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Dr. Barry Jacobs joins host Ron Aaron and cohost Carol Zernial to talk about sibling rivalry during caregiving on this edition of Caregiver SOS. About Dr Jacobs Barry J. Jacobs, Psy.D. is a clinical psychologist, family therapist, and a Principal in the Philadelphia office of Health Management Associates, a national healthcare consulting firm. He is the author or co-author of three books on family caregiving—The Emotional Survival Guide for Caregivers (Guilford, 2006), AARP Meditations for Caregivers (Hachette, 2016), and the forthcoming The AARP Caregiver Answer Book (Guilford, 2025)--and has written a self-help column for family caregivers for AARP.org since 2014. He has also been a family caregiver for his mother and stepfather with dementia and his father with cancer Hosts Ron Aaron and Carol Zernial, and their guests talk about Caregiving and how to best cope with the stresses associated with it. Learn about "Caregiver SOS" and the "Teleconnection Hotline" programs. Listen every week for deep, inspiring, and helpful caregiving content on Caregiver SOS!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Barry Jacobs joins hosts Ron Aaron and Carol Zernial to talk about managing caregiver grief during and after caregiving on this edition of Caregiver SOS. Barry J. Jacobs, Psy.D. is a clinical psychologist, family therapist, and a Principal in the Philadelphia office of Health Management Associates, a national healthcare consulting firm. He is the author or co-author of two books on family caregiving—The Emotional Survival Guide for Caregivers (Guilford, 2006), AARP Meditations for Caregivers (Da Capo, 2016)--and has written a self-help column for family caregivers for AARP.org since 2014. He has also been a family caregiver for his mother and stepfather with dementia and his father with cancer. Hosts Ron Aaron and Carol Zernial, and their guests talk about Caregiving and how to best cope with the stresses associated with it. Learn about "Caregiver SOS" and the "Teleconnection Hotline" programs. Listen every week for deep, inspiring, and helpful caregiving content on Caregiver SOS!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Barry Jacobs joins hosts Ron Aaron and Carol Zernial to talk about managing caregiver grief during and after caregiving on this edition of Caregiver SOS. Barry J. Jacobs, Psy.D. is a clinical psychologist, family therapist, and a Principal in the Philadelphia office of Health Management Associates, a national healthcare consulting firm. He is the author or co-author of two books on family caregiving—The Emotional Survival Guide for Caregivers (Guilford, 2006), AARP Meditations for Caregivers (Da Capo, 2016)--and has written a self-help column for family caregivers for AARP.org since 2014. He has also been a family caregiver for his mother and stepfather with dementia and his father with cancer. Hosts Ron Aaron and Carol Zernial, and their guests talk about Caregiving and how to best cope with the stresses associated with it. Learn about "Caregiver SOS" and the "Teleconnection Hotline" programs. Listen every week for deep, inspiring, and helpful caregiving content on Caregiver SOS!
Barry Jacobs joins hosts Ron Aaron and Carol Zernial to talk about managing caregiver grief during and after caregiving on this edition of Caregiver SOS. Barry J. Jacobs, Psy.D. is a clinical psychologist, family therapist, and a Principal in the Philadelphia office of Health Management Associates, a national healthcare consulting firm. He is the author or co-author of two books on family caregiving—The Emotional Survival Guide for Caregivers (Guilford, 2006), AARP Meditations for Caregivers (Da Capo, 2016)--and has written a self-help column for family caregivers for AARP.org since 2014. He has also been a family caregiver for his mother and stepfather with dementia and his father with cancer. Hosts Ron Aaron and Carol Zernial, and their guests talk about Caregiving and how to best cope with the stresses associated with it. Learn about "Caregiver SOS" and the "Teleconnection Hotline" programs. Listen every week for deep, inspiring, and helpful caregiving content on Caregiver SOS!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Barry Jacobs is a clinical psychologist, medical educator and writer fostering the well-being of families coping with serious and chronic medical illnesses. Barry is the author of The Emotional survival Guide for Caregivers and co-authored with his wife Julia L Mayer, AARP Meditations for Caregivers and AARP Love and Meaning after 50. Since 2013 he has been a blogger on family caregiving and relationships for AARP.org. In today's podcast, Barry and I discuss the challenges of caregiving with siblings. He offers strategies on dealing with those who don't or won't help, the micromanagers, how past family dynamics play a part in the sibling friction, animosity and how to continue on after caregiving ends. SHOW NOTES Loveandmeaning.com
Barry Jacobs is a clinical psychologist, medical educator and writer fostering the well-being of families coping with serious and chronic medical illnesses. Barry is the author of The Emotional survival Guide for Caregivers and co-authored with his wife Julia L Mayer, AARP Meditations for Caregivers and AARP Love and Meaning after 50. Since 2013 he has been a blogger on family caregiving and relationships for AARP.org. In today's podcast, Barry and I discuss the challenges of caregiving with siblings. He offers strategies on dealing with those who don't or won't help, the micromanagers, how past family dynamics play a part in the sibling friction, animosity and how to continue on after caregiving ends. SHOW NOTES Loveandmeaning.com
Barry Jacobs, Psy.D., Philadelphia-area clinical psychologist, healthcare consultant, and co-author of AARP Meditations for Caregivers, talks with Caregiver SOS on Air co-host, attorney and award winning broadcaster, Ron Aaron, about making living in a parent's home while managing caregiving work successfully. Co-host Carol Zernial was on special assignment.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Barry Jacobs, Psy.D., Philadelphia-area clinical psychologist, healthcare consultant, and co-author of AARP Meditations for Caregivers, talks with Caregiver SOS on Air co-host, attorney and award winning broadcaster, Ron Aaron, about making living in a parent's home while managing caregiving work successfully. Co-host Carol Zernial was on special assignment.
Barry Jacobs, Psy.D., Philadelphia-area clinical psychologist, healthcare consultant, and co-author of AARP Meditations for Caregivers, talks with Caregiver SOS on Air co-host, attorney and award winning broadcaster, Ron Aaron, about making living in a parent's home while managing caregiving work successfully. Co-host Carol Zernial was on special assignment.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We all know the vow: “In sickness and in health.” But in reality, when serious illness enters a relationship, everything changes. A powerful mix of conflicting emotions can tug on people — love, devotion, grief, guilt, and even resentment. Illness can be a test — a trial by fire — but also an opportunity for growth. On this episode, we hear from couples and families whose lives have been touched by illness and find out how they made it through. How were their relationships transformed? How did they not only survive — but thrive? And what helps people cope, and even appreciate the good moments? We hear stories about how cancer changed the trajectory of writer Delia Ephron's life, the hidden struggles of family caregivers, and how one mother's illness transformed her family's life. ALSO HEARD: When writer Delia Ephron lost her husband of more than 30 years to prostate cancer, she thought she'd never love again. But then an acquaintance from her past, psychiatrist Peter Rutter, came along, and everything changed. Ephron's new memoir is called “Left on Tenth: A Second Chance at Life.” In the U.S., more than 50 million people serve as caregivers for a family member or loved one — and that number is on the rise. We talk with psychologist Julia Mayer and her husband, therapist Barry Jacobs, about the challenges caregivers face. They are the authors of “AARP Meditations for Caregivers: Practical, Emotional, and Spiritual Support for You and Your Family.” Mothers are often the glue that holds the family together — and when they get sick, it upsets the entire system. Reporter Diana Opong tells the story of what happened to one family in the aftermath of a new baby, a cancer diagnosis, and multiple surgeries. Writer Justin Kramon brings us this story of a romantic vacation gone wrong. Elaine Allard was enjoying a trip to Paris to visit her partner, Josh Evans — but a suspicious package, mysterious illness, and Josh's increasingly erratic behavior started to make her wonder if Josh was really the right partner for her.
Barry J. Jacobs, Psy.D., a Philadelphia-area clinical psychologist, healthcare consultant, and co-author of AARP Meditations for Caregivers, talks with Caregiver SOS on Air cohosts Tina Smith, Director of Caregiver Program Operations, WellMed Charitable Foundation and M.A. Social Gerontology, University of Central Missouri, and veteran broadcaster and attorney Ron Aaron, about the Importance of keeping a Caregiving Journal including a focus on gratitude.
Barry J. Jacobs, Psy.D., a Philadelphia-area clinical psychologist, healthcare consultant, and co-author of AARP Meditations for Caregivers, talks with Caregiver SOS on Air cohosts Tina Smith, Director of Caregiver Program Operations, WellMed Charitable Foundation and M.A. Social Gerontology, University of Central Missouri, and veteran broadcaster and attorney Ron Aaron, about the Importance of keeping a Caregiving Journal including a focus on gratitude. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Boomer Living Tv - Podcast For Baby Boomers, Their Families & Professionals In Senior Living
On this episode of Boomer Living, we have Barry Jacobs and his wife, Julia Mayor. Both are clinical psychologists and together they co-authored two books: "Love and Meaning After 50", and "Meditations for Caregivers".[01:24] Introduction[02:02] As you get older, how does the role of marriage change?[04:58] Why is the divorce rate among married couples over 50 increasing in the US?[07:07] Do you think any of this is because of a lack of understanding of relationships, changing roles as we age? What can couples do to lessen the risks of divorce and stay together and happily married?[10:01] What is the impact of caregiving on relationships of couples over 50? And how does caregiving affect relationships?[16:06] Can you give suggestions, how can couples make sure that this doesn't create tension in the relationship?[18:16] What are some key ways to revitalizing the marriage in the last third of life?[20:16] How can senior living communities create marriage enrichment programs and family care, giving support programs?[22:14] How can senior living communities support residents who have lost their partner and are still dealing with the emotional impact of it?[23:29] What motivated you to write two books together as a couple? And can you share with the audience about your books?[25:26] Can you say what the names of the books are and can listeners find it on Amazon or where can they find it?[25:50] Closing thoughtsBarry J. Jacobs, Psy.D. is a clinical psychologist and Principal in the Philadelphia office of Health Management Associates, a national healthcare consulting firm. He is a monthly columnist on family caregiving for AARP.org and an honorary board member of the Well Spouse Association.Julia L. Mayer, Psy.D. is a clinical psychologist in private practice in Media, PA. She specializes in helping individuals and couples with trauma and family caregiving.They are married and have co-authored two books: AARP Meditations for Caregivers (Da Capo, 2016) AND AARP Love and Meaning After 50 (Hachette Go, 2020).Visit Julia and Barry on the web at https://loveandmeaning.com/ where you can view their books and learn more about relationships as we age.
Barry J. Jacobs, Psy.D. and Julia L. Mayer, Psy.D. are clinical psychologists and the co-authors of AARP Meditations for Caregivers—Practical, Emotional and Spiritual Support for You and Your Family (2016) and the just-published, AARP Love and Meaning After 50—The 10 Challenges to Great Relationships and How to Overcome Them.
eCareDiary's caregiving expert, Margery Pabst Steinmetz will speak to Dr. Barry Jacobs and Dr. Julia Mayer, clinical psychologists and co-authors of "AARP Meditations for Caregivers" about the role of forgiveness within the context of family caregiving and the connection between forgiveness and deriving gratitude.
eCareDiary's caregiving expert, Margery Pabst Steinmetz will speak to Dr. Barry Jacobs and Dr. Julia Mayer, clinical psychologists and co-authors of "AARP Meditations for Caregiving" about how caregiving challenges affect spousal relationships and tips to forge better relationships.
eCareDiary's caregiving expert, Margery Pabst Steinmetz will speak to Dr. Barry Jacobs and Dr. Julie Mayer, clinical psychologists and co-authors, of "AARP Meditations for Caregivers" about essential skills and attitudes needed to be happy and deal with negative experiences.
eCareDiary's caregiving expert, Margery Pabst Steinmetz spoke to Dr. Barry Jacobs and Dr. Julia Mayer, clinical psychologists and co-authors of "AARP Meditations for Caregiving" about components defining caregiver success and how receiving support makes a difference.
eCareDiary's caregiving expert Margery Pabst Steinmetz will speak to Dr. Barry Jacobs and Dr. Julia Mayer, co-authors of AARP Meditations for Caregivers--Practical, Emotional and Spiritual Support for You and Your Family, about the positive rewards of caregiving.
eCareDiary's caregiving expert, Margery Pabst Steinmetz will speak to Dr. Barry Jacobs and Dr. Julia Mayer, clinical psychologists and co-authors of "AARP Meditations for Caregivers" about the role of forgiveness within the context of family caregiving and the connection between forgiveness and deriving gratitude.
eCareDiary's caregiving expert, Margery Pabst Steinmetz will speak to Dr. Barry Jacobs and Dr. Julia Mayer, clinical psychologists and co-authors of "AARP Meditations for Caregiving" about how caregiving challenges affect spousal relationships and tips to forge better relationships.
eCareDiary's caregiving expert, Margery Pabst Steinmetz will speak to Dr. Barry Jacobs and Dr. Julie Mayer, clinical psychologists and co-authors, of "AARP Meditations for Caregivers" about essential skills and attitudes needed to be happy and deal with negative experiences.
eCareDiary's caregiving expert Margery Pabst Steinmetz will speak Dr. Barry Jacobs and Dr. Julia Mayer, co-authors of AARP Meditations for Caregivers--Practical, Emotional and Spiritual Support for You and Your Family, about the positive rewards of caregiving.
eCareDiary's caregiving expert, Margery Pabst Steinmetz will speak to Dr. Barry Jacobs and Dr. Julia Mayer, clinical psychologists and co-authors of "AARP Meditations for Caregivers" about the role of forgiveness within the context of family caregiving and the connection between forgiveness and deriving gratitude.
eCareDiary's caregiving expert, Margery Pabst Steinmetz will speak to Dr. Barry Jacobs and Dr. Julia Mayer, clinical psychologists and co-authors of "AARP Meditations for Caregivers" about how caregiving challenges affect spousal relationships and tips to forge better relationships.
eCareDiary's caregiving expert, Margery Pabst Steinmetz will speak to Dr. Barry Jacobs and Dr. Julia Mayer, clinical psychologists and co-authors of "AARP Meditations for Caregivers" about the role of forgiveness within the context of family caregiving and the connection between forgiveness and deriving gratitude.
eCareDiary's caregiving expert Margery Pabst Steinmetz speaks Dr. Barry Jacobs and Dr. Julia Mayer, co-authors of AARP Meditations for Caregivers--Practical, Emotional and Spiritual Support for You and Your Family, about the positive rewards of caregiving.
Listen to our conversation with Psychologist Dr. Barry Jacobs and Dr. Julia Mayor, authors of the book AARP Meditations for Caregivers: Practical, Emotional, and Spiritual Support for You and Your Family. This book is a compilation of more than 150 personal stories used to frame significant issues connected to the caregiving experience. AARP Meditations for […]
Listen to our conversation with Psychologist Dr. Barry Jacobs and Dr. Julia Mayor, authors of the book AARP Meditations for Caregivers: Practical, Emotional, and Spiritual Support for You and Your Family. This book is a compilation of more than 150 personal stories used to frame significant issues connected to the caregiving experience. AARP Meditations for […]
Caregiving is a tough job and Dr. Barry Jacobs is very familiar with it. He's been a caregiver multiple times throughout his life. Dr. Jacobs and his wife, Dr, Julia Mayer, co-authored the book "AARP Meditations for Caregivers--Practical, Emotional and Spiritual Support for You and Your Family" in hopes that the stories in the book can inspire and to comfort caregivers. Originally aired on Caregiver SOS: On Air presented by the WellMed Charitable Foundation on Aug. 21, 2016, in San Antonio, TX on 930 AM KLUP “The Answer.” With co-hosts Carol Zernial and Ron Aaron. For more about CaregiverSOS, visit caregiversos.org Like CaregiverSOS on Facebook, www.facebook.com/CaregiverSOS Follow on Twitter, twitter.com/wellmedgives And on Instagram, instagram.com/wellmedgives/
eCareDiary will speak to clinical psychologists, Dr. Barry Jacobs and Dr. Julia Mayer, authors of AARP Meditations for Caregivers about creating a positive caregiving experience and using gratitude and purpose to enhance relationships.
AARP Meditations for Caregivers--Practical, Emotional and Spiritual Support for You and Your Family is comprised of 152 short, real-life family caregiver stories, drawn from the authors' psychotherapy practices and personal experiences. The stories are meant to comfort and inspire. Through their book, the authors hope to help family caregivers derive the potential positive benefits from caregiving, including personal and spiritual growth, an enhanced sense of purpose, and the gratification of ensuring their family's well-being. About the Authors Barry J. Jacobs, Psy.D., is a clinical psychologist, family therapist, and the Director of Behavioral Sciences for the Crozer-Keystone Family Medicine Residency Program in Springfield, Pennsylvania. He is the author of The Emotional Survival Guide for Caregivers—Looking After Yourself and Your Family While Helping an Aging Parent. Dr. Jacobs has given more than 400 presentations on family caregiving for family caregivers, community groups, and medical and mental health professionals. He is the national spokesperson on caregiving for the American Heart Association and an honorary board member of the Well Spouse Association. He has served on the expert panel for the Caregiver Crisis Great Challenge for TEDMED.com and as a board member of the Collaborative Family Healthcare Association. Julia L. Mayer, Psy.D., is a clinical psychologist who has been counseling individuals and couples for almost 25 years. Dr. Mayer has a private practice is in Media, Pennsylvania, where she specializes in women's issues, including caregiving and other relationship concerns. Drs. Jacobs and Mayer have written previously together for WebMD and HealthCentral. They have been married for more than 25 years and have two adult children. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/caring-conversations/message
AARP Meditations for Caregivers--Practical, Emotional and Spiritual Support for You and Your Family is comprised of 152 short, real-life family caregiver stories, drawn from the authors' psychotherapy practices and personal experiences. The stories are meant to comfort and inspire. Through their book, the authors hope to help family caregivers derive the potential positive benefits from caregiving, including personal and spiritual growth, an enhanced sense of purpose, and the gratification of ensuring their family's well-being. About the Authors Barry J. Jacobs, Psy.D., is a clinical psychologist, family therapist, and the Director of Behavioral Sciences for the Crozer-Keystone Family Medicine Residency Program in Springfield, Pennsylvania. He is the author of The Emotional Survival Guide for Caregivers—Looking After Yourself and Your Family While Helping an Aging Parent. Dr. Jacobs has given more than 400 presentations on family caregiving for family caregivers, community groups, and medical and mental health professionals. He is the national spokesperson on caregiving for the American Heart Association and an honorary board member of the Well Spouse Association. He has served on the expert panel for the Caregiver Crisis Great Challenge for TEDMED.com and as a board member of the Collaborative Family Healthcare Association. Julia L. Mayer, Psy.D., is a clinical psychologist who has been counseling individuals and couples for almost 25 years. Dr. Mayer has a private practice is in Media, Pennsylvania, where she specializes in women’s issues, including caregiving and other relationship concerns. Drs. Jacobs and Mayer have written previously together for WebMD and HealthCentral. They have been married for more than 25 years and have two adult children. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/caring-conversations/message