Podcasts about mental load

Send us a textLet me ask you something. Ever opened your front door to a mini mountain of Amazon boxes and felt a twinge of shame? Like maybe you're buying crap you don't even need just to numb out after a long day? (Same, babe. Same.) This week, I sat down with Ashlee Piper. Sustainability badass. TED speaker. Author of No New Things. And we're talking about why you might wanna stop clicking “Buy Now”… at least for a little while.Now, don't get it twisted. This isn't about being a minimalist monk or living off-grid in linen. Ashlee's approach is funny, relatable AF, and shockingly freeing. We dig into the mental clutter our stuff creates, why malls are cold (WTF), and how overconsumption is totally messing with our health, our wallets, and yes, the planet.If you've been wondering how to shop less, save money, and actually feel better in your own life without giving up fun or flair, this episode is your permission slip to hit pause on the consumer hamster wheel.Ashlee breaks down her No New Things challenge (don't worry, you can still buy groceries and get your roots done) and how making that one small commitment can totally shift your mindset around joy, self-worth, and your damn sock drawer.What's Inside:How shopping became our go-to numbing agent and what to do insteadWhy your clutter might be jacking up your cortisol levelsThe “Super System” that'll help you buy less without feeling deprivedThe surprising ripple effects of not buying anything new (spoiler: it's not just about money)So real talkAre you buying stuff to solve a problem it was never meant to solve? Like, is the third sequined throw pillow gonna heal your burnout? What if peace and pride actually came from not buying more but enjoying what you already have? What if you could be the kind of person who is rich in time, mental space, and self-trust? Because you can be. I want to hear what this stirs up for you. DM me on Instagram and tell me what you're holding onto…or finally letting go of.Mentioned in This Episode:No New Things: A Radically Simple 30-Day Guide to Saving Money, the Planet and Your Sanity Buy Nothing ProjectFreecycleAmerican Time Use Study → (Google this gem for stats on how much time you're wasting looking for your damn keys)Sarah Lazarovic's book: A Bunch of Pretty Things I Didn't BuyOonagh Duncan on InstagramFit Feels GoodLeave me a voice note on Speak Pipe!

Feeling stretched thin? Snapping over little things? Mentally holding a thousand invisible tasks? I used to think peace would come when everything was done. Spoiler alert: it never was. Peace came when I let go of the guilt, the pressure, and the ‘shoulds.' Today we're talking about what to drop — not what to add — so you can make more space for peace, presence, and sanity.  Contact - > info@rachelking.org Podcast - > Mama's Tired Connect -＞ Join my free Facebook community Simple Systems for Tired Mamas Instagram -＞@rachelmeigsking Resources - > Simple Time Management for Moms, Journal Page: Releasing the Mental Load, Downloadable Routine Tracker: Morning Reset for Tired Moms   Next Steps: Step 1: Join a supportive community of moms looking for simple systems to reclaim time for a peaceful home at the free Facebook group Simple Systems for Tired Mamas Step 2: Sign up for the weekly Mama's Tired Newsletter  Step 3: Ready for more personalized support? Book a call with Rachel

Motherkind Moment is your place for calm and connection and a shift in perspective before the week ahead.  When it comes to the mental load, it can be very easy to feel like our partners aren't pulling their weight, and so often this results in feelings of resentment towards them. So this week, we've brought in the incredible Dr. Morgan Cutlip to give us her best advice on how we keep those feelings at bay. For more powerful insights from Dr. Morgan Cutlip, listen to the full episode here: Why you're resentful in your relationship - and how to fix it starting today Get your free 3 days of 5-minute Motherkind here - 21 days to reset your energy, mood and mindset.  Click Here to order your copy of 'Motherkind: A New Way to Thrive in a World of Endless Expectations' Motherkind is sponsored by Wild Nutrition, the brand raising the bar for women's supplements. Want to feel the Food-Grown difference yourself? Get 50% off for three months at wildnutrition.com/motherkind. Ts and Cs apply. For a £100 sponsored job credit, visit Indeed.com/ Motherkind Continue the Conversation: Join our community over on Instagram for inspiration, tips, and sometimes a bit of humour to get us through our day - @zoeblaskey Join our mailing list to receive news, updates and new episode releases Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Was wollten wir bei unseren Kindern unbedingt anders machen als unsere Eltern? Was haben wir von ihnen übernommen – vielleicht auch unbewusst? Und was waren unsere großen Aha-Momente des Vaterseins? Dieses Mal sprechen wir über all die Dinge, die wir anders machen als unsere Eltern. Max erzählt von seiner Kindheit voller Regeln, die nie eingehalten wurden und Jakob merkt, wie stark sich sein Verantwortungsgefühl verändert hat, seit es seine Tochter gibt. Wir reden über emotionale Offenheit, körperliche Nähe und Autorität. Und weil wir's in Sachen Mental Load ganz genau wissen wollen, machen wir einen kleinen Reality-Check: Wir rufen bei den Müttern unserer Kinder an – und müssen feststellen, dass unsere eigene Wahrnehmung nur so semi stimmt. Du möchtest mehr über unsere Werbepartner erfahren? Hier findest du alle Infos & Rabatte: https://linktr.ee/beste_vaterfreuden Du möchtest Werbung in diesem Podcast schalten? Dann erfahre hier mehr über die Werbemöglichkeiten bei Seven.One Audio: https://www.seven.one/portfolio/sevenone-audio

Was, wenn Freiheit nicht bedeutet, alles jederzeit machen zu können – sondern ganz genau zu wissen, wann was dran ist? Was, wenn Gleichberechtigung nicht darin liegt, alles 50/50 zu tun – sondern sich in Klarheit und Rollentausch zeigt? In dieser Folge zeigen wir, wie wir als selbstständiges Paar mit Kind unser Leben so organisiert haben, dass Arbeit, Familie und Partnerschaft nicht in Konkurrenz stehen – sondern sich gegenseitig stärken.

If you're a woman who's never had an orgasm, struggles to orgasm consistently, or wonders if what you've experienced really counts—this episode is for you. I want you to know this: you are not broken, and there is absolutely hope. In this episode, I share seven key truths about female orgasm, why it matters, and how you can move forward—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. We'll talk about: Why orgasm is a skill you can learn (you're not defective!) The importance of creating the right environment How psychological, relational, or spiritual blocks might be getting in the way Why self-exploration and vibrators are powerful, shame-free tools What supportive husbands can do to truly help (and what not to do) I've worked with many women who felt hopeless and stuck, and I've seen time and time again that healing, pleasure, and confidence are possible. You don't have to figure this out on your own. You have permission to want this. You have permission to grow. And you are so worth the effort.  

Are you tired of holding it all together for everyone else? In this deeply personal episode, Dr. Alison explores the hidden ache of emotional caretaking—the quiet ways we overfunction, over-give, and overlook our own needs to keep the peace. Whether it started in childhood or has become a way of coping in adult relationships, many of us have learned to survive by tending to others while slowly disappearing ourselves. Alison shares what she's learning about her own inner caretaker and gently invites you to reconnect with the parts of you that are tired, weary, and worthy of care. This isn't about walking away from the people you love—it's about learning to stay grounded in yourself as you care well for others. This episode explores: Why emotional caretaking can feel like love—but quietly wears you down How childhood dynamics shape your adult urge to fix, help, or rescue What most people get wrong about “self-care” The hidden cost of always tending to others while neglecting yourself A gentle practice to reconnect with your inner caretaker—and what she needs This episode is a loving reminder: Your needs matter. Your soul deserves care. And you don't have to carry it all alone.

Viele meiner Klient*innen erzählen mir, dass sie sich nach einer Pause sehnen. Einfach mal raus, ohne Familie, ohne Partner. Doch oft ist da sofort das schlechte Gewissen: Darf ich das überhaupt? In dieser Folge erfährst du, warum ein Solo-Urlaub kein Angriff auf deine Beziehung ist, sondern ein kraftvoller Schritt hin zu mehr Selbstfürsorge und Klarheit. Ich spreche über Schuldgefühle, Mental Load und wie du lernst, dich selbst ernst zu nehmen, auch wenn dein Umfeld erstmal irritiert reagiert. Du bekommst Impulse, wie du deinen Wunsch nach mehr Raum gut kommunizierst und was du tun kannst, wenn du Angst hast, jemanden zu verletzen. Ideal für dich, wenn du dich fragst: Wie kann ich gut für mich sorgen, ohne dass meine Beziehung leidet?

Wie wir Care-Arbeit endlich fairer verteilen – mit Patricia CammarataWas tun, wenn alles gleichzeitig kommt – Karriere, Familie, Carearbeit, Erschöpfung?In der Folge #390 spricht Vera Strauch mit Patricia Cammarata über genau diese Lebensphase – und darüber, wie wir sie fairer, menschlicher und bewusster gestalten können.In diesem Kurzformat bekommst du Impulse zu:

Do the words “back to school” make you cringe and fill with dread? Does the beginning of a new school year feel more like sudden chaos instead of a fresh start?  Today we're building simple, sustainable systems to carry you and your family from the scramble of school mornings to a rhythm that actually works. Back-to-school doesn't have to mean breakdown. A little structure can bring a lot of peace. Items mentioned: Wake Up Clock: https://amzn.to/4odyA9m  Google Calendar: https://workspace.google.com/products/calendar/ Crockpot: https://amzn.to/4kXGtfW  Kroger Delivery: https://www.kroger.com/pr/boost  Hall Tree for Storage: https://amzn.to/451E91K  Contact - > info@rachelking.org Podcast - > Mama's Tired Connect -＞ Join my free Facebook community Simple Systems for Tired Mamas Instagram -＞@rachelmeigsking Resources - > Simple Time Management for Moms, Journal Page: Releasing the Mental Load, Downloadable Routine Tracker: Morning Reset for Tired Moms   Next Steps: Step 1: Join a supportive community of moms looking for simple systems to reclaim time for a peaceful home at the free Facebook group Simple Systems for Tired Mamas Step 2: Sign up for the weekly Mama's Tired Newsletter  Step 3: Ready for more personalized support? Book a call with Rachel

Are you feeling exhausted or burnt out from the mental load?  In this episode, I speak with Professor Leah Ruppanner – sociologist, gender equity advocate, and founder of the Future of Work Lab at the University of Melbourne. Leah unpacks the mental load in a way you've never heard before - why it's not just cognitive, but deeply emotional too. If you've ever felt invisible, overwhelmed, or wondered why you're carrying so much, this conversation is for you. Leah's insights are validating, refreshing, and might just change the way you move through motherhood and work. From gendered expectations and the invisible labor women carry, to the societal norms that fuel mum guilt, Leah shares evidence-based insights and practical ways to help you begin to lighten the load.  You will hear about: - The true definition of the mental load (spoiler: it's more emotional than you think) - Why some mental load solutions don't work (and what might) - How gender norms are holding us back at home and at work - The real reason mum guilt exists and how to release it - How workplaces can (and must) better support caregiving - What the research says about dads, mental load, and the desire to be more present - Leah's vision for structural change and redefining care as essential infrastructure   MORE LINKS Connect with Leah via her website www.leahruppanner.com or on LinkedIn www.linkedin.com/in/leah-ruppanner-1657a417/ Follow Working Mumma on Instagram @workingmummacommunity and the website  www.workingmumma.com.au or connect with Carina on LinkedIn www.linkedin.com/in/carina-obrien/   SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW  If you loved this episode, please take a moment ot subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Your support helps us reach more working mums who need this resource to help them navigate the juggle of career and motherhood. Thanks for tuning in and see you next week. 

Unzählige Aufgaben, aber nur ein Kopf, der daran denkt – das ist das Prinzip des Mental Load. Die Bestseller-Autorin und Bloggerin Patricia Cammarata erklärt, warum diese unsichtbare Belastung nicht nur stresst, sondern auch Beziehungen und Karrieren beeinflusst. Und sie gibt Tipps, was wir gegen zu viel Mental Load tun können. Außerdem beantwortet die Schlafforscherin Christine Blume die Frage, ob wir auch mit offenen Augen schlafen können. Hier findet Ihr mehr Informationen zu Patricia Cammarata und ihrem Buch „Raus aus der Mental Load Falle“: https://dasnuf.de/ https://dasnuf.de/mental-load-buch-kaufen/ Hier findet Ihr die Studie, die Christine Blume erwähnt hat: https://www.nature.com/articles/s41467-025-57289-5 Noch mehr "Aha!"- Folgen gibt es bei WELTplus und Apple Podcasts. Alle zwei Wochen am Montag eine neue Folge. Hier bei WELT hören: https://www.welt.de/podcasts/aha-zehn-minuten-alltags-wissen/plus246844328/Noch-mehr-Alltagswissen-Aha-Bonus-Folgen-fuer-Abonnenten-Podcast.html. "Aha! Zehn Minuten Alltags-Wissen" ist der Wissenschafts-Podcast von WELT. Wir freuen uns über Feedback an wissen@welt.de. Produktion: Serdar Deniz Redaktion: Impressum: https://www.welt.de/services/article7893735/Impressum.html Datenschutz: https://www.welt.de/services/article157550705/Datenschutzerklaerung-WELT-DIGITAL.html

Ich bin gerade mit meinem Sohn im Urlaub und hatte Zeit zum Nachdenken. Früher waren Urlaube für uns der Horror - abgebrochen, Stress pur, alle unglücklich. Heute? Ich fahre alleine mit meinem neurodivergenten Kind in Freizeitparks und ins Ausland. Was hat sich verändert? In dieser sehr persönlichen Folge erzähle ich dir: - Warum ich früher Angst vor den Gefühlen meines Kindes hatte (und heute nicht mehr) - Wie ich von permanenter Selbstaufgabe zu echter Selbstfürsorge gekommen bin - Warum unsere Urlaube nicht mehr in Katastrophen enden - Woran ich im Alltag merke, dass Bedürfnisorientierung wirklich greift - Wie ich gelernt habe, Wünsche von Bedürfnissen zu unterscheiden - Was das mit Mental Load verteilen und "Nein sagen" zu tun hat Spoiler: Es geht nicht darum, dass dein Kind plötzlich "funktioniert". Es geht darum, dass DU anders funktionierst. Wenn du auch einen leichteren Alltag mit weniger Machtkämpfen möchtest, trag dich in die Warteliste für unsere Elternreise ein. Es ist die letzte Runde - danach schließen wir das Produkt für eine Überarbeitung. Deine Chance auf 6 Monate intensive Begleitung mit mir und meinem Team. Zur Elternreise-Warteliste: https://familienrevolution.de/elternreise-vormerkliste/ Lust auf mehr persönliche Einblicke? Folge mir auf Instagram @familienrevolution (https://www.instagram.com/familienrevolution/?hl=de)

If you're co-parenting across two households, you already know how heavy the mental load can feel. From worrying about what happens at the other house, to managing transitions, handling your kids' big feelings, and trying to keep your own home steady — it can feel like you're carrying the world on your shoulders.In this episode, we're breaking down the hidden work of co-parenting after separation, sharing the top 10 mental loads you might not even realize you're carrying, and giving you validation that you are not alone. We'll also talk about how you can start protecting your peace, setting boundaries, and making your home a true sanctuary, no matter how chaotic things feel on the other side.If you're exhausted by the constant chaos and want to feel calmer, stronger, and more in control, don't miss this conversation — and be sure to check out our upcoming workshop inside The Next Chapter membership, Managing the Mental Load of the Other House, for even more support and practical tools.Your house. Your rules. Your peace. Let's help you reclaim it.www.samandleah.com

Welcome to our REWOUND RE-RELEASE Bonus Series. These are our TOP episodes ever, so we're bringing them back as bonus video episodes. Ever thought, "But I am helping!" — and still ended up in a fight?This episode is for every couple who's ever tripped over the invisible burden of mental load.In this top re-release from Honey, We Need to Chat, we dive into the subtle but powerful dynamics that can derail even well-intentioned partners. Amy shares what mental load actually looks like (hint: it's not just housework), and Blair reflects on what it felt like to realise he was missing it — despite thinking he was doing the right thing.We talk about:Why mental load feels so heavy (and so unseen)How good guys can still miss the markReal scripts for starting a conversation without shame or blameThe invisible work of parenting, household management, and emotional planningHow to share the load without turning it into a scoreboardWhether you're the one carrying too much or just starting to notice the weight, this one's worth a listen — and a share with your partner.

Welcome to our REWOUND RE-RELEASE Bonus Series. These are our TOP episodes ever, so we're bringing them back as bonus video episodes. In one of our most-downloaded conversations, we dive into the heart of what's really going wrong in so many relationships: uneven emotional labour, avoidant communication, and partners who shut down instead of stepping up. We explore Reddit stories and real listener write-ins that expose the silent struggles so many couples face — including weaponised incompetence, gaming addictions, messy house resentment, and painful mother-in-law dynamics.

Mental Load in der Beziehung: Wie er entsteht, was er mit dir macht – und wie du rauskommst aus der unsichtbaren Dauerschleife im Kopf.

In dieser Atemübung praktizieren wir die Kohärenzatmung und die Triangel Atmung. Beide Atemtechniken regulieren das Nervensystem bei regelmäßiger Praxis. Die Atemübung eignet sich bei Stress, Anspannung, Angststörungen und Mental Load. Durch die Atemübung wird das parasympathische Nervensystem stimuliert und der Vagusnerv wird aktiviert, wodurch der Körper in einen Zustand der Ruhe und Entspannung versetzt wird. Bei Bluthochdruck und in der Schwangerschaft wird empfohlen, keine Atempausen zu machen. Breathwork Ausbildung, Somatic Breathwork Coaching, körpertherapeutisches Coaching: www.geetaghosh.com Geeta auf Instagram: @geeta.ghosh.breathwork Atem-Coaching, Atemkurse, Kooperationen: hi@geetaghosh.com Medizinischer Disclaimer: Sämtliche im Podcast, auf meiner Website sowie auf meinen Social Media Profilen wie Instagram enthaltenen Informationen und Übungen stellen keinen Ersatz für eine professionelle ärztliche oder psychotherapeutische Beratung, Diagnose oder Behandlung dar. Die Inhalte des Podcasts sind nicht dazu bestimmt, Krankheiten zu diagnostizieren oder zu behandeln. Im Rahmen des Podcasts werden keinerlei medizinische oder gesundheitliche Heilversprechen oder Handlungsempfehlungen zu Medikation und Ähnlichem abgegeben. Alle Inhalte, einschließlich Atem- und Körperübungen, Literatur und sonstige Informationen in diesem Podcast und auf meinen übrigen Kanälen wurden mit größter Sorgfalt recherchiert und ausgewählt, erheben jedoch keinerlei Anspruch auf Vollständigkeit, Aktualität, Richtigkeit und Ausgewogenheit. Insbesondere sind sie in keiner Weise ein Ersatz für professionelle Diagnosen, Beratungen und Behandlungen durch ausgebildete und anerkannte Ärzt:innen, Heilpraktiker:innen und Psychotherapeut:innen. Ebensowenig dienen die Inhalte dieses Podcasts als Grundlage für eigenständige Diagnosen sowie Behandlungen oder Änderungen an einer durch Fachärzt:innen bereits empfohlene Behandlung und Medikation. Der Podcast dient ausschließlich der neutralen Information und allgemeinen Weiterbildung. Für die Vollständigkweit und Richtigkeit der Angaben sowie Schäden und Unannehmlichkeiten, die sich durch die Nichtbeachtung dieser Hinweise ergeben, wird - weder direkt noch indirekt - keine Haftung durch Geetashri Ghosh übernommen. Es wird empfohlen, alle Informationen von entsprechenden Fachärzt:innen überprüfen zu lassen.

In dieser Atemübung praktizieren wir die Kohärenzatmung und die Triangel Atmung. Beide Atemtechniken regulieren das Nervensystem bei regelmäßiger Praxis. Die Atemübung eignet sich bei Stress, Anspannung, Angststörungen und Mental Load. Durch die Atemübung wird das parasympathische Nervensystem stimuliert und der Vagusnerv wird aktiviert, wodurch der Körper in einen Zustand der Ruhe und Entspannung versetzt wird. Bei Bluthochdruck und in der Schwangerschaft wird empfohlen, keine Atempausen zu machen. Breathwork Ausbildung, Somatic Breathwork Coaching, körpertherapeutisches Coaching: www.geetaghosh.com Geeta auf Instagram: @geeta.ghosh.breathwork Atem-Coaching, Atemkurse, Kooperationen: hi@geetaghosh.com Medizinischer Disclaimer: Sämtliche im Podcast, auf meiner Website sowie auf meinen Social Media Profilen wie Instagram enthaltenen Informationen und Übungen stellen keinen Ersatz für eine professionelle ärztliche oder psychotherapeutische Beratung, Diagnose oder Behandlung dar. Die Inhalte des Podcasts sind nicht dazu bestimmt, Krankheiten zu diagnostizieren oder zu behandeln. Im Rahmen des Podcasts werden keinerlei medizinische oder gesundheitliche Heilversprechen oder Handlungsempfehlungen zu Medikation und Ähnlichem abgegeben. Alle Inhalte, einschließlich Atem- und Körperübungen, Literatur und sonstige Informationen in diesem Podcast und auf meinen übrigen Kanälen wurden mit größter Sorgfalt recherchiert und ausgewählt, erheben jedoch keinerlei Anspruch auf Vollständigkeit, Aktualität, Richtigkeit und Ausgewogenheit. Insbesondere sind sie in keiner Weise ein Ersatz für professionelle Diagnosen, Beratungen und Behandlungen durch ausgebildete und anerkannte Ärzt:innen, Heilpraktiker:innen und Psychotherapeut:innen. Ebensowenig dienen die Inhalte dieses Podcasts als Grundlage für eigenständige Diagnosen sowie Behandlungen oder Änderungen an einer durch Fachärzt:innen bereits empfohlene Behandlung und Medikation. Der Podcast dient ausschließlich der neutralen Information und allgemeinen Weiterbildung. Für die Vollständigkweit und Richtigkeit der Angaben sowie Schäden und Unannehmlichkeiten, die sich durch die Nichtbeachtung dieser Hinweise ergeben, wird - weder direkt noch indirekt - keine Haftung durch Geetashri Ghosh übernommen. Es wird empfohlen, alle Informationen von entsprechenden Fachärzt:innen überprüfen zu lassen.

We're bringing you a summer replay that's all about decision fatigue - that overwhelming feeling when your brain is running on empty from making 1,500 decisions before lunch. In this episode, we break down why teachers are uniquely susceptible to mental exhaustion and share four practical strategies to lighten your decision-making load. Whether you're mapping out your classroom, planning new routines, or just trying to choose which planner to buy, we'll help you reduce overwhelm and set yourself up for a calmer school year. Prefer to read? Grab the original episode transcript and resources in the show notes here: https://www.secondstorywindow.net/podcast/decision-fatigue-teachers/Resources:Join the Teacher Approved Club!Connect with us on Instagram @2ndstorywindow.Shop our teacher-approved resources.Join our Facebook group, Teacher ApprovedLeave your review on Apple Podcasts!Related Episodes to Enjoy:Episode 77, 3 Reasons Why a First Day of School Script Will Save Your SanityEpisode 64, Your Summer To Do List – How Teachers Can Choose the Best Tasks for Big ImpactEpisode 19, Your Back to School GoalsMentioned in this episode:Sign up for our FREE Essential 5 Challenge July 29-31 at https://secondstorywindow.net/essential5

Let's be honest—if your brain feels like it's juggling 98 open tabs, you are so not alone. In this solo episode, I'm getting real about the maternal mental load that so many of us are carrying—especially in the chaos of summer. Whether you're coordinating camp drop-offs, managing your business, holding space for your marriage, planning meals, or handling the 738 little things that no one sees, it can feel like there's always something slipping through the cracks. I'm sharing what this season looks like for me as a mom of three little ones and a business owner—and what's actually helping me lighten the mental load without burning out. I'm also inviting you to something special: a Maternal Mental Load Roundtable happening on July 28th. This is a pitch-free, deeply supportive space to be witnessed, heard, and connected with other moms who truly get it. Tune in to hear: Why modern motherhood feels so overwhelming—and how we can shift it The truth about mental tabs, context switching, and energy leaks My favorite mindset shift that's helping me stop chasing perfection The small habits and routines that are helping me feel clear and grounded An exercise to map out everything you're holding (and why it's life-changing) Why delegation, automation, and simplification aren't luxuries—they're lifelines Want to join the conversation? I'd love to see you at the Maternal Mental Load Roundtable on July 28th. It's totally free, limited to 100 women, and designed to be a safe space to feel seen and supported. Want to share your mental load list with me? Email me directly at cait@themillionairemother.com. I'd be honored to witness it. If this episode resonated with you, it would mean the world if you left a review on Apple Podcasts. Share it to your stories, tag me @themillionairemother, or send me a DM—I love continuing the conversation with you.

If mornings feel like survival mode instead of a fresh start, you are not alone. Today we're creating a simple, grace-filled morning routine that works even when you're tired, overwhelmed, or waking up to chaos. You don't need a 10-step plan before sunrise. You just need 10 minutes of intention. Download my Morning Routine Tracker Contact - > info@rachelking.org Podcast - > Mama's Tired Connect -＞ Join my free Facebook community Simple Systems for Tired Mamas Instagram -＞@rachelmeigsking Resources - > Simple Time Management for Moms, Journal Page: Releasing the Mental Load, Downloadable Routine Tracker: Morning Reset for Tired Moms   Next Steps: Step 1: Join a supportive community of moms looking for simple systems to reclaim time for a peaceful home at the free Facebook group Simple Systems for Tired Mamas Step 2: Sign up for the weekly Mama's Tired Newsletter  Step 3: Ready for more personalized support? Book a call with Rachel

Let's talk about what it really takes to thrive when life hands you something heavy—and how choosing alignment in your body, your business, and your mindset can change everything. In this episode of Operation Be, I sit down with the incredible Emilia Rizzuto—a business owner, certified nutritional counselor, and total light in this world—to talk about her journey with Crohn's disease, healing from the inside out, and what it means to live fully even when things get hard. She shares what it was like to get diagnosed at 15, how she navigated treatment, and the powerful shift that happened when she started listening to her body instead of fighting it. We dive into mental and emotional healing, the role of family support, and what it means to stay soft and strong in the face of chronic illness. Emilia also gives us a behind-the-scenes look at her elderberry business, why clean ingredients matter, and how she's built something deeply rooted in wellness, connection, and community. This conversation is real, heartfelt, and full of insight for anyone navigating chronic illness, entrepreneurship, or just trying to live in deeper alignment.

Are you a mom navigating life with ADHD - diagnosed or undiagnosed? In this honest conversation, therapist and late-diagnosed mom Samantha Skvaril joins Emily to explore the emotional rollercoaster of ADHD in motherhood. From unpacking the shame we carry, to redefining what it means to be a “good mom,” we dig deep into how ADHD uniquely affects women and mothers.The episode covers:How ADHD presents in women and the unique factors for moms Shame, school struggles, and late-diagnosis identity shiftsThe mental load of parenting with a neurodivergent brainWhy many moms miss the signs of ADHD in themselvesTools for managing executive dysfunction and sensory overwhelmIf you've ever felt like you're failing at motherhood, especially under the crushing weight of mental load, this is a must-listen. 

In today's episode, sociology professor Allison Daminger joins Sarah for a fascinating discussion about mental load, division of labor, and the role of planning! She answers three great questions from listeners, tackling challenging questions about a partner not interested in long-range planning, a partner with little predictability to his job, and a partner with ADHD. Find more from Allison and her book, The Mental Workload of Family Life, at her website: https://www.allisondaminger.com/book, and she can also be found on substack at https://allisondaminger.substack.com. Submit your questions for Allison on the show notes page at theshubox.com! Episode Sponsors IXL: Learning doesn't have to stop in the summer!  Best Laid Plans listeners can get an exclusive 20% off IXL membership when they sign up today at ⁠⁠⁠ixl.com/plans⁠⁠⁠.  Green Chef: Make this summer your healthiest yet with Green Chef. Head to ⁠⁠⁠greenchef.com/50BESTLAID⁠⁠⁠ and use code 50BESTLAID to get 50% off your first month, then 20% off for two months with free shipping.  PrepDish: Healthy menu plans and prep instruction to take the mental load out of dinner!   Visit ⁠⁠⁠PrepDish.com/plans⁠⁠⁠ for your first 2 weeks, FREE.   Mint:  Affordable unlimited wireless!  Get your new customer offer and your 3-month Unlimited wireless plan for $15 a month at ⁠⁠⁠mintmobile.com/BLP Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm thrilled to host Sharon Pope, the visionary co-founder and CEO of Shelpful, on the show today. With 15 years as a startup executive, Sharon created Shelpful out of her own need for accountability and ease!Join us as Sharon shares how to leverage AI to simplify your life and overcome common roadblocks:

If there's one thing I hear over and over from high school counselors, it's that there's just never enough time in the day. That's why I loved this conversation with Kaci Ranger—so much so that I'm bringing it back as a listener favorite! In this episode, Kaci and I talk through simple, effective time management strategies that are actually doable for busy counselors. We cover everything from building a realistic daily schedule to setting boundaries around email and meetings, plus easy ways to organize your digital tools without adding to your plate. Whether you're brand new to the role or deep into your counseling career, I know you'll walk away with a few tips to help you lighten that mental load.Resources Mentioned: More episodes on time managementLeave your review for High School Counseling Conversations on Apple PodcastsConnect with Lauren:Sign up for the free, 3-day prep for High School Counseling Job Interviews https://counselorclique.com/interviewsVisit my TpT store https://counselorclique.com/shopSend me a DM on Instagram @counselorclique https://instagram.com/counselorcliqueFollow me on Facebook https://facebook.com/counselorcliqueSend me an email mailto:lauren@counselorclique.comJoin the Clique Collaborative http://cliquecollab.comOriginal show notes on website: https://counselorclique.com/time-management-strategies-for-counselors/

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In this episode of It's About to Go Down!, Marc and Cathey are joined by Cathey's sister and brilliant systems thinker, Karin Kusumakar. Together, they unpack the concept of mental load—the invisible, constant labor of planning, organizing, remembering, and managing everyday life. The conversation offers both clarity and compassion as they explore: Why mental load is about more than doing—it's the thinking before the doing; How uneven distribution of cognitive labor affects burnout, relationships, and identity; The hidden weight of always having to “remember”; Tools for sharing the load and showing appreciation; and What it looks like to raise kids—and support adults—with emotional awareness. Karin brings fresh insight, humor, and heart to a conversation that will change how you see the work behind your life.

Are your daily habits helping you thrive, or merely helping you get by?   In today's episode, we'll discuss the five expert-recommended daily practices, and then go deeper into the five most overlooked, but life-changing habits that often go unnoticed, like creating micro-moments of awe, to speaking life over yourself and your loved ones  This episode will equip you to build rhythms that support healthier, more purposeful family life.    Read the full show notes with links here: Cultivating Healthy Daily Habits and Why It Matters   More popular episodes: Mom Overload: Stop Stress Before it Breaks You Overscheduled Kids? Find the Right Balance for Your Family How to Manage the Mental Load of Motherhood Don't Let Your Kids Be Quiet Quitters   If you enjoy listening to Parenting and Homeschool Advice ~ Equipped To Be with Connie Albers, please leave a review and a five-star rating. It is easy and will only take a few seconds. When you do, it helps others see the show in their feed. Also, would you kindly share this with a friend or two? Equipped To Be might be an encouragement to them, too. Thank you ~ Connie   Have a question? Interested in having Connie speak? Send an email to Connie here: https://conniealbers.com/contact/   

Wäsche machen, Müll rausbringen, Blumen gießen: Paulina und Zoe haben in ihren Beziehungen häufig den Großteil der Care-Arbeit erledigt. Ein Mental Load, der nicht zu unterschätzen ist. Wie die Aufgabenverteilung in Partnerschaften besser klappt.**********Ihr hört: Gesprächspartnerinnen: Paulina und Zoe, haben in Beziehungen mehrfach mehr Sorgearbeit übernommen als ihre Partner Gesprächspartnerin: Jo Lücke, Autorin und politische Bildnerin, Gründerin der "Carewerkschaft" für unbezahlte Sorgearbeit Gesprächspartnerin: Diana Lengersdorf, Professorin für Geschlechtersoziologie an der Uni Bielefeld Autor und Host: Przemek Żuk Redaktion: Yevgeniya Shcherbakova, Anne Bohlmann, David Freches, Anne Göbel Produktion: Andi Fulford**********Quellen:Hipp, L., & Sauermann, A. (2024). Wer macht was? Die Verteilung der tatsächlichen und mentalen Sorgearbeit. In Sozialbericht 2024: Ein Datenreport für Deutschland (S. 154-158). Bonn: Bundeszentrale für politische Bildung (bpb).Schäper, C., Schrenker, A., Wrohlich, K. (2023). Gender Pay Gap und Gender Care Gap steigen bis zur Mitte des Lebens stark an. DIW Wochenbericht Nr. 9/2023, S. 99-105.Weeks, A. C. (Accepted/In press). The Political Consequences of the Mental Load. European Sociological Review.Haupt, A., Gelbgiser, D. (2024). The gendered division of cognitive household labor, mental load, and family–work conflict in European countries. European Societies 2024; 26(3): S. 828–854.**********Mehr zum Thema bei Deutschlandfunk Nova:Geschlechter-Ungleichheit - Möglichkeiten Gender-Pay-Gap oder Gender-Care-Gap zu schließenAktivist: Erst die Care-Arbeit, dann die WirtschaftMental Health - Wie wir die passende Unterstützung finden**********Zusätzliche InformationenMental-Load-Test von Jo Lücke**********Den Artikel zum Stück findet ihr hier.**********Ihr könnt uns auch auf diesen Kanälen folgen: TikTok und Instagram .**********Meldet euch!Ihr könnt das Team von Facts & Feelings über Whatsapp erreichen.Uns interessiert: Was beschäftigt euch? Habt ihr ein Thema, über das wir unbedingt in der Sendung und im Podcast sprechen sollen?Schickt uns eine Sprachnachricht oder schreibt uns per 0160-91360852 oder an factsundfeelings@deutschlandradio.de.Wichtig: Wenn ihr diese Nummer speichert und uns eine Nachricht schickt, akzeptiert ihr unsere Regeln zum Datenschutz und bei Whatsapp die Datenschutzrichtlinien von Whatsapp.

If you keep thinking, 'If I just had a few more hours in the day, I'd finally feel caught up' — this episode might shift everything for you. We're talking about the real reason you're burned out, and it's something no one wants to talk about. It's not a time issue — it's a boundary issue. Yes, we are going there. And yes, that's actually good news. If you grew up in a culture of saying yes to everyone and everything, this episode may be a bit triggering, and it may just be the best thing you hear all year.  Buy the book Boundaries on Amazon Contact - > info@rachelking.org Podcast - > Mama's Tired Connect -＞ Join my free Facebook community Simple Systems for Tired Mamas Instagram -＞@rachelmeigsking Resources - > Simple Time Management for Moms, Journal Page: Releasing the Mental Load, Boundaries Book by Dr Henry Cloud and Dr John Townsend   Next Steps: Step 1: Join a supportive community of moms looking for simple systems to reclaim time for a peaceful home at the free Facebook group Simple Systems for Tired Mamas Step 2: Sign up for the weekly Mama's Tired Newsletter  Step 3: Ready for more personalized support? Book a call with Rachel

The end of the school year and the transition to summer bring different types of mental load for parents. There is a shift in schedule, priorities, and what you're thinking about each day, and there can be more to manage, especially for the default parent who usually takes care of everything. It's a different type of stress, but it is stress nonetheless. There can be a wide variance in the load you carry, depending on your partner and other supports you have in place. We must acknowledge that the mental load is an invisible load yet a significant burden; it's a labor of thinking, remembering, organizing, and planning that keeps the family and household running smoothly. It can all be overwhelming! Join me in today's episode for a closer look. Show Highlights: The constant hum in your mind of all that needs to be done The potential for contention between parents in remembering ALL the details (along with anxiety, depression, and disconnection) Remember that two things can be true at the same time! Partnership is essential in co-parenting and co-managing the household. Examples of how a partner can step in to help in meaningful ways: taking over specific tasks, being emotionally present, and having a weekly time for an honest check-in with each other Advice to moms and dads for communicating and validating each other Setting boundaries, saying NO, letting go of some tasks, and asking for help The importance of finding community, connection, and support groups Key takeaways from Dr. Kat: “Acknowledge your feelings, state them aloud, and share them. Only then can you start to change.” Resources: Call the National Maternal Mental Health Hotline at 1-833-TLC-MAMA or visit cdph.ca.gov Please find resources in English and Spanish at Postpartum Support International, or by phone/text at 1-800-944-4773. There are many free resources, like online support groups, peer mentors, a specialist provider directory, and perinatal mental health training for therapists, physicians, nurses, doulas, and anyone who wants to be more supportive in offering services.  You can also follow PSI on social media: Instagram, Facebook, and most other platforms Visit www.postpartum.net/professionals/certificate-trainings/ for information on the grief course.   Visit my website, www.wellmindperinatal.com, for more information, resources, and courses you can take today! If you are a California resident looking for a therapist in perinatal mental health, email me about openings for private pay clients! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ever walked into a room and forgotten why you're there—only to remember it was to solve someone else's crisis, not your own? Yeah, same. That's the mental load in action, and moms carry a lot more of it than we realize. It's not just grocery lists or appointments. It's being the emotional safety net, the vibe-checker of the household, the one constantly predicting meltdowns before they happen. This kind of “invisible labor” adds up fast and drains what experts call your “body budget,” meaning your sensory and emotional bandwidth gets maxed out. In less than ten minutes, you'll learn about six sneaky mental tasks that could be pushing you closer to burnout without even knowing it. You'll also get insight from the book Brain-Body Parenting by Mona Delahooke, which helps decode why even small things can suddenly feel too much. The good news? You'll walk away with tools to spot these hidden stressors, challenge outdated assumptions, and reclaim some balance before you hit that mental red zone. Resources We Shared: Podcast Week here at No Guilt Mom!!! We have some great stuff going on…

Follow Briana on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/bloommentalhealthandwellnessVisit her website: https://www.bloommentalhealthwellness.com/Follow her on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61564234183069SummaryIn this conversation, Briana Powell, a psychiatric mental health nurse practitioner, discusses the importance of women's mental health, recognizing signs of mental health issues, and navigating care options. She highlights common struggles women face, especially during midlife, and the impact of hormonal changes on mental health. The discussion also addresses the stigma surrounding mental health medications and emphasizes the importance of holistic approaches to mental health care. Brianna encourages women to listen to their intuition and seek help when needed, reinforcing that they deserve to feel better.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Women's Mental Health04:44 Recognizing Signs of Mental Health Issues09:09 Navigating Mental Health Care12:05 Common Mental Health Struggles in Midlife18:39 Hormonal Changes and Mental Health23:21 Addressing Stigma Around Mental Health Medications27:40 Holistic Approaches to Mental Health32:32 Encouragement for Seeking Help

If your bedroom feels more chaotic than cozy, clutter might be sabotaging your relationship. Links in this episode (some may be affiliate links - thanks for supporting the show at no extra cost to you): Follow me on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@wannabeclutterfree⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Full show notes: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠wannabeclutterfree.com/265 ⁠Check out my favorite resources **************** In this episode of the Wannabe Clutter Free podcast, host Deanna Yates shares how the physical clutter in your home can quietly build resentment, reduce intimacy, and increase arguments with your partner. Backed by research (including a stat that 40% of couples argue over clutter!), this episode explores the emotional and mental load clutter creates—and how to fix it. You'll learn: ✅ Why clutter causes stress in romantic relationships ✅ How to declutter your bedroom to rekindle connection ✅ The power of a “Couples Corner” and how to create one ✅ A simple weekly ritual to improve communication and teamwork Whether you're married, partnered, or in a long-term relationship, these practical tips will help you clear the physical and emotional mess that's standing between you and the connection you crave. If you've been feeling scattered, foggy, or stretched too thin, this episode will help you clear the noise (both around you and within you). Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates 01:27 Clutter's Impact on Romantic Relationships 01:57 The Clutter F.R.E.E.D.O.M. Method Explained 03:14 Why Clutter Causes Relationship Stress 04:32 Shocking Stats & Psychological Insights 08:19 Gender Differences & the Mental Load 14:51 Creating a Peaceful Bedroom Retreat 18:15 Establishing a Couple's Corner 21:19 Clutter-Free Communication Ritual 24:01 Final Thoughts and Action Steps Music: Fresh Lift by Shane Ivers - ⁠https://www.silvermansound.com⁠ Subscribe & Review: If you loved this episode, please subscribe and leave a review! Your feedback helps me create more content to inspire and motivate you to live with less. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In dieser bewegenden Episode spricht Judith Möhlenhof offen über die schwierige Anfangszeit mit ihrem zweiten Kind – einem sogenannten „Schreibaby“. Auch Jahre später spürt man den emotionalen Schmerz, den diese Zeit bei ihr hinterlassen hat. Judith teilt, wie es war, Tag und Nacht mit einem untröstlichen Baby zu verbringen, die ständige Erschöpfung, das fehlende Verständnis von außen und die Hilflosigkeit, die sie als Mutter empfand. Vier intensive Jahre voller Zweifel, Spurensuche und Mini-Erfolge, aber auch ohne das ersehnte Patentrezept. Heute geht sie reflektiert und ehrlich mit dieser Erfahrung um – und macht damit anderen betroffenen Eltern Mut. Eine Folge über emotionale Tiefen, mentale Kraft und das, was bleibt. Ihr seid nicht allein!

Follow Briana on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/bloommentalhealthandwellnessVisit her website: https://www.bloommentalhealthwellness.com/Follow her on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61564234183069SummaryIn this conversation, Brianna Powell, a psychiatric mental health nurse practitioner, discusses the importance of women's mental health, recognizing signs of mental health issues, and navigating care options. She highlights common struggles women face, especially during midlife, and the impact of hormonal changes on mental health. The discussion also addresses the stigma surrounding mental health medications and emphasizes the importance of holistic approaches to mental health care. Brianna encourages women to listen to their intuition and seek help when needed, reinforcing that they deserve to feel better.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Women's Mental Health04:44 Recognizing Signs of Mental Health Issues09:09 Navigating Mental Health Care12:05 Common Mental Health Struggles in Midlife18:39 Hormonal Changes and Mental Health23:21 Addressing Stigma Around Mental Health Medications27:40 Holistic Approaches to Mental Health32:32 Encouragement for Seeking Help

Do you wake up thinking, “I slept last night - why am I still so tired?” Well friend, this episode is for you. We are going beneath the surface — into decision fatigue, mental load, and why moms feel constantly depleted. I'm going to help you understand the invisible emotional and cognitive burdens you carry daily — and offer some beginning steps toward relief.   This episode is for the truly tired mamas, and the tired isn't just physical.  Decision Fatigue is the mental wear-down from making hundreds of choices daily. Your brain is clocked in even when your body is ‘off.' That's real work.   Snag my Journal Page: Releasing the Mental Load freebie   Contact - > info@rachelking.org Podcast - > Mama's Tired Connect -＞ Join my free Facebook community Simple Systems for Tired Mamas Instagram -＞@rachelmeigsking Resources - > Simple Time Management for Moms, Journal Page: Releasing the Mental Load    Next Steps: Step 1: Join a supportive community of moms looking for simple systems to reclaim time for a peaceful home at the free Facebook group Simple Systems for Tired Mamas Step 2: Sign up for the weekly Mama's Tired Newsletter  Step 3: Ready for more personalized support? Book a call with Rachel

Have feed back, suggestions, or questions? CLICK HERE to Send us a Message.Mind Pilot Episode 82 Your brain deserves care just like your body does, but how often do you check in with it? In this deeply relatable episode, Dr. Jana Price-Sharps invites listeners to explore their mental load and how it might be impacting their health. She breaks down the emotional costs of avoiding solitude or falling into isolation, and shares down-to-earth techniques to lighten the mental weight we often carry in silence. Whether you're feeling burned out, anxious, or stuck in negative thought loops, this is a call to pause, reflect, and reconnect with yourself and with others. Topics CoveredFEAR OF SOLITUDE: How anxiety can cause avoidance of being alone and what it reveals about your mental stateISOLATION AND DEPRESSION: Why disconnecting from people can deepen mental health strugglesMENTAL LOAD: A look at the "life plate" concept and how too many unresolved tasks burden the brainACTIONABLE STRATEGIES: Steps for lightening your emotional load through reflection, planning, and small habitsSupport the show

This quick story might change the way you think about decluttering forever.In today's Pouring Out the Heart of It, I share what happened when I let someone else take over a mess—right in the middle of my chaos—and how that “shortcut” turned out to be a blessing for my home, my child, and my peace of mind.If you've ever felt guilty for not doing everything yourself, this episode is your permission slip to let go and let someone else step in. Especially as we wrap up June's decluttering theme, this might be the gentle reset you didn't know you needed.Scripture: Proverbs 13:20 (ESV) – “Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise.”With love,Katie

Struggling under the weight of doing it all? In this episode, Deanna is joined by Paige Connell—a working mom of four—to talk about decluttering the mental load. They dive into invisible labor, the pressure modern moms face, and how to create more balance at home through honest conversations and shared responsibility. **************** Resources Mentioned (some may be affiliate links - thanks for supporting the show at no extra cost to you): ⁠⁠⁠⁠Get my children's book: Lenora and Her Super Duper Messy Room⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get all the links and resources at wannabeclutterfree.com/264⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Paige Connell ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Paige's Website⁠ Follow Deanna Yates, the host of Wannabe Clutter Free on: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ **************** In this episode of the Wannabe Clutter Free podcast, Deanna Yates is joined by Paige Connell—a working mom of four and a powerful voice for moms navigating the mental load of motherhood. Together, they unpack the invisible labor so many women carry: remembering appointments, managing the household, keeping the family running… and somehow staying sane through it all. Paige brings honesty, humor, and a big dose of validation as she shares her own experiences and the collective wisdom of the community she's built on Instagram and TikTok. This isn't about doing more—it's about letting go of the idea that you have to do it all. If you're feeling burned out from being the default parent, struggling to find balance at home, or wondering how to have more equitable conversations with your partner—this episode is for you. We talk about real-life strategies to simplify your mental load, how to advocate for change inside and outside the home, and why asking for help is a radical (and necessary) act of self-care. In this episode, you'll learn: What the mental load looks like in everyday life—and why it's so draining How to talk with your partner about sharing the load without starting a fight Simple ways to create more connection, peace, and partnership at home Why building a support system is essential (not selfish) How even small shifts can declutter the overwhelm and help you breathe easier Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 01:51 Starting the Conversation with Paige Connell 03:14 Balancing Motherhood and Career 04:26 Addressing Societal Expectations and Double Standards 08:42 Equity in Household Responsibilities 14:22 Common Misconceptions About Working Moms 20:04 Starting Conversations at Home 26:50 Addressing Defensiveness in Conversations 28:55 Understanding Societal Pressures on Partners 31:09 Navigating Parenting and Mental Load 35:50 Building Community and Support Systems 36:50 Advocating for Family-Friendly Work Policies 43:05 Practical Tips for Sharing Responsibilities 46:13 Conclusion and Final Thoughts **************** Music: Fresh Lift by Shane Ivers - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.silvermansound.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ **************** We'd love to hear how you're applying the strategies discussed in this episode. Share your stories and tips with us on social media (@wannabeclutterfree). Don't forget to subscribe for more insightful episodes designed to make your busy life a bit easier. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Motherhood changes you because it literally alters a woman's brain—structurally, functionally, and in many ways, irreversibly. - Louann Brizendine, The Female Brain   Summary Women are gifted in a way that men are not.  Women can hold many different tasks in their mind at the same time, see the needs of others, and know the needs of the household and balance them all.  Sometimes this can feel empowering, but sometimes it's overwhelming, especially in times of great stress. In some circles, there is a call for men to share the “mental load”, but is that even possible?  What is the appropriate role of fathers and husbands and how can they support their wives in this burden that they carry?  Listen in as we tackle this tricky topic giving both perspective and advice on rejoicing in our differences.     Key Takeaways Women are gifted in a way that men are not.  Embrace it and appreciate that.  Reject a spirit of comparison and envy.   Live a balanced life - you are not a victim and you always have a choice. Appreciate your husband's mental load Create space for him to be needed.     Couple Discussion Questions How does the mental load affect each of us?   Have we fallen into a pattern of comparison or envy?  How can we learn to be more grateful for our spouse and their contributions?    Resources Download For-Women-Only-Survey Download FMO-Survey-Results  

This episode is a must-listen if you're carrying the weight of managing all the things at home and wondering how to get your partner to truly share the load. Whether you're drowning in to-dos, making every family decision, or just tired of being the default parent, this convo is for you!We're talking about how to create true household balance, why dads often don't see the work you do, and how to start having better conversations about dividing parenting and chores more fairly.Learn how to take the weight off of motherhood with today's episode!This week I chatted with Jessica Hill, founder of the Parent Collective. She dishes on how to have smart discussions with your partner, how to communicate your needs, and how to grow together as parents!What's in store:What is Fair Play?How did you come to be involved in the Parent Collective?How to talk to your spouse about parentingHow to explain mental load to your partnerHow to divide household chores with your spouseMaking a list of household responsibilities for couplesParenting mistakes to avoidThe invisible work of stay-at-home moms ...and more!------------------------------------------------------------------------------------IMPORTANT LINKS:-  Sign up for the Mom Club on Patreon: HERE- Join TinyHood (on demand parenting classes) HERE                    Use code LEARNINGTOMOM for 25% off                    Connect with them on Instagram Here                    Connect with them on Facebook Here- BisbeeBaby's portable  breastmilk and formula warmer HERE                  Use code MOM10 for 10% off                    Connect with them on Instagram Here                    Connect with them on Facebook Here- The Fair Play Book we talked about: HERE- Connect with Jessica HERE------------------------------------------------------------------------------------invisible family load, mental load of motherhood, how to divide chores fairly, what is invisible labor in motherhood, household responsibilities for couples, how to get husband to help more, emotional labor in relationships, how to explain mental load to husband, Fair Play method, how to balance parenting, parenting partnership tips, how to explain mental load to husband, invisible load of motherhood comic, invisible load of fatherhood, invisible load of motherhood list, mental load of motherhood, Newborn care podcast, Postpartum podcast, Infant podcast, New baby podcast, Baby podcast, Motherhood podcast, First time mom, Best motherhood podcast, Best parenting podcast, Holistic parenting podcast, Holistic newborn, Crunchy mom podcast, motherhood podcast, mom podcast, Postpartum depression support, Safe co-sleeping practices, Tummy time tips, Baby sick remedies, Baby bath time routine, Newborn feeding schedule, 

Amy chats with Dr. Morgan Cutlip about her new book A Better Share, which offers practical, research-based strategies for managing the mental load in relationships. They discuss how default parenting, gender socialization, and communication missteps can create resentment—and how couples can reconnect through clarity and shared responsibility. You'll hear why the mental load is the real relationship villain, not your partner— and how to invite your partner into the solution . Amy and Morgan discuss: why our invisible labor is so hard to talk about without sparking defensiveness why curiosity offers a secret to lasting connection how being the default parent impacts one's desire for intimacy how to help kids develop initiative, not just complete chores the power of “gracious interpretations” and the ultimate compliment formula Here's where you can find Morgan: https://drmorgancutlip.com Listen to Morgan's podcast "Love Thinks" @drmorgancutlip on IG Buy A BETTER SHARE: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9781400239672 We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.whatfreshhellpodcast.com/p/promo-codes/⁠⁠⁠ mom friends, funny moms, parenting advice, parenting experts, parenting tips, mothers, families, parenting skills, parenting strategies, parenting styles, busy moms, self-help for moms, manage kid's behavior, teenager, tween, child development, family activities, family fun, parent child relationship, decluttering, kid-friendly, invisible workload, default parent, household equity, household equality, gender household equality, gender household equity, maternal mental health, postpartum health, Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ep511. Renee sits down with illustrator and writer Mary Catherine Starr, the creative force behind @momlife_comics, to talk about how the chaos of early motherhood—and a global pandemic—sparked a viral career that resonated with millions. From her first comic to landing a book deal, Mary Catherine shares how she uses humor, art, and personal storytelling to make sense of the emotional labor, invisible work, and double standards baked into motherhood. They also dig into the behind-the-scenes reality of being a creative mom online: the pressure to do it all, the fear of burnout, and dealing with the backlash that sometimes comes from posting content. This episode is for anyone who's ever felt like the default parent, wondered how it all fell on their shoulders, or found comfort in seeing their experience reflected back with honesty and heart. Find Mary Catherine's comics at: https://www.instagram.com/momlife_comics/ RENEE REINA   Instagram: @themomroom | @thereneereina   TikTok: @thereneereina   Facebook Community - The Mom Room Community  YouTube: Renee Reina - The Mom Room Podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt like you were carrying all the mental load at home? Like you're the one remembering the gifts, refilling the coffee, scheduling the doctor's appointments, and making sure the dishwasher actually gets emptied? Life Coach and Fair Play Method Facilitator Katelyn Denning is here to help us make the invisible load more visible – and finally figure out how to share the responsibilities that keep life moving. If you've been carrying too much for too long, this episode is just what you need.

Have you ever asked yourself: "I bring home the check, I do chores... why is my wife still overwhelmed and distant?" "What is this 'mental load' she talks about, and why don't I see it?" "How can I truly partner with her, instead of just 'helping'?" If you've ever caught yourself thinking, "But I am helping!" or "She's upset but I have no idea why," this episode will give you the X-ray vision you've been missing. Because what's wearing her out isn't always what's on your radar—it's the things you never even thought about. Here's the truth most men miss: providing financially is one form of leadership—but emotional labor is the currency she's drowning in. And if you don't see it, you're likely part of the reason she feels alone in the mission. This episode is your wake-up call. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this vital conversation, we dig into: Invisible Labor vs. Physical Effort: Understand the critical difference. Physical labor is what you see (dishes, yardwork, laundry). Invisible labor is the mental burden she carries: managing the family calendar, remembering RSVPs, planning meals, tracking groceries, anticipating everyone's emotional needs. She's exhausted that she had to remember it in the first place, not just that you didn't do the thing. Why Your Wife Feels Like She's Doing It All (Even When You're Helping): Most men step in reactively, not proactively. When you wait to be told what to do, you're reinforcing her role as the default parent, default planner, default everything. If you've heard or sensed, "I feel like the only adult in this house," this is the root cause. How to Show Leadership at Home (Without Being Controlling): You're not a passive assistant; you're a co-leader. Leadership means taking initiative with empathy. Learn proactive phrases like, "What's something I can fully own without being asked?" or "I'll handle the kids' end-of-year school stuff." The 2-Minute Audit: How to Find What She Resents Without Asking Her Directly: Every week, take two minutes to ask yourself five key questions: What has she had to ask me more than once? What mental task have I seen her doing that I've never offered to take on? If I got sick for a week, what would stop? If she got sick for a week, what would collapse? What do I expect her to “just handle” because I'm used to it? Your attention to what she's carrying is the answer—and the invitation to step up. This episode will challenge you to redefine "helping" and step into true co-leadership at home. Here's what research and observation highlight about emotional labor in relationships: Studies show that women typically take on 60-80% of the invisible labor in households, leading to higher rates of burnout. Marriages where the emotional load is perceived as unequally distributed have a 45% higher risk of marital dissatisfaction. Couples who actively practice shared responsibility for planning and mental tasks report a 30% increase in relationship satisfaction and feelings of partnership.   www.thedadedge.com/friday212 www.thedadedge.com/mastermind  

In this episode, I explore what happens in a man's mind when he becomes a father—and why so many dads carry their emotional weight in silence.From new dads to empty-nesters, the mental and emotional load of fatherhood is real—but rarely named. I'll walk you through the neuroscience of paternal bonding, stress regulation, identity shifts, and inherited emotional silence. This is not just a tribute to dads—it's a call to see them, support them, and understand them through the lens of brain science and mental health.I also sit down with my husband, Mac Leaf, for a candid conversation about his experience as a father—and what he wishes more people knew.This is the episode every dad, partner, son, and supporter of fatherhood needs to hear.

Have you ever asked yourself: "Why does my wife seem so distant, even when we're together?" "Am I feeling more like a roommate than a partner?" "What are the subtle signs our marriage is drifting, before it's too late?" If these questions echo in your mind, today's conversation is a powerful wake-up call to the silent killer of connection. Resentment isn't always loud screaming matches or slammed doors. It's the creeping silence, the growing disinterest, the widening emotional distance. It's when she starts emotionally withdrawing while still going through the motions of life with you.  Most men wait for a blow-up to take action, but by then, she might already be emotionally gone. This episode is about catching the drift long before the disconnect becomes irreversible. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this vital conversation, we dig into: The Unseen Buildup: Ignored Emotions, Mental Load, Unspoken Expectations. She's likely been signaling for months, maybe even years. You might have heard the words ("I'm tired," "You never ask me how I'm doing," "It's always me managing everything"), but you didn't feel their weight. She doesn't want you to solve her problems; she wants you to see her. The hidden trap: men often assume "no conflict = no problem," but most women emotionally disconnect long before they ever fight. How Emotional Debt Compounds in Marriage. Every unacknowledged frustration is like putting a charge on a credit card with no payment plan. Eventually, she hits her limit and withdraws love, affection, and energy—not out of spite, but self-preservation. This emotional debt often manifests as phrases like, "I always have to ask," "I can't count on him," or "He doesn't even notice anymore." Just like in finance, emotional debt isn't a crisis—until it is. What She Really Means When She Says, “I'm Fine.” This seemingly simple phrase is often code for, "I don't feel safe opening up to you right now." It signals, "You haven't earned the right to hear what's really going on." Most men take it literally, or defensively, rather than responding with curiosity and genuine inquiry. Here's what research and observation highlight about resentment and marital health: Studies show that consistent emotional invalidation is linked to a 30% increase in marital dissatisfaction over time. When a partner perceives an uneven distribution of the mental load, it can lead to a 40% higher likelihood of emotional withdrawal. Ignoring subtle relationship red flags for more than 6 months significantly decreases the chances of successful conflict resolution without intervention. www.thedadedge.com/friday211 www.thedadedge.com/alliance