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In this episode, Spencer Ward breaks down why being the cheapest option in your market is actually the fastest way to go broke. Too many business owners start out thinking low prices will attract customers — but without knowing their numbers, they end up losing money on every job. Spencer uses a powerful boat analogy to explain how chasing cheap work is like drilling more holes in your boat instead of plugging the one that's already there. He shares insights from Mike Campion, Alex Hormozi, Tony Robbins, Patrick Bet-David, and Carl Allen — along with real-world lessons from over a decade of running profitable service companies across Idaho. If you want to build a business that lasts (and actually pays you), this episode will help you: ✅ Understand your numbers and cost per labor hour ✅ Stop competing on price and start competing on value ✅ Charge what you're worth and still grow your customer base ✅ Build a brand that's sustainable, not cheap If you are feeling the love, make sure to subscribe, rate, and review on iTunes, Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you are!! If you'd like to be featured on an episode go to theidahobusinesspodcast.com to APPLY! Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube

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Sometimes the hardest thing to do… is nothing. In this powerful and deeply personal message, we hear a story that begins with a grieving grandmother and ends with a revelation that will shake your soul — that the real battle isn't out there, it's inside. Pastor Benjamin breaks down what it really means to “Be still and know that I am God,” from the Hebrew Rafa — stop striving — to the intimate, covenantal Yada — truly knowing Him. If you've ever felt anxious, driven, or desperate to make something happen — this one will stop you in your tracks.Because sometimes, the miracle doesn't show up until you stop trying to play God.

Not every decision can be reduced to data. In Choose Wisely: Rationality, Ethics, and the Art of Decision-Making, Barry Schwartz and Richard Schuldenfrei argue that wisdom begins where the algorithm ends.

Ever felt dry, empty, or powerless in your faith? You're not alone. Many followers of Jesus believe—but live without the daily power and presence of the Holy Spirit. In this message, Pastor Chris unpacks how awareness and surrender can turn a spiritless life into a Spirit-filled one, where God's presence brings comfort, guidance, and power from within. Connect With Us Need prayer, want to sign up for baptism or surrender your life to Christ? Follow this link : https://bit.ly/m/lifechurchia

The Shuffle Bois turn for the first time to the world of fashion and analyze the rise and fall of the iconic teen fashion brand of the 2000s, Abercrombie & Fitch. To do so, they are joined by Colettte Shade, author of “Y2K: How the 2000s Became Everything (Essays on a future that never was.” They discuss the meteoric rise of this teen fashion icon, the alleged sex criminals that formed its brain trust, and what the types of marketing targeted at young people said about consumerist aspirations in the 2000s. Huge shoutout to the book “The Abercrombie Age: Millennial Aspiration and the Promise of Consumer Culture,” by Myles Ethan Lascity, which was one of our main sources for this episode. ⁠Give Remember Shuffle a follow on Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ And on Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@RememberShufflePod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to interact with the show between episodes. It also makes it easier to book guests.  For more on Colette Shade, check out her website and give her a follow on BlueSky.

You don't need to write a book.But if there's one you can't not write — that's the one the world needs.In this episode, George sits down with Robin Colucci, a premier book-writing coach who's helped thought leaders, CEOs, astronauts, and Nobel laureates turn their ideas into industry-shifting books. But this conversation isn't about hitting the bestseller list — it's about the inner book: the one that's been simmering inside you, waiting to come out.Whether you dream of publishing or have no desire to write a book at all, this episode will change how you think about clarity, courage, and contribution. It's not about writing a book — it's about becoming the version of you who could.What You'll Learn in This Episode:The #1 mindset block keeping experts from starting their bookWhy trauma and nervous system dysregulation prevent creative clarityHow to structure your message into a book-worthy ideaThe difference between “being a writer” and “having something to say”The truth about ghostwriting, co-authoring, and publishing pathsHow to use writing to process identity and shift your business Key Takeaways:✔️Books don't start with strategy — they start with honesty.✔️You can't write from a dysregulated nervous system.✔️You don't need to be a writer — you need to be willing.✔️Writing isn't just output — it's integration.✔️You don't find clarity by thinking — you find it by expressing.✔️Your lived experience is more valuable than your perfect prose.✔️The book is never the goal — who you become writing it is. Timestamps & Highlights:[00:00] – George introduces Robin Colucci and the power of the written word[04:22] – How Robin helps people go from idea to published impact[09:18] – What makes someone ready to write a book?[13:40] – Perfectionism, trauma, and why most books never get written[20:45] – How to begin when you have too much to say[26:34] – Structuring a book: Robin's method vs. messy mind dumps[32:00] – The surprising role of your nervous system in creative work[37:12] – Robin's story: why she walked away from her business (and came back stronger)[44:30] – Publishing realities: ghostwriters, co-authors, and visibility traps[50:18] – What writing really teaches us about ourselves[56:22] – Book as identity shift: who you become is the real reward[1:02:00] – Final reflections + where to connect with RobinConnect with Robin Colucci:WebsiteInstagram: @worldchangingbooksFacebook: World Changing BooksYour Challenge This Week:What message won't leave you alone?Screenshot this episode, tag @itsgeorgebryant and @worldchangingbooks, and share what your book (or message) might be.Let's rebuild your business from the inside out:Join The Alliance – The Relationship Beats Algorithms™ communityApply for 1:1 Coaching – Strategy that serves your soul and your systemsLive Events – Get in the room where deep clarity happens: mindofgeorge.com/event

Summary: In this episode of "Your Success DNA," Tracy Brinkmann challenges the myth that more discipline is the key to success. Instead, he introduces the "Rebel Scientist" approach—treating your life as a lab and running small, curiosity-driven experiments to create lasting change. Tracy walks you through a step-by-step system for building micro habits, collecting feedback, and iterating your way to momentum—without guilt or burnout. Real-world examples, common pitfalls, and actionable steps make this episode a must-listen for anyone ready to upgrade their habits and results. Key Points & Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction: Why You Don't Need More Willpower 00:59 Why Discipline is Overrated 02:44 Picture Your Lab: The Experimentation Mindset 05:15 The Rebel Scientist System: Step-by-Step 10:50 Four Common Pitfalls and Quick Fixes 12:03 Real World Examples from Clients 13:57 Why This Matters: Identity Through Iteration 15:16 Whisker Wisdom: You're Not Lazy, You're Under-Instrumented 16:58 Closing: Build Momentum Through Curious Repetition Call to Action: Ready to upgrade your habits and results? Start your own experiment today: Write a 14-word hypothesis you can test this week. Build a micro habit that's minimum, mechanical, and measurable. Log your progress for 7 days. Want more support? Join the "Unleash Your Success DNA" newsletter for weekly mindset shifts, habit upgrades, and a dose of rebellion. Visit the podcast website or check the show notes for the signup link! Thank you for listening! If you found value in this episode, share it with a friend and leave a review. Your journey to success starts with one experiment—today. Also be sure to check out the DarkHorseEntrepreneur.com Podcast - for those looking to build their AI Escape plan via a profitable side hustle.

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In today's episode, we're tackling one of the biggest myths out there, that we can control our thoughts. From caveman wiring to corporate overthinking, I unpack why your thoughts aren't the problem… but how you relate to them might be. This is an invitation to stop battling your brain and start listening to something deeper, your wisdom, your heart, your soul. If you've ever felt trapped by your own overthinking, this one's for you.

Send us a textEpisode OverviewIn this raw and powerful episode of The Own It Show, host Justin Roethlingshoefer gets deeply personal about his greatest fear: the fear of being nothing. He shares how years of striving to be impressive left him burned out, anxious, and disconnected from his true calling—until a transformative encounter with God flipped his perspective.Drawing on the biblical story of David and Goliath, Justin reveals how God uses those willing to be nothing—and why true leadership requires stewarding your body, mind, spirit, and emotions as one integrated temple. This isn't about chasing six-pack abs or status symbols; it's about becoming the kind of person who can carry your calling without breaking under the weight.This episode will encourage, challenge, and free you from the pressure to perform—so you can live from obedience, not ego.Episode Highlights● The Fear of Nothingness – How chasing impressiveness can destroy your health and peace. ● God's Paradox – Why the Kingdom requires emptiness before multiplication. ● The David Blueprint – How preparation, obedience, and strength positioned a shepherd to slay a giant. ● Purpose Requires Energy – Why stewarding your body is essential to carry your calling. ● Legacy Over Vanity – How your rhythms model either dysfunction or health to everyone watching.Action Steps● Let Go of Impressiveness – Stop striving to prove your worth and start living from obedience. ● Integrate Your Health – Steward your physical, emotional, spiritual, and mental health together. ● Prepare in the Field – Build daily rhythms before you're “called up” for your Goliath moment. ● Lead by Example – What you multiply starts with what you model. ● Be Willing to Be Nothing – So God can make it something—and that's what becomes impressive.===========================Subscribe and Listen to the Own It Show HERE:➡︎ YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@justinroethlingshoefer➡︎ Apple Podcasts:https://apple.co/3KCyN3j➡︎ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3F58Ez4lbIKQ6kMu2pfpIG===========================Resources:⚡️CHECK OUR PROGRAMS: https://ownitcoaching.com/programs/⚡️BOOK: https://thepowerofownershipbook.com/=========================== Connect with Justin Roethlingshoefer on Social Media:➡︎ linkedin.com/in/justin-roethlingshoefer➡︎https://www.instagram.com/justinroeth/?hl=en

Stop Trying to Get Your Toddler to Listen: Right Intention, Wrong StrategyThe Calm Superpower Cohort starts the week of November 3rd. It's three weeks, three live Q&As on Zoom (recordings available after), and one calm superpower that changes everything.You'll learn how to handle meltdowns, power struggles, and those “push your button” moments with tools that actually work in real life.Enroll before October 31st to get the Sweet Treat Deal — $97 (regularly $197) and a free Toddler Toolkit T-shirt (value of $30 USD) for the first 5 sign-ups. Sign up here!In this episode of the Toddler Toolkit podcast, we're exploring the true meaning of 'listening' when it comes to toddlers. Learn how to distinguish between mere compliance and genuine cooperation, and discover why the latter is crucial for your child's long-term development. Join us as we discuss practical tips for fostering cooperation, the hidden costs of enforcing compliance, and the importance of connection in shaping resilient kids. Plus, get all the details on the upcoming Calm Superpower cohort starting the week of November 3rd, designed to equip you with real-life tools for handling toddler meltdowns and power struggles.00:00 Introduction to Toddler Toolkit Podcast00:02 Understanding Listening vs. Cooperation00:56 Introducing the Calm Superpower Cohort02:38 Back to the Episode: Listening vs. Compliance04:04 The Importance of True Cooperation06:26 Compliance vs. Cooperation Pathways12:07 The Hidden Costs of Good Listening16:51 Conclusion and Upcoming Episodes------------------------------------------------------"If you're struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It's called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course.  You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.Grab the  The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog

Today I have for you a special guest and good friend who has written a wonderful new book that you should check out. Also, the latest on Boltongate and more.Watch this episode here.

Batman Confidential #45 (2010)Batman and the vampire Dimeter are in the thick of it now as Doctor Combs has sinister designs involving the voodoo gods and corpse resurrection. Before it gets REALLY messy, Batman needs to check some emails and frequent some NOLA hotspots. We also finally meet our werewolf friend…who has yet to become a werewolf so just sit tight, I guess.Highlights include:Batman forgets about vampire biologya werewolf shares his thoughts on the war in Middle Eastthe decadent nature of eating human cheekthe Monchhichis are making a comebackSuperman becomes a Matrix agentEd and Lorraine Warren reorganize their trophy roomAlso, we chat about some of the recent comic book announcements out of NYCC including ABSOLUTE CATWOMAN!*** PROPER COMIC BOOK DISCUSSION STARTS AT 00:07:54 ***Promo: HOUSE OF FRANKLIN-STEIN (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-super-mates-podcast/id817576889)Continue the conversation with Shawn and Jen on Twitter / Instagram / Facebook / Threads / Bluesky or email the show at worstcollectionever@gmail.comAlso, get hip to all of our episodes on YouTube in its own playlist! https://bit.ly/WorstCollectionEverYTDownload the podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you get your favorite shows. Please rate, review, subscribe and tell a friend!

Candice Lim and Kate Lindsay get into tech's latest effort to turn A.I. into a status symbol. Anthropic has been pushing “Thinking” caps into the trendy streets of New York. OpenAI has been handing out awards for power users akin to YouTube subscriber plaques. But one of the worst offenders is Friend, a $129 wearable necklace that spent a million dollars to infiltrate subway stations and bus stops. Why are A.I. companies trying so hard to be trendy? And how are people revolting against them? Finally, we have some news.  Get more of ICYMI with Slate Plus! Join for exclusive bonus episodes of ICYMI and ad-free listening on all your favorite Slate podcasts. Subscribe from the ICYMI show page on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Or, visit slate.com/icymiplus for access wherever you listen. This podcast is produced by Vic Whitley-Berry, Daisy Rosario, Candice Lim, and Kate Lindsay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Candice Lim and Kate Lindsay get into tech's latest effort to turn A.I. into a status symbol. Anthropic has been pushing “Thinking” caps into the trendy streets of New York. OpenAI has been handing out awards for power users akin to YouTube subscriber plaques. But one of the worst offenders is Friend, a $129 wearable necklace that spent a million dollars to infiltrate subway stations and bus stops. Why are A.I. companies trying so hard to be trendy? And how are people revolting against them? Finally, we have some news.  Get more of ICYMI with Slate Plus! Join for exclusive bonus episodes of ICYMI and ad-free listening on all your favorite Slate podcasts. Subscribe from the ICYMI show page on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Or, visit slate.com/icymiplus for access wherever you listen. This podcast is produced by Vic Whitley-Berry, Daisy Rosario, Candice Lim, and Kate Lindsay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Candice Lim and Kate Lindsay get into tech's latest effort to turn A.I. into a status symbol. Anthropic has been pushing “Thinking” caps into the trendy streets of New York. OpenAI has been handing out awards for power users akin to YouTube subscriber plaques. But one of the worst offenders is Friend, a $129 wearable necklace that spent a million dollars to infiltrate subway stations and bus stops. Why are A.I. companies trying so hard to be trendy? And how are people revolting against them? Finally, we have some news.  Get more of ICYMI with Slate Plus! Join for exclusive bonus episodes of ICYMI and ad-free listening on all your favorite Slate podcasts. Subscribe from the ICYMI show page on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Or, visit slate.com/icymiplus for access wherever you listen. This podcast is produced by Vic Whitley-Berry, Daisy Rosario, Candice Lim, and Kate Lindsay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Candice Lim and Kate Lindsay get into tech's latest effort to turn A.I. into a status symbol. Anthropic has been pushing “Thinking” caps into the trendy streets of New York. OpenAI has been handing out awards for power users akin to YouTube subscriber plaques. But one of the worst offenders is Friend, a $129 wearable necklace that spent a million dollars to infiltrate subway stations and bus stops. Why are A.I. companies trying so hard to be trendy? And how are people revolting against them? Finally, we have some news.  Get more of ICYMI with Slate Plus! Join for exclusive bonus episodes of ICYMI and ad-free listening on all your favorite Slate podcasts. Subscribe from the ICYMI show page on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Or, visit slate.com/icymiplus for access wherever you listen. This podcast is produced by Vic Whitley-Berry, Daisy Rosario, Candice Lim, and Kate Lindsay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Candice Lim and Kate Lindsay get into tech's latest effort to turn A.I. into a status symbol. Anthropic has been pushing “Thinking” caps into the trendy streets of New York. OpenAI has been handing out awards for power users akin to YouTube subscriber plaques. But one of the worst offenders is Friend, a $129 wearable necklace that spent a million dollars to infiltrate subway stations and bus stops. Why are A.I. companies trying so hard to be trendy? And how are people revolting against them? Finally, we have some news.  Get more of ICYMI with Slate Plus! Join for exclusive bonus episodes of ICYMI and ad-free listening on all your favorite Slate podcasts. Subscribe from the ICYMI show page on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Or, visit slate.com/icymiplus for access wherever you listen. This podcast is produced by Vic Whitley-Berry, Daisy Rosario, Candice Lim, and Kate Lindsay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Candice Lim and Kate Lindsay get into tech's latest effort to turn A.I. into a status symbol. Anthropic has been pushing “Thinking” caps into the trendy streets of New York. OpenAI has been handing out awards for power users akin to YouTube subscriber plaques. But one of the worst offenders is Friend, a $129 wearable necklace that spent a million dollars to infiltrate subway stations and bus stops. Why are A.I. companies trying so hard to be trendy? And how are people revolting against them? Finally, we have some news.  Get more of ICYMI with Slate Plus! Join for exclusive bonus episodes of ICYMI and ad-free listening on all your favorite Slate podcasts. Subscribe from the ICYMI show page on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Or, visit slate.com/icymiplus for access wherever you listen. This podcast is produced by Vic Whitley-Berry, Daisy Rosario, Candice Lim, and Kate Lindsay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Candice Lim and Kate Lindsay get into tech's latest effort to turn A.I. into a status symbol. Anthropic has been pushing “Thinking” caps into the trendy streets of New York. OpenAI has been handing out awards for power users akin to YouTube subscriber plaques. But one of the worst offenders is Friend, a $129 wearable necklace that spent a million dollars to infiltrate subway stations and bus stops. Why are A.I. companies trying so hard to be trendy? And how are people revolting against them? Finally, we have some news.  Get more of ICYMI with Slate Plus! Join for exclusive bonus episodes of ICYMI and ad-free listening on all your favorite Slate podcasts. Subscribe from the ICYMI show page on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Or, visit slate.com/icymiplus for access wherever you listen. This podcast is produced by Vic Whitley-Berry, Daisy Rosario, Candice Lim, and Kate Lindsay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Candice Lim and Kate Lindsay get into tech's latest effort to turn A.I. into a status symbol. Anthropic has been pushing “Thinking” caps into the trendy streets of New York. OpenAI has been handing out awards for power users akin to YouTube subscriber plaques. But one of the worst offenders is Friend, a $129 wearable necklace that spent a million dollars to infiltrate subway stations and bus stops. Why are A.I. companies trying so hard to be trendy? And how are people revolting against them? Finally, we have some news.  Get more of ICYMI with Slate Plus! Join for exclusive bonus episodes of ICYMI and ad-free listening on all your favorite Slate podcasts. Subscribe from the ICYMI show page on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Or, visit slate.com/icymiplus for access wherever you listen. This podcast is produced by Vic Whitley-Berry, Daisy Rosario, Candice Lim, and Kate Lindsay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We got to do better , most need to heal and deal with that part of themselves that hate Black folks and stop hiding behind spirituality ...

Few if any entertainers have been more engaged in supporting the hostages and their families than Five For Fighting's John Ondrasik. We discuss the joy of their release, the struggles facing those families who lost loved ones over the last two years, and the hard work by Donald Trump and his team to achieve what seemed impossible a week earlier. John has plenty to say about the warped moral compass of the entertainment industry, and its origins in Academia. We also discuss his upcoming tour, and his wife Carla's new book, Stop Trying!

Candice Lim and Kate Lindsay get into tech's latest effort to turn A.I. into a status symbol. Anthropic has been pushing “Thinking” caps into the trendy streets of New York. OpenAI has been handing out awards for power users akin to YouTube subscriber plaques. But one of the worst offenders is Friend, a $129 wearable necklace that spent a million dollars to infiltrate subway stations and bus stops. Why are A.I. companies trying so hard to be trendy? And how are people revolting against them? Finally, we have some news.  Get more of ICYMI with Slate Plus! Join for exclusive bonus episodes of ICYMI and ad-free listening on all your favorite Slate podcasts. Subscribe from the ICYMI show page on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Or, visit slate.com/icymiplus for access wherever you listen. This podcast is produced by Vic Whitley-Berry, Daisy Rosario, Candice Lim, and Kate Lindsay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I'm sharing why the word "try" sabotages your goals and how your mind can literally change your body in menopause. Get the full show notes and information here: https://drdebbutler.com/497  

Misery. The guys delve into the UCLA game, analyzing the team's performance and the broader implications for the season. And program, for that matter.Then we take your social media questions. Of which there are many. And of which they are spirited. Join us next week ​⁠ on Twitter and IG @spartan_pod and @spartanpod on Bluesky.And watch again on YouTube at https://youtube.com/@spartan_pod

Welcome to WORK! Today I'm breaking down the difference between being an influencer and content creator and how to grow differently as each! The difference between the two, the content strategies, end goals, mindset etc. - this has been the BIGGEST change for me that helped me skyrocket my growth 100k+ followers on TikTok in one year after this one mindset switch!⏱️ CHAPTERS & TIME STAMPS00:00 Intro4:50 Influencer vs. content creator: The "spotlight" difference10:11 The content strategy difference & end goals 12:35 Lifestyle influencers 14:13 Yes, there are random creators lol15:35 Sharing personal life vs. personality 17:25 Content ideas & trends!23:01 Instagram rings 25:34 AI content, Meta AI so & Jake Paul AICheck out Storyblocks (I use it every week — overlays, green screens, sound effects, ALL of it). Right now sign up and get 2 extra months free on annual plans: https://www.storyblocks.com/tessbarclay

Engagement isn't just planning a wedding—it's preparing for a godly marriage. In this honest episode, we unpack why engagement feels like building and defending at the same time, how to spot spiritual warfare vs. normal conflict, and the premarital conversations every Christian couple must have (money, roles, sex & purity, spiritual life, vision). If you're Christian, dating or engaged, and want to honor God, protect your purity & peace, and start marriage on a strong foundation, this is for you fam!You'll learn:- Boundaries that keep you holy - How to recognize attacks vs. everyday conflict- The 10 truths about engagement most people won't say out loud- The exact topics to clarify now so you don't carry baggage into marriageCHAPTERS:00:00 – INTRO: Engagement = War (and Workshop)01:05 – Why this season matters more than the wedding03:00 – Build and defend05:10 – Spiritual warfare vs. normal conflict08:30 – Don't build a wedding, build a covenant09:10 – Truth #1: Engagement is warfare with a ring on12:20 – Truth #2: Stop “testing the marriage” while single15:40 – Truth #3: Prepare for decades, not a day18:30 – Truth #4: You don't need perfect—just humility & growth21:10 – Truth #5: It's not too short—it's too busy23:20 – Truth #6: Mentor vs. fan25:30 – Truth #7: Attack ≠ wrong path27:40 – Truth #8: Anxiety vs. discernment30:10 – Truth #9: Clarify money, roles, sex, spiritual life, vision33:30 – Truth #10: The goal isn't marriage—it's holiness36:10 – Mini-challenge + how to start this week37:30 – Closing prayer & CTA

In this episode, I'm sharing how I think about balance! You'll hear:My pie chart analogy that might change how you see balance foreverWhy available time ≠ available energyHow to lighten your load without guiltA few ways to make business feel lighter The long-game moves that help you finally step off the hamster wheelIf you've been feeling like you're running at 110% and still falling behind, this episode will help you take a breath and start finding your own version of balance!

Powerful AI boosters claim to love science fiction novels, but why do they always seem to take the wrong lessons from them? Reporter and writer Reo Eveleth joins us to discuss the ways tech leaders misuse storytelling, and how we can avoid their visions to imagine better futures.Reo Eveleth is a reporter, writer, and co-founder of COYOTE Media Collective. They created the hit independent show Flash Forward, which they also turned into a book of the same name. Reo's work has been nominated for a Peabody, an Emmy, and an Eisner Award.References:Tech Billionaires Need to Stop Trying to Make the Science Fiction They Grew Up on RealHow New Science Fiction Could Help Us Improve AIAlso Referenced:Statement from the listed authors of Stochastic Parrots on the “AI pause” letterFresh AI Hell:Stop Worrying About AI's Return on InvestmentThe most radical act of feminism? Using AILeader of Albania Pelted With Trash for Appointing AI-Powered Minister to CabinetThe Human Cost of Every ChatGPT Query: Inside the Cobalt Mines That Power AIAltman on "AGI" and quantum gravityOK Go - Impulse PurchaseCorrection: We misstated Lee Ostertag's name during the livestream for this episode. We apologize for the error!Check out future streams on Twitch. Meanwhile, send us any AI Hell you see.Our book, 'The AI Con,' is out now! Get your copy now.Subscribe to our newsletter via Buttondown. Follow us!Emily Bluesky: emilymbender.bsky.social Mastodon: dair-community.social/@EmilyMBender Alex Bluesky: alexhanna.bsky.social Mastodon: dair-community.social/@alex Twitter: @alexhanna Music by Toby Menon.Artwork by Naomi Pleasure-Park. Production by Ozzy Llinas Goodman.

As business owners, we're taught to excel. We're taught to lead well. We're given the books, the assessments, the coaches, and the tools to reach success. But then one day you stop and wonder—is this it? Is this really what success feels like? Because instead of fulfillment, you feel exhausted, disconnected, and maybe even a little lost.That's where today's guest comes in.Mel McSherry is an international business and life guide who uses Human Design to help inspired but overwhelmed entrepreneurs realign with their strengths, honor their lives, and become the architects of their own success. With her spiritual gifts and 15+ years of business-building experience, she blends Human Design with traditional business strategy to slash stress and help entrepreneurs create profit every day—mentally, emotionally, and financially.Get ready for a conversation that's going to challenge how you define success, and maybe, just maybe, help you feel more at home in your own life and business.A little bit about Mel: As an international business and life guide, Mel McSherry helps inspired but overwhelmedentrepreneurs honor their lives and become the architects of their own success. Mel uses theirspiritual gifts and their 15+ years of business-building experience to slash entrepreneurs' stressand bring their success to life! By merging Human Design with traditional business developmenttools, Mel coaches others on how to connect with what they want and implement their strengthsand strategies to be profitable every day - mentally, emotionally, and financially.LinkedIn- https://www.linkedin.com/in/melmcsherry/Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/mel_mcsherryWebsite- https://www.melmcsherry.com Your GO-TO LINK for all things Brick and Mortar Visibility-: Level UP : Your Business, Your Life, Google Business Profile Workshop, Visibility Workshop, Hire Melissa, Newsletter, & Referral Partners.Love today's podcast?

Stop Trying—Why Going All In Is the Only Way to Win | Ep 118 with Gianna BadotAre you convincing yourself you're making progress… but secretly know you're only “trying”? In this bold episode, Gianna Badot explains why the word “try” is sabotaging your results and how your subconscious sees “trying” as permission to fail. Learn how to switch from half-hearted effort to a winning mindset that actually delivers success—no more one foot in, one foot out. Discover the subconscious rewiring techniques that let you commit fully, trust yourself, and finally achieve what you truly want.

"Send Ben a text"Most parents secretly wish their teen would just change — listen more, argue less, clean up, do homework, be respectful, etc.But here's the truth: 

In this episode, I sit down with my friend and founder of Pause Breathwork, Samantha Skelly, for a deeply honest and soulful conversation about evolution, alignment, and faith in both life and business. Samantha shares how her journey as an entrepreneur has transformed into a spiritual assignment—one rooted in artistry, service, and surrender. We talk about what it means to evolve past old versions of success, let go of what no longer feels aligned, and allow business to become a living, breathing expression of who you truly are. We also dive into the importance of slowing down, receiving support, and making peace with change. Samantha opens up about the role faith and prayer have played in her life, her return to her Christian roots, and how she's learned to invite God into her business decisions. This episode is an inspiring reminder that your evolution is sacred, your alignment is your greatest strategy, and peace comes when you finally trust that you are exactly where you're meant to be. Liked this episode? Make sure to subscribe to our podcast and leave a review with your takeaways, this helps us create the exact content you want!  KEY POINTS:  01:11 Meet Samantha Skelly 01:27 The Beauty of Evolution and Presence 02:03 In-Person Podcasting and Rebranding 03:25 The Spiritual Assignment of Business 04:56 Navigating Business Evolution 05:29 The Importance of Service and Authenticity 05:45 Aligning with Your Business's Consciousness 08:19 Challenges of Scaling and Simplifying 13:19 Creating a Vision for the Future 17:21 Allowing Receptivity and Support 21:12 Integrating Faith and Business 23:03 Rediscovering Faith and Christian Roots 24:05 Returning to Church and Spiritual Awakening 25:44 Incorporating Faith into Business 26:33 Personal Faith Journeys and Reflections 29:42 Breathwork and Spirituality 33:31 The Power of Breathwork in Healing and Growth 37:32 Upcoming Events and Future Plans 40:10 The Role of Marriage and Supportive Relationships 42:21 Living Authentically and Influentially QUOTABLES: “  I think that whatever we're willing to tolerate will always be met. And so no matter if it's relationships, business, what have you, if there's something that just keeps being that spiritual sandpaper for you, you've gotta really ask yourself like, what am I tolerating here? And just simply put, raise the standard.” - Julie Solomon  “  I couldn't see a pathway of it being something else. And I think I had an ego layering on that because my ego was like, “well, surely we can't simplify because then the revenue will drop, and if the revenue drops, then we're not gonna continually grow. And what's that gonna do?” So I had to love fiercely, the part of me that was trying to take over by telling me to keep scaling and what I mean by that is like, not destroy it, not cut it off, not badmouth it, but just love the little girl inside of me that's like, “I wanna keep growing. What if I don't? Who am I gonna upset?” - Samantha Skelly  RESOURCES:

Are you feeling like you can't keep doing business the way you've been doing it? Like the success you've built feels heavy, or you're questioning whether you can get back up on that saddle again? What if the burnout, the repetitive patterns, and that feeling of always needing to be "on" isn't about working harder or finding the next strategy, but about fundamentally shifting how you approach magic, timing, and receptivity in your business?In this episode, I share my year-and-a-half journey through hitting a brick wall in my business, from brick-and-mortar to online, through various business models, only to find myself recreating the same overhead-heavy, always-on patterns I was trying to escape. I unpack the two major themes that emerged from my own transformation and my work with clients…the power of magic and serendipity, and learning to trust divine timing instead of trying to logic your way through everything.BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING TO THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL DISCOVER:Why simplifying your business goes deeper than cutting expenses, and how aligning with your core values rather than someone else's definition of success is essential to creating sustainability without burnout.The radical concept of magic and serendipity in business, and why our tendency as high-achieving women to ask "what do I need to DO?" actually blocks us from receiving the very opportunities we're seeking.How to tap into the energy of place and possibility without relocating, through following breadcrumbs like unexpected connections and cultural philosophies, and why shutting down seemingly impractical ideas cuts you off from wisdom trying to come through.The truth about divine timing and why some of us are designed to peak later in life, how to recognize this in your own journey, and why grinding harder during transition phases usually just creates diversions that lead back to the same brick wall.Why gifted healers and thought leaders keep trying to fit their spontaneous gifts into rigid frameworks with courses and PDFs and how this dilutes their magic, plus the invitation to trust what wants to come through rather than over-preparing everything.And while you're here, follow us on Instagram @creativelyowned for more daily inspiration on effortlessly attracting the most aligned clients without spending hours marketing your business or chasing clients. Also, make sure to tag me in your stories @creativelyowned.Selling the Invisible: Exactly how to articulate the value of your cosmic genius even if your message transcends the typical “10k months” & “Make 6-figures” types of promises. Free on-demand training >>> https://www.creativelyowned.co/watchnow To find out how to own your unique edge, amplify who you truly are (& get paid for it), take your business to cosmic proportions, and have fun doing it, grab it here!! https://www.creativelyowned.com/quizOffer Architect: TURN YOUR ‘INVISIBLE' WISDOM INTO A COMPELLING OFFER THAT WILL SELL WITH A SINGLE EMAIL. >>>https://creativelyowned.com/offer-architectJoin the waitlist for the Selling the Invisible AI-Powered Conversion Copywriting System and be the first in line when the doors open again! >>>https://www.creativelyowned.co/waitlist

Host Jeremy C. Park talks with Antonio Taylor, an author, speaker, and IT executive with extensive experience in leadership and philanthropy, who shares his journey from starting his career with the Y2K project to leading technology teams and now becoming an author and keynote speaker. Antonio discusses his book, "Stop Trying to Be a Leader: How Real Leaders Break Free," and emphasizes the importance of authenticity in leadership, drawing from his personal experiences of job loss and self-discovery. The conversation explores how to maintain authenticity in different contexts, the challenges of imposter syndrome, the value of building genuine connections in the workplace, and the importance of not waiting for a title to start getting involved in the community, with Antonio highlighting his mission to empower others through his speaking and writing.SummaryAntonio Taylor's IT Leadership JourneyJeremy welcomes Antonio Taylor, a speaker, author, and IT executive with over 25 years of experience, to discuss his background and insights on leadership. Antonio shares his journey in the IT industry, starting with his first role at age 22 on the Y2K project and his rapid progression into leadership roles. He emphasizes the influence of a mentor who recognized his potential early in his career.Authentic Leadership JourneyAntonio shares his background in philanthropy and community engagement, highlighting his passion for empowering young people and his personal experience growing up in a community-oriented household. He discusses his new book, "Stop Trying to Be a Leader: How Real Leaders Break Free," which was inspired by his experience losing a job after moving from Memphis to Phoenix and his subsequent self-discovery journey. Through this experience, Antonio realized the importance of authenticity and stopped following a prescribed leadership model that wasn't working for him.Authentic Leadership and Personal GrowthAntonio discusses his book's themes of authentic leadership and personal growth, emphasizing the importance of embracing one's natural abilities and avoiding the need to perform. He shares his personal experience of losing a job and how it led him to reflect on his true self and leadership style. Jeremy and Antonio discuss how vulnerability and difficult times can lead to personal and professional growth, and they talk about the challenges of maintaining authenticity in different contexts while acknowledging that authenticity means different things for everyone.Authenticity in the Workplace DiscussionAntonio and Jeremy discuss the importance of authenticity in the workplace and how to create an environment where people feel comfortable being their true selves. Antonio emphasizes the value of curiosity, building relationships, and having open conversations to break down barriers and foster a sense of community. The discussion also touches on imposter syndrome, highlighting it as a common challenge that can hinder personal growth and authenticity in the workplace.Overcoming Imposter Syndrome and AuthenticityAntonio and Jeremy discuss the challenges of imposter syndrome and the importance of understanding one's true identity and capabilities. They emphasize that titles do not define a person's leadership or value, and encourage individuals to focus on being their authentic selves and contributing to their communities without waiting for a specific title or position. Antonio shares his personal experiences as a speaker and mentor, highlighting the impact of his work outside formal roles, and encourages his son to use his knowledge to help others, regardless of titles.Empowering Keynote Speakers JourneyAntonio shares his journey from being a coach and mentor to becoming a keynote speaker and author, emphasizing his mission to empower others to overcome imposter syndrome and lead with purpose. He shares that individuals can purchase his book, "Stop Trying to Be a Leader," on Amazon, and highlights his presence on LinkedIn, where he is actively building his brand. Antonio expresses gratitude for the opportunity to spread his message and is working on a website to provide more information about his speaking engagements.Connect with Antonio Taylor on LinkedIn via  / antoniodtaylor   and purchase "Stop Trying to Be a Leader: How Real Leaders Break Free" on Amazon.

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Hour 3 for 10/6/25 Guest-host Ed Morrissey discusses Stop Trying! with Carla Ondrasik (2:16), what it means to 'stop trying' (6:47), just do it (13:57), and driving without a GPS (20:17). Then, Dr. Charles Nemeth covered ICE in Chicago escalations (27:20), JB Pritzker and Brandon Johnson (40:38), Brandon Johnson's recourse (45:03), and cycle of stupidity (47:08). Link: Stop Trying book Dr. Charles Nemeth

Do you ever feel like no matter how much you explain yourself, your words just get turned against you? In this episode of Waking Up to Narcissism, Tony Overbay, LMFT, breaks down why explanations don't lead to understanding with a narcissist—or with anyone who is deeply emotionally immature. Instead, they become what Tony calls an “attack surface”: the very fuel that allows the narcissist to twist, criticize, or position themselves as the victim. Through a painfully familiar story of a wife trying to share her day and a husband who withdraws into silence, Tony unpacks: Why silence is a weapon for the narcissist—and why it spikes anxiety for the pathologically kind partner How emotionally immature people thrive on friction and conflict rather than true connection The cycle of narcissistic supply (idealization, devaluation, and discard) and how it shows up in daily interactions The difference between secure attachment and antagonistic attachment Five rules for protecting yourself and reducing “attack surfaces” in conversations If you've ever found yourself over-explaining, apologizing for things that weren't your fault, or walking on eggshells to avoid conflict, this episode will help you recognize the patterns, reclaim your emotional energy, and begin to shift the dynamic. Your kindness is a gift—but when explanations only make things worse, it's time to understand why. 00:00 Introduction and Acknowledgements 00:52 Understanding Substack and Blogging 02:11 Disclaimer and Episode Overview 02:47 Narcissism in Relationships 07:25 The Real-Life Story Begins 11:39 Analyzing the Narcissistic Behavior 19:13 Secure Attachment vs. Narcissistic Attachment 25:58 The Concept of Attack Surface 35:18 The Silent Treatment: A Narcissist's Weapon 35:51 The Parasitic Dynamic in Narcissistic Relationships 39:20 The Narcissistic Supply Cycle 43:51 Codependency and Pathological Kindness 51:41 Strategies for Dealing with Narcissists 56:05 Breaking the Cycle: Reclaiming Your Power 01:01:32 The Importance of Documentation 01:07:57 Key Takeaways and Final Thoughts Contact Tony at contact@tonyoverbay.com to learn more about his Emotional Architects men's group. And visit https://julie-dejesus.com/cruise to learn more about Tony and his friend Julie De Jesus's "I See You Living" cruise, a 5-night Western Caribbean Cruise from January 24-29, 2026 aboard the Royal Caribbean Cruise Line. To learn more about Tony's upcoming re-release of the Magnetic Marriage course, his Pathback Recovery course, and more, sign up for his newsletter through the link at https://linktr.ee/virtualcouch Available NOW: Tony's "Magnetic Marriage Mini-Course" is only $25. https://magneticmarriage.mykajabi.com/magnetic-marriage-mini-course You can learn more about Tony's pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com

Being told to “calm down” never actually makes you calmer. In this episode, I unpack what “calm” really means in conversation—and why it often backfires. Instead of aiming for a blank-slate calm, I'll show you how to create a grounded connection—a way to stay present, regulate your emotions, and still lean into the conversation with honesty. And stick around until the end, because I'll give you three powerful comebacks you can use the next time someone tells you to “calm down.” Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth. Upgrade Your Every Day. Get 40% off at cozyearth.com/jefferson or use code JEFFERSON at check out. Fabric by Gerber Life: Apply in minutes at https://meetfabric.com/JEFFERSON BetterHelp. Click https://betterhelp.com/jeffersonfisher for a discount on your first month of therapy. Order my new book, The Next Conversation, or listen to the full audiobook today. Like what you hear? Don't forget to subscribe and leave a 5-star review! Suggest a topic or ask a question for me to answer on the show!  Want a FREE communication tip each week? Click here to join my newsletter.  Join My School of Communication Watch my podcast on YouTube  Follow me on Instagram  Follow me on TikTokFollow me on LinkedIn Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you trying to be someone you're not? What are your strengths? Do you acknowledge you weaknesses? In today's episode, Tanya shares how 2 Kings 4:1-17 encourages us to lean on God, our strength. If you're listening on Spotify, tell us about yourself and where you're listening from! Read the Bible with us in 2025! This year, we're exploring the Historical Books—Joshua, Judges, 1 & 2 Samuel, and 1 & 2 Kings. Download your reading plan now. Your support makes TMBT possible. Ten Minute Bible Talks is a crowd-funded project. Join the TMBTeam to reach more people with the Bible. Give now. Like this content? Make sure to leave us a rating and share it so that others can find it, too. Use #asktmbt to connect with us, ask questions, and suggest topics. We'd love to hear from you! To learn more, visit our website and follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter @TenMinuteBibleTalks. Don't forget to subscribe to the TMBT Newsletter here. Passages: 2 Kings 4:1-17