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Life gets busy—especially with kids, work, and everyday stress. But research shows that couples who consistently make time for each other are significantly happier in their marriages. This week, we're talking about why date nights matter more than you think. We'll tackle common obstacles couples face, like exhaustion, busy schedules, lack of childcare, and awkward conversations. Plus, you'll hear simple and practical tips to help you reconnect with your spouse—even in the busiest of seasons. Guests: Dr. Greg & Erin Smalley Check out our newest Hot Topic Kit: Healthy Dating & Boundaries. Follow-up Resources: Take the Date Night Challenge: 52 Creative Ideas to Make Your Marriage Fun by Greg & Erin Smalley Date Night Conversation Starters from Greg & Erin Smalley Q&A: How often is "normal" for having sex in marriage? (video)
Retired emergency department nurse Amy Dinaburg discusses her article "Lowercase PTSD: Why emergency staff are still hypervigilant." Amy reflects on the relentless pressure of the COVID-19 pandemic where nurses were forced to override their nervous systems to keep patients alive. She describes the concept of "Lowercase PTSD" as the result of prolonged exposure to death and uncertainty rather than a single catastrophic event. The conversation highlights how the "hero" narrative often masked a survival mode that many staff are still struggling to turn off years later. Amy explains that healing requires small recalibrations, like consciously softening the body and allowing rest without earning it, to move from unconscious reactivity back to feeling fully alive. Partner with me on the KevinMD platform. With over three million monthly readers and half a million social media followers, I give you direct access to the doctors and patients who matter most. Whether you need a sponsored article, email campaign, video interview, or a spot right here on the podcast, I offer the trusted space your brand deserves to be heard. Let's work together to tell your story. PARTNER WITH KEVINMD → https://kevinmd.com/influencer SUBSCRIBE TO THE PODCAST → https://www.kevinmd.com/podcast RECOMMENDED BY KEVINMD → https://www.kevinmd.com/recommended
Episode 731 - Many people feel stuck in life, but the real issue often isn't motivation, discipline, or intelligence. The real block is operating in survival mode.When your nervous system is stuck in stress, fear, doubt, and constant worry, your brain prioritizes safety instead of growth. This keeps you replaying old patterns, overthinking decisions, and focusing on problems instead of possibilities.In this podcast I break down:What survival mode actually looks like in everyday lifeWhy stress, fear, and worry keep you repeating the same resultsHow dwelling on the past and worrying about the future traps your attentionPractical steps to regulate your nervous system and shift from surviving to thrivingOnce you learn how to shift your internal state, you can start creating the life you actually want instead of reacting to circumstances.MY PRODUCTS AND COACHING:
Occupational medicine physician and life coach Claudine Holt discusses her article "Nervous system dysregulation vs. stress: Why 'just relaxing' doesn't work." Claudine challenges the common advice to treat burnout with self-care like massages or vacations. She explains that for many, stress is not a mindset issue but a physiological state of the nervous system. The conversation highlights how behaviors like perfectionism and people-pleasing are actually adaptive survival strategies, not character flaws. Claudine argues that when the body is stuck in a fight-or-flight state, relaxation actually feels dangerous. She advocates for "bottom-up" somatic approaches rather than willpower or cognitive therapies alone. Discover why healing requires updating the nervous system's safety cues rather than just trying to force calm. Partner with me on the KevinMD platform. With over three million monthly readers and half a million social media followers, I give you direct access to the doctors and patients who matter most. Whether you need a sponsored article, email campaign, video interview, or a spot right here on the podcast, I offer the trusted space your brand deserves to be heard. Let's work together to tell your story. PARTNER WITH KEVINMD → https://kevinmd.com/influencer SUBSCRIBE TO THE PODCAST → https://www.kevinmd.com/podcast RECOMMENDED BY KEVINMD → https://www.kevinmd.com/recommended
In this episode of Conversations With Toi, I'm getting real about something far too many of us normalize—survival mode. It's that constant state of pushing, grinding, and functioning on fumes, where you're doing everything except actually living. But here's the truth: survival mode may help you get through a moment, but it was never meant to become your lifestyle.We'll break down what survival mode really is, the subtle and not-so-subtle ways it shows up in your daily life, and how it quietly steals your joy, peace, and presence. From emotional numbness to over-functioning to feeling disconnected from the things you once loved, we'll explore the signs that you may be stuck in a cycle you didn't even realize you were in.Most importantly, I talk about the path out—how to reclaim rest, joy, intention, and the fullness of your life. You deserve more than just “getting by.” You deserve to thrive.If this episode speaks to you, stay connected with me for more conversations on wellness, intentional living, and emotional growth.Follow me on all social platforms @Toitimeblog and visit the blog at www.toitime.org.
What if the version of “success” you've been chasing is actually keeping you stuck in survival mode?In this episode, I sit down with author and coach Jon Rosemberg to talk about what it really means to move from high-functioning survival into genuine thriving. Jon shares his deeply personal story of growing up in Caracas, Venezuela, living in chronic vigilance, and eventually discovering that achievement and productivity were not the same thing as peace, agency, or well-being.This conversation hit me on a very personal level. So much of what Jon shares mirrors my own journey of questioning performance-based definitions of success, asking whether external accomplishments actually create the feeling I'm looking for, and realizing that thriving often has much more to do with connection, meaning, and agency than with metrics.We talk about the body's role in helping us recognize survival mode, how to challenge the beliefs that keep us trapped in proving and performing, and Jon's practical AIR framework: Awareness, Inquiry, and Reframing.If you've ever felt like you're doing all the “right” things but still feel off, disconnected, or chronically on edge, this conversation is for you.Here's what you'll learn:Thriving is not the same as successSurvival mode can look high-functioningSomatic awareness mattersAgency can be practicedConnection is essential to thrivingLINKSFollow Jon on InstagramVisit Jon's website to learn more about his bookMeaningful Work with Tamara Myles and Wes AdamsDefining and Feeling Success --------------The Grow the Good Podcast is produced by Palm Tree Pod Co.
Mike Ochsner, founder of Vision Training, a performance neurology practice that helps high capability entrepreneurs, executives, athletes, and tactical professionals overcome focus issues, cognitive overload, and stress driven performance drops by addressing the neurological systems underneath their struggles.Through simple but highly targeted vision, balance, and breathing drills, Mike guides clients to release the neurological emergency brakes that make focus, learning, and high pressure performance harder than they should be, often creating measurable change in just minutes.Now, Mike's personal journey through 15 plus concussions, burnout, and years of pushing harder only to find his brain hitting the brakes demonstrates how transformational it can be when you stop fighting your nervous system and start working with it.And while helping high performers reclaim abilities they thought were gone for good, he is also navigating the tension of impact and availability as a solopreneur on the road, simplifying his business so he can protect time for faith, family, and the relationships that ground him.Here's where to find more:https://VisionTraining.comhttps://ADHDAdvantage.comhttps://PeakBrainReboot.comhttps://RedDotMastery.com < Tacticalhttps://RealWorldGunfightTraining < Tacticalhttps://www.facebook.com/DryFireOx < Tactical________________________________________________Welcome to The Unforget Yourself Show where we use the power of woo and the proof of science to help you identify your blind spots, and get over your own bullshit so that you can do the fucking thing you ACTUALLY want to do!We're Mark and Katie, the founders of Unforget Yourself and the creators of the Unforget Yourself System and on this podcast, we're here to share REAL conversations about what goes on inside the heart and minds of those brave and crazy enough to start their own business. From the accidental entrepreneur to the laser-focused CEO, we find out how they got to where they are today, not by hearing the go-to story of their success, but talking about how we all have our own BS to deal with and it's through facing ourselves that we find a way to do the fucking thing.Along the way, we hope to show you that YOU are the most important asset in your business (and your life - duh!). Being a business owner is tough! With vulnerability and humor, we get to the real story behind their success and show you that you're not alone._____________________Find all our links to all the things like the socials, how to work with us and how to apply to be on the podcast here:https://linktr.ee/unforgetyourself
Like the show? Show your support by using our sponsors. Promotive can help you find your dream job. Touch HERE to see open jobs. Need to update your shop systems and software? Try Tekmetric HERERegister NOW for Tekmetric's Tektonic Conference coming up HERELaunch your tool game to the next level with Launch Tech USA! HEREIn this episode, Jeff is joined by JeanAnn SaintGrace, host of the BRAND NEW podcast in the Changing the Industry Network "Shop Talk Her Way". She's also an automotive shop coach and former shop owner. JeanAnn shares her journey from accidental shop ownership to building a business focused on profitability, people, and succession planning. Together, they discuss the importance of protecting technicians' pay and treating them like "racehorses," strategies for consistent profit to secure employee futures, and the emotional realities behind leadership and preparing for unexpected life events.Click here to listen to JeanAnn's podcast "Shop Talk Her Way"Timestamps:00:00 "Envying the Natural Puzzle Guys"19:50 "Managing Reputation in Business"25:14 Husband-Wife Power Dynamics in Business32:37 Technician Dynamics and Customer Communication41:43 "Survival Mode and Unequal Pay"57:25 "Challenges of Running a Shop"01:03:40 "Challenges of Transparency in Sales"01:14:02 "Proof Her Method Works"01:29:25 "Have a Plan for Uncertainty"01:42:32 Work-Life Balance Perspectives01:49:59 "Finding Purpose Through Positivity"01:58:19 "Resilience, Connection, and Legacy" Follow/Subscribe to the show on social media! TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jeffcompton7YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheJadedMechanicFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100091347564232
Send a textWhat if you didn't have to leave your life to feel spiritual anymore? This conversation dives into March 2026 as a turning point where we stop escaping to the 5D and start embodying it in real time. We look at why the “split reality” coping pattern once protected us, how the collective ratio has tipped toward higher frequency energy, and what it means to anchor that shift into work, relationships, creativity, and choices—without the crash.We walk through the glass-of-juice metaphor to explain density giving way to clarity and translate that into daily practices: noticing when the mind feeds fear, pausing before the old story takes over, and reclaiming energy to fuel what we do want. Instead of chasing a perfect future and burning out, we show how to take small, quality steps that create immediate evidence—email the collaborator, set the boundary, schedule the deep-focus hour—so presence becomes the power source. When bottlenecks appear, we frame them as integration, not failure, and share ways to breathe, digest, and let the body catch up to the upgrade.Along the way we talk about ending fragmentation at work and at home, weaving 4D creativity into the 3D calendar, and trusting that spiritual alignment can feel surprisingly ordinary. Expect practical guidance for redirecting attention, elevating your baseline state, and staying steady through waves of momentum and pause. If you've wondered whether feeling “less spiritual” might actually be a sign of being more embodied, this is your proof point: one life, fully lived, with higher frequencies threaded through everything you do.If this resonates, follow the show, share it with a friend who's integrating big changes, and leave a review to help more listeners find this conversation. What's one place you'll bring more presence this week?Learn more about, book a session with or contact India Leigh at indialeigh.com
Have an episode suggestion? Text us!In this episode of Paige's Perspective, Paige speaks directly to those who feel like they are just surviving each day.If you feel mentally, emotionally, and physically exhausted… if simple decisions feel overwhelming… if you wake up feeling dread or wonder if you will ever feel stable or joyful again… you may be living in survival mode.Survival mode happens when your nervous system has been under stress for too long. Your brain starts scanning everything as a threat, your body stays in fight-or-flight, and even the smallest tasks can feel like too much. It can leave you feeling broken, unmotivated, or like you are failing at life.But there is nothing wrong with you.Your body is responding to chronic stress the way it was designed to. The challenge is that survival mode is not a place we are meant to live long term. Left unaddressed, it can take a serious toll on our mental, emotional, and physical health.In this episode, Paige explains what survival mode really is, how it shows up in everyday life, and why so many spouses and partners of those struggling with addiction find themselves stuck in this state. She also shares practical ways to begin stabilizing your nervous system and taking the first steps toward feeling safe, regulated, and capable again.If you feel overwhelmed, exhausted, or like you are barely holding things together, this episode is for you.Thriving may feel impossible right now, but it is still available to you.Find video clips and full length video from this episode on YouTube and our other social media pages!On the web:www.twfo.comSupport the Show:Buy Us a Coffee! Online Program: www.reclaiming-you.com Soberlink Device:www.soberlink.com/wheelsCheck out our blog:https://twfo.com/blogFollow us on TikTok:https://tiktok.com/@twfo_coupleFollow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/twfo_couple/Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/TWFOCoupleFollow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@twfo_coupleFind Taylor Counseling Group:https://taylorcounselinggroup.com/Donate to Counseling for the Future Foundation:Donate Here
I think a lot of women secretly want their softness back.We want to feel gentle again. We want to feel safe enough to be feminine, to be warm. But somewhere along the way, life taught us that softness isn't safe. So we built walls. We learned how to protect ourselves. We became “the strong one.”And sometimes that strength was necessary. Sometimes it helped us survive.But if we're honest… a lot of us are tired of it. In this episode, I want to talk about the tension so many women feel between strength and softness. What biblical femininity actually looks like, why the world slowly hardens our hearts, and how God becomes the place where we can finally lay our weapons down.Because true femininity isn't weakness.Gentleness isn't fragility.And softness isn't something you have to earn from the world.God is the place where our hearts learn how to soften again.Where we can be “just a girl” with a father who loves us. Scripture Mentioned:Matthew 24:12 • Proverbs 4:23 • Matthew 11:29 • Ezekiel 36:26 • 2 Corinthians 12:9 • Ephesians 6:11–17 • 2 Timothy 1:7 • John 14:27 • 2 Corinthians 10:5 • Philippians 4:8 • Matthew 5:44 • Micah 6:8 • Matthew 5:8 • 2 Corinthians 5:17instagram.com/growingthrough.pod
Everyone is talking about inflammation. Fatigue? Inflammation. Weight gain? Inflammation. Brain fog? Inflammation. But here's the truth: inflammation is often the smoke — not the match. In this episode, Dr. Kacey Wallace breaks down what chronic inflammation actually is, what it's doing at a cellular level, and why it's usually a signal that something deeper is driving immune activation. If you feel wired but tired, inflamed, reactive, foggy, or stuck — even with “normal” labs — this episode will help you understand what's really happening beneath the surface. Inside this episode: • Acute vs. chronic inflammation (and why it matters) • Why “normal” lab ranges don't always mean optimal • The Tree Model: leaves (symptoms) vs. roots (drivers) • The 5 hidden matches that keep lighting inflammation • Why biohacking fails when foundations aren't stable • 3 simple anchors you can start this week You're not broken. You're not weak. And you're not crazy for feeling like something is off. When we support your metabolism, hormones, and brain together, your weight, energy, focus, and passion begin to return. — If you're ready to go deeper, here are your next steps: ✨ Free Guide: 9 Hidden Signs Your Metabolism Is Stuck in Survival Mode www.drkaceywallace.com/hiddenmetabolicmess ✨ Adrenal Optimization Test (see your cortisol rhythm + DHEA clearly) www.drkaceywallace.com/innercalm ✨ Resiliency Reboot Program www.drkaceywallace.com/resiliencyreboot — If this episode resonated with you, please like, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs to hear that it's not “just stress.” You deserve answers.
When you're raising a child with complex medical needs, the early years can feel like one long stretch of survival mode. Hospital stays, surgeries, therapies, and constant uncertainty loom large over everything.For Cindy, that uncertainty started before her son Thoren was even born. After a routine ultrasound raised concerns, her family began a medical journey that would eventually reveal not just one rare condition, but a genetic mutation so uncommon that Thor was one of the first documented cases in the world. In this episode, Cindy shares the story of Thor's early years: surgeries shortly after birth, years of hospitalizations, and learning how to advocate for his medical needs again and again. She also talks about the emotional side of caregiving: the grief that shows up in unexpected moments, the challenges of navigating medical systems, and the complicated transition that happens when survival mode finally begins to ease. Plus, she shares her thoughtful perspectives on the importance (and difficulty) of including Thoren in as many places as possible and why that can prove to be so difficult sometimes.Finally, a big thank you to our sponsor for today's episode, Huckleberry Hiking! Learn more about how they can help make hiking more accessible for your disabled kiddo here!Links:Visit Huckleberry Hiking's website.Listen to Ep 180: Does Disability Parenting EverGet Easier?Connect with Cindy on Instagram @montanareinhard!Follow us on Instagram @the_rare_life!Join The Rare Life newsletter and never miss an update!Fill out our contact form to join upcoming discussion groups!Donate to the podcast or Contact me about sponsoring an episode.
Kamini Wood explores the disorienting "in-between" stage that occurs when a crisis ends and the pressure finally lifts. She addresses why many high achievers feel untethered or even panicked during moments of calm, explaining that when the nervous system is used to constant chaos, it struggles to trust stillness and often interprets peace as boredom or lack of purpose. Kamini discusses how survival mode often dictates our identity, and without a fire to put out, we can feel as though we have lost ourselves. Listeners are encouraged to view this uncomfortable gap not as a failure of motivation, but as a creative opportunity to shift from reactive surviving to intentional choosing. By integrating the grief of the "survival years" and practicing gentle curiosity, you can begin to discern which skills still serve you and who you want to become outside of the struggle.
Just got out of the barbershop… and the weight of what I heard followed me to the car.A barber who moved into a new apartment, week and a half in, lost everything in a fire before he could get renter's insurance. That hit different. Because it's not just him. I've got people in my world dealing with mental health battles, physical health crises, job losses, and no clear answer for what comes next. I've got others who feel stable on paper but still feel the weight of everything pressing down.So let's talk about it. The real version. Not the Wall Street version. Not the version the media will cover between Epstein headlines and political theater.Here's the truth nobody wants to say out loud:We are in it. All of us. And there is no quick fix.Layoffs at levels we haven't seen since before COVID. All-time highs in the stock market and gold while salaries refuse to keep up. Kids' sports getting more expensive. Grocery bills not dropping. Insurance costs through the roof. It's a slow squeeze and the middle class is catching the worst of it because they're trying to hold everything together.In this episode, I talk about why I told someone at the barbershop to go into survival mode and why I said it with a heavy heart. I break down what that actually means, why we need to give each other grace right now, and why realistically we're looking at 12 to 24 months before things shift… depending on what happens with policy and politics.I also get into something that fires me up every time. Money. What it really is. Why billionaires and trillionaires exist. And why the whole system is built around power and control, not prosperity.This episode isn't about doom. It's about reality. It's about understanding what's happening around you so you can make better decisions, hold your people tighter, and stop absorbing everyone else's chaos on social media.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/KXicglbEEF4As always we ask you to comment, DM, whatever it takes to have a conversation to help you take the next step in your journey, reach out on any platform!Twitter, FaceBook, Instagram, Tiktok, LinkedinDISCLOSURE: Awards and rankings by third parties are not indicative of future performance or client investment success. Past performance does not guarantee future results. All investment strategies carry profit/loss potential and cannot eliminate investment risks. Information discussed may not reflect current positions/recommendations. While believed accurate, Black Mammoth does not guarantee information accuracy. This broadcast is not a solicitation for securities transactions or personalized investment advice. Tax/estate planning information is general - consult professionals for specific situations. Full disclosures at www.blackmammoth.com.
Episode Highlights With PhoenixMost people aren't stuck, they're predictable and they're playing it safeHow to break the pattern of predictability Presence helps break the predictability issue and the overwhelm and how to do itAnxiety comes when you're living in the future or the past, not the present Why motherhood is perhaps the biggest identity shift a person can go throughHow to surrender without losing ourselves as momsWhy the perfect balance is a farce for momsHow to surrender into being ok with not being “prefect” and letting go of mom guiltNavigating trauma especially as a mom and how to do it without it becoming your identity Surrender without bypassing and how to navigate thisWhat quantum fusion is how it talks to the operating system, so it's less about wishing and more about reprogramming the hardware How things can start to shift in 17 secondsEngaging your senses to help rewire the hardware Survival mode is killing you and how to solve it… she has a free course on thisHow to reprogram your inner algorithm Her take on psychedelics and important caveats for moms to knowThey can hold a mirror that bring us back to ourselvesResources MentionedRedefining Strong - Phoenix's bookPhoenix's website Sacred Celestial - use code WellnessMama for 10% off events or ceremoniesSurvival Mode is Killing You - free online courseBioptimizersI love and use so many products from them, but I especially love the magnesium and digestive enzymes. Visit bioptimizers.com/wellnessmama and use wellnessmama15 at checkout to get the best deal
On this episode of She Rises, we’re sharing a real life update because 2026 was harder than we expected. January felt heavy, slow, and emotional. We talk about the residue from 2025, burnout after a big end-of-year push, and what it’s been like starting the year in a shedding, reflective season instead of a motivated one. This episode is for anyone feeling flat, behind, or quietly overwhelmed as the year begins and needs a reminder it’s okay to be HUMAN. A gentle listen for you today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
[327] You're booked and busy; what every business owner wants. But has over-functioning ever felt safer (or at the very least more familiar) than to say, “I feel like I'm drowning”? If the answer is yes, you're not alone. In fact, Heather Harris — nationally recognised stylist, salon owner, business leader, and celebrated speaker — knows this all too well. This week's conversation focuses on delegation. At its heart, though, it focuses on the emotional experience of the shifts you are forced to make when you start delegating: Renegotiating with yourself what success actually looks like Letting go of that part of your identity that ties success and/or value to how much you output Shifting from being an owner-operator to becoming a CEO Shifting from being a firefighter to becoming an architect in your business Because at the end of the day, delegation is an identity renegotiation, and it's about choosing where your care actually belongs. As the Founder/CEO of Spark Pro Global—an agency providing trained executive assistants—Heather's here to tell you that you can, in fact, build a business that doesn't require you to lose yourself in the process. To avail of the complimentary consultation to implement strategic delegation in your salon, graciously offered by Heather, visit Alchemy Salon Consulting and leave a note in the form saying you heard about it through the PhorestFM podcast! Otherwise, learn more about Spark Pro Global / Spark Pro Salon, listen to Heather's podcast here, and connect with her on Instagram @heather.tantrumsalon @sparkproglobal Click here to read Brittany Dennison's "Delegate to Elevate" blog, and here for the "10 PhorestFM Podcast Conversations That Quietly Said the Loudest Things" Learn more about the Phorest Summit & secure your tickets for 2027: https://www.phorestsummit.com/ Enjoyed the episode? Leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts! Click here to subscribe to the PhorestFM email newsletter or here to learn more about Phorest Salon Software. This episode was edited and mixed by Audio Z: Montreal's cutting-edge post-production studio for creative minds looking to have their vision professionally produced and mixed. Great music makes great moments.
Dr. Aimie Apigian returns to explore how unresolved trauma and chronic survival stress can evolve into fatigue, autoimmune symptoms, digestive issues, and brain fog. This conversation dives into why high-functioning, driven individuals often feel depleted despite appearing “fine,” and how nervous system dysregulation keeps the body stuck in a state of danger.Learn how restoring safety, regulating the nervous system, and repairing biology can reverse chronic symptoms and build true resilience from the inside out.Key Takeaways:Autoimmune symptoms may reflect a nervous system stuck in chronic danger mode.High-achieving, perfectionist personalities are more prone to trauma-driven depletion.Emotional overwhelm can trigger immune activation and brain inflammation.Digestive dysfunction and fatigue often stem from vagus nerve shutdown and metabolic stress.Healing begins with restoring safety and regulating the nervous system before processing trauma.Dr. Aimie Apigian Bio:Dr. Aimie Apigian, MD, MS, MPH, is a double board-certified physician in Preventive and Addiction Medicine with advanced degrees in Biochemistry and Public Health. She is the founder of The Mind-Body-Biology Institute and creator of The Biology of Trauma®, a pioneering framework that integrates medicine, neuroscience, and somatic therapies to address how trauma is stored in the body—and how to heal it. Inspired by her personal journey as a foster and adoptive mother, Dr. Aimie blends rigorous science with deep compassion to help individuals and practitioners achieve lasting transformation. Her book, The Biology of Trauma, reveals the cellular and emotional roots of fear, pain, and overwhelm, and offers a practical path to true mind-body-biology healing.The Biology of Trauma: Your Issues are Stuck in Your Tissues with Dr. Aimie Apigian
If you’ve spent years "doing the work" the diets, the supplements, the protocols but your gut symptoms and anxiety still won't budge, this episode might be the missing piece of your puzzle. We often talk about the gut-brain axis, but we rarely talk about what happens when the body doesn't feel safe enough to heal. Joining me for this deep dive is Liz McComish, an Integrated Trauma Healing Practitioner and Master of Counselling. Liz’s journey from battling addiction, eating disorders, and years of talk therapy to finding true healing through somatic work is incredibly powerful. We’re unpacking why traditional "talk therapy" often falls short and why your nervous system might be stuck in a survival loop that’s actually blocking your physical recovery. In this episode, we cover: The Somatic Shift: Why healing isn’t just a "top-down" process and why we must include the body to resolve deep-seated triggers. Survival Mode as a Default: How to recognize the signs that you’re living in a constant state of fight-or-flight without even realizing it. The "Safe Place" Connection: What it actually means to feel safe—mentally, emotionally, and physiologically—and how that safety dictates your digestion and hormone health. Intergenerational Conditioning: How childhood experiences and family patterns shape your health outcomes and stress responses decades later. Shadow Work & Health: How suppressed parts of ourselves show up as physical symptoms, burnout, and chronic gut dysfunction. Healing in the Present: Why you don’t always need to dig through every detail of your past to heal; instead, we look at how your body is reacting now. True healing isn’t about biohacking your body into submission; it’s about becoming your own safe place. If you feel "broken" or like you’ve tried everything, Liz’s message is a beautiful reminder that your body isn't working against you it's just waiting for safety. P.S. If you’ve realized that stress and your nervous system are the biggest drivers of your bloating, let's look at your unique case. You can book a free Gut Health Planning Session with me to map out a path to safety and healing. Book here. LINKS TO LIZ Website: lizmccomish.com Social links: lizmccomish_somatics LINKS TO SHERADYN: Assess your gut health in 3min HERE Follow me on Instagram HERE. Join my Private Gut Health Facebook group HERE. Book a Free Gut Health Planning Session HERE See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Have you been feeling like everything is just... harder lately? Like you're doing all the same things you've always done, but getting a fraction of the results — and running on empty in a way that a good night's sleep just doesn't fix?You're not imagining it. For a lot of ADHD women — especially those of us navigating perimenopause or menopause — there's a perfect storm happening right now. Dropping estrogen is quietly amplifying every ADHD symptom you thought you had under control. The state of the world is chipping away at your nervous system in ways you might not even be tracking. And life just keeps piling on.The result? Capacity collapse. And survival mode.In this video I'm getting honest about where I've been lately — the things I've let slip, the moment I realized what was actually happening, and the small but powerful shifts that are helping me find my way back.This isn't about productivity hacks or doing more. It's about recognizing when your tank is empty, understanding why that happens to ADHD brains specifically, and learning how to gently — and I mean gently — nurture yourself back to a place where you can actually function and enjoy your life again.If you've been white-knuckling your way through the days, minimizing your own needs to make room for everyone else's, and wondering why nothing feels good anymore — this one's for you.What you'll hear in this video:Why dropping estrogen hits ADHD women so hard (and why it can feel like being that struggling kid again)How chronic low-grade stress quietly drains your capacity without you noticingWhy pushing through actually keeps you stuck in freeze modeThe counterintuitive approach that actually worksSmall, real things that are helping me right now
What happens when life suddenly reminds you that you're not in control? In this episode, I share what I'm navigating right now and the tools I'm using to regulate my nervous system when fear, uncertainty, and overwhelm show up. When your nervous system feels shaken, positivity alone isn't the answer. The work is learning how to steady yourself, breathe through uncertainty, and return to trust one moment at a time. Tune in to learn how to regulate your body, surrender what you cannot control, and move through difficult seasons without losing your peace. Check out our Sponsors: Northwest Registered Agent - Don't wait, protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/EarnFree Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at http://Shopify.com/happy Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform built to help you connect with customers, boost engagement, and grow your business smarter. Get started for free today, or use code HAPPY50 to save 50% on Starter and Standard Plans for the first three months of an annual subscription. Just head to http://www.brevo.com/happy Working Genius - If you're a CEO, an entrepreneur, or anyone who wants to level up, Working Genius helps you drop the shame around your weaknesses and focus on what you naturally do best. Take the Working Genius assessment and get 20% off with code EARN at http://workinggenius.com Indeed - Spend less time searching, and more time actually interviewing candidates who check all your boxes. Indeed is giving Earn Your Happy listeners a $75 SPONSORED JOB CREDIT to help get your job the premium status it deserves. Just go to http://Indeed.com/podcast right now and support our show by saying you heard about Indeed on Earn Your Happy. HIGHLIGHTS Why life challenges instantly activate survival mode. The first step to calming your nervous system during uncertainty. How prayer, surrender, or faith help you regain emotional stability. One way to release what's outside your control. How compartmentalizing prevents emotional spirals. RESOURCES Apply for the Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind HERE! Get on the waitlist for Mentor Collective Mastermind HERE! Try glōci for 40% off your first order with code HAPPY at checkout - head to getgloci.com FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci
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Feeling stuck in survival mode as a Christian mom? In this episode, discover how God invites you to reimagine your life with hope, healing, and purpose—even when you cannot see the full picture yet. If you've been exhausted, discouraged, or unsure what's next, this conversation will help you begin imagining what renewal might look like in your real, everyday life. ✨ Have you ever looked around at your life and thought, “I'm doing all the right things… so why does this still feel so hard?” You love your family. You're committed to your faith. You're showing up for work, ministry, and responsibilities every single day… …but deep down, something feels off. You're tired. You're stretched thin. And if you're honest, you may have quietly stopped hoping that life could feel any different than it does right now. In this final episode of the Rhythms of Renewal series on the Mom2Mom Mentoring Podcast, we're talking about something many high-achieving Christian moms struggle to name: You may not be lacking discipline. You may not be doing anything “wrong.” You may have simply stopped imagining that things could change.
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If you've been living in constant go mode, feeling overwhelmed, reactive, or unable to truly rest, this episode is for you.I'm joined by Desi, a healer who helps women slow down, soften, and feel safe in their bodies again through inner child healing, breathwork, and nervous system regulation.We explore what survival mode really looks like, why so many women live there, and how inner child wounds and stored stress keep us stuck in reactivity. Desi shares simple, powerful tools to regulate in the moment and what “safety energy” actually feels like in the body. Connect with Desi:Instagram: @desi_barton Connect with Me:Instagram: @elyseberendsonTune in and let this episode meet you exactly where you are.
How to Stop Living in Survival Mode and Expand Your Capacity for Peace Why can't you feel peace, even when you love God and pray for it? In this episode, Dani talks about anxiety, burnout, and why so many Christian's in particular feel stuck in survival mode. You'll learn how your nervous system affects your ability to experience joy, and why peace isn't just spiritual, it's physiological. Using a simple “small frying pan” metaphor, Dani explains how emotional conditioning can shrink your capacity to receive peace, and how to gently expand it. If you're emotionally exhausted, over-functioning, or wondering why joy feels hard to access, this conversation will help you: Understand survival mode and nervous system regulation • Learn how to practice peace in everyday life • Rewire stress-based patterns with faith • Grow your capacity for joy, calm, and emotional safety This is Christian mindset work rooted in scripture, nervous system healing, and practical life coaching. You don't have to stay in survival mode. Peace is something you can learn to hold.
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Running a business doesn't stop when life gets heavy. In this episode, we talk openly about what it really means to lead with care and concern when everything feels unstable—emotionally, socially, and economically.Julia Lashay shares real-time insight from Minneapolis, where fear, uncertainty, and disruption reshaped how agents showed up for their families, clients, and communities. We unpack how survival mode impacts decision-making, why integrity shows up most clearly during hardship, and how leadership is tested when there's no clear playbook.We also explore the importance of communication, the power of community, and why silence from leaders speaks louder than words. From financial reserves to mission-driven leadership, this conversation reminds us that care isn't a slogan—it's a habit. When chaos hits, who we are becomes impossible to hide.We Talk About: [00:00] Introduction[02:33] How Do You Balance Running a Business When Your People Are in Survival Mode?[04:44] Is Care a Slogan—or a Habit Rooted in Integrity?[06:27] Why Does Community and “Your Tribe” Matter More During Crisis?[08:11] What Do You Say When You Want to Help but Don't Have Answers?[11:35] Are Phone Calls Still the Gold Standard for Showing You Care?[18:53] Are Financial Reserves the Real Difference Between Panic and Stability?[20:12] What Does It Mean to Lead With Care and Concern in Uncertain Times?[23:05] How Should Leaders Speak Up When There's an Elephant in the Room?[31:02] Can Care Be Taught—or Must It Be Lived?Resources:Learn more at The Color of MoneyBecome a real estate agent HEREConnect with Our HostsEmerick Peace:Instagram: @theemerickpeaceFacebook: facebook.com/emerickpeaceDaniel Dixon:Instagram: @dixonsolditFacebook: facebook.com/realdanieldixonLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/dixonsolditYouTube: @dixongroupcompaniesJulia Lashay:Instagram: @iamjulialashayFacebook: facebook.com/growwithjuliaLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/julialashay/YouTube: @JuliaLashayBo MenkitiInstagram: @bomenkitiFacebook: facebook.com/obiora.menkitiLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/bomenkiti/Produced by NOVAThis podcast is for general informational purposes only. The views, thoughts, and opinions of the guest represent those of the guest and not Keller Williams Realty, LLC and its affiliates, and should not be construed as financial, economic, legal, tax, or other advice. This podcast is provided without any warranty, or guarantee of its accuracy, completeness, timeliness, or results from using the information.
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If you constantly feel rushed, exhausted-but-wired, emotionally overwhelmed, or guilty when you try to rest… your nervous system might be stuck in survival mode.In today's episode, we're talking about what survival mode actually is, how hustle culture keeps us trapped there, and 10 simple, foundational habits that help your body feel safe again!Side note: This isn't about doing more, it's about giving your nervous system what it's been asking for all along
365. Overwhelmed and Stuck in Survival Mode? Try This 1-Week Reset to Feel Like Yourself Again. | Overwhelm, Organized, Routines, Schedules, Time Management, Time Blocking, Home Systems, Self Care, Planning, Task Management, High Achieving, Moms, Habits, Goals, Successful, Homemaking365. Overwhelmed and Stuck in Survival Mode? Try This 1-Week Reset to Feel Like Yourself Again. Do you ever feel like your brain has 37 tabs open… and you can't find where the music is coming from?You're answering school emails.Coordinating rides.Making dinner decisions.Managing work.Responding to texts.Remembering appointments.Carrying the emotional temperature of the whole house.And somewhere in the middle of all of that…you quietly think:“I just want everything to stop for a minute.”If that's you — this episode is your permission slip.Not to quit.Not to disappear.Not to overhaul your entire life.But to stabilize.Because what you're feeling isn't laziness.It isn't disorganization.It isn't a lack of discipline.It's DECISION FATIGUE.And it's draining you.It's time to implement my:1-Week Stabilize the System Plan Using the Thrive MethodIn this episode, I walk you through a gentle but powerful 1-Week “Stabilize the System” Reset mapped directly from my Thrive Method — so you can move from survival mode back to maintenance (and eventually thriving) without adding more to your plate.This is not a “do more” episode.It's a:simplifystandardizedelegateprotect your brainbreathe againepisode.Especially in February — when winter feels long, energy feels low, and the mental load feels heavy — this reset will help you reduce decisions, calm your nervous system, and create steadiness again.In This Episode We Talk About:✔ Why decision fatigue is silently draining moms✔ Why you feel worse at night (and it's not your fault)✔ How to reduce daily decisions immediately✔ A 1-week stabilization plan inside each Thrive category:TH R I V E You don't need a life overhaul.You need fewer choices.And this episode shows you exactly how to create breathing room again — without dropping the ball on your family.If You've Been Feeling…• Frazzled and scattered• Snappy by evening• Avoidant of simple tasks• Mentally exhausted• Like you “should be able to handle this” but can'tPlease hear me:You are not failing.You are overloaded.And there is a difference.This Episode Will Help You:✨ Lower the mental noise✨ Create stability in one week✨ Feel steady instead of spiraling✨ Move from survival to maintenance mode✨ Protect your energy instead of burning it outYou are a high-capacity woman.But high-capacity women burn out quietly.This week, we don't push harder.We STABILIZE THE SYSTEM.Hit play, take a deep breath, and let's build steadiness again — together.
Episode #138 - In this episode of The Awakened Heart Podcast, I'm joined by Elizabeth Webb — The Practical Priestess™ — a transformation coach with over twenty years of experience helping women, leaders, and creatives move out of survival mode and back into lives that actually feel good. Elizabeth is the author of the upcoming book Made for Magic: A Practical Guide from Survival Mode to Soul-Satisfying Joy, which distills two decades of coaching into a practical, accessible framework for restoring energy, strengthening intuition, setting clean boundaries, and reclaiming joy.Elizabeth and I explore the idea of hidden relationship contracts - the unspoken agreements, roles, and expectations that quietly shape our relationships over time. Many of these contracts once made sense, but when left unexamined, they can create resentment, burnout, or a loss of intimacy. We talk about how to recognize when a relational contract has expired, why so many women stay stuck tolerating old dynamics, and how empowered communication can actually deepen connection rather than create conflict.We also dive into Elizabeth's tools for navigating difficult conversations with clarity and self-respect, including how to sort out needs, desires, and preferences before making a request, how to set boundaries that truly hold, and how to approach confrontation in a way that supports intimacy instead of eroding it. Elizabeth shares practical language, frameworks, and decision-making tools that help women determine whether it's time to rewrite a relationship contract — or lovingly untether and move forward.Throughout our conversation, Elizabeth brings her signature blend of grounded wisdom and real-world application, offering guidance on building self-worth, trusting your inner knowing, and reclaiming your time, energy, and choices. This episode is for anyone who knows something in a relationship feels “off,” but isn't sure how to name it or what to do next.Elizabeth has coached executives, artists, and couples across the globe, with client work spanning New York, Spain, Sweden, and the Dominican Republic. Her work has been featured in the New York Times best-selling book Live It, Love It, Earn It, and she is known for her widely shared Love Beams notes on intuition, joy, and empowered living.This is a practical, heart-centered conversation filled with tools you can start using immediately to bring your relationships — and your life — back into alignment.TakeawaysElizabeth Webb has over 20 years of experience in self-development and coaching.Her book, 'Made for Magic,' offers practical paths out of survival mode.Coaching was in its infancy when Elizabeth started, making her a trailblazer.Understanding relational dynamics is crucial for personal growth.Hidden contracts in relationships can drain energy and need to be addressed.Setting boundaries is essential for healthy relationships.Confrontation can deepen intimacy if approached correctly.Recognizing expired relational contracts can prevent resentment.Empowered conversations require clarity on needs, desires, and preferences.Building self-worth is vital before making significant relationship decisions.Sound bites"I want to wake up in the morning.""Get your finances right.""Fast to hire, fast to fire."Connect with ElizabethWebsiteInstagramLet's Connect!WebsiteInstagram FacebookYoutubeRumbleTik TokLinkedinLinktreePodcastFREE Meditaion Guide
It's a Galentine's celebration this week as Scheana's dear friends Maddie and Cristi join her in the studio for a conversation that's raw, reflective, and full of heart. Scheana opens up about past friendship fractures, taking accountability, the roots of her people-pleasing tendencies, and how childhood trauma shaped her relationship with intimacy and self-worth. The trio also dive into the Super Bowl, from favorite commercials to the backlash surrounding Bad Bunny's halftime show, and how some of the reactions revealed deeper cultural blind spots (especially among a couple ignorant Housewives). They defend North West's creativity, address online bullying, and call out the harsh criticism aimed at Olympic athletes, reminding us that maybe it's time we start being better to each other. It's an honest, unfiltered conversation about growth, healing, and finding friendships that feel safe, supportive, and unconditional — a Galentine's episode celebrating the women who show up when you need them most. Follow us: @scheana @scheananigans Guests: @madelinelauer @thestalone Purchase your very own copy of the NYT Best-selling book & audiobook MY GOOD SIDE at www.mygoodsidebook.com! Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault, lack of consent, and childhood trauma. Listener discretion is advised. If you or someone you know needs support, you can contact the National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN) at 800-656-HOPE (4673) or visit https://www.rainn.org for confidential, 24/7 assistance.Episode sponsors:Shop at http://REVOLVE.com/GOODASGOLD and use code GOODASGOLD for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartnerNo gimmicks. No fads. This is your sign to join today. Head to weightwatchers.com/goodasgold to get a special offer for my listeners.Right now, Tonal is offering our listeners $200 off your Tonal purchase with promo code GOODASGOLD. That's Tonal.com, and use promo code GOODASGOLD for $200 off your purchase.Reality Check: Inside America's Next Top Model is only on Netflix February 16.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Dear boss babe... If you've been telling yourself, “Once this season slows down, then I'll enjoy my life,” this episode is your loving wake-up call. Because self care isn't something you earn after success — it's what creates the capacity for it. In this episode, I'm sharing: Why high achievers get stuck in survival mode The truth about your “soft girl era” Why you don't need a new life — you need better structure How to support your nervous system without dimming your ambition You are not lazy. You are not unmotivated. You are overloaded — and that's solvable. If this hit, listen to the full episode Episode 138: Is Soft Girl Era Even Real? and share it with another boss babe who needs this reminder. I'm rooting for you.
Send a textIn this episode, Kay Suthar sits down with Charmian Johnson, a former global law firm partner who made a powerful career pivot into somatic trauma-informed coaching. After nearly three decades in high-pressure legal environments, Charmian opens up about living with self-doubt, perfectionism, and imposter syndrome, and how personal loss and family trauma became the catalyst for deep inner work. Together, they explore the neuroscience behind confidence, the mind-body connection, why anxiety is felt in the body rather than the mind, and how nervous system regulation can transform leadership, visibility, public speaking, and business growth.What to expect in this episode: (00:00) – From global law firm partner to somatic trauma-informed coach (02:30) – Living with self-doubt, perfectionism, and imposter syndrome in corporate life (03:00) – Grief, addiction, and family trauma during lockdown (05:00) – Discovering somatic trauma-informed coaching (06:00) – Why anxiety lives in the body, not the mind (07:30) – The brain-body connection and nervous system safety (09:00) – Grounding techniques and nervous system regulation (11:30) – Why healing is a journey, not a destination (12:00) – Common mistakes people make when trying to self-heal (14:30) – Leaving corporate and building a business with confidence (16:00) – Nervous system safety as a strategic advantage (17:00) – Practical somatic tools for confidence and visibility (19:00) – How to work with Charmian and access her free resourcesAbout Charmian Johnson Charmian Johnson is a former global law firm partner turned somatic trauma-informed coach and narcissistic abuse specialist. After nearly 30 years in the legal profession, she retrained in neuroscience-based, body-focused coaching to help high-achieving women move out of survival mode, reclaim confidence, and step fully into their leadership. Her work supports women in regulating their nervous systems, overcoming self-doubt, and showing up visibly and confidently in their careers and businesses.Connect with Charmian JohnsonFREE Gift: Five Nervous System Secrets to Help You Show Up Confidently for Speaking and Visibility Plus a free 30-minute consultation callWebsite: https://charmjohnson.thementalwellbeingcompany.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/search/results/all/?keywords=Charmian%20JohnsonConnect with Kay SutharBusiness Website: https://makeyourmarkagency.com/Podcast Website: https://www.makeyourmarkpodcast.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kay-suthar-make-your-mark/Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/482037820744114Email: kay@makeyourmarkagency.comFREE Gifts from Kay Suthar:3 Ultimate Secrets to Getting Booked on Podcasts: https://getbookedonpodcast.com5 Simple Steps to Launch Your Podcast in 14 Days: https://14daystolaunch.com
In this episode, we are joined by Certified Life Coach & Neurosomatic Expert Dr. Amber Curtis to explore why high-functioning women often struggle to relax and why traditional mindset hacks often fail to move the needle. She explains the science behind the constant state of alert many women live in and provides the tools to move from a state of survival to true renewal.Tune in to learn:Why you cannot simply think your way out of overwhelm and how to work with your nervous system instead of against it to end the cycle of burnout.The secrets to identifying your default protective adaptations, such as the fix-it mode, that keep you stuck in a high-functioning survival state.How to shift from fixing to feeling by practicing eyes-open awareness to create the internal safety required for a lasting identity shift.The critical connection between nervous system regulation and the presence required to lead your family and your business with calm authority.If you are tired of checking all the boxes while feeling like mom rage or exhaustion is just around the corner, this session offers the body-based approach you've been looking for. Free Gift: Why Moms' Happiness is Non-Negotiable TrainingThis 10-minute on-demand video underscores why it's imperative that moms take radical responsibility for their own happiness—not just for you, but for your kids!Amber's Giveaway Contribution: 1-on-1 Coaching Session60-minute 1:1 Coaching call (a $250 value)! During our hour together, we'll run through a general assessment of how you're doing and then break down what you're struggling with to help you: 1) Think about it differently so you can then FEEL better about it (and ultimately see more optimal results), and 2) Develop a concrete action plan to improve your situationConnect with Amber: Website | Podcast | Instagram---Enter the Book Launch Celebration Giveaway!
Most people think stress is about what's happening right now. Their schedule, their workload, their kids, their health symptoms. But your body is not only responding to the present moment. Your nervous system is responding through a lens that was formed a very long time ago.Between the ages of zero and twelve, your subconscious was learning what was safe. What strength looked like. What you were supposed to do with pain. Who you were allowed to trust with your body. And most of us have never been taught to look back at that. We just assume stress is something we need to manage better.So I want you to pause for a minute and reflect. What was the narration around health and wellness in your home when you were a child. What happened when someone was sick. Was the message to push through. To wait it out. To toughen up. Was the message that doctors know best and questioning them is irresponsible. Was your body something you learned to listen to, or something you learned to override.This is not about fixing yourself. It is about understanding why your body has been doing exactly what it has been doing. And choosing to support it differently.For yourself. And for the generation growing up inside your nervous system.You are doing beautiful things and I am so proud of you. Thanks for listening! I would love to connect with you ♡ Subscribe to the Nourished Newsletter Explore the Gut Rebalance Kits Visit our FAQ's Follow along on a Instagram Take the free Gut Health Quiz Email us at customercare@onleorganics.com Sending love and wellness from my family yours,xx - Juniper BennettFounder of ōNLē ORGANICS
Send a textSo Be It: Succeed After Survival ModeSo Be It is a podcast for high-achieving women who have already survived a difficult chapter, and now feel stuck, disoriented, or unable to move forward the way they used to.If your mind knows what you want, but your body reacts with fear, shutdown, or overthinking… If pushing, forcing, or “doing more work” no longer works… If you're not in crisis, but you're no longer able to succeed the old way This podcast is for you.Hosted by Dr Amen Kaur, So Be It explores what happens after survival mode, when awareness is high, but momentum is gone.This podcast is built on true understanding - not fixing, motivating, or rushing you forward.Each episode explains what's actually happening beneath the surface: why insight alone stops creating change, how the nervous system quietly guards against expansion, and how to rebuild self-trust so decisions and action become possible again.This is not a podcast about slowing down your ambition or healing forever. Nothing here assumes something is wrong with you.Instead, So Be It offers a clear, grounded framework for learning how to grow, decide, and expand from a regulated system - so success no longer requires self-abandonment, overgiving, or burnout.Formerly The Toxic Relationship Detox, So Be It continues the same soul-led mission with a sharper focus: helping women succeed after survival, with clarity, steadiness, and inner authority.
Send a textIn Part II of this timely and honest conversation, Marriage Mondays with The Kings moves from awareness to transformation. After exploring the generational roots of the independent woman mindset, this episode focuses on how strength can be both a gift and a barrier in marriage.Independence builds resilience, work ethic, and self-sufficiency. But when survival mode turns into over-functioning, emotional guardedness, or difficulty receiving support, it can quietly create distance in relationships. Many strong women find themselves exhausted from carrying everything, struggling with trust, and unsure how to shift from “I've got it” to “We've got it.”The Kings provide practical tools for moving from survival to partnership—learning how to communicate needs, release emotional backup plans, stop over-carrying, and embrace healthy interdependence without losing identity.Because independence helps you survive. But partnership helps you thrive.Support the show
We are more self-aware than ever, and yet many people feel more stuck, anxious, and exhausted than before. Therapy culture has helped us name pain, but it often leaves us circling it. Insight increases, language expands, but healing stalls. What if the very frameworks meant to help us are quietly blocking our ability to change? This week on Win Today, Dr. Lee Warren joins me for a conversation that bridges neuroscience, faith, and lived experience. As a practicing neurosurgeon and trauma survivor, Dr. Warren explains why the brain resists healing, how survival mode hijacks our thinking, and why compulsive rumination feels productive while actually reinforcing pain. We explore the science behind neuroplasticity and the spiritual responsibility we carry to participate in our own renewal. This episode doesn't dismiss therapy, but it challenges passivity. Healing requires more than awareness. It requires agency, discipline, and the courage to rewire patterns that no longer serve life. Guest Bio Dr. W. Lee Warren is a practicing neurosurgeon, author, and speaker known for integrating neuroscience, faith, and personal experience to help people heal from trauma and transform their lives. A survivor of profound personal loss, he has spent decades studying how thoughts shape the brain and how intentional mental practices can lead to lasting emotional and spiritual renewal. He is the author of multiple books, including The Life-Changing Art of Self-Brain Surgery. Show Partners SafeSleeve designs a phone case that blocks up to 99% of harmful EMF radiation—so I'm not carrying that kind of exposure next to my body all day. It's sleek, durable, and most importantly, lab-tested by third parties. The results aren't hidden—they're published right on their site. And that matters because many so-called EMF blockers on the market either don't work or can't prove they do. We protect our hearts and minds—why wouldn't we protect our bodies too? Head to safesleevecases.com and use the code WINTODAY10 for 10% off your order. Episode Links Show Notes Buy my book "Healing What You Can't Erase" here! Invite me to speak at your church or event. Connect with me @WINTODAYChris on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and YouTube.
In this episode of the Tactical Living Podcast, hosts Coach Ashlie Walton and Sergeant Clint Walton invite first responders to reflect on a question that often goes unasked: who were you before survival mode became your default setting? Before the hypervigilance. Before the emotional armor. Before every decision carried weight and consequence. This episode explores how long-term exposure to high-stress environments reshapes identity—and how reconnecting with earlier parts of yourself can restore balance, meaning, and emotional depth without compromising strength.
Why does grief feel like survival mode long after miscarriage, infertility, and infant loss?In this episode, Miri shares her story of losing her first baby to miscarriage, walking through unexplained infertility, and grieving the death of her son Judah, who was born without kidneys and lived for six months. Together, we explore why grief doesn't follow a timeline, how loss reshapes the brain, and why people often assume you're “fine” once the tears stop.This conversation offers insight into long-term grief, faith after loss, identity shifts, and what healing really looks like when life moves on—but your grief doesn't. If you've ever felt stuck, disconnected, or unsure why loss still affects you years later, this episode is for you.Topics include: miscarriage, infertility, infant loss, long-term grief, faith after loss, emotional healing, and survival mode.
Ever notice how you can get through the day…but your body feels like it never actually powers down?You're productive.You're handling things.You're doing what needs to be done.And yet — your nervous system feels like it's been running in the background nonstop.Like too many tabs open.Like you're always slightly braced for what's next.That's survival mode.And it doesn't mean something is wrong with you.It means your nervous system hasn't been taught how to come back to baseline.In this episode, I'm sharing the five rules I live by now because I'm done living in chronic activation. These aren't “self-care tips” or mindset hacks. They're nervous-system boundaries grounded in physiology, neuroscience, and lived experience — the kind that actually change how your body feels day to day.We talk about:What survival mode really looks like when you're high-functioning and capableWhy trying to think your way out of stress keeps you stuckThe nervous-system reason rushing drains your energy faster than being busyHow to get out of your head and into your body when you're activatedWhy comparison, automatic yeses, and misaligned sleep quietly collapse your capacityWhat it takes to feel calm, clear, and present — without doing less with your lifeThis isn't about becoming chill or lowering your standards.It's about expanding your capacity so your life stops feeling like it's too much.If you're tired of managing yourself all day.If you feel successful on paper but wired and exhausted in your body.If your nervous system has been operating like it's always on-call…This episode will help you understand what's actually happening — and what to do instead.Press play if you're ready to stop living like everything is urgent and start inhabiting your life again.
What if burnout, inflammation, and "doing everything right" but still feeling awful isn't a failure—just a missing map? In this episode of Unconventional Life, host Jules Schroeder sits down with functional medicine expert, genetic strategist, and stand-up comic Dr. Sam Shay. Together, they unpack why health optimization breaks down during major life transitions, how functional medicine bridges data and lived experience, and why inflammation, genetics, and nervous system load are often the real root issues. This episode is for anyone navigating midlife transitions, chronic symptoms, or energy crashes—and it matters because without a roadmap, even the best tools won't get you where you're trying to go.
Good morning, my friends. Imagine for a moment that the thing holding you back is not a lack of willpower but an ancient, well-meaning bodyguard living inside you—your nervous system—whose single question is always, "Am I safe?" In this episode Aubrey Barr invites you into a quiet, radical reframe: the moments you call failure are often your body trying to keep you alive the only way it knows how. She begins with a plainspoken truth: most of the brilliant, driven women she works with are not lazy or broken. They have healed, sought guidance, and still hit a glass wall when visibility, rest, or receiving show up. Through intimate stories and clear examples, Aubrey shows how survival patterns—learned from childhood, burnout, postpartum seasons, and financial stress—live in memory and steer your habits, relationships, money, parenting, and creativity. Hear the four ways the nervous system shows up—fight (irritability and control), flight (busyness and distraction), freeze (procrastination and numbness), and the people-pleasing "fun" state—and recognize the ways those states have been useful and now hold you back. Listen as she traces these patterns through the lives of moms who carry everyone's emotions, creatives who wait for permission, and business owners who undercharge and overdeliver—stories that will feel like looking in a mirror. Then Aubrey flips the script: regulation comes before manifestation. Safety comes before sustainability. Your body must believe expansion is allowed before the mind can follow. She brings this idea to life with a simple, grounding somatic practice—place one hand on your chest and one on your belly, slow the breath so the exhale is longer than the inhale, and whisper, "I am here. I am safe in this moment." That small act is described here as a teaching to your vagus nerve, a tiny but profound rehearsal for a new story. With warmth and gentle authority, Aubrey weaves personal confession, professional wisdom, and practical tools into a narrative that refuses to shame and instead invites transformation. She reminds you that your next level is rarely behind more discipline; it's on the other side of a body that believes you are allowed to be seen, to rest, to receive, and to expand. By the episode's close you'll carry a new vocabulary for your inner life—a different question to ask when you catch yourself thinking, "What is wrong with me?"—and a belief that nothing is wrong: your nervous system simply learned one chapter, and now it can learn another. Aubrey signs off with an invitation to update your body's story and build without burning yourself down, leaving listeners both comforted and mobilized to begin the work of regulation and soulful expansion.
You finally slow down… but your body doesn't.In this episode of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, Vanessa De Jesus Guzman explores what happens when chronic stress becomes so familiar that it no longer feels like stress at all. For high-achieving moms, leaders, and caregivers, operating in survival mode can quietly become the baseline... making rest feel uncomfortable, quiet feel unsettling, and calm feel out of reach.Through personal reflection and real-life examples, this conversation helps name what many are experiencing but haven't fully articulated: the difference between looking calm on the outside and feeling regulated on the inside. This episode offers language, awareness, and gentle reframes for listeners who are carrying a lot, especially in times that feel heavy beneath the surface.TUNE IN TO LEARNHow to recognize stress when you're used to functioning through itWhy slowing down can trigger guilt or restlessness instead of reliefA simple reflective practice to name what you're feeling and whyHow nervous system awareness supports better leadership and parentingUPCOMING SUPPORT & RESET OPPORTUNITIESIf this episode resonated and you're craving intentional space to pause and recalibrate, here are two upcoming opportunities to continue the work:Virtual Leadership Coaching Container – February 5, 2026 (1 PM EST)A facilitated space for leaders, founders, and professionals who are holding significant responsibility while navigating internal stress and external demands.
In Episode 2 of Survival Mode vs Soft Living, we're talking about what it really means to learn how to feel safe again—in your body, your mind, and your everyday life.When you've spent a long time in survival mode, rest can feel unfamiliar, softness can feel uncomfortable, and peace can feel undeserved. This episode explores how survival mode shows up, why it's so hard to turn off, and the gentle steps it takes to create safety within yourself again.We'll talk about unlearning hyper-vigilance, honoring your nervous system, and choosing softness without guilt. This is a reminder that you don't have to stay in survival mode forever—you're allowed to feel safe, supported, and at ease.✨ If you're healing, unlearning, or slowly choosing a softer life, this episode is for you.
In today's episode, Gina discusses the distinction between mind and body in the context of stress and anxiety. Consistent feelings of safety, combined with letting time pass and rest will enhance the healing process tremendously. Through kindness and patience, the anxiety recovery process can proceed smoothly overtime. Listen in and enhance your anxiety recovery process today!Please visit our Sponsor Page to find all the links and codes for our awesome sponsors!https://www.theanxietycoachespodcast.com/sponsors/ Thank you for supporting The Anxiety Coaches Podcast. FREE MUST-HAVE RESOURCE FOR Calming Your Anxious Mind10-Minute Body-Scan Meditation for Anxiety Anxiety Coaches Podcast Group Coaching linkACPGroupCoaching.comTo learn more, go to:Website https://www.theanxietycoachespodcast.comJoin our Group Coaching Full or Mini Membership ProgramLearn more about our One-on-One Coaching What is anxiety? Find even more peace and calm with our Supercast premium access membership:For $5 a month, all episodes are ad-free! https://anxietycoaches.supercast.com/Here's what's included for $5/month:❤ New Ad-Free episodes every Sunday and Wednesday❤ Access to the entire Ad-free back-catalog with over 600 episodes❤ Premium meditations recorded with you in mind❤ And more fun surprises along the way!All this in your favorite podcast app!Quote:Trauma is not what happens to us, but what we hold inside in the absence of an empathetic witness.-Peter LevineChapters0:26 Introduction to Anxiety and Safety1:48 Understanding Survival Mode4:43 The Role of the Nervous System6:47 Accumulated Overwhelm Explained8:39 The Importance of Slowness12:59 Relearning Safety in Daily Life15:43 Addressing the Body's Response18:21 Closing Thoughts and Support OptionsSummaryIn this episode of the Anxiety Coaches Podcast, I delve into the complex relationship between our minds and bodies, particularly in the context of anxiety and stress. I explore the unsettling sensation that while our minds recognize safety, our bodies may remain entrenched in survival mode. Despite an absence of crises, many experience persistent tension and unease, akin to a smoke alarm that continues to sound even when there's no fire. This prevailing sense of alarm can be perplexing, especially when life seems stable on the surface.Throughout our discussion, I emphasize that this disconnect is not a personal failing but rather a reflection of how our nervous systems operate. The body does not always respond to logical reasoning; instead, it relies on past patterns and experiences to assess safety. With this understanding, I encourage listeners to consider how accumulated stress can lead to a prolonged state of hyper-vigilance, even in the absence of any immediate threat. I highlight that it is common for individuals to feel overwhelmed by minor stressors after enduring long periods of emotional pressure, and that recognizing these feelings is crucial to overcoming them.I also address the important concept that time alone does not heal; rather, it is the repeated feelings of safety that facilitate healing. Our nervous systems need gentle, predictable, and gradual re-exposure to a sense of safety to learn to relax. I provide practical insights on how to integrate slowness and gentleness into our lives, urging listeners to embrace moments of rest without justification. Here, I draw attention to the value of simply allowing oneself to experience emotions and sensations without the compulsion to quickly fix or dismiss them.#AnxietyRecovery #NervousSystemHealing #SurvivalMode #SomaticExperiencing #PolyvagalTheory #VagusNerveReset #MindBodyConnection #ChronicStressRelief #MentalWellness #TraumaInformed #SafetyIsASensation #BodyFirstHealing #Neuroplasticity #EmotionalRegulation #Interoception #TheBodyRemembers #GentleRecovery #HealingIsNotAWar #LogicVsSensations #AnxietyCoachesPodcast #GinaRyan #PeterLevine #StopTheBracing #BiologicalSafety #SomaticAwareness #RestAndDigest #NervousSystemRegulation #HolisticHealing #QuietConsistency #InnerPeace #ACPSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Struggling with guilt when you prioritize self-care? Learn practical ways to move from survival mode to thriving, honoring your God-given needs without apology. Ready to feel more fulfilled in life? If you're ever wanted to become a Life Coach, now's the time to look into what it's all about! Book your free discovery call where we'll explore your dreams and see if “Messy Life Transformation Coaching Certification" is a fit for you. These calls are super chill, just me with my coffee, having a real conversation about your life and where you want to go.
Why do so many people struggle with fatigue, stubborn weight gain, hormone issues, and burnout — even when they're eating “clean” and training hard? In this episode, we break down the real reason your body isn't healing and why most health advice fails to address the root cause.Joined by Lindsay Perry, this conversation dives deep into a systems-based approach to health, exploring how the gut, liver, hormones, nervous system, sleep, and stress all work together to control energy, metabolism, and long-term results.Rather than focusing on symptoms, trends, or extreme diets, this episode explains what's happening under the hood — from ATP production and mitochondrial function to cortisol regulation, nervous system balance, and metabolic flexibility. You'll learn why pushing harder often backfires and how chronic stress quietly sabotages recovery, fat loss, and hormone health.We cover:Why gut and liver health are foundational for hormones and energyHow stress and nervous system dysregulation block healing and fat lossThe role of sleep and circadian rhythm in metabolism and recoveryWhy detoxification and elimination are biological processes — not fadsHow to fuel properly based on stress, activity, and current health stateLindsay Perry brings real-world coaching insight throughout the episode, helping connect science with practical application for people who feel stuck despite doing “everything right.”If you're tired of surface-level health advice and want a clear, root-cause explanation of how the body actually heals, this episode will change how you think about health, fitness, and recovery.00:00 – Introduction & Why Most People Aren't Healing00:41 – The “March Method” & Root-Cause Health Explained01:02 – ATP, Mitochondria & Cellular Energy Basics01:19 – Hormones, Cycles & Why Balance Matters02:44 – Detox, Elimination & Why the Body Gets Stuck04:14 – Cold Exposure, Stress Adaptation & Recovery05:50 – Stress Load, Burnout & Early Cortisol Discussion07:55 – Fueling the Body: Fat vs Carbs Explained10:57 – Sleep, Circadian Rhythm & Metabolic Health12:12 – Gut Health: The Foundation of Healing15:48 – Liver Function, Detox Pathways & Hormones18:35 – Inflammation, Energy Deficits & Fatigue21:30 – Nervous System Regulation & Chronic Stress24:35 – Cortisol, Survival Mode & Weight Loss Resistance28:10 – Why Pushing Harder Makes Things Worse32:24 – Metabolic Flexibility & Long-Term Healing34:27 – Nervous System Reset & Final Takeaways35:57 – Closing ThoughtsDisclaimer:The information discussed in this episode is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. This content is not a substitute for professional medical diagnosis, treatment, or guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider before making changes to your diet, lifestyle, supplements, or health practices.