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The Leverage Podcast is a weekly podcast that brings you the most cutting edge dating and lifestyle advice for men. Topics include attraction, seduction, fitness, wealth hacking, and lifestyle design.

Robbie Kramer


    • Apr 23, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 54m AVG DURATION
    • 536 EPISODES

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    The Daygame System That Got Me Off the Apps for Good

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2025 36:09


    Links:Book a call:⁠ https://www.innerconfidence.com/communityGet NewBrew: ⁠https://www.drinknewbrew.com/Timestamps:00:00 "Overcoming Approach Anxiety"07:53 Warm Up to Combat Anxiety10:50 "Approaching Women Mistakes"15:21 "Smooth Pickup Line Strategy"17:47 "Start Small to Practice Dating"20:59 Instant Date: From Sidewalk to Coffee24:09 Public Flirting Etiquette Tips27:11 Wingman Strategy for Dating31:26 Master Day Game: 500 Approaches34:38 Mastering Social Approaches36:04 "Apply to Join Community"Connect w/ Robbie: Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence

    Escaping Forced Monogamy: How to Date on Your Own Terms

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2025 31:22


    Links:Get NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/Book A Call w/ Robbie: https://www.innerconfidence.com/communityTimestamps:03:58 "30 Dates Challenge"09:29 Courageous Relationship Boundaries Conversation10:10 "Understanding Casual Relationships"14:25 "Threesome Story at the Abbey"17:26 "Threesome Dynamics: Equal Attention"23:01 Networking Through Lifestyle Circles23:56 Money, Power, Women Approach28:54 Top Men, Social Circles, Maturity30:27 Build Your Dream Social Circle

    Six Dating Coach Scams That Drain Your Wallet Without Results

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2025 7:52


    Links:Book a call: https://www.innerconfidence.com/communityGet NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/Info:Are you thinking about hiring a dating coach or perhaps you've already invested with little to no return? Robbie exposes the pitfalls of flashy, overpriced programs and sheds light on the truth behind these get-confident-quick schemes. From the allure of the "Chad" persona to the one-size-fits-all scripts, he reveals how these scams often prey on men with genuine social anxieties and dating goals. But don't worry, it's not all doom and gloom. Stick around to the end, and Robbie shares a genuine method to advance your dating skills that focuses on consistent growth rather than shortcuts. Connect w/ Robbie: Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence

    Transforming Dry Spells into an Abundant Love Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2025 21:10


    Links:Apply for The Community & Book a Call with Robbie: https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-callNew Brew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/Intro: We begin with the "Hoping Stage," where many guys find themselves stuck, relying solely on dating apps and chance meetups. Robbie explains how most men falter here, putting potential partners on pedestals and succumbing to neediness. But the good news is that awareness is the first step toward change.Next, we transition into the "Hunting Stage." This phase is about taking dating seriously – from optimizing profiles to getting out there and facing rejection. It's where you learn to build confidence through real-life interactions. Robbie also offers insights into how to maintain your independence and avoid falling into the trap of monogamous relationships too soon.Finally, we explore the "Farming Stage," which shifts the dynamic from chasing to being chased. By establishing yourself as a leader within your social circle, you create an environment where potential partners naturally gravitate toward you, setting the stage for meaningful and lasting connections.Timestamps:00:00 Navigating Dating Pitfalls05:51 Dating: Embrace Rejection, Use Wingmen07:51 "Mastering Relationship Dynamics"09:50 Mastering Relationship Dynamics14:16 "Effective Strategy for Attracting Women"17:43 Online Dating and Networking Tips20:25 "Accountability Group: Guiding Your Journey"

    Should You Fly Her In Before You've Slept Together?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2025 15:09


    Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/communityIntro:In today's episode we're diving into the tricky world of weekend getaways and why they often backfire for men hoping for romance. Host Robbie Kramer explores why taking a woman on a trip can lead to the friend zone, and what you should do instead to avoid this common pitfall. Robbie shares stories of clients, including Chris, who faced disappointments after flying women in, and offers insights on how to successfully navigate long-distance dating scenarios. We'll also uncover why matchmaking services might not be the best solution, and the power of building a social circle to enhance your dating life.Timestamps:00:00 "Weekend Getaway Romance Missteps"03:30 New Year's Misadventure in LA08:19 "Assessing Relationship Readiness"10:35 "Long-Distance Dating Dilemmas"14:14 "Build High Status Social Circles"

    Mastering Male Fashion: Boost Confidence and Style Without Breaking the Bank

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2025 33:34


    Links:Book A Call - https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-callIntro: In today's episode, we're diving into the world of men's fashion, specifically designed for those of you feeling a bit puzzled by the latest trends. From identifying your body type and finding the perfect fit to unlocking the secrets of a minimalist wardrobe, we'll cover everything you need to know to enhance your style. Plus, we'll explore common shopping pitfalls, the art of peacocking, and how to develop a timeless wardrobe that reflects confidence and sophistication. Whether you're looking to impress on a first date or simply want to update your look, this episode has you covered.00:00 Dressing Tips for Larger Body Types04:32 Climate and Fashion: Common Mistakes07:38 "Affordable, Timeless Wardrobe Strategy"11:37 Efficient Travel Wardrobe Essentials14:00 Mindful Spending on Watches17:23 Height-Boosting Footwear Choices18:52 "Shoe Game & Jacket Advice"22:23 All Saints: My Perfect Fit27:15 Timeless Sales on Classy Brands29:34 Enhancing Personal Style Tips32:39 Join a High-Status Social Circle

    Social Circle Strategy: The Key to Uncovering Business and Dating Success

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2025 73:17


    Links:Eoin's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EoinDobbinCattoMagic Mind: https://magicmind.com/innerconfidence20Book A Call w/ Robbie: https://www.innerconfidence.com/communityTimestamps:00:00 From Dating Coach to Social Guru09:35 Boosting Presence with YouTube Vibes11:50 Gaining Trust and Street Cred21:39 YouTube Course Pulls in Clients22:42 Followers: Quality Beats Quantity31:03 Consistency Beats Instant Success37:05 "Boosting Reach with Instagram"43:09 Picking Platforms: Deep or Quick?46:59 Real-Life Hangouts Matter51:54 Life After School: Finding Your Crowd57:51 Social Circles Open New Doors01:00:30 Building Friendships by Hosting Events01:05:45 From Fitness to Business Mentor01:12:23 "Winning with High-Status Circles"

    Party Like Bilzerian (Without the Billionaire Bankroll)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2025 85:30


    Links: Book a call - https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call Get Magic Mind - https://magicmind.com/innerconfidencejan Ever wondered how an average Joe can pull off a playboy lifestyle, complete with yachts, villas, and a social circle filled with stunning women—all without breaking the bank? In this episode, we're laying out the ultimate blueprint to show you just that. We'll break down the importance of curating the right ratio of men to women, the ideal locations that won't bust your budget, and how to create an environment where everyone has the time of their lives. From organizing group themes and photo shoots to ensuring the right social dynamics, we'll cover all the secrets to making your next getaway a smashing success. Plus, you'll hear some inspiring stories and actionable tips from guys who have pulled this off themselves. 00:00 Optimal Gender Ratio at Parties 05:11 Summer Camp Vibe Networking 11:23 Balancing Social Dynamics on Trips 20:23 Event Planning and Management Costs 24:16 Roman Holiday and Greek Adventure 29:54 Travel Mishaps and Missed Flights 36:49 Cost-Effective Group Travel Strategy 38:38 Documenting Trips for Future Connections 46:18 Cannes Yacht Snub Drama 50:09 Group Dinner Planning Dynamics 56:33 Playboy Photoshoot Pitch Discussion 59:27 "Trip Advice: Embrace Party Lifestyle" 01:04:30 Maximizing Confidence through Environment 01:13:43 Travel Group Dynamics and Ratios 01:19:29 Leadership Attracts: Competence Wins Hearts 01:24:09 "Optimal Social Ratios for Success"

    My First 3-Some Experience

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2025 9:28


    Links: Book a call - https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call Get Magic Mind - https://magicmind.com/innerconfidencejan Intro: Today, we're diving deep into a fascinating personal story —a night that transformed my understanding of social dynamics, dominance, and female psychology. In this episode, I recounts a wild night in Vegas that started at Dre's nightclub and ended with an adventurous twist at the Bellagio. Along the way, I share the critical insights I gained about sexual fantasies, leading with confidence, and creating spontaneous, thrilling moments in a relationship. Plus, I offer actionable tips on how you can replicate his three-some formula and enhance your dating life.

    Why Women Pull Away & How to Keep Her Interested in Casual Dating

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2024 24:05


    Links: Magic Mind: https://magicmind.com/innerconfidence20 Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsl... Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/commu... TImestamps: 03:46 Men lacking confidence struggle with casual dating. 09:04 Optimize texting for better date conversions. 10:04 Top women prefer men within social circles. 15:39 Lockdown increases desire; mentorship strengthens connections. 18:58 Deflecting questions about other romantic partners. 20:09 Notice changes when she desires more commitment. 22:44 Tailored path; build abundance, confidence, level up. And if you're interested in learning more about my coaching services and connecting with me, check out these links: Main Site: https://innerconfidence.com/ Instagram:   / robbie_kramer   TikTok:   / robbie.kramer   YouTube:    / innerconfidence  

    The Power of Female Friendships in Transforming Your Dating Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2024 20:02


    Links: Magic Mind: magicmind.com/innerconfidence40 Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠ TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠ YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence

    Navigating Casual Dating By Minimizing Drama & Hurt Feelings

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2024 21:18


    Links: Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Timestamps: 05:50 Dating coach inadvertently enters cohabiting relationship. 08:30 Boost Instagram presence; engage with followers actively. 12:08 Met a girl; helped her; met wife. 13:30 Realized mismatched intentions with Anya, avoided heartbreak. 16:06 Join our vetted community for social success. 19:22 Be authentic and self-aware in dating. Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/ TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success! Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call

    How to Get Her to Chase You by Reversing the Dynamics

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2024 14:08


    Links: Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/ TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence

    Romantic Relationships with Robots: The Future of AI Companionship with Matt McMullen

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2024 36:10


    Robbie Kramer sits down with special guest Matt McMullen, CEO of Realbotix and Real Doll, to delve into the fascinating world of AI and humanoid robots. We explore the rapid advancements in generative AI and robotics, the societal and ethical implications of synthetic companions, and the potential for technology to reconnect people in a digitally fragmented world. Timestamps: 04:07 Artist ventures into realistic AI robot creation. 08:11 Companionship robots for men struggling with dating. 12:10 He succeeded through persistence despite frequent rejection. 16:25 Join our community for vetted social circles. 17:47 Robots will solve problems; they're becoming ubiquitous. 22:55 RealDoll offers advanced AI, customizable robotic companion. 24:39 Building affordable, functional full-body robots faces challenges. 28:05 Military misuse of technology is the main concern. 33:58 Excited for change; hopeful for skill improvement. 35:32 Apply for exclusive community via innerconfidence.com. Guest Link: Matt's Companies - Real Botix - ⁠⁠https://realbotix.com/⁠⁠ Real Doll -⁠ https://www.realdoll.com/⁠ Links: Robbie's Texting Course:⁠ ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠⁠ Free Download of The Dating Protocol:⁠ ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠⁠ Apply For The IC Community:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠⁠

    Top 6 US Cities for Single Men: Ranking Day Game, Nightlife, and Social Opportunities

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2024 31:45


    Links: Try Magic Mind for free here: https://www.magicmind.com/INNERCONFIDENCETRIAL With my code: INNERCONFIDENCETRIAL Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠ Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠ Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠ Timestamps: 00:00 Rating cities based on dating and living conditions. 03:02 Use social circles and Instagram for dating success. 07:03 San Diego: Day game 3/5, Night game 4/5. 11:18 Join our vetted social circle for networking. 12:47 Scottsdale: active nightlife, good for socializing. 18:52 Vegas vibe: night game, not online dating. 20:14 Vegas: great for short-term, affordable, mixed difficulties. 24:17 Single man enjoys dating lifestyle in NYC. 28:43 Struggled communicating, improved through experience in Kyiv. 29:20 New York City: ambitious men, poor dating skills. Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠  YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!  Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    8 Step Guide to Using Instagram for Better Dating Results

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2024 22:47


    If you've ever felt like dating apps are just schemes to make money, or unsure how to genuinely connect and build meaningful relationships on social media, this episode is for you. We're diving deep into the reasons why Instagram is the ultimate tool for building attraction passively and how you can use it to showcase your life, engage with women naturally, and crush the competition. Stick around as I lay out nine actionable steps to transform your Instagram into a powerful dating platform that outperforms any dating app out there. From showcasing your hobbies to understanding the different types of posts, we'll cover it all. Whether you're already on Instagram or just starting, this episode will give you the tools you need to become the most confident and attractive version of yourself. Tune in, take notes, and let's level up your social media game! 00:00 Instagram passively markets you to potential dates. 06:11 Capture stylish outfits on DSLR for Instagram reels. 06:57 Networking via photos boosts engagement and connections. 11:01 Building social circle is key to dating success. 16:11 Viral golf drills videos: wife learning golf. 18:49 Increase Instagram engagement by being consistently active. 20:49 Post content; demonstrate value; Instagram engagement grows. Links: Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠ Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠ Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠

    Top 7 Cities for Single Remote Workers to Boost Their Dating Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2024 28:50


    Have you ever wondered where you should live to optimize both your work and dating life? Look no further, as Robbie breaks down the top seven cities around the world that offer the best dating opportunities for single guys who work remotely. From evaluating local competition and the beauty of each city to livability and day gaming opportunities, Robbie offers a comprehensive guide to the world's most promising dating markets. He also sheds light on the importance of building a social circle and shares invaluable insights from his personal experiences and extensive travels. Whether you're looking for a new city to explore or just some advice on leveling up your dating game, this episode is packed with actionable strategies and real-world data. Timestamps: 00:00 Too many choices complicate decisions, causing dissatisfaction. 03:35 Struggling to connect? Networking can build momentum. 08:53 Choosing right partner crucial; had fun first. 11:19 Affordable living, poor nightlife, decent daytime opportunities. 16:40 Building social circle crucial over physical escalation moves. 17:27 Join international playboy community for top women. 23:09 Download my Ford venue dating protocol PDF. 26:47 Petersburg ideal for singles; other niche markets. 28:04 Leave a five-star review, join exclusive community. Links: Robbie's Texting Course:⁠ ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠⁠ Free Download of The Dating Protocol:⁠ ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠⁠ Apply For The IC Community:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠⁠

    Debunking Online Dating Myths w/ Alex from Playing With Fire

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2024 51:10


    Alex's Course: ⁠https://members.playingfire.com/a/2147515450/c2K5zAc5⁠ Get Bonus Fire Text Credits: Email playingwithfirechannel@gmail.com⁠ after purchasing the course, also (robbie@innerconfidence.com) Timestamps: 03:18 Started dating focus, launched Facebook group, unexpected journey. 06:40 Nuanced view on open relationships and jealousy. 12:07 Long wait may lead to losing interest. 15:21 Traditional approaches don't work on high-tier women. 16:01 Join our community for international playboys, networking. 21:16 Set up close date, don't waste time. 25:05 Professional photographers should capture natural-looking photos. 27:42 Online dating challenges, strategies and common mistakes. 31:38 Using GBT, OpenAI, no political correctness, self-trained. 32:37 Rizz app and chat GBT are horrible. 38:45 Met through partner, discovered lazy work habits. Became friends. 39:26 Embraced change, defied stereotypes through transformation. 43:33 Online dating is essential for expanding options. 46:37 Work required starting lower, mostly doable. Exceptions: religious countries, remote areas. 50:23 Encouraging review, join exclusive accountability community slots. Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠⁠  YouTube:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!  Book a call with Robbie:⁠ ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠⁠

    Navigating Social Anxiety: Drugs, Sobriety, and Confidence

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2024 45:42


    Guest Link: Simmy's Instagram - ⁠https://www.instagram.com/simona_was_here/ New Brew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/ Links: Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠ Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠ Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠ Intro: In episode 275, we dive deep into the world of substances and their profound impact on confidence, social interactions, and self-perception. From the highs of cocaine to the healing journeys of ayahuasca, we explore how different drugs have shaped our social behaviors and self-acceptance. Simmy shares personal stories of battling insecurity, dealing with anxiety, and overcoming self-destructive habits through various treatments and rituals. Together, we also tackle the challenges and revelations that come with sobriety, the quest for healthier alternatives like the new “brew” containing kava and kratom, and the complexities of dating without relying on alcohol as a social lubricant. Join us as we unpack these unique experiences and reflect on the integral role substances have played in our lives. Plus, we'll introduce some tools and insights that have helped us shift toward a more balanced and confident state of being. Timestamps: 00:00 Alcohol, drugs, and dating in single scene. 05:29 Alcohol and drugs as social lubricants. 07:39 Experienced drinker gained tolerance after past mistakes. 10:12 Ketamine provides alcohol alternative in nasal spray. 14:57 How to be interesting and successful with women. 15:50 Join vetted social circle for dating success. 19:33 College life in party scene with substance experimentation. 23:05 Gradually adapted to and enjoyed hallucinogens with friends. 26:50 Husband founded effective alcohol alternative drink company. 30:06 Stopped drinking due to regrets, may drink again. 33:51 Overcoming self-hate, seeking true happiness journey. 36:51 Continuous, severe anxiety despite various treatments. 40:55 Study: Positive words impact water crystals. Haters beware. 43:50 LA facilities offer accessible and safe experiences. 44:55 Encourage review, invite to join exclusive community. Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠  YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!  Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    Ukrainian Dating Norms vs. American Hookup Culture

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2024 64:47


    Guest Link: Olha's Instagram - ⁠https://www.instagram.com/o.lyalya/⁠ Links: Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠ Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠ Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠ Intro: We sit down with Ukrainian model and actress Olha to delve into the complexities of modern dating and relationships across different cultures. Olha shares her unique insights on how traditional values and contemporary social dynamics shape love and courtship in regions from Ukraine to the United States. From discussing the cultural norm of receiving flowers in Ukraine—which starkly contrasts the American perspective—to the distinct grooming and fashion preferences influenced by lifestyle and infrastructure, Olya offers a revealing look at global dating traditions. She reflects on her experience with social circles and social media in meeting partners, as well as the often misunderstood perception of femininity in both Eastern and Western cultures. Join us as we explore Olha's journey of learning English, her evolving approach to seeking validation, and the sometimes daunting task of navigating approaches and high-status dating. Robbie and Olha dive deep into the impact of feminism, the challenges of online dating, and the striking differences in dating dynamics from Los Angeles to Kyiv. Timestamps: 05:18 Learned English early, practiced through travel. 15:51 Improve your texting for successful dating. 17:05 Attract women by joining a cool circle. 23:04 LA lifestyle: less effort, car-essential, appearance important. 31:52 Instagram offers a safe and easy promise. 33:10 Women often use "I have a boyfriend". 42:35 Dating success relies on social circle status. 47:33 Overcame insecurities, took risks, gained confidence. 51:31 Feeling objectified, used, and uncomfortable in public. 55:46 Regret not dating in London due to options. 59:27 Mid-twenties entrepreneur travels, then settles down. 01:04:21 Level up, conquer desires, achieve goals. innerconfidence.com Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠  YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!  Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    Why It's So Hard To Find A Wingman

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2024 41:24


    Links: Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠ Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠ Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠ Timestamps: 03:39 Finding a wingman makes dating easier. 09:29 Join meaningful groups and use social media. 11:28 Social media can offer connections and conversation. 15:58 Women talk, bond over different types of guys. 17:41 Guide for men to be interesting and successful. 19:59 Calling dibs ruins chances with romantic interest. 25:26 Introduce wing on the opening line when approaching. 29:20 "Deep into dating skills, check out protocol." 32:42 Best way to find a wingman summarized. 35:55 Group provides feedback and support for improvement. 38:14 Having a wingman is a game changer. 40:49 Exclusive community openings for men, apply now. Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠  YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!  Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    Why Dating Sucks For Men In The West

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2024 53:44


    Links: Robbie's Course: https://www.innerconfidence.com/7-week-action-plan Guest Link: Mariia's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mariiakramer_/ Intro: Welcome to the Inner Confidence Podcast! In today's episode, "Dating Shifts," your host Robbie Kramer is joined by Mariia Kramer to dive deep into the evolving dynamics of modern dating. Together, they discuss the unique challenges and strategies men face in today's dating world, from online dating to social events, and non-social environments. Join us as we explore the story of John, a community member who transformed his dating life using our proven techniques, and learn about the importance of confidence, self-improvement, and social circles in attracting the right partner. We'll touch on the societal changes that have influenced dating, such as women's growing self-sufficiency and the erosion of traditional gender roles, as well as the impact of online dating and social media on relationship dynamics. Robbie shares a comprehensive seven-week action plan to help you build confidence and navigate the dating landscape effectively. Plus, we discuss the stigma around men seeking help with dating, and why it's essential to leverage the right education and community support. Timestamps: 03:48 Modern women seek companionship, leaving men confused. 09:42 Men and abs: Women don't really care. 12:42 Seek balance between strength and emotional expression. 15:46 Challenges for men seeking dating help. 17:17 Resisting coaching due to role models influence. 23:03 Gender-based dating access varies with age. 25:22 Women don't want to date mama's boys. 29:21 Build confidence through competence and training. 32:23 Dating process similar to sales and marketing. 35:03 Mastering social, texting, and dating strategy skills. 37:18 Choose partner wisely, quality over desperation. 42:10 Techniques for flirting and successful dating strategies. 43:04 Technology tracks approaches, interactions, and outcomes discreetly. 48:35 Group meets for support, dating advice, network. 50:39 John pursued dating confidently, building social circle. 52:57 Episode enjoyed, leave a five star review. Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠  YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!  Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    Social Circles vs. Dating Apps: Which is More Effective?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2024 29:24


    Links: Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠ Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠ Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠ Intro: Today's episode is all about navigating the world of dating, and we're diving deep into the pros and cons of online dating versus building a strong social circle. I'm joined by some amazing guests, including Jon, Guest B, Guest J, and Guest O, who will share their unique perspectives and strategies that have worked for them. We'll hear from Jon, who advises steering clear of dating apps in favor of day game, night game, and enhancing your social circle to truly add value to yourself as a man. We'll also discuss the importance of shifting your mindset and the confidence you can gain from real-world interactions. Our conversation will cover how to create a dynamic where high-quality women are vying to impress you rather than the other way around. Timestamps: 00:00 Improve online dating with day game strategies. 05:20 Social circle parties help with social status. 08:27 Improve texting skills with psychology-based course. 10:02 Build a network of cool dudes worldwide. 13:21 Improved confidence in day game approach strategy. 17:10 Girls on dating app seek dominant, masculine men. 20:43 Traveling disrupts building social circles, need flexibility. 24:12 Visual learners should check out YouTube channel. 27:14 Letting go led to success with girls. Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠  YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!  Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    Work On Your Game: Dre Baldwin on Using The Pro Athlete Mindset In Business and Life

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2024 64:40


    Links: Dre's Book - https://www.thirddaybook.com/the-new-book-for-people-who-want-to-be-more-consistent-disciplined-but-can-t-get-started Dre's Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/drebaldwin/ Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠ Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠ Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠ Timestamps: 00:00 Podcast: Dre Baldwin's path to professional basketball. 05:43 YouTube audience inspired me to teach basketball. 11:04 Transitioned from sports to becoming a dating influencer. 15:56 Guide to being an interesting guy on dates. 23:16 Having a sports-playing dad can affect success. 30:05 Inspiring story of overcoming odds and helping others. 35:35 Sports channel arranges brand deals for YouTubers. 41:12 Expanding team to include an American executive assistant. 44:44 High performers need less oversight in coaching. 51:49 Michael Jordan's focused dedication to basketball. 56:23 Tiger Woods' development stunted by sheltered childhood. 59:33 Marriage transition from playboy lifestyle to golf influencer. 01:03:53 Encourage to leave a five star review. Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠  YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!  Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    From Ghosting to His Dream Relationship w/ Jared Laurence + Anna of Modern Success

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2024 70:28


    Links: Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠ Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠ Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠ Guest Link: Jared's Gift Intro: Join us as Jared and Anna recount their unique love story, navigating a monogamous yet quasi-open relationship while hunting for other partners together. From their serendipitous social media connection, bonding over video games like Fortnite, to their first date involving sushi and puppies, their journey is anything but ordinary. Jared opens up about turning things around after initially being ghosted by Anna, and shares insightful tips on connecting through social media while avoiding common pitfalls. The couple also discusses how their relationship evolved from a platonic "situationship" to a meaningful bond, highlighting the importance of open communication and shared interests. In addition to relationship insights, Jared discusses his entrepreneurial journey, balancing his social life and business, and the critical role of mentorship. Tune in for valuable lessons on delegating, building a team, and achieving both financial success and personal fulfillment. Timestamps: 00:00 Navigating relationships, love, and monogamy with adventures. 08:05 Seek balance in social life post-COVID. 14:40 Love to interject, well-versed in dating and socializing. 17:12 Hot girls get invited to high status events. 24:21 After divorce, life changed, then changed again. 30:05 Dated girl, hooked up with friends, drama. 35:19 Reaching 10k a month is a turning point. 40:35 Outsource vs. in-house marketing: my experience. 44:42 Spread the word about the podcast. Tag Obby. 49:11 Alien learns social skills to understand concepts. 56:52 Program aims to tailor strategy to individuals. 58:37 Recruitment, team-building, and culture in sales. 01:07:32 Free coaching and resources for dating success. 01:09:38 Encouragement for positive reviews and community invitation. Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠  YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!  Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    From Modest Mormon to Festival Babe: What Beautiful Liberated Women Really Want

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2024 94:19


    Links: Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠ Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠ Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠ Intro: Today, our host Robbie Kramer sits down with Baillee, whose life journey offers a profound look into personal evolution, the complexity of relationships, and societal perceptions. Raised in a conservative Mormon community, Baillee's early departure from the church set a backdrop to her unique experiences, shaping her views on everything from dating to self-worth. In this episode, Bailee candidly discusses her disapproval of visible tattoos, her navigation through the choppy waters of love—including a significant relationship that intensified unexpectedly due to unforeseen circumstances—and her adventures in the L.A. party scene. She also shares insights into her struggles with societal norms and personal relationships, which led her from feeling undervalued to embracing a life of empowerment and self-discovery. Throughout their conversation, Robbie and Bailee delve into themes of social status, dating stereotypes, and the nuances of online dating platforms like Hinge, Bumble, and Tinder. They also touch on the psychological impacts of behaviors like 'love bombing' and how these dynamics play out in modern dating. Join us as Bailee opens up about her transformation from a young girl in a restrictive community to a confident woman charting her own course, often challenging the conventions she grew up with. It's an episode packed with honest reflections and invaluable lessons on confidence, resilience, and the journey to finding one's voice. Timestamps: 00:00 Navigating upbringing, desires, and relationships on podcast. 09:08 Unaware of dad's alcoholism, shaping dating habits. 15:45 Free dating guide helps achieve dating success. 16:20 Traditional dating methods don't work for top-tier women. 23:13 Dad waters plants, brother sees girls, fashion critique. 32:20 Staggered into mutual party, ruined potential relationship. 35:55 Mom married into Mormon church, found support. 42:10 Apply to inner confidence community for social growth. 48:09 Navigating different cultures, music, and social circles. 51:54 Social dynamics at the table and dating. 58:50 Dating scene challenges leading to toxic behaviors. 01:00:37 Experience allows quick judgment in Malcolm Gladwell's Blink. 01:09:33 Burning Man: Unique desert celebration with debauchery. 01:10:47 "Pretty girls attract rich, awkward guys." 01:19:07 Respect space, don't play games to win. 01:20:59 Group chat dynamics, slow burn relationships, choices. 01:28:23 Dating apps provide freedom; social circles create obligations. 01:33:27 Encouraging listeners to leave a five-star review. Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠  YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!  Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    The Evolution of Pickup to Purposeful Connections

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2024 104:21


    Links: Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠ Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠ Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠ Intro: Today's episode takes us on a deep dive into the transformation of the dating and pickup industry into what's now known as the red pill movement and beyond. We'll explore the nuances of male and female aging and discuss why it may be easier for older men to date younger women. Robbie opens up about his initial skepticism toward self-help dating advice and how "The Game" by Neil Strauss sparked a pivotal change after a breakup. We'll hear riveting tales of Robbie's days partying it up in Eastern Europe, hosting soirees that painted the town red, and the introspective journey that led him from casual flings to finding fulfillment in coaching men on relationships and self-acceptance. Touching on the delicate topic of men's belief in their ability to improve dating success, we will dissect perceptions, realities, and the pivotal "player zone." We share our own transformation from the world of casual relationships to searching for meaningful connections, echoing the collective journey many of us take. Timestamps: 00:00 Dating advice, pickup industry, and self-confidence discussion. 08:33 Engaging in personal growth through landmark education. 15:58 Learning to converse with women transformed me. 18:16 Boosting masculinity through pickup strategies, but self-improvement. 24:36 Lifestyle of partying and networking with models. 30:55 Novelty of new experiences wore off, taxing. 36:05 Experienced college flings, followed by self-discovery and dating. 41:26 Internet pickup culture evolves into red pill movement. 47:09 Lance Mason founded body language for dating. 50:27 Confident body language reflects self-esteem, mirroring others. 56:05 Involvement in esoteric teachings, skepticism, and disillusionment. 01:03:12 Coaching, dating, and finding friends in Ukraine. 01:07:45 Repeating toxic patterns in relationships, seeking counseling. 01:12:17 Partying in Europe, with models and friends. 01:15:51 Group of friends met at music festival. 01:20:35 Online dating is tough, unless wealthy or seeking. 01:25:17 2016 mystery involving derelict and chalkboard lesson. 01:35:05 Using quotes for inspiration, friends, and motivation. 01:40:44 Struggling with interviews, unclear about achievements. 01:43:34 Encouraging review and invitation to exclusive community. Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠  YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!  Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    Bored with your partner? Discover if true joy lies in monogamy or beyond (Ep 267)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2024 39:13


    Links: Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠ Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠ Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠ Intro: Today, we'll be diving deep into a topic that touches many relationships - dealing with boredom. We all know that relationships can lose their initial spark as the lustre of new love fades. But what lies beyond the excitement? Can we find a richer, more nuanced form of connection? In this episode about dealing with relationship boredom, we'll analyze the intricacies of long-term commitment and how the initial rush of passion can transform into a comforting sense of home and security. We'll hear from two of our clients as they navigate their own challenges, from anxiety over labeling a relationship to knowing when it's time to seek variety or move on to new horizons. And I'll share some of my personal journey from prioritizing sexual conquests to recognizing the value in deeper, more intellectual connections with partners. We'll also explore how societal norms and mental health intertwine with our concepts of monogamy and commitment. So, whether you find yourself pressured to define a relationship, wondering how to maintain attraction over time, or simply searching for ways to reinvigorate your partnership, this episode is tailored for you. Timestamps: 00:00 Navigating casual dating, monogamy, and relationships with women. 05:17 Unwilling to address uncertain relationship and feelings. 07:35 "I doubt I'll care much about family." 12:37 Struggle with boredom, prefer monogamy for happiness. 15:16 Wealth loses appeal; pursue meaningful experiences instead. 19:00 Mutual commitment essential; communication and understanding vital. 21:50 Humans tend towards polygamy with periods of monogamy. 23:39 Overcoming lust and desire leads to freedom. 29:26 Struggle with intimacy, find balance in rejection. 32:55 Seek power through emotions, not just accomplishments. 34:05 Transition from business success to personal fulfillment. 36:52 Honor intelligent part, accept lack of knowledge. Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠  YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!  Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    Date Game Tactics: Navigating the Invite to Meet Her Friends on Date One or Two (Ep 266)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2024 11:27


    Links: Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠ Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠ Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠ Timestamps: 00:00 She invited me, I made new friends. 03:52 Reversing dating protocol leads to successful outcome. 09:41 Puppy dog failure led to embarrassing outcome. 10:52 Few slots open in exclusive men's community. Apply now. Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠  YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!  Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    Ditching the Script: How Traditional Seduction Fails Men w/ Ryan Black (Ep 265)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2024 79:15


    Links: Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠ Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠ Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠ Guest Link: Ryan's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/theryan.black/ Throughout this episode, we'll highlight the transformational potential of social freedom exercises and mindset shifts that go beyond traditional pickup strategies. We'll encourage you to find power in vulnerability and build a social circle that reflects your true values. Together, we examine the fascinating dynamics between high-status men, "bad boy" images, and the pursuit of authentic connections. So, whether you're well-versed in the dating scene or simply seeking to enhance your social prowess, this episode promises a wealth of wisdom to help you foster genuine connections and move towards a life of inner confidence. Timestamps: 09:16 Differentiating between wants and needs, especially in dating. 11:13 Traditional approach to social freedom and seduction. 16:06 Dependence on others for self-worth is detrimental. 21:11 Last minute parachute, thrilling but not transformative. 28:59 Early negative experiences shaped my relationship views. 36:44 Realization of copying others' experiences, social status. 41:01 Signal fun, not seriousness, in dating life. 43:08 Success in dating depends on personality type. 49:37 Achieve success with $10K a month. 54:41 Achieve high status, attract women, overcome fear. 01:00:39 Life transformed through personal development program investment. 01:07:25 Mystery method reinforces bad social conditioning. 01:13:10 Be present, let subconscious guide interactions. 01:15:11 Javier Bardem's character makes bold, clear advance. Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠  YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!  Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    Online Flirting Secrets To Get More Dates w/ Connell Barrett (Ep 264)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 29, 2024 54:23


    Links: Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠ Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠ Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠ Guest Link: Connell's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation/ Today, we dove into the power of humor on first dates, the essential role of quality photos in online dating, and the subtle balance of sexuality and wit in crafting unforgettable profile prompts. We unpacked tips on personalizing that first message to stand out and the clever use of Instagram to connect and build a genuine social circle. Timestamps: 00:00 Building social circle key to dating success. 05:59 Debate over online dating scripts and effectiveness. 09:34 Personalize messages for better online dating success. 10:09 Personalized content can be simple yet effective. 16:18 Rare to be overly gamey, avoid sex talk. 18:29 Playful spirit animal question leads to intimacy. 20:47 Advising clients on innocent, fun conversation topics. 25:19 2024 focus: Social media growth, join Instagram. 28:39 Ideal online dating photos: attractive portraits, candid lifestyle. 29:46 Scientific approach to online dating profile photos. 34:02 Unique photo on dating profile creates curiosity. 39:07 It's okay to have polarizing marketing prompts. 41:10 "Instagram key for dating, showcasing high value." 42:47 Online dating tips for dating Gen Z. 47:21 Showing off on Instagram is better than in-person. 49:55 Online dating is not the best strategy. 52:42 Take courageous romantic risks to find love. Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠  YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠

    Lionell Coleman on the Real Cost of Modern Relationships (Ep 263)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2024 111:16


    Links: Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠ Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠ Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠ Guest Link: Lionell's Instagram - ⁠https://www.instagram.com/mr_coleman777/⁠  Intro: In today's episode with Lionell Coleman, we unpacked the complexities of modern dating—embracing conflict, redefining partner expectations, and combating the entitlement culture. We recognized the toll of social media's unrealistic standards and explored the balance between emotional investment and personal growth. Lionell shared insightful personal stories, and we discussed the profound impact of maintaining a disciplined routine on overall success. Remember, true confidence comes from within, and it's about progress, not perfection. Timestamps: 00:00 Build social circle, find wingman, meet women. 05:13 Compliments on physique, doubts on achieving it. 10:48 Enjoy your meal and drink, stay hydrated. 18:48 Living within means in Kiev, saving money. 23:43 Flight delayed, accused of leaving them stranded. 30:37 Bringing diverse guests together for meaningful discussions. 31:38 Show delves into dating skills, offers protocol. 41:07 Adopting morning routine for motivation and fitness. 44:23 Modern relationships are like contractual bliss. 51:58 Studied male-female dynamics and attraction for 15 years. 56:08 Partnerships struggle when not ready for commitment. 58:02 Rare fortunate situation, conflicting lives and expectations. 01:07:49 Using agencies for online dating is lucrative. 01:10:42 Noticing infidelity among acquainted couples in public. 01:17:04 Expecting royal treatment in the modern world. 01:22:45 Great editor and consideration fix relationships; be considerate. 01:27:53 Limited time for love, focus on son. 01:31:32 Former party promoter reflects on changing priorities. 01:37:43 Podcast topics, guests, compatibility, and motivational speaking. 01:40:06 Betrayal and vulnerability can sever relationships. 01:47:29 Team sports help with social skills development. Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠  YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!  Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    Avoid This Wealth Trap: Attract Genuine Love, Not Gold Diggers w/ St. Robert Daygame (Ep 262)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2024 66:58


    Links: Robbie's Texting Course: https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting Free Download of The Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter Apply For The IC Community: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Guest Link: St. Robert's Blog: https://www.strobert.blog/ Intro: We're joined by the stalwart sage of the street, St. Robert Daygame, to navigate the intricate world of dating and relationships, especially for the affluent man. Together, we'll dissect the perils of prevalent party circuits from Miami to Dubai — the lux realms where people indulge in lifestyle one-upmanship and transactional romances. We'll unwrap the nuances of deciding when, or even if, to spend money on women, and the pitfalls of flaunting wealth in the quest to attract a partner. Do all women in these glitzy settings merely chase status and money? We're scrutinizing the so-called "gold digger" dilemma and discussing why a man's deepest values and lifestyle choices might just be the magnet for a match that resonates beyond the superficial. From navigating sugar baby platforms to rethinking daygame strategies, we're diving deep into what it truly takes to connect with high-value women, especially when you're done siphoning through the facade of high net worth dating games. Timestamps: 07:28 Superficial people seek spiritual experiences for validation. 14:01 City neighborhoods reflect uniformity in people's lifestyle. 17:08 Using status and wealth to attract women. 23:33 Teaching men to navigate dating and relationships. 28:31 Testing generosity and sincerity in relationships. 33:47 Men prefer sugar baby setup for casual dating. 43:38 Transition from night game to day game. 44:42 Avoided day game due to social circle. 53:46 Successful professionals seek meaningful, non-party relationships. 58:58 General idea shared about an interesting story. 01:04:35 Instagram and quiz link in description, learn approaches. 01:06:11 Encourage regular listeners to leave a review. Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠  YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!  Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    Elevating Men's Style: Embracing Accessories and Personal Color Palettes w/ Axel Maaw (Ep 261)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2024 66:02


    Links: Style Transformation - https://www.instagram.com/image.transformation/ Show Notes: Joining me today is renowned style guru, Axel Maaw. In this episode, we'll dive deep into the transformative world of men's fashion, discussing how the right accessories can revolutionize your look, and why stepping out of your comfort zone with style can be akin to breaking the ice in new social interactions. Axel will share insights on how fashion is not just about following trends – like the current wave of baggy clothing – but finding what flatters your body and reflects your values. We'll debate the merits of various clothing sizes and fits, and how having a fit body plays a pivotal role in both your style and dating life. Whether you're a newbie dressing in basic colors or someone ready to experiment with a wider palette, we cover it all – even touching on the concept of 'armochromia' to help determine the colors that suit you best. If you've ever been intrigued by the impact of a well-chosen accessory or how fashion and self-improvement intertwine, this is the episode for you. Timestamps: 00:00 Enhancing fashion for dating success with Axel. 09:48 Understanding fashion for appropriate event dressing is essential. 12:38 Newbies should stick to black, gray, white. 20:00 Brainstorming for a summer color palette idea. 24:57 Begin with affordable, fashionable options to learn. 26:41 Emphasize quality and understand your personal style. 31:46 Contrasting personal style with luxurious setting through clothes. 39:12 Street style with Mickey Mouse shirt, suspenders. 43:31 Confident talk on attracting attention from girls. 52:31 Love clothes, but sometimes change is good. 56:26 Fit body important in every aspect. 01:01:41 Healthy, fit men are preferred genetic choices. 01:05:15 Encourage feedback and offer exclusive community access. Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠  YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!  Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

    The Art of Men's Hair: Expert Techniques with Emmy Award-Winning Chris Fulton (Ep 260)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2024 52:45


    Links: Chris Fulton's IG - https://www.instagram.com/cfulton.hair/ Introduction: We're uncovering the deep-seated relationship between hair and self-confidence, masculinity, and how it all ties into our personal and professional lives. Join us as we reminisce about our early hair salon experiences with family, and follow Chris's remarkable journey from a Kansas salon to the heights of New York's fashion industry. We'll discuss the resilience of hair in the face of weather and location with robust styling product tips, and confront the sensitive topics of hair loss and the impact on self-image and authenticity - an issue many men face but often deny. Hear personal stories from undergoing a hair transplant to embracing baldness, and learn why choosing the right hairstylist is about more than just the price. From wave to faux hawk, mullets to Rogaine, we're exploring the transformative power of a fresh cut and how owning your hairstyle can redefine your confidence. With Chris's insider knowledge of TV and movie casting, get a behind-the-scenes look at how hair plays a crucial role. Plus, we'll talk about the broader impacts of grooming, the rise of "looks maxing," and why taking risks in style can lead to discovering your true self. Stay tuned as we bring humor, wisdom, and perhaps a touch of therapy to the conversation about men's hair – a true intersection of style, confidence, and personal growth. So, fix your headphones just as you would your hair, and let's get ready for a transformative session on the Inner Confidence Podcast. Show Notes: 00:00 Debating hair choices, dating impact, and guest. 03:45 Therapist for celebrities navigating relationship and image. 08:46 Moved to New York for fashion career. 09:47 Passion and persistence lead to success. 15:40 Honesty and accepting elevate your vibe. 17:47 Accepting oneself draws others in effortlessly. 19:29 Navigating hair loss and self-acceptance, a personal journey. 23:56 Importance of finding the right hairstylist. 28:06 Modern version of faux hawk for men. 31:04 Embracing authenticity and taking personal risks. 33:19 They all agree, pick these four people. 36:10 Emmy win, period show, famous comb-over, daily shaving. 41:29 External pressures hinder authentic human connection. Therapy helped. 44:17 Embracing gray hair, but open to coloring. 48:00 Your energy affects how others perceive you. 51:58 Encourage feedback, join exclusive accountability community. Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠  YouTube:⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!  Book a call with Robbie: https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call

    New City Mastery w/ Brian Marckesano: Elevate Your Social Game (Ep 259)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2024 93:30


    Links: Brian's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/brianmarckesano/ New City Mastery IG - https://www.instagram.com/newcitymastery New City Mastery Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCABp_Ox65e9TTdQXmYt_HaA/videos Show Notes: Welcome to another episode of the Inner Confidence Podcast where your journey to mastering self-assurance is our commitment. I'm your host, Robbie Kramer, and today, you're in for a real treat. I've got with me Brian Marckesano, a mastermind in creating an attractive lifestyle and building powerful connections in new cities. In this episode, we're diving deep into the secrets of establishing yourself in a fresh environment. We'll explore the essentials of looks maxing and navigating social interactions to allure opportunities and romantic interests. It's not just about looks; it's about presenting yourself in a way that speaks volumes about your value. Brian will break down why it's crucial to prioritize social skills and friendships over pure pursuit of dating. We'll discuss the perils of relying on dating apps and consider more authentic strategies that can help even those who don't fit the stereotypical mold of attractiveness to thrive socially and romantically. Expect personal stories, like my own adventure with leveraging Airbnb for status, and Brian's successful photo booth concept that skyrocketed his networking prowess. We're also getting real about the "James Bond effect," fashion, fitness, and the art of psychological attraction, including some honest talk about our personal grooming choices and the impact they've had on our confidence and attractiveness. Brian also introduces his unique take on Instagram as a modern-day CRM, revealing how we can best leverage group chats and maintain meaningful relationships on the platform. Oh, and if you've ever felt the frustration of feeling lost in a new city's social scene, Brian's story of his move to Charlotte will surely inspire you. Time Stamps: 00:00 Inner Confidence podcast, focused on dating success. 09:31 Debate between hunting and farming in dating. 15:41 Focusing on high value men brings change. 18:30 Creating social setups for normal guys. 23:41 Status, women, and routines shape dating decisions. 28:16 Create value, get opportunities, texts for dates. 37:10 Inferiority complex leads to excessive compliments. 38:36 Connect based on interests, not status or expertise. 44:38 Unlocking reciprocity, value, and successful social connections. 50:08 Instagram is crucial for staying in contact. 01:00:01 Enhance group photos to expand audience reach. 01:03:46 Entrepreneurship journey: learning, networking, value arbitrage. 01:08:51 Delay gratification, focus on inbound leads vs. dating. 01:15:56 Fashion accessories spark conversations, create unique connections. 01:17:28 Grooming can improve attractiveness and body fat. 01:26:28 Working out gives delusions of grandeur, confidence. 01:29:53 Unlocking the secrets to success and connection. Connect w/ Robbie:  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠  TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!  Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://start.innerconfidence.com⁠

    Date Rescue: Expert Solutions for Turning Maybes into Definite Dates (Ep 258)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2023 36:07


    Links: Get Robbie's help with your specific situation now: (please include backstory and screenshots) https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/ Download the Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletterhttps://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter Intro: From crafting personalized messages that get her attention, to the subtle dance of texting—where less is more—this episode has got you covered. Our candid conversation revealed strategies on how to create natural invitations back to your place and the perfect timing for ending dates on a high note. Plus, we navigated the complex world of dating app banter, understanding the balance of power dynamics before you even meet. Remember, it's not just about being available; it's about being desired. Show Notes: Introduction (01:44): Host introduces the guest discussing a recent successful match on Hinge that dried out. Opening Message that got her attention (02:46): Discusses the importance of crafting a compelling first message on dating apps. Effective Methods to get replies from chicks (04:08): Tips and tricks for optimizing your profile and engaging potential matches. Reviewing Messages (06:40): Host and guest go through more messages, analyzing what works and what doesn't. Unconscious Tests (10:09): Recognizing and navigating through unconscious tests set by women. Best Times to set up Dates (17:37): Exploring the optimal times to schedule dates and the psychology behind it. Prioritizing Social Commitments (18:15): Emphasizes the importance of balancing social commitments and dating life. Multiple Venue Dating Protocol (19:47): Introducing the concept of a multiple venue dating protocol for successful and dynamic dates. Ending the Date (23:38): The significance of ending the date on your terms and leaving a lasting impression. Debating Different Perspectives (28:59): The guest and host engage in a lively debate! To listen to more episodes of the Inner Confidence Podcast, visit the links below:  Website: ⁠https://innerconfidence.com/podcast/⁠  And if you're interested in learning more about my coaching services and connecting with me, check out these links:  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠  TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success! Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://start.innerconfidence.com⁠

    From Young Father to AI Talent Agent: How Matthew Chavira Mastered Life's Balancing Act (Ep 257)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2023 75:18


    Links: Robbie's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ Matthew's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/prophetsofai/ Apply for the IC Community - https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Show Notes: 07:11 Balancing youth and parenting, relocating for focus. 13:46 Father questions son's readiness, work ethic remembered. 16:28 Enjoyed job, connecting with diverse people, building trust. 24:08 In 2024, focus on Instagram, grow together. 31:38 Chance encounter on airplane changed entire life. 34:51 Chief science officer joins famous robotics company. 39:55 Intriguing interest in humanoid robots across industries. 46:39 Attends influential events, starts own AI company. 51:48 Staying updated on AI and managing company. 55:24 Sophia and AI will change daily life. 01:01:54 Choose partner carefully for successful work-life balance. 01:05:40 Firm father teaches through calm conversations. 01:14:32 Encourage to leave five-star review, join community. 01:14:54 Enhance skills and achieve life's desires. Apply! To listen to more episodes of the Inner Confidence Podcast, visit the links below:  Website: ⁠https://innerconfidence.com/podcast/⁠  And if you're interested in learning more about my coaching services and connecting with me, check out these links:  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠  TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!  Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://start.innerconfidence.com⁠

    Date The Elite: Using Instagram to Connect with the Top 1%

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2023 57:12


    Links: Learn more about the IC Community - https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Follow Gabrielle Britez - https://www.instagram.com/gabrielle_britez/ Show Notes: 00:00 Instagram flirting with model; is it successful? 04:54 Dating experiences, lessons, and finding true love. 09:04 C-section incisions smaller due to advancements. 09:39 Complications during childbirth led to extended recovery. 12:42 Guys age differently, women's fertility declines sooner. 18:20 "Not against dating apps, but believe in fate." 20:58 Level up your social life and confidence. Apply now! 24:56 Receiving unexpected DM, open to dating offer. 27:41 He invited me, then I brought girlfriend. 31:23 Motivated by Miami boyfriend, did 75 Hard. 32:33 Abstaining from drinking, feeling weird in public. 36:01 Observing someone's minimal social media presence. 41:26 Strategic approach to dating with multiple options. 41:59 Depends on his attention and the situation. 47:32 Dislike for Mykonos due to overcrowding and accessibility. 51:16 Hugh Hefner's transformation and influence explained. 54:52 Look for a reformed, interesting, attractive guy. Show Notes: To listen to more episodes of the Inner Confidence Podcast, visit the links below:  Website: ⁠https://innerconfidence.com/podcast/⁠  And if you're interested in learning more about my coaching services and connecting with me, check out these links:  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠  TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠  Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success! Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://start.innerconfidence.com⁠

    Unicorn Hunting: Unlocking the Secrets to Finding Your Non-Monogamous Dream Girl with Simi

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2023 83:55


    Links: Download your copy of the Dating Protocol by messaing Robbie on Instagram Apply to join the community Try New Brew Show Notes: 00:00 Learn how to find your "unicorn" girlfriend. 06:37 Human beings have animal instincts, monogamy natural. 11:33 Therapist links obsession with dating and sports. 19:03 Men seek women, women seek providers and variety. 23:37 Testosterone affects motivation and energy levels. 31:49 Dating protocol teaching stages for successful relationships. 33:38 Struggling with feminine men, found masculine love. 40:34 Seek partnership based on personal qualities. Ask. 47:25 Healthy monogamous relationship led to fulfilling marriage. 51:36 Life is unpredictable, bond through love. 57:51 Open relationships, dynamics, insecurity, jealousy, variety, ego. 58:50 Solid, secure relationship with history and boundaries. 01:07:42 Teaching scripts for dating; be normal and confident. 01:09:52 Increasing openness to open relationships among women. 01:17:49 Group of friends offers birthday blowjob surprise. 01:23:08 Encourage review, promote exclusive community membership.

    Is Online Dating Broken? Insights with Dan Cates - Poker Ace & Two Exceptionally Intelligent Women (Ep 254)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2023 97:02


    Show Notes: 00:43 - Quick introduction to all our guests on this episode! 07:54 - Robbie Kramer gives his background story of his come up! - Listen here! 10:32 - "You can sniff out when it's learned" - Melanie does not agree that getting good with women can be 'learned' - Find out why! 11:30 - Melanie and Dan made a dating bet - Listen here! 14:34 - "Do you go after women in an equivalent caliber to you, or are you shooting higher?" Dan answers, Melanie disagrees! - Listen here! 17:11 - What is 'sexual market value'? Robbie breaks it down! - Listen here! 20:21 - Learned social behaviors VS Authentic behavior - We discuss! 22:48 - "Pick up = teaching guys who are terrible actors to become actors" - We dive into what "pick up" really is! 24:53 - Should love to happen naturally? - Find out here! 31:49 - Dan believes dating is BROKEN - Find out why! 37:09 - Women VS men - We discuss online dating and differences between sexes! 39:25 - Subjective vs Objective! - things get heated! - Listen here! 46:24 - Men and women don't use online dating for the same reasons! - We discuss! 51:38 - Man are 9 times more to go bang woman then woman men, why? - Find out here! 54:36 - Online dating is INEFFECTIVE - Learn why! 59:44 - What destroyed Tinder? - Find out here! 01:02:36 - Should you date people your same age? - We discuss! 01:05:32 - Robbie gets asked what the most common problems he sees from his clients and why he is qualified to solve it! - Listen here! 01:17:05 - Online dating & Instagram is FAKE! - We dive into the reason why! 01:28:42 - If people are into you, they're into you - Find out what this means! Links: To listen to more episodes of the Inner Confidence Podcast, visit the links below: Website: https://innerconfidence.com/podcast/ iTunes:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/inner-confidence-podcast/id986699444  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2zkWuTnt7whvnR6CO6oNPV And if you're interested in learning more about my coaching services and connecting with me, check out these links: Main Site: https://innerconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success! Book a call with Robbie: https://start.innerconfidence.com/ #flirting #personaldevelopment #selfimprovement #innerconfidencepodcast #podcast #coaching #success #motivation #inspiration #mindset #datingcoach #relationshipgoals #confidencecoach #selfimprovement #successfulmen 

    The 5 Steps To Building A Social Circle In A New City From Scratch (Ep 253)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2023 54:45


    SHOW NOTES: 02:03 - If I drop you in a new city to start a new social-circle, how would you go about this? - Find out here! 06:07 - Tip the bouncers and bartenders! Why? - Find out here! 08:00 - "I would rather hang with a guy who has anxiety than the awkward guy that approaches every girl" - Host explains why! 09:15 - Validate promotors! - Learn here! ** 11:43 - Inner confidence community member Nick sharing his latest success stories! - Listen here! 14:25 - How Nick positioned himself as the "cool guy" in school! - Listen here! 17:39 - "How to I leverage this access as promotor?" - Host shares valuable advice! 22:17 - How to network with other people at the club! - Listen here! 25:30 - Position yourself as a VIP promoter - Learn here! 29:06 - Have a hot girl with you when promoting for status boost! - Find out why! 32:33 - Nick speaks on the unspoken rules you should watch for! - Take notes! 36:53 - Use these women for networking without messing up the relationship? -host gives valuable answer! 41:23 - How can restaurants help you as promoter? - Find out here! 43:23 - Go for girls under your league, good for your game? - Listen here! 47:31 - "I don't give a ** about your girls" - How to handle these tough situations when entering cool places! 50:48 - Will the door guy expect a tip every time? - Listen here! 52:16 - People love when you ask them for advice! - Here is why!

    Recovering From An Awkward First Kiss Attempt & Dodging the Friend Zone (Ep 252)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2023 36:27


    Links: https://www.magicmind.co/energy Use code: ENERGY20 for 20% off Link to podcast to Make Women Laugh Show Notes: 02:35 - CONTEXT! - Listen before watching this next scene! 04:18 - Watch this scene! - We break down why his flirting technique works! 05:23 - The standard rejection women give! - Watch this scene and our breakdown! 06:36 - "Women say a lot of things that are true... but not all the time..." - Listen! 08:39 - Golden response in this scene! - Listen and learn! 09:41 - "I'm here to cheer you up" - Learn why this technique is EFFECTIVE! 11:30 - "Emotional rollercoaster effect" - Watch this scene and learn what it means! 12:53 - Magic mind! get yours: https://magicmind.com/ 15:32 - CONTEXT! - Listen before watching this next scene! 18:04 - Watch the scene! 19:17 - Kissing tips! - We explain the keys for going in for that kiss! 19:54 - "I can't do this" - Is this a rejection? - Find out here! 20:22 - Listen to this scene! - And our breakdown! 23:04 - Woman feel pressured because their biological clock is ticking! - Learn why! 25:01 - Why to go for Slavic woman! 26:57 - The worst you can say to a woman trying to get over her ex is: ... - Listen here! 28:33 - DON'T listen to words! - Insider tip from host! 29:11 - "I'm on a rebound" - Learn from his reaction! 30:46 - Use humor to cut though sh*t tests! - Listen and learn! 32:09 - Handled like a boss! - Watch this kissing scene and listen to our breakdown! 33:56 - Where to learn techniques like in this movie: https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/cc-cb/?hop=robbieic 33:56 - EP 226: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TfQ7qCL872c&t=12s

    The Chase Factor: Why Women Chase Some Men and Ignore Others (Ep 251)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2023 14:19


    Show Notes: 03:09 - Building attraction over text is myth! - Find out why! 03:22 - The three stages of game! Get her to chase you... - Listen here! 06:05 - Just because you had an amazing approach doesn't mean you will hook up with her!! - Learn why! 07:17 - Do you need day game for social circle? - Find out here! 07:56 - Being funny over text doesn't work! - Here is why! 10:03 - STOP watching content and focus! - Listen here! 12:09 - Host gives extra advice on why you need FOCUS - Listen & Learn! Learn More - https://www.innerconfidence.com/community

    Lionell Coleman Unplugged: Real Talk on Surviving A Life Threatening Accident, Influence & Game

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2023 206:25


    Guest Link: Lionell's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mr_coleman777/ Show Notes: 03:05 - Introducing our guest! - Listen here! 04:12 - "Crabs in a bucket" - Guest breaks down the meaning and how he escaped a go nowhere situation! 07:47 - Where you live MATTERS when dating - Find out why! 11:21 - Guest shares his tragic accident story (Didn't walk for a year) - Listen here! 12:53 - The emotional process of dealing with a major back injury! - Learn how he pulled through! 15:30 - "There are still times today where I feel PAIN" - Guest shares his daily struggle from surviving his injury! 16:07 - The medication caused a blood clot! 19:12 - "How did you stay in good shape?" - Learn how our guessed maintained his physique during recovery! 20:29 - The WORST hospital treatment! - Our guest had a horrifying stay at the hospital... Listen here! 23:24 - Our guest almost died! - How did he survive? Listen here! 25:46 - Security, TV shows, reality shows etc. - Our guest is a jack of all trades! 31:10 - "Have you ever had a real job?" - Our guest answers... 33:13 - Sales and dating... How do they relate?? - Find out here! 45:49 - "I didn't care about IG until I moved to LA" - The importance of Instagram! 50:31 - 100K+ followers on IG - Guest shows his Instagram and talks about social media! 01:00:14 - "How did you grow such a following?" - Guest shares his secrets! 01:02:48 - Be around people BETTER than YOU! - We discuss why! 01:06:48 - Single guy dating and hustling? How to get the best of both worlds! - Guest shares his experience! 01:10:29 - Old couple and their secret to stay together... - Guest shares a story you don't want to miss out on! 01:12:48 - Am I the person that my perfect person would want? - Listen to this gem! 01:20:23 - Be something else than just a horn dog! - Listen here! 01:24:37 - How to sustain your success... - Learn here! 01:27:17 - Financial goals? There is NEVER enough! - Our guest explains! 01:43:18 - "An erection for 3 days because of medicine..." - Guest shares a crazy story! 01:45:42 - Dating with celebrity status... Does it make a big difference?? - Guest answers! 01:52:32 - Value of money and spending it on woman! - Learn how our guest goes about it! 02:01:23 - Guest spits some free game! - Don't miss this!! 02:04:13 - "I'm dating a few guys right now" - Find out what it means! 02:08:28 - OnlyFans and AI... - Listen here! 02:10:20 - "To all the women who want a GOOD man" - Guest has a message for the female viewers! 02:15:15 - Feminine VS masculine energy - We discuss! 02:17:42 - "A man wants a LADY and PEACE" - Guest shares an important message! 02:25:34 - OnlyFans, pron and MORALS - We discuss degeneracy amongst today's generation! 02:28:32 - Entrepreneur VS influencer - Learn the difference! 02:38:54 - What is up with AI? - We dissect! 02:51:24 - Thoughts on marriage? - Guest shares his opinion! 03:02:14 - FIND YOURSELF - Guest shares a heartfelt message! 03:11:18 - Anything can happen at any time - You DON'T have control! 03:15:06 - Where to find our guest! To listen to more episodes of the Inner Confidence Podcast, visit the links below: Website: https://innerconfidence.com/podcast/ And if you're interested in learning more about my coaching services and connecting with me, check out these links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success! Book a call with Robbie: https://start.innerconfidence.com

    Boost Daygame Engagement and Conversion by Assumption Stacking w/ St. Robert Daygame (Ep 249)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2023 19:53


    Link to St. Robert's Daygame Course - https://www.daygamecourses.com/interm... Welcome to the Inner Confidence Podcast, where we bring you men's, dating, and lifestyle advice that doesn't suck. In today's episode, host Robbie Kramer delves into the topic of assumption stacking, a technique used in the London Day game model to make engaging conversations with women. Joined by a guest speaker, they discuss the power of assumption stacking and how it can help create meaningful connections even in challenging situations. From cold reads to clever openers like the horse girl question, Robbie and his guest explore various strategies to keep the conversation flowing and build attraction. So, if you're ready to boost your conversational skills and deepen your understanding of the day game approach, tune in to this week's episode of the Inner Confidence Podcast. Let's get started! Show Notes: [00:01:23] Structured London Day Game Model for successful interactions. Assumption stacking replaces questions, increasing engagement. [00:04:36] Entertaining opener: teasing about being horse-obsessed. [00:07:04] Cold reading is effective for sparking interest. Stacking keeps the conversation flowing and energized. [00:09:29] Repeat line until perfect, then improvise. Open, close, practice. [00:14:09] Day game tactics and overcoming approach anxiety. [00:17:05] Discuss, improve, find own spin, focus.

    Breaking Down Day Game: Stats & Real Talk on Age, Race, and Type w/ St. Robert Daygame (Ep 248)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2023 67:07


    Links: St. Robert's Daygame Stuff 3-Somes Podcast Book A Call w/ Robbie In this episode, we dive deep into the world of day game, specifically focusing on what to expect when meeting women during the day. St. Robert is an expert in day game and has valuable insights and advice to share. We explore the four different ways to meet women – social circle, night bars/clubs, online dating, and of course, day game. We discuss the pros and cons of each approach, highlighting why day game can be a game-changer for those looking to build their confidence and meet women in a more authentic way. Looks play a significant role in attracting women, and St. Robert breaks down how being average-looking can be sufficient, while being model-looking can provide an added advantage. However, we also discuss how in more traditional environments, looks may play a lesser role, and social skills become paramount. We address common questions about day game for different types of people, the challenges faced by introverts and extroverts, and the role of age in finding success in dating. We also delve into the importance of having a structured system in day gaming, understanding the power of storytelling and teasing, and knowing what to say to engage women from the very first minute. But it's not just about approaching women – we also touch on the psychology of rejection and the specific challenges faced by black and brown men. We explore the impact of approach anxiety and how to overcome it, as well as the importance of adapting style and grooming to meet local standards. SHOW NOTES: 01:57 - ONLY four ways to meet woman - Find out here! 04:05 - What to expect in this episode! 07:50 - Let's talk about HEIGHT! - We discuss the myths about how women view Tall & Short man! 09:46 - "I'm going to say something very unpopular in the day game world" - Find out what HERE! 11:34 - What women find attractive might SHOCK you! - Find out here! 12:31 - LOOKS don't always play a role! - Guest breaks it down! 14:52 - If you're BALDING: LISTEN! 15:54 - Do you need to be FIT? STOP procrastinating! 18:34 - RACE insecurities with women - We discuss this controversial topic! 18:44 - The most common races that are insecure when it comes to women! - Find out here! 19:32 - NYC is a different BEAST - Find out why! 21:39 - A tip for black people trying day game! - Guest shares a great tip! 22:18 - "from all the questions about race, most come from brown guys" - We dive into this controversial topic and give advice! 25:11 - "If you look like an f**kable movie character, you're GOOD - Learn WHY! 25:28 - Having an accent... GOOD or BAD? - Find out here! 28:05 - INTROVERT VS EXTRAVERT, who does better? - Listen here! 29:57 - We discuss AGE! - Listen and learn! 33:31 - "One of my clients is 60 and dates woman in early twenties" HOW? - Find out here! 35:48 - Afraid to approach a girl that looks too young? - We discuss... 40:20 - The taller a woman is, the more she wants to date a taller guy... False or True? - Host gives his insight! 42:16 - "I'm short, have a beer belly, I'm an introvert, and I'm 45 and want to day game... what can I expect?" - Listen here! 43:15 - A decent beginner needs to approach 100 girls to get laid ONCE! - We discuss beginner, intermediate, and expert day gamers! 47:23 - SLEEPING with one type of girl... WORST mistake you can make!! - Learn why! 47:58 - Transition between beginner and intermediate - We discuss! 50:58 - The beginning is the hardest part!" overcoming approach anxiety! Listen here! 53:13 - What makes someone an 'Advanced' day gamer? - We discuss... 58:02 - Opening up is the easy part... - we discuss how to follow up when approaching! 01:03:38 - "Did your day game evolve into anything else? - Guest answers!

    The Guide to Building a Social Circle and Killing it on Instagram w/ @reel_daddy

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2023 72:47


    Ready to level up your social life and Instagram game? You won't want to miss this episode. We're sitting down with @reel_daddy the guru of hosting epic parties and a wizard on social media. He's gonna spill the tea on how he went from military event planning to becoming an Instagram sensation. Whether you're looking to make new friends, host insane parties, or kill it on Instagram, this episode is your golden ticket. Tune in and get the lowdown on how to do it all. Show Notes: 02:39 - "@REEL_DADDY" - Find out how our guest earned the name! 04:38 - From NYC to Austin! - Find out why our guest moved! 06:15 - "How did you set up your new social circle?" - Listen to how our guest had to adapt and meet new people in new places! 09:34 - "I was more about meeting people at events" - Find out when our host started hosting parties! 12:17 - I learned how to plan and put events together in the military! - Find out where our guest got his skills from originally! 13:25 - Is it harder to make women show up at events? - Find out here! 15:39 - The tipping point! - Find out when our guest reached his prime with hosting parties and how it took off! 17:56 - The process of organizing a great event! - Find out step by step! 19:41 - What do people get wrong when hosting events?? - Find out here! 22:02 - "Did you ever flop a party/event?" - Find out here! 24:06 - 'Show up rate anxiety' and how to deal with it! - Listen here! 26:20 - "I just did it for me" - Learn how our guest started filming his parties! 30:22 - "@REEL_DADDY" - Looking through our guest's Instagram and his thoughts behind the algorithm! 32:50 - Banger video examples! - Guest shares his reels and runs us through his process and thoughts! 34:29 - "What is the filming/editing process like?" - Our guest runs us through the process with golden tips! 38:37 - "A lot of your filming style is moving the camera around!" - Guest shares secret filming techniques that will improve your game! 42:30 - "You do everything on Instagram?" - Find out here! 43:12 - "2-3 hours or sitting on it for a day" - Find out how long the process takes! 44:41 - Instagram covers... - Guest spills his secrets and gives killer IG cover tips! 45:51 - "Everyone tells me to post on TikTok" - Find out how our guest handles other socials, and our host speculates about the secret TikTok algorithm! 51:51 - Business and social media... Mix together or separate? - Find out our take on it! 54:08 - Watch @REEL_DADDY's hilarious comedy skit! - Watch here! 57:03 - Comedy skits VS Party reels, what is HARDER? - Guest breaks it down! 57:51 - "What has come from all of this?" - Guest shares his accomplishments from doing his reels and skits! 01:01:37 - "Are woman more interested in you now?" - Find out if it makes a difference! 01:02:33 - "Don't put me in your video!" - Guest shares if he experiences any resistance when filming his reels! 01:05:59 - Do you want to be like @REEL_DADDY? - Here is some advice from the man himself! 01:09:14 - What's next for @REEL_DADDY? - Listen here! To listen to more episodes of the Inner Confidence Podcast, visit the links below: Website: https://innerconfidence.com/podcast/ iTunes:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/inner-confidence-podcast/id986699444 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2zkWuTnt7whvnR6CO6oNPV RSS: https://innerconfidence.com/series/leverage-podcast/feed/ And if you're interested in learning more about my coaching services and connecting with me, check out these links: LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/Robbiekramer Main Site: https://innerconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success! Join us : https://innerconfidence.com/leverage/ Book a call with Robbie: https://start.innerconfidence.com/video1

    246: From Battlefield to Nightlife: A Candid Talk on War and Culture in Ukraine

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2023 91:03


    In this episode, Robbie Kramer and special guest Yoni dive deep into the current situation unfolding in Ukraine. They discuss the leadership, the impact of the war on individuals, personal experiences in the midst of conflict, and the determination of the Ukrainian people to protect their territory. With firsthand accounts and insights, this episode sheds […] The post 246: From Battlefield to Nightlife: A Candid Talk on War and Culture in Ukraine appeared first on Inner Confidence.

    246: From Battlefield to Nightlife: A Candid Talk on War and Culture in Ukraine

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2023 91:03


    In this episode, Robbie Kramer and special guest Yoni dive deep into the current situation unfolding in Ukraine. They discuss the leadership, the impact of the war on individuals, personal experiences in the midst of conflict, and the determination of the Ukrainian people to protect their territory. With firsthand accounts and insights, this episode sheds [...]

    245: AI’s Future Impact on Porn and Shocking Truths About Swinging & The Adult Industry

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2023 59:23


    Welcome back to the Inner Confidence Podcast! In today’s episode, our host Robbie Kramer is joined by Coralyn Jewel, a master sexologist and adult film star. Together, they dive deep into a variety of fascinating topics, including the value of personality over looks when it comes to attraction, the intricacies of the swinger lifestyle community, […] The post 245: AI’s Future Impact on Porn and Shocking Truths About Swinging & The Adult Industry appeared first on Inner Confidence.

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