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Talking sex, psychology, and the darker parts of spirituality. With Ruwan Meepagala and curious characters.

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    • May 27, 2020 LATEST EPISODE
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    085 Mantak Chia: MultiOrgasmic Man, Universal Healing Tao

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2020 40:41


    Mantak Chia is the grandmaster of the Taoist lineage of energy cultivation. He is the author of over 50 books including The MultiOrgasmic Man. In this episode, we speak about the Tao, spirit, energy cultivation.For the video version of this podcast, click here: https://youtu.be/x3_4ZahkTTQ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    084 John Gray: Beyond Mars and Venus, Hormones, Polarity

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2020 68:14


    On the threshold of my recent breakup, a friend lent me the book Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus.At first, I scoffed at it. I knew the book. I remember my mom watching the book's author, John Gray, on Oprah when I was 7 years old. I figured that a 27-year-old book couldn't possibly still be relevant.I was wrong. In many ways, it was refreshing to see how fundamentals truths remain so, even though societal change. That said, the world has changed a lot. How people perceive relating has changed a lot. So I had quite a few questions for Mr. Gray, and he answered them in a very enlightening fashion on my podcast.Unbeknownst to many, John actually was the youngest ever Transcendental Meditation instructor under the Maharishi, back in the '60s. Before he became a Jedi in sexual relating, he was actually on a path of sexless internal cultivation.John had a lot to say about spirituality, hormones & polarity, and even semen retention-- yes, I wasn't expecting that.

    083 Marc Lewis, Ph.D.: The Biology of Desire

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2020 61:15


    2012 introduced me to the darkness of the unconscious.I fell in love with a hardcore drug addict. I didn't understand addiction. I thought she just an issue with willpower. All I knew was that possessed a joie de vivre, a passion for life, a willingness to follow her instincts with the full abandon that I myself was intoxicated by.She went off to rehab and I joined a cult called OneTaste. (See my podcasts on 'When I was in a matriarchal sex cult'.)Ironically (or synchronistically), OneTaste's spiritual views were largely related to addiction recovery; "Taming the Beast" of the unconscious.We were trained to tap into our feelings, our instincts, our desires. We were all encouraged to read a book called The Biology of Desire which explained the neural mechanisms of the desire instinct and how it relates to addiction. Seven years later, I got to chat with the author, Marc Lewis, Ph.D.Marc and I discuss how the brain physically changes in response to learning, motivation, the formation of habits, and how it can pervert into unconscious tendencies. We also speak about childhood experiences that leave one vulnerable (or invulnerable) to unconscious behavior.While most of us don't consider ourselves "addicts", all of us are subject to the internal conflict between our higher intentions and lower impulses. This episode covers important perspectives on taming your own beast.For the video version of this podcast, click here: https://youtu.be/Sy5sUhMbxTE See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    082 Carolyn Elliott: Existential Kink

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2020 69:26


    Carolyn Elliott is the author of Existential Kink, a method for getting what you want by getting off on what you don't. She and I met in OneTaste many moons ago. We talk about 'practical magick' (tinkering with the unconscious for positive effect), darker paths to enlightenment, Jedi mind tricks for happy relationships, and of course, her method of existential kink to 'manifest' some pretty wild things...Existential Kink is available on Amazon and Audible. https://www.CarolynGraceElliott.com/free for a preview and some other cool things.For the video version of this podcast, click here: https://youtu.be/X9829b27o5k See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Rick & Morty & Archetypal Masculinity

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2020 44:28


    Rick and Morty is one of the most popular TV shows due to great writing and clever plotlines. But one of the reasons for its diehard male fan base maybe how the show demonstrates elements of the male psychodrama. In this episode, Ruwan discusses a few elements of the masculine unconscious that is portrayed in the show.Music by @collin_stanley For the video version of this podcast, click here: https://youtu.be/gWdvZN9dgro See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Prometheus Rising: 4 Neural Circuits of Consciousness

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2020 112:15


    Drawing from Robert Anton Wilson's Prometheus Rising, we dig into Timothy Leary's Eight Circuit Model of Consciousness. The first four circuits (bio-survival, emotional-territorial, semantic, and socio-sexual) are present in all humans. Most human behavior, individually and collectively, is unconsciously driven by these circuits. Understanding them allows us to explain and predict behavior in politics, personality, and response to the environment. Much of this episode relates to the earlier Medusa/Mother Complex and Father Wound/Hero's Journey episodes, though from a more biological level. This gives a more neurological basis for the metaphoric ideas of Carl Jung.For the video version of this podcast, click here: https://youtu.be/QgHTUimFv7Q See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Why Amoebas Wiggle: The Role of the Ego and Unifying the Unconscious

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2020 62:19


    What is the point of an ego?Many spiritual folks demonize the ego as this thing to 'transcended'. But the ego is one of the most important (and human) parts of the psyche. An expressed ego is necessary to unify your unconscious elements towards creativity and away from self-sabotage.We continue today through the Hero's Journey from the Mother Complex and Father Wound to what the formed ego is "supposed to do" once it has formed. We explain how the ego evolved alongside the evolution of life (and arguably all energy and matter). We also talk about why and how amoeba wiggles.For the video version of this podcast, click here: https://youtu.be/UWxvcGfh_rU See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    081 Lt. Col. Dave Grossman: On Combat, On Killing

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2020 94:49


    Lt. Col. Dave Grossman is a retired Army Ranger and the author of On Killing, On Combat, and a number of other books on the psychology of violence. His first book greatly influenced Ruwan when he was an officer select in the US Marine Corps. We discuss the Warrior archetype, trends affecting male mental health, how to prepare yourself for the worst, and stoicism.Grossman's work: https://www.Killology.comAccess your inner Protector in the Masculine Archetype Challenge: https://www.Ruwanodo.com/ArchetypeFor the video version of this podcast, click here: https://youtu.be/jWDKHH7ey7w See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    080 Dr. Steve G. Jones: Is Astral Projection a Thing?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2020 59:48


    Dr. Steve Jones is a clinical hypnotherapist and has been on TV a lot. I brought him on to speak on Astral Projection: the subjective act of leaving the body. He shares some hows and whys along with some interesting takes on reality.Free hypnosis download on his website: https://www.stevegjones.comFor the video version of this podcast, click here: https://youtu.be/jVNj3vl6ldg See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Father Wound & Secondary Father

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2020 66:25


    The Father Wound are insecurities that come from the shortcomings of our primary role model. Many myths show slaying a father figure (i.e. Luke Skywalker vs. Darth Vader) because it represents a man being able to separate from his paternal shadow. Healing the wounds, and expressing dormant masculinity happens through what Joseph Campbell calls the Secondary Father.What it means to 'slay the dragon' in your mind'Saving the princess' myths and your own AnimaHow to heal your Father WoundThe anthropological/sociological correlation, tribal rites of passageWhy so many stories have orphans as the main characterThe logical side of the creative actLeadership, reality creation, and decisivenessGenes vs. memesHow to live a Life TriumphantHeal your Father Wound. Take the 21 Day Masculine Archetype Challenge.For the video version of this podcast, click here: https://youtu.be/uugoanuCXiU See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    079 Brett Jones: StrongFirst, Kettlebell Training

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2020 66:35


    Brett Jones is the chief instructor at StrongFirst, accomplished strongman. We speak about strength from the cellular level all the way up to the mindset required to apply force. Aside from the useful strength tips, this episode is chock full of metaphors for growth in life.Check out his work at AppliedStrength.com and StrongFirst.comThe Masculine Archetype Challenge now includes a complimentary video call with me again. Join at Ruwando.com/ArchetypeFor the video version of this podcast, click here: https://youtu.be/eTQKtrSck9w#Kettlebells #Strongfirst #movementculture #ArchetypalMasculinity See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Medusa & the Son of Swords: Overcoming the Dark Feminine/Mother Complex

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2020 87:58


    The Mother Complex is an early obstacle in the individuation of masculine consciousness. It affects one's ability to relate to the Feminine aspect of the psyche in all its forms: Women (in dating), your own emotions and creativity, and your social environment.This episode covers it on 3 layers:How to overcome the Dark Feminine's challenge to your individuation (The internal Hero's Journey)How it maps to anthropological evolution, from our neolithic ancestors to modern Homo SapiensRuwan's personal experience of confronting the Dark Feminine when he was in the Matriarchal cult.How it relates to men's mental health, anxieties, violence, and the male suicide epidemic.How individual consciousness maps to sociological consciousness (Neumann)Unpacking weird stories like the Oedipus Complex, and Myth of Isis/Osirus/HorusSon of Swords archetype and the development of ego within the Hero's Journey (Campbell)Patriarchal vs. Matriarchal culture and effect on the psycheOrigins of the Fear of WomenGenesis and our inevitable "fall from grace" (Advent of agriculture)The Oral-Bio Survival Circuit (Robert Anton Wilson)Simple practical actions to confront your own Mother ComplexesFor the video version of this podcast, click here: https://youtu.be/mIVM_jxlawg#ArchetypalMasculinity #DominancePsychology #HowtoAttractFeminineWomen #ArousalControl See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Completing Psychological Adolescence

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2020 59:49


    How to evolve out of 'boy psychology': How individual consciousness correlates with collective, manic pixie dream girl/great mother, dark triad traits and completing cycles, Freud's sexual theory.For the video version of this podcast, click here: https://youtu.be/uXe3SVWlaGc/#ArchetypalMasculinity #DominancePsychology #HowtoAttractFeminineWomen #ArousalControl #ManicPixieDreamGirl #JungianPsychology #DakrTriad #RedPillPsychology #Archetypes See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    078 Matt Bowden: Adventures with Drugs and Manifestation

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2020 75:46


    Matt Bowden is a musician and visionary who created safe alternatives to drugs in New Zealand. He is featured in a VICE documentary on the legal drug trade. We speak about intuition, spirituality, and of course, drugs. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Infinite Play: Coming of Age in the Matriarchal Cult of Orgasm

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2020 6:19


    This is the opening chapter to my memoir on my time in the sex cult. To keep up to date with the book and to learn more, make sure you're on my email list. Join at Ruwando.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    077 Om Rupani: Masculine Resilience

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2020 53:13


    Om is a D/S instructor who has been on the podcast quite a few times. I recently watched the Red Pill documentary and wanted to speak with him on the male response to hardship.Om has a few workshops this year and will put up the dates as they are confirmed at omrupani.orgYou can get $50 off by using the discount code RUWANDO. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Cult Psychology Principles and Tactics

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2020 63:07


    We speak about the Dark Arts... How cults/advertisers/propangandists shift collective reality; How to recognize and avoid unconscious negative influence; How to use it positively in leadership, relationships, family, and social situations. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Follow Your Passion and the Money Will Follow Is Not the Full Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2020 2:20


    This was originally a Facebook post that many people on an artistic path found useful. Enjoy. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Colossus vs. Wolverine: 2 Strategies on Experiencing Emotions

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2020 4:52


    Article from 2018. Common ideological battle in men's development. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    When Kali Trampled Shiva: A Parable for Men About Difficult Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2020 14:15


    Recording of my most shared article from last year. I referenced back to it recently after listening to a bit by Jordan Peterson on how "there's nothing men can do when a woman is irrationally upset." I like JP, but that's simply not true. Handling a woman's emotions is part of being a complete man and an opportunity for growth.The 21 Day Archetype Challenge is back: Ruwando.com/archetype See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    076 Jordan Luke Collier: Subjective vs. Objective Beauty

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2020 74:11


    Jordan is the head instructor of Ars Amorata. We philosophize on beauty as a heuristic for navigating life.Access my 5+ years of content archives for free by joining my list at Ruwando.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Drive Your Own Bus: On"Self-Love" and Filtering Reality Properly

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2020 44:03


    "Self Love" is a phrase thrown around a lot, but it means something different for men and women. This episode covers what Masculine self-love is and how it relates to reality creation. Critical for being a powerful husband/bf, father, leader. And also simply being a happy fulfilled individual.Archetype Class:Ruwando.com/archetype See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    The Virtue of Male Aggression

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2020 13:23


    Article from early 2018. This one got me kicked off The Good Men Project for being "too volatile." My archived content now available free when you put your email in at Ruwando.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    The Devils Inside Us: How Sexual Archetypes Help Individuation

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2020 13:41


    This is one of my denser articles, so I thought it would be good in audio format. We dig into the rape fantasy and how it reveals opportunities for healing in relationships and in the Self.Take the 21 Day Masculine Archetype Challenge at Ruwando.com/archetype See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    075 Christina Berkley: Orgasm, Money, Potatoes

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2020 59:11


    “Money is like potatoes,” she said.Christina Berkley helps coaches build stunning practices and edge-walkers live stunning lives. I met her that time I was in a matriarchal sex cult where she was once a lead instructor. Her journey is a synthesis of mysticism and practical life creation that has had a very positive impact on my life.Her work: christinaberkley.comHer new project: https://www.facebook.com/groups/edgewalker/Get free access to my 5+ year archive of expert interviews and audio recordings by joining my email list at Ruwando.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Reshaping Emotional Patterns, Trauma

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2020 48:50


    One of the most frustrating things is when you intend to do one thing, but end up doing the opposite. This happens a lot in emotionally-charged situations like in dating, intimacy, or creative purpose.Much of our behavior can seem like pre-patterned response. We resort to the "shapes" that our psyche has developed into. Luckily our psyche is plastic, meaning it can be reshaped into new forms. In this video I share two major principles for reshaping your psyche. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    074 Matt Cone: The Abundance Model

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2020 37:43


    Matt Cone is a philanthropist and philosopher. I met Matt on a retreat in Thailand 2 years ago. He shared something called 'The Abundance Model', a philosophy and system for dealing with money. I was a bit skeptical at first, but practiced it anyway and found that 1) My wealth increased greatly, 2) I felt totally different about money. It's actually less about money and more about your view of the future.This model has inspired today's episodes 'sponsor', TheNeighborFund.comThe Neighbor Fund is a collectively driven charity to spread abundance in the world. Donors commit a small amount, then get to vote on how those funds are distributed in the world. You can participate at TheNeighborFund.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    073 Iain Armstrong: Taoism and Kung Fu

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2020 63:26


    Iain Armstrong is a Kung Fu master in Thailand and the lineage holder of Nam Yang Kung Fu originated in Shaolin. We speak on Taoism, the mind-body connection, and understanding ‘qi’ in relation to physical fitness and longevity. Check out his work at https://kungfuretreat.com/ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Alchemy of the Psyche: Anima & Animus in Intimacy and Creative Expression

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2020 45:47


    We all have a masculine and feminine aspect to our psyche. The ability to integrate theses archetypes directly our intimate relationships and creative expression. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Individuation vs. Collective Unconscious

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2020 66:12


    This episode was inspired by some synchronistic events: a coaching conversations, ponderings on my new tattoo, and an essay by Carl Jung.Video version: https://youtu.be/eDRgEWIpxFQRites of passage were once an important piece of psychology development in men that both helped one access his unique gifts and potency, but also aligned his power with the needs of the tribe. Due to post-agricultural/industrial/consumerist developments, we've largely replaced this with societal norms that mostly repress the individual.This episode covers:How to develop creative purpose without tribal initiationThe "Matrix of the Psyche": Personal vs. Collective // Conscious vs. UnconsciousBiological definition of archetypesEastern vs. Western cultural assumptions about collectivity and individualityThe virtues vs. dangers of Collective IdentityHow Hero's become tyrantsThe Halo Effect in cult psychologySome sexual applicationsEpisode (literally) brought to you by Single Origin Skincare-- a non-profit that turns coffee waste into high quality soap, then uses the profits to buy education supplies for children in Thailand. My friend who founded it happened to also give me the book by Carl Jung that I reference throughout this episode. His sustainable products can be found at a discount on his indiegogo.Also, my new free members area is live on my website. Join my list at Ruwando.com to get free access to all my interviews and hidden content."The Masculine Archetype" is the set of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that correlate to testosterone. Learn how to connect to you individual expression in the 21 Day Masculine Archetype Challenge. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Sex Transmutation, Explained

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 30, 2019 45:04


    Napoleon Hill's term for "channeling sexual energy" is often talked about, but rarely in a way that is practical. In this video I speak on a workable model for how to use "sexual energy" towards well-being and materialization of goals. Referencing:- Freud's sublimation- Jung's Instinct- Wilhelm Reich's muscular armoring and orgastic potential- Mantak Chia's microcosmic orbit, ejaculation control- the shortsightedness of NoFap- a workable metaphor for transmutation- Satanic sex magick (unintended tangent ;D)- How to's for allowing sensation up to higher levelsFree training at ArousalControlSecrets.comLater this week my free content library will be available at Ruwando.com (join the list) See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    On Fearing Beauty, How to Handle Involuntary Response

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2019 22:46


    Men often fear beauty because it puts us into an involuntary state-- one where we can't easily control our emotions or reactions. But the involuntary state is what makes life worth living...ArousalControlSecrets.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Your Personal Development is a Genre of Entertainment

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2019 26:41


    Your Hero's Journey is the best story there is. In this episode I speak on how to invest your attention to get the most momentum in the movie that is your life.Ruwando.com/archetype See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Hacking Synchronicity:

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2019 49:02


    "Reality is a like a woman. She either moves towards you or runs away from you, depending on how you engage with it."'Synchronicity' is a term coined by psychologist Carl Jung and often misused by spiritual folk. But even as a subjective experience, it is critical in our ability to create our reality. In this live episode we speak on:+ Actual Jungian definition of synchronicity+ How the 'Call to Adventure' shows up YOUR personal life journey+ How to speed up subjective time, and density of subjective experience+ What to do about others' perceptions affecting your subjective reality+ How to expand your Realm of ControlAnnouncements:The free 1:1 Coaching Session bonus will no longer be offered after this round of the Masculine Archetype Challenge. You can still take advantage of the offer AND a free month in the Subversalist Inner Circle if you join now:https://ruwando.com/archetype See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    072 Leslie Selene: Witchcraft and Initiation

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2019 58:09


    “Sex is the poor man’s meditation.” ~ Leslie SeleneLeslie Selene is a spiritual medium, meditation teacher, and author. She was introduced to me many years ago as a ‘Witch Doctor’ when I was in a cult... Many things she told me back then finally clicked in my head five years later. We speak about her take on mysticism from different cultures, trauma and spirituality, sex work, and her various initiations in sexuality and mysticism. You can find Leslie on Facebook. Her books, Inviting Her In: diary of a witch and The Ariadne Dreamtime Network of Psychic Assassins can be found on Amazon. Her next book, Decolonizing Mysticism: a Book of Shadows, will be available from Hexenhammer Press next summer.#Mysticism #Witchcraft #Orishas #Voodoo #BlackMadonna #Paganism #PracticalMagic #Cult #Occult #SexMagic See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    071 Melanie Curtain: Dear Men, Sex Research

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2019 52:09


    Melanie Curtin is a writer, sex researcher, and the host of the podcast Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships.She shares some of her interesting data points on male-female sexuality, tips for increased intimacy, and the importance of cougars for younger male sexual education..."God bless cougars" said Melanie. (And I agree. :))You can get $200 off her course at http://www.PleaseHerInBed.com/ with the discount code: RUWANDOhttps://www.MelanieCurtin.com/#Sexuality #SexResearch #Intimacy #Neuroplasticity #Dating #Relating #Cougars #ArchetypalPsychology #RelationshipPsychology See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    On Dating Multiple Women, Open Relationships, and Growth as a Dude

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2019 48:15


    One the most common dating goals I hear from guys is "I want to date multiple women who are all okay with it". Even if it's partially ego-driven, it's actually a great goal as it forces you to grow as man. Here's what you need to know.21 Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetypehttp://forum.masculineunderground.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    How Emotions Affect Arousal Response: Between Couples & For Individuals

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2019 9:55


    Audio version of this week's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.Our ability to feel physical pleasure is affected by how we process emotions. When I was a Libido and Relationship Counselor I found one key cause in BOTH individual psychogenic sexual dysfunction (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, anorgasmia) AND when couples can't enjoy sex with each other.Join the Men's FB Group: Forum.MasculineUnderground.com21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetype#ArchetypalMasculinity #DominancePsychology #JordanPetersonJungianArchetypes #WhatisMasculinitytoYou See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Before you try 'Jelquing'... Truth About 'Male Enhancement'

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2019 6:03


    Audio version of last week's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.Does jelquing work? Kind of, but not in the way you may expect. Here what you really need to know about the quest for enlargement.Learn more about ninja bedroom skills at ArousalControlSecrets.comJoin the Men's FB Group: Forum.MasculineUnderground.com21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetype#ArchetypalMasculinity #DominancePsychology #JordanPetersonJungianArchetypes #WhatisMasculinitytoYou See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Finding Direction, Psychogenic Sexual Dysfunctions, Penetrating Sensual Plane, Reality Dominance

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2019 34:46


    We got some seemingly disparate topic requests in the forum.masculineunderground.com this week: finding life direction, psychogenic premature ejaculation, traversing from non-sexual to sexual communication. But they actually have similar principles that are foundational to masculinity:1:11 Finding your life direction11:41 psychogenic sexual dysfunctions/ premature ejaculation20:10 escalating from nonsexual to sexual communication27:09 Embodying the dark masculine/dominance in the bedroom in love relationshipsFree training on ejaculation control at ArousalControlSecrets.comArchetype Class: http://bit.ly/21archetype See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    070 Summer Engman & Micah Rodrigues: Devotion in Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2019 58:28


    Summer is my former radio co-host, business partner, and a long time friend. Last time she was on the podcast (Ep. 050) she shared some enlightening perspectives on relationships. Now she’s engaged, so I had her and her fiance on to talk about it in practice.Join the Men's FB Group: Forum.MasculineUnderground.com21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetype See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    My 2nd Year in the Matriarchal Sex Cult

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2019 107:31


    My second year in the matriarchal sex cult was much different that the first. (Catch Part 1: https://youtu.be/4Rni2uDd4Wc)I took some of the tactics I learned as a "party goer" and employed them as a "party thrower". In a sense I became a mini-cult leader. My intentions, as most peoples' were good... but power corrupts.In this video I share a little more of group reality creation, some basic brainwashing "techniques" used on and by me, and what I believe are the useful nuggets for everyone. I also answer all the questions that were asked after the recording of Part 1 in my FB group. If you're a guy and want to participate in the interactive live recording, join here: http://forum.masculineunderground.comArchetype Class: http://archetype.ruwando.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    The Vulnerability Trap: How to Recognize Real Openness

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2019 7:31


    Audio version of today's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.Most people misunderstand vulnerability. It is not a set of specific actions or saying a particular thing. Often people aren't actually being vulnerable when they think they are. If you're watching this, I assume you already understand the benefits of vulnerability. This video will help you become aware of actual vulnerability. It might not be what you think, but it is within your control.Join the Men's FB Group: Forum.MasculineUnderground.com21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetype#ArchetypalMasculinity #DominancePsychology #JordanPetersonJungianArchetypes #WhatisMasculinitytoYou See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    069 Solla Pizzuto: Taoist Sexual Secrets

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2019 75:45


    Solla Pizzuto teaches about healing and sexuality from both Taoist and Tantric perspectives. She coordinates the Meeting of the Masters retreat in Chiang Mai, Thailand (which is what had me move to Thailand 2 yrs ago.) She and I speak on Taoist and Tantric practices, “dark room enlightenment”, and male sexual performance. You can find out more about the retreat at the link below. (P.S. I’ll be around.)MeetingofMasters.com SollaWellness.com@sollatao on IGJoin the Men's FB Group: Forum.MasculineUnderground.com21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetype See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    My First Year in a Matriarchal Sex Cult

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2019 58:19


    I was in a matriarchal sex cult for two years in my early 20's. The journey turned out to be one of the most meaningful experiences of my life, teaching me a foundational knowledge of the psyche that I couldn't have gotten in any normal school.This is Part 1 of what I think will be two parts. I speak about my first year in the cult, my background that led me to seek this adventure, and some notes on cult psychology and how group realities are formed.To participate in Part 2 live, join my facebook group: http://forum.masculineunderground.comPart 2 will cover when "The Hero becomes the Villain"; when I tried to break away by starting my own 'mini-cult'. More ethical dilemmas, and breakdowns of cult psychology and 'practical mysticism'.Also, if you want to pre-pre-order my book documenting the entire two years, you can visit infiniteplay.ruwando.comI'll send you an advance chapter and subsidize a hardcover copy for you when it is published. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Masculinity and Failure: How Men Should Use Hardship

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2019 12:03


    Audio version of today's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.Most people misunderstand masculine vulnerability. Men need to be vulnerable, but not in the same way as women. The main difference has to with challenges, winning, and failure. Understanding this is the key for men to grow and become better men. This video shares tips for men, obviously. But if you're a woman who dates men, please watch this video to understand your man's emotions, especially when he is struggling.Join the Men's FB Group: Forum.MasculineUnderground.com21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetype#ArchetypalMasculinity #DominancePsychology #JordanPetersonJungianArchetypes #WhatisMasculinitytoYou See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    068 Karen Lorre: Chronic Pleasure

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2019 57:34


    Karen Lorre teaches meditation and coaches people to healing through pleasure. She speaks with me on how to alchemize bad emotions, how materialization really works, and shares some anecdotes about Hugh Hefner during her time as a Playboy playmate. She is the author of Chronic Pleasure, I book I’ve been using to introduce healing and ease into my life. The print goes on sale later this year, but for a limited time, listeners of the Ruwando Podcast can get the free electronic copy. Just email karenlorre@me.com with the SUBJ: Chronic Pleasure and say hi. :)#ArchetypalPsychology #Relationships #MasculineFeminine #CreativeUnconscious #Meditation #LawofAttraction #Healing #Hypnosis #ChronicPleasure See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Hacking Abundance: How Giving Actually Creates More

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2019 3:26


    Audio version of today's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.Abundance and Generosity are not the same thing. Abundance, despite all the vagueries the 'Law of Attraction' promotes, there is a procedure by which you can change how you relate to material resources.Brittnee Bond and I share about in abundance retreat we put on in Thailand.Charity by Collective: TheNeighborFund.comJoin the Men's FB Group: Forum.MasculineUnderground.com21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetype#ArchetypalMasculinity #DominancePsychology #JordanPetersonJungianArchetypes #WhatisMasculinitytoYou See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    067 Olive Persimmon: The Coitus Chronicles

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2019 61:26


    Olive Persimmon is the author of The Coitus Chronicles: My Quest for Sex, Love, and Orgasms, where she documents her wild adventures in trying to get her mojo back. I’m in the book (though my name has been changed so I wouldn’t sue her).OlivePersimmon.com#Dating #Psychology #WritersLife #Sexuality #Coitus #ChroniclesCelibacy #OlivePersimmon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    Bottoming: When Feminine-style Influence Masculine Power

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2019 2:08


    Audio version of today's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.I made a bad move with some cops recently... I was being too "masculine". There's a time and place to be Top Dog. There's many times where guys can take a practical tip from the ladies.We dig into how to practically deploy your anima (feminine-side) in the 21 Day Masculine Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetypeJoin the Men's FB Group: Forum.MasculineUnderground.com21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetype#ArchetypalMasculinity #DominancePsychology #JordanPetersonJungianArchetypes #WhatisMasculinitytoYou #Cialdini #BDSMPsychology #PowervsInfluence See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    066 Jacqueline Buckingham: Huge Pussy Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2019 47:38


    Jacqueline Buckingham is an actress and entrepreneur, among other things. She’s the creator and star of The Box with Jacqueline on Amazon Prime (season 2 coming soon). She was also in Half Baked. She’s also driving an important movement involving vulvas and free speech. We talk censorship, masculinity/femininity, issues within feminism, butt munching and more.JacquelineBuckingham.comHugePussyStore.comCheck out the uncensored version of The Box season 1 on her new YouTube channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeErmpfA04bvXc-qPIvKKZQ#Feminism #Dating #Sexuality #Masculinity #Censorship #2ndAmendment #FreeSpeech See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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