Podcasts about healing after betrayal

Betrayal during a marriage can make you question your own mind, your memories, and your ability to trust what's right in front of you. If infidelity, lying, hiding, or a double life showed up in your marriage this episode can be your next step in your divorce healing journey.This is the second episode in the Ex-Files where I'm talking about why betrayal pain feels so different from “normal” breakup grief, and why your brain may keep reaching into the past to re-check old moments for clues. I share the validation so many women need to hear: being deceived is not evidence you're naive, broken, or unlovable. I explain concepts like betrayal trauma and betrayal blindness, and how intrusive thoughts, hypervigilance, and sleepless nights can be a documented nervous system response, not a personal failure.From there, I get practical. I walk you through how to rebuild self-trust after betrayal by separating facts from the story your brain layers on top, grieving the reality you thought you were living in, and setting boundaries with rumination so you're not trapped in the 2 a.m. timeline replay. You'll also learn grounding tools you can use immediately and a simple approach to rebuilding confidence through small daily decisions that honor your intuition.If you're ready to stop outsourcing closure and start coming home to yourself, press play. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a quick rating or review so more women can find support when betrayal turns their world upside down.To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.======================================DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR EDUCATIONAL, INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND ARE NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING PSYCHOLOGICAL, COUNSELING OR PROFESSIONAL HEALTHCARE ADVICE. =======================================

Is true healing after infidelity really possible? When trust is shattered by betrayal, the pain often feels insurmountable—turning love and certainty into confusion, grief, and self-doubt. The world seems to shift on its axis, leaving many to quietly question whether relationships can ever fully recover or whether individuals can truly reclaim safety and a sense of self after such a rupture. In this episode, listeners will discover compassionate guidance for facing the aftermath of intimate betrayal and pathways toward real healing. The conversation explores why facing uncomfortable truths is a necessary starting point, what it means to rebuild safety and internal clarity, and how to find empowerment amidst pressure from others and oneself. Moving through foundational steps and the common phases of recovery, this episode offers both validation and tools for anyone unsure of what comes next—reminding listeners that, with intentional effort, hope and growth are within reach. Tammy Gustafson, MA, LPC, is a trauma-informed licensed professional counselor, coach, and speaker with over fifteen years of experience. She holds a master's degree in counseling and is the founder and CEO of Betrayal Healing and LiveFree Counseling. She is the bestselling author of Broken to Brave: Your Courageous Act of Healing After Intimate Betrayal, and she hosts the annual Betrayal Healing Conference, an international gathering of hope and expert guidance.   Episode Highlights 03:48 The unique pain of intimate betrayal and the shattering of trust. 06:17 Navigating uncertainty: Deciding whether to stay or leave after betrayal. 10:07 The necessity and process of full disclosure in healing betrayal. 14:34 Childhood roots and the myths around blame in infidelity. 16:37 Ownership and the importance of responsibility. 22:27 Key foundations of repair: Full ownership and avoiding defensiveness. 24:56 Expressing emotions and empowering the betrayed partner. 28:14 Grieving, acceptance, and the importance of safety in the healing process. 31:51 The four phases of betrayal recovery. 35:30 Outcomes after betrayal and the possibility of growth. 37:10 Indicators of healing: Rebuilding trust and recognizing positive change. 40:07 Sustaining recovery: Shifting needs, integrity, and the journey toward growth.   Your Checklist of Actions to Take Allow Time for Clarity: Resist immediate pressure to decide whether to stay or leave; give yourself space to grieve and process before making big decisions. Seek Full Disclosure: Insist on obtaining the full truth about the betrayal, ideally with the support of a therapist who specializes in betrayal trauma. Own Your Emotions: Permit yourself to experience and express all feelings—including sadness and anger—throughout the healing process. Establish Safety: Ask yourself, "What do I need to feel safe?" and establish boundaries or environments that honor those needs. Expect 100% Ownership from the Betraying Partner: Require the partner who betrayed to take complete responsibility for both their actions and the impact on you. Look for Consistent Change: Observe for ongoing, consistent behavioral change and empathy from the betraying partner as indicators of healing. Consider Professional Support: Work with therapists individually and as a couple who are trained in betrayal and trauma to facilitate healthy communication and healing. Focus on Personal Growth: Prioritize your own healing, self-care, and post-traumatic growth, regardless of the relationship's outcome.   Mentioned Broken to Brave: Your Courageous Act of Healing After Intimate Betrayal (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Shifting Criticism For Connected Communication (free relationship guide)   Connect with Tammy Gustafson Website: tammygustafson.com Instagram: instagram.com/tammylgustafson Facebook: facebook.com/betrayalhealing  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tammy-gustafson-lpc-4179aaa3/   

Infidelity is one of the most devastating forms of betrayal—but why do people cheat? Is it always about love? Do people who are unfaithful actually feel guilt and remorse? If they do, how long does that guilt last? And perhaps the biggest question of all: Can a relationship truly heal after betrayal?In this episode of The Dr. Sarah Hensley Show, Dr. Sarah Hensley explores the psychology of infidelity through the lenses of attachment theory, neuroscience, trauma, and relationship psychology. Rather than offering simplistic answers, she examines the emotional, psychological, and relational factors that contribute to cheating, what genuine remorse looks like, and what it actually takes for couples to rebuild trust after betrayal.Whether you've been cheated on, struggled with infidelity in your own relationship, or simply want to understand why it happens, this episode offers evidence-based insight, compassion, and practical guidance. In this episode:Why people cheat—even in seemingly happy relationshipsIs infidelity always about sex, or is there something deeper?Do people who cheat truly experience guilt, shame, and remorse?How long does guilt typically last, and what influences it?The neuroscience and psychology behind betrayalHow infidelity impacts the nervous system and creates betrayal traumaCan trust be rebuilt after cheating?What healthy reconciliation actually requires from both partnersWhen healing together is possible—and when it may not beHealing after betrayal isn't about pretending it never happened. It's about understanding what happened, deciding what comes next, and learning whether trust can be rebuilt on a stronger foundation.If this conversation helps you better understand betrayal, relationships, and emotional healing, subscribe for more episodes on attachment styles, trauma recovery, mental health, and healthy relationships.Patreon link: patreon.com/TheDrSarahHensleyShowDr. Hensley's Hybrid Group Coaching: https://courses.thelovedoc.com/group-coachingBook one on one with Dr. Hensley or one of her certified coaches: Virtual CoachingPurchase Dr. Hensley's online courses: https://courses.thelovedoc.com/coursesTik-Tok: @drsarahhensleyInstagram: @dr.sarahhensleyFacebook: Dr. Sarah HensleyYoutube: @Dr.SarahHensleyDisclaimer: The content shared on this podcast reflects personal experiences, opinions, and perspectives. The stories told are based on real-life events as remembered and interpreted by the hosts and guests. While we may discuss past relationships, custody matters, or personal dynamics, we do so from our point of view and with the intention of healing, education, and advocacy.Identities are not disclosed unless already publicly known or permitted, and any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental unless explicitly stated. The information provided is not intended to defame, malign, or harm any individual or entity.We do not offer legal advice or psychological diagnosis. Listeners are encouraged to consult with professionals regarding their specific circumstances.By listening to this podcast, you agree that the hosts are not liable for any losses, damages, or misunderstandings arising from its content.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-dr-sarah-hensley-show--6390558/support.

Can a marriage truly heal after betrayal or severe disconnect? On this episode of Married and Connected, host Kameran Al-Areqi is joined by psychologist, coach, and author Dr. Bruce Chalmer, who brings over 30 years of clinical wisdom helping couples navigate being stuck, infidelity, and relational crisis.Together, they dive into Dr. Chalmer's core philosophy: "Be kind, don't panic, and have faith." They expose why standard "communication rules" (like strict I-statements) often fail when couples are in a panic, how condescension and self-doubt undermine intimacy, and how to practice true forgiveness as an "inside job." Plus, Dr. Chalmer shares his framework for discernment—helping couples navigate whether to stay together, work through deal breakers, or walk away.

What if the thing that broke your heart was actually the thing that set you free? In this episode on emotional healing, Krista sits down with Lindsey Schwartz, founder of Powerhouse Women®, to explore betrayal, heartbreak, and what it takes to rebuild your life when everything you thought was certain falls apart. Lindsey shares her journey of learning to trust herself again, healing from deep wounds, and navigating the identity shift that comes after loss. Together, they explore self-awareness, self-worth, and how painful experiences can become the catalyst for deeper purpose, authenticity, and transformation. From the financial + emotional fallout of betrayal to dating again after a 13-year marriage, Lindsey opens up about the messy, nonlinear process of healing. If you're navigating heartbreak, a major life transition, or learning to find yourself again, this conversation is for you. We also talk about: The financial + legal fallout that kept Lindsey “unhealed” How betrayal trauma made Lindsey question who she could trust The surprising role of Lindsey's childhood + religious upbringing Dating for the first time after a 13-year marriage Why rejection became an opportunity to fall more deeply in love with herself The pressure to share a perfectly healed version of yourself online Being seen in the messy seasons instead of waiting until you have it figured out Resources: Instagram: @Lindseymarieoffical Instagram: @Powerhouse_women Website: www.powerhousewomenevent.com Sponsors: Super | Start building your credit the easy way. Go to https://Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score.  Hero Bread | Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to https://hero.co and use code A30POD at checkout. BetterHelp | This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. You don't have to say yes to everything this summer. Find support in therapy. Sign up and get 10% off at https://BetterHelp.com/almost30. The Absorption Company | Start taking supplements your body can actually absorb. Go to https://absorbmore.com and enter ALMOST30 at checkout for up to 35% off your first order. Ritual | Don't settle for less than evidence-based support. Save 25% on your first month at https://Ritual.com/ALMOST30.  To advertise on this podcast please email: partnerships@almost30.com. Learn More: Get your copy of Almost 30, A definitive guide to a life you love for the next decade and beyond. https://almost30.com/book Listen to Morning Microdose! A quick trip into higher consciousness - https://almost30.com/morning-microdose Watch on YouTube - https://youtube.com/Almost30Podcast Join our community - https://www.facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups Follow: https://instagram.com/almost30podcast https://tiktok.com/@almost30podcast Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer. 

Why Do I Still Feel Stuck? Understanding the Hidden Barriers to Healing After Betrayal Episode Summary One of the most common questions betrayed partners ask is, "Why do I still feel stuck?" Despite reading books, attending therapy, participating in support groups, and listening to countless podcasts, many people feel like they aren't making the progress they expected. In this episode, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis explore why feeling "stuck" is often a normal part of the healing process rather than a sign of failure. They discuss how trauma symptoms, incomplete disclosure, unresolved questions, unrealistic expectations, and misplaced responsibility can all interfere with recovery. The conversation also highlights the difference between individual healing and relational healing, emphasizing that while a relationship may temporarily feel stuck, an individual does not have to remain there. Dr. Skinner and MaryAnn explain how healthy boundaries, differentiation, trauma-informed therapy, support groups, and compassionate communication create the conditions for lasting progress. Listeners will also learn why healing is a journey rather than an event, why comparing your progress to someone else's can be harmful, and how small intentional steps toward joy, self-awareness, and personal growth often become the turning points that move people forward. Whether you are the betrayed partner, the partner seeking recovery, or a clinician walking alongside couples, this episode offers practical guidance and hope for navigating one of the most discouraging stages of betrayal recovery. Key Takeaways Feeling stuck is often a normal part of betrayal trauma recovery. Healing is a journey, not a single event or milestone. Trauma symptoms such as intrusive thoughts, triggers, nightmares, and hypervigilance often improve gradually—not immediately. Full therapeutic disclosure often becomes a major turning point in healing. You cannot control another person's recovery or prevent someone else's relapse. Healthy boundaries focus on your response rather than controlling another person's behavior. Differentiation builds confidence by helping you act consistently with your own values. Trauma-informed therapies such as EMDR, Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART), and Internal Family Systems (IFS) can significantly assist healing. Support groups and trusted relationships provide essential stability when a partner cannot yet respond with empathy. Recovery grows through self-awareness, compassion, patience, and small daily steps rather than perfection. Resources To learn more about betrayal trauma recovery, relationship healing, and the Intimacy Repair Method (IRM), visit: Human Intimacy: https://www.humanintimacy.com Explore courses, assessments, podcasts, and additional recovery resources designed for individuals and couples rebuilding trust after betrayal. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who may benefit from this conversation. Together we can help create healthier relationships built on honesty, compassion, and lasting intimacy.

Whether you're a betrayed partner trying to make sense of the chaos inside you, or a man who can't seem to stop behavior he hates — this episode is for you.   Kristin sits down with Jenna Riemersma, LPC - certified IFS therapist, CSAT supervisor, and bestselling author of Altogether You and her newest book Move Toward — to explore what happens when we stop fighting the parts of ourselves we don't like and start moving toward them instead.   Jenna unpacks: Why IFS (Internal Family Systems) is deeply rooted in scripture — and why the image of God inside you is the key to transformation without shame What it actually means to have "parts" — and why feeling torn, contradictory, or out of control doesn't mean something is wrong with you The three-step tool (Notice, Know, Need) you can use in your most triggered moments — no therapist required Why compassion unlocks what control never could, for both the betrayed partner and the person with unwanted sexual behavior How to speak for your parts instead of from them — and why that changes everything in conflict and in healing   This is not a shortcut. It's a different road entirely. Move Toward is available now wherever books are sold. Free resources, guided videos, and downloadable worksheets are available at movetoward.com.   Learn more about our programs:   The Living Truth Podcast: Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal. #LivingTruthPodcast #ChristianRecovery #FaithAndHealing #AddictionRecovery #MenInTheBattle #WomenInTheBattle #LivingTruth #IFS

In Episode 118 of Faith, Family, & Fulfillment, Chris and Suzanne Vester tackle one of the most difficult experiences a person can face: betrayal. Whether it comes through a relationship, friendship, family member, or trusted leader, betrayal leaves wounds that run deep. But healing is possible. Through faith, grace, and honest reflection, this episode explores how God can bring restoration to even the most painful circumstances.Minute Markers:00:00 Intro: Opening a vulnerable conversation about hurt, trust, and the road to healing.11:17 Articulating Emotion: Learning how to identify and express the pain you're carrying instead of burying it.20:48 Understanding Grace: What grace really means when you've been hurt—and why it's often harder to receive than to talk about.30:05 God's Plan for the Message: How God can redeem our wounds, turning our deepest pain into a testimony that brings hope and healing to others.This episode is a reminder that betrayal may be part of your story, but it doesn't have to define it. Healing begins when we allow God to meet us in the hurt and guide us toward restoration.

How to Deal with Getting Cheated On: The First Steps Toward Healing After Betrayal Podcast Summary What do you do after discovering your partner has cheated? Where do you even begin? In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis tackle one of the most painful questions a person can ask: How do I deal with getting cheated on? Rather than offering quick fixes or encouraging you to simply "move on," they explain why infidelity often creates a genuine trauma response—and why healing begins with stabilization and safety before rebuilding trust or repairing a relationship. Drawing from decades of clinical experience and current research on betrayal trauma, Dr. Skinner and MaryAnn discuss why your mind and body react the way they do after discovering infidelity and outline the first steps toward recovery. In this episode, you'll learn: Why discovering infidelity often feels like psychological trauma. How betrayal affects your nervous system, sleep, appetite, and emotions. Why hypervigilance, anxiety, and intrusive thoughts are normal trauma responses. The difference between emotional stabilization and relationship repair. Practical ways to begin caring for yourself after discovery. Why safety looks different for the betrayed partner and the partner who acted out. The importance of finding trusted support instead of trying to heal alone. How the Intimacy Repair Method (IRM) provides a roadmap for healing after betrayal. Whether your discovery happened days ago or years ago, this conversation offers validation, hope, and practical guidance to help you begin moving forward. Resources Mentioned

Send us Fan MailIf you stayed after betrayal… not because you didn't know better, but because you were worried about him, this episode is for you.In this episode of The Dimple Bindra Show, we uncover a deeply hidden pattern many women don't even realize they're living:You didn't stay out of love. You stayed out of responsibility.After betrayal, some women don't leave,  not because they are weak, but because they feel responsible for the person who hurt them.You start thinking: • Where will he go? • How will he survive? • What will happen to him without me?And without realizing it, you step into a role you were never meant to play:The caretaker. The fixer. The parent.In this episode, Dimple breaks down: • Why women become caretakers after betrayal • The connection between childhood conditioning and staying • How responsibility turns into self-betrayal • Why you cannot heal while parenting the person who hurt you • The moment empathy starts costing you your safety and voiceThis episode is for you if: • You stayed because leaving felt “cruel” • You feel responsible for someone who betrayed you • You've always been the strong one, the fixer, the emotional supportHere's the truth: You are not heartless for choosing yourself. You are not abandoning anyone.You are stepping out of a role you were never meant to carry.✨ Not sure why you keep choosing pain over peace? Take the free WHY YOU GOT BETRAYED QUIZ and uncover the pattern you didn't even know was holding you back.

Send us Fan MailSome wounds didn't start in your marriage.They started years earlier.Childhood rejection, abandonment, criticism, betrayal, disappointment, neglect—and then marriage has a way of exposing what was already there.In this episode, Chelsey shares why deep wounds often create deep patterns of self-protection, how God uses marriage to reveal what He intends to heal, and why healing is less about trying harder and more about surrendering the deepest places of your heart to Christ.Because your wound may explain your reaction.But it doesn't determine your future.God is still in the business of making all things new. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailWhen was the last time you had that desire for your husband as an overflow from that desire for God, your Father, your Creator, your Maker? The maker of everything? Where you heart is, there also is your treasure.  Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan Mail"I believe, Lord, Help my unbelief!" Learn how to move from "I know" but don't really believe deep down TO "I believe with every cell in my body and so I live like it's already done!" And that belief changes everything. Starting with YOU. But it has to start with the SOURCE. The ONLY Source. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailBuild on purpose with discipline and consistency! Break free from the "hard" of marriage and actually like each other again.  Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailGrab the new free guide: https://chelsey.coach/hlwreset Recognize when your body is speaking and what it's saying... this is the PATTERN.And then what to do with the info as INFO, not authority. Anchor into Truth, biblical Truth. This is how we regulate and respond; disrupt patterns and walk in freedom and healing! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailI wish someone had warned me about this after betrayal.Not about cheaters. Not about red flags. Not about whether to stay or leave. But about what betrayal was going to reveal about me.In this episode of The Dimple Bindra Show, we go beyond the surface of betrayal and into something much deeper:The moment you realize you may have been betraying yourself long before anyone else did.This is not about blame. This is about power.Because the most painful part of betrayal is not just what someone else did — it's recognizing how often you ignored your own voice, your intuition, your needs… just to keep things stable.In this episode, Dimple explores: • How self-betrayal begins long before external betrayal • The subtle ways women override their intuition and truth • Why ignoring discomfort disconnects you from yourself • The difference between awareness and self-blame • How to rebuild self-trust after betrayalAnd most importantly, the shift that changes everything:This moment is not asking you to focus on them. It's asking you to come back to yourself.You'll walk away with three powerful internal declarations: • I will no longer ignore my body • I will trust discomfort as information • I will not silence my truth to keep the peaceThis episode is for you if: • You've ever doubted your intuition after betrayal • You ignored red flags and are now questioning yourself • You're ready to rebuild self-trust without self-blameHere's the truth: Your betrayal didn't happen because you weren't enough. It happened because you were disconnected from yourself.And this is where everything changes.Follow Dimple Bindra here!✨ Not sure why you keep choosing pain over peace? Take the free WHY YOU GOT BETRAYED QUIZ and uncover the pattern you didn't even know was holding you back.If you can't eat, can't sleep, and keep replaying the betrayal in your head, this book was written for this exact moment. Pre-order Betrayal ER™ on Amazon.

Send us Fan MailWhat if intimacy isn't gone…just buried under years of pain, fear, resentment, disappointment, betrayal, or self-protection?In this episode, Chelsey shares 10 practical ways to restore intimacy God's way—not through pressure, pretending, or rushing healing, but through surrender, safety, grief, openness, and intentionally moving toward one another again.Because God's design for intimacy was never simply physical.It was always:to be fully known…and fully loved. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Send us Fan MailForgiveness is one of the most misunderstood concepts in marriage.Many Christians believe forgiveness means forgetting, pretending it didn't hurt, immediately restoring trust, or never struggling again.Others stay trapped waiting to forgive until the pain completely disappears.In this episode, Chelsey dives into what biblical forgiveness actually is, what it isn't, and how surrendering the healing process to God often looks very different than we expect.Because forgiveness may happen in a moment.But walking out healing, rebuilding trust, and learning to live differently may take much longer. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 

Why Can't I Stop Thinking About the Affair? Understanding Rumination, Triggers, and Healing After Betrayal In this important episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis explore one of the most common and painful questions after betrayal: “Why can't I stop thinking about it?” Together, they unpack the neuroscience and emotional reality behind rumination, intrusive thoughts, PTSD responses, triggers, and nervous system dysregulation after sexual betrayal and affairs. The conversation helps both betrayed and betraying partners understand why the mind and body struggle to “move on,” even when logic says the relationship may be improving. Dr. Skinner and MaryAnn discuss how betrayal disrupts safety, attachment, and reality itself, often leaving the betrayed partner feeling emotionally flooded, hypervigilant, and stuck in repetitive thoughts. They also explain how healing requires more than simply stopping behaviors—it involves nervous system regulation, emotional attunement, compassion, consistency, and deeper relational repair. Listeners will also learn practical tools for responding to triggers, including grounding exercises, journaling, movement-based trauma release, self-attunement, parts work, emotional regulation, and therapeutic approaches such as EMDR and ART. This episode offers hope, validation, and practical guidance for anyone struggling with intrusive thoughts after betrayal trauma. Key Topics Covered Why betrayed partners experience rumination and intrusive thoughts PTSD and betrayal trauma responses The difference between logical understanding and nervous system safety Why triggers continue even after behavior stops Emotional flooding and nervous system dysregulation How betraying partners can respond in healing ways Self-compassion and trauma recovery Tools for emotional regulation and trauma release Parts work and self-attunement EMDR, ART, and trauma-informed healing approaches Recovery capital and building support systems Resources Mentioned The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk Brené Brown – research on exhaustion and uncertainty Jill Bolte Taylor – emotional processing concepts Calming the Emotional Storm by Sheri Van Dijk EMDR Therapy (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) ART (Accelerated Resolution Therapy) Polyvagal Theory by Stephen Porges Internal Parts Work / Self-Attunement Approaches Recovery Capital framework Human Intimacy Podcast episode on Empathy vs. Compassion Upcoming Course Intimacy Repair Method (IRM) — 12 Week Course Join Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis for the upcoming Intimacy Repair Method (IRM) course beginning May 7th. The course is designed to help couples heal from betrayal trauma through a structured process focused on: Safety Emotional regulation Accountability How to measure and create relational repair Compassion Rebuilding intimacy Learn More & Register: The Intimacy Repair Method (12-Week Online Course)  

Jesus Is the Key — Unlocking Healing After BetrayalWhen betrayal shatters trust and leaves you questioning everything, where do you turn? In this deeply encouraging episode of A New Level Awaits You, we uncover a powerful truth: Jesus is not just part of the healing—He is the key to it.Joined by special guest Nadine Brown, this conversation dives into the reality of betrayal and the wounds it leaves behind—broken trust, guarded hearts, and lingering pain. Together, we explore how true healing doesn't come from striving harder or suppressing the hurt, but from encountering the One who restores, redeems, and makes all things new.Drawing from the heart of the Thriving & Wholeness Series and themes found in Freedom After Betrayal, this episode will help you: Recognize where betrayal has tried to close off your heart  Understand how Jesus meets you in the deepest places of pain  Reopen areas of your life you may have locked away for protection  Step into freedom, restoration, and renewed purpose This is more than a conversation—it's an invitation to unlock the places within you that betrayal tried to seal shut. Jesus holds the key, and He is ready to lead you into healing, wholeness, and a future not defined by your past.✨ Because when Jesus is the key, no door remains permanently closed.For more resources go to www.loisflewelling.com

Today's monthly series called "What Are the Sisters Reading?" continues with Sister Kathryn Hermes, FSP, sharing about her book called "Healing After Betrayal," which helps people find refuge in God's Word in the painful aftermath of a betrayal by someone you trusted. To check out more books on the Catholic faith and religious items of interest at the Pauline Books and Media Center at 1025 King Street in Alexandria, please click here.  

Healing After Betrayal – Moving from Broken to Brave with Tammy Gustafson Have you ever done everything you were told a “good Christian wife” should do—pray harder, forgive quickly, submit more—only to find yourself deeply betrayed and wondering where God is in the middle of it all? In this powerful conversation, Leslie sits down with counselor, speaker, and author Tammy Gustafson to talk honestly about betrayal trauma and the unique struggles Christian women face when their marriages are shattered by infidelity or sexual betrayal. Together, they unpack the spiritual confusion, misplaced responsibility, and emotional pain many women carry—and offer a path toward courageous, honest healing. If you've ever felt trapped between your faith and your pain, this episode will help you find clarity, permission, and hope for moving from broken to brave. Key Takeaways When Faith Messages Keep Women Stuck Many Christian women struggle to heal after betrayal because of harmful messages they've internalized—messages about submission, silence, and being responsible for their husband's behavior. These teachings can make women feel small, guilty, or spiritually obligated to ignore their own pain. True healing requires untangling these distortions and rediscovering the heart of God, who sees and cares about the pain of betrayal. Anger Is Not the Enemy—It's Part of Healing Anger is a normal and healthy response to betrayal. In fact, it's often the energy that empowers women to set boundaries, find their voice, and begin healing. Tammy explains the difference between healthy anger, which helps us process grief, and rage, which harms. Suppressing anger often keeps women stuck, while honestly expressing it can move healing forward. Why His Healing Can't Be Your Job After betrayal, many women instinctively focus on their husband's shame, regret, or recovery. But this often stops the healing process. Tammy explains that true restoration begins when each person stays in their own “shoes”—the betrayer doing the hard work of repentance and change, and the betrayed partner focusing on her own healing. When that balance is restored, real transformation becomes possible. Forgiveness Has a Process—And It Can't Be Forced Many Christian women are pressured to forgive quickly, but premature forgiveness can actually shut down the healing process. Forgiveness doesn't mean the betrayal was okay, and it doesn't guarantee reconciliation. Instead, forgiveness usually comes after truth-telling, grieving, and processing anger. When women allow healing to unfold in the right order, forgiveness becomes freeing rather than forced. Brave Healing Requires Strength and Self-Honor Moving from broken to brave means stepping into your God-given worth and refusing to minimize the harm done to you. It means honoring your grief, setting boundaries, and recognizing that you deserve safety, honesty, and respect. Though this path may feel unfamiliar—or even selfish—it is often the courageous step toward real healing and freedom.   If this conversation resonates with you, you're not alone—and you don't have to navigate these questions by yourself. If you're wondering whether what you're experiencing is actually abuse—even if there's no physical violence—I invite you to join my upcoming workshop: Conquer Workshop: If He Doesn't Hit Me, Is It Still Abuse? God Cares. Register here: https://leslievernick.com/masterclass This workshop will help you understand what healthy and unhealthy relationship dynamics really look like—and what God says about your safety, dignity, and well-being. Tammy is also offering a powerful resource for women navigating betrayal recovery: To access the freebie, click here: https://betrayalhealing.thrivecart.com/webinar-series-her-work/?coupon=LVFREE26 Her training will help you understand what helps—and what hurts—the healing process after betrayal.   Friend, if you are walking through the devastation of betrayal right now, please hear this: your pain matters, and God sees it. Healing may take time. It may require courage you didn't know you had. But you are not alone, and this painful chapter does not have to define the rest of your story. With God's help, wisdom, and the right support, it is possible to move from brokenness to strength—from confusion to clarity—and from despair to hope. And I'm cheering you on every step of the way.

Sandra Beck of Powered Up Talk Radio speak with betrayal recovery expert Debi Silber about what really happens after trust is broken—and why healing from betrayal is not the same as healing from other types of trauma. While loss from illness, accidents, or natural disasters brings grief and pain, betrayal adds another layer—shock, loss of safety, and a deep disruption of identity and trust. In this episode, Debi Silber explains why traditional healing approaches often fall short and what needs to happen instead. Drawing from her work with the Post Betrayal Institute, she breaks down the stages of betrayal, how it impacts your mental and physical health, and what it takes to move forward without staying stuck in anger, confusion, or self-doubt. This conversation offers a clear, realistic path to healing—one that acknowledges the complexity of betrayal while giving you tools to rebuild trust in yourself and your future. Powered Up Talk Radio is also available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, iHeartRadio, and Google Play.

I would love to hear from you! Send me a one way text and share how Recover Your Soul is supporting you or what you would like to hear more about.As I prepare for the release of my memoir, Recover Your Soul: A Spiritual Journey of Healing from Addiction, Codependency, and People-Pleasing, on April 13th, I have been going back and listening to past podcast episodes that might offer additional support to those reading the book.Revisiting these earlier episodes has been a tender experience.They were recorded during seasons of my own healing when everything was still fresh, when I was actively untangling old patterns in real time, when I was learning how to turn inward instead of reaching outward in pain. There is a rawness in them that feels honest and important.This episode on betrayal is one of those. It originally aired in 2023 from Season 4.Betrayal can take many forms. It is not only about infidelity. It can be secrecy. Addiction. Emotional withdrawal. Broken promises. The moment when something you believed to be true suddenly isn't. It can feel shattering.And yet, in the Recover Your Soul process, we gently shift the focus away from trying to fix, control, or punish the other person and instead turn toward our own healing.In this episode, I share parts of my personal story, including how early family dynamics shaped my understanding of loyalty and relationship, and how betrayal showed up in my own marriage. You will hear me navigating these ideas from an earlier place in my journey, still learning, still softening, still growing.What remains trJoin the community and Recover Your Soul with Rev Rachel.2026 is a big year offering GROUP COACHING, IN-PERSON RETREATS, and our FREE SUPPORT GROUP.  This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not allied or representative of any organizations or religions, but is based on the opinions and experience of Rev. Rachel Harrison or guests. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein. Take what you need and leave the rest.Support the show FREE Mini Recover Your Soul 9-Step Workbook FREE Support Group on Zoom 6-7PM MT on the 1st Monday of the Month 1:1 Spiritual Coaching with Rev Rachel TRYASESSION for 40% off 1st session Recover Your SOUL CIRCLES Group Coaching with others on a similar path Follow on Social Media RYS Bonus Podcast Patreon Member or subscribing on Apple Podcasts for an extra episode every Friday. Free Patreon Members get access 1st week to new episodes. Transcripts

Send us a textWe love to blame betrayal on one man, one woman, one relationship. But the truth is harsher and much more important: Your betrayal didn't begin with him. It began with her, the girl you once were.In this solo episode of The Dimple Bindra Show, we go straight into the fire and unpack how your girlhood wounds made you vulnerable to toxic love, cheating partners, emotional manipulation, and self-abandonment in adulthood.We explore:Why your betrayal started long before the first red flag, heartbreak, or affairHow growing up with emotionally unavailable, abusive, or absent caregivers trained you to ignore your body's warning signalsThe “good girl” conditioning that taught you to be polite, quiet, agreeable, and easy to controlHow watching your mother (or the women who raised you) sacrifice herself became your blueprint for loveWhy you learned to accept crumbs and call it love and why a truly safe, healed man can feel “wrong” or unfamiliarThe 5 core girlhood wounds that made you a magnet for toxic partnersYou were taught to ignore your body's danger signalsYou learned love by watching a woman sacrifice herselfNo one taught you that your needs matterYou were rewarded for silence and “being a good girl”You were never shown what safe masculinity looks likeThis episode is not polite, pretty, or comfortable. It's the truth your mother couldn't say.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with friend and former guest, Tammy Gustafson, a counselor and author of "Broken to Brave," to talk about healing after betrayal trauma. Tammy shares why wives often get stuck in their recovery—especially when pressured to trust or forgive too soon—and explains the importance of grieving and processing emotions like anger and sadness. We discuss how true healing requires safety, honesty, and support, and Tammy offers practical advice for wives and their loved ones. Whether you're feeling stuck or wondering when it's safe to trust again, this conversation brings hope and encouragement for your journey.To learn more about Tammy and get her new book, visit TammyGustafson.com.Topics Covered in this Episode: Healing from betrayal trauma, particularly for betrayed wives.Common challenges faced by wives during the healing process.The concept of feeling "stuck" in the healing journey.The importance of processing grief and emotions like anger and sadness.The role of trust and forgiveness in the healing process.The significance of establishing safety before rebuilding intimacy.The need for emotional safety and understanding in relationships post-betrayal.The impact of fear and doubt on a wife's readiness to trust again.The importance of support from loved ones during the healing journey.Insights from the book Broken to Brave: Your Courageous Act of Healing After Intimate Betrayals.More Resources:Broken to Brave* by Tammy GustafsonOnline Care Groups for WivesWives Care Basics Webinar (free)Related Podcasts:Betrayal Healing PhasesThe Need for Boundaries After BetrayalSelf-Care and Rest for Wives Healing from Betrayal Trauma*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Porn, Fantasy & The Silent Betrayal!Porn, fantasy, and silent betrayal are wrecking marriages—let's get fuckin' real.Why does therapy fail, what's the TRUE betrayal, and how do you break the cycle? Cass & Kathryn rip the lid off the “happy wife, happy life” bullshit, get raw about fantasy, lies, and what actually works to rebuild trust and connection.If you're sick of surface-level advice and want the TRUTH, this episode's for you. Listen, confront your habits, and change your marriage—NOW.

If you're trying to heal after betrayal, you may be doing everything you were taught to do—and still feel stuck. Sometimes we unintentionally sabotage our own healing—all in the name of love and forgiveness. Instead of feeling better, you end up feeling silenced, unsafe, and confused about why healing hasn't happened.  Author and counselor Tammy Gustafson joins Juli to share four necessary phases of healing, and three common mistakes that actually shut it down.  With clinical insight and biblical wisdom, this conversation will help you move forward with strength and hope.  Guest: Tammy Gustafson, LPC   Follow-up Resources: Preorder Broken to Brave: Your Courageous Act of Healing After Intimate Betrayal (comes out Jan. 27) Register for The Betrayal Healing Conference, January 26-30. (It's online and free.) Take the Betrayal Healing Quiz  to find what phase of the journey you're in. Q&A: Does My Spouse Watch Porn Because of Me?  Q&A: How Do I Know if My Spouse Is Repentant After a Betrayal? Thriving Despite a Difficult Marriage by Drs. Chuck and Mike Misja (for the betrayed spouse who stays in a marriage even though their spouse is not doing the work needed to heal) Follow Tammy at @tammylgustafson Follow Authentic Intimacy at @authenticintimacy    

Psychological Intimacy: The Foundation of Trust, Safety, and Healing After Betrayal In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis take a deeper dive into the seven types of intimacy, focusing specifically on psychological intimacy as the foundation of all connection. They explore how honesty, trust, loyalty, and commitment are disrupted by betrayal—and why secrecy and deception, more than behaviors alone, create trauma. The discussion highlights how vulnerability, accountability, and repair rebuild safety over time, especially in relationships impacted by betrayal trauma. This episode offers clarity, compassion, and practical insight for couples navigating healing and reconnection. Resources Relationship Intimacy Test & Intimacy Pyramid Free assessment and companion materials HumanIntimacy.com → Free Courses → Companionship Course Reclaim: Healing from Pornography and Rebuilding Your Life Podcast and course for individuals seeking recovery from unwanted sexual behaviors Available at HumanIntimacy.com Rise: Hope & Healing After Sexual Betrayal Podcast and course created specifically for betrayed partners Available at HumanIntimacy.com Human Intimacy Conference – March 13–14, 2026 Online conference featuring leading experts on individual healing, recovery, and relationship repair Registration link: 2nd Annual Human Intimacy Conference 2026 Use 40off to get 40% off your registration  

Send us a textIn today's episode, I'm guiding you through a deeply restorative Copper Frequency Meditation created specifically for women who have experienced betrayal. Betrayal disrupts your sense of safety, drains your energy, and pulls you away from yourself. This meditation is designed to help you protect your energy, release emotional heaviness, and gently return to your body, your center, and your truth.This meditation was originally recorded live on Zoom, so the audio may feel raw and intimate. I invite you to stay with that intimacy. Let the frequency move through you, hold you, and support your nervous system as it begins to reset after shock and loss of trust.Inside this meditation, you will: 

Send us a textBetrayal scrambles your mind, hijacks your nervous system, and floods you with advice that often makes things worse. We slow everything down and separate three paths that get tangled under pressure: forgiveness, letting go, and reconciliation. Each serves a different purpose, follows its own timing, and protects your well-being in distinct ways.I share why forgiveness is an internal process you do for yourself—not a pass for harm, not instant, and never on someone else's schedule. We explore letting go as emotional release, the practice of ending the fight with the past so you can reclaim energy from rumination and intrusive thoughts. Then we turn to reconciliation as a rigorous, two-person rebuild that demands transparency, accountability, and repeated repair behaviors over time. You'll hear honest stories of one-sided “rebuilding,” the traps of wishful thinking, and the relief that comes from naming reality and choosing your own safety.If you're asking, Am I ready to forgive? Should we reconcile? Is my partner doing enough? you'll get practical signals and skills: regulate your nervous system before big decisions, tell the truth about what happened, separate the act from your identity, release the fantasy of a different past, and stop waiting for a perfect “why.” You can forgive and still choose divorce. You can let go without forgetting. You can heal fully whether or not your partner changes. Forgiveness heals you. Letting go frees you. Reconciliation only works when both people show up, consistently.Ready to protect your peace and chart your own path forward? Listen now, subscribe for more trauma-informed guidance, and share this episode with someone who needs clarity today. If you found value, leave a review—your words help others find the support they deserve.Please follow me on instagram and facebook @happilyevenaftercoach and if you want to see what coaching is all about I offer a free 45 min. clarity call via zoom. Email me: hello@lifecoachjen.com for any comments or questions. Thanks for listening, please like and review as well as share with your family and friends. My website is www.lifecoachjen.com

Why do I keep ending up with the same type of partner? Why does betrayal hurt this much?Healing after betrayal isn't just about letting go of what happened, it's about understanding why the same patterns keep repeating. In this episode, we break down the deeper emotional and psychological layers behind betrayal, including attachment wounds, trauma bonds, and the unconscious beliefs that shape who we choose and why we stay.We explore why betrayal hurts so deeply, how childhood experiences influence our adult relationships, and why ignoring red flags becomes a familiar pattern. You'll learn how to recognise the root of your pain, where your anger and resentment come from, and how to finally take back your emotional power without blaming yourself. Whether you're healing from deception, infidelity, emotional neglect, or the collapse of trust, this episode guides you toward the inner work needed to break the cycle!00:00 – What Betrayal Really Means & Why It Hurts04:00 – Types of Betrayal: Lies, Secrets, Addictions & Broken Values06:42 – Why We Ignore Red Flags & Repeat the Same Patterns13:12 – Childhood Wounds and Attachment Trauma17:24 – Attracting Dysfunctional People & Repeating Cycles19:48 – Healing Betrayal Inside a Relationship vs. Walking Away

What happens when the life you built suddenly feels like a lie?

When trust is broken, can a marriage truly be restored?In this powerful episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter sits down with Jenny Solomon, author of Reclaim Your Marriage: Grace for Wives Who Have Been Hurt by Broken Trust, to share how faith, honesty, and grace brought new life to her marriage.Jenny opens up about walking through pain, rebuilding trust, and finding peace through Christ-centered healing. Together, Karen and Jenny talk about:✅ What emotional betrayal feels like for a spouse✅ How the church can lovingly support struggling couples✅ The role of lament and prayer in real recovery✅ Setting healthy boundaries while extending grace✅ Practical tools for growth, like the Victory App and Covenant Eyes accountabilityIf you or someone you love is walking through relational pain, this episode will offer biblical hope, wisdom, and encouragement for the journey toward restoration.

In this special episode, Hali shares from the heart about her next chapter — the creation of Rooted & Rising After Betrayal, a new podcast and healing community for women walking the path of recovery after infidelity and betrayal.While Choosing to Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal will continue to support couples doing the brave work of relational healing, Rooted & Rising offers a sacred space just for women to reconnect with their truth, rebuild self-trust, and rise into their next chapter with clarity, courage, and community.If you've ever thought, “I wish there was a space just for me — where I could feel seen, understood, and supported,” this episode is your invitation.The vision and heart behind Rooted & Rising After BetrayalWhy individual healing is important for relational repairThe meaning behind being Rooted (in truth) and Rising (into empowerment)How community and connection accelerate healingWays to stay connected through new resources and groupsIn This Episode

The holidays are supposed to be filled with joy and celebration — but after sexual betrayal, they can feel unbearable. In Part 1 of this special series, Michael interviews Kristin about her raw story of her first holiday season after discovery and the first steps betrayed partners need to survive:  prioritizing safety, stabilization, boundaries, and connection.   If you're in the early days of betrayal trauma, this episode will remind you that survival is enough — and that you are not alone.   Need more support and hope? JOIN Kristin for her free 5 day experience:  Holiday Survival Strategies from November 17-21:  https://living-truth.kit.com/holiday-survival-strategies   Kristin's Private Facebook Group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/970477406321487

In today's episode, Kylene opens up about her personal healing journey—sharing some of her painful experiences with the church, moments of struggle in her faith, and how finding a safe and supportive community became a crucial part of her recovery. She also explores the importance of connection—connection to self, to others, and to God—and why cultivating these three areas is essential for betrayed partners on the path to healing.   Episodes/Topics mentioned in today's episode: Self worth vs Self confidence: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-sex-addiction-support-betrayal/id1674653111?i=1000708437532   Intrusive Thoughts:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-sex-addiction-support-betrayal/id1674653111?i=1000652006011   Kylene's story of divorce: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-sex-addiction-support-betrayal/id1674653111?i=1000643643605     If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune

A lot of men direct all their anger toward the other guy — the affair partner — when they find out their wife cheated. I get it. It feels easier to hate the outsider than to face what your wife actually did. But at some point, we need to be honest about where the real responsibility lies.In this episode, I respond to a man who wrote in saying he's still furious at his wife's affair partner, years after the infidelity ended. We talk about why misplaced anger keeps men stuck, why some “nice guys” absolve their wives of all wrongdoing, and what it really takes to let go and move forward.We also get into his second question: why his wife, who cheated and moved out, still hasn't followed through with the divorce. Spoiler — she doesn't get to decide your future.If you've ever struggled with letting go after betrayal, this one's for you.Join the Brotherhood! https://helpformen.com/join

Send us a textIn this powerful episode of The Dimple Bindra Show, I sit down with Amma to explore the hidden reality of spiritual abuse inside Buddhist and monastic communities. Amma shares her courageous 20-year journey, the red flags she overlooked, and the devastating toll of misplaced loyalty to leaders over integrity. Together, we unpack how attachment wounding and narcissistic dynamics allow abuse to thrive in spiritual spaces, and why women often silence their intuition to belong.This conversation reveals how to spot the red flags, from manipulated codes of ethics, fear of retaliation, and silencing of dissent, to public humiliation and loss of self-trust. Amma opens up about her breaking point, the grief of leaving her community, and the slow, embodied practices that helped her reclaim safety, intuition, and joy after betrayal.Whether you've questioned your teacher, your workplace, or your relationship, this episode will help you rebuild self-trust, safety, and integrity after spiritual harm.✨ Topics we cover:Red flags of spiritual abuse and controlHow narcissistic wounding shows up in spiritual leadersThe difference between meditation and attachment repair workRebuilding nervous system safety after betrayalPractices of joy, nature, dance, and community healingWhy women must trust their integrity and intuitionIf you've ever wondered, “Is it me, or is this environment unsafe?” this episode will give you clarity, validation, and the courage to choose differently.Follow Amma Thanasanti Here! Claim your spot in my FREE Awakening Class, leave feeling seen, supported, and spiritually recharged.✨ Take the free Healing Archetype Quiz

Victoria Johnson speaks with attorney-turned-betrayal-recovery expert Lora Cheadle about healing after profound betrayal and reclaiming identity, joy, and agency. Lora shares how discovering her husband's long-term infidelity dismantled her sense of self, how she rebuilt using her 5-step FLAUNT framework, and why accepting reality, feeling feelings, and trusting your own truth are the bedrock of recovery. Together they explore reframing anniversaries of loss, navigating setbacks without spiritual bypassing, and “closing scenes” in life like a screenwriter so you can move into the next act with intention.Betrayal can come from people, life events, our bodies, and self-abandonment through people-pleasing and perfectionism.Healing requires both regulation and meaning-making. Laughter and play help regulate the nervous system so the prefrontal cortex can engage.Spiritual bypassing slows recovery. Give yourself permission to feel fully, then use tools to move through.Progress is not linear. Navigation means pivoting, resting, and continuing with small course corrections.Trust your own filter. Seek advice, then decide from inner knowing and communicate clearly: “I valued your input, and I have decided to do X.”Find Your Fetish: Return to pure joy and play for its own sake.Laugh Out Loud: Use laughter to calm and re-regulate the nervous system.AU Accept Unconditionally: The golden centre. Accept yourself, others, and what has happened, without trying to change the past.Navigate the Negative: Expect storms and keep adjusting your course.Trust in Your Truth: Use your intellect and intuition as the final filter.Anniversary reframe: Mark difficult dates as milestones of reclamation and growth.Feel first, then frame: Allow the tears, nausea, and grief. Afterward, choose a supportive narrative.Five endings exercise: Journal five distinct meanings or endings for a hard event. Pick one and identify what lessons or “foreshadowing” you will carry into the next scene.Boundary script for advice-givers: “Thank you. I took it into consideration, and I have decided to do Y.”Micro-navigation: When plans stall, make a small shift rather than abandoning the plan entirely.“Joy is your natural state.”“The universe gave me the answer before it gave me the problem.”“You are the writer of your own screenplay.”“Accept unconditionally. Then navigate.”Books by Lora Cheadle:Flaunt: Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, and Spiritual Self; It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal.Program: Life Choreography.Website: laurachedle.com (as stated in the episode).From Betrayal to Radiance: Lora Cheadle's FLAUNT FrameworkFeel, Accept, Navigate: Healing After Betrayal with Lora CheadleYou Are the Writer: Reframing Pain and Choosing Your Next SceneBetrayal-recovery expert Lora Cheadle joins Victoria to unpack FLAUNT, a five-step path from shock and self-doubt to joy, acceptance, and self-trust. Learn how to regulate your nervous system with laughter, avoid spiritual bypassing, and “close scenes” in your life like a screenwriter so you can move forward with clarity.00:00 Welcome and guest intro01:31 Lora's story and the shattering of identity06:10 FLAUNT overview and why joy and laughter come first08:22 Accept Unconditionally without bypassing11:40 Feeling feelings and letting tears end12:36 Navigate the Negative and micro-course-corrections15:50 Trust in Your Truth and handling pushback18:44 Life Choreography explained20:45 Screenwriting your next scene and creating meaning23:40 The five endings journaling practice24

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.When betrayal shatters a marriage, forgiveness alone isn't always enough to rebuild trust and connection.In this episode of The ‘NEW' Marriage, Cass and Kathryn Morrow explore what happens when apologies and forgiveness fall short, and why deeper healing work is needed to restore a relationship after infidelity, lies, or emotional betrayal.Discover how to process pain without getting stuck in resentment, the role of accountability in true reconciliation, and practical steps for couples to move forward after betrayal. If you've ever wondered why forgiving doesn't always lead to healing, this conversation offers clarity, hope, and direction.

Hi, everyone! I'm Amanda. I'm a wife and mom of four, living in Northern Utah. I was very lucky to find Ashlynn early on in my healing journey and to work with her as a client, and now I get to call her one of my best friends. I now facilitate one of Ashlynn's ‘After Betrayal Women's Groups,' which has become one of the best parts of my life. When I'm not on calls or helping women navigate their journeys, I love to hike, and really anything outside honestly, and create memorable experiences with my family. And I like to think I'm a pretty good friend too!Ashlynn is here with us today to share her own story of betrayal, healing, and the ways she's reclaimed pleasure, play, and fun along the way. Ashlynn Mitchell is the founder of This is Ashlynn and a guide for women stepping into their next chapter after betrayal, heartbreak, and life transitions. Ashlynn helps women not only heal but reclaim pleasure, joy, and connection along the way. She knows firsthand that healing isn't just about processing pain it's about coming home to your full, vibrant self. Find her at www.thisisashlynn.com and on Instagram @this.isAshlynn

Ep. 214 What if the heartbreak you thought would break you was actually the beginning of your healing?

Join us this week for a replay of one of our most popular episodes! How can you trust yourself again after betrayal? Being betrayed by a partner is traumatizing physiologically, emotionally, and mentally. When you've had this kind of blow in your life, it affects your sense of self, sense of safety, and self identity. This makes trusting yourself difficult. This is a very natural response when you've experienced betrayal, but learning to trust yourself again is the first key to healing. Join Amie Woolsey in this episode as she shares:The power of thought dumpingTools to begin to regain trust in yourselfWhat it will look and feel like when you start trusting yourself againSecure Your Spot!Worthy By Design Women's Retreat - This four-day retreat is for women ready to reconnect with their authentic selves and step into their unique design. Experience Human Design exploration, somatic healing, breathwork, sound baths, and sisterhood in the stunning Utah mountains. This is not just for women who have been betrayed, but perfect for ALL women seeking renewal, clarity, and joy. Retreat is September 14th-17th in Mapleton, UT. Unmasked: Path to Authentic Masculinity⁠⁠ is a four-day in-person experience designed to help men delve deep into understanding integrity, unveiling layers of shame, and reclaiming their authentic selves. Intensive will be held in Spanish Fork, UT on September 16th-19th. Courage to Thrive - This intensive brings together expert trauma specialists for a transformative experience that goes beyond healing—it's about getting your power back. Join us October 14-17, 2025, and leave with strategies, unshakeable boundaries, and renewed hope…because your story doesn't end with betrayal—it transforms into something powerful. Scholarships and payment plans are available for all of our intensives. Learn more and see if you qualify.Register Now!Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery. Register here to get the webinar link. View past webinars here: Believing in You - In this program Amie teaches you how to work WITH your brain instead of against it. Learn tools that will help you move forward to trust, love, empowerment, and finding joy once again.Intimacy Within ⁠- Creating healthy intimacy with your partner begins with creating healthy intimacy within. Amie's self-paced course and guidebook will walk you through the seven levels of intimacy. Learn how to embrace authenticity and vulnerability even in the face of potential rejection.⁠⁠Watch us⁠ on YouTube.Follow us on Instagram: @choose_recovery_services⁠Schedule⁠ a consultation.Join our email list to be notified when new episodes air.More from Choose Recovery ServicesBeyond the Facade Podcast - Luke Gordon hosts a podcast geared toward helping men live authentically.Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal.  Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives. Healing Hearts - For couples seeking healing after betrayal.Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication. Beyond the Facade: Men's Healing Group - We help men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Empowered Divorce Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with Amie Woolsey for those who are leaning toward divorce.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Dating From Within - Learn how to know if you are ready to date again and what a healthy relationship looks like. Should I Stay or Go? - Self-paced course designed to be a companion on your journey toward self-discovery and personal empowerment. Trauma Trigger Kit - Keep a Trauma Trigger Kit on hand to help you use your five senses to stay grounded and connected to yourself.

How can you tell if your husband is truly remorseful or just feeling guilty after infidelity? In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, I'm breaking down the critical difference between guilt and true remorse—and why that distinction matters deeply for your healing journey as a betrayed wife. You'll learn: Clear definitions and examples of guilt vs. true remorse How to recognize when your spouse is just “checking boxes” The top 3 signs that reveal whether he's walking in true repentance Why true remorse is essential for rebuilding trust What you can do when guilt is present but transformation is not I'm also sharing how my Marriage Redesigned program helps couples go beyond surface-level change to rebuild their relationship God's way—through full ownership, heart transformation, and lasting healing. If you're tired of wondering whether his apology is real—or you just need clarity—this episode will equip you with the wisdom and encouragement you need.   True Apology | E117:  Listen Here  

When your world falls apart after discovering sexual betrayal, how do you even begin to put the pieces back together?   In this powerful episode, Kristin Cary is joined by trauma-informed coach and Women in the Battle® facilitator Isabel Williams, who shares her deeply personal journey from devastation to post-traumatic growth. Izzy opens up about her initial resistance to group support, the chaos of early trauma, and the turning point that helped her begin to heal—creating structure.   Together, they explore: Why structure is essential in the aftermath of discovery How to identify safe people to confide in Why trauma-informed support (not generic marriage counseling) is critical The dangers of spiritually misinformed advice What real self-care looks like (hint: it's not bubble baths) How childhood trauma patterns resurface in crisis—and how to start rewriting them Izzy's story is a testament to what's possible when we receive the right kind of support and reconnect with our God-given voice and strength. Whether you're newly navigating betrayal or further down the road, this episode will offer practical insight, encouragement, and hope.   Enrollment for Women in the Battle® & Men in the Battle® opens August 11th! If you're ready to stop surviving and start healing, now's the time to take your next right step. Learn more at living-truth.org.  

Send us a textHave you ever felt like life ripped your dream out of your hands?This guided meditation for women healing from trauma, betrayal, or burnout is for the woman who almost gave up on her dream, her voice, and herself.In this powerful episode of The Dimple Bindra Show, you'll be guided through a healing meditation designed to:

What if your healing didn't have to wait for his recovery? Today, I'm sharing 3 practical, hope-filled steps you can take today to begin healing from the trauma of marital betrayal—even if your unfaithful husband does nothing. Learn why waiting on him can keep you stuck, how to reclaim your voice and safety, and what it means to choose healing with God at the center. Plus, discover how the 7 Pillars of Healing self-guided program can help you take your next step forward with clarity and strength. Ready to take the next step? Grab instant access to my 7 Pillars of Healing self-guided program — a Christ-centered, trauma-informed roadmap to help you move from brokenness to breakthrough. But don't wait — enrollment is open for a limited time! :: Download the new online course here: 7 Pillars to Healing from Betrayal Trauma God's Way Quotes from the Episode: "Your healing is not dependent on his choices—it's your responsibility, your freedom, and your act of worship. Don't wait for him to change before you begin to rise." – Lisa Limehouse Leave a Review: If this episode helped you understand gaslighting in a new way, please subscribe and leave a review. It helps us reach more women who need hope and healing after betrayal.

Are you struggling to process the aftermath of infidelity in your relationship? Wondering if healing and trust are truly possible after betrayal?Curious about expert tools and real-life strategies that can help couples rebuild after an affair? This episode of the Relationship Renovation podcast dives deep into these pressing questions with Dr. Monique Thompson, a renowned therapist and life coach specializing in infidelity recovery.Join hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin as they sit down with Dr. Thompson to uncover the complexities of infidelity, trauma, and the incredible potential for growth within couples who choose to face these challenges head-on. Dr. Thompson shares her unique journey into healing work, the inspiration behind her acclaimed "Infidelity Recovery Workbook," and practical tips for both the betrayed and those who have broken trust. Packed with humility, hope, and actionable guidance, this episode provides valuable insights for couples at any stage of recovery. Whether you're a professional looking for tools to support your clients or an individual seeking a path forward, you'll leave inspired, informed, and ready to take the next step toward a stronger, healthier relationship. Don't miss this candid, compassionate conversation that's already helping countless couples transform pain into powerful connection.LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. MONIQUE THOMPSONInfidelity Recovery WorkbookVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands