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Marriage and relationships can be tough. You may feel like you’re the only one struggling but you’re not. Life After I do is a weekly podcast where Morice and Kynesha, a black married millennial couple, share their experiences and advice on everything from kids and family to intimacy and connection. Noting is off limits.  In their 21 years together and 7 years of marriage, Morice and Kynesha have learned a lot about what it takes to make a relationship work. They know the importance of communication, trust and commitment. They also know it’s okay to not have it all figured out.  Join them every Wednesday as they talk about their own journey of “Life After I do”.

Life After I Do


    • May 14, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
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    • 56m AVG DURATION
    • 86 EPISODES


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    3PM on Thursday

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2025 56:27 Transcription Available


    Send us a textWhere does your loyalty truly lie when you find out your friend's spouse is cheating? This week on Life After I Do, we dive headfirst into the messy, emotional, and morally gray territory of infidelity, loyalty, and friendship. Spoiler: there are no easy answers.

    What Jams My Glock

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2025 62:02 Transcription Available


    Send us a textHow do you speak your truth without cutting too deep? This week on Life After I Do, Kynesha and Morice wade into the messy middle of marriage—where quirks become pet peeves, and honesty walks a fine line with empathy.From bathroom antics and baffling dishwasher arrangements to eyebrow-raising comments about postpartum bodies, nothing is off-limits. But beneath the laughs and frustrations lies a deeper truth: how you communicate matters just as much as what you say. As Morice notes, "You can't take all the sexy out of the room and then ask for sex."

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 16

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 50:42 Transcription Available


    Send us a textMarriage is like peanut butter and jelly—different flavors, better together—and choosing the right partner might be the most important decision you'll ever make. This week on Life After I Do, Nesha G and Moelethal serve up another unfiltered Our 2 Cents episode packed with major wins, tough debates, and undeniable relationship truths.

    Couple's Roast

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2025 51:02 Transcription Available


    Send us a textEver roasted your partner so well they laughed and looked personally attacked?

    This Or That

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2025 53:17 Transcription Available


    Send us a text✨ Marriage isn't always picture-perfect—and that's okay. In this hilarious and brutally honest episode of Life After I Do, Kynesha and Morice peel back the curtain on the real, messy, and surprisingly funny side of long-term love.From sleeping in separate rooms for better rest to debating emotional cheating, this episode is packed with candid moments that prove no topic is off-limits.

    The Ego Effect

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2025 87:39 Transcription Available


    Send us a textWhat IS the male ego—and why does it cause so much friction in relationships? In this powerful episode of Life After I Do, Kynesha and Morice dive deep into the psychology behind ego, identity, and connection in love.With our signature mix of humor and heart, we break down:

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 15

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2025 58:45 Transcription Available


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    Emotional Damage

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2025 55:42 Transcription Available


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    Who Did I Marry?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2025 57:38 Transcription Available


    Send us a textWhat if the greatest act of love isn't grand gestures—but simply creating a safe space for your partner to be their true self? This week, we dive deep into this powerful insight, exploring how making room for each other's growth can strengthen your bond in unexpected ways."Your confidence level is trending up." What sounds like a simple observation is actually proof of what happens when couples truly support and uplift one another. From early morning gym sessions (where one reluctant partner becomes an unexpected cameraman and weight-spotter) to childhood memories (like recognizing the one in middle school!), we share personal stories that highlight the small, everyday ways we express love.

    Relationship Burnout

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2025 52:45 Transcription Available


    Send us a textFeeling emotionally drained, easily irritated, and disconnected from your partner? You might be experiencing relationship burnout – and you're not alone! Studies show 40% of people believe high stress negatively impacts their relationships.In this episode, we dive deep into "mankeeping" – the hidden emotional labor where one partner (often women) carries the weight of their significant other's moods and reactions. Ever found yourself walking on eggshells, waiting for the right moment to talk about something important? That's mankeeping in action, and over time, it creates an exhausting imbalance that wears down your connection.

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 14

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2025 55:07 Transcription Available


    Send us a textIn this volume of Our 2 Cents we dive in with humor and real talk. We discuss family dynamics, communication, and the role of wellness in a strong partnership. Join us for laughter, insights, and deep conversations on keeping relationships thriving! 

    Would You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2025 50:23 Transcription Available


    Send us a textThis week on the LAID, we're diving into a fun and thought-provoking game of Would You Rather: Marriage Edition! Join us as we tackle hilarious, tricky, and sometimes deep relationship scenarios. From tough choices to laugh-out-loud moments, we're putting our marriage instincts to the test. Sit back, relax, and play along as we navigate the mystery situations of Would You Rather! 

    Rings, Riches & Regrets

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2025 59:34 Transcription Available


    Send us a textThis episode dives into the pitfalls of marrying for aesthetics, exploring how materialism overshadows genuine emotional connections. Through personal stories and insightful analysis, the hosts challenge societal norms that equate love with lavish weddings and extravagant rings. Tune in to rethink the foundation of your relationships and prioritize emotional intelligence over superficiality.

    Love & Respect

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2025 76:50 Transcription Available


    Send us a textNavigating love and respect in relationships can be tricky, but it's possible! In this episode, we explore emotional cycles, the power of validation, and intentional actions to strengthen bonds. Learn strategies for tough conversations, addressing intimacy issues, and fostering open communication. Let's build relationships where love and respect thrive!

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 13

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2025 45:26 Transcription Available


    Send us a textThis volume of Our 2 Cents, we dive deep into the complexities of modern relationships, exploring how mental health, personal growth, and communication shape our connections. From setting boundaries to fostering honesty, we unpack the challenges of love with relatable anecdotes and real-life dilemmas. Join us as we reflect on listener-submitted scenarios, discuss the importance of empathy, and share personal updates from our week. Whether you're navigating a new relationship or strengthening an existing one, this episode offers thoughtful insights to help you grow while maintaining your identity. Tune in for an honest, heartfelt conversation about love, life, and everything in between.

    Privacy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2025 45:13 Transcription Available


    Send us a textIn this episode, we dive into the delicate balance between trust and privacy in relationships, especially in the age of smartphones. How much privacy should partners have? When does curiosity turn into snooping? And how do past experiences shape our ability to trust? 

    Discomfort

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2025 52:10 Transcription Available


    Send us a textIn this episode, we explore personal growth and self-awareness, tackling anxiety and embracing self-accountability. We discuss the challenges of setting family boundaries, the humor in flipping parental rules, and the importance of respecting personal choices while maintaining open communication. Join us for a heartfelt, laughter-filled conversation on family, marriage, and navigating the path to personal development. 

    Soulmates

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2025 49:58 Transcription Available


    Send us a textThis episode unpacks the mythology of soulmates and delves into the realities of building meaningful relationships. We discuss how understanding yourself and being complete as an individual is crucial before seeking a partner. Discover the power of friendships, the impact of societal expectations, and the role of open communication in resolving conflicts and fostering connection. Join us as we challenge traditional ideas and offer insights for creating fulfilling, authentic relationships. 

    Are Married Friends Necessary?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2025 65:31 Transcription Available


    Send us a textEver wondered how married friends can impact your relationship? We dive into the importance of having a supportive circle of friends who understand the vows we've taken. From offering advice to friends in dysfunctional marriages to exploring the significance of mutual effort and self-reflection, we tackle the complexities of relationships. Our candid conversations reveal the ups and downs that even the happiest couples face, and we explore how to pour into your marriage to avoid long-lasting resentment. With a mix of personal anecdotes and practical strategies, we aim to offer insights that resonate with anyone navigating the journey of love and partnership.

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 12

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 2025 47:13 Transcription Available


    Send us a textWe are back! Kicking off the new year with another installment of Our 2 Cents. Sit back and enjoy as we bring to you situations from around the internet and add Our 2 Cents

    21 Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2024 56:34 Transcription Available


    Send us a textReflecting on our journey, we cherish the path from high school flirtations to a spontaneous Vegas wedding. Through playful banter and heartfelt talks, we've learned to nurture and understand each other's needs. Seasoned by time, our bond has grown stronger through honesty and shared experiences. Together, we celebrate the simple joys, challenges overcome, and the enduring love that continues to evolve with us and our family. Here's to love that stands the test of time! 

    Sex Before Marriage?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2024 45:16 Transcription Available


    Send us a textJoin us for an insightful discussion about building meaningful relationships through shared intimacy and personal growth. Through thoughtful relationship advice and marriage matters, we explore how couples can develop deeper connections when discovering life together. By focusing on love and respect, we'll understand how learning and growing as a unit creates lasting bonds that strengthen over time.

    Attachment Types

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2024 58:28 Transcription Available


    Send us a textJoin us as we dive into the emotional landscape of relationships, exploring how childhood attachment styles—secure, anxious, or avoidant—shape our interactions today. Through open conversations, we emphasize the power of empathy, communication, and self-awareness in overcoming conflicts and celebrating growth together. Let's build healthier, stronger relationships! 

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 11

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2024 51:01 Transcription Available


    Send us a textIn this installment of Our 2 Cents, we dive into the complexities of financial responsibility in marriage, inspired by a fiery "Am I the Asshole" scenario about balancing sabbaticals and financial burdens. Alongside this serious exploration, we discuss weight changes in relationships, emphasizing compassion and communication. Lightening the mood, we tackle the chaos of family dinner dynamics with humor and relatable banter. Join us for a perfect blend of laughs, insights, and heartfelt dialogue about life, love, and family. 

    Living With A Nagging Partner!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2024 51:14 Transcription Available


    Send us a textEver felt like your partner's feedback comes off as criticism? This episode explores relationship communication and the role of therapy in personal growth. We discuss the emotional and financial challenges we've faced, highlighting mental health awareness and the importance of celebrating small victories. Our conversation delves into family dynamics, balancing responsibilities, and setting boundaries, emphasizing the importance of empathy, clear communication, and collaboration in building stronger personal and familial relationships. 

    Can A Simple Hug Save Your Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2024 62:11 Transcription Available


    Send us a text Finding the right balance of affection in relationships is essential, allowing for both closeness and personal space. We discuss how small gestures can sometimes have a greater impact than grand displays, helping to strengthen bonds without overwhelming one another. Our conversation also dives into emotional vulnerability, particularly for men, emphasizing the importance of creating a safe space for open expression. This builds trust and deepens intimacy, reminding us all of the power of proactive communication and mutual understanding in relationships. 

    Trust Issues

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2024 51:13 Transcription Available


    Send us a textBalancing financial duties and family roles is essential to a strong relationship. We delve into the impact of long work hours, the importance of follow-through, and how unmet expectations can harm respect. Discover stories of empathy, mutual support, and trusting karma to handle life's injustices. From managing private conversations to dealing with infidelity, we explore the art of navigating household dynamics, self-care, and forgiveness—avoiding the paths that lead to divorce. 

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 10

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2024 60:42 Transcription Available


    Send us a textWe are back again with another installment of our very own "Our 2 Cents" Sit back, relax and enjoy as we bring the wildest stories from across the internet.

    Transactional Ties

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2024 60:26 Transcription Available


    Send us a textWe unpack the balance of humor and vulnerability in relationships. From family dynamics and evolving gender roles to financial power struggles, we take a deep dive into real-life stories. Inspired by Corey Holcomb's provocative insights, we explore how trust, infidelity, and societal expectations impact modern love. Join us for an honest discussion on love, growth, and the lessons learned after saying "I do."

    Thriving Without Ties

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2024 51:55 Transcription Available


    Send us a textEver questioned the real difference between single and married life? Join us as we challenge societal norms around happiness, marriage, and gender roles, debunking myths about the one-size-fits-all path. We dive into the emotional dynamics of relationships, societal pressures on women, and the unique joys of different life choices—kids or no kids, marriage or staying single. Explore love, commitment, and self-discovery as we celebrate the freedom to carve out your own journey to fulfillment and lasting happiness.

    Triggered Desire

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2024 44:43 Transcription Available


    Send us a textRelationships go beyond romance—they demand navigating desire, intimacy, and understanding. In this video, we delve into maintaining sexual desire in long-term relationships, exploring spontaneous versus responsive desire, and the power of non-sexual intimacy. From the impact of quirks like chronic lateness to the importance of love languages, we unpack how communication, accountability, and “maintenance sessions” keep the spark alive. Join us for a candid look at the ups and downs of modern relationships! 

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 9

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2024 46:38 Transcription Available


    Send us a textOur favorite reaction segment is back, we're diving into "Our 2 Cents." Join us as we react to a variety of stories and scenarios from across the internet. Tune in for our takes, laughs, and insights—don't miss out! 

    Default

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2024 47:23 Transcription Available


    Send us a textEver felt overwhelmed as the "default parent" when your partner is home but not fully engaged? You're not alone. This week on Life After I Do, we share candid and humorous reflections on handling household responsibilities and parenting. We explore the complexities of parenting and relationship dynamics when one partner takes on the bulk of duties. Feelings of overwhelm, fairness, and the role of humor in keeping harmony are discussed in this episode, packed with relatable stories, insights, and plenty of laughs. 

    Foundation

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2024 54:09 Transcription Available


    Send us a textOn this week's episode, we explore the key traits women often seek in men and how these qualities contributed to the longevity of our relationship. Through personal stories from our teenage years, we highlight the importance of kindness, intelligence, and being a good provider. We also discuss why relationships fail when these traits are neglected. Finally, we examine modern dating, focusing on emotional safety and growth, and wrap up with a listener dilemma in our "Our Two Cents" segment, offering both humor and heartfelt advice. 

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 8

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2024 51:21 Transcription Available


    Send us a textFrom balancing chores to navigating adult children's issues, this episode is packed with humor, relatable stories, and heartfelt discussions on family and relationships. We're back sharing Our 2 Cents on topics around the inter-webs.

    Reliable Leadership

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2024 44:09 Transcription Available


    Send us a textOn this week's episode, we explore the intricacies of leadership within marriage. We share our perspectives on what it means to be a strong leader while valuing your partner's feelings and opinions. We'll also discuss the importance of knowing when and how to delegate responsibilities. Join LAID as we delve into the challenges and nuances of leadership in relationships. 

    The Right Amount

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2024 42:09 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.Physical intimacy can be a complex and delicate part of any relationship. What happens when the pressures of daily life interfere with our desires? We candidly talk about our own experiences, including a failed challenge to increase intimacy, and explore the different ways men and women approach physical connection. Understanding each other's needs and finding a balance is key, and we emphasize how crucial mutual understanding is to maintaining a satisfying relationship. Through our personal anecdotes, we highlight the efforts required to keep the spark alive, even when life gets in the way.

    Effort

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2024 71:17 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.When your partner evolves unexpectedly, it can be a challenge. In this episode, we share funny and heartfelt stories about navigating changes in long-term relationships. We dive into balancing love, chores, and happiness, discussing trust, forgiveness, and even treating marriage like an NBA contract—all with humor and practical advice. 

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 7

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2024 48:25 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.After a week off, we are back sharing our 2 cents. Enjoy.

    Staying Connected

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2024 48:47 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.Ever wondered how to keep romance alive amidst the chaos of parenthood? Join Nesha G and Moelethal as they share their heartwarming journey through marriage and parenting. Enjoy laughs over a funny story involving watermelon seeds and hear about balancing household duties, quirky moments with their daughter, and efforts to carve out quality time together. Tune in for a candid conversation full of love, laughs, and real-life parenting struggles. 

    Realities of Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2024 63:53 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.Who benefits more from marriage—men or women? Our spirited debate explores the health perks men gain from marriage versus the fulfillment women seek in traditional roles that may not always lead to happiness. We also discuss balancing household duties, emotional disconnects due to societal conditioning, and the struggles men face in being emotionally available.Don't miss out! Join Nesha G and Molethal as they break down the complexities of marriage, love, and everything in between. Tune in now and be part of the conversation!

    Reduced

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2024 48:37 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.Ever wondered how income differences impact relationships? Join Nesha G and Molethal in a hilarious and heartfelt episode of "Life After I Do" as they explore high-earning women dating, share funny moments from their marriage, and discuss parenting styles. Tune in for laughs, insights, and thought-provoking conversations! 

    Validation

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2024 63:17 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.Ever found yourself in a tangle of miscommunication and hurt feelings with your loved one? This week on Life After I Do, we peel back the layers of emotional validation and the pitfalls of defensiveness. We emphasize the importance of not treating marriage as transactional, and how filling each other's emotional cups without keeping score can lead to deeper connections. Tune in for practical advice, heartfelt discussions, and plenty of laughs! 

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 6

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2024 48:40 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.We are back! Giving our 2 cents as we react to post and answer questions about relationships and marriage.

    Ego Driven

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2024 47:30 Transcription Available


    Real talk about the expectations and dynamics between men and women in modern relationships. Are we asking too much from women when we expect them to juggle traditional roles and financial responsibilities? With insight and humor, we dissect the need for balance and mutual support, underscoring the importance of finding a partner who truly complements and collaborates with you. 

    Gaslit

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2024 53:24 Transcription Available


     We explore emotional validation and communication styles in relationships, highlighting the importance of validating emotions and distinguishing between genuine disagreement and gaslighting. Through personal anecdotes, we discuss differing communication styles, broken promises, household duties, and financial boundaries in new relationships. Packed with insights and laughs! 

    Infidelity

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2024 55:26 Transcription Available


     This episode takes a serious turn with a raw discussion on the strains of infidelity in marriage. We explore emotional vs. physical cheating, emotional manipulation, unrecognized effort, and internal conflicts between revenge and preservation. Through personal stories, we underscore the importance of transparency and communication. Join us for honest conversations about the realities of married life. 

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 5

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2024 54:21 Transcription Available


    We are back with another week on reactions. Enjoy!

    Love's Many Faces

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2024 54:12 Transcription Available


    Ever wonder how "me time" could strengthen your partnership? Join us as we share how personal boundaries can be celebrated. We discuss reconnecting with oneself, polygyny's place in modern society, and the financial and emotional aftermath of divorce. Tune in for laughs, insights, and real talk on trust and growth in all relationships.

    His Peace

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2024 68:47 Transcription Available


    Dissecting the realities that shape our connection as husband and wife, confronting those unspoken pressures that test even the strongest of bonds. Join us as we peel away the layers of partnership, discussing everything from the importance of clarifying expectations to the weight of decision-making in marriage.

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 4

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2024 45:23 Transcription Available


    This week, we're bringing you into our world where love and liking can comically collide. Amidst laughter and candid reflections,  we unpack conundrums with empathy and honesty, offering our take on the intricacies of familial obligations and boundaries. Giving you "Our 2 Cents"

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