The Real Relationship Rapport

What is a Narcissist? Dungeon believed the guest fell under that definition... but Chan wasn't too sure. We got the answers and the stories... Lets see.This ep is available as audio and video will come soon.Thank you for supporting the pod.#RRRFollow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow ..Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! Be self aware as always and if the flag is red... do not proceed.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

This is how the men of past generations wanted the system to be. The issue is the system has changed, but on a society level, the mindset of women have not. Only when it's convenient. Personally I don't believe in a man paying for every single thing in a relationship just because he is a man. But most women do. I wouldn't look at being in a relationship with a man as a place for me to save money. Well, I do less for myself because I don't have to yes but financially should I lean on him 100% no. In this episode dungeon and I have a great discussion on why that should not be a thing. Welcome back to The Real Relationship Rapport.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

The why behind choosing people in your life keep you in check. Let us explain. #RRRThank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow .Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

Misunderstandings and disagreements take patience and grace. You won't learn everything about who you are with overnight.We discussed the wrong is how we disagree and the way to disagree correctly for solutions.This is season 4 of the #RRRThank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow ..Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

Had to squeeze the rest in right here. If you haven't played 1... play that.We talked about a lot and played messages.Thank you for another great season. Season 3 is a wrap...Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

We talked about a lot and played messages.Thank you for another great season.Season 3 is a wrap..Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow ..Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

Some old things.... must stay in the past. We discussed some things that wouldn't work with people for the better dating in 2025.https://www.chanbepoddin.com/#rrr #dating #habitsyouneedSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

This was a great show, 6 panel person hosted.Joose - The Chillin with Joose podcastKimiko - My cuzzo, and intelligent beingTaroy- Thoughts Of An Average Joe DungeonChanAsapzoeWe talked about so many mature things that need to happen. We had a great audience too, thank you for all the comments.chanbepoddin.com#rrr #badhabitsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

This was a great show, 6 panel person hosted.Joose - The Chillin with Joose podcastKimiko - My cuzzo, and intelligent beingTaroy- Thoughts Of An Average Joe DungeonChanAsapzoeWe talked about so many mature things that need to happen. We had a great audience too, thank you for all the comments.chanbepoddin.com#rrr #badhabitsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

A lot of people don't know the difference between what's healthy and what isn't. An unhealthy attachment style is a combination of extreme behaviors and feelings in a person that inhibit a balanced connection with another.-Anxious attachment-Dismissive-avoidant attachment-Emotional dependence-Constant reassuranceWe had a small discussion about the Tyson fight set up. A few live comments.Chanbepoddin.com#RRR#unhealthyattachmentsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

A lot of people have hope for the wrong situations. Save yourself the heartache and time... If what they say... you haven't seen... Leave it alone.Tap in Press Play#RRR #honeymoonstageSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

25+ years old... That's the limit. Dungeon said its decade starters 30, 40, 50, 60 etc... You don't get to hog people and their time because it's your birthday. We got Birthday No's and Birthday Yes's... We should all know better. But here we are. Press play >>>>>>>>>#birthdayhttps://www.chanbepoddin.com/Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

These are our confessions and some of yours. When you get older, you know better.We all had a time in our lives where we did some stupid mess for love... The lessons.#rrrSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

We cannot convince someone that they are going in the wrong direction, if they don't think so. If a person cannot find the value in themselves, you cannot convince them that they have value. If the house has structure issues, you cannot convince someone who does not see what structure issues are that there is a problem. So this episode is about the fact that you cannot love someone on a level that they do not recognize in themselves. You cannot tell someone that they are worthy, if they do not see their worth. There are a lot of relationships that are struggling because people do not want to do their self work. Everyone on the outside cannot be your cheerleaders if you don't think there's something to cheer for. Welcome to The Real Relationship Rapport, let's talk.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

Wooooooo... A lot of people can relate to this. We all have dated, experienced a break up and hopefully spent some time alone with yourself. You been single for a year, now 4 years have passed... No real urge to date, pick someone to court or further things seriously with anyone. What is it? What is truly, keeping you happy single?Tonight Jay And I are talking about when good people give up.https://www.chanbepoddin.com/post/the-top-5-reasons-why-good-people-give-up-on-relationships#RRR #goodpeopleSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

Welcome back to Ep 13, of The RRR :We are discussing a great topic:Being with a man who possesses high emotional intelligence means encountering a partner who is empathetic, attentive, and understanding.This man requires courage and the willingness to be vulnerable, sharing your innermost thoughts and emotions authentically.In this episode we talk about what people do not want to discuss, because are they sure what they are asking for?https://www.chanbepoddin.com/post/understanding-emotional-intelligence-what-does-it-take-to-build-a-relationship-with-an-emotionally#RRRSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

When we project our dreams onto others, we often overlook the importance of authenticity in relationships. True fulfillment comes from connecting with others on a genuine level, rather than expecting them to fulfill our desires.Instead of relying on others to make your dreams a reality, channel that energy into nurturing your own aspirations.Letting go of the expectation that others will fulfill your dreams, you open up a world of possibilities for personal growth and fulfillment.Growth requires self work tooPeople should not control your personal happinessBy relying too heavily on others to fulfill your dreams, you diminish your self-worth and agency.Y'all will enjoy this episode, press play.Subscribe. #RRRSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

A lot of relationships back then were not the best but the respect never wavered. Today we are willing to go to therapy, unlearn and leave unhealthy set ups. What did you learn from what you saw growing up? vs what you do now?#evolve #bebetterSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

That's a personal problem stop making it about the other person.What are you doing individually without that person to improve. Another adult cannot be your life, what is it that interest you?A lot of being like substance so everyone outside of them turn into personal entertainment.Follow the show and click play #RRRSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

Just because a person put up with a lot from you for too long... doesn't mean they have to continue staying. People take good people for granted all the time and that entitlement sinks in..chanbepoddin.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

Which one are you?Do you balance out your relationships?A lot of people are in relationships to take and take from people.Jay & Chan discuss it all with live messages.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

We had a great discussion on things to think about when you bunny hop around relationships to avoid growing up.#RRR #grassisntgreener #growupSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

Society talks about men being picky for all the wrong reasons, but what about women looking for the ultimate ride? Not that ride nastttyyyyy !!! The ride of no labor, no job needed, no cooking, no cleaning, no helping, no expectations from you... but that man has to make your life perfect. That's not real. What are you willing to help a man with in the relationship?https://www.chanbepoddin.com/Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

It's an "Us" thing, we can't be great solo for long.We require balance as human beings. In order to show love is a healthy way we need to be loved, in order to show empathy we have to show that for someone else... today Chan wants to talk about the unity of it all..https://www.chanbepoddin.com/Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

Yeah, everyone wants to talk about red flags... but let's talk about the men over 30 green flags for the greater good. Red flags are easy to bring up because it takes no effort to see. Healthy characteristics rarely get talked about..#greenflags #men #healthy # RRRSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

We had a ball with this topic... every woman doesn't want the man with values and standards...its too much pressure to stand next to..#RRR we talking !!!!Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow ..Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

A lot of being talk about the life they want, and the person they want... forgetting it comes with many nights apart...traveling... sacrificing things you may want for a later date. Is that what you want to experience?.#rrr #season3.Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

Love is not blind people choose to not see what isn't favorable..#RRR#loveisnotblindFollow the podFollow us on Stereo appSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

These days we see you. Faking the funk..chanbepoddin.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

It's a choice to ignore the red flags...it's a choice to not self reflect and have boundaries everyday. Picking temporary fun over logical sense... in ya 30's is a no go.Thank you to Breanna, Dungeon, guests that left messages....chanbepoddin.com#RRR #dumbchoices #inloveSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

Picking someone based on good connection is healthy and should be the foundation. Yet most people feel stuck and just pick who's around... that's called settling. You be unhappy and stressed the whole time living a lie as if you wanted that life. We know you don't.We don't want you to settle; we want y'all to choose wisely..Lets chat. #dating #settling #choicesSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

Slow down y'all, pump y'all breaks, y'all barely know these people. We have to be better with ourselves and the spaces we give strangers too fast. You can date but why they know where ya mama stay and got a key in two weeks?#rrrSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

Welcome back to The Real Relationship Rapport, let's talk about why you all up in ya feelings? For all the wrong reasons.People assume everyone deserves their energy and they don't..chanbepoddin.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

A lot of times people think a parter having any control... is a bad thing. It's respect for the partnership more so than control for me. Dungeon also agrees... We are not Jada & Will... we aint Ike or Tina either. Women know who they respect or not... a man you respect doesn't need to control... but there is a mindset that he deserves. A man that respects the relationship shows you in your absence also. Its not one sided.Lets chat.This is The Real Relationship Rapport with Chan x JaySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

On this episode, there are too many adults who are looking for someone to be responsible for them Adulting. You shouldn't be dating if you can't pay your phone bill, you shouldn't be dating if you don't have shelter on apartment a home yet. You shouldn't be dating if you know your vehicle is not registered for this year and you're driving without insurance. Getting to the date at 8 PM is not your concern. There are so many reasons why people should not be dating right now, but everybody looks over that. In this episode Dungeon, and Chan discuss the adult basics that need to be had before you entertain the idea of being in a relationship. The person you choose to be in a relationship with romantically is not obligated to fund your lifestyle as an adult..Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow .Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

This episode right here.Many thoughts.Just saying if you stay you are no longer the victim or their bad behavior. You are an accomplice to the BS. #cheaters #fools #selflove.The RRR Show...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

Well, this is a panel show and a good discussion. Maybe two parts not sure yet. The Real Relationship Rapport is done by Chan and Dungeon; this topic has a panel.GloGigiBrookingtonOn Stereo App.I hope you hear great points and something to make you think..chanbepoddin.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

We had to get to the facts.How you present yourself to a visual world matters.We call a duck a duck because its known and seen as a duck.A red light is a red light, y'all get it.Why people confused by who they are? We cannot defeat DNA !!!!We just want to understand..Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow .Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

We have to admit the truth and do better.I don't care if you love the same sex.There are men and women for a reason. We are better people because of it... shoot we got here because of it... we are not emo meat or lab created bodies.#rrr #weneedeachother #menneedwomen #stopitSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

We Back what's good y'all?!? We doing a hour show for y'all, common lies told in relationships or during situations. Y'all need to stop!!!.chanbepoddin.com.#RRR #relationships #lies #growupSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

What up y'all? This is still a recap meaning we did this episode in July 2022... But it's still a great episode. I think the questions that we need to be asking one another when we're dating or getting to know someone to see if we would ever want something serious needs to be at a higher level than asking what's your favorite color? We have to elevate in order to get some thing great. This is the real relationship rapport a podcast where we tackle relationship like things dungeon and I will be back in July with new episodes..#RRR #askbetterquestionsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

A quick recap on a season 2 episode. Silent treatment doesn't help your relationship....Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

On this episode, pieces of our original show from last season enjoy!!!! Just a recap.new episodes in July….Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow ..Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

How many relationships did you have where you were more in love with the idea of a person..chanbepoddin.com.Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow .Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! .#dosanddonts #love #dosa #goodvibes #loveyourself #instagram #relationshipblogger #onlinedating #relationships #datingchroniclesletmehollaatu #letmehollaatu #dating #livelovelaugh #whatsyourthoughts #giveusadvice #energyistransferable #positiveenergy #judgeyourmomma #RRR #singles #datingblogger #friendship #date #readytolove #skincare #relationshipissues #imaworkinprogress #nopayingrent #redflagsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

On this episode, We discussed the idea of what it would take to love multiple people at the same time... I say its a no and Dungeon said its a no. Somebody is lying... Someone is getting the shitty end of the stick....Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow .Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

Too many of y'all doing spouse like things for strangers... Then wonder why y'all only linked for 2 months... Umm they got what they needed up outta ya, Duh !!!.chanbepoddin.com.Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow .Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! .#dosanddonts #love #dosa #goodvibes #loveyourself #instagram #relationshipblogger #onlinedating #relationships #datingchroniclesletmehollaatu #letmehollaatu #dating #livelovelaugh #whatsyourthoughts #giveusadvice #energyistransferable #positiveenergy #judgeyourmomma #RRR #singles #datingblogger #friendship #date #readytolove #skincare #relationshipissues #imaworkinprogress #nopayingrent #redflagsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

Everyones version of commitment is different..Chanbepoddin.comTabletopics.com Use code: CHANBEPODDIN for 15% off.Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow .Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

On this episode, Dungeon and Chan talked about how real, alpha males don't talk about how much they are alpha... We talked with the audience and they had a lot to say. We talked about the phony alpha males we have and how it doesn't help anyone to allow them to spread false ideals of how relationships should work. We can't hold people hostage... Let chat.check out more on chanbepoddin.com.Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @shegetsitpod.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow ..Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

Y'all Valentines Day ready?Older men stamina lowers, older women be ready and pop'n.People aint dating for the right reasons... too many of y'all in relationships with permanent embarrassments. We don't want that... Men are out here jealous of all the attention women get..Chanbepoddin.com.Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow .Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

We have to be picky, y'all keep picking people who have nothing to lose... Why?Who you date is a reflection of self. Do not date when your grieving, suffering or feeling life lost... date when ya mind is balance and healthy....Chanbepoddin.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content

Welcome back to another season of The Real Relationship Rapport Podcast, we got Jay and Chan back with another season. This episode were talking about Undateable's, what makes you not fit to date?.We record live on the Stereo app if you would like to tune in check us out on Twitter and Chans IG page for marketing.This is a live recorded show so you will hear messages from listeners and I hope you enjoy it..#RRRshow #dating #badhabitsTwitter: @TherealRRshowChans IG: @chanbepoddin.Chanbepoddin.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-real-relationship-rapport/exclusive-content