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This podcast episode implores you to understand why you cannot make people happy... The bottom line is, you first have to be happy, things and other people do not make you happy.  Happiness is Choice!

This podcast episode explores the notion as to whether or not the word Sorry can fix any wrongdoing or is sorry just not enough?

This podcast episode explores the question as to whether or not the Ten Commandments should be displayed in schools. I say No to this in that based on the current state of affairs in the US, the Ten Commandments have had no appreciable value to improving our lives. Instead, we need to raise our self-esteem and improve our Emotional Intelligence to make the world a Better Place....

This podcast episode explores the notion as to whether or not a married person can love two people? I say no to this, what say you?

This podcast describes the dangers of Social Media rampant with Pedophiles and the easy access to our children, on social media, who have No idea what they are dealing with....

This podcast episode explores the notion of when is it considered not to be disrespectful to your parents if you do not do what they tell you to do. I come from a family whereby the elders insist on bossing me around even though I have lived independently for 20 Plus... What about you?

This podcast episode explores the notion that sometimes at work, at church, at school, and or any other social settings we are affected by people who do not like us, or at least it feels that way. When you do that, you allow your joy to be diminished, thereby giving your power to be happy to others...

This podcast episode explores the idea that one of America's bedrock principles is that no man is above the law. Yet, former President Trump is currently trending well above the law in the face of some very serious criminal allegations, as you already know... This is no bashing, just a truth seeking podcast!

This podcast episode discusses the fact that Crying is the key to Happiness. It explores the idea that the same valve that we experience pain from our life's tragic events is the same valve that we find Happiness and Joy. But first, you must cry and work through your emotions to come upon the joy that awaits you on the other side of your pain...

This podcast episode explores the notion that there are No absolute Truths about the life we live. I heard two of my PhD program professors make that statement. In this podcast episode, I explore that idea as it relates to God, Heaven and Death. What do you believe about what is true about these topics?

This podcast explores the importance of maintaining your identity to sustain your emotional well-being and not lose yourself to something or someone else, a sports team, a lover, a religion, and or a political leader, which can only lead you to a place of unhappiness in the End...

This podcast episode explores the idea of being mentally strong to endure the ups downs and sudden tragic life experiences that can destroy your view of life if you allow that to happen. Therefore, we must learn to know that shit will happen, but what will you do when it does. The most tragic life experiences many times turn out to the inspiration to our best life experiences if you do not give up!

This podcast topic explores the cryptic, inexplicable and tumultuous experience of fathers with child support, and how child support is not the issue, it is the experience with the Baby Mom, the Judges in the system and unfavorable decisions rendered to fathers when on paper they are winning, but in reality, it is a losing battle that feels like financial and emotional death...  

This podcast episode discusses the paradox of the King James version of the Bible, and he was flamingly Gay. Yet, the Church adamantly Rebukes Gay People. How do we square that in our right minds?

This podcast episode explores the idea of how we look for love everywhere and with every other body, but we do not look for love within ourselves, which is the Greatest Love of All -Whitney Houston... Where do you look for love?

This podcast episode explores the topic as to whether or not an Alpha Male can be considered and Alpha Man if he is jealous and insecure. I think this term is thrown around too loosely, and No, if a man is jealous and insecure, he is not an Alpha Male. What say you?

This podcast episode explores the myth of "What is a Real Man?" Does he cry, does he communicate his thoughts and feelings, must his woman be submissive, so he can be secure? What is a real man, that is the question discussed in this podcast episode. 

This podcast episode discusses the feelings and emotions that go into making the decision to keep your parent alive even though he/she is not doing well physically versus making a decision to send them to hospice care to be made comfortable and not treated medically to heal their sicknesses. 

This podcast episode discusses the pros and cons of being more of a thinker than a feeler and the quality of life you may or may not enjoy if you live your life based off of Emotional Responses to life's Challenges...

This podcast episode discusses the real life experience of when your once healthy Mother or Father becomes your child as a totally dependent elderly parent and person, and you now have to make moves to take total care of them...

This podcast episode explores the notion regarding the Wedding Vow, Until Death do we Part to consider whether or not that vow should be omitted from our traditional wedding vows. I say, its should be eradicated and eliminated...

This podcast episode explores the idea that if you are thinking about suicide, perhaps your thoughts would work better for you than your feelings. When we make decisions based on our emotions, the outcomes are usually not good. As opposed to when we think more, we can find answers to our problems...

 This podcast episode explores the notion that there is no Evil without Good. What do you think?

This podcast episode explores the notion of Heaven, and is that where some of us go when we  die. But, how do we know that for sure?

This podcast episode explores the idea that a mere apology cannot fix every wrong thing that we do. Perhaps, a change in behavior demonstrates a real Apology...

This podcast episode explores the idea of how to love yourself and why self-love is so important. Because if you don't love you, you wont be able to love me, or anybody you want to be in an intimate relationship with...

This podcast episode explores things that contribute to being the Key to Life as it relates to learning to find ways to be happy, love thy-self, be resilient, problem solve and believe in You!

This podcast episode explores and debates the notion that there is more Bad than Good in the World. What say you?

This podcast episode debates the question as to whether a Good person can turn Bad and if a Bad person can turn Good? It can happen, but is usually does not happen. Therefore, I say no, what you say to that?

This podcast episode explores the experience of fathers when they receive the child support from the mothers and how the relationship with the mother changes when the Rabbit (father) has the gun....

This podcast episode explores the question as to whether Black Love is different from White Love? What say you?

This podcast episode explores the idea of mothers not receiving child support is they choose to not allow fathers to spend time with their child. What say you? 

This podcast debate explores the idea as to whether or not gender roles should exist in marriage today. What say you?

This podcast episode is a debate regarding whether or not a man should be responsible for his woman feeling secure in the relationship. What say you?

This podcast episode explores The Things We Do For Love, which can turn out to be more like Crazy things we do for people we love, and sometimes it is more Crazy than Love, What about you, what crazy things have you done for love?

This podcast episode explores the idea of what it takes to make a man. Currently, little boys are taught to deny their feelings, not to cry in order to learn how to be a man. Contrary to popular belief, that is not how you make a man, that is how you make a Monster. Men should be connected to their feelings, because most good things work best from the inside out, and that would include men. 

This podcast episode explores not only life after divorce, but also the world wind of emotions you may experience as you go through divorce, which is something you may want to do, but find out, it is very hard to do...even when things are bad, OMG!

This podcast episode discusses the things we do for love. But, is it love, or just  emotional foolishness. What crazy things have you done for love? We must learn to speak to our feelings before our feelings speak to us, and we do crazy things for love...

This podcast episode discusses the things we do for love. But, is it love, or  emotional foolishness. What crazy things have you done for Love? (Part 1)

This podcast episode explores the idea of understanding the importance of thinking more and feeling less in connection to our emotional life experiences for better outcomes... Are you more of a thinker, or a feeler?

This podcast explores the idea of whether parents should be held responsible if their son commits mass murder with the Rifle they bought him?

This podcast episode explores the issues around the fact that parents who are accepting of their gay child are faced with difficult decisions they have to make in connection to the relationships their gay child has with their significant others...

This podcast episode explores how the good and bad things about Race, Drugs and Guns are all related to racism... What will you do to make things better?

This podcast episode explores various emotional and intellectual topics to serve as food for thought as you live your life, it is important to have emotional and intellectual Nourishment...

This podcast episode explores the idea that it is imperative to recognize your issues in an effort to heal before you have children so your children do not have to heal from you...

This podcast episode explores the stress of a jealous mate and how he or she can overcome those jealous ways....

This podcast episode explores the topic of communication and its importance in our relationships. Yet, talking seems so hard for us to do. Why is talking so  hard to do?

This podcast episode explores the idea of taking control of our emotions, as opposed to allowing our Emotions to take control of our Thinking...

This podcast episode explores and discusses the mass shooting in Buffalo, NY simply because of the color of their skin... 

This podcast episode explores diabetes, its symptoms and what you should know to keep yourself from being diagnosed with diabetes. 1 in 5 people have diabetes and do not know it...

This podcast episode explores the notion that Belief is one of Man's (men and women) Biggest Fears... What say you?