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New podcast weblog done by KD and DTM Dionte The Motivator discussing relationship of all kind from friends, spouses, entrepreneurs, to side pieces. Bringing you a guess weekly to break down what it all means.

Relationship Reality


    • May 14, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 1h 24m AVG DURATION
    • 225 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from Relationship Reality Podcast

    How to ELEVATE in a Relationship Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2025 90:59


    You've been waiting and we delivered! Here is the second part of how to Elevate in YOUR relationship. We tap in on situations like: - [x] Is it selfish to expect your partner to meet emotional needs you haven't clearly communicated?” - [x] Why do some people feel more alone in a relationship than they did single? - [x] What role should your partner play in your healing from past trauma?” - [x] Can you truly forgive someone if a part of you still holds onto the hurt? - [x] At what point do you accept that you've outgrown someone you once believed was your forever? Let us know what you think in the comments. Subscribe so you never miss an episode!

    How to Elevate in a Relationship PART 1

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2025 44:27


    I promise you this is a must hear episode. We break down how to elevate in a relationship from both sides!

    IS YOUR TRUTH USED WRONG S2 EP16

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 93:59


    When you hear the phrase “My Truth” what does that mean? Is it being used incorrectly? KD and DTM goes back and forth on this and needs your help on this. What do you think? #RelationshipReality #RRPKEKE #CoachDTM #YaGirlKD #RealityCheck

    Is Closure a real thing S2EP15

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2025 104:06


    What does closure mean in relationships? Is it really necessary? What are your thoughts

    Is too honest with your spouse a good idea S2Ep13

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2025 104:06


    Is closure a real thing? What does that even mean? Check out this episode where we get deep on closure! What do y'all think? What's your thoughts #RelationshipReality #CoachDTM #RRPkeke #yagirlKD #RealityCheck

    Is it wrong to keep life changing health information from loved ones

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2025 104:06


    If I found out you were sick and about to die, is it wrong if I don't want to tell KD? What do you guys think? #relationshipreality #coachdtm #rrpkeke #yagirlkd #RealityCheck

    Was Feelings Overrated Back in the Day Ft Daryl S2EP11

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2025 111:07


    We discuss how feelings played a role in our childhood but we couldn't talk about it then. Sponsor: Upside This free app gets you cash back on gas! Use promo code CNABD to get an extra 15¢/gal bonus on your first purchase. https://upside.app.link/CNABD

    DTM & KD works things out S2EP10

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2025 98:23


    DTM and KD has a major disagreement and works things out. They discuss how to keep a marriage strong and how they did it. It's a must hear. Shout out to our podcast making the top 100 list for relationships on FeedSpot https://www.feedspot.com/fs/tk/GEbRwGIh4%2Bgd4%2BpG18odyhRI%2BrmSTebvGxLjStjIGM8RGsa5ZCDqHBsUFhrczBrREQ7A9Y9S8PYc6eQe3McaxdtQ%2BfiiJvMeWSUhWN7EFQkeRvfhoV3hHEoWFVgUBFrHElEBr6BOHxdZGiBTF%2F1PCQ5SA%2BSRSiYqWODwSwn6SgITH8q3Xx%2Fl5xzXEFgW%2BCP%2F4EH65Y9dKChKFRBKEfZPBdsOCPmeTvD2SyAdURMMWwk%3D Sponsored by: Indulging in Pandora's Box! DTM's new book that drops 4/11/25 on AMAZON and Kindle Fire!

    It's giving MEAN GIRL S2Ep9

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2025 119:19


    In this episode we discuss a major breakup and why it seems wrong. Free MONEY for listeners. Sign up TODAY This free app gets you cash back on gas! Use promo code CNABD to get an extra 15¢/gal bonus on your first purchase. https://upside.app.link/CNABD

    She weaponized his venerability ft Arielle S2Ep8

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2025 81:45


    In this episode we discuss a wife that convinced her husband to try something new, then talked about him when he did. What would you do in this case. Sponsor: Upside! Get money back off of money YOU'RE ALREADY spending. This free app gets you cash back on gas! Use promo code CNABD to get a $10 bonus on your first purchase. https://upside.app.link/CNABD

    Who was the side Friend?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2025 94:03


    In this episode see who felt like a side friend. Has this Eve been your story? What did you do

    My Girl Never Told Me She Slept With My Cousin S2EP6

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2024 93:50


    How long do you wait to tell the person you're dating EVERYTHING about you? Who was wrong in this episode, the girlfriend or the cousin? Sponsor: Upside Check out this free app that gets you cash back on gas and other errands! Click this link or use promo code CNABD to get an extra 15¢/gal bonus the first time you make a purchase. https://upside.app.link/CNABD If you're not using Upside You're living life UPSIDE DOWN

    The Dog Gets More Love Than The Man S2EP5

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2024 80:08


    In this episode we discuss how communication is broken between men and women. You'll understand what your dog needs or wants but never put in the time to see what your man needs or wants. Sponsor: Upside Check out this free app that gets you cash back on gas and other errands! Click this link or use promo code CNABD to get an extra 15¢/gal bonus the first time you make a purchase. https://upside.app.link/CNABD If you're not using Upside, you're living life upside down. Get upside NOW!

    Losing my Attraction to My Man S3Ep3

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2024 122:32


    Shout out to our sponsor UPSIDE! A way to get paid off the money you're ALREADY going to spend. Best cash back app around. Check out this free app that gets you cash back on gas and other errands! Click this link or use promo code CNABD to get an extra 15¢/gal bonus the first time you make a purchase. https://upside.app.link/CNABD

    Do You Parent out of FEAR or LOVE feat: C-R S3EP2

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2024 100:54


    In this episode our good friend and sister C-R a.k.a Carrie comes through and drop some gems! We bring her out of retirement in the rap game too. Check us out as we discuss raising kids in this day and age.

    She went on Vacation WITHOUT me S3EP1

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2024 121:08


    As we return with Season 3 in a new location: KD, KEKE and DTM Is back with new fun. In episode 1 we discuss a woman that leaves her dude in his time of need to go on a vacation trip that they planned together. What are your thoughts?

    SEASON 2 FINALE

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2024 114:35


    THIS IS THE SEASON FINALE AND WE WILL BE BACK IN A NEW LOCATION WITH MORE GUEST AND MORE SEGMENTS AND MORE FUN

    My mom is team X in front of my NEW S2EP25

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2024 84:30


    If you want to support the show here is how you can do it: $infinitystudios106 In this episode we were getting attacked by killer bees the entire show. we also talk about the best GET BACK on someone you dislike or are at odds with. We discuss how people don't keep secrets once you die. What makes people tell secrets once a person dies? Dating my sibling but not knowing it was my sibling, what would you do? KD didn't put DTM on her DND bypass list! Reality Check: What would you do if your mom was team X in front of team new? Shout out to our sponsors: @MadalkoMedia on everything. if you want to capture that special moment with a video or pictures, this is where you want to go. The price is right, and their skills is tight. A picture is worth a thousand words, but a video is worth a lifetime. Let's make memories together with Madalko Media Second Sponsor: Chime- want a bank account that really cares about you and your money? Get paid up to 2 days sooner, take advantage of the spot me service which means you can borrow up to $220 with no additional fees. you deserve to be with a bank that puts you first! hit the link, sign up and setup your direct deposit. Chime will do the rest. https://chime.com/r/diontedonald3?c=s You'll thank me later! #coachdtm #podcast #realitycheck #yagirlkd #rrpkeke #relationshipreality #nodiddy #fyp

    The DTM BreakDOWN! S2EP24

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2024 84:47


    In this episode, as always we get H.O.T Humble Open and Transparent. DTM gets a breakthrough and share it with the girls that makes them all breakdown.  Cashapp: $foreverandbeyond if you want to donate to the show. 

    Divorce after 39 years is WILD S2EP23

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2024 70:26


    In this episode we talk about a famous personality getting a divorce after 39 years.  We miss KEKE and can't wait until she returns next week.  We help a listener out when they tell us that they got in trouble for getting alone with their spouses dad. Is this crazy? Don't you want your person to get along with your family?      Shout out to our sponsors: @MadalkoMedia on everything. if you want to capture that special moment with a video or pictures, this is where you want to go. The price is right, and their skills is tight. A picture is worth a thousand words, but a video is worth a lifetime. Let's make memories together with Madalko Media    Second Sponsor: Chime- want a bank account that really cares about you and your money? Get paid up to 2 days sooner, take advantage of the spot me service which means you can borrow up to $220 with no additional fees. you deserve to be with a bank that puts you first! hit the link, sign up and setup your direct deposit. Chime will do the rest. https://chime.com/r/diontedonald3?c=s You'll thank me later! 

    I am not dying for my wife S2EP22

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2024 82:00


    Would you Die for your significant other? Would you miss your child's birthday party if your current wife/husband is not invited? How do you set boundaries and expect them to be respected if you've never had them before?  Shout out to our sponsors: @MadalkoMedia on everything. if you want to capture that special moment with a video or pictures, this is where you want to go. The price is right, and their skills is tight. A picture is worth a thousand words, but a video is worth a lifetime. Let's make memories together with Madalko Media    Second Sponsor: Chime- want a bank account that really cares about you and your money? Get paid up to 2 days sooner, take advantage of the spot me service which means you can borrow up to $220 with no additional fees. you deserve to be with a bank that puts you first! hit the link, sign up and setup your direct deposit. Chime will do the rest. https://chime.com/r/diontedonald3?c=s You'll thank me later! 

    Breaking up with the UNBREAKUPABLE S2E21

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2024 86:03


    DTM and KD recap their Date Night experience Is it crazy to expect you to adopt to my MUST in a relationship? Do you agree with giving your spouse a curfew?  Keke said it's a thin line between a man keeping you safe and a man being controlling, do you agree? How do you break up with someone who is not getting the clear message? do breakups blow over? motivational message: Most people want CHANGE but you don't want to CHANGE! SPONSOR: Madalko Media on all social media platforms movie clip: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTNvq7ECp/  

    He Can't Be A Step Parent to His Girls Kids S2E20

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2024 84:30


    We get deep in this episode and discuss real life. Is it possible to be with someone who has kids but know that you can't be a stepparent?  Reality Check: Hello to my favorite podcast family. My name doesn't matter but I'm straight out of Florida. Me and my girlfriend have been rocking for about 7. Year 1 was extremely rough because we both kept sleeping around on each other. We sat down and had a real heart to heart about what we wanted in life and since then it's been simply amazing. I'm even thinking about proposing soon. Here is where the problem lies. Her sister has been there since day 1 and still sees me as the cheater from year one. She also makes uncomfortable advances towards me that I just laugh off. I keep my distance but it's mad weird. How do I tell my girlfriend I no longer want to be around her sister? I can't relax around her without her trying me. They are extremely close like best friends. Help me. What would you tell our realist? sponsor: Can we give you $100? who doesn't like free money. All you have to do is hit the link and sign up for CHIME. Also, setup direct deposit and deposit your payroll check in your new account. Join me on Chime and we'll each get $100. Terms apply. https://chime.com/r/diontedonald3?c=s let's get the bag together!  

    THE HUG HEARD AROUND THE WORLD S2EP19

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2024 62:00


    My kids said Hawk Tuah? The kids think KD is Suge Knight or Debo. We discuss the most disrespectful hug in 2024 who knew Jada had a disease? Not DTM in this REALITY CHECK we go deep, do you think you can compete with the dead? Sponsors: Madalko Media is the GO TO media company! You want a free $100 plus $10 more spot me bucks? I have the perfect solution for you. tap the link below and setup direct deposit with your job within 45 days and GET PAID! HTTPS://CHIME.COM/R/DIONTEDONALD3?C=S #coachdtm #podcast #rrpkeke #yagirlkd #realitycheck #hug #RELATIONSHIPREALITYPODCAST

    Karma is a Real Thing S2EP18

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2024 71:57


    We introduce our NEW INTRO! Let us know what you think about it. We play a new game called Sitcom Sipping. KD tells us about her view on Karma. And this Reality Check is off the chains. Sponsor: Madalko Media @Madalkomedia on all social sites.

    STOP TRYING TO BUILD YOUR MAN/WOMAN S2EP17

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2024 64:22


    In this episode we discuss a ton of life lessons. When should you cut off a family member from your kids life if you notice they are toxic? How often are you caught trying to build your mate when he/she is clearly NOT ready to grow? Are you thinking you can change your partner even when they tell you they DON'T WANT SOMETHING? Ever had someone in your life that wanted you to do better but not better than you? What did you do about it? Sponsors: Madalko Media IG- @Madalkomedia #podcast #coachdtm #realitycheck #rrp #RelationshipRealityPodcast #yagirlkd #rrpkeke #podcasts

    Healthy Alone Time vs Dangerous Alone Time S2Ep16

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2024 73:18


    In this episode we discuss how you should be ALONE! We try to save a relationship where being the middle man goes wrong and so much more! Let us know your thoughts.

    Navigating Love and Hardships: From Family Ties to Deal-Breaker Professions

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2024 68:49 Transcription Available


    Welcome back to another dynamic episode of "Navigating Love and Hardships"! In this episode, KD, Kiki, and Coach DTM dive into personal and relatable topics that resonate deeply with many of us. We kick off with KD sharing her son's graduation and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with it. Kiki and Coach DTM follow suit, reflecting on their busy and eventful June filled with birthdays, surprises, and family gatherings. The conversation then shifts to a deep discussion about a listener's dilemma: choosing between staying close to a mother in an abusive relationship or distancing oneself for self-preservation. The team shares personal experiences and insights on the complexities of abusive relationships, the impact on children, and the difficult decisions involved. They also explore the subconscious choices we make in partners, influenced by our parents and upbringing. Wrapping up on a lighter note, they play a fun game of identifying professions they absolutely could not date, with surprising and humorous revelations. From OBGYNs to police officers, the team doesn't hold back on their deal-breakers. Don't miss the heartfelt advice, the laughs, and the raw, unfiltered conversations that make this podcast a must-listen. Tune in and join the discussion!

    Male vs Female violence is out of control S2EP13

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2024 56:01


    In this episode we discuss the rise of violence between men and women. How can we STOP IT? Leave your suggestions in the comments. #coachdtm #rrpkeke #yagirlkd #rrpblu #relationshipreality #stoptheviolence

    REAL FRIENDS CHECK EACH OTHER

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2024 80:54


    DO YOU THINK ITS OK TO CHECK YOUR SPOUSE OR FRIEND WHEN THEY ARE WRONG? IF YOU DON'T FEEL COMFORTABLE, DO YOU THINK ITS TIME TO DISSOLVE THAT RELATIONSHIP? FIND OUT WHAT THE TEAM THINKS. LEAVE YOUR COMMENT ON THIS AS WELL. IS IT OK TO WEAR TOO BIG CROCS?  

    Phobia vs Preference part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2024 53:12


    We had to revisit this topic. No E was present for this one. please screen record your favorite part and post it, tag us and help us grow!!!!

    phobia vs Preference S2Ep12

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2024 90:24


    - [ ] Phobia vs preference (KD) - [ ] The benefits of scheduled sex if any - [ ] Bringing something to the table more than just SEX - [ ] If a person doesn't feel comfortable letting their friend/SO know they are wrong, should the relationship be terminated at that point? So hey guys I'm a little concerned. The people that my spouse selects on porn has no comparison to me at all. Is this an issue that I need to worry about? Reality check: Hey guys? Your show is definitely my top 5 shows to listen to. Well I need some help. Me and my girl have been together for a few years. Like 6 to be exact! Our relationship as of recent has put a wedge between my mom and I relationship. I recently found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me for the last year that I know of and to make matters worse, my mom was aware of it the whole time and never said anything. I no longer even trust my mom and my relationship is definitely over. Am I wrong? What do yall think? -Reggie

    We Had A Time Last Night…

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2024 80:23


    Reality CHECK: Hey fam, my name is Tony from California, I love the show and I know yall can give me some good advice on my issue. My wife and I have been together for 5 years married for 2. Everything is going well but I need help with one issue as of late. She has 2 sisters and it's becoming a problem that nothing is a secret with us. Even when I say DONT TELL NOBODY! I know that she tells because it will come out in a form of a joke by way of one of her sisters. It puts me in a place where I don't feel comfortable with certain things around my own wife. I have conveyed this to her but nothing changes. In fact she gets made at her sisters for spilling the beans and not herself for spilling the tea. Help me please!!!!

    MY MAN IS ONLY AFFECTIONATE IN THE MOVIE

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2024 87:29


    Be sure to like share and subscribe so you never miss an episode. Find out who was a diabolical cheater!!!!

    WHAT DO PEOPLE GET WHEN THEY GET U

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2024 74:23


    In this episode the squad goes in. DTM ask a very important question that he wants even you to answer.

    Do you have a problem with the word DISOBEYED S2EP8

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2024 89:55


    Motivational Message From DTM: Look Forward because in 6 months you'll either have 6 months of excuses or 6 months of progress

    Who's your DADDY pt2 S2EP7.5

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2024 38:15


    Listen to how we finish the conversation of Monique's Club SHAY SHAY interview

    Who's your DADDY PART 1 S2EP7

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2024 23:00


    Check out how we break down Monique interview on club SHAY SHAY from a relationship standpoint

    Can you remain friends with someone who wants more S2EP6

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2024 96:41


    IS POSSESSIVE A GOOD THING S2 EP5

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2024 109:42


    Is being possessive a good thing or is it dangerous? Happy 313 Day! This is our gift to yall!!!!

    MY IN-LAW WANT ME feat. Ms Love S2EP4

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2024 113:12


    Feat. Ms Love DTM is a HERO? Where is my key to the city Do you speak through the music you listen to Can you date someone who on Restrictions? First date conversations these days Why do KD HATE DOORS! Is there a issue with calling your ex spouse in laws Reality Check plus a Bonus

    CANT SAY THE WRONG THING TO THE RIGHT PERSON

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2024 48:50


    Show: Keke Chuckles Blu KD DTM special guest Raye - [ ] Family pictures if you're no longer a actual family. - [ ] New dudes dealing with past relationships problems - [ ] When do you give your dealbreakers after you meet someone - [ ] How do you push a kid into adulthood too soon

    Relationship Goal S2 EP2

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2024 128:23


    On this episode KEKE, KD, Jazz, Blu (no E) and Ya Boi Coach DTM discuss if you can date a person who doesn't take care of his own responsibilities. Chime in and let us know what your thoughts are.

    From Brother_Sisters to husband_wife Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2024 38:15


    Welcome Back family, in this episode DTM, KD, KeKe and our new addition Blu (no E) we break down the Monique situation from a relationship standpoint. Tap in and let us know what you think on this subject matter #kattwilliams #monique #tylerperry #oprah #RRP

    From sister_brother to husband_wife part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2024 23:00


    Welcome Back family, in this episode DTM, KD, KeKe and our new addition Blu (no E) we break down the Monique situation from a relationship standpoint. Tap in and let us know what you think on this subject matter #kattwilliams #monique #tylerperry #oprah #RRP

    Berkeley Bags episode 186

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2022 87:58


    In this episode we discuss if a woman should ever propose to a man, we talk about is it dangerous to sweep things under the rug and we heard an amazing true crime story with red wine. Shout out to our sponsors Freshstartclean365, www.4everandbeyond.com and www.theperfectperfume.com and use the promo code “Reality20” for 20% off of your final order. Get your tickets for the Movie REGRET ON 12/30.

    EP 185 Penis Approved

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2022 112:20


    In this episode we discuss if lying is really a bad thing, is it dangerous to have a friendship with the opposite sex, is it ever ok for a man to put his hands on a woman?

    We're BACK!!!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2022 102:11


    Happy Thanksgiving family we love y'all!!!!

    MM Fire My Best Friend

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2022 61:34


    What do you do if you had to fire your best friend? Is unconditional love REAL or is it just something to say? Chime in and let us know what you think.

    Left My Baby Mama Stranded

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2022 90:51


    This is a must hear episode. Let us know what you would do in this situation

    Cover My Ex Name!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2022 109:58


    What do you do if someone you were interested in had a Tattoo of their EX on their body? When do you request for a cover up or removal?

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