Podcasts about mental load

In this episode of It's About to Go Down!, Marc and Cathey are joined by Cathey's sister and brilliant systems thinker, Karin Kusumakar. Together, they unpack the concept of mental load—the invisible, constant labor of planning, organizing, remembering, and managing everyday life. The conversation offers both clarity and compassion as they explore: Why mental load is about more than doing—it's the thinking before the doing; How uneven distribution of cognitive labor affects burnout, relationships, and identity; The hidden weight of always having to “remember”; Tools for sharing the load and showing appreciation; and What it looks like to raise kids—and support adults—with emotional awareness. Karin brings fresh insight, humor, and heart to a conversation that will change how you see the work behind your life.

In der neuen Folge sprechen wir über kurze Auszeiten vom Alltag und warum wir diese überhaupt brauchen, nörgelnde Hüttengäste, Ganztages-Schulen und darüber warum sich so viele Frauen nach einer Trennung 'befreiter' fühlen, was dieses besagte Video in uns auslöst. Wie unterscheidet sich Emotional Load vom Mental Load und warum ist gerade die emotionale Verantwortung so kräftezehrend?

Are your daily habits helping you thrive, or merely helping you get by?   In today's episode, we'll discuss the five expert-recommended daily practices, and then go deeper into the five most overlooked, but life-changing habits that often go unnoticed, like creating micro-moments of awe, to speaking life over yourself and your loved ones  This episode will equip you to build rhythms that support healthier, more purposeful family life.    Read the full show notes with links here: Cultivating Healthy Daily Habits and Why It Matters   More popular episodes: Mom Overload: Stop Stress Before it Breaks You Overscheduled Kids? Find the Right Balance for Your Family How to Manage the Mental Load of Motherhood Don't Let Your Kids Be Quiet Quitters   If you enjoy listening to Parenting and Homeschool Advice ~ Equipped To Be with Connie Albers, please leave a review and a five-star rating. It is easy and will only take a few seconds. When you do, it helps others see the show in their feed. Also, would you kindly share this with a friend or two? Equipped To Be might be an encouragement to them, too. Thank you ~ Connie   Have a question? Interested in having Connie speak? Send an email to Connie here: https://conniealbers.com/contact/   

Wäsche machen, Müll rausbringen, Blumen gießen: Paulina und Zoe haben in ihren Beziehungen häufig den Großteil der Care-Arbeit erledigt. Ein Mental Load, der nicht zu unterschätzen ist. Wie die Aufgabenverteilung in Partnerschaften besser klappt.**********Ihr hört: Gesprächspartnerinnen: Paulina und Zoe, haben in Beziehungen mehrfach mehr Sorgearbeit übernommen als ihre Partner Gesprächspartnerin: Jo Lücke, Autorin und politische Bildnerin, Gründerin der "Carewerkschaft" für unbezahlte Sorgearbeit Gesprächspartnerin: Diana Lengersdorf, Professorin für Geschlechtersoziologie an der Uni Bielefeld Autor und Host: Przemek Żuk Redaktion: Yevgeniya Shcherbakova, Anne Bohlmann, David Freches, Anne Göbel Produktion: Andi Fulford**********Quellen:Hipp, L., & Sauermann, A. (2024). Wer macht was? Die Verteilung der tatsächlichen und mentalen Sorgearbeit. In Sozialbericht 2024: Ein Datenreport für Deutschland (S. 154-158). Bonn: Bundeszentrale für politische Bildung (bpb).Schäper, C., Schrenker, A., Wrohlich, K. (2023). Gender Pay Gap und Gender Care Gap steigen bis zur Mitte des Lebens stark an. DIW Wochenbericht Nr. 9/2023, S. 99-105.Weeks, A. C. (Accepted/In press). The Political Consequences of the Mental Load. European Sociological Review.Haupt, A., Gelbgiser, D. (2024). The gendered division of cognitive household labor, mental load, and family–work conflict in European countries. European Societies 2024; 26(3): S. 828–854.**********Mehr zum Thema bei Deutschlandfunk Nova:Geschlechter-Ungleichheit - Möglichkeiten Gender-Pay-Gap oder Gender-Care-Gap zu schließenAktivist: Erst die Care-Arbeit, dann die WirtschaftMental Health - Wie wir die passende Unterstützung finden**********Zusätzliche InformationenMental-Load-Test von Jo Lücke**********Den Artikel zum Stück findet ihr hier.**********Ihr könnt uns auch auf diesen Kanälen folgen: TikTok und Instagram .**********Meldet euch!Ihr könnt das Team von Facts & Feelings über Whatsapp erreichen.Uns interessiert: Was beschäftigt euch? Habt ihr ein Thema, über das wir unbedingt in der Sendung und im Podcast sprechen sollen?Schickt uns eine Sprachnachricht oder schreibt uns per 0160-91360852 oder an factsundfeelings@deutschlandradio.de.Wichtig: Wenn ihr diese Nummer speichert und uns eine Nachricht schickt, akzeptiert ihr unsere Regeln zum Datenschutz und bei Whatsapp die Datenschutzrichtlinien von Whatsapp.

If you keep thinking, 'If I just had a few more hours in the day, I'd finally feel caught up' — this episode might shift everything for you. We're talking about the real reason you're burned out, and it's something no one wants to talk about. It's not a time issue — it's a boundary issue. Yes, we are going there. And yes, that's actually good news. If you grew up in a culture of saying yes to everyone and everything, this episode may be a bit triggering, and it may just be the best thing you hear all year.  Buy the book Boundaries on Amazon Contact - > info@rachelking.org Podcast - > Mama's Tired Connect -＞ Join my free Facebook community Simple Systems for Tired Mamas Instagram -＞@rachelmeigsking Resources - > Simple Time Management for Moms, Journal Page: Releasing the Mental Load, Boundaries Book by Dr Henry Cloud and Dr John Townsend   Next Steps: Step 1: Join a supportive community of moms looking for simple systems to reclaim time for a peaceful home at the free Facebook group Simple Systems for Tired Mamas Step 2: Sign up for the weekly Mama's Tired Newsletter  Step 3: Ready for more personalized support? Book a call with Rachel

Du erfährst: - ✅ Warum Sprüche wie „Rabenmutter“ oder „Der Mann als Babysitter“ nicht dein Problem sind – und wie du sie souverän parierst. - ✅ Wie du bei Freunden, Bekannten und Fremden mit Vorurteilen gegen arbeitende Mütter und engagierte Väter umgehen kannst. - ✅ Welche klaren, einfachen Antworten dir helfen, deine Grenzen zu wahren und euren Weg als Familie selbstbewusst zu leben.

The end of the school year and the transition to summer bring different types of mental load for parents. There is a shift in schedule, priorities, and what you're thinking about each day, and there can be more to manage, especially for the default parent who usually takes care of everything. It's a different type of stress, but it is stress nonetheless. There can be a wide variance in the load you carry, depending on your partner and other supports you have in place. We must acknowledge that the mental load is an invisible load yet a significant burden; it's a labor of thinking, remembering, organizing, and planning that keeps the family and household running smoothly. It can all be overwhelming! Join me in today's episode for a closer look. Show Highlights: The constant hum in your mind of all that needs to be done The potential for contention between parents in remembering ALL the details (along with anxiety, depression, and disconnection) Remember that two things can be true at the same time! Partnership is essential in co-parenting and co-managing the household. Examples of how a partner can step in to help in meaningful ways: taking over specific tasks, being emotionally present, and having a weekly time for an honest check-in with each other Advice to moms and dads for communicating and validating each other Setting boundaries, saying NO, letting go of some tasks, and asking for help The importance of finding community, connection, and support groups Key takeaways from Dr. Kat: “Acknowledge your feelings, state them aloud, and share them. Only then can you start to change.” Resources: Call the National Maternal Mental Health Hotline at 1-833-TLC-MAMA or visit cdph.ca.gov Please find resources in English and Spanish at Postpartum Support International, or by phone/text at 1-800-944-4773. There are many free resources, like online support groups, peer mentors, a specialist provider directory, and perinatal mental health training for therapists, physicians, nurses, doulas, and anyone who wants to be more supportive in offering services.  You can also follow PSI on social media: Instagram, Facebook, and most other platforms Visit www.postpartum.net/professionals/certificate-trainings/ for information on the grief course.   Visit my website, www.wellmindperinatal.com, for more information, resources, and courses you can take today! If you are a California resident looking for a therapist in perinatal mental health, email me about openings for private pay clients! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ever walked into a room and forgotten why you're there—only to remember it was to solve someone else's crisis, not your own? Yeah, same. That's the mental load in action, and moms carry a lot more of it than we realize. It's not just grocery lists or appointments. It's being the emotional safety net, the vibe-checker of the household, the one constantly predicting meltdowns before they happen. This kind of “invisible labor” adds up fast and drains what experts call your “body budget,” meaning your sensory and emotional bandwidth gets maxed out. In less than ten minutes, you'll learn about six sneaky mental tasks that could be pushing you closer to burnout without even knowing it. You'll also get insight from the book Brain-Body Parenting by Mona Delahooke, which helps decode why even small things can suddenly feel too much. The good news? You'll walk away with tools to spot these hidden stressors, challenge outdated assumptions, and reclaim some balance before you hit that mental red zone. Resources We Shared: Podcast Week here at No Guilt Mom!!! We have some great stuff going on…

Follow Briana on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/bloommentalhealthandwellnessVisit her website: https://www.bloommentalhealthwellness.com/Follow her on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61564234183069SummaryIn this conversation, Briana Powell, a psychiatric mental health nurse practitioner, discusses the importance of women's mental health, recognizing signs of mental health issues, and navigating care options. She highlights common struggles women face, especially during midlife, and the impact of hormonal changes on mental health. The discussion also addresses the stigma surrounding mental health medications and emphasizes the importance of holistic approaches to mental health care. Brianna encourages women to listen to their intuition and seek help when needed, reinforcing that they deserve to feel better.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Women's Mental Health04:44 Recognizing Signs of Mental Health Issues09:09 Navigating Mental Health Care12:05 Common Mental Health Struggles in Midlife18:39 Hormonal Changes and Mental Health23:21 Addressing Stigma Around Mental Health Medications27:40 Holistic Approaches to Mental Health32:32 Encouragement for Seeking Help

If your bedroom feels more chaotic than cozy, clutter might be sabotaging your relationship. Links in this episode (some may be affiliate links - thanks for supporting the show at no extra cost to you): Follow me on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@wannabeclutterfree⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Full show notes: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠wannabeclutterfree.com/265 ⁠Check out my favorite resources **************** In this episode of the Wannabe Clutter Free podcast, host Deanna Yates shares how the physical clutter in your home can quietly build resentment, reduce intimacy, and increase arguments with your partner. Backed by research (including a stat that 40% of couples argue over clutter!), this episode explores the emotional and mental load clutter creates—and how to fix it. You'll learn: ✅ Why clutter causes stress in romantic relationships ✅ How to declutter your bedroom to rekindle connection ✅ The power of a “Couples Corner” and how to create one ✅ A simple weekly ritual to improve communication and teamwork Whether you're married, partnered, or in a long-term relationship, these practical tips will help you clear the physical and emotional mess that's standing between you and the connection you crave. If you've been feeling scattered, foggy, or stretched too thin, this episode will help you clear the noise (both around you and within you). Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates 01:27 Clutter's Impact on Romantic Relationships 01:57 The Clutter F.R.E.E.D.O.M. Method Explained 03:14 Why Clutter Causes Relationship Stress 04:32 Shocking Stats & Psychological Insights 08:19 Gender Differences & the Mental Load 14:51 Creating a Peaceful Bedroom Retreat 18:15 Establishing a Couple's Corner 21:19 Clutter-Free Communication Ritual 24:01 Final Thoughts and Action Steps Music: Fresh Lift by Shane Ivers - ⁠https://www.silvermansound.com⁠ Subscribe & Review: If you loved this episode, please subscribe and leave a review! Your feedback helps me create more content to inspire and motivate you to live with less. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In dieser bewegenden Episode spricht Judith Möhlenhof offen über die schwierige Anfangszeit mit ihrem zweiten Kind – einem sogenannten „Schreibaby“. Auch Jahre später spürt man den emotionalen Schmerz, den diese Zeit bei ihr hinterlassen hat. Judith teilt, wie es war, Tag und Nacht mit einem untröstlichen Baby zu verbringen, die ständige Erschöpfung, das fehlende Verständnis von außen und die Hilflosigkeit, die sie als Mutter empfand. Vier intensive Jahre voller Zweifel, Spurensuche und Mini-Erfolge, aber auch ohne das ersehnte Patentrezept. Heute geht sie reflektiert und ehrlich mit dieser Erfahrung um – und macht damit anderen betroffenen Eltern Mut. Eine Folge über emotionale Tiefen, mentale Kraft und das, was bleibt. Ihr seid nicht allein!

Follow Briana on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/bloommentalhealthandwellnessVisit her website: https://www.bloommentalhealthwellness.com/Follow her on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61564234183069SummaryIn this conversation, Brianna Powell, a psychiatric mental health nurse practitioner, discusses the importance of women's mental health, recognizing signs of mental health issues, and navigating care options. She highlights common struggles women face, especially during midlife, and the impact of hormonal changes on mental health. The discussion also addresses the stigma surrounding mental health medications and emphasizes the importance of holistic approaches to mental health care. Brianna encourages women to listen to their intuition and seek help when needed, reinforcing that they deserve to feel better.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Women's Mental Health04:44 Recognizing Signs of Mental Health Issues09:09 Navigating Mental Health Care12:05 Common Mental Health Struggles in Midlife18:39 Hormonal Changes and Mental Health23:21 Addressing Stigma Around Mental Health Medications27:40 Holistic Approaches to Mental Health32:32 Encouragement for Seeking Help

Do you wake up thinking, “I slept last night - why am I still so tired?” Well friend, this episode is for you. We are going beneath the surface — into decision fatigue, mental load, and why moms feel constantly depleted. I'm going to help you understand the invisible emotional and cognitive burdens you carry daily — and offer some beginning steps toward relief.   This episode is for the truly tired mamas, and the tired isn't just physical.  Decision Fatigue is the mental wear-down from making hundreds of choices daily. Your brain is clocked in even when your body is ‘off.' That's real work.   Snag my Journal Page: Releasing the Mental Load freebie   Contact - > info@rachelking.org Podcast - > Mama's Tired Connect -＞ Join my free Facebook community Simple Systems for Tired Mamas Instagram -＞@rachelmeigsking Resources - > Simple Time Management for Moms, Journal Page: Releasing the Mental Load    Next Steps: Step 1: Join a supportive community of moms looking for simple systems to reclaim time for a peaceful home at the free Facebook group Simple Systems for Tired Mamas Step 2: Sign up for the weekly Mama's Tired Newsletter  Step 3: Ready for more personalized support? Book a call with Rachel

Mental load – przeciążenie psychiczne związane z organizowaniem codziennych spraw w domu i pracy – doskwiera nam nawet w momentach, które poświęcamy na relaks. Jak na wakacjach radzić sobie z chronicznym przeciążeniem spowodowanym niewidzialną pracą umysłową? Oto 10 sposobów, jak odpuścić i naprawdę wypocząć na urlopie.   Autorka: Jade Simon Artykuł przeczytasz pod linkiem: https://www.vogue.pl/a/mental-load-dotyka-nas-nawet-na-wakacjach-sposoby-jak-odpuscic-i-naprawde-odpoczac-na-urlopie-digitalsyndication

„Es braucht ein Dorf, um ein Kind zu großzuziehen“: Fast jede Person, die ein Kind hat, hat diesen Satz irgendwann schon mal gehört. Doch was ist, wenn man von diesem Dorf einfach im Stich gelassen wird? Wenn man immer für alles verantwortlich ist, keine Sekunde Ruhe hat und zuhause wie im Job perfekt performen soll? Eine Realität für viele - wenn nicht die meisten - Familien. In dieser Folge sprechen wir über Stress, Mental Load in Familien und Beziehungen und warum es im Umgang mit Familien mehr Güte, Nächstenliebe und Verständnis braucht. Werbung / Die ersten Momente mit Baby im Bauch oder auf der Brust sind einzigartig – unvergesslich. Damit du diese Zeit in vollen Zügen genießen kannst, gibt es den neuen dm babybonus. Er begleitet dich als Schwangere und frischgebackene Mama oder Papa ab dem 3. Schwangerschaftsmonat, im Wochenbett und in den ersten drei Lebensjahren mit Baby und Kleinkind. Als perfekter Familien-Begleiter liefert er dir nur Inhalte, die auch wirklich zu dir und deiner aktuellen Lebensphase passen: Er versorgt dich und dein kleines Wunder mit nützlichen Tipps und Tricks für den Alltag, wertvollen Coupons und exklusiven Überraschungen. Klingt spannend? Dann einfach im dm Kundenkonto den dm babybonus aktivieren und von vielen Vorteilen profitieren. Du hast noch kein dm Kundenkonto? Auch kein Problem: Lade dir einfach und bequem die Mein dm-App auf dein Smartphone und registriere dich zum dm babybonus. Weitere Infos und Tipps zur Anmeldung findest du unter [dm.at/babybonus](https://www.dm.at/babybonus) Themenvorschläge, Lob, Ideen gerne an: [@couchgeflüster.vienna](https://www.instagram.com/couchgefluester.vienna/) [@sinah.edhofer](https://www.instagram.com/sinah.edhofer/) [@leonie_rachel](https://www.instagram.com/leonie_rachel/)

Du erfährst: ✅ Warum Sommerferien oft zu noch mehr Mental Load führen und wie du das ändern kannst. ✅ Wie du den Freiraum in den Ferien genießen kannst, ohne im Freizeitstress zu versinken. ✅ Welche konkreten Schritte dir helfen, die Ferien leichter zu planen und Momente auch für dich zu schaffen.

This quick story might change the way you think about decluttering forever.In today's Pouring Out the Heart of It, I share what happened when I let someone else take over a mess—right in the middle of my chaos—and how that “shortcut” turned out to be a blessing for my home, my child, and my peace of mind.If you've ever felt guilty for not doing everything yourself, this episode is your permission slip to let go and let someone else step in. Especially as we wrap up June's decluttering theme, this might be the gentle reset you didn't know you needed.Scripture: Proverbs 13:20 (ESV) – “Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise.”With love,Katie

Struggling under the weight of doing it all? In this episode, Deanna is joined by Paige Connell—a working mom of four—to talk about decluttering the mental load. They dive into invisible labor, the pressure modern moms face, and how to create more balance at home through honest conversations and shared responsibility. **************** Resources Mentioned (some may be affiliate links - thanks for supporting the show at no extra cost to you): ⁠⁠⁠⁠Get my children's book: Lenora and Her Super Duper Messy Room⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get all the links and resources at wannabeclutterfree.com/264⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Paige Connell ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Paige's Website⁠ Follow Deanna Yates, the host of Wannabe Clutter Free on: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ **************** In this episode of the Wannabe Clutter Free podcast, Deanna Yates is joined by Paige Connell—a working mom of four and a powerful voice for moms navigating the mental load of motherhood. Together, they unpack the invisible labor so many women carry: remembering appointments, managing the household, keeping the family running… and somehow staying sane through it all. Paige brings honesty, humor, and a big dose of validation as she shares her own experiences and the collective wisdom of the community she's built on Instagram and TikTok. This isn't about doing more—it's about letting go of the idea that you have to do it all. If you're feeling burned out from being the default parent, struggling to find balance at home, or wondering how to have more equitable conversations with your partner—this episode is for you. We talk about real-life strategies to simplify your mental load, how to advocate for change inside and outside the home, and why asking for help is a radical (and necessary) act of self-care. In this episode, you'll learn: What the mental load looks like in everyday life—and why it's so draining How to talk with your partner about sharing the load without starting a fight Simple ways to create more connection, peace, and partnership at home Why building a support system is essential (not selfish) How even small shifts can declutter the overwhelm and help you breathe easier Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 01:51 Starting the Conversation with Paige Connell 03:14 Balancing Motherhood and Career 04:26 Addressing Societal Expectations and Double Standards 08:42 Equity in Household Responsibilities 14:22 Common Misconceptions About Working Moms 20:04 Starting Conversations at Home 26:50 Addressing Defensiveness in Conversations 28:55 Understanding Societal Pressures on Partners 31:09 Navigating Parenting and Mental Load 35:50 Building Community and Support Systems 36:50 Advocating for Family-Friendly Work Policies 43:05 Practical Tips for Sharing Responsibilities 46:13 Conclusion and Final Thoughts **************** Music: Fresh Lift by Shane Ivers - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.silvermansound.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ **************** We'd love to hear how you're applying the strategies discussed in this episode. Share your stories and tips with us on social media (@wannabeclutterfree). Don't forget to subscribe for more insightful episodes designed to make your busy life a bit easier. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In dieser Folge geht's um ein Gefühl von uns, das sicher viele kennen, aber kaum jemand laut sagt: Es ist einfach zu viel.

In this eye-opening episode of Honey, We Need to Chat, Amy and Blair dive deep into the other side of the mental load conversation, exploring what it might feel like to be the partner on the receiving end, from real life stories.Are they really ignoring the invisible labour… or just overwhelmed in their own way?Featuring real Reddit stories and brutally honest forum comments, this episode unpacks emotional labour, communication breakdowns, unspoken contracts, resentment, parenting stress, and gender dynamics in relationships.Whether you're the one carrying the mental load or the one being asked to step up, this episode will stretch your understanding and help you navigate these tensions with more curiosity, compassion, and clarity.

Motherhood changes you because it literally alters a woman's brain—structurally, functionally, and in many ways, irreversibly. - Louann Brizendine, The Female Brain   Summary Women are gifted in a way that men are not.  Women can hold many different tasks in their mind at the same time, see the needs of others, and know the needs of the household and balance them all.  Sometimes this can feel empowering, but sometimes it's overwhelming, especially in times of great stress. In some circles, there is a call for men to share the “mental load”, but is that even possible?  What is the appropriate role of fathers and husbands and how can they support their wives in this burden that they carry?  Listen in as we tackle this tricky topic giving both perspective and advice on rejoicing in our differences.     Key Takeaways Women are gifted in a way that men are not.  Embrace it and appreciate that.  Reject a spirit of comparison and envy.   Live a balanced life - you are not a victim and you always have a choice. Appreciate your husband's mental load Create space for him to be needed.     Couple Discussion Questions How does the mental load affect each of us?   Have we fallen into a pattern of comparison or envy?  How can we learn to be more grateful for our spouse and their contributions?    Resources Download For-Women-Only-Survey Download FMO-Survey-Results  

This episode is a must-listen if you're carrying the weight of managing all the things at home and wondering how to get your partner to truly share the load. Whether you're drowning in to-dos, making every family decision, or just tired of being the default parent, this convo is for you!We're talking about how to create true household balance, why dads often don't see the work you do, and how to start having better conversations about dividing parenting and chores more fairly.Learn how to take the weight off of motherhood with today's episode!This week I chatted with Jessica Hill, founder of the Parent Collective. She dishes on how to have smart discussions with your partner, how to communicate your needs, and how to grow together as parents!What's in store:What is Fair Play?How did you come to be involved in the Parent Collective?How to talk to your spouse about parentingHow to explain mental load to your partnerHow to divide household chores with your spouseMaking a list of household responsibilities for couplesParenting mistakes to avoidThe invisible work of stay-at-home moms ...and more!------------------------------------------------------------------------------------IMPORTANT LINKS:-  Sign up for the Mom Club on Patreon: HERE- Join TinyHood (on demand parenting classes) HERE                    Use code LEARNINGTOMOM for 25% off                    Connect with them on Instagram Here                    Connect with them on Facebook Here- BisbeeBaby's portable  breastmilk and formula warmer HERE                  Use code MOM10 for 10% off                    Connect with them on Instagram Here                    Connect with them on Facebook Here- The Fair Play Book we talked about: HERE- Connect with Jessica HERE------------------------------------------------------------------------------------invisible family load, mental load of motherhood, how to divide chores fairly, what is invisible labor in motherhood, household responsibilities for couples, how to get husband to help more, emotional labor in relationships, how to explain mental load to husband, Fair Play method, how to balance parenting, parenting partnership tips, how to explain mental load to husband, invisible load of motherhood comic, invisible load of fatherhood, invisible load of motherhood list, mental load of motherhood, Newborn care podcast, Postpartum podcast, Infant podcast, New baby podcast, Baby podcast, Motherhood podcast, First time mom, Best motherhood podcast, Best parenting podcast, Holistic parenting podcast, Holistic newborn, Crunchy mom podcast, motherhood podcast, mom podcast, Postpartum depression support, Safe co-sleeping practices, Tummy time tips, Baby sick remedies, Baby bath time routine, Newborn feeding schedule, 

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You finally brought up the mental load. You found the words. You mustered the courage. And then… nothing. Maybe they shut down. Maybe they pushed back. Maybe the conversation just fell flat.In this powerful follow-up to our original Mental Load episode, we unpack what happens when that invisible labour finally gets named, but the conversation doesn't land.Whether you're met with defensiveness, silence, or a flat-out dismissal, this episode walks you through what to do when your partner isn't ready to engage.We cover:What mental load really is (and how it differs from task load)Why your partner might resist or shut down the conversationHow to zoom out and see the bigger system at playPractical tools to move forward—even if you're carrying it alone for nowThis isn't about blame. It's about building bridges, one small shift at a time. If you've ever said “I've tried to talk about it… but nothing changes,” this one's for you.➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Book a Free Clarity Session with Amy! ⁠⁠⁠⁠

Amy chats with Dr. Morgan Cutlip about her new book A Better Share, which offers practical, research-based strategies for managing the mental load in relationships. They discuss how default parenting, gender socialization, and communication missteps can create resentment—and how couples can reconnect through clarity and shared responsibility. You'll hear why the mental load is the real relationship villain, not your partner— and how to invite your partner into the solution . Amy and Morgan discuss: why our invisible labor is so hard to talk about without sparking defensiveness why curiosity offers a secret to lasting connection how being the default parent impacts one's desire for intimacy how to help kids develop initiative, not just complete chores the power of “gracious interpretations” and the ultimate compliment formula Here's where you can find Morgan: https://drmorgancutlip.com Listen to Morgan's podcast "Love Thinks" @drmorgancutlip on IG Buy A BETTER SHARE: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9781400239672 We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.whatfreshhellpodcast.com/p/promo-codes/⁠⁠⁠ mom friends, funny moms, parenting advice, parenting experts, parenting tips, mothers, families, parenting skills, parenting strategies, parenting styles, busy moms, self-help for moms, manage kid's behavior, teenager, tween, child development, family activities, family fun, parent child relationship, decluttering, kid-friendly, invisible workload, default parent, household equity, household equality, gender household equality, gender household equity, maternal mental health, postpartum health, Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this powerful and heartfelt episode of Better Together, Brittany and Maddie invite two men they know well — Jay Allred (CEO of Source Media Properties) and Colton Penwell (Maddie's husband) — to talk about something they don’t often get asked about: what it means to be a man and a dad in today’s world. With honesty and vulnerability, Jay and Colton open up about the joys and challenges of fatherhood, what they learned from their own dads, and how their definitions of masculinity have evolved. It’s thoughtful, sometimes funny, and ultimately, a reminder that we’re all doing our best to show up — especially for the people we love. Listen now and stay tuned for Part 2, where the group will dive deeper into friendship, relationships, and building stronger support systems for men and families alike. If you're new here, this is a place for everyone to laugh, learn, heal and build. Not alone. Not perfectly. But arm in arm, heart to heart. Because we were never meant to do this alone. We are always Better Together. Let's Connect! If this podcast feels like something you’ve been craving, hit subscribe, leave a review, and send it to a friend. The more voices we have in this village, the stronger we become. Email Us: bettertogether@richlandsource.com Subscribe to Maddie’s Blog Listen to more of Sarah Goff's MusicSupport the show: https://richlandsource.com/membersSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Once we learned about the mental load, we thought we were on the same page. But that first conversation? It brought up more frustration than clarity. In this episode, we share how our first attempt to talk about the mental load went sideways, the common mistakes couples make in these moments, and the small shifts that helped us move from blame to real teamwork.Whether you're just learning about the mental load or you've tried bringing it up (and hit a wall), this episode gives you real talk, relatable moments, and practical ways to start the conversation again — with more connection and less conflict.This episode is audio from a live chat between Chels + Mike. Should we start a "Mornings with Chels and Mike" segment? Let us know!

In dieser Folge erwähnte Links: „Be a Leader!“ Coaching & Mentoring mit Verena Tschudi Nein-Sagen Challenge - kostenloser Videokurs Zeit- und Energiemanagement - günstiger Onlinekurs Ein voller Kopf, tausend To-dos, alles bleibt an dir hängen – aber du funktionierst einfach weiter? Viele Frauen tragen eine unsichtbare Last mit sich herum: Mental Load. Was wie ein Organisationsproblem aussieht, ist in Wahrheit ein strukturelles – und vor allem: ein inneres Problem. Diese Episode von Level me up! bringt Klarheit. Ich zeige dir, warum du mehr Einfluss auf dein mentales Wohlbefinden hast, als du glaubst, und mit welchen 3 konkreten Hebeln du sofort spürbar entlastet wirst.

Parenting with AI? What AI tools can, and can't, do in making parenting decisions! In this eye-opening episode of Equipped To Be, I'm explaining the growing trend of moms and dads using AI tools like ChatGPT for parenting advice, emotional support, and even discipline strategies. It's fast, convenient, and always available. But at what cost? I'm sharing the real research behind this growing trend, what experts are applauding, and what they are sounding the alarm about. From easing the mental load to concerns about over-reliance, misinformation, and emotional detachment, this episode doesn't shy away from hard questions parents must consider.  If you've ever asked AI to write a bedtime story, a behavior fix, or a meal plan, this one is for you. Because the tools we use to parent matter.  Tune in:  What are parents turning to AI for help? The surprising way AI can help with stress, routine, and connection with your child What researchers warn about emotional dependency and trust How to use AI without losing your own voice Not replacing God's advice with ChatGPT's advice This show will challenge how you think about parenting in a digital age.   Read the full show notes with links here: Is AI the New Parenting Expert? Miss an episode:  Motherhood Advice that Actually Helps Managing the Mental Load of Motherhood Tech-Free Vacations with your Children Avoid Burnout and Stay Refreshed Confident Homeschooling with Ginny Yurich If you enjoy listening to Parenting and Homeschool Advice ~ Equipped To Be with Connie Albers, please leave a review and a five-star rating. It is easy and will only take a few seconds. When you do, it helps others see the show in their feed. Also, would you kindly share this with a friend or two? Equipped To Be might be an encouragement to them, too. Thank you ~ Connie   Have a question? Interested in having Connie speak? Send an email to Connie here: https://conniealbers.com/contact/   

>For the first 4 years of our parenting journey, we didn't know what the mental load was, let alone how deeply it was impacting our connection, our communication, and our resentment.In this honest conversation, we share what our relationship looked like before we had the words, how the invisible labor kept building tension, and what shifted when we finally named it.Whether you're new to the idea of the mental load or you're trying to help your partner understand it, this episode gives you language, validation, and a behind-the-scenes look at how one small vocabulary change can create big relational shifts.

Ep511. Renee sits down with illustrator and writer Mary Catherine Starr, the creative force behind @momlife_comics, to talk about how the chaos of early motherhood—and a global pandemic—sparked a viral career that resonated with millions. From her first comic to landing a book deal, Mary Catherine shares how she uses humor, art, and personal storytelling to make sense of the emotional labor, invisible work, and double standards baked into motherhood. They also dig into the behind-the-scenes reality of being a creative mom online: the pressure to do it all, the fear of burnout, and dealing with the backlash that sometimes comes from posting content. This episode is for anyone who's ever felt like the default parent, wondered how it all fell on their shoulders, or found comfort in seeing their experience reflected back with honesty and heart. Find Mary Catherine's comics at: https://www.instagram.com/momlife_comics/ RENEE REINA   Instagram: @themomroom | @thereneereina   TikTok: @thereneereina   Facebook Community - The Mom Room Community  YouTube: Renee Reina - The Mom Room Podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt like you were carrying all the mental load at home? Like you're the one remembering the gifts, refilling the coffee, scheduling the doctor's appointments, and making sure the dishwasher actually gets emptied? Life Coach and Fair Play Method Facilitator Katelyn Denning is here to help us make the invisible load more visible – and finally figure out how to share the responsibilities that keep life moving. If you've been carrying too much for too long, this episode is just what you need.

Welcome to the Sustainable Clinical Medicine Podcast! In today's episode, Dr. Sarah Smith sits down with Dr. Sarah Lea, a family and addiction medicine physician based in Victoria, BC, to discuss her deeply personal and transformative journey through medicine. Together, they dive into Dr. Lea's experiences navigating medical training, motherhood, and a rewarding but complex clinical career—including her candid account of facing and working through burnout. Dr. Lea shares how she balanced demanding clinical roles, built an innovative perinatal addiction medicine program, and ultimately made tough decisions to prioritize her well-being and her family. Listeners will hear about the support systems and strategies she used, like coaching, therapy, and honest conversations at home, as well as her passion for supporting other physicians facing burnout. Plus, Dr. Lea discusses her ongoing work in coaching, retreats, and her own podcast—all aimed at helping clinicians lead more sustainable and fulfilling lives. If you're looking for inspiration, practical tools, and validation that you're not alone in the challenges of practicing medicine, you won't want to miss this insightful and heartfelt episode. Here are 3 key takeaways from this episode: Burnout is often invisible on the outside: Lea describes how, even while “holding it together” at work, burnout showed up at home—as irritability, distraction, and feeling disconnected from family. It's a powerful reminder to check in with how we're actually feeling, not just performing. Support and coaching are essential tools: For Dr. Lea, reaching out to a coach and counselor helped her gain clarity and prioritize her needs, both professionally and personally. Finding or building your support system can be career-saving. Teamwork matters—at home and at work: Whether it's sharing responsibilities with a partner or building multi-disciplinary teams in healthcare, sustainability comes from collaboration. Delegating tasks and honest conversations can lighten the load for everyone. Meet Dr. Sarah Lea: Dr. Sarah A. Lea is a family and addiction medicine physician, executive coach, and wellness champion based in Victoria, BC. With a background in women's health and over a decade in clinical practice, she blends science, storytelling, and soul in her talks and workshops. Whether she's coaching burned-out docs, speaking on perinatal addiction, or helping teams build real-deal resilience, Sarah brings both the evidence and the empathy. She's also a certified meditation instructor and TEDx speaker who believes that well-being is the secret sauce to sustainable healthcare—and she's on a mission to help others lead with energy, authenticity, and heart. -------------- Would you like to view a transcript of this episode? Click here ****Get in on the Backlog Buddies Sale where All Session in June are only $10 https://www.backlogbuddies.com/ **** Charting Champions is a premiere, lifetime access Physician only program that is helping Physicians get home with today's work done. All the proven tools, support and community you need to create time for your life outside of medicine. Learn more at https://www.chartingcoach.ca **** Enjoying this podcast? Please share it with someone who would benefit. Also, don't forget to hit “follow” so you get all the new episodes as soon as they are released. **** Come hang out with me on Facebook or Instagram. Follow me @chartingcoach to get more practical tools to help you create sustainable clinical medicine in your life. **** Questions? Comments? Want to share how this podcast has helped you? Shoot me an email at admin@reachcareercoaching.ca. I would love to hear from you.

Have you ever asked yourself: "I bring home the check, I do chores... why is my wife still overwhelmed and distant?" "What is this 'mental load' she talks about, and why don't I see it?" "How can I truly partner with her, instead of just 'helping'?" If you've ever caught yourself thinking, "But I am helping!" or "She's upset but I have no idea why," this episode will give you the X-ray vision you've been missing. Because what's wearing her out isn't always what's on your radar—it's the things you never even thought about. Here's the truth most men miss: providing financially is one form of leadership—but emotional labor is the currency she's drowning in. And if you don't see it, you're likely part of the reason she feels alone in the mission. This episode is your wake-up call. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this vital conversation, we dig into: Invisible Labor vs. Physical Effort: Understand the critical difference. Physical labor is what you see (dishes, yardwork, laundry). Invisible labor is the mental burden she carries: managing the family calendar, remembering RSVPs, planning meals, tracking groceries, anticipating everyone's emotional needs. She's exhausted that she had to remember it in the first place, not just that you didn't do the thing. Why Your Wife Feels Like She's Doing It All (Even When You're Helping): Most men step in reactively, not proactively. When you wait to be told what to do, you're reinforcing her role as the default parent, default planner, default everything. If you've heard or sensed, "I feel like the only adult in this house," this is the root cause. How to Show Leadership at Home (Without Being Controlling): You're not a passive assistant; you're a co-leader. Leadership means taking initiative with empathy. Learn proactive phrases like, "What's something I can fully own without being asked?" or "I'll handle the kids' end-of-year school stuff." The 2-Minute Audit: How to Find What She Resents Without Asking Her Directly: Every week, take two minutes to ask yourself five key questions: What has she had to ask me more than once? What mental task have I seen her doing that I've never offered to take on? If I got sick for a week, what would stop? If she got sick for a week, what would collapse? What do I expect her to “just handle” because I'm used to it? Your attention to what she's carrying is the answer—and the invitation to step up. This episode will challenge you to redefine "helping" and step into true co-leadership at home. Here's what research and observation highlight about emotional labor in relationships: Studies show that women typically take on 60-80% of the invisible labor in households, leading to higher rates of burnout. Marriages where the emotional load is perceived as unequally distributed have a 45% higher risk of marital dissatisfaction. Couples who actively practice shared responsibility for planning and mental tasks report a 30% increase in relationship satisfaction and feelings of partnership.   www.thedadedge.com/friday212 www.thedadedge.com/mastermind  

What does being a Supermom mean to you? In her book Secrets of Supermom: How Extraordinary Moms Succeed at Work and Home & How You Can Too!, Lori Oberbroeckling shares 16 amazing secrets of Supermoms! In this episode, we talk about some of my favorite secrets of Supermoms that Lori shares including: What does balance look like? How do we combat the culture of complaint among moms? How do we focus on energy boosts rather than blocks and bleeds? What is TRUE rest? How can be plan for unexpected to bring more peace to our days? We also talk about the Supermom Summer Camp which starts on Monday, June 16th until June 20th. I'm a proud camp counselor with 40+ other amazing women and will be talking about (you guessed it) - decluttering! Other counselors will be chatting about productivity, balance, and more! Make sure you grab your free ticket HERE. Lori Oberbroeckling is a mom of four ages 8-15, corporate leader and trainer, podcaster, productivity expert, and author of the book Secrets of Supermom: How Extraordinary Moms Succeed at Work and Home & How You Can Too! She is passionate about helping parents who want fulfilling careers–or side hustles or passion projects–while also wanting to feel present and connected to their families. Resources Mentioned: Connect with Lori on her website, podcast, Facebook group or on Instagram. Read Secrets of Supermom and grab her free Master Your Time Toolkit for Moms here. Don't forget to join us at the Supermom Summer Camp June 16-20, 2025! Related Episodes: Episode 134: Use the “Assign a Time” Method to Be a More Productive Mom - with Julie Redmond from Mom Made Plans Episode 117: Declutter the Mental Load of Motherhood by Following My 5-Step System Episode 94: 5 Productivity Hacks to Help You Stay on Top of Your Day with Michelle Byrd from The Busy Vibrant Mom *** I help moms declutter their homes, heads, and hearts. Contact - > info@simplebyemmy.com  Podcast -＞ https://www.simplebyemmy.com/podcast Learn -＞ https://www.simplebyemmy.com/resources Connect -＞ Join our free Facebook group Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms Instagram -＞ @simplebyemmy and @momsovercomingoverwhelm   *** Don't Know Where to Start? *** 5 Steps to Overcome Overwhelm -＞ https://simplebyemmy.com/5steps/ 5 Mindset Shifts for Decluttering -＞ https://simplebyemmy.com/mindset/   Wanna work with me to kick overwhelm to the curb, mama? There are three options for you! Step 1: Join a supportive community of moms plus decluttering challenges to keep you on track at the free Facebook group Decluttering Tips and Support for Overwhelmed Moms Step 2: Sign up for the weekly Decluttering Tips and Resources for Overwhelmed Moms Newsletter and see samples here: https://pages.simplebyemmy.com/profile Step 3: Get more personalized support with in-person or virtual decluttering and organization coaching! https://www.simplebyemmy.com/coaching

Can you take a day off without mentally running through your to-do list? Go on holiday without checking if everything's okay? Enjoy family time without part of your brain managing work decisions? If you're successful but can never truly disconnect - even when you're physically away from work - this episode is for you. Here's what you'll discover: Why you still feel "on" even during downtime The real reason your brain never stops managing business decisions How to finally be present at your kid's recital without thinking about client emails Why everything still depends on your approval (even with a team) The secret to building a business that doesn't need you to mentally manage it 24/7 The truth? You don't need better boundaries. You need to stop being the mental manager of everything. Your issue isn't taking time off - it's being able to truly switch off and be present when you do. Ready to stop being the mental manager of everything? Start with my free framework: The Profitable Hour - one focused hour that protects what matters most, even in a messy season. Get it at here: https://hollybray.kit.com/hour Want to go deeper? Book a 90-minute CEO Operating Audit where I'll show you exactly where you're accidentally essential vs where you're truly needed. Only 4 spots left this month. Details here: https://abranchofholly.com/audit  Connect with me: >> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abranchofholly  >> Website: https://abranchofholly.com/   

In this episode, I explore what happens in a man's mind when he becomes a father—and why so many dads carry their emotional weight in silence.From new dads to empty-nesters, the mental and emotional load of fatherhood is real—but rarely named. I'll walk you through the neuroscience of paternal bonding, stress regulation, identity shifts, and inherited emotional silence. This is not just a tribute to dads—it's a call to see them, support them, and understand them through the lens of brain science and mental health.I also sit down with my husband, Mac Leaf, for a candid conversation about his experience as a father—and what he wishes more people knew.This is the episode every dad, partner, son, and supporter of fatherhood needs to hear.

In this all-too-relatable episode, the Level Up Latina team dives deep into the invisible weight women carry every day — the mental load of running households, raising children, managing careers, and yes, often micromanaging partners who could be doing more. But this isn't just a venting session — it's a lesson in reclaiming your peace, your time, and your power. As life coaches dedicated to helping women set boundaries and build healthier habits, we explore the roots of micromanagement, the emotional toll of doing "everything," and how to shift your mindset to foster partnership, not parenting, in your marriage. This episode offers real talk on stress management, intentional communication, and how to stop the burnout cycle before it starts. Whether you're a wife, a mother, or a working woman juggling it all, this episode will speak to your soul — and give you tools to finally put down the weight you've been carrying alone. You don't have to do it all. And you certainly don't have to do it alone. Tune in and start the work toward living lighter, leading smarter, and loving stronger.

While many moms are feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, and discouraged, some are quietly thriving. What are they doing differently, and how can you, too?  In this heartfelt episode of Equipped To Be, I share motherhood advice that actually helps.  Drawing on current research, my personal experience, and from conversations with moms, I will guide you through seven simple yet powerful habits of moms who are flourishing, even during hard seasons.  You'll learn how to: Build a support system Redefine successful mothering  Stay anchored to biblical Truth Plus so much more... If you are tired of vague advice or unrealistic expectations, this is for you! You'll get practical help and hopeful perspective from one mom to another.  Don't miss: Learning the 7 Habits from Moms who are thriving.    Read the full show notes with links here: Motherhood Advice That Actually Helps Popular episode you might enjoy: Avoiding Burnout: Stay Refreshed Mom Overload: Stopping Stress Before It Breaks You Managing the Mental Load of Motherhood If you enjoy listening to Parenting and Homeschool Advice ~ Equipped To Be with Connie Albers, please leave a review.    

"The mental load is crushing me." If you've ever felt this way—tracking every appointment, remembering every snack preference, carrying the invisible weight of running your household—you're not the only one! The internet is full of women sharing their exhaustion, their resentment, and their anger about shouldering this "unfair burden." But what if everything you've been told about the mental load is making your marriage worse, not better? In this video, I'm challenging the popular narrative that's turning normal adult responsibilities into a crisis. While TikTok coaches teach you to catalog every invisible task and demand your husband "open his eyes," I'll show you why this victim mindset is destroying the very thing you're trying to protect: your partnership. Discover why responsibility is actually a mental health protector (not a destroyer), how the "mental load crisis" dismisses the massive burdens men carry, and why reframing your perspective could transform your marriage from resentful roommates back into a loving team. The truth is, being needed isn't a burden—it's a privilege. And when you stop fighting against your strengths and start embracing them as gifts, everything changes.

Do you feel overwhelmed, fearful, or even judged when it comes to your taxes and finances? In today's episode of the Sunlight Tax Podcast, I'm diving into the mental load of financial fear, specifically the stress that comes with managing taxes, saving for retirement, and planning financially as a self-employed or creative entrepreneur. We'll explore how this hidden anxiety can weigh down your creative energy and limit your impact. If you've ever felt disorganized or anxious about money, tune in to learn practical ways to overcome that fear, get organized, and become financially confident as a creative entrepreneur.   Also mentioned in this episode: 01:45 The Mental Load of Taxes 06:51 Overcoming Fear and Anxiety Around Finances 13:25 Building a System for Financial Ease   If you enjoyed this episode, please rate, review and share it! Every review makes a difference by telling Apple or Spotify to show the Sunlight Tax podcast to new audiences.   Links: Link to pre-order my book, Taxes for Humans: Simplify Your Taxes and Change the World When You're Self-Employed. Get your free visual guide to tax deductions Check out my program, Money Bootcamp  

Ever feel disconnected from your partner… but not sure how to fix it?You're not alone. Between mismatched desire, mental load, body image struggles, and awkward communication, intimacy often becomes one more thing on your to-do list, instead of a source of connection.In this episode, I'm joined by Vanessa and Xander Marin—licensed sex therapist and bestselling author duo behind Sex Talks and the Pillow Talks podcast. We're breaking down the silent issues that show up in long-term relationships and how to reconnect (without relying on spontaneous desire or unrealistic expectations).We're talking about what's actually behind low libido (hint: it's not just hormones or sex drive), how to reduce the mental load so you can feel more connected, and why “scheduled sex” isn't boring, it's powerful. Vanessa Marin is a licensed sex therapist with 20+ years of experience and Xander Marin is her husband, co-author, and brings the real-life partner perspective that makes these conversations feel refreshingly honest, relatable, and actionable.We Also Discuss:08:26 – Why we need to talk about sex way more openly13:44 – The 5 conversations every couple should have about sex18:32 – The truth about “how often” you should be having sex26:23 – Why desire doesn't just happen—and what to focus on instead32:42 – How mental load kills intimacy (and what to do about it)40:00 – The surprising link between body image and your sex life47:12 – What the “bristle reaction” is—and how to fix it54:04 – The most underrated forms of foreplay (hint: it's not lingerie)Thank You to Our Sponsors:Broads: Broads gives you structured, progressive training and a powerhouse community to keep you strong, consistent, and unstoppable. Join today at broads.app and use code PODCAST for 20% off your first month!Legion: Use code Tara20 for 20% off your first order and double loyalty cash back any order after that when you shop at LegionAthletics.comFind more from Tara: Website: https://www.taralaferrara.com/Instagram: @taralaferrara @broads.podcast @broads.appYoutube: Tara LaFerraraTiktok: @taralaferraraFind more fromInstagram: @vanessaandxander Website: https://vmtherapy.com/ Youtube: @vanessaandxanderPodcast: Pillow Talks

It is just not possible to carry it all and it's breaking us. My guest this week, Sam Kelly, has created Notice + Do to teach our children the skill of tackling household tasks but also to dismantle the inequity in our households from the ground up.Imagine the next generation of children growing up and women are not shouldering it all. Tune in and listen to this week's episode to not only feel validated in your experience but to find some light at the end of a very long and overwhelming tunnel. You are worth pushing for this kind of change in your home.••• Instagram @simpleintentional Read www.simpleintentional.com Want more support? Work with me one-on-one! Reach out at hello@simpleintentional.com

Have you ever asked yourself: "Why does my wife seem so distant, even when we're together?" "Am I feeling more like a roommate than a partner?" "What are the subtle signs our marriage is drifting, before it's too late?" If these questions echo in your mind, today's conversation is a powerful wake-up call to the silent killer of connection. Resentment isn't always loud screaming matches or slammed doors. It's the creeping silence, the growing disinterest, the widening emotional distance. It's when she starts emotionally withdrawing while still going through the motions of life with you.  Most men wait for a blow-up to take action, but by then, she might already be emotionally gone. This episode is about catching the drift long before the disconnect becomes irreversible. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this vital conversation, we dig into: The Unseen Buildup: Ignored Emotions, Mental Load, Unspoken Expectations. She's likely been signaling for months, maybe even years. You might have heard the words ("I'm tired," "You never ask me how I'm doing," "It's always me managing everything"), but you didn't feel their weight. She doesn't want you to solve her problems; she wants you to see her. The hidden trap: men often assume "no conflict = no problem," but most women emotionally disconnect long before they ever fight. How Emotional Debt Compounds in Marriage. Every unacknowledged frustration is like putting a charge on a credit card with no payment plan. Eventually, she hits her limit and withdraws love, affection, and energy—not out of spite, but self-preservation. This emotional debt often manifests as phrases like, "I always have to ask," "I can't count on him," or "He doesn't even notice anymore." Just like in finance, emotional debt isn't a crisis—until it is. What She Really Means When She Says, “I'm Fine.” This seemingly simple phrase is often code for, "I don't feel safe opening up to you right now." It signals, "You haven't earned the right to hear what's really going on." Most men take it literally, or defensively, rather than responding with curiosity and genuine inquiry. Here's what research and observation highlight about resentment and marital health: Studies show that consistent emotional invalidation is linked to a 30% increase in marital dissatisfaction over time. When a partner perceives an uneven distribution of the mental load, it can lead to a 40% higher likelihood of emotional withdrawal. Ignoring subtle relationship red flags for more than 6 months significantly decreases the chances of successful conflict resolution without intervention. www.thedadedge.com/friday211 www.thedadedge.com/alliance  

Send us a textIf you've ever felt like you're the only one who knows when the toilet paper's running low, the school form is due, or the dog needs shots—you're not imagining it. That's the mental load. And it's exhausting.Join Anna and Tim for a candid conversation about the invisible labor women are carrying in homes, relationships, and parenting. They break down how this unspoken workload creates resentment, impacts intimacy, and leaves so many women burned out. You'll leave with language, validation, and practical ideas to start shifting the dynamic.This episode covers:What the mental load actually is and how it shows up dailyWhy women often carry both the “what” and the “how” of family lifeHow resentment builds when invisible labor goes unacknowledgedThe connection between mental load and burnout in relationshipsWhy men often don't see the problem—and how to shift thatHow to talk about this without blame or spiralingTools for redistributing the emotional and logistical weight at homeUntil next time, here's to deeper connections and personal growth.Mad love!The podcast is now on YouTube! If you prefer to watch, head over to https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw3CabcJueib20U_L3WeaR-lNG_B3zYqu__________________________________________Don't forget to subscribe to the Badass Confidence Coach podcast on your favorite podcast platform!CONNECT WITH ANNA:Instagram https://www.instagram.com/askannamarcolin/TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/tag/askannamarcolinEmail hello@annamarcolin.comWebsite https://www.annamarcolin.com__________________________________________And for all your nutritional supplement needs, go to https://www.DrinkAG1.com/ANNA for five free travel packs and a free one-year supply of Vitamin D/K2

Managing the Mental Load of Motherhood: How to Lighten What You're Carrying.  Are you the default planner, rememberer, and fixer in your home? Feeling invisible under the weight of it all? Welcome to the world of modern motherhood. However, I'm here to tell you, managing the mental load is possible, and it can be as simple as learning what you can do. In today's episode, you'll learn proven ways to help you identify what is weighing you down, how to share the load, ask for help, and let go of control. This episode is raw, practical, and full of encouragement for your weary heart. I want to talk directly to your heart.  Motherhood is physically demanding, but the mental load can be exhausting. We can change that.  Take your first step toward refreshment and rest.    Read the full show notes with links here:  Managing the Mental Load of Motherhood: How to Lighten What You're Carrying. Popular Episodes for you: How Mom Considers Wisely It's Okay to Rest Dealing With Mom Guilt The Urgent Need to Retreat Join me online Facebook Instagram X.com Pinterest Website   If you enjoy listening to Parenting and Homeschool Advice ~ Equipped To Be with Connie Albers, please leave a review and a five-star rating. It is easy and will only take a few seconds. When you do, it helps others see the show in their feed. Also, would you kindly share this with a friend or two? Equipped To Be might be an encouragement to them, too. Thank you ~ Connie   Have a question? Interested in having Connie speak? Send an email to Connie here: https://conniealbers.com/contact/   

Ever feel like you're doing everything and thinking about everything—and no one even notices?

With this being a holiday weekend, we invite you to relisten to one of our most listened to episodes! We had so much positive feedback when this episode went live since it was one of the first times we had a male perspective on the podcast. If you haven't listened yet, it's a great alternate perspective and a great one to pass along to your male partners! Our guest, Eli Weinstein, is a dad of two and a psychotherapist that isn't afraid to give it to people straight. He has an honest, blunt, but always kind style. Eli has been working as a therapist for over eight years and shares some of the struggles he has faced since becoming a dad, including his perspective as a dad going through loss and infertility.As women, we often ask ourselves if dads ever feel the same weight of the mental load. Eli shares his perspective on this and what advice he has for women who are feeling the mental load burden. We cover the topic of postpartum mood disorders in men, what it's like to be the starting player versus the bench warmer in parenthood, and how we have to be able to switch on and off as the preferred parent even when our children aren't as comfortable with it. We hope that by revisiting this episode, you hear a new piece of wisdom to take away. Or, if you're new and hearing this for the first time, we hope you find this episode just as helpful as we did! And don't forget to share this with your partner!Links & Resources:30% off your first order of Cornbread Hemp using code ‘HERSELF'Free sample pack with purchase of LMNTFollow Eli Weinstein Instagram Eli's WebsiteListen to Eli's Podcast: The Dude Therapist PodcastLet's connect!HERSELF PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/herselfpodcastJoin our exclusive community for bonus episodes, extra video content, book club and more!HERSELF INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/herselfpodcastMEET AMY: http://instagram.com/ameskieferMEET ABBY: http://instagram.com/abbyrosegreenThis episode was brought to you by the Pivot Ball Change Network.

Have you ever felt overwhelmed in your relationships or struggled with the mental load? If yes, this episode is a must-listen! In this episode, Dr. Morgan Cutlip, an Enneagram 9 and author of the new book, A Better Share reveals how understanding her Enneagram type has shaped her approach to relationships, especially with her husband, who is a Type 3. We explore the dynamics of their relationship, including the challenges of maintaining connection while navigating the complexities of life and parenting. Morgan shares her journey of reclaiming her voice and agency, which is particularly resonant for those of us who identify with the steady, reliable nature of the Enneagram 9. One of the key topics we discuss is the concept of the "mental load"—the invisible tasks and emotional labor that often fall disproportionately on women in relationships. Morgan provides practical insights on how couples can tackle this load together, fostering a more equitable partnership that leads to less resentment and greater fun! Here are a few highlights from the episode: The importance of understanding your partner's Enneagram type to improve communication and connection. How to navigate feelings of resentment and the need for appreciation in relationships. Strategies for creating a more balanced share of responsibilities at home. Whether you're a 9, a 3, or any other type, this episode offers valuable insights that can help you strengthen your relationships and enhance your emotional well-being. As always, thank you for being a part of the Typology community. 

Does sex feel like a chore to you? According to 86% of our audience? Yes. Maybe sex doesn't feel great. Maybe it it's more about your partner getting their needs met than you. Maybe it's just started to feel like another thing to check off your list. But maybe the issue isn't sex at all. Maybe it's that you're carrying too much — between the keeping the household running (and kind of clean), parenting logistics, and the weight of every single thing it takes to adult… It's not that sex is a chore: it's that chores are sabotaging your sex life! In this episode, we're breaking down how mental load affects desire, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction (spoiler alert: a lot more than you think). And of course, we're sharing practical tools to help lighten the load and bring the connection back.