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We are still in quarantine, *sigh*. But it’s not all doom and gloom. This week we bring on Lauren Zander, life coach extraordinaire. Her no bullshit approach to coaching and life in general is unlike anyone we’ve ever had on the podcast. Warning, there is swearing in this episode! Lauren Zander is the Co-Founder and Chairwoman of Handel Group®, an international corporate consulting and life coaching company. Her coaching methodology, The Handel Method®, is taught in over 35 universities and institutes of learning around the world, including MIT, Stanford Graduate School of Business, NYU, and the New York City Public School System. Lauren is the creator of Inner.U: Learn to Human Better®, the online coaching course that teaches the entirety of The Handel Method, which has been used by dozens of celebrities, CEOs, and entrepreneurs since 2004, and she is the author of Maybe It’s You (Published by Hachette Book Group, April 2017), a no-nonsense, practical manual that helps readers figure out not just what they want out of life, but how to actually get there. Learn more about Lauren: www.handelgroup.com
How do we begin to flip the switch from the tendency to thinking negatively and focus on what is standing in our way to thinking as vehemently about reaching our full potential? Lauren Handel Zander shares her process in how she developed a language for dreaming big: what she calls “an archetype of engaging yourself to find your higher self”. About the Guest:Lauren Handel Zander is the Co-Founder and Chairwoman of Handel Group®, an executive life coaching company. Her coaching methodology, The Handel Method®, is taught in over 50 universities and institutes of learning around the world, including MIT, Stanford Graduate School of Business, NYU, and the New York City Public School System. Lauren is also thecreator of Inner.U: Learn to Human BetterⓇ the online coaching course that teaches the entirety of The Handel Method, which has been used by dozens of celebrities, CEOs, and entrepreneurs since 2004, and she is the author of Maybe It’s You (Published by Hachette Book Group, April 2017), a no-nonsense, practical manual that helps readers figure out not just what they want out of life, but how to actually get there. She has spent over 20 years coaching thousands of private and corporate clients, including executives at Live Nation, Ticketmaster, Vogue, Warner Bros Records, BASF, and Sequoia. Lauren has been a featured expert in The New York Times, BBC, Forbes, Women’s Health, Dr. Oz, and Marie Claire and she is a regular contributor to Businessweek and the Huffington Post.More From Lauren Handel Zander:website: https://www.inneru.coachGet Inner.U Life for just $325 use code Creatingconfidence75Finding Lauren Handel Zander:Instagram: @laurenzander_coachReview this podcast on Apple Podcast using this LINK and when you DM me the screen shot, I buy you my $299 video course as a thank you! My book Confidence Creator is available now! get it right HEREIf you are looking for more tips you can download my free E-book at my website and thank you! https://heathermonahan.com*If you'd like to ask a question and be featured during the wrap up segment of Creating Confidence, contact Heather Monahan directly through her website and don’t forget to subscribe to the mailing list so you don’t skip a beat to all things Confidence Creating! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Lauren Zander is the Co-Founder and Chairwoman of Handel Group®, an international corporate consulting and life coaching company. Her coaching methodology, The Handel Method®, is taught in over 35 universities and institutes of learning around the world, including MIT, Stanford Graduate School of Business, NYU, and the New York City Public School System. Lauren is the creator of Inner.U: Learn to Human Better®, the online coaching course that teaches the entirety of The Handel Method, which has been used by dozens of celebrities, CEOs, and entrepreneurs since 2004, and she is the author of Maybe It’s You (Published by Hachette Book Group, April 2017), a no-nonsense, practical manual that helps readers figure out not just what they want out of life, but how to actually get there. Lauren has spent over 20 years coaching thousands of private and corporate clients, including executives at Live Nation, Ticketmaster, Vogue, BASF, and AOL. She has been a featured expert in The New York Times, BBC, Forbes, Women’s Health, Dr. Oz, and Marie Claire and she is a regular contributor to Businessweek and the Huffington Post.
If we're not dreaming, we're not inventing what's possible for our own lives. This whole Inner.U System is about being true to yourself when you finally find out what 'true' actually is for you. - Lauren Handel Zander Are you fulfilling your dreams or just dreaming? Get 15% off your CURED Nutrition order with the code WELLNESSFORCE ---> Get The Morning 21 System: A simple and powerful 21 minute system designed to give you more energy to let go of old weight and live life well. JOIN THE FACEBOOK GROUP | *REVIEW THE PODCAST* Wellness Force Radio Episode 317 Speaker, Co-Founder and Chairwoman of The Handel Group, Author of Maybe It's You, Lauren Handel Zander, and Creator of Inner.U, Lauren Handel Zander, returns to Wellness Force Radio to explore the 12 areas of personal integrity, share how to get out of your constant shame spiral, and explain how your subconscious mind can lead you to the egoic mind trap if you are not constantly doing the inner work. 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Inner.U Life: is our online coaching course that gives you the tools to get yourself unstuck, wildly happy, and thriving where it matters most to you: your relationship to your SELF, CAREER, LOVE, BODY, MONEY, TIME, and more. From wherever, whenever. Inner.U Love: is our online coaching course that gives you the tools to not only avoid heartbreak, but find whatever, whomever, and how many-ever it is that you truly and wholeheartedly want. Whether you’re out to find IT, fix it, or just figure out what you want from it. From wherever, whenever. Get Started at wellnessforce.com/InnerU Receive lifetime access to Inner.U with your subscription which includes: 12 audio coaching sessions from Lauren Zander 1 free private coaching session with an HG coach 14 homework assignments Interactive Promise Tracker to accelerate your accountability and track your promises and consequences. Talk to a human and see if Handel Group coaching options are right for you. Listen To Episode 317 As Lauren Handel Zander Uncovers: 1:30 Cutting The Crap From Your Life Lauren Handel Zander The Handel Group Inner.U Use code WELLNESSFORCE75 for $75 off Inner.U Coach! What has changed in Lauren's world since Josh interviewed her in October 2018 for episode 248. 248 Lauren Handel Zander Maybe It's You by Lauren Handel Zander The exercises she leads people through to help them purge everything they've been subjected to in their lives. Lauren's group activity with friends to help them stay accountable for the promises and goals they have set for themselves throughout the year. (8:40) 10:20 Loving Our Lives By Facing The Fear The importance of working with people who you can put your whole trust in each gathering. How our realities are created by everything we say and everything we think. (12:00) Common narratives that we create around money and how we can end them. The importance of looking at our parents, siblings, and grandparents' own stories to learn more about how we feel about money. 311 Mark Wolynn Why so many of our thoughts and beliefs aren't even our own but those that were passed onto us from previous generations. The negative side of white-knuckling because of fear instead of relaxing and allowing the change to flow. (17:50) How to change how you talk to yourself and making that a positive practice every day. 22:00 What Your Shame Spirals Are Teaching You How the human mind is wired to feel guilty and justify every broken promise we have made to ourselves like not getting up to go work out just so we feel better about ourselves. Why creating the stories, drama, and feeling guilty about yourself isn't going to create any good change for your life. How our constant shame spirals are "proving" what is wrong with us and what we can learn from them. Byron Katie How adding the consequence of "pay the bill and do the deed" to your personal development strategy can help push you that much more to stay loyal to your goals. (27:30) The four questions you should ask yourself when you're faced up against a fake story about yourself including, "Is it true?" Why we get caught up in surges of looped drama because we're wired to become addicted to how it makes us, in a sense, feel alive. (29:00) The fact that over 80% of our thoughts are negative and actually looping from the day before. Organifi Red 32:00 How To Rewire Your Self-Talk & Effective Couple Communication Skills The importance of rewiring how and what you say to yourself on a daily basis. How she teaches people to develop a new language for their dreams and a new self-dialogue. Why keeping secrets to ourselves instead of airing them out is literally the act of keeping them alive. The fact that just hearing someone out and saying that you "understand" them actually means nothing for the relationship. Why you have to understand that sharing your truth won't actually make another person do anything. (39:45) Her work with couples to help them understand that in an argument, no one is right, no one is wrong, and you don't even have to agree; you just have to understand where they're coming from. How to know that it's time to call it quits and end your relationship. (42:30) Dr. Mark Hyman 47:30 Making Decisions Based On Love Or Fear; No Story Attached The difference between coming from a higher place of love and a lower place of fear. Our three different integrities explained: spiritual, emotional, and physical. What personal integrity means and how it can only be obtained when we are in alignment with ourselves. (51:00) The 12 areas of personal integrity that we have to focus on and not just one like the career area. Why it's so important to create 12 new dreams every year for each area of your life. How to let our dark side be free and expressed rather than shamed. Who Inner.U is for and how you can benefit from it by working with Lauren and her team. What wellness means to her now in 2019 compared to last year in episode 248. M21 Guide Power Quotes From The Show Feelings Have A Magnetic Force "You are thinking, doing, and feeling all at the same time but the feeling is the result of the other two. It's the one that comes from your thoughts or your actions. So, you change your action, you will think and feel differently. You change your thought, you will act and feel differently. The feeling is the main magnetic force." - Lauren Handel Zander The Definition Of Personal Integrity "When your dreams, your vision for yourself, your actions, and how you feel are all aligned, that is personal integrity." - Lauren Handel Zander Changing Your Inner Dialogue By Taking Action "Whatever you want has the actions that correlate to it. If you want to learn French, you have to study it and then probably go practice it. There's nothing under the sun that many of us can't figure out how to get to an A at and there's no shaming required to admit that you want to get an A at something. However, there is really getting over yourself and believing in yourself and all of that comes from how you talk to yourself." - Lauren Handel Zander Links From Today's Show Inner.U Coach The Handel Group Current Reality Quiz 248 Lauren Handel Zander Maybe It's You by Lauren Handel Zander 311 Mark Wolynn Byron Katie Organifi Red Dr. Mark Hyman M21 Guide A Little Magic Goes a Long Way Lauren Handel Zander Facebook Twitter Instagram LinkedIn Handel Group Facebook Twitter Instagram YouTube LinkedIn About Lauren Handel Zander Lauren, the Co-Founder and Chairwoman of Handel Group®, has spent over 20 years coaching thousands of private clients: entrepreneurs, couples, families, professors, politicians, Emmy, Peabody and Academy Award-winning artists, Grammy-winning musicians, and Fortune 500 CEOs. She has fixed corporate business relationships, mediated contract negotiations, reconciled marriages, and helped resolve complex family issues. The Handel Method Lauren’s coaching methodology, The Handel Method®, is taught in over 50 universities and institutes of learning around the world, including MIT, Stanford Graduate School of Business, NYU, and the New York City Public School System. She is also the author of Maybe It’s You (Published by Hachette Book Group, April 2017), a no-nonsense, practical manual that helps readers figure out not just what they want out of life, but how to actually get there. Work With Lauren Lauren’s take-no-prisoners brand of radical personal accountability and her proven step-by-step program has worked for bestselling authors, CEOs and top executives, award-winning artists … and now, you. She will have you dreaming in more areas of your life than you ever let yourself imagine and will teach you the key to happiness, self-esteem, and confidence: Personal Integrity, defined as the alignment of your head (plan), heart (desire), and body (actions). 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Lauren Handel Zander is a celebrity life coach, public speaker, and the Co-Founder and Chairwoman of Handel Group®, an executive life coaching company based in New York City. Here's a great deal for your to embrace so you can dive into Lauren's potent teachings:Learn to Human Better with Lauren Zander's online coaching course, Inner.U.Sign up now with your coupon code WATKINS and get $75 OFF!Receive lifetime access to Inner.U with your subscription which includes: 12 audio coaching sessions from Lauren Zander, 1 free private coaching session with an HG coach, 14 homework assignments, and the interactive Promise Tracker to accelerate your accountability and track your promises and consequences. Get started at:http://bit.ly/WATKINSIUTalk to a human and see if Handel Group coaching options are right for you: http://bit.ly/WATKINSCONSULTLauren is the creator of Inner.U: Learn to Human Better®, the online coaching course that teaches the entirety of The Handel Method, a method that has been used by dozens of celebrities, CEOs, and entrepreneurs since 2004 and is endorsed by Conscious Capitalism as its learning platform of choice for its members and leaders. Lauren is also the author of Maybe It's You (Published by Hachette Book Group, April 2017), a no-nonsense, practical manual that helps readers figure out not just what they want out of life, but how to actually get there. Lauren has spent over 20 years coaching thousands of private clients: entrepreneurs, couples, families, professors, politicians, Emmy, Peabody and Academy Award-winning artists, Grammy-winning musicians, and Fortune 500 CEOs. Her corporate clients have included executives from Live Nation, Ticketmaster, Sony BMG, The New York Times, News Corp, J. Walter Thompson Agency, Citibank, Dropbox, LinkedIn, Uniworld, The Gap Inc., BASF, NYU Langone Medical Center, and Vogue. She has fixed corporate business relationships, mediated contract negotiations, reconciled marriages, and helped resolve complex family issues. In the early 2000s, Lauren created a groundbreaking methodology, The Handel Method®, which is supported by top educators and psychologists, and has been developed and taught in over 50 major universities and institutes of learning across the country, including MIT, Stanford Graduate School of Business, Stanford Medical School, NYU, Columbia, Yale School of Drama, Wesleyan, Fordham, Rutgers, Middlebury College, Scripps Research Institute, and in the New York City Public School System. Internationally, The Handel Method was taught in the esteemed CEMS Program at Vienna University of Economics and Business, one of the largest business schools in the world. With her unique, honest and irreverent approach, Lauren is a contributor for several publications and media outlets, including: The New York Times, BBC, Harvard Business Review, Forbes, Self, Women's Health, Men's Health, Vogue, Ebony, Cosmopolitan, Experience Life, Marie Claire, Family Circle, Elle, Prevention Magazine, and The Huffington Post. She has appeared on television and in film, starring in A&E's Biography Channel TV Special, “Celebrity Life Coach,” as well as the crSupport the show (https://stuartwatkins.org/podcast/)
Lauren Zander, Co-Founder and Chairwoman of Handel Group On refining our inner dialogue, personal integrity, transparency in relationships and parenting, letting your shortcomings be funny, and navigating the space between conditional and unconditional love. Lauren Handel Zander is the Co-Founder and Chairwoman of Handel Group®, an international corporate consulting and life coaching company. Her coaching methodology, The Handel Method®, is taught in over 35 universities and institutes of learning around the world, including MIT, Stanford Graduate School of Business, NYU, and the New York City Public School System. Lauren is also the creator of inner.u: Learn to Human BetterⓇ , the online coaching course that teaches the entirety of The Handel Method, which has been used by dozens of celebrities, CEOs, and entrepreneurs since 2004, and she is the author of Maybe It’s You (Published by Hachette Book Group, April 2017), a no-nonsense, practical manual that helps readers figure out not just what they want out of life, but how to actually get there. She has spent over 20 years coaching thousands of private and corporate clients, including executives at Live Nation, Ticketmaster, Vogue, BASF, and AOL. Lauren has been a featured expert in The New York Times, BBC, Forbes, Women’s Health, Dr. Oz, and Marie Claire and she is a regular contributor to Businessweek and the Huffington Post. STUDY WITH LAUREN: Learn to Human Better with my coach and dear friend Lauren Zander. Register for a lifetime subscription to Lauren's online coaching course, Inner.U. Find a special course discount for $75 off AND an offer for a complimentary coaching consultation at handelgroup.com/elenabrower. Your Inner.U subscription includes: 12 audio coaching sessions from Lauren Zander, 1 free private coaching session with an HG coach, 14 homework assignments, and the interactive Promise Tracker to accelerate your accountability and track your promises and consequences. Learn to Human Better with my coach and dear friend Lauren Zander. Register for a lifetime subscription to Lauren's online coaching course, Inner.U. Find a special course discount for $75 off AND an offer for a complimentary coaching consultation at handelgroup.com/elenabrower. Your Inner.U subscription includes: 12 audio coaching sessions from Lauren Zander, 1 free private coaching session with an HG coach, 14 homework assignments, and the interactive Promise Tracker to accelerate your accountability and track your promises and consequences. On the web: HGLife.Coach Facebook.com/HGLifeCoaching On Instagram @handelgroup Length: 53:09 Timecodes: 0:45 Introduction to Lauren Zander and The Handel Group 3:38 Habits and inner dialogue. 7:00 Lauren teaches personal integrity (keeping promises to yourself) and transparency. 9:30 Make a promise. Make it public. Be held accountable and pay a consequence. 11:30 Having integrity with anything you consider a vice, because it can get in the way of your vision. 12:40 Relationships: Maybe it’s You Bodegas and what each person is accountable for. 17:23 Know the truth of the division of labor in a relationship. How do we operate brilliantly together? 22:10 On not trying to change your partner. 24:45 Difference between conditional and unconditional love. 33:35 Parent Letter exercise and how it can restore unconditional love. 37:45 Asking your child at the end of the day, “what could i have done better?” 40:25 On being allowed to tell the truth and to make mistakes. The importance of saying sorry. 41:13 Inner.U course Having a sense of humour about what’s dark. Making new promises as a relationship grows. 46:07 What Prayer means to Lauren. Connecting to the subconscious and imprinting dreams. Neville Goddard. On imagination being God. 47:40 The Commune course with Lauren . Jeff Krasno (founder of Commune and co-founder of Wanderlust Scott Schwenk RESOURCES Learn to human better with Commune Commune courses Maybe It’s You by Lauren Zander (https://amzn.to/2EOZMHc) The Power of Imagination. The Neville Goddard Treasury
Lauren Zander, @laurenzander_coach, is the Co-Founder and Chairwoman of the Handel Group, a life coaching and corporate consulting company, and author of Maybe It's You: Cut the Crap. As a pioneer of life-coaching, she developed the Handel Method which is used by companies and schools to teach people personal integrity. Why are people committed to keeping promises to others but not to themselves? Episode 35 of the Time To Be You podcast teaches you to focus on your inner dialogue in order to find what you truly love. Lauren believes we inherit emotional DNA from our parents and that those traits are shaping our inner dialogue. 80% or more of your thoughts are negative which are keeping you from achieving your dreams. You must first recognize these negative thoughts in order to use your lower self to lead you to your higher self. -- Bio: Lauren Handel Zander is the Co-Founder and Chairwoman of Handel Group ® , an international corporate consulting and life coaching company. Her coaching methodology, The Handel Method ® , is taught in over35 universities and institutes of learning around the world, including MIT, Stanford Graduate School ofBusiness, NYU, and the New York City Public School System. Lauren is also the creator of Inner.U:Learn to Human Better Ⓡ , the online coaching course that teaches the entirety of The Handel Method, which has been used by dozens of celebrities, CEOs, and entrepreneurs since 2004, and she is the author of Maybe It’s You (Published by Hachette Book Group, April 2017), a no-nonsense, practical manual that helps readers figure out not just what they want out of life, but how to actually get there. She has spent over 20 years coaching thousands of private and corporate clients, including executives at LiveNation, Ticketmaster, Vogue , BASF, and AOL. Lauren has been a featured expert in The New YorkTimes, BBC, Forbes, Women’s Health, Dr. Oz, and Marie Claire and she is a regular contributor to Business week and the Huffington Post. Talk to a human and see if Handel Group coaching options are right for you: http://bit.ly/BEYOUCONSULT On the web: HGLife.Coach Facebook.com/HGLifeCoaching On Instagram @handelgroup Resources: Learn to Human Better with Lauren Zander's online coaching course, Inner.U. Sign up now with your TIMETOBEYOU100 coupon and get $100 OFF! Sign up before April 22nd and also receive these free gifts: 3 coaching cheat sheets, 3 coaching videos, and exclusive access to a live group coaching call with Lauren Zander on launch day. Get Started here: http://bit.ly/BEYOUINNERU Questions: 1. Can you give us a brief background of yourself and how you started the Handel Group? 2. What was your inspiration behind your book: Maybe It’s You: Cut the Crap, Face Your Fears, Love Your Life 3. In your experience working with entrepreneurs as well as with marriages - what are the top two things you feel come up the most that people are having issues with? 4. What really is the Handel Method? How did you develop it? 5. How do you balance running your own business, speaking and all that you do all while being a mom of 3? -- Follow Laura on IG ! https://www.instagram.com/laura_loveandfit/