The What A Character Podcast

They'll call you selfish the moment you stop abandoning yourself for them.But they never called you selfless when it was killing you.Let them be mad.You're allowed to choose peace.You're allowed to fucking matter.And no, you don't need a reason!This is your Permission to Be Selfish.

We always talk about change, but not the wreckage left behind from the shift.The shift is ugly, but it's where growth begins. And sometimes, it's the only choice.For the ones who burned it all down, how do you rebuild when the pieces don't fit anymore? Let me know in the comments.

You can change. You can heal. But you can't rewrite the pain you caused.We talk about survival. We talk about growth. But we don't talk about the wreckage we left behind on our way to becoming better people.We romanticize redemption, but healing when you were the one who broke them? That's a different kind of hell. The shame. The silence. The guilt that lingers long after the apology.This is for the ones who were loved through the storm and set fire to it anyway. For the ones who hurt the softest hearts because they didn't know how to hold them. For the ones learning to live with what they can't undo.The past may be done, but the damage echoes. Are you brave enough to face it?

Took a sip of my own medicine.Rested. Recharged. Ready to run my mouth again!March was for my mind, my man, my people, and most of all, me.The mic was off, but the growth was loud.I'm back baby! Episodes kick back up next week!Hope you missed me.

They try to bleach the bloodline, but the Black will never leave.Black culture is part of our latinidad! We move to the rhythms, speak in the cadences, season our food with the history itself. But when it comes to claiming our Blackness? We hesitate. We deny. We erase.We've been taught to call ourselves Indio, trigueño, mestizo, anything but what we are. But no matter how much we run from it, history runs THROUGH us. The curls, the melanin, the ancestors. Still here!The lie may be loud, but the truth is louder. Are you ready to hear it?

Happy Black History Month!They tried to bury the rhythm, but it never stopped beating.The Rhythm That Remains is a story of Harlem's pulse, Langston Hughes, Black resilience, and the echoes of a fight that never ended. The struggle may have changed its tune, but the song still plays. Are you listening?

This week, we're celebrating one whole year of The What A Character Podcast. One year filled with stories, growth, and vulnerability. From exploring the depths of our favorite characters to peeling back the layers of our own, this year has been nothing short of transformative. Thank you for letting me share, for tuning in, and for being part of this incredible journey. Here's to the stories we've told, the ones we're living, and the ones yet to come.

Have you ever felt like the person staring back at you in the mirror wasn't you anymore? Like every choice you've made was less about what you wanted and more about what others expected? This week we're learning how the silent thief of conformity chips away at our authenticity, self-worth, and joy. Because staying true to yourself in a world that demands sameness is one of the bravest things you'll ever do. 

Do you ever feel like joy is a luxury you're not meant to have? Like every time you reach for happiness, your past whispers, "Don't get too comfortable." This week, we're uncovering a story about rewiring your mind after trauma, breaking free from cycles of pain, and learning to trust in love, light, and the beauty life has to offer. Because healing isn't just about surviving, it's about reclaiming the softness, peace, and joy you deserve.

Do you ever feel like you're one misstep away from being 'found out'? Like no matter how much you've achieved, it's never enough? This week, we're diving into Beneath the Glass Ceiling, a story about battling imposter syndrome, finding strength in vulnerability, and learning to embrace your own worth. Because sometimes, the biggest battle isn't proving yourself to the world, it's believing you belong there in the first place!

What does gratitude mean when life feels messy? How do you find light in loss or stay present during the holidays? This week, we're talking about finding beauty in chaos, rebuilding yourself, and preparing for the life you deserve. Plus, what Pluto in Aquarius means for your future. This is 'Gratitude, Growth & Gearing Up for Your Glow-Up.'

In this week's episode, we're getting a look into the messy, day-by-day realities of healing. What does it mean to rebuild yourself when the shadows of your past still creep in? Meet Lucas, a man from North Bergen, New Jersey who's fought his way through dark times and is still working to be better, even when his past tries to pull him back. Lucas wasn't always the kind, loyal friend you'd want in your corner. He's had to wrestle with himself, with old habits, and with deep pain, showing up every day to protect his peace and love his chosen family in a way he wasn't always taught. This is the story called, Healing, Not Healed. A raw story about facing triggers, taking accountability, and finding strength in the journey that's far from finished.

Happy Birthday to me!This week's episode is special—it's my birthday weekend, and I'm reflecting on a year of growth, loss, and self-discovery. Join me as I share the raw journey of learning to love the unfamiliar parts of myself, embracing emotional intelligence, and finding strength in vulnerability. It's all about

In this week's episode, we're taking you deep into the raw journey of loss and healing. What happens when the person who held your heart, your secrets, and your dreams is suddenly gone? How do you face each day knowing they won't be there to share it with you? This story follows Javier as he deals with the devastating loss of his best friend, Marco. We're peeling back the layers of grief, depression, and the strength it takes to carry on when your world feels shattered. This is a story about love, loss, and the courage to rebuild a life that will never be the same.

In this week's episode, we dive into the gritty reality of navigating white spaces as a person of color. When your identity is constantly questioned and belittled, how do you rise above the microaggressions and stereotypes while staying true to yourself? This story uncovers the raw frustrations, anger, and resilience required to succeed in environments designed to keep you down. Join us as we break down Diego's journey, a man forced to fight for his place in a system that never had him in mind, and the emotional intelligence he wields to not just survive, but thrive.

In this week's episode, we tackle the brutal and messy reality of forgiveness after betrayal. When trust is shattered by those you love most, how do you find the strength to forgive, not for them, but for yourself? This story takes a look into the raw emotions of heartbreak, rage, and the difficult path to healing. Join us as we explore what it means to forgive while still feeling every ounce of the pain.

In this week's episode, we walk into the brutal reality of betrayal in marriage, a journey where love turns to deception and trust shatters into pieces. We explore the raw emotional and psychological impact of infidelity, and the painful yet powerful process of rebuilding your life after the truth is exposed. This story is about reclaiming your strength, healing from the trauma, and finding the courage to move forward when your world has been turned upside down.

In this week's episode, we explore the raw and unfiltered journey of breaking free from toxic family ties, where love was conditional and pain was inevitable. This story delves into the emotional and psychological impact of growing up in a household marred by narcissistic abuse, and the difficult decision to go no contact in order to reclaim peace, self-worth, and healing.

In this week's episode, we dive into the emotional chaos of friendship breakups and the raw pain of losing a lifelong bond. This story takes us through the turmoil of Malik and Javier as they navigate the heart-wrenching reality of drifting apart. Feel the intensity of their struggle, the bittersweet moments of reconciliation, and the enduring power of friendship in "Breaking Point."

In this week's episode, we experience the emotional storm of haunted memories and lingering trauma. In this story, we face the struggles of coping with childhood wounds and the relentless grip of PTSD. Experience Alejandro's journey through heartache, resilience, and the quest for inner peace in this raw story of survival and healing.

Walk into the emotional whirlwind of unrequited love and deep friendship within the LGBTQ+ community. In this story we explore the struggle to distinguish the difference between romantic love and friendship love. Experience the journey of self-discovery, heartache, and daddy issues in this raw and gripping tale of identity and acceptance.

Step into the glittering chaos of the raw cattiness that is present in the gay scene. In this story, we step into The Velvet Lounge, where sharp tongues and fierce personalities collide. Explore the drama of friendship, rivalry, and redemption in this gripping tale of life and identity.

This is a story of resilience and transformation. In this week's episode, we follow Angel Raymond as he navigates the challenges of societal expectations and discrimination, ultimately embracing his true self. This inspiring story highlights the beauty of authenticity and the power of acceptance. Join Angel's journey and explore the profound intersection of masculinity and femininity.

Join us as we journey through the vibrant streets of NYC, exploring Marsha P. Johnson's resilience, rebellion, and relentless love. Learn how this iconic figure reshaped history and continues to inspire countless souls today. Follow Marsha's story of courage, from her early struggles to her pivotal role in the Stonewall Riots and her enduring fight for equality. Together, we celebrate her legacy and the revolution she ignited.

Discover my personal experience in this week's episode. Join me as I navigated the turbulent waters of being outed to my mother, back in 2008, by my high school teacher. Follow my emotional journey through rejection, heartache, resilience, and ultimately - acceptance. See how I learned to redefine the concept of home through the support of my chosen family.

Uncover this haunting story together, while we follow Tara's emotional journey as she faces the harsh reality of eating disorders and the struggle with body image. This powerful narrative sheds light on the urgent need for compassion and understanding.

Embark on a soul-stirring journey through “The Weight of Kindness,” a poignant narrative that delves into the complexities of human compassion and its consequences. Prepare to unravel the intricacies of Eve's journey as she learns the true meaning of self-preservation and the power of setting boundaries.

Embark on a tantalizing odyssey through “Seduction's Abyss,” where desire and temptation intertwine in a captivating exploration of hypersexuality. Follow Alexander's magnetic allure as he navigates a world of passion and longing, each encounter pushing him closer to the edge of obsession. Prepare to delve into the intoxicating power of desire and its consequences in this mesmerizing tale of love, loneliness, and vulnerability. Don't miss your chance to unravel the enigmatic depths of “Seduction's Abyss.”

Embark on a riveting journey with "Between Two Worlds," where the Garcia family's saga unfolds amidst the challenges of immigration and cultural adaptation. Explore their resilience in the face of adversity, from navigating acculturation to confronting prejudice and discrimination. Join us as we delve into their transformative journey of self-discovery and triumph over hardship.

Step into the tumultuous world of "Double-Edged Sword," where betrayal and deception interlock in a compelling narrative that will keep you on the edge of your seat. Join us on a thrilling journey through the labyrinth of human emotions as we delve deep into the complexities surrounding trust, friendship, and the fragility of the human heart. Get ready to be captivated by a story that explores the true essence of resilience, the importance of setting boundaries, and the power of self-discovery. Don't miss out on this engrossing tale that will leave you questioning the bonds of friendship and the depths of human connection.

Step into the remarkable world of the Mirabal sisters this Women's History Month. Join us as we honor their courage, sisterhood, and resistance against tyranny. Discover the inspiring journey of these Dominican icons who defied oppression with unwavering strength and sacrifice. Welcome to a tale of triumph and empowerment. Welcome to the legacy of the Mirabal sisters.

In this episode, we honor the legacies of John "Jack" Santopietro & Justin "Balls" Bellini through a heartfelt exploration of the impact they had, along with reflecting on personal experiences following their untimely deaths. We mention the Remember Me "Jack" Santopietro organization and the lasting contributions they've made to education & community support. Join us this month as we pay tribute to these remarkable individuals and discuss the importance of having a community.

Join us on a gripping exploration as we unravel the profound emotional and mental struggles individuals endure in the aftermath of narcissistic abuse. Discover the resilience of the human spirit, delve into the complexities of rebuilding self-worth, and gain valuable insights into navigating the challenging terrain of healing from narcissistic relationships.

Join your host John Carlos as he guides us through unraveling the profound emotional and mental struggles people face in the aftermath of infidelity. Discover the resilience of the human spirit, the complexities of rebuilding trust, and gain valuable insights into navigating the tumultuous terrain of infidelity.

Just like romantic relationships, friendships can also come to an end, and they can be just as emotionally challenging. In this episode, we'll explore the complexities of friendship breakups, their impact on our lives, and strategies to navigate these uncharted waters.

Embark on a captivating journey through the lives of iconic characters. Join John Carlos as he unravels the untold stories behind beloved heroes, charming villains, & life itself. Immerse yourself in the insights & entertainment as you delve into the rich narratives that help capture the human experience.