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This podcast will cover dating, relationships, and communication techniques to help the audience navigate TODAY'S social climate.

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    • Jun 1, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
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    • 54m AVG DURATION
    • 126 EPISODES


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    Episode 127: How do you recover from a breakup?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2022 72:56


    In this episode, I welcomed my special guest Lady J to the show to discuss how you can start to heal from a breakup. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 126: I didn't lose the love, I just ran out of patience

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2022 30:01


    In this episode, I discuss how love isn't enough to sustain a relationship after losing patience with adverse behavior. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 125: Are you living your life as an imposter? w/Theo Brown

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2022 91:17


    In this episode, I invite my special guest Theo Brown to the show to discuss imposter syndrome and what we do as people to cope with it. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 124: How do I regain control of my chaotic life? w/Reece McNeil

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2022 69:24


    In this episode, I invite my special guest Reece McNeil to the show to discuss how self-love can help you maintain control in a life of chaos. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 123: What do I owe you after going on a few dates?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2022 60:38


    In this episode, I welcome my special guest Jay Christian to the show to discuss the expectations that men and women have after just a couple of dates. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 122: Loving yourself starts with knowing yourself.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2022 59:44


    In this episode, I invite my guests Colleen Saftler and Tara Danielle Dervin to the show to talk about self-love and to introduce their stage play "Dating Myself". Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 121: What does healing really look like? w/ Altagracia Felix

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2022 84:05


    In this episode, I welcome my special guest Altagracia Felix to discuss what healing really looks like as opposed to what we think it is. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info Altagracia Felix: www.instagram.com/r2ecoach

    Episode 119: Don't let the validation monster consume you.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2022 55:10


    in this episode, we talk about how our need for constant validation can consume us and change us into something we aren't. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 118: Are you dating or doing heavy construction?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2022 25:53


    In this episode, we discuss the difference between normal dating and the desire to construct the perfect situation for yourself. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 117: What does effective communication look like" w/ Raeven Wood

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2022 55:06


    In this episode, I invite Communication Coach Raeven Wood to the show to take a deep dive into what effective communication should look like. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 116: What's the big deal about masculine and feminine energy?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2022 69:12


    In this episode, I invite my special guest Angie Renee to the show to discuss why people are so concerned with masculine and feminine energy. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 115: The KID inside you is making all of your decisions.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2022 74:58


    In this episode, I invite my special guests Erica Warren and Bernadette Jackson to the show to discuss childhood trauma. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 114: Life, Love, and Relationships in 2022 w/ Calicia Patrice

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2022 61:20


    In this episode, I invited my special guest Calicia Patrice from www.helloblackman.com to the show to talk about the new year and what we should look forward to in our relationships. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 113: Are you a people pleaser?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2022 43:03


    In this episode, we do a deep dive into the pros and cons of people pleasers. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 112: Do you have a roster or a rotation when dating?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2022 66:34


    In this episode, I welcome my special guest DeLashawn Bordeaux to the show to help us discuss multiple dating. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 111: Decoding the mentality behind predatory dating practices.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2021 111:40


    In this Episode, Ursula from the Black Girls Getting Their SHIFT Together podcast took over my show in order for me to be the special guest. We took a deep dive into predatory dating practices. This is an episode that you definitely don't want to miss. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 110: How valuable are you in a relationship?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2021 66:32


    In this episode, I welcome my special guest Jerrell from the Good Men Exist Podcast to help me with this topic. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 109: I'm doing everything that I'm supposed to and we still can't connect.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2021 63:01


    In this episode, I welcome my special guest Angela Sheree of the Every Evolving Podcast to the show to help us understand this topic. Angela Sheree: www.instagram.com/theeverevolvingpodcast Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 108: Your comfort zone is the real-life Fantasy Island."

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2021 43:01


    In this episode, we explore how your comfort zone isn't really comfortable. It's a false sense of comfort like a fantasy that ultimately becomes a prison. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 107: Why can't you manage your emotions?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2021 58:55


    In this episode, we discuss emotions and why most of us don't understand how to mange them. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 106: You seek toxic relationships because thats the only way you can feel something.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2021 62:32


    In this episode, I discuss how some people are so used to dysfunctional relationships that they seek them out in order to feel loved. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 105: Stop using your trauma as a badge of honor. w/ Altagracia Felix

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2021 75:33


    In this episode, I invite my special guest Intuitive Money & Trauma Coach, Altagracia Felix to the show to discuss how some people use their trauma as a badge of honor instead of working on healing from it. Altagracia Felix: www.instagram.com/r2ecoach Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 104: Your mental health could be affecting your relationship health.

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2021 70:10


    In t his episode, I welcome my special guest Rhonda M. Wood to the show. As a mental health advocate, she shares her insight on some of the issues we face daily that we don't realize affect our mental health. Rhonda M. Wood: www.instagram.com/rhondamwood1 Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 103: Are you catering to your partner or just pacifying them?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2021 39:12


    In this episode I do a deep dive on how some relationships we don't always cater to our significant other, we do things to simply shut them up. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode102: Surprise interview with Derrick Jones of The Relationship Gumbo Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2021 99:13


    In this episode, my FRIEND Ursula from the Black Girls Getting Their Shift Together Podcast surprised the audience by introducing ME as the surprise guest. This was a very informative and impactful show and a deep dive into the Relationship Gumbo brand. You definitely want to take a listen to this one. Relationship Gumbo - www.relationshipgumbo.info Ursula B. - https://blackgirlsgettingtheirshifttogether.com/

    Episode 101: Are you raising the very person that you have grown to despise?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2021 60:24


    This episode, it's all about PARENTING. Are we raising our kids to be the very people that we hate dating? We take a deep dive into this on this episode. Relationship Gumbo - www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 100: Blind Relationship Questions and 100th Episode Celebration

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2021 131:09


    In this episode, we celebrate the Relationship Gumbo Podcast's 100th episode. I invite a special panel of friends to help with the celebration and answer questions that they won't know what they are before the show. Panel: Jon Singletary Tony Watts Tony Massey Gunter Man Calicia Patrice T'shura Lamar Erica Warren

    Episode 99: How do you deal with breakup trauma? w/ Felisha Johnson

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2021 77:40


    In this episode, I invite my special guest, Trauma Coach, Felisha Johnson, to the show to discuss how we deal with breakup trauma and how we can work our way through it. Felisha Johnson: IG: www.instagram.com/iam.felishajohnson Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 98: The toxic side of love languages

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2021 47:42


    In this episode, I discuss some of the toxic ways that we show love or lack thereof. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 97: The way you fight means something. Lets Talk About it!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2021 43:59


    In this episode, I break down the different ways that we behave during conflict and how it could affect your relationship. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 96: Stop expecting your partner to read your mind.

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2021 78:01


    In this episode, I welcome my special guest Tony Watts to the show to discuss why we sometimes expect our partners to read our minds. Tony Watts - www.instagram.com/iamtonyawatts Relationship Gumbo - www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 95: Have your dating muscles gotten weak?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2021 55:50


    In this episode, I invite my special guest T'Shura Lamar to the show to discuss how your fear of dating sometimes comes from a lack of social interaction. T'Shura Lamar - www.instagram.com/tshuratalks Relationship Gumbo - www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 94: How do you give love if you don't have any left to give?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2021 77:02


    In this episode, I welcome my special guest CeCe to the shoe to discuss why its so difficult to love again. CeCe - www.instagram.com/fromthemindofcece Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 93: Can your positivity ever be toxic to others? w/ Reece McNeil and Mike Walton

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2021 72:11


    In this episode, I welcome my two guests, Mike Walton and Reece McNeil to discuss just how toxic positivity affects our lives. Reece McNeil - www.instagram.com/reeceinspires Mike Walton - www.instagram.com/themaninitiative Relationship Gumbo - www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 92: How do you find yourself after losing yourself? w/ "GunterMan"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2021 61:48


    In this episode I welcomed my special guest "GunterMan" to the show to help discuss how you can find yourself again after losing yourself in a relationship. GunterMan - www.instagram.com/soapboxstandupandspeak Relationship Gumbo - www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 91: Is traditional dating on life support? w/ Cortney V.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2021 86:34


    In this episode, I invite my special guest Cortney V. to the show to discuss the current state of traditional dating. This show was definitely a fun and informative one. Cortney V.: Instagram www.instagram.com/theebarbieway Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 90: Are you living in a haunted house?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2021 27:17


    In this episode, we tackle the idea that your home isn't a place of peace. Are you holding onto old traumatic memories that stop you from seeing your home as a safe space? Are you haunted by the ghosts of trauma past? Tune in and hear the discussion. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 89: What does SELF-CARE mean to you?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2021 62:19


    In this episode, we talk about all things SELF-CARE. I have my special guests Lawann Stribling, Paulette Simone, and Losia Nyankale on to help define what self-care is and their explanations of how they handle it in their personal lives. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 88: Are you a fatherless daughter?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2021 55:29


    In this episode, I welcome my special guest Bernadette Jackson to the show to share her story of being a fatherless daughter. She also shares why she started to help other women understand how being a fatherless daughter is part of her brand. Bernadette Jackson: www.instagram.com/bernadettenjackson Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 87: Are you living your life in survival mode?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2021 44:50


    In this episode, I do a deep dive into what it means to live your life in Survival Mode? Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 86: What do relationship-minded men really want" w/ Clarence Singleton

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2021 99:56


    In this episode, I invite my special guest, Clarence Singleton to the show to discuss some of the things that relationship-minded men want when looking for a long-term partner/wife. Clarence Singleton: www.instagram.com/clarencesingleton Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 85: Why don't black women feel protected by black men?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2021 100:46


    In this episode we take a deep dive into the reasoning behind why black women don't feel protected by black men. I invite my special guests, Alicia-Dove Jones, Erica Warren, and Alexis Green to the show to discuss this very emotional and important topic. Erica Warren's IG: www.instagram.com/dopediscussions_pod Alicia Dove-Jones: www.aliciadoverealtor.com Alexis Green IG: www.instagram.com/lexamour Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 84: Are you sleeping with the ENEMY?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2021 27:30


    In this episode, I talk about how we can create an enemy in our partners in our own heads. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 83: Are we holding ourselves ACCOUNTABLE?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2021 37:01


    In this episode, I discuss how we need to hold ourselves accountable for our actions as well as some of the outcomes that happen because of those actions. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 82: Where does your NO NEW FRIENDS mentality come from?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2021 46:16


    In this episode, I discuss how we sometimes evolve into people who do not want to have any new friends ever again and where that mindset might originate from. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 81: Are you AFRAID to date again?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2021 29:50


    In this episode, we tackle what it feels like to be apprehensive of getting back out on the dating scene after being disappointed time and time again. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 80: Are you a STRONG woman or a STEAMROLLER?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2021 31:00


    In this episode, I define what a STEAMROLLER is and how the word strong woman is commonly misused. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 79: Do you need to rethink your relationship goals?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2021 35:10


    In this episode, I discuss how we come up with our goals in our relationships and are they realistic. Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 78: The dangerous game of manipulation. w/Maya Avery

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2021 51:26


    In this episode, the focus is on manipulation and how people use it to their advantage. I welcome my special guest Maya Avery to the show to discuss the topic as well as introduce her new book "Being Delilah" Maya Avery - www.mayaavery.com Relationship Gumbo - www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 77: Why do some of the strongest men have the quietest voices? w/ LaTonya MeChelle

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2021 75:24


    In this episode, I invite my special guest LaTonya Mechelle of Tygereyez 360 Media Group. We discussed how some of the strongest men in public are extremely quiet when it comes to sharing emotions or feelings. LaTonya Mechelle: www.tygereyez.com Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

    Episode 76: Online dating isn't as scary as you think!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2021 47:22


    In this episode, I welcome my special guest, Dating App Coach Breana to help us understand the stigmas that are out there about online dating.   She also gives us tips on best practices when dating online.   Breana's IG:  www.instagram.com/wdycoachme   Relationship Gumbo: www.relationshipgumbo.info

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