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*Sigh* Let's get into it yall. My home GWORL told me her man gives wack head and lazy dick. SMH

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Hey guys and gals! It's been a while, eh? In this episode Deja and I call out her friend "KARL" for ghosting "GHOST GIRL" and not coming on the show in order for us to to hold the BOFFUM accountable for their awful communication during an 8-month break. How long is too long for someone to go without speaking to you before you feel ghosted? No pun intended. If they come back, are you entitled to forgive them or do you make them pick a side and stay there? Further along in this episode I also discuss my relationship issues with "producer bae" and how I learned to be more sensitive to his needs in our relationship. We discuss how to have healthy disagreements and boundaries! We hope that you enjoy this episode and learn something! IG - KIAATHESINGER

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In this episode Deja and I discuss the curse of being a woman. Bandman Kevo's wife recently revealed he put her out of the house and now she's homeless. "Special days" and exchanging the kids as a single parent can get messy, Deja and I talk about our experience with exchanges as kids. IG - KIAATHESINGER

In this episode Deja and I discuss the pros and cons of being a Black woman in luxury. IG - KIAATHESINGER

In this episode Deja and I play a game of "Would you Rather NSFW Edition". IG - KIAATHESINGER + xDejane_Imanix

In this episode Deja and I discuss the difference between being Co-workers and friends. How long do you have to know someone before you consider them friends? Do you "test" their loyalty before considering them a "friend"? Are you a firm believer in loose lips sink ships like we are? As a bonus, I give some valuable information on how to negotiate your job offer and when to recognize certain language in a contingency letter OR while negotiating your offer. We hope you learn something! IG - KIAATHESINGER

In this episode we discuss someone that we know telling us about a date she had on bumble. Well, apparently the date she had was telling her that he likes his trips, "all inclusive". Do you agree or disagree with this logic OR have you given someone this ultimatum? IG - KIAATHESINGER & @xDejane_Imanix

*** DEJA AND I ARE NOT FINANCIAL ADVISORS. WE ARE NOT GIVING FINANCIAL ADVISE WE ARE SHARING OUR STORIES. PLEASE LEARN FROM OUR MISTAKES AND MAKE DECISIONS FOR YOURSELF. PLEASE BE RESPONSIBLE AND ENJOY THIS HIGHLY REQUESTED EPISODE *** In this episode Deja and I have a special guest speaking about their financial submissiveness. In PART 1 we discuss with our special guest how to handle finances in a relationship (50/50 or separate), BUYING & LYING vs. BUYING & HIDING. Do we believe in joint accounts yes or no? In PART 2 Deja and I discuss income to debt ratio, mortgage versus rent, saving money as a teenager and young adult, managing your money while in college /high school and how to protect yourself when buying a vehicle and checking the APR on credit cards/lines of credit. I'm so honored that you all trust me enough to listen to this episode. Hopefully you all can relate to this and most importantly, YOU LEARN SOMETHING! IG ------- KIAATHESINGER

In this episode you all sent requests asking what it's like to date someone that hates your family & how does a woman, in my opinion, forgive someone close to them for breaking their trust? Should I forgive you on my time or when you think I should? Get into it! IG - kiaaTHEsinger

In this episode y'all get to meet the throat goat

In this episode Deja and I discuss what we are praying for this year in 2022 and the top 5 things we hope to achieve! Share your goals for the new year with us as well, we'd love to hear from you! IG - KIAATHESINGER

Hey everybody this is just an update episode about me and NBA BAE. We linked up this week after not speaking for a few years. I hope this answers some of you all's questions that were in my DMs after he did a pop up visit. IG - KIAATHESINGER

In this episode Deja and I discuss the difference between a woman being attentive and thirsty. We discussed how a close friend of mine told me that she is interested in a man but she feels like he's wasting her time.  The second topic is how CATFISHING IS LAME ASF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What type of LAME ASS man or LAME ASS WOMAN takes time out of their day to LIE to people about their identity in order to get dates? Guess which one of us recently got cafished? DO ALL MEN CHEAT??? Yes or no? Who decided that only ONE woman should be with ONE man, is it realistic or no? LET'S GET INTO IT!!! IG - KIAATHESINGER

In this episode Deja and I discuss how AIN'T SHIT FREE when it comes to an existing and/or potential employer. KNOW YOUR WORTH! Have you learned how to negotiate, at what point do you establish your worth? Do you agree or disagree with job-hopping? Let's get into it. IG - KIAATHESINGER

In this episode Deja and I talk about how we have cheated and been cheated on. Can YOU forgive cheating, does history of the relationship matter when you decide to forgive? Does make-up sex help you with determining if you can take someone back after a break-up or does history play a role? Bisexuality can be a slippery slope for some, do you think women are accepted socially for being bisexual while men are not?  Guess which one of us WAS/IS bisexual. MEN ONLY: Please DM me on social media and tell me, what does it mean for a woman to take care of you? How do you define being taken care of in a relationship. Are you looking for financial submissiveness or sexual submission only? LETS CHAT!!!  IG - KIAATHESINGER 

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SZN 5 WE ARE HERE!!!!!!! Thank y'all for rocking with us! In this episode Deja and I are going to discuss how the cast of the, 'Nice & Neat' podcast discussed what their women can and cannot post while dating them. Disclaimer: I don't believe that social media is real. It is all entertainment to ME but i understand everyone does not feel that way. Two things can be true at once! Enjoy the episode and happy holidays!

In this episode my friend “Mike” and I discuss if men are really the prize or if he that finds a wife finds a good thing. Let's chat. —— kiaaTHEsinger

Deja and I have a mental health check-in on this episode. Remember to take a day for yourself, yall! www.DIMEnterprises.org IG - KiaaTHEsinger

In this episode Deja and I debate for an HOUR about how we agree/disagree with prenups and the issue of separation/divorce. I speak on the following issues: 1. What does marriage mean to you? 2. Would you waive/agree to asking for spousal support, alimony or an inheritance? 3. Would you split community property. 4. Would you sign a contract your spouse gave you without reading it or are you going to speak with an attorney before signing anything? 5. Legal separation or divorce; you can only pick one. 6. Sunset clause: Is it fair or is it uncalled for? 7. Outside spending on an outside relationship. I will make reference to certain public divorces and certain issues that I am familiar with in America, I am not familiar with many international issues so I am sorry for the international listeners lol. I am speaking on American Family Court laws I can't speak for other countries since I have never lived outside of America. We also talk about how we would approach a separation from a rich spouse versus how we would approach a separation if WE were the breadwinners.

WHEW!!! Last night's episode of Put A Ring on It was explosive! We got to see how much of a gaslighter Darion is. ***SPOILER ALERT*** This episode is not for you if you have not seen S2 EP8 please do NOT listen. You should watch the episode FIRST before listening. Deja and I are going to discuss why women should NOT have children without the commitment of marriage, men asking for a woman to PLAY WIFEY without BEING wifey. This episode is loaded, pay attention. Darion and Eric are extremely disrespectful toward their live-in girlfriends and the spirit of compromise is not within them. Jessica and Alexia have been tied down to these good-for-nothing men for so long that they've become accepting and familiar of their partners' disrespect. If you don't like being held accountable, THIS EPISODE IF NOT FOR YOU. If you're not into personal growth and don't have standards, THIS EPISODE is NOT for you. Let's get into it!! IG - KiaaTHEsinger

THIS EPISODE IS NOT FOR MEN THAT SUFFER FROM BITCHASSNESS!!!!!! Listen with caution, ladies pay attention. IG - kiaaTHEsinger

In this episode Deja tries to convince me to buy this new Rose toy that is driving the internet insane. She swears this toy eats your pussy SO WELL it causes squirting! Skeptical like I am? Try it for yourself and let us know your experience. IG - KiaaTHEsinger

In this episode Deja and I discuss the pros and cons of an HBCU vs a PWI. I have a MAJOR bone to pick with PWI Rice University and University of Houston for how they handled Black students complaints about statues of White slave owners or White confederate soldiers. We also discuss the issues surrounding federal funding of HBCU's. Let's talk about it! IG - kiaaTHEsinger

In this episode I discuss in a two part series having sex with my BEST FRIEND. I admit that I WAS selfish and that I hurt my friend in the long run. I do NOT recommend having sex with your best friend or co-worker UNLESS you know for sure that you all are on the same page about everything. I hope you guys learn something from this episode. IG - kiaaTHEsinger 

In this episode Deja and I discuss the trend of single-parent households and women choosing to have their careers FIRST and children / marriage later in life. In this episode we came with facts and articles to give percentages on both growing trends, to support the "new normal" of women being the breadwinners in their homes. What does potential mean to you, when finding a partner? Are you someone that looks for a man or woman that is already established or, are you willing to work with the person? What does it mean to be "50/50" in a relationship? Are you settling? Did you previously settle or are you settling now? - Let's discuss the pros and cons of dating down.  IG - KiaaTheSinger 

Hey everybody this is a follow up to episode number 8. OWN Network is still doing a raggedy ass job of giving us the backstory on some of these "connections" chile so I'm going to try my best to piece together the whole Joel and V situation. In today's episode I discuss how Liz and David have an EXPLOSIVE fight on the outside patio and how he basically refuses to answer any questions and runs off on her and production! Alexis and Ron have a disrespectful exchange as well and he tells Alexis he was dating and seeing her friend the day before elimination day anyway and how he thought she was "smarter." Whew! This episode was packed like a can of sardines. Enjoy!  IG -- KiaaTHEsinger 

Whew! In this episode I discuss last nights episode of Ready To Love on Oprah's OWN Network and how disappointed I am with the editing of this week and last weeks episode. I discuss each cast-mate and why I believe that David and Joel are TRASH. Differences in communication really showed in last nights episode and the men, showed their complete asses!!! Lets talk about it! IG -- KiaaTHEsinger

In this episode Deja and I discuss how having toxic in-laws can be frustrating and invasive. Let’s discuss.

In this episode my mother and I discuss the pros and cons of her student loan debt and how it effected her longterm views on the college experience. I have been very vocal about my disdain on student loan debt and repayment. We discussed the reason she took out student loans and how certain jobs offer tuition assistance. Enjoy! Some things to consider when applying for college: Debt repayment Minority admissions / minority involvement Scholarships Tuition reimbursement  Grants Budgeting Trade school Transferrable credits (I ALWASY RECOMMEND GOING TO A SCHOOL THAT HAS A TRANSFERRABLE DEGREE PROGRAM. TAKE COURSES AT THE COMMUNITY COLLEGE FIRST IF THEY TRANSFER TO THE UNIVERSITY!!) Consider all options. Your first choice may not be the BEST choice financially, going to your second or last choice school is still a success!) IG - KiaaTHEsinger

In this episode my friend August and I discuss our journey in tech. We discuss the pros and cons of the tech industry, learning how to negotiate in the job market, transcript issues in the field and give some study resources. Thanks for joining August, you were a pleasure! #CySec #CyberSecurity #InfoSec #Kali #Linux #Reddit Some resources are: Udemny Cybrary NCL Challenges Linux Academy CompTIA *There is a student bundle* VmWare AWS Azure LinkedIn Premium (offers classes and certificates of completion) Youtube (Youtube is good for when you run into errors with network security & Cisco)

Hey y’all! I am graduating with my degree in Cyber Security with honors and I’m so excited!! In this episode I’m going to talk about salary negotiation, the pros and cons of college, a bootcamp and being self taught. Please let me know if you all want more tech based episodes and more tips or how to find resources for building your portfolio. IG - KiaaTHEsinger

In this episode my sister and I discuss how I recently tried the pink pill. My partner and I decided to enjoy our New Year's Eve together and to celebrate the new year, we enjoyed each other. Deja even reveals a shocking revelation herself!! Please practice SAFE SEX, stay tested and make decisions within your best interest. This episode is NSFW and requires headphones OR listening to alone. Have you tried the pink pill and men, have you tried the male version?? What was your experience like, good or bad? Would you try it again? LET'S CHAT!!! IG -- KiaaTHEsinger

In this episode my sister and I discuss what we are leaving in 2020 and positive manifestations for 2K21! In 6 months we challenge you to rewind this episode and see where life has taken you. Hopefully Ms. Rona can get left behind in 2020 okay!! Keep up with me, IG - KiaaTHEsinger

In the second segment Deja and I discuss prenups, what to look for in a sugar daddy or sugar momma, the show Marrying Millions on Lifetime Network and how my experience has continued to grow with “Bob”. Let’s chat! IG - KiaaTHESinger

In this episode I discuss how I met my sugar daddy and how we have progressed and communicated our issues while dating. ENJOY! PS: BE SAFE AND THINK FOR YOURSELF. I AM SIMPLY SHARING MY EXPERIENCE WITH MY BOYFRIEND.

Monique and her burn book made it to the podcast y’all! This episode is NSFW.

Are you dating for security, sexy times or for love? How do you communicate boundaries and expectations? Are you submissive or clear on dealbreakers? Let’s discuss.

NSFW - in this episode my BFF Fantasia and I discuss how it feels to squirt and use toys. I will expand on my experience using the PINK KANGAROO / Pink Pussycat shots at a later time. Enjoy.

In this episode my sister and I discuss having sex with known cheaters or a man that simply won’t commit. We discuss having 3-way relationships, settling for less, my worst situation-ships and how the media influences sexual acceptance. THIS EPISODE IS NSFW and about an hour long. Enjoy!!

Are you here for spankings or not? Let's discuss.  IG ----- KiaaTHEsinger

**SPOILER ALERT** In this episode Kiara and I discuss P-Valley on STARZ network. The show stars Hailey, Uncle Cliff, Andre and Mercedes.

In this episode my sister and I discuss how we went through summer school and how it was completely exhausting.  PETITION: https://www.change.org/StudentHousingReform STUDY TIPS: 1. Take a breath 2. Speak with student services and find out if the classes are accelerated (4-6 weeks) or regular summer term (the full 8 weeks). This matters because if a class is accelerated you will have multiple assignments due everyday and in that class you cannot fall behind!!! 3. Download a WHATSAPP chat group or have a texting group to keep in touch with classmates. You never know which student can help brake something down to you in a way that your professor cannot! 4. Flash cards --- Don't just depend on QUIZLET or KHAN Academy. STUDY and use other resources to make sure you UNDERSTAND the informtion provided. 5. Use apps for topics you might be struggling with! Especially with math and English. (Formulas, writing styles and indentations....) 6. Have a set schedule!!!! Students have to have a set schedule so that you don't become overwhelmed. If you finish early, start on another assignment and finish it early. 7. REMEMBER WHY YOU STARTED!!! Make a vision board of your fave house or car or vacation spot. YOU GOT THIS!!! Keep up with me!

In this episode my great friend Brandon, who's a real estate agent discusses how he got into real estate and how important it is to own homes and businesses in our community. IG - kiaaTHEsinger

Deja and I are back and discussing how the black and OTHER communities can break generational curses like debt. We hope you all enjoy this episode!! IG - KiaaTHEsinger

On this episode I invite my friend Matt who is a professional sous chef. In this episode I ask him about his career and why he decided to attend culinary school. Thank you to our special guest! IG -- KiaaTHEsinger

Let's talk about it!!! IG - KiaaTHEsinger

Do you guys use dating apps? If so why, why not? How was your experience? IG - KiaaTHEsinger

In this episode My sister and I discuss the August and Jada tea that’s breaking the internet!!! Let’s discuss! IG - KiaaTheSinger