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Have you ever been overwhelmed, or worry about saying the wrong thing? Join Sarah as she welcomes special guests Saundra Dalton-Smith and Lori Stanley Roeleveld to discuss their book Colorful Connections. Equip yourself to have healthy conversations.
Have you ever been overwhelmed, or worry about saying the wrong thing? Join Sarah as she welcomes special guests Saundra Dalton-Smith and Lori Stanley Roeleveld to discuss their book Colorful Connections. Equip yourself to have healthy conversations.
Ever wonder if you're making a difference in your world? There's a lot on your plate. Everyday tasks pile up and your weeks are packed. Too often activities take precedence over people. It's easy to feel like you're not making a real impact on your loved ones, workplace, or community. But the stories of biblical women answer, "Yes, you do make a difference!" Thursday on Mornings with Eric and Brigitte, author Lori Stanley Roeleveld offers us the chance to realize the power of our influence. In examining the lives of pairs of women from the Bible, we will discover how their contrasting choices allowed these women to influence future generations. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Navigating conversations about race doesn't always have to feel like a minefield. Join us for today's episode as we chat with Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith and Lori Stanley Roeleveld, two unlikely co-authors who God brought together to write a book called Colorful Connections: 12 Questions About Race That Open Healthy Conversations. Together we will discover how to talk about race in a way that values the experiences of others, emphasizes listening over just getting a point across, and is filled with grace. RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE colorfulconnectionsbook.com Purchase your copy of Colorful Connections! Connect with Dr. Saundra on IG! Connect with Lori on IG! ABOUT OUR SPECIAL GUESTS Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith is a board-certified internal medicine physician, work-life integration researcher, speaker, and host of the I Choose My Best Life Podcast where she shares biblical ways to help you live fully, love boldly, and rest intentionally. Her previous books include Sacred Rest, Set Free to Live Free and Come Empty. Learn more at ichoosemybestlife.com. Lori Stanley Roeleveld is a Christian coach, author, and speaker with degrees in psychology and biblical studies. Lori's previous books include Jesus and the Beanstalk and Running from a Crazy Man (and Other Adventures Traveling with Jesus). She also writes a popular blog at www.loriroeleveld.com.
How can we have connective conversations on race and ethnicity? Today's guest, Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith offers guidelines from the book she co-authored with Lori Roleveld. Listen in to learn how you can ask the right questions, reach out to build bridges, and listen with your heart to connect effectively with people whose ethnicities and backgrounds differ from yours. Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith is a board-certified internal medicine physician, work-life integration researcher, speaker, and host of the I Choose My Best Life Podcast where she shares biblical ways to help you live fully, love boldly, and rest intentionally. Her previous books include Sacred Rest, Set Free to Live Free and Come Empty. Learn more at ichoosemybestlife.com. Lori Stanley Roeleveld is a Christian coach, author, and speaker with degrees in psychology and biblical studies. Lori's previous books include Jesus and the Beanstalk and Running from a Crazy Man (and Other Adventures Traveling with Jesus). She also writes a popular blog at www.loriroeleveld.com. Dr. Smith relates the process of writing about race and ethnicity with an author she didn't know well. She explains this co-authoring journey helped inform the content because the book is intended to guide readers in engaging with strangers who differ from them. Dr. Smith discusses the importance of setting ground rules for these potentially difficult conversations. She notes that both parties should feel safe in sharing their feelings. A few other key elements in setting the framework include: Don't take offense quickly. Honor one another's needs to be heard. Consider the best way to love the other person by seeing their heart needs from their perspective. Share your feelings without condemnation. We discuss the art of listening. Saundra notes this is the first of 3 entry points, with the others involving learning and leadership. Dr. Smith emphasizes how leading the way to connection does not require one to be an expert. Saundra discusses how to ask better questions. She addresses the problematic question, "Am I a racist?" The question causes us to end the conversation by checking a quick "no" in the response box instead of inviting deeper investigation. Instead, we should examine our thoughts and behaviors to discover how we can grow and become more inclusive. Colorful Connections includes reflection questions at the end of each chapter. Dr. Smith highlights the need for diversity in churches and organizations as an important topic that all of us have a role in addressing. Saundra clarifies that this issue impacts all ethnicities, so she and Lori invited guest authors from a variety of ethnic backgrounds and experiences to contribute to Colorful Connections. We discuss how Colorful Connections can serve as a group study and list examples of various types of groups that might benefit from engaging in the content and questions. Dr. Smith encourages listeners to introduce the topic of race in ways that prove life-giving in our ongoing and new relationships with those around us. Saundra recommends setting ground rules for your conversations and shares the guidelines she and Lori set in place during the process of co-authoring Colorful Connections. She notes how these discussions should provide an opportunity to go through the conversations as part of the healing journey. We discuss how to have the courage to engage in difficult conversations. Dr. Smith shares how she chose to speak life where there had been so much death. She decided that she couldn't simply wait for someone else to speak or write on the topics she hoped "someone" would speak or write about. For those who struggle to find a starting place, Dr. Smith recommends following radio broadcasts, podcasts, trainings, or social media accounts that share different ethnic perspectives. We clarify that it is not recommended to single out an individual to serve as your token expert to represent an entire ethnicity. We also discuss the opposite problem of declaring "color blindness" and ignoring a person's ethnicity altogether. Instead, we should remain aware of the person's ethnicity with cultural sensitivity. Learn more about Colorful Connections and get a study guide at https://colorfulconnectionsbook.com/. Get inspired now and get a copy of Tina Yeager's newest release, Upcycled: Crafted for a Purpose! Get your free downloadable flip book template at https://upcycledbook.com/
Many conversations are happening at home and in church about difficult and timely topics--but when it comes to race, too many Christians are silent. It's time to speak up. But where do we start? On Wednesday’s Mornings with Eric and Brigitte, physician and speaker, Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith tells how she and co-author, Lori Stanley Roeleveld shared vulnerable personal stories, biblical teaching, conversation starters, and practical next steps with readers in the hope that it would inspire them to begin their own colorful connections.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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In their new book Colorful Connections: 12 Questions About Race That Open Healthy Conversations, two women of different races, authors Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith and Lori Stanley Roeleveld work together to open healthy conversations about race. Colorful Connections came about because of a question from one of Roeleveld' s blog readers, asking her to write about how to have a hard conversation about race. Even though they had only met in professional settings, and weren't friends, Dalton-Smith agreed to join Roeleveld on this journey. Readers will see a real-time process as Dalton-Smith and Roeleveld walk this journey of healing, knowledge, and faith. Written in a conversational style between the authors, they have also widened the circle to include influencers like Jo Saxton, Jamie Ivey, Dr. Derwin Gray and others. Readers will appreciate Dalton-Smith and Roeleveld' s authentic approach to the vital issue of skin color and race conversations in today's world. Connect with Dr. Dalton-Smith: ichoosemybestlife.com Connect with Lori Stanley Roeleveld: www.loriroeleveld.com
It's easy to feel overwhelmed by the divisions in our world, especially with issues regarding race. Friends of the Busted Halo Show Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith and Lori Stanley Roeleveld help Christians start to heal these wounds in our communities with their new book, “Colorful Connections: 12 Questions About Race That Open Healthy Conversations.”
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All writers hit a point where they feel like giving up. Linda Goldfarb and Lori Stanley Roeleveld discuss perseverance strategies to help Christian writers stick with their calling.Linda's industry expert is Lori Stanley Roeleveld. Lori is a life coach, blogger, speaker, freelance writer, and disturber of hobbits. She's authored five encouraging, unsettling books, including Running from a Crazy Man, with a sixth in the works. Her latest release is Colorful Connections:12 Questions about Race that Open Healthy Conversations. She lives online at www.loriroeleveld.com. Linda and Lori discuss some common challenges Christian writers face that cause them to consider giving up. Lori shares her five strategies for helping writers stick with writing, build resilience, and not give up. They also answer the questions: Are there some writers who should give up?Are there some who just don't have the talent or skill to persevere? How do writers know if they're supposed to persevere or find a different calling?What are the rewards for perseverance? LinksLori Stanley Roeleveld7 Steps to Overcoming a Setback! PDF DownloadColorful Connections: 12 Questions about Race that Open Healthy Conversations.Check out Lori's post, Holding onto Faith Despite the Pressure to Let Go If you enjoy Your Best Writing Life's content- consider a monthly donation through Patreon. Support Your Best Writing Life podcastVisit our website, Your Best Writing Life websiteJoin fellow writers in our Facebook group, Your Best Writing LifeI'd love to hear your thoughts about this episode --LindaAbout your host - Linda GoldfarbBesides hosting Your Best Writing Life, Linda Goldfarb is a multi-published award-winning author, audiobook narrator, international speaker, board-certified Christian life coach, co-owner, co-founder of the LINKED® Personality System, and co-author of the LINKED® Quick Guide to Personality series.Linda also hosts her brand new Staying REAL About Faith & Family podcast - Check it out!Linda and her hubby, Sam, are empty nesters leading full lives. Life is a new adventure every day with four adult children and 15 grandbabies. She loves sipping frothed coffee with friends, traveling the countryside with Sam, and sharing transparent truth to help others take their next best step-- personally and professionally. Visit the website of our host, Linda Goldfarb
In this episode, I am discussing the appropriate responses for Christians in light of our identity as oaks of rightesousness in our communities. According to Lori Stanley Roeleveld in her article on crosswalk.com, "In Isaiah 61:3, The sense of this idea that we will be “oaks of righteousness” is that we will have a sturdy righteousness, able to withstand the tests of time, weather, hardship, and pestilence. We will endure. Our faith will remain evergreen. The roots of our righteousness, found in Jesus Christ, will be expansive, securing us against all storms and we will rise toward the light of Christ as we grow ever closer to our home with Him. The strength of this righteousness stems from the fact that it is a gift to us, it is the righteousness of Jesus Christ. Nothing we do and nothing that comes against us can tarnish or compromise the righteousness that comes from Jesus" (https://www.crosswalk.com/faith/bible-study/what-are-the-oaks-of-righteousness-described-in-isaiah-613.html) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/i61-exploits/message
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Conflict can be uncomfortable. Not many of us enjoy broaching a tough topic of discussion, especially when we have strong opinions. No matter whether we have to talk about a sensitive topic with a colleague, a child, or a client; how can we navigate a potentially tricky situation without causing the other person to become defensive or blow up? Author Lori Stanley Roeleveld shares how there is an art to hard conversations that can help us avoid a conflicting situation. Listen in as she shares actionable tips you can use to defuse any volatile discussion. Watch full interview >>> http://bit.ly/MimikaTV028
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You know that talk you need to have... but want to avoid having? Well, before you have it, listen in on this conversation with Lori Stanley Roeleveld for tools that just might help. You're welcome!
Did you grow up in a home where things were kept silent? Did your parents ask you to keep secrets or warn you not to talk about certain family problems outside of the house? In today's Better Together podcast, we're talking about how to stop suffocating in silence and learn how to have hard conversations. Even as Jesus taught that the Truth of the gospel would set us free from eternal condemnation, we also know that speaking God's Truth also frees us from the strongholds of secret sin, generational curses and other dysfunctional behaviors. My guest is Lori Roeleveld, author of the new book, The Art of Hard Converations: Biblical Tools for the Tough Talks that Matter (2019). Today, Lori explains why we struggle to have hard conversations and how to learn how to have them. I know first hand how secrets are strongholds that can drain the hope of even the strongest families. If you've been sitting in silence and afraid of speaking up for any reason, Lori's words just might be divine timing for you. Here's what we'll cover: Three conversational styles: Turtle, Hawk or Chameleon; Two questions that you need to ask before beginning a hard conversation; How to create a safe culture in your home so that you kids learn how to have healthy hard conversations; How to embrace hard conversations with adult kids and not alienate them. Connect with Lori! Website | Facebook | LinkedIn | Twitter The Art of Hard Conversations Book About today's guest... Lori Stanley Roeleveld is an author, speaker, and disturber of hobbits who enjoys making comfortable Christians late for dinner. Biblical, funny, and real, she inspires courage and Christ-centered confidence. She’s authored three non-fiction books including Running from a Crazy Man, Jesus and the Beanstalk, and the upcoming, The Art of Hard Conversations, as well as a novella, Red Pen Redemption. Though she has degrees in Psychology and Biblical Studies, she learned the most from studying her Bible in life’s trenches. Blogger. Wife. Mother of adults. Part-time giant-slayer. Not available for children’s parties. Though she once tried to escape, she adventures with Jesus in a small town in Rhode Island where her husband is renovating his dream house. To join the adventure, knock on her door at www.loriroeleveld.com.
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Lori Stanley Roeleveld is a disturber of hobbits who enjoys making comfortable Christians late for dinner. She's authored an inciteful blog since 2009; a pursuit that eventually resulted in two provocative non-fiction books, Running from a Crazy Man (and other adventures traveling with Jesus) and Jesus and the Beanstalk (Overcoming Your Giants and Living a Fruitful Life) as well as an unsettling novella, Red Pen Redemption. Lori's blog has a modest but faithful daily readership and yet, in 2015 it was named one of the Top 100 Christian Blogs and a single post was viewed over 2 million times, another went viral on Facebook. Lori has published newspaper and magazine articles, poetry, and plays. Her novels, short stories, and Bible studies have won several awards. Besides degrees in Psychology and Biblical Studies, Lori earned her Masters in motherhood, homeschooling her two children through graduation. Now, she draws energy from helping writers find their voice and see God's vision for their work. In her day job, Lori writes the stories of real families in crisis so others see their strengths and values, not just their problems. You'll find Lori at her website www.loriroeleveld.com. If not, know she's somewhere slaying dragons.
Lori Stanley Roeleveld is a disturber of hobbits who enjoys making comfortable Christians late for dinner. She’s authored an inciteful blog since 2009; a pursuit that eventually resulted in two provocative non-fiction books, Running from a Crazy Man (and other adventures traveling with Jesus) and Jesus and the Beanstalk (Overcoming Your Giants and Living a Fruitful Life) as well as an unsettling novella, Red Pen Redemption. Lori’s blog has a modest but faithful daily readership and yet, in 2015 it was named one of the Top 100 Christian Blogs and a single post was viewed over 2 million times, another went viral on Facebook. Lori has published newspaper and magazine articles, poetry, and plays. Her novels, short stories, and Bible studies have won several awards. Besides degrees in Psychology and Biblical Studies, Lori earned her Masters in motherhood, homeschooling her two children through graduation. Now, she draws energy from helping writers find their voice and see God’s vision for their work. In her day job, Lori writes the stories of real families in crisis so others see their strengths and values, not just their problems. You’ll find Lori at her website www.loriroeleveld.com. If not, know she’s somewhere slaying dragons.
Lori Stanley Roeleveld is a disturber of hobbits who enjoys making comfortable Christians late for dinner. She’s authored an unsettling blog since 2009; a pursuit that eventually resulted in her first book, Running from a Crazy Man (and other adventures traveling with Jesus). Lori’s blog has a modest but faithful daily readership and yet, in 2014, one post was viewed over 1.2 million times and another was shared over 275,000 times on Facebook. Lori has published newspaper and magazine articles, poetry, and plays. Her novels, short stories, and Bible studies have won several awards. Besides degrees in Psychology and Biblical Studies, Lori earned her Masters in Motherhood homeschooling her two children through graduation. Now, she draws energy from helping writers find their voice and see God’s vision for their work. In her day job, Lori writes the stories of real families in crisis so others see their strengths and values, not just their problems. You’ll find Lori at her website www.loriroeleveld.com or on her front porch writing. If not, know she’s somewhere slaying dragons.