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The podcast where we discuss what it means to get sober under the age of 30, and stay sober.

Young and sober


    • May 29, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 46m AVG DURATION
    • 69 EPISODES


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    Did I listen? ; Suggestions made in early recovery

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2023 49:10


    Alex and Julia chat about suggestions made in early recovery. Those they listened to, those they didn't and the results of those choices. Julia got sober at 23, and hasn't taken a drink in 36 years, so this is well worth a listen! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/youngandsober/message

    Stimming and winning; Autism and recovery

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2023 58:09


    Alex and Beth talk about their autism diagnoses, covering acceptance, the traits they identify with, the correlation with traits of alcoholism and the tools they use to manage both their autism and alcoholism. Autism And AA meeting Zoom ID: 636 252 1979 Password: AA Meeting is Everyday 4:00pm GMT 11:00am EST 9:00am PST Open 30 min Before And After Meeting AA-DHD and neurodiversity meeting Wednesday 1pm Sunshine Recovery Cafe 296A Kingston rd, Wimbledon Chase SW20 8LX --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/youngandsober/message

    Living rent free; handling anger and resentment in recovery

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2023 40:31


    Josh and Alex talk about their experiences of anger and resentment both before and in sobriety, and they share how the handle them with the tools of 12 step recovery. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/youngandsober/message

    When the going gets tough; using the tools when times are hard

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2023 36:38


    This episode, Alex and Sophie talk about the myriad of ways they manage when times are hard. They share openly about their struggles and talk about the huge toolbox they have now that they are sober. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/youngandsober/message

    Sober Companions; Working in the Recovery Industry

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2022 52:28


    Alex and Dan chat with Jasper about being young, sober, and working in the recovery industry. They discuss being a sober companion, staying within the traditions, and what it's like to work in the recovery industry. They also take a listener question from Dan's mom about how bad his drinking really got and how to answer when people ask you that question, and what the group is grateful for today. Linktree Instagram (instagram.com/youngandsoberpodcast/) Email (youngandsober@outlook.com) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 64 A Pint After Work; Dealing with Work Stress in Recovery

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2022 40:46


    This week Alex and Dan chat about being young, sober, and work stress. Covering everything from how they used to cope with work stress, leaving drinks, how they handle work stress now, and loads of things in between. They also get honest about not having a listener question, so please send one in, and, of course, what they are grateful for today. Linktree Instagram (instagram.com/youngandsoberpodcast/) Email (youngandsober@outlook.com) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 63 Moving & Not Running; Sober Geographicals

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2022 39:56


    Lottie and Dan chat about being young, sober, and moving in recovery. They cover Lottie's upcoming move, how finding meetings differ from when they came in, and discerning if moving is right. They also take a listener question about summer drinking (slightly late) and what the group is grateful for today. Linktree Instagram (instagram.com/youngandsoberpodcast/) Email (youngandsober@outlook.com) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 62 Working Step 11; Sought through prayer and meditation to improve...

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2022 32:42


    We are back with Jack and Alex to chat about their experience with Step 11, "Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out." They cover meditating with apps, freestyle, walking and the pressure to meditate for a certain amount of time. They also delve into learning to pray, whether it be prayers written by others or letters to God, everything in between, and what the group is grateful for today. Linktree Instagram (instagram.com/youngandsoberpodcast/) Email (youngandsober@outlook.com) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 61 Managing Life while Putting AA First

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2022 36:17


    Jack and Lottie chat with Holly about being young, sober, and putting AA first. They cover swimming in lakes, finding time for meetings, making tough decisions around AA commitments and balancing life. They also take a listener question about going back to the office and still finding time to get to meetings, and what the group is grateful for today. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 60 Give Me A Candle; Sober Living in a Drinkers World

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2022 50:40


    Alex, Lottie, and Dan chat about being young, sober, and drinking culture. They talk about weddings, stags, kissing, holding people's drinks, and why Lottie just wants a candle. The crew also cover splitting bills, jealousy towards regular drinkers, a listener question telling people you don't drink in the early days, and what they are grateful for today. Linktree Instagram (instagram.com/youngandsoberpodcast/) Email (youngandsober@outlook.com) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 59 Potty Training; Starting a Family Sober

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2022 47:17


    Jack and Josh chat with Louis about being young, sober, and starting a family. They cover what it's like when you take a perfectly crafted sobriety morning routine and infuse two children under five into the mix, potty training and the real meaning of serenity, a listener question about when family members keep relapsing, and what the group is grateful for today. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 58 You're Not an Alcoholic; Alcoholics Stereotypes, Self Assessments, and Drunk Uncles

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2022 49:51


    Dan and Lottie chat about being young, sober, and stereotypes of an alcoholic. They take the AA Self Assessment for the first time, reflect on the passage "They Stopped In Time", and chat about why not every alcoholic has a park bench in their story. We hear about how Lottie was the classic Drunk Uncle, a listener question about when your friends think you are not an alcoholic, and what the group is grateful for today. Linktree Instagram (instagram.com/youngandsoberpodcast/) Email (youngandsober@outlook.com) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 57 Working Step 10; Personal Inventory and Admitting We Were Wrong

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2022 30:11


    Jack and Lottie chat to Teddy about his experience with Step 10, "Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it". They cover different inventories, such as spot checks, nightly reviews, and deeper dives. Along with learning to admit you were wrong promptly and the challenges, this presents. They also discuss a fun fact about Lottie's recovery practice, hear a listener question about meditation, and what the group is grateful for today. Show Update: We will move our release date for episodes to Thursdays. This move is to help the team be able to edit episodes more effectively and share the workload. Linktree Instagram (instagram.com/youngandsoberpodcast/) Email (youngandsober@outlook.com) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

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    Ep 56 Barely Legal; Sober before 18

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2022 36:08


    This week Josh and Lottie chat with Lucinda about being very young and sober. Covering everything from people telling you "they spilt more than you drank", going to Coachella sober, getting a masters, and the journey along the way. They also talk about a listener question on being "sober curious" and, of course, what they are grateful for today. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 55 Ring of Fire; Pop Culture & Recovery

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2022 45:39


    This week Alex and Dan chat about being young, sober, and pop culture. Covering everything from songs they got drunk with, movies that showed them their first AA meeting, how Bradley Cooper can make you want to pick up, and loads of things in between. They also talk about a listener question on becoming boring in recovery and, of course, what they are grateful for today. Also, Dan still needs to build the recovery playlist that he said he would make during the episode, so keep an eye on our social. Also, Dan apologises to all the great country artists that he didn't mention while somehow spending all that time talking about Walker Hayes. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 54 Things I Wish I Knew Before Coming To AA

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2022 43:14


    This week Jack and Josh chat to Jimi about his experience being young and sober, and the things he wish he knew before he came to AA. They also talk about a listener question about crushes in AA and, of course, what they are grateful for today. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 53 Working Step 9; Amends is More Than Saying Sorry

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2022 38:29


    This week Lottie and Dan chat about their experience of Step 9 "Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others." Covering topics such as how an amend is structured, what it was like to make one, and living amends. They also talk about a listener question about fear around step 9 (how timely) and, of course, what they are grateful for today. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 52 Counting Days; Reflecting on the early days

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2022 32:52


    This week Alex and Lottie chat to C about her experience of counting days and early recovery. They also talk about a listener question relapsing and struggling to get past three months and, of course, what they are grateful for today. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 51 Another way out; Suicide & Recovery

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2022 42:11


    This week, Alex and Josh speak to Kathy who is celebrating three years of sobriety on the topic of suicide. The episode may trigger some people so be aware it may be a slightly more difficult listen than other weeks but they open up about their own struggles with suicidal thoughts and attempts in and out of sobriety, as well as what they do now to help with mental health and the tools picked up in recovery. If you or someone you love is experience suicidal thoughts, or were affected by anything you heard here, we have included some helpful numbers for you to call below: AA UK helpline: 01904 644026 Samaritans 24hr helpline: 08456 909090 Saneline (6pm-11pm) : 0845 767 8000 Mind UK helpline: 0300 123 3393 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 50 Question Time; How do I know I'm really an alcoholic and other questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2022 32:45


    This week Alex and Jack answer questions big and small. If you have ever wondered, "How do I know I'm really an alcoholic?" or "Will I be able to make friends?" then this is the episode for you. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 49 Working Step 8; Identifying Harms & Finding Willingness

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2022 58:34


    This week Josh and Dan chat to Myles about his experience of Step 8 "Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all." Covering topics such as what it means to have harmed someone, how they found the willingness to make amends, and advice to those embarking on Step 8. These three couldn't help themselves from talking a bit about Step 9 and some awkward amends, even though they said they wouldn't. They also talk about a listener question identifying with relapse shares when you haven't relapsed and, of course, what they are grateful for today. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 48 Books & Bobs; Unofficial Recovery Reading

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2022 27:54


    This week Alex and Lottie chat with Alice about outside reading. They talk about Drop the Rock, Letting Go The Pathway of Surender, The Road Less Traveled, and The Gifts of Imperfection. They also talk about a listener question about bringing non AA members to the meeting and, of course, what they are grateful for today. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 47 WTF is a Geographical?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2022 49:22


    This week Josh and Dan chat with Nate about Geographicals. They talk about moving across oceans, joining the military, and finding out that an active alcoholic always brings their alcoholism with them no matter how far they run. They also talk about a listener question about Al-Anon and, of course, what they are grateful for today. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 46 Mix & Match; Cross addiction in recovery

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2022 39:27


    This week Lottie and Jack chat with Hugo about cross addiction in recovery. Exercise, work, ice cream, crypto and F1, discussing the expected and unexpected cross addictions you discover when in recovery. They also talk about a listener question about sponsorship in multiple fellowships and, of course, what they are grateful for today. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 45 Working Step 7; Shortcomings Begone

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2022 42:29


    This week Jack and Josh chat to Jenna about her experience of Step 7 "Humbly ask Him to remove your shortcomings". They cover topics such as shortcomings, higher powers, dropping the rock, and share their own experiences with the Step. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 44 Question Time; Am I too young for AA and other questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2021 48:15


    This week Lottie and Dan are joined by Emma and Harry to answer questions big and small. If you have ever wondered, "Am I too young for AA?" or "How do I save people from AA's phone numbers in my phone?" then this is the episode for you. Please keep submitting your questions so they can feature in either the listener's question section or our Question-based episodes; please send us a DM on Instagram, an email, or fill out our nifty form. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 43 Friendship & Recovery; You win some; you lose some.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2021 44:14


    This week Lottie and Josh chat with Niall about friendship and recovery. They discuss the ones you lose, the ones that stay, and the ones you gain. They also talk about a listener question about what to say when you no longer drink, of course, what they are grateful for today. Update from the Show We will be launching a new type of episode where we answer multiple questions in one episode. We hope to get lots of questions, so please send us a DM on Instagram, an email, or fill out our nifty form. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 42 Rehab & Treatment; A Day in the Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2021 58:19


    This week Jack and Dan chat with Katie about treatment and rehab. They discuss the decision to go, what it was like and most importantly, what to pack. They also talk about a listener question about Self Help Books and, of course, what they are grateful for today. Update from the Show We will be launching a new type of episode where we answer multiple questions in one episode. We hope to get lots of questions, so please send us a DM on Instagram, an email, or fill out our nifty form. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 41 Working Step 6

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2021 40:43


    This week Lottie and Alex chat to Will about his experience of step 6 "We were entirely ready to have God to remove all our defects of character". They cover topics such as character defects, higher powers and self reflection among others, and share their own experiences with the Step. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 40 We Wish You a Sober Christmas; The festive season in recovery

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2021 40:51


    This week we chat to Eve about traversing the festive season in recovery. She shares her experience, and we discuss our first sober Christmases as well as the tools we now use to make sure we stay abstinent and as emotionally sober as we can! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 39 Outside the box; applying the principles in the outside world

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2021 47:05


    This week Jack and Alex chat to Anna about applying the principles of recovery in day to day situations. They discuss bringing humility, compassion and patience into situations with friends, family and colleagues and how our recovery can have a ripple effect into every area of our lives. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 38 Paying it forward; Service in sobriety

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2021 42:15


    This week Josh and Alex talk to Malory about her experience of giving back in recovery. They discuss what service is, and why it is important for our own recovery as well as others, and share their experience of their best moments paying it forward.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 37 Young, Sober and Working with Others

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2021 45:47


    This week we chat to Kat about chapter 7 in the Big Book of AA; "working with others'. We discuss experiences of being supported by other alcoholics as well as how we can be of service to others in our recovery and how important that is. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 36 Young, Sober and Working Step 5

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2021 48:56


    This week Alex, Dan and Josh chat about Step 5; we “admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs”. They share their experience of the step along with discussing resentment, compassion, getting honest and feeling understood and accepted in recovery. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 35 Young, Sober and Stepping Into Action

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2021 40:38


    This week we chat to Sarah about "Into Action" the next in our series of chapters of the Big Book of AA. We discuss living a double life, getting honest and trying to avoid getting complacent as our recovery progresses. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 34 Young & Sober and How it Works

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2021 57:08


    This week we chat to Dan about 'How it Works' the next chapter in our series on The Big Book of AA. We discuss making amends, taking responsibility and crossing moral lines. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Episode 33 - Young, Sober and Working Step 4

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2021 54:25


    Christian and Molly talk about tackling Step 4 with the guidance of a sponsor. Molly is a journalist and 2.5 years sober. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 32 Young, Sober and Coming To Believe

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2021 63:42


    Christian speaks to Jodie about coming to believe in a higher power once getting into recovery, touching on paragraphs from chapter 4 of the Big Book; We Agnostics. Jodie talks about the 'Fake till you make it' approach that she adopted in her early days until she finally came to believe in a higher power of her own understanding after working the 12 steps. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 31 Young & Sober and Admitting we Have a Problem

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2021 40:41


    This week we chat to Theo about "More About Alcoholism", a chapter in the Big Book that describes the lengths we can go to to convince ourselves that we are not alcoholics. Theo shares her experience, and we discuss all the ways we tried to stop drinking alcoholically before we finally found recovery in AA. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 30 Young, Sober and Experiencing a Psychic Change

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2021 52:03


    Christian and Patrick take a deep dive into Chapter 2 of the Big Book; 'There is a Solution', as it relates to their own personal experience of recovering from alcoholism. During the episode, Christian and Patrick talk about how having 'psychic change' as a result of working the 12 steps has had an impact in their lives and how it has helped them recover from the hopeless state of mind and body that is alcoholism. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    ep 29 Young, Sober and Not Picking Up the First Drink

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2021 39:09


    This week we talk to Josh about Bills Story, starting at page 1 of the big book. Bill's story details the danger of the first drink and his rock bottom leading to the willingness to pursue recovery in the founding stages of the AA program. Josh and Alex share their experience while discussing aspects of the chapter. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 28 Young, Sober and Reading 'They Stopped in Time"

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2021 53:51


    This week we chat to our guest about "They Stopped in Time", the section of the Big Book that discusses Alcoholics who got sober before they had lost everything. Toni shares her experience, and we cover the realisation that although we had not lost everything yet, that didn't mean we weren't alcoholics or headed towards a much deeper rock bottom. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 27 Young, Sober and Working Step 3

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2021 51:00


    “Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.” Step 3 is theme of episode 27 and we have Tony on the show to discuss what this step means to him. Tony has been sober from alcohol since age 29. During the episode, Christian, Alex and Tony also dig into some of the AA literature around this action based step including the Big Book and the 12 Steps and 12 Traditions. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 26 Young and Sober and The Keys of The Kingdom

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2021 49:35


    In episode 26, Christian and Jack chat with Charlie. Charlie is in his 3rd year of recovery and got sober aged 26. During the episode, they reference touch on geographicals, 'busyness', vein attempts to change drinking habits, self esteem and the benefits of attending meetings. They also reference a story from the Big Book of AA titled The Keys of The Kingdom. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 25 Young, Sober and Working Step 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2021 38:53


    This week we chat to Noelle about her experience of working step 2. Noelle is our youngest guest, getting sober at 16 and now sober for 3 years! We loved chatting to her, and hope you are as inspired as we are. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 24 Young & Sober Acceptance

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2021 51:15


    Christian, Jack and Irma explore the theme of acceptance. From accepting they were alcoholic in their early days to accepting their own concept of a higher power in order to work a successful programme of recovery in AA. (Please excuse some of the audio quality on this one!) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 23 Young, Sober and Reading the Doctor's Opinion

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2021 65:27


    This week Alex and Christian talk to Dave about his Sobriety Journey and reading the doctor's opinion; the part of the introduction to the Big Book of AA that talks about the phenomenon of craving and evidence for the success of AA for treating alcoholism. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 22 Young, Sober and Handling Boredom

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2021 55:34


    This week, Christian, Alex and Jack discuss handling boredom. During the episode they impart some advice that they were given in their early days as well strategies and self care practices that they've since put in place in order to look after themselves. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 21 Young, Sober and Sponsorship

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2021 48:58


    This week Jack and Christian chat to Nick about sponsorship and getting a sponsor. They share their experience of working through the steps with another alcoholic, and in turn helping a newcomer to work through the steps. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 20 Young, Sober and Working Step One

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2021 43:27


    This week Alex and Jack talk to John about his experience of working step one. He shares his experience with recovery, and they each discuss the effects that step one has on their sobriety. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

    Ep 19 Young and Sober Child of an Alcoholic

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2021 50:36


    This week Christian and Alex talk to Josh about his sobriety story, and how being a child of an alcoholic has impacted him and his recovery. They discuss the practicalities of looking at their childhoods and how that can inform behaviours and thinking patterns. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youngandsober/message

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