Podcast appearances and mentions of stevie boebi

There is a definitive answer to the age old question of the best character in the L-Word and Stevie Boebi is going to prove it to you. The return of the queer-coded villain, the politics of "playing gay", and the L-word's most contentious debate. Stevie Boebi takes her turn in the hot (takes) seat this week! Listen to this any many more hot takes with Rowan! Check out Stevie here: https://www.instagram.com/stevieboebi/ Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/thequeermoviepodcast. For as little as $5 per month you gain access to perks like queer movie recommendations, Discord access, and watch-a-longs. Thank you for supporting us! New episodes every other Thursday. Find Us on the Internet Super Highway - Twitter: https://twitter.com/QueerMoviePod  - Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thequeermoviepodcast - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queermoviepod/ - Website: http://www.queermoviepodcast.co.uk/  Production - Hosts: Rowan Ellis and Jazza John

We're back! And to kick off the new series we've got a very special treat for you as I'm joined by the brilliant YouTuber, producer, and actor - Stevie Boebi for the first ever live show of Out With Suzi Ruffell. Thanks to everyone who came along and made it such an amazing night and thank you to Stevie, I loved hearing about her story and hope you do too. Please rate and review. Thanks. Suzi xxx **TRIGGER WARNING** This episode contains some discussion that includes explicit sexual content. And if you want to get in touch with me on the show, here's how... email: hello@outwithsuziruffell.com twitter: @outwithsuzi   A 'Keep It Light Media' Production Sales, advertising and general enquiries: hello@keepitlightmedia.comStevie Boebi is an American "YouTuber," producer, and actor. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sex notes: Stevie Boebi- how to finger a girl. https://youtu.be/jJwHIvhogUk HERE Stevie talks about “digital stimulation” of self or others and features some toys, tutorials and methods. Laci Green- butt stuff (with Davey Wavey of wickydkewl). https://youtu.be/LFsILic2c98 HERE they talk about anal sex related tips, topics, terminology, experiences. Amberscloset- strap etiquette. https://youtu.be/83kFRDwwLME HERE Amber discusses dildos, strap ons, harnesses, providing educational information for safe use. She also shows some sex toys and examples of how they'd be used. Shan Boody- understanding how arousal works. https://youtu.be/Glkdqmg98R4 HERE she talks about educational information about stages of beginning arousal until the end. Amber and Shannon (together)- sex talk with Shan Boody. https://youtu.be/DNsDM1avo_8 HERE they talk about sex topics from fans asking questions and some of their personal answers to the questions. Amber, Shannon, and Jared (together)-lesbian sex vs hetero sex with Shan Boody & Jared Brady. https://youtu.be/3oG3rBFIhBA HERE they talk about describing sex, orgasms and talk about their own preferences. Facethefactsshow- what is sex? https://www.instagram.com/tv/CI4pba6j6i-/?igshid=1tpuu4xgh7op2 HERE they (AD, London, Neon and Kyhle) talk about definitions of sex. London leads most by facilitating the question portions to which they all have their responses. They speak about how they define sex, experiences, how masculine presenting females may have differing vulnerability stressors from other groups of people, and their own experiences in their sex lives. Jkiillem- answering your questions about lesbian sex. https://youtu.be/1xzGimWSmqc HERE Jess speaks about lesbian sex. She answers questions on her YouTube channel from fans who wanted answers about how to have sex. She discusses different methods and how to shape the mind to have positive views on sex. Ash Hardell- how (some) asexuals... have sex. https://youtu.be/CbjFK8QDhVM HERE Ash discusses sexless sexual activities, interviews an asexual couple, sexless kinks, and talks about some Adam and Eve sex toys. Gender non-conforming/ androgynous lingerie. https://youtu.be/wTskyAV6kg0 HERE Ash models some sex style strategies with some toys, and underwear ideas for sex and feeling sexy. Jade Fox- strap facts. https://youtu.be/HftoARVXfEk Arrows (I miss spoke and called them “Ari Fitz” as I was unaware of the name change and they identify with he/them pronouns APOLOGIES! Here is my correction). My name is ARROWS not Ari Fitz. https://youtu.be/5IoZfDZDtKo HERE Arrows introduces their new name and new info to update those who don't already know. And answers multiple varying types of questions. wickydkewl (Davey Wavey)- tantric sex secrets. https://youtu.be/y4djFmIdIMc HERE Davey Wavey and Blake Mitchell talk about basics of tantric sex while Blake gets auto blown live. himeros.tv (Davey Wavey)- phone sex. https://youtu.be/AjqHT-6rxJk HERE Davey and friends talk about phone sex. This is a lengthy live recording about himeros.tv site. Helix Studios TV- #Helix Cameron Parks and Tyler Hill (Extended). https://youtu.be/1npMMFJFueo HERE is a hashtag helix with Cameron and Tyler. Gay adult film models/ porn actors. They talk about their turn ons. BuzzfeedViolet- how did you know you were gay? https://youtu.be/fwKm0XUQ6e0 HERE they talk about youth, upbringing and early experiences of how they noticed they were gay. Watts the safe word- pet play haul q&a. https://youtu.be/X4bO7DzXW1I HERE Amp and Daddy talk about their interests in pet play. Many of their videos are educational about kink culture. Crashpadseries.com- Syd Blakovich and Jiz Lee don't like talking. https://youtu.be/rWV23K9Wu3A HERE is a brief clip of Syd and Jiz in an outtake talking about how they don't prefer talking. Shine Louise Houston produces much of the label content. Pink label.tv Pink and White productions (https://pinklabel.tv/on-demand/studio/pink-and-white-productions/) --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

IG: @tomboyofficialig Many of our views of gender have been shaped by Western civilization view points which are very rigid, requiring everyone to fit into neat boxes and categories. But gender, as with most identifying aspects of a human's self, gender is a spectrum. Some may fit into the boxes neatly while others of us deal with more fluid aspects of gender with how we identify, present and express ourselves. Many cultures in past history and even current times have had a different view of gender in society without the same rules in their societies as in Western societies. Can you even imagine how life would be living in an area and cultural surrounding where you could freely participate in hobbies, interests, shop for clothing, wear what you want and behave and present as you want without restrictions of gender norms? Ultimately our societies tell us how we are supposed to fit in when ultimately every individual has so many diverse aspects to their authentic self that some of us cannot fit into the neat boxes. AND THAT IS OKAY! We overlap into other areas. We think and feel differently. Jess Weiner posted a great positive and uplifting piece about viewing the gender spectrum outside the binary as a transcended connection to gender. Here is the Instagram post by Jess Weiner that I used in this episode to talk about gender and transcending https://www.instagram.com/p/B-aTMWxhEQk/?igshid=1b9vwryxmozq0. Here is the first Youtube episode where I saw Jess Weiner: https://youtu.be/CopJ6hzcsUo. In addition to Jess Weiner, some other's whose names I mentioned or wanted to mention (and was blanking): Stevie Boebi, Sarah Croce, Amberscloset. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

The last episode of Season 1! A conversation with Youtube personality Stevie Boebi. We discuss the transition of her Youtube page into a space for sexual education for the Queer community as well as her diagnosis with EDS type 3 (Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome).Guest Links;Watch Stevie's short film 'WEENIE' hereINSTAGRAM: @stevieboebiTWITTER: @stevieboebiYOUTUBE: Stevie BoebiStevie's Podcast reccomendation: Trauma QueenThe sketch P.E.T.A featuring SCC w/ Stevie Boebi)More on Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome hereShow Links:INSTAGRAM: @saudiarashedINSTAGRAM: @thatoneblankfriendWEBSITE: SaudiaRashed.comSubscribe to That One (Blank Friend) on iTunes

We're continuing Pride with YouTuber Miles McKenna! Growing up, Miles knew things probably wouldn't go well if he told his parents he was queer, so he had no plans to do so...until one of them basically tricked him into coming out. What followed was as bad as he had anticipated, and YouTube became his lifeline. Miles tells us how his initial experience nearly kept him from coming out as trans, and what it was like to transition in front of an audience. Also, how former guest Stevie Boebi came to his rescue!

Believe it or not, but Rose and Annie definitely don’t know everything there is to know about sex. To be honest, sometimes they’re not even sure what sex is, so we called in the expert. Eva Bloom, a pleasure positive sex educator, youtuber, host of Sex Ed, and bisexual who just got her Masters in SEXTING comes on to talk to us about obtaining consent in a digital world, ettiquette of responding to nudes, what to do when your sex drive doesn’t match your partner’s and SO MUCH MORE.  TIMESTAMPS  Interview with Eva Bloom of @WhatsMyBodyDoing 00 - 32:32 Bilights 32:32 Bising Stars 40:40 Adbice 43:20  REFERENCES  Eva’s Channels &References Patreon https://www.patreon.com/WhatsMyBodyDoing  Youtube http://youtube.com/whatsmybodydoing  Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatsmybodydoing  Twitter https://twitter.com/whatsmybodydoin?  Sex Ed School https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFrqObEvDOwkfkcik9TOYgBh4RlhIXj-_  Want, Will, Won’t List http://old.mojoupgrade.com/  Sending nudes with invisible ink - check our instagram, we’ll post soon  Sex Positive Families https://www.instagram.com/sexpositive_families  Sex Positive Families Reading List https://sexpositivefamilies.com/sex-positive-families-reading-list/  Nadine Thornhill, Save Sex Ed https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFrqObEvDOwkxd09MEgeleRJW-k73nEtI  Stevie Boebi https://www.youtube.com/user/SassiBoB  What’s Wrong With Molly Margaret https://www.instagram.com/whatswrongwithmollymargaret/  The Dildorks Podcast https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/  Give $3 a month to get the sex research letter https://www.patreon.com/join/WhatsMyBodyDoing/signup?ru=%2Fjoin%2FWhatsMyBodyDoing%2Fcheckout%3Frid%3D1881643%26  Andrew Gurza, Disability & Sex http://www.andrewgurza.com/  Bilights & Other References Lex Dating App https://www.vogue.com/article/lex-queer-dating-app  Human Rights Campaign’s Municipal Equality Index https://www.hrc.org/mei  Lots of animals are bisexual https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2019/11/19/gay-animals-bisexual-same-sex-behaviour-evolution-yale-school-forestry-environmental-studies/  Bisexual people who are out to their partners may have worse sex https://www.insider.com/bisexual-people-out-to-their-straight-partners-have-worse-sex-2019-11  Bisexuality & Race on Dating Apps https://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2019-11/uoia-rei111419.php  Kathleen Hanna http://www.kathleenhanna.com/  Le Tigre’s Feminist Sweepstakes https://open.spotify.com/album/0sba5xAGgB7VP3X6BSzIOg?si=ATE-6UcZRMyXFf1G7YiC_w --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/message

There comes a time in every bisexual’s life when you’ll ask yourself: what do I normally do with my hands and are they always this sweaty? This my friends is called a crush. Join Annie and Rose as they talk about all things attraction, flirtation, and dating! From matching online to meeting IRL, saying “I love you” to ending things--we answer some of the questions you had about how to pursue the one you want. Did we get anything wrong? Let us know by emailing us at HelloGoodBis42069@gmail.com and follow us on Instagram @HelloGoodBis. RESOURCES A Smart Girl’s Guide to Boys https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Girls-Guide-Boys/dp/1584853689 Stevie Boebi, “How to Compliment Girls” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ByGp5e6RVoc Old Guard apps: Tinder, Bumble, OkCupid, Hinge, Match Queer Apps: Grindr, Her, Scruff, Chappy About angel shots: https://www.businessinsider.com/angel-shots-help-women-on-bad-dates-2017-1 Dear Therapist: I’m Afraid My Boyfriend’s Sexuality Will End Our Relationship https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2019/11/im-worried-my-boyfriend-is-gay/601231/ Regan Gascoigne, son of football legend Paul Gascoigne, just came out as bisexual https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2019/11/04/regan-gascoigne-paul-gascoine-bisexual-coming-out-football/ Ad appearing to attack Democratic City-County Council candidate draws ire on social media https://www.indystar.com/story/news/politics/elections/2019/10/28/election-2019-ad-appears-to-attack-lgbtq-council-candidate/2485034001/ Director Desiree Akhavan Is Flipping the Script on Coming-Out Stories https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/j538gy/desiree-akhavan-the-bisexual-interview Kori Michele, Let’s Talk About Bisexuality https://korimichele.myportfolio.com/lets-talk-about-bisexuality TIMESTAMPS How do I approach someone IRL? 28:06 Knowing when they aren’t interested 32:04 How to spot a queer in the wild / How to show off that i’m queer 35:00 Connecting online 37:35 Taking it offline 45:11 Ending a date 51:31 Rejecting someone and getting rejected 1:00:31 What if everything works out? 1:09:31 Weekly Bilights (bisexual news) 1:12:38 Bising Stars (queer people we like) 1:17:09 Call for AdBice 1:19:55 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/message

Lesbian Influencer Stevie Boebi talks about being a homeless teen with a disability and the journey to becoming an influencer with a social reach of over one million. The post Lesbian YouTube Influencer Stevie Boebi appeared first on Women Wanting Women.

This week, Hannah chats to YouTuber Stevie Boebi about navigating public relationships, and whether having a private relationship is any easier. They talk about how public LGBTQ relationships are important for representation, and Stevie’s personal experience of dating in the public eye. They also discuss polyamory, and whether it’s easier to be non-monogamous if you’re queer or heterosexual. Finally, they chat about different styles of relationships and how there’s no one-size-fits-all. Stevie: https://www.instagram.com/stevieboebi/Live show tickets for London Podcast Festival: https://www.kingsplace.co.uk/whats-on/comedy/doing-it-with-hannah-witton/

Welcome to Season 3 of horizontal! This is the podcast of intimacies recorded while reclining.   It’s still Slow Radio. It’s still consensual eavesdropping. It’s still us lying down, sharing secrets, in your ears. But while the first two seasons had me lying down with only one person at a time, season three will often add another guest to my pillow.   I’ll be lying down with people who are in some kind of relationship with one another. And I intend to encompass as many types of human relationships as I can. They might be friends, family members, teammates, mentors and acolytes, business partners, lovers, exes, metamours, co-parents… You know what this means, right? That’s right: This season is going to be a Lila sandwich.   My first two guests of Season 3, Dan and Jimanekia are a manager and her client, as well as friends.   Jimanekia is a Sex Educator, Queer media consultant, Sexual Assault expert, and Trauma Specialist. She is widely-studied and deeply-informed. Her work comes from the well of her own transformations, her personal navigation through profound pain and culture shock after culture shock, and the fierce desire to protect others from suffering at the intersection of sexual assault, race, class, privilege, and trauma.   She is the host of the podcast Trauma Queen, a mini-series about healing for assault survivors and their allies. She speaks with survivors, therapists, partners, educators, and experts. Her podcast a gift to the world, a resource for survivors and those who love them, and, everyone with a beating heart, really, with each episode providing actionable, practical steps. She teaches without teaching, educates without educating. You’ll see. Find Jimanekia on her website Traumaqueen.love and you can follow her on Twitter and Instagram @Jimanekia.   Dan — also known as Dannielle — Owens is a queer Femmeboy activist, and Jimanekia’s manager. Dannielle also manages two other previous horizontal guests, Stevie Boebi, the go-to lesbian sexpert on YouTube, episodes 42 & 43, and Meghan Tonjes, singer-songwriter and accidental leader of the booty revolution, episodes 24 & 25. Dan uses the pronouns he/him as well as she/her, interchangeably. Let me model how that might go for you:   He is the CEO of genderfluid clothing label & inclusive marketplace Radimo, which plays with gender the way I love to see gender played with, and focuses on directly supporting clothing made by queer, trans, black, POC, plus-size humans, women, and disabled small business owners. Radimo’s pieces are modeled by folx with different body types, skin tones, and gender identities. You can find the whole line on the website Radimo.LA … She engages in all sorts of glorious gender fuckery, on Instagram with the handle @boygodking , on YouTube as Dannielle Owens-Reid, and her forthcoming book, “From One Cult To The Next,” is a memoir about ending toxic relationships and the healing thereafter.   Many of you know that all the part twos of each episode are available exclusively to patrons of $5 a month and up. I’ve revamped my Patreon tiers with shiny new perks, and the upgrades will all go into effect next Friday, April 12th, alongside the release of part two of my conversation with Dan & Jimanekia. If you become a patron of $5 a month in the next seven days, you will be grandfathered in with access to The Full Horizontal, and my gratitude for being an early patron of the horizontal arts!   After April 12th, the first tier of patronage will be $10 a month, and it will include: access to all the part twos & the secret patrons Facebook group with behind-the-scenes access, along with a monthly video with curated intimacy tips! If you adore the love poem of the month, fret not, O patron my patron, it will be part of the video! The perks for $25, $50, and $100 a month are even more delectable, and include my favorite new perk, in which I will plan a monthly date for you! With yourself or with a friend or a family member or a lover. Check Patreon.com/horizontalwithlila for all the saucy details.   I’m also running a sweet little special offer. If you become a $10/month patron by the end of April, I’ll send you a handwritten thank you love note and a bit of horizontal swag (maybe a magnet, maybe a bumper sticker, maybe something else) in the actual MAIL. Sigh! I still Love getting mail as much as I did when I used to send bedazzled letters back and forth with my friend from summer camp in 1995. Also, I’ve been told that my handwriting is “ridiculous,” “astonishing,” and “like a font!” These are actual reviews, with no exaggeration.   In this first part of this episode with Dan and Jim, we tell our origin stories, which include loneliness, divorce, cancer, sex-positivity, intimacy, braces, bio dads and adoptive dads, relocating 10 times by the age of 9, latchkey kids, alcoholism, bipolar disorder / intervention, manipulation, therapy PTSD / advice columns, gaslighting, inclusivity, gender neutrality / queerness, microaggressions, racism, sluthood, LGBTQIA in the black community, rape, eating disorders, being an empath, burnout, sex ed   ….and how we came to possess our superpowers.   We cover a lot of ground in this one. We’d better get into it.   Come lie down with us in Los Angeles, California.   ***   Chad Michael Snavely has edited every horizontal episode since the beginning of Season 2. He’s a podcast impresario, and you can find his whole body of work on chadmichael.com. Alan Markley composed the intro music, and he’s busy being a rock star on Instagram as plasticcannons. Shana Shay created my saucy cover art, and you can hire her on 99 Designs.   Next week’s episode, part two of my episode with Dan and Jimanekia, in which we dig into their relationship with each other, is available exclusively to patrons of the horizontal arts. Remember that if you’d like access to The Full Horizontal for $5/month, you’ll need to become a patron before April 12th, next Friday. And if you become a $10/month patron before the end of April, I’ll send you a handwritten thank you love note in my glorious handwriting, plus a bit of horizontal swag!   Until next week: may you have someone (or someones) to love, something to do, and so many things to look forward to.

Hey so I interviewed YouTube legend and LGBT sex educator, Stevie Boebi this week. ​ I harassed her manager A LOT to get this interview and I'm glad I did. Thanks Dan! ​ We talk YouTube, LGBT sex education and illness. It's super fun and Stevie is great as per usual.

YouTuber Stevie Boebi (creator and host of the first ever Lesbian Sex Ed video series) reveals the never-before-heard story of her coming out! She talks to us about being told "you're too pretty to be gay," accidentally adopting the male gaze, and how she ultimately decided to make the kind of videos she wishes she'd had when she was younger. (This episode is not sponsored by the American Dental Association. YET.) Watch Stevie's videos at youtube.com/Stevie, and follow her everywhere at @stevieboebi.

Trauma Queen and queer sex educator Stevie Boebi(@stevieboebi) talk about having sex again after assault, understanding your body, and asking for what you need. www.traumaqueen.love Online Therapy - www.pridecounseling.com/queen www.unboundbabes.com Use the code: TRAUMAQUEEN for 15% off ! ACCESSIBILITY - Link to Transcription: bit.ly/TQTemiStevie --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/traumaqueen/support

Welcome to horizontal, the podcast about intimacy of all kinds. It’s recorded while the opposite of vertical, but you probably know that. This episode was recorded in October, 2017, on horizontal does america, my 10,000 mile cross-country road trip and recording tour. Through a series of fortunate events which I will call “six laughable fortuities,” in honor of Milan Kundera, I wound up at the house of Dr. Lindsey Doe in Missoula, Montana. And Stevie was there. (Go back and listen to the intro of episode 40: sexplanations, for the full story.) Stevie, like Dr. Doe, is a huge ginormous YouTube star, but they both somehow agreed to put on robes, lie down with a stranger and record a spontaneous podcast. Stevie Boebi is the creator and host of the first Lesbian Sex Ed video series. She’s also a cat mom. (They make special guest appearances in her videos, including one in which she slightly annoys them for our amusement.) Stevie... is gorgeous. She has long purple hair. And luscious lips. And a thousand watt smile. And pretty vivacious eyebrows. Detect you some admiration? Indeed. Indeed you do. She’s also hilarious, charming, winsome, bright-eyed, bushy-tailed, and passionate about dismantling stereotypes, questioning identity politics, and teaching fact-based sex ed. As opposed to the other kind. Which exists in myriad forms, to our great chagrin. Her full-on commitment to these topics is evinced by her (also ginormous) lexicon of YouTube videos with titles such as, “Lesbian Third Wheel,” “Can Lesbians do butt stuff?” “How to Survive a Breakup,” and “Gay Men Touched my Vagina for the First Time: Q&A and Afterthoughts.” (By the way, I definitely watched - and enjoyed - the “Gay Men Touch Vagina for the First Time” video before I met Stevie and only realized that she was the vagina model when I went to write this intro!) Just to be uber clear though, a vagina refers to the internal anatomy of a pussy, and vulva refers to the external anatomy, so, unless they were fingering her (which it seems like one of them may have been?) they were actually touching: a vulva. I suggest you fire up her YouTube channel when you wanna go down a rabbithole of loveliness, humor, pussy, and kickass straightforward tell-it-like-it-should-be sex ed. You can find her under Stevie Boebi on Twitter and Instagram, and just plain Stevie on YouTube. In the first part of our conversation, we talk about getting punished for telling someone what a blow job is, her first girlfriend, daddy issues, the film festival premiere of her “how to eat pussy” video, being bi-romantic, repressed memories, molestation, a two-person game of Spin the Bottle, and the Love Feast. Come lie down with us! You’re already lying down? Oh good. Credits! All of season two is edited by Chad Michael Snavely. He’s got lots of other podcasts on his plate, too. Check them out on ChadMichael.com. The nicest rock star on the planet, Alan Markley, created my intro music. He’s plastic cannons on the Instagram. The lovely little me-drawing (complete with painted toenails!) on my cover art was designed by Shana Shay. Find her on 99 designs. Hire these people if you can! Tune in next week on horizontal for the second part of my conversation with Stevie, in which I tell her the story of my great unicorn threesome.

Horizontal is the podcast about intimacy that’s recorded while lying down. Wearing robes. This episode was recorded on my horizontal does america tour, in October 2017. For two months, I circumnavigated the U.S. in a little blue Honda Civic. It was 10,000 solo miles of adventure with two intentions. 1) to feel free, and 2) to record with as many fascinating people as possible. I knew that I wanted to go to Montana. I’d missed the entire state on my first cross-country road trip, in 2009. A friend said, “Go to Missoula!” By the grace of my friends, go I. So. I went. How I came to be horizontal with Dr. Lindsey Doe goes like this: I drove the 6 hours from Billings to Missoula and arrived in a pile of yellow leaves next to a Ghetto Gypsy bus. (That’s what it said on the front.) I didn’t have a plan for Missoula. I didn’t know anyone who lived there or have any recordings lined up or really anything specific in mind at all. I just wanted to see Big Sky Country. After 4 years of living in a room at the Villa the size of a postage stamp, so small that I had to loft my bed in order to turn around, I longed to feel spaciousness. I still long for that. I drove in around dinnertime and strolled into a clothing shop next to an extremely happening biergarten. A place of microbrews. It felt like Portland. I drink no beers, because of the glutens, but I thought, “Ach! My people!” The next day I went to a yoga class and the instructor gave me a 15-minute walking tour of downtown Missoula. He left me on a street full of local shops. I poked around a store called “Upcycle,” where everything is made out of something that used to be something else. Donovan, the proprietor, was sweet and chatty and we got to talking podcasts. He listens to them as he crafts. It’s his thing. I told him about horizontal, how I’m finally making my own thing and actually putting it out into the world, how I’m actually making good on my mission to cultivate intimacy, seven years after my revelation that this is my thing. “Oh,” he said. “Are you here to interview my friend Lindsey Doe?” “No,” I replied, “But I’d like to be!” I only half-recognized the name, but I had a good feeling about this. Lindsey, or Dr. Doe, is the creator of the wildly popular YouTube series Sexplanations, a doctor of Human Sexuality, and a certified clinical sexologist. She’s the sex ed teacher you never had. She’s the sex ed teacher you wish you’d had in high school. She’s the sex ed teacher you wish you had in middle school! She’s direct and clear, playful and enthusiastic. She’s matter-of-fact, but fun about it, like a medical doctor who gets excited about “cool anatomy.” She’s brilliant at breaking things down in a way we can all understand, without talking down to us, and imbuing it all with a certain kind of Hermione-like, academic, striped-sweater sort of cheerfulness that I find entirely refreshing. In that way, she reminds me of one of my favorite educators of all time, my high school Art History teacher, David Bewley, who would practically dance about while teaching on particularly exciting eras like the Renaissance, and create helpful acronyms like DIC, D.I.C., in order to help us remember the order in which columns were invented — as you can hear, I still remember. (Doric, Ionic, Corinthian) Lindsey gave Donovan permission to give me her phone number. I texted straightaway. When I didn’t hear back the whole evening, I chalked it up. Figured it was too last minute. Sometimes my spontaneity works in my favor and sometimes, not so much. I decided to drive up to Glacier National Park the next day, because it was the answer to the question, “What is the most breathtaking place in Montana?” I figured that I’d head across Idaho from there. I treated myself to a hotel in Whitefish, a fancy little ski town, because I was too tired to make it to Idaho that night. The following afternoon, determined to hit a hot springs on the way, I set my course for Quinn’s. As I was poking around the shops in Whitefish, and buying myself a plaid shirt because I was in Montana so it felt important, the yoga teacher from Missoula messaged to say that I shouldn’t go to Quinn’s because it’s man-made. He told me to go to Jerry Johnson Hot Springs instead. Okay, then. I changed course. The Maps app routed me back through Missoula. Forty-five minutes north of Missoula, I got a message from Lindsey Doe asking if she’d missed me! And also, “what is it you’re doing again? What’s this with the robes?” She sounded highly skeptical and yet game at the same time. I felt vaguely worried that she wouldn’t like me. “Stevie Boebi‘s in town right now, too. She’s the go-to YouTuber on lesbian sex. Would you want to record an episode with her?” YES. “Okay, I’ll see if she’s interested.” I drove to Lindsey’s house straightaway, listening to her YouTube videos en route. I arrived back in Missoula after sunset, and recorded these episodes, back-to-back. And that, is the story of how Lindsey Doe came on the podcast. We have so much to learn from her. In the first part of our episode, we talk about body hair, strong jawlines, Puritan sexuality, cognitive dissonance, the real definition of intercourse, anal sex, puckering, and happy trails. Come lie down with us. *** If you are educated by this work, become a part of it through Patreon.com/horizontalwithlila - if you aren't familiar with it, Patreon is a life changer for independent artists with the desire to make lawless, uncensored, and undiluted work. It allows each of you to become a patron of the horizontal arts, and to gain access in various ways to this process of spreading intimacy. You can become a patron at the base level for $2 a month, and the awards get more sumptuous as you offer more! *** Credits! All the episodes in season two have been edited by Chad Michael Snavely. Peruse his roster of podcasts on ChadMichael.com. My intro music was created by the nicest rock star on the planet, Alan Markley, plastic cannons on the Instagram. My lovely cover art was drawn by Shana Shay. Find her on 99 designs. Hire these people if you can. *** Until next week, when Dr. Doe and I discuss the Tinder game, sexual disgust, mate pools, and demisexuality, as well as the matching hypothesis, the t-shirt experiment, chemistry, poly-tana, and sushi on naked bodies… may you have someone to love, something to do, and something to look forward to.

August is joined by Stevie Boebi, a YouTuber who specializes in queer sex, to chat about lesbian sex myths, sex toys and jealousy. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who feels uncomfortable with her partner’s flirting with others behavior. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. Enter The Pleasure Chest’s Womanizer 2Go giveaway on Instagram @pleasurecheststores June 16 - 17! 

If there's one thing humanity has excelled at over the centuries, it's finding new and interesting ways of stimulating genitals. Hank, Lindsey, and Nick are joined by special guest Stevie Boebi to talk about some of the coolest technology that has helped us get our groove on as a species. https://www.youtube.com/user/SassiBoB ------------------------- Panelists: Stevie Boebi, Dr. Lindsey Doe, Hank Green, Nick Jenkins Producer: Caitlin Hofmeister Camera & Sound: Sam Schultz Editor: Josef "Tuna" Metesh Music Written & Arranged by: Michael Aranda Performed by: The Unsung ------------------------ Holy F*****g Science is a Podcast about science that is not for kids in which four people get together to try and astound and amaze each other with the realities of our glorious universe. Secondary goal: To make each other laugh. Follow us on SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/holyfuckingscience iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/hfs-podcast/id1200863480?mt=2 Google Play Music: https://play.google.com/music/listen#/ps/Iyvl42whhlhj4gs6ijctlwdodbm RSS: http://feeds.soundcloud.com/users/soundcloud:users:273239668/sounds.rss Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/holy-fucking-science

Stevie Boebi is a popular YouTuber based in Los Angeles. She came to visit me in Missoula, Montana and I asked her to talk with me about sexual injustices. In her words everything about her life is political because she identifies as a lesbian, and so there are a lot of injustices: sex education, relationships, advertising, and the media. Check out her channel youtube.com/stevie and keep learning.

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Stevie reads a scripted version of the true story of when cops busted in to Stevie's apartment and how that resulted in one of the sexiest things she's ever experienced. When I asked when the traumatic event went from scary to hot she said "It's always been both" which is still blowing my mind