I Hate Dating Apps

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A podcast about looking for love in a digital age. Getting ghosted, getting catfished, receiving endless d*** pics… These are just a few of the topics covered by co-hosts Jinah Kim and Daniel Yi. With the help of their guests, Jinah and Daniel work to find the light at the end of the dating app tunnel.

Jinah Kim, Daniel Yi


    • Apr 14, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 41m AVG DURATION
    • 33 EPISODES


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    Confessions from a Former Matchmaker: What 5,000 Daters Told Me

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2025 52:01 Transcription Available


    Think dropping thousands of dollars on a matchmaker guarantees love? Think again. In this juicy episode, a former elite matchmaker to the ultra-wealthy pulls back the velvet curtain on the wild world of high-stakes dating. From ghosted millionaires to clients who refuse second dates with perfect matches, she shares the real drama behind the glam. With over 5,000 love-seeking souls coached, she's seen it all—and she's spilling her most surprising, hilarious, and brutally honest lessons about modern romance.  With @carolynhori

    Top Mistakes On Dating App Profiles

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2025 50:12


    In this episode, we dive into the most common mistakes (and Jinah's pet peeves) that people make when creating their dating app profiles. (Sunglasses in every photo... like WHY??!) Whether you're new to online dating or a seasoned swiper, your profile plays a major role in making a lasting impression. With our guests John DeMato and Nancy Vu - @dejavu and @dematophoto - we break down the top red flags to watch out for, from questionable bios to photos that don't quite hit the mark. Tune in for expert advice on crafting a profile that attracts the right matches, boosts your confidence, and keeps things authentic. Don't miss out on these essential tips for navigating the world of digital romance!

    Valentines Week Edition: How to Get Someone to Fall in Love with You

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2025 52:23


    Let's be honest—Valentine's Day is a commercial holiday designed to sell flowers and overpriced dinners. But even if we know that, it still stirs up emotions, especially for those who are single. For this special Valentine's Week episode, hosts Daniel and Jinah sit down with two top relationship coaches to explore the question: How do you get someone to fall in love with you? If you've met someone you really like, what are the best ways to build attraction and connection? What common mistakes should you avoid? And perhaps most importantly—it is even worth all of the effort? Joining the conversation are dating experts Lisa Copeland(@lisacopelanddatingcoach; https://findaqualityman.com/) and Mike Goldstein(@ezdatingcoach; https://ezdatingcoach.com), who share their insights on attraction, love, and authentic relationship-building. �� Topics Covered: ✔️ The psychology of attraction and emotional connection ✔️ Do's and don'ts when trying to spark romance ✔️ Why forcing love might backfire—and what to do instead Whether you're single, dating, or just curious about love and relationships, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you navigate the modern dating world.

    I'm a Young Man and I Need a Break from Dating Apps

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2025 44:30


    We know dating apps are a shit show for most people, but it's especially true for men who are on them, and statistics validate this.  But when does it get SO BAD that you just need to take a break from them??  In this episode, we talk to two young, smart, good looking men about why they decided to take a break from dating apps.  Guests Bryan (@commonsense150) and Austin (@theaustinkellyshow) echo what so many other men say about modern dating: it's tough out there!  But what's the alternative? 

    I didn't ask for a penpal. Why do people ghost?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2024 53:54


    We've all had it happen to us: you strike up a great conversation with someone on a dating app, and it looks like it SHOULD be heading to a real-life date.  Except it doesn't.   Why, oh why do people - who are presumably on the dating app to DATE - want to text endlessly instead?  Or worse - ghost you when you suggest actually meeting IRL?   Jinah and Daniel are joined by two guests: Kari Mendoza - @808golfergirl and Alex Min - @alexsmin as they try to get to the bottom of this WTF conundrum.

    The 90% Problem: Percentage of Men Who Get NO LOVE on the Dating Apps

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2024 73:08


    Statistics upon statistics show that it's pretty rough for the great majority of men on dating apps.  Just 10% (or less) of men get ALL the women liking them, leaving some 90% of men with little to no swipes, matches, conversations, dates - and thus - romantic relationships.  Men are lonelier than ever.  Why is this happening??  What's the solution?  And what's it REALLY like out there if you're a dude on the apps?  Jinah and Daniel drill down to the problem with two male app daters.  With @newsdork and @alexjcalder

    How to Stay Memorable to Your Date

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2024 53:46


    The longer we stay on dating apps, the more we long for the good ol' days when people weren't swiping to meet their match.  In this episode, Daniel and Jinah chat with matchmaker and author Cassindy Chao (@matchmakercassindy), who wrote a book called "Ancient Wisdom, Modern Love" - a reflective guide to modern dating inspired by traditional Chinese proverbs.   She has some tried and true advice about how to stay above the dating app fray - including, how to make a date remember you long after your date has ended.  

    Younger Men Dating Older Women on Dating Apps

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2024 47:16


    Are more and more older women dating younger men? While we're used to seeing famous women as “cougars,” these May-December romances may be going mainstream. At first, Jinah thought her matches with younger men were exceptions, but then they kept on coming. So I Hate Dating Apps enlisted relationship coach Deb Dutcher to explain why this is happening, and what it means for the modern dating scene. Cougars, unite!

    Are Two People Even Supposed to be Together Forever?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2024 38:08


    YESSSS! Jinah and Daniel are officially in year TWO of their podcast!  And in this debut episode of season 2, you get to know us a little bit better.  The dynamic duo muses about topics like whether dating for marriage even makes sense anymore, how growing up Jehovah's Witness shaped Jinah into who she became (and maybe explains why her dating life is a hot mess), and how Daniel used to make money off of cannibis and young, hot Korean boy bands (it's not what you think, people).  THANK YOU for supporting our baby podcast and for having fun with us as we navigate this crazy world of dating apps!

    Dating While Socially Anxious and Introverted

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2024 41:06


    Dating apps suck for everyone, but it sucks even worse if you're introverted and socially anxious.  So what is one to do when the idea of getting dressed up, going out and talking to someone for hours at a bar or restaurant sounds worse than a root canal??  Jinah and Daniel talk to writer and relationship coach Cain Parish (cainparish.com, @cainparish), who is on a mission to make dating better for everyone, but especially introverts. Cain was the definition of a low social battery introvert.  Interactions and relationships never came easy to him.  He talks about how he overcame his challenges, and how he managed to successfully navigate the world of dating apps. Did we mention he's from Australia? Apparently dating apps suck Down Under too.

    Crazy Tales While Dating Over 50

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2024 42:38


    What is it like to be in the dating app world over the age of 50?  Well... it's a bit of a shit show according to author, equestrian, and radio DJ Catherine Berra (CatherineBerra.com).  Catherine ventured out into the world of online dating at 48, spent 10 years trying to figure it all out and the resulting hilarious dating stories are now in her book "These stories are true... I s#!+ you not!" She shares some of them with Jinah and Daniel. Join us for a lively discussion about "dating app"-ing when older.

    Should You Try Matchmaking Services?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2024 44:28


    So you're about to delete your dating apps.  Again.  But then you realize - how am I gonna meet people then??  Before you panic and re-install your dating app, listen to our two professional matchmaker guests talk about what it's like to have someone literally working for you so you can go on curated dates.  Hint: it ain't cheap!!  Matchmaking is as old as civilization. From the days of highly prized matchmakers who knew just the right princess for the king-to-be, to glossy ads on airline magazines adverstising beautiful women for men with refined tastes and deep pockets, matching has now evolved.  But does is still work in the DIY world of dating apps where the majority of people are looking for romance via swipes? We talk to 2 modern day matchmakers Gina Hendrix @matchmakerginahendrix and  Anika Rashaun @nikarashaun

    Who Should Make the First Move?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2024 31:26


    Not so long ago, it was pretty darn clear who was supposed to ask who out on the first date.  Not anymore.  In this Wild Wild West of app dating, the rules have gone out the window, resulting in confusion for some, resentment in others, and lack of courage and effort all the way around.  We ask our guests Luis (@uonmobileapp) and Samantha (@skmcintosh) who should make the first move?

    They Were About to Delete the Dating Apps When...

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2024 53:16 Transcription Available


    To delete or not to delete…that was the question facing our guests @laylamyarr and @susan.pappas. Tired of bad dates, endless messaging, and misleading profiles, they were resigning themselves to permanent single status when lightning struck! Check out our newest episode and hear what happened right when they were about to give up!

    Are Women the Problem?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2024 55:40


    Ladies —if you're wondering what “the good catches” are looking for on dating apps, this episode is for you!  We look at straight men's biggest pet peeves with women on the apps.  Why won't women give men a chance?? Featuring bachelor guests Joshua, @jj_no_chaser and Dhruv,  @midlifemasculine

    Are Men the Problem?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 29, 2024 47:38


    Sometimes, women just need to DISH on all the things we find wrong with dating MEN on the apps.  This is that episode.  With guests @marialingbanan and @mayleeshow

    Can Dating Coaches Help Jinah??

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2024 51:27


    Jinah's been braving it all on her own on the apps.  But let's be real - it's rough out there! So - we signed up relationship coaches Charlene Byars of CharleneByars.com and Jesse and Brandon of datingcoaches.net - to give the male and female coaches' perspectives on what Jinah should do to find real love.   And what they said... wasn't exactly what Jinah expected to hear.  Featuring @brandonjesse_unloaded, @mscharlenebyars - who also coached our friend Kayvon in an earlier episode.

    "I Have Aspergers." What To Do When Your Date is On the Spectrum

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2024 45:41


    Jinah shares her experience of a date that took an unexpected turn when her companion revealed he had Asperger's. In this insightful episode, we delve into the complexities of dating on the Autism Spectrum, exploring how neurotypical individuals can approach relationships with understanding and empathy.  Featuring discussions with guests Bobby Cappuccio (@theselfhelpantidote) and clinical ASD specialist Anna Marie Dorelien (@adorelienbcba). Tune in for expert advice and meaningful conversations on navigating the diverse neurotypes in the landscape of modern dating. 

    I'm 29 and I Can't Get Any Dates

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2024 53:50


    Kayvon is super cool - so WTF is going on?? We signed up relationship coaches Jesse and Brandon of datingcoaches.net and Charlene Byars of CharleneByars.com - to give the male and female coaches' perspectives on what may be happening.   And what they said - was oh, so smooth....  Featuring @kayvonmradi, @brandonjesse_unloaded, @mscharlenebyars

    Niche Dating Apps. When Mainstream Dating Apps Don't Work.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2023 37:27


    Farmers Only, No Liberals, No Conservatives, Cat Lovers Only, etc... When Tinder, Bumble and Hinge just aren't working for you, why not go hyper-specific on your dating needs and wants?  In this episode, we dive deep into niche dating apps, with guests Jon Pethke of CoyAmore.com and Eric McHugh of Dataing.io who talk about apps that cater towards introverted daters and AI-assisted matchmaking. @coyamoredating @ericdmchugh @bone._apple._teeth

    Dating While Asian. And Male.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2023 22:34


    Surveys show that people of color have a tougher time on dating apps, and few have it worse than Asian and South Asian men. We talk to two prolific app daters who share their cringey experiences - and also answer this critical question: C'mon - didn't BTS make it better for you?? With guests @georgekiriyama and @archithseshadri

    What Happens When You Swear Off Dating Apps??

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2023 28:25


    Let's face it - we all get to the point where we are sooooo burned out on dating apps, and we just want to DELETE them. But inevitably, many of us get back on 'em cuz... there aren't too many convenient alternatives out there. In this episode, we talk with two guests who swore off the dating apps, and tried to go old school. Did they have better luck?? With @wild_930 and @lornasoonhee

    Only Liars Need App-Lie

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2023 29:19


    Does literally everyone lie on dating apps? Sure seems like it - whether it's about our age, height, jobs or size. And of course - we all have a justification about our “white lies.”  Jinah, Daniel and our two guests talk about the most common lies on the apps, and decide where to draw the line between fact and fiction.  With guests @benbrookz and @facetsinpixels

    They Make Out. Then He Ghosts Her.

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2023 27:13


    After a three-hour second date and some great chemistry, our guest Maria (and we) are shocked at the real reason a suave British hunk ghosts her.  Hint: it unraveled over $5.  And fair warning: you'll have all kinds of opinions about this episode! Featuring @maria_hunt, @hanijkim, @dannoamanno, @ihatedatingappspod

    Why Are Dating Profiles So Bad?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2023 33:34


    Bathroom selfies, all-sunglasses photos, bad grammar, negativity.  You've seen it all, and they SUCK.  And wait—is that your boyfriend's profile on Tinder? Don't jump to conclusions—we dive into our top dating app profile no-no's with two hilarious guests.

    Ghosting and Other Shitty Things People Do

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2023 24:46


    Why is ghosting so prevalent on dating apps? Don't EVEN get Jinah started on this topic - she'll get hives. We hear a particularly shitty ghosting story from our guest, and talk about how to read the situation. It's not you, it's them. Ok, maybe it's you.

    Do Dating Apps Work Any Better for Gay People?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2023 33:50


    Do dating apps suck just as badly if you're gay? We chat with two guests, two generations apart. We also dive into some stats and factoids, and how Grindr, one of the OGs of dating apps, changed the dating landscape for gay men.

    The Right Stuff for Dating Profiles

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2023 29:10


    Kelly is young, single and ready to brave the world of dating apps after a break. In this episode, Daniel and Jinah try to help her draft her new profile. Will they be helpful? Will it be disaster? Listen in to find out.

    Raz is why I HATE DATING APPS

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2023 26:40


    Jinah and Daniel talk about the genesis of the podcast, which involves a "WTF!" dating story with Raz. Thank you Raz, we now have a podcast.

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