Podcasts about healing after betrayal

How do couples navigate shared grief and rebuild their relationship after betrayal? This week Amie and Alana explore the phases of healing, particularly focusing on shared grief in Phase Two. Listen in as Alana shares a personal example of shared grief in her life, and learn how grieving together can create greater empathy, emotional stability, and a stronger partnership.Register Now!Believing in You - In this program Amie teaches you how to work WITH your brain instead of against it. Learn tools that will help you move forward to trust, love, empowerment, and finding joy once again. Group coaching calls are Wednesdays at 6:00pm CT.Help Her Heal Men's Intensive - This immersive intensive is designed specifically for men to learn how to support their partners as they heal from betrayal trauma. You will participate in experiential workshops, receive personalized feedback, and learn practical tools to develop the emotional capacity needed for relationship repair. Join us July 8th-11th in Spanish Fork, UT. NEW - Couple's Add-On Experience - invite your partner to join you for an optional fifth day together in a safe, supportive environment to practice what has been learned.We don't want finances to get in the way of your healing. Scholarships and payment plans are available for all of our intensives. Fill out an application to learn more and see if you qualify.⁠⁠Watch us⁠ on YouTube.Follow us on our NEW Instagram: @choose_recovery_services⁠Schedule⁠ a complimentary consultation.Join our email list to be notified when new episodes air.More from Choose Recovery ServicesBeyond the Facade Podcast - Luke Gordon hosts a podcast geared toward helping men live authentically and in harmony with their values.Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal. First four weeks are free!Believing in You - In this program Amie teaches you how to work WITH your brain instead of against it. Learn tools that will help you move forward to trust, love, empowerment, and finding joy once again.Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal.  Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. Healing Hearts - This is for couples seeking healing after betrayal. It emphasizes the development of empathy, integrity, and authentic intimacy. Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication. Beyond the Facade: Men's Healing Group - We help men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. Choose Renewal - For women recovering from unwanted sexual behavior, whether it's a recurring challenge or a one-time incident. Betrayal Trauma Recovery Book Study Group - This group provides a safe space for women to discuss books about betrayal trauma, ask questions, and find community support. Resilient Teens - Ongoing support group for teens ages 15-18 whose parents have experienced betrayal in their marriage.Adult Children Uniting for Healing - Ongoing support group for adult children of parents who have experienced betrayal in their marriage.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Empowered Divorce Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with Amie Woolsey for those who are leaning toward divorce.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Dating From Within - Learn how to know if you are ready to date again and what a healthy relationship looks like. Should I Stay or Go? - Self-paced course designed to be a companion on your journey toward self-discovery and personal empowerment. 

Send us a textBetrayal cuts deep, leaving wounds that can shape how we view ourselves and future relationships. This guided meditation offers a gentle yet powerful journey through the complex terrain of heartbreak and healing.We begin by creating safety - grounding our bodies and acknowledging that while the past contained pain, we are safe now to process our emotions. From this foundation, we move into naming our truth, recognizing that the anger, grief, and confusion we feel aren't signs of weakness but natural responses to broken trust. There's profound medicine in simply acknowledging: "What you did hurt me. It broke something I believed was sacred, but it will not break me."The heart of this meditation lies in reclaiming our energy. Many of us remain tied to those who've betrayed us through invisible cords of resentment, justice-seeking, or lingering attachment. Through guided visualization, we dissolve these connections and call back our scattered energy, watching as it returns like golden threads filling our being. We're reminded that we are not defined by betrayal, but are sacred, whole individuals worthy of devotion.As we close, we seal our hearts with protective light - not to close ourselves off from future connection, but to establish boundaries that honor our worth. We make a powerful commitment: "From this day forward, I will no longer abandon myself for anyone." This isn't just healing from past wounds; it's establishing a new template for relationships that mirror our inherent value. Take this gift of presence you've given yourself, and carry it forward into a life where you no longer settle for less than you deserve.This guided meditation includes the Solfeggio Frequency of 639 Hz. This tone can be used to deal with relationship problems and support the heart chakra's healing.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Letting Go Of Their Affair!In Episode 279 of The 'NEW' Marriage, we talk about the painful process of letting go of your partner's affair. Whether you choose to stay or leave, this episode helps you navigate betrayal, understand your emotions, and take steps toward healing and clarity.

You've just found out about the affair or addiction. Your world has flipped upside down — and all you have are questions. You're not alone. There are 8 questions that are the most common (and most painful) ones I hear from Christian women and couples trying to figure out what to do next after betrayal. Today, my husband, Britt and I are bringing you Part 2 where we are finishing the last 4 questions most couples ask after betrayal.  We pray it blesses you. Listen to Part 1: HERE :: 7 Pillars of Healing from Betrayal Trauma is launching Monday, May 5, 2025!:  Get on the waitlist for early bird pricing :: ✨ Learn how to start rebuilding your marriage after betrayal inside Marriage Redesigned. Visit lisalimehouse.com/marriage-redesigned :: NEXT STEPS: Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org  Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information Schedule your FREE CONSULT  Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

Today, we're diving deep into a powerful topic that isn't talked about enough but can absolutely block your healing after betrayal... It's called enmeshment — and if it's not dealt with, it can leave you feeling stuck, exhausted, and disconnected from your true identity in Christ. But don't worry — today, I'm going to show you how to recognize it, break free, and move toward true restoration — both personally and in your marriage. Let's dive in." : 7 Pillars of Healing from Betrayal Trauma is launching Monday, May 5, 2025!:  Get on the waitlist for early bird pricing :: ✨ Learn how to start rebuilding your marriage after betrayal inside Marriage Redesigned. Visit lisalimehouse.com/marriage-redesigned :: NEXT STEPS: Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org  Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information Schedule your FREE CONSULT  Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

In this powerful and eye-opening episode, we sit down with therapist Rebecca Stone, a specialist in infidelity and affair recovery. Together, we explore the complex and often misunderstood world of affairs—why people cheat, what it means for both the betrayed and the one who strayed, and how couples can navigate the emotional wreckage left behind.Rebecca shares her insights on when relationships can survive an affair and when it may be time to walk away. We also dive into the healing process, the importance of accountability and empathy, healing old childhood wounds, and how some couples manage to not only recover but build a stronger, more connected partnership in the aftermath. Whether you're healing from betrayal or simply want a deeper understanding of relationships, this is a conversation you won't want to miss.https://www.affairrecoverycoach.com/LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you'd like to contact us directly, send us an email to info@modernmind.co.

Send us a textNyomi Banks shares her transformative journey from the entertainment industry to life coaching, advocating for self-love as a vital element in healing and building authentic relationships. The episode emphasizes the importance of continual learning, understanding self-worth, and navigating personal challenges while fostering a supportive network for growth. • Nyomi's journey as a lifelong entrepreneur • Importance of continuing education and personal growth • Defining self-love and its impact on self-worth • Healing from betrayal: recognizing internal vs external conflicts • Navigating relationships and the role of self-love • Balancing entrepreneurship with family and personal life • Naomi's legacy quote on judgment and understanding othersSupport the showThanks for listening & being part of the Mindset Cafe Community.----------------------------------------------Connect With Devan:https://www.devangonzalez.com/connect----------------------------------------------Follow On Instagram https://www.instagram.com/devan.gonzalez/https://www.instagram.com/mindsetcafepodcastLet me know what topics or questions you want covered so we can help you achieve your goals faster.----------------------------------------------P.S. If you're not already a part of the The Mindset Cafe Community Page I would love to have you be a part of the community, and spread your amazing knowledge. The page is to connect and network with other like minded people networking and furthering each other on our journeys!https://www.facebook.com/groups/themindsetcafe/

In this episode of Smuggling Hope, Dan delves into the challenging topic of betrayal in relationships, exploring its profound impact and the path to healing. He outlines the three essential steps to recovery: Atonement, Attunement, and Attachment, drawing on insights from relationship experts John and Julie Gottman. FREE RESOURCES HEREStart Healing Your Marriage and FamilySave 15% at TAN BOOKS use code HEARTSRENEWED15 at checkout click here to shop and save!WANT A BETTER SEX LIFE? Intimacy Guide:https://forms.aweber.com/form/25/71380525.htmWANT PEACE AT HOME? Family Culture:https://forms.aweber.com/form/19/955349019.htmEbook: https://forms.aweber.com/form/31/202341731.htmWHAT WORKS IN MARRIAGE Webinar: https://forms.aweber.com/form/25/437413425.htmWatch this before you call a divorce attorney:https://forms.aweber.com/form/32/107630932.htmChesterton Academy of BuffaloFind a Chesterton School Near YouMezanine Creative Co: Graphic Design for Small BusinesChapters00:00 Introduction to Smuggling Hope Podcast03:51 Understanding Betrayal in Relationships08:29 The Path to Atonement16:26 Rebuilding Emotional Connection through Attunement23:05 Restoring Bonds: The Importance of Attachment

Welcome to Find the Joy with Jenn, the podcast where we explore stories of resilience, growth, and faith to help you FIND the joy in your journey. I'm your host, Jenn Zingmark, and today, I am thrilled to welcome a special guest, Hope Ray! Hope is a therapist and the creator of Complex Partner Trauma Magazine, a publication for women betrayed by intimate deception. She hosts Women Who Discover, a private podcast about infidelity and betrayal available on her website, along with Getting D.I.R.E. Straight, her signature program for men who are resolute in recovery and desire to build trust and safety in their marriages. Today, we'll explore what defines betrayal, how it affects both partners, and what true healing looks like—whether that's rebuilding trust in a relationship or finding personal peace. This conversation is for you no matter where you are on this journey. • Learn more about my guest Hope Ray HERE: https://www.hoperay.com/ • Join me for a FREE WORKSHOP: 5 Things I Wish I Knew Before My LDS Divorce.

If you've recently discovered infidelity, an affair, or your spouse's struggle with sexual addiction, you may be asking the hard questions no one talks about out loud. In this powerful episode, Lisa and BrittLimehouse—Christian marriage coaches and founders of Marriage Redesigned—walk you through the top 7 questions couples ask after betrayal, including the one question most betrayed wives feel too afraid to voice:

Healing from betrayal can be one of the most difficult emotional journeys to navigate. Whether it's in a marriage, close friendship, or family, betrayal brings overwhelming pain, shame, and anger. It's hard to even find words for the depth of trauma it causes. The first step in healing from betrayal is forgiveness—starting with forgiving yourself.In this episode, Dr. Jantz takes us through the complex process of rebuilding trust after betrayal. He shares the emotions both the victim and the person who caused the betrayal go through, explaining how trauma can lead to harmful coping behaviors like addiction. He emphasizes that healing isn't immediate, but it is possible. Through accountability, honesty, and deep personal growth, trust can be restored.Dr. Jantz's award-winning treatment facility, The Center • A Place of HOPE in Edmonds, Washington, successfully treats those who have significant anxiety, trauma, phobias, and depression. The Center uses the Whole Person Care approach to healing.The Center • A Place of HOPE is recognized as a top 10 mental health center in the U.S., and has treated thousands suffering with mental health challenges. If you or someone you care for is struggling with emotional abuse, please call The Center today and visit with a specialist about what a treatment program can look like for you.Call ⁠⁠⁠888.771.5166⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.aplaceofhope.com

Dr. Kevin Skinner is a licensed marriage and family therapist. Throughout his 30 year career Dr. Skinner has worked to help individuals dealing with the pain associated with divorce. This course is a culmination of research and study on how to accelerate healing. In addition to therapy, Dr. Skinner has created online courses for Bloomforwomen.com and Noble.health. He has written professional assessments completed by thousands of people. He is the author of four books, Treating Sexual Addiction: A Compassionate Approach to Recovery, Treating Trauma from Sexual Betrayal, Treating Pornography Addiction, and Rebuild Your Relationship after Sexual Betrayal. He has also trained therapists throughout the world as a faculty member for IITAP. Together with his wife Katy they have 8 children and two grandchildrenFree Course: HEREHuman Intimacy Conference: HERECoupon Code: 50OffTherapy: HEREAshlynn is a resilient force of nature, balancing motherhood, entrepreneurship, and self-discovery. Walking through healing her own wounds while empowering others through podcasts and coaching, she's a beacon of hope for women navigating life's storms. With a heart full of compassion and a spirit of adventure, Ashlynn guides others to break free from their past and embrace a bold, boundary-rich future. Through her transformative programs and global retreats, she ignites the spark of possibility in women ready to rewrite their stories.Follow her on social media at https://www.instagram.com/this.isashlynn?igsh=d3l2b256d3E0ZWky&utm_source=qrMentor with her at HERE

An insightful conversation on the complexities of relationships and divorce featuring Dr. Galena Rhoades, a leading psychologist and research professor at the University of Denver. The episode covers a variety of topics including the science behind what keeps couples together, the importance of commitment and communication, and the controversial topic of infidelity and its recovery process. The podcast includes engaging segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It,' where Evan and producer Dave delve into trending topics and quotes about relationships. Dr. Rhoades offers research-backed truths and practical advice, making this a must-listen for anyone interested in understanding the dynamics of love and divorce.   Topics   01:35 February Excitement and Super Bowl Talk 03:01 Valentine's Day Discussion 04:12 Docket Items: Divorce and Cheating 06:26 Bill Gates' Divorce Regret 12:10 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics 22:03 Interview with Dr. Galena Rhoades 26:27 Research on Cohabitation and Divorce 28:00 The Sliding vs. Deciding Theory 30:04 Designing the Ideal Psychological Study 31:38 Healing After Betrayal in Relationships 33:49 The Phases of Recovery from Infidelity 38:53 The Myths of Love and Relationships 41:49 Impact of Family Background on Relationships 44:14 Key Components of Thriving Relationships 47:45 Insights from 'Fighting for Your Marriage' 50:35 Analyzing Historical Relationships 52:52 They Said It: Reflections on Love and Commitment 57:40 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

In this heartfelt episode, Heather is joined by Coach Ruth Farris-Harris, who shares her journey of overcoming betrayal and finding healing through self-introspection and faith. Ruth's candid discussion about the emotional toll of infidelity and pornography use sheds light on the often-isolating experience of betrayal, while providing practical tools for healing. She emphasizes the importance of rebuilding self-trust, understanding forgiveness, and creating emotional safety. With insights on personal growth and spiritual guidance, Ruth's story and coaching approach inspire hope for anyone navigating the challenges of betrayal. For more information about and for links to access all he has to offer, please click HERE! To watch this interview on YouTube, go HERE. For more information and available downloads, go to: https://ldslifecoaches.com/ All content is copyrighted to Heather Rackham and featured coaches. Do not use without permission.  

In this solo episode, I'm diving into three hidden barriers that can keep you stuck in the healing process after betrayal. Whether you're the betrayed partner or the one working to rebuild trust, these common fears and beliefs can make it hard to move forward. I'll walk you through why these barriers exist and share practical ways to navigate them so you can keep progressing in your healing journey. What You'll Learn in This Episode:

Send us a textRebuilding trust after an affair feels like an insurmountable challenge, but it's a journey worth taking if you're ready to heal. How do you mend a relationship that feels shattered? In today's episode of Happily Even After, I, Jen, a trauma-informed certified life coach, guide you through the emotional labyrinth of betrayal. Drawing from my personal journey and Matthias Barker's insightful "five A's" framework—Acquire, Accountability, Acceptance, Acknowledgment, and Amends—we craft a roadmap for healing, both individually and as a couple. This is not just about patching things up; it's about redefining the relationship fabric and nurturing personal growth so that trust can genuinely take root again.Honesty, transparency, and patience are not just words but the pillars of trust recovery. Whether it's setting boundaries or diving into self-awareness, these steps are not merely strategies but lifelines that can guide you through tumultuous times. We explore the importance of understanding your own emotional state before making life-altering decisions and discuss why self-healing should precede any couple's therapy. From candid personal stories to practical advice, you'll find the tools you need to navigate the aftermath of betrayal. Share this with those who might need a guiding hand and join me on social media for more insights on thriving even after the storm.Please follow me on instagram and facebook @happilyevenaftercoach and if you want to see what coaching is all about I offer a free 45 min. clarity call via zoom. Email me: hello@lifecoachjen.com for any comments or questions. Thanks for listening, please like and review as well as share with your family and friends. My website is www.lifecoachjen.com

Send us a textHave you ever wondered how someone recovers from the deep hurt of betrayal?In this podcast episode, host Billie Tarascio talks with Lora Cheadle about her personal journey after discovering her husband's infidelity. Lora shares the intense emotions of shock and devastation she experienced and the methods she used for healing, including hypnotherapy.They discuss the importance of understanding trauma in betrayal, rebuilding trust, and regaining emotional intimacy. Lora emphasizes that healing begins with self-awareness and self-trust, setting the foundation for healthier relationships in the future.If you want to learn more about how Lora Cheadle navigated through betrayal and her tips for recovery, follow her social media and explore her resources. This is a valuable opportunity for anyone seeking guidance and support through similar challenges.Free Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit:www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.comFacebook Lora Profile:https://www.facebook.com/lora.cheadleLora Cheadle, Life Choreographer FB Page:https://www.facebook.com/LifeChoreographer/ Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/loracheadle/LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/lora-cheadle-lifechoreographer/#podcast #modernarizonapodcast #billietarascio #cheating #betryal #newpodcast #fyp #infidelity #divorce #divorcesupport #lifecoach

TOPIC & GUESTThis week we're discussing FINDING HEALING AFTER BETRAYAL with JILL SAVAGE. PAIN POINTThere is no easy fix for betrayal. When someone we trust betrays us, our entire world is upended. Betrayal is an earthquake that catastrophically upheaves the foundation of our entire life and leaves us broken and trembling in the aftershock. Suddenly, everything we knew to be true is no longer true, leaving us to question everyone and everything. How do you come back from something like that? Can you find true, restorative, lasting healing after betrayal? GUEST BIOJill Savage is an author and speaker who is passionate about encouraging families. She is the author/co-author of fourteen books focused on motherhood, family, and marriage including No More Perfect Moms, No More Perfect Marriages (with her husband Mark), and her most recent book Empty Nest, Full Life. Jill and Mark lead a ministry which encompasses their speaking, writing, coaching, and marriage ministry so they can encourage, educate, and equip families. They have five children and eight grandchildren and live in Normal, Illinois. LINK TO SHOW NOTESFor all the detailed show notes, tips and links click - https://soloparent.org/show-notes-blog ASK US ANYTHING! We want to answer any Solo Parent questions you may have. Go to SoloParent.org/TalkToUs and ask us anything…it can be related to a topic we cover on the podcast, something you are facing or just something you are curious about. We want you to be part of our podcast! To receive a free SPS Welcome Toolkit with links to groups, info and a free book click - https://soloparent.org/welcome-toolkit Join our FREE daily meditational devotional - pod.link/1517894054 Download our free app - APPLE - https://apple.co/3fKOd6F ANDROID - https://bit.ly/2TvjtOs

TOPIC & GUESTThis week we're discussing FINDING HEALING AFTER BETRAYAL with JILL SAVAGE. PAIN POINTThere is no easy fix for betrayal. When someone we trust betrays us, our entire world is upended. Betrayal is an earthquake that catastrophically upheaves the foundation of our entire life and leaves us broken and trembling in the aftershock. Suddenly, everything we knew to be true is no longer true, leaving us to question everyone and everything. How do you come back from something like that? Can you find true, restorative, lasting healing after betrayal? GUEST BIOJill Savage is an author and speaker who is passionate about encouraging families. She is the author/co-author of fourteen books focused on motherhood, family, and marriage including No More Perfect Moms, No More Perfect Marriages (with her husband Mark), and her most recent book Empty Nest, Full Life. Jill and Mark lead a ministry which encompasses their speaking, writing, coaching, and marriage ministry so they can encourage, educate, and equip families. They have five children and eight grandchildren and live in Normal, Illinois. LINK TO SHOW NOTESFor all the detailed show notes, tips and links click - https://soloparent.org/show-notes-blog ASK US ANYTHING! We want to answer any Solo Parent questions you may have. Go to SoloParent.org/TalkToUs and ask us anything…it can be related to a topic we cover on the podcast, something you are facing or just something you are curious about. We want you to be part of our podcast! To receive a free SPS Welcome Toolkit with links to groups, info and a free book click - https://soloparent.org/welcome-toolkit Join our FREE daily meditational devotional - pod.link/1517894054 Download our free app - APPLE - https://apple.co/3fKOd6F ANDROID - https://bit.ly/2TvjtOs

Dr. Debi Silber is a 2-time #1 International bestselling author of: The Unshakable Woman AND From Hardened to Healed. Her podcast: From Betrayal to Breakthrough is also globally ranked within the top 1.5% of podcasts. Her recent PhD study on how we experience betrayal made 3 groundbreaking discoveries that changes how long it takes to heal. In addition to being on FOX, CBS, The Dr. Oz Show, TEDx (twice) and more, and now she's on MY little podcast to tell you how you can heal, too! This interview will impact your life in ways unimaginable. Come be inspired, LISTEN TODAY!  ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/amandablackwood⁠ Find this guest online:  ALL of Dr. Debi Silber's books: ⁠https://amzn.to/46SjwEu⁠ The site: ⁠https://thepbtinstitute.com⁠ The latest TEDx: “Do You Have Post Betrayal Syndrome?“: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iyqOR69dHiU⁠ TEDx: Stop Sabotaging Yourself: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XX30i6nC7ro⁠ The From Betrayal to Breakthrough podcast: ⁠https://thepbtinstitute.com/podcast/⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@debisilber⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/InspireEmpowerTransform⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/DebiSilber⁠ Linkedin: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/debisilber/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/debisilber/⁠ Youtube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/debisilber⁠ TRIGGER WARNING: In this episode I'm talking with a trauma survivor about their history and recovery. Suicide, child abuse, and PTSD are common themes. Pairing of guest and podcast provided by #PodMatch. To book yourself as a guest through Podmatch sign up using this link: ⁠⁠https://www.joinpodmatch.com/amanda⁠⁠ Check out ALL of the books written by the podcast guests this season. As an Amazon influencer, I might earn commissions on qualified purchases! I do NOT get paid for the podcast. As always you can support the podcast with PayPal or Venmo donations, or by purchasing one of my books! PayPal ⁠⁠authoramandablackwood@gmail.com⁠⁠ OR donate through the donation page at ⁠⁠https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=9AT5NQ8C474SY⁠⁠ Venmo @DetailedPieces Find my books: ⁠⁠https://books2read.com/ap/xej5pN/Amanda-Blackwood⁠⁠ Shop the ABTS Etsy for signed books, original art prints, and more! ⁠⁠https://www.etsy.com/shop/LadyBlackwoodShop⁠⁠ Get access to previous seasons and exclusive content with a subscription! ⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/amandablackwood/subscribe⁠⁠ NEW!!! Watch this episode on YouTube!⁠⁠ https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLyX6CW82tzFOqYNBkGixqe81NrdEHJjWD⁠⁠

Today's Life Question comes from someone who feels betrayed after recently learning that her husband had an affair for 8 months, and wants to know how to proceed forward emotionally and spiritually. For practical spiritual insight and encouragement around your relationships, finances, life purpose, or in understanding world events, submit your Life Question of The Week to podcast@michaelbeckwith.com and it may be featured in an upcoming episode! Remember to subscribe/follow and set an alert to receive notifications each Friday when new episodes are available! If you are inspired by the Take Back Your Mind podcast, please share it with your friends and family, and give us a 5-star rating! Connect with Michael at his new website – https://michaelbeckwith.com/ – and receive his guided meditation, “Raise Your Vibration and Be Untouchable” when you sign up to receive occasional updates from Michael!  You can also connect with him at https://agapelive.com/ and catch all 3 of his Sunday services! Facebook: @Michael.B.Beckwith https://www.facebook.com/Michael.B.Beckwith IG: @michaelbbeckwith https://www.instagram.com/michaelbbeckwith/ X:  @drmichaelbb https://twitter.com/drmichaelbb YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqMWuqEKXLY4m60gNDsw61w

The speaker shares the traumatic experience of being held hostage and assaulted by a man she was dating. She explains how she was able to escape with the help of the police and discusses the emotional damage she had to deal with afterwards. She talks about looking for a safe place to live and coping with the trauma through activities like going to church and walking her dog. The listener expresses admiration for her strength and courage for sharing her story and offers words of support. Sana hosts Michelle Bernard on her podcast ‘Healthy Mind Heart and Soul', and they talk about Michelle's incredible story healing from abuse and trauma. Michelle talks about her podcast ‘Somewhere At The Middle with Michelle Bernard' and her work with Urban Book Editor. They discuss how important it is to take care of one's mental health, and Michelle shares tips on cultivating inner peace and finding joy in life. They also mention some helpful resources for support and healing. Sana and Michelle encourage listeners to For a while, I had been feeling very down on my luck. So I decided to move to New Orleans, where I thought I would have a fresh start. However, things quickly turned dark when I met a man who I thought was the answer to my problems. It turned out that he was actually a dangerous individual who caused a lot of harm to myself, my dog, and others. Through the healing power of yoga and therapy, I was able to recover and rebuild my life. I now Michelle Bernard shares her story of betrayal and assault at the hands of a client-turned-romantic-partner. Despite the physical and emotional injuries she suffered, she found a way to feel peaceful about the event and hopes to inspire others to do the same. She discusses the confusion and humiliation she experienced after discovering his true nature and the traumatic event that followed. Michelle shares insights into the healing process and the tools she used to cope with the aftermath, including distance, therapy, and self-reflection.

In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie talks to HCH coaches Susan and Scott Rankin, a husband and wife with their own story of relational betrayal and healing. Susan and Scott vulnerably share their journey of healing and rebuilding their relationship and open up about the painful impact the addiction had on their lives and their relationship and the path that led them back to themselves and each other. Listeners will hear about the pivotal moments in their recovery journey, including the decision to seek therapy, the role of honesty and vulnerability, and the long, challenging process of rebuilding trust. Susan and Scott share the tools and resources that helped them, the support systems they leaned on, and the personal growth they each experienced.This episode offers a powerful message of hope for anyone facing similar challenges, highlighting the possibility of healing and resilience even after the deepest wounds. Whether you're dealing with betrayal in your own life or simply seeking to understand the complexities of addiction and recovery in relationships, this conversation provides valuable insights and inspiration.

Lace up those dancing shoes because there's a new acronym in town - SHAWN B! In a past episode we talked all about NOT dancing with Walter. In this week's episode we introduce you to the partner you SHOULD dance with - SHAWN B. Join Alana and our guest, Laura Fisher (a fellow Choose Recovery Services coach), as they talk about the betrayed experience and give you a helpful framework for navigating relational challenges. Discover how this acronym can give you practical tools to use as you navigate your healing journey. Listen to learn: The limitations of the “Don't Dance with WALTER” approach How SHAWN B can empower you to act when you may feel frozen Techniques for widening your window of tolerance Why actions matter more than words in recovery Referenced in this episode: Learn more about Laura and schedule a consultation Don't Dance With WALTER - past podcast episode Deconstructing Gaslighting - past podcast episode Choose Renewal - For women recovering from unwanted sexual behavior, whether it's a recurring challenge or a one-time incident. Focus on recovery and healing from patterns of sexual acting out in a safe, nurturing community. Don't Miss Out! In-person Intensive: ⁠Unmasked: Paths to Authentic Masculinity⁠ - This is a three-day live intensive for men led by Alana and Luke Gordon. This program is designed to help men delve deep into understanding integrity, unveiling layers of shame, and reclaiming their authentic selves. Intensive will be held in Spanish Fork, UT on Sept 18th-20th, 2024. Learn more and register ⁠HERE⁠. More from Choose Recovery Services Beyond the Facade Podcast - Luke Gordon hosts a podcast geared toward helping men live authentically and in harmony with their values. Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma. First four weeks are free! Believing in You - In this program Amie teaches you how to work WITH your brain instead of against it. Learn tools that will help you move forward to trust, love, empowerment, and finding joy once again. Healing Hearts - This group is for couples seeking healing after betrayal. It emphasizes the development of empathy, integrity, and authentic intimacy.  Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.  ⁠Empowerment After Betrayal for Men⁠ - This betrayal trauma support group is for men who have been betrayed. They will receive resources to recover from betrayal trauma while being surrounded by a supportive community. Choose 90 for Men - Support group for men who are ready to take the first step towards recovery from compulsive behavior, infidelity and/or betrayal. Choose 180 for Men - This support group helps men gain emotional intelligence so they can better manage unwanted behaviors. Participants will connect with other men, better understand their emotions, work through shame, and build a deep respect for themselves.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Resilient Teens - Ongoing support group for teens ages 15-18 whose parents have experienced betrayal in their marriage. Adult Children Uniting for Healing - Ongoing support group for adult children of parents who have experienced betrayal in their marriage and who need support navigating their own experience with betrayal. Choosing to Stay Webinar - Free monthly webinar for couples choosing to stay together after infidelity.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Empowered Divorce Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with Amie Woolsey for those who are leaning toward divorce.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Dating From Within - Amie Woolsey hosts this workshop which teaches you how to date yourself first. Learn how to know if you are ready to date again and what a healthy relationship looks like.  Should I Stay or Go? - Self-paced course designed to be a companion on your journey toward self-discovery and personal empowerment.  Connect with us on Social Media: Alana Gordon Amie Woolsey Choose Recovery Services

Join hosts Kris Rocha and Jenn Howie for another enlightening episode of The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast. Today, we welcome back Tammy Gustafson, a renowned betrayal trauma coach, therapist, writer, and speaker. Tammy is here to delve deeper into her "Four Phases of Healing After Betrayal," sharing her expert insights and personal experiences. This episode is packed with valuable information, laughter, and heartfelt moments.About Tammy Gustafson: Tammy Gustafson is the founder of Betrayal Healing, a platform dedicated to helping women navigate the painful healing journey after betrayal. With over 15 years of experience as a licensed professional counselor specializing in trauma and PTSD, Tammy brings both professional expertise and personal understanding to her work. She is passionate about empowering women to reclaim their peace, confidence, and self-worth.Key Highlights:Phase 1: RevealIn this initial phase, Tammy explains how individuals often feel shattered and overwhelmed by the betrayal. This phase focuses on uncovering the truth and acknowledging the reality of the situation. It's about confronting the painful facts and starting the journey towards healing.Phase 2: RumbleThis phase involves wrestling with the emotional turmoil and confusion that follow the discovery of betrayal. Tammy emphasizes the importance of processing these intense emotions and beginning to understand their impact on one's life and relationships.Phase 3: RealignTammy outlines strategies for realigning one's life and identity after betrayal. This phase is about setting boundaries, rediscovering self-worth, and creating a new vision for the future. It's a time for making conscious choices about what one wants their life to look like moving forward.Phase 4: RebuildIn the final phase, Tammy talks about rebuilding and thriving beyond the pain of betrayal. This phase highlights the journey towards regaining joy, strength, and a renewed sense of purpose. It's about constructing a life that reflects one's true values and aspirations.Conclusion: Tune in to this insightful episode as Tammy Gustafson breaks down her Four Phases of Healing After Betrayal. Laugh with us, learn from Tammy's profound wisdom, and take away practical tools to aid in your own healing journey. Subscribe to The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast for more empowering stories and expert guidance on recovery and transformation.Connect with Us:Visit our website: Watermark CoachFollow us on Instagram: @WatermarkCoachingLearn more about Tammy's work: Betrayal HealingThank you for listening! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast to stay updated on future episodes.

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In this episode, Sachin interviews Dr. Debi Silber, founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation® Institute about her journey from television production to coaching people to post betrayal transformation. She shares the problems that grow from past betrayals relating to emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual issues that remain unhealed until the betrayal is faced and dealt with. She shares examples from life and even from her family life and career. Listen in for insight on how your clients' betrayals or your betrayals may be causing issues for them or you.   Key Takeaways: [:59] Sachin introduces Dr. Debi Silber, who joins us for a conversation about our business, our emotional health, integrity, and betrayal. [1:42] Betrayal is something we deal with constantly. It likely happened to us many years ago and it currently impacts the way we operate. It may impact our nervous system, our relationships, and the dreams and aspirations we reach for; certainly, it impacts our self-worth.   [2:17] Dr. Debi Silber has developed a very successful business following her passion and her mission, speaking to people about betrayal and the trauma that it causes, the impact it has, and the breakthroughs that can come as a result.   [2:35] Sachin thanks Dr. Debi for being here on Perfect Practice.   [3:34] Dr. Debi followed her gut. She had graduated from college with a double major in TV production and broadcast journalism but she learned that production wasn't rewarding or fulfilling her. Debi didn't immediately give up production, but health was what was calling to her.   [4:32] Eventually, Debi became an NSRD and a holistic dietician with a Master's in nutrition. From there, Debi became a personal trainer. That business took off. Although Debi was eating well and exercising, she realized she was sick. She was anything but the picture of health.   [5:13] Debi studied to become a whole health coach. She learned that the thoughts she was thinking, the stress she was under, and the relationships she had were at the root of her sickness.   [5:30] Debi cut the ties and healed from all of it. That was the beginning of this new health journey. Years later, her traumas from betrayal led her to the Ph.D. program, the studies, and where she is now.   [5:51] Dr. Debi founded the Post Betrayal Transformation® Institute. She is a holistic psychologist with a health and personal development mindset. She is a two-time bestselling author. She has a popular podcast. She gave two TEDx talks. She's been on the Dr. Oz Show.   [6:40] About toxic relationships. Dr. Debi says you're in a toxic relationship when you start questioning and doubting yourself, when you stop believing in yourself and you figure that someone else knows better than you, and when you don't realize your value and worth.   [7:21] Often, it starts with an early betrayal. A child is shushed by his mother and starts to think he doesn't matter. If that's his belief, it will affect his choices, the work he would do, and the people he would date, if it doesn't get looked at.   [9:10] The second of Debi's three discoveries is that post betrayal syndrome has symptoms. It shows up in health, work, and relationships. It can show up as a repeat betrayal. The faces change but it's the same thing. You go from boss to boss, friend to friend, partner to partner. [9:40] It's not your fault, it's your opportunity: There's a profound lesson waiting to be learned! You are lovable, worthy, and deserving. You need better boundaries in place. Whatever it is, until and unless you get that, you will have opportunities in the form of people who teach you.   [9:56] A repeat betrayal means it is unhealed.   [9:59] The second way betrayal shows up in relationships is the big wall keeping everyone at a distance. It comes from a place of fear. Our trust was so shattered that we would rather keep everyone at bay than risk vulnerability and feel that pain again. That's an unhealed betrayal.   [10:24] At work, your confidence was shattered so you don't have the confidence to ask for a deserved raise or promotion, and you're bitter and resentful instead. Or you want to be a team player but the person you trusted the most, or your boss, proved untrustworthy.   [10:47] In health, people go to a well-meaning doctor, coach, healer, or therapist to manage a stress-related issue. At the root of it is an unhealed betrayal.   [11:06] Dr. Debi founded National Forgiveness Day, September 1. If you're working on forgiveness for the wrong reasons, it backfires every time. Move toward acceptance first, it's an easier reach.   [12:26] Withholding forgiveness only hurts us. In the betrayed community, we feel the rug has been pulled out from under us and we barely have any control over our lives. Granting or withholding forgiveness is something within our control and we are hesitant to give it back.   [12:52] Debi shares a story of the power of forgiveness for an elderly woman with an old family betrayal. She also had digestive issues. She participated in a 21-day forgiveness journey. Two weeks into her forgiveness journey, she healed from her digestive issues.   [14:36] Dr. Debi says 95,000-plus men and women have taken the Post Betrayal Quiz from many countries. Of respondents, 78% constantly revisit their experience, 81% feel loss of personal power, 80% are hyper-vigilant, and 94% deal with painful triggers.   [15:08] Physical symptoms reported are low energy (71%), sleep issues (68%), extreme fatigue (63%), weight changes (47%), and digestive issues (45%). Mental symptoms reported are overwhelm (78%), disbelief (70%), shock (64%), and inability to concentrate (62%).   [15:42] You can't concentrate, you have a gut issue, you're exhausted, and you still have to raise your children; you still have to work.   [15:52] Emotionally, 88% experience extreme sadness; 83% are very angry. Think about what your nervous system is doing when that's happening.   [16:07] Eighty-two percent are hurt; 79% are stressed; 84% have an inability to trust; 67% prevent themselves from forming deep relationships for fear of being hurt again; 82% find it hard to move forward, and 90% want to move forward but don't know how.   [17:01] This betrayal could be from a parent when you were a child or the boyfriend or girlfriend who broke your heart in high school. They may not know, care, or even be alive and you have these symptoms from something years ago. You can heal from all of it.   [17:34] People typically go to therapy, where they feel heard but also retraumatize themselves, solidify their story, and make it who they are. They are stuck with repeat betrayals.   [18:32] Some people numb, avoid, and distract. They use food, drugs, alcohol, work, TV, or more to numb, avoid, and distract themselves. In PBT, people learn to face it, feel it, and heal it. That's how to move through it. You can't move through it if you're numbing or coasting.   [19:03] Some people join a support group and are miserable together. They sabotage their healing because they don't want to outgrow their people.   [19:28] Numbing, hanging onto your story, or seeking people with the same story is like Krazy Glue® keeping you stuck in one spot, preventing you from moving through the five stages from betrayal to breakthrough.   [20:35] We can stay stuck for decades but if we're going to fully heal from post betrayal syndrome to a completely rebuilt space, post betrayal transformation, (Dr. Debi's first discovery), we're going to move through five proven, predictable stages (Dr. Debi's third discovery).   [20:58] We know what happens physically, mentally, and emotionally, at every one of the five stages and what it takes to move from one stage to the next. Healing is entirely predictable.   [21:18] Stage 1 is before it happens. Imagine four legs to a table, physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. People lean heavily on the physical and mental and neglect the emotional and spiritual. A table with only two legs topples over.   [21:40] Stage 2 is shock, trauma, and discovery day. It's the scariest, by far of the stages. It's the breakdown of the body, mind, and worldview. You ignite the stress response. Your mind is in total chaos and overwhelm. You can't wrap your mind around what you just learned.   [22:39] Stage 3 is survival instinct. You grab hold of anything or anyone to stay safe and alive. This is the most practical stage. It's the most common place to get stuck. Once we've figured out how to survive our experience, as it feels better than shock and trauma, we plant roots.   [24:25] Because we don't know there's anywhere else to go, but it still feels bad, we start numbing and distracting. This can go on for years and we're stuck in Stage 3.   [25:19] If you are willing to let go of your story, the benefits you're receiving, grief, and more, you move to Stage 4.   [25:31] Stage 4 is finding and adjusting to a new normal. You acknowledge you can't undo what happened but you control what you do with it. That turns down the stress and stops the damage you've been accumulating in Stage 2 and Stage 3. It feels like you've moved to a new place.   [25:55] When you move, you don't take things with you that don't represent who you are ready to become. Old relationships that were not there for you or don't change with you are left behind. You've outgrown them.   [26:26] When you settle into your new space that you have made mentally home, you move into Stage 5. Stage 5 is healing, rebirth, and a new worldview. Your body starts to heal. Self-love, self-care, eating well, and exercising. You didn't have the bandwidth for that before; now you do.    [26:44] Your mind is healing. You make new rules, set new boundaries, and you have a new worldview, based on everything you've been through. The four legs of your table, physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual, are solidly grounded. You are focused on all four legs.   [27:04] Sachin relates his life's growth to the five stages and speaks of a big shift when he moved away from a bad job. He considers his clients as possibly going through betrayal. He considers his relationship with his son and asks how to break the ice if he may be the betrayer.   [30:22] Debi's betrayal came when she had four teens. It was the biggest wake-up call. They are so close now, like having been through a war together. At the time, she told them how she loved them and was not at her best, but was giving them the best she could. They supported her.   [31:07] Debi finds that nothing beats honesty. She explains how that would work in a conversation with a child about falling short in dealing with that child. When in doubt, honesty wins every time. Sachin recommends you play this part of the episode back and practice it.   [32:25] Debi adds advice for a betrayer who wants to be accountable and repair trust in a relationship. Your honesty is not supposed to flow out of you beautifully. That doesn't build trust. It's supposed to be awkward. You're not supposed to be smooth at this. It's unfamiliar to you.   [33:08] It's OK. You're learning something new because that person is worth it. Instead of trying to get the words right, just tap into your heart. Conversations go wrong when we go from our head to reach someone's head or to reach their heart. Go from your heart to their heart.   [34:24] Debi has always gone by her intuition. Early on, with four kids, six dogs, and a thriving business, it was all about holding it together. Her advice is to be careful what feeds you. To keep it going, Debi was sacrificing sleep and cutting corners on herself, and that caught up quickly.   [35:15] The lesson learned led Debi to leave health in that way and move toward something that involves what stress is doing and what your lifestyle is creating. From there, Debi realized that toxic family relationships were at the root of her issues.   [35:52] When Debi cut those ties, her mentor told her it was like she had traded an anchor for a pair of wings. She healed from everything. Debi wrote her first book in two-and-a-half weeks. It flew out of her. She wanted every mom to know the “secret to everything” she thought she had.   [36:18] Debi became an FDN. Then Debi's betrayal came, from her family and her husband. She enrolled in a Ph.D. program in transpersonal psychology and did her study on betrayal, to get herself out of the jam and understand how the mind works and why we do these things.   [37:05] When the discoveries in her study showed up, Debi was on a Zoom call with a mentor talking about the discoveries but not sharing her story. Her mentor told her to stop hiding behind her study. She knew he was right.   [37:45] She sat down with her children and her husband, as they were working on reconciliation, and told them she was going to write their story in a book. Her children approved. Her husband got emotional and said, “You're going to help so many people.” So it was in the book.   [38:30] Debi gave two TEDx talks. In the first one, “Stop Sabotaging Yourself,” six weeks after her betrayal, she hinted at her story. In the second one, “Do You Have Post Betrayal Syndrome?” she talked about her betrayal for one of the first times. It's changed her life.   [39:24] Debi describes how people move through the stages at the PBT. She also offers two certification programs: Certified PBT Coach or Practioner and Certified Support Group Host. The intention is for people to get the right kind of support to lift and inspire them.   [40:15] Support groups are going up around the world, the PBT is growing and certifying more coaches and getting more members, especially corporate employees with fear, who are acting from unhealed betrayals of years ago. PBT is approaching corporations to help address this.   [41:58] Debi loves speaking and would like to do more of it. In the beginning for her, speaking was a means of imparting information. Then she realized it's not about information but about sharing a special experience with the audience, as though telling them about a great book.   [42:34] When Debi changed her speaking to sharing what excited her, she began to love speaking. Her favorite parts are the book signing or getting to hug people afterward. Her talks sometimes shock people to prod them out of numbness.   [43:32] When it comes to sharing your message, share it in a way that feels really good for you. If blogging feels natural and comfortable, do that. If podcasting feels great, do that. Or being on stages. The world needs what you have in the specific way you have it.   [44:01] Don't try everything. When you're doing what you do best, it's effortless and you love it. Why not just do more of that?   [45:26] Debi describes the Hero's Journey, going about their business, then there's the big trauma, and then the part where they start to rise and realize their worth and value. The trauma starts to subside and they ask “What can I do with this and use it to my advantage?”   [46:18] That's what excites Debi, because that's when you'll see new levels of health, new relationships, new passion projects, new businesses, and endless possibilities.   [47:26] The PBT offers two tracks for certifying PBT coaches. One is for coaches and healers and the other is for doctors, therapists, counselors, psychologists, and psychiatrists. It's the same training of the five stages, it's just a difference in the title and pay of coach or practitioner.   [47:50] The ideal candidate is a coach who has experienced betrayal and wants to serve this niche. As 45% of betrayed people have digestive issues, a digestive doctor would be a perfect candidate. How much more effective would they be if they got to the root cause of the issue?   [49:05] If a practitioner wants to refer to Dr. Debi Silber, start at ThePBTInstitute.com. The PBT can work remotely. They have clients and coaches all over the world. There's a recent coach from Dubai and one who's starting from Kenya. Members are from all over the world.   [49:45] Dr. Debi Silber shares her one message with the world: “As it relates to betrayal, even though it happened to you, it's not about you. Say that to yourself a million times until you believe it because that's absolutely true. There's a roadmap. Healing has become a choice.”   [50:03] “As far as business goes, follow your gut. If you feel called to do something, it's because you're supposed to. And do it boldly, and proudly, and don't give up, ever.”   [50:32] Sachin thanks Dr. Debi Silber for being such a source of inspiration on Perfect Practice. Sachin would love to hear about breakthroughs his listeners have as a result of listening to this conversation. Listeners, please check out the links in the show notes.   [51:39] Dr. Debi Silber thanks Sachin.   Mentioned in this episode Perfect Practice Live “Debi Silber: Stop Sabotaging Yourself” TEDx “Debi Silber: Do You Have Post Betrayal Syndrome?” TEDx   More about your host Sachin Patel How to speak with Sachin Go one step further and Become The Living Proof Perfect Practice Live sachin@becomeproof.com To set up a practice clarity call and opportunity audit   Books by Sachin Patel: Perfect Practice: How to Build a Successful Functional Medical Business, Attract Your Ideal Patients, Serve Your Community, and Get Paid What You're Worth The Motivation Molecule: The Biological Secrets To Eliminate Procrastination, Skyrocket Productivity, and Get Sh!t Done   Tweetables:   “You're in a toxic relationship when you start questioning and doubting yourself; when you stop believing in yourself and you figure that someone else knows better than you; when you don't realize your value and your worth.” — Dr. Debi Silber   “A repeat betrayal means it is unhealed.” — Dr. Debi Silber   “Withholding forgiveness only hurts us.” — Dr. Debi Silber   “Stage 5 is healing, rebirth, and a new worldview. Your body starts to heal with self-love, self-care, eating well, and exercising. You didn't have the bandwidth for that before; now you do.” — Dr. Debi Silber   “We just want to get the Five Stages into as many hands as possible.” — Dr. Debi Silber   Dr. Debi Silber, WBENC Certified WBE The PBT® Institute    

“Betrayal” is a very dramatic word that we might be reserving for only the biggest violations of trust, but betrayals come in all forms. If you've felt betrayed by someone in your life, today's episode is all about how to regain a sense of self and trust in your capacity to heal after betrayal.Web: https://www.yourcourageouslife.com Gram: https://instagram.com/katecourageous Tok: https://tiktok.com/@katecourageous *Please note that while this podcast may discuss protocols to improve mental or physical health, listeners should always consult a qualified provider before following any advice or undertaking any changes to their lifestyle.

Brian and Anne talk about 10 strategies to help you through the holiday season.

Part 2 of Personal Style with Dr. Ken Keis! Hear from the professional who is your expert when it comes to understanding self - discovery.

Why aren't you more like me?This is not only a question we as individuals ask ourselves...but it's also a fascinating book title, written by author Dr. Ken Keis.Dr. Keis is a personal friend to Brian and Anne Bercht, and has discovered how to improve your life through self-awareness.  When you are struggling to work through your interactions with your spouse (or partner)...it's important that YOU understand how YOU tick.  The Personal Style Indicator is a very impactful assessment; Brian and Anne have found this element to be foundational in their teachings.  

There is no set rule about whether you should tell your children or not. Each couple, each situation and each family is different. I recommend that as a mother and father, both parents get as much information as they can, then come together and discuss your unique situation and the best course of action for your family. Ideally,  you both should decide and agree together on whether or not to talk to your children about the affair.What are your motives for wanting to tell your children about an affair?Be honest with yourself here. If your motive for telling is because you, the betrayed spouse, want sympathy and want your children to know what a dirt-bag their other parent is, DO NOT TELL THEM. If your motive is anything less than to improve their lives, and create more closeness with them by gifting them with truth, you should NOT tell.Listen with Anne, as she discusses this question, bringing her own unique story to life...  

Meet Kim Hansen, one of our TaraHope coaches!  Today's episode is focusing on the importance of self care after betrayal.   We would be so honored if you consider supporting us with a donation to TaraHope to directly contribute to the scholarship (1:1 sessions with a TaraHope coach) of a betrayed partner!  If you haven't already listened to the episode where we introduce Tara Hope Alliance please listen to episode 38!   www.tarahopealliance.org/donate    The mission of TaraHope is to support women experiencing and recovering from sexual betrayal trauma. We do this by providing education and resources as well as connecting them with, and paying for, practitioners who guide and assist them through the recovery process so that they can lead happy and fulfilling lives again.   We pair betrayed partners with highly  qualified practitioners and coaches to guide them on their recovery journey and for the next few weeks we are spotlighting the coaches.   Please consider joining us on our mission whether it be through prayer, donations or even sharing an episode with someone who might be interested.   Learn more at www.tarahopealliance.org and consider donating at www.tarahopealliance.org/donate    Find more about Kim and connect with her at www.coachinghope4u.com

Betrayal, especially in the sacred sanctuary of marriage, can leave us broken and shattered. As someone who has walked the hard path of healing after an unexpected betrayal in my marriage, I want to share the tools and strategies that helped me reclaim my life, my joy, and my self-esteem. You'll hear me discuss the emotional whirlwind one feels post-betrayal and the importance of acknowledging those feelings. Together, we'll explore creating a safe space for healing and the kind of self-care practices that can support your recovery.Have you ever wondered if you can trust someone again after a betrayal? Or how you can cope healthily without resorting to substances or unhelpful distractions? Join me as we discuss the importance of self-care, including sleep, nutrition, and a supportive network, in healing from betrayal. We'll uncover the harmful coping strategies, like using alcohol to numb the pain or jumping into a new relationship to forget the old one. Instead, we will focus on the beneficial habits that pave the way towards rebuilding trust.As we move further in our journey of healing, we enter the challenging terrain of forgiveness. Here, I share with you how I managed to let go of the anger and resentment that often accompanies betrayal, and instead, cultivated forgiveness. We'll touch upon understanding triggers, learning about our nervous system, and the various therapeutic practices that support healing – like breathwork, EMDR, brain spotting therapy, and life coaching. Finally, I leave you with a Q&A segment and practical action steps to help you find your own version of Happily Even After, no matter how devastating the betrayal might have been.Please follow me on instagram and facebook @happilyevenaftercoach and if you want to see what coaching is all about I offer a free 30 min. clarity call via zoom. Email me: hello@lifecoachjen.com for any comments or questions. Thanks for listening, please like and review as well as share with your family and friends. My website is www.lifecoachjen.com

Join me in this raw and candid conversation with "Sally", as we explore the depths of healing after marital betrayal. We uncover the complexities of infidelity, the challenge of rebuilding trust, and the remarkable path to forgiveness. Sally's journey is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit, offering powerful insights into dealing with grief, depression, and ultimately finding the courage to rebuild a fractured relationship.   This episode is a reminder that every individual's healing journey is unique. If you're on the road to healing your marriage after infidelity, you'll find inspiration and hope in Sally's incredible story.   Here's a glance at this episode… [03:35] The shattering discovery of the affair and the whirlwind of emotions. [07:49] The painful navigation of grief and confronting the unimaginable. [11:56] Creating a safe space for uncomfortable conversations. [14:09] Reclaiming self-worth and the journey of self-discovery. [16:34] Boundaries, privacy, and the significance of self-respect. [20:12] Medication's role in the healing process. [22:51] Viewing the affair as a plea for help and a wake-up call. [24:56] Embracing forgiveness as a vital step in healing. [25:30] Rebuilding trust in a relationship post-infidelity. [27:52] Navigating the fine balance between accountability and control. [29:27] The profound discovery of self-value and the essence of redefined love.

Join us as we welcome Wes Burns MPA, LPI, CFLEPE, a polygraph expert, to explore the practical uses of polygraphs in the aftermath of betrayal. Learn how a polygraph may be beneficial in helping individuals find the path to renewal after betrayal and for those Choosing to stay after infidelity and betrayal. To contact Wes or learn more about his distinguished service and experience in the professional forensic field, check out his website here. Thank you for tuning in to our podcast for couples healing from infidelity and betrayal. As certified coaches, we aim to provide support and guidance for those who decide to stay in their relationship. We offer valuable insights, empathy, and hope on the journey toward healing. Join us weekly for encouragement, skills, and expertise. Your hosts are Certified Relational Recovery Coaches specializing in Infidelity and Betrayal: Hali Roderick- TICC, PCC, APSATS CPC-Candidate, ERCEM Candidate Read Hali's Bio Book with Hali Stephanie Hamby- MCLC, APSATS CPC-Candidate, ERCEM Candidate Read Stephanie's Bio https://stephaniehambycoaching.youcanbook.me/ Contact us:  info.choosingtostay@gmail.com Choosing To Stay Webinar: Join Hali as she teaches this monthly free webinar for those Choosing To Stay after infidelity and betrayal. Help. Her. Heal. for Men - Hali Roderick helps men learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication. Participants will receive weekly exercises and worksheets to help them gain the skills to begin healing a broken relationship.  Empowerment After Betrayal for Men - Hali Roderick leads a betrayal trauma support group for men who have been betrayed where they can gain tools and resources to recover from betrayal trauma in a healthy way while being surrounded by a supportive community.  Healing Hearts Course - Stephanie Hamby leads This Couples Course that is a comprehensive program designed for early recovery and healing couples to learn and experience valuable insights together. It focuses on partner betrayal trauma and sexual integrity issues or addiction. The course provides practical education and tools to support healing for the partner and relationship repair.  More from Choose Recovery Services: Choose Healing - Betrayal Trauma support for women - This weekly support group is for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help to cope with the symptoms of trauma such as depression, hypervigilance, anxiety, and lack of trust. Ask questions from our team of coaches at Choose Recovery Services who have been there with this accessible group that is free for the first 12 weeks.  Choose 90 for Men - Support group for men who are ready to take the first step towards recovery from compulsive behavior, infidelity, and/or betrayal. Participants will gain tools and an understanding to better manage emotions and assess behaviors.  Choose 180 for Men - This support group helps men gain emotional intelligence so they can better manage unwanted behaviors. Participants will connect with other men, better understand their emotions, work through shame, and build a deep respect for themselves.  Choose 360 for Men - Support group for men who have reached a sense of wholeness in their recovery and are looking to maintain their recovery through awareness, accountability, and comradery.  Road to Recovery - Free monthly webinar with Luke and Alana Gordon for couples navigating the relational aspects that come along the road to recovery.  Should I Stay or Should I Go? - Amie Woolsey teaches this free monthly coaching call for those stuck trying to decide whether to stay in their marriage.  Connect with Choose Recovery on Instagram

Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging.    For partner betrayal resources including:    The What's Next course for betrayed spouses right after discovery The Phoenix Transformation course for betrayed partners looking for 1:1 emotional processing, coaching and trauma work (Kylene currently only works with women) "10 things most churches won't tell you when your husband is looking at pornography"    click this link: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune   Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU     For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org     Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune 

Episode at a Glance We've talked a lot about the different forms sex addiction and infidelity can manifest themselves in a relationship. But what can you do when the reaction to an exposure of addiction is silence, and face intimacy anorexia? I am so excited to be landing in Dallas, Texas today to speak with my new friend, Karen Rellos, Certified AASAT Intimacy Anorexia Coach and founder of Restored Hope Coaching &  Redeeming Love Marriage Ministry. Karen explains what Intimacy Anorexia is, why it can be devistating to partners in a relationship, and what can be done to redeem love in a relationship after betrayal. Karen shares her betrayal story of how she suffered for years with soul-crushing emotional neglect and verbal abuse, and how she was able to find her voice in that abuse and restore her marriage. She then discusses how she used that experience to become an APSAT Certified Partner Coach, helping other women who suffer through intimacy anorexia reclaim their lives and relationships after betrayal. Who is Karen Rellos? Karen Rellos is an APSATS Certified Partner Coach. She is also an ICF Certified Christian Life Coach, certified and trained as an Intimacy Anorexia Coach with APSATS, and a Certified Partner Mentor with Bravehearts University. She is trained in “Couples-Centered Recovery Coaching” with Dr. Jake Porter of Daring Ventures. Karen has additional training in Somatic practices and Attachment theory/strategies. Karen leads weekly groups for “Live Free wives” ministry as well as Dr. Sheri Keffer's “Brave one Community,” in addition to her own groups and individual Coaching. Karen & her husband John work individually and collaboratively helping couples impacted from the devastation of betrayal / sex addiction and founded Restored Hope Coaching and Redeeming Love Marriage Ministry. They help support couples on the journey toward healing, wholeness and redemption. Resources: Our listeners can learn more about Karen's coaching sessions, access additional resources and contact her at her website: www.redeeming-love.com Follow Karen's Instagram: @redeeming.love Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Melody and Friends! If you haven't already please take the time to leave us a rating and review on our iTunes page as it helps us get more great episodes like this to you!

Dr. Debi Silber is the founder of The PBT (Post Betrayal Transformation) Institute, a coaching firm helping people overcome betrayal from a loved one.  Using a hands-on approach, Debi and her team take their clients through the 5 stages of betrayal to ensure transformative healing and the ability to achieve breakthrough. Learn more at https://thepbtinstitute.com Check out Debi's podcast From Betrayal to Breakthrough  Follow our podcast on Facebook @TheOptimalLifePodcast If you enjoyed this episode, you might also like: Ep. 251 - Julie Hall :: Care for Self Ep. 197 - Carrington Smith :: Blooming through Trauma Ep. 165 - Joshua Shea :: Overcoming Porn Addiction

Dr. Debi Silber is the founder of the PBT (Post Betrayal Transformation) Institute and is a holistic psychologist, a health, mindset and personal development expert, the author of Trust Again, and is a 2-time #1 International bestselling author of: The Unshakable Woman AND From Hardened to Healed: The Effortless Path to Release Resistance, Get Unstuck and Create a Life You Love. Her podcast: From Betrayal to Breakthrough is also globally ranked within the top 1.5% of podcasts. Her recent PhD study on how we experience betrayal made 3 groundbreaking discoveries that changes how long it takes to heal. In addition to being on FOX, CBS, The Dr. Oz Show, TEDx (twice) and more, she's an award-winning speaker and coach dedicated to helping people move past their betrayals as well as any other blocks preventing them from the health, work, relationships, confidence, and happiness they want most.To learn more about Dr. Silber check out these links: https://thepbtinstitute.com/ Watch Dr. Debi's Recent TEDx Talks! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iyqOR69dHiU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XX30i6nC7ro Do you have Post Betrayal Syndrome? Take the Quiz: https://thepbtinstitute.com/quiz/

How can you start to trust yourself again after betrayal? Being betrayed by a partner is traumatizing physiologically, emotionally, and mentally. This can leave trauma on your body even long after the betrayal has occurred. When you've had this kind of blow in your life, it affects your sense of self, sense of safety, and self identity. This makes trusting yourself difficult.  This is a very natural response when you've experienced betrayal, but learning to trust yourself again is the first key to healing. Join Amie Woolsey in this episode as she shares: Whose responsibility it is to rebuild the trust Common thoughts and feelings you can experience after trust is broken The power of thought dumping Tools to begin to regain trust in yourself What it will look and feel like when you start trusting yourself again Groups, Classes, and Resources from Choose Recovery Services: Road to Recovery - Join Luke and Alana for a free monthly couples webinar to navigate the relational aspects that come on the road to recovery. Should I Stay or Should I Go - Join this FREE group coaching call with Amie for those stuck trying to decide whether to stay in their marriage. Healthy Dating Webinar - FREE webinar with Amie for single 18-25 year-olds interested in receiving tools and encouragement for future relationships. Am I In An Abusive Relationship? - FREE, self-paced workshop to help you identify key red flags in your relationship. Choose 180 Male Support Group - This group helps men move through the pains of addiction while healing from shame. Transforming Your Triggers- 6-week course taught by Hali Roderick to help women manage and overcome the challenges of trauma triggers. FREE BODY LOVE class that's ready when you are. You can also find Amie on The Empowered Divorce Podcast! Connect with us on Social Media: Amie Woolsey - Life Coach CPC, ICF, ELI-MP, CLDS, APSATS Trainee Alana Gordon - MFTI, CCPS, CSAT Candidate, Betrayal Trauma Coach Choose Recovery Services Sign up here to get an email reminder every time a new episode drops!

Nothing hurts more than feeling betrayed in your closest personal relationships such as your marriage. Although your story is yours alone, what you're feeling is not unique. Understanding the way your heart has been damaged and what is needed for healing will be a roadmap forward. In today's podcast, Dr. Carol talks with Lyschel Burket, founder of Hope Redefined, a ministry organization helping women take steps toward healing, about her own story of betrayal, the specifics of how she made it through, and what you need to know that will bring you your own healing. Find Lyschel Burket on her Hope Redefined website, Facebook, or Instagram. If you'd like some simple ideas about what to do when you feel you can't talk to anyone, request your free material here. You can leave Dr. Carol a confidential question or comment here. 

If you've ever been betrayed, you know the pain is unlike any other kind of trauma. Betrayal is a unique, deeply personal and deeply painful experience that can shatter our lives and live with us for years if we don't take very specific, intentional steps toward healing - luckily, Dr. Debi Silber is here to help. Dr. Debi is a holistic psychologist, a health, mindset and personal development expert, the author of multiple bestselling books, host of two TEDx talks, an award-winning coach and speaker, and the founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute, where she has helped thousands of people heal after experiencing her own life-changing betrayals from MULTIPLE close family members. Today on THRIVE, she unpacks her three groundbreaking discoveries around the post-betrayal healing process and walks through the five stages of betrayal. She also gives the best advice for supporting others through their experiences - what to do AND what NOT to do when walking side-by-side with a friend in their traumatic betrayal and healing process.   CONNECT WITH DR. DEBI WEBSITE INSTAGRAM The From Betrayal to Breakthrough Podcast     SHOP THE THRIVING COLLECTION HERE   FOLLOW ALONG: THRIVE Podcast Instagram Instagram Facebook Coming Up Roses

In this episode of INNER WORK, I respond to a listener email about how to heal after experiencing cheating in a relationship. I use this as a jumping-off point to address many different experiences of betrayal - within families, in friendships, in romantic partnerships - and how we can begin to heal the aftereffects of betrayal. Please be kind and compassionate with yourself as you listen to this episode, and allow yourself to gently feel anything that comes up for you. Please know that healing is always possible. I want to extend my deepest gratitude to Amber for writing in and asking this vulnerable question. To help keep this podcast on the air and free of ads, you can contribute any amount (starting at $1) that works for you here: https://square.link/u/I4Zt8YSE You can also support this podcast by purchasing any of my Resources for Self-Healing here: https://josephinehardman.com/resources/ To connect with me, head over to https://josephinehardman.com or send a note to me@josephinehardman.com Thank you for your presence, and for being willing to do your inner work! Music & sound engineering by G. Demers Inner Work 2023 All Rights Reserved.  

Today I am joined by Sis. Esmeralda Delgadillo as she helps uncover healing after betrayal.

In today's episode Amie and Alana talk about needs vs wants in a relationship as they answer a listers question. This episode is geared specifically towards the betrayed in the relationship. Ongoing Courses: Am I In An Abusive Relationship? - Free, self-paced workshop to help you identify key red flags that might be showing up in your relationship. Road To Recovery - Join Luke and Alana Gordon, Founders of Choose Recovery Services and Program Directors for the Men of Moroni and The Worth Group for a free monthly couples webinar. Navigating the relational aspects on the road to recovery can be complex and confusing. Choose 180 Male Support Group - Led by Luke Gordon In 180 we help men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You'll learn how to better connect with other men, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deep self respect. Did you miss the FREE BODY LOVE class? no worries you can get the recording HERE Upcoming Events: Believing In You- Group Coaching Program - GET YOUR SPOT FOR NEXT ROUND IN JANUARY!! Take your healing to the NEXT LEVEL in Amie's group coaching program where you will gain more awareness that will help you heal in ways you didn't even know you needed. For more information on what this class entails click the link to find out more. Should I Stay or Should I Go - Held on the FIRST THURSDAY of every month. Come join this FREE group coaching with Amie for those who are feeling stuck in making a decision around their marriage. Come and get coached in a safe space to help you shift through not so helpful thoughts that are keeping you stuck **Follow Amie and Alana on social media for daily content and messages of healing and recovery. Do you feel yourself leaning towards divorce? Head over to The Empowered Divorce Podcast with Amie Woolsey to get support.

This week Gina and Julie are talking about betrayal! If you've experienced betrayal, you know how painful it can be. It can make you question your reality. On this episode they explore different kinds of betrayal and what makes betrayal so brutal. They also talk about different emotions associated with betrayal, how it affects us and our ability to trust, and how to heal and move forward (whether you've been the betrayer or the betrayed). Love Swoon? Support us on Patreon (and get extra goodies). Register for our live online event! Want more Julie and Gina? Join our monthly membership group or take our classes. Find Gina on Instagram. Find Julie on Instagram.

When you experience trauma from betrayal, abuse and/or divorce, the first step is self care- caring for the self- your own wellbeing. Its more of our natural tendency to go the opposite- to take care of, to control, fix and look for al the things outside of us that we think are creating the inside chaos. We often justify, rationalize, and minimize our need for wellbeing, for time, 10 minutes of time to just be silent, still, center, grounded, IN and with the self. When we are in overdrive, we are now not living in the present, we are not in the moment we are not really living. Today Amie shares what self care is NOT. Debunking myths about self care and offering you new ideas to consider. Some episode Highlights: -Self care is NOT selfish -Self Care is NOT for those who are weak -Self care is NOT a one and done -The term self care can be changed! -Emotional first aid kit and what that looks like for you If you are struggling with step one in your healing journey you are not alone. thats why Amie creates a foundational healing group for these basic healing principles that often get overlooked or ignored. Dive deep into your foundational healing as the next group starts in September. contact chooserecoveryservices@gmail.com for more information. From the episode: Andy Puddicombe TED Talk Ongoing Courses: Am I In An Abusive Relationship? - Free self paces workshop to help you identify key red flags that might be showing up in your relationship. Upcoming Events: Body Love Workshop- Join this FREE upcoming workshop where Amie walks you through some basic steps to lean to love your body again after betrayal. to get on the interest list for that click the link! Divorce Retreat October Prepare to Thrive- early marriage course September

INTRO Dr.Debi Silber is the founder of the PBT (Post Betrayal Transformation) Institute and is a holistic psychologist, health, mindset, and personal development expert, the author of Trust Again,  CONTENT Betrayal can take many different forms. We can be betrayed by our parents, or family members, friends, partners, and our bodies. Betrayal can affect so many areas of our lives, our health, relationships, and our work as it affects our sense of security and trust. Debi goes on to explain her findings and how she helps people move through the different stages in which you can learn to heal and transform your life. Listen in to learn more about her Institute's discoveries and the stages and how to heal. BIO Dr.Debi Silber is a holistic psychologist, a health, mindset and personal development expert, the author of Trust Again, and is a 2-time #1 International bestselling author of The Unshakable Woman AND From Hardened to Healed. Her podcast: From Betrayal to Breakthrough is also globally ranked within the top 1.5% of podcasts. Her recent PhD study on how we experience betrayal made 3 groundbreaking discoveries that changes how long it takes to heal. In addition to being on FOX, CBS, The Dr. Oz Show, TEDx (twice) and more, she's an award-winning speaker and coach dedicated to helping people move past their betrayals as well as any other blocks preventing them from the health, work, relationships, confidence, and happiness they want most.   CONTACT DETAILS / LINKS Website - https://thepbtinstitute.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/InspireEmpowerTransform Twitter: https://twitter.com/DebiSilber Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debisilber/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/debisilber/   ABOUT WENDY CAPEWELL Wendy is a Psychotherapist, Coach, Public Speaker, and Author. She helps people who are stuck either in their personal, professional or relationships, get to the root of the problem which is holding them back, let go - and move forward into a happier more successful life.   Connect with Wendy Here...... Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Copewelltherapies Linked in - https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendycapewell/ YouTube Channel -  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUovcqsmI_c3rQ5oGUbiZtA Website - https://www.wendycapewell.co.uk/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/wendycapewell/ Book –‘From Surviving to Thriving in a Romantic Relationship'- Link to Amazon Email – info@wendycapewell.co.uk Sign up for my Newsletter -  http://bit.ly/2RpjY8g If you have enjoyed this show then please leave a review.      

In this episode you'll hear from Debi Silber, the founder of the post betrayal transformation Institute. Debi is also a holistic psychologist. She talks about everything from health to mindset, to personal development expert. We talk all about betrayal. So if you've ever been betrayed in your life, this episode is absolutely for you. Sometimes we hang on to it for years and years after it has occurred. And hanging onto betrayal isn't healthy, right? It prevents and blocks you from health, work relationships, confidence and really the happiness that you want. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ordinarytobadass/message

Founders of The Alexander House and husband and wife team share their story of infidelity, dancing with divorce, and their powerful journey toward reconciliation. Listen as they share about what was integral to their healing process. I'll give you a hint... it's something every couple needs and would benefit from. You'll also hear about the wonderful work happening at The Alexander House. This is a must listen!...Learn more about The Alexander House ministry that is working to save marriages every day..If you're considering divorce, download this FREE e-book "Things to Consider Before Divorce" before calling it quits and learn if there is still hope for your relationship.

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After almost a decade of what Tammy thought was an ideal marriage, the truth about her husband's pornography addiction surfaced in 2015. That began the long, hard fight of healing for her marriage and herself. Today, her marriage is restored and deeper than ever. Tammy Gustafson is a trauma-informed licensed professional counselor and coach who helps wives pick up the broken pieces of their hearts after sexual betrayal, find their strength, navigate the counter-intuitive process of healing, and reclaim their worth and value.The Betrayal Healing Phases - ie. the four phases of healing after betrayal and how they impact a wife's journey toward healing.The Betrayal Healing Phases Quiz - www.betrayalhealing.com/quizhttps://www.instagram.com/tammylgustafsonhttps://betrayalhealing.com___________________________________Make sure to Stay Connected with Rob during the week via any of the below social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RobLohmanLiftedFromTheRut/ Twitter: @RobLohmanInstagram: @roblohmanliftedfromtherut LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robertlohman/ YouTube: Rob Lohman BroadcastsWebsite: www.liftedfromtherut.com

Betrayal strikes at the core of our capacity to love and trust, violating the fundamental expectation that the person we love won't intentionally hurt us. The trauma from betrayal can imbed itself in our psyche affecting our health, jobs, confidence and happiness. Dr. Debi Silber is the founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute and is a holistic psychologist, a health, mindset and personal development expert, the author of the #1 bestselling book: The Unshakable Woman: 4 Steps to Rebuilding Your Body, Mind and Life After a Life Crisis and her newest book: Trust Again: Overcoming Betrayal and Regaining Health, Confidence and Happiness. Her recent PhD study on how we experience betrayal made 3 groundbreaking discoveries that changes how long it takes to heal. Dr. Debi is a dynamic blend of personal experience, academic studies and 30 years as a holistic healer. She's the real deal and I can't wait to share our conversation with you so let's get to it! Get in touch with Dr. Debi: https://thepbtinstitute.com Get in touch with Kristen Brown: https://kristenbrown.org

For a long time, I have been wanting to devote an episode to the mothers in our community who have gone through or are going through the grief of a divorce or a relationship breakup. If you are grieving the loss of a key relationship in your life, while also trying to manage a home and a job and be emotionally available to your children who might also be grieving, the load you are carrying might feel absolutely crushing. I want you to know that I see you, and I want 3 in 30 to be a resource of support and community for you. Our guest today is https://www.instagram.com/therapist.tracie/ (Tracie Pinnock), a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist with a virtual psychotherapy practice where she works with women and couples. She helps women cope with the stress of challenging life transitions, such as breakups, dating, remarriage and navigating blended families. She is particularly passionate about helping women overcome challenges that leave them feeling stuck so that they can pursue their self-defined ideas of happiness.  In the episode today, she would like to share with you some of the tools she shares with her clients in order to help them cope with and heal from heartbreak.  *** -3 Takeaways for Mothering through Divorce and Heartbreak Allow yourself to grieve. We tend to associate grief specifically with death, but the reality is that we grieve any significant loss in our lives. When we struggle to acknowledge this about breakups, it prevents healing.  Identify and utilize your resources. It's important to the healing process to seek out help for the things you need help with. Sit down and make an inventory of what you and your kids need right now and brainstorm some people or resources that might be able to help.  Design your ideal life/parenting situation. This is the part of the healing process that is about regaining hope. Journal about what you want your life to look like, particularly in the realm of family and parenting.  Friends, there is healing after heartbreak. I know it may not feel like that in the moment, but there is. You can reach out to https://www.instagram.com/therapist.tracie/ (Tracie) for additional professional support, and don’t forget about our long-time podcast sponsor http://betterhelp.com/3in30 (BetterHelp), which offers online counseling on a variety of topics. Whatever you are going through right now, please know that I am rooting for you. So many people are! You are a great mom, and it’s okay if you have to turn on movies for your kids for a little while, as you mother through heartbreak. Give yourself lots of grace and room to heal.  *** -Show Notes- Tracie’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapist.tracie/ (@therapist.tracie ) Tracie’s email: tracie@tphtherapy.com *** -Sponsors- Many thanks to this month's sponsor, Tubby Todd Bath Co! To find out which of their products are my favorites, and to receive 15% off, go to http://3in30podcast.com/tubbytodd (3in30podcast.com/tubbytodd). Don’t forget to use the code 3IN30TT for 15% off! *** -Related Episodes- https://3in30podcast.com/?s=healing+after+betrayal (Episode 068: Healing After Betrayal in your Marriage // Mika Perry) https://3in30podcast.com/captivate-podcast/open-adoption/ (Episode 042: How to Love Someone When It's Complicated or Hard) https://3in30podcast.com/captivate-podcast/gottmans/ (Episode 106: 3 Ways to Improve your Marriage TODAY) *** -Additional Resources from 3 in 30- Don’t forget to reserve your copy of the https://3-in-30-podcast.myshopify.com/ (Flecks of Gold Journal), a three-year journal to help you gather the golden moments within your  motherhood!  Join our community of heart-fueled mothers on https://www.instagram.com/3in30podcast/?hl=en (Instagram)! For a monthly recap of ALL of the takeaways from the month, sign up http://3in30podcast.com/takeaways (here). 

Podcast discusses how can we bring personal healing into the betrayals we have experienced? Family of origin core wounds, groups, communities, lovers and friends, transformative arts, metanoia, developing personal rituals of healing. Women's Inner Work.

Phil Waldrep experienced a hurtful betrayal at the hands of a former ministry associate, but found healing from the deep pains through Christ. He shares his story and what he's learned from his book, "Beyond Betrayal: Overcome Past Hurts and Begin to Trust Again."

Phil Waldrep experienced a hurtful betrayal at the hands of a former ministry associate, but found healing from the deep pains through Christ. He shares his story and what he's learned from his book, "Beyond Betrayal: Overcome Past Hurts and Begin to Trust Again."

Even Triathletes Struggle with Pornography Addiction too! James discusses how being open and honest with talking about pornography is like committing social suicide. He was curious in his early teens which led to his addiction. We are not horrible people and should not be shamed. These are lies and the adversary is the father of lies. James can not express enough his gratitude to his Savior for being with him throughout this journey. James attributes Men of Moroni for teaching him the importance of learning about the God given traits of providing, protecting, and presiding. These qualities have shown him that he truly is capable in every way of being an amazing man of God. You are worth the blessings of the Savior! If you want to feel the spirit coursing through your body then stop listening to the lies of the adversary and start to fight. You are 800% worth it! With the Savior you will find the joys of life once again. First recorded: Aug 21, 2018 For more recovery resources & healing go to: https://www.lifechangingservices.org 1-877-HERO-877

Luke explains how addiction leaves you in a state of mental fog. He was so focused on the addiction that his brain was not able to retain many tender memories with his family. They would go through cycles where Cindy would catch Luke and then he would commit to stop and then she would catch him again and the cycle continued for years. Back then he didn't think it was a bad thing, he just thought he needed to stop because Cindy would get mad. She blamed herself for years and kept it secret because she felt ashamed. Cindy talks about the importance of taking care of herself and realizing that policing her husband was not going to solve anything. Even though it was Luke who had the addiction, they each were fighting the adversary on their own separate battlefield. Praying together even when the days were hard was one of the biggest tools that helped them stay unified in their battle. Fighting together is STRENGTH - fighting against each other is WEAKNESS. First recorded: May 2, 2017 For more recovery resources & healing go to: https://www.lifechangingservices.org 1-877-HERO-877 Other Podcasts from Life Changing Services: Eternal Warrior Podcast, Mothers Who Know & Healing with WORTH

Destin is 46yrs old, married, a father of 4 kids, and one of them currently serving a mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints shares his journey of addiction and finding hope through Christ with the Men of Moroni Program. He has been addicted to masterbation and occasionally pornography too since he was 15yrs old and didn't realize he was out of control until he could no longer feel the Spirit in his life. He found the Men of Moroni website and chose to call the number and started going to the meetings! He thought he was the only one with the same problem, but quickly found out that others struggle with the same addictions, he found brotherhood and healing as he continued in the program. He has now been clean for 157 days since he started the program! He says when he has he wants to be with his kids, when he didn’t have the spirit and was not in recovery, he didn’t want to be around them so they wouldn’t draw on the negative energy he had. He is now able to enjoy being with them and finds himself having a better attitude too. Destin has never tried any other programs, Men of Moroni was the first program he has tried and it's working for him. Listen to Destin learn how he uses the tools SLACK and PWR Journaling to help him stay on track with his goals. Even though he has completed the Men of Moroni program, he talks about how the Slack app reminds him of Why he fights and Why he doesn’t give up. He also uses the SLACK app to minister to others who are struggling. He has come to realize that he is a valiant warrior and that is why Satan has worked so hard to lead him away. One of Destin’s favorite quotes is - Are you clinging to the rod or holding on to it? First Recorded: Apr 11, 2017 For more recovery tools, resources & healing go to: Lifechangingservices.org | 1-877-HERO-877

Markham has been married for 14yrs has 2 kids. He is now a Personal Warrior Trainer for the Men of Moroni Program and helps other YM and Men to achieve a 40%-60% improvement on the Man PWR Goals they set for themselves. His recovery started after 3yrs of white knuckling, his wife referred him to the Bishop who knew Maurice Harker who founded the Men of Moroni program and is when his official recovery started. First recorded Feb 24, 2017 For more support or information call 1-877-HERO-877 or email MofMBrothers@gmail.com | Meetings held online or in-person | @menofmoronibrothers

She had a feeling something was wrong in her marriage, but she just felt like a "naggy wife." She confided in a good friend and was able to see that her husband had been involved in pornography addiction. Then 3 experiences with the scriptures, a temple experience, a blessing and some lessons later helped her to see the darkness she had been in and helped prepare her for what was about to happen next in her life. The Lord had guided her in discovering her husband's addiction, she had felt guided to leave but she felt alone in her struggles, and was told to keep things quiet. She knew pornography was destroying her health, her kids, her testimony, the spirit in their home and now their marriage, but she knew she had to leave. Like the pioneers she knew, "I'm willing because I have to." She was taught that her story matters, from a trusted therapist. We aren't sharing the addict's story or trying to bring shame to anyone, the betrayed has a story too and it matters! First Recorded Mar 31, 2017

You asked, we discussed! Listen in as we tackled your most pressing questions about gender roles in marriage, healing after betrayal, and more. Show Notes We mentioned a TON of resources in this episode, they're listed below. Misc. Resources Wild at Heart by John Eldredge Our devotional bundles for growing in your marriage: 40-Day Prayer Journey, 31-Day Pursuit Challenge Newlyweds Past Episode: Navigating the Early Years of Marriage (Jeremy and Audrey Roloff) Qapital App, for saving money intentionally (get $20 for signing up with our link, limited time only) A Mingling of Souls by Matt and Lauren Chandler Fierce Marriage by Ryan and Selena Frederick Priorities and Staying Connected Download Family Vision worksheet 5 Habits of a Healthy Marriage, FREE eBook Accountability Questions Get them here Gender Roles in Marriage A Beautiful Design, a sermon series of the Village Church Jesus, Justice, and Gender Roles by Kathy Keller “What Are Biblical Roles for Husbands and Wives?”, The Gospel Coalition, brief video Healing After Betrayal Dave and Ashley Willis Episode Out of the Dust (Chris and Stephanie Teague) RefineUs.org (Justin and Trisha Davis) Sex Addiction Recovery: Pure Desire MarriageHelp.org (Find a group near you) Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. As always, we welcome feedback... simply go to FierceMarriage.com/Podcast to leave a comment or to ask a question! Become a Patron! Support for the Fierce Marriage Podcast comes from partners like you via Patreon. If our content has helped you, we'd be honored if you'd consider becoming a Patreon supporter! Just visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage

Dr. Sheri Keffer offers hope and understanding to women who have experienced sexual betrayal in their romantic relationships. Her book is Intimate Deception: Healing the Wounds of Sexual Betrayal.

Dr. Sheri Keffer offers hope and understanding to women who have experienced sexual betrayal in their romantic relationships. Her book is Intimate Deception: Healing the Wounds of Sexual Betrayal.

David can't remember when his addiction actually started, because as a child, he remembers fantasizing about his kindergarten teacher, it's been part of his entire life, until now. The Men of Moroni Program taught him how to fight battles against satan and now has the tools he needs to continue to overcome his addiction. First Recorded: Apr 11, 2017 - For more information call 1-877-HERO-877 or email MofMBrothers@gmail.com | Meetings held online or in-person.

Her son, as a 16 yr old young man who only had a flip phone, was still able to find ways to access pornography using sibling's devices and parent's computer which started his addiction. Learn the tactics his parents used to help him start his recovery. Recorded: Mar 22, 2017

They say love is patient; love is kind. But the truth is, sometimes it's not EASY for love to be either of those things, especially when you are facing a devastating betrayal. "Betrayal" can be discovering a spouse's affair or addiction, learning that he/she has not been honest in their business dealings and has put the family's well-being in jeopardy, and many other situations. You are faced with shattering grief, and often don't know where to turn for support because the trial is so personal and involves someone else. It can feel so isolating. Mika Perry—a mother, blogger, and professional organizer—has been there. In 2012 she discovered that her husband, Russ, was having an affair. Over the years since, she and Russ have worked toward healing and now openly share their story to help those suffering in silence. Today on the show, Mika shares her experience of what life after betrayal looked like for her and how it ultimately led to a life of truth, abundance, faith, and purpose. This is an incredibly personal and tender topic, and whether or not you choose to stay married after a betrayal, this episode will bring you hope. Please pass the episode along to someone who might need to know they are not alone. Show Notes: Mika's Instagram: @mikaperry Mika's website: mikaperry.com -The blog post where Mika first opened up about the affair: Mika and Russ' podcast "Good to be Home." Episode 2 is where Mika and Russ share their story Russ Perry's book, The Sober Entrepreneur: starts with affair and goes through the process of getting sober and building a business. If you are struggling with betrayal trauma, here are some resources: Bloom for Women, an online community. Dr. Skinner's course, "Rebuilding Trust After Sexual Betrayal" or find them on Instagram @bloomforwomen Addorecovery.com -Utah based support; visit their website for locations and more information or find them on Instagram: @addo.recovery Caitlin Olson, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, specializes in addiction recovery and betrayal trauma. You can find her on Instagram: @caitlinolsenmft Sariah Hoffman, certified yoga therapist, of @backpocketyoga on Instagram Ashlynn and Coby on Instagram: @ashlynnandcoby and their podcast "The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert" features 3 different perspectives on topics dealing with relationships, recovery, betrayal and addiction. Rachel and Jenae specialize in betrayal trauma (BT)- find them on Instagram: @couchtalktime Dorothy Maryon of Life Star in Salt Lake. They also have a St. George clinic. Center for Hope and Healing in Lehi, UT Betrayal Trauma Recovery btr.org Books: What Can I Do About Me? by Rhyll Ann Croshaw Treating Trauma from Sexual Betrayal by Kevin Skinner

“Can adult men really gain mastery over sexual (pornography) addiction? Can marriages recover from severe betrayal trauma?” Luke & Alana, leaders and coordinators of Men of Moroni, our self-mastery training program for men, share their story of a 15yr marriage. Alana pregnant with their 5th child, found pornography on her husband's phone 7yrs after the first discovery. 7yrs ago they took a trip to their bishop and attended a few addiction recovery meetings but that was not enough to keep Luke from acting out down the road. The recent discovery led to a whole lot more disclosures from Luke, Luke living in a hotel to find his own way to recovery, and Alana finding healing on her own through the Atonement of Christ, while raising their 4 kids alone and pregnant. After finding the WORTH Group & Men of Moroni from Life Changing Services, they continued to learn more tools to first help heal themselves and then their marriage. Though their marriage was shattered by addiction, it was able to heal through the Atonement of Jesus Christ. For more recovery resources & healing go to: https://www.lifechangingservices.org 1-877-HERO-877

In this healing quickie, Katherine facilitates Krista through the fear that was triggered as her partner, once again, leaves town. As Krista replays the past, fear from an earlier betrayal threatens to derail her intention to be loving while he is away.In this session, Katherine and Krista demonstrate the process of self-forgiveness and the healing that is possible. This frees Krista and her partner to let go of an old pattern and stay connected across the time and space of his travels.www.holyfuckpodcast.com

Hali, mother of 4 shares her story about going through challenging times with her husband and reached out to Life Changing Services for help. She went through counseling sessions, took Eternal Warriors classes, was part of the WORTH group and was able to learn about what satan was trying to do to her as a woman, wife, mother and daughter of God. She is now an Eternal Warriors mentor! This interview was first recorded Jan. 25, 2018. For more recovery tools, resources & healing go to Lifechangingservices.org | 1-877-HERO-877

Karen Broadhead interviews MaryAnn Michaelis, who's participated in and now leads several of LCS' W.O.R.T.H. Groups. MaryAnn courageously shares her story and experience with betrayal trauma after finding out about her husband's addiction to pornography, while also experiencing infertility for many years. This interview was first recorded in 2017. For more recovery resources & healing go to: https://www.lifechangingservices.org 1-877-HERO-877

Melody is joined by Lynn Cherry to take betrayal, healing and the beautiful grace found in the gospel. Melody and Lynn share their personal journeys walking through betrayal trauma and how they got through the most difficult times in their lives. Lynn walks us through her own undone redone story including getting married, starting a family and discovering betrayal from her husband through pornography addiction. Lynn and Melody discuss her book. And how it is used as a healing tool for women facing betrayal. Lynn was born and raised in North Dakota. She discovered a love of writing in the sixth grade and was a bit of a science nerd. She went to college, got a degree in biology, and met her husband, David. They got married in 1991 and moved to Texas. She worked in molecular genetics for six years and when she became a mom, she was able to stay home with their two boys. During the most difficulty season in life Lynn rediscovered her love of writing. After discovering her husband’s virtual infidelity of pornography addiction Lynn pretended and coped for many years, but because of the grace and joy found in the Gospel Jesus met her in the pain. He gave her the courage and strength to face it. Writing helped her reconcile her reality. After going through group therapy, Lynn learned that the way she expressed her recovery journey resonated with other women. She released my book,  Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal in 2016. Thanks to Jesus and therapy, Lynn and her husband made it through the addiction and trauma together. They both knew they wanted to share their story and wanted people to know there is hope.

Tony's special guest for this episode is Lynn Marie Cherry. In the early years of her marriage Lynn frequently had an intuitive sense that something was "wrong" between her and her husband David... but she didn't know what it was.  She chose to deal with this nagging feeling the same way she had learned to deal with any other difficult feeling or situation in her life... DENIAL! But then her world was turned upside down when she woke up in the middle of the night... and discovered her husband secretly watching Internet pornography in their home office. This discovery was so upsetting and disruptive to Lynn... and the marriage... that they eventually began a counseling process that would last for two years.  Although this process was very difficult... it helped Lynn and David to identity and process many of the dynamics that were causing their marriage to be so unhealthy... and as they slowly worked through these issues... they came out the other side stronger... and healthier... and happier than they had ever been before. It's an amazing story that inspires hope for all of us. Hope... that deeply broken hearts can be healed! Hope... that deeply broken marriages can be healed! Hope... that sexual addiction can be healed! Hope... that broken trust can be reestablished! Lynn Marrie Cherry is an author and a speaker... she has two sons... she lives in Texas... she loves God... and she's written a book entitled... Keep Walking / 40  Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal lynnmariecherry.com

Tony's special guest for this episode is Lynn Marie Cherry. In the early years of her marriage Lynn frequently had an intuitive sense that something was "wrong" between her and her husband David... but she didn't know what it was.  She chose to deal with this nagging feeling the same way she had learned to deal with any other difficult feeling or situation in her life... DENIAL! But then her world was turned upside down when she woke up in the middle of the night... and discovered her husband secretly watching Internet pornography in their home office. This discovery was so upsetting and disruptive to Lynn... and the marriage... that they eventually began a counseling process that would last for two years.  Although this process was very difficult... it helped Lynn and David to identity and process many of the dynamics that were causing their marriage to be so unhealthy... and as they slowly worked through these issues... they came out the other side stronger... and healthier... and happier than they had ever been before. It's an amazing story that inspires hope for all of us. Hope... that deeply broken hearts can be healed! Hope... that deeply broken marriages can be healed! Hope... that sexual addiction can be healed! Hope... that broken trust can be reestablished! Lynn Marrie Cherry is an author and a speaker... she has two sons... she lives in Texas... she loves God... and she's written a book entitled... Keep Walking / 40  Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal lynnmariecherry.com

Tony's special guest for this episode is Lynn Marie Cherry. In the early years of her marriage Lynn frequently had an intuitive sense that something was "wrong" between her and her husband David... but she didn't know what it was.  She chose to deal with this nagging feeling the same way she had learned to deal with any other difficult feeling or situation in her life... DENIAL! But then her world was turned upside down when she woke up in the middle of the night... and discovered her husband secretly watching Internet pornography in their home office. This discovery was so upsetting and disruptive to Lynn... and the marriage... that they eventually began a counseling process that would last for two years.  Although this process was very difficult... it helped Lynn and David to identity and process many of the dynamics that were causing their marriage to be so unhealthy... and as they slowly worked through these issues... they came out the other side stronger... and healthier... and happier than they had ever been before. It's an amazing story that inspires hope for all of us. Hope... that deeply broken hearts can be healed! Hope... that deeply broken marriages can be healed! Hope... that sexual addiction can be healed! Hope... that broken trust can be reestablished! Lynn Marrie Cherry is an author and a speaker... she has two sons... she lives in Texas... she loves God... and she's written a book entitled... Keep Walking / 40  Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal lynnmariecherry.com