Podcasts about not color blind

With this appearance, my friend Kevin A. Patterson ties the record for most Detoxicity appearances. This is his fourth time on the pod, and my man drops gems every time. Kevin is the author of "Love's Not Color Blind; Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Relationships", he co-authors the "For Hire" series of graphic novels, and he runs the site Poly Role Models. This typically wide-ranging conversation covers everything from parenting challenges to relationship pointers to how we feel as two guys who grew up with '90s hip hop and lyrical content that's sometimes a little cringe. I hope you have as much fun listening as we did chatting!

Kevin and Antoinette are a polyamorous couple... with children. Kevin is the author of Love's Not Color Blind. The Open Nesters Podcast.

We're back! Sarah and Alex talk about race, representation, and the benefits of being the weird kid with author Kevin Patterson. mistakescast@gmail.com * https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/ More from Kevin Patterson: https://www.kevinapatterson.com/ https://unfuckyourpolyamory.com/ Love's Not Color Blind by Kevin Patterson For Hire series by Kevin Patterson https://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/ * https://www.instagram.com/polyrolemodels/ * https://www.facebook.com/polyrolemodels  Mentioned in the episode: Southwest Love Fest Too Late by Bloodstar

In this episode, I interview Kevin Patterson, author of Love's Not Color Blind and Educator with Unf*ck Your Polyamory. We talk about compassion, freedom, and control in non-monogamy, polyamorous weddings, race and non-monogamous spaces, pitfalls in long-term polyamory, communication skills, and more!    Ads:  - Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands - Enjoy porn you can learn from. Use code XOSCHOLARS and get a seven-day free trial at https://afterglow.ubpages.com/xoscholars/   Kevin:  https://www.instagram.com/polyrolemodels/   If you want a more on polyamory and ethical non monogamy, check out these past episodes:  -08 with Dirty Lola  - 177 Open Smarter with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova - 199 and 200 with Jessica Esfandiary and Lauren Urbiztondo - 137 and 214 with Kate Loree - 227 with Irene Morning   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.   Loving disclaimer:  Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show. 

This week at the Kitchen Table Britany and Nick interview author and polyamory educator Kevin Patterson. Together they discuss common polyam mistakes, how to communicate boundaries with your partners and how to have easeful relationships with your metamours. They also cover Kevin's book, Love is Not Color Blind, fetishization and how we can support more inclusive polyamory. NEW EPISODES EVERY WEDNESDAY! Find them at http://www.kitchentablepodcast.com/ (http://www.kitchentablepodcast.com) **Please leave us a review on iTunes (5 stars if you're feeling inspired) and subscribe, follow and share this podcast. Help us spread the love. It really does help.** FOLLOW KEVIN: Instagram: @Polyrolemodels Twitter: @Polyrolemodels https://www.kevinapatterson.com/ FOLLOW KITCHEN TABLE: Twitter: https://twitter.com/ktablepodcast (@ktablepodcast) FOLLOW BRITTANY: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexually_liberated/ (@sexually_liberated) http://www.brittanypolicastro.com/ (http://www.brittanypolicastro.com) FOLLOW NICK: https://www.instagram.com/nickantonyphoto/ (@nickantonyphoto) http://www.nickantony.com/ (http://www.nickantony.com) Follow me at https://www.instagram.com/sexually_liberated/ (@sexually_liberated) on Instagram Kitchen Table Podcast is produced by Audionauts with music by Greta Hotmer.

Zayna and Jonathan get personal this month and talk about insecurity with help from Jamie in Singapore and from Kevin Patterson, author of the excellent book Love's Not Color Blind who joins us on the line from Philadelphia.  Almost everyone has to deal with insecurity whether they're monogamous or non-monogamous, but within CNM there can be extra pressures because our partners are free to date other people and we compare ourselves unfavourably to their other loves.  Jamie talks about insecurities arising out of trust issues with a former partner, Kevin speaks about imposter syndrome, Jonathan about the experience of being an adoptee and Zayna about feeling less-than in her professional field.

Dr. Liz Powell and Kevin Patterson share insights from their new online course, Unf*ck your polyamory 0:00 Introduction and host chat If you’re under 18, visit www.scarleteen.com 1:00 Poly in the news BBC 2 has a new drama called Trigonometry centered around black poly folks If you have questions, comments, or feedback call 802-505-POLY or email polyweekly@gmail.com and attach an MP3 file with your questions. To book us or anything that involves a calendar, email lustyguy@polyweekly.com. 2:00 Interview with Kevin Patterson and Dr. Liz Powell: Unfuck your polyamory Kevin Patterson has practiced consensual nonmonogamy since 2002. In 2015, he started Poly Role Models, an interview series and polyamory's most inclusive platform. This has led to the writing of the book, Love's Not Color Blind and along with co-writer Alana Phelan, the sci-fi novel series, For Hire. Dr. Liz Powell is a licensed psychologist (CA 27871) and coach who specializes in helping you build your most fulfilling, authentic life. They teach, write, and consult on areas of sexual diversity and pleasure, non-traditional relationships, and sexual empowerment. Unfuck your polyamory is a 6-week course covering polyamory 101, boundaries, couple privilege, jealousy and compersion, metamours, and power dynamics that will give you easy, guided practice to put your skills into practice right away. Kevin is at PolyRoleModels.tumblr.com, on Twitter at http://twitter.com/PolyRoleModels, Facebook at facebook.com/PolyRoleModels, Instagram at http://instagram.com/@PolyRoleModels. For Hire is on Facebook at facebook.com/ForHIreMag or you can order For Hire: Operator directly at tinyurl.com/ForHireMag1. Dr. Liz is at www.sexpositivepsych.com or www.drllizpowell.com, on Twitter at https://twitter.com/sexpospysch, Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/sexositivepsych, Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/drlizpowell. Their book is at http://buidingopenrelationships.com and YouTube channel is at http://youtube.com/c/sexpositivepsych. Join the community on Facebook at https://facebook.com/polyweekly  or Twitter at @polyweekly or @cunningminx, Instagram at cunning.minx or now on TikTok as @cunningminx. 29:00 Happy poly moment R shares a story of her anxiety NOT getting the better of her! 30:15 Thank you! Welcome new Poly Weekly Playmates Theresa, Rebecca, and Jillian! Thanks to our Poly Weekly Playmates for your financial support! We also love when you review us on Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcatcher (including Spotify!) and when you share us with your friends directly. Thanks also to Pacemaker Jane for letting us use their song Good Suspicions as our intro and outro music and to you for listening and sharing.

Geri is joined this week by Kevin Patterson - author (Love's Not Color Blind, For Hire: Operator, and For Hire: Audition) and educator (Unf*ck Your Polyamory with Dr. Liz Powell) to discuss his journey. We talk about what polyamory actually looks like in the real world, the role it plays in a day to day experience, and race and representation in the polyamorous and kink communities. Kevin is knowledgable, experienced, and a wonderful person to talk with - we know you'll enjoy it! Buy his book here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1944934464/ref=cm_sw_r_fa_dp_t2_DiNUzbMDAA9EWAnd follow him here! https://www.instagram.com/polyrolemodels/

Friend of the show and acclaimed author of “Love’s Not Color Blind” Kevin Patterson returns to update us about new projects, new books and everything he’s been up to! http://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/archive.org/download/sexwithtimaree378/sexwithtimaree378.mp3  

Kevin Patterson and Alana Phelan, coauthors of For Hire: Operator and the soon-to-be-released For Hire: Audition, talk about why they write a queer poly superhero universe. 0:00 Introduction and host chat Thanks to Anita Wagner for introducing me to the term “petamour” 1:30 Poly in the news Vice has a great new article about poly families and poly parenting 3:05 Contact us Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com and attach an audio comment or call the listener comment line at 802-505-POLY. If you want us to teach a class at your event, want us to coach you, or want to appear on the podcast, email lustyguy@polyweekly.com. 3:35 Interview: Kevin Patterson and Alana Phelan on writing inclusive fiction Kevin Patterson and Alana Phelan join us to talk about their next soon-to-be-released queer superhero book, For Hire: Audition. You may remember their last interview with us on episode 563 around For Hire: Operator or Kevin’s interview around his book, Love’s Not Color Blind. Harlequin is putting out a queer line of romance novels. Submit using Harlequin’s Romance Includes You mentorship (scroll down the page) runs until October 15, 2019. The Broken Earth Triology by N. K. Jenisin If It Makes You Happy by Claire Kann Find Kevin A. Patterson on his website, Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram. Find Alana Phelan on her website, Twitter, or Facebook. For Hire Audition’s IndieGoGo Gail Simone’s Twitter 26:30 Join the conversation To join the online conversation around this and other episodes, follow us on Twitter or Facebook. We love when you review us on Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcatcher (including Spotify!) and when you share us with your friends directly. 27:00 Thank you to our subscribers and contributors Thanks to Pacemaker Jane for letting us use their song Good Suspicions as our intro and outro music and to you for listening and sharing.  

Are you monogamous? Consensually non-monogamous? Ambiamorous? Polyamorous? Have you explored all of your options? And what can you learn from relationship types that are different than your own? Kevin Patterson joins Jess & Brandon to talk about his open marriage of 12 years and counting. He shares some of his mistakes and lessons as well as insightful advice on jealousy for people in monogamous relationships. Follow Kevin on... Instagram Facebook Pick up your copy of Kevin's book, Love is Not Color Blind here. Also check out For Hire: Operator here. This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.

Are you monogamous? Consensually non-monogamous? Ambiamorous? Polyamorous? Have you explored all of your options? And what can you learn from relationship types that are different than your own? Kevin Patterson joins Jess & Brandon to talk about his open marriage of 12 years and counting. He shares some of his mistakes and lessons as well as insightful advice on jealousy for people in monogamous relationships. Follow Kevin on... Instagram Facebook Pick up your copy of Kevin's book, Love is Not Color Blind here. Also check out For Hire: Operator here. This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts. If you've got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone's headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Ambiamory, Polyamory, Open Relationships 00:00:05 - 00:05:09 You're listening to the sacs with Dr Jess podcast sex and relationship advice, you can use tonight. Welcome to the sex with Dr jazz podcast. Brought to you my our friends at desire resorts in cruises. I'm Brandon wear your unofficial sexologist. And I'm just so Riley a soon to be retired sexologist. Oh, that sounds amazing. I gotta say love what we do have a lot of fun. But the idea of kicking back and travel in the world for six months sounds pretty amazing right now. So it's a six month retirement to six months sabbatical. I think so I think we'll go on a sabbatical in the next few years, we go pretty hard. We do. Actually, I'm letting out a big X hail this week because I handed in a book transcript on Monday, I filmed an entire video course yesterday. So I'll have a new book coming out next year co authored by the fabulous Marla, Renee Stewart, and our book is called the ultimate guide to Saddam and foreplay. And yes, foreplay counts as sex and. Is really about all things sexual? It's really not just seduction four play and Marla is getting married this weekend in Atlanta's so shout out to Marla and her partner. Esther I'm heading down in the morning for her wedding arm, nor growing, but I want you to tell us a bit more about the fem- of their wedding. 'cause it's pretty unique. Yeah, I'm pretty excited. First of all, I can't wait to see Marla dress. Because I've heard it's going to be read. And because it's Marla it's going to be fun Bula space. Fabulous. And I've been told as a guest that we are to wear bold colors with a military sexy theme. Why didn't we do this for our wedding? I don't know because I didn't wanna see you in like military military boy shorts. I look back at the photos of our wedding. And it was one of the best days of my life. But my attire is very different than what Iraq today. Yeah. You wore a white suit that wasn't skin-tight like the clothes. You wear today. Such tight clothing. Let's see it's form fitted. All right. Okay. Let's talk right now who's t-shirt is tighter. Yours are not a fair comment were at home. We're working out of our office our studio, and I was out I was running around so latex convention. Yeah. That was pretty good. Pretty good. My jeans have stretching the Manley Malone any short too, so Marla and Esther shadow to them big. Congrats coming up for this weekend. I don't know what to wear because we've been told to wear bright red, bold, blue or yellow and make sure it's military sexy. Now as a Canadian, I'm not even sure what military sexy is I how ever have number of neighbors who are quite into the ...

Kevin Patterson, Chris Smith, Lusty Guy, and Minx discuss what we mean by "toxic masculinity" and how we should respond to both the term and the thing itself. 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:15 Host chat 1:30 Topic: Toxic masculinity Kevin Patterson, creator of the Poly Role Models blog and author of Love’s Not Color Blind and For Hire: Operator, Chris Smith, a doctoral student at Howard University, author of Open to Love: Polyamory and the Black American and relationship researcher, and Lusty Guy, our cohost and producer. What is toxic masculinity? Setting absolutes on how gender can present and act. What makes it toxic? Anything in too great a quantity can be toxic. How toxic masculinity really relates to sports: if emotions are so key to teamwork, how can masculinity? What do we want “masculine” to be? It’s not inherent. Why is there a negative reaction to the idea of “toxic masculinity,” as in any other instance where too much of something is toxic? First response should be to do a self-assessment. How does this relate to polyamory? We need to beware of harem fantasies driving all the media representation of polyamory and of societal scripts of jealousy meaning love and other men being enemies. Everyone’s a little bit toxic. Find Kevin Patterson on email at PolyRoleModels@gmail.com, online at PolyRoleModels.tumblr.com, on Twitter at @PolyRoleModels, on facebook.com/PolyRoleModels. Oon Instagram at @PolyRoleModels, and his new fiction work For Hire: Operator is on facebook.com/ForHIreMag or on the web here: tinyurl.com/ForHireMag1 We talked with Kevin and Alana about this new work on episode 563 and about Love’s Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamory and Other Alternative Communities on episode 545. Chris Smith in on Instagram at @SmithChristopherN or via email at Tenabilitymovement@gmail.com. We talked with Chris about Poly and the Black American on episode 528. 32:00 How to make this podcast better Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com and attach an audio comment or call the listener comment line at 802-505-POLY. If you want us to teach a class at your event, want us to coach you, or want to appear on the podcast, email lustyguy@polyweekly.com. Friend us on Twitter or Facebook, leave a comment here. Check out Poly Weekly podcasts at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Share this with a friend or write a review on Apple Podcasts!  Our intro and outro music is courtesy of Pacemaker Jane, “Good Suspicions.”  

This week we're bustin' some myths about our fave relationship style: polyamory! Hear us get sassy about hierarchy, infidelity, stigma, and more... Hierarchical vs. Not | Solo Poly | Not Serious? | Sluts | Sex at Dawn | Cake | Failure | Break-Ups | Cheating | Whoever You Want | Synced Cycles | Ersties Podcast | Getting Permission | Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell | “I Could Never!” | Jealousy | Processing | Distraction | The 8-Armed Octopus of Jealousy | Comparisons | Orientation? | Building Open Relationships | Poly Role Models | Poly Land | I Am Poly and So Can You! | Love’s Not Color Blind

This conversation about sex and disability is essential listening for every human on the planet! Andrew Gurza helps us sit with and work through our discomforts around disability.  We talk ableism, inspiration porn, and the reason he chooses to identify with words most people find uncomfortable. Andrew tells us about his own difficulties as someone with cerebral palsy navigating queer spaces and dealing with jerks in the dating pool.  We also get down to the juicy stuff as Andrew shares details from his own sex life. Ken & Sunny theorize about Doja Cat’s new hit “Mooo!” and its relation to hucow fetish plus they share a heartfelt goodbye as they wonder what the next 8 weeks will bring. Don’t miss Andrew’s bonus story at patreon.com/americansex   Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo!    ____________________________________ Episode 55 Links   Andrew Gurza Twitter https://twitter.com/andrewgurza Andrew Gurza Website http://www.andrewgurza.com/ Andrew Gurza Patreon https://www.patreon.com/cripplecontent Disability After Dark Podcast http://www.andrewgurza.com/disability-after-dark/ Support the first line of sex toys for people with disabilities https://www.gofundme.com/sxtoydisabilityresearch Love’s Not Color Blind by Kevin Patterson https://www.amazon.com/Loves-Not-Color-Blind-Representation/dp/1944934464 “Mooo!” By Doja Cat (“Bitch, I’m a Cow”) Video https://youtu.be/mXnJqYwebF8 Sunny’s hucow fetish educational video https://youtu.be/qqp093vJPf4 Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) instagram.com/sunnymegatron   Episode 55 Sponsor & Giveaway Info   10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Ojoy Olive remote control kegel vibe giveaway ($89 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/oilve 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY    

A listener writes in to ask how to weed out the jerks when dating. 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:00 Host chat You’ve got me solo because LustyGuy and L are on vacation GREAT hanging out with Kevin Patterson on his Love’s Not Color Blind book tour 3:10 How to weed out the jerks Heather writes in to ask whether she should leave “poly” off her dating profile, since the last few guys either dumped her for someone else or might have been lying about being divorced. How does one weed out the creeps when dating? Poly is no guarantee of easy dating, any more than monogamy is Tips from No Dick Pics: Your Guide to Creating an Irresistible Online Dating Profile Define what polyamory means to you and state specifically how you practice it Try putting in a “test”—link to your user manual and ask a question from it to weed out anyone who hasn’t read it. Or put in a quote from your favorite movie and request that respondents put the title of the movie as their message subject—that way, you can see immediately if they took enough time to read directions or not. Set dating goals that are independent of other people’s actions, such as “go on five dates this month” or “meet with my friend to sift through messages together” or “spend one night a week on self-care” Go do thing you love; be your best and happiest self 15:15 Feedback Kim calls in to keep Minx honest 16:15 How to make this podcast better Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com and attach an audio comment or call the listener comment line at 802-505-POLY. Friend us on Twitter or Facebook, leave a comment here. Check out Poly Weekly podcasts at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Share this with a friend or write a review on Apple Podcasts!  Our intro and outro music is courtesy of Pacemaker Jane, “Good Suspicions.”

Kevin Patterson discusses his soon-to-be-released new book, Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamory 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:30 Announcements Solo Poly Con is in Seattle in April with early bird pricing until January 31 #sopoco18 Take the Relations Decisions Lab survey and click Participants>Open Relationship survey if you are currently monogamous and looking to open up your relationship Lush’s Polyamory bath bomb 5:15 Interview: Kevin Patterson Poly Role Models blog Love’s not color blind: race and representation in poly and other alternative communities New York Times Magazine article Poly Role Models Facebook page with all the book tour events He’ll be at Poly Living Philadelphia, Playground Conference in Toronto, CatalystCon, Poly Dallas Millennium and have stops in Portland, Olympia, Seattle, Vancouver IndieGoGo to get the book early and support the book tour! Enter to win your advance copy of Love’s Not Color Blind! Click on the Love’s Not Color Blind book tour, click the Share button to share it as a public post, and write a post to share it with your friends to enter! Find Kevin on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram 27:25 Feedback A listener calls in response to episode 517 to share a rare but serious danger of HSV 31:00 How to make this podcast better Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com and attach an audio comment or call the listener comment line at 802-505-POLY. Friend us on Twitter or Facebook, leave a comment here. Check out Poly Weekly podcasts at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Share this with a friend or write an iTunes review!  Our intro and outro music is courtesy of Pacemaker Jane, “Good Suspicions.”

Aaron & Adam continue their interview with Bob Kline, Filmation designer and layout artist.  Bob answers these baffling questions: Why was everything pink? What does the Starfleet uniform have to do with having a second turbolift on the bridge and can the Aqua Shuttle really go to warp? We also break the time barrier and zoom through the 80s and 90s to talk about  He-Man, Animaniacs, Gargoyles and more!   It's another jam packed episode so grab some Quisp, your Mego Trek toys and settle in! Chapters Intro  (00:01:03)   Not Color Blind (00:01:48)   Three Guys from Layout (00:06:09)   Ship talk (00:10:49)   Extra turbolift (00:21:09)   He-Man (00:39:54)   Animaniacs (00:43:39)   Gargoyles (00:52:18)   Closing (00:59:32)   Hosts Aaron Harvey Adam Drosin Guest Bob Klein Production Aaron Harvey (Editor and Producer) C Bryan Jones (Executive Producer) Matthew Rushing (Executive Producer) Ken Tripp (Executive Producer) Norman C. Lao (Associate Producer) Eric Extreme (Associate Producer)  Joo Kim (Associate Producer) Richard Marquez (Production Manager) Brandon-Shea Mutala (Patreon Manager).