Love Strategies: Dating and Relationship Advice for Successful Women

Are you dating over 40 and feeling like it's an impossible mission? Join us as we reveal 5 transformative shifts that will completely change your perspective and experience. Stop wishing you learned this sooner and start attracting the love you deserve today!NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

In this special client interview, Gary sits down with Tracy, who went from crying on a consultation call to finding her "above average Joe" just weeks after her lowest moment. After 22 years in a dysfunctional marriage, Tracy learned to trust herself and build healthy boundaries.Discover how Tracy found the kind of love where someone would "move mountains" for her—and how the skills she learned improved every relationship in her life, including with her adult daughter.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Are you dreading those tough talks about money, sex, or the future with your partner? This episode reveals how to master difficult dating conversations without blowing things up. Learn practical strategies to make these discussions easier and strengthen your connection.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Curious about what makes someone wife-material? Tune into our latest podcast episode where we, two married guys, break down the top six qualities that made us realize we had found our lifelong partners. Trust us, this is a very personal and enlightening conversation you won't want to miss!Originally Aired: Jul. 28, 2024NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Tired of dating feeling like a second job with no benefits? This podcast episode offers 7 powerful strategies to transform your approach, helping you date smarter, not harder. Discover how to identify your non-negotiables, efficiently screen potential partners, and master meet-ups to find the right person without wasting precious time. Tune in to take control of your dating life and make it both efficient and enjoyable.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Let's be honest: Love is addictive.So why do some women get hooked—and end up with breadcrumbs—while others flip the script and have men addicted to them?In this episode, I reveal five powerful (and unexpected) ways to make a man emotionally addicted to you—no games, no gimmicks. Just real connection, desire, and pursuit. If you've ever wondered what makes a man crave you long after the date ends… this one's for you.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

The heart is a powerful force, relentlessly pursuing what it desires, often without our conscious realization. This pursuit can lead us to engage in a deceptive practice called F.I.B.ing—Filling In Blanks.In today's podcast, we discuss why he's probably NOT as “perfect” as you think, and how to navigate the dating scene with clarity.Originally Aired: Feb. 18, 2024NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Tired of endless bad dates with the same old "type"? This episode dives into why your usual dating patterns might be holding you back and how breaking free can lead to better relationships. Discover why your "picker" might be broken and learn actionable steps to find a truly compatible partner.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Still single and wondering why love hasn't clicked yet? This video uncovers four sneaky beliefs that might be sabotaging your love life—without you even realizing it. From rejecting your feminine energy to waiting until you're “100% ready,” find out what's really holding you back and how to finally open the door to the relationship you deserve.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Discover 11 game-changing strategies to date with confidence in our latest podcast, "Ditching the Doormat."Learn how to set boundaries, embrace your worth, and find genuine connections without compromising your true self. Say goodbye to dating pitfalls and hello to empowered love.Originally Aired: Aug 17, 2024NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Are you constantly swiping left and wondering why dating feels so broken? In this no-holds-barred episode, we're tackling the elephant in the room: who's more delusional in dating – men or women? Tune in to uncover the surprising truths about what both sexes get wrong and why our expectations are completely out of control.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

What if the key to becoming irresistible to high-character men has nothing to do with your looks and everything to do with your energy? In this video I invite you to discover 5 surprising ways to become deeply attractive to men, without playing games, pretending to be someone you're not, or obsessing over the “perfect” dating profile. Watch now to unlock your magnetic edge.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

If you're facing a breakup or have just recently gone through one, your life starts to feel like it's falling apart. But the research shows that many times, our breakups can be an incredibly positive experience. In today's podcast, Gary and Adam discuss the science of breakups and how to turn a breakup into a positive experience.Originally Aired: Dec. 28, 2022NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Discover a smarter approach to love by rethinking your understanding of attachment. This episode reveals why common views are flawed, explaining the crucial shift from rigid "attachment styles" to fluid "attachment tendencies." Learn how to identify your true attachment patterns and gain actionable strategies to cultivate a more secure and fulfilling love life.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Struggling to get the affection you desire from men? The good news is, you can have the love you desire, without chasing it. In this video, you'll discover 5 powerful (and subtle) ways to inspire more affection from men, without losing yourself or playing mind games. From celebrating his masculinity to creating emotional safety, you'll learn how to foster the connection and warmth you deserve.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Breaking up can feel like an end to your world as you know it. Everything around you – from the music you hear to the shows you watch – reminds you of your ex. It's a challenge even to recognize who you are without them. But what if there's a better way to heal and move on?Originally Aired: Jan. 16, 2024NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Do you prefer real-life sparks but find dating apps have tainted your approach? This episode unpacks the hidden ways online dating creates bad habits, from superficial evaluations to the 'What's In It For Me?' mindset. Learn how to break free and embrace a more authentic, fulfilling way to dateNEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Ever felt like your age or confidence was scaring men off, but couldn't quite put your finger on why? In this new video, I'm revealing the five real reasons some men avoid dating older women. Once you understand them, you'll be in the driver's seat of your love life.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

In this podcast, Dr. Lewandowski and I will share the game-changer: the "3 P's" - Potential, Process, and Progress. These concepts can make dating clearer and brighter for you.And here's a tip: the word "YET." This tiny word can change how you view everything, emphasizing growth and change.So, don't give up on love just yet. Join us as we delve into this easy but powerful approach. Remember, you're still learning and growing, and that's truly wonderful!Originally Aired: Sep. 13, 2023NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Tired of dating games and men who constantly disappoint? This episode reveals why true masculinity is so elusive and how to spot the problematic "alpha assholes." Learn to identify the S.T.R.O.N.G. qualities of genuinely good men and finally find the healthy relationship you deserve.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Think you know the dating scene? Think again. In this episode, we're joined by Macy Matarazzo, a Senior Love Advisor with Love Strategies, to break down five modern dating trends and what they reveal about modern love. Learn how to decode the trends, avoid the traps, and date with more clarity (and fun) than ever before.Ask ChatGPTNEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Ever wonder why dating feels so hard? This week, we're uncovering the hidden ways you're unintentionally making your romantic life miserable. Get ready to identify your own blind spots and finally break free from these frustrating patterns.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Whether you're dealing with a one-time ghoster or a guy who's suddenly MIA mid-connection, here's what his behavior is actually telling you—and how to respond without losing your sanity (or your standards).NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Dr. Lewandowski and Adam uncover the importance of authenticity and how being provocative can lead you to the right match. Learn why your quirks are actually your advantage in the dating world and how embracing your uniqueness is your ultimate superpower. Get ready to change your dating game and waste less time as you find the love you deserve.Originally Aired: Aug. 13, 2023NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

That "hey" text from your ex just popped up – now what? We're tackling the tricky return of the "zombie ex," helping you decode their motivations and navigate your own mixed emotions. Before you fall back into old patterns, learn our strategic approach and the crucial questions you need to answer to decide if this blast from the past deserves a second chance, or a firm block.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Your time is precious, especially when it comes to finding love.And if you've been burned by flaky texters, charming narcissists, or emotionally unavailable men, you're probably tired of wasting it on guys who drain your energy and leave you wondering if love is even worth it.The truth? It is, but only if you're protecting your time and heart.Let's dive into five ways to quickly tell if a man is worth your energy… or if it's time to say that magical four-letter word: NEXT.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

In this follow-up to the wildly popular Year of Deb, we're diving into her “little black book” method for dating with clarity, confidence, and zero BS. Discover why calm is the new chemistry, how outcome independence makes you magnetic, and the secret power of being still.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Tired of feeling like finding a high-character man is an impossible solo mission? We're changing the script on traditional dating advice. Discover the surprising power of community and how your "tribe" can become your greatest asset in attracting the love you deserve.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

When a man is ready to commit, it's not about your résumé, your looks, or even how perfectly you check his boxes. It's about how you make him feel—and there are five specific emotions that tip the scales from “she's great” to “she's the one.”Let's break them down—and show you how to tap into the emotional blueprint that makes a man fall deeply (and lastingly) in love.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

In this spicy episode, we're joined by Love Strategies' very own Macy Matarazzo—Senior Love Advisor and resident truth-teller—to unpack why so many women find themselves drawn to criminals, bad boys, and rule breakers.From dreamy mugshots to emotional mayhem, we explore the surprising psychology behind “bad boy” attraction and what it might reveal about your own dating patterns.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Ever been swept off your feet, only to realize it was a red flag parade in disguise? We're diving into the seemingly sweet behaviors that actually scream toxic. Learn to spot the subtle signs of manipulation and control before you fall for a fantasy, and discover how to find genuine connection instead.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

In this video, I'll uncover the hidden “mind viruses” that could be sabotaging your chances at real connection. These are common, contagious beliefs that quietly sabotage your dating life—without you even realizing it. And the worst part? They often sound like empowerment… but end up closing you off to the very thing you want most: real, lasting love.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Ever wonder what emotionally mature, relationship-ready men are really looking for? In this special pod, I peel back the curtain on what men (not boys) find irresistible—and how it's completely different from what younger guys value (and why that's a very good thing).A Gift From Me (On My Birthday): To help you get there, I created a free training just for women over 40+:

Tired of swiping left based on political affiliation? We're diving into the surprisingly complex world of dating across the aisle, challenging the notion that red and blue can't find common ground. Forget the simple advice – we'll equip you with a strategic mindset to navigate differing views and discover if love can truly conquer political divides.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Are you tired of feeling cursed when it comes to first dates? Does it seem like no matter what you do, you just can't seem to make a connection with someone new? It's a common feeling, but the good news is that there are proven ways to be a charming first date, and have men begging for that second date, and many more.Many people believe that charm is something you either have or don't have, but that's not true. Charm can be learned and developed, just like any other skill. With a little bit of effort and practice, you can become a master of first dates and leave a lasting impression on every person you meet.Here are seven proven ways to be a charming first date.Originally Aired: Apr. 19, 2023 NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Unlock the secrets to effortless attraction with our 7 research-backed body language techniques that will have men drawn to you from across the room. Learn how to project confidence, spark intrigue, and master the art of nonverbal communication to captivate the right guy.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Have you ever gone on a first date, clicked with someone, and started planning your future together before you even finished dessert? If so, you're not alone. Many women overinvest in a man before seeing if he's worth it. Unfortunately, this can lead to heartbreak and disappointment when things don't work out. However, there are ways to break this cycle and find lasting love.Originally Aired: Apr. 24, 2023 NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Think he's being honest? Think again. This week's podcast cracks the code on the sneaky linguistic tactics guys use to bend the truth while dating, without technically lying. Learn to identify the subtle red flags and protect yourself from being misled in the confusing world of modern romance.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

He's not giving you what you need in the relationship and it's time for some “feedback”. Should you try and fix him or just it go?In today's podcast, we discuss the one thing you should NEVER do in a relationship.Originally Aired: Mar. 24, 2024NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Tired of the emotional rollercoaster and predictable heartbreak that comes with dating "bad boys"? This week, we're diving deep into why this pattern persists and, more importantly, how to break free for good. Discover the surprising psychological factors at play and gain actionable strategies to finally attract the healthy, fulfilling relationship you deserve.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Society will tell you that men only want to date younger women.But our experience, having coached over 44,000 women on how to find love, is that this is NOT true.In fact, here are 10 reasons why men love older women.Originally Aired: May. 06, 2024 NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Are you unknowingly sabotaging your dating life? This episode reveals the surprisingly common mistakes people make that actively push potential partners away. Learn the key behaviors that lead to loneliness and how to avoid these self-defeating patterns to finally find the fulfilling relationship you deserve.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

The path to acquiring dating skills can often be a slow and painful process filled with missteps, and lessons learned the hard way. But what if you could accelerate this process?Here are 7 Psychological Skills Every Successful Dater NeedsOriginally Aired: May 19, 2024NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Tired of dating guesswork? Learn the five must-ask questions that cut through the small talk and reveal a man's true self, fast! Stop wasting time on dead ends and start gaining real insights into his values, relationship style, and future aspirations. This episode unveils the secrets to smart dating, empowering you to find the right connection sooner.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

In today's dating landscape, mastering the art of texting is essential. Like flirting, which we've covered in previous podcasts, "Love Texting" is a skill anyone can learn and perfect.Originally Aired: Jun. 02, 2024NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Sick of dating advice that coddles you? We're cutting through the fluff with the brutal truths you've been avoiding. Prepare for a no-holds-barred conversation about your dating habits and why you're stuck. If you're ready for real change, this episode is your wake-up call.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

It's time to stop wasting time with the wrong men. Here's the three major signs you're wasting time, and the exact step by step strategy to avoid it moving forward.Originally Aired: May. 03, 2024NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Want to know if your date is really a good person? Words are cheap, actions reveal everything. We're showing you how to observe behavior, not just listen to promises, to truly understand a potential partner. Learn how simple things like the “Phone Test,” “Daily Dinner Test,” and the “Coin Flip Test” help you figure discover lasting loveNEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

When capturing a man's attention, the usual compliments like "You're so handsome" or "You're funny" often fall flat.They're overly familiar and can feel insincere because they could be said to just about anyone.To truly stand out and make an impact, it's crucial to delve deeper. Here's a guide to giving compliments that not only catch his attention but also touch his heart. Originally Aired: May 10, 2024NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Are you unknowingly sabotaging your love life? We're flipping the script on red flags and asking: what if you're the problem? Discover the 7 hidden habits that might be sending good guys running, and learn how to transform them for lasting love.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session

Beyond butterflies and fireworks, what truly makes a relationship thrive? We're diving deep into the often-overlooked power of emotional protection. Join us to learn what it means, why it matters, and how to cultivate it in your own love life.NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session