Podcasts about marriage communication

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.The "Noble" Spouse!In this episode of The ‘NEW' Marriage, we dive into the psychology of the "noble" spouse — the one who tries to stay calm, fix everything, and carry the emotional load alone. Why does this role often lead to resentment, burnout, or disconnection in relationships?

Stéphanie welcomes Ann and Dave Wilson, the hosts of global ministry and syndicated radio show FamilyLife, to discuss key insights from their decades of marriage and ministry. The title of their new book says it all: "How to speak life to your husband when all you want to do is yell at him." What if one small shift—like choosing encouragement over criticism—could change the tone of your whole marriage? Real people in real relationships have real problems, but with God's help, you can heal and sustain your marriage for a lifetime. The Wilsons, through vulnerability and wisdom, highlight how Christian spouses—particularly wives, though the lessons are universal—can profoundly impact their marriages by transforming their mindset and the words they speak. Recognizing Shifting Cultural Dynamics Ann shares that over 45 years of marriage and ministry, she's observed a cultural shift. Dissatisfaction and unrest in marriages seem more common, with a tendency for spouses—especially wives—to see their partners as adversaries or projects for improvement. Ann notes the escalation of negative speech and a belief that critiques or reminders will motivate change. In reality, frequent criticism often demotivates the other partner. The Power of Words A pivotal story shared by Ann involves her realization that her well-intended feedback sounded like constant “booing” to Dave. Ann genuinely believed her critiques would help Dave become a better husband, father, and man. However, after an honest conversation and prayer, Ann discovered that her negative words were discouraging him more than anything. This revelation led her to a critical self-examination and a commitment to use her words to encourage rather than to correct. The Path from Critique to Affirmation Ann's journey involved asking God for conviction—not condemnation—and humbly examining her attitude. She confronted her own pride, recognizing the difference between thinking "I failed" (which God forgives and restores) and "I am a failure" (which is condemnation and shame). With this shift, she chose to focus on what was good and praiseworthy in Dave, believing that God calls spouses to be each other's chief encouragers. The Science Behind Positive Illusion Ann references Dr. Helene Fisher's research, which found that happy, long-term marriages are characterized by a “positive illusion”—focusing on what you like about your spouse, intentionally rewiring your mindset to notice and affirm the good. This is supported by brain science and aligns with biblical instructions about renewing your mind. Practical Outworking and Challenges Practically, Ann began to express gratitude and appreciation—starting with simple thanks for Dave's hard work. Dave testifies that these words of encouragement were more powerful than any affirmation he received elsewhere. This shift motivated him to grow into the person Ann saw in him. A Revolution of Respect and Gratitude Ann frames this approach as a “rebellion” against a culture that devalues respect. By choosing respect and gratitude—whether verbally, in writing, or through a daily journal—wives can breathe life and hope into their husbands, families, and homes. Dave affirms that authentic encouragement, rather than critique, draws men toward home and transforms family culture. The God-Given Power of Influence Through Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit, any spouse can become a speaker of life in marriage. This transformation is not about being passive or suppressing truth but about courageously choosing love, hope, and affirmation as radical acts of faith—ultimately reflecting God's heart for us. How might shifting from critique to encouragement change the atmosphere in your closest relationships? What step can you take today to practice the “positive illusion” in your marriage or family? ABOUT THE BOOK “HOW TO SPEAK LIFE TO YOUR HUSBAND WHEN ALL YOU WANT TO DO IS YELLE AT HIM” Discover the marriage you've always hoped for. With practical tools to help you communicate more effectively, you'll learn to speak the language of love and grace that will encourage and strengthen your husband at every turn. Buy the book here: https://shop.familylife.com/product/how-to-speak-life-to-your-husband-when-all-you-want-to-do-is-yell-at-him/  Ann Wilson spent more than a decade longing for a better marriage and for her husband to be more attentive, more involved, more helpful, and just all-around better. And every chance she got, she told him so. Where she thought she was being helpful, she was instead badgering him with constant critiques until all he heard was, “Boo! Boo!” when they were together. It almost broke their marriage. But Ann discovered the power that God has given wives. No matter how long you've been married, you don't need to spend another minute hoping and wishing for things to be different. They can! And the power is in your hands. In this motivating, honest new book, Ann–marriage coach and bestselling author with her husband, Dave–shares how she breathed new life into her marriage by stewarding one of the most powerful gifts believers inherit from the Creator: encouragement. God has given wives a superpower to influence their husbands and homes, and you can use that power to build up and encourage your man to be a better husband, father, and man of God while still speaking truth to him. Relatable, encouraging, biblical, and funny, Ann shares stories from her own life, as well as valuable insights from Scripture, to help you: ·         Address the ways you process and justify your communication patterns ·         Seek spiritual and relational (re)alignment with both your husband and God ·         Learn to exercise self-control and demonstrate radical grace in conversations with your husband ·         Begin to cheer more than boo–in a way that isn't put on, fake, or inauthentic ·         Learn to speak truth in a way your husband can really hear you ·         And, ultimately, cultivate a grace-based marriage that thrives ·         Real people in real relationships have real problems, but with God's help, you can heal and sustain your marriage for a lifetime. MORE ABOUT ANN AND DAVE WILSON Dave and Ann Wilson are hosts of FamilyLife Today®, FamilyLife's nationally-syndicated radio program on more than 1,300 radio outlets in all 50 states. They are also cofounders of Kensington Church, a national, multi-campus church that hosts more than 14,000 attendees every weekend. Since 1993, they have been featured speakers at FamilyLife's Weekend to Remember® marriage getaways and have also hosted their own marriage conferences across the country. The Wilsons live in the Detroit area where Dave served as the Detroit Lions chaplain for 33 years. Dave and Ann have three grown sons, CJ, Austin, and Cody, as well as three daughters-in-law and four grandchildren. We invite you to check out the first episode of each of our series, and decide which one you will want to start with. Go to gospelspice.com for more, and go especially to gospelspice.com/podcast to enjoy our guests! Interested in our blog? 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The next topic in this three part series is working through conflict with the PAUSE principle.Here is a link to Ken Sande's Peacemaker resources

This three part series is the recording of a recent seminar Eric and Leslee did. Part 1- Three ways the gospel helps marriagesPart 2- The PAUSE method in handling conflict Part 3- Five tips for better communication

On This Episode:THE MENTAL LOAD FOLLOW-UPI heard from several of you on the "mental load." I have some clarifying thoughts.COMMUNICATION IN MARRIAGEThat Mental Load discussion led me to recognize that communication in marriage is fundamental to healthy marriages. I have some pitfalls I've seen and some helpful tips.A COUPLE CHURCH THOUGHTSWhy are worship thoughts so long?How does a church recognize holidays like Memorial Day?

Thanks for joining us for Part 4 of our series on Raising A Child with Special Needs. If you missed parts 1 and 2, and 3  here are the links: Part 1 Defining special needs Part 2 1) Recognize that "special needs" vary in scope and demand 2) Recognize that special needs are nothing new Thank you for joining us! Part 3 1) Parent's must train children 2) Paren'ts must bring them up/norture them. Episode 264 Notes Part 4 5.  Recognize that special needs children can be lead to Christ   Be patient Be repetitive Believe in the power of the gospel Teach them to love  Teach them to love Jesus   Having a special needs child doesn't negate the responsibility to train them anymore than it negates the responsibility to care for them.     Special Education Summit *** Want to hear Pastor Dave Young preach? Westwood Baptist Church Westwood Baptist Church Podcast                     https://www.tabernaclechristianschool.org/special-education-summit

Send us a textIn this episode of Coaching 2 Change, we explore the unique challenges menopause brings to relationships. From shifts in intimacy to mood swings, menopause impacts both partners in a marriage. Join us as we discuss the importance of open communication, emotional support, and discovering new ways to maintain intimacy. Whether you're going through menopause or supporting a loved one, this episode offers practical insights and tips to strengthen your connection during this transition.Stay tuned for Episode 3, where we'll dive into mental health risks linked to menopause, including depression and anxiety.Keywords: Menopause, Marriage, Intimacy, Relationship Challenges, Mental Health, Communication, Couples Support, Emotional Intimacy, Coping with Menopause#MenopauseAndMarriage #MenopauseSupport #RelationshipTips #IntimacyDuringMenopause #MenopauseRelief #HealthyRelationships #MentalHealthAndMenopauseSupport the show

In this episode, we talk with Rachelle Bergstein about:Her book The Genius of Judy and the legacy of Judy BlumeLife in Brooklyn and the rhythms of everyday city livingDate nights, and a family night out that will inspire the foodies in all of usHer favorite recent vintage find (spoiler: they're jeans and they're perfect)Writing, motherhood, marriage and how she makes it all workThe mix of style, culture, and real life she brings to her writing Pop Culture, Relationships, Relationship Communication, Marriage Communication, Dating, Podcast Couple #RomComLife #Communicating #Communication #Marriage #ThisRomComLife #RelationshipPodcast #ConnectionMatters #LimorAndDan #SpotifyPodcasts #ApplePodcasts #LifeAndLove #MenandWomen dating advice for Gen Z, Modern dating tips, Limor and Dan, real talk relationships, dating in your 20s, communication in relationships, cross-generational love advice,

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.The Emergency Poop Story!In Episode 265 of The 'NEW' Marriage, we lighten things up with a hilarious and unexpected moment — The Emergency Poop Story. But beyond the laughter, there's a deeper truth about vulnerability, real-life messes, and how humor and honesty can strengthen the bond between partners. Sometimes the best growth comes from the most human experiences.

In this episode of Listen Up, Younger Self, host Heather Solomon delves into the dynamics of marriage communication, exploring how seemingly insignificant words can damage the foundation of a relationship. Heather identifies ten phrases that can sabotage a marriage, offering insights into why these words harm and how they can be avoided. With a blend of humor and wisdom, she shares strategies for transforming conflict into opportunities for growth and deeper connection. This episode is not just an exploration of marital strife; it's a guide to building a culture of emotional safety, accountability, and love that thrives beyond moments of anger. Heather discusses the impact of our words on our children, emphasizing the responsibility we have in modeling healthy relationships. Whether you're seeking to improve your marriage, understand the subtleties of marital communication, or learn how to turn arguments into vehicles for personal growth, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice to navigate the complexities of love and relationships. Tune in and start rewriting your emotional legacy today.   ARE YOU REVVED UP OR NEUTRAL QUIZ: https://heathersolomon.myflodesk.com/relationshipquiz   Connect with me, I'd love any suggestions for future episodes. Email: listenupyoungerself@gmail.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/heather.solomon.14 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heatherslmn/      

The last few weeks Dave and Bethlie are taking an important break in order to focus on moving into their new home and also to enable them freedom to serve their community as it continues to deal with the recent tornados that negatively impacted their town of Poplar Bluff. They will resume normal programming very soon.  In the meantime, please enjoy this rewind episode which is part 3 of a series entitled The Challenging Seasons of Life.

Communication can make or break a marriage, especially in a blended family. In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale discuss the importance of effective communication in marriage. Learn how healthy conversations can prevent and resolve conflicts, strengthen trust, and create authentic, lasting bonds between spouses.  Join us as we share real-life strategies and faith based wisdom to help you and your spouse connect on a deeper level. Whether you're navigating coparenting challenges or simply want to build a stronger foundation, these practical communication tips will help your marriage thrive.  What You'll Learn in This Episode: How to communicate effectively in marriage The role of active listening in conflict resolution Faith based strategies for stronger communication Practical tips to strengthen your blended family marriage  Don't miss this transformative episode—tune in now and start building a marriage that thrives! We pray this episode blesses you today! Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

Show NotesBorn in Athens, Greece as an Air Force brat, Teri M. Brown now calls the North Carolina coast home. In 2020, she and her husband, Bruce, rode a tandem bicycle across the United States from Astoria, Oregon to Washington DC, successfully raising money for Toys for Tots. Her latest work, 10 Little Rules for a Double-Butted Adventure, launches February 2025 and is an inspirational look at the life lessons she learned riding across the United States on a tandem bicycle. Learn more at www.terimbrown.com.  QUOTE: "⛔ “Don't quit on a bad day. Rest, regroup, and then decide. You'll always wonder if you could've gone on.” - Teri M. BrownFergie's Top 5+ Knowledge Nuggets and Take-Aways:

Today we're talking about marriage - specifically, how Christian marriages might be missing the mark. I'm sitting down with Sheila Gregoire, a researcher who's spent years studying what actually makes relationships work. And here's something interesting: the biggest threat to marital satisfaction isn't what most people think. It's not sex or money - it's housework. Sheila isn't just another marriage author. She's surveyed 7,000 people to understand the dynamics of healthy relationships. Her work challenges a lot of the traditional evangelical advice that's been circulating for decades - advice that often creates more distance than connection. We're going to explore how Christian marriage books have sometimes gotten it wrong. How messages about leadership, submission, and roles can actually harm the very relationships they're trying to protect. We'll talk about what real partnership looks like, how couples can communicate better, and what it means to truly see each other. This conversation is about reimagining marriage - not as a power structure, but as a genuine partnership that reflects mutual respect and love. So if you're curious about building a healthier relationship, or if you're tired of the same old marriage advice, this episode is for you.Sheila Wray Gregoire is the face behind BareMarriage.com as well as a sought-after speaker and an award-winning author of nine books, including The Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves Better. With her humorous, no-nonsense approach, Sheila is passionate about changing the evangelical conversation about sex and marriage to make it healthy, evidence-based, and biblical. She and her husband, Keith, live in Ontario, Canada, near their two adult daughters and three grandbabies. Sheila also knits. Even in line at the grocery store.Sheila's Book:The Marriage You WantSheila's Recommendations:The Deep Rooted MarriageBecoming the Pastor's WifeSubscribe to Our Substack: Shifting CultureConnect with Joshua: jjohnson@allnations.usGo to www.shiftingculturepodcast.com to interact and donate. Every donation helps to produce more podcasts for you to enjoy.Follow on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Threads, Bluesky or YouTubeConsider Giving to the podcast and to the ministry that my wife and I do around the world. Just click on the support the show link belowShifting Culture Productions Support the show

Send us a textIn this episode of the L3 Leadership Podcast, host Doug Smith is interviewed by Dave D'Angelo on Northway Christian Community's Project 167 Podcast. They discuss various topics, including Doug's impactful work at Light of Life Rescue Mission, strategies for addressing homelessness, and practical insights on financial management within families. Doug shares his journey in leadership, the significance of regular family meetings, and the role of generosity in his life. This episode delves into the complexities of homelessness, mental health, and the opioid crisis, while also offering personal reflections on family dynamics, financial stewardship, and the importance of heart-led generosity.00:00 Welcome to the L3 Leadership Podcast01:23 Introducing Dave D'Angelo and the Project 167 Podcast02:11 Doug Smith's Role at Light of Life Rescue Mission04:07 Understanding Homelessness: Myths and Realities09:32 Generosity and Financial Wisdom13:20 Family Systems and Financial Peace23:27 Understanding Laura's Love for Details24:03 Family Team Meetings: A Weekly Routine24:29 Financial Stewardship in Marriage25:35 The Importance of IDS in Problem Solving26:37 Three to One: Strengthening Marital Bonds33:52 The Concept of Oneness in Marriage34:57 Generosity in Marriage: Learning from Brooke39:32 Encouraging Generosity: Lessons from Rick Warren44:18 Final Thoughts and ReflectionsThe Project 167 Podcast–where we share ways to bring God's word and biblical principles beyond the one hour we spend in church on Sundays, and into the remaining 167 hours of our week. Thank you to Pastor Dave D'Angelo for having Doug on for this episode. You can find the Project 167 Podcast:On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLaY3oLiM0lSDTkTg_OQYVdW_oD2E7a114On Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/31b93LnkgFZJryQyHOLZ8w?si=5a18d33cfa5e4503On Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/project-167/id1799755945The L3 Leadership Podcast:▶️ WATCH FULL EPISODE: https://youtu.be/7axBStDM6Ig

One of the things that Zac and I are passionate about is healthy, ongoing communication. Making sure we are on the same page helps us stay efficient with our busy schedules. We always say we run our marriage like a business...and here are 4 tips on how to replicate this in your own marriage. From things like weekly meetings to never making assumptions, these tips will help you communicate with your spouse and cut down on arguments in no time.

Part 3: 3.  Be wise in your approach Questions that should be asked before a relationship becomes serious Not all of these are deal breakers, but they need wise examination and counsel Your spiritual testimony No Unequal yoke with someone who is not a believer Virginity Porn Drugs/alcohol Debt Your friends saw the red flags. Your family voiced their concerns. But you were so caught up in the excitement of new love that you missed all the warning signs. Now you're stuck in a relationship that's making you absolutely miserable. Why does this happen? According to researchers at University College London, “feelings of love lead to a suppression of activity in the areas of the brain controlling critical thought.” In other words, love can not only make you blind, but stupid. So, how can you keep your brain switched on while dating and dodge potential bullets in the realm of romance? According to relationship expert Dr. John Van Epp, author of How to Avoid Falling in Love With a Jerk, it's about using both your head and your heart by taking the time to understand your partner's F.A.C.E.S. There are areas you should examine Family Dynamics and Background Attitudes and Actions of a Mature Conscience Compatibility Potential Examples of Previous Friendship or Relationship Patterns Skills for Relationships

Join Dave and Bethlie for part 2 of this series on Thoughts for Singles About Finding A Spouse. Here is the book Dave and Bethlie recommends Get Married by Brad Wilcox   2. Be Practical In Your Approach Be open to dating Be friendly Be where other singles are Be preparing Be more Biblical than cultural Focus on Character (more than image) Focus on prepared Be willing to ask for help Allow others to set up dates Ask trusted mentors if they have anyone who would be a potential spouse

Thoughts for Singles about Finding a Spouse Think Wisely about Marriage Genesis 2 - not good for the man to be alone Hebrews 13:4 - marriage is honorable Honorable means valuable; of great price; precious (minerals or diamonds) Brad Wilcox, professor of Sociology at U of Virginia Get Married: Why Americans Must Defy the Elites, Forge Strong Families; and Save Civilization Marriage binds men to the children they father. It stabilizes the romantic relationships of adults and the family lives of children. It bridges the gender divide between men and women; endows the lives of women and especially men with a deeper sense of meaning, direction, and solidarity; and, above all, provides the ideal context for the bearing and rearing of children. Marriage is certainly the “keystone institution” for our nation. At the civilizational level, this institution has, across the course of American history, promoted prosperity and reduced the risk of widespread poverty at both the state and national levels. It has reinforced the rule of law and minimized the risk of crime and mass disorder. It has boosted the physical health and emotional well-being of the general population. It has maximized the odds that children across the country are happy, healthy, and well prepared to take their place as virtuous citizens in our civilization. For all these reasons, married families maximize the odds that ordinary men, women, and children succeed at that quintessential American quest, “the pursuit of happiness.” Stay away from those who are unBiblical One of the most influential leaders for the young men of our country Wedlock is designed to control the peasantry. A King must reproduce at any cost . . . Andrew Tate has 10.7 million followers on X (Twitter) Guard your heart so that you think wisely and Biblically 2. Be practical in your approach                1.  Be open to dating

For years, I handled stress by shutting down, thinking I was protecting my family. But the truth is, hiding your emotions is the worst habit for dads—it creates distance, confusion, and unnecessary tension at home. A simple lesson from my wife changed everything. Now, I make sure my loved ones know my mood isn't their fault, and it's made a huge difference in our home. I'll share how you can do the same, plus insights from my 19 years of fatherhood. Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind www.thedadedge.com/friday198 www.themensforge.com www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.thedadedge.com/alliance

Hey friends! This week, we're diving deep into marriage—what makes it healthy, what challenges come up, and how to keep growing together. And I'm not doing it alone—Ben's here! We're getting real about our own journey, from the early struggles to the tools that transformed our relationship. We talk communication, intimacy, and the mindset shifts that made all the difference. Whether you're newly married, deep in the trenches, or just curious, this episode is packed with insight and hope. Let's get into it!

Marriage isn't autopilot. It's not “set it and forget it.” It's an active process of leading, learning, and laughing your way through life together. In this episode, Pastor Q and his wife Trish get real about the highs, lows, and hilarious moments of 33+ years of marriage.DOWNLOAD THE SHOW NOTES

How to Get Your Husband or Wife to Listen to YouFeeling unheard or ignored in your marriage? It's frustrating when your spouse seems disengaged, but real communication is possible. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, relationship coach and Christian psychologist Dr. Jack Ito shares proven strategies to encourage meaningful conversations and make your spouse actually want to listen to you.What you'll learn:Why your spouse may not be listening—and what to do about itThe top ten strategies for getting your spouse to engage in conversationsHow validation, boundaries, and realistic expectations can transform communicationThe role of attractiveness and positivity in rekindling connectionStart building a stronger connection today.If you're ready to improve communication and bring warmth back into your marriage, tune in now. For personalized guidance, explore Coach Jack's Restoring a Loving Relationship with a Difficult Spouse coaching package.Key takeaways:Express love and concern before seeking clarificationImprove your own listening and communication habits firstCreate a positive, engaging atmosphere for conversationsSet clear boundaries for disrespectful behaviorGradually implement changes to reduce resistanceMore relationship help for you:Get Coach Jack's book: Overcome Neediness and Get the Love You WantGet a Free Download for helping your spouse to enjoy talking with you.Better understand gender differences for better communication in your marriage.Work with Coach Jack to improve your marriage to a difficult spouse.For more relationship-building insights, visit coachjackito.com.

How To Enjoy Singleness Part 2 3. Redeem your time Don't be a couch potato Don't be glued to instagram and all the negative emotions that can result Stay fit Eat well Have devotions 4. Build a life Get a good job A good job is one you love One to which you are committed One where you can use your gifts and talents Make a living Buy a house Take care of your stuff Keep a clean house Keep a nice yard Keep a clean car Have hobbies Choose ones that involve learning skills Choose ones that involve being with people 5. Be open to dating Keep it light Remember the two keys to any relationship: Time Talking

3.  Try to meet each other's needs Intimacy = closeness, love, gentle care A spouse is called by God to meet the other's needs I Corinthians 7:1-5 The husband has sexual needs that can only be met by the wife The wife has sexual needs that can only be met by the husband We are to fulfill those needs We are not to allow Satan to tempt us to fulfill those needs elsewhere We are only to refrain with mutual agreement for a short time Failure here always has negative results: Damages intimacy Opens doors for the enemy Damages the relationship Sins against God 4.  Trust God about children (take steps to delay pregancy) It is wonderful to have children It is right to want children It is ok just to have children It is ok to wisely plan them 5.  Take time to flirt and flourish Use Words Write Notes Send Texts Buy and Wear Lingerie Use Massage oil 6.  Be practical Use Lubrication Make love when you can Go to bed earlier 7. Treat challenges medically where it is needed ED - erectile dysfunction Intimacy anorexia Pain Etc.

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Your House, Your Relationship!In Ep232 of The 'NEW' Marriage, we dive into the importance of setting boundaries and maintaining control over your home and relationship. Who has the final say in your household? How do external influences impact your relationship dynamics? Learn how to create a strong foundation built on mutual respect, communication, and healthy decision-making.

Grab your FREE conflict resolution cheat sheet to help your marriage communication today.   Episode 236 // Communication is a centerpiece of a healthy and happy marriage. You can't enjoy intimacy together, stay on the same page as parents, or feel connected and close without good communication.   And in my 10+ years a marriage therapist, there are 3 communication problems that pop up over and over again. They are very common - even for couples who love each other deeply, follow Jesus, and work hard on their marriage!    When your marriage has communication problems, it can cause some big trouble. You wind up with hurt feelings, lonely people, and no intimacy. Every couple has communication breakdowns sometimes - but you CAN solve those problems, and get things back on track!   Today, join me to take a look at these 3 common problem areas - with action steps for each one, so you can strengthen your marriage communication and deepen your bond today.   Ready? Let's dive in.   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   FREE: Grab your FREE conflict resolution cheat sheet to help your marriage communication today.   DEVOTIONAL: Strengthen marriage communication as you dive into the 40-day devotional Communicating To Connect for Christian wives.   LISTEN NEXT: Do These 3 Things Today To Build A Happier Christian Marriage (Episode 230)   GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   NEW in our Patreon community this year - daily(ish) devotionals to encourage your faith and family life: Support the show on Patreon today.   Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com

In this episode of Keeping It Young, Dave and Bethlie dive into the important topic of keeping the bedroom alive and fresh in marriage. They discuss how seasons of life impact intimacy, the importance of thinking about each other in 'that way,' and how open communication can strengthen a couple's connection.  How do you keep the bedroom alive and fresh? 1.  Think about each other in “that way” “Seasons” affect us differently Young parents with small children Teens Pregnancy Start with positive thoughts Be aware that it is normal for each of us to think about the bedroom differently   2.  Talk to each other about needs, desires, and wants How often In what way Shower together? Fast? Gourmet? When This can vary by job demands This can vary by schedule This can vary by the age of your children What do you need? What do you want? What do WE need? What can we do to meet each other's needs

Treena stopped by to give advice on what marriage should be from a woman's perspective. She talked about how men should be handled and gave some great advice. You do not want to miss this.

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.The Mashed Potatoes Story!In Ep208 of The 'NEW' Marriage, we share a heartwarming yet insightful story about mashed potatoes that offers valuable lessons for relationships. This story will make you reflect on the little things that matter, the importance of compromise, and how understanding each other's needs can bring you closer. Tune in to discover how a simple tale can transform your perspective on love, communication, and marriage.

Discover how understanding love languages can strengthen your relationship! We explore the Five Love Languages—Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch—and their impact on building emotional intimacy. We'll cover:

Rewind: Recorded November 2023 A successful marriage requires effective communication between spouses. For many couples, they perceive communication as a means to express their needs to the other spouse, hoping that their desires will be fulfilled. However, God's approach to marital communication is different. Instead of using communication to fulfill your own needs, it should be employed to discover how to meet the needs of your spouse. Partner with Us: https://churchforentrepreneurs.com/partner Connect with Us: https://churchforentrepreneurs.com                  

Please share your thoughts, feedback, and questions. I would love to hear from you.Unlock the secrets to transforming your marital communication with practical strategies and insights. Ever wondered how small shifts in conversation habits could revolutionize your relationship? In this episode, we promise to equip you with tools to enhance intimacy, trust, and conflict resolution by dismantling common communication pitfalls like criticism and defensiveness. Our discussion guides you through cultivating healthier communication habits, ensuring you and your partner feel heard and understood.Active listening isn't just a buzzword, it's a cornerstone of effective communication. We break down techniques such as paraphrasing and reflecting emotions, paired with the power of "I" statements, to help minimize misunderstandings and defensiveness. Dive into the unspoken world of nonverbal cues—body language, facial expressions, and tone of voice—and learn how they can either reinforce or undermine your verbal messages. By understanding and refining these skills, you'll build a more empathetic and harmonious marital environment.Consistency and commitment are key. We emphasize dedication, effort, and the ongoing nature of improving communication skills within marriage. Discover structured problem-solving approaches and the importance of establishing healthy boundaries to maintain a respectful dialogue. As a bonus, explore your relationship dynamics with the five primary relationship needs quiz at needsdrdarhawks.com. By committing to these transformative strategies, you'll forge a stronger, more resilient partnership.Welcome to the Better Relationships Podcast where Dr. Dar Hawks shares relationship tips and advice to help you be seen, heard, understood, and supported in your relationships. Taking on tough topics and giving you hope, inspiration, and ideas to experiment with, Dr. Dar Hawks is passionate about creating healthier, happier, and harmonious relationships... Because when you are happy in your relationship, the world becomes a better place for all of us. Welcome to the Better Relationships Podcast where Dr. Dar Hawks shares relationship tips and advice to help you be seen, heard, understood, and supported in your relationships. Taking on tough topics and giving you hope, inspiration, and ideas to experiment with, Dr. Dar Hawks is passionate about creating healthier, happier, and harmonious relationships... Because when you are happy in your relationship, the world becomes a better place for all of us.Support the showTake my free Primary Relationship Needs Quiz to discover your dominant, secondary, and shadow Primary Relationship Needs by visiting https://needs.drdarhawks.com. This one thing will help you better understand yourself, your partner, and your relationship, and even improve communication and connection between you and your partner.Note: The quiz name has changed from Sovereign Relationship Needs to Primary Relationship Needs as of July 2024. Please keep that in mind for podcasts dated before July 2024. Book a coaching session: https://huddle.drdarhawks.com Follow me:LinkedIn https://linkedin.com/in/drdarhawksFacebook https://facebook.com/drdarhawks1Instagram https://instagram.com/dr.dar.hawksPinterest https://pinterest.com/drdarhawks

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless and Toxic Marriages.Asking Your Partner How To Move Forward!In this episode of The 'NEW' Marriage, we dive into a crucial conversation topic: asking your partner how to move forward in your relationship. It can be challenging to navigate the unknown, but understanding each other's needs, goals, and feelings is key to creating a path for growth. Learn how to approach this sensitive discussion with compassion and clarity to strengthen your connection and move forward together.

I'm getting intentional in a specific area of my life and I'm inviting you to join the process. As I think about this change, my mind wants to tell me how hard it will be. Listen in to hear how I will handle the messy middle of going after what I want and how you can do it, too! Thank you for listening. --------------- If you are interested in learning more about burnout and how to prevent it. Burnout can happen: In your relationship Parenting Losing weight Achieving a goal and in so many other areas I want you to be able to set and achieve goals WITHOUT burnout. Use the link below to sign up for the workshop where I will share the simple process I used to accomplish a big goal, that you can use to achieve your goals. Thank you for listening. ------------- Click HERE to sign up for the Beyond Burnout Workshop ------------- Your Life & Marriage Coach, Christal

It is a common belief in our culture that men are poor communicators in marriage. In this episode, I discuss why we have this belief and the reality of our poor communication as women. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apply For a Free Course Consultation⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Me Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Rumble⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠X⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Timestamps: (00:00) Podcast Intro (01:41) Topic Introduction (05:52) Why We Believe Men are Poor Communicators (13:47) 3 Ways Women are Poor Communicators (40:18) The Solution Disclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse. Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.

Are you people pleased? Many of us are habitual people pleasers, some are situational, and many of us are recovering.  Tune in to learn how this character trait can be unlearned, including: Where it comes from What it creates How to detangle it Be hopeful that if you can learn it...you can also unlearn it. Thank you for listening. --------------- If you are interested in learning more about burnout and how to prevent it. Burnout can happen: In your relationship Parenting Losing weight Achieving a goal and in so many other areas I want you to be able to set and achieve goals WITHOUT burnout. Use the link below to sign up for the workshop where I will share the simple process I used to accomplish a big goal in September that you can use as well. Thank you for listening. ------------- Click HERE to sign up for the Beyond Burnout Workshop ------------- Your Life & Marriage Coach, Christal

If you really want to change the communication patterns in your home... let's pray, friend.    Today we'll pray through Ephesians 4:26-27 and ask the Lord to help us manage our emotions, communicate clearly, and seeking his help to CONNECT with our people.   Join me, friend.   hugs & blessings, Jess   Today's Scripture inspiration is Ephesians 4:25-27 - Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body. “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.   Grab my FREE Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet here.   Find my Communicating to Connect marriage devotional here.   Find my devotionals for Marriage Communication or for building Emotional Control.   FIND ALL MY FAVORITE RESOURCES HERE: Manage Emotions Communicate Well Fruitful Faith Happy Marriage Joyful Parenting Home & Family Life   GRAB ONE OF MY **FREE** RESOURCES right here   SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREON and enjoy our monthly challenges!   GRAB A QUICK PRINTABLE for less than $5 in my Etsy shop   FIND THE PERFECT DEVOTIONAL to help with common family-related topics    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *   DISCLAIMERS: I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life while raising little ones at home. Together, we're building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships - with Jesus at the center of it all.   ✨ Grab tons of free resources, devotionals, and biblical encouragement at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨  

Episode 211 // Want to stop the passive aggressive behavior in your home? No one enjoys it, but it can be hard to break bad habits.   Today, I've got 6 tips for you to help you make the change. Try these tips and find more connection in your family communication.   We're unpacking Ephesians 4:26-27 and some practical ways to deal with real issues, never give the devil a foothold, and build healthier communication with your husband and kids.   Let's do it!   hugs & blessings, Jess   Today's Scripture inspiration is Ephesians 4:25-27 - Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body. “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.   Grab my FREE Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet here.   Find my Communicating to Connect marriage devotional here.   Find my devotionals for Marriage Communication or for building Emotional Control.   Read this one on the blog instead.   FIND ALL MY FAVORITE RESOURCES HERE: Manage Emotions Communicate Well Fruitful Faith Happy Marriage Joyful Parenting Home & Family Life   GRAB ONE OF MY **FREE** RESOURCES right here   SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREON and enjoy our monthly challenges!   GRAB A QUICK PRINTABLE for less than $5 in my Etsy shop   FIND THE PERFECT DEVOTIONAL to help with common family-related topics    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *   DISCLAIMERS: I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life while raising little ones at home. Together, we're building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships - with Jesus at the center of it all.   ✨ Grab tons of free resources, devotionals, and biblical encouragement at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨  

Season 3 started hot and we still picking up speed. On episode 9 of this season we run it back… but this time together in holy matrimony and till death of you part. Mr and Mrs Sanchez, Chiquis and Emilio are back and open up on how they community with each other, how they plan, dream and set goals as ONE (Since they are married). I want to take the time to thank Chiquis and Emilio once again for investing in The MAC Effect, in me. This heals me, this brings wholesome to my life little by little. I Thank God for my healing and you two for investing and being used by God to invest in me. This power couple share with an open heart about losing their baby, how hurtful, painful and dramatic the experience was, but never losing faith in GOD. As a matter of fact, trusting that God will do it again! Believing God is a God of miracles and will do it for them at His time. They also share the importance of communication (not just making noise, but understanding each other), staying united, setting boundaries for their marriage (protecting their first ministry), and yet still pushing for individual goals and achievements. I tell you honestly, this couple inspired me. They gave me some knowledge that I want to right away, implement for my marriage. God knows every marriage needs guidance, help and a community to trust in. We are made to connect with others. We are meant to do life with good people around us. This is key to a successful marriage.  Only 1 more episode left before Season 3 is a rap…. It has been my pleasure and honor to share with you all every episode, every minute and second. I bring so much passion, os much love to every episode. I try my best to ask the tuff questions but yet have grace beacuse we all need it. We all go thru some kind of troubles. All these amazing celebrities, artist, self made bosses, entrepreneurs, have shown me… we are all the same. We all have the ability and opportunity. I have been very humbled and empowered by these great guest. I pray you also learn, grow and develop. Healing is very important for a greater leap to our full potential. The MAC Effect was created to help you achieve you optimal peak, to challenge chore beliefs, and reach goals that you didn't think you would or maybe have even died. Not today guys! We fight for ourselves whether we feel like it or not… why? Because its not your fault… its never been your fault… you are ENOUGH! Amen! #Themaceffect #maceffect #mac #mikecampos6 #god #love #hope #faith #joy #question #awakening #understanding #building #fundamentals #ihaveaquestion #iwanttolearn #growing #growingpains #letsgetitright #nottoday #nottodaysatan #jesuschrist #inJesusname #lovealwayswins #peace #letsgetit #testing #learning #process #developing #maturing #fatherhood #motherhood #husband #wife #partnership #equals #tildeath #god #processing #process #guest #podcast #shorts #growth

I used to be afraid of being judged. I need alone time. Period. Owning that has had a great impact on my whole health and my relationships. Tune in to hear how I've incorporated mommy staycations into my wellness routine which is one of the many tools I use to not experience burnout. Thank you for listening. --------------- If you are interested in learning more about burnout and how to prevent it. Burnout can happen: In your relationship Parenting Losing weight Achieving a goal and in so many other areas I want you to be able to set and achieve goals WITHOUT burnout. Use the link below to sign up for the workshop where I will share the simple process I used to accomplish a big goal in September that you can use as well. Thank you for listening. ------------- Click HERE to sign up for the Beyond Burnout Workshop ------------- Your Life & Marriage Coach, Christal

Communication is vitally important, but incredibly difficult. How do we control the tongue when it is the most restless of all evils? Join Pastor Ben Kaempfer in James 3:2-12 to examine the vitality of good, Godly communication in marriage.Send us a textSupport the show

We just celebrated our 7th wedding anniversary!  To be honest, there were some days along the way I wasn't sure we'd make it, but we have learned so much and grown together through all the ups and downs. So we thought it would be fun to sit down together, answer some of your questions, and share some stories about how far we've come. Cheers! Check out my husband Christopher's work here: https://www.instagram.com/hughesphoto.co  SHOP MY BOOKS: Waking Up: Living Open — https://amzn.to/3Lusgrz Love Is Devotional — https://amzn.to/3S6OZhs  FREE Path to Purpose Guide: https://hannahhughes.myflodesk.com/pathwaytopurpose  Shop my favorite Bible studies + devotionals, code HANNAHHUGHES: ⁠thedailygraceco.com/HANNAHH⁠  Connect: ⁠www.thehannahhughes.com⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/thehannahhughes/⁠  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/thebywordsshow/⁠  Shop my Amazon faves: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/thehannahhughes⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bywords/support

Today, I'm sharing a personal experience that I want you to know in hopes that it encourages you to: Always stay curious about your whole body and how to take care of it Advocate for yourself and ask questions Connect with your truth Be on the lookout for how burnout can be showing up in different areas of your life Stretch more! Thank you for being here! ------------- Interested in more conversation, coaching, and community around burnout and taking care of your WHOLE being? I invite you to join my free FB group called M.V.P. where we learn how to  Master the relationship with emotions Visualize the value and impact we have on others and the world Prioritize discipline Kick burnout to the curb! Click HERE to join the free FB group now. ------------- Your Life & Marriage Coach, Christal

Have you ever thought about whether you should stay in your relationship or leave? Today I take you on a journey of looking at the frustration and sadness you may be experiencing in your relationship and how you can turn it into hope. Hope that encourages you to see that there are opportunities within the challenges. You will want to save this episode and listen again. Enjoy! ------------- You don't have to wait to find out why you are having the same fight. I invite you to schedule a complimentary consult call with me so I can help you get to the WHY/CAUSE of your communication challenges in your relationship. You will experience a 60-minute deep dive conversation and you will leave with answers to your unique situation and what to do next: https://christalallen.com/chat ------------- Interested in my "Just One" experience I mentioned at the beginning of the call? This experience is going to be life-changing and I'd love for you to come on this journey with me. CLICK HERE to get on the waiting list so you can be the first to learn more:  Your Life & Marriage Coach, Christal

High achieving Christian men are used to being right and being listened to.And, this works well in work and church settings.But, it doesn't work that well at home.Learn the communication mistakes that leave your wife feeling unheard, misunderstood…And therefore NOT attracted to you…In today's episode.And…Learn how to fix them so you can become MORE attractive to her.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you're a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. 

When marriage communication breaks down, it can leave you feeling against your spouse, where you're defending yourself, not feeling seen, and ultimately creating more disconnection in your marriage. This happens even in the healthiest and happiest of marriages.    In this podcast, you'll learn tools to help you 1) recognize this pattern, 2) drop the defensiveness, 3) create a team mentality in your marriage, and 4) increase connection. This doesn't happen on default, but it will happen with just a little bit of effort. You'll get tools that show you how to do just that in this episode.   If you want to increase connection and intimacy in your marital communication, this podcast episode is a must-listen.   Get my Book: 20 Tools To Become The Mom You WANT To Be: momonpurpose.com/toolsebookbonus Join the Mom On Purpose Membership: momonpurpose.com/coaching Follow Natalie on Instagram: instagram.com/mom.onpurpose Sign up for the Mom On Purpose Newsletter here: momonpurpose.com/subscribe Get full show notes and more information here: momonpurpose.com/299 Call the Podcast Hotline here: 8-333-ASKNAT (833-327-5628)

If your marriage communication is a struggle, you are NOT alone. So many marriage issues come back to communication, and if your communication is awesome, your marriage will be too! But most of us will have some trouble with communicating well with our spouse, and it's the biggest issue couples ask us for help with. That's why today we're equipping you with 6 tips to communicate well in the good times and in the bad.    We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:   How to talk so your spouse can listen  Use the “title page” trick to help your spouse listen to you  Dr. Kim's 6 tips to communicate well How to find a good counselor if you need one  How to restart the openness & honesty in your marriage    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    QUOTES  “I think what happens for guys is that when we're dating our future wife, we up our game.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “It's hard for me to put my thoughts and feelings into succinct words.I can easily ramble on… but that doesn't make for good communication.” - Lindsay Few  “The bottom line is you want them to hear what you're saying, so how do you best communicate in a way that they're going to hear it?”  - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “If you're going through a hard time, call it that. Work together to reclaim your time and energy.” - Lindsay Few  “We can't give away every piece of our heart, mind, time and energy to things that drain the life out of us.” - Lindsay Few  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Get the Couple's Conversation Guide for each episode by signing up here!  The Sex Talk course equips you to teach your kids about sex in a biblical, God-honoring way Dr. Kim's blogs on questions to ask your counselor: 4 Qualities Your Christian Counselor Needs 3 Things A Counselor Needs To Believe to Help Your Marriage   3 Mistakes Couples Make When They Try Counseling Our FREE Weekly Check In Guide helps with regular communication  Making Your Marriage a Refuge with Special Guest Gary Thomas Ep. 530 Achieving Awesome Communication in Marriage YouVersion Plan