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Today we break down the main reasons we stay in unhealthy relationships, from dating for potential to the sunk cost fallacy, and give practical questions to help you know when it's time to move on! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching  Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating   Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest  Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library  Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast  Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en Interested in advertising on this show? Learn more here! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/16V_c91F1iIYNZOVvrEinrB9h2dsZq-kZFqYYEDQ4A60/viewform?edit_requested=true  . . . . .  A quick thank you to one of our friends! Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single? We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we'd love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission. http://compassion.com/heartofdating Check out the transcript!!: https://docs.google.com/document/d/16WAGp3C0exLxzi7WuEtbf66A7ZduwHtt0E_FFxuANBM/edit?usp=sharing Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tired of ADHD strategies that don't work? Start here: Stop Trying to “Fix” Your ADHD. You're Not Broken: https://programs.tracyotsuka.com/sign-up_____Some brains cannot sit still long enough to be careful. Ella Fielding found a machine that runs on exactly that.Ella has a BA in Fine Art Sculpture, a Masters in Fine Art, and a chainsaw operator's license, and she uses all three to turn whole trees into monumental sculpture. But she left school at 14 because it was too traumatic to stay. She was quick with her hands and slow to get anything out of her head onto paper, and for most of her life nobody named why. She was 38, running her own art business and drowning in the admin, when a work coach kept mentioning ADHD and she kept insisting she was just dyslexic. Turns out it was both.Now she carves outside in full gear, running a machine most people won't touch and making it behave like a scalpel. Not despite the ADHD. Because of it. A chainsaw does not let you drift or second-guess or wait for the perfect plan. It demands you be right here, right now, which is the one place her brain has always worked best.In this episode, Tracy and Ella get into the school years that nearly broke her, the "poof" moment where a thought vanishes the second she reaches for a pen, why immediate and physical beats slow and planned for a brain like hers, and how she reads her own overwhelm as a signal instead of a character flaw.If you have ever been told you were too much, this one might reframe the whole thing.Resources:Website: https://ellafielding.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ella.fielding.sculptorFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ellafieldingsculptorLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ella-fielding-sculptorSend a Message: Your Name | Email | Message Explore more from me:

Changing your identity starts with realizing identity and manifestation aren't two separate journeys; they're the same one. My love, the life you're living right now is not happening to you. It's happening because of you. Not because you're broken, not because you're cursed, not because you're behind, but because your reality is a mirror, reflecting back exactly what you believe about yourself right now.Most people spend their whole life trying to change what they see in the mirror, new job, new relationship, new city, new body, and wonder why nothing shifts. It's because identity equals decision, and decision equals reality. There are three stages of consciousness you're cycling through without even realizing it, and until you see which one is actually running your choices, no amount of affirmations or vision boards will move the needle.Episode Takeaways:Recognize the three stages of consciousness, the 3D, 4D, and 5D, and notice which one is quietly running your decisionsUnderstand why identity equals decision, and decision equals reality, not destinyStop mistaking affirmations, vision boards, and manifestation techniques for actual identity workTrust that the 4D awakening state isn't failure, it's the portal where your miracles are builtSee how one Manifesting Miracles Academy member manifested $16,000 by changing who she believed she was, not by getting luckyWhen you stop trying to fix the reflection and start changing what's standing in front of the mirror, everything shifts. You stop grinding, proving, and performing your way toward a life that already feels exhausting before it starts. You become the version of you who trusts herself, who receives without flinching, who knows the universe isn't something to convince but something to create with. That's not a fantasy. That's what happens when your identity actually changes. If this episode resonated, your first month inside the Manifesting Miracles Academy is completely free — link below.✨ MANIFESTING MIRACLES ACADEMY  ✨ Your first month is completely free.Join now: https://manifestingmiracles.thinkific.com/pages/memberships 

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What if the reason you cannot conceive has nothing to do with your body?Josh Trent welcomes Ronit Menashe and Vida Delrahim, co-founders of WeNatal, to the Wellness + Wisdom Podcast, episode 826, to explore why fertility is a team sport that Western medicine has treated as a solo event, why the 90 days before conception matter more than any moment that follows, and why the 60% collapse in male sperm quality is not just a biological crisis but a spiritual one.In This Episode, Vida Delrahim and Ronit Menashe Uncover:(01:30) Birth Is Spiritual Disguised as Biology(07:00) Masculine Energy and What It Costs Women(13:15) Trimester Zero Is The Most Important Trimester(16:15) Stop Trying, Start Receiving(23:10) Moving Through Loss(29:00) The Safety a Mother Creates(36:25) What Came Back Online When Life Came In(44:00) The BIG Problem Nobody Is Talking About(50:35) What Is Actually Happening to Sperm(55:15) The Trimester Zero Checklist for Men(01:03:15) Becoming the Case Study(01:07:45) The Words That Create Life(01:11:20) What Birth Actually Does to a Person(01:14:25) Midlife Crisis VS Midlife Expansion

What if trying to manifest love is the very thing keeping you from experiencing it?In this solo episode, Kate challenges the popular belief that you need to visualize, plan, and control your way into the perfect relationship. When the desire for love comes from fear, lack, or the belief that your life is incomplete, no person or relationship will ever feel like enough.Kate explores a new way of approaching love that begins with trusting life, returning to the present moment, and cultivating within yourself the feelings you have been waiting for someone else to provide. Instead of creating lists, searching for “the one,” or deciding how your love story should unfold, she invites you to let every connection reveal something deeper about who you are.When you stop treating love as a destination, you create space for relationships, experiences, and unexpected moments of connection to become part of your soul's unfolding.In This Episode We Explore:Why manifesting love from a place of lack creates more seekingHow trying to control your love story communicates a lack of trust in lifeWhy your ideal-partner list may prevent you from being present on a dateHow every relationship can serve a different purpose in your evolutionThe difference between following your soul and following conditioned desiresWhy love is much bigger than one romantic relationshipHow people and places activate different parts of who you areThe importance of focusing on your experience instead of someone else's experience of youWhy relationships are living, evolving experiences rather than destinationsHow cultivating the feelings you desire allows you to arrive in love already fulfilledYour purpose is not waiting somewhere outside of you, and neither is love. The more deeply you return to yourself, listen to your inner guidance, and follow what brings you alive, the more space you create for life to surprise you with something greater than you could have planned.Website: https://www.theunscriptdwoman.com/Website: https://www.theunscriptdwoman.com/About the Host:Kate Harlow is the founder of The Unscriptd Woman, the creator of The Expanded Love Coaching Method, and host of The New Truth podcast - ranked in the top 1.5% globally. With over 15 years of experience teaching, coaching and facilitating transformational retreats worldwide, Kate has helped hundreds of thousands of women break free from outdated relational patterns, old patriarchal ways of thinking and unspoken rules to live by.Her infallible methods guide women to release the deeply ingrained scripts that keep them stuck- empowering women to step into their highest, most magnetic, and fully expressed selves. Through her coaching, retreats, podcast and upcoming book The Unscriptd Woman, Kate is redefining what it means to be an empowered woman in today's world, showing women how to stop waiting for permission and start creating a life and love that aligns with their deepest truth.Known for her rare ability to see exactly where women are out of alignment with themselves, Kate offers a path back to unwavering self- trust, meaningful joy and true fulfillment. Her work is a revolution - one that liberates women from societal expectations and invites them into a life of radical authenticity, thriving relationships and unshakable self-worth.Thanks for listening! It means so much to us that you listened to our podcast! If you would like to continue the conversation with us, head on over to our Facebook group, the New Truth Movement at https://www.facebook.com/groups/209821843509179/With this podcast, we are building an international community of The New Truth Movement.If you know someone who would benefit from this message or could be an awesome addition to our community, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode?Leave a note in the comment section below!Follow the podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can follow the podcast app on your mobile device.Leave us a reviewWe appreciate every bit of feedback to make this a value-adding part of your day. Ratings and reviews from our listeners not only help us improve, but also help others find us in their podcast app. If you have a minute, an honest review on Apple Podcasts goes a long way! Thank You!Podcast Artwork Photo Credit: Photo by Tarja Ruuska https://www.instagram.com/tarjaruuska.photographyRoyalty Free Music: Bensound.com Artist/: Benjamin Tissot License code: 2S4NM4X7FZVPZP1E

What happens when we stop trying to prove that we are good enough? Pastor Nate talks with the Rev. Alex LaChappelle about law and gospel, the pressure to fix ourselves, and the freedom of trusting that God's love is already present.Together, they explore why the church is bigger than any building, how grace changes the way we see ourselves and our neighbors, and why God continues to see possibility in us, even when we only see our mistakes.What You'll LearnUnderstand law and gospel in everyday languageRecognize when faith becomes another form of pressureSee sin as separation from God, ourselves, and one anotherPractice viewing yourself and others through graceTrust that God meets us in difficult and imperfect placesChapters00:00 Introducing the Rev. Alex LaChappelle00:55 Friendship, theology, and the Crossings Conference04:45 Is the church a building or the body of Christ?07:20 Why church survival cannot be the main goal11:05 What do law and gospel mean?12:15 When the gospel becomes another set of rules13:35 Jesus' life, death, and resurrection18:55 Why self-improvement advice often leaves us discouraged20:40 Understanding sin as separation24:20 Loving your neighbor also means loving yourself27:15 A World Cup example of grace33:10 The Parable of the Sower and God's generosity35:40 Seeing good soil in one another38:10 God sees possibility when we see failure43:10 Why acceptance can lead to transformation45:25 Your struggle is not your identity48:15 What should people hear when they leave church?50:25 God meets us in the rocky soilLike this episode, subscribe to the channel, and share it with someone who needs a reminder that they do not have to hold everything together alone.Connect with Bethany:

There's someone at your work who's getting away with things they should never get away with. The manipulation. The credit-taking. The quiet dismantling of people who deserved better. You've seen behind the mask that everyone else seems to find so charming, and every fiber of your being wants to expose it.In this series finale, here's the case for why you shouldn't.Not because they don't deserve it. But because the exposure conversation you've rehearsed will almost certainly cost you more than it costs them. This episode decodes the "shoot the messenger" trap that Harvard researchers documented, the crucial difference between reporting facts and exposing character, and why matching a political operator's game makes you indistinguishable from them.Then we complete the CALM framework with its final step, Move, and what deliberate action actually looks like when everything in you wants to react. Including the difference between fleeing a toxic workplace and leaving one on your own terms, with your reputation and your peace intact.Because character compounds quietly, without maintenance, over years. And when the reorganization comes, or leadership changes, or the mask finally slips, it's character that holds. Every single time.The watched moments build your image. The unwatched moments build your character. This episode is about making sure yours is telling the story you want told.In this episode:The exposure trap, and why telling the truth can make you the problemReporting facts vs. exposing character (and why one works and one backfires)Why character always surfaces, and political skill never lastsThe CALM Move step: deliberate, not dramaticFleeing vs. leaving, and why walking away whole is never losingThe reputation you build when nobody's watchingNot sure what's really getting in the way of your career? Take the free CALM Workplace Clarity Assessment: [quiz link]This is the finale of the four-part July series, Reputation by Design, Not Default. Catch up on Episodes 301 to 303 wherever you listen. Your reputation is talking. Are you listening?

In Episode 186 of the Best Coach Ever podcast, we're kicking off the Six Figure Summer Business School with one of the biggest differentiators in today's online coaching space: building a brand people genuinely care about. Because here's the truth—being the smartest coach isn't what creates demand anymore.We're diving into why audiences become emotionally attached to certain creators, the five biggest reasons coaches struggle to stand out online, and how to shift from being simply "helpful" to becoming the obvious choice. From showing more personality to sharing stronger opinions and creating emotional connection, this episode is all about building a brand people don't just follow—they actively root for.If you've ever felt like you're constantly chasing leads, struggling to convert followers into clients, or wondering why your audience isn't buying despite posting "valuable" content, this episode will completely change how you think about personal branding.If you love this episode, don't forget to leave a 5-star rating and a quick review. It's the best way to support the podcast and help us keep bringing you real, honest conversations.In this episode, we cover:1) Why Some Coaches Create Demand (And Others Don't) [0:00 - 7:18]-Why emotional attachment—not expertise—is what drives sales today.-The four levels of audience connection, from recognition to true brand loyalty.2) Stop Trying to Be the Smartest Coach Online [7:19 - 13:34]-Why educational-only content creates followers, but not devoted buyers.-How overemphasizing tips and teaching prevents real connection.3) The Missing Ingredient: Emotional Connection [13:35 - 20:10]-Why vulnerability and emotionally resonant content are more memorable than information.-How sharing personal experiences builds trust and long-term attachment.4) Personality Is Your Competitive Advantage [20:11 - 26:18]-Why filtering your personality makes your brand forgettable.-How showing your authentic quirks attracts the right people while naturally repelling the wrong ones.5) Why Strong Opinions Build Strong Brands [26:19 - 32:17]-The power of sharing values, beliefs, and even "shared enemies."-How polarizing viewpoints create deeper audience loyalty and differentiation.6) Your Perspective Matters More Than Your Niche [32:18 - 36:28]-Why your worldview is what truly separates you from competitors.-How leading with your unique lens creates a brand people can't easily replace.7) Building Attachment Instead of Just Being Relatable [36:29 - End]-The difference between being relatable and becoming someone's obvious choice.-Why intentional brand attachment leads to easier selling, stronger leads, and more loyal clients.Connect with Lynette:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lynettemariehFitness Coaching Business Accelerator: https://fcbaprogram.comThe Wellness CEO Mastermind: https://wcmprogram.com

Stop trying so hard.Not stop caring.Not stop showing up.But stop trying to do what only God can do.Some of us are exhausted because we're carrying things that were never ours to carry.Only God changes hearts. Only God controls timing. Only God can do the impossible.Trust Him with everything.This episode encourages listeners to release control, surrender outcomes, and trust God with everything…in marriage, parenting, health, dreams, and every uncertain season.When we stop striving and start trusting, we discover that we can never lose when we remember that our lives are in His hands. You can never lose when your life is surrendered to Him. Music: “River,” an original piano piece written and performed by Benjamin Waggoner.We would like to pray for you. Please click here to share your prayer needs with us.To learn more about Beau's Blessings click here.Please consider becoming a Hunter's Hero and supporting Hunter's Hope and this podcast by clicking here.Shop HH x MH Collection here.Learn more about our Podcast, Episode Guests and Hunter's Hope here.

Dr. Kasey Jo Orvidas breaks down why your instinct to fix your clients' worst days first can actually backfire, and shares a real story from an HMCC student who tested a "strengths-first" approach with surprising results.In this episode, she covers:Why the "righting reflex" makes coaches jump straight to what went wrong, and why that instinct isn't a flawA real case study where focusing only on a client's best step-count days led to every day improving the following weekThe psychology behind why leading with strengths builds self-efficacy, autonomy, and competence faster than leading with fixesA tangible "strengths-first question swap" coaches can use in their very next client check-inHow to bridge back into setbacks and off days once trust and momentum are builtIf you've ever caught yourself digging into what went wrong before acknowledging what went right, this episode is for you.[NEW FREE GUIDE]: Best Questions for More Clients and More Sales Conversions  Connect with me on Instagram!Grab 5 Free Lessons in Mindset and Behavior Change Coaching [HMCC WAITLIST]LEAVE A REVIEW, WIN A WORKSHOP! After you leave your review, take a screenshot and upload it to this form to be entered to winWant me to answer your questions on my next Q&A episode? Send a voice note or drop your questions here

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For much of our lives, we've been taught that we need to improve ourselves—to become healthier, happier, more successful, or more spiritual. But what if that constant drive to "be better" begins with the mistaken belief that something is wrong with us?In this episode of Mondays with Bev & Paul, we explore a different perspective. What if healing isn't about fixing yourself, but about nurturing yourself? What if pain, stress, or illness don't mean you're broken, but simply that your body and mind are asking for care and support?We'll discuss the difference between self-improvement and self-nurturing, why we are often our own harshest critics, and how the philosophy of Bio-Touch reminds us that healing begins with acceptance rather than judgment.Join us for an inspiring conversation about compassion, human connection, and discovering that perhaps nothing is wrong with you after all.In this episode you'll discover:Why we often believe we need fixingThe difference between growth and self-criticismHow nurturing creates space for healingWhat Bio-Touch teaches about caring without judgmentA new way to think about health, healing, and being humanLearn more about Bio-Touch Healing at:https://www.justtouch.com

Episode 265: When Missionaries Feel Fake explores a concern I hear from missionaries all the time: "I don't feel like myself." Whether it's teaching lessons, talking to strangers, leading discussions, or stepping into a new role, many missionaries worry they're being fake or simply going through the motions. In this episode, I share why feeling performative isn't necessarily the problem and how understanding what's happening beneath the surface can help you show up with more confidence, authenticity, and peace. We talk about the difference between performing and pretending, why our brains naturally adapt to unfamiliar situations, and how the emotion fueling your actions matters far more than the actions themselves. I also share practical examples of how shifting from proving yourself to genuinely loving the people you teach can completely change your missionary experience. Whether you're preparing to serve, currently serving, training a missionary, or supporting one at home, this episode will help you recognize the difference between simply doing missionary work and letting your real testimony and love lead the way. If you've ever questioned whether you're authentic enough, spiritual enough, or "doing it right," I hope this episode reminds you that you don't have to become someone else to be an effective missionary. The goal isn't to stop performing a new role—it's to let your thoughts, feelings, and testimony become aligned with the person God created you to be. I hope Episode 265: When Missionaries Feel Fake helps you serve with greater sincerity, confidence, and connection. As always, if you found this episode helpful, I want to invite you to subscribe if you aren't already, share this episode with your friends and missionaries you know, and write a review. I know this work will help LDS missionaries around the world and it would mean so much to me if you did. Until next week my friends.   00:00 – Intro 00:55 – Do Missionaries Feel Fake? 04:28 – Why We All Perform 07:59 – When Performance Feels Disconnected 10:37 – The Feeling Behind Your Actions 13:59 – Stop Trying to Prove Yourself 17:17 – Don't Correct a Personality 19:31 – Authenticity Starts with Emotional Safety 22:46 – The Goal Isn't to Stop Performing 26:48 – Outro   Website | Instagram | Facebook   5 Ways to Process Any Less-Than Happy Mission Memories Article: HERE   Get the Full Show Notes and Text/PDF Transcripts: HERE   Free PDF Download:  Podcast Roadmap   Free PDF Download:  Preparing Missionary Cheat Sheet   Free Training for Preparing Missionaries:  Change Your Mission with this One Tool   RM Transition Free Video Series:  3 Tools to Help RMs in Their Transition Home   Free Guide:  5 Tips to Help Any Returning Missionary   Schedule a Free Strategy Call:   Click Here 

"Send Ben a text"If you feel like you're always reminding, arguing, or trying to get your teen to make better choices, this episode is for you.Many parents think they need to control their teen to help them succeed. But the harder you try to control them, the more they often push back.In this episode, Ben shares five lessons he has learned from coaching football that can completely change the way you parent. You'll learn how to lead with confidence instead of reacting with frustration.You'll discover how to:Stop carrying responsibilities that belong to your teen.Set clear expectations before problems happen.Lead with calm confidence instead of fear.Build trust without giving up healthy boundaries.Focus on what you can control and let go of what you can't.Your teen doesn't need a parent who can control every choice they make. They need a parent who knows how to lead.If you're ready to stop the constant power struggles and start parenting from the inside out, this episode will give you practical tools you can use today.Take the free Parent Trap Quiz at benpughcoaching.com/quiz to discover the parenting pattern that may be keeping you stuck.Are You Caught in the Parent Trap?Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free.Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you're falling into with your teen. Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today.https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz

Being [at Work] offers a daily dose of leadership focused on helping you, the leader. During challenging times we need all of the encouragement we can get. Sometimes there's simply no playbook and we just need to do the best we can. Sometimes the best we can is being reminded of the gifts and insight you already have within.Be sure to subscribe and get your daily dose.Subscribe in Apple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/being-at-work/id1468460670Subscribe in Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/4xU1c5ncX5Vuukohwhps34About Andrea ButcherAndrea Butcher is a visionary business leader, executive coach, and keynote speaker—she empowers leaders to gain clarity through the chaos by being MORE of who they already are. Her experiences—serving as CEO, leading at an executive level, and working in and leading global teams—make her uniquely qualified to support leadership and business success. She hosts the popular leadership podcast, Being [at Work] with a global audience of over 600,000 listeners and is the author of The Power in the Pivot (Red Thread Publishing 2022) and HR Kit for Dummies (Wiley 2023).Connect with Andreahttps://www.abundantempowerment.com/LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/leaderdevelopmentcoach/Abundant Empowerment Upcoming Eventshttps://www.abundantempowerment.com/events

Tired of ADHD strategies that don't work? Start here: Stop Trying to “Fix” Your ADHD. You're Not Broken: https://programs.tracyotsuka.com/sign-up_____She was good at the job. She just kept bombing the people.Dr. Shannan Palma has a PhD from Emory, founded a master's program, and taught as a college professor. Then, in midlife, she found out she was autistic. ADHD turned up right behind it.For decades she had followed the rules exactly as they were written and could not work out why that kept failing her. She was direct when directness was not wanted. She said no when everyone else said yes and did nothing. She ran full speed until she collapsed, then ramped back up and did it again. The diagnosis did not just explain the pattern. It ended it.Today she identifies as AuDHD, co-founded the autistic-led nonprofit Independence Through Interdependence, and serves as CEO of ITI Lab, where her team built Decide, an app for decision fatigue.In this episode, Tracy and Shannan get into why decision fatigue is not a willpower problem, what happens when the autism wants routine and the ADHD wants novelty, the assessment that went badly wrong, and what it takes to rebuild after burnout on your own terms instead of someone else's.If your brain has ever turned a small decision into a full-body shutdown, this one will help you understand why. And more importantly, what actually helps.ResourcesWebsite: https://weareiti.orgWebsite: https://itilab.ioLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shannanpalmaADHD isn't a productivity problem. It's an identity problem.Send a Message: Your Name | Email | Message Explore more from me:

Are you just busy working? Or are you adding value? Marketing has become overloaded with channels, platforms, metrics, and specialized roles. But Seth Matlins believes the job itself is much simpler: create value, drive sustainable growth, and help the business create and keep customers. In this episode, Seth joins Stephanie Postles to explain why CMO job descriptions are often fundamentally disconnected from business results—and why marketers must see themselves as commercial leaders, not merely brand leaders. They discuss the danger of optimizing for departmental metrics instead of business outcomes, why short-term pressure can destroy long-term growth, and what Seth learned from one of the biggest strategic mistakes of his career. They also explore why brands must become more humane in an AI-driven world, what separates the world's most influential CMOs, and why every decision a company makes either creates or destroys value. Seth Matlins is the founder of The Wisdomist Company, former Managing Director of the Forbes CMO Network, and host of Create or Destroy: Reimagining Marketing. Follow Seth: LinkedIn — Seth Matlins Listen to his new show: Create or Destroy: Reimagining Marketing (Vox Media + The Wisdomist Company) This episode brought to you by Attentive. Attentive helps brands personalize messages across SMS, email, RCS, and push - so every interaction feels relevant, not random. Not more marketing. Better marketing.  That's marketing made personal. That's Attentive.  To learn more visit attentive.com.   Chapters 0:00 The CMO Job Description Is Broken 2:30 Marketing Is a Commercial Strategy 4:19 How “Marketing Prefixes” Broke the Function 8:04 Why Your Team Is Punching Growth in the Face 13:20 David Droga: Complexity Is a Tax on Success 16:02 The Worst Work Seth Ever Did 20:21 “You Neither Give Nor Take Direction” 24:03 Stop Trying to Be Human. Be Humane. 29:23 What Separates the World's Most Influential CMOs 31:49 Why CEOs Struggle to Understand Marketing 34:03 Why Eric Schmidt Was Wrong About Marketing 35:43 Seth's 10 Rules of Marketing 40:09 Introducing Create or Destroy 45:52 Lightning Round: Harry Potter, Coca-Cola and More 49:40 Are Your Metrics Making You Play the Wrong Game? ----Mission.org is a media studio producing content alongside world-class clients. Learn more at mission.org. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Life is not a problem; it is an experience. Life becomes a problem when we resist the discomfort some experiences trigger within us. The ego stores these resisted experiences, creating fear, tension, and the endless struggle to control circumstances in order to feel okay. Freedom comes through surrendering inner resistance, relaxing through discomfort, and allowing life to unfold without losing our natural state of awareness, love, and peace. © Sounds True Inc. Episodes: © 2026 Michael A. Singer. All Rights Reserved.

William Ramsey of William Ramsey Investigates joins Roberta to discuss the piece of evidence Damien Echols and his supporters freuently lie about- Exhibit 500. What's in this 500 page document? Why are so many people convinced of Echols' guilt after reading Exhibit 500?Show Notes:West Memphis Three Facts- westmemphisthreefacts.com Read Exhibit 500 - callahan.mysite.com/wm3/img/exh500.htmlThe Case Against the West Memphis Three Ep. 63 -https://garymeece.podbean.com/e/episode-63-exhibit-500-on-damien-echols-softball-girls-west-memphis-3-wm3/Get access to exclusive content & support the podcast by a Patron today! https://patreon.com/robertaglasstruecrimereportThrow a tip in the tip jar! https://buymeacoffee.com/robertaglassSupport Roberta by sending a donation via Venmo. https://venmo.com/robertaglassBecome a chanel member for custom Emojis, first looks and exclusive streams here: https://youtube.com/@robertaglass/joinThank you Patrons!Beth, Shelley Safford, Carol Mumumeci, Therese Tunks, JC, Lizzy D, Elizabeth Drake, Texas Mimi, Barb, Deborah Shults, Ratliff, Stephanie Lamberson, Maryellen Sudol, Mona, Karen Pacini, Jen Buell, Marie Horton, ER, Rosie Grace, B. Rabbit, Sally Merrick, Amanda D, Mary B, Mrs Jones, Amy Gill, Eileen, Wesley Loves Octoberfest, Erin (Kitties1993), Anna Quint, Cici Guteriez, Sandra Loves GatsbyHannna, Christy, Jen Buell, Elle Solari, Carol Cardella, Jennifer Harmon, DoxieMama65, Carol Holderman, Joan Mahon, Marcie Denton, Rosanne Aponte, Johnny Jay, Jude Barnes, JenTheRN, Victoria Devenish, Jeri Falk, Kimberly Lovelace, Penni Miller, Jil, Janet Gardner, Jayne Wallace (JaynesWhirled), Pat Brooks, Jennifer Klearman, Judy Brown, Linda Lazzaro, Suzanne Kniffin, Susan Hicks, Jeff Meadors, D Samlam, Pat Brooks, Cythnia, Bonnie Schoeneman-Dilley, Diane Larsen, Mary, Kimberly Philipson, Cat Stewart, Cindy Pochesci, Kevin Crecy, Renee Chavez, Melba Pourteau, Julie K Thomas, Mia Wallace, Stark Stuff, Kayce Taylor, Alice, Dean, GiGi5, Jennifer Crum, Dana Natale, Bewildered Beauty, Pepper, Joan Chakonas, Blythe, Pat Dell, Lorraine Reid, T.B., Melissa, Victoria Gray Bross, Toni Woodland, Danbrit, Kenny Haines and Toni Natalie.

The first instinct after an intrusive thought is usually to get rid of it. You tell yourself it isn't true. You try to prove it wrong. You replay it in your head, search for certainty, or avoid anything that might trigger it again. It feels like you're protecting yourself, but those reactions are often exactly what keeps OCD alive and thriving.In this video, Dr. Patrick McGrath explains why some of the most common ways people respond to unwanted thoughts actually make them stronger. Instead of focusing on what you should do, he breaks down what NOT to do, including why learning to stop fighting your thoughts is one of the most important steps toward breaking the OCD cycle.At NOCD, we specialize in exposure and response prevention (ERP) therapy, the most effective treatment for OCD—a treatment that can help you live a fulfilling life. If you're ready to take your first step, book a free 15-minute call with us at https://learn.nocd.com/YTFollow us on social media:https://www.instagram.com/treatmyocd/https://twitter.com/treatmyocdhttps://www.tiktok.com/@treatmyocd Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you exhausted from trying to earn God's favor? In this opening sermon of our new series, "The Era of the Kings," Noah dives into 2 Samuel 7 to unpack the truth that we do not build a house for God, He builds a house for us. Be sure to follow 614 Church online:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/614_church/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/614church/Website: https://www.614church.orgTo support our ministry, https://614church.org/give/To fill out a contact card so we can stay in touch, click the link below!https://614.churchcenter.com/people/forms/283193Until Everyone Knows Jesus.

What does it mean to abide in God when your quiet time feels empty and your spiritual life feels flat?You've been showing up — reading your Bible, praying, doing all the things — and something still feels off. This episode is about what's actually happening when that occurs. Not what you're doing wrong. What's actually going on. We go deep into John 15 to unpack what Jesus actually meant when he said remain in me — why the fruit that grows from genuine abiding was never meant to just feed you, and what it looks like to stay when everything in you wants to fix the flatness or conclude that God is gone.Abiding is not a feeling you achieve. It's a posture you return to.In This Episode•Why doing all the right spiritual things can still leave you feeling completely disconnected•What John 15 actually says about dependence, pruning, joy, and friendship with God•Why reading God's word alone doesn't produce transformation — and what has to be added•How the fruit of abiding flows outward and feeds others not just yourself•Why hormonal shifts can affect your spiritual life in ways nobody warned you aboutKey Takeaways•Chase the feeling and you end up performing. Stay in the posture and the fruit takes care of itself•The Word has to abide in you — not just pass through you•Grace positions you in the vine. Faith keeps you there. The fruit grows as the overflow of both•The flatness in your quiet time might be the Father pruning — not evidence that something is wrong•The fruit you bear isn't yours. It's Christ's life flowing through a branch that stayed connectedSeries NoteEpisode two of the Simply Remain series. Start with episode 156 or jump in here — either works.ResourcesSong: Abide by Dwell MusicThe True Vine by Andrew MurrayKeywords•How to abide in God•Spiritual disciplines and faith•Feeling disconnected from God•John 15 abiding in Christ•Perimenopause and spiritual life•Andrew Murray abiding in ChristIf you want to take this work and apply it, visit myhappyvault.com. That's where I share free resources and ways to stay connected.Discover ways to work with me at www.thehappiestlives.com or www.myhappyvault.comQuestions? Email Jill directly at Jill@thehappiestlives.com

Hey friend,  You know what you're supposed to do for your health, so why does it still fall apart every time life gets hard? If "I want more energy" keeps you consistent for two weeks and then disappears, could your why just be too thin? Have you ever started a healthy habit, stayed consistent for a bit, and then found yourself right back at square one, and blamed your willpower? I'm Ashley — a mom living with chronic illness in a neurodivergent family. If you're dealing with constant fatigue, brain fog, inflammation, and broken sleep while trying to keep up with your kids, you're not alone. Chronic Illness Moms is a podcast for moms with chronic illness or chronic symptoms who want stress relief, better sleep, and simple, realistic habits that actually work inside a full, demanding life. If you've ever known exactly what healthy habits you need and still not been able to stay consistent, this episode is for you. I share my deeply personal why for staying committed to my health even when my body and schedule are working against me. I walk through a simple dig-deeper method to find the emotional anchor that holds when motivation runs dry, and explain why surface-level motivation burns out so fast for burned-out moms managing chronic illness while raising neurodivergent kids.   Part 3: Resources and Links Mentioned 1:1 chronic health coaching: https://ashleybraden.com/coaching Join the free Chronic Health Moms Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/chronichealthmoms Hearthwell Naturals magnesium cream (mentioned for bedtime wind-down): https://payhip.com/hearthwellnaturals   Related Episodes: 229. Why Chasing Health Trends Is Keeping Exhausted Chronic Illness Moms Stuck — And the Simple Framework That Actually Works 228. Stop Trying to Do It All: Why One Habit Actually Heals More Than Five for Chronic Illness Moms     Connect with Me: Contact → hello@ashleybraden.com Facebook Page → https://www.facebook.com/chronicillnessmoms Facebook Group → https://www.facebook.com/groups/chronichealthmoms Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/chronicillnessmoms YouTube → https://bit.ly/chronicillnessyoutube   Next Steps: Do the dig-deeper exercise: start with your current why and keep asking "why does that matter" until you find the one you can feel. Join a free community of chronic illness moms who get it, no explanations required: facebook.com/groups/chronichealthmoms Ready to start building toward who you actually want to be? Book a Feel Better Coaching call at ashleybraden.com/coaching

Send us Fan MailThe moment someone comes at you with blame, jealousy, or anger, your body wants to brace and your mind wants to build a case. We go straight into what happens when you do the opposite: stay open, drop the defense, and let compassion do the work. Laurie T. joins me to share what unfolded in her long-term marriage when her husband “lit out” at her and she simply held space, listened, and refused to fight for her innocence.From there, we tackle one of the stickiest traps on a spiritual path: trying to use your awakening to get specific people to wake up. We talk about projection, approval-seeking, and why measuring progress by someone else's behavior keeps you out of peace. I unpack empathy versus compassion, why worry is just fear in disguise, and how forgiveness in A Course in Miracles points to one consistent practice: give everyone their innocence back, including yourself.We also get into spiritual bypassing, group identity, and why “encouraging people to do better” can hide a judgment that blocks real connection. If you're navigating relationship conflict, family estrangement, addiction in the family, or you just want a grounded way to live ACIM teachings, this conversation offers a clear next step you can apply today. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs relief, and leave a review with the biggest shift you heard.Support the show

Tired of ADHD strategies that don't work? Stop Trying to “Fix” Your ADHD. You're Not Broken: https://programs.tracyotsuka.com/sign-up_____Laura Pasley is a child and youth worker in Ontario, Canada, who has spent more than a decade in intensive mental health and dual-diagnosis treatment programs for children and adolescents. She is the person who runs toward the crisis when everyone else is running away from it.After postpartum anxiety, postpartum OCD, complex trauma, and her sixth concussion, Laura started questioning whether ADHD had been part of her story all along. At 32, she finally received the diagnosis that helped her see herself differently. Not as someone who had fooled everyone. Not as someone who was not smart. As someone whose brain had been working hard to keep her alive.In this episode, Tracy and Laura talk about ADHD, trauma, fawning, concussions, crisis work, motherhood, shame, and what changes when a woman finally stops explaining every struggle through what happened to her. Laura also shares why she is now returning to school, writing a memoir, and learning to embrace being a daydreamer.If you have ever wondered whether it is ADHD, trauma, anxiety, or all of the above, this conversation offers a gentler question: what if understanding your brain is not about proving what is wrong with you, but finally seeing what has always been true?ResourcesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/arttaropyThreads: https://www.threads.com/@arttaropySend a Message: Your Name | Email | Message Explore more from me:

Ever feel like you should be able to stay focused for all 18 holes?Yeah… good luck with that.In this episode, I'm giving you permission to stop trying to focus for four straight hours like some kind of highly caffeinated golf robot. Your brain is supposed to wander. It's human. It's normal. It may even start thinking about dinner, the beverage cart, or why Betty won't stop talking right before you hit.The real skill isn't perfect focus. It's learning how to refocus.You'll learn why losing focus doesn't mean something has gone wrong, how to bring your brain back to the shot in front of you, and why your pre-shot routine can become your best little reset button. We'll also talk about what happens after a bad shot, when your focus gets stuck on the mistake and suddenly one swing turns into four holes of mental drama.Golf is not a game of perfect focus. It's a game of repeated refocusing.So if your brain wanders off like a puppy rolling in a dead frog, don't panic. Just bring it back to the fairway.Want help managing your golf brain on and off the course? Learn more here: the Master Your Golf Brain System powered by My Mental Caddy™️ appReceive free weekly mental golf tips HEREHow many shots is your mental golf costing you? Take the quiz here: quiz.mymentalcaddy.comContinue your mental journey at Your Mental Caddy HEREMastering Your Golf Brain - A Guide to Self-CoachingMastering Your Golf Brain - The WorkbookMental Golf Journal - A Range for Your BrainAre all available at KathyHartWood.com/bookEmail Kathy at Kathy@KathyHartWood.comWebsite: KathyHartWood.com

In this episode of The Mental Training Lab, I sit down with sport psychologist and three-time national champion Dr. Kate Bennett, founder of Full Send Consulting, to explore one of the most powerful and often misunderstood drivers of performance: genuine human connection.Kate's work sits at the intersection of athlete well-being, mental performance, and transformational coaching. Heavily influenced by Jerry Lynch's Way of Champions and Brené Brown's research on shame, scarcity, and vulnerability, Kate helps athletes, teams, and coaches build cultures where people feel seen, valued, and loved for who they are. We talk about why connection and mattering are more than “soft extras.” They are core performance drivers. We explore how listening without immediately fixing can create real transformation, why psychological safety makes courageous risk-taking possible, and how love in high-performance environments often looks like accountability, honest conversations, and a willingness to go into hard places together.If you're a coach, practitioner, athlete, or leader trying to build a culture where people can perform at a high level without burning out, this episode offers practical “marching orders”: listen more deeply, model vulnerability, create safety, recognize people for how they show up, and build the kind of belonging that helps excellence emerge.Learn about Kate's work at fullsendconsulting.co.- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Learn more about The Mental Training LabConnect with Pete on Instagram | LinkedIn | WebsiteSubscribe to the podcast on Apple | SpotifyThis show is produced and edited by the team at Palm Tree Pod Co.  

If you've ever believed grief and joy can't coexist, episode 444 of Grief and Happiness will change your mind. Cancer survivor Harriet Cabelly shares the mindset that carried her through diagnosis: it's not what happens to you, but what you do with it. Sitting with pain, not rushing past it, is the real path to a life worth living.In This Episode, You Will Learn:(00:03) Introducing Harriet Cabelly and her work in grief, loss, and positive psychology(02:34) Viktor Frankl, logotherapy, and the life-changing lessons of Man's Search for Meaning(04:27) Harriet's cancer diagnosis and choosing not to live as a victim of circumstance(10:58) Post-traumatic growth: how difficulty can become the seed of real change(11:55) "Leaving an imprint in the sand" — redefining legacy and paying it forward(12:44) Building community through small, unplanned acts of connection(18:08) Turning to creativity — handwritten cards and nature photography — as an outlet for grief(24:33) Why Harriet chose a creative arts therapist over a traditional support group(26:40) Confronting society's discomfort with grief and its obsession with quick fixesHarriet Cabelly is a licensed clinical social worker in New York focused on grief, loss, and life transitions. A cancer survivor, she blends positive psychology with Viktor Frankl's logotherapy, studied through his Vienna institute, and founded Rebuild Life Now. She has authored several books, including Light Through Darkness and Your To Die For Life, and works as a speaker and facilitator helping clients hold grief and joy together.In this episode, Harriet reframed grief around one idea: it's not what happens to us, but what we do with it, that shapes our lives. Rather than adopting a victim mentality after her diagnosis, she used it to fuel a mission of paying forward the gift of her life. She and Emily discussed how creative outlets like handwritten cards and nature photography can substitute for talk therapy, and why growth only emerges once pain is fully felt. Harriet also challenged society's discomfort with grief, noting people reach for quick fixes instead of sitting with pain. The conversation closed on her image of "leaving an imprint in the sand," capturing that healing happens through small acts of care.Connect with Harriet Cabelly:WebsiteLinkedInInstagramYouTubeLet's Connect: WebsiteLinkedInFacebookInstagramTwitterPinterestThe Grief and Happiness AllianceBook: Emily Thiroux Threatt - Loving and Living Your Way Through Grief Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why do some women keep growing while others stay stuck? If you've been trying harder, setting goals, reading personal development books, and still feel like you're not moving forward, this episode is for you. Discover the five habits that help women build confidence, overcome self-doubt, create lasting success, and finally move forward with clarity instead of frustration.In this episode of Holistic Mama Speaks, Carrie Marie shares five powerful mindset shifts that can transform the way you approach personal growth, confidence, success, relationships, wellness, and purpose. You'll also learn why community, identity, and knowing what's truly holding you back often matter far more than motivation alone.If you've been wondering why you keep starting over or feel stuck despite your best efforts, this conversation may be exactly what you need.✨ WOMEN'S COMMUNITY WAITLISThttps://forms.gle/b22V1Esm1evBpzmy9✨ FREE STUCK POINT QUIZFeeling stuck, overwhelmed, stressed, or unsure why you keep falling into the same patterns? Take the free Stuck Point Quiz to quickly identify the area that may be holding you back and discover what to do next.

Tired of ADHD strategies that don't work? Stop Trying to “Fix” Your ADHD. You're Not Broken: https://programs.tracyotsuka.com/sign-up_____Your kid got labeled the “problem.” The defiant one, the behavior kid, the one who couldn't sit still or keep up. What if the room was the thing that didn't fit?Beven Byrnes is a neurodivergent educator, nonprofit leader, and a mom of four. She's the Executive Director of Bridges Middle School in Portland, the only middle school in Oregon built specifically for students with ADHD, autism, dyslexia, and anxiety.Beven spent 25 years and raised over $15 million building environments where kids actually fit. But she didn't have her own ADHD diagnosis until this past year, at 50. Cancer treatment forced her into menopause at 45, her estrogen dropped, and the masking she'd done her whole life without knowing it stopped working. The square-peg feeling she'd carried since childhood finally made sense. Now she runs a school on one idea: behavior is communication, and the job isn't to fix the kid, it's to fix the environment around them.In this episode, Tracy and Beven get into why behavior is almost always communication, what happens to a child's confidence after years of being misread, and what it looks like to build a school around how kids actually learn instead of forcing them to fit.If your child, or you, ever got treated like the problem to be solved, this one will show you what was actually broken. And it was never the brain.Resources:Website: https://www.bridgesms.org/staff-spotlight-beven-byrnes-executive-directorInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrs_byrnesLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/beven-byrnesSend a Message: Your Name | Email | Message Explore more from me:

We're kicking off a brand new weekly theme that I'm honestly really excited about.All week long we're going to be talking about this idea:What if you treated your life like a video game?Now stay with me here.Because if you really think about it… life actually works a lot like one.You start somewhere you didn't choose. You're given certain strengths and weaknesses. You gain experience through challenges. You level up through effort. You face boss battles along the way.And if you play the game long enough, you slowly start building a stronger, wiser, more capable version of yourself.The problem is… most people are trying to play the game completely wrong.They want the gear before the quest. They want the results before the reps. They want the level-50 character… without ever playing level 1.And that's what I want to talk about today.Because one of the most powerful mindset shifts you can make for your health, your fitness, and honestly your entire life is this:Stop trying to start at Level 50.Start at Level 1.Resources: Brain.fm App(First month Free, then 20% off subscription)Discount Code: coachdamiensdLinks:IG:@coachdamien_sd@damienrayevans@livinthedream_podcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCS6VuPgtVsdBpDj5oN3YQTgFB:https://www.facebook.com/coachdamienSD/

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Hi guys, welcome to Episode 670!This week I'm sharing something that's been really eye-opening for me. I had two pretty big things happen back-to-back, and in both situations I was stressing myself out trying to force them to happen. Once I finally let go, everything opened up with so much more ease than I expected.I talk about the funny little lesson I keep learning with my dogs Sonny and Charlie every morning, and how it's actually a perfect mirror for the rest of my life. I also share the full story of trying (and failing) to force my passport situation for a last-minute trip to Italy with Eric… and what finally happened the moment I stopped gripping so tightly.If you've ever felt like you were getting in your own way, or if you've been carrying anxiety about something you really want, this episode might give you a little permission to soften.Letting go doesn't mean you stop caring. It just means you stop making it so hard on yourself. I hope this conversation gives you something to think about today.

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From job interviews to dating apps to social media, we're surrounded by opportunities to prove ourselves. It's easy to believe our value depends on our accomplishments, our strengths, or what others think of us. But in 2 Corinthians 11, Paul hands us a completely different kind of resume. This Sunday, we explore how the cross reshapes our understanding of identity, weakness, and success—and why following Jesus changes what we value most.

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We are really excited to have a new sponsor: Verity Wealth Partners. Please check them out at http://verity.nm.com/lifeintransition   The Life in Transition Podcast, hosted by Art Blanchford focuses on making the most of the changes we're given every week. Art has been through hundreds of transitions in his life. Many have been difficult, but all have led to a depth and richness he could never have imagined. On the podcast Art explores how to create more love and joy in life, no matter what transitions we go through. Art is married to his lifelong partner, a proud father of three and a long-time adventurer and global business executive. He is the founder and leader of the Midlife Transition Mastery Community. Learn more about the MLTM Community here: www.lifeintransition.online.   Resources: Life in Transition: https://lifeintransitionpodcast.com/ Join Our Community: https://www.lifeintransition.online/ My new book PURPOSEFUL LIVING is out now. Order it now: https://www.amazon.com/PURPOSEFUL-LIVING-Wisdom-Coming-Complex/dp/1963913922 Our Sponsor: Verity Partners. Please check them out at http://verity.nm.com/lifeintransition   The views and opinions expressed on the Life In Transition podcast are solely those of the author and guests and should not be attributed to any other individual or entity. This podcast is an independent production of Life In Transition Podcast, and the podcast production is an original work of the author. All rights of ownership and reproduction are retained. Copyright 2026.   #lifeintransition #midlife #midlifegrowth

In this episode of Masks Off: Inner Freedom for People Pleasers and Perfectionists, Kim Gross closes out the June Inner Controller series with a powerful conversation about overthinking, control, and why we cannot think our way into freedom.The inner controller believes that if we can figure everything out, predict every outcome, and prepare for every possibility, then we will finally feel safe. But overthinking often keeps us trapped in mental loops, disconnected from our bodies, our intuition, and the present moment.Kim explores how overthinking is often an attempt to create certainty — and why certainty is not the same as safety. She shares how the inner controller uses thoughts like “What if something goes wrong?” “What did they mean by that?” “What if I make the wrong choice?” and “What if I can't handle it?” to keep us looping in fear.This episode will help you understand the difference between solving a real problem and trying to escape an uncomfortable feeling. You'll learn a simple practice to interrupt the spiral and begin building safety from within.Because freedom does not come from controlling every outcome.Freedom comes from knowing:“I may not know exactly what will happen, but I can trust myself to meet what comes.”In this episode, you'll learn:Why overthinking is often a form of controlHow the inner controller uses mental looping to avoid uncertaintyThe difference between real problem-solving and fear-based spiralingWhy certainty is not the same as safetyHow to begin building inner safety instead of chasing controlA simple practice to come back to yourself when your mind is spiraling

Tired of ADHD strategies that don't work? Start with my free training: Stop Trying to “Fix” Your ADHD. You're Not Broken: https://programs.tracyotsuka.com/signup_____You have heard of art therapy and talk therapy. Charlotte Hastings does therapy in the kitchen, and it opens people up in a way the usual chair never quite does.Charlotte Hastings is a psychodynamic therapist, founder of Kitchen Therapy, and author of Kitchen Therapy: How to Become a Conscious Cook. Trained first as an anthropologist, she taught drama to neurodivergent teenagers before building an entire therapeutic approach around the kitchen.Charlotte recognized her own ADHD in her forties, after years of self-medicating and a chaotic childhood with an undiagnosed, alcoholic father. School had convinced her she was not smart. Anthropology, Jung, and eventually a wooden spoon proved otherwise. Now she uses cooking the way other therapists use art or drama: a side-by-side, low-pressure space where the real stuff surfaces.In this episode, Tracy and Charlotte talk about why cooking can work like art or drama therapy, why food and love are so entwined, how recipes can both support and shut down ADHD brains, and why the way you hold a wooden spoon might reveal the way you hold life. If cooking has ever felt loaded, boring, chaotic, or impossible, this conversation offers a gentler reframe: the meal is not just the result. The journey is the meal.ResourcesWebsite: https://therapykitchen.co.ukInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapy.kitchenSend a Message: Your Name | Email | MessageADHD isn't a productivity problem. It's an identity problem.That's why most strategies don't stick. They were not designed for how your brain actually works. If you're ready to stop fighting your brain and start building a life that fits, start with the free training here: https://programs.tracyotsuka.com/signupConnect with me:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tracyotsukaFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/heytracyotsukaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracyotsuka/Are You Ready to Discover Your Brilliance? Order Now: https://tracyotsuka.com/adhd-bookVisit our website: https://tracyotsuka.com

Boris Becker burned out at 25. Former British No1 Jo Konta carried her family's sacrifice onto court every match and Irish tennise pr Conor Niland described a tennis player's self-worth as entirely tied to winning and losing — nothing else. Three players, the same problem: identity wrapped around results, the sport becoming something to survive.This week, in the run-up to Wimbledon, Jake and Damian go back into the archive to hear from all three — then hand over to leading performance coach, Ben Crowe, who has spent 30 years helping the world's best athletes solve exactly that problem.Ben has worked with athletes Ash Barty and Steph Gilmore coached NBA teams and the Australian Cricket Team, and comes personally recommended by Andre Agassi. You'll hear the full story of Ash Barty's French Open semifinal — 5-0 up and tightening, 3-0 down and laughing — and what shifted in her mind to turn it around. Plus Ben's central idea: the opposite of play is not work. It's fear. And most people, most of the time, are in the fear state without knowing it.Where the Light Gets In by Ben Crowe is available now.Revolut Business

Stuck in an ADHD pattern that keeps repeating? SHIFT is a collection of 120 guided audio experiences designed to help you see yourself and your ADHD brain differently. Explore SHIFT here: https://tracyotsuka.com/shift_Have you ever had a really productive day and still felt like you didn't do enough?You answered the emails. You made the calls. You went to the meeting. You finished the project. Maybe you even did the thing you had been putting off for weeks. And still, by the end of the day, your brain was already moving on to everything you missed, forgot, or still needed to do.Today, I want to talk about why success does not always feel like success for ADHD women.Our brains are often scanning for what is unfinished, unresolved, or potentially threatening. So even when we complete ten things, we can still end the day focused on the one thing we did not get done.But today, I want you to practice noticing what is going right. Noticing your progress. Noticing the effort it took. Noticing the evidence that you are capable, that you do follow through, and that you can do difficult things.Because success does not create confidence when we ignore it. Success creates confidence when we notice it.If you have ever struggled to feel proud of yourself, even after doing so much, this episode will help you pause long enough to collect the evidence your brain keeps overlooking.Timestamps:[00:00 – 03:58] Why Success Does Not Always Feel Like Success[03:58 – 06:22] How Negativity Bias Keeps Us Focused on What Is Unfinished[06:22 – 07:15] Breathwork Practice[07:15 – 08:28] Gratitude Check-In and Noticing What You Have Done[08:28 – 10:10] Reassessing Your SUD Score and Collecting the Evidence[10:10 – 11:00] Closing Reflection and SHIFT InvitationADHD isn't a productivity problem. It's an identity problem.That's why most strategies don't stick. They were not designed for how your brain actually works. If you're ready to stop fighting your brain and start seeing yourself differently, explore SHIFT here: https://tracyotsuka.com/shiftExplore more from me:

If you've tried therapy, medication, journaling, and every mindset tool available — and you're still anxious — this episode is for you. Dr. Russell Kennedy, physician, neuroscientist, and certified trauma therapist, makes the case that anxiety doesn't start in your mind. It starts in your body, as a physiological alarm that's likely been there since childhood. And until you address the alarm directly, you're only ever managing symptoms. Dr. Kennedy explores why perimenopause turns up the volume on anxiety that felt manageable before, why overachievement is just another way of outrunning the alarm, and what you can actually do — today — to start healing from the body up. Fair warning: Dr. Kennedy takes Dr. Stephanie through a live exercise to find her body alarm. There were tears in the production room.

Tired of ADHD strategies that don't work? Here's what actually does. FREE training here: https://programs.tracyotsuka.com/signup_____You bought the planner. You loved the planner. You were absolutely, positively sure this planner was going to change your life.And then, by March, you forgot it existed.When we moved out of our family home of 25 years, I found boxes. Boxes and boxes of barely used planners I'd been saving for who knows why. For a long time I thought that meant something about me. That I wasn't disciplined enough. That everyone else got some secret instruction manual for adulthood that I'd missed.But the women I work with aren't lazy or unfocused. They're brilliant, driven, running companies and raising families. And they can't stick with a planner either. That's when it clicked. This was never a planning problem. It's a time problem, a decision problem, and an emotional regulation problem. Planning is just where those show up.In this episode I talk about why ADHD brains experience time differently, why importance alone won't get you started, why most planners quietly set you up for an impossible day, and why one meaningful goal beats ten random ones.If you've got a planner graveyard sitting in a drawer somewhere, this one is for you. The question was never what's wrong with you. The question is what kind of system actually works for your brain.Resources:Get the planner: https://tracyotsuka.com/planner Use code PODCASTPLANNER for $10 offWebsite: tracyotsuka.comInstagram: https://instagram.com/tracyotsuka YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@tracyotsuka4796FREE 3-days to Fall in Love With Your ADHD Brain training on Jan 6th:  https://tracyotsuka.com/ilovemybrain Tired of ADHD strategies that don't work? Here's what actually does. FREE training here: https://programs.tracyotsuka.com Send a Message: Your Name | Email | MessageIf this podcast helps you understand your ADHD brain, start with my free training: Stop Trying to “Fix” Your ADHD. You're Not Broken.ADHD isn't a productivity problem. It's an identity problem.That's why most strategies don't stick. They were not designed for how your brain actually works. If you're ready to stop fighting your brain and start building a life that fits, start with the free training here: https://programs.tracyotsuka.com/signupConnect with me:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tracyotsukaFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/heytracyotsukaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracyotsuka/Are You Ready to Discover Your Brilliance? Order Now: https://tracyotsuka.com/adhd-bookVisit our website: https://tracyotsuka.com

What if stress isn't actually the problem? What if the real issue is that your body never got to finish the stress response? In this episode, we revisit one of the most powerful conversations we've ever had on the podcast: why healing isn't about becoming calm all the time and how sacred rage, movement, and emotional expression may actually be the missing piece to your healing. Using the archetype of the Hindu goddess Kali, we explore the difference between suppression and regulation, why so many yogis get stuck in spiritual bypassing, and how somatic practices help the body finally complete the stress cycle. We explore:

Parents are being sold creativity like it's a subscription box. Workshops, kits, frameworks, scripts: the message being that your kid needs more imagination and it's your job to install it. Austin Kleon, author of Steal Like an Artist and Don't Call It Art, has a different take: your kid already has it. The imagination, the playfulness, the willingness to not-know — it's all there. The question isn't how to give it to them. It's how to stop blocking it. And maybe, while we're here, how to get a little of it back ourselves. Dr. Becky and Austin talk about what creativity actually needs to thrive (not a workshop), what so-called "problem kids" and great artists have in common, why your kid's obsession with garage doors is not a problem, the link between play and depression, the game that got Austin through the pandemic, and the teeth-brushing song Becky invented entirely by accident. Read Dr. Becky's ideas for how to be a playful parent when you don't feel like playing. * From the newborn days to the teen years, Good Inside now supports parents through every stage of childhood — with practical guidance for the moments that matter most.  Thank you to our partners for making this episode possible: Play-Doh: Shop Play-Doh at Walmart for a summer of imaginative play Skylight: Get $30 off a 15-inch Skylight Calendar at myskylight.com/becky LMNT: Get a free gift with your purchase at drinkLMNT.com/goodinside Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Stuck in an ADHD pattern that keeps repeating? SHIFT is a collection of 120 guided audio experiences designed to help you see yourself and your ADHD brain differently. Explore SHIFT here: https://tracyotsuka.com/shift_Have you ever noticed that some tasks feel impossible to start, even when they are not actually difficult?Maybe it is an email, a budget, a project, a decision, or one small thing you keep avoiding. From the outside, it looks like procrastination. But what if the task is not the real problem?In this first Monday Shift episode, I want to introduce you to a new way of looking at avoidance. Instead of asking, “What's wrong with me?” I want you to ask a better question: “What does my brain think this means?”Because sometimes your ADHD brain is not resisting the task itself. It is reacting to the meaning attached to it.If you have ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or unable to begin something that should be simple, this episode will help you look underneath the avoidance with curiosity instead of judgment.Resources:SHIFT: https://tracyotsuka.com/shiftFree resources: https://tracyotsuka.com/learnGet the book, ADHD for Smart Ass Women: https://tracyotsuka.com/adhd-bookJoin Your ADHD Brain is A-OK Academy: https://tracyotsuka.com/aokVisit my website: https://tracyotsuka.com/Explore more from me: