Andrew Farley

I have experienced being slain in the Spirit! My friend wants us to sleep together. Should I? Can you explain the Sabbath? My son doesn't seem to believe anymore. What should I think? Which is the best Bible version in English? I believe there are two kinds of tongues, and one is to edify yourself. Isn't that what 1 Corinthians 14 is teaching?

What If You're Safer Than You Think? Discussion Questions: Read John 14:19. How does Jesus tying your life to His resurrection life give you confidence about your eternal security? Read John 6:37. What does Jesus' promise to "never cast out" reveal about how safe you are with Him—even on your worst day? Read John 6:39. How does knowing that Jesus' mission was "to lose none" change the way you view your own assurance of salvation? Read John 10:27–28. What does it mean to you personally that both the Father and the Son hold you in their hands? How does this double-grip shape your sense of security? Read 2 Timothy 2:13. What assurance do you find in the truth that even when you are faithless, Christ remains faithful? How does this encourage gratefulness? Read Romans 8:38–39. What threat feels most real to you? How does this passage reassure you that nothing can separate you from Christ? Read Jude 1:24. How does ending with "He is able to keep you" shift your focus from your promises to God toward His promises to you? How is this a game–changer?

What are your thoughts on Oppositional Defiance Disorder? What is the power of sin? Does it indwell us as Christians? Did Adam and Eve ever repent and "get saved"? Why did Jesus tell some people, "Your sins are forgiven"? Is being "slain in the Spirit" biblical?

How do we let God love us? What does that look like? I've recently felt a call to Jesus, but I also appreciate the religions of the world.

I've been told that I need to step back and not be so active with my children and grandchildren. I want to find the perfect balance and not over-nurture them. How can I do that? I'm a truck driver, and I'm constantly on the road, so I can't attend church regularly. What does the Bible say about my situation?

I'm excited about the meaning of the resurrection in my life! A friend asked me to send him a sexy picture. What should I do? What is replacement theology? What is the truth about Jews and Gentiles and the church?

What if God's Power Shines Most When You Stop Pretending? Discussion Questions for 2 Corinthians 11-13: Why does Paul spend so much time "boasting" about his sufferings and weaknesses in chapter 11? What point is he making? In 2 Corinthians 12:2–4, Paul mentions being "caught up to the third heaven." What does this mean, and what might Paul have experienced or seen there? Why do you think Paul refers to himself in the third person when describing this heavenly vision? What does this tell us about Paul and his purpose in sharing it? What do you think Paul's "thorn in the flesh" might have been? Why do you think God allowed it to remain? Read verse 9. What does it mean for God's grace to be sufficient for you? How can you practically "boast in weakness" so that Christ's power may rest on you? Read verse 10. Reflect on this paradox: "When I am weak, then I am strong." What does this look like in real life? Can you think of a time when God's strength showed most clearly through your weakness? Read 13:5. What is the true test of salvation according to this passage? How does that differ from assessing our works or inspecting our fruit?

Jesus said not to judge, but then God judges us? And shouldn't we make "judgment calls"? Can Satan read our minds? If not, then how are we always getting sinful thoughts in our heads? Why do so many Christian parents allow their children to participate in Halloween with costumes and trick-or-treating? Is it right or wrong?

Can a true believer fall so hard that they can't repent and be forgiven by God? Do we receive the Holy Spirit by the laying on of hands? If not, then how exactly? Will some Christians miss the rapture and be left behind because of disobedience?

What's the deal with head coverings in 1 Corinthians? Does God still hear repetitive prayers like at the dinner table? Is Christianity largely a pursuit of knowledge? What is the truth about the Eucharist and transubstantiation?

I have so much guilt and regret over how I treated people during my lifetime. How can I find relief? The Ten Commandments says "no other gods before Me" yet we worship and pray to Jesus. Isn't that a contradiction? I lost my husband and then became physical with another man. Does this mean I lose my salvation and miss out on Heaven?

Should all pastors have a truth-checker displayed behind them while they preach? I left the church when I became an adult. How do I get back to God? Do you think Eve recognized the voice of Satan? Thank you for the "All or Nothing" podcast series!

Are You Being Built Up—or Just Impressed? Discussion Questions for 2 Corinthians 10-11: What are some "earthly weapons" people rely on today, and how do they differ from the spiritual weapons Paul describes? How do we practically "take every thought captive"? What does that look like in a day-to-day mental battle? When have you seen someone use their leadership position to build others up rather than tear them down? Why do we often fall into the trap of comparing ourselves to others in life (or ministry), and what exactly can shift our focus back to God's unique calling for us? What does it mean to be "betrothed to Christ"? How does that shape our daily choices and loyalties? In what ways do "false apostles" or modern spiritual distractions pull believers away from the simplicity of Christ today? How can we discern the difference between charisma that may draw larger crowds and genuine Christ-centered power in teaching today?

What is the real point of "where two or more are gathered"?  I wonder if God is convicting me about how I spend my free time. Should I be more devoted to Him? My brother passed away, and I don't really understand whether he was with God right after his death, or waiting for his body, or what?

How does the gospel speak to trauma? In 1 John, who is the group that "went out from among us" because they were never really part of the church? Does this relate to the importance of church attendance? What is God trying to teach me through my back pain?

We see the word "taste" in Hebrews 6 and 1 Peter 2. What does it mean to taste the gospel? Can we still reject it? What can I say to someone who doesn't believe in the resurrection? People online are interrupting my ministry to insist we're still under the Law. What should I do?

Is there really a more punishing Hell for those who deceive women and pray longer prayers? If not, what is the deal with Matthew 23:14? I have been struggling with sexual sin on the internet, and I constantly wonder if I'm still saved. I had to go to the hospital because of it! God showed me something incredible about Hebrews 10:2. Can I share?

I was abused growing up, and it led me to drinking too much. Will that keep me from Heaven? How can I deal with the guilt and shame that has come from the abuse? How can I share my faith with my young adult children without seeming too pushy? *previously aired

The Irreversible Work of Jesus Discussion Questions: In your own words, what is the new covenant? How is it different from the old? What are the two unchangeable things? Why is this important to understand? React to this statement: Jesus shed His blood once, so you were forgiven by God once. What does once-for-all forgiveness mean for you at the final judgment? React to this statement: I'm allergic to sin and addicted to Jesus. Why does the true definition of “eternal life” (no beginning or end) matter so much? React to this statement: Behavior passages are like God showing us what clothes fit us best!

I was abused growing up, and it led me to drinking too much. Will that keep me from Heaven? How can I deal with the guilt and shame that has come from the abuse? How can I share my faith with my young adult children without seeming too pushy?

What are the “works” that God prepares in advance for us? People accuse me of wanting to have my ears tickled with grace teaching. Is that what Paul meant when he warned Timothy? Do I have to call my husband “lord” to be truly submissive?

Is it okay to break out in tongues when you're in a group? Can you lose your salvation? I am a newer believer, and I've shared my faith with my father and my uncle. However, now I wonder if I did enough?

What's in the believer's heart? Are we fighting ourselves? Does half of you still need to die? What do Romans and Corinthians really say about freedom and sensitivity to others? What do you teach about divorce and remarriage?

Halloween is coming up, and I'm not sure what to do. What are your thoughts on celebrating with kids? What can I do now that I understand God's grace so much better, yet people at church don't agree with me? Are Christians obligated to financially support Israel? Does Matthew 24 mean some Christians will not go to Heaven if they are not able to endure enough?

Is the Law written on our hearts? What role does the Law play in raising our children today? For whom should I vote for mayor of Detroit? One candidate is a pastor! Should the sexually immoral be invited to leadership in church? Are Christians grafted into Israel? Will believers have to answer for every idle word? What about divorce and remarriage? 

What's That Smell? (Grace Giving and Grace Living!) Discussion Questions for 2 Corinthians: Read 2 Corinthians 6:14-16. What does it look like to “be separate” without being isolated or legalistic? How are you “different” in this world? Read 2 Corinthians 7:8-10. What is the difference between worldly sorrow and godly sorrow? Explain in your own words. Read 2 Corinthians 8:12-15. What do we learn about how the early church was invited to share with each other to meet needs? Read 2 Corinthians 9:5. Why did Paul send someone to go ahead of him? What does that show us about Paul's heart? Read 2 Corinthians 9:6. React to this statement: If we invest in the gospel, we're going to see a harvest: transformed lives! Read 2 Corinthians 9:7. What four expressions here show exactly what a healthy motivation for giving looks like? How is this different from the “give until it hurts” mentality? What meant the most to you from Andrew's message today? Why?

Should we focus on the enemy? If not, what's the best way to approach spiritual warfare? I'm trying to understand Philippians 2 about God working within us. Does it really mean we try to become blameless and pure? (If so, I'm toast!) As believers, can we have our bodies cremated instead of buried? Or do we have to pay for a burial site and a casket?

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My business is struggling, and my friend tells me it's because of unconfessed sins in my life! Is he right? My pastor told me that, when we sin, some of the Holy Spirit leaves us. Is that true? When we die, does the Holy Spirit go with us? Does the Bible talk about tithing? Do we have to tithe ten percent today? If not, what should we do?

Are there two returns of Christ or one? I gave my teenager some marijuana. Is that unforgivable? Does the Holy Spirit convict believers? How does He relate to us? What do you think about the celebration of All Saints Day? *previously aired  

What about people in remote locations who have never heard the gospel? And what about all those Gentiles in the Old Testament? How can believers who have died already have a resurrection body in Heaven? Or are they bodiless in Heaven or sleeping for thousands of years? What are your thoughts on James? Does he teach the Old Testament law as the means to salvation? What is the gift of tongues? Are there two kinds of tongues? What about women leading in church? Aren't they told to always be quiet?

What Died When You Did? Discussion Questions for 2 Corinthians 5-6: Read verse 15. What does it practically mean to no longer live for ourselves? How might this reshape our goals and motivations? Read verse 16. How does seeing others “not according to the flesh” change how we treat other people, even those who frustrate or anger us? Read verse 17. What does it mean to be a new creation? What old things have passed away, and what new things has God brought you? When? Read verses 18–20. Why is it important to read these verses as a cluster (including verse 20) to avoid the idea of universal salvation? Note verse 20. What role does our response play in reconciliation with God? Read verse 21. What does it mean to become “the righteousness of God in Him”? How does this go beyond being merely forgiven? Read verses 6:14–16. How should our identity as righteousness and light shape the (marriage) partnerships and priorities we form in the world? Read verses 6:17–18. What does it mean to come out and be separate without becoming self-righteous or isolated? How does knowing you're God's child shape your confidence and compassion?

Are there two returns of Christ or one? I gave my teenager some marijuana. Is that unforgivable? Does the Holy Spirit convict believers? How does He relate to us? What do you think about the celebration of All Saints Day?

Is Christ living in us just symbolic? My wife wants a divorce. What's my next move? Should we wish evil or destruction on unbelievers?

Why am I not able to feel God when I pray? Is the analogy of solid, liquid and gas a good representation of the Trinity? Am I grieving the Spirit? Am I being attacked by the enemy? Or do I have a physical problem? What are your thoughts on my situation?

What is the “third heaven”? What does it mean that we're already seated in heavenly places? My pastor said our character is the foundation for our lives. What are your thoughts? Please explain the Parable of the Talents. If it's about Christians, then how could the last person end up in “outer darkness”?

Our pastor wants to evangelize all communities, including those of different lifestyles. Is that biblical? What do you think he has in mind? How can I help my friend who is having marriage problems? What kind of counseling is best? I have a religious OCD, and I'm constantly concerned that I'm not entering God's rest. Can you help me? There are so many lies that we end up believing about forgiveness of other people! Can you clarify? What are your thoughts on God's glory being revealed in “seconds”?  

Do You Realize What Treasure God Put in You? Discussion Questions: Read verses 3–4. Why is it important to recognize that Satan (not God!) is the one blinding unbelievers? How does that understanding change the way we view God and people who reject the gospel? Read verse 6. Paul says God “shone in our hearts.” What does this verse imply about the nature of our hearts and what's inside them? Read verse 7. What do you think Paul means by “earthen vessels”? How does knowing about the treasure inside us shape how we see our weakness and our adequacy? Read verses 8–9. Paul lists hardships but never ends in defeat. What do these verses teach us about the difference between suffering with Christ in us versus suffering without Him? Read verses 10–12. Why is it freeing to realize that “carrying the dying of Jesus” refers to the apostles' suffering for the gospel's sake—not a call for all Christians to die more every day? How does verse 12 make this crystal clear? Read verse 15. How do you see “grace spreading to more and more people” in your circles today? Why is gratitude always the result of genuine ministry? Read verses 16–18. Paul contrasts the “outer man” decaying with the “inner man” being renewed. What does this say about where our real hope and beauty come from? How does it help you not to lose heart?

What does a healthy marriage dynamic look like? Should the needs of the husband come first? What is biblical submission? Should we worry with attacks of the enemy or magical spells? Can you talk about how we don't need Jesus to pray to the Father for us but instead we have direct access? Also, can you talk about some of the deep truths in John 6 and John 17? What does it mean to be equipped with everything we need for life and godliness?   marriage, dynamic, submission, husband, wife, enemy, attacks, spells, direct access, Father, prayer, John 6, John 17, complete, adequacy, equipped  

I'm burning out trying to help my brother (an addict living on the street) at any cost. What can I do? My daughter watches scary movies and has skulls. I wonder if she's still saved. What should I conclude? I'm frustrated, because our church has been studying David for two years, and it's mostly about sin management. And when I mention grace, they tell me I need to be careful, because it's too dangerous and people might abuse it.

Why aren't there many sermons on being single? What does the Bible have to say about singles? What is the best definition of “grace”?  

What does it mean to deny yourself? To take up your cross? Why did Jesus say these things? And what do people mean when they say “we have a cross to bear”? In Luke 8, Jesus casts out demons from a man. Does that mean he was automatically saved later at Pentecost? Why or why not?

I know God allows painful things to happen to us, but what is He thinking and feeling about us in those moments? God has given me so many opportunities to express love and grace to others and to pray for them. I'm so thankful! I'm a survivor of sexual abuse, and I wonder about forgiving those who were involved. How can I? Were there people created before Adam and Eve? People tell me I'm not a real Christian, because I have separated myself from family members that were abusive. Are they right about me?

Are You Living by Rules or by the Spirit? Discussion Questions: Read 2 Corinthians 2:14-16. Paul says we are the aroma of Christ. How do people “smell” Christ through us—maybe without use even saying a word? Read 2 Corinthians 3:4-6. Where do you personally feel inadequate, and how might seeing your adequacy in God shift that? Read 2 Corinthians 3:7-9. Why do you think Paul calls the Ten Commandments “the ministry of death”? How does that challenge common assumptions about the law? Read 2 Corinthians 3:10-11. The new covenant is described as “more glorious.” What makes it more glorious than the old covenant? Read 2 Corinthians 3:12-15. The veil is removed in Christ. What veil do people still wear today when approaching God, and how does Christ remove it? Read 2 Corinthians 3:17. What kind of liberty or freedom does the Holy Spirit inspire in us? Read 2 Corinthians 3:18. How does seeing Christ IN you (“as in a mirror”) change the way you view growing in God's grace?

Is too much grace dangerous? Should we only forgive others if they ask? Is that how God treats us? Do we have to confess every single sin to be forgiven by him? What about 1 John 1:9? And what should we do and when we sin?

My pastor told me that 70% of church members will be left behind at the rapture because of their ungodly living. Could this be true? I keep repenting and asking forgiveness for telling funny stories and cutting up. I can't seem to stop, and I wonder why I'm in this cycle. Can you help? An elder at my church said I need to focus on my recent sins at the Lord's Supper. He quoted from 1 Corinthians 11 about eating and drinking in an unworthy manner. What does that mean?