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Welcome to the Vanilla with a Side of Kink. This podcast is one couple's journey into the world of kink and polyamory.  It's a podcast for all you normal Joe citizens who are be-bopping around the world out there, who have some questions and some curiosities about things you don’t even know that you want to know about.  Maybe you are looking to add some spice to your current romantic relationship.  Maybe you have some interests in things you fear others might judge you for.  Did you see a wacky scene in a movie that, maybe to your surprise, got some juices flowing?  Have you read some erotica that has piqued your interest in learning more about other ways to elicit sensations and stimulate your body and mind?  Then Vanilla With A Side Of Kink is for you!

Dan & Renee


    • Jun 16, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • weekly NEW EPISODES
    • 31m AVG DURATION
    • 130 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from Vanilla with a Side of Kink

    129. I Love It When A Plan Comes Together!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2025 32:22


    Send us a textRemember that episode when Renee talked about her dog Tranquilo coming back . . .Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    128. Trifecta of Happiness and Sticky Coke Hair

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2025 31:04


    Send us a textThe trifecta of happiness; our heroes met, All Tied Up San Diego started, and Dan's birthday all happened in September! Plus, Renee delivers on a family member's special day with an extra splash of excitement!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    127. Laying the Groundwork

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2025 30:38


    Send us a textIn this episode, our heroes start to lay the groundwork for some future events and our 203 event goes into turbo mode!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    126. Renee was Sold A Bill of Goods

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2025 31:21


    Send us a textThe first six days of August bring life-changing events into the household.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    125. They Who Fail to Prepare, Prepare to Fail

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2025 31:16


    Send us a textRenee sets the stage for a future event as she and Dan go to a fundraiser for a local dog rescue. Plus the strategic planning takes shape.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    124. Strategic Planning

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 29:20


    Send us a textDan and Renee return from the cruise and work to find a new balance in their life. They also make some plans related to All Tied Up San Diego that yield interesting results.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    123. The Sloth in the Suite

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2025 30:57


    Send us a textRenee makes a very important decision that causes her to change her mind about a specific type of adventure!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    122. The Aftermath

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2025 40:08


    Send us a textNow that Renee's parents' memorial services have been completed, she takes on a new role in life.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    121. Special Episode: KinkFest

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2025 31:56


    Send us a textThis is episode Dan and Renee report live, or at least Dan does, while Renee sleeps in his lap, from the KinkFest Conference in Portland, OR.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    120. Well, We're Going to Need DNA Evidence at this Point.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2025 33:37


    Send us a textThe question remains, whose remains did she carry?End of Season Six!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    119. ". . . is a Little Respect."

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2025 31:23


    Send us a textAnd the second shoe . . . with a mic drop!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    118. A Loving Sacrifice

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2025 29:48


    Send us a textDaisy makes a sacrifice for Renee. Renee's Dad starts to decline and chaos ensues in Victorville!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    117. "All I'm Asking for . . ."

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2025 30:42


    Send us a textThe first shoe drops . . .Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    116. Better Citizens of the Kinkdom, Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2025 39:07


    Send us a textIn the second part of the Katie and Melizza take-over, they ask some very important questions about the negotiation and vetting processes related to kink. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    115. Better Citizens of the Kinkdom, Part 1.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2025 29:22


    Send us a textGuest Hosts Katie and Melizza are BACK! And they have their own questions about the Kinkdom and what it means to be kinky and polyamorous!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    114. Hello Insecurity My Old Friend.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2025 32:05


    Send us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee's relationship agreements are tested as Renee's insecurities come full force as Dan continues to tie with Liz. Plus, one of the podcast award companies throws a curveball!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    113. First Episode & Friends Galor Ring in 2023!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2025 29:37


    Send us a textIt sounds way more exciting in the title than it was, but hey we published and officially launched the Vanilla with a Side of Kink podcast on January 2nd, 2023! Plus, as Dan continues to tie with Liz, there are lots of opportunities to connect with friends, both old and new. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    112. Recording Starts & Renee Starts Looking!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2025 30:08


    Send us a textIn this episode, we record the first episode of Vanilla with a Side of Kink in December of 2022! Plus, Renee starts to look for a boyfriend, and Dan continues to tie with the new bottom.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    111. Thankful for Friendship

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2025 30:52


    Send us a textTsunamis, Board Games and Bottoms! Remember our heroes explaining how awesome the board game Gloomhaven was during the pandemic? It was the thing that they did to help pass the time. Well, Dan found another epic board game that was getting rave reviews, and in this episode, you will hear all about it! Our heroes also attend a local rope event, and Dan ties with a new bottom.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    110. Has anyone seen a beach around here?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2025 31:54


    Send us a textOur intrepid heroes continue their epic vacation in Hawaii and this time cannot find the beach! Imagine that being on an island in the middle of the Pacific Ocean and they cannot find the beach! Well, it happened! Dan's unfailing sense of direction was not working this day.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    109. This Place Made Salt Exciting

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2025 31:59


    Send us a textVacation! Everyone needs a vacation, and in this episode, our heroes take one to the Big Island of Hawaii! Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    108. Renee's Crystal Ball Shows Us the Future

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2025 32:26


    Send us a textHave we told you about Renee's voices in her head? Well the voices started talking again and she came up with a whole new idea. Guess what it is?Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    107. Renee Really Tried to be Humble

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2025 33:49


    Send us a textOur heroine goes to a conference humble and comes home feeling validated.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    106. The One with a Fly

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2025 31:57


    In this episode, our heroes are beset by a fly! And they attend their first lifestyle party. Plus we jump into different ways that people connect.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    105. 2nd Podcastaversary and Hollywood Comes a Calling!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 30, 2024 31:10


    In this episode we celebrate two years of weekly podcast episodes! 105 episodes is. O small feat that is for sure. And the timeline brings us to August and September of 2022. We get a call from a Hollywood producer to help with a film project. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    104. Proudly Presenting

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2024 30:24


    In this episode the Leather Realm at the San Diego Pride Festival returns after a two year hiatus due to the pandemic. Plus we start bringing back full in-person courses at All Tied Up San Diego. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    103. Affliction and Relief

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2024 30:07


    Dan and Renee return safely from Walt Disney World in Florida, but Dan brings a special "something something" with him from WDW. Then there is a new beginning that brings a change in a nick of time.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    102. Skyler Sparkles

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2024 34:21


    In this episode, our heroes encounter a technical glitch at the beginning that is thankfully fixed around the 3-minute mark.  Sorry about that! Our new normal continues to take shape as Dan keeps looking for a job, we travel to Walt Disney World in Florida and Skyler finally comes home after his epic trip to become a diamond.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    101. Resigning Ourselves to a New Normal

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2024 30:52


    Well, the pandemic is over and we are excited to see life returning to . . . WTF! Yeah, life took a turn and now our heroes get to figure out a new normal that is post-pandemic, but also post-Renee's working. Fortunately, there is a bit of a bright side that comes in the form of forgiveness.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    100. The One With The 100th Episode!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2024 32:34


    Welcome to our 100th episode!  Wow, this has been a journey.In this episode, our heroes take an epic studio tour, and if you read the title of this episode, you might get a hint as to what we saw during this tour! Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    99. We Finally Get A Key to the Kinkdom!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2024 30:43


    Welcome to Season Six! Which is irrelevant in episode terms, but helps us know what part of our journey we are talking about! And Season Six is about the time period after the pandemic starting in February 2022. In this episode, numbers explode, life starts to return to the new normal and the renovations start on the house, sending our heroes in all sorts of different directions. Plus a miscommunication leads to Dan and Renee finally getting a key they have wanted for more than five years!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    98. Rodents Of Unusual Sneakiness (R.O.U.S)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2024 35:47


    We take our title from the famous movie the Princess Bride since Renee is definitely a princess and she is my bride! And just like in the movie there are dangers in this world that can come out of nowhere! Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    97. Renee Goes On A Quest!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2024 33:15


    With her newly found freedom, Renee takes the opportunity to hunt down something valuable.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    96. The Dam Breaks!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2024 31:56


    In this episode the pressure reaches a breaking point, just two months after the wedding???? What did Dan do now?  Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    95. The Water is Rising!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2024 32:41


    In this episode, our heroes return home from the Eurekamoon and come back to reality, and it starts to hit hard. A trip to Universal Studios is a welcome break.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    94. The Eurekamoon!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2024 30:02


    Honeymooning during the mid-pandemic break was not exactly what our heroes expected. As they travel to Eureka, California for some personal time, the pandemic makes it presence known. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    93. . . . We're In A Club Now!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2024 38:42


    The Wedding! Yay!The title for this episode comes from the movie Up! It is when Ellie says to Carl, "You and me, we're in a club now!" And our heroes are certainly in a club of their own after this episode! Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    92. You and Me . . .

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2024 30:58


    In this episode, our heroes discuss the day before one of the most important days in their relationship, their wedding. If you want to know what we did for our wedding from cake topper to guest lists, it is all here!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    91. Oh No You Didn't!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2024 32:05


    Renee's predictive powers from the last episode come true, resulting in a mini-meltdown. Friends come to the rescue to save Renee from herself and from canceling the wedding, even though Dan (for perhaps the first time) did nothing wrong.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    90. One Ring To Rule Her Heart!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2024 33:46


    Renee finally gets her engagement ring! A wedding venue is selected as we inch closer and closer to the wedding date.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    89. A Daisy Dog, A Dress, and A DJ

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2024 34:30


    In this episode, it is July 2021, and our heroine realizes she has a very short time to plan a wedding! But wow, what a job she does! Als a new family member arrives unexpectedly.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    88. Dan Levels Up to Marriage Material!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2024 35:38


    In this episode, Renee rewards a friend in a big way. All Tied Up San Diego gets a new logo and holds its first in-person event since March of 2020, and Dan completes the final piece of the marriage puzzle!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    87. "My Everything" Got His Wings

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2024 35:29


    This episode concludes our two-part episode celebrating our beloved Skyler who left us in April of 2021. This episode includes pet loss, so if you are sensitive please be advised.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comFetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    86. She Called Him "My Everything"

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2024 28:44


    This episode is part one of our discussion of the wonderful celebration of Skyler, who was Renee's dog from before our relationship started. This episode deals with pet loss, so we understand if you need to skip this episode.Dan and Renee announce AGTCVisit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comFetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    85. A New Routine and Dan Gets Scene

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2024 31:04


    As February, March, and April of 2021 roll around, the pandemic reaches the one-year mark, and things start to change for the better. Dan and Renee announce AGTCVisit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comFetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    84. Christmas in the Driveway Rings in 2021

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2024 37:38


    As 2020 comes to a close, our heroes find themselves helping others become Bedroom Bondage Bosses and petting wild creatures, and having Christmas in the driveway.Dan and Renee announce AGTCVisit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comFetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    83. Finding a Haven in the Gloom

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2024 35:01


    In this episode, Dan and Renee share the game that kept them entertained for hours during the pandemic, Gloomhaven! Dan and Renee announce AGTCVisit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comFetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    82. Life Moves Online

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2024 31:37


    Dan discovers that the Learning Management System he chose for the courses is not delivering the impact he desired and makes a significant change. And the new 101 Course starts and the fun begins!Dan and Renee announce AGTCVisit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comFetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    81. . . . or a Lifetime

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2024 32:40


    Dan and Renee celebrate their sixth anniversary and there is a special twist that comes out of this one!Dan announcing AGTC Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comFetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    80. A Reason, A Season . . .

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2024 34:05


    Six months into the pandemic, life has begun to change, much of it for what feels like the negative. In this episode, our heroes discuss the joys of post-video production of the All Tied Up San Diego Shibari training. Plus, Renee shares some very painful experiences with friends.Dan announcing AGTC Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comFetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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    79. Household Woes and Production Goes

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2024 31:16


    In this episode, the dogs are much better as we discuss the events surrounding June, July, and August of 2020. The pandemic is in full swing and we realize that All Tied Up San Diego is not going to be holding in-person classes anytime soon. What were we going to do? Also, as with many of you, our hair was quickly becoming much longer than usual and we needed to get it cut before we started production on a new project. But the house also had its share of woes as things started to need repair.Dan announcing AGTC Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comFetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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