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Best podcasts about communication in marriage

Latest podcast episodes about communication in marriage

Training4Manhood
What is the Key to Effective Communication in Marriage?

Training4Manhood

Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2026 22:20


  Host: Dan Panetti   I often get asked this question from younger couples…and for many, they are looking for the right “formula” in how to say things to better communicate with their spouse. Now, when I look at many of the world's suggestions/tools, they aren't wrong…but these communication strategies aren't the whole story…or even the heart of effective communication - so what is?   The key to effective communication in marriage is the condition of your heart. Is your heart fertile soil where the love for your spouse is cultivated and growing? Jesus teaches a powerful lesson about the condition of your heart in Matthew 13 and the Parable of the Sower.   Your heart is either hard and surface, shallow and rocky, filled with thorns and weeds, or fertile and nourishing. Work on the condition of your heart…and your communication will grow and flourish as your heart grows and matures. T4M guys - just a reminder that Training4Manhood is a non-profit, 501(c)(3) ministry and you can make donations either via Zelle (info@training4manhood.com) or by visiting the Training4Manhood website.

X with Q - Leadership Podcast
Why Families Live in Survival Mode

X with Q - Leadership Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2026 14:13


This episode centered around a simple but uncomfortable reality: a lot of families are moving fast, staying busy, and still feeling disconnected. Pastor Q breaks down how survival mode slowly becomes normal when the pace of life starts setting the pace of the family. This conversation is packed with practical leadership for the home, from setting rhythms to learning how to say no before culture decides your priorities for you. CONNECT WITH US Mark Q | Instagram JUST LEAD | Instagram JUST LEAD | TikTok JUST LEAD | YouTube WATCH & SUBSCRIBE If you haven't yet, make sure to tap subscribe on your favorite podcast platform — Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and more. JUST LEAD is now available on YouTube! We release NEW episodes on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday of every month. Turn on your notifications and you'll be the first to know when new content drops. LEAVE A REVIEW If you love the show, head over to Apple Podcasts and leave us a 5-Star Review! This is one of the best ways to help other people find us and join the JUST LEAD community. Seito Sushi Orlando

Marriage Mondays' with The King's Podcast
What Married People Wish They Knew Before Saying “I Do”

Marriage Mondays' with The King's Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2026 60:09


Send us Fan MailMore people than ever are searching:What do married couples wish they knew before marriage?Why is marriage harder than expected?How do you build a healthy marriage?Why do relationships struggle after the honeymoon phase?In this eye-opening episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, Kenya & Shan King unpack one of the most relatable and highly searched relationship topics across podcasts, YouTube, and social media—the truths many married people wish they knew before saying “I do.”Marriage can expose: emotional wounds  communication struggles  unrealistic expectations  insecurity  unresolved trauma  emotional immaturity And many couples realize after marriage that love alone is not enough to sustain a healthy relationship.In this powerful conversation, The Kings discuss: Why marriage reveals what singleness often conceals The truth about communication, emotional maturity, and accountability How childhood wounds and past experiences impact marriage  Why many people unknowingly expect their spouse to provide validation, identity, and fulfillment The importance of healing, self-awareness, and personal growth before and during marriage  Biblical insight on guarding your heart and building a relationship from a healthy foundation This episode speaks directly to those searching for: marriage advice  relationship advice  preparing for marriage  healthy marriage tips  communication in marriage  emotional healing in relationships  Christian marriage guidance  relationship growth and healing Whether you're single, engaged, newly married, or years into marriage, this conversation offers practical wisdom, emotional insight, and relationship truths that many people wish they had understood earlier.Because marriage doesn't just test love…

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
467. A Marriage Therapists 3 Top Tips For A Thriving And Passionate Relationship

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2026 21:25


For many couples, marriage can sometimes feel overwhelming, like climbing Mount Everest with no clear path. For many couples, it seems like there are way too many things to think about and to do and it can feel like too much to handle! In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, hosts Nick and Amy welcome back Austin Ellis, a renowned marriage therapist, to share three practical things couples can use to build a stronger, more connected, and fulfilling marriage. If you want actionable tips to make your relationship thrive without feeling overwhelmed, this episode is a must-listen. 

Trinity Reformed Baptist Church
Session 4: Communication In Marriage

Trinity Reformed Baptist Church

Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2026 38:19


Encouragement for You
Love and Communication in Marriage

Encouragement for You

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2026 22:50 Transcription Available


John Redd is a Christian life coach and the founder and president of Renewell Ministries, a ministrycommitted to supporting pastors and pastors' wives. He and his wife Lisa recently joined host DonHawkins to talk about love and communication in marriage. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Grace Church - Houston
How To Family | Successful Communication In Marriage | Garrett Booth

Grace Church - Houston

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2026 36:31


HERself
333: Our Holy Grail Advice for Relationships

HERself

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2026 52:25


This week, we're answering your questions straight from Instagram, and a clear theme emerged: relationships. From navigating constant arguments after the kids go to bed to figuring out how to move forward when you and your partner feel completely out of sync, we're sharing honest insights, personal experiences, and practical mindset shifts that have made a real difference in our own marriages. We talk through what it looks like to step into your partner's perspective, why some relationship challenges aren't actually “fixable,” and how to approach them in a way that works for your unique dynamic. We also open up about intimacy, including the factors that impact sex drive and why this conversation matters more than we often admit.Topics We Cover:• A counterintuitive strategy that helped break the cycle of nightly arguments.• How differing timelines and priorities can create tension in relationships.• A mindset shift that can help you better understand your partner's perspective.• What to consider when small annoyances start turning into constant nitpicking.• Why some household tasks may not be the best ones to delegate.• The difference between “equal” and “fair” when it comes to division of labor.• Why many relationship challenges aren't fully solvable and how to navigate that reality.• The two types of sex drive and how they show up in long-term relationships.• Two common factors that can significantly impact intimacy.LINKS AND RESOURCES:Listen to Episode 21 with Vanessa Marin, Sex Therapist: https://www.herselfpodcast.com/listen/21-herself-expert-vanessa-marin-sex-therapist-all-of-your-sex-questions-answeredLMNT: Free Sample Pack with purchase:  drinkLMNT.com/HERSELF HERSELF PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/herselfpodcastLet's connect!HERSELF INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/herselfpodcastMEET AMY: http://instagram.com/ameskieferMEET ABBY: http://instagram.com/abbyrosegreenThis episode was brought to you by the Pivot Ball Change Network.

BS Free MD with Drs. May and Tim Hindmarsh
442 — 4 Simple Habits That Actually Fix Your Marriage

BS Free MD with Drs. May and Tim Hindmarsh

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2026 38:33


In this episode, the conversation shifts from humor into a surprisingly grounded discussion on relationships and what makes marriages work long-term. Instead of focusing on conflict and “grievance-based” communication—often reinforced in traditional therapy—the hosts highlight four foundational habits that build connection: Have more fun together – Strong relationships prioritize shared enjoyment over constant problem-solving. Pray or reflect together – Shared spiritual or reflective practices deepen emotional and psychological bonding. Make eye contact – Intentional presence signals respect, attention, and emotional validation. Always be touching – Physical connection fuels bonding hormones and reinforces intimacy. The discussion emphasizes that relationships fail not just from conflict, but from lack of connection, presence, and intentional engagement. The takeaway is simple: small, consistent behaviors matter more than overanalyzing problems. CONNECT WITH US Thanks for joining us — you are the reason we are here. Have questions? Reach out at doc@bsfreemd.com or find Tim and May on Facebook and Instagram.

Soul Sense with Mark Verkler
From Contempt to Compassion: Healing Communication in Marriage | Healey Ikerd

Soul Sense with Mark Verkler

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2026 52:47


Join us on this episode of the Soul Sense Podcast from Samaritan's Well as we welcome back Healey Ikerd, Licensed Professional Counselor, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and Certified Clinical Mental Health Counselor. Healy shares practical insights on building strong, faith-centered marriages, navigating communication challenges, trust, forgiveness, and cultivating joy even in difficult seasons.✨ Resources & Links:Healy's private practice: HopeLife Counseling https://writtenbyhealey.comHealey's podcast: Healthy & Redeemed https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/healthy-redeemed-helping-christians-grow-in-mental/id1777581136

Life After I Do Podcast
10 Years Later

Life After I Do Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2026 70:22


Ten years in, marriage doesn't look like the highlight reel—it looks like growth, tension, laughter, and choosing each other again and again. In this episode, Nesha G and Moelethal pull the curtain back on what it really takes to stay locked in when life keeps shifting.In this episode, we discuss how marriage evolves through seasons, from young love to real-life partnership, and what happens when expectations don't match reality. They unpack accountability, forgiveness that doesn't forget, and the truth about staying committed when it would be easier to walk away.There's honesty here about mental load, identity shifts, and learning how to love each other through different versions of yourselves. You'll walk away with clarity on what commitment actually means after a decade, and why choosing your partner daily is the real flex.Send us Fan MailSupport the show Thanks for rocking with us! Don't forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode. 

Life After I Do Podcast
Our 2 Cents Vol. 30

Life After I Do Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2026 51:00


What happens when someone else's insecurity becomes your problem? Or when love starts asking you to compromise on something you've already decided is non-negotiable?This episode dives deep into the uncomfortable truth that not all relationship conflict is meant to be resolved. Nesha G and Moe G unpack multiple real-life scenarios that highlight the importance of boundaries, from dealing with misplaced blame in relationships to navigating major life decisions like whether or not to have children. The chemistry between them brings humor and honesty, but also a level of accountability that forces listeners to reflect on their own choices.As the conversation unfolds, deeper themes emerge around identity, especially for men who tie their worth to providing, and how that pressure impacts relationships when circumstances change. The episode ultimately challenges the idea that love should always come with compromise, offering a more grounded perspective on alignment and self-respect.Send us Fan MailSupport the show Thanks for rocking with us! Don't forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode. 

MY Devotional: Daily Encouragement from Leading The Way
The Third Key to a Fulfilling Marriage: Conversation

MY Devotional: Daily Encouragement from Leading The Way

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2026 3:14


It's easy for married life to become a nonstop routine—work, kids, responsibilities, and exhaustion—until one day you realize you've stopped truly talking. In today's episode of the MY Devotional Podcast, Dr. Michael Youssef explains that when couples lose conversational intimacy (and become content with it), they quietly forfeit one of God's greatest gifts in marriage: deep companionship and Christ-centered closeness. Dr. Youssef identifies three common weak points where the enemy applies pressure to sabotage conversation and connection: Calendars: Even “good” activities can crowd out what's essential. If you don't schedule time to talk, it likely won't happen. Children: Children are a blessing—but they should not replace the husband-and-wife priority. A secure family is built on parents who love each other well. Conflicts: A healthy marriage isn't conflict-free. In fact, avoiding conflict often means avoiding conversation. But when handled wisely, conflict can become an ally that strengthens intimacy and growth. Before implementing practical changes, Dr. Youssef gives a simple, powerful next step for couples: pray together—asking God to reveal weaknesses, renew love, and breathe new life into your marriage. Prayer: Father, help me to prioritize with my spouse our calendars, children, and conversation according to what will strengthen our relationship and glorify Your name. I pray in the name of Jesus. Amen.  Today's MY Devotional has been provided by Leading The Way. The voice you hear on the MY Devotional podcast is digitally generated with Dr. Youssef's permission. If today's devotional stirred a question, burden, or need for prayer, you don't have to walk through it alone.

MY Devotional: Daily Encouragement from Leading The Way

From the first wedding in Genesis to the wedding feast of the Lamb in Revelation, Scripture reveals something stunning: God delights in marriage—and He designed it for our good and His glory. In today's episode of the MY Devotional Podcast, Dr. Michael Youssef reminds us that a wedding is only the beginning; marriage is a lifelong covenant instituted by God before sin entered the world. Dr. Youssef explores why marriage is far more than a personal relationship—it's a creative force that forms families, homes, and entire cultures. Want to know where a society is headed? Look at how it treats marriage: commitment versus convenience, covenant versus redefinition, faithfulness versus fracture. And yet, every marriage faces strain—pressure, suffering, and the daily reality of human sinfulness. That's why Dr. Youssef introduces three foundational stones that hold healthy relationships together: Selflessness Forgiveness Conversation Over the coming days, he'll unpack each one to help you pursue a marriage crafted according to God's original design—one that becomes a masterpiece of beauty, strength, and Gospel reflection. Today's MY Devotional has been provided by Leading The Way. The voice you hear on the MY Devotional podcast is digitally generated with Dr. Youssef's permission. If today's devotional stirred a question, burden, or need for prayer, you don't have to walk through it alone.

Relevant Church Podcast
How Temperament Shapes Communication in Marriage

Relevant Church Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2026 72:37


Why do healthy couples still fight?It's not always a love problem. Most of the time… it's a wiring problem. in this episode of The Good Life Podcast, we break down The Five Temperaments (Simplified) and how understanding your internal processing style can completely transform communication in your marriage. Conflict isn't optional. Avoidance is. And avoidance always leads to distance, assumptions, and resentment. Using biblical wisdom like Ephesians 4:26 and James 1:19, we explore why unresolved anger becomes poison — and how emotionally healthy engagement builds peace instead of tension.You'll learn:• Why communication breaks down over time • The 5 temperaments and how each processes conflict • Why your spouse isn't wrong — just different • A practical communication model that actually works • How to take a healthy “time out” without creating distance • How to repair quickly and build lasting connectionThe Five Temperaments:• Choleric – The Driver • Sanguine – The Expressor • Phlegmatic – The Peacekeeper • Melancholic – The Analyzer • Supine – The ServantTwo imperfect people doing life together daily is a recipe for conflict — especially with kids, stress, and unmet expectations.But peace isn't built through silence. It's built through effort. If this helps you, share it with someone who needs it.Let's build marriages that engage — not avoid.

Relevant Church Podcast
How Temperament Shapes Communication in Marriage

Relevant Church Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2026 72:37


Why do healthy couples still fight?It's not always a love problem. Most of the time… it's a wiring problem. in this episode of The Good Life Podcast, we break down The Five Temperaments (Simplified) and how understanding your internal processing style can completely transform communication in your marriage. Conflict isn't optional. Avoidance is. And avoidance always leads to distance, assumptions, and resentment. Using biblical wisdom like Ephesians 4:26 and James 1:19, we explore why unresolved anger becomes poison — and how emotionally healthy engagement builds peace instead of tension.You'll learn:• Why communication breaks down over time • The 5 temperaments and how each processes conflict • Why your spouse isn't wrong — just different • A practical communication model that actually works • How to take a healthy “time out” without creating distance • How to repair quickly and build lasting connectionThe Five Temperaments:• Choleric – The Driver • Sanguine – The Expressor • Phlegmatic – The Peacekeeper • Melancholic – The Analyzer • Supine – The ServantTwo imperfect people doing life together daily is a recipe for conflict — especially with kids, stress, and unmet expectations.But peace isn't built through silence. It's built through effort. If this helps you, share it with someone who needs it.Let's build marriages that engage — not avoid.

Radio Maria Ireland
Marriage Foundations – Effective Communication in Marriage – Andrew and Noreen

Radio Maria Ireland

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2026 50:17


Andrew and Noreen continue their practical series on building strong marriages, turning this week to the art of effective communication in marriage. They explore what it takes to be both a clear speaker and a truly attentive listener, including the internal and external obstacles that get in the way. Guest couple Cheryl and Andrea then […] L'articolo Marriage Foundations – Effective Communication in Marriage – Andrew and Noreen proviene da Radio Maria.

Intentional Living with Dr. Randy Carlson
Communication in Marriage – Part 1

Intentional Living with Dr. Randy Carlson

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2026


“My wife says I never listen to her. At least I think that’s what she […]

Intentional Living with Dr. Randy Carlson
Communication in Marriage – Part 1

Intentional Living with Dr. Randy Carlson

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2026


“My wife says I never listen to her. At least I think that’s what she […]

Morrow Marriage
Why Your Wife Says You Don't Get It: Solutions for Modern Marriages | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep379

Morrow Marriage

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2026 9:16


Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Why Your Wife Says You Don't Get It: Real Solutions for Modern Marriages!Struggling to understand your wife? Tired of hearing “you don't get it”? In this episode of The 'NEW' Marriage, Cass and Kathryn Morrow break down what your partner really means, why communication fails, and how to change the game in your marriage.Get the raw truth about trust, intimacy, manipulation, boundaries, and why “closure” is a myth. Learn practical steps to rebuild connection, handle blame, and take responsibility—without the BS.Perfect for men and women facing sexless marriages, emotional distance, or just wanting to finally be understood.Tune in for real talk, real solutions, and a dose of tough love that actually works.

A Love Language Minute
Communication in Marriage

A Love Language Minute

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2026 1:00 Transcription Available


If you're ever going to be truly intimate with your spouse, you must chose to reveal to them something of what is going on inside of you.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Faith Family Church - Baytown
Teeing It Up...Improving Communication In Marriage

Faith Family Church - Baytown

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2026 38:39


What if the key to a thriving marriage isn't what you think? It's not about sex or money. It's about communication. Only 40% of married couples rate this area as excellent, yet the vast majority of healthy couples get it right.In this powerful message, we explore the 5 levels of communication that every marriage needs:Coordination - Staying on the same page dailyConflict Resolution - Growing stronger through disagreementsConnection - Being fully present with each otherPersonal Revelation - Sharing your heart, hopes, and fearsIntimate Affection - Being fully known without fear of rejectionDiscover the 5 T's for Effective Communication: ✅ Tone - Let your words be gracious and life-giving✅ Time - Invest proactively, personally, and privately ✅ Trust - Build a foundation that creates safety and empathy ✅ Truth - Speak honestly in love, not harshly or hollowly ✅ Team Spirit - Embrace oneness and appreciate your differencesMarriage has a 100% success rate when done God's way. If you're facing frustration in communication, there's hope! God created marriage for success, not failure. Whether you're struggling or thriving, these biblical principles will help you build the safest, strongest relationship on earth.Remember: The best relationships aren't built on big gestures, but on small, consistent responses. You're in this together. One flesh, one team, one beautiful journey.

Draw Near
BJ and Kara's Date Night: The Power of Words in Marriage

Draw Near

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2026 50:13


BJ and Kara go on a date, and they invite you to listen in. This week on Draw Near, Kara is joined by a very special guest: her husband, BJ!! Join a recorded at-home date centered on one of the most important (and challenging) aspects of marriage: communication. The date follows one of the intentional at-home dates from Draw Near's soon-to-be-released marriage resource, Near to You, a collection of ten guided dates designed to help married couples draw nearer to God and to one another at any stage of marriage. Set at the kitchen table (in sweats, with homemade cocktails), Kara and BJ invite you into a relaxed evening that includes prayer, Scripture, reflection, meaningful conversation, and a goofy game to close the night. Along the way, they talk honestly about how communication styles develop over time, how conflict and silence can affect intimacy, and how words or actions can become instruments of love within marriage. Whether you're newly married, years into marriage, or simply curious about building a healthy faith-filled relationship, this episode offers encouragement, honesty, and practical ideas you can bring into your own relationship. For more information on this resource or to Pre-Order "Near to You" today CLICK HERE! Like our podcast? Hit that “subscribe” button AND the notification button/bell to know when new episodes are posted! Give us a rating! Leave a review! Tell your friends! Even more, pray for us! "Like" and follow us on Facebook!. Follow us on Instagram! Click here to become a patron! Patrons are essentially "sponsors" and co-producers or Draw Near as it could not happen without them. Who are "Fred and Kara?" Find out by visiting our home page. Draw Near Theme © Fred Shellabarger & Kara Kardell

Morrow Marriage
When Words Don't Match Actions: Marriage Communication Mistakes | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep375

Morrow Marriage

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2026 10:48


Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.When Words Don't Match Actions: Marriage Communication Mistakes!Struggling with mixed signals in your marriage?Cass and Kathryn Morrow dig into why words and actions often don't align—and how that destroys trust, triggers resentment, and sabotages communication.Learn the most common marriage communication mistakes, the truth about validation, and how to break the cycle of misalignment. Get raw, real advice to help you rebuild connection and communicate with honesty and empathy.Tune in to The 'NEW' Marriage for practical steps that actually work.

AwakenYou in your marriage
Valentine's Day Isn't the Problem. Unspoken Expectations Are.

AwakenYou in your marriage

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2026 15:41


Send a textValentine's Day expectations in marriage often go unspoken — and that's where disappointment begins.In this episode, Christine explores how waiting for your spouse to meet expectations without clear communication can create quiet resentment. You'll learn how to examine what you truly want, share your desires with clarity, and use Valentine's Day as an invitation for deeper connection rather than pressure.Christine also discusses how to express love without conditions, take care of your own heart when expectations aren't met, and start honest conversations that build intimacy over time.Resources mentioned:– Gentle Start Guide to Better Communication– Courageous Love Conversation

St. Paul American Coptic Orthodox Church of Houston
Communication in Marriage: Differences Between Men and Women | SA&SP (Fr. Matthias Shehad)

St. Paul American Coptic Orthodox Church of Houston

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2026 70:42


In this talk, Fr. Matthias Shehad explores the communication differences between men and women in marriage, emphasizing how these distinctions impact understanding and conflict resolution. He explains the metaphor of men being like "waffles," compartmentalizing tasks, while women are like "spaghetti," processing life in interconnected ways. Fr. Matthias discusses how men focus on problem-solving and often withdraw into solitude to manage stress, whereas women seek emotional connection through communication. He highlights how these inherent differences affect decision-making, language use, and expressions of self-worth within marriage. Fr. Matthias addresses common misunderstandings that arise when men and women interpret words and intentions differently and stresses the importance of empathy, clear communication, and mutual respect. Through recognizing these differences and working toward compromise, couples can build stronger relationships rooted in love and understanding. Subscribe to us on YouTube https://youtube.com/stpaulhouston Like us on Facebook https://facebook.com/saintpaulhouston Follow us on SoundCloud https://soundcloud.com/stpaulhouston Follow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/stpaulhouston Visit our website for schedules and to join the mailing list https://stpaulhouston.org

Marriage Mondays' with The King's Podcast
Being An Independent Woman: A Blessing & A Curse

Marriage Mondays' with The King's Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2026 59:15


Send us a textIn this eye-opening episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, we explore the roots of the “independent woman” mindset and how it has been passed down through generations. What began as survival training for grandmothers and great-grandmothers—who faced limited rights, financial dependence, and fewer opportunities—was necessary for their time. But many women today are still living from that same survival mindset, even though we now have more access, support, and opportunity to thrive.We discuss how young girls are often taught how to protect themselves and prepare to stand alone, yet later are told to “be submissive” in relationships without being taught how to truly partner, trust, build together, or receive support. That early seed of doubt can quietly show up in marriage as emotional walls, over-independence, and difficulty fully relaxing in love.This episode also shines light on the hidden burden many strong women carry—being the fixer, the provider, and the one everyone leans on—while rarely having a safe place to fall apart themselves.This conversation is not about blame. It's about awareness, healing, and learning how to honor the strength of the women before us while choosing connection over constant protection in our marriages today.Support the show

Morrow Marriage
When My Partner Won't Follow | Outgrowing Your Spouse? | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep366

Morrow Marriage

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2026 11:17


Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.STOP waiting for your partner to get their shit together!This episode, we go straight at the TRUTH: what do you do when you're outgrowing your spouse?Do you keep carrying the load?Do you walk?Do you throttle them in their sleep? (Yeah, we said it. And you're not the only one who's thought it.)We're calling out the manipulation, the silent contracts, the resentment that builds when your partner just won't follow.Emergency poop stories, erectile dysfunction, and why your “expectations” are just premeditated contempt.Brother, Sister—you're not alone.We're breaking down the real conversations nobody else will touch.Why your partner's drinking, anger, or contempt isn't about you—and what the hell to do about it.How to brace yourself for the holidays (or any bullshit season) and still show up as the leader.The 2% rule vs. the “I'm only a 1 out of 10” mindset—how to keep leveling up (without losing yourself).What to do when you want to strangle your spouse, but know you're supposed to lead.Listen up.You're either growing together, or you're stacking unsafe situation on unsafe situation.Time to disrupt divorce and become the man or woman your spouse would be crazy to leave.DM PODCAST if you're ready to stop the cycle.

The Marriage Cafe Podcast
Open Communication in Marriage

The Marriage Cafe Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2026 61:52


In this episode we will deal with couples talking about the difficult things we avoid in marriage such as money, sex, and mental health.

Radio Islam
Good Communication In Marriage

Radio Islam

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2025 16:23


Good Communication In Marriage by Radio Islam

Morrow Marriage
There's Another Man Waiting for Her | The ‘NEW' Marriage | Ep337

Morrow Marriage

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2025 9:31


Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.There's Another Man Waiting for Her!Most men don't realize they've lost their wife long before she ever leaves.In this raw episode, Cass and Kathryn break down what happens when emotional disconnection creates space for someone else to step in. This isn't about blame — it's about awareness, honesty, and rebuilding trust before it's too late.

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
413. The "Other" Things That Husbands Want In The Bedroom That Might Surprise You

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2025 37:00


In this candid episode, Amy and Nick share 5 things about each other that you probably didn't know about them, before diving into the “other” things that husbands secretly crave in the bedroom .. and no, it's not what you might think! Based on polls, real listener feedback, and honest conversations, we're unpacking the other desires that often go unspoken.From deeper connection and affirmation to playfulness, curiosity, and feeling pursued,  this episode goes beyond the physical to explore what truly makes intimacy fulfilling for men.Tune in as we share insights, laughs, and a few surprises along the way. We think most husbands will be nodding along.. and we'd love to hear if you agree!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Morrow Marriage
Why Indecision Destroys Marriages | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep332

Morrow Marriage

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2025 11:54


Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Why Indecision Destroys Marriages!Indecision is one of the silent killers in marriage. When you don't lead, choose, or take ownership, your partner loses trust and the relationship loses direction. Cass breaks down why confidence in decision-making builds safety, attraction, and unity in marriage—and how staying passive can quietly destroy it.

The Chelsey Holm Podcast
Why Better Communication Won't Save Your Marriage

The Chelsey Holm Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2025 25:02


Send us a textThe world says better communication will fix your marriage. But the truth? It's only a small part of the picture.In this episode, Chelsey pulls back the curtain on why communication alone can't save your marriage—and how most couples are trying to reform patterns they don't even realize were formed decades ago. She shares how to uncover the roots of unhealthy conflict, the biblical principles that redefine communication, and the practical “tone, timing, and technique” framework she and Zach use to stay united instead of divided.Inside this episode:Why communication is a learned skill, not a natural oneHow generational conflict styles shape your reactionsThe rules Chelsey and Zach live by for biblical communicationThe “tone, timing, and technique” triad that changes everythingWhy even the best communication tools fail without the Holy SpiritThis is your roadmap to communicating God's way—with peace, clarity, and unity as one flesh. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Motherhood Restored Podcast
Healing Communication in Marriage with Guest Dr. Corey Allen

Motherhood Restored Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2025 53:38


Hey, Mama, in today's episode, we're talking with Dr. Corey Allan from Sexy Marriage Radio to dive into healing communication in marriage. As Christian moms, we often juggle so much that our conversations with our husbands can feel broken or strained—but simple, intentional steps can restore connection and bring peace back into your home.Join Dr. Corey Allan and Natalie as they explore practical tools for healing communication, drawing from Corey's expertise as a Marriage and Family Therapist, his Ph.D. in Family Therapy, and his real-life insights from hosting Sexy Marriage Radio with his wife Pam.Corey opens up about how marriage is more about building character and wisdom than just chasing happiness—love is a process that sparks action, and communication is the key to growing deeper spiritually, keeping it simple, staying passionate, living in community, and truly enjoying the ride. Through heartfelt stories, Scripture, and actionable advice, he reveals how healing your communication can dissolve resentment, deepen intimacy, and invite God's transformative power into your relationship.Listen along as you discover the beauty of choosing better conversations with your husband, freeing yourself from overwhelm and embracing a marriage rooted in faith and fun. God's love and grace are ready to work miracles in your heart and home—you don't have to do it alone.Corey is a husband, father, author, speaker, and Marriage and Family Therapist with a Ph.D. in Family Therapy. He and his wife Pam host the weekly podcast Sexy Marriage Radio, where they help couples frame conversations and actions to create a marriage fully alive. Corey founded SMR (smr.fm), an online resource aimed at helping marriages not just survive, but thrive. Pam is a CPA at a small firm in Frisco, TX, and co-hosts with Corey. Together, they're passionate about reminding us that life and marriage are all about choices—and choosing growth leads to passion and joy.Please like, subscribe, rate, review, and share so we can help other mamas who are feeling stuck in their communication breakdowns and marital burnout find joy in their motherhood and marriage journey!Corey's Links:Website: https://smr.fmFollow on all social @sexymarriageradioSponsor:Make Wellness - Biactive Precision Peptides Questions, thoughts, feedback? Send me a text!Connect with Natalie: Natalie's Website: nataliehixson.comInstagram: instagram.com/angrymamacoachPinterest: pinterest.com/nataliehixsonYouTube: @angrymamacoachAcknowledgements: Producer and editor: Skye Hixson Music: Simon Reid www.simonreidmusic.com

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
407. Bad Marriage Advice That Many Of Us Have Been Told - With Monica Tanner

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2025 28:55


In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive deep into the often overlooked and sometimes misguided world of marriage advice with Monica Tanner, the brilliant mind behind the eye-opening new book, Bad Marriage Advice. Monica pulls back the curtain on the most common pieces of advice we've all heard, and sometimes blindly followed, and she explains why these “tips” could actually be hurting your marriage.We explore the advice we think is helpful but is secretly harmful, the myths that keep couples stuck in cycles of frustration, and the surprising truths that can transform how you connect with your spouse. Monica's insights are honest, practical, and even funny, making this episode as enlightening as it is entertaining.Whether you're newly married, decades in, or just curious about what really makes relationships thrive, this episode is packed with revelations that could change the way you think, communicate, and love. Tune in and discover whether some of the things you've been doing to “improve” your marriage might actually be making it worse—and what to do instead.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

The Marriage Life Coach Podcast
Functional Freeze & Feminist Healing, Ending Emotional Outsourcing with Beatriz Victoria Albina

The Marriage Life Coach Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2025 55:04


If you've ever caught yourself shrinking, shutting down, or bending over backwards to keep the peace in your relationship—even when it costs you your own peace—this episode is for you. I'm joined by feminist healer, trauma-informed coach, and author Béatriz Victoria Albina, whose groundbreaking new book Ending Emotional Outsourcing names what so many of us experience… but don't know how to describe. Together, we unpack what happens when your body goes into a functional freeze—where you look fine on the outside, but feel disconnected on the inside. We talk about why so many high-achieving women end up over-functioning in their relationships, and how feminist healing helps you reclaim your voice, your agency, and your inner safety. Whether you've been stuck in a loop of doing all the work, feeling like it's never enough, or just craving a new way to relate to your emotions and your marriage—this conversation is the place to start. ✨ Episode at a Glance What functional freeze really looks like in high-achieving women Why emotional outsourcing is so common—and so costly How self-referencing can change the way you relate to everything Why boundaries often feel unsafe (and what to do instead) The difference between protecting peace and performing it The role of feminist healing in relational repair How Béa's new book helps you name, understand, and shift these patterns RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: The Questions for Couples Journal Private Coaching with Maggie Connect with Béa on Instagram GET THE BOOK HERE - https://beatrizalbina.com/book/

AwakenYou in your marriage
Sex in Marriage Bonus Episode 1: When Sex Was the Hook

AwakenYou in your marriage

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2025 22:53


Have you ever wondered why sex seemed so natural in the beginning, but now feels complicated—or even avoided?For many couples, sex was the hook that brought them together.For her, giving herself felt like the way to keep his attention.For him, receiving her felt like proof that he was wanted.It worked—at least for a while. But over time, that script creates a painful standoff: she pulls back, weary of obligation, knowing that this type of intimacy doesn't feel right, while he feels rejected, confused, and wondering what changed. Jeff and I lived this story. I realized I was using sex to keep him interested, and when I stopped, my desire plummeted because it was based on lies. I asked him to start initiating, but what I didn't know was how insecure he felt doing that. What was meant to bring us closer created a chasm between us.In this week's bonus episode, When Sex Was the Hook, I share our journey of untangling this pattern—and how couples can move toward a more honest, holistic intimacy.If this episode resonates, I'd love for you to share it with a friend or leave a review. It's one of the most powerful ways to help more couples find hope in their own journey.CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving RelationshipUnlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings.Book your free Courageous Love Conversation here.InstagramFac...

The Marriage Life Coach Podcast
Frames & Lenses: A Hidden Key to Better Communication in Marriage

The Marriage Life Coach Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2025 21:10


In this greatest hits episode, we're revisiting one of the most powerful communication tools I teach—one that's both simple and transformative. If you've ever walked away from a conversation feeling misunderstood, reactive, or like your needs weren't truly seen, this episode is for you. It's not just about what you say. It's about the lens you're using to listen. I'm breaking down why the perspective you bring into a conversation—the emotional framing you carry—can change everything. You'll learn how noticing your “lens” helps you shift your energy, change the direction of the dialogue, and respond in ways that bring more clarity, calm, and connection. From the sneaky effects of internalized patriarchy to how we're conditioned to live “leftovers lives,” this episode is packed with both mindset shifts and practical tools you can apply right away. Grab a journal, take a walk, or just listen with curiosity—and let's explore how small shifts in perspective create big changes in communication. ✨ Episode at a Glance Why communication feels so hard (even though we do it every day) What it means to “notice your lens”—and why it matters The connection between your emotions and how you hear your partner A coaching challenge to shift your perspective and improve conversations How internalized patriarchy shapes how we listen, respond, and prioritize our needs An invitation to live a 5-star life instead of a “leftovers life”  

Can't Take It With You
#40: Money Communication in Marriage

Can't Take It With You

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2025 38:20


Money can cause lots of stress in marriage. Couples don't have to fight, though - there are healthy ways to talk about financial decisions and get on the same page! Licensed professional counselor Amy Spears provides a helpful framework for how couples can communicate about money. Listen in for Amy's insights about: The importance of relationships for overall health How each spouse's unique background informs his or her view of money Healthy ways to self-regulate when discussing financial topics as a couple Why articulating your family's core values helps align spending with what is most important to you How to be proactive with your family's saving, spending and giving The role of financial communication in pre-marital counseling Guest: Amy Spears at amy@livewellcounselors.com

Linda's Corner: Faith, Family, and Living Joyfully
Navigating a Marriage Crisis: How to Reconnect When One Partner Wants Out with Dr. Becky Whetstone

Linda's Corner: Faith, Family, and Living Joyfully

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2025 40:58


What do you do when your marriage is in crisis and one partner wants out? In this insightful episode, we sit down with Dr. Becky Whetstone, a Marriage and Family Therapist, consultant, life coach, and author of I (Think) I Want Out. After experiencing her own disappointing marriage counseling that led to divorce, Dr. Becky became determined to learn how to truly help couples reconcile when possible—or create an amicable divorce when necessary.Dr. Becky explains how, when a partner's nervous system is activated, they enter fight-or-flight mode, feeling as though their survival is at stake. This often leads them to believe that leaving is the only option. However, by calming the nervous system, addressing the root causes of conflict, and encouraging personal growth, many marriages can be saved.Join us as Dr. Becky shares her expert insights on navigating a marriage crisis, strengthening relationships, and finding the best path forward—whether that means healing together or parting peacefully.Learn more about Dr. Becky Whetstone and her work at MarriageCrisisManager.com.Thank you for supporting Linda's Corner! Please take a moment to share this episode, subscribe to the podcast, and leave a rating and review. Visit the Linda's Corner website at lindascornerpodcast.com, and follow us on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, and Pinterest @lindascornerpodcast.Discover free resources to increase happiness, build confidence, improve relationships, manage stress, and calm feelings of depression and anxiety at the Hope for Healing website: hopeforhealingfoundation.org.For a transformative experience in deep inner healing, visit healingbreathworkdetox.com—a digital platform offering life-changing results.Become the champion of your own story as you overcome life's challenges and unlock your full potential!

The Dad Edge Podcast (formerly The Good Dad Project Podcast)
Advice at 50 I Wish I Knew When I Was Just Getting Married

The Dad Edge Podcast (formerly The Good Dad Project Podcast)

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2025 37:11


Have you ever asked yourself: "Do I find myself focusing more on what I don't want in my marriage, rather than sharing what I truly need or hope for?" "Am I recognizing and attempting to meet my wife's deep needs to feel seen, heard, and safe?" "Am I honestly communicating my needs and working with my spouse to understand hers?" One of the most powerful shifts came from understanding that men and women have fundamentally different needs in marriage. Men crave respect, appreciation, and affection. Women need to be seen, heard, and feel safe. If these needs aren't met, resentment can brew silently for years, eroding the relationship from within. Turning 50 is a milestone—it marks not only the passage of time but also a treasure trove of life lessons. On this episode of The Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner shares the advice he wishes he'd had in his early days of marriage and fatherhood. Larry opens up about his fears before marrying his college sweetheart—a perspective shaped by his own experiences growing up around divorce and dysfunctional relationships. For years, he worried marriage would end in resentment, disconnection, or eventual separation. But with 20 years under his belt, Larry has discovered that extraordinary marriages don't happen by accident; they're the result of effort, self-awareness, and learning new relationship skills. If you've ever struggled with self-doubt, felt lost in marriage or fatherhood, or wished for a community of men who just get it, this episode is for you. Stay tuned as Larry kicks off a four-part July series reflecting on marriage, parenting, wealth, health, and perspective—all with the goal of helping you live legendary. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this vital conversation, we dig into: Your Marriage Doesn't Have to “Go Dry”: Most of us didn't grow up seeing functional relationships. Larry candidly discusses how he almost let the fear of divorce and dysfunction keep him from marrying the woman he truly loved—and why that perspective was dead wrong. The Power of Active Love (from Your Kids' Perspective): This week's episode features a spontaneous cameo from Larry's 11-year-old son, Lawson! He shares—with humor and honesty—how seeing his parents in a loving relationship makes him feel happy and safe at home. It's a heartfelt reminder: how you show up with your spouse is what your kids truly remember. No More Content Zombie Syndrome: We all absorb tons of self-development podcasts and books. But unless we commit to consistently practicing what we learn—and DO the work—the needle doesn't move. Larry talks about the critical difference between knowing what to do and actually doing it. Find Your Corner Men: Whether you're a nine-to-fiver or a business owner, Larry stresses the importance of having men in your corner—mentors ahead of you, peers beside you, and those you can teach. We rise together, and having the right tribe accelerates every area of our lives. Whether you're married, a new dad, or a seasoned father, this episode is packed with relatable stories and actionable advice that could save your marriage and strengthen your home. Here's what research and observation highlight about marriages: Only 12% of people who still are married can actually identify their relationship as working and they're happy. Statistics have shown that when a woman says out loud, "I think we should separate," or "I think we should get divorced," she's been thinking that for a minimum of two years. www.thedadedge.com/friday215 www.thedadedge.com/mastermind  

Morrow Marriage
Your Spouse Is Testing You — Here's Why It Matters | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep290

Morrow Marriage

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2025 8:20


Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Tests From Your Spouse!In this episode of The 'NEW' Marriage, we explore the hidden ways spouses test each other — emotionally, behaviorally, and unconsciously.

Morrow Marriage
Taking Responsibility | The Shift That Changes Everything | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep289

Morrow Marriage

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2025 9:45


Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Taking Responsibility!In this episode of The 'NEW' Marriage, we dive into the underrated power of taking personal responsibility in relationships.

Morrow Marriage
Emotional Regulation | The Skill That Saves Marriages | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep284

Morrow Marriage

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2025 8:02


Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Emotional Regulation!In this episode of The ‘NEW' Marriage, we explore why emotional regulation is a critical skill for long-term relationship success. If you or your partner often feel overwhelmed, shut down, or overreact — this conversation is for you.

Intentional Living with Dr. Randy Carlson
Communication in Marriage – Part 2

Intentional Living with Dr. Randy Carlson

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2025


“My wife says I never listen to her. At least I think that’s what she said.” Hmm. Not a great example of communication. But Dr. Randy wants to hear your one thing for great communication.  Sign up for Dr. Randy’s INTENTIONAL ONE THING CHALLENGE. Here’s an Intentional Living Blog for inspiration! inTENtionals for Marriages That Last […]

Intentional Living with Dr. Randy Carlson
Communication in Marriage – Part 2

Intentional Living with Dr. Randy Carlson

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2025


“My wife says I never listen to her. At least I think that’s what she said.” Hmm. Not a great example of communication. But Dr. Randy wants to hear your one thing for great communication.  Sign up for Dr. Randy’s INTENTIONAL ONE THING CHALLENGE. Here’s an Intentional Living Blog for inspiration! inTENtionals for Marriages That Last […]

Intentional Living with Dr. Randy Carlson

“My wife says I never listen to her. At least I think that’s what she said.” Hmm. Not a great example of communication. But Dr. Randy wants to hear your one thing for great communication.  Sign up for Dr. Randy’s INTENTIONAL ONE THING CHALLENGE. Here’s an Intentional Living Blog for inspiration! inTENtionals for Marriage Communication What […]

Intentional Living with Dr. Randy Carlson

“My wife says I never listen to her. At least I think that’s what she said.” Hmm. Not a great example of communication. But Dr. Randy wants to hear your one thing for great communication.  Sign up for Dr. Randy’s INTENTIONAL ONE THING CHALLENGE. Here’s an Intentional Living Blog for inspiration! inTENtionals for Marriage Communication What […]

Gospel Spice
Restore hope and connection in marriage and other key relationships | with Ann and Dave Wilson

Gospel Spice

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2025 52:05


Stéphanie welcomes Ann and Dave Wilson, the hosts of global ministry and syndicated radio show FamilyLife, to discuss key insights from their decades of marriage and ministry. The title of their new book says it all: "How to speak life to your husband when all you want to do is yell at him." What if one small shift—like choosing encouragement over criticism—could change the tone of your whole marriage? Real people in real relationships have real problems, but with God's help, you can heal and sustain your marriage for a lifetime. The Wilsons, through vulnerability and wisdom, highlight how Christian spouses—particularly wives, though the lessons are universal—can profoundly impact their marriages by transforming their mindset and the words they speak. Recognizing Shifting Cultural Dynamics Ann shares that over 45 years of marriage and ministry, she's observed a cultural shift. Dissatisfaction and unrest in marriages seem more common, with a tendency for spouses—especially wives—to see their partners as adversaries or projects for improvement. Ann notes the escalation of negative speech and a belief that critiques or reminders will motivate change. In reality, frequent criticism often demotivates the other partner. The Power of Words A pivotal story shared by Ann involves her realization that her well-intended feedback sounded like constant “booing” to Dave. Ann genuinely believed her critiques would help Dave become a better husband, father, and man. However, after an honest conversation and prayer, Ann discovered that her negative words were discouraging him more than anything. This revelation led her to a critical self-examination and a commitment to use her words to encourage rather than to correct. The Path from Critique to Affirmation Ann's journey involved asking God for conviction—not condemnation—and humbly examining her attitude. She confronted her own pride, recognizing the difference between thinking "I failed" (which God forgives and restores) and "I am a failure" (which is condemnation and shame). With this shift, she chose to focus on what was good and praiseworthy in Dave, believing that God calls spouses to be each other's chief encouragers. The Science Behind Positive Illusion Ann references Dr. Helene Fisher's research, which found that happy, long-term marriages are characterized by a “positive illusion”—focusing on what you like about your spouse, intentionally rewiring your mindset to notice and affirm the good. This is supported by brain science and aligns with biblical instructions about renewing your mind. Practical Outworking and Challenges Practically, Ann began to express gratitude and appreciation—starting with simple thanks for Dave's hard work. Dave testifies that these words of encouragement were more powerful than any affirmation he received elsewhere. This shift motivated him to grow into the person Ann saw in him. A Revolution of Respect and Gratitude Ann frames this approach as a “rebellion” against a culture that devalues respect. By choosing respect and gratitude—whether verbally, in writing, or through a daily journal—wives can breathe life and hope into their husbands, families, and homes. Dave affirms that authentic encouragement, rather than critique, draws men toward home and transforms family culture. The God-Given Power of Influence Through Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit, any spouse can become a speaker of life in marriage. This transformation is not about being passive or suppressing truth but about courageously choosing love, hope, and affirmation as radical acts of faith—ultimately reflecting God's heart for us. How might shifting from critique to encouragement change the atmosphere in your closest relationships? What step can you take today to practice the “positive illusion” in your marriage or family? ABOUT THE BOOK “HOW TO SPEAK LIFE TO YOUR HUSBAND WHEN ALL YOU WANT TO DO IS YELLE AT HIM” Discover the marriage you've always hoped for. With practical tools to help you communicate more effectively, you'll learn to speak the language of love and grace that will encourage and strengthen your husband at every turn. Buy the book here: https://shop.familylife.com/product/how-to-speak-life-to-your-husband-when-all-you-want-to-do-is-yell-at-him/  Ann Wilson spent more than a decade longing for a better marriage and for her husband to be more attentive, more involved, more helpful, and just all-around better. And every chance she got, she told him so. Where she thought she was being helpful, she was instead badgering him with constant critiques until all he heard was, “Boo! Boo!” when they were together. It almost broke their marriage. But Ann discovered the power that God has given wives. No matter how long you've been married, you don't need to spend another minute hoping and wishing for things to be different. They can! And the power is in your hands. In this motivating, honest new book, Ann–marriage coach and bestselling author with her husband, Dave–shares how she breathed new life into her marriage by stewarding one of the most powerful gifts believers inherit from the Creator: encouragement. God has given wives a superpower to influence their husbands and homes, and you can use that power to build up and encourage your man to be a better husband, father, and man of God while still speaking truth to him. Relatable, encouraging, biblical, and funny, Ann shares stories from her own life, as well as valuable insights from Scripture, to help you: ·         Address the ways you process and justify your communication patterns ·         Seek spiritual and relational (re)alignment with both your husband and God ·         Learn to exercise self-control and demonstrate radical grace in conversations with your husband ·         Begin to cheer more than boo–in a way that isn't put on, fake, or inauthentic ·         Learn to speak truth in a way your husband can really hear you ·         And, ultimately, cultivate a grace-based marriage that thrives ·         Real people in real relationships have real problems, but with God's help, you can heal and sustain your marriage for a lifetime. MORE ABOUT ANN AND DAVE WILSON Dave and Ann Wilson are hosts of FamilyLife Today®, FamilyLife's nationally-syndicated radio program on more than 1,300 radio outlets in all 50 states. They are also cofounders of Kensington Church, a national, multi-campus church that hosts more than 14,000 attendees every weekend. Since 1993, they have been featured speakers at FamilyLife's Weekend to Remember® marriage getaways and have also hosted their own marriage conferences across the country. The Wilsons live in the Detroit area where Dave served as the Detroit Lions chaplain for 33 years. Dave and Ann have three grown sons, CJ, Austin, and Cody, as well as three daughters-in-law and four grandchildren. We invite you to check out the first episode of each of our series, and decide which one you will want to start with. Go to gospelspice.com for more, and go especially to gospelspice.com/podcast to enjoy our guests! Interested in our blog? Click here: gospelspice.com/blog Identity in the battle | Ephesians https://www.podcastics.com/episode/74762/link/ Centering on Christ | The Tabernacle experience https://www.podcastics.com/episode/94182/link/ Shades of Red | Against human oppression https://www.podcastics.com/episode/115017/link/ God's glory, our delight  https://www.podcastics.com/episode/126051/link/   Celebrating all fathers and men in our lives! Go to gospelspice.com/father to sign up for a gorgeous, Christ-centered, free 4-day email devotional written by the men of Gospel Spice: Donald E, Ohi O,  and Jonah R. Enjoy! Support us on Gospel Spice, PayPal and Venmo!