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Here's to raising amazing tween girls! With simple, strategic, and actionable steps Lisa Toney teaches moms how to help their tween daughters thrive through puberty. The Raising Amazing Tween Girls Podcast is brought to you by GirlTribe Nation. Girltribe Nation provides resources for moms to help their tween daughters love life as a girl, encourage a solid identity, and teach them how to make wise decisions. Access the exclusive tween success path strategy that only GirlTribe Nation makes available.

Lisa Toney


    • Apr 30, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
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    HOW TO PROTECT YOUR TWEEN FROM PORN PART 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2021 21:52


    Pornography is everywhere. Are you protecting your tween? Join Lisa as she gives you strategies to protect your tween from porn. Part 2

    036 - HOW TO PROTECT YOUR TWEEN FROM PORN PART 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2021 24:30


    Pornography is everywhere. Are you protecting your tween? Join Lisa as she gives you strategies to protect your tween from porn. Part 1

    35 - HOW TO HOLD YOUR DAUGHTER'S HEART

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2021 19:23


    Are you looking for ways to stay connected with your daughter as she grows into her tween years? How can you keep a healthy, strong relationship? Join Lisa as she shares the four stages of parenting. She will give you some practical ways to make sure that you are doing all that you can to establish the groundwork for a healthy relationship with your girl. When you hold her heart, you are building the basis for open communication and trust.

    034 - 5 WAYS TO MAKE PUBERTY SPECIAL

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2021 16:28


    Puberty only happens one time in a girl's life (thank goodness)! Let's make it special. Lisa gives you five ways to celebrate puberty and make your girl feel loved.

    033 - WHY DO GIRLS START PUBERTY BEFORE BOYS?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2021 11:12


    032 - ARE EMOTIONS MORE INTENSE DURING PUBERTY?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2021 14:34


    A roller coast of emotions sometimes accompanies puberty. Join Lisa to learn how to help your girl navigate them.

    WHEN DO GIRLS START PUBERTY?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2021 10:11


    When is my girl going to start puberty? Has she already? Good questions! Join Lisa on the Raising Amazing Tween Girls show to learn about what ages girls start puberty. What is happening when this whole puberty party starts?Would you like a free checklist to see where you are at on the puberty journey? Lisa has created a FREE resource just for you! Go to GirltribeNation.com/pubertytrain to download this super helpful cheatsheet just for GirlTribe Nation moms and tween girls!GirlTribe Nation is all about equipping tween and their moms with great resources. Stop by GirlTribeNation.com today to find out more

    WHEN DO GIRLS START PUBERTY?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2021 10:11


    HOW ACTS OF SERVICE SHOW YOUR TWEEN LOVE

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2021 11:48


    Hey Mamas! Do you know your tween daughter's love language? GirlTribe Nation is bringing you all the Love Languages. We are learning them and being intentional about different ways to show our girls love.We want to fill those love tanks, so that they are filled with good love and don't go looking in all the wrong places for bad love.Today Lisa talks about the Love Language of Acts Of Service and gives us a bunch of ideas of how we can all find ways to make Acts Of Service a priority in our parenting. All tween girls NEED and love Acts of Service with their mom!Jump on over to GirlTribenation.com/fivelovelanuages to gain access to the Love Languages test to learn your love language!

    030 - HOW ACTS OF SERVICE SHOW YOUR TWEEN LOVE

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2021 11:48


    029 - WHY GIRLS NEED QUALITY TIME

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2021 15:24


    Hey Mamas! Do you know your tween daughter's love language? GirlTribe Nation is bringing you all the Love Languages. We are learning them and being intentional about different ways to show our girls love.We want to fill those love tanks, so that they are filled with good love and don't go looking in all the wrong places for bad love.Today Lisa talks about the Love Language of Quality Time and gives us a bunch of ideas of how we can all find ways to make Quality Time a priority in our parenting. All tween girls NEED and love Quality Time with their mom!Jump on over to GirlTribenation.com/fivelovelanuages to gain access to the Love Languages test to learn your love language!

    028 - TWEEN GIRLS NEED HEALTHY PHYSICAL TOUCH TO FEEL LOVED

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2021 12:55


    Hey Mamas! Do you know your tween daughter's love language? GirlTribe Nation is bringing you all the Love Languages. We are learning them and being intentional about different ways to show our girls love.We want to fill those love tanks, so that they are filled with good love and don't go looking in all the wrong places for bad love.Today Lisa talks about the Love Language of Physical Touch and gives us a bunch of ideas of how we can all show love to our girls with a healthy physical touch that communicates care.Jump on over to GirlTribenation.com/fivelovelanuages to gain access to the Love Languages test to learn your love language!

    027 - IS YOUR TWEEN'S LOVE LANGUAGE WORDS OF AFFIRMATION?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2021 9:23


    Most tween girls love words and use a lot of them! But for some, this is their primary love language. Words of Affirmation are what fill her love tank. She needs to hear specific words that highlight a sense that you know and appreciate her. If you have a tween whose primary Love Language is "Words of Affirmation", then this is your episode.Join Lisa as she encourages you how to mom well and bestow love on your words loving girl without guilt. Help your tween thrive and have a solid sense of identity and confidence when she is loved well. Let's fill those love tanks!There are more ways to affirm her than just by saying, "I Love You." Although that one is super important and should definitely be a keeper! But there are more words and ideas of how to use this love language in this episode.To take a free quiz to find out what your daughter's Love Language is, go to GirlTribeNation.com/fivelovelanguages

    027 - IS YOUR TWEEN'S LOVE LANGUAGE WORDS OF AFFIRMATION?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2021 9:23


    026 - IS YOUR TWEEN'S LOVE LANGUAGE GIFTS?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2021 11:19


    She's not necessarily materialistic. It's just that her love tank gets filled when she is given a gift. For her, receiving gifts is receiving love. If you have a tween whose primary Love Language is "gifts", then this is your episode. Join Lisa as she encourages you how to mom well and bestow love on your gift loving girl without guilt. Help your tween thrive and have a solid sense of identity and confidence when she is loved well.To take a free quiz to find out what your daughter's Love Language is, go to GirlTribeNation.com/fivelovelanguages.

    025 - THREE BENEFITS TO SPEAKING YOUR TWEEN'S LOVE LANGUAGE

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2021 13:14


    Saying "I Love You...." may not be enough. Oh, it is important. Keep doing it! But do you know your tween's Love Language? How does she get her love tank filled every day?Tweens with a full love tank - being loved the way they need to experience it is the KEY to helping our girls establish a solid identity, be less influenced by peer pressure, and build a strong relationship with their mom.Join Lisa as she teaches us today about the Five Love Languages and share how there are three incredible benefits to knowing how to love your tween well. If you want to take the Love Languages quiz to find out your love language and that of your daughter, go to GirltribeNation.com/FiveLoveLanguages here. It's free and fun! Enjoy!

    024 - TWO WAYS TO FIX A BROKEN GOAL

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2021 15:34


    Well, it is the end of January? Any of your goals that you had set at the beginning of the new year starting to fall to the wayside? Don't give up! Here are two ways that you can fix an unrealized goal! Join Lisa as she encourages you and your tween in two helpful strategies that you can use to adjust your goals to make them more attainable. Goal setting is a powerful way to achieve success and to make small changes to keep growing.Grab your free goal setting guide at Girltribenation.com/goals to help you and your daughter set goals to find WINS in life. Here's to raising girls to be smart, healthy, brave, and to live with a whole lot more happy!

    024 - TWO WAYS TO FIX A BROKEN GOAL

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2021 15:34


    Well, it is the end of January? Any of your goals that you had set at the beginning of the new year starting to fall to the wayside? Don't give up! Here are two ways that you can fix an unrealized goal! Join Lisa as she encourages you and your tween in...

    023 - 4 SECRETS TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2021 15:40


    People who set, follow, and achieve their goals find more success in life. But 92% of people who set New Year's Resolutions fail to accomplish what they wanted to do. Why is that and how can you achieve your goals as a mom and help your tween achieve her goals?Find out as Lisa reveals the 4 secrets that you need to know to achieve your goals. In this episode, Lisa covers the four things that every mom can do to get closer to accomplishing the things that she sets out to do. When we teach our daughters how to achieve these things, then they are learning a life skill that will serve them well for their entire life.Download the free goals worksheet at GirlTribeNation.com/goals for a practical how-to sheet for you and your daughter!

    023 - 4 SECRETS TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2021 15:40


    People who set,  follow, and achieve their goals find more success in life. But 92% of people who set New Year's Resolutions fail to accomplish what they wanted to do. Why is that and how can you achieve your goals as a mom and help your tween achieve...

    022 - SMART GOALS FOR YOUR TWEEN

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2021 15:05


    We are talking about what at S.M.A.R.T goal is and why they are important for both you and your tween. Join Lisa as she talks about goals that are:SpecificMeasurableAttainableRelevantTime-BoundPeople who set and accomplish goals are much more successful in life which is why we are teaching our tweens now all about this important life skill.Get the free downloadable goals cheatsheet at GirltribeNation.com/goals.

    022 - SMART GOALS FOR YOUR TWEEN

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2021 15:05


    We are talking about what at S.M.A.R.T goal is and why they are important for both you and your tween. Join Lisa as she talks about goals that are:SpecificMeasurableAttainableRelevantTime-BoundPeople who set and accomplish goals are much more successful...

    21- Building Courage With Goal Setting

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2021 12:02


    Let's build some courage in your tween with setting goals! Goal setting gives you focus and builds your brave as you learn to achieve hard things. In this episode Lisa teaches moms of tweens how to talk about goals with their tweens.

    21- BUILDING COURAGE WITH GOAL SETTING

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2021 12:02


    Let's build some courage in your tween with setting goals! Goal setting gives you focus and builds your brave as you learn to achieve hard things. In this episode Lisa teaches moms of tweens how to talk about goals with their tweens.

    020 - THE DL ON BO FOR TWEEN GIRLS: THE ONE ABOUT DEODORANT

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2020 16:52


    If you aren't sure if puberty is happening...you may just smell it first!If your tween is starting to get a little BO stinky, then it is one of the signs that puberty is starting to happen.What gives? Why do kids get to sweat and not get stinky and then as soon as they hit puberty the get stinky? Great question.Join Lisa as she answers all your questions on your tween daughter's BO and how to get her to start wearing deodorant!I have created a really great cheat sheet for you called Has The Puberty Train Arrived? that gives you a checklist to see if your daughter has entered puberty. You can access it for free by going to GirlTribeNation.com/pubertytrain.This will give you a list of all the things to expect when your daughter is entering puberty. And I have more great news for you. Our Growing Up Girl online class for tween girls is going to start in January. This class is going to be so helpful for you and your girl as I teach through all things that she will be going through during puberty. It also gives you some amazing mother daughter dates that I have designed for you to talk through all the things and keep that mother daughter relationship healthy and strong. I sure hope you will join me for this next session. You can sign up to attend my free webinar with all the deets at girltribenation.com/webinar.We here at Girltribe Nation want to do all that we can to cheer you on and resource you to grow a generation of young ladies to be world changers. We want to raise a generation of girls that as their bodies change they are learning how to care for it and keep it healthy. Their bodies will be with them for their whole lives, so we are working to establish good care right from the puberty get-go.

    020 - THE DL ON BO FOR TWEEN GIRLS: THE ONE ABOUT DEODORANT

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2020 16:52


    Is your tween starting to get BO (body odor)? If her sweat is starting to smell, it is time for deodorant!

    IS YOUR TWEEN READY TO WEAR A BRA?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2020 17:21


    Is your daughter ready to start wearing a bra? Has her body started to change? Are those breast buds starting to appear? If you are asking these questions, today's episode is for you!Today we are talking about if your daughter is ready to start wearing a bra. Oh man, getting a bra is a big deal. It is exciting, it is scary, it is embarrassing….it is all of those things wrapped up in one big ball of emotions. Likely you have either noticed that your girl’s chest is looking a little differently or you anticipate that it will start looking differently very soon.Getting breast buds is one of the very first signs that puberty has begun. Puberty! I know, I know. It is a scary word. Don’t worry, I have you covered. GirlTribe Nation offers a class for tween girls all about puberty - what is and how it works. It is an online class and we are getting ready to start a new session January 7. It is going to be an online class that you can give to your girl packed full of helpful information to introduce her to what is happening in her body. Access the Growing Up Girl Course here.Breast buds are the way that her body starts to alert her and you that these changes have begun. Breast buds can make her breasts feel a little tender and she might complain about her breasts hurting. Usually tweens really start to notice this when they lay down to go to bed or when they first wake up in the morning. The next part of the breast development will come as her nipples and areolas start to darken and get larger. When her breasts start growing, this is a great time to start talking about bras. Training bras are a great place to start. I also have a really helpful cheat sheet that you can download if you would like a few ideas of how she can handle boys or even men staring at her breasts or saying something about them. You can access this free resource at GirlTribeNation.com/catcalls. I also want to invite you to go back and listen to our Raising Amazing Tween Girls Episode 014 on How To Teach You Tween To Dress Modestly. We here at Girltribe Nation want to do all that we can to cheer you on and resource you to grow a generation of young ladies to be world changers. We want to raise a generation of girls that as their bodies change they are learning how to care for it and keep it healthy. Their bodies will be with them for their whole lives, so we are working to establish good care right from the puberty get-go.

    IS YOUR TWEEN READY TO WEAR A BRA?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2020 17:21


    THE MAGICAL TIME MANAGEMENT TOOL YOUR TWEEN NEEDS

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2020 19:56


    Is your tween procrastinating? Are you having fights about getting homework done? There is a better way! In this episode Lisa brings you the GirlTribe Nation Magic Time Management Tool that will help you teach your tween how to prioritize and manage her time!Learn the three things you need to create the best environment for getting homework done and how time management can solve your procrastination problems!The bonus of using the magic time management tool is that it keeps it the bad guy rather than you. Rather than being the mom that always has to say everything that should be done, we can now start to say, Check the list. What does the chart say? Hey, what did you decide to put on the chart for today? It will save you some arguments, save you some fights, and save you from pulling out your hair!You can access this resource at girltribenation.com/timetool.You can access your free delivery from Instacart at girltribenation.com/instacart.

    018 - THE MAGICAL TIME MANAGEMENT TOOL YOUR TWEEN NEEDS

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2020 19:56


    Teach your daughter this magic time management tool to beat procrastination and help her learn how to prioritize.

    017 - 10 SECRETS TO TEACH YOUR DAUGHTER GRATITUDE

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2020 22:02


    There are 10 secrets that you need to know if you want your tween girl to show more gratitude in life! These 10 secrets that Lisa Toney brings you from GirlTribe Nation on The Raising Amazing Tween Girls show and podcast will bring some fresh ideas into your mom world to help you!It is the season of Thanksgiving. We are quickly approaching Thanksgiving, a whole day set aside for being thankful. I love this time of year, but I also really, really love the idea of living a life, not just a day, filled with gratitude.Gratitude takes practice. It is something that you need to commit to for the long haul. Gratitude is definitely a marathon mindset, not a sprint. It is something we focus on this month, but if we focus on it all year long, there is much to be gained. There are some big wins when we are able to cultivate an attitude of gratitude that is cemented into our being. It makes for kinder tweens, more patient parents, and homes that are filled with more joy.When we show gratitude to someone for something, it connects us to them. We form a bond. Our hearts are grateful and our endorphins are released because they brought us happiness. When we are socially connected to others, we feel supported, we feel known, and we feel cared for. That is the stuff of happiness friends. Oh I know your tween things that a new phone will bring her happiness - but the phone is not really what makes her happy. It is the connectedness with people that she thinks the phone will bring. Studies show that kids that connect without others without a phone are actually happier than kids who connect with people with their phones. https://time.com/5437607/smartphones-teens-mental-health/ Wow, can you believe it? We did it! We covered 10 Secrets to build an attitude of gratitude in your tween! Now don’t worry if you are like, wait, what were those again? Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered. I’ve created your very own cheatsheet of our top 10 Ten Secrets For Building An Attitude of Gratitude In Your Tween. You have easy access to it by going to GirlTribeNation.com/gratitude. Also included is a fun Mother-Daughter date for building gratitude. You’ll want to for sure check it out.

    017 - 10 SECRETS TO TEACH YOUR DAUGHTER GRATITUDE

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2020 22:02


    There are 10 secrets that you need to know if you want your tween girl to show more gratitude in life! These 10 secrets that Lisa Toney brings you from GirlTribe Nation on The Raising Amazing Tween Girls show and podcast will bring some fresh ideas into...

    016 - WHEN SHOULD I LET MY DAUGHTER WEAR MAKEUP

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2020 17:01


    Is your daughter ready to start wearing makeup? Is it too soon? When puberty hits these are the questions that Mamas are wrestling with!Join Lisa Toney with GirlTribe Nation on The Raising Amazing Tween Girls Show as she chats with all the mamas in the house about all things make up. Together we zero in on the "why" we wear make up to the "when" should our girls start wearing it to the "how" do we start the process.It is normal for girls to want to wear makeup. Afterall, during these tween years they are taking the steps to learn more independence and move from being a kid to being a young woman. We don’t want to rush things, but we also don’t want to squelsh her interest in something that is a fun part of being a young woman. Finding a good and healthy balance is all part of our job as her mom. I know, it is challenging, but I have faith in you mom! I’ve got a Mother-Daughter date that is going to be really great for you to do as you begin your conversations on wearing makeup. It has lots of great questions that help her think through her facial features, her personality, and her daily routine. You can find this for free at Girltribenation.com/makeup.

    016 - WHEN SHOULD I LET MY DAUGHTER WEAR MAKEUP

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2020 17:01


    Is your daughter ready to start wearing makeup? Is it too soon? When puberty hits these are the questions that Mamas are wrestling with!Join Lisa Toney with GirlTribe Nation on The Raising Amazing Tween Girls Show as she chats with all the mamas in the...

    015 - THREE WORDS EVERY TWEEN GIRL WANTS TO HEAR

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2020 22:59


    Did you know that the Raising Amazing Girls show is both a podcast and a YouTube show? Believe it friends! Isn’t that great? You can listen or watch, or both! We are trying to get up to 100 subscribers on each platform so that we can name our channel. Would you be one of my favorite people of the day and help us with that goal? Take a quick minute to pull them both up on your phone or wherever you are listening or watching from and subscribe and leave a comment. If you do this in the next 7 days, and email me a screenshot with your subscription and review, you will be entered in the drawing to win a $50 Amazon gift card prize that I am giving away next Friday on November 13. It’s Lucky 13 for someone, and it could be you! Who could use $50 toward Christmas shopping this year? Send those screenshots into girltribenation@gmail.com. Or post them on our GirlTribe Nation Facebook page!Well today friends, we are talking about how to get your girls talking. Has anyone out there ever thrown out this question hoping for a really great conversation filled with lots of details.... But it just doesn’t go how you planned. Instead it goes something like this….How was school today, honey? “Good.” What did you learn about today? “Stuff.” How was hanging out with your friends today? “Fine.”Well, my friend, If you are longing to hear more about what is going on in your daughter’s heart and mind. If you are truly wanting to connect more and dialogue more. If you are just trying to get her to even understand and comprehend the basics of a back and forth conversation, then you are in the right place. I think I have something that is going to be incredibly helpful to you. Today we are talking about three words that can make amazing progress in moving the needle forward in conversations.Another great resource for you is talking about the Conversation Ball with your daughter so she knows how valuable and helpful it is to keep a conversation going. Now we talked all about this in Episode 009 where we talked all about MHow To Help Your Tween Girl to make friends. I gave you the oh-so-helpful resource in that episode of the Conversation Ball Guide to teach your girl how having a conversation is like throwing a ball back and forth. You can access this free resource at girltribenation.com/conversationball.At Girltribe Nation we encourage regular, intentional, Mother Daughter Great Dates. These are times that you two can just get away and talk. We have some amazing great dates planned with discussion questions that you can access for free on our website. You can go to girltribenation.com/dates to access these. That way you already have some questions ready to roll with and you don’t have to stress about what to say or how to say it. You can just download them and print them out or save to your phone, and you are ready to roll! How great is that?I’ve got a really great cheatsheet for you today that has a list of open ended questions. These are super helpful to keep on your phone for those times you are in the car together and you're not getting anywhere with conversation. You can access this at Girltribenation.com/questions. I think you are going to really love it!

    015 - THREE WORDS EVERY TWEEN GIRL WANTS TO HEAR

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2020 22:59


    Did you know that the Raising Amazing Girls show is both a podcast and a YouTube show? Believe it friends! Isn’t that great? You can listen or watch, or both! We are trying to get up to 100 subscribers on each platform so that we can name our channel....

    014 - How To Teach Your Tween To Dress Modestly

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2020 22:45


    Are you having clothing wars? Are you noticing that her body is changing as she hits puberty? Your little girl is starting to get curves. If you notice it, then other people will too. Modesty is not just about what we wear. Modesty is also about teaching our girls that their value comes from the inside out. Once we know our worth is on the inside, then it makes a lot more sense to cover up more of our body parts to help others notice our personhood first, not our body parts.In this episode, join Lisa as she gives all the mamas in the house the reasons WHY modesty is important as well as some practice conversations that you can have with your girl. The Girl Scouts of America notes that 1 in 10 girls is catcalled before her 11th birthday. Surveys conducted by Cornell University’s ILR School and the nonprofit organization Hollaback! reveal nearly 85 percent of American female respondents report facing street harassment before age 17; nearly 70 percent before age 14. Almost 80 percent of women report they were followed by harassers at some point. Catcalls on the street or anywhere are maybe one of the first experiences that girls have of being objectified. It can feel shameful and frightening and you're not even sure why. Girls don’t invite this behavior from men yet they are routinely looked at as being responsible to prevent it. Maddening, right? Wondering what to say, I know I always did! I’ve put together a list of some phrases that might be helpful to you and your daughter. You can download it for free at GirlTribeNation.com/catcalls.Let's help our girls learn why modesty is important and then show them how. Here's to raising Amazing Tween Girls to be smart, healthy, brave, and live with a whole lot more happy in their lives. GirlTribe Nation is here for you moms! We are cheering you on!

    014 - How To Teach Your Tween To Dress Modestly

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2020 22:45


    Are you having clothing wars?  Are you noticing that her body is changing as she hits puberty? Your little girl is starting to get curves. If you notice it, then other people will too. Modesty is not just about what we wear.  Modesty is also about...

    013 - Why Your Tween Daughter Needs A Fierce Five

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2020 18:23


    Did you know that the Raising Amazing Girls show is both a podcast and a YouTube show? Why yes it is, so you can listen or watch, whichever you prefer. We are trying to get up to 100 subscribers so that we can name our channel.I’m Lisa Toney with GirlTribe Nation and I am so very glad you are joining me today. Girltribe Nation is committed to raising a generation of tween girls to be smart, healthy, brave, and live with a whole lot more happy in their lives. Girltribe Nation is a movement of Mamas who are raising tween girls who are looking to raise young women who are full of character, responsibility, self-control, and a firm identity. Our culture is warring for the heart and mind of your daughter and we moms need to be on guard and help our girls. As tweens they are looking for guidance and role models for who they want to be like as they grow up into being young women. We have an amazing opportunity, responsibility, and privilege to help them during these years. Picking your Fierce Five is a process that is something that you can do together, and that is why it is so pivotal to do in the tween years, because you still have your daughter’s ear. What you say and do is still really important and meaningful to her!So what exactly is the Fierce Five? Let’s get into it.Your Fierce Five is the circle of adult female mentors that you are going to intentionally surround your daughter with and help her to engage with. This circle of her Fierce Five are those women that you know and trust to give her wise counsel and share your values. These women are going to give her an amazing opportunity to feel invested in, loved on, and like she has some adult friends. Five women, instead of one that can pour into your girl. This is why this is so helpful to you and your daughter. If you plan for her fierce five to take her out twice a year that is ten dates. If you plan for one a month, that is ten months of the year. Maybe you want to take December off and maybe you want to take one summer month of where you are on vacation. That leaves you the bulk of the year where your daughter gets to go out with five different women and spend an hour chatting about life. This is a much easier ask of your friends as well.I am putting up the exact email example that I used for inviting my Fierce Five at GirlTribeNation.com/FierceFive that you can access for free. I'd love for you to access it so that you have a great jump start on inviting your Fierce Five for your daughter.We here at Girltribe Nation are all about resourcing the moms of tween girls to grow a generation of young ladies to be smart, healthy, brave, and live with a whole lot more happy in their lives. Let’s come together to raise a generation of tween girls to be world changers! Check us out here!

    013 - Why Your Tween Daughter Needs A Fierce Five

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2020 18:23


    Did you know that the Raising Amazing Girls show is both a podcast and a YouTube show? Why yes it is, so you can listen or watch, whichever you prefer. We are trying to get up to 100 subscribers so that we can name our channel.I’m Lisa Toney with...

    012 - How To Teach Your Tween Conflict Resolution

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2020 15:18


    This is the third part of our Conflict Series. The last two weeks we have talked about teaching your daughter how to say "I'm sorry", and about how to forgive. Today Lisa brings you the conclusion of our series talking about conflict resolution.Does your girl ever get into a disagreement with a friend? Or sibling? Or you? I know! It's rough. When a tween has a fight it feels like the end of the world to them! There not really being dramatic, they are feeling all the feels. They just don't have a lot of life experience to give them perspective. But here's what they do need - tools! Tools to know how to walk through a disagreement with respect and figure out a solution. Join Lisa as she teaches you how to walk your daughter through conflict resolution.I’ve created a really great Mother/Daughter date for you to have to help walk your girls through times of conflict in their lives. You can go to Girltribenation.com/conflict to access it.Don’t forget to check out our amazing puberty online class Growing Up Girls for tween girls at girltribenation.com/growingupgirl.

    012 - How To Teach Your Tween Conflict Resolution

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2020 15:18


    This is the third part of our Conflict Series. The last two weeks we have talked about teaching your daughter how to say "I'm sorry", and about how to forgive. Today Lisa brings you the conclusion of our series talking about conflict resolution.Does...

    011 How To Teach Your Tween Forgiveness

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2020 18:42


    Does your girl know how to forgive someone and lay the hurt down? So many tweens carry this with them and that increases their stress levels and slowly makes them more bitter and cynical in relationships. It doesn't have to be that way!Join Lisa Toney with GirlTribe Nation as she teaches tween moms how to walk their daughters through conflict resolution. In part two of this 3-part series, we discuss the art of forgiveness.Today we are talking about how to forgive someone. This is super hard when we get hurt. Sometimes really deeply. It is hard to navigate those feelings and emotions and part of forgiveness is giving trust back to someone who broke trust with us. So doggone hard.Forgiveness as a conscious, deliberate decision to let go of your feelings of anger or getting revenge toward someone who has hurt you whether they deserve it or not - you decide to release it and not keep thinking about it or dwelling on it or getting revenge. Forgiveness is the art of dropping it rather than carrying it with you everywhere you go.Forgiveness is about goodness, about extending mercy to those who’ve harmed us, even if they don’t “deserve” it.How do we forgive?Forgive the small things first.Forgive the big things next.When words are hard, write a letter, bury something, or drop something to let go.Choose to bless rather than curse.Reconcile the relationship when possibleI’ve created a really great Mother/Daughter date for you to have to help walk your girls through times of conflict in their lives. You can go to Girltribenation.com/conflict to access it.Don’t forget to check out our amazing puberty online class Growing Up Girls for tween girls at girltribenation.com/growingupgirl.

    011 How To Teach Your Tween Forgiveness

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2020 18:42


    Does your girl know how to forgive someone and lay the hurt down? So many tweens carry this with them and that increases their stress levels and slowly makes them more bitter and cynical in relationships. It doesn't have to be that way!Join Lisa Toney...

    010 Two Words Needed To Solve Conflict

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2020 20:22


    Ready to teach your tween girl how to resolve conflict? With these two powerful little words, she will begin to build her tool belt. Give her the skills to resolve disagreements in a practical way. Often our culture defaults to "just be nice" but what happens when people aren't? Join Lisa as she begins this 3-part Girltribe Nation series helping equip you to teach your girl how to resolved conflict. These are skills we all need!Process1. Remember the good.2. Rehearse the apology. 3. Take Responsibility4. Examine your Response.5. Reign in the “buts”6. Rebuild the relationshipCheck out the really great Mother/Daughter date to help walk your girls through the times of conflict in their lives. You can go to Girltribenation.com/conflict to access it. Alrighty friends, thank you so much for joining me today at the Raising Amazing Tween Girls show. We here at Girltribe Nation are all about resourcing the moms of tween girls to grow a generation of young ladies to be smart, healthy, brave, and live with a whole lot more happy in their lives. Our girls will be dealing with conflict their whole lives. If we can give them the skills to do this well, it will help shape a generation of girls to do things differently and way better. I want that for them! I want that for my daughter and yours! If you found today’s episode helpful, it would mean so very much if you could share this episode with a friend, subscribe, and leave a comment. I would love to hear from you! Don’t forget to check out our amazing puberty online class Growing Up Girls for tween girls at girltribenation.com/growingupgirl.

    010 Two Words Needed To Solve Conflict

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2020 20:22


    Ready to teach your tween girl how to resolve conflict? With these two powerful little words, she will begin to build her tool belt. Give her the skills to resolve disagreements in a practical way. Often our culture defaults to "just be nice" but what...

    009 - How To Help Your Tween Girl Make Friends

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2020 21:23


    Is your girl having a hard time making friends? Or maybe she is just not making good quality friends that you are excited about her hanging out with?In this episode Lisa you are invited to listen with your daughter! Learn the five friendship stoppers:WhisperingSharing info that is not yoursTalking negativelyNot talkingNot including othersFriendship StartersUse their namePass The Conversation BallFind something you have in commonFind the positiveRemember something about them when you saw them lastSmileHere’s to raising smart, brave, healthy girls with a whole lot more happy in their lives. I’m cheering you on as you raise amazing tween daughters, as you help them learn how to make really good, solid, awesome friends. Don’t forget to download the awesome guide I created for you on how to pass the Conversation Ball at Girltribenation.com/conversationball. We here at Girltribe Nation are all about resourcing the moms of tween girls to grow a generation of young ladies to be smart, healthy, brave, and live with a whole lot more happy in their lives. I can’t wait to hear from you some of the strategies that you find most successful in helping your daughter make friends. If you found today’s episode helpful, it would mean so very much if you could share this episode with a friend, subscribe, and leave a comment. I would love to hear from you! Don’t forget to check out our amazing puberty online class Growing Up Girls for tween girls at https://www.girltribenation.com/growingupgirl

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