Love Strategies: Dating and Relationship Advice for Successful Women

I used to believe men were far more confident and calculated in dating than they actually are.What I learned instead reshaped how I approach attraction, timing, and connection.Skip the guesswork and apply for a Love Strategy Session here:  https://go.lovestrategies.com/beginThis perspective challenges a few common assumptions that quietly sabotage promising relationships. If dating has felt confusing despite your self-awareness, this may explain why.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

When a man says “I love you,” how do you know if he actually means it in the way you need? In this podcast, I share six specific patterns that quietly tell you he is not truly in, no matter how warm his words sound. Ready to shift from chasing “high value” to actually attracting a high character partner who can go the distance with you? Apply for a Love Strategy Session here: https://go.lovestrategies.com/beginIf you've ever stayed because of what he promised while your nervous system was screaming “something is off,” you'll want to listen to this. My goal is not to make you suspicious of every man, but to help you trust yourself enough to walk away from the wrong ones faster.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Beyond butterflies and fireworks, what truly makes a relationship thrive? We're diving deep into the often-overlooked power of emotional protection. Join us to learn what it means, why it matters, and how to cultivate it in your own love life.Originally Aired: Mar. 22, 2025NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Stop searching for a "high-value" partner, it's vague, shallow, and totally counterproductive!We're revealing the single quality every client wants in a man, and why you need to stop thinking of people as "sale items" and start looking for High-Character. Ready to shift from chasing “high value” to actually attracting a high character partner who can go the distance with you? Apply for a Love Strategy Session here: https://go.lovestrategies.com/beginGet ready for a game-changing new framework that will clarify exactly who you should be seeking and how to attract him.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

In this podcast episode, I'm sharing a dating shift that tends to feel wildly uncomfortable for high-achieving women at first, and quietly life-changing later. If you've ever felt that your love life moves fast, burns bright, and then leaves you exhausted, this is for you.  If dating has felt like a series of rushed connections and burnt-out "situationships," book your complimentary Love Strategy Session and learn how to pace a relationship in a way that actually leads to real commitment: https://go.lovestrategies.com/beginI walk you through where to deliberately slow down, where to actually speed up, and how to handle the anxiety that shows up in the space in between. If you're willing to trade drama for discernment, you'll want to read this.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

In this podcast, Dr. Gary reveals the science behind attraction. Learn the “Golden Rule of Attraction,” whether opposites really do attract, should you play hard to get, and how important is personality (or is it really all physical?) Discover how to increase your chances of connecting with someone special and build lasting relationships.Originally Aired: Feb. 17, 2025NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Are you tired of dating the "same guy, different name" with the same disappointing results?Take the free Attraction Archetype assessment and understand your patterns - https://go.lovestrategies.com/archetypeApply for a complimentary Love Strategy Session - https://go.lovestrategies.com/beginWhat if the very qualities you look for in a partner are actually keeping you single? This episode reveals how your "type" can be a cage, not a compass, and why breaking free might just lead you to the lasting love you deserve.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Most people think physical attraction is what keeps a relationship going.In reality, it's emotional attraction that determines whether things fade out or grow deeper.Apply for Your FREE Love Strategy Session: https://www.loveapply.comIn this podcast, I break down the 8 things men find emotionally attractive and why these qualities matter far more than looks or chemistry alone.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Think he's being honest? Think again. This week's podcast cracks the code on the sneaky linguistic tactics guys use to bend the truth while dating, without technically lying. Learn to identify the subtle red flags and protect yourself from being misled in the confusing world of modern romance.Originally Aired:  May. 17, 2025NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Navigating the world of modern dating can be tricky, especially when a new guy gets too sexual too soon. Apply for Your Complimentary Love Strategy Session - https://go.lovestrategies.com/beginFree Love Steps Training - https://go.lovestrategies.com/virtualIn this episode we break down what to do when a guy crosses the line, how to set clear boundaries without being rude, and why his reaction to those boundaries is everything.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Most women don't struggle with dating because they're doing something wrong. They struggle because they were never taught what actually matters in relationships. If you want a clear, step-by-step strategy to create real commitment, start with the free training at https://go.lovestrategies.com/virtualIn this episode, I share the truths about men that stop women from over-giving, waiting for potential, or ignoring red flags that never go away.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Are you tired of falling for the wrong guys? Learn how to break free from the cycle of unhealthy relationships and find a partner who truly values you. In this podcast, we'll explore the reasons why you might be attracted to the wrong people and provide practical tips to help you become a better picker.Discover How to Attract Lasting Love! - https://go.lovestrategies.com/virtualOriginally Aired:  Nov. 02,2024NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

For many widows, the idea of dating again brings fear, guilt, and uncertainty. Apply for Your Complimentary Love Strategy Session - https://go.lovestrategies.com/beginFree webinar How to Attract Love at Any Age - https://go.lovestrategies.com/findlove  In this episode, I share a powerful client story and walk through the mindset shifts that make it possible to move forward, honour your past, and still create a beautiful new chapter.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

If dating has felt frustrating or stuck, 2026 can be the year things finally change.Apply for Your Complimentary Love Strategy Session - https://go.lovestrategies.com/beginIn this episode, I walk you through the seven little love steps I've used for over a decade to help women attract real commitment. We start by shifting the beliefs that quietly sabotage dating and build a practical strategy for attracting real commitment.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Have you ever found yourself wondering why your professional success doesn't seem to translate into success in your relationships? It's a confusing and frustrating scenario, leaving you questioning why you seem to excel in one area of life while feeling lost in the other. The truth might not be as simple as it seems, and it's time to unpack the factors that could be at play.Originally Aired: Aug. 19, 2023NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

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Many women wonder what actually makes a man see someone as wife material instead of a short-term option. Apply for Your Complimentary Love Strategy Session: https://go.lovestrategies.com/beginIn this episode, we unpack how men subconsciously categorize women while dating, the traits that shift that perception, and why looks, chemistry, or where you meet him matter far less than you think. If dating keeps stalling at the same frustrating point, this conversation will give you a clearer lens on what's really happening.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Are you a dopamine dater, chasing excitement, or a serotonin dater, seeking stability? Discover the science behind your dating style and how it affects your relationships. Decode your brain's chemistry and transform your love life.Learn how men actually think in my free training - https://go.lovestrategies.com/virtualOriginally Aired: Feb. 01, 2025NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Guys are logical, girls are emotional? Men need space, women need closeness?Struggling to understand the male mind? Here's a free seminar called "The Male Mind Map": https://go.lovestrategies.com/mapWant to hop a Love Strategy Session to see if coaching is right for you?  https://go.lovestrategies.com/beginEverything you think you know about gender differences in dating may be WRONG. We're busting the foundational myths that kill intimacy. Get ready to discover why focusing on your similarities, not your supposed differences, is the key to creating real closeness, passion, and true partnership.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

If you're a giver in relationships, this is for you.  Apply for Your FREE Love Strategy Session: https://www.loveapply.com/In this episode, I share five things I believe you should never do for a man if you want real love. I see women over-give all the time, not because they're needy, but because they care. Unfortunately, that's often what keeps them stuck with the wrong men.This will help you hold your standards, protect your energy, and stop chasing potential.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Want to know what really makes a high-quality man fall for you? (Hint: It's not looks or playing hard to get.) These 7 irresistible qualities will set you apart, making you magnetic and unforgettable.Originally Aired: Feb. 08, 2025NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

You've met someone great, but how do you turn those exciting early dates into a lasting commitment? In this episode, We're tackling the frustrating "in-between" phase of dating—the one that sinks most relationships. Learn the vital skills for maintaining love, mastering the cool-down period, and making sure you ditch the apps forever.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

I used to wonder why smart, successful women kept falling for the same type of man. Then I realized it had nothing to do with attraction. Everything pointed back to old wiring. In this episode, I break down why the bad boy feels so magnetic, why healthy love can feel uncomfortable at first, and the simple shifts that help you break the pattern for good.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

t's time to change your love strategy and attract the man you deserve. Discover the 24 principles to attract the man you adore in 2024. If you'd prefer to watch the full video instead of listening to the audio, feel free to go to https://lovestrategies.com/adoreOriginally Aired: Jan. 01, 2024NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Want to know if a long-distance relationship is worth it? Before you sign up for dating on hard mode, listen to this. In this episode, we unpack how far is too far, why so many people get pulled into relationships that are built to fall apart, and what it actually takes to make one work if you really have to.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

If a man is trying to manipulate you, he can't truly love you. Because love isn't about control, it's about collaboration. In this episode, I break down the subtle signs of manipulation most women miss, why even strong, successful women fall into these traps, and how to reclaim your power with one simple shift. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

When we think of our ideal partner, the list often includes being highly attractive, intelligent, possessing a great personality, and solid values. Essentially, we're seeking perfection. This desire drives us to aim high, sometimes even out of our league, aspiring for a partner akin to a celebrity or supermodel. But is dating out of our league a realistic goal?Originally Aired: Jan. 21, 2024NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Want to know what to say to make a guy feel truly special and appreciated? Stop telling him he's funny and start giving him compliments that matter. In this episode, we're revealing the core compliments that will set you apart and build an instant, deeper connection.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

When Vogue published an article questioning whether having a boyfriend is now “embarrassing,” I knew this wasn't just another headline. It was a sign of a deeper shift in modern dating that most people aren't even noticing.In this episode, I break down what's really driving this trend… and why the message behind it is far less empowering than it looks on the surface.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Is he a lone wolf or a wounded soul? Discover the signs of an emotionally broken man and understand why recognizing them is vital. Unmask the hidden patterns that could lead to a toxic relationship and learn how to protect your emotional well-being.Originally Aired: Jan. 04, 2025NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Ever questioned why someone cheats - even when the relationship seems fine? This episode exposes the hidden psychology behind infidelity, the emotional gaps that lead people astray, and the subtle red flags most women overlook. If you're ready to protect your heart and build a relationship where betrayal isn't even on the table, this conversation is your compass.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

You've probably heard it before: beauty is only skin deep. While physical attractiveness can certainly draw attention, it's the inner qualities that truly captivate and keep a man's interest. So, what truly makes a woman irresistible?Originally Aired: Jan. 11, 2025NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Tired of dating down? In this episode, we're revealing the secrets for powerhouse women to attract powerhouse love. Discover how to build a truly synergistic partnership without compromising your success or your authentic self.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Are emotionally secure masculine men still out there — or are they just a myth in today's dating world?In this video, I'm breaking down the six traits of a truly grounded, masculine man so you can stop wasting time on fragile egos and finally recognize the men who are actually capable of building a real partnership.Once you understand these traits, you'll never overlook the right men again — and you'll stop entertaining the wrong ones.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Tired of first date disasters? Discover the secrets to turning that initial encounter into a thrilling experience with our comprehensive guide to first date success. From pre-date preparation to post-date follow-up, learn 20 expert tips that will boost your confidence, spark genuine connection, and leave your date wanting more.Originally Aired: Aug 21, 2024NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

If you feel stuck in a dating rut, it's time to face a tough question: What motivates you to find love? We all know what we're running toward—a great relationship—but what if your most powerful motivation lies in what you're running from? Join us to discover how the fear of a lonely, regret-filled future can be the rocket fuel you need to change your love life forever.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

After coaching over 44,000 women, I've noticed a few surprising patterns that guarantee you'll stay single—no matter how much you want love. In this video, I reveal seven subtle habits that sabotage even the smartest, most successful women… and what to do instead.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Tired of chasing men who seem completely oblivious to you? Discover how to shift your mindset and behavior to attract the love you deserve. Learn the importance of independence, personal growth, and a positive outlook. Tune in to our latest podcast to discover the secrets to finding lasting love.Originally Aired: Oct 12, 2024NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Ever wish you had a cheat sheet for relationship communication? We're going beyond the typical advice to give you the exact words and phrases emotionally intelligent partners use. From handling conflict to showing genuine care, this episode will equip you with a new language for connection that strengthens your bond and makes your relationship feel truly safe.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Ever wonder why some men act so weird when they really like you? From talking too much to teasing you like a middle schooler, these behaviors can seem confusing until you realize what they really mean.In this video, I reveal the 5 signs to look for when a man is truly into you (and how to tell the difference between genuine attraction and mixed signals).Watch now to decode his behavior and finally know when he's actually interested.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Discover the hidden clues to his relationship intent. If you're tired of the mixed messages and want to decode what he truly wants, our latest podcast reveals four key motivations behind his actions and helps you spot the genuine signs of relationship intent.Originally Aired: July 03, 2024NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Tired of "mankeeping" and feeling drained in your relationships? We're diving deep into this viral term, challenging the narrative, and revealing how a fresh perspective can actually make dating easier and more fulfilling for women. Tune in for a powerful discussion that might just change how you see men and relationships!NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Love isn't just about butterflies; it's brain chemistry, choices, and the habits you build together. In this episode, Dr. Gary Lewandowski (Chief Love Scientist at LoveStrategies) unpacks the science behind passion, intimacy, and commitment, how to tell real love from impostors, and why “falling” isn't enough. If you've ever wondered whether love can conquer all, this episode will change how you see relationships forever.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Flirting over 40 doesn't have to be a mystery. In this 10-minute guide, we'll teach you a dignified and high-character approach to flirting that leaves the giggling and cutesy stuff behind. From subtle body language to playful verbal cues, you'll learn how to be clear, confident, and captivating—because it's time to stop being the one who rejects yourself.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

What if the “dating advice” you've been told your whole life is the very thing keeping you single?In this video, I uncover the 6 biggest myths that silently sabotage smart, successful women in love. These myths feel true—but they quietly push high-value men away and keep you stuck in frustrating patterns.If you've ever wondered why your dating life doesn't match the powerful, magnetic woman you know you are, this is the video you can't afford to miss.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Are you tired of attracting the same type of partner? In this episode, we're moving beyond identifying the wounds that attract unhealthy partners and shifting the focus to what truly matters: your worth. Tune in for five powerful strategies to help you break old patterns and attract a fulfilling partnership built on a foundation of self-love and confidence.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

You think men are drawn to looks, charm, or the perfect body, but what actually captivates them runs much deeper. In this video, I reveal what men find truly beautiful in a woman (and how to tap into it effortlessly).NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

In this episode, Dr. Gary debunks the modern myth that independence is the ultimate goal. You're absolutely right to believe in yourself—but wrong to think you can thrive completely alone. Discover the surprising science behind why connection is the foundation of real happiness, health, and fulfillment.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Are you tired of attracting the wrong kind of love? This week, discover if your past wounds are unknowingly picking your partners and learn to identify the five key emotional injuries that might be sabotaging your relationships. Tune in to start attracting the healthy, fulfilling love you truly deserve.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Are you spending all your energy perfecting your look for a date, only to have the spark fizzle? The truth is, men don't fall for appearances… they fall for how you make them feel. This week, discover five magnetic phrases that instantly spark chemistry and connection — and learn how the right words can draw him in effortlessly. Start creating dates that feel exciting, authentic, and unforgettable.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Do you secretly love rules, even if you pretend you don't? This episode reveals how a few simple dating "rules" can put your love life on autopilot, making it effortless and fun. Stop the guesswork and learn the easy guidelines that will help you find the right person by being the right person.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session