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In this powerful breakdown, Rebecca Zung reveals the hard truth about high conflict disputes: you are not fighting for justice, you are fighting for leverage. If you are dealing with a narcissist in litigation, custody battles, business disputes, or mediation, this video shows you exactly how to stop reacting emotionally and start building structured leverage that wins cases.
If you are dealing with a narcissist in divorce, custody battles, business, or a toxic relationship, this episode reveals a proven 4-step strategy to take your power back. Learn the psychology behind narcissistic manipulation, love bombing, trauma bonding, smear campaigns, and how to negotiate effectively using the SLAY method. This is a masterclass in narcissism recovery, high-conflict negotiation, and emotional self-defense.
If you feel like you're losing in court, mediation, or negotiations, it's not because you're weak, unprepared, or outmatched. It's because you're playing the wrong game. In this episode, Rebecca Zung explains why high-conflict opponents win against ethical, intelligent people and how shifting from reaction to leverage changes everything.
Narcissists rely on manipulation, gaslighting, and psychological control to protect their false self, but once you understand their patterns, their power collapses. In this episode, you'll learn the hidden truths narcissists don't want you to know, the exact phrases they use to control you, what happens when they realize you've figured them out, and the strategic steps that actually protect you and restore your power.
Judges don't decide cases based solely on truth or fairness. They decide based on credibility. In this episode, trial attorney Rebecca Zung explains exactly how judges evaluate credibility, why calm and consistency beat emotion, and how preparation, structure, and optics can determine who wins in court, even in high-conflict cases.
In this powerful interview, Rebecca Zung sits down with world-class coach and communicator Chris Lee to unpack why toxic relationships happen, how personal responsibility and self-worth play a role, and how to set clear boundaries and non-negotiables so you never end up in one again. This conversation delivers practical insights on self-love, values, expectations, and the real foundation of healthy, lasting relationships.
If your legal case feels stuck or unfair, the problem may not be your lawyer or the judge. In this episode, Rebecca Zung explains the most common ways clients unknowingly sabotage their own cases and shows how strategy, structure, and leverage (not emotion) determine outcomes in high-conflict legal disputes.
Most legal cases are not won by who has the most evidence, they are won by who presents the right evidence the right way. In this video, Rebecca Zung explains why volume doesn't equal strength, how courts actually evaluate evidence, and the strategic framework you need to turn documentation into real leverage in court or mediation.
In this powerful conversation, Rebecca Zung sits down with transformational leadership coach Kelly Townsend to reveal the hidden internal conversations that quietly undermine your confidence, leadership, and success. Learn how identity, emotion, and self-authored narratives shape your power in business and life. And how to reclaim agency, authority, and abundance by transforming the stories you tell yourself. Book -Pineapples & Profits: Why You're Not Your Business (And Why That Matters): https://amzn.to/4tnpfOM
If you think your lawyer is the reason your case is failing, this video may completely change how you see the legal system. The real problem is not bad lawyering, it's hidden court roadblocks, strategic blind spots, and a system that rewards leverage, patterns, and preparation over truth and emotion.
Mediation is not about being right , it's about leverage, preparation, and control. In this episode, a Leverage Lawyer with over 25 years of experience breaks down the 7 non-negotiable things you must have before walking into mediation if you want to protect your position, avoid being manipulated, and secure the best possible outcome in high-conflict legal, financial, or business disputes.
In this deep and revealing conversation, Jungian psychoanalyst Susan Schwartz explores the hidden psychology of narcissism, love, trauma bonds, and why relationships with narcissists feel so addictive yet devastating. Drawing on Jungian theory, mythology, and decades of clinical work, she explains why narcissism forms, why empaths are drawn in, why healing a narcissist rarely works, and how real recovery comes from self-knowledge, boundaries, and inner work. Book - An Analytical Exploration of Love and Narcissism: https://amzn.to/452lvro
Being “nice” may feel right, but it can quietly destroy your authority, credibility, and influence. In this episode, a veteran trial lawyer explains how polite, apologetic, and permission-seeking language signals weakness to high-conflict people. And shows you exactly how to replace it with calm, decisive, authoritative communication that earns respect without being rude.
Financial bullying often happens quietly and escalates during divorce, especially in relationships involving narcissistic or high-conflict personalities. In this in-depth conversation, divorce attorney and financial litigation expert Lisa Zeiderman, Esq. explains how financial control, hidden assets, discovery abuse, and legal manipulation work. And what you can do to protect yourself before, during, and after divorce.
In this episode, Leverage Lawyer Rebecca Zung explains what even good lawyers often get wrong in high-conflict cases and why relying solely on legal strategy can cause clients to lose control, leverage, and outcomes. Learn how high-conflict personalities operate, why facts alone don't protect you, and what actually works to win strategically instead of emotionally.
If you are in a high conflict court case and feel like the truth is not protecting you, this episode is your wake up call. Leverage Lawyer Rebecca Zung explains why being right, emotional, or even having a strong lawyer is not enough to win in court and what you must do instead to protect your money, credibility, leverage, and future.
The Love, Happiness and Success Podcast With Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
When love and relationships turn into constant conflict, the problem isn't that you're bad at communicating; it's that you're negotiating without a strategy. In this episode, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby sits down with negotiation expert Rebecca Zung to unpack how communication breaks down in narcissistic relationships and what it really takes to negotiate effectively in a marriage or partnership marked by high conflict. If you've ever found yourself explaining, accommodating, or giving more and more in the hope that things will finally calm down, only to feel resentful or powerless later, this conversation is for you. Rebecca shares why negotiation is not just a legal skill, but a relationship skill and a self-worth skill, especially when you're dealing with someone who is unpredictable, manipulative, or unwilling to meet you halfway. We talk about how to negotiate with a narcissist without losing yourself, including why mindset and preparation matter more than saying the “right” thing in the moment. Rebecca explains how common negotiation tactics like over-giving, people-pleasing, and JADE-ing (justify, argue, defend, explain) quietly undermine your position, and how clarity around your values, boundaries, and walk-away points can change the entire dynamic. You'll also hear practical strategies for staying grounded and strategic in high-conflict relationships, setting boundaries without escalating conflict, and using leverage in ways that protect your energy, your self-respect, and what matters most to you. As you listen, I invite you to reflect on this: Where have you been negotiating against yourself just to keep the peace? And what might shift if you approached these conversations with more clarity, intention, and respect for your own needs? Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Negotiation Is a Relationship Skill 01:38 Rebecca Zung's Personal Path to Negotiation Expertise 09:31 The First Negotiation Is With Yourself 13:26 Why Mindset Determines Negotiation Outcomes 18:24 Over-Giving, People-Pleasing, and Resentment 28:18 The Five I's of Negotiation Leverage 43:30 Never JADE: How to Stop Giving Away Your Power 46:43 Setting Boundaries in High-Conflict Relationships If this episode resonated, and you're realizing that navigating a high-conflict relationship requires more than just trying harder or explaining yourself better, I want you to know that support is available. I'd love to invite you to schedule a free consultation with my team at Growing Self. This is a private, secure space where you can share what's been happening in your relationship and where you're feeling stuck or drained. You'll answer a few quick questions so we can thoughtfully connect you with the right counselor or coach, someone who understands high-conflict dynamics and can help you move forward with greater clarity, confidence, and self-trust. You don't have to keep negotiating without a strategy, and you don't have to do this alone. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Sel
How do you trust yourself again after self-doubt, people-pleasing, or difficult relationships? In this powerful conversation, Dr. Shade Zahrai breaks down the psychology of trust, confidence, and self-belief, revealing the four hidden drivers of self-doubt and how to build “Big Trust” so you can show up with clarity, confidence, and influence in your life and career.
If you are divorcing or negotiating with a narcissist, this episode gives you the exact strategies to protect your money, your children, and your sanity. Learn how narcissists manipulate family court, how to shut down smear campaigns, how to negotiate from leverage, and how to stop emotional and financial bleeding—while positioning yourself to win.
Midlife is not a crisis—it is a calling. In this profound conversation, Marianne Williamson reveals why midlife is a spiritual portal, how forgiveness unlocks miracles at any age, and why women are meant to rise into greater power, wisdom, and purpose in the second half of life.
Finding a great divorce lawyer is not enough, especially if you're dealing with a narcissist or high-conflict ex. This episode reveals the three critical truths no one talks about when choosing a divorce lawyer, and how misunderstanding them can cost you your case, your money, and your peace of mind.
This episode exposes the number one narcissistic abuse tactic—reactive abuse—and explains how victims are manipulated into looking like the abuser. Using the Gabby Petito case and real legal analysis, it reveals how narcissists exploit emotional reactions, law enforcement blind spots, and legal systems to maintain control while avoiding accountability. The episode also teaches how to recognize the warning signs, protect yourself, and break free from the cycle of narcissistic abuse.
If someone constantly provokes, gaslights, or emotionally manipulates you, this episode reveals the exact psychological strategy that makes manipulators lose control instantly. Learn how to shut down manipulation, remove their emotional leverage, and regain your power without arguing, defending, or escalating.
If you are dealing with a narcissist in court and feel like they always win by appearing calm while you are portrayed as emotional or unstable, this episode explains the exact manipulation tactic being used and how to shut it down. Leverage lawyer Rebecca Zung reveals how narcissists control perception in court by provoking reactions, performing credibility, and exploiting bias, and she shows you how to regain power by shifting the focus to facts, documentation, and behavioral patterns that judges trust.
Narcissists win by destabilizing your emotions, not by logic or facts. This episode reveals the hidden psychological trap they use to control you—and the one counter-move they cannot defeat: radical emotional regulation.
A raw, unfiltered conversation about workplace narcissism, covert abuse, gaslighting, and the personal cost of staying too long in toxic power dynamics. This video breaks down how narcissistic leaders operate, how they target high performers, why self-doubt grows, and how reclaiming confidence, boundaries, and intuition can completely change the trajectory of your life and career.
This powerful interview with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby breaks down why toxic relationships feel addictive, how emotional bonding overrides logic, and the practical steps needed to regain self-trust, set boundaries, and build emotionally healthy relationships.
This episode reveals exactly what to say during a narcissist's verbal attack so you can stay calm, protect your self-respect, and stop emotional manipulation in its tracks. You'll learn 15 powerful phrases plus advanced high-conflict communication strategies used by attorneys and negotiation experts to shut down gaslighting, baiting, and control without escalating the situation.
Discover the hidden truths about narcissists, their manipulative tactics, and how trauma shapes their brains. Learn to identify love-bombing, control tactics, and smear campaigns, and gain practical strategies to set boundaries, protect your mental health, and build leverage. This comprehensive guide dives deep into the psychology of narcissism, their core fears, and proven methods to navigate relationships safely and strategically.
Former Navy SEAL Commander Mark Divine shares his journey of resilience, recovery, and personal evolution. From overcoming severe injuries to mastering the mind-body connection, he reveals practical strategies for courage, leadership, and spiritual growth. Learn how vulnerability, meditation, and intentional choices shaped his life and success. Mark Divine's website: https://markdivine.com/ Youtube - / @markdivineofficial Instagram – / markdivineofficial Linkedin - / markdivine Twitter/X - https://x.com/MarkDivine Podcast - The Mark Divine Show https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...https://open.spotify.com/show/27MJdjr...
This raw, deeply powerful conversation reveals the full arc of narcissistic abuse—from love bombing and gaslighting to trauma, awakening, and true empowerment. Through lived experience, psychological insight, and hard-earned wisdom, this interview exposes how narcissists operate, why strong high-value people are targeted, and exactly how to reclaim identity, power, and freedom after narcissistic abuse, divorce, and custody battles.
Discover practical strategies to turn fear into power, build unshakable confidence, and navigate toxic relationships with narcissists. In this episode, we break down mindset shifts, emotional control techniques, and actionable steps to assert yourself, maintain independence, and create the life you deserve. Learn how execution, visualization, and inner guidance can transform your personal and professional life.
This episode reveals the one type of leverage that immediately makes a narcissist panic: documented, undeniable patterns that expose their true behavior and destroy their carefully crafted image. You'll learn how to flip the power dynamic, stop negotiating from fear, and strategically build written evidence that narcissists cannot deny, twist, or gaslight away.
Learn actionable strategies to protect yourself and your children during a narcissistic divorce. This episode covers how to ethically leverage the court system, prepare financially, understand narcissistic behavior, maintain resilience, and ensure your case focuses on the best interest of the child.
This episode breaks down the hidden body-language cues, micro-expressions, and behavioral red flags that reveal when someone is lying, manipulating, or concealing their true intentions. Using real psychological research and expert-level analysis, you will learn how to decode subtle expressions, detect deception in real time, and understand the emotional drivers behind narcissistic and toxic behavior.
This interview with Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn, professor of relational and sexual communication and author of How Do You Like It?, reveals how sexual fulfillment is deeply tied to communication, emotional safety, relationship dynamics, and self-knowledge. Learn how to express your desires, navigate power imbalances, rebuild intimacy after betrayal, and create a high-quality sex life rooted in confidence and connection. Dr. Tara's website: https://www.luvbites.co/ Instagram – / luvbites.co Tiktok - / luvbites.co Linkedin - / tarasuwin Twitter/X - / luvbitesco
This episode exposes the ten brutal truths narcissists never want you to understand. You will learn how narcissists manipulate, gaslight, exploit empathy, and trap you in a cycle of control. Rebecca breaks down the signs they are playing you for a fool, what happens when you stop allowing manipulation, and how a super empath ultimately becomes more powerful than a narcissist. It also explains narcissistic collapse and how to safely protect yourself from toxic behavior.
This episode exposes the most common toxic communication patterns used by narcissists, manipulators, and emotionally abusive partners. You will learn how gaslighting works, how to recognize blame-shifting and control tactics, and how to protect your emotional stability using grounded communication tools such as the PAUSE Method. This is your complete guide to identifying manipulation in real time and responding with clarity, confidence, and boundaries.
Discover the shocking truths lawyers rarely reveal before you divorce a narcissist. In this powerful episode, leverage attorney and bestselling author Rebecca Zung exposes the hidden traps narcissists use in divorce and how to protect your money, children, and sanity. Learn how to outsmart manipulation, build leverage, document effectively, and lead your case with confidence.
In this video. Rebecca Zung breaks down the hidden psychological patterns behind toxic relationships, narcissistic manipulation, trauma bonding, and emotional collapse. Using real cases along with a firsthand account of pressure, ego, and burnout in high-performance private equity. This is a deep dive into narcissism, trauma triggers, self-worth, and the journey to reclaiming power.
Discover the most powerful strategies to gain leverage against narcissists in relationships, family disputes, and legal battles. Learn how to protect yourself, expose lies, and negotiate with confidence while keeping control of your life. This step-by-step guide will empower you to stop reacting and start winning.
This interview with Mark Groves how to reclaim your power after toxic relationships, stop self-abandonment, break trauma-driven attraction patterns, and rebuild self-trust through boundaries, emotional intelligence, and alignment with your deepest values. Learn why you attract toxic partners, how to stop people-pleasing, how to identify red flags early, and how to rebuild your nervous system so you feel safe choosing healthy love.
In this episode Rebecca Zung provides the ultimate guide to dealing with narcissists, exposing their manipulation tactics and showing you how to protect yourself. Learn 12 actionable strategies to regain control, set boundaries, and maintain your peace in relationships, family situations, or work environments. Over an hour of insights designed to empower you and prevent toxic cycles.
In this powerful episode, top narcissism expert and attorney Rebecca Zung exposes the shocking and manipulative behaviors narcissists engage in when you're not around. From secret spying to smear campaigns and emotional triangulation, learn exactly what happens behind your back — and how to take your power back using Rebecca's proven S.L.A.Y. Method (Strategy, Leverage, Anticipate, You).
In this episode, top lawyer and leverage expert Rebecca Zung reveals why narcissists make fake allegations and how to protect yourself legally and emotionally. Learn the psychological reasons behind false accusations, the manipulation blueprint narcissists follow, and proven legal and communication strategies to neutralize their attacks while maintaining credibility.
conversation with bestselling author and negotiation expert Rebecca Zung and attorney Mark J. Kohler. We break down what to do first, what to avoid, and how to protect your future — without playing dirty.You'll learn the five main areas courts consider in family law cases—property division, spousal support, custody and parenting decisions, child support, and attorney's fees—and how each one affects the next. We cover business valuation timing, enterprise vs. personal goodwill, forensic accounting, lifestyle analysis, and “sudden income deficiency syndrome.” Plus, Rebecca explains her SLAY framework (Strategy, Leverage, Anticipate, You) for negotiating with narcissists and staying out of emotional sabotage.If this helped, subscribe for weekly legal and tax strategy insights, drop your questions in the comments, and share with a friend who needs it.You'll learn:How to prepare financially before filing for divorce — and the first critical steps to protect your assets and credibilityThe five main areas every family law case covers: property division, spousal support, custody and parenting decisions, child support, and attorney's feesHow and when to value a business during divorce, including the difference between enterprise and personal goodwillWhy forensic accounting, lifestyle analysis, and “sudden income deficiency syndrome” can make or break your caseSmart strategies for both the moneyed and non-moneyed spouse to stay financially stable during proceedingsHow Rebecca Zung's SLAY framework (Strategy, Leverage, Anticipate, You) helps you negotiate with a narcissist and avoid emotional trapsGet a comprehensive tax consultation with one of our Main Street tax lawyers that can build a tax strategy plan with an affordable consultation that will leave you speechless!! Here's the link - https://kkoslawyers.com/services/comprehensive-bus-tax-consult/?utm_source=buzzsprout&utm_medium=description-link&utm_campaign=main-street-business-podcast&utm_content=msbp600-rebecca-zung-interview Grab my eBook 30 Unique Strategies Every Business Owner Should Know! You don't want to miss this! Secure your tickets for the #1 Event For Small Business Owners On Main Street America: Main Street 360 Looking to connect with a rock star law firm? KKOS is only a click away! Are you ready to get certified in EVERY strategy I teach? Start your journey with a FREE 15-minute discovery call to explore the Main Street Tax Pro Certification. Check out our YOUTUBE Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/markjkohler Craving more content? Check out my Instagram!
This is a fan fav episode. Welcome to another empowering episode of Women of Impact! I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu, and today we're diving into a topic that's been chipping away at too many women's identity and confidence - dealing with narcissists. If you've been feeling stuck in an unhealthy relationship with a narcissist, this episode is sure to hit home. Joining me in this special Instagram Live is the one and only Rebecca Zung, a top attorney renowned for her expertise in slaying narcissists. Together, we're bringing you quick tips and effective strategies to help you Slay the Bully in your life! In this episode, we get super tactical,which I love the most! We dive deep into how you can outsmart the manipulator without compromising your integrity. Rebecca generously shares vital tips for those co-parenting with a narcissist who is trying to turn your kid against you. And, we'll unravel "easy" strategies to help you dodge the bully by shedding light on how they conditioned you in the first place. As Rebecca wisely said, “Their triggers are not your responsibility.” Let's reclaim your power! We also have some amazing resources for you today also: *Disarm the Narc, a free resource courtesy of Rebecca: https://disarmthenarc.com/ Follow Rebecca Zung for more tips to Slay the Bully: Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RebeccaZungEsq Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rebeccazung/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode, Rebecca Zung breaks down the secret texting tactics narcissists use to manipulate, confuse, and control you - and shows exactly how to take your power back. Learn how love bombing turns into gaslighting, ghosting, and guilt-tripping, and discover the communication strategies that put you back in control.
Do you suspect you're dating a narcissist? This episode dives into the world of narcissism and relationships, revealing key narcissist red flags to watch out for. Learn about the subtle manipulation tactics they use and how to protect yourself from narcissistic abuse. You'll learn: How narcissists turn intimacy into a form of control and domination The 10 signs you may be having sex with a narcissist How narcissists withhold affection, attention, and truth to punish you The real difference between “diamond-level” and “coal-level” supply Why narcissists crave admiration and use sex to feed their ego The psychological and physical effects of sexual and emotional abuse Why narcissists fear true intimacy and vulnerability How to protect yourself and rebuild emotional and physical safety Connect with Me Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com Facebook: / rebeccazung Instagram: / rebeccazung YouTube: / @rebeccazungesq LinkedIn: / rebecca-zung-6753893b X (Twitter): / rebeccazung Podcast – Negotiate Your Best Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Join My Free Facebook Group: / narcissistnegotiators Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Discover the secret psychological strategy that instantly shifts power away from narcissists—without arguing, yelling, or losing control. Attorney and Leverage Expert Rebecca Zung reveals her proven “Micro-Yes Technique,” a subtle communication tool that works in courtrooms, co-parenting situations, and everyday conversations. Learn how to use this method to outsmart manipulation, restore your peace, and win with logic—not emotion.