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On the episode today is, Melanie Tonia Evans. Melani is a leading international narcissistic abuse recovery expert, sought-after speaker and best-selling author. Her groundbreaking healing methodology, the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program is revolutionizing the old model of survivor recovery to one of thriver status. Her work has now touched the lives of over 15 million people worldwide. Her best-selling book “You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse” became an Amazon bestseller in just a few days and is now translated into multiple languages. In today's episode we're going to take a deep dive into the experience of what it's like dealing with a Narcissist, and most importantly how to heal and recover from narcissistic abuse. Now most people think a Narcissist is someone who thinks highly of themselves, which is true, and it can be said that most of us could have narcissistic traits. However, in this episode we're really going to be taking a closer look at Malignant narcissism. According to Medical News Today, malignant narcissism is a form of narcissistic personality disorder that is highly abusive. People with this personality supposedly get a sense of satisfaction from hurting others and may manipulate people or lie to gain money, acclaim, and other things they desire. Topic discussed in this episode: Recovering from Narcissistic Abuse Signs that you're in a Narcissistic Relationship Signs of love bombing Quantum healing and releasing trauma Understanding why people are drawn to Narcissistic Individuals How to take control and responsibility for your life How do people become Narcissists How to Leave a Narcissistic Relationship Dealing with Narcissistic Family Members --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/awordtothewisepod/message
Founder of Quanta Freedom Healing - the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program, Melanie Tonia Evans has aided over 10 million people from over 100 countries across the world using her own experience of surviving and thriving, after a being part of a narcissistic relationship for a number of years. In this episode Malin asks how she removed herself from the toxic relationship that has gone onto power her in the present, and she takes Malin through from 5D thinking. You can learn about Melanie's work and courses here - www.melanietoniaevans.com Follow Malin for exciting updates on Instagram - www.instagram.com/MissMalinSara
Melanie Tonia Evans is a narcissistic abuse recovery expert, healer, author, and radio host and the founder of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program. Melanie’s passion is teaching people how to transcend from abuse with the understanding that the old model of abuse recovery through cognitive therapy, joining abuse forums, and trying to learn as much as possible about abusers only keeps people stuck in powerlessness and victimhood. Melanie’s model, which she calls the Thriver Model, allows people to claim their personal power and create a greater life than they were ever able to access even before being abused. To date, Melanie’s healing system, the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program, has created Thriver recoveries for thousands of people from over 50 different countries. ------ P.S. Take our FREE Assessment. Our Intimacy Blindspot Assessment is a quick, simple yet effective assessment so you can discover how to have the sexual freedom, healthy communication, and deep connection you deserve - https://allanapratt.com/quiz Gentlemen…End the Fear of Rejection. Enjoy your "How To Be A Noble Badass" Complementary Training at www.gethertosayyes.com Ladies…Be irresistible. Feel sacred. Attract him now. Enjoy your "Vulnerability is the New Sexy" Complementary Training at https://allanapratt.com/vulnerability Featuring music by: 4 Chambers - written by Aeone / BMI Published by Angleterre Music /BMI
HEALING FROM NARCISSISTIC RELATIONSHIPS//Have you finally gotten out of that relationship with a narcissist or a toxic personality in general? In this episode, Rebecca talks with narcissist abuse recovery and self empowerment expert Melanie Tonia Evans. Listen to this episode to learn all about how to heal, recover and learn to love yourself after a toxic relationship with a narcissist or an abusive person. This episode also ran as a 2 part video series on Rebecca's YouTube channel. Watch Part 1 of this interview RIGHT HERE. Watch Part 2 of this interview RIGHT HERE. More About Melanie Melanie’s leading edge healing methods have helped thousands of people from over 80 countries make astounding full recoveries from narcissistic abuse. Her passion is bringing to the world the Thriver Model … which saved her life and granted her the life of her dreams, despite being given the diagnosis that she would never recover from her abuse symptoms. Melanie’s Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program which contains her pioneer super-tool, Quanta Freedom Healing, enables people to heal from trauma in time frames and ways they had never previously accessed – even when every other healing method has failed. Melanie’s work is revolutionizing the old Model of Survivor Recovery to one of Thriver status – whereby people become more confident, happy and successful in life, than they ever were even before being abused … or even if abuse was all they have ever known. The Thriver Model has gained incredible attention and recognition, with psychologists, counsellors, domestic violence workers and relationship experts globally, referring abuse victims to Melanie’s Model as the solution to heal for real from narcissistic abuse. Learn more about Melanie at www.melanietoniaevans.com Check out her NARP (Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program) program and sign up for it right here. Grab her book “You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse” right here. _______________________________________________________________________________________ THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION: For more information from our Sponsor BetterHelp.com Online Counseling, offering convenient and private online access to licensed therapists from the comfort of your own home, visit www.betterhelp.com/breakingfree Listeners of the podcast will receive 10% off on their first month of counseling with discount code "BREAKINGFREE"! ____________________________________________________________________ For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube! GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. Grab a copy of Rebecca's book, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro). It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched! Find out what everyone is so excited about - get the book RIGHT HERE! To get your copy of Rebecca's bestselling book, Breaking Free: A Step by Step Guide to Achieving Emotional, Physical and Spiritual Freedom, please visit the Amazon website to order it RIGHT HERE. Rebecca also is available for keynote speeches, and speaks around the country on "How to Successfully Negotiate With a High Conflict Personality" and "Win Any Negotiation in Just 6 Steps". _______________________________________________________________________________________________________________ CONTACT US: rebecca@rebeccazung.com WEBSITE: www.negotiateyourbestlifepodcast.com ........................................................................................................................ Remember to follow THE NEGOTIATE YOUR BEST LIFE PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Instagram Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would visit iTunes and give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show - your feedback really matters DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.
We round off the first series of Past Imperfect, looking back over the topics we've covered and the shifts that have happened, and forward to the feast of topics for series 2. Some of our ponderings this week include narcissism, ways to see fear, parenting, intrinsic validation and transforming your future by changing your relationship with past events. What's the difference between reactivity and responsiveness? How do you turn every trigger into an opportunity to release old patterns and navigate new ways to be? What's scarier: public speaking or having a bath at a friend's house? In series two, we'll be talking about - the intricacies of memory and trauma - surviving the trauma of FGM - recovering after sexual assault - the joys of paradox - the different flavours of narcissism and the difference between narcissistic, sociopathic and psychopathic behaviours - dealing with the fallout of your positive transformation - the effects of trauma on your physical system, autoimmune system and internal boundaries. Resources Untamed, by Glennon Doyle https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/52129515-untamed Embodied Intimacy: intimacy and embodiment training ReSource training Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program by Melanie Tonia Evans. Sign up for her Gold Membership narcissistic abuse recovery program here https://bit.ly/3g5g0gl Music: New Dawn by Ruth Blake. Listen to her music at www.ruthblake.com Logo image based on Psychopomp by Hollie Chastain. Check out her art and amazing collage book at www.holliechastain.com Logo design @ebz_agg
Multifariously talented* shamanic healer and teacher Sue Holmes talks to us about memories recovered late in life and, once she'd recovered conscious awareness of it, how she did her own healing, integrated different parts of herself and left victim feelings behind. How do you handle abuses of power within spiritual communities, and what does it take to speak up? We discuss what can happen when you expose the shadow side of your own community, and the importance of working on your own shadow, whether your community embraces or rejects it. *Sue's many past and present careers include HGV-driver, gardener, overland adventure tour guide, feng shui practitioner, shamanic healer and teacher and musician. Outro song Honey in the Sting from Sue's album Heaven on Earth. Contact Sue through her website: http://firehorse.uk.com/ find her group on facebook and listen to her music on bandcamp https://sueholmes.bandcamp.com/album/heaven-on-earth Trigger warning: we discuss different forms of abuse and manipulation in this podcast. If you may be triggered by these topics, please make sure you have support or resources in place before you listen. The opinions we express here are based on subjective personal experience. You can also expect a bit of swearing. Email us on pastimperfectpodcast@gmail.com with comments, questions and topic suggestions, and if you'd like to receive a nudge/blog post in your inbox when we publish each episode. As per GDPR, we will not use your email address for any other purpose, and we will never share it with any third party. Resources Embodied Intimacy https://www.embodiedintimacy.com/ Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program by Melanie Tonia Evans. Sign up for her Gold Membership narcissistic abuse recovery program here https://bit.ly/3g5g0gl Music: New Dawn by Ruth Blake. Listen to her music at www.ruthblake.com Logo image based on Psychopomp by Hollie Chastain. Check out her art and amazing collage book at www.holliechastain.com Logo design @ebz_agg
Do you think of depression as an abnormality or a natural state of being? Has self-loathing become so familiar that it's become a norm? This week we welcome our first guest, the gentle and brilliant Joanna Jane Delves, the queen of taking gentle responsibility for your own feelings, and doing the work. She explains her own process of healing herself from deep grief and childhood trauma, talks us through the inner child and shadow work she uses and shares some of the techniques and practices that have helped her. She talks about her past depression, her decision and her determination to live in happiness. "We're supposed to be happy beings, when we're not weighed down by all of our life experiences. We should be having beautiful lives, right? The bedrock of it, for me, is self-love." Joanna Jane Delves Joanna talks about the daily practice of turning towards the 'monsters' of your own feelings instead of away from them, feeling them and noticing what they're telling you, and about her experience of the healing power of psychotropic plant medicines such as ayahuasca. “Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better." ~ Maya Angelou If you'd like to work with Joanna, you can contact her on joannajanedelves@gmail.com Trigger warning: we discuss different forms of abuse and manipulation in this podcast. If you may be triggered by these topics, please make sure you have support or resources in place before you listen. The opinions we express here are based on subjective personal experience. You can also expect a bit of swearing. Email us at pastimperfectpodcast@gmail.com with comments and questions. Resources: Contact Joanna: joannajanedelves@gmail.com Gabor Maté on healing from trauma and addiction with ayahuasca. Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program by Melanie Tonia Evans. Sign up for her Gold Membership narcissistic abuse recovery program here https://bit.ly/3g5g0gl Music: New Dawn by Ruth Blake. Listen to her musilic at www.ruthblake.com Logo image based on Psychopomp by Hollie Chastain. www.holliechastain.com Logo design @ebz_agg
How does trauma affect your brain and your body? What's the impact if your primary caregivers are not attuned to your needs as a baby? Can unexpressed emotion cause pain in your body? We weave our way through different theories of what trauma is, how it affects you physiologically and what you can do about it. We also explore the benefits of approaching your own trauma indirectly. Trigger warning: we discuss different forms of abuse and manipulation in this podcast. If you may be triggered by these topics, please make sure you have support or resources in place before you listen. The opinions we express here are based on subjective personal experience. You can also expect a bit of swearing. Email us at pastimperfectpodcast@gmail.com with comments and questions. Resources: The Body Keeps The Score, Bessel Van Der Kolk. Read this book. Seriously. Or listen to it. It's rich! https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/18693771-the-body-keeps-the-score Healing Back Pain, John Sarno https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/144873.Healing_Back_Pain Hip Sobriety program, Holy Whitaker https://www.hipsobriety.com/ Elise Parsons, Somatic Experiencing and Internal Family Systems Practitioner https://www.bodhiwork.com/ Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program by Melanie Tonia Evans. Sign up for her Gold Membership narcissistic abuse recovery program here https://bit.ly/3g5g0gl Music: New Dawn by Ruth Blake. Listen to her music at www.ruthblake.com Logo image based on Psychopomp by Hollie Chastain. Check out her art and amazing collage book at www.holliechastain.com Logo design @ebz_agg
If you or someone you love has been traumatized by a toxic relationship, this show can help empower you with tools to heal. Dr. Kelly is joined this week by author Melanie Tonia Evans, the world's leading expert on recovering from Narcissistic Abuse. In today's show we discuss what it means psychologically to be a "narcissist" including including compulsive lying, over-the-top jealousy and lack of empathy. We also discsus Melanie's incredible personal journey of hitting rock bottom during her marriage to a narcissist, and her incredible story of recovering and helping thousands of people do the same. We also discuss the key to healing to from this trauma, why people fall in love with narcissists, and the nine personality traits of people most likely to end up in toxic relationships. If you feel that this might be you, please know that you ARE NOT ALONE and that you CAN heal! Full of powerful insights and personal experience, Melanie is here promoting her new book, You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse, which helps elucidate the reasons why people are attracted to narcissists, help you to identify your subconscious programmes, validate the effects that Narcissistic Abuse has had on your life, and it will show you how to free yourself from inner trauma so that you can heal the pain and build a new life. Melanie Tonia Evans is a healer, author and radio host considered to be the worlds leading online authority on narcissistic abuse recovery. As a survivor of Narcissistic Abuse herself, she is the founder of Quanta Freedom Healing (QFH) and the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program (NARP). Through her programmes, Mel has helped thousands of people worldwide -there are now over 20,000 graduates of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program who are presently Thriving in abuse-free lives.
If you or someone you love has been traumatized by a toxic relationship, this show can help empower you with tools to heal. Dr. Kelly is joined this week by author Melanie Tonia Evans, the world's leading expert on recovering from Narcissistic Abuse. In today's show we discuss what it means psychologically to be a "narcissist" including including compulsive lying, over-the-top jealousy and lack of empathy. We also discsus Melanie's incredible personal journey of hitting rock bottom during her marriage to a narcissist, and her incredible story of recovering and helping thousands of people do the same. We also discuss the key to healing to from this trauma, why people fall in love with narcissists, and the nine personality traits of people most likely to end up in toxic relationships. If you feel that this might be you, please know that you ARE NOT ALONE and that you CAN heal! Full of powerful insights and personal experience, Melanie is here promoting her new book, You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse, which helps elucidate the reasons why people are attracted to narcissists, help you to identify your subconscious programmes, validate the effects that Narcissistic Abuse has had on your life, and it will show you how to free yourself from inner trauma so that you can heal the pain and build a new life. Melanie Tonia Evans is a healer, author and radio host considered to be the worlds leading online authority on narcissistic abuse recovery. As a survivor of Narcissistic Abuse herself, she is the founder of Quanta Freedom Healing (QFH) and the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program (NARP). Through her programmes, Mel has helped thousands of people worldwide -there are now over 20,000 graduates of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program who are presently Thriving in abuse-free lives.
We had the absolute privilege to have world renowned Narcissist expert Melanie Tonia Evans on the show. We dove into: What a narcissist really is and what to do when you have one in your life How to re-program ourselves and take our power back to become THRIVERS How Melanie came back from losing everything and a mental breakdown to heal herself from the inside out. And… Melanie’s global mission that has had her create an astonishing 80,000 strong community. SHOW NOTES: http://timandness.com.au/096-melanietoniaevans Melanie Tonia Evans is a world renowned Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Expert and healer. Melanie’s leading edge healing methods have helped thousands of people from over 80 countries make astounding full recoveries from narcissistic abuse. Her passion is bringing to the world the Thriver Model … which saved her life and granted her the life of her dreams, despite being given the diagnosis that she would never recover from her abuse symptoms. Melanie’s Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program which contains her pioneer super-tool, Quanta Freedom Healing, enables people to heal from trauma in time frames and ways they had never previously accessed – even when every other healing method has failed. Melanie’s work is revolutionising the old Model of Survivor Recovery to one of Thriver status – whereby people become more confident, happy and successful in life, than they ever were even before being abused … or even if abuse was all they have ever known. The Thriver Model has gained incredible attention and recognition, with psychologists, counsellors, domestic violence workers and relationship experts globally, referring abuse victims to Melanie’s Model as the solution to heal for real from narcissistic abuse. As always... If you liked this episode, please… 1. Subscribe, Rate & Review! 2. Share this with someone who you know will find this valuable 3. Join us over at the extraordinary life revolution: www.timandness.com.au/joinrevolution
This radio show is Clarie’s Thriver Story. An incredible one that I know many people will relate to. As a result of Clarie’s traumatic childhood she had developed avoidance and dissociation disorders. She had very little memory of her childhood, and had through she had dealt with it, and that she was “okay”. Clarie ended up in a relationship in her 50s with a narcissist, which cracked that illusion wide open. The journey of this radio show is about her N-experience and then how Clarie realised she was sick, and that life could no longer carry on as normal. Clarie tried through intense therapy to be able to connect in her body to her being and to life, but could not access her emotions. In this show you will learn how Clarie finally came home to herself in a way that she described was like looking through a window pane at life but not being able to be in life. After Clarie was able to find and shed layer upon layer of trauma that her True Self had been buried under for years … she was finally freed, and able to be fully herself … as well as connect to life and living. Discover how she did it in this show.
This radio show is about the ways in which the narcissist is overly "entitled". Why do narcissists behave in ways that are unreasonable? Why do they make demands that healthy, mature adults just don't do? You will discover in this radio show the reasons why narcissists are entitled, and why they believe there are justifications for their entitlement. You will also learn what your options are in regard to working with the narcissist when he or she is acting out “being entitled”. For the transcript of this radio show you can go to blog.melanietoniaevans.com If you suspect or know that you are suffering from narcissistic abuse you can Sign up to my Free Newsletter, and receive your New Life Starter pack which includes 2 free ebooks, an email series called "16 days to your new life and an invitation to join my free 2 hour information and healing webinar. You can do this by typing in www.melanietoniaevans.com/getstarted Also, my greatest work (humbly) is the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program, which to date has allowed thousands of people to not only create full recoveries from narcissistic abuse, but also thrive in their new abuse free lives. To find out more please go to www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp
This Thriver show features Marie, a mother of 5 children, who endured a 7 years relationship with a narcissist. We talk about how one of the biggest discoveries Marie made, is how co-dependent she was – and how she always had to fill her life with activities and people, and after escaping her relationship with the narcissist, how she couldn’t initially bear to be alone. During our conversation Marie shares about how working on establishing her Identity has been key, and she shares her involvement with Co-Dep (Co-dependents Anonymous) and how fascinating her children are as “a mirror” to make her recovery not just about herself, but also about them. You will also learn from this interview about Marie’s new partner, who is the father of her youngest two children, and how incredibly different the relationship is from her previous narcissistic one. To find out more about the program that helped facilitate Marie's recovery visit: www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp
I am vey happy to share this radio show with you. Scott's interview came about as a result of putting out to the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Community for men to come forward and share their stories. The Community for quite some time had been asking for men, who have been narcissistically abused, to come on radio. Wonderfully, quite a few men replied! So...this show is the first of a new series...'Male Thrivers". I hope you enjoy Scott's story, as it is one that many men will relate to.
This is a very big topic. It is a question I get asked many, many times… Understandably many people want to believe narcissists can heal - and want to find out what it would take for one to recover from Narcissistic Personality Disorder. During this show I'd like to take you on a deep journey in order to answer this question - as well as provide you extended information about this topic…
This show could provide a big key of awareness to assist your recovery from narcissistic abuse. During this show you will learn the difference between accepting our woundedness, and the ability to BE with our inner wounds, rather than immediately seek to ‘fix’ them. This show is a sharing of my personal experience in becoming comfortable with my inner vulnerabilities and ability to self-soothe. I hope this grants you inspiration to be able to achieve the same!
Neringa’s story is one about living in a long term narcissistic marriage, which Neringa has finally been able to separate from. Neringa' story is a little different from many of the Thriver Shows, in that she did not use the NARP Program for an extended period of time, or even regularly for her inner shifts to occur. I know that many people in the community will be able to relate to Neringa’s marriage and her life up until this point. This is a pretty amazing story!
This Thriver Story - is so far the one which I personally relate to the most - and I know that many people in the community will as well. Deanna's story is about meeting and marrying a narcissist later in life, after having experienced other previous committed relationships. How do we recover from later relationships with narcissists at mid-life? From this story you will learn how Deanna healed, recovered and thrived. I know this interview can grant you much hope and inspiration.
This show is an incredible story of a lady who worked at her recovery whilst in her 33 year narcissistic marriage. Discover how Karla overcame an emotional and physical breakdown, empowered herself, broke away and stayed away. Learn how Kayla has now created a life which bares no resemblance to her former one.
This radio show is a deeper look at emotional pain. Why do we have emotional pain? What is its purpose? This show will allow you to learn how we can recognise our times of emotional pain and use them for our greatest personal growth potential. Learn how you can align with the true knowing that breakdowns do contain spectacular breakthroughs.
This story is a lady's amazing journey to escape and survive after a long-term highly abusive narcissistic marriage. Her story is one of courage and succeeding against all odds. From a paralysed position where leaving seemed hopeless she is now free and creating her true and incredible life. No matter how powerless, scared and stuck you may feel - there is hope and this show will explain to you 'how'.
This radio show is one lady's recovery from narcissistic abuse. Her life hit rock bottom, after a painful narcissistic relationship which ended when her boyfriend discarded her and moved on to another love partner. During this show you will learn how low she was, how she was immobilised, couldn't function or work. Not only was she emotionally traumatised, physical conditions escalated as well. When I first met her, truly she was one of the worst cases of narcissistic abuse I have ever come across. This lady went through all types of therapies contemporary as well as holistic to try to find the answer to heal and live. Eventually she did, and her life now bears no resemblance to her previous agony. Her story can inspire you that recovery from narcissistic abuse can occur regardless of how powerless and devastated you feel.
This show was a pre-recorded show with a lady from the UK who is recovering from narcissistic abuse. Only a month ago Juliette was devestated, incredibly depressed and feeling helpless. Due to her engaging in the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program and focsuing on healing herself she now sees a light at the end of the tunnel and is on the way to recovering her self, life and truth. This show is a great listen to for anyone wishing to recover from narcissistic abuse.