Podcast appearances and mentions of eve rickert

Eve takes us all the way back to high school where she first learned about non-monogamy through some friends and even dabbled in a triad for a week or so. After college she got married and a few years later she and her husband started opening up their relationship. Since then, Eve has been on a 20ish-year journey to find what works best for her when it comes to love and relating to others. Today, Eve identifies as a queer, solo polyamorous, relationship anarchist who prefers a more parallel relationship dynamic as opposed to kitchen table polyamory... Like most of us, Eve learned a lot along her journey and we're grateful that she joined us today to share her story. Eve Rickert is also the co-author of More Than Two, Second Edition and is a Gen X, queer, solo polyamorous, relationship anarchist, neurodivergent cis woman living on unceded WSÁNEC and Lekwungen territory on the west coast of the place currently known as Canada. She is the curator of the More Than Two Essentials series and the non-monogamy resource site morethantwo.ca, the founder and publisher of Thornapple Press, and the founder and mastermind of the science communications firm Talk Science to Me. Check out the full show notes here. Join the most amazing community of open-minded humans on the planet!   Click here to order your very own NNM shirt! $10 Off - Online STI Testing

Today we're joined by writer Andrea Zanin to talk about their upcoming books. Andrea Zanin, MA, is a white, nonbinary, middle-aged queer whose writing focuses on queer sex, nonmonogamy and BDSM/Leather. They have written for the Globe and Mail, The Tyee, Bitch, Ms., Xtra, IN Magazine, Outlooks Magazine and the Montreal Mirror. Their scholarly work, fiction and essays appear in a variety of collections, and they are the author of Post-Nonmonogamy and Beyond and, with Eve Rickert, the co-author of More Than Two, Second Edition: Cultivating Nonmonogamous Relationships with Kindness and Integrity. Andrea blogs sporadically at sexgeek.wordpress.com, where they created the ten rules for happy nonmonogamy and coined the term “polynormativity.” If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of like-minded listeners at patreon.com/Multiamory. You can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, bonus episodes, and more! Treat yourself to some stories to turn you on or help you drift off to sleep with an extended 30-day free trial at DipseaStories.com/multi Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

EPISODE 254: Interview with Eve Rickert & Andrea Zanin. Eve Rickert is a Gen X, queer, solo polyamorous, relationship anarchist, neurodivergent cis woman living on unceded WSÁNEC and Lekwungen territory on the west coast of the place currently known as Canada. She is the curator of the More Than Two Essentials series and the nonmonogamy resource site morethantwo.ca, the founder and publisher of Thornapple Press, and the founder and mastermind of the science communications firm Talk Science to Me.   Andrea Zanin, MA, is a white, nonbinary, middle-aged queer writer who lives in Tkaronto (Toronto, Ontario), on the traditional territory of the Mississaugas of the Credit, the Anishnabeg, the Chippewa, the Haudenosaunee and the Wendat peoples. Andrea is the author of Post-Nonmonogamy and Beyond, part of the More Than Two Essentials series, and has written for the Globe and Mail, The Tyee, Bitch, Ms., Xtra, IN Magazine, Outlooks Magazine and the Montreal Mirror. Andrea blogs at sexgeek.wordpress.com, where they created the 10 Rules for Happy Nonmonogamy and coined the term "polynormativity." If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

Eve and Andrea created a book that I wish I had 15 years ago when I was making the transition from monogamy to non-monogamy. And I don't say that lightly (if you know me, you know I have a LOT of polyamory books on my bookshelves). The new edition of More Than Two is a testament to Eve and Andrea's thoughtfulness and integrity as writers. They incorporated their evolving perspectives on ethics, relationships, and the world into their book, and the result is magical. They cover the stuff that many authors shy away from in the non-monogamy space. Power, abuse, ethics, responsibility—even though these subjects can be loaded, they deserve ample attention, and we're covering it all in this PWF episode. In this episode, we're breaking down: — Why they decided to create a new edition “More Than Two” — What's covered in Andrea's new book “Post Non-Monogamy and Beyond” — The concept of “post-non-monogamy” and the fluidity of relational experiences —Responsibility, ethics, and intersectionality in the non-monogamous community — The complexities of ethical frameworks in non-monogamous relationships — The challenges that come with negotiating attachment and boundaries — Eve and Andrea's take on abuse in the conscious-relating sphere — The importance of self-awareness in maintaining ethical relationships — The broader societal and political context of the world and how it has influenced our approaches to non-monogamy — Thorn Apple Press, Eve's publishing company, and its mission to elevate diverse voices in the non-monogamy community Resources mentioned in this episode: — More Than Two (second edition): Cultivating Nonmonogamous Relationships with Kindness and Integrity, by Eve Rickert with Andrea Zanin, out September 2024 — Post Non-Monogamy and Beyond by Andrea Zanin — Thorn Apple Press — Andrea Zanin's Twitter — Eve Rickert's website and blog JOIN The Year of Opening community for a full year of learning & support. Registration is open now at ⁠⁠www.TheYearOfOpening.com⁠⁠ Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.com Get the answers you want to create the open relationship of your dreams! Sign up for an Ask Me Anything here Music: Dance of Felt by ⁠Blue Dot Sessions

Tu as toujours voulu comprendre ou connaître les types de relations (amoureuses? sexuelles?) qui existent ? Cette semaine, en seulement 47 minutes, le tour est joué (ou presque!). Dans cet épisode, on aborde certains critères scientifiques qui permettent de classifier (un peu) les termes qui décrivent les relations, des termes comme « amis avec bénéfices, couple ouvert, polyamour » etc. Tel un cours 101 sur les configurations amoureuses et relationnelles, vous en sortirez grandi·es et éclairé·es! Bonne écouteRéférences discutées dans cet épisode:Bourdon, M.-C. (2014) Nouvelles configurations amoureuses. Actualité UQAM, p.2-10Causons féminisme (2020). Les configurations relationnellesClub Sexu. (2023). L'intimité au pluriel: une introduction à la non-monogamieClub Sexu. (2023). L'intimité au pluriel (II) : une transition identitaireQuébec Science (2016). Sexe, amour et nouvelles relations Rodrigue, C., Blais, M., Lavoie, F., Adam, B. D., Magontier, C., & Goyer, M. F. (2015). The structure of casual sexual relationships and experiences among single adults aged 18-30 years old: A latent profile analysis. The Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality, 24(3), 215-227.Rodrigue, C. (2014). La structure des configurations relationnelles non conjugales chez des célibataires de 18 à 30 ans: Une approche par profils latents. Mémoire de maîtrise. Université du Québec à Montréal. 86p.Chaîne Youtube de Martin Blais: Webinaire - Exploration des configurations relationnelles chez les personnes LGBTQPodcast de Club Sexu: À quoi tu jouis? Podcast Recommandation de livres:Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships par Christopher Ryan et Cacilda JethàThe Chemistry Between Us: Love, Sex, and the Science of Attraction par Larry Young et Brian AlexanderThe Ethical Slut, Third Edition: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love par Janet W. Hardy et Dossie EastonMore Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory par Eve Rickert et Franklin VeauxThe Relationship Bill of Rights par Eve Rickert et Franklin Veaux

In this episode, Renee explains her mind-blowing realizations about her struggle with polyamory.  And they have yet again, another relationship change!Book References:The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-monogamy. Your Guide to OpenRelationships, Polyamory, And Letting Go. By Lola Phoenix.A Happy Life in an Open Relationship. The Essential Guide to a Healthyand Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life. By Susan Wenzel, sex andrelationship therapist.polysecure. Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy. By Jessica Fern.More Than Two. A practical guide to ethical polyamory. By FranklinVeaux and Eve Rickert.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comFetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

Dan and Renee take a deeper dive into Consensual Nonmonogamy (CNM) as they look at how their relationship works and how it wouldn't.Book References:The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-monogamy. Your Guide to OpenRelationships, Polyamory, And Letting Go. By Lola Phoenix.A Happy Life in an Open Relationship. The Essential Guide to a Healthyand Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life. By Susan Wenzel, sex andrelationship therapist.polysecure. Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy. By Jessica Fern.More Than Two. A practical guide to ethical polyamory. By FranklinVeaux and Eve Rickert.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comFetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

With Dan's change in behavior, Renee starts touring him around, including meeting the parents.  They learn about anchors and knowing the reasons why.Book References:The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-monogamy. Your Guide to OpenRelationships, Polyamory, And Letting Go. By Lola Phoenix.A Happy Life in an Open Relationship. The Essential Guide to a Healthyand Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life. By Susan Wenzel, sex andrelationship therapist.polysecure. Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy. By Jessica Fern.More Than Two. A practical guide to ethical polyamory. By FranklinVeaux and Eve Rickert.Start With Why. How Great Leaders Inspire Everyone To Take Action. By Simon SinekVisit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comFetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

In this episode, we find our hero (Dan) trying to accept many changes and not handling them as well as expected. Renee has to make a decision that might send a mixed message. And the bus ride continues that has Dan earning his lumps.Book References:The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-monogamy. Your Guide to OpenRelationships, Polyamory, And Letting Go. By Lola Phoenix.A Happy Life in an Open Relationship. The Essential Guide to a Healthyand Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life. By Susan Wenzel, sex andrelationship therapist.polysecure. Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy. By Jessica Fern.More Than Two. A practical guide to ethical polyamory. By FranklinVeaux and Eve Rickert.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comFetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

As Dan and Renee explore life as Friends with Benefits, the friends side takes a twist, and Renee goes into protective mode! The wheels on the bus start running over Dan as he navigates a new relationship poorly.Books References:The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-monogamy. Your GuideTo OpenRelationships, Polyamory, And Letting Go. By Lola Phoenix.A Happy Life in an Open Relationship. The Essential Guide to a Healthyand Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life. By Susan Wenzel, sex andrelationship therapist.polysecure. Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy. By Jessica Fern.More Than Two. A practical guide to ethical polyamory. By FranklinVeaux and Eve Rickert.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comFetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

Dan and Renee are now broken up (well, Renee broke up with Dan), and now they start to navigate life as Friends with Benefits! This change has a profound and dramatic effect on both of them.Books References:The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-monogamy. Your GuideTo OpenRelationships, Polyamory, And Letting Go. By Lola Phoenix.A Happy Life in an Open Relationship. The Essential Guide to a Healthyand Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life. By Susan Wenzel, sex andrelationship therapist.polysecure. Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy. By Jessica Fern.More Than Two. A practical guide to ethical polyamory. By FranklinVeaux and Eve Rickert.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comFetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

Relationships!!!! They are hard, messy, complicated, and one of the most rewarding things you will ever do with your life. Join host Kris and her guest Westley on a journey through the topics and ideas put forth by the book ‘More Than Two' by Eve Rickert and Franklin Veaux. More Than Two is much more than a book about ethical non-monogamy. It expertly navigates some of the toughest and most nuanced topics surrounding relationships. It is a valuable read and point of discussion for any person hoping to successfully navigate romantic relationships. This episode is about understanding and accepting both yours and other's choices in relationship. It's about consciously choosing what is right for you, and having compassion for others that don't feel the same. It gets into how to cope with jealousy, how to communicate effectively, how to define commitment, how to define honesty, and so much more. Discover nuances to these terms that you never knew existed! Are you debating where you fall on the non-monogamous to monogamous spectrum? Listen in, we've got you. Some of the topics and questions discussed are as follows (in order): The Relationship Escalator: The fallacy of 'moving backwards' in a relationship or having a 'goal' or 'destination' in a relationship. Your relationship is a process. And no one has to follow any prescribed 'shoulds' in a relationship. (Aka you SHOULD buy a house, get married, have kids, etc.) Is polyamory the natural state of human connection? Your relationship is a garden to be tended, cared for, and grown. Not a building to construct and keep from falling down. Can there only be one true soulmate? Relationship math: 1+1=3. One complete person plus another complete person equals a relationship. Are rules in a relationship good or bad? What is true honesty? Westley's best advice for how to cope with jealousy, speaking from the perspective of a person in a polyamorous relationship. What do you want from your romantic life? Does it make a difference if your partner's other partner is the same gender as you? What is relationship anarchy? How do you make time for multiple relationships? Do you communicate directly or passively? Is marriage an outdated form of commitment? What does commitment mean to you? Relationship term reframe: Ask yourself, 'what do you offer a relationship?' As opposed to 'what do I want from a relationship?' To connect with Westley: IG @westvandenburg Connect with us on Instagram: @helluvahall Connect with us on TikTok: @reclaimyourradiance Email us: reclaimyourradiancepodcast@gmail.com Want more of Reclaim Your Radiance, straight to your inbox? Hit the link to subscribe: https://www.subscribepage.com/reclaim-your-radiance Interested in joining our FaceBook community? It's where we discuss podcast related topics and more. Let's share our thoughts and grow together: https://www.facebook.com/groups/krishallreclaimyourradiance For more Information visit: https://linktr.ee/krishall

Are you on a relationship escalator? Are you on a steady upward trajectory of “relationship success”? Hitting one milestone after the next because that's what you've been told that a relationship “should” look like? Have you been told that if your relationship deviates from that path, that it isn't a success? That's okay! It's what we've all been told for a long time. But thankfully, there are other paths and relationship trajectories available to us. Join in as Kris talks about getting off of the relationship escalator and choosing what works best for YOU. Learn about how to stop looking for a checklist of attributes in a person, some useful mindset shifts about how to grow within a relationship, and how to be intentional about the relationships you nurture and keep. This episode is helped along by some of the topics and ideas found in the book ‘More Than Two' by Eve Rickert and Franklin Veaux. Connect with us on Instagram! @helluvahall Connect with us on TikTok! @reclaimyourradiance Email us! reclaimyourradiancepodcast@gmail.com Would you like a sweet mug or simply to show us your support? Come check out our Patreon, we would love to have you! https://www.patreon.com/reclaimyourradiance Want more of Reclaim Your Radiance, straight to your inbox? Hit the link to subscribe: https://www.subscribepage.com/reclaim-your-radiance Interested in joining our FaceBook community? It's where we discuss podcast related topics and more. Let's share our thoughts and grow together: https://www.facebook.com/groups/krishallreclaimyourradiance For more Information visit: https://linktr.ee/krishall

Many people are familiar with MK-ULTRA, the CIA's illegal human experimentation program, which involved psychedelics and resulted in torture techniques that have since been used at CIA black sites around the world. What if someone tried to tell you these techniques were, in fact, a novel therapy that could revolutionize mental healthcare and transform dissidents into better citizens? In this episode, we discuss Dr. Salvador Roquet, a man who tortured people for the Mexican state and also parlayed those techniques to become an influential pioneer of psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy. What does it mean that Roquet's trainings and ideologies have influenced an untold number of present-day psychedelic practitioners?   Support:   ☼Patreon: http://patreon.com/psymposia ☼Donate: https://www.psymposia.com/donate/   For full episodes, transcripts, supporting documents, and more, visit: https://psymposia.com/powertrip   Additional reading:   Power Tripping supporting docs   "Bad TRIPS" may be the BEST TRIPS by Walter Houston Clark   Psychology and Destruction of the Psyche: the Professional use of Psychological Knowledge for Torture of Political Prisoners by David Pavón-Cuéllar   Undiscovering the Pueblo Mágico: Lessons from Huautla for the Psychedelic Renaissance by Ben Feinberg   What I Got Wrong in More Than Two: The Dark Night of the Soul by Eve Rickert   Mundo enfermo y tarado   The Unified Field Theory of Psychedelic Integration and Portugal Style Decriminalization by David Bronner   Sounding the Alarm on Compass's Interference with Oregon's Psilocybin Therapy Program by David Bronner   Additional Podcasts / Videos   #32 – It's All Red Flags: 5-MeO-DMT with Dr. Martin Ball   Jim Lehrman Covert Journeys, Visionary Summit, September 3 2016, Paonia, CO    Follow:   ☼Twitter: https://twitter.com/psymposia ☼Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psymposia/ ☼Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/psymposia ☼Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/psymposia ☼Website: https://www.psymposia.com ☼Podcast: https://www.psymposia.com/plusthree ☼Newsletter: https://www.psymposia.com/subscribe/   Thank you to our podcast and video tier Patreon supporters:   Reliable Spores, Houston Puck, Dave Hodges, Jon Hanna, James Hubbard, Lindsay Munson, Evan Freimuth, Abigail Bianchi, Meghan Kennedy, Dave Ayers, Darrell Duane, Tehseen Noorani, Tariqul Islam, Clifford Hudson, Daniel McQueen, Maryann Kehoe, Ben Yono, Nathan Espinosa, Annick McIntosh, Starbuck, Aaron Williams, Jenine Innes, Julia A, Jesse Liberty, Christian Dawley, Leon Boroditsky, Samy Tammam, Amanda Alexander, Jason Gross, Paige Hausfeld, John Bannon, Clifford Hudson, Sandra Dreisbach, Will Petersen, Jason Seidel, Gurpreet Saini  

Abuse happens in all kinds of relationships, and non-monogamous people are no different. Claire from @polypages and I discuss: - The Duluth Model of the power and control wheel as applied to abusive polyamorous dynamics - Whether the book More Than Two by Eve Rickert and Franklin Veaux should still be recommended as a polyamory introductory text - Why toxic positivity culture is harmful and does a disservice to the polyamorous community - Why non-monogamous people are more susceptible to abusive dynamics due to the lack of societal support available and toxic behaviours being brushed under the carpet as "jealousy issues to work through" - How Claire arrived at solo polyamory as the best fit for her life and much more. EPISODE TRANSCRIPT FOLLOW US: Leanne (@polyphiliablog): Instagram | Facebook | Tiktok | Twitter | Youtube | Patreon | Website | Shop Claire (@polypages): Instagram | Tiktok | Twitter | Website | Polyamory Day Event

Author Eve Rickert! Mentioned (don't contact these people, please): Introduce yourself in The Champagne Room at http://manwhorepod.com/discord! Ella Dawson blog post Ashley Manta blog post Dylan Thomas blog post Reid Mihalko Accountability Process Our Stories: With Franklin Veaux The Entire Franklin Veaux Saga Polysecure by Jessica Fern Spirits of the Coast: Orcas in Science, Art, and History Follow Eve Rickert! Twitter: @everickert Thorntree Press More Than Two Follow Billy! TikTok: @thebillyprocida Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @billyisprocida Facebook fan page 0nlyFans: @callmebilly Venmo: @BillyProcida Cash App: $manwhorepod Amazon Wish List Looking to start a podcast? Use code BILLY or click here for free credits with Libsyn! Get $40 off your Motorbunny this holiday season with promo code manwhore! Spice up your bedroom playing Halos & Sins! Learn about cryptocurrency while you trade on Coinbase! Click here to download today! Get a 2-week trial of The Peep Show when you get an annual membership at any tier! Become a member at patreon.com/manwhorepodcast. Email your comments, questions, and criticisms to manwhorepod@gmail.com. Ethernight Club by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://filmmusic.io/song/7612-ethernight-club License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license www.ManwhorePod.com

Krista is the co-founder of @PolyInPlace and she has teamed up with previous guest and friend of the podcast, Claire Travers @PolyPages to launch a book club for the polyamorous community, starting in October 2021. If you are looking for support and to engage with the community, be sure to go to www.polypages.org/bookclub to join! As a natural storyteller, Krista was inspired to create a community and platform for others to share their journeys into polyamory when she and her polycule hunkered down (like we all did) during the 2020 pandemic. In this episode, Krista and I talk about some of the books and stories that have inspired her, and she shares her journey of discovering polyamory and working through infidelity in her previously monogamous relationship. Krista shares how she and her husband were able to shed many of their old ideologies, put a stop to infidelities, and successfully move into ethical non-monogamy and polyamory. Be sure to follow Krista @PolyInPlace and tune into their event, Polyamory in Publishing in partnership with Claire from @PolyPages, Eve Rickert (co-author of More Than Two), Thorntree Press, and M. Ellery (author of A Color Named Love), and Rachel Krantz (author of a forthcoming memoir called Open). Go to www.polypages.org for more information! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/practicingpolya/support

In which we answer questions from a young adult who is tired of supporting their family financially, a woman who is afraid to re-come out of the closet, and another woman who doesn't want to continue a poly relationship. Tangents include vacation talk, subjects that should be be taught in school, and books on ethical non monogamy. We are joined by Nat Higgins, aka The Pint Sizes Sexologist, who shares SO MUCH knowledge. You can find out more about her and what she does on her website https://thepintsizedsexologist.com/, connect with her at https://www.facebook.com/pintsized/ and https://www.instagram.com/thepintsizedsexologist, and can listen to her podcast UNCENSORED: Adult Content wherever you listen to podcasts! Books recommended by Nat include: Opening Up by by Tristan Taormino, The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy, The Jealousy Survival Guide by Kitty Chambliss, and More Than Two by Eve Rickert and Franklin Veaux (with a grain of salt). This episode was sponsored by Surf Side Sips. Use the code "InebriatedInput" at surfsidesips.com for 20% your order of amazing glass straws. Please rate and review Inebriated Input to help others find us! Don't forget to subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday. Email us questions at inebriated.input@gmail.com or at inebriatedinput.com Connect with us at https://www.facebook.com/InebriatedInput https://twitter.com/InebriatedInput https://www.instagram.com/InebriatedInput/ Alternative Rock Instrumental by lukenield | https://soundcloud.com/lukenield Music promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.com Creative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported License https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/deed.en_US #inebriatedinput #advice #advicepodcast #drunkpodcast #drunkadvice 

People can be with one or more lovers and sex can be one of many forms of intimacy. Your life is yours to craft based on your needs and how that communicates with other people's. There is a huge array of possibilities, and focusing on where you shine and grow best is powerful. ~ This show takes the question, am I into monogamy (literally, one wife) or polyamory (many loves) and asks, who are you? who are they? how do you let yourself live fully and be a means for other people to live fully? It suggests a new language based on love, communication, diversity, commitment, pleasure and more that you are a part of inventing or in some cases re-finding, uniting mind-body-spirit-feeling needs and abilities. ~ Beyond looking within and out with the people in your life, some books and shows a lot of people have read and listened to are Opening Up(Tristan Taormino), More Than Two (Franklin Veaux & Eve Rickert), The Ethical Slut (Janet Hardy & Dossie Easton), Polyamory Weekly, Loving Without Boundaries, Amory, and there are many more. ~Comments on this show and suggestions for future episodes? Send a message to hsrthankyou@gmail.com or Instagram @hsrthankyou. Thanks for listening. ~Thanks to Jette Weiss for the cover art and Youssoupha Sidibe for the music, used under license.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/healthysexandrelationships)

La historia de Liliana nos lleva hasta Cuba, el país donde nació, creció y se hizo bailarina. Con apenas 10 años ya quería escapar y huir del infierno en el que se había convertido su propio hogar. La música y el baile le ayudaron a sobrellevar las sombras de una infancia dolorosa. Un día apareció un español en su vida y se convirtió en el puente que le ayudó a llegar hasta Barcelona, donde nació la nueva Lili que es hoy. Vive en "trieja", o sea, en una "pareja de tres". Se define como poliamorosa y es feliz con su actual estado: una relación consensuada, estable y ética con otras dos personas. Si queréis saber más sobre el poliamor os recomiendo el libro que leí antes de hablar con Liliana y que me ayudó a entender mejor este tema. Dicen que es "la biblia" del poliamor. "Opening up" de Tristan Taormino. También os recomiendo "Pensamiento monógamo, terror poliamoroso" de Brigitte Vasallo y "Más que dos: una guía para el poliamor ético", de Franklin Veaux y Eve Rickert.

This text is the foreword to the Thorntree Press book, “Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy,” by Jessica Fern. Immediatism.com My other podcast, PointingTexts.org Feedback and requests to Cory@Immediatism.com, and your comment may be shared in a future episode.

After Sunny's, Siri's, and Kate's bios all had themes of emotional over giving, we decided to devote episode seven solely to unpacking what over giving is, why we do it, and how to heal. A long overdue spotlight is shone on how our patriarchal culture fiercely gas lights over givers, who are predominately women, and why. The over giver/over taker relationship dynamic in the U.S. is rampant in both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships. The reasons for it are not just psychological, but most definitely cultural as well. And it's as American as guns and porn. Note: The term over-giver is used instead of co-dependent, because many people do not identify with everything that is associated with co-dependency. Overgiving can be defined as emotionally over-extending yourself and sacrificing your own boundaries to please the over-taker in your life. So please join us for another episode of Open Deeply as we dive into hearts and minds of over givers and culture that shapes them. Episode Links: Information on EMDR: https://www.emdr.com/what-is-emdr/ Information on Borderline Personality Disorder: https://www.borderlinepersonalitydisorder.org/what-is-bpd/bpd-overview/ Eve Rickert's referenced blog entry: https://brighterthansunflowers.com/ The websites referenced regarding Franklin Veaux: https://polyamory-metoo.com/ and https://www.itrippedonthepolystair.com/ Where to find co-host Sunny Megatron: Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk TV Show, Sex with Sunny Megatron https://www.sho.com/sex-with-sunny-megatron/season/1 Where to find co-host Kate Loree: Website: http://kateloree.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KateLoreeLMFT/ Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ Open Deeply podcast is not a replacement for therapy or therapy. Please know this episode has themes of sexual and emotional abuse and neglect. If you catch yourself becoming emotionally overwhelmed by this episode's content, please get support. Call a friend, therapist, or an emotional support hotline, such as, 800-273-talk (8255).

SST148: Polyamorie - Meine Erfahrungen Ihr habt euch von mir gewünscht, dass ich euch mal meine Erfahrungen mit dem Thema Polyamorie erzähle & euch ein paar Vor- und Nachteile dieses Lebenskonzepts vorstelle. Deshalb spreche ich in der heutigen Folge darüber, wie ich meine Beziehungen bis jetzt gelebt habe und welche tollen aber auch weniger tollen Erfahrungen ich gemacht habe. Denn von Fremdknutschen, über "Ampelsystem" bis hin zu Tantra trotz Beziehung habe ich schon viel erlebt. Wenn ihr euch für das Thema Polyamorie interessiert, kann ich euch auch die Bücher von Esther Perel und das Buch "More than two" von Franklin Veaux und Eve Rickert empfehlen. Die hab ich selbst alle verschlungen und finde sie sehr wertvoll! Die Conclusio aus der heutigen Folge: Im Leben gibt es wohl viele Arten, glücklich zu sein... ;-) Du willst noch mehr???

In today’s podcast: Segment 1: Privacy vs Disclosure Segment 2: Relationship Bill of Rights As mentioned before More Than Two was written by both Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert. Franklin is the one accused of misdeeds. We want to answer your questions about ethical non-monogamy or relationships. Send your questions to our contact information below. Want to submit your relationship challenges and have the hosts help you out? Please send a brief description of what you need help with in 4 to 6 sentences and we will answer your question on the podcast. All names will be anonymised. Contact us: Twitter: @LessThan83Pod Email: LessThan83Pod@gmail.com Reddit: /u/LessThan83Podcast Facebook: facebook.com/LessThan83/ Patreon: Patreon.com/LessThan83Pod Website: LessThan83-Podcast.Pinecast.co Credits Co-hosts: Kevin Leahy and Elisabeth Editing: Jordan Davis Intro music, transition music, and credit music are all by Antti Luode. Awesome logo design by Carmen Bolding Support LessThan83 Podcast by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/lessthan83-podcast

Hello friends, welcome back to a new episode of The Curious One! I have a very interesting episode for you.. I'm diving head first into relationships, and more specifically, polyamory. If you have not heard of polyamory before, it can be defined as the philosophy or state of encouraging simultaneous loving relationships with the full knowledge and consent of all parties. Although, each form of polyamory will be defined differently depending on the individuals involved. In this episode I sat down with Lindsay Dixon to chat about her personal journey with polyamory. Lindsay has been with her partner for over 11 years and they have been exploring polyamory for 6 years now. Lindsay and her partner have a son, and her metamour (the partner of one's partner, with whom one does not share a direct sexual or loving relationship), has been in her life for over six months now.In our conversation we journeyed through:what does polyamory mean to you?Lindsay's personal journey with polyamorythe biggest challenges she faced when she first transitioned into polyamorysociety's expectations around relationships / love and the effect that it has on usunpacking polyamory vocabulary how do you handle jealousy & can jealousy be viewed as a positive thing feminism & masculinity children and polyamory - the conversation she had with her son and sharing about their family dynamic Lindsay's advice to those who have children and are wanting to explore polyamorywhat happens if your partner is with someone that you do not like?what advice would you give to someone who wants to try polyamory or is just starting out on their polyamory journey?what piece of relationship advice would you give to individuals regardless of their relationship dynamic?what do you hope people take away from us having this conversation around polyamory?MENTIONED:The Curious One Episode 025: A Conversation About Masculinity // Andy Nguyen & Nuke Kombian (KingsOfHearts)Brene Brown (author)Creating An Affair Proof Marriage byThe Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman Find out your Love Languages HereHis Needs, Her Needs by Willard F. Harley, Jr.POLYAMORY RESOURCES:More Than Two by Eve Rickert and Franklin VeauxThe Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet HardyBoundaries by Dr. Henry CloudSex At Dawn by Christopher RyanCompersion, Polyamory Beyond Jealousy by Hypatia from SpacePolyamory | Psychology Today"Whatever your priorities, whoever you are, and whichever people you're fortunate enough to bring into your life, for a time, or forever, remember that healthy relationships start with you. They start with your own level of self-confidence, your individual ability to be present and committed to growth, and your personal dedication to be a net-positive for the world; to be someone who adds to the lives of others, rather than sapping them of joy and momentum." -Colin WrightFor more information, resources, and detailed show notes check out my website!

My guest today is Michael Garfield, a writer, musician, artist, poet-philosopher, paleontologist-futurist who's setting the seeds for a planetary renaissance. With incisive eloquence, he takes the threads of technology, science, and the wonders of the natural world to weave together a cosmic story of Life, one that needs to be shared more wildly. In our conversation we cover:Corona virus and the epistemic crisisCommunity and fragmentationEvolution as a multi-billion year remix projectPsychedelics as training wheels for transhumanismNested complexity, restoring democracy, and regenerative communitiesRewilding the futureThe power of ideashttp://www.samhbarton.com/podcast/rewilding-the-singularity-with-michael-garfieldLinksMichael on Twitter and InstagramFuture Fossils #145: Weaving A New Prehistory to Rewild The FutureHow to Live in the Future: The Future is a PlaceFuture Fossils on Apple PodcastsMichael's WebsiteThe Secret Language of Relationships Robert Bakker William Irwin ThompsonLindisfarne AssociationThe Collective Lindisfarne TapesSchumacher Centre for New EconomicsLynn MargulisPodcast with Shane Moss, 'Science vs Human Nature'Richard M. Doyle 'Darwin's Pharmacy'Roy J. Stewart 'The Way of Merlin'Michae's Video on Tech Ethics as Psychedelic ParentingLewis Hyde 'As Common as Air'Franklin Veau & Eve Rickert 'More than Two'Mark Nelson's book 'The Wastewater Gardener' and the documentary Spaceship EarthStuart Davis' podcast Aliens and ArtistsMichael's Future Fossils Podcast on A Unifying Meta-Theory of UFOs & The Weird with Sean Esbjörn-Hargens‍Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/talk-of-today/donations

Danielle returns to the microphone to discuss "obligation relation." What happens to the relationship when we realize it is merely obligatory? How do we address that?Danielle shares the "Principles for ethical relationships" bill of rights, as found in the book More than Two: A practical guide to polyamory by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert. 

B+J finally get to reconnect after a long month of Bryde trying to stay sexy in the Mexican wilderness while Jeremie's life is in shambles up in the frozen wet tundra of Halifax. We throw it back to our chat with the hosts of Private Parks Unknown, Courtney and Sofiya, to finish off the best foursome we've had in recent years. They talk about the marriage contract and the poly contract, and the references available for the poly curious, including "Sex at Dawn", Christopher Ryan; "Ethical Slut", Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy; and "More Than Two", Eve Rickert and Franklin Veaux.  Check out Private Parts Unknown on Apple Podcasts and be sure to leave them a rave review! We love these gals and you will too! Support us on Patreon: 

The hosts of Private Parks Unknown, Courtney and Sofiya, met up with Jeremie and Bryde in LA for what turned out to be a big talk about the polyamory journey of the Turn Me On hosts. they talk about the marriage contract and the poly contract, and the references available for the poly curious, including "Sex at Dawn", Christopher Ryan; "Ethical Slut", Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy; and "More Than Two", Eve Rickert and Franklin Veaux. The conversation also picks apart the differences in approaches to sex around the world, and discuss Courtney and Sofiya's upcoming trip to Tokyo. Support us on Patreon:

EPISODE 125: Interview with Eve Rickert. Eve Rickert is the co-author of the books “More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory” and “Black Iron”, and the co-founder and publisher of Thorntree Press. Follow her work at thorntreepress.com as well as her personal blog at brighterthansunflowers.com. If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

In this Episode, Maggie and Derya tackle words! & Not just any words, common words used in the polyamorous community described by the popular book: “More Than Two” by Eve Rickert and Franklin Veaux! Laugh with us as we discover some new and old terms and learn a little bit more about the poly community and each other! As always, we’re getting very high, and it’s always very sexual! Wanna be on the podcast? Email us at HighlySexualPodcast@gmail.comFollow us on Instagram @HighlySexualPodcast

Samantha Manewitz is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and educator, and AASECT certified social worker currently based in Massachusetts. Rachel and Samantha discuss harm reduction and the processes of restorative and transformative justice. Optimistically, survivors forming the pods believe that change is possible for their perpetrators. She elaborates on the transformative justice 'pods' that were created by survivors of the Franklin Veaux scandal as well as how they operate. Diving into the systems that are responsible for enforcing justice, the conversation comes to include Scientology's justice systems and use of gaslighting. Hear more about Franklin Veaux from Eve Rickert's two part episode: https://soundcloud.com/indoctrinationshow/eve-pt-2 (Part 2) Learn more about Samantha's site, "Safety Beyond Safewords" here: https://www.beyondsafewords.com/ Stay tuned, Before You Go: "Do as I Say, Not as I Do" as a catchphrase among narcissists. Rachel calls out institutional betrayal of survivors and the effect of neglecting to create consequences for abuse.

Eve Rickert continues her discussion about the ways she and others were manipulated by a leader within the polyamory community through him withholding information, causing stress with emotional tests, and then withholding any gratification. After discussing his clouded history with an ex, and biased counseling sessions, she began to see that her feelings of intense love were actually feelings of intense relief, in the times that he was satisfied with their relationship. Stay tuned, Before You Go: Rachel speaks on how some manipulators orchestrate chaos as a way to test your reaction, and then use that against you. Speaking to more women that had been erased from Franklin's story, Eve encouraged them to come together to tell their stories: http://medium.com/@fv.survivor.pod/ Survivor Pod Medium https://polyamory-metoo.com/ Survivor Stories

Eve Rickert identified as polyamorous for 14 years, meaning she had multiple romantic partners simultaneously, with everyone's consent. When she became involved with Franklin Veaux, a well-known polyamorous writer whose sprawling website had become a touchstone for many polyamorous people; the two worked together for many years, helping him publish several books based on his past polyamorous relationships. Over time, she began to suffer from the very brand of "ethical" polyamory they were promoting-- and started to see signs that Veaux, and his history, were not what she'd been led to believe. She and five other women came forward within a transformative justice framework, committed to telling their stories while also offering Franklin an opportunity to listen and learn from the ways he'd affected the women in his life. Since then, about six more women have come forward. Stay tuned, Before You Go: Rachel explains the show's new direction, and how the IndoctriNation podcast aims to explore manipulation tactics through a variety of social realms. Read the survivor accounts here: https://polyamory-metoo.com/ Veaux survivor pod Medium page: http://medium.com/@fv.survivor.pod/ Eve and Franklin's book: "More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory", one of the most popular books on polyamory https://www.amazon.com/More-Than-Two-Practical-Polyamory/dp/0991399706

Want to work with me? Join the July cohort of the Power in Pleasure course. Check out details and pre-enroll at dawnserra.com/pleasurecourse. My coaching practice has a few new spots available. If you could use support around the places where you feel most stuck, I'd love to support you. Details about my coaching practice are here: dawnserra.com/work-with-me . In a Sex Gets Real first, this episode is Part Three of a THREE part series featuring Eve Rickert, Samantha Manewitz, and Aida Manduley. This episode is my conversation with therapist Aida Manduley. In it, we are building on the previous two episodes which included a conversation with Eve Rickert and Samantha Manewitz as we explore emotional abuse, accountability, and different ways of being in community with each other. Aida has been a part of several transformative justice processes and has tremendous perspective around how we can center those harmed without throwing out those who caused the harm. We also talk about how white supremacy impacts the ways we show up in life, the false promises made to cis men, and why grief work is crucial to alternative justice practices and accountability. We dive into why communities are where we should start when we're considering how harm happened in the first place and why we all need to adjust our expectations for how long these processes take. It's not a superhero movie where everything is resolved with one fell swoop. I cannot wait for you to hear this awesome conversation, and as noted in the other episodes, your financial help for the survivor pod would mean so much. Resources mentioned in this episode include: Initial statement on February 11th Update on March 25th Tracking spreadsheet where you can find most of the documents, updates, and conversations happening Survivor pod PayPal where you can donate some money (PLEASE DO THIS) to support the process If you've been accused of consent violations or harm, this piece by Tamara Pincus is a good place to start. Patreon supporters - head to patreon.com/sgrpodcast to hear my bonus chat with Aida Manduley on what helps and what hinders accountability processes. If you aren't a supporter, I'd love your financial support to help keep the show going. If you pledge $3 per month, you get access to exclusive weekly bonus content and if you support at $5 per month and above, you can help me field listener questions. Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. About Aida Manduley: Aida Manduley is an award-winning Latinx activist, international presenter, and trauma-focused clinician known for big earrings and building bridges. Trained as a sexuality educator, social worker, and nonprofit management professional, they’re* working to make the word a more equitable place through education, therapy, and community organizing. Their perspective centers intersectionality and maximizing kindness, while retaining both a sense of humor and a sense of justice. From The New York Times to The Rainbow Times, Mx. Manduley has been interviewed by a variety of media outlets. They were even brought on for a debate on the Laura Ingraham show—a popular conservative radio program—and lived to tell the tale. You can follow them on Twitter (@neuronbomb) or Instagram (@aidamanduley), like their page on Facebook, sign up for their newsletter (debuting September 2018), stay tuned to what books they’re nerding out with, and/or get more information about their professional accomplishments via LinkedIn. Grab the episode transcript at http://sexgetsreal.com/ep263

Want to work with me? Join the July cohort of the Power in Pleasure course. Check out details and pre-enroll at dawnserra.com/pleasurecourse. In a Sex Gets Real first, this episode is Part Two of a THREE part series featuring Eve Rickert, Samantha Manewitz, and Aida Manduley. This episode is my conversation with therapist Samantha Manewitz. We build on the conversation I had with Eve Rickert in Episode 261, exploring emotional abuse and gaslighting in relationships. One of the things Samantha stresses in this conversation is how normalized gaslighting is in the world right now. We have the highest levels of power (the US President) gaslighting an entire nation, and none of us are immune. We also explore some things that help reveal behaviors that might lead to emotional abuse and what one word can change the way we enter into relationships. This is an important and powerful conversation about how subtle emotional abuse can be, and how to look out for DARVO which is how emotional abusers position themselves as the victim. The survivor pod resources mentioned in this episode include: Initial statement on February 11th Update on March 25th Tracking spreadsheet where you can find most of the documents, updates, and conversations happening Survivor pod PayPal where you can donate some money (PLEASE DO THIS) to support the process If you've been accused of consent violations or harm, this piece by Tamara Pincus is a good place to start. Patreon supporters - head to patreon.com/sgrpodcast to grab your bonus content this week which includes a little PDF of the questions Samantha offered around helping to figure out if we're being gaslit, plus a few bonus minutes of our conversation AND an embodiment exercise that can help us arrive in the body in a gentle way. If you aren't a supporter, I'd love your financial support to help keep the show going. If you pledge $3 per month, you get access to exclusive weekly bonus content and if you support at $5 per month and above, you can help me field listener questions. Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. About Samantha Manewitz: Samantha Manewitz, LICSW CST, is an educator and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. She has trained mental health professionals, sex educators, and alt-sex communities on healthy communication, abuse prevention, and mental health in BDSM. Samantha was a featured presenter at multiple conferences, including CatalystCon West, American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT), Community-Academic Consortium for Research on Alternative Sexualities, and the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit. Among her therapeutic specialties are trauma (complex PTSD), sex therapy, couples therapy (level 2 Gottman trained), and gender affirming care for transgender/non binary clients. Samantha is also on the faculty of the Institute for Sexuality Education and Enlightenment, where she has presented on sexual coercion and psychotherapy with kinky clients. Stay in touch with Samantha at beyondsafewords.com. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous)

Want to work with me? Join the July cohort of the Power in Pleasure course. Check out details and pre-enroll at dawnserra.com/pleasurecourse. My coaching practice has a few new spots available. If you could use support around the places where you feel most stuck, I'd love to support you. Details about my coaching practice are here: dawnserra.com/work-with-me . In a Sex Gets Real first, this episode is Part One of a THREE part series featuring Eve Rickert, Samantha Manewitz, and Aida Manduley. This episode is my conversation with Eve Rickert. In it, Eve shares her experience of being in a relationship with Franklin Veaux for five and a half years. She talks about what it was like in the beginning and what happened over the course of time. A part of she shares reveals what it's like to be on the receiving end of gaslighting and emotional abuse: the questioning of self, the isolation, thinking that you're actually crazy. Eve shares about how difficult it was to begin untangling herself from the confusion of it all and what happened when she started speaking with other women Franklin had been in relationship with. We explore and question who gets to tell the stories, who gets to have the redemption arc, and how we (collectively) are so terrible at asking about the people who were a part of that person's redemption, how we ignore or invisibilize their voices and experiences. We also talk about how being someone who caused harm doesn't make you a bad person or a disposable person, and being a survivor of harm doesn't mean you didn't also cause harm. We desperately need more nuanced and messy understandings of relationship dynamics and behaviors, to move away from the good vs evil, pure vs villain narratives that force us into black-and-white categories. This also contributes to victim blaming and the "good survivor" story that so many survivors feel boxed in by. Eve also speaks about being witnessed at Southwest Poly Love Fest and how important that was for her, but how it also made her question why she got to be witnessed in that way and some of the other people impacted by abuse don't get that gift. In the end, this conversation is really about examining problematic behaviors and the harm they can cause, engaging in accountability processes that are outside of our criminal "justice" system, and what we need to start asking ourselves about how we're doing relationship. The survivor pod resources mentioned in this episode include: Initial statement on February 11th Update on March 25th Tracking spreadsheet where you can find most of the documents, updates, and conversations happening Survivor pod PayPal where you can donate some money (PLEASE DO THIS) to support the process If you've been accused of consent violations or harm, this piece by Tamara Pincus is a good place to start. Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. About Eve Rickert: Eve Rickert is the co-author of the books More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory and Black Iron, and the co-founder and publisher of Thorntree Press. Support Eve's fundraiser for suicide prevention here. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous)

This is a new addition to our show & feed, a series of mini-episodes that feature one-on-one conversations between the Waste Books doods, orrrrr other cools peeps we manage to sit down with. Cooper and Phil catch up on their non-WB projects, including Coop's new ventures into graphic design commission work and Phil's training as a professional musician. Topics include social media & self promotion, conspiracy theories, our reading practices (or lack thereof), and of course the extracurricular books we've been on, including The People's History of the United States by Howard Zinn, Hero with a Thousand Faces by Joseph Campbell, and More Than Two - A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert. This is a looser, "over coffee"-type conversation compared to our regular show. And shorter! Let us know what you think. To see more arty stuff by our funky collective of ne'er-do-wells visit waste-division.org Also if you're interested in subscribing to our monthly independent art distro visit our Patreon page! Produced by Cooper Malin & Phillip Griffin. Graphic by the Cooper Malin.  

  What is polyamory and how do you do it?* I asked writer Charyn Pfeuffer, who practices polyamory and open relationship styles. Over the past two decades, Charyn's sex-positive writing has appeared in more than 100 media outlets, including Marie Claire, Playboy, Refinery29, The Washington Post, Thrillist & Forbes. On this episode we discuss it all: Are people born poly? Can you be polyamorous and married? What about having children? We also define different types of polyamorous relationships and terms such as "primary partner", "nesting partner", and "fluid bonding." *This episode is a redo, sorry for the re-post, but was necessary. (Explained in ep) --- Books Charyn recommends for those curious about in entering into polyamory: 1. The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy 2. More Than Two by Eve Rickert 3. Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan 4. Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski 5. Eight Things I Wish I'd Known About Polyamory by Cunning Minx  --- Follow us! On Instagram/Twitter @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @charynpfeuffer   

An interview with Racheline Maltese, co-author of a new poly romance novel.  0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:30 Announcements and host chat I’ll be giving a talk on polyamory at Ignite Seattle on May 18 For more information, read the Eight Things I Wish I’d Known About Polyamory ebook or paperback For a how to guide to setting up your new poly relationship, read Tristan Taormino’s Opening Up; for a guide to poly ethics, read More Than Two by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert 8:30 Interview: Racheline, co-author of The Art of Three poly romance novel Racheline Maltese, co-author of the new poly romance novel The Art of Three with Erin McRae, talks about the process of writing a romance novel for poly folks. Racheline Maltese can fly a plane, sail a boat, and ride a horse, but has no idea how to drive a car; she’s based in Brooklyn. Erin McRae has a graduate degree in international affairs for which she focused on the role of social media in the Arab Spring; she’s based in Washington DC. Together, they write romance – often queer, often poly -- about fame and public life. Their work is currently available with, or forthcoming from, publishers including Cleis, Dreamspinner, Riptide, and Simon & Schuster’s Saga Press. As hybrid authors, they also independently publish. Like everyone in the 21st century, they met on the Internet.  Their website Buy The Art of Three here Follow Racheline on Twitter or on Instagram or Like their Facebook page Follow Erin on Twitter or on Instagram 28:30 Feedback Catherine gives feedback on episode 368 Metamour cock block—she was on the other side of a similar situation, and she is happy to hear the advice given! 33:45 Happy poly moment Meredith writes in with a sweet family happy poly moment 35:45 Thanks Thanks to Manfred and Natalie and welcome Stephanie to the Poly Weekly Playmates! 36:00 How to make this podcast better Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com and attach an audio comment or call the listener comment line at 802-505-POLY. Friend us on Twitter or Facebook, leave a comment here. Check out Poly Weekly podcasts at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Share this with a friend or write an iTunes review!  Our intro and outro music is courtesy of Pacemaker Jane, “Good Suspicions.”

Have you ever wondered what open relationships are like? Interested in how polyamory works, or what makes it different from swinging? Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert are here to talk about non-monogamy! Franklin has been non-monogamous for his entire life, starting when he took two girls to his high school senior prom. Eve has been polyamorous since 2004. Together, theyre the authors of the polyamory how-to book More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory, where they talk about how to make compassionate, committed non-monogamous relationships work (and even offer advice for all kinds of relationships!) Today they will share their advice for couples looking to open up their relationships, and we will discuss how to deal with relational jealousy and why it is important to treat people as people, rather than things. We will also discuss the different types of polyamorous relationships and the 'poly' subculture! If you are monogamous, curious, experimenting or poly, this show will have something that everyone can learn about relationships.

Eve and Franklin wrote More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory. You can learn  more about them and their book at their site: http://www.morethantwo.com/

A chat on ethics, the book tour and more with the co-authors of More Than Two, Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert! Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com or www.facebook.com/polyweekly

RULES, AGREEMENTS AND BOUNDARIES, OH MY!  “More Than Two” authors Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert offer a problem solving toolkit for your relationship, no matter what the style, while examining polyamory as a cultural and ethical system for channeling non-monogamy. TOPICS: Poly Theory, Swinging, Casual Sex, Small Town Swingers, “Pearl Harbor,” “Frozen,” “Drinking Buddies,” “Her,” Intrinsic Relationship Styles, Military Couples, Moral Practicalities, Con Sex, 100 Mile Rule, “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” Polyfidelity, Polyfamily vs Tribe, Religious Polygamy, Pitfalls of Passive and Triangular Communication, British “Last Biscuit” Problem, Metamour, Listening Skills of Direct Communication, Rules vs Agreements vs Boundaries, Kitty Ears, 2 Ethical Commandments, Reversal Thingy-ness, Training Wheels, Self Work and Regional Online Dating!

How do you come to accept and embrace polyamory when it wasn't your idea? Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert, who are currently crowdfunding a new poly 101 book, give advice! Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com or www.facebook.com/polyweekly