EdenxJay Unfiltered

Hi Babes! — we missed you.

Hey, Trevino Tribe!

After 4 long years, we're finally pregnant!  In this episode, we get you quickly caught up on our whole plan and how we were able to make it this far. Warning, this was not an easy journey but this is our story.    Also, we'll be back every other Sunday until we navigate through this nesting phase and the next episode will be dedicated to answering your question on IG via DM or through our Gmail edenxjay@gmail.com.    In the meantime, what baby names should we consider?   

We're back and it's been waaaaay too long! Life was definitely doing its thing and we're so excited to catch you up on the chapters you missed.  Chapter 1: Baby update and learning we will have to adopt our own child (grab a tissue) Chapter 2: Preciosa is down to its final leg of the tour! Chapter 3: We answer your IG questions about first heartbrakes and how to avoid Uhauling... We missed you so much and we'll see you next week!    Don't forget to follow us @edenxjay and @preciosanight   BYEEEEEE

We're moving!!! So sorry Unfiltered Fam we've been gone but this is why. Our lives have felt a little upside down and hard choices had to be made but here we are, ready to dive into what happened and most importantly… WHAT'S NEXT? No matter where we are in the world, we're honored to take you with us. So please enjoy this catch-up episode as we unpack our decision to pack up everything and start a new adventure.  Next week we're answering your questions from our “Let's TALK Thursday” prompt on our IG Story. Te Amo Unfiltered Fam! See you next Sunday!

Not one, not two but there are FIVE different ways to feel imposter syndrome?? Yes, you bet we are unpacking all of them in this week's episode and giving you EIGHT different ways to fight those intrusive feelings. Also, we are just days away from Jay's bday party and DJ debut in Boyle Heights and we hope to see you there! - TICKETS    See you next week!  XOXOXO LOVE YOU!  

We are back y'all! Life has been lifing so thank you for giving us grace. When it rains it pours for sure but that won't stop us from being here for you. In today's episode, the first half we chat about our path to breaking the cycle of codependency and how we support having different identities. On the flip side, we share our experience with being long-distance and how we kept the flame alive while being so far apart.    Two important topics in one episode! Thank you for joining our Sunday Service and we'll see you next week.   Preciosa Night Tix Pet Memorial       

Welcome to another episode of  EdenxJay unfiltered podcast! This week, we're blasting off into uncharted territory as we tackle some hard-hitting issues with our special guests, Roxy and Taylor, two LA drag kings. Get ready as we navigate the stratosphere of homophobia and discrimination while on our Preciosa Tour. Plus, we're exploring the complexities of starting a family as a queer couple. Buckle up for a Sunday sermon like no other with your hosts, Eden and Jay. It's about to get real, raw, and unfiltered - so grab your snacks and get comfy.   Make sure to leave us 5 stars and leave a comment on what topic should talk about next week

Situationships...what are they? Why do we get into them? And how can we stop it? On this week's episode of EdenxJay unfiltered we are fresh off our first Tour stop for Preciosa Night and we deep Dive into the intricate web of situationships, exploring the blurred lines between and how we even get there in the first place. Get ready as we spill the tea on our personal experiences and how we got out of them.

This is our first podcast on the road and I can't believe we pulled it off... and on time! This week's episode was a request from our Instagram and giiirrllll did we unpack our past. Listen as we dive into our Toxic recovery journey and share the lessons we learned along the way.  We officially hit the road next week for our Preciosa Night Tour so join us as we pack up for San Francisco and Texas!  Talk to you babes next Sunday!  xoxo   

We're backkkkkkk! Happy 2024 babes! We're so excited to catch you up on all our favorite moments of our NYE party, including a Preciosa asking to be our New Year's Kiss.... OMG YES she did! Listen to not only hear what happened but we also talk about open relationships for the first time in our relationship.    Buckle up buttercups and let's unpack 2024 together.    Tune in every Sunday at 8 AM pst. See you next week!      

(Trigger Warning: DV / Suicide) for those in need please see the resources below:  publichealth.lacounty.gov www.thetrevorproject.org National Domestic Abuse Hotline   In this unfiltered episode, Eden and Jay bravely open up about their journey surviving their first toxic relationship. It's a raw account of the hardships they faced, which might be challenging to hear at times. Feel free to take breaks or skip ahead for your comfort. Their resilience in surviving this challenging experience is remarkable. On "Unfiltered," they aim not only to share their story but also to shed light on warning signs or red flags of being in a highly toxic relationship. Their hope is that by highlighting these aspects, they can empower others to recognize and avoid similar situations in the future. For those wishing to skip this week, the next episode's topic is "IMPOSTER SYNDROME"

What do you want to make happen in 2024?  The girls dive into the power of manifestation and get candid about their goals for next year. Also, they answer some great questions sent by you, "Name a time when you had to trust the process", "Advice for struggling to feel accepted as a bisexual", "Fave places you traveled this year"?    Have you ever felt too old to do something risky? Eden opens up about how she missed her window to do drugs and go snowboarding... maybe you can relate.    Jay is giving her Piecses-approved gifting ideas for the traveler, foodie, and music person in your life.    Don't forget to send your questions on their IG stories every Thursday!    Tune in next Sunday for a new episode!   NYE Preciosa Night Tickets: https://www.preciosanight.com/tix

It's that time of the year again and the girls are back with another Surviving the Holigays episode. Not every holiday is mistletoe and sunshine but hopefully, this topic will help your survival journey.    Episode Topics:  When and how to talk to your partner about the holidays. Setting healthy boundaries with your family during the holidays. Chosen family vs blood family for the holidays. People pleasing during the holidays.  Tips for hosting your own Friendsgiving.    Tune in next time for how to pick the perfect gift for your partner.   >> Last Preciosa event of 2023: preciosanight.com/tix 

Is your sex life not what it used to be?  The duo dives into the episode and reveals their journey to building a healthy sex life. They also share the hard conversations they had while navigating different sex drives. Intimacy is definitely not one size fits all so you'll want to hear how Eden and Jay find a middle ground when it comes to getting close. Also, be sure to stay until the end to find out why THIS is their favorite sex toy of all time!    Tune in next Sunday for more Unfiltered! 

Jay is feeling a bit under the weather but she's pushing through for y'all!  Back by popular demand, the Q and A session is BACK!  Every Thursday on EdenxJay's Insta you can send any questions on their stories and last week the questions were too good not to bring to the podcast. Check out the topics below.    What are we wearing to our Halloween party?  Advice on not having your family at the wedding?  Advice for couples trying to start an IG page together? What's your go-to breakfast? When do you give your partner the benefit of the doubt? Did you ever feel hopeless when trying to find the one?  How do I make my GF feel more secure with my bisexuality? What are your favorite Seggs toys?           

The baby update you have been waiting for is here! But first things first, we're going to learn how Eden and Jay got this far in the baby process and what criteria they had for their sperm donor.... if you're guessing it was a lot... you are correct!  Also, the two walk us through their baby steps into parenthood and how they started their IVF journey.    Shoutout to www.cryobank.com for being an incredible resource for finding a sperm donor and to www.hanabusaivf.com  for helping make these baby dreams possible.    See you next week for another update!   

Welcome to part 2 of the most unforgettable wedding day! Join us as Jay uncovers the reasons behind her morning emotions, and Eden takes us on a journey through her favorite wedding day memories. From crafting custom Mezcal bottles to a jaw-dropping 8-minute vow exchange (yes, you read that right), this episode is packed with heartwarming tales about healthy boundaries. But wait, there's more! stay tuned for a special surprise that will leave you smiling and laughing. Tune in to this episode for all the love, laughter, and surprises from a day that will go down in history.  Love what you're hearing? Make sure to leave 5 stars and tune in every Thursday for a new episode. Don't forget to follow us on Instagram and TikTok @edenxjay!  The voicemail audio company mentioned on this episode @afterthetone.co

We did the damn thing and now we're back!!! We're so excited to share our favorite (and least favorite) moments from our big day. We learned A LOT but wouldn't change it for the world. Honestly, there is so much wedding unpacking to do that we have to make a part 2!  Thank you for waiting and enjoy this special drop episode just for you!    XOXO!  Follow us @Edenxjay

A lot can happen in 3 weeks! from touring for Preciosa Night to throwing the FIRST EVER Latinx Pride Festival. Eden and Jay dive deep into the ups and downs of creating a safe space for their community. They would be lying if they said it was easy and certain instances where Eden gets the cops called on her by a city employee, makes it difficult to keep positive. They haven't been home in the past 3 weeks and are currently in Oaxaca for the wedding on July 29th. Thank you all for being so patient as they survived the busyness of Pride and Preciosa. They will be back on schedule in August. 

Between the planning a wedding, a festival and a crazy pride season, we had to get you caught up on a few hot topics... Liiiike our amazing friends throwing us a surprise bridal shower…. Seriously WHAT?! And How did we get so lucky? On this episode it's also Jay's turn to get in her feels as she opens up about the importance of our chosen family coming to the wedding. As for Pride Season… let's just say we have thoughts on the topic and not all of them are positive. Also, Eden get's unfiltered about her battle with Dyslexia and how it has impacted the relationship. Tune in on Thursday for new episodes!

We guess a lot can happen in 2 weeks! Our heads are still spinning from all the beautiful things we saw in Bora Bora. Wait until you hear about our favorite part of the trip. Also, we flew straight over to NYC to have our first Preciosa Night on the East Coast and it was one for the books! We had such an amazing time and truly can't wait to come back. Annnndddd we had our Preciosa Night one year party a week later and can't believe all the things that unfolded!  Catch us next week as we shift gears to baby and wedding talk!  Send us your questions Edenxjay@gmail.com    besos! 

You all sent some damn good questions that even made us speechless. Today you asked us to talk about Preciosa Night and where it's going, how to unlearn toxic behaviors, how to handle codependency, annnnnnnd what negative characteristics would our exes say about us..... eeeeek.    Thank you for following all things @edenxJay and for sending us your questions!    What should we talk about next week?  

Moving in with your partner after just meeting each other can have its challenges... even you Eden and Jay. The two break down the lessons they learned from Uhauling and answer deep questions sent by one of you!  

With a wedding just a few months away, Eden and Jay are all the stress with NO DRESS! Yup, the two share where they are with the BIG DAY approaching and let's say they have a long way to go. Also, they have some exciting news about a potential honeymoon opportunity but you'll have to be the judge of that. 

Is my relationship boring or just healthy? If you found yourself asking this question then this episode is definitely for you. Tune in as Eden and Jay also share stories of their past about where they stand on forgiveness.Not only are the emotions running deep but you'll hear it here first about Eden's embryo update.... step into the safe space and get ready to unpack!  Need advice? Email. EdenxJay@gmail.com   

On this week's episode of EdenxJay: Unfiltered, they take a trip down memory lane about their dating life when they were single. This episode gets extra unfiltered as they discuss their trials and tribulations early in the relationship and how they overcame them. Get ready to laugh, cry, and everything in between. They also share how they almost got stuck in Australia and barely made it to Bali. Catch EdenxJay: Unfiltered every Thursday wherever you get your podcast. 

It's money talk time! Host Eden and Jay know this topic can be kind of awkward but together they open up about their relationship with money, how it started, and how it's going. In this episode, you'll hear lessons on unlearning family trauma and its connection with money as well as tools the couple uses to reach their financial goals together. They're so happy to have you here every Thursday but now it's time to take a deep breath and press play and don't forget to leave 5 stars. 

Jay took another amazing trip around the sun and decided to crowd surf! Yup, that's right the duo are unpacking all the fun and emotional details of their Preciosa Night event. Eden also shares how hard it is to break communication styles passed down by your parents. This episode is truly special so grab a pizza and get comfy.    See you next Thursday! 

The theme of this episode is "YOU GATTA THINK BIG B*TCH". As soon as you hit play, Eden and Jay take you on a wild ride of everything you missed during the week they were away as well as give you a first look at what's to come. What makes this episode extra special is how the two support bi representation within each other and the LGBTQ+ community. They hope you enjoyed this catchup episode and they look forward to talking about relationship advice and money next week! Don't forget to follow them on social media @EdenxJay and give this podcast 5 stars. 

IVF is not for the faint of heart so get ready as Eden and Jay dive into part 2 of trying to make a baby!The two open up about the struggles they faced when Jay's first round of IVF didn't work and how their journey is going now that it's Eden's turn. Also, the random intimacy question is back! So be sure to stay til the end.  Don't forget to follow @EdenxJay  See you next Thursday!   

Eden and Jay are back for another Thursday Podcast episode. Feb is for Fertility and today the host share their fertility journey from A to Z in this two part podcast series. Don't forget to hang until the end because they have a BIG announcement and you'll hear it here first.   Catch EdenxJay: Unfiltered wherever you get your podcasts!    See you next Thursday for part 2! 

The story is finally out! Eden and Jay had no idea they were being played by the same girl just weeks before they met but it all comes to a crashing head when they put the pieces together and her lies unravel.  Stay for the end as the hosts pull a question from their intimacy deck and open up about some of their biggest dreams for 2023.  Tune in every Thursday for a new episode of EdenxJay: Unfiltered!  Have an idea for a topic? Email us at EdenxJay@gmail.com

New season, who dis? Eden and Jay are coming in HAWT with the burning topic, Cheaters! The two share their opinions on why they think people cheat and if they would take a cheater back. This episode gets extra unfiltered as they share their story of what happened when one of their close friends was cheated on just a couple of months before her wedding and they had to be the ones to break the news to her.   

Eden and Jay lost nipple pasties and almost their minds on New Year's Eve. Tune in as they get unfiltered and share all the behind-the-scenes malfunctions of their 900+ people queer NYE party PRECIOSA NIGHT! The two also dive into their goals for 2023 and give us a sneak peek at what's to come for Preciosa Night. #PreciosaNightWorldTour Tune in every Thursday for a new episode of EdenxJay: Unfiltered  Have an idea for a topic they should discuss? Email us at Edenxjay@gmail.com

Where did the year go?? For the final episode of 2022, Eden and Jay did a Q&A call out on Instagram and the questions did not disappoint! Check out the questions below and get ready to jump into the last sexy and safe space of 2022.    "I really like this girl but she's in a relationship. Should I wait? Soulmate connection." “My girlfriend of 20 years and I want to get pregnant and we're a little overwhelmed on where to start. Any Advice?” “How to navigate income differences? Constantly declining rich girlfriend's invites because of the money gap?” “How do you go down on a girl? Any advice would help!” “Making money is easy. Can we talk about ways to keep it & secure & make it grow?”  “What do you do if a girl says we just have a friendship but we do couple stuff and kiss? No sex.”  “Can you come back from Cheating?” “Do you have a P.O. Box Where can we can send you two gifts?”  “How do you both care for each other's inner child?“  “Can you help me find my perfect match?” We love you all and thank you for supporting!  Let us know what topic you want to chat about in 2023? 

TW: This episode can be a heavy one as Eden shares her story of grief after losing her mother to cancer three years ago. Grief can manifest in different ways... and for Eden, it was an overwhelming feeling of sadness and anger. Reaching out for help is never easy but she knew healing had to be prioritized in order to continue a relationship with Jay. How do you cope with grief? Tune in every Thursday for a new episode of EdenxJay: Unfiltered.    Have an idea for a topic they should discuss? Email us at Edenxjay @gmail.com

How can so much growth happen in one episode?! Tune in as Eden and Jay look back on their first joint "Friends Cleanse" moment and learned how to set boundaries. 

Spoiler Alert: It's possible for Lesbians and Bisexuals to be together.  On this week's episode, Eden and Jay take a deep dive into Biphobia and address some of the stigmas within the Lesbian community. Jay opens up about where her Biphobia stemmed from and Eden's jaw drops! As a couple, the two share how they were able to overcome and educate each other about Biphobia in hopes that it starts a much-needed conversation within the LGBTQ+ community. The two also answer questions from their Instagram call-out, so make sure you stay til the end! Catch a new episode every Thursday. 

Not sure if you'll need tissues or boxing gloves for this episode, as Jay opens up and shares the Thanksgiving fallout she had with her mother. We discuss machismo and toxic generational trauma within the Latino/x community. The Holigays can be challenging for some especially those that are gay, so don't forget to check in on your friends and those you love. Also, we have a sexy announcement at the end so don't miss it! xoxo  

Gracias for joining our podcast EdenxJay Unfiltered! If you haven't followed our journey on social @EdenxJay, we're a queer Latina married couple based in Los Angeles. For the past few years, we've created a safe space for our community to seek out the healthy Latinx representation they deserve. Both of us have lived many lives most people wouldn't believe, and although we're grateful social media has allowed us to reach thousands of you out there, we needed a place to be unfiltered as we share our stories and unapologetically cover a wide array of topics like growing up brown, family, relationships, sexuality, culture, fertility, finance, entrepreneurship, and overall life advice. We're so happy to have you here but now it's time to take a deep breath and press play.

Yes, you heard correctly... Eden went to jail on our fourth date. Buckle up for a rollercoaster of emotions and unpredictable twists that landed us stranded for three days with nothing but the clothes on our backs. This podcast is a safe space for us to share our unfiltered truth and we hope you enjoy this pivotal moment in our love story. Tune in next week for more EdenxJay unfiltered. xo!