Relationship Reality Podcast

Send a text Is Unconditional Love Real… or Just a Romantic Myth?  Show Theme: Challenging the idea of unconditional love in romantic relationships—and separating healthy love from harmful tolerance.  Episode Objective: To unpack what unconditional love really means, where it does and does not apply, and how misunderstanding it keeps people stuck in unhealthy relationships.Support the show

Send a textFrom Appreciation to Expectation: When Love Stops Being Seen  Show Theme: How relationships shift when gratitude fades and entitlement takes its place—and why that shift quietly kills connection.  Episode Objective: To expose how unspoken expectations replace appreciation over time, how it affects both partners differently, and how couples can course-correct before resentment becomes permanent.Support the show

Send a textTime is one of the most valuable currencies in a relationship—and how you distribute it determines whether love feels secure or slowly starts to starve.  In this episode of Marriage Material, we dig into what it really means to distribute time intentionally and equitably so both partners feel fulfilled—not just present, but prioritized. From work and parenting to friendships, self-care, and personal goals, we unpack how imbalance creates resentment, emotional distance, and silent frustration.  We ask the real questions:         •        Is “being busy” an excuse or a blind spot?         •        Can time be equal if needs are different?         •        How do you fix a relationship where one person feels emotionally rich and the other feels time-poor?  This conversation isn't about keeping score—it's about creating safety, connection, and sustainability in love.  Because in healthy relationships, time isn't just spent… it's invested.Support the show

Send a textTopic: Pride vs. Prideful & When You're More Mad Than the Person Involved  In this episode of Relationship Reality Podcast, we unpack two relationship dynamics that quietly destroy communication, connection, and peace if left unchecked: pride vs. pridefulness and misplaced anger.  We break down the difference between having pride—which protects your values, boundaries, and self-respect—and being prideful, where ego takes over and blocks growth, accountability, and healing.  Then we ask the uncomfortable but necessary question: Can you be more mad than the person actually involved?  From relationships and marriages to friendships and family situations, we explore how carrying outrage that isn't yours can escalate conflict, distort reality, and turn support into sabotage.  In this conversation, we challenge listeners to examine:         •        When pride becomes a wall instead of a backbone         •        How ego disguises itself as loyalty or protection         •        Why being overly angry might signal unresolved personal triggers         •        The difference between defending someone and projecting your own pain  This episode is a mirror—not a lecture.  Because sometimes the real issue isn't what happened… it's who we became while reacting to it.Support the show

Send a textWhat Do You Do When Your Partner Doesn't Support Your Vision?  At what point does “self-care” turn into self-centeredness—and how do you navigate a marriage when your partner's priorities no longer align with the vision you're building?  In this episode, we tackle the uncomfortable but necessary conversation around support, sacrifice, and shared direction in marriage. We explore what it really means when one partner puts themselves first—and how that choice impacts trust, leadership, and long-term unity.  We discuss:         •        The difference between healthy self-care and harmful self-focus         •        What it feels like when your vision isn't supported by your spouse         •        How to communicate vision without control or resentment         •        When support looks like patience—and when it looks like confrontation         •        How couples realign when growth speeds are different  This isn't about blaming women or excusing men. It's about understanding roles, expectations, and responsibility when two people are supposed to be building together.Support the show

Send a textIn this episode, we talk about why keeping access to your ex keeps you stuck—and how blocking isn't about bitterness, it's about boundaries.  We break down:         •        Why staying connected to your ex delays healing         •        How “harmless conversations” reopen emotional wounds         •        The difference between maturity and unnecessary access         •        When blocking is self-respect, not immaturity         •        How clarity creates peace—and peace protects your future  If you're serious about growth, healing, or your current relationship, some doors don't need closure—they need locks.Support the show

Send a textCoach DTM and KD are back to bring you materials needed for Marriage and to make you marriage material. In this episode we discuss must ask questions for first dates. Support the show

Send us a textCommunication, Compromise, And Non‑Negotiables

The team has a real must hear conversation. We would love your thoughts on this!

In this episode we get DEEP! We would love to hear your thoughts on this

It's a CELEBRATION!!!!!!

In this episode we discuss if she is protecting her privacy or her secrets within the relationship. Is this necessary or dangerous. What do you guys think

Do you get rid of your friend to make your mate comfortable if sex was involved in the past?

Is stonewalling dangerous is a relationship? See what the squad said about this. Also someone was keeping a major secret from their partner. Listen to find out what it is.

We had some great dialogue about being stable, making a shift in our lives. Someone wanted to know if they were a partner or just convenience. Let us know what you think. Follow @CoachDTM ON TikTok so you can catch us live as we record. #coachdtm #relationshipreality #rrpkeke #yagirlkd #1podcast #relationshipgoals

Live on TikTok at @CoachDTM we discussed coasting in a relationship. What do y'all think about it?

If your kids asked you not to support them in sports or attend their wedding how would you react? Find out what we said on this topic. We also breakdown forgiveness and what it really means #RRP #Forgiveness #coachdtm #rrpkeke #yagirlkd

Poor business etiquette A grown man's playlist Trying to convince KD to get on the boat again! Insecurity vs jealousy

We travel to Chicago as a group and celebrate Coaches Birthday month

In this episode we discuss a girlfriend bringing her boyfriend to a girls night event. What are your thoughts on this.

In this episode we take on a new format and Ill say it's a must HEAR! Should family be cutoff sometimes? See what KD says. Keke brings some heat to the show and DTM speaks for the people.

You've been waiting and we delivered! Here is the second part of how to Elevate in YOUR relationship. We tap in on situations like: - [x] Is it selfish to expect your partner to meet emotional needs you haven't clearly communicated?” - [x] Why do some people feel more alone in a relationship than they did single? - [x] What role should your partner play in your healing from past trauma?” - [x] Can you truly forgive someone if a part of you still holds onto the hurt? - [x] At what point do you accept that you've outgrown someone you once believed was your forever? Let us know what you think in the comments. Subscribe so you never miss an episode!

I promise you this is a must hear episode. We break down how to elevate in a relationship from both sides!

When you hear the phrase “My Truth” what does that mean? Is it being used incorrectly? KD and DTM goes back and forth on this and needs your help on this. What do you think? #RelationshipReality #RRPKEKE #CoachDTM #YaGirlKD #RealityCheck

What does closure mean in relationships? Is it really necessary? What are your thoughts

Is closure a real thing? What does that even mean? Check out this episode where we get deep on closure! What do y'all think? What's your thoughts #RelationshipReality #CoachDTM #RRPkeke #yagirlKD #RealityCheck

If I found out you were sick and about to die, is it wrong if I don't want to tell KD? What do you guys think? #relationshipreality #coachdtm #rrpkeke #yagirlkd #RealityCheck

We discuss how feelings played a role in our childhood but we couldn't talk about it then. Sponsor: Upside This free app gets you cash back on gas! Use promo code CNABD to get an extra 15¢/gal bonus on your first purchase. https://upside.app.link/CNABD

DTM and KD has a major disagreement and works things out. They discuss how to keep a marriage strong and how they did it. It's a must hear. Shout out to our podcast making the top 100 list for relationships on FeedSpot https://www.feedspot.com/fs/tk/GEbRwGIh4%2Bgd4%2BpG18odyhRI%2BrmSTebvGxLjStjIGM8RGsa5ZCDqHBsUFhrczBrREQ7A9Y9S8PYc6eQe3McaxdtQ%2BfiiJvMeWSUhWN7EFQkeRvfhoV3hHEoWFVgUBFrHElEBr6BOHxdZGiBTF%2F1PCQ5SA%2BSRSiYqWODwSwn6SgITH8q3Xx%2Fl5xzXEFgW%2BCP%2F4EH65Y9dKChKFRBKEfZPBdsOCPmeTvD2SyAdURMMWwk%3D Sponsored by: Indulging in Pandora's Box! DTM's new book that drops 4/11/25 on AMAZON and Kindle Fire!

In this episode we discuss a major breakup and why it seems wrong. Free MONEY for listeners. Sign up TODAY This free app gets you cash back on gas! Use promo code CNABD to get an extra 15¢/gal bonus on your first purchase. https://upside.app.link/CNABD

In this episode we discuss a wife that convinced her husband to try something new, then talked about him when he did. What would you do in this case. Sponsor: Upside! Get money back off of money YOU'RE ALREADY spending. This free app gets you cash back on gas! Use promo code CNABD to get a $10 bonus on your first purchase. https://upside.app.link/CNABD

In this episode see who felt like a side friend. Has this Eve been your story? What did you do

How long do you wait to tell the person you're dating EVERYTHING about you? Who was wrong in this episode, the girlfriend or the cousin? Sponsor: Upside Check out this free app that gets you cash back on gas and other errands! Click this link or use promo code CNABD to get an extra 15¢/gal bonus the first time you make a purchase. https://upside.app.link/CNABD If you're not using Upside You're living life UPSIDE DOWN

In this episode we discuss how communication is broken between men and women. You'll understand what your dog needs or wants but never put in the time to see what your man needs or wants. Sponsor: Upside Check out this free app that gets you cash back on gas and other errands! Click this link or use promo code CNABD to get an extra 15¢/gal bonus the first time you make a purchase. https://upside.app.link/CNABD If you're not using Upside, you're living life upside down. Get upside NOW!

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In this episode our good friend and sister C-R a.k.a Carrie comes through and drop some gems! We bring her out of retirement in the rap game too. Check us out as we discuss raising kids in this day and age.

As we return with Season 3 in a new location: KD, KEKE and DTM Is back with new fun. In episode 1 we discuss a woman that leaves her dude in his time of need to go on a vacation trip that they planned together. What are your thoughts?

THIS IS THE SEASON FINALE AND WE WILL BE BACK IN A NEW LOCATION WITH MORE GUEST AND MORE SEGMENTS AND MORE FUN

If you want to support the show here is how you can do it: $infinitystudios106 In this episode we were getting attacked by killer bees the entire show. we also talk about the best GET BACK on someone you dislike or are at odds with. We discuss how people don't keep secrets once you die. What makes people tell secrets once a person dies? Dating my sibling but not knowing it was my sibling, what would you do? KD didn't put DTM on her DND bypass list! Reality Check: What would you do if your mom was team X in front of team new? Shout out to our sponsors: @MadalkoMedia on everything. if you want to capture that special moment with a video or pictures, this is where you want to go. The price is right, and their skills is tight. A picture is worth a thousand words, but a video is worth a lifetime. Let's make memories together with Madalko Media Second Sponsor: Chime- want a bank account that really cares about you and your money? Get paid up to 2 days sooner, take advantage of the spot me service which means you can borrow up to $220 with no additional fees. you deserve to be with a bank that puts you first! hit the link, sign up and setup your direct deposit. Chime will do the rest. https://chime.com/r/diontedonald3?c=s You'll thank me later! #coachdtm #podcast #realitycheck #yagirlkd #rrpkeke #relationshipreality #nodiddy #fyp

In this episode, as always we get H.O.T Humble Open and Transparent. DTM gets a breakthrough and share it with the girls that makes them all breakdown.  Cashapp: $foreverandbeyond if you want to donate to the show. 

In this episode we talk about a famous personality getting a divorce after 39 years.  We miss KEKE and can't wait until she returns next week.  We help a listener out when they tell us that they got in trouble for getting alone with their spouses dad. Is this crazy? Don't you want your person to get along with your family?      Shout out to our sponsors: @MadalkoMedia on everything. if you want to capture that special moment with a video or pictures, this is where you want to go. The price is right, and their skills is tight. A picture is worth a thousand words, but a video is worth a lifetime. Let's make memories together with Madalko Media    Second Sponsor: Chime- want a bank account that really cares about you and your money? Get paid up to 2 days sooner, take advantage of the spot me service which means you can borrow up to $220 with no additional fees. you deserve to be with a bank that puts you first! hit the link, sign up and setup your direct deposit. Chime will do the rest. https://chime.com/r/diontedonald3?c=s You'll thank me later! 

Would you Die for your significant other? Would you miss your child's birthday party if your current wife/husband is not invited? How do you set boundaries and expect them to be respected if you've never had them before?  Shout out to our sponsors: @MadalkoMedia on everything. if you want to capture that special moment with a video or pictures, this is where you want to go. The price is right, and their skills is tight. A picture is worth a thousand words, but a video is worth a lifetime. Let's make memories together with Madalko Media    Second Sponsor: Chime- want a bank account that really cares about you and your money? Get paid up to 2 days sooner, take advantage of the spot me service which means you can borrow up to $220 with no additional fees. you deserve to be with a bank that puts you first! hit the link, sign up and setup your direct deposit. Chime will do the rest. https://chime.com/r/diontedonald3?c=s You'll thank me later! 

DTM and KD recap their Date Night experience Is it crazy to expect you to adopt to my MUST in a relationship? Do you agree with giving your spouse a curfew?  Keke said it's a thin line between a man keeping you safe and a man being controlling, do you agree? How do you break up with someone who is not getting the clear message? do breakups blow over? motivational message: Most people want CHANGE but you don't want to CHANGE! SPONSOR: Madalko Media on all social media platforms movie clip: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTNvq7ECp/  

We get deep in this episode and discuss real life. Is it possible to be with someone who has kids but know that you can't be a stepparent?  Reality Check: Hello to my favorite podcast family. My name doesn't matter but I'm straight out of Florida. Me and my girlfriend have been rocking for about 7. Year 1 was extremely rough because we both kept sleeping around on each other. We sat down and had a real heart to heart about what we wanted in life and since then it's been simply amazing. I'm even thinking about proposing soon. Here is where the problem lies. Her sister has been there since day 1 and still sees me as the cheater from year one. She also makes uncomfortable advances towards me that I just laugh off. I keep my distance but it's mad weird. How do I tell my girlfriend I no longer want to be around her sister? I can't relax around her without her trying me. They are extremely close like best friends. Help me. What would you tell our realist? sponsor: Can we give you $100? who doesn't like free money. All you have to do is hit the link and sign up for CHIME. Also, setup direct deposit and deposit your payroll check in your new account. Join me on Chime and we'll each get $100. Terms apply. https://chime.com/r/diontedonald3?c=s let's get the bag together!  

My kids said Hawk Tuah? The kids think KD is Suge Knight or Debo. We discuss the most disrespectful hug in 2024 who knew Jada had a disease? Not DTM in this REALITY CHECK we go deep, do you think you can compete with the dead? Sponsors: Madalko Media is the GO TO media company! You want a free $100 plus $10 more spot me bucks? I have the perfect solution for you. tap the link below and setup direct deposit with your job within 45 days and GET PAID! HTTPS://CHIME.COM/R/DIONTEDONALD3?C=S #coachdtm #podcast #rrpkeke #yagirlkd #realitycheck #hug #RELATIONSHIPREALITYPODCAST

We introduce our NEW INTRO! Let us know what you think about it. We play a new game called Sitcom Sipping. KD tells us about her view on Karma. And this Reality Check is off the chains. Sponsor: Madalko Media @Madalkomedia on all social sites.

In this episode we discuss a ton of life lessons. When should you cut off a family member from your kids life if you notice they are toxic? How often are you caught trying to build your mate when he/she is clearly NOT ready to grow? Are you thinking you can change your partner even when they tell you they DON'T WANT SOMETHING? Ever had someone in your life that wanted you to do better but not better than you? What did you do about it? Sponsors: Madalko Media IG- @Madalkomedia #podcast #coachdtm #realitycheck #rrp #RelationshipRealityPodcast #yagirlkd #rrpkeke #podcasts

In this episode we discuss how you should be ALONE! We try to save a relationship where being the middle man goes wrong and so much more! Let us know your thoughts.

Welcome back to another dynamic episode of "Navigating Love and Hardships"! In this episode, KD, Kiki, and Coach DTM dive into personal and relatable topics that resonate deeply with many of us. We kick off with KD sharing her son's graduation and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with it. Kiki and Coach DTM follow suit, reflecting on their busy and eventful June filled with birthdays, surprises, and family gatherings. The conversation then shifts to a deep discussion about a listener's dilemma: choosing between staying close to a mother in an abusive relationship or distancing oneself for self-preservation. The team shares personal experiences and insights on the complexities of abusive relationships, the impact on children, and the difficult decisions involved. They also explore the subconscious choices we make in partners, influenced by our parents and upbringing. Wrapping up on a lighter note, they play a fun game of identifying professions they absolutely could not date, with surprising and humorous revelations. From OBGYNs to police officers, the team doesn't hold back on their deal-breakers. Don't miss the heartfelt advice, the laughs, and the raw, unfiltered conversations that make this podcast a must-listen. Tune in and join the discussion!

In this episode we discuss the rise of violence between men and women. How can we STOP IT? Leave your suggestions in the comments. #coachdtm #rrpkeke #yagirlkd #rrpblu #relationshipreality #stoptheviolence

DO YOU THINK ITS OK TO CHECK YOUR SPOUSE OR FRIEND WHEN THEY ARE WRONG? IF YOU DON'T FEEL COMFORTABLE, DO YOU THINK ITS TIME TO DISSOLVE THAT RELATIONSHIP? FIND OUT WHAT THE TEAM THINKS. LEAVE YOUR COMMENT ON THIS AS WELL. IS IT OK TO WEAR TOO BIG CROCS?