Feed Play Love

As soon as Sean Szeps realised he was gay, he gave up his dreams of becoming a parent. What followed was a long and painful journey to remembering and realising his dream. Sean talks about his obsession with mums of all colours, the obstacles he and husband Josh faced on the road to parenthood, and why he's the best dad to a little girl. LINK: https://www.booktopia.com.au/not-like-other-dads-sean-szeps/book/9780733342691.html  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

For several years now Gen Muir has been giving Feed Play Love the benefit of their practical and compassionate advice on parenting. In our final week we've brought back one of our favourties- enjoy! "Attention seeking" in children gets a bad rap. Whether they're acting out, being clingy, or loud, this sort of behaviour is often dismissed frustrating and something to ignore.  But this attention seeking is just one of the ways kids try and seek connection with their parents and understanding this can help build better habits and stronger bonds.  Featured in this episode: Gen Muir, educator at Connected Parenting https://www.connectedparenting.com.au/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We're often talking and thinking about how to help our girls achieve equality, but what about our boys? Are we raising them to have equal ability to express emotions, to embody different ideas of masculinity... to be themselves? Kasey Edwards and Dr Christopher Scanlon are the authors of Bringing up Boys Who Like Themselves...  and they've looked deeply into the things that are holding our boys back. They talk about how we can all take steps today to help raise our boys to be healthy men. LINKS: https://www.booktopia.com.au/bringing-up-boys-who-like-themselves-kasey-edwards/book/9780143778738.html?gclid=Cj0KCQjw4NujBhC5ARIsAF4Iv6etVrGOBKsqm-6jS8kQzkrz8yiIaripZImChFo3r1hx8Tdk0aDt3ykaAoX-EALw_wcB See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Wouldn't it be nice if everyone in life was easy to get along with?  The truth is that no woman is an island, and so we often need to have relationships with people who are... difficult. Dr Rebecca Ray is the author of Difficult People – which is the ultimate guide for those of us struggling to manage these people in our lives.  LINK: https://www.panmacmillan.com.au/9781761261664/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

One of our favourite parenting experts - Maggie Dent has always managed to step into a room and help parents feel at ease. To feel seen and heard. Her words always hit the right note with empathy, practical advice and understanding. We start our final week with this awesome episode from the archives, where Maggie explains how we can best communicate with our sons. LINKS: https://www.maggiedent.com/   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

One guest has been a consistent voice of reason across the years it's Sarah Hunstead from CPR kids. In the episode from our archives she helps to answer one of the biggest questions parents of small children ask: 'when do I keep my child home from daycare? LINKS: https://www.cprkids.com.au/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As Feed Play Love comes to an end we're repeating some of our favourite interviews from the archive. Enjoy! Professor Hannah Dahlen is a midwife, lecturer, international researcher and speaker. She believes that "the hand that rocks the cradle rules the world". From her early life in Yemen, witnessing and aiding women in labour, to training in London (where her mum was one of the midwives later depicted in the BBC series Call the Midwife), Hannah explains how her passion for midwifery and women's rights in birthing came to be.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As Feed Play Love rolls to a close after 8 years of production, we're bringing back some of our favourite interviews - enjoy! Discipline can mean different things to different people. To that cranky man in the supermarket - it's a short cuff around the ear. To your partner it might be 'time out' or a stern talking to. But psychologist Vanessa Lapointe says that discipline is about punishment, and that it's possible to apply the principles of discipline without yelling at or hurting our kids. Vanessa has written a book called Discipline without DamageShe takes us through her philosophy and how it works.not.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Parents today try so hard to get it right, but we often feel we're doing it all wrong.  And that, on top of the physical nature of parenting, is exhausting.  Dr Justin Coulson is a parenting educator and the author of The Parenting Revolution, A guide to raising resilient kids and he has some ideas on how we can get it right, without so much heart ache.  LINKS: https://www.happyfamilies.com.au/shop/product/the-parenting-revolution  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Rachael Coopes is best known as a Play School presenter and author. But did you know she was also once a clown in Paris? Rachael recently released her latest book Paris For Beginners an account of her adventure to a clown school in Paris in her late 20s. To write the book she went back to Paris, her first non-work solo trip without her son in ten years. Rachael talks about what it's like to revisit such a significant place of her pre-child life, and why we all need to escape the everyday stress of parenting once in a while. LINKS:https://affirmpress.com.au/publishing/paris-for-beginners/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This is an interview from our archives with one of our favourite experts When your child is a toddler you learn that tantrums are a normal part of their development. As they grow older you may start to wonder why they are still happening. Child development expert Karen Young from Hey Sigmund says that the path to emotional intelligence is long, and that it's very normal for older kids to have tantrums. Karen explains what to do when your child is struggling to manage their anger.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This interview is brought to you by Bellamy's Organic. In the first year of life our babies have some incredible milestones. One of the most fun (and sometimes scary) milestone is starting solids. But this particular step comes with so many questions. How do you know when they're ready? Do you start with mashed food or pieces of 'finger food'? And what about the mess? Jess Beaton from One Handed Cooks is a mum of four and a practicing dietician. Apart from having introduced solids four times, she also has the research and science behind the best way to start feeding solids to your baby.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

While getting a floral mug and some time to read a good book is a pretty amazing way to spend mother's day, Kate Christie author of The Life List says there's something much more powerful that mums can do this mother's day. LINKS: https://www.booktopia.com.au/the-life-list-kate-christie/book/9781394184514.html See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This interview was previously aired in August 2022 Social media can cop a lot of flak. And most times - I'd agree with it. But Mikhailla Fitzgerald's story has made me think twice. As an influencer Mikhailla was used to sharing her life online, so when she fell pregnant it was natural to document that journey. But then things went wrong, and showing up online became one of the hardest things she had to do. She was very generous to share her story on the show, and to explain how Instagram helped her through some of her darkest days. MIKHAILLA'S BOOKS: https://wholeheartedly.com.au/collections/childrens-books MIKHAILLA ON INSTAGRAM:  https://www.instagram.com/mikhailla/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Babies and toddlers are delightful. They are at an age where they are the cutest they will ever be. Which is fortunate, because babies and toddlers are hard work.  Dr Preeya Alexander is a GP, mum of two and author of Eat Sleep Play Love.  Preeya shares her insight on how parents can manage the under twos, and how to embrace your own particular style of parenting. LINKS:The book: https://www.booktopia.com.au/eat-sleep-play-love-preeya-alexander/book/9781761108976.html?source=pla&gclid=CjwKCAjwjMiiBhA4EiwAZe6jQ3w1jvzKmjui4JwrqE84A0j2TO0hQWHwogFw9YUenELVyRGJQdnsnhoCXBYQAvD_BwE See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Parents today are constantly chasing their tails.  They're dropping kids off to day care or school, driving them to swimming, piano, or soccor... helping them with homework while trying to cook dinner.. And tucking them in to bed while trying to finish work emails.  Even while you're doing all the things it can feel like it's never enough.  So what is enough? Gen Muir from Connected Parenting explains what actually makes a difference to our children. LINKS: https://www.connectedparenting.com.au/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

One of our favourites from the archive Do you sing your child to sleep? Dr Anita Collins is a researcher in the area of music education and cognitive development. She takes us through what's happening between parent and child when you sing a lullaby.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Back by popular demand! Spiders, the dark, that thing under the bed, needles, loud noises...you name it, there are a LOT of things that our kids might have a phobia of.   What are the best ways to help? Hint: shielding kids from the source of their fear doesn't work in the long-run. Featured in this episode: Dr Fran Doyle, clinical psychologist and researcher at Western Sydney University. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We're repeating this podcast because we feel it's something every mother needs to remember!!! Do you have a 'to-do' list? Do you ever feel bad if you don't tick off all the items? When you're a busy parent it can be really hard to feel like you're kicking all the goals. This is when the feeling of 'not-enough-ness' creeps in. You can feel stretched between all your responsibilities and nothing you do seems to be good enough. But Dr Rebecca Ray is here to tell you that you are enough. She's also got a few ideas on how you can re-set the way you think that will help you feel more at ease with who you are and what you do. Rebecca's latest book is called Small Habits for a Big Life : https://www.panmacmillan.com.au/9781761260735/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The first aid you apply to a burn can make a huge difference in how your child recovers from an accident. In our final episode for this season of Mother Doctor Nurse, paediatric nurse Sarah Hunstead answers your questions. Links mentioned in this episode:  https://www.fire.nsw.gov.au/page.php?id=9047 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode is back by popular demand! Matt Baseley is a TV presenter and dad of three. When it comes to spending time with his kids Matt loves to get messy in the kitchen. If you follow his Insta you will find many examples of how much fun they have together. The secret, Matt explains, is about following your own passion. Matt talks about his own love of cooking and how he deals with fussy eaters.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Isabelle Odenberg wants to start a conversation about miscarriage. She wants us to talk about grief and loss and about how to support women medically and emotionally. Her book Hard to Bear investigates why miscarriage remains a topic that many people are still uncomfortable with.  Her book is available at https://www.hardtobear.com/   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

There's nothing as terrifying as seeing your child choking. Paediatric nurse Sarah Hunstead knows how to avoid choking in the first place, and what to do if it happens. In the 11th episode of Mother Doctor Nurse Sarah answers your questions. Our final episode in this season on is all about kids and burns! Do you have a question for Mother Doctor Nurse? Send it through to feedplaylove@sca.com.au Links mentioned in this episode: This podcast live (with video)- https://www.facebook.com/CPRKids/videos/3467968996816169 Choking first aid -  Prevention, Recognition and Response full video: https://youtu.be/D9BJL5qgPscRCH fact sheet: https://www.rch.org.au/kidsinfo/fact_sheets/Safety_Choking_suffocation_strangulation/Kidsafe Queensland Amber Teething necklacest: https://kidsafeqld.com.au/are-amber-teething-necklaces-safe/Red Nose: https://rednose.org.au/article/will-baby-choke-if-he-she-vomits-while-sleeping-on-the-backChoking prevention blog: https://www.cprkids.com.au/2020/11/02/the-four-ss-of-choking-prevention/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode is back by popular demand The world is not made for neurodivergent people. It can be particularly challenging for children on the spectrum who are growing up and learning in a world that isn't always kind or understanding. Chloe Hayden grew up feeling like a square peg in a round hole. School in particular was very challenging. In her own words, it sucked. But Chloe is here to help other neurodivergent children and their families. Her book is called Different not Less, a neurodivergent's guide to embracing your true self and finding your happily ever after. Link to book: https://bit.ly/3RwyaKm See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You may have heard that boys can be a bit behind girls in terms of their social development. But do you know how important and deep boy friendships can be? Gen Muir is a parenting educator and mother of four boys. Gen talks about why parents need to nurture the friendships in their boys' lives. More about Gen: https://www.connectedparenting.com.au/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Vomiting and diarrhoea are unpleasant things to deal with, but they can be dangerous cfor our kids if we don't manage it properly. On this episode of Mother Doctor Nurse paediatric nurse Sarah Hunstead answers your questions. Our next episode is all about choking and how to avoid it when introducing solids. Do you have a question for Mother Doctor Nurse? Send it through to feedplaylove@sca.com.au Links discussed in this episode: https://www.schn.health.nsw.gov.au/files/factsheets/gastroenteritis_-en.pdfhttps://www.gesa.org.au/public/13/files/Education %26 Resources/Patient Resources/Gastroenteritis in Children/Gastroenteritis in Children_2022_APPROVED.pdf  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This interview is back by popular demand Children are all born with their own personalities, and when that personality is completely different to yours it can be challenging. How do you help support a child who is naturally introverted when your modus operandi is loud and proud? Dr Vanessa Lapointe is a psychologist, author and parenting educator. She shows us how to see the world from our introvert's eyes, and what they need most to thrive. Find out more about Vanessa at her website: https://drvanessalapointe.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When you get to the end of a week – do you have much left in the kitty?  Do you feel like you have plenty of leeway when it comes to bills, groceries, rent or mortgage repayments?  Because the truth is – the rising costs of living are really starting to hurt.  Yahoo Finance Editor in Chief Kate Browne explains why everything is so pricey and gives us tips on how we can manage some very basic costs.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When you are raising children in Australia you need to know what to do about bites and stings. Both how to prevent them, and then how to treat them. On this episode of Mother Doctor Nurse paediatrician Dr Deb Levy and paediatric nurse Sarah Hunstead answer your questions about bites and stings. Our next episode is all about vomiting and diarrhoea! Do you have a question for Mother Doctor Nurse? Send it through to feedplaylove@sca.com.au Links discussed in this episode: Pressure Immobilisation Technique - First aid for Snake & funnel web biteshttps://youtu.be/yZE2iq1dh2I White tailed spiders: https://biomedicalsciences.unimelb.edu.au/departments/department-of-biochemistry-and-pharmacology/engage/avru/discover/spiders/white-tailed-spidersAustralian Bites and Stings app: https://www.bitesandstings.com.au/Spidentify: https://identify-spiders.com/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin Hill from The Streaming Service joins us to outline the best shows coming up for kids this April.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Australia has an incredible public health system, but there are still challenges for many Australians when it comes to getting access to the right kind of pregnancy and birth support. Jodi Wilson co-authored The Complete Australian Guide to Pregnancy and Birth. As part of her research for the book Jodi looked into disadvantaged communities. She explains how some women are missing out on the support they need. For more information on Jodi Wilson check out her website https://www.practisingsimplicity.com/ and you can find The Complete Australian Guide to Pregnancy and Birth here: https://www.booktopia.com.au/the-complete-australian-guide-to-pregnancy-and-birth-sophie-walker/book/9781922616036.html?dsa=s1-east&gclid=CjwKCAjw5dqgBhBNEiwA7PryaBvo9WfDc-ZxVG3OpLsdayq0LIxALyFxbypXOGyX_6yTdDxgaQ772BoC59cQAvD_BwE See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Allergic reactions in children can range from the mild to severe... and they can have a big impact on quality of life for your child and your family.  On this episode of Mother Doctor Nurse paediatrician Dr Deb Levy answer all your questions about allergies. Next episode we're tackling bites and stings. Maybe your child gets huge swelling from mosquito bites, or you're worried about how to treat a blue bottle sting. Send your questions through to feedplaylove@sca.com.au Links mentioned in this episode:ALLERGY:https://www.allergy.org.au/https://preventallergies.org.au/https://www.drdeblevy.com/can-hand-washing-cause-food-allergies/https://www.drdeblevy.com/is-it-a-food-allergy/ FOOD INTOLERANCE:https://www.drdeblevy.com/when-food-hurts/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Trigger warning: This interview contains reference to preterm birth, infant mortality and traumatic birth. Shannon Trenwith and Kim Spragg did not have your average first birth. Their daughter Agnes was born premature at 23 weeks at a time when Covid-19 safety measures were in full force in hospitals in Melbourne. Shannon and Kim talk about their incredible experience navigating the uncertainty, fear and isolation of having a baby preterm during the pandemic. If this story has been upsetting for you, please see the following organisations for help: The Australasian Birth Trauma Association - https://birthtrauma.org.au/ The Gidget Foundation - https://www.gidgetfoundation.org.au/COPE - https://www.cope.org.au/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Do you have a child who gets upset if they don't come first in every race? A child who has to make cupcakes like the winning cupcakes on Bake Off? Children who are focussed on being the best often face great disappointment. Dr Kaylene Henderson is a psychiatrist and parenting educator who believes in the power of "Flearning". To find out what flearning is and how to help your child embrace imperfection, listen to this episode. Dr Kaylene Henderson: https://drkaylenehenderson.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If there's one thing that parents want to know, it's how to get their children to sleep. Whether it's a baby who won't sleep more than 45 minutes at a time, or a 3-year-old who gets into bed with you at 1am, many of us could do with a helping hand.  On this episode of Mother Doctor Nurse paediatrician Dr Deb Levy and paediatric nurse Sarah Hunstead answer your questions. Our next episode is all about allergies! Do you have a question for Mother Doctor Nurse? Send it through to feedplaylove@sca.com.au  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Going back to work after having a baby can feel overwhelming. Your baby might still be breastfeeding, not sleeping through the night or you just don't want to leave them. Your baby might be older, and it could feel like you haven't been in the working world for decades. Elise Clement is a life coach who specialises in supporting women. In this episode she talks about how mums can find a way back to work that suits where they are at in life.  Elise Clement: https://www.eliseclement.com/ Elise's blog article on returning to work: https://www.eliseclement.com/returning-to-work-after-maternity-leave/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Gen Muir is a mum of four boys. Over the years she's copped some strange comments from people about what it must be like. Not many of them have been accurate. In this episode Gen explains all the things people don't understand about being the mother of four boys, and why it's actually brilliant.  Gen is also a parenting educator at Connected Parenting: https://www.connectedparenting.com.au/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's fair to say that prior to kids you didn't talk much about poo in everyday conversation. Once you become a parent however, it's hard to avoid. Because what comes out gives us a good indication of what's happening inside our little ones. On this episode of Mother Doctor Nurse paediatrician Dr Deb Levy and paediatric nurse Sarah Hunstead answer many, many questions about poo, including a curious thing that happens with unchewed sultanas. Our next episode is all about poo! Do you have a question for Mother Doctor Nurse? Send it through to feedplaylove@sca.com.au More information from Dr Deb Levy:  https://www.drdeblevy.com/a-quick-guide-to-your-kids-poop/https://www.drdeblevy.com/what-colour-should-poop-be/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Staying on top of all the things - day care admin, play dates, family and friend commitments, bills - is only possible in the modern world thanks to our mobile phones. Unfortunately that utility also means we are super attached to our phones in a way that's not necessarily healthy. Dr Kristy Goodwin is a digital wellbeing expert and author of Dear Digital, We need to talk. Kristy gives us some great tips on how to manage our digital distraction without throwing away our phones. To find a copy of Dear Digital check out this website- https://drkristygoodwin.com/deardigital/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Seeing yourself reflected in the world is important. Which is why Jasper Peach decided to create their book, You'll Be a Wonderful Parent, advice and encouragement for rainbow families of all kinds. Jasper Peach is a trans, non-binary disabled writer with two children and a wife. Their book aims to support and guide anyone in the rainbow community who wants to start a family. For copies of the book: https://www.hardiegrant.com/au/publishing/bookfinder/book/you_ll-be-a-wonderful-parent-by-jasper-peach/9781743798614 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Just because you have the same equipment as your daughter doesn't mean you know all the things. Human bodies are curious things that can be surprising. Which is probably why Paediatrician Dr Deb Levy and paediatric nurse Sarah Hunstead had so many questions to answer on this episode of Mother Doctor Nurse all about female genitalia.  Our next episode is all about poo! Do you have a question for Mother Doctor Nurse? Send it through to feedplaylove@sca.com.au Websites mentioned in this episode:https://bravehearts.org.au/about-child-sexual-abuse/personal-safety-for-children-young-people/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The year has well and truly started- as have the new releases across streaming platforms. Justin Hill, host of The Streaming Service gives the low-down on the best viewing this month.  https://www.listnr.com/podcasts/the-streaming-service-with-justin-hillSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Covid-19 pandemic changed a lot of things. It changed how we felt about being out in public, how we communicated online. But it also had an impact on things like how we care for those we love. The Murdoch Children's Research Institute led a study across 10 countries and over 600 babies to find out how safety measures during the pandemic impacted on birthing families. Murdoch Children's Group Leader, Neonatal Research Professor David Tingay reveals the surprising insights into the measures applied in most countries - and what we can learn from this experience should we face different pandemics in the future. The article published in the Lancet: thelancet.com/journals/eclinm/article/PIIS2589-5370(22)00551-X/fulltextSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

To state the obvious: when we care for our babies we care for every little part of them - and that includes their genitalia. Sometimes where we're caring for a child that's the opposite of the sex we were born with, there can be quite a few unknowns. Paediatrician Dr Deb Levy and paediatric nurse Sarah Hunstead answer your questions about all the things related to penises, testicals and scrotums - plus give some valuable awareness around the potentially dangerous situations to be aware of.  Our next episode is all about girl bits! Do you have a question for Mother Doctor Nurse? Send it through to feedplaylove@sca.com.au Websites mentioned in this episode:https://bravehearts.org.au/ https://raisingchildren.net.au/guides/a-z-health-reference/foreskin   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What do you know about manifestation? You might think it's a bit "woo woo"- out-there and not relevant to your parenting life, but Sarah Grynsberg would disagree. She says it's a powerful tool that can help your child feel confident and loved. Sarah is the host of the LiSTNR podcast The Greatness Within. On this episode of Feed Play Love Sarah explains how manifestation can work for kids. The Greatness Within- https://www.listnr.com/podcasts/unlock-the-greatness-withinSarah's meditation for kids- https://sarahgrynberg.com/shop/kids-manifestation-meditation See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.