenly rambles about what developments this last month has brought.
1:52 - Presentation of Katalin. 3:00 - Sexual life is made of many breakthrough and many little steps, it's not easy to select 3 key moments or phases of my sexual life. 3:22 - The first major moment in my life is when I lost my virginity. It was a kind of taboo. Sex education was like explaining how a car is working, but experience it is totally different. Sex is the same, doing it is so different from the functionning. 4:30 - The first time (first penetration) was in a rush. I felt in love, together forever. But the whole experience was awful and painful. 5:06 - If this experience is what sex is about then it is not my journey. Lot of shame and guilt around it due to conditionning. 5:30 - If you lost your virginity, you become broken, like a second class to go in a new relationship or mariage. 5:57 - The second relationship was better but so far from what we can create in a flourishing relationship. 6:50 - Over and over again you are discovering and progressing. You can imagine where you can go but it's only once you are there that you start to see there are more options, possibilities. The openness in this second relationship was a big turning point. Because before that it was hard to discuss. 7:30 - Before I lost my virginity, I was sexually abused by an adult I trusted in. So afterwards, it was difficult to open myself again with adults.8:30 - The limit in the relationship was about knowledge and understanding. We were really open. 8:56 - I was a single mother. And I got a long relationship afterwards with someone. But there the communication about sex and desire was an obstacle. 9:25 - Being in a relationship was part of the conditionning too, being in a monogamy relationship. It is your responsability to express your own desire. 10:35 - I was open to learn, to go to workshop, but not my partner at that time. 10:50 - It is frequent in couple that one is ready to progress but not the other. 11:30 - If I come to you to say I want to improve. It equals "it is not good". That's why this approach usually fails. It doesn't mean something went wrong. Look at products on the market, so many products exist, work and are improved anyway to become beter and better. 12:12 - If you take if for yourself, from the ego, you can block the discussion. If you understand you can learn, play, everything is in progress, it is easier. The inner voice is telling us "I would like to progress, I would like to discover something". I would like to share it. It is not related to anything you did, I would like, as a partner, to progress together. Try something new. Some people take it personnally and sometime with jealousy. 13:58 - Conditioning of children too, passing by generation to generation, by indirect message by the surroundings. How we are supposed to behave, do, say. 14:40 - We are all different. 16:07 - The 3 of us are coaches, and for us too, it was a succession of small and big steps. Even with lots of tools, communication it can be challenging to express our desire for a more delightful sex life. 17:08 - It is related to the rules. When the relationship is starting, are you clear with your rules breakers (eg monogamy) ? So many times we hide our rules breakers. 19:37 - Monogamy may have complete different meaning for each of the partner. And it evolves wth time. 20:10 - Start to learn what you need. How to share in an open way with your partner. 20:55 - We are changing continously. And that's what people doesn't accept, in their life, work and relationship. Accept first I am changing myself as I am discovering more and more. And also my partner is changing and get different desires. 21:28 - What I found in that relationship, is that I was growing faster. I was willing to invest more energy for this growth and changes. It is a dedication to change stuff and habits. And when you become passionnated, you discover more state and joy. Your discover ideas and want to try. But my ex partner was not open. 23:05 - The 3rd event was the discovery of OM (Orgasmic Meditation). I waited about 2 years to start this journey. I discovered to learn about myself. 24:15 - The list of what I found beautiful in OM. 25:35 - On a deeper way, it was the first time I observed my body with simplicity. With no justifications. 27:13 - Justifying emotion is a way to give more meaning and pressure (on others) to make it happens. 28:01 - The experience of OM by Olivier. 29:39 - My biggest obstacle at the begining as a man. How to ask to make love with my partner. 32:35 - Learn to be in the present. Each experience is different. 32:55 - Katalin's biggest lesson of OM. 33:55 - Katalin's biggest obstacle to OM. How do I love and except my body and genital. 35:09 - Camille's big learning is about expectations and just feel. Just be and leave the expectation aside. 37:40 - Camille's learning. Mindfullness and sexuality. 39:07 - Katalin biggest joy. Finally, I don't have to create a story. I don't have to be someone to get something. 40:05 - Explanation of what is Orgasmic Meditation. 43:50 - Main take away of OM in your sex life. Are you willing to discover more and pay the price of what it means. Bring simplicity in my life. 46:29 - My body self exceptance and love. If the level of emotion is coming down you will see and experience simplicity in everything. I don't have to compare my body, anything, it is me. 48:23 - Experience how we are energetic beings. Experience energy in the life. 49:50 - How the body is capable to receive on many different layers. 50:28 - One advice: Stay curious and open your mind. Sometime you don't understand, don't blame or judge. Just listen the truth of each. Implement new way of thinking in your life will help you to go further in many ways.
Intro: This is it, this is the last episode in our 21 episode series on sexuality , our last episode of 14 in our subseries on sexuality in Catholic marriages, it has been a long run, thank you for being here We are finishing up with our metaphor of the canopied Catholic Marriage Bed And today we'll be discussing the four bedposts, the canopy, and the bedskirt, bedspread and the shams with more examples. I'm clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski and I am here with you, to be your host and guide. This podcast, Interior Integration for Catholics, is part of Souls and Hearts, our online outreach at soulsandhearts.com, which is all about shoring up our natural foundation for the Catholic spiritual life, all about overcoming psychological obstacles to being loved and to loving God and neighbor. In this podcast, we confront the tough questions we Catholics have in our day-to-day lives, we confront head on our struggles in the natural realm, the psychological difficulties that keep us from fully loving our Lord and our Lady in a deep, personal, intimate way. This is episode 70, released on May 31, 2021, entitled Catholic Sex and the Four Pillars -- and the Dos and Don'ts of Sharing about your Sexual Life. Review of the bed Review the bed -- remember this canopied marriage bed represents the sexual life of a married Catholic couple. The floor -- The Presence of God and His Providence -- everything begins here. This is the most fundamental piece of the whole metaphor. We need to be in contact with "I AM" with God who is the source of all reality. We can't forget that The four legs Leg 1 -- the husband's commitment to his own interior integration and his own human formation Leg 2. the wife's commitment to her own interior integration, her own human formation Leg 3. Understanding Attachment needs and integrity needs. Leg 4. Internal Family Systems -- Episode 60 -- How well do you really know your spouse? The frame and the box spring -- the firm, unwavering commitment of the husband his marriage vows and the wife to her marriage vows -- separately. Independently The mattress Empathetic attunement -- covered that in episode 65, last episode Two pillows: Self-acceptance and Spouse-acceptance -- this is what we are focusing on today. Pillows support us, comfort us. Great security with pillows Pam travels with her pillow -- learned this from her friend Cabrina -- comfort in having your own pillow Comfort in being accepted by someone who knows you. Bottom Sheet: sexual attraction, the intensity of sexual passion Top Sheet: Communication between the spouses The blankets: human warmth, emotional connection Covering today Four Bedposts -- imagine two spiral intertwined, like the double-helix structure of DNA -- these are the four pillars of Catholic resilience, going all the way back to episode 4 of this podcast Mindset Heartset Bodyset Soulset Covering today: The canopy and the curtains -- to protect privacy and propriety or to hide dysfunction, exploitation, even abuse. Covering today: The sham, the bedspread, and the bedskirt -- Used to cover up the real bed, give an impression of the state of married life to the world. Bedposts Four Sets Bodyset, Mindset, Heartset and Soulset Double helix structure -- the husband's strand and the wife's strand interwoven, entwined together like the double-helix structure of DNA rising up overhead, looking down on the bed Dynamism of Sets -- not static -- our sets shift, they vary as a function of our parts and what is activated and not activated within us in a given moment. Descriptions review from way back in Episode 4 Bodyset is how our body affects us, how our physical reactions impact us and our dispositions and inclinations. Mindset is essentially a frame of mind. Our mindset is the position of our intellect, and how we apply reason to our situation and our experiences. Heartset is the dispositions or the orientation of our heart, the emotional and intuitive ways of our heart. Soulset is essentially our attitude of soul. It is the disposition of our spirit, or how our souls is oriented. It can operate independently of mindset and heartset. Our soulset reflects how we see God, and how we see ourselves in relationship with God, how we see God viewing us. Our soulset very much depends on the virtues we have acquired, especially the virtues of faith, hope and charity. Our soulset is also very dynamic, it can change rapidly A lot of your human formation is being aware of your own sets -- Bodyset, Mindset, Heartset and Soulset So much of your empathy for your spouse will involve reading your spouse's sets -- Bodyset, Mindset, Heartset and Soulset Will this legitimate sexual experience be good for your spouse's mind, heart, soul and body, right now, in these circumstances? Where is she emotionally, relationally with you? How is she doing physically right now, how is her soul? Paying attention to common, repeated relational patterns or cycles that happen between you and your spouse. Our parts have very different experiences of sexual intimacy Definition of parts: Discussed this at length in episodes 60 and 61. Parts: Separate, independently operating personalities within us, each with own unique prominent needs, roles in our lives, emotions, body sensations, guiding beliefs and assumptions, typical thoughts, intentions, desires, attitudes, impulses, interpersonal style, and world view. IFS therapist Robert Falconer calls parts "insiders." Each part also has its own approach to sexuality. One part may be blended within you Your spouse may be blended in a part Parts can switch -- episode 61 Fractured, Fragmented Sex in Catholic Marriages described how parts in a sexual encounter can switch rapidly. Bodyset is how our body affects us, how our physical reactions impact us and our dispositions and inclinations. We are embodied beings, body and soul composites. Our physical bodies have a huge impact on us. So our bodyset is the impact of our bodily states on us. For example, if we are exhausted from a lack of sleep – that has an impact on us. Obviously our bodyset is dynamic and can change as well. Understanding bodyset is so important in marriage because the bodies of the husband and wife are so united. Body has a huge impact on our relating. The bodies of the husband and wife Genesis 2:21-25 So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and he slept; then he took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. And the rib that the Lord God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man. Then the man said, “This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; this one shall be called Woman, for out of Man[e] this one was taken.” Therefore a man leaves his father and his mother and clings to his wife, and they become one flesh. And the man and his wife were both naked, and were not ashamed. Mark 10:6-9 -- these are the words of Jesus But from the beginning of creation, ‘God made them male and female.' ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” 1 Corinthians 7:4 For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. What do I mean by understanding bodyset Example of a wife Carol feeling "tired" -- what might that mean? Hard day -- physical labor Illness -- coming down with a cold. Medical condition. Psychosomatic expression of distress I am not feeling well emotionally Firefighting part of the wife that is covering up anger at the husband? Example of headache -- parts generating a headache. But not all of the spouse. Example of the wife's cycles For some wives, sexual desire is so mediated by hormonal levels -- so body based Parts of the husband can interpret a lack of sexual desire this day as rejection, as evidence of being unloved or unlovable, undesirable -- all that could change in a few days. Example of Bill from the last episode "I really get turned on when my wife bites me, it helps me to have sex with her, I find I don't have to use Viagra then -- is that ok, or is it better for me to use the Viagra? I don't want to not be able to have the fullness of sexual intimacy with her…" Bill's difficulties achieving and maintaining an erection are not purely a medical/physical issue -- he doesn't need the Viagra when his wife bites him. Something is going on with his bodyset -- what is attractive and arousing about the biting? It has a meaning to it. Mindset is essentially a frame of mind. Our mindset is the position of our intellect, and how we apply reason to our situation and our experiences, including our sexual experiences. Our mindset is dynamic and changes – we can have a very positive outlook at one point in time and a very negative one at another point in time and look at the same set of circumstances. Our mindset greatly influences not only our thinking but also our behavior. Example of the tired wife Carol-- difficult day at work, difficult time with the children before her husband Ben comes home from working late. Ben kisses the kids good night, he's ready for a late supper and maybe some romance, but the wife's mindset is one of Ben, You've left me alone with the kids repeatedly You don't understanding how much that demands from me It's not fair that you just get to come home, eat a fine supper that I prepared, kiss the kids and expect that I'm just going to be all into you and your wonderfulness, Ben. At this point, Carol's firefighting part that carries fatigue may lift and the anger in an exiled part may come through, an example of her heartset affecting her mindset Speaking from her anger, Carol says. You don't really understand me, or you wouldn't be inviting me to bed like this. You need to help our more around here or I won't want any more kids, not if I have to raise them and care for them by myself. No sex for you, Ben Ben's mindset -- shifting from how wonderful his wife is to his protector parts planning how to defend against her criticisms of him. Carol, you're being unreasonable. What did I do wrong? I came home from a long day at work, busting my hump to provide for this family and you lay into me as though it's a bad thing for a husband to be attracted to his wife. Heartset is the dispositions or the orientation of our heart, the emotional and intuitive ways of our heart. Heartset is essential our emotional state and the positions we take because of our feelings. Heartset is even more dynamic and changeable for many people than mindset. And it very much influences our mindset Example of the heartset of the husband Ben in our example Ben's anger flaring up -- not fair that you say I don't help -- that's not what Carol said, but in a defensive mindset, Ben hears it that way. Mindset and heartset working together. Carol's heart is closed, sees Ben as intrusive, protectors have impulses to attack and withdraw from him into the kitchen out of anger and fear. Soulset is essentially our attitude of soul. It is the disposition of our spirit, or how our souls is oriented. It can operate independently of mindset and heartset. Our soulset reflects how we see God, and how we see ourselves in relationship with God, how we see God viewing us. Our soulset very much depends on the virtues we have acquired, especially the virtues of faith, hope and charity. Our soulset is also very dynamic, it can change rapidly Carol and Ben not seeing each other as children of God. Not seeing themselves as one flesh. Not motivated by charity. Invoking justice and fairness, not authentic agape love. What would happen if they stopped and prayed their family rosary together, late, just the two of them, after the kids went down. What if instead of making romantic overtures toward his wife, he volunteered to clean up with her in the kitchen? Bedspread, Bedskirt, shams these cover up the bed, give a favorable and even a false impression to the world of what the bed is like, keep the real bed under wraps, as it were. Can also give a false impression to us. Very natural to us to curate our social image, keeping up appearances We don't want detraction But we need to be real. We need to see what is real about ourselves sexually, about our spouses sexually, and about our sexual intimacy. Canopy Privacy of the marriage bed and what happens on it Openness to God Openness to our own parts Parts have very different attitudes toward our sexual expression e.g. latent anger -- if not given voice within ourselves, increases likelihood of enactment Openness to God In prayer Individually Together Sharing with each other what comes of the prayer. Mutual discernment. Through others Openness to trusted, competent others who love us May as well Luke 8:17 For nothing is hidden that will not be disclosed, nor is anything secret that will not become known and come to light. Psalm 90:8 You have set our iniquities before you, our secret sins in the light of your countenance. Major impediment to this openness and relating within yourself, with your spouse and with God [Drum roll] Shame Check out episodes 37-49, which are a whole course on shame and overcoming shame. Diagnostic -- what am I reluctant to reveal? And why Again, asking our parts inside. Fear, shame, guilt, -- If so, of what If you seek you'll find. Many people never seek May be very surprising. What happens in secret will be proclaimed from the rooftops. Ways to share sexual aspects with others Respect for spouse Your husband is a beloved son of God; your wife is a beloved daughter of God. Asking permission to discuss with a particular person Resistance is often within our own parts -- externalized to the spouse. But have you asked your spouse? Bringing in parts language for your spouse. She never wants to have sexual intimacy with me vs. a part of her seems to really avoid having sexual intimacy with me. Not all of my spouse. How we speak, think influences our attitudes. Positive frame -- wanting to make things better Owning your own part of any of the challenges -- beams and specks Can share frustration, but it should be more than just venting, a spouse bashing session. But I might take that if it's the only way a person can start sharing anything about a dysfunctional sexual pattern in relationship -- depends on maturity. No gossiping Clarity of language -- self-abuse instead of masturbation. Euphemisms or ways to skirt the reality of an action. Whatever facilitates communication -- street terms in the formal terms are not understood. Victorian age -- sense of propriety. Choosing a professional Marital therapy can be extremely helpful. Therapist or a life coach or a spiritual director or some other professional role Professionals often have their own sexual issues that impact how they relate with their clients. Many Catholic professionals may not really hold to what the Church teaches Ignorance Professional formation Personal sexual issues that are getting stirred up You can ask. You can challenge your therapist -- he or she doesn't have to reveal everything to you, not entitled to know all about your therapist's sexual life, but the question can spur your therapist to think. I am into clients challenging their therapists And therapists rising to the challenges. Use your judgement, powers of discernment. Seek and ye shall find. What about when a husband doesn't want his wife to discuss her experience of sexuality with him with anyone else. Or if a wife doesn't want her husband to discuss their sex life with any other person? Then what? Consider the reasons why Safety, Security Emotions Fear Shame Guilt Consider what parts of the spouse might be activated by the idea of the sharing See if the spouse could discuss the reasons for the resistance to sharing. Spouse may not know Gentleness and kindness here, if you are capable of them Float the possibility of discussing together – marital therapy, for example. If continued refusal If your situation is not urgent or abusive, consider waiting Prayer, sacrifice Revisiting Consider a hypothetical If situation is urgent or abusive Examples domestic violence harm to children Gaslighting – psychological manipulation around sex Talk about it with someone you trust anyway Spouse has no right to your absolute silence. Example of confession No right to violate your dignity as a child of God. The process of problem solving Review of the three parts of the moral act from last episode, Episode 69 -- example of Edward and Vera -- Very has some difficulty with sexual arousal, finds when Edward stimulates her with his fingers, she loosens up, becomes much more responsive, it's easier for her to have vaginal intercourse -- really common situation. But Edward has noticed that he tends to come to orgasm when his wife does -- that is so exciting for him, and he has had a history of premature ejaculation in the past. Fumbling around, not able to get inside of Vera in time. Three Parts of the Moral Act Object = the action or inaction chosen -- the what -- Intention/Motive -- the reason for doing the action or not doing an action Circumstances - -- situational factors which may affect the morality of an action -- who, what, where, how. All three of these, the object, the intention, and the circumstances must be evaluated to determine if a moral act is good or evil. All three must be good for an act to be moral. Analyze the object first, then the intention, then the circumstances Object -- Vaginal intercourse-- would be nice for both to experience orgasm, maybe even at the same time. Intention/Motive/End Edward and Vera are open to life, intending to have vaginal intercourse. Very open to the enhancing the marital bond, connected with each other Circumstances Bodyset Being really aware of body responses, especially around ejaculation. Solution may be for him to go a lot slower Or to be already inside her And to stimulate her while inside her or afterward. Practicing -- later, not long after the Edward's refractory period ends Refractory period = the recovery phase after orgasm during which it is physiologically impossible for a man to have additional orgasms.[ Mindset Openness to ideas, receptivity, solution finding focus vs. an intellectual rigidity, fixed ideas of how things should be and how to get there. Heartset Can they be playful about this -- have a sense of lightness of humor? - or does there need to be a dark seriousness about it, a deep sense of gravity. Soulset -- sense of Divine Providence being operative in the sexual intimacy challenges. Importance of the hierarchy of priorities 1942 essay by C.S. Lewis, “First and Second Things.” Lewis wrote: “To sacrifice the greater good for the less and then not to get the lesser good after all—that is the surprising folly . . . Every preference of a small good to a great, or a partial good to a total good, involves the loss of the small or partial good for which the sacrifice was made. Apparently the world is made that way. If Esau really got his pottage in return for his birthright, then Esau was a lucky exception. You can't get second things by putting them first; you can get second things only by putting first things first.” Don't want to sacrifice a greater good for a lesser good. Sexual pleasure -- the lesser good -- procreation and the emotional bond of the spouses are the greater goods. Matthew 6:33 Seek ye therefore first the kingdom of God, and his justice, and all these things shall be added unto you. If parts are acting autonomously, disconnected from the core self, they always get what they don't want. Neglect of the two great goods -- seeking pleasure, gratification through more intense orgasms is not the way to sustain relationships. Sometimes that won't happen. Having sexual intimacy this way is so countercultural, so opposite of the what the world tells us. WebMD -- 14 reasons you should have sex now It's exercise Good for a woman's heart -- decreases risk of heart disease Sex can help with pain Lowers stress -- e.g. public speaking (masturbation doesn't count) Longer life expectancy for women Slightly greater cognitive capacity for 50+ crowd -- number recall, basic math Better mood Bonding to your partner two guys snuggling More sex, lower weight Better mental health More common-cold fighting antibodies Helps with sleep Greater likelihood of a baby -- more sex primes women for conception and improves sperm quality in men. Better quality of life in old age, health and happiness Edward and Vera are moving toward vaginal intercourse as the focus and center of the sexual intimacy of the spouse Openness to procreation -- this is the procreative act. Bond of the spouses In the missionary position, spouses seeing each other, experiencing with each other Vs. being caught up in a self-absorbed experience of orgasm, for example Jesus very understanding and forgiving of sexual sins Examples Woman caught in the act of adultery Jn 8-1-11 Pharisees asking whether or not to stone her, trying to trap Jesus. 10 Jesus straightened up and said to her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?” She said, “No one, sir.” And Jesus said, “Neither do I condemn you. Go your way, and from now on do not sin again.” Woman at the well -- John 4, 5 husbands, cohabiting with a man not her husband. Eating with Sinners, professional mistresses or prostitutes at Matthew the tax collector's house. MT 9:10 And as he sat at dinner in the house, many tax collectors and sinners came and were sitting with him and his disciples. Reaching out to sexual outcasts He saw what goods their parts were seeking in their sexual behaviors Love, care, attention, protection, Parts separate from the core self always get what they don't want. He will help you and your spouse, too, if he's invited into this realm. Loving each other in the sexual intimacy Charity is possible. 1 Cor 13: 4-7 Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Pilgrimage Human formation We all need help We all need structure We all need support. Relaunch discussion. Excited that our landing page at soulsandhearts.com/rcc is updated and it has the video presentation on the relaunch we did on May 25 now posted. Check that out, consider prayerfully about joining us, and if your discernment says "yes" Get on the waiting list -- We have more than 120 on the waiting list so far. Not all of them will join. We are taking about 80 new members in, we're keeping it manageable -- we don't want to lose the Catholic touch. Waiting list, first chance, you'll get an email on June 1 with a link to register for the RCC. By June 4, landing page. Join with your spouse Conversation hours Tuesday and Thursday starting on June 3, 8, 10, 15, 17, 22, 24, and 29 -- 4:30 PM to 5:30 PM Eastern time -- 317.567.9594. IIC 70A Latent Emotions Around Sexuality Shame Guilt Grief Fear Sadness
Is your partner experiencing the best version of you? Sexuality is more than just…sex. It's an energy that exists in us that can be harnessed as an amazing tool to experience more joy and passion in all aspects of our life. I've been talking lately about the masculine/feminine dynamic and the role they have, especially in our relationships. I've learned a lot and been humbled in my own relationship experiences, and one of the lessons that continues to be more present is that I'm able to show up in my highest for others when I'm feeling safe being fully myself. This includes understanding the shadow, the wounding, and that inner child that can so often cause us to react in ways that don't feel in alignment with who we are inside. This week I was honored to connect with my friend Nadine Lee in a conversation around the beautiful and sometimes challenging dynamics of knowing ourselves properly in a relationship, and the work it takes to show up in our highest for partner and for ourself. Nadine is a teacher of the feminine tantric arts, feminine embodiment coach & nutritionist, and founder of Tantric Alchemy. We dive in to her work in the tantra space we also talk about the importance of further understanding our sexual energies, not just in the bedroom, but in our life in general. If you want to hear some amazing wisdom and tips on how to make love to life and get the best from your experiences and relationships, check out this weeks Deep Dive interview with Nadine Lee. Follow along with Nadine Lee on Instagram at @tantric.alchemy and don't miss the Feminine Awakening event in the CREATE Community with Nadine and Hart Sawyer on Sunday March 21st at 5pm (PST). Tickets available at https://bit.ly/3ttZSel You're also invited to join the free Create Community Facebook group to keep up with all the events and gain access to exclusive content at https://bit.ly/3lm7ahs To listen to the last Deep Dive podcast where I talk a little more about masculine/feminine polarities, go to https://bit.ly/2OcoKsc Also, to experience high level online coaching in the CREATE Community with myself and other amazing facilitators (many of which have been guests on this podcast) head over to www.thecreatecommunity.com And finally, for a free PDF of my 4 step process to help empower you to move from a starving artist mentality to a surrendered artist, go to www.surrenderedartist.org/programs and begin to unlock your inner artist today.
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Scholars in gender and sexuality studies have largely ignored or dismissed attempts to explain the causes of sexual deviation for a variety of reasons. In this podcast, National Humanities Center Fellow Benjamin Kahan discusses how his work, exploring “the historical etiology of sexuality,” moves past those scholars’ dismissal of early sexuality theories in hopes of producing a fuller understanding of how contemporary attitudes and notions about sexuality developed. By considering lost models of sexuality and sexual aberration—dating back to the 1840s—Kahan describes the emergence of ideas that can be found in the work of researchers such as Havelock Ellis as well as in the writings of authors like Djuna Barnes and Virginia Woolf. Benjamin Kahan is an assistant professor of English and Women’s and Gender Studies at Louisiana State University. He is the author of “Celibacies: American Modernism and Sexual Life” (2013) and the editor of Heinrich Kaan’s “‘Psychopathia Sexualis’ (1844): A Classic Text in the History of Sexuality” (2016). This year, as a Fellow at the Center, his project is “Sexual Etiologies and the Great Paradigm Shift.”
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Edward Aiken–www.forcedynamix.com “How you do one thing is how you do everything.” “How you do one thing is how you do everything.” We have all heard this before, but when it comes from a guy that has fought for his life more times than most people have been in fights you listen. […]
Seduction Morality Honesty How do you do the Right thing… Being good with women, means being a Better Man… all those things can conflict, contradict and confuse you. This is where we really go to school on this TSL Podcast. There are very few times I am in awe of someone and it happens […]
Recorded – April 25, 2012 Terrence C drops some science on Sex, Seduction, Escalation and the Mindset of being that Seducer. If you’re a fan, you know Terrence. He is by far one of the most badass guys who has done any recordings with me. I can honestly say Terrence and Jason Savage are the […]
Recorded – April 11, 2012 Myself in Austin Arden in NYC Arden Leigh is the author of The New Rules of Attraction and a NYC based Seduction Coach for women. However you really can’t put her in a box. In this podcast we really gain a huge amount of ground talking about the same philosophy […]
Recorded – April 18, 2012 My House – Austin, TX John McLean is the author of The No-Carb Revolution (and many other books available on Amazon), as well as a healer, extrovert and all around interesting guy. (Check out the book CLICK HERE) In my opinion John has one of the more […]
Barbara Marshall speaks at The Medicalization of Sex conference in Vancouver about the medicalization of late-life sexuality and the ways in which sex and gender are constructed around aging bodies.