Beyond Hope

I’ve been waiting for you.It seems like years.Take a moment and breathe.Feel your feet on the ground.The earth can hold you now.Your work is done.Let your eyelids rest.And just breathe.Did you notice?You’re still here.You’re still breathing.Your heart still beats.Open your eyes now.Look around you.Do things seem different?That’s because you are different.The sun seems to shine brighter.The butterflies come out to greet you and birds fly by to say hello.Did you feel that gentle breeze in your hair?That was just for you.Breathe.You’ve been working so hard.Now you can just be still.It’s time to love yourself.It’s time to allow hope to re-enter your life.It’s about you now.Your work is done. Don’t they have everything they need?You’ve been given another chance.Sip in the oxygen, then set your voice and your words free.From this day forward, you will no longer hold yourself responsible for the happiness of others.It’s time for you to live renewed.For more episodes: https://beyondhoperadio.com/Beyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/Source: https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/s3e5-ive-been-waiting-for-you

Manny Mendez from FOREEL Recovery joins me today to talk about how they are connecting art and recovery.FOREEL’s goal is to not only help individuals achieve long term recovery and fulfill their dream, but to also find purpose in life. They have found that their approach to help overcome addiction has been successful by utilizing the creative mind through art in all of its many aspects.FOREEL believes addiction to be a disease of the mind, body and spirit. Those who have participated in the art-based activities have been given an opportunity to reconnect with the valuable inner resource of their own creativity. Through expressing themselves through art they can understanding the nature of their pain and can obtain the ability to heal and recover.For more info: https://foreelrecovery.com/For more episodes and notes: https://beyondhoperadio.com/Beyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/Source: https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/s3e4-foreel-recovery-with-manny-mendez

Today I’m talking to my friend, Aundre Washington. He shares his personal experience of darkness and what it means to not give up. I hope his story brings you encouragement, wherever you are in your journey today.First, Aundre and I share the story of how we met. It’s a unique story, but I’m grateful that he reached out to me, so that I could get to know him and develop our friendship.Aundre is passionate about faith, family and seeing others make progress in their life. He believes simple conversations can change the trajectory of someone’s life.2016 was the year that broke Aundre. It started with a layoff, this one was different. It hit home harder. Aundre felt lost and without a purpose. He started to struggle with depression and anxiety. Then the discouraging process of looking for a job, no after no. He started to grow bitter, and insecure. And the hits kept on coming, January – December.Aundre can now say he is happy for that year. He’s seen how those struggles and trials made him stronger.There is a beauty in the brokenness. Aundre saw things in his life that didn’t belong. He can now relate to others that are broken, and questioning their faith. Because he’s been there too.I’m glad you’re here today and hope that Aundre’s voice lifts you up and gives you hope.Aundre’s YouTube Channel: https://youtu.be/quTAmXHNYUcLinks:Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/create.momentum/Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/My email: shar@beyondhoperadio.comFind out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web – http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook – https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube – http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtubeBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/Source: https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/s3e3-beauty-from-brokenness-with-aundre-washington

Today I’m talking to my friend, Aundre Washington. He shares his personal experience of darkness and what it means to not give up. I hope his story brings you encouragement, wherever you are in your journey today.First, Aundre and I share the story of how we met. It’s a unique story, but I’m grateful that he reached out to me, so that I could get to know him and develop our friendship.Aundre is passionate about faith, family and seeing others make progress in their life. He believes simple conversations can change the trajectory of someone’s life.2016 was the year that broke Aundre. It started with a layoff, this one was different. It hit home harder. Aundre felt lost and without a purpose. He started to struggle with depression and anxiety. Then the discouraging process of looking for a job, no after no. He started to grow bitter, and insecure. And the hits kept on coming, January – December.Aundre can now say he is happy for that year. He’s seen how those struggles and trials made him stronger.There is a beauty in the brokenness. Aundre saw things in his life that didn’t belong. He can now relate to others that are broken, and questioning their faith. Because he’s been there too.I’m glad you’re here today and hope that Aundre’s voice lifts you up and gives you hope.Aundre’s YouTube Channel: https://youtu.be/quTAmXHNYUcLinks:Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/create.momentum/Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/My email: shar@beyondhoperadio.comFind out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web – http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook – https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube – http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtubeBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/Source: https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/s3e3-beauty-from-brokenness-with-aundre-washington

Today I bring you a wonderful conversation I had with the amazing Stacy Fisher, who is an incredible self-care “guru.” A certified dietician, hilarious, compassionate, fun, but such a beautiful light.We talk about some of the bigger things in life, things that bring joy, the “deep” stuff. Stacy feels these are what leads us to what we can do to contribute and to support ourselves first so that we can support others. That’s why we’re here, to support one another.But we must understand the basics and setting that foundation for being able to be in service and so that’s why Stacy has been drawn or pulled so much to self-care.Over the last few weeks, in some ways I feel like I’m losing my mind right now. This energy right now is so wonky, and I just feel so confused about how I feel about everything. And the topic of self-care is so neglected right now. Yet, it is so important.Stacy and I touch on that, and we honor where we’re at right now, where you may be right now, and then how do we start to think about emerging from this.The days now are fluid and they just kind of flow. And yes, we have things we have to get for meeting our basic needs. We must eat, we need to sleep, even though those schedules are so off-kilter.So, the exercise helps me, I ask myself, “What do I need right now?” Well, right now I need a giant salad with fresh vegetables. See, you know, so you can start to get to know yourself. And while every day might have some decisions that are a little out of alignment with what you’re trying to achieve, that’s totally okay.But it’s over the long term that we have to really get honest with ourselves. Is that where we really want to go? Stacy thinks asking ourselves this on a daily basis is so critical. What do you need the most right now? And when we have to prioritize. When do I ask others for support?Listen in to this episode for some grounding and thoughtful ways to help us all get through some tough times, no matter the challenge.Thanks so much for being here, I hope you are staying healthy right now and I’m sending you so much love.For more info on the incredible Stacy Fisher, please head on over to her website, https://www.livingupp.com/Links:Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/create.momentum/Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/My email: shar@beyondhoperadio.com—Find out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web – http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook – https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube – http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtubeBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/Source: https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/s3e2-self-care-to-help-calm-the-unsteady-times-with-stacy-fisher-of-living-upp

Today I bring you a wonderful conversation I had with the amazing Stacy Fisher, who is an incredible self-care “guru.” A certified dietician, hilarious, compassionate, fun, but such a beautiful light.We talk about some of the bigger things in life, things that bring joy, the “deep” stuff. Stacy feels these are what leads us to what we can do to contribute and to support ourselves first so that we can support others. That’s why we’re here, to support one another.But we must understand the basics and setting that foundation for being able to be in service and so that’s why Stacy has been drawn or pulled so much to self-care.Over the last few weeks, in some ways I feel like I’m losing my mind right now. This energy right now is so wonky, and I just feel so confused about how I feel about everything. And the topic of self-care is so neglected right now. Yet, it is so important.Stacy and I touch on that, and we honor where we’re at right now, where you may be right now, and then how do we start to think about emerging from this.The days now are fluid and they just kind of flow. And yes, we have things we have to get for meeting our basic needs. We must eat, we need to sleep, even though those schedules are so off-kilter.So, the exercise helps me, I ask myself, “What do I need right now?” Well, right now I need a giant salad with fresh vegetables. See, you know, so you can start to get to know yourself. And while every day might have some decisions that are a little out of alignment with what you’re trying to achieve, that’s totally okay.But it’s over the long term that we have to really get honest with ourselves. Is that where we really want to go? Stacy thinks asking ourselves this on a daily basis is so critical. What do you need the most right now? And when we have to prioritize. When do I ask others for support?Listen in to this episode for some grounding and thoughtful ways to help us all get through some tough times, no matter the challenge.Thanks so much for being here, I hope you are staying healthy right now and I’m sending you so much love.For more info on the incredible Stacy Fisher, please head on over to her website, https://www.livingupp.com/Links:Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/create.momentum/Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/My email: shar@beyondhoperadio.com—Find out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web – http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook – https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube – http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtubeBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/Source: https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/s3e2-self-care-to-help-calm-the-unsteady-times-with-stacy-fisher-of-living-upp

Hey everyone, I wanted to take just a moment to reach out to you and let you know that we are still here, fighting the fight, living our lives. And I wanted to thank you for all the love and support that you’ve given me. The emails and the text messages, it means so much to me.I wanted to let you know that if you are struggling with anything, whatever it is that you’re going through, if you’re struggling right now, just know that you’re not alone. And I too have been struggling over the last six months.I just refuse to give up. I started to look around and recognize that I was falling into those same old patterns and it was really turning inward. I didn’t want to spend time with people that I care about. Really keeping people at arms-length. I was irritable and tired all the time. I’ve put on 35 pounds in the last year.It was impacting every part of my life, and then suddenly, I realized that nothing was working.“Dammit, I’m in that place that I thought that I had climbed out of and reclaimed my life. Things were working again, and I was enjoying my life. I was less fixated on saving my daughter and more focused intentionally on choosing having joy in my life.Well, it’s not a quick fix, is it? There are more things to learn, more things to be revealed to us that are going to be difficult and challenging.More lessons. We will expand and make room for more suffering and more life lessons and a deeper appreciation and a deeper love for all the things in our life. We’ll just continue to grow, and we’ll just keep pushing. We don’t know what our pet potential is, we don’t know how big our hearts can expand.We must trust the process and trust our ability to recognize the people in our lives and opportunities for us to be there for more people. We’re going to be afraid and we’re going to want to give up and, but we won’t. We’ll keep pushing. And if you have kind of recognized that you’re in that same old place, I just want to encourage you to do these three things:First, I need you to decide that you’re going to reclaim your life. Again, this may be the first time and maybe the 20th time. I just need you to decide it. Say it out loud that you are ready to reclaim your life.Step number two, you are going to seek and celebrate moments of joy daily. It could be your favorite slippers, a snuggly robe, or a delightfully hat shower that helps wash away some of the pain.Finally, then you are going to choose positivity. You’re going to choose it and you’re going to decide to see things differently. And if you’re like me, you’re going to have to choose it and choose it, repeatedly. Cause you’re going to fuck up.You’re going to forget, and that negative voice is going to come through, but you’re going to choose something that makes you feel happy.Those are your next steps, your three steps, and you’re going to keep doing it. And we’re going to continue this journey together.This is the book I’ve been trying to write for you, and I’m working on setting it free. The book is called Learning to Live with Your Loved One’s Addiction. I am feeling really good about sharing it with you, and I will keep you posted. It’s my voice. It’s my words, it’s my story and it’s my life.With that, I am sending you so, so, so much love. I am committed to seeing this through. Please continue to send your encouragement to me, it means the world to me. I love you guys. Please be safe and I am wishing you well. Lead with love, lead with kindness, and I will talk to you soon.Links:Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/create.momentum/Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/My email: shar@beyondhoperadio.com—Find out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web – http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook – https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube – http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtubeBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Hey everyone, I wanted to take just a moment to reach out to you and let you know that we are still here, fighting the fight, living our lives. And I wanted to thank you for all the love and support that you’ve given me. The emails and the text messages, it means so much to me.I wanted to let you know that if you are struggling with anything, whatever it is that you’re going through, if you’re struggling right now, just know that you’re not alone. And I too have been struggling over the last six months.I just refuse to give up. I started to look around and recognize that I was falling into those same old patterns and it was really turning inward. I didn’t want to spend time with people that I care about. Really keeping people at arms-length. I was irritable and tired all the time. I’ve put on 35 pounds in the last year.It was impacting every part of my life, and then suddenly, I realized that nothing was working.“Dammit, I’m in that place that I thought that I had climbed out of and reclaimed my life. Things were working again, and I was enjoying my life. I was less fixated on saving my daughter and more focused intentionally on choosing having joy in my life.Well, it’s not a quick fix, is it? There are more things to learn, more things to be revealed to us that are going to be difficult and challenging.More lessons. We will expand and make room for more suffering and more life lessons and a deeper appreciation and a deeper love for all the things in our life. We’ll just continue to grow, and we’ll just keep pushing. We don’t know what our pet potential is, we don’t know how big our hearts can expand.We must trust the process and trust our ability to recognize the people in our lives and opportunities for us to be there for more people. We’re going to be afraid and we’re going to want to give up and, but we won’t. We’ll keep pushing. And if you have kind of recognized that you’re in that same old place, I just want to encourage you to do these three things:First, I need you to decide that you’re going to reclaim your life. Again, this may be the first time and maybe the 20th time. I just need you to decide it. Say it out loud that you are ready to reclaim your life.Step number two, you are going to seek and celebrate moments of joy daily. It could be your favorite slippers, a snuggly robe, or a delightfully hat shower that helps wash away some of the pain.Finally, then you are going to choose positivity. You’re going to choose it and you’re going to decide to see things differently. And if you’re like me, you’re going to have to choose it and choose it, repeatedly. Cause you’re going to fuck up.You’re going to forget, and that negative voice is going to come through, but you’re going to choose something that makes you feel happy.Those are your next steps, your three steps, and you’re going to keep doing it. And we’re going to continue this journey together.This is the book I’ve been trying to write for you, and I’m working on setting it free. The book is called Learning to Live with Your Loved One’s Addiction. I am feeling really good about sharing it with you, and I will keep you posted. It’s my voice. It’s my words, it’s my story and it’s my life.With that, I am sending you so, so, so much love. I am committed to seeing this through. Please continue to send your encouragement to me, it means the world to me. I love you guys. Please be safe and I am wishing you well. Lead with love, lead with kindness, and I will talk to you soon.Links:Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/create.momentum/Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/My email: shar@beyondhoperadio.com—Find out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web – http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook – https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube – http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtubeBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

It’s not a ride I want to be on, and I’ve been on it enough times already. But I find myself back and feeling all the emotions that come when you discover your loved one has relapsed.Unfortunately, it’s a real piece of recovery. And during this honest and open episode, I let you in on what’s been happening in my world and what I have been doing to try and take care of myself. In order to move forward when our loved one has moved back towards their addiction and away from recovery, we must focus on self-care and I give some tips on how I do that for myself.I also answer a listener’s question about how to recognize relapse, some of the signs, both physical and emotional. And if you’ve been here before, you’ll know exactly what I’m talking about.Listen in to this episode as I go deep into the pain and frustration that surrounds relapse and remind myself about ways to effectively manage it and make sure I am staying healthy. This is an all too common occurrence for all of us working through addiction, and it never will be painless, but it can be easier.I love you and I am sending you all my best wishes. Try to find those moments of joy, live in the moment, appreciate yourself, and connect with others who can support you on this challenging path.Links:Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/create.momentum/Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/My email: shar@beyondhoperadio.com—Find out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web – http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook – https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube – http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtubeBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

It’s not a ride I want to be on, and I’ve been on it enough times already. But I find myself back and feeling all the emotions that come when you discover your loved one has relapsed.Unfortunately, it’s a real piece of recovery. And during this honest and open episode, I let you in on what’s been happening in my world and what I have been doing to try and take care of myself. In order to move forward when our loved one has moved back towards their addiction and away from recovery, we must focus on self-care and I give some tips on how I do that for myself.I also answer a listener’s question about how to recognize relapse, some of the signs, both physical and emotional. And if you’ve been here before, you’ll know exactly what I’m talking about.Listen in to this episode as I go deep into the pain and frustration that surrounds relapse and remind myself about ways to effectively manage it and make sure I am staying healthy. This is an all too common occurrence for all of us working through addiction, and it never will be painless, but it can be easier.I love you and I am sending you all my best wishes. Try to find those moments of joy, live in the moment, appreciate yourself, and connect with others who can support you on this challenging path.Links:Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/create.momentum/Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/My email: shar@beyondhoperadio.com—Find out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web – http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook – https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube – http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtubeBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

What’s been happening? During this episode, I chat with you a little bit about what’s been going on in my world. I know my last episode kind of left things in just a state of flux. I had recorded kind of what I was going through at that moment and I try hard to be as transparent as I can with this podcast while also respecting my daughter. I feel really, really blessed because my daughter is so supportive of what I’m doingThroughout the last six years or so, throughout my daughter’s addiction, I was so caught up in trying to help her in any way that I could to help her, so that she could live her best life. And it’s taken me so long to realize that’s not my role. She’s an adult and this is the path that she’s chosen. And I know that I have done everything within my power to offer her opportunities to change her life and to take a different path.I want it all. I want to be a part of her life. I want to share her life with her. I want to see her sharing her gifts with this world. What she has really taught me over the last four months or so is she deserves the opportunity to find her own way without, without Mom. It has forced me to step back and to give her that space that she was requiring. By making the choices that she was making, she was telling me that she was going to do this her way. And no matter what, I’m always loving her and supporting her.I think that she has the right to, to do this on her own. Does it make me happy? And I wouldn’t say it makes me happy. Does it make me proud? Yes. Does it make me nervous? Hell yes. But you know, this is her life and just like I had to find my own way in this world, and I had to make my own mistakes and figure out what it was that I needed to be my best self. She is doing the same thing. She’s really following that same path.I wanted to share with you something that I did a couple of months ago that surprised me. Advocacy has not been at the forefront of my mind. A couple of months ago it was Washington’s Recovery Advocacy Day. I took the day off from work and went to Olympia and I was privileged to be able to join 400 other people there in Olympia. And we spoke to different legislators and shared our voices and talked about why these bills were important to us and to our communities.And along with that, I got to advocate for my daughter. I felt like I was doing something and that was so important to me because I was just sitting here waiting. Waiting, I guess for something. Waiting to hear from my daughter, waiting to hear what’s going on with her, waiting to find out if she has relapsed, waiting to know if she’s gone back to treatment.And I felt kind of paralyzed. Well, when I went to Olympia and I got to surround myself with other people who are advocating for the same things. It felt so amazing and I wanted to speak about it. And I wanted to encourage you, if you are in a place right now, like where I was, where you’re feeling helpless to find a way to reach out and serve somehow.It’s really going to help, and I would just highly encourage you to consider it. Consider what you might be able to do for your community.I also just wanted to tell you that I do feel sorry that I haven’t been more, more open the last few months. I want to show up and speak on a regular basis and I want to share what I’m going through and I want to talk about it.I just want you to know that I am grateful to each and every one of you for sharing this journey with me. I also wanted to tell you that I have a couple of Facebook groups. And I do share things in there. I share quotes, I do love quotes, the ones that touched my heart. Please visit and join if you are wanting to connect with us, we’d love to have you.I love you and I look forward to talking with you soon. I encourage you to go out there and find moments of joy and celebrating them and you to lift each other up through positivity and I’ll talk with you soon.https://www.facebook.com/groups/create.momentum/https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/My email: shar@beyondhoperadio.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

What’s been happening? During this episode, I chat with you a little bit about what’s been going on in my world. I know my last episode kind of left things in just a state of flux. I had recorded kind of what I was going through at that moment and I try hard to be as transparent as I can with this podcast while also respecting my daughter. I feel really, really blessed because my daughter is so supportive of what I’m doingThroughout the last six years or so, throughout my daughter’s addiction, I was so caught up in trying to help her in any way that I could to help her, so that she could live her best life. And it’s taken me so long to realize that’s not my role. She’s an adult and this is the path that she’s chosen. And I know that I have done everything within my power to offer her opportunities to change her life and to take a different path.I want it all. I want to be a part of her life. I want to share her life with her. I want to see her sharing her gifts with this world. What she has really taught me over the last four months or so is she deserves the opportunity to find her own way without, without Mom. It has forced me to step back and to give her that space that she was requiring. By making the choices that she was making, she was telling me that she was going to do this her way. And no matter what, I’m always loving her and supporting her.I think that she has the right to, to do this on her own. Does it make me happy? And I wouldn’t say it makes me happy. Does it make me proud? Yes. Does it make me nervous? Hell yes. But you know, this is her life and just like I had to find my own way in this world, and I had to make my own mistakes and figure out what it was that I needed to be my best self. She is doing the same thing. She’s really following that same path.I wanted to share with you something that I did a couple of months ago that surprised me. Advocacy has not been at the forefront of my mind. A couple of months ago it was Washington’s Recovery Advocacy Day. I took the day off from work and went to Olympia and I was privileged to be able to join 400 other people there in Olympia. And we spoke to different legislators and shared our voices and talked about why these bills were important to us and to our communities.And along with that, I got to advocate for my daughter. I felt like I was doing something and that was so important to me because I was just sitting here waiting. Waiting, I guess for something. Waiting to hear from my daughter, waiting to hear what’s going on with her, waiting to find out if she has relapsed, waiting to know if she’s gone back to treatment.And I felt kind of paralyzed. Well, when I went to Olympia and I got to surround myself with other people who are advocating for the same things. It felt so amazing and I wanted to speak about it. And I wanted to encourage you, if you are in a place right now, like where I was, where you’re feeling helpless to find a way to reach out and serve somehow.It’s really going to help, and I would just highly encourage you to consider it. Consider what you might be able to do for your community.I also just wanted to tell you that I do feel sorry that I haven’t been more, more open the last few months. I want to show up and speak on a regular basis and I want to share what I’m going through and I want to talk about it.I just want you to know that I am grateful to each and every one of you for sharing this journey with me. I also wanted to tell you that I have a couple of Facebook groups. And I do share things in there. I share quotes, I do love quotes, the ones that touched my heart. Please visit and join if you are wanting to connect with us, we’d love to have you.I love you and I look forward to talking with you soon. I encourage you to go out there and find moments of joy and celebrating them and you to lift each other up through positivity and I’ll talk with you soon.https://www.facebook.com/groups/create.momentum/https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/My email: shar@beyondhoperadio.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Tonight, I’m recording this episode from an old familiar place. I recently learned that my daughter, who had been doing so well. Left rehab after 15 months. She just walked away from it. All the hard work. The relationships that she’d built. Right now, this second, I am sickened with worry, fear, and feelings of guilt ... wondering what went wrong? What did I miss? And why?We've been here before, but this time I feel the separation. Separated by the deep blue ocean, people, time, and experiences. She holds the cards, and I am powerless. What better time than this to tap into some of the strategies I talk about.Here we go.1. Surrender, and proclaim that you want to feel better.2. Tap into all five senses. What do you feel, taste, see, smell, hear?3. Connect with all the things you know to be true. For example, I am safe. My daughter is resilient and resourceful. She is an adult. And so on.4. Seek out and celebrate moments of joy, no matter how small. Being present and in the moment, look around you – what is it that makes you smile?5. What can you add to your environment to bring you joy? Not necessarily materialistic. How about music, or a scented candle. Fresh air, exercise, or going to an Al-anon meeting.6. Which memories can you think about to feel joyful?This type of intentionality and positivity can not only change how we feel in the moment. Over time, this kind of work will change your life.Thank you for being here.I also wanted to encourage you to be kind to yourself. To show yourself the same love and compassion you give to others. It's easy to blame anyone other than ourselves for how we feel. When we let the pain take over this may cause us to retreat into ourselves. Getting stuck rewinding and playing painful memories or experiencing all the horrific possibilities that could terribly wrong.It’s easy to give up. But you must be intentional in wanting to change your mindset. Today I know that only I am responsible for how I feel today, how I perceive and react to different situations in my life, and the decisions I make. My daughter is not responsible for my joy, that’s my job. I am responsible for my own joy.It is possible. Never give up hope.--Find out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web - http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube - http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtubeBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Tonight, I’m recording this episode from an old familiar place. I recently learned that my daughter, who had been doing so well. Left rehab after 15 months. She just walked away from it. All the hard work. The relationships that she’d built. Right now, this second, I am sickened with worry, fear, and feelings of guilt ... wondering what went wrong? What did I miss? And why?We've been here before, but this time I feel the separation. Separated by the deep blue ocean, people, time, and experiences. She holds the cards, and I am powerless. What better time than this to tap into some of the strategies I talk about.Here we go.1. Surrender, and proclaim that you want to feel better.2. Tap into all five senses. What do you feel, taste, see, smell, hear?3. Connect with all the things you know to be true. For example, I am safe. My daughter is resilient and resourceful. She is an adult. And so on.4. Seek out and celebrate moments of joy, no matter how small. Being present and in the moment, look around you – what is it that makes you smile?5. What can you add to your environment to bring you joy? Not necessarily materialistic. How about music, or a scented candle. Fresh air, exercise, or going to an Al-anon meeting.6. Which memories can you think about to feel joyful?This type of intentionality and positivity can not only change how we feel in the moment. Over time, this kind of work will change your life.Thank you for being here.I also wanted to encourage you to be kind to yourself. To show yourself the same love and compassion you give to others. It's easy to blame anyone other than ourselves for how we feel. When we let the pain take over this may cause us to retreat into ourselves. Getting stuck rewinding and playing painful memories or experiencing all the horrific possibilities that could terribly wrong.It’s easy to give up. But you must be intentional in wanting to change your mindset. Today I know that only I am responsible for how I feel today, how I perceive and react to different situations in my life, and the decisions I make. My daughter is not responsible for my joy, that’s my job. I am responsible for my own joy.It is possible. Never give up hope.--Find out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web - http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube - http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtubeBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Hey everyone, welcome to Beyond Hope Radio! I am so happy to be talking to you today and I just want to wish you a happy, happy new year. Some of you reached out to me over the last couple of months and I just want to thank you so much for thinking of me. You may have been wondering where I've been and I've gotten some nudges from you to record and I just want to say thank you and I've never forgotten about you and I'm not bailing on this podcast, but I really struggled with the timing of it all. I was seemingly bumping up against old beliefs and fears and falling into old patterns that were no good.So today, I want to talk about traditions and how hard we push ourselves to recreate old memories, perhaps memories from a time when things were easier and how hard that is to do realistically, because we've changed.Things have changed. Family members and loved ones may no longer be with us and how hard it is to recreate traditions that no longer serve us. Like cutting down a fricking Christmas tree, why was that so hard to do? I wanted to chat with you about some of the clues that may be showing up that maybe we're stuffing our emotions. And how to identify the warning signs that maybe something's not quite right with us or maybe we're ignoring some of the things.Some call it a defense mechanism, but I call it neglect. We're neglecting ourselves, our self-care. So, listen in and let's dive into a couple of those topics.Thank you again for sticking by me, Happy New Year and I'm sending you and your loved ones so, so much love. And remember, you can always reach out to me. You can email me at shar@beyondhoperadio.com and I will respond as soon as I can. Love you guys. Bye for now.--Find out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web - http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube - http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtubeBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Hey everyone, welcome to Beyond Hope Radio! I am so happy to be talking to you today and I just want to wish you a happy, happy new year. Some of you reached out to me over the last couple of months and I just want to thank you so much for thinking of me. You may have been wondering where I've been and I've gotten some nudges from you to record and I just want to say thank you and I've never forgotten about you and I'm not bailing on this podcast, but I really struggled with the timing of it all. I was seemingly bumping up against old beliefs and fears and falling into old patterns that were no good.So today, I want to talk about traditions and how hard we push ourselves to recreate old memories, perhaps memories from a time when things were easier and how hard that is to do realistically, because we've changed.Things have changed. Family members and loved ones may no longer be with us and how hard it is to recreate traditions that no longer serve us. Like cutting down a fricking Christmas tree, why was that so hard to do? I wanted to chat with you about some of the clues that may be showing up that maybe we're stuffing our emotions. And how to identify the warning signs that maybe something's not quite right with us or maybe we're ignoring some of the things.Some call it a defense mechanism, but I call it neglect. We're neglecting ourselves, our self-care. So, listen in and let's dive into a couple of those topics.Thank you again for sticking by me, Happy New Year and I'm sending you and your loved ones so, so much love. And remember, you can always reach out to me. You can email me at shar@beyondhoperadio.com and I will respond as soon as I can. Love you guys. Bye for now.--Find out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web - http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube - http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtubeBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Hi everyone, it has been a little while since I've recorded an episode but I have been thinking about you and I want to thank everyone for the encouragement and support.I was reminded why I started this journey and who I am here for...maybe that's you if you feel stuck and confused.It wasn't long ago that I was feeling a little stuck and the circle around me kept getting smaller and smaller. I think being vulnerable, sharing my voice and my story, while scary, is less painful than it would be to keep it all in.I also realized it's up to me to "fill up my cup" and during this episode I reflect on some of the different ways this can be accomplished. Everyone has their own preference and none of this is easy, but the more I do it, the easier it becomes.How do I find joy? What makes me laugh? I think it's so important and so healing to just laugh and find joy in even the smallest of things.Sometimes I feel holding onto the pain and worry when our kids are out there using somehow keeps us connected and closer to them. While reflecting upon this, I also talk about how learning to challenge your thinking, at least for me, is very powerful.Never give up on hope...and remember, nothing can replace talking to somebody who completely understands and has experienced what you're going through.As always, love and best wishes, Shar--Find out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web - http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube - http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtube--Show sponsor:Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Hi everyone, it has been a little while since I've recorded an episode but I have been thinking about you and I want to thank everyone for the encouragement and support.I was reminded why I started this journey and who I am here for...maybe that's you if you feel stuck and confused.It wasn't long ago that I was feeling a little stuck and the circle around me kept getting smaller and smaller. I think being vulnerable, sharing my voice and my story, while scary, is less painful than it would be to keep it all in.I also realized it's up to me to "fill up my cup" and during this episode I reflect on some of the different ways this can be accomplished. Everyone has their own preference and none of this is easy, but the more I do it, the easier it becomes.How do I find joy? What makes me laugh? I think it's so important and so healing to just laugh and find joy in even the smallest of things.Sometimes I feel holding onto the pain and worry when our kids are out there using somehow keeps us connected and closer to them. While reflecting upon this, I also talk about how learning to challenge your thinking, at least for me, is very powerful.Never give up on hope...and remember, nothing can replace talking to somebody who completely understands and has experienced what you're going through.As always, love and best wishes, Shar--Find out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web - http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube - http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtube--Show sponsor:Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Hi everyone, it has been a little while since I've recorded an episode but this will be worth the wait. I'm sharing with you an interview that I did with James Healy. I am lucky to call him a friend, but also we work together.He produces my podcast and every time I talk to him, I'm laughing and learning something new about him. Just prepare to be inspired.Before I dive into that interview I want to just let you know how much you mean to me. Thank you for listening and thank you for sharing this journey with me. I'm always sending so much love to you and to your loved ones and just sending you so much hope.And I just want to remind you that I know how painful this journey is, but I do feel like we have been chosen for a reason and this absolute faith and trust that we are exactly where we're supposed to be right now and just know that. You're not alone. There is an army of moms out there who are loving on you and supporting you from afar.James shares some things from his history and it reminded me of something, a story which I also share at the start of this episode.During our chat, James reveals some fun facts I did not know about him, along with some of his most challenging moments in life, and how he has created a rich, full, and joyful life in sobriety.He helps us understand some of the fears and struggles those in recovery deal with, and gives us a few ideas on how to cope with them. James also emphasizes that recovery success must truly be desired to be found and that each path is unique for every person.As always, love and best wishes, Shar--More info for James Hamilton Healy:Podcast: https://recoveryinnovatorsradio.comFacebook: https://facebook.com/jameshamiltonhealyTwitter: https://twitter.com/jameshhealyLinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/jameshhealyInstagram: @jameshhealy--Find out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web - http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube - http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtube--Show sponsor:Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Hi everyone, it has been a little while since I've recorded an episode but this will be worth the wait. I'm sharing with you an interview that I did with James Healy. I am lucky to call him a friend, but also we work together.He produces my podcast and every time I talk to him, I'm laughing and learning something new about him. Just prepare to be inspired.Before I dive into that interview I want to just let you know how much you mean to me. Thank you for listening and thank you for sharing this journey with me. I'm always sending so much love to you and to your loved ones and just sending you so much hope.And I just want to remind you that I know how painful this journey is, but I do feel like we have been chosen for a reason and this absolute faith and trust that we are exactly where we're supposed to be right now and just know that. You're not alone. There is an army of moms out there who are loving on you and supporting you from afar.James shares some things from his history and it reminded me of something, a story which I also share at the start of this episode.During our chat, James reveals some fun facts I did not know about him, along with some of his most challenging moments in life, and how he has created a rich, full, and joyful life in sobriety.He helps us understand some of the fears and struggles those in recovery deal with, and gives us a few ideas on how to cope with them. James also emphasizes that recovery success must truly be desired to be found and that each path is unique for every person.As always, love and best wishes, Shar--More info for James Hamilton Healy:Podcast: https://recoveryinnovatorsradio.comFacebook: https://facebook.com/jameshamiltonhealyTwitter: https://twitter.com/jameshhealyLinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/jameshhealyInstagram: @jameshhealy--Find out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web - http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube - http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtube--Show sponsor:Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Welcome to this show. I am here in Long Beach, Washington, which is about three hours from my home and I came here for a couple of nights over the memorial day weekend, just kind of packed up my dog and he and I hit the road and we've been staying here for a couple of nights. We leave tomorrow, but it's been really good.I have been doing a lot of walking on the beach and a lot of reflecting. The last time I was here I was visiting my daughter. She attended treatment out here a couple of years ago and I was just thinking back to that time and what was happening then and I think I thought I was going to be a lot more impacted emotionally by being here.But actually, I've felt a lot of peace. I think the hardest part for me was the actual drive here. There are so many twists and turns to the drive and so many memorable points, going around these different curves and turns and then seeing the water and the trees and going over this certain bridge and all these sorts of things to get you here.I made so many drives here while she was attending treatment There were a couple of times where I actually would drive here and back in one day. And I remember feeling so hopeful and inspired, watching the progress that was happening. When she came here she went to detox at a hospital, which is about an hour from here and they transported her to the treatment center after the detox program ended.I just remember what that entailed to get her to detox during that time. And that was a very, very difficult time. She was withdrawing so bad and she was such a flight risk and just waiting for the bed to open up and having to basically just stay with her and keep an eye on her at all times so that she wouldn't run.She was just literally a bag of bones at that time. She was so thin and making that drive with a withdrawing heroin addict, taking her to the hospital for the detoxing, what that entailed and getting her all the way there and then watching her mind spin as she's changing her mind. She doesn't want to go in and reminding her what got her there...I just remember this transition at that point was just to this little child. She was so scared and I just remember her being wrapped in a blanket and the tears and her not wanting me to leave.After the detox program, they then found her a bed at Klean in Long Beach, Washington. They transferred her there and she was there for probably about six weeks or so and I would just come out every weekend and visit her... and that was a really incredible time.There's something really exciting about when they're in treatment and you feel like they're safe and they're getting their needs met and as a parent being able to go visit them and watching that process. It's when they're getting ready to leave that I think it's the scariest. When she was at Klean, she actually was transported back to King County to deal with some warrant issues, and she relapsed shortly thereafter. So that was not easy.And it's so crazy when I'm trying to remember back to when that was, but I think it was about two years ago and I remember coming here and she was here over Mother's Day and she had this glass heart bowl and she had collected these heart-shaped rocks. And I remember her giving those to me when I was here and that being a very special time.Here we are two years later and I feel like right now she is actually further along than she has been. It's like all these little tools that she's picked up along the way are all kind of coming together where she is now.But if you are like me and you've been through any kind of any of this with the relapsing and the treatment and all of that, we've been going through this for years now, almost six years of actual treatment programs, then, you know, as well as I do, how high the relapse rate is and that that's a very real possibility that she may not complete this program. The cool thing is, is that I have done so much healing that I understand the risk and I am able to truly turn that over to her...For more of my reflection and thoughts on our journey through this, please listen.As always, love and best wishes, Shar--Find out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web - http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube - http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtube--Show sponsor:Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Welcome to this show. I am here in Long Beach, Washington, which is about three hours from my home and I came here for a couple of nights over the memorial day weekend, just kind of packed up my dog and he and I hit the road and we've been staying here for a couple of nights. We leave tomorrow, but it's been really good.I have been doing a lot of walking on the beach and a lot of reflecting. The last time I was here I was visiting my daughter. She attended treatment out here a couple of years ago and I was just thinking back to that time and what was happening then and I think I thought I was going to be a lot more impacted emotionally by being here.But actually, I've felt a lot of peace. I think the hardest part for me was the actual drive here. There are so many twists and turns to the drive and so many memorable points, going around these different curves and turns and then seeing the water and the trees and going over this certain bridge and all these sorts of things to get you here.I made so many drives here while she was attending treatment There were a couple of times where I actually would drive here and back in one day. And I remember feeling so hopeful and inspired, watching the progress that was happening. When she came here she went to detox at a hospital, which is about an hour from here and they transported her to the treatment center after the detox program ended.I just remember what that entailed to get her to detox during that time. And that was a very, very difficult time. She was withdrawing so bad and she was such a flight risk and just waiting for the bed to open up and having to basically just stay with her and keep an eye on her at all times so that she wouldn't run.She was just literally a bag of bones at that time. She was so thin and making that drive with a withdrawing heroin addict, taking her to the hospital for the detoxing, what that entailed and getting her all the way there and then watching her mind spin as she's changing her mind. She doesn't want to go in and reminding her what got her there...I just remember this transition at that point was just to this little child. She was so scared and I just remember her being wrapped in a blanket and the tears and her not wanting me to leave.After the detox program, they then found her a bed at Klean in Long Beach, Washington. They transferred her there and she was there for probably about six weeks or so and I would just come out every weekend and visit her... and that was a really incredible time.There's something really exciting about when they're in treatment and you feel like they're safe and they're getting their needs met and as a parent being able to go visit them and watching that process. It's when they're getting ready to leave that I think it's the scariest. When she was at Klean, she actually was transported back to King County to deal with some warrant issues, and she relapsed shortly thereafter. So that was not easy.And it's so crazy when I'm trying to remember back to when that was, but I think it was about two years ago and I remember coming here and she was here over Mother's Day and she had this glass heart bowl and she had collected these heart-shaped rocks. And I remember her giving those to me when I was here and that being a very special time.Here we are two years later and I feel like right now she is actually further along than she has been. It's like all these little tools that she's picked up along the way are all kind of coming together where she is now.But if you are like me and you've been through any kind of any of this with the relapsing and the treatment and all of that, we've been going through this for years now, almost six years of actual treatment programs, then, you know, as well as I do, how high the relapse rate is and that that's a very real possibility that she may not complete this program. The cool thing is, is that I have done so much healing that I understand the risk and I am able to truly turn that over to her...For more of my reflection and thoughts on our journey through this, please listen.As always, love and best wishes, Shar--Find out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web - http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube - http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtube--Show sponsor:Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Listen to this episode as I reveal a Special Announcement!Yes, I have been absent for a bit as I have been doing some processing lately. I had to take a step back and finally make a big decision.I felt like I was up against a bit of a wall, a little stuck. And now I am moving forward with an exciting new project...I am writing a book!It has been something I have been contemplating for some time and now that I have made the decision and started the process, I am so excited!Listen to this episode as I talk about the new book and more...As always, wishing you so much love and joy. And please reach out if you have any questions or thoughts: shar@beyondhoperadio.com--Find out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web - http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube - http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtube--Show sponsor:Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Listen to this episode as I reveal a Special Announcement!Yes, I have been absent for a bit as I have been doing some processing lately. I had to take a step back and finally make a big decision.I felt like I was up against a bit of a wall, a little stuck. And now I am moving forward with an exciting new project...I am writing a book!It has been something I have been contemplating for some time and now that I have made the decision and started the process, I am so excited!Listen to this episode as I talk about the new book and more...As always, wishing you so much love and joy. And please reach out if you have any questions or thoughts: shar@beyondhoperadio.com--Find out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web - http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube - http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtube--Show sponsor:Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

I am joined by Laura Worley, who is a Transformational and Educational Coach.Laura has helped hundreds of people overcome their past and begin to live the life of their dreams. It is her core belief that we can overcome anything. When we change our patterns and beliefs that keep us stuck; there are truly infinite possibilities that come into our awareness.Laura works with me to show how Tapping and EFT can help free us from being stuck in past trauma or experiences.Trauma has been shown to be a key trigger for addiction and plays a large role in its impact on the family. Substance abuse and the emotional and physical trauma it can bring to everyone touched by it can be devastating.Laura's techniques have been proven to help people release the hurt an pain of stressful emotions.Listen to this amazing episode and watch the companion videos on Beyond Hope's YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/-nbYVh-nfaEIf you would like to connect with Laura see the details below.Website: http://laurajworley.com/The Worldwide Transformational Summit -- July 13-22nd, 2018: http://www.wwtsummit.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/laura.worleyfeftYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/lw555551/feedFree Tapping Gift: https://youtu.be/lYyJew54SN8--Find out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web - http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube - http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtube--Show sponsor:Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

I am joined by Laura Worley, who is a Transformational and Educational Coach.Laura has helped hundreds of people overcome their past and begin to live the life of their dreams. It is her core belief that we can overcome anything. When we change our patterns and beliefs that keep us stuck; there are truly infinite possibilities that come into our awareness.Laura works with me to show how Tapping and EFT can help free us from being stuck in past trauma or experiences.Trauma has been shown to be a key trigger for addiction and plays a large role in its impact on the family. Substance abuse and the emotional and physical trauma it can bring to everyone touched by it can be devastating.Laura's techniques have been proven to help people release the hurt an pain of stressful emotions.Listen to this amazing episode and watch the companion videos on Beyond Hope's YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/-nbYVh-nfaEIf you would like to connect with Laura see the details below.Website: http://laurajworley.com/The Worldwide Transformational Summit -- July 13-22nd, 2018: http://www.wwtsummit.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/laura.worleyfeftYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/lw555551/feedFree Tapping Gift: https://youtu.be/lYyJew54SN8--Find out more about Beyond Hope Radio:Web - http://beyondhoperadio.comFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/beyondhoperadio/YouTube - http://beyondhoperadio.com/youtube--Show sponsor:Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

I am joined by Jeff who shares his journey from addict to working with drug abusers on the streets, letting them know that there is hope.Jeff's story begins in his early teens when, having been raised by missionary parents in a poor family environment, he rebelled against his religious upbringing. He began dealing drugs, rejecting his family, turning to gangs and inevitably got caught in a vicious circle.Jeff faced major spiritual and emotional questions during this period in his life and he shares his dark and heavy journey when he believed that gangs, drugs, and prison would always be his life.Looking back now he honestly claims, “I didn't give a sh*t! I just cared about getting high.”Choices:The statistics are terrifying, and that's just the reported figures, in this episode Jeff explains how drug addiction can affect anyone, from all walks of life, it is not planned, “nobody wants to be a drug addict when they grow up,” however it is those initial choices that you make that impact your life.“It was a choice for me to use when I first used, but it became a disease when I couldn't choose not to use it anymore,” explains Jeff who now works on the streets with people that have been caught in this desperate cycle like he once was. It is his passion, he understands their stories because he has lived it too.Giving Back:As an ex-addict, Jeff provides parents with clear recovery options and for the past 4 years has followed his clients through their recovery. He points out the growing drug-user population in the States that need help to become sober again but it takes such a massive amount of work, time and sacrifice.Jeff sees his work as giving back. Helping others through addiction is his passion and his way of making up for his past while living on a humble income. He wants to help people that are lost and out on the streets saying “the desperation is so much more impactful.”The Bigger Picture:This episode deals with questions about how to educate the kids that are being drawn into this life, teaching parents how to cope but also asks how the State can help more, how can America not be able to take care of its people?We discuss the benefits and pitfalls of rehab centers, prison and the approach of the court system to releasing addicts back onto the streets to continue their downward spiral with no support.Helping Hand:One of the things Jeff is very clear on is, “never give money”, this will only be spent on drugs. He points us to some really useful information on free resources and tells us all about an organization close to his heart Operation Healthy Hearts who give food, hygiene, clothes etc. to people in exchange for tasks.“This is not a handout...it's a hand up!”If you would like to connect with Jeff and his team see the details below. There is hope, you just need to take the first step.Tel: 714-733-0222Website: http://foundationsforrecovery.netFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/596522190736544/--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsor:Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

I am joined by Jeff who shares his journey from addict to working with drug abusers on the streets, letting them know that there is hope.Jeff's story begins in his early teens when, having been raised by missionary parents in a poor family environment, he rebelled against his religious upbringing. He began dealing drugs, rejecting his family, turning to gangs and inevitably got caught in a vicious circle.Jeff faced major spiritual and emotional questions during this period in his life and he shares his dark and heavy journey when he believed that gangs, drugs, and prison would always be his life.Looking back now he honestly claims, “I didn't give a sh*t! I just cared about getting high.”Choices:The statistics are terrifying, and that's just the reported figures, in this episode Jeff explains how drug addiction can affect anyone, from all walks of life, it is not planned, “nobody wants to be a drug addict when they grow up,” however it is those initial choices that you make that impact your life.“It was a choice for me to use when I first used, but it became a disease when I couldn't choose not to use it anymore,” explains Jeff who now works on the streets with people that have been caught in this desperate cycle like he once was. It is his passion, he understands their stories because he has lived it too.Giving Back:As an ex-addict, Jeff provides parents with clear recovery options and for the past 4 years has followed his clients through their recovery. He points out the growing drug-user population in the States that need help to become sober again but it takes such a massive amount of work, time and sacrifice.Jeff sees his work as giving back. Helping others through addiction is his passion and his way of making up for his past while living on a humble income. He wants to help people that are lost and out on the streets saying “the desperation is so much more impactful.”The Bigger Picture:This episode deals with questions about how to educate the kids that are being drawn into this life, teaching parents how to cope but also asks how the State can help more, how can America not be able to take care of its people?We discuss the benefits and pitfalls of rehab centers, prison and the approach of the court system to releasing addicts back onto the streets to continue their downward spiral with no support.Helping Hand:One of the things Jeff is very clear on is, “never give money”, this will only be spent on drugs. He points us to some really useful information on free resources and tells us all about an organization close to his heart Operation Healthy Hearts who give food, hygiene, clothes etc. to people in exchange for tasks.“This is not a handout...it's a hand up!”If you would like to connect with Jeff and his team see the details below. There is hope, you just need to take the first step.Tel: 714-733-0222Website: http://foundationsforrecovery.netFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/596522190736544/--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsor:Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT: Listen for more information!This episode is part of a mini-series with Chad, a deep dive into some of the core questions and challenges surrounding addiction in some families.During this episode, we continue the conversation about enabling, what it is, and how we may play a role in our loved one's addiction as a possible enabler.We also provide tips which may help family members to stop enabling the addict. If you are doing things for your adult son or daughter that is interrupting the natural flow of consequences, then you may be enabling.Take an honest evaluation and assessment of how you are contributing to their behavior...But, before you feel bad if you think you may be enabling, it's not just you. There are likely a lot of other people and organizations that are helping this addict get high.If you have questions or topics you’d like Chad and I to discuss on future episodes, please send your suggestions to Shar@BeyondHopeRadio.com.About Chad:Chad works in Admissions and Outreach at Habilitat, Inc. - a long-term (2-year) residential addiction treatment and vocational training program in Hawaii. He's been in Hawaii for the past 7 years, where he initially moved to the islands to treat his heroin addiction through Habilitat's program. Habilitat gave Chad a life worth living.He enjoys outdoor activities, is an active member of a local Rotary Club, serves on the board of Aloha United Ways - Society of Young Leaders, and enjoys the occasional trip to California to visit family and friends.Web - https://www.habilitat.com/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Habilitat/Phone: 1-800-872-2525--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:The Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT: Listen for more information!This episode is part of a mini-series with Chad, a deep dive into some of the core questions and challenges surrounding addiction in some families.During this episode, we continue the conversation about enabling, what it is, and how we may play a role in our loved one's addiction as a possible enabler.We also provide tips which may help family members to stop enabling the addict. If you are doing things for your adult son or daughter that is interrupting the natural flow of consequences, then you may be enabling.Take an honest evaluation and assessment of how you are contributing to their behavior...But, before you feel bad if you think you may be enabling, it's not just you. There are likely a lot of other people and organizations that are helping this addict get high.If you have questions or topics you’d like Chad and I to discuss on future episodes, please send your suggestions to Shar@BeyondHopeRadio.com.About Chad:Chad works in Admissions and Outreach at Habilitat, Inc. - a long-term (2-year) residential addiction treatment and vocational training program in Hawaii. He's been in Hawaii for the past 7 years, where he initially moved to the islands to treat his heroin addiction through Habilitat's program. Habilitat gave Chad a life worth living.He enjoys outdoor activities, is an active member of a local Rotary Club, serves on the board of Aloha United Ways - Society of Young Leaders, and enjoys the occasional trip to California to visit family and friends.Web - https://www.habilitat.com/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Habilitat/Phone: 1-800-872-2525--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:The Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

This is the first episode of a 6 part mini-series with Chad, a deep dive into some of the core questions and challenges surrounding addiction in some families.Be sure to tune into Part 2 for an exciting announcement you won’t want to miss!!So, what is enabling?As parents, we always want to do what's best for our children. It's always been that way.But, are we helping or are we enabling? Are we making it easy for them to make poor or good choices? Ask yourself, "How can I enable my child to do the right thing?"First, it's important to recognize the signs and beware of the "land mines." Try not to get caught up in the addict's timeline and if needed, take a "time out" for yourself so you can get some support.It can be helpful to prepare in advance for the difficult conversations and go into them with some "go to" phrases. Watch for the manipulation, and remember saying "No" is okay, it doesn't mean you are being a bad parent.If you have questions or topics you’d like Chad and I to discuss on future episodes, please send your suggestions to Shar@BeyondHopeRadio.com.About Chad:Chad works in Admissions and Outreach at Habilitat, Inc. - a long-term (2-year) residential addiction treatment and vocational training program in Hawaii. He's been in Hawaii for the past 7 years, where he initially moved to the islands to treat his heroin addiction through Habilitat's program. Habilitat gave Chad a life worth living.He enjoys outdoor activities, is an active member of a local Rotary Club, serves on the board of Aloha United Ways - Society of Young Leaders, and enjoys the occasional trip to California to visit family and friends.Web - https://www.habilitat.com/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Habilitat/Phone: 1-800-872-2525--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:The Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

This is the first episode of a 6 part mini-series with Chad, a deep dive into some of the core questions and challenges surrounding addiction in some families.Be sure to tune into Part 2 for an exciting announcement you won’t want to miss!!So, what is enabling?As parents, we always want to do what's best for our children. It's always been that way.But, are we helping or are we enabling? Are we making it easy for them to make poor or good choices? Ask yourself, "How can I enable my child to do the right thing?"First, it's important to recognize the signs and beware of the "land mines." Try not to get caught up in the addict's timeline and if needed, take a "time out" for yourself so you can get some support.It can be helpful to prepare in advance for the difficult conversations and go into them with some "go to" phrases. Watch for the manipulation, and remember saying "No" is okay, it doesn't mean you are being a bad parent.If you have questions or topics you’d like Chad and I to discuss on future episodes, please send your suggestions to Shar@BeyondHopeRadio.com.About Chad:Chad works in Admissions and Outreach at Habilitat, Inc. - a long-term (2-year) residential addiction treatment and vocational training program in Hawaii. He's been in Hawaii for the past 7 years, where he initially moved to the islands to treat his heroin addiction through Habilitat's program. Habilitat gave Chad a life worth living.He enjoys outdoor activities, is an active member of a local Rotary Club, serves on the board of Aloha United Ways - Society of Young Leaders, and enjoys the occasional trip to California to visit family and friends.Web - https://www.habilitat.com/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Habilitat/Phone: 1-800-872-2525--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:The Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Stephanie Myer, as The Martyr Coach, helps people reclaim their identity and higher purpose so they can stop the self-imposed suffering and start their truth-telling journey.In her work, she partners with clients to come up with the specific program to meet them where they are at and begin to live life in alignment with who they truly are and always have been at their core. Not who they think they should be for others, or unintentionally taking on traits of others around them.Unfortunately, many people choose to suffer, not consciously, but somewhat automatically. A martyr tends to be someone who is so intent on helping to try and fix or help others, they neglect their own self-care.This allows the martyr's internal "garden" to become trampled and damaged, which they then guard, blocking out the good with the bad. The martyr then tires of tending their own garden and puts their focus on tending someone else's, to the detriment of both.Stephanie explains the Dreaded Drama Triangle as first articulated by Dr. Stephen Karpman in the 1960’s, which describes the different roles of the Victim, the Rescuer, and the Persecutor. She also goes into detail regarding the power of the positive alternative, The Empowerment Dynamic (TED), with the roles focusing on the Creator, the Challenger, and the Coach.TED allows you to choose to not be a victim and makes room for positive mindset shifts to happen.Understanding how these can directly correlate with moms and parents challenged by addiction within their families can help them recognize dysfunctional behaviors and attitudes, which will help set them free to live beyond hope.Web: http://www.themartyrcoach.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/StephanieMyerTheMartyrCoach/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephanie-myer-acc-40078379/Email: stephaniemyer@themartyrcoach.comPhone: 1-425-530-0329--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:The Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Stephanie Myer, as The Martyr Coach, helps people reclaim their identity and higher purpose so they can stop the self-imposed suffering and start their truth-telling journey.In her work, she partners with clients to come up with the specific program to meet them where they are at and begin to live life in alignment with who they truly are and always have been at their core. Not who they think they should be for others, or unintentionally taking on traits of others around them.Unfortunately, many people choose to suffer, not consciously, but somewhat automatically. A martyr tends to be someone who is so intent on helping to try and fix or help others, they neglect their own self-care.This allows the martyr's internal "garden" to become trampled and damaged, which they then guard, blocking out the good with the bad. The martyr then tires of tending their own garden and puts their focus on tending someone else's, to the detriment of both.Stephanie explains the Dreaded Drama Triangle as first articulated by Dr. Stephen Karpman in the 1960’s, which describes the different roles of the Victim, the Rescuer, and the Persecutor. She also goes into detail regarding the power of the positive alternative, The Empowerment Dynamic (TED), with the roles focusing on the Creator, the Challenger, and the Coach.TED allows you to choose to not be a victim and makes room for positive mindset shifts to happen.Understanding how these can directly correlate with moms and parents challenged by addiction within their families can help them recognize dysfunctional behaviors and attitudes, which will help set them free to live beyond hope.Web: http://www.themartyrcoach.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/StephanieMyerTheMartyrCoach/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephanie-myer-acc-40078379/Email: stephaniemyer@themartyrcoach.comPhone: 1-425-530-0329--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:The Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

A special edition, this episode spotlights a recovery program which treats the whole person, not just a drug problem. Habilitat's very unique, long-term model remains adaptable to the individual circumstances while creating a small, therapeutic recovery community.Focusing on a graduated system of responsibility, accountability, and freedom Habilitat tailors the lessons and teaching for individual learning styles.Studies have shown that longer treatment programs have higher success rates and 100% of Habilitat's graduates have stable housing and a full-time job.Jeff explains how Habilitat's program works as he details how individuals move from an initial treatment phase to working through re-entry and post re-entry where participants receive vocational training in one of 13 trades.He also outlines a "typical" day at Habilitat and some of the positive peer pressure strategies employed to help residents keep each other in check and create an extreme sense of self-awareness.Jeff is the Executive Director of Habilitat, Inc. - a long-term residential addiction treatment and vocational training program, located on the island of Oahu, in Kaneohe, HI. Jeff has an extensive history with Habilitat, dating back to the mid-1980's, where he initially sought treatment as a teenager for his various addictions. Jeff was the Program Director for over 15 years, before transitioning to the Executive Director position.Jeff enjoys the many local cuisines Hawaii has to offer, is an avid parrot lover and advocate, love snapping photographs with his camera, and giving back to his community. Originally from Dallas, Texas, Jeff has lived in Hawaii for 25 years where he's made the Aloha state his home.Jeff's hands-on approach to treating the individual has helped thousands of people overcome their issues with substance abuse and anti-social behavior.Web - https://www.habilitat.com/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Habilitat/Phone: 1-800-872-2525--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:The Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

A special edition, this episode spotlights a recovery program which treats the whole person, not just a drug problem. Habilitat's very unique, long-term model remains adaptable to the individual circumstances while creating a small, therapeutic recovery community.Focusing on a graduated system of responsibility, accountability, and freedom Habilitat tailors the lessons and teaching for individual learning styles.Studies have shown that longer treatment programs have higher success rates and 100% of Habilitat's graduates have stable housing and a full-time job.Jeff explains how Habilitat's program works as he details how individuals move from an initial treatment phase to working through re-entry and post re-entry where participants receive vocational training in one of 13 trades.He also outlines a "typical" day at Habilitat and some of the positive peer pressure strategies employed to help residents keep each other in check and create an extreme sense of self-awareness.Jeff is the Executive Director of Habilitat, Inc. - a long-term residential addiction treatment and vocational training program, located on the island of Oahu, in Kaneohe, HI. Jeff has an extensive history with Habilitat, dating back to the mid-1980's, where he initially sought treatment as a teenager for his various addictions. Jeff was the Program Director for over 15 years, before transitioning to the Executive Director position.Jeff enjoys the many local cuisines Hawaii has to offer, is an avid parrot lover and advocate, love snapping photographs with his camera, and giving back to his community. Originally from Dallas, Texas, Jeff has lived in Hawaii for 25 years where he's made the Aloha state his home.Jeff's hands-on approach to treating the individual has helped thousands of people overcome their issues with substance abuse and anti-social behavior.Web - https://www.habilitat.com/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Habilitat/Phone: 1-800-872-2525--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:The Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Happy New Year! We made it to 2018 and I am so excited about this year.A lot of growing pains and lessons that needed to be learned. And of course that's going to continue but I feel like I have made some genuine progress. And I'm excited about that. This podcast by far has been the scariest and most empowering thing that I've ever done.Sometimes stop and pinch myself, to sit with it and recognize that I'm doing this. I am sharing my voice and talking about things that are scary and uncomfortable and that's okay and that's good. Learning to share my voice has been the most important thing that I could have ever done for myself. And I have so many people to thank that have helped me.A couple of the things that I'm going to just keep top of mind for myself, is to continue to stand up for myself and for my family and to shine a light on difficult topics. And just continuing to remind myself not to worry what everybody else thinks about me and to stay true to my own path and my own process and how I go about getting there.It's very personal for everyone. And to honor myself through all my growth and change and redefining what it means to feel beautiful. I'm almost 50. You know sometimes I wake up and I look in the mirror and I don't recognize myself. And as women, I think we have been defined for so long on our physical beauty. I'm challenging myself right now to take a closer look and to redefine what that means for myself.So those are some of the things that I'm going to be working on this year. Also just allowing more freedom and blessings into my life.And I recently started beyond Hope Foundation and I cannot wait to see what happens with that. I'm going to give that some more attention this year. And before we jump into today's show I just want to thank anybody who's out there listening to my voice right now. We're here to continue to support and love each other through this journey, so thanks for being here.So for my last episode of the year I'm excited to just kind of pull together some of my favorite pieces from all of my interviews and kind of putting them up into one episode and I hope you enjoy.And please, one of my hopes with this podcast is to share your voices so if you have stories of hope or questions that you would like answered or if you just want a friend you can always reach out to me. You can text me at (206) -229-0244. You can email me at shar@beyondhoperadio.com or visit my Facebook group, The Beyond Hope Radio Facebook group and I'm just sending you so much love.Happy New Year. And I look forward to talking with you again soon.Bye for now, Shar--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comThe Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Beyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Happy New Year! We made it to 2018 and I am so excited about this year.A lot of growing pains and lessons that needed to be learned. And of course that's going to continue but I feel like I have made some genuine progress. And I'm excited about that. This podcast by far has been the scariest and most empowering thing that I've ever done.Sometimes stop and pinch myself, to sit with it and recognize that I'm doing this. I am sharing my voice and talking about things that are scary and uncomfortable and that's okay and that's good. Learning to share my voice has been the most important thing that I could have ever done for myself. And I have so many people to thank that have helped me.A couple of the things that I'm going to just keep top of mind for myself, is to continue to stand up for myself and for my family and to shine a light on difficult topics. And just continuing to remind myself not to worry what everybody else thinks about me and to stay true to my own path and my own process and how I go about getting there.It's very personal for everyone. And to honor myself through all my growth and change and redefining what it means to feel beautiful. I'm almost 50. You know sometimes I wake up and I look in the mirror and I don't recognize myself. And as women, I think we have been defined for so long on our physical beauty. I'm challenging myself right now to take a closer look and to redefine what that means for myself.So those are some of the things that I'm going to be working on this year. Also just allowing more freedom and blessings into my life.And I recently started beyond Hope Foundation and I cannot wait to see what happens with that. I'm going to give that some more attention this year. And before we jump into today's show I just want to thank anybody who's out there listening to my voice right now. We're here to continue to support and love each other through this journey, so thanks for being here.So for my last episode of the year I'm excited to just kind of pull together some of my favorite pieces from all of my interviews and kind of putting them up into one episode and I hope you enjoy.And please, one of my hopes with this podcast is to share your voices so if you have stories of hope or questions that you would like answered or if you just want a friend you can always reach out to me. You can text me at (206) -229-0244. You can email me at shar@beyondhoperadio.com or visit my Facebook group, The Beyond Hope Radio Facebook group and I'm just sending you so much love.Happy New Year. And I look forward to talking with you again soon.Bye for now, Shar--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comThe Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Beyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

This highly engaging interview with Chad Stephens goes deep into his vocational mission, which is to "help as many people as he can, as quickly as he can" and to "simplify the solution to addiction."Along with simplifying the approach to substance use disorder treatment, Chad likes to focus on making good decisions, integrity and instilling a good work ethic to help build self-esteem.Chad feels that treatment is supposed to prepare people for the real world. He also reminds parents that it is not their job to get their kids to care more, but to show them what caring looks like by providing a solid example.Chad also gets us to ask, "What does healing look like for you?" His take on this important question helps us to understand that even if we have "healed" a little and are working towards "healing," then we are on the right path.Shar asks Chad questions posed by listeners and his answers provide a wealth of learning and introspection. A powerful interview with many fantastic takeaways and a focus on keeping perspective."You got a roof over your head? Are you feeding yourself? Do you know you did the best you can? You are winning!"Chad works in Admissions and Outreach at Habilitat, Inc. - a long-term (2-year) residential addiction treatment and vocational training program in Hawaii. He's been in Hawaii for the past 7 years, where he initially moved to the islands to treat his heroin addiction through Habilitat's program. Habilitat gave Chad a life worth living.He enjoys outdoor activities, is an active member of a local Rotary Club, serves on the board of Aloha United Ways - Society of Young Leaders, and enjoys the occasional trip to California to visit family and friends.Web - https://www.habilitat.com/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Habilitat/Phone: 1-800-872-2525--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:The Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

This highly engaging interview with Chad Stephens goes deep into his vocational mission, which is to "help as many people as he can, as quickly as he can" and to "simplify the solution to addiction."Along with simplifying the approach to substance use disorder treatment, Chad likes to focus on making good decisions, integrity and instilling a good work ethic to help build self-esteem.Chad feels that treatment is supposed to prepare people for the real world. He also reminds parents that it is not their job to get their kids to care more, but to show them what caring looks like by providing a solid example.Chad also gets us to ask, "What does healing look like for you?" His take on this important question helps us to understand that even if we have "healed" a little and are working towards "healing," then we are on the right path.Shar asks Chad questions posed by listeners and his answers provide a wealth of learning and introspection. A powerful interview with many fantastic takeaways and a focus on keeping perspective."You got a roof over your head? Are you feeding yourself? Do you know you did the best you can? You are winning!"Chad works in Admissions and Outreach at Habilitat, Inc. - a long-term (2-year) residential addiction treatment and vocational training program in Hawaii. He's been in Hawaii for the past 7 years, where he initially moved to the islands to treat his heroin addiction through Habilitat's program. Habilitat gave Chad a life worth living.He enjoys outdoor activities, is an active member of a local Rotary Club, serves on the board of Aloha United Ways - Society of Young Leaders, and enjoys the occasional trip to California to visit family and friends.Web - https://www.habilitat.com/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Habilitat/Phone: 1-800-872-2525--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:The Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Valerie Silveira is the author of the Award-Winning Book, “Still Standing After All the Tears: Putting Back the Pieces After All Hell Breaks Loose” and creator of the Nine Actions to Battle Your Beast. She is also an author of two other books, a speaker, mentor, coach, and consultant.In 2004, Valerie's eighteen-year-old daughter was shot by her ex-boyfriend. Over the next decade, Jordan's* life spun out of control and as a result, Valerie's spiraled into darkness. She would face the heartbreaking reality that Jordan was a heroin addict and the painful truth that she is powerless to save her from her Beast.With a heart shattered into a million pieces, a broken family, health issues, financial hardship and depression, Valerie was giving up hope of ever being happy again. At a very dark time in her life, she found a shred of hope, and a tiny bit of courage, and made a decision that probably saved her life – she decided to Stand Up & Fight.“Still Standing After All the Tears” takes you on a journey through the agony and hopelessness of losing her child over and over again to drug addiction, and into the actions Valerie used to battle her own Codependent Enabler Beast.Although Valerie was painfully aware of the possibility of Jordan dying from an overdose, nothing could have prepared her for that knock on the door, August 28, 2016. Her daughter, Jamie, (whom she had called Jordan), was murdered. The nightmare her family lived through in 2004, had returned. Only this time, Jamie didn’t make it.Through the devastation of losing Jamie, of losing hope of her recovery, Valerie has fought to regain her courage, to stand up again, and to continue her mission of helping moms and others. She is living proof that it is possible, even in your darkest hours, to Stand Up & Fight.Valerie has had a diverse career in finance, business operations, consulting, training and speaking. None of her business challenges came even close to that of trying helplessly to save her daughter. She uses her professional experience and her two rides on what she calls the Roller Coaster From Hell, to help others put the pieces of their life back together. Valerie has an incredibly relatable style, and her sense of humor shows through the pain. The book and the Actions are important not only for families of addicts but for anyone struggling to move through or past a traumatic life situation.*Until Jamie’s death, Valerie chose to call her daughter "Jordan" out of respect for her story.The 9 Actions1. Decide to Stand Up & Fight2. Put On Your Spiritual Armor3. Put On Your Oxygen Mask (Give Yourself Permission to Live Again)4. Build Your Circle of Strength5. Change Your Attitude6. Adjust Your Focus7. Stop Being a Control Freak8. Stand on Your Story9. Make Meaning from the MadnessWeb - http://www.ValerieSilveira.comFacebook - https://Facebook.com/ValerieSilveiraAuthorSpeakerBooks: http://amazon.com/author/valeriesilveira--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:The Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Valerie Silveira is the author of the Award-Winning Book, “Still Standing After All the Tears: Putting Back the Pieces After All Hell Breaks Loose” and creator of the Nine Actions to Battle Your Beast. She is also an author of two other books, a speaker, mentor, coach, and consultant.In 2004, Valerie's eighteen-year-old daughter was shot by her ex-boyfriend. Over the next decade, Jordan's* life spun out of control and as a result, Valerie's spiraled into darkness. She would face the heartbreaking reality that Jordan was a heroin addict and the painful truth that she is powerless to save her from her Beast.With a heart shattered into a million pieces, a broken family, health issues, financial hardship and depression, Valerie was giving up hope of ever being happy again. At a very dark time in her life, she found a shred of hope, and a tiny bit of courage, and made a decision that probably saved her life – she decided to Stand Up & Fight.“Still Standing After All the Tears” takes you on a journey through the agony and hopelessness of losing her child over and over again to drug addiction, and into the actions Valerie used to battle her own Codependent Enabler Beast.Although Valerie was painfully aware of the possibility of Jordan dying from an overdose, nothing could have prepared her for that knock on the door, August 28, 2016. Her daughter, Jamie, (whom she had called Jordan), was murdered. The nightmare her family lived through in 2004, had returned. Only this time, Jamie didn’t make it.Through the devastation of losing Jamie, of losing hope of her recovery, Valerie has fought to regain her courage, to stand up again, and to continue her mission of helping moms and others. She is living proof that it is possible, even in your darkest hours, to Stand Up & Fight.Valerie has had a diverse career in finance, business operations, consulting, training and speaking. None of her business challenges came even close to that of trying helplessly to save her daughter. She uses her professional experience and her two rides on what she calls the Roller Coaster From Hell, to help others put the pieces of their life back together. Valerie has an incredibly relatable style, and her sense of humor shows through the pain. The book and the Actions are important not only for families of addicts but for anyone struggling to move through or past a traumatic life situation.*Until Jamie’s death, Valerie chose to call her daughter "Jordan" out of respect for her story.The 9 Actions1. Decide to Stand Up & Fight2. Put On Your Spiritual Armor3. Put On Your Oxygen Mask (Give Yourself Permission to Live Again)4. Build Your Circle of Strength5. Change Your Attitude6. Adjust Your Focus7. Stop Being a Control Freak8. Stand on Your Story9. Make Meaning from the MadnessWeb - http://www.ValerieSilveira.comFacebook - https://Facebook.com/ValerieSilveiraAuthorSpeakerBooks: http://amazon.com/author/valeriesilveira--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:The Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Sean Stradling's life is a testament to that powerful quote from George Eliot. Sean grew up feeling like he was never good enough. “I didn't do things right and still sometimes to this day I still suffer from the self-limiting beliefs that I'm not good enough.”Early on he discovered that alcohol and drugs were an easy path to “feel 10 feet tall, bulletproof, all that good stuff.”But, life just got more difficult as his drug use escalated, and he entered his first treatment center at age 15. It didn’t get better anytime soon. Treatment centers, time in jail, and a family that abandons him as he sinks deeper into depression.What finally happened was something he can't explain, but he remembers the last day he used. He recalls a blank empty feeling, and he looked up and said, “God, if you're real you got to help me because I got to quit, this is killing me.”“I think finally somewhere inside I realized I am going to die this way.”Following that powerful turning point in his life at age 33, Sean discovered the support he needed and the fortitude to create a new story. He was able to ask for help and has found a way to heal himself, and now helps others to find their path towards living a better life.Sean has found freedom from his past. With hard work and discipline, long-term recovery has become his reality.A certified Addiction Recovery Specialist and Recovery Coach, he works closely to guide and mentor others in recovery to find success as well. And as a parent of children who also struggle with their life choices, Sean often finds himself assisting parents through the difficult decisions they need to make to empower their children to seek a better life.Listen to this amazing and honest story of determination and challenge where Sean shows us to believe that our past does not define our future.Web - https://therecoverycorps.com/--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:The Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Sean Stradling's life is a testament to that powerful quote from George Eliot. Sean grew up feeling like he was never good enough. “I didn't do things right and still sometimes to this day I still suffer from the self-limiting beliefs that I'm not good enough.”Early on he discovered that alcohol and drugs were an easy path to “feel 10 feet tall, bulletproof, all that good stuff.”But, life just got more difficult as his drug use escalated, and he entered his first treatment center at age 15. It didn’t get better anytime soon. Treatment centers, time in jail, and a family that abandons him as he sinks deeper into depression.What finally happened was something he can't explain, but he remembers the last day he used. He recalls a blank empty feeling, and he looked up and said, “God, if you're real you got to help me because I got to quit, this is killing me.”“I think finally somewhere inside I realized I am going to die this way.”Following that powerful turning point in his life at age 33, Sean discovered the support he needed and the fortitude to create a new story. He was able to ask for help and has found a way to heal himself, and now helps others to find their path towards living a better life.Sean has found freedom from his past. With hard work and discipline, long-term recovery has become his reality.A certified Addiction Recovery Specialist and Recovery Coach, he works closely to guide and mentor others in recovery to find success as well. And as a parent of children who also struggle with their life choices, Sean often finds himself assisting parents through the difficult decisions they need to make to empower their children to seek a better life.Listen to this amazing and honest story of determination and challenge where Sean shows us to believe that our past does not define our future.Web - https://therecoverycorps.com/--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:The Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Recently I stumbled across a video that I had done a few years ago. I don't know if other people do this but there are times, especially when I was really struggling, when I would talk to myself in a video or I would record myself and it was my safe place to confide.The audio is very raw, and it makes me sad and it scares me to share it with you. That's why I feel compelled to do it because the whole reason why I wanted to start this podcast was because I know how lonely and isolating and heartbreaking it is to be a Mom with a child that is battling addiction.I'm sharing this audio with you from three years ago because I want you to know that I understand the hurt, you can get through this and you will get through this.There is a better way and that you are not alone. You don't have to go through this by yourself. And yes, people in your life are not going to understand your hurt. And that's not for you to try to explain to them. Your job right now is to reach out to people who understand what you're going through to get the help that you need.I'm just sending you so much love and with the holidays coming around the corner, I know that creates a lot of stress and sadness for people who are trying to recreate traditions and memories from long ago a different life and things happen in life.My thought about this is to consider finding some new ways to celebrate the holidays, to create some new traditions that celebrate you and your life today.Every day we get a chance to open our eyes is a gift. If you're suffering that's not why you're here. You're not here to suffer. Please know that and I'll talk with you soon.With love, SharFind out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:The Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Recently I stumbled across a video that I had done a few years ago. I don't know if other people do this but there are times, especially when I was really struggling, when I would talk to myself in a video or I would record myself and it was my safe place to confide.The audio is very raw, and it makes me sad and it scares me to share it with you. That's why I feel compelled to do it because the whole reason why I wanted to start this podcast was because I know how lonely and isolating and heartbreaking it is to be a Mom with a child that is battling addiction.I'm sharing this audio with you from three years ago because I want you to know that I understand the hurt, you can get through this and you will get through this.There is a better way and that you are not alone. You don't have to go through this by yourself. And yes, people in your life are not going to understand your hurt. And that's not for you to try to explain to them. Your job right now is to reach out to people who understand what you're going through to get the help that you need.I'm just sending you so much love and with the holidays coming around the corner, I know that creates a lot of stress and sadness for people who are trying to recreate traditions and memories from long ago a different life and things happen in life.My thought about this is to consider finding some new ways to celebrate the holidays, to create some new traditions that celebrate you and your life today.Every day we get a chance to open our eyes is a gift. If you're suffering that's not why you're here. You're not here to suffer. Please know that and I'll talk with you soon.With love, SharFind out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:The Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

During this powerful conversation, Dr. Brad Reedy explains why it’s imperative for parents to detach in a healthy way and why over-identifying with our children can have lasting consequences.As parents, we must take our own well-being into our hands and make our own lives our project. Our children are not responsible for our serenity! It's important for us to treat our children as a person, allow them to have their feelings, love their "otherness," and avoid trying to "fix them."This episode has fascinating insights for all parents, including the transformative message to help anyone who is struggling, "You are not alone, and I am with you."Dr. Brad Reedy is a Co-owner and the Clinical Director of Evoke Therapy Programs, an experientially-based therapy program for adolescents, young adults and families. He has served on the Board of the Utah Department of Child and Family Services and the board of the National Association of Therapeutic Schools and Programs. He is also the Founder of Enlightening Relationships and provides parent coaching, couples’ therapy, and individual therapy.Dr. Reedy has developed an accessible and liberating approach to adolescents, young adults, and their parents. His powerful ability to use his own story and stories from the thousands of families he has treated offers hope to families suffering from mental health, addiction, and stage-of-life issues. He is a captivating public speaker and has been invited to deliver several keynote addresses on wilderness therapy, treatment of addiction, and parenting.Dr. Reedy is the author of The Journey of the Heroic Parent: Your Child’s Struggle & the Road Home, published by Reganarts. He is also an associate producer of the upcoming play “Wilderness,” Premiering in NYC at the Abrons Arts Center with a national tour in 2017, “Wilderness” is an original multi-media, documentary theater production from En Garde Arts, telling the story of six families participating in wilderness therapy.Personal YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvUrznbBJk3OSoc_1nldNWgPersonal Website: http://drbradreedy.comTwitter: @27bmrFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/drbradreedy/Personal Blog: http://drbradreedy.com/brad-reedy-blog/Evoke's YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdwPCDlcKGPxI70trk8s5QAEvoke's Website: https://evoketherapy.comTwitter: @EvokeTherapyFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/EvokeTherapy/Blog on Evoke: https://evoketherapy.com/the-evoke-team/blog/brad-reedy/Dr. Reedy's Book - The Journey of the Heroic Parent:https://www.amazon.com/Journey-Heroic-Parent-Childs-Struggle-ebook/dp/B00T0GIB0Q/--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:The Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

During this powerful conversation, Dr. Brad Reedy explains why it’s imperative for parents to detach in a healthy way and why over-identifying with our children can have lasting consequences.As parents, we must take our own well-being into our hands and make our own lives our project. Our children are not responsible for our serenity! It's important for us to treat our children as a person, allow them to have their feelings, love their "otherness," and avoid trying to "fix them."This episode has fascinating insights for all parents, including the transformative message to help anyone who is struggling, "You are not alone, and I am with you."Dr. Brad Reedy is a Co-owner and the Clinical Director of Evoke Therapy Programs, an experientially-based therapy program for adolescents, young adults and families. He has served on the Board of the Utah Department of Child and Family Services and the board of the National Association of Therapeutic Schools and Programs. He is also the Founder of Enlightening Relationships and provides parent coaching, couples’ therapy, and individual therapy.Dr. Reedy has developed an accessible and liberating approach to adolescents, young adults, and their parents. His powerful ability to use his own story and stories from the thousands of families he has treated offers hope to families suffering from mental health, addiction, and stage-of-life issues. He is a captivating public speaker and has been invited to deliver several keynote addresses on wilderness therapy, treatment of addiction, and parenting.Dr. Reedy is the author of The Journey of the Heroic Parent: Your Child’s Struggle & the Road Home, published by Reganarts. He is also an associate producer of the upcoming play “Wilderness,” Premiering in NYC at the Abrons Arts Center with a national tour in 2017, “Wilderness” is an original multi-media, documentary theater production from En Garde Arts, telling the story of six families participating in wilderness therapy.Personal YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvUrznbBJk3OSoc_1nldNWgPersonal Website: http://drbradreedy.comTwitter: @27bmrFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/drbradreedy/Personal Blog: http://drbradreedy.com/brad-reedy-blog/Evoke's YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdwPCDlcKGPxI70trk8s5QAEvoke's Website: https://evoketherapy.comTwitter: @EvokeTherapyFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/EvokeTherapy/Blog on Evoke: https://evoketherapy.com/the-evoke-team/blog/brad-reedy/Dr. Reedy's Book - The Journey of the Heroic Parent:https://www.amazon.com/Journey-Heroic-Parent-Childs-Struggle-ebook/dp/B00T0GIB0Q/--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:The Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Self-Forgiveness illuminates your true purpose— opening doors to healing your past while replacing regret with gratitude. Self-Forgiveness enables more feelings of freedom, joy, and inner peace.As an author, speaker, and Self-Forgiveness Coach, Brenda Reiss helps us to understand that forgiveness is not about the other person but is all about us.Forgiveness allows us to unstick unhealthy energy from within and release it. She also helps us realize that there is a difference between appropriate and inappropriate guilt and as parents of addicts, we tend to get caught up in feeling guilty for other people's behavior.This can lead to a serious lack of self-love. But, this is an opportunity to look within, become self-aware, and pull back while giving the gift of space.And remember, this is all a lifelong process...it does get easier.More info: http://brendareisscoaching.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Brenda.Reiss.Coach/Her book, "Forgive Yourself:" http://brendareisscoaching.com/product/forgive-yourself/--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:The Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Self-Forgiveness illuminates your true purpose— opening doors to healing your past while replacing regret with gratitude. Self-Forgiveness enables more feelings of freedom, joy, and inner peace.As an author, speaker, and Self-Forgiveness Coach, Brenda Reiss helps us to understand that forgiveness is not about the other person but is all about us.Forgiveness allows us to unstick unhealthy energy from within and release it. She also helps us realize that there is a difference between appropriate and inappropriate guilt and as parents of addicts, we tend to get caught up in feeling guilty for other people's behavior.This can lead to a serious lack of self-love. But, this is an opportunity to look within, become self-aware, and pull back while giving the gift of space.And remember, this is all a lifelong process...it does get easier.More info: http://brendareisscoaching.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Brenda.Reiss.Coach/Her book, "Forgive Yourself:" http://brendareisscoaching.com/product/forgive-yourself/--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:The Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comBeyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/

Julia Treat is an intuitive, a healer and a miracle facilitator who believes spirit comes in all shapes and sizes. It’s not one size fits all.During this powerful discussion, we uncover the perils of self-sabotage and shame, some of the biggest challenges we all face.Beware the baggage you carry and who you project it upon. Remember, the vibration and energy you are putting towards a situation are only helping to feed that situation. It's best to focus on taking care of yourself, then you are in a better place to project your energy outward and your shift will help others find the desired shift as well.Also, help is out there in many forms. Don't be afraid to ask for yourself or send some to those in need.More info: http://juliatreat.comStepping Into the Light Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/stepping-into-the-light/id1012579494--Find out more at http://beyondhoperadio.com--Show sponsors:Hassle-Free Books - You have a message to share, it shouldn't be so difficult to get it out to the world. Become an author in a little as 45 days: http://hasslefreebooks.comThe Addictions Academy - The Nation’s Leading Accredited Addiction Treatment Services, Recovery/Sober Coaching & Intervention Training Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/Beyond Hope with Shar Joneshttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/beyond-hope/