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Marriage is a beautiful gift. And also, one of the hardest relationships we face in life. It's been said that “Marriage is one of God's primary workshops for change.” So, how can we grow, and change, to be more like Christ, along with our spouse?   Rich and Wendy Crawford, are marriage counselors with Focus on the Family. They are leading the Journey to Us marriage conference coming up in Oneonta, NY on September 27th and 28th. They talk with Terese Main about how two imperfect people, who come together in marriage, can grow to be more like Christ.   Register for Journey to Us here.   About your host: Terese Main is a wife, mom and flawed human. Above all, she loves Jesus. She co-hosts Main & Gabel, which can be heard weekday afternoons on radio stations across New York and Pennsylvania, and at www.familylife.org. She is a native of the Finger Lakes Region and a graduate of Ithaca College. It's her heart's desire to encourage others to live their lives fully in God's blessing.

The Bible is full of gardens. From Eden to Eternity, they are a place to worship, nourish ourselves, and to work. There is so much we can learn from our earthly gardens too. Maybe you've spent months toiling and are now reaping the harvest. It's evidence of God's faithfulness. Andrea Burke is a Rochester, NY based gardener who is also a lover of Jesus. Her book, “A Bit of Earth” is a divine blend of poetry, devotional and gardening tips. Andrea Burke on Instagram Link to purchase "A Bit of Earth" About your host: Terese Main is a wife, mom and flawed human. Above all, she loves Jesus. She co-hosts Main & Gabel, which can be heard weekday afternoons on radio stations across New York and Pennsylvania, and at www.familylife.org. She is a native of the Finger Lakes Region and a graduate of Ithaca College. It's her heart's desire to encourage others to live their lives fully in God's blessing.

Her voice is powerful—and not just with her singing—but with what she has to say. CeCe Winans has become a beacon in the world of Christian music—from a career with her family in the 90s to worship anthems you hear on the radio today. I was hardly a Christian when you were first making music…and so I haven't become a fan until very recently… CeCe Winans is headlining the first night of Kingdom Bound 2024 July 29th at Six Flags Darien Lake. Find out more about the festival at kingdombound.org. Terese Main is a wife, mom and flawed human. Above all, she loves Jesus. She co-hosts Main & Gabel, which can be heard weekday afternoons on radio stations across New York and Pennsylvania, and at www.familylife.org. She is a native of the Finger Lakes Region and a graduate of Ithaca College. It's her heart's desire to encourage others to live their lives fully in God's blessing.

What does it mean to be healthy? If you watch all the medicine commercials on TV, you might think you have to pop ten pills a day to reach optimum health. Or you might subscribe to a more holistic approach, that considers the mental and spiritual health, along with the physical. Dr. Pam Grover has a medical practice in Penfield, NY. She felt out of place in traditional medicine, where quick fixes were often seen as the the only way to health. She'll be speaking as part of the upcoming Step Up Your Health seminar at Family Life. Find out more about Dr. Pam Grover's practice here. Find out more about the Step Up Your Health event here. Terese Main is a wife, mom and flawed human. Above all, she loves Jesus. She co-hosts Main & Gabel, which can be heard weekday afternoons on radio stations across New York and Pennsylvania, and at www.familylife.org. She is a native of the Finger Lakes Region and a graduate of Ithaca College. It's her heart's desire to encourage others to live their lives fully in God's blessing.

Do you sometimes feel like you and your spouse aren't on the same page? You need to talk it out. Jeniffer Dake is a Christian speaker and author who has taken almost three decades of experience and turned it into conversation starters for couples. It's called "Stuff We Fight About," and includes questions like this: Day to Day: What are your usual routines when waking up and getting ready for bed? Pet Peeves: How do you squeeze the toothpaste onto your toothbrush? Big Ones: How was money talked about in your home as a kid? Holidays: What is a family tradition that makes you feel the Christmas spirit? The Future: What do you want to accomplish in the next five years, both personally and as a couple? Find out more about Jeniffer here.   Terese Main is a wife, mom and flawed human. Above all, she loves Jesus. She co-hosts Family Life Mornings, which can be heard on radio stations across New York and Pennsylvania, and at www.familylife.org. She is a native of the Finger Lakes Region and a graduate of Ithaca College. It's her heart's desire to encourage others to live their lives fully in God's blessing.

Imagine finding out your mother didn't want you to live. But here you are—alive. That's the reality for Melissa Odham. She is an abortion survivor. And she's not alone. Now, she heads up the Abortion Survivor's Network. After she found out what she had survived, from her adoptive parents, she sought out her biological mom. She also began a crusade, to unite people like her, and to prevent abortions. Find out more about Melissa, her platform and her books here. Melissa is speaking at the Celebrate Life! Dinner on October 2nd in Binghamton, NY. Find out more here. Terese Main is a wife, mom and flawed human. Above all, she loves Jesus. She co-hosts Family Life Mornings, which can be heard on radio stations across New York and Pennsylvania, and at www.familylife.org. She is a native of the Finger Lakes Region and a graduate of Ithaca College. It's her heart's desire to encourage others to live their lives fully in God's blessing.

Would you let your Kindergartener go swimming in a tank full of sharks? You are anytime you let them go on the internet unsupervised. It's a playground for predators. In fact, 88% of trafficking is now taking place online. Terese Talks with Lisa Hanson, CEO and Founder of Power over Predators. Her work today is a result of her experience being trafficked. You can hear more about how to keep your kids safe online when you hear Lisa speak at the Dark Side of Social Media seminar coming to Family Life October 21st. She'll be joined by Joseph Sweeney from the Asservo Project. This event is great for parents and teens, and registration is open now here. Terese Main is a wife, mom and flawed human. Above all, she loves Jesus. She co-hosts Family Life Mornings, which can be heard on radio stations across New York and Pennsylvania, and at www.familylife.org. She is a native of the Finger Lakes Region and a graduate of Ithaca College. It's her heart's desire to encourage others to live their lives fully in God's blessing.

Do you ever feel like life is one loss after another? All the little things start piling up. And as each one of these beautiful things comes to a natural end. Each leaves a hole in your heart. And then the tears began. In this episode, Terese explores what the Bible says about your tears, what you should do about them and what's God's purpose for them. Terese Main is a wife, mom and flawed human. Above all, she loves Jesus. She co-hosts Family Life Mornings, which can be heard on radio stations across New York and Pennsylvania, and at www.familylife.org. She is a native of the Finger Lakes Region and a graduate of Ithaca College. It's her heart's desire to encourage others to live their lives fully in God's blessing.

It's a role often unseen—but deeply influential. The role of a mother. When you look at successful families, you'll often find a sweet, quiet spirit in the shadows. That is the case with Helen Smallbone. You probably know her daughter, Rebecca St. James, or her sons, Luke and Joel of For King & Country. They're just three of her seven kids. And then there's her husband, David—who is also prominent in the Christian music world. Cheering them all on is a woman filled with grace and determination. She is the focus of the upcoming movie, “Unsung Hero.” She's also the author of the book, “Behind the Lights,” which tells the incredible story of her family's move from Australia to the American music scene. Purchase the book here. Terese Main is a wife, mom and flawed human. Above all, she loves Jesus. She co-hosts Family Life Mornings, which can be heard on radio stations across New York and Pennsylvania, and at www.familylife.org. She is a native of the Finger Lakes Region and a graduate of Ithaca College. It's her heart's desire to encourage others to live their lives fully in God's blessing.

It's something we don't like to talk about. It's something we don't even like to think about. But the reality is 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 13 boys experience some sort of child sexual abuse. It's usually perpetrated by someone the child knows. Those are the stats from the CDC. Those numbers are likely under-reported, because often times abuse is kept secret. Faith Ingraham has lived with that secret most of her life. She grew up in the church, as a pastor's kid and was repeatedly abused by her father. Her mother became aware of the abuse. But it remained in the dark for the rest of the family, and for the church. Now, Faith and her husband, Dale teach churches how to respond biblically. Their “Breaking the Silence” seminar is coming up February 11th at Grace Community Church in Painted Post, NY. You can find out more here. Find out more about the Ingraham's Speaking Truth in Love ministry here. Terese Main is a wife, mom and flawed human. Above all, she loves Jesus. She co-hosts Family Life Mornings, which can be heard on radio stations across New York and Pennsylvania, and at www.familylife.org. She is a native of the Finger Lakes Region and a graduate of Ithaca College. It's her heart's desire to encourage others to live their lives fully in God's blessing.

The holidays are full of landmines for single people. It can really put a damper on the season. Sherry Anne has endured the questions for years and will be sharing during our upcoming Family Life Singles Conference, happening January 20th through 22nd. Find out more about the conference here. Learn more about Sherry Anne's ministry here. Terese Main is a wife, mom and flawed human. Above all, she loves Jesus. She co-hosts Family Life Mornings, which can be heard on radio stations across New York and Pennsylvania, and at www.familylife.org. She is a native of the Finger Lakes Region and a graduate of Ithaca College. It's her heart's desire to encourage others to live their lives fully in God's blessing.

God never promises an easy life. In fact, the Bible tells us we will have trouble. And so often, those trials lead us right into the arms of Jesus. For the Kelly family, their second born, Hunter represented so much promise. The son of Hall of Fame Buffalo Bills quarterback Jim Kelly, Hunter was born with the expectation of football games in the yard and hunting trips with his dad. But Hunter would never speak a word or throw a perfect spiral. His life, though short, was profound. Hunter's mother, Jill Kelly, and his sister, Erin Kelly Bean, recently joined us for the Family Life Christmas Ladies Luncheon. I hope you find our conversation overflowing with hope, in the midst of trials. Find out more about the Kelly Family at Hunter's Hope. And look for The Light Your Heart With Hope podcast on Apple Podcasts or whatever platform you listen on. Jill's book, Without A Word tells the story of Hunter's life and how God moved in their family. She has also written several books and devotionals on grief and hope. Erin is the author of Kelly Tough, a book about her relationship with her dad. Terese Main is a wife, mom and flawed human. Above all, she loves Jesus. She co-hosts Family Life Mornings, which can be heard on radio stations across New York and Pennsylvania, and at www.familylife.org. She is a native of the Finger Lakes Region and a graduate of Ithaca College. It's her heart's desire to encourage others to live their lives fully in God's blessing.

God knew what He was doing he created four seasons. There's spring where everything is new and blooming. Summer is warm and relaxing. Along comes fall, where you may experience loss. Finally, winter arrives. How does each season apply to our spiritual life? What should we be learning? What should we be doing? Find out … Continue reading 076 Terese Talk: Seasons →

It's the foundation of our faith. Our guide for living. But what do you really know about the Bible? Let’s dig into God’s Word, literally. From Bible history, to the treasures in the pages today, you’re bound to learn something you didn’t know about the Bible. Terese Main is a wife, mom and flawed human. … Continue reading 075 Terese Talk: Bible Facts →

Do you ever feeling like you're doing all the “mom things,” but your heart isn't really in it? Author Kristen Wetherell says the key to fulfillment is looking to Jesus, for our example and encouragement. Connect with her ministry and her book, Humble Moms here. Terese Main is a wife, mom and flawed human. Above … Continue reading 074 Terese Talk: Humble Moms →

Did you finish your Spring Cleaning? Did you even start? If you're living in a mess, you might have just accepted it as the way it is. Have you ever wondered if God cares how clean your house is? If your clutter is keeping you from doing what God has for you to do, then … Continue reading 073 Terese Talk: Spring Cleaning →

It's hard to believe in this day in age, the stigma around mental health issues is still hanging around. We can be loved, redeemed, valuable Christians, and still face mental health issues. Especially for our children, it's important that we talk about these issues honestly. They are real. And they are something you can live … Continue reading 072 Terese Talk: When Anxiety Roars →

Cultural relevance has become a challenge for Christianity. So much in our world is moving and changing like we never imagined. In a world that keeps changing truth, how can we help our teens to focus on the truth of God? Sara Barratt is the author of “Stand Up, Stand Strong” and has advice for … Continue reading 071 Terese Talk: Stand Up, Stand Strong →

Are you overwhelmed by your stuff? Have you ever dreamed of getting rid of it all and starting over again? Merissa A. Alink’s family went minimalist extreme by moving out of their house and into an RV. What she learned is in her new book, Living Slower. Connect with her at Little House Living. Terese … Continue reading 070 Terese Talk: Living Slower →

As we look at Easter, it's easy to miss them. They weren't the ones who nailed Jesus to the cross. They didn't beat or mock Him. They didn't run and hide like many of his followers. They quietly watched. And that's what makes their role so significant. In this episode, we're looking at the women … Continue reading 069 Terese Talk: Women of Easter →

One day can change everything. No one knows that better than Kechi Okwuchi. She was just a teenager when a day of travel changed everything. Ultimately, her journey brought her closer to God. She's written a book about persevering in the midst of what would have caused so many others to turn from their faith. … Continue reading 068 Terese Talk: More Than Scars →

We serve one powerful Lord, share one beautiful faith, enjoy one grace-filled way to salvation. That one God and Father of all created you—one daughter of the King, chosen and unique. You are an original masterpiece, fearfully and wonderfully made for one purpose. You have one life to live for one glory—His! One is the theme of this year's LYFE Women's Conference, coming up May 20th and 21st at Clarks … Continue reading 067 Terese Talk: We Are One →

Proverbs 27:17 says: “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another”. The idea is that in order to make yourself better, we need to help the people around us. This weekend, there's a men's conference in Buffalo, NY that keeps that scripture at its core. Pastor Kevin Maloney is one of the keynote speakers. … Continue reading 065 Terese Talk: Iron Sharpens Iron →

It's in the hardest times of life that we learn so much about God. It's not easy. But it's always fruitful. Grammy-winner Mandisa has been open about sharing her battle with the darkness. As she was grieving the death of a friend, she found herself in a fierce battle with depression. In her new book, … Continue reading 064 Terese Talk: Out of the Dark →

Why is surrender so hard? Many of us were forced in surrender over the past two years. There wasn't much we could control. So, we laid it down. And picked it up again. Over and over. It's a common problem in the church. A problem Michelle Lazurek was called to explore. Her new book is … Continue reading 063 Terese Talk: I Surrender All (Sort Of) →

When we first start our motherhood journey, few of us have confidence. But everything we need to raise our children has been given to us by God. We just need to see Him and His will. Renee Swope has written a book called, “A Confident Mom.” She shares what she has learned over the course … Continue reading 062 Terese Talk: A Confident Mom →

Scripture. It's God's love letter to us. It's how He speaks to us. It's our guide for right living. It's so much more! And we're supposed to know it. Psalm 119:11 says, “I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.” When we know God's Word, and can recall … Continue reading 061 Terese Talk: Memorizing Scripture →

Love is in the air. You've probably seen in at every store you've been in over the past month. But God doesn't look at love like we do. While it can be sweet, there is no chocolate, or flowers. God's love is more about how we treat one another. Let's dig into how we all … Continue reading 060 Terese Talk: What Is Love? →

We're in a battle. Every single day. It's not like any war you've seen in the movies. Because we can't see the enemy. And the battle is for your soul. God has equipped us with everything we need to fight…and to win. Scripture tells us the Bible is living and active, sharper than any two-edged … Continue reading 059 Terese Talk: Fighting Words →

National Spouses Day is on January 26th. It's different than Valentine's Day because it focuses on gratitude more than gifts. If you have a hard time coming up with something to be thankful for, I'm here to help. In this episode, you’ll hear five things to love and appreciate about your spouse—even when you don't … Continue reading 058 Terese Talk: Spouse Day →

You know the story of Goldilocks–a little girl who struggles to find comforts that are “just right.” When we look at the Earth around us, we can’t help but think of God’s hand making it, because everything is “just right” for sustaining life. It’s a journey through Genesis–to find your purpose. Terese Main is a … Continue reading 057 Terese Talk: Just Right →

What does it take to make a good friend? We all have different standards and expectations. So, who, from the Bible, do you think would make a great friend? We asked that question on our Family Life Facebook page and the answers were amazing! It got me to thinking about what makes a great friend—and … Continue reading 056 Terese Talk: Bible Friends →

In the Beginning. When you think of Creation, who do you picture there? Probably God, the Father. And it's true. He is the Creator. But He wasn't the only one present. If we dig a little into scripture, we'll discover the entire Trinity was present, as it always been, and always will be. Terese Main … Continue reading 055 Terese Talk: Who Was At Creation →

Have you started thinking about your New Year's Resolution? We always start out with the goal of making ourselves better 365 days later. But what would make you better? How about growing closer to God? Greta Brokaw heads up Heart Medicine Ministries and has written several devotional books for women. In this episode, she helps … Continue reading 054 Terese Talk: New Year’s Devotional →

What are your family Christmas traditions? Do you hide a pickle ornament? Decorate a gingerbread house? Go to candlelight service on Christmas Eve? Christmas is steeped in tradition. Listen as Grammy and Dove Award Winners Amy Grant and Laura Story share about their family Christmas traditions. Terese Main is a wife, mom and social media … Continue reading 053 Terese Talk: Christmas Traditions →

This time of year is all about Jesus. And His birth. But He wasn’t the only one present for the entire account. Author Marina Hofman shares on the faithfulness of Mary, and how her example can help us live in God’s will. Find out more about her ministry here. Terese Main is a wife, mom … Continue reading 052 Terese Talk: Mary at Christmas →

This time of year is all about the miraculous birth of a baby. While Christmas is when we celebrate our Savior, Jesus wasn’t the only miracle birth during the time. Author Marina Hofman shares the life of Elizabeth and how her son, John the Baptist, paved the way for Christ. Find out more about her … Continue reading 051 Terese Talk: Elizabeth at Christmas →

Before the tree comes the turkey. Before the turkey, come a thankful heart. Thanksgiving isn't just a day, it's a way of living. Which is why you'll see the hashtag “Thanksliving” popping up everywhere. All month, we'll be looking at how to live with a grateful heart. We'll uncover what the Bible says about gratitude … Continue reading 046 Terese Talk: Thanksliving in All Circumstances →

We are fewer than two months until Christmas! And while it seems like a long ways away, it will also be here before you know it. Every year I say I'm going to be more mindful—that I'm going to enjoy the true reason for the season. And every year I find myself stressed out at … Continue reading 045 Terese Talk: Mindful Christmas →

When was the last time you worshiped? The obvious answer might be Sunday morning, right? When everyone was singing at church. But worship happens outside church. In fact, it can happen without music. And you can stand in church, singing, and not really be worshiping. In this episode, Terese digs into what the Bible says. … Continue reading 044 Terese Talk: Why Worship? →

Being a pastor can be a thankless and demanding job. It can also be a tremendous blessing. It’s no wonder we have a whole month dedicated to appreciating them. But what’s the right way to celebrate the one who leads your church? Terese has some great suggestions and some biblical reasons to life up your … Continue reading 043 Terese Talk: Pastor Appreciation →

Do you ever find yourself standing in front of the refrigerator, or with a cupboard door open, looking for something? You're hungry. Or at least you think so. Having struggled with food addiction most of my life, I feel you. Most addictions aren't about the substance. It's not about the drugs, or alcohol, or work, … Continue reading 042 Terese Talk: Are You Hungry? →

I love this time of year. And it's not because of the pumpkin spice and the falling leaves. I love the rhythm of Autumn. It's when our lives get back into routine. School is in session. Church activities kick back up. And with the holiday season just around the corner, it's the time of year … Continue reading 041 Terese Talk: Autumn Reset →

Are you ready? Are you ready for the return of Christ? What are you doing today to show others the love of Jesus? How is your faith impacting the world around you? These are a few ways you can prepare your faith to impact the world around you. With a focus on eternity, get ready … Continue reading 040 Terese Talk: Get Ready →

They say that when a child dies, there are two hearts that stop beating—the child's and the mother's. Nancy Guthrie knows the pain well, after losing two children. It caused her to draw even closer to God. And now she can share from a place of healing. Nancy is an author and Bible teacher who … Continue reading 039 Terese Talk: Grief →

When you hear the words, “Biblical Theology,” what comes to mind? Maybe stacks of dusty old books and scholars hunched over a table, toiling by candlelight? But what if Biblical Theology was a way to make scripture come alive—to help you understand it more completely—so you grow even closer in your relationship with Jesus? Nancy … Continue reading 038 Terese Talk: Biblical Theology →

I've really been struggling with something—and maybe you have too. I can't think about it for too long because it really consumes me. It's the situation in Afghanistan. Why am I here? And what can I do? When you figure those things out, you have found your purpose! Voice of the Martyrs has some great … Continue reading 036 Terese Talk: Living With Purpose →

How have you been feeling lately? Kind grey? Sorta moody? Maybe monochromatic? Carol McLeod has a book and a conference called Vibrant and she's going to help us live the full spectrum for God. Find out more about the event, coming to Life Church Buffalo September 17th and 18th here. Terese Main is a wife, … Continue reading 035 Terese Talk: Vibrant Living →

Have you ever found yourself thinking, “I don't even know what to do?” That's always a good time to stop and dig for the answer. In this episode, Terese shares three tips: be still, seek God's will and listen. Terese Main is a wife, mom and social media addict. Above all, she loves Jesus. She … Continue reading 034 Terese Talk: When You Don’t Know What To Do →

If you've ever stopped and really thought about your life, you've probably been in awe of where God has taken you from and where He is taking you to. Tasha Layton knows that well and you've probably heard her heart in the song, “Look What You've Done.” But beyond her writing and her talent, I'm … Continue reading 033 Terese Talk: What God Has Done →

Have you ever been lied to? Chances are you’re lied to on a daily basis by the Father of Lies. Satan is an enemy of God who wants you to weaken in your faith. Don’t let him. In this episode, you’ll learn some strategies to help you spot lies and replace them with the truth. … Continue reading 032 Terese Talk: Thinking Truth →