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In this debrief episode of Leadership Story Talks, hosts Julienne Ryan and Jerome Deroy reflect on their insightful conversation with Jeanne Martinet, author of The Art of Mingling and Mingling with the Enemy. Jeanne's expertise in social interaction and connection offers a refreshing perspective on how we approach conversations—whether at networking events, social gatherings, or even in workplace meetings.This episode explores the power of intention when entering social spaces, how shifting your mindset can change interactions, and the surprising link between storytelling and meaningful connections.You'll Hear:The Power of Intention – Why setting an intention before entering a social or professional situation can transform your experience.Reframing Social Anxiety – How shifting from a defensive mindset to one of openness and curiosity can make conversations more enjoyable.Fun as a Strategy – Why adopting a mindset of fun and playfulness can help break down barriers in social interactions.Lessons from Storytelling – How preparing for a conversation is similar to preparing to tell a compelling story—both require presence and awareness.Breaking Routines – The importance of stepping out of habitual ways of interacting and embracing the potential for surprise and discovery.Key Takeaways:Start with a Clear Intention – Before entering a conversation, ask yourself: What energy do I want to bring? How do I want to show up?Be Open to Surprise – Instead of assuming you know how an interaction will unfold, embrace discovery and let yourself be genuinely curious.Small Shifts Create Big Changes – Something as simple as walking into a room with a positive mindset can reshape the way others respond to you.Preparation Matters – Just as storytelling requires intentionality, so does effective mingling—approach interactions with thoughtfulness and purpose.Practice and Reflect – Try shifting your approach in social or work settings and take note of the results. What changed? How did people react?For those looking to enhance their ability to connect in any setting—whether at work, networking events, or social gatherings—this episode offers actionable insights and real-world strategies.Learn more about how to leverage Narativ's storytelling method for your pitch and sales team: Download our free e-book, or you're welcome to schedule a free 15-minute call with Jerome. We encourage you to join our mailing list to stay updated on all our latest episodes and events. EMAIL Jerome@narativ.comLINKEDIN https://www.linkedin.com/company/narativ-incTWITTER @narativBuy Julienne's book here
In this episode of Leadership Story Talks, hosts Julienne Ryan and Jerome Deroy welcome Jeanne Martinet, bestselling author of The Art of Mingling and Mingling with the Enemy. Jeanne is a master of social dynamics, sharing insights on how to navigate conversations, avoid heated debates, and build meaningful connections—whether at a party, networking event, or family gathering.With humor and wisdom, Jeanne discusses the evolving challenges of social interactions in today's world and provides practical strategies for mingling with ease, even in politically or emotionally charged environments.You'll hear:
Whether you've got a family event, party, christmas gathering or even a date coming up, the fear of the conversation drying up & having no way out is VERY real. So how do we nail mingling & turn it into a core skill rather than something that brings us out in a cold sweat? Fear not - I've called in the professionals for this one. Jeanne Martinet is an expert in it - in fact so many people asked her for her advice that she wrote a book about it & she's now the author of The Art of Mingling alongside a whole host of other books. CONNECT WITH US Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram. Find Jeanne on Instagram & via her website. BOOKSThe Art of Mingling Mingling with the Enemy: A Social Survival Guide for Our Politically Divided Times Want to become a podcast sponsor, got some feedback for me or just fancy a chat? Email me - edwina@edstott.com
Dan Hoffend has used authenticity and emotional intelligence to attract and develop high performing teams to achieve seemingly impossible goals. A strong purpose and resilience have become the drivers behind his success. His most recent organization was built from both organic growth and strategic acquisitions to become a international $500M division – dedicated to creating brand experiences that drive action for many top organizations, such as: McDonald's, Microsoft, Sanofi, Qualcomm, 3M, Disney and Wyndham. Eric Hoffend has built and managed stellar sales teams, delivering exceptional sales results, with revenues upwards of $400M. His ability to teach, develop, empathize and mentor, helped him form meaningful connections; cultivate dedicated and loyal employees; and inspired countless people to reach their full potential. Jeanne Martinet, aka “Miss Mingle,” who through nine books and countless interviews has reached hundreds of thousands of would-be minglers, helping them to feel at ease in any social situation. Martinet, who has counseled minglephobics on The Today Show, Morning Edition, and on the pages of The New York Times, Chicago Tribune, and The Washington Post, adds that mingling will be an important part of our pandemic recovery. “When the world is in crisis there is an even greater need for playful conversation and connection,” she says. Join Robert Manni, author of The Guys' Guy's Guide To Love as we discuss life, love and the pursuit of happiness. Subscribe to Guy's Guy Radio on iTunes! Buy The Guys' Guy's Guide to Love now!
Dan Hoffend has used authenticity and emotional intelligence to attract and develop high performing teams to achieve seemingly impossible goals. A strong purpose and resilience have become the drivers behind his success. His most recent organization was built from both organic growth and strategic acquisitions to become a international $500M division – dedicated to creating brand experiences that drive action for many top organizations, such as: McDonald's, Microsoft, Sanofi, Qualcomm, 3M, Disney and Wyndham. Eric Hoffend has built and managed stellar sales teams, delivering exceptional sales results, with revenues upwards of $400M. His ability to teach, develop, empathize and mentor, helped him form meaningful connections; cultivate dedicated and loyal employees; and inspired countless people to reach their full potential. Jeanne Martinet, aka “Miss Mingle,” who through nine books and countless interviews has reached hundreds of thousands of would-be minglers, helping them to feel at ease in any social situation. Martinet, who has counseled minglephobics on The Today Show, Morning Edition, and on the pages of The New York Times, Chicago Tribune, and The Washington Post, adds that mingling will be an important part of our pandemic recovery. “When the world is in crisis there is an even greater need for playful conversation and connection,” she says. Join Robert Manni, author of The Guys' Guy's Guide To Love as we discuss life, love and the pursuit of happiness. Subscribe to Guy's Guy Radio on iTunes! Buy The Guys' Guy's Guide to Love now!
A Social Survival Guide for Our Divided Era.
Our guest today is Jeanne Martinet, the author of The Art of Mingling: Fun and Proven Techniques for Mastering Any Room. I’ve always been a pretty strong introvert and never enjoyed mingling-type events very much – until I read this book about fifteen years ago. The book was eye-opening for me, and while I would not say that I’m good at mingling, the techniques in this book at least help me survive and even enjoy myself. So it was a huge amount of fun to speak with Jeanne and discuss the advice in the book and how she came to write it. If you’d like to get better at mingling, I strongly recommend Jeanne’s book.
Today's Guest: Jeanne Martinet, author, Life Is Friends: A Complete Guide to the Lost Art of Connecting in Person Order 'Life Is Friends: A Complete Guide to the Lost Art of Connecting in Person' by Jeanne Martinet, available from Amazon.com by clicking on the book cover above! Order 'The Art of Mingling' by Jeanne Martinet, available from Amazon.com by clicking on the book cover above! I knew there was something missing in my life since it became Facebook-, Twitter-, Orkut- Bebo- and instant messaging-centric, but I couldn’t quite put my finger on what. Turns out, it’s people! You know, real life, high-fiving, handshaking, backslapping, refrigerator-raiding friends, neighbors and family. Jeanne Martinet, the author of The Art of Mingling, just published a new book, Life Is Friends. I suspect it will become one of those gems that is found on everyone’s bookshelf—or e-book reader—in the future. It’s a lively read and full of great anecdote advice. Jeanne Martinet Website • Facebook • Twitter • Order Life is Friends from Amazon.com Order 'A Daily Dose of Innocence' by John Hutton, available in paperback or e-book from Amazon.com by clicking on the book cover above! The Party Authority in New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Delaware and Maryland!
There's more to Grown Ass Men than superheroes saving the galaxy from the dastardly! Grown Ass Men love romance! That's why we invited popular author Jeanne Martinet (The Art of Mingling) to discuss her hilarious, innovative, insightful book, Truer than True Romance. We knew she was a great comic writer but we also found she plays some great ukelele too! Join us for another great episode! http://www.jeannemartinet.com Original music by Adam Bernstein
Today on the podcast we have Jeanne Martinet, author of The Art of Mingling. In every facet of society these day, there are times when we must be able to mingle or make small talk. It can often times be a painful experience, but it doesn’t have to be. So how do you work a room without fear? How do you extract yourself from a conversation that has gone stale? Jeanne was kind enough to speak with us about these topics on this episode.
Today's Guest: Jeanne Martinet, author of The Art of Mingling and Life is Friends.JEANNE MARTINET podcast excerpt: "The old rule in Victorian days used to be that safe subjects were the weather and your health. That was the line. But both of these subjects now lead directly to politics. The weather leads directly to globe warming and your health to (Obamacare). I do have some techniques in 'The Art of Mingling' for defusing political situations. Don't talk politics unless you know you're not with a fanatic. You don't want to argue at a party."Key interview moments:• 6:50 Cellphone etiquette -- learn it, live it, says Jeanne Martinet;• 15:35 How to deal with a situation in which your spouse or partner is minglephobic in social situations;• 27:35 Martinet offers advice on steering clear of escalating political talk with fanatics at non-political parties.Subscribe to Mr. Media for FREE on YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=MrMediaRadioFor more interviews like this one: http://www.MrMedia.com What is Mr. Media® Interviews? The calm of Charlie Rose, the curiosity of Terry Gross and the unpredictability of Howard Stern! Since February 2007, more than 1,000 exclusive Hollywood, celebrity, pop culture video and audio comedy podcast interviews by Mr. Media®, a.k.a., Bob Andelman, with newsmakers in TV, radio, movies, music, magazines, newspapers, books, websites, social media, politics, sports, graphic novels, and comics! Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/andelmanFacebook: http://www.facebook.com/MrMediaRadio
Today's Guest: Jeanne Martinet, author of The Art of Mingling and Life is Friends. Watch this exclusive Mr. Media interview with Jeanne Martinet by clicking on the video player above! Mr. Media is recorded live before a studio audience full of unfun and unproven mingling techniques who are becoming more than a little nervous… in the NEW new media capital of the world… St. Petersburg, Florida! When Jeanne Martinet told me she had rewritten and revised more than 50 percent of her 1992 guide, The Art of Mingling: Fun and Proven Techniques for Mastering Any Room, I had to admit I was curious. As an author myself, I think if I had that much new content to offer, I would have leaned toward an entirely new title. After all, the original Art of Mingling had already sold more than 150,000 copies. Wouldn’t her many fans support a new title over the revision of an older one? JEANNE MARTINET podcast excerpt: "The old rule in Victorian days used to be that safe subjects were the weather and your health. That was the line. But both of these subjects now lead directly to politics. The weather leads directly to globe warming and your health to (Obamacare). I do have some techniques in 'The Art of Mingling' for defusing political situations. Don't talk politics unless you know you're not with a fanatic. You don't want to argue at a party." You can LISTEN to this interview with JEANNE MARTINET, author of THE ART OF MINGLING, by clicking the audio player above! On the other hand, she does seem to have focused in on how mingling has changed over the years – damn you, Facebook! – and there is probably an entirely new generation out there to be reached with content such as: • Step-by-step instructions for performing entrance maneuvers such as the Fade-In and the Flattery Entrée; • Escape techniques such as the Human Sacrifice, the Changing of the Guard, and the Cell-Out; • How to execute the Hors D’oeuvres Maneuver and perfect the Touchy Feely Mingle; • The secret to listening, avoiding the Dumb Use of Smartphones, and directions for keeping up with people after the party; • All that and hundreds of lines tailored to every mingling situation. I’m interested in the subject of mingling because of a curious social reversal in my own household. In the early years of our marriage, my wife was always the one wanting to go to parties and socialize with folks. I, on the other hand, was shy and introverted, lacking confidence in my ability to make small talk, mingle, and fit in. JEANNE MARTINET podcast excerpt: "At a cocktail party, if it's not an emergency, do not take out your cellphone unless you leave the group of people you're talking to. Then go somewhere else. Once one person whips out their cellphone in a group, that's the end of any organic conversation." Over the years, our roles reversed and now I’m the outgoing one and my wife is more hesitant tomix. I’m hopefully of learning from Jeanne Martinet and sharing the tips I gain with my spouse. This is Jeanne’s second visit to Mr. Media, the first in living color. Back in 2009, she entertained us with tips from her book Life is Friends: A Complete Guide to the Lost Art of Connecting in Person. Key interview moments: • 6:50 Cellphone etiquette -- learn it, live it, says Jeanne Martinet; • 15:35 How to deal with a situation in which your spouse or partner is minglephobic in social situations; • 27:35 Martinet offers advice on steering clear of escalating political talk with fanatics at non-political parties. Jeanne Martinet Website • Facebook • Twitter • LinkedIn • Wikipedia The Party Authority in New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Delaware and Maryland! The post The Art of Mingling never goes out of style!
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Mingling doesn't always have to be a stressful situation. Learn how to properly master any setting, with help from Miss Mingle. Read the full transcript here: http://bit.ly/20ecYcD
Today's Guest: Jeanne Martinet, author of Life Is Friends: A Complete Guide to the Lost Art of Connecting in Person. (April 2009)Subscribe to Mr. Media for FREE on YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=MrMediaRadioFor more interviews like this one: http://www.MrMedia.com What is Mr. Media® Interviews? The calm of Charlie Rose, the curiosity of Terry Gross and the unpredictability of Howard Stern! Since February 2007, more than 1,000 exclusive Hollywood, celebrity, pop culture video and audio comedy podcast interviews by Mr. Media®, a.k.a., Bob Andelman, with newsmakers in TV, radio, movies, music, magazines, newspapers, books, websites, social media, politics, sports, graphic novels, and comics! Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/andelmanFacebook: http://www.facebook.com/MrMediaRadio
Does the idea of going to a party terrify you? Ever get stuck in a corner with someone really boring? Or wonder what to say to someone you don’t know? Well relax and listen to this week’s show. Lisa and Philip pose these questions and many more to Jeanne Martinet author of “The Art of Mingling” and “Life is Friends.” … Read more about this episode...