Podcast appearances and mentions of worth program

In this episode Janine and Naomi interview the Worth Director, Kimberly Day and discuss the WORTH program and how it serves betrayed women in their healing and growth journeys. For more information and to register go to www.healingwithworth.org

Join us as we talk with Amie Woolsey about dating after divorce. In this episode we dive deeper into trusting yourself, doing your own work, and how to navigate stages of dating after divorce. To book a session with Amie Woolsey or to learn more about her, go to www.chooserecoveryservices.com. The Worth Group offers free therapist facilitated Christian based and LDS based groups for women healing from the sexual acting out of their spouse. Worth uses the betrayal trauma model which looks at betrayal through the lens of an attachment injury and as a result can cause trauma response in those it impacts. For more information on the Worth Program go to www.healingworth.org or email Worth@Lifechangingservices.com

Amie Woolsey, professional Betrayal Trauma Coach with Choose Recovery Services, shares tools and tips around dating after divorce. Listen as Amie dives into dating, boundaries, children, and more. Amie Woolsey is a Betrayal Trauma Coach and also a teacher for a young single adult class taught to women 18 and up. This is a 12-week class teaches about how pornography affects relationships, what healthy recovery looks like, what healthy intimacy consists of, warning signs of abuse, red flags, setting healthy boundaries and more. She also teaches courses on abuse along with a Believing In You coaching group for women who are ready to take their recovery to the next level. To learn more about Amie, go to www.lifecoachingwithamie.com or www.chooserecoveryservices.com To learn more about the Worth Program, go to www.healingwithworth.org

This week we have Tony Overbay joining our show to talk about trauma bonding. Tony Overbay is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (CA LMFT#92443), a Certified Mindful Habit Coach (CMHC), and a popular motivational speaker. Tony regularly speaks at corporate training events, schools, and churches in formal and casual settings mixing humor, clinical experience, his Christian faith, and a wealth of personal stories gleaned from years of helping others achieve their goals. To learn more about Tony, you can go to https://www.tonyoverbay.com/. The Worth Group offers free therapist facilitated Christian based and LDS based groups for women healing from the sexual acting out of their spouse. Worth uses the betrayal trauma model which looks at betrayal through the lens of an attachment injury and as a result can cause trauma response in those it impacts. For more information on the Worth Program go to www.healingworth.org or email Worth@Lifechangingservices.com

Even Triathletes Struggle with Pornography Addiction too! James discusses how being open and honest with talking about pornography is like committing social suicide. He was curious in his early teens which led to his addiction. We are not horrible people and should not be shamed. These are lies and the adversary is the father of lies. James can not express enough his gratitude to his Savior for being with him throughout this journey. James attributes Men of Moroni for teaching him the importance of learning about the God given traits of providing, protecting, and presiding. These qualities have shown him that he truly is capable in every way of being an amazing man of God. You are worth the blessings of the Savior! If you want to feel the spirit coursing through your body then stop listening to the lies of the adversary and start to fight. You are 800% worth it! With the Savior you will find the joys of life once again. First recorded: Aug 21, 2018 For more recovery resources & healing go to: https://www.lifechangingservices.org 1-877-HERO-877

Luke explains how addiction leaves you in a state of mental fog. He was so focused on the addiction that his brain was not able to retain many tender memories with his family. They would go through cycles where Cindy would catch Luke and then he would commit to stop and then she would catch him again and the cycle continued for years. Back then he didn't think it was a bad thing, he just thought he needed to stop because Cindy would get mad. She blamed herself for years and kept it secret because she felt ashamed. Cindy talks about the importance of taking care of herself and realizing that policing her husband was not going to solve anything. Even though it was Luke who had the addiction, they each were fighting the adversary on their own separate battlefield. Praying together even when the days were hard was one of the biggest tools that helped them stay unified in their battle. Fighting together is STRENGTH - fighting against each other is WEAKNESS. First recorded: May 2, 2017 For more recovery resources & healing go to: https://www.lifechangingservices.org 1-877-HERO-877 Other Podcasts from Life Changing Services: Eternal Warrior Podcast, Mothers Who Know & Healing with WORTH

Destin is 46yrs old, married, a father of 4 kids, and one of them currently serving a mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints shares his journey of addiction and finding hope through Christ with the Men of Moroni Program. He has been addicted to masterbation and occasionally pornography too since he was 15yrs old and didn't realize he was out of control until he could no longer feel the Spirit in his life. He found the Men of Moroni website and chose to call the number and started going to the meetings! He thought he was the only one with the same problem, but quickly found out that others struggle with the same addictions, he found brotherhood and healing as he continued in the program. He has now been clean for 157 days since he started the program! He says when he has he wants to be with his kids, when he didn’t have the spirit and was not in recovery, he didn’t want to be around them so they wouldn’t draw on the negative energy he had. He is now able to enjoy being with them and finds himself having a better attitude too. Destin has never tried any other programs, Men of Moroni was the first program he has tried and it's working for him. Listen to Destin learn how he uses the tools SLACK and PWR Journaling to help him stay on track with his goals. Even though he has completed the Men of Moroni program, he talks about how the Slack app reminds him of Why he fights and Why he doesn’t give up. He also uses the SLACK app to minister to others who are struggling. He has come to realize that he is a valiant warrior and that is why Satan has worked so hard to lead him away. One of Destin’s favorite quotes is - Are you clinging to the rod or holding on to it? First Recorded: Apr 11, 2017 For more recovery tools, resources & healing go to: Lifechangingservices.org | 1-877-HERO-877

5 sisters who were first connected through their experience with betrayal trauma, gather together in person for the first time after almost a year of first meeting through a online support group, to strengthen each other. Sharing your story is so hard, and Linda was hesitant to share her story too, these sisters were part of her very first "group," and she instantly bonded with them and they are now closer than friends, they are sisters. Take notes, as these sisters share what they have learned in their journey through courageously reaching out to others. We were all connected through the WORTH Program from Life Changing Services. Visit to find your own group: https://lifechangingservices.online/worth/ Please remember we got together on our own, this retreat/gathering/training camp was and is not part of the WORTH program, but was amazingly healing.

Markham has been married for 14yrs has 2 kids. He is now a Personal Warrior Trainer for the Men of Moroni Program and helps other YM and Men to achieve a 40%-60% improvement on the Man PWR Goals they set for themselves. His recovery started after 3yrs of white knuckling, his wife referred him to the Bishop who knew Maurice Harker who founded the Men of Moroni program and is when his official recovery started. First recorded Feb 24, 2017 For more support or information call 1-877-HERO-877 or email MofMBrothers@gmail.com | Meetings held online or in-person | @menofmoronibrothers

She had a feeling something was wrong in her marriage, but she just felt like a "naggy wife." She confided in a good friend and was able to see that her husband had been involved in pornography addiction. Then 3 experiences with the scriptures, a temple experience, a blessing and some lessons later helped her to see the darkness she had been in and helped prepare her for what was about to happen next in her life. The Lord had guided her in discovering her husband's addiction, she had felt guided to leave but she felt alone in her struggles, and was told to keep things quiet. She knew pornography was destroying her health, her kids, her testimony, the spirit in their home and now their marriage, but she knew she had to leave. Like the pioneers she knew, "I'm willing because I have to." She was taught that her story matters, from a trusted therapist. We aren't sharing the addict's story or trying to bring shame to anyone, the betrayed has a story too and it matters! First Recorded Mar 31, 2017

David can't remember when his addiction actually started, because as a child, he remembers fantasizing about his kindergarten teacher, it's been part of his entire life, until now. The Men of Moroni Program taught him how to fight battles against satan and now has the tools he needs to continue to overcome his addiction. First Recorded: Apr 11, 2017 - For more information call 1-877-HERO-877 or email MofMBrothers@gmail.com | Meetings held online or in-person.

Her son, as a 16 yr old young man who only had a flip phone, was still able to find ways to access pornography using sibling's devices and parent's computer which started his addiction. Learn the tactics his parents used to help him start his recovery. Recorded: Mar 22, 2017

“Can adult men really gain mastery over sexual (pornography) addiction? Can marriages recover from severe betrayal trauma?” Luke & Alana, leaders and coordinators of Men of Moroni, our self-mastery training program for men, share their story of a 15yr marriage. Alana pregnant with their 5th child, found pornography on her husband's phone 7yrs after the first discovery. 7yrs ago they took a trip to their bishop and attended a few addiction recovery meetings but that was not enough to keep Luke from acting out down the road. The recent discovery led to a whole lot more disclosures from Luke, Luke living in a hotel to find his own way to recovery, and Alana finding healing on her own through the Atonement of Christ, while raising their 4 kids alone and pregnant. After finding the WORTH Group & Men of Moroni from Life Changing Services, they continued to learn more tools to first help heal themselves and then their marriage. Though their marriage was shattered by addiction, it was able to heal through the Atonement of Jesus Christ. For more recovery resources & healing go to: https://www.lifechangingservices.org 1-877-HERO-877

Hali, mother of 4 shares her story about going through challenging times with her husband and reached out to Life Changing Services for help. She went through counseling sessions, took Eternal Warriors classes, was part of the WORTH group and was able to learn about what satan was trying to do to her as a woman, wife, mother and daughter of God. She is now an Eternal Warriors mentor! This interview was first recorded Jan. 25, 2018. For more recovery tools, resources & healing go to Lifechangingservices.org | 1-877-HERO-877

Karen Broadhead interviews MaryAnn Michaelis, who's participated in and now leads several of LCS' W.O.R.T.H. Groups. MaryAnn courageously shares her story and experience with betrayal trauma after finding out about her husband's addiction to pornography, while also experiencing infertility for many years. This interview was first recorded in 2017. For more recovery resources & healing go to: https://www.lifechangingservices.org 1-877-HERO-877

Femcho a Unique Fitness and Self Worth Program for Teen Girls Tina de Lemps President & Founder Femcho & Bfit. Tina de Lemps is a leading expert and innovator in the field of personal training and fitness. By combining her more than 30 years of experience, love of movement and passion for healthy living. Listen and learn about the exciting program FEMCHO for our young girls. Ms. de Lemps currently serves as the Director of Fitness, Health and Wellness at various prestigious country clubs in the metropolitan New York area including the Muttontown Club of East Norwich, NY since 2005 and Delaire Country Club in Delray Beach, Florida. B.FITTM also specializes in providing on-site trainers to private gyms and exclusive residences in NYC, Long Island and Florida. Tina's career began in 1980 when she launched the flagship BODY DESIGN BY GILDA, the first true aerobics studio in NYC. She also collaborated with Jake Steinfeld in the late 80's to create the popular BODY BY JAKE & TINA workout series. Ms. de Lemps holds an Associate's Degree from the Fashion Institute of Technology in New York City, a Bachelor's of Science degree from Brooklyn College in Brooklyn, NY, Minor in Dance Education. Tina is a Certified Health Coach, Institute for Integrative Nutrition, studies in Anatomy and Applied Kinesiology, The Laban/Bartenieff and Institute of Movement Studies and is presently continuing her studies in Pilates, Zumba, and Anatomy through Yoga. Once again anticipating a need in the field of wellness, Tina has developed Femcho*, a unique fitness and self-worth program for pre-teen and teenage girls.