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Content Warnings: Murder, Rape, Sexual AssaultIn this powerful and at times hard hitting but at the same time joyful episode, Jimanekia shares the very personal reasons she has become a trauma specialist. She shares very helpful insight into what trauma is and how to notice if trauma is showing up in yourself or people in your life; as well as the importance of taking a holistic and somatic perspective to trauma as well as psychological and social one. Jimanekia talks with Jayda about how to actually ask for help as someone who struggles to and why you need to be really specific and teach people how to show up for you. At the same time she talks to why each person needs to take responsibility for our capacity to support others and set boundaries around that and the importance of directly communicating to a person needing help if you are burnt out. Jayda also asks Jimanekia about generational trauma and her advice on how to break out of roles and family systems that no longer serve you as well as if Jimanekia thinks one can overcome trauma and her reflection on the difference between wiping away what has happened to you, rather, changing how things affect you. This conversation is also full of Jimanekia's advice for daily tips and habits to help yourself work through trauma, live in self worth and with self love, how to talk back to the negative voice in your head and the radical importance of centring joy in your life even if you are navigating trauma, and how to take ‘healing off the pedestal' and move towards a growing mindset instead.Follow Jimaneika EbornFollow Jayda GFollow Here's Hoping PodcastMore on our guest Trauma Queen Trauma Queen PodcastJimanekia Eborn is a Queer, Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert, Trauma Media Consultant, and Comprehensive Sex Educator, who has worked in mental health for the past 16 years in sex education and sexual trauma support. Jimanekia is the Founder of Tending the Garden, a non-profit for sexual assault survivors of different marginalized identities and Co-founder of Cintima, bringing increased representation to the field of Intimacy Coordination in the film industry. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you have any questions, any comments about the episode? Jimanekia would love to hear from you!What does it mean to truly heal from trauma, and how do we create spaces that nurture this journey? As we wrap up the first season of Trauma Queen, we reflect on the profound conversations we've had since 2018, enriched by the invaluable contribution of our talented editor, Chris. After my father's passing, podcasting became a beacon of passion and healing, allowing us to explore the depths of trauma with authenticity and grace. Chris shares their unique perspective from behind the scenes, emphasizing the importance of selecting guests who bring genuine, personal connections to their stories.The road hasn't been easy, navigating personal challenges like relapse, breakups, and loss. Yet, the podcast has been a pillar of focus and resilience, serving as a testament to the power of intention and community support. We critique societal pressures of resilience, particularly within predominantly white spaces, and challenge the platitudes that often accompany this narrative. As someone who grew up navigating the contrasting worlds of Chicago and its suburbs, I share my journey of understanding the true meaning of strength beyond stereotypes and cultural misperceptions.Looking ahead, we're filled with excitement about the future. Our visions include global projects, plans for expansion, and powerful collaborations aimed at addressing trauma and addiction on a larger scale. We share anecdotes about intrusive political messages and humorous gym escapades, always with an eye on personal growth and community impact. As we prepare for new seasons, we're thankful for the trust and stories shared by our guests and listeners. Here's to manifesting blessings and creating spaces that genuinely support our healing journeys.Thank you all for listening. Set a boundary with yourself this week, set a boundary with someone else. If someone else does not respect that boundary. LET THEM LOOSE YOU! Stay hydrated internally and externally. We do not have an ashy family.IG: @The_Trauma_WithinYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@thetraumawithinJimanekia Ig: @Jimanekia

Do you have any questions, any comments about the episode? Jimanekia would love to hear from you!What happens when your home suddenly turns to ash and you're thrust into a whirlwind of uncertainty and self-discovery? Join us as we navigate the phenomenal journey of Jordiana Fabulous, a gender-expanding artist and guide whose life was upended by the sale of their New Orleans home. With symbols of personal rituals like a rooster's claw in hand, Jordiana embraced the chaos and magic of traveling through Mexico, Brazil, South Korea, Japan, and several African countries, revealing the transformative power of finding oneself amidst upheaval and instability.As we share our own experiences of financial and housing challenges, compounded by the pandemic, we discuss the interplay between personal growth and professional milestones. Safety precautions and unique challenges faced by Black queer travelers during the pandemic are also front and center as we explore the intricacies of airports and border crossings. From understanding the African diaspora in places like Brazil and South Africa to the unexpected affinities discovered in Korea and Japan, these journeys provide a deep dive into cultural understanding and personal transformation.Throughout, we examine the indispensable role of community amidst the turmoil of a global crisis. Whether it's the strength found in queer support networks or the necessity of mutual aid, these connections have been a lifeline. From reflecting on the insidious relationship between capitalism and community to exploring multiple sources of income, this episode is a heartfelt exploration of resilience, belonging, and the ongoing quest for home. Join us for a conversation that promises insights into the intersection of ancestry, mental health, and the evolving journey of self-discovery.Thank you all for listening. Set a boundary with yourself this week, set a boundary with someone else. If someone else does not respect that boundary. LET THEM LOOSE YOU! Stay hydrated internally and externally. We do not have an ashy family.IG: @The_Trauma_WithinYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@thetraumawithinJimanekia Ig: @Jimanekia

Do you have any questions, any comments about the episode? Jimanekia would love to hear from you!Exploring the life and work of a transformative therapist, this narrative unveils the story of Kate Loree, a sex-positive therapist dedicated to helping others find healing and connection. Through her advocacy for marginalized communities, including the kink community, non-monogamous individuals, sex workers, and LGBTQ+ people, Kate brings a compassionate, socially conscious approach to therapy. Her practice integrates a unique blend of social justice, art therapy, trauma work, and psychedelic healing, where tools like ketamine therapy reveal new dimensions of self-discovery and healing.Kate's journey began in her childhood, navigating a landscape marked by bigotry and sexual shame. Moving from Oregon to Alabama, she grappled with cultural stigmas, which ultimately shaped her path towards a career focused on trauma, creativity, and embracing diverse identities. These experiences have uniquely prepared her to help others overcome similar challenges, using her own life's hurdles as a guiding light.In this candid conversation, Kate opens up about her personal experiences with metastatic cervical cancer, a reality that—even in remission—impacts her daily life. She shares her reliance on meditation, exercise, and a deep connection to source energy, tools that help her find balance in the face of life's uncertainties. We delve into her philosophy on self-care, the power of setting boundaries, and how navigating the healthcare system as a patient with a serious illness has sharpened her understanding of systemic inequalities.As the conversation unfolds, Kate highlights the beauty of synchronicity and divine connection in her life and work. With a sense of wonder, she describes the grounding joy she finds in life's small and grand moments alike—whether in her connection to ancestral wisdom, nature, or the universe's subtle interconnections. This journey is as much about embracing gratitude and healing as it is about celebrating life's marvels. Join us for an inspiring exploration of resilience, self-compassion, and the profound impact of choosing joy amidst adversity.Thank you all for listening. Set a boundary with yourself this week, set a boundary with someone else. If someone else does not respect that boundary. LET THEM LOOSE YOU! Stay hydrated internally and externally. We do not have an ashy family.IG: @The_Trauma_WithinYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@thetraumawithinJimanekia Ig: @Jimanekia

Do you have any questions, any comments about the episode? Jimanekia would love to hear from you!Have you ever wondered how identity and travel intersect in the life of a queer Black individual? Join us for an engaging conversation with Tracy, a dynamic product education director and certified sex educator at COTR, Incorporated. Tracy invites us into her world, where the journey of self-acceptance and advocacy for sexual health meets the unique challenges faced by people of color while exploring new territories. From personal tales of solo travel to Las Vegas to the realities of navigating predominantly white spaces, Tracy shares the layers of discomfort and enrichment that come with stepping outside one's comfort zone.As we unpack Tracy's extensive travels, we delve into the complexities of maintaining safety and personal boundaries while on the road. Whether it's using location-sharing features for peace of mind or tactfully explaining her profession in the adult toy industry to diverse audiences, Tracy offers her strategies for navigating life's transitions with grace and humor. We explore how the transformative power of travel can inspire BIPOC individuals to embrace their authentic selves, fostering a supportive community that respects all gender identities and sexualities.Finally, we tackle the stress and security concerns inherent in frequent travel, especially when racial dynamics add another layer of complexity. Tracy candidly shares her experiences of feeling vulnerable yet finding solidarity among fellow travelers of color. From thoughtful discussions on racial profiling to the importance of understanding travelers' rights, this episode is a heartfelt exploration of finding safety and joy amidst diversity. Join us in this powerful narrative that aims to empower listeners to travel with confidence while celebrating their identity every step of the way.Thank you all for listening. Set a boundary with yourself this week, set a boundary with someone else. If someone else does not respect that boundary. LET THEM LOOSE YOU! Stay hydrated internally and externally. We do not have an ashy family.IG: @The_Trauma_WithinYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@thetraumawithinJimanekia Ig: @Jimanekia

Do you have any questions, any comments about the episode? Jimanekia would love to hear from you!Can redefining our identities lead to a more fulfilling life? Join us as we engage with Nicoletta Hedger, a licensed marriage and family therapist and award-nominated sexologist, who courageously shares her journey beyond her career titles. Nicoletta offers a raw and honest look into the societal pressures of self-definition by our professional achievements, challenging us to embrace vulnerability and discover our true selves. Her personal experiences with health challenges and her multifaceted roles as a partner, daughter, and friend serve as a powerful reminder that our identities are complex and deserving of exploration.We then unravel the intricate world of sex therapy, guided by Nicoletta's insights into the often-taboo topic of sexuality. Her passion for advocating around issues like pelvic pain and medical trauma shines through, offering a glimpse into the systemic challenges that many face. Nicoletta introduces tools like the Erotic Blueprint Test and emphasizes the importance of self-advocacy, aiming to reshape how individuals understand and communicate their desires. By addressing the misconceptions and societal norms around sexual pain, we learn how trauma-informed care and specialized medical attention are crucial for healing and empowerment.As we conclude, we take a closer look at the broader implications of pelvic health, including the myths and systemic biases that can marginalize individuals within healthcare. Nicoletta candidly discusses the fear and mistrust faced by marginalized communities, highlighting the need for a compassionate and informed approach to medical care. The vital role of social media in raising awareness, despite the challenges it presents, is also examined, leaving listeners with valuable perspectives on empowerment and healing. This conversation is a must for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of sexual health, trauma, and the courage it takes to advocate for oneself in a complex world.Thank you all for listening. Set a boundary with yourself this week, set a boundary with someone else. If someone else does not respect that boundary. LET THEM LOOSE YOU! Stay hydrated internally and externally. We do not have an ashy family.IG: @The_Trauma_WithinYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@thetraumawithinJimanekia Ig: @Jimanekia

Do you have any questions, any comments about the episode? Jimanekia would love to hear from you!Prepare to be inspired as Goddess Cecilia, a Filipina pleasure educator, shares her transformative journey towards creating healing spaces for BIPOC women and femmes. Discover how a serendipitous encounter in a Facebook group led her to the empowering realm of sex education and advocacy at the Sex Geek Summer Camp. Cecilia's insights into reclaiming pleasure narratives for survivors of sexual violence shed light on the impact of trauma influenced by oppressive systems, and highlight the crucial role of collective support in healing.We break down cultural misconceptions about Filipinos, challenging stereotypes and celebrating the richness of Filipino heritage. From language struggles to cultural pride, Cecilia paints a vivid picture of the immigrant experience in the United States. Personal anecdotes reveal the absurdity of common stereotypes, while also touching on serious topics like the challenges of assimilation and the complex dynamics within Filipino families, especially when addressing issues like familial abuse and divorce.Cecilia's passion for building supportive networks resonates deeply as she discusses the importance of community for trauma survivors. The episode highlights the creation of "Tending the Garden," a digital platform providing resources for sexual assault survivors, emphasizing inclusivity and understanding. Cecilia's story of navigating motherhood as a survivor adds a heartfelt layer to the conversation, showcasing the strength of reparenting and conscious parenting in shaping a better future. Join us as we explore the power of community, resilience, and the shared journey towards healing and empowerment.Thank you all for listening. Set a boundary with yourself this week, set a boundary with someone else. If someone else does not respect that boundary. LET THEM LOOSE YOU! Stay hydrated internally and externally. We do not have an ashy family.IG: @The_Trauma_WithinYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@thetraumawithinJimanekia Ig: @Jimanekia

Do you have any questions, any comments about the episode? Jimanekia would love to hear from you!What if the key to self-love lies in embracing your imperfections? Join us in a riveting conversation with sex and pleasure educator Luna, who shares her transformative journey of body confidence, overcoming trauma, and shattering societal expectations. Luna recounts a childhood memory that profoundly shaped her relationship with her body and details her struggle with shame and diet culture. Her powerful narrative is a beacon for anyone grappling with self-doubt, urging us to refocus on self-acceptance and compassion.Explore the intricate connection between trauma, body, and wellness as Luna and I delve into how unresolved issues can manifest physically. We dissect the societal pressures that fuel body shame and disordered eating, advocating for a holistic approach to healing. Luna's insightful anecdotes shed light on the resilience needed to navigate a society rife with stigma, especially within the often biased healthcare system. Her candid reflections on living in a larger body and the importance of self-advocacy offer invaluable lessons for anyone seeking to reclaim their health and happiness.Celebrate the liberating power of community and self-acceptance as we venture into discussions on body positivity and sexual confidence. Luna's experiences with belly dancing and storytelling highlight the joy of self-expression and embracing one's body without judgment. The episode also touches on the profound impact of supportive communities and influential figures like Sonia Renee Taylor in fostering a positive body image. Tune in for a heartfelt exploration of breaking free from negative societal constraints and living an empowered, authentic life.Thank you all for listening. Set a boundary with yourself this week, set a boundary with someone else. If someone else does not respect that boundary. LET THEM LOOSE YOU! Stay hydrated internally and externally. We do not have an ashy family.IG: @The_Trauma_WithinYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@thetraumawithinJimanekia Ig: @Jimanekia

Do you have any questions, any comments about the episode? Jimanekia would love to hear from you!Join us as we sit down with the incredible Jade of All Jades, co-host of Getting Grown and Jade in XD, for an episode that promises to touch your heart and tickle your funny bone. Jade shares her rich tapestry of life experiences, from her Gullah Geechee and Mexican heritage to her grounded upbringing in Texas. We get to know Jade as a multifaceted individual—mother, wife, friend, chef, and healer—who believes trauma is an unavoidable part of life that shapes who we are.We then dive into the challenges faced by birthing parents, magnified by Jade's recounting of her own high-risk pregnancy during Hurricane Sandy. The conversation highlights systemic healthcare issues and the grueling reality of returning to work without maternity leave. This poignant discussion underscores the critical need for better maternity support and healthcare reforms, making it essential listening for advocates of social justice and parental rights.But it's not all heavy—Jade also brings her unique flair for storytelling to lighter moments that are no less captivating. From the chaos of a Costco trip turned fiasco to musings on love and authenticity, this episode is a rollercoaster of emotions. We wrap things up with a candid chat about social media boundaries, personal energy management, and even some laugh-out-loud fantasies about unconventional memorials. Whether you're here for the wisdom or the laughs, this episode offers a rich, entertaining experience that you won't want to miss.Thank you all for listening. Set a boundary with yourself this week, set a boundary with someone else. If someone else does not respect that boundary. LET THEM LOOSE YOU! Stay hydrated internally and externally. We do not have an ashy family.IG: @The_Trauma_WithinYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@thetraumawithinJimanekia Ig: @Jimanekia

Trigger warning - SAOn this week's show Jax is talking to the amazing Jimanekia Eborn about life after sexual assault.  The conversation touches on reclaiming your body after assault. How to be an ally, or as Jimanekia calls it, an accomplice when helping someone through their trauma. And we hear about Jimanekia's experience at a silent retreat. Enjoy the show. Find Jimanekia's work here https://traumaqueen.love/you can find out more about tending the garden, or donate, herehttps://www.tendingthegarden.love/Vipassana  Meditation Silent retreats https://www.dhamma.org/en/indexAs always: For the most recent updates to this show and extra content check out our instagram https://www.instagram.com/thornyissues/If you have a question for the show you can submit it here https://www.thornyissues.ca/submit-your-questionSend me your shame! You can submit those mortifying moments here https://www.thornyissues.ca/about-3If you'd like to buy Jax a coffee you can do so https://ko-fi.com/thornyissues

Do you have any questions, any comments about the episode? Jimanekia would love to hear from you!What happens when a scholar, storyteller, and believer navigates the multifaceted challenges of life and academia? This week, we sit down with the inspiring Dr. Tykeia Nicole, co-host of the Get and Grown podcast, to uncover her extraordinary journey. As a daughter, sister, and Black woman, Dr. Tykeia shares her heartfelt experiences and insights on balancing personal growth with professional demands. From early influences that sparked her curiosity to the invaluable lessons learned from navigating academia as a Black woman, this episode is a treasure trove of wisdom and resilience.Dr. Tykeia opens up about the profound impact of grief, sharing her deeply personal experience of losing her brother just days before a major milestone. Her story highlights the unpredictable nature of grief and the essential role of community support during such tumultuous times. We explore how grief intertwines with other life events, leading to a broader discussion on mental health, emotional well-being, and the importance of giving oneself grace. This conversation serves as a poignant reminder that amidst life's chaos, prioritizing self-care and emotional expression is not just beneficial, but necessary for healing and growth.In our final segment, Dr. Tykeia delves into the journey of unlearning societal expectations and reclaiming personal identity. She provides candid anecdotes about the challenges of shedding ingrained roles and the liberating experience of embracing one's true self. From unlearning the need for external validation to discovering the joy of self-acceptance and self-soothing strategies, this episode offers practical advice for anyone looking to transform their life. Tune in for a deeply moving and insightful conversation with Dr. Tykeia, filled with actionable takeaways on navigating life's twists and turns with grace and authenticity.Thank you all for listening. Set a boundary with yourself this week, set a boundary with someone else. If someone else does not respect that boundary. LET THEM LOOSE YOU! Stay hydrated internally and externally. We do not have an ashy family.IG: @The_Trauma_WithinYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@thetraumawithinJimanekia Ig: @Jimanekia

Do you have any questions, any comments about the episode? Jimanekia would love to hear from you!What if trauma isn't just something to be overcome but an essential part of being human? Join us for an eye-opening discussion with Carly S, a pleasure educator, porn star, model, and blogger, as she takes us on her captivating journey through the adult industry. From her days managing New York's top sex toy stores to her influential roles at Spectrum Boutique and NASTOY, Carly opens up about the multifaceted world of sex work. We also share how our paths crossed through mutual admiration and explore how trauma has shaped Carly's unique outlook on life and work.In our candid conversation, Carly addresses the unique challenges faced by non-white sex workers, highlighting the stark realities of rate disparities and societal perceptions. We explore the tricky dynamics of forming genuine friendships within the sex work community, balancing the fine line between survival sex work and voluntary participation. Carly also discusses her personal journey, sharing how she transitioned from dancing to mainstream jobs before finding her niche in the adult industry. This chapter is a powerful reminder of the resilience and determination required to navigate this complex landscape.As Carly moved to a fully digital career during the pandemic, she found solace and strength in a supportive community, therapy, and meticulous organization. We discuss the emotional and logistical efforts sex workers put into fulfilling clients' fantasies while confronting societal taboos and financial penalties. Carly's story is a testament to the importance of community and self-care. Listen in as we celebrate Carly's achievements and her hopes for a future where sex work is less stigmatized and more equitably treated. This is an episode you won't want to miss if you're curious about the true intricacies of sex work.Thank you all for listening. Set a boundary with yourself this week, set a boundary with someone else. If someone else does not respect that boundary. LET THEM LOOSE YOU! Stay hydrated internally and externally. We do not have an ashy family.IG: @The_Trauma_WithinYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@thetraumawithinJimanekia Ig: @Jimanekia

Do you have any questions, any comments about the episode? Jimanekia would love to hear from you!Have you ever felt trapped by the expectations and dogmas imposed on you by your upbringing? Join us for an eye-opening conversation with Jess Ambrose, who courageously shares her journey from evangelical Christianity to becoming a self-accepting podcaster. Jess opens up about the mental health battles she's faced along the way, the importance of centering herself amidst external pressures, and her heartfelt bond with the host, forged through the podcasting world.What happens when purity culture shapes your views on body, sexuality, and personal worth? Jess candidly discusses the stringent moral expectations from her childhood environment, and how they clashed with her home life and queer identity. This conversation highlights the long-lasting impacts of such teachings, shedding light on the struggles of growing up with conflicting messages about sexuality and self-worth. Jess's story emphasizes the importance of supportive communities and the liberating process of unlearning harmful beliefs.Tune in to hear how Jess found joy and peace in the acceptance of uncertainty. We explore the transformative power of open dialogues and the emotional growth that comes from stepping away from conservative religious contexts. From the influence of impactful podcasts to the joy of finding simplicity and presence in daily life, Jess's journey is a testament to the empowering process of shedding old beliefs and embracing a healthier self-identity. Don't miss this heartfelt episode as we unpack life changes through meaningful conversations and personal growth.Thank you all for listening. Set a boundary with yourself this week, set a boundary with someone else. If someone else does not respect that boundary. LET THEM LOOSE YOU! Stay hydrated internally and externally. We do not have an ashy family.IG: @The_Trauma_WithinYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@thetraumawithinJimanekia Ig: @Jimanekia

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jimanekia Eborn. Jimanekia Eborn is a Queer Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert, Trauma Media Consultant, and Comprehensive Sex Educator. She is the host of Trauma Queen - a podcast working to normalize conversations about life's most challenging experiences, from sexual assault to mental health and beyond. Jimanekia is the Founder of Tending The Garden- a nonprofit in service of sexual assault survivors who have been marginalized; offering retreats, online summits, community and education. She is also the co-founder of Cintima, bringing increased representation to the field of Intimacy Coordination in the film industry. Key points: Introductions and background Jimanekia introduces herself, sharing her full name and background. She describes herself as an inquisitive, question-asking person who has experienced various traumas and is now dedicated to supporting others navigating difficult experiences. She outlines her diverse work, including the Jimanekia project focused on assault, her trauma-focused podcast, an intimacy coordinator training company, and her role in the mental health department of a professional wrestling company. Trauma-informed support and advocacy Jimanekia discusses her approach to supporting survivors, emphasizing the importance of allowing them to guide the conversation and decide how they want to share their experiences. She contrasts this with common unhelpful responses that project assumptions or make demands of survivors. Jimanekia also highlights the need for more trauma-informed support, especially for marginalized groups and men, who often face additional stigma and barriers to disclosing. Navigating trauma and consent The conversation explores the complexities around trauma, consent, and gender. Jimanekia and Cam discuss the societal pressures and norms that can prevent men from recognizing or disclosing their experiences of abuse, as well as the tendency to dismiss or trivialize these experiences. They emphasize the importance of creating safe spaces for all survivors to be heard and supported without judgment. Systemic change and accountability Jimanekia and Cam discuss the need for broader systemic changes to address the root causes of violence and trauma, such as harmful gender norms, power imbalances, and lack of accountability. They highlight the responsibility of institutions and communities to proactively create safer environments and provide comprehensive support for survivors, rather than placing the burden on individuals. Closing thoughts Jimanekia closes the conversation by offering encouragement and validation to any male survivors listening, emphasizing that their experiences are not their fault and that there are supportive communities available to them. Relevant links: Jimanekia's Instagram: @jimanekia Jimanekia's websites: https://traumaqueen.love/ and https://www.cintima.co/

Do you have any questions, any comments about the episode? Jimanekia would love to hear from you!Ever wondered what it's like to be the only Black woman in a corporate boardroom? Join us as we sit down with Sarissa Thrower, an expert in strategic communications and reputation management, who shares her profound journey navigating the challenging worlds of Instagram and broader corporate America. From fostering restorative spaces for Black individuals to redefining trauma as a transformative experience, Sarissa's story is one of resilience and empowerment. She provides an enlightening perspective on the often unseen and unspoken struggles faced in predominantly white professional environments.Sarissa opens up about her childhood experiences with racism, the complex dynamics of growing up in California, and the life lessons learned from diverse school environments. We recount deeply personal incidents, such as being told to "go back to Africa," and explore how these moments shaped her ability to navigate a world that often feels hostile. Our discussion highlights the importance of family teachings about self-worth and resilience, and how cultural shifts during school years influenced her perspectives on race, class, and identity.We also delve into the importance of mental health and wellness for Black women, especially when navigating the pressures of white supremacy culture. Sarissa shares her journey of self-care practices, the impact of mentorship, and the role of community in fostering strength and growth. From discussing the impact of microdosing shrooms to the necessity of seeking credible advice and standing up for oneself in the workplace, this episode is packed with authentic insights and practical wisdom. Don't miss this powerful conversation about the resilience and power of Black women in both personal and professional spheres.Thank you all for listening. Set a boundary with yourself this week, set a boundary with someone else. If someone else does not respect that boundary. LET THEM LOOSE YOU! Stay hydrated internally and externally. We do not have an ashy family.IG: @The_Trauma_WithinYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@thetraumawithinJimanekia Ig: @Jimanekia

Do you have any questions, any comments about the episode? Jimanekia would love to hear from you!Ever wondered how a passion for football and pro wrestling can shape a person's life and career? In this episode, we sit down with Sean Ross Sapp, part-owner of Fightful and a die-hard Cincinnati Bengals season ticket holder. Sean reflects on his journey from humble beginnings in a trailer to becoming a prominent figure in wrestling journalism. We explore his deep-rooted love for Kentucky, the impact of loss and trauma, and how these experiences have molded his resilient character.Navigating the tumultuous waters of online harassment, Sean and I share our battles with trolls and stalkers, revealing the emotional toll and the strategies we've employed to maintain our sanity. From receiving invaluable advice from the late Bray Wyatt to experiencing a bizarre turn of events with a persistent harasser, we delve into the significance of maintaining perspective amidst negativity. This chapter serves as a candid eye-opener to the harsh realities of living life in the public eye.Our conversation takes a heartfelt turn as we discuss the profound impact of losing loved ones and the emotional rollercoaster that follows. Whether it's the grief of losing a grandparent or the absurdity of social media drama, we highlight the importance of resilience, community support, and finding solace in small connections. Join us as we wrap up with exciting future plans, travel anecdotes, and the joys and challenges of balancing a hectic career with personal aspirations, all while leading a thriving enterprise in the niche world of pro wrestling and MMA journalism.Thank you all for listening. Set a boundary with yourself this week, set a boundary with someone else. If someone else does not respect that boundary. LET THEM LOOSE YOU! Stay hydrated internally and externally. We do not have an ashy family.IG: @The_Trauma_WithinYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@thetraumawithinJimanekia Ig: @Jimanekia

With a Masters in Health Psychology, Jimanekia [she/her] has worked in mental health for the past 16 years in sex education and sexual trauma support. She also has a background in alt medicine and balances eastern and western ideals.She is the host of Trauma Queen - a podcast working to normalize conversations about life's most challenging experiences, from sexual assault to mental health and beyond.In 2020, Jimanekia founded Tending The Garden, a non-profit in service of sexual assault survivors of different marginalized identities. She is also the co-founder of Cintima, bringing increased representation to the field of Intimacy Coordination in the film industryWEBSITE: https://traumaqueen.love/

Do you have any questions, any comments about the episode? Jimanekia would love to hear from you!What happens when a sport you love becomes a battleground for harassment and bias? We tackle this pressing issue head-on with Cher Delaware, a passionate wrestling fan and parent, who shares her journey of navigating the wrestling community while maintaining online anonymity for safety and privacy. From our first meeting on Twitter to unforgettable karaoke nights, Cher's story is a testament to resilience and the importance of community support. She bravely recounts her past traumas, including a childhood kidnapping and abusive relationships, and how these experiences shape her approach to life and parenting.As we reminisce about childhood memories of iconic wrestlers like Sting and DDP, we shed light on the unique challenges female wrestling fans face, especially the biases and misconceptions that still persist. We discuss the growing presence of women in wrestling media and the distinct struggles of fans from different racial backgrounds. Despite the hostility from some male fans, our love for wrestling remains unshaken, fueled by the joy it brings to our families and the lasting memories we've created. The conversation takes a serious turn as we explore the toxic nature of fan culture and the moral dilemmas of supporting an industry with a problematic past.Privacy in the digital age is more complex than ever, especially for those active in the wrestling community. Cher shares her humorous yet serious experiences of being mistaken for her pseudonym and the steps she takes to protect her children's identities. We reflect on the impact of the #SpeakingOut movement and the ongoing issues within the wrestling community, emphasizing the need for serious attention to accusations. Through it all, we highlight the significance of community, the importance of feeling safe at events, and the heartwarming connections forged through our shared love for wrestling. Join us as we uncover the multifaceted world of wrestling fandom, where every story matters.Thank you all for listening. Set a boundary with yourself this week, set a boundary with someone else. If someone else does not respect that boundary. LET THEM LOOSE YOU! Stay hydrated internally and externally. We do not have an ashy family.IG: @The_Trauma_WithinYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@thetraumawithinJimanekia Ig: @Jimanekia

Do you have any questions, any comments about the episode? Jimanekia would love to hear from you!Do you ever find yourself longing for the ignorance of youth or wincing at a well-meant compliment? Join us as we sit down with actor, writer, and media personality RJ City, who hilariously reveals his discomfort with praise and his morning routine geared towards outrunning anxiety. From the beauty of ignorance to the calming productivity that soothes his soul, RJ shares his unique and often amusing perspectives on life.Throughout our conversation, RJ opens up about the trials of balancing creativity with mental health, and the shift from the idealism of youth to the pragmatic realism of adulthood. We navigate the nuances of being labeled a "passive aggressive alpha male" and delve into cultural perceptions of politeness and rudeness. With personal anecdotes and a generous dose of wit, RJ sheds light on the importance of humor in dealing with vulnerability and maintaining mental well-being.Finally, we explore the intriguing parallels between wrestling and comedy, the concept of cancel culture, and the significance of community bonds and self-celebration. RJ's reflections on family dynamics, legacy, and the role of humor in navigating human susceptibility will leave you chuckling and contemplating all at once. Tune in for a whirlwind of laughter, reflection, and genuine moments that promise to entertain and inspire.Thank you all for listening. Set a boundary with yourself this week, set a boundary with someone else. If someone else does not respect that boundary. LET THEM LOOSE YOU! Stay hydrated internally and externally. We do not have an ashy family.IG: @The_Trauma_WithinYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@thetraumawithinJimanekia Ig: @Jimanekia

Do you have any questions, any comments about the episode? Jimanekia would love to hear from you!Ever wondered how Dasha, the vivacious former WWE and AEW ring announcer, keeps her spirits high without a drop of coffee? Join us as we uncover her secret—harnessing the energy of the earth to fuel her infectious positivity and unwavering optimism. From our first meeting at AEW where her welcoming nature stood out, to her innovative "skip challenge" that brings joy and physical activity together, Dasha's unique approach to life is nothing short of inspiring. Dive into her early life, where resilience was born out of overcoming physical challenges like being born severely pigeon-toed and without tear ducts. Raised in a sheltered, religious household, Dasha's mother's integrity and dedication left a lasting mark, shaping an optimistic personality that flourished despite adversities. Her story reflects on the importance of family values, gratitude, and a relentless pursuit of a positive outlook amidst life's trials.In our candid conversation, Dasha opens up about balancing her scientific pursuits with a degree in health sciences and a successful career in professional wrestling. We discuss effective communication, managing the pressures of maintaining a happy image, and the significance of authentic relationships. Touching on vulnerability, resilience, social media presence, and finding life's purpose, this episode is a celebration of growth, curiosity, and the boundless energy Dasha brings to every room she enters. Prepare to be inspired by her journey of self-discovery and the joy she spreads.Thank you all for listening. Set a boundary with yourself this week, set a boundary with someone else. If someone else does not respect that boundary. LET THEM LOOSE YOU! Stay hydrated internally and externally. We do not have an ashy family.IG: @The_Trauma_WithinYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@thetraumawithinJimanekia Ig: @Jimanekia

In this episode, Jimanekia is joined by Babatunde, also known as the hip-hop opera singer. We talk about hip-hop, opera, finding this work, and so much more. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traumaqueen/support

In this episode, Jimanekia is joined by Kayla Lofaro to discuss moving from one coast to the next, grief, growth, friendship, and more. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traumaqueen/support

In this episode, Jimanekia is joined by Shar Jossell. They discuss significant life transitions, the ongoing nature of these changes, personal growth, and more. Read Shar's Essay Here. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traumaqueen/support

In this episode, Jimanekia is joined by Aerial, aka Big Swole, for a candid conversation about bodies, professional wrestling, and a few surprises along the way. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traumaqueen/support

On today's episode, we have sex educator Jimanekia Eborn (She/Her) join us for a conversation about finding presence in the full range of life's emotions. Together we talk about bringing pleasure to your biggest sex organ...your brain, the importance of laughter in sex, and finding healing in community. Psychedelic Jealousy Guide: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/groundinginjealousy If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to support the long term sustainability of the podcast, access Nicole's personal content, and connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Community, then join the movement at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Looking to work with Nicole? Apply here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/164-pleasure-activists-embrace-pleasure-pain-and-everything-in-between-with-jimanekia-eborn Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Pleasure Practice : ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Jimanekia's Community: Website : traumaqueen.love Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jimanekia/ Resources to Learn More: Drug Use for Grown Ups: https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781101981665 Rat Park: https://www.ted.com/talks/johann_hari_everything_you_think_you_know_about_addiction_is_wrong/transcript

In this episode, Jimanekia and Jazzmyne J explore the intersections of body image, OCD, and eating disorders, offering insightful perspectives and fostering understanding on these crucial topics. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traumaqueen/support

In this episode, Jimanekia is joined by Tre'Vell who talks self reporting the community, protecting authenticity, gender identity and so muchmore. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traumaqueen/support

In this episode, Jimanekia is joined by the amazing and magical Siaira Shawn. They discussed music, being a Black woman, prioritizing mental health, and much more. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traumaqueen/support

What is happening behind the scenes when sex/intimacy happens in film, television and porn? What us an "intimacy coordinator" and why do they play a pivotal roll in the on-set production? How do intimacy coordinators choreograph a scene, awnd hat makes CINTIMA's training important and unique? How does watching a show with intimate plots deepen a couple's relationship, and how does the quality of the content for intimate scenes - as well as what is happening behind the scenes - affect the consumer? And how can someone become an "intimacy coordinator"? Is it just a career move or can it change an individual's everyday life? About our guests: Jimanekia (she/her) is a Queer Media Consultant, Comprehensive Sex Educator, and Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. She is the host of Trauma Queen - a podcast mini-series for survivors of assault and our allies. She is also the Founder of Tending The Garden, a nonprofit for sexual assault survivors that have been marginalized. Her work as a sex educator has been featured in Playboy, Cosmo, Nylon and MANY more. Jimanekia has worked with Intimacy Coordinators in creating content and teaching since 2021, and became one of the co-owners and co-founders of CINTIMA in 2023. Yehuda Duenyas (he/they) is a transdisciplinary artist creating at the intersections of Intimacy Coordination, Experiential Design, Performance, Film, and Sound. Proudly representing the LGBTQIA+ community, Yehuda brings an authentic and personal voice to their role. As a SAG-AFTRA accredited Intimacy Coordination trainer, Yehuda co-runs CINTIMA.CO, a pioneering training program tailored for marginalized identities entering the field. Notable Film & TV credits include projects such as "MONSTER: The Jeffrey Dahmer Story" (Ryan Murphy/NETFLIX), "Westworld Season 4" (HBO), "The Afterparty Season 2" (SONY/APPLE TV), and "American Gigolo" (Paramount+/Showtime). Intimacy for Performance credits include Faye Driscoll's Weathering (NY Live Arts; The Blackwood, Toronto), The Beautiful People (Rogue Machine, LA), and Tom Bradshaw's Fulfillment (The Flea, NYC; ATC, Chicago). Jaclyn Chantel (she/her) is Co-Founder at CINTIMA: Cinematic Intimacy Artists. She is a true multi-hyphenate and has been working in the entertainment industry for over 10 years. After earning her BFA in Acting from the University of Cincinnati's College-Conservatory of Music, she has worked in production, directing, casting, and acting. This body of work inspired Jaclyn to begin her work as an Intimacy Coordinator, filling her toolbox with experiences and skills from which to draw as she approaches this important work with actors. Using Alexander Technique, Alba Emoting, Viewpoints, and Labon, Jaclyn is a natural at fostering collaboration and personal agency in her work as an Intimacy Coordinator.  Want to become an Intimacy Coordinator? Go to https://www.cintima.co and use code SHAMELESS10 for 10% off! PORTLAND, CHICAGO, SEATTLE! Come see our LIVE Shameless Sex Unleashed sexy variety show! Get your tickets here ASAP: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

In this episode, Jimanekia is joined by LO. They talk about being a Black woman working in wrestling territory, being a business owner, representation, and so much more. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traumaqueen/support

In this episode, Jimanekia is joined by Thea Monyeé. They discuss icks in mh and why licensure isn't everything. They also discuss Finding Joy and the ways that we NEED it to navigate healing. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traumaqueen/support

In this episode, Jimanekia is joined by her long-time friend Jayce Baron. They discuss their advocacy work, experiences as survivors, and much more. Want more of our guest? Follow @JayceBaron Follow The Trauma Queen across social media @Jimanekia --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traumaqueen/support

In this episode, Jimanekia is joined by Cameron Hawkins. They navigate through what different types of relationships are needed and how they can affect how we show up for ourselves. This conversation will give you perspective, make you smile, and even shed a tear. Want more Cam? Follow Cameron Hawkins on IG/Twitter - @ceehawk --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traumaqueen/support

Jimanekia wanted to sit down with Lenora Claire to explain all of this important work. lenoraclairellc.com www.specialkpi.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traumaqueen/support

This episode is unlike any we have done and may ever do again. Jimanekia sat down with three of her friends: Hunter, Mel, Sarah, and Jeremy. They talked about what it was like losing their parents and joining what Jimanekia has been referring to as the DPC (Dead Parents Club). It's about beautiful conversation from 5 different perspectives. This conversation will allow you to see the human side of death and what it looks like when we are still here. What grief looks like, and what it doesn't look like, and more. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traumaqueen/support

In this episode, Jimanekia and Emilio discuss music, wrestling, self-care, learning from their parents, and being a Yogi. This conversation allows for an expansion of ways to show your best self in many spaces. Want more of our guest? Follow Emilio on Twitter at @emiliosparks. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traumaqueen/support

In this episode, Jimanekia and Wynter discuss the complexities of motherhood, including societal pressures, balancing personal goals with family, and prioritizing self-care. They share personal experiences and insights on the challenges of motherhood and the importance of building supportive communities for mothers. This conversation provides a powerful reminder of the value of supporting mothers in all aspects of their lives. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traumaqueen/support

200 episodes is insane! A big thank you to everyone who supports our show weekly and anyone who's taken the time to listen.  We truly appreciate y'all!We have company for episode 200! Jade Fox is back, we have a LOT to catch up on since episode 27. Jade fills us in on her time in Portland and moving back to LA,  new learnings,  shifts in her content creation process, connecting with celebs, style tips, Beyoncè predictions, and cutting her hair off.Shoutouts:Shana: The Bisi Alimi Foundation (BAF) is a charity that aims to work towards a Nigeria where everyone is equal irrespective of sexual orientation or gender identity.  Follow and support @bisialimifoundation on IGKris: Style is Freedom - streetwear brand focused on liberating and celebrating the TOMBOI culture through fashion. Follow on IG @styleisfreedomJade: Tending The Garden - healing services for Sexual Assault Survivors who identify as having marginalized identities.  Founded by Jimanekia. Follow on IG @tendingthegarden.4.sasFollow and support Jade FoxIG: @iamjadefoxPatreon: Jade FoxYoutube: @iamjadefoxShop: hillfoxclub.comEpisode Notes[00:18] - Queer Urban Dictionary[02:47] -  Shana and Kris talk 200 episodes [06:29] - Jade Fox intro[08:50] - Filling us in on the last four years[14:29] - New approaches to content creation[23:29] - The most profound thing Jade has learned in the past 4 years[33:40] - Style tips for people trying to figure out their style[41:40] - Beyonće Act 2 (&3) predictions[54:10] - The big chop[58:04] - Bad Queer Opinions [1:07:33] - Shoutouts Affiliates we actually love Support Lucky Skivvies and our pod by using coupon code badqueers10 for 10% off your next purchase. Treat your butt today.Shop NowEmail us for advice at badqueerspodcast@gmail.com or DM on InstagramFollow us @badqueerspod on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram & Tik TokLove our soundtrack? Check out Siena Liggins: @sienaligginsLike us? Love us? Leave a review The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for ...

Jimanekia sits down with her business partners from Cintima. To talk about Intimacy coordination, past lives, and why we created Cintima and more. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traumaqueen/support

*Tap* *Tap*She's BACK!I'm back with a brand new podcast. If you remember Trauma Queen, think about this as an EXPANSION.I welcome you to Trauma Queen presents The Trauma Within.In “The Trauma Within,” host Jimanekia takes you on a journey through the often unspoken and deeply challenging aspects of life. As a Trauma and Sexual Assault expert, Jimanekia is committed to creating a safe and supportive platform where we delve into the issues that many people find difficult to talk about.Each episode focuses on a specific topic, ranging from the experiences of marginalized communities to mental health challenges and the struggles of survivors. With empathy, authenticity, and the support of experts and guests, the podcast provides a unique blend of personal stories, expert insights, and practical resources to help listeners cope and heal.In “The Trauma Within,” you'll hear from individuals who have faced these challenges, experts who offer guidance, and Jimanekia herself, who shares her own experiences and wisdom. This podcast is a compassionate and inclusive space where no topic is too complex to discuss and where the resilience and strength of the human spirit take center stage.Join us each week as we explore the trauma within and work towards creating a more empathetic, understanding, and supportive world. Your journey to healing and empowerment begins here.The first Episode is out on January 25th, 2024! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traumaqueen/support

Bodies are Telling is a two part exploration of the often complex relationship between the body and the self, told by Jimanekia Eborn through an intimate, personal reflection of her own journey to self-discovery. What are the psychological effects of growing up in a body that is constantly objectified? How do outside influences and expectations impact the way we perceive ourselves? What does it mean to reconnect to our body and heal after experiencing sexual assault? This started out as a podcast discussing bodies that have been impacted by shame and guilt. But it turned into a candid sharing of deep truths; an examination of personal trauma and what it's like to come out on the other side. While also calling in others' journeys and ideals around their own bodies, this is a story that, sadly, many will listen to and be able to connect with, but, hopefully, it is also a story that many can discover a place of understanding, realisation, and, ultimatley, hope. TW: This series mentions sexual assault and eating disorders. More about Jimanekia: Jimanekia Eborn is a Queer, Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert, Trauma Media Consultant, and Comprehensive Sex Educator. She is the host of Trauma Queen - a podcast for survivors of assault and our allies. The podcast focuses on uplifting voices in all communities and exploring our collective journey to healing. Jimanekia is the Founder of Tending The Garden- a nonprofit in service of sexual assault survivors who have been marginalized, offering retreats, online summits, community and education. She is also the co-founder of Cintima, bringing increased representation to the field of Intimacy Coordination in the film industry. In 2021, Jimanekia joined Lenora Claire Consulting as a SA & trauma expert for film & television productions. Jimanekia has been working in mental health for over a decade with youth, adolescents, and adults. She has led trauma-informed comprehensive sex and sex toy workshops at multiple universities including Columbia University, Georgetown University, Colorado College and Rhodes College. She has been the keynote speaker at Princeton Women's History Month 2021, UCSB Women of Color Conference 2019, UNCC & UC Merced's Take Back the Night Events 2022. Jimanekia has been a featured panelist at the MAC Belfast, Soho House, San Diego University, Converge Con and GirlSchool LA. Her work as a sex educator has been featured in Marie Claire, Playboy, Cosmo, Mind Body Green, Well + Good, Nylon, and many more. Contributors: Jordiana Diana: Website: https://earthtojordi.com Eugene Hsiang: @eutothegene Sonalee Rashatwar: @thefatsextherapist, https://www.sonaleer.com/, https://twitter.com/SonaleeR Social media: Website: https://traumaqueen.love/ Instagram: @jimanekia Twitter: @Jimanekia Facebook: Jimanekia Eborn   Bodies are Telling was written by Jimanekia Eborn. Production by Lucy Carr and James Deacon. Sound design and mixing by Ben Williams. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Bodies are Telling is a two part exploration of the often complex relationship between the body and the self, told by Jimanekia Eborn through an intimate, personal reflection of her own journey to self-discovery. What are the psychological effects of growing up in a body that is constantly objectified? How do outside influences and expectations impact the way we perceive ourselves? What does it mean to reconnect to our body and heal after experiencing sexual assault? This started out as a podcast discussing bodies that have been impacted by shame and guilt. But it turned into a candid sharing of deep truths; an examination of personal trauma and what it's like to come out on the other side. While also calling in others' journeys and ideals around their own bodies, this is a story that, sadly, many will listen to and be able to connect with, but, hopefully, it is also a story that many can discover a place of understanding, realisation, and, ultimatley, hope. TW: This series mentions sexual assault and eating disorders. More about Jimanekia: Jimanekia Eborn is a Queer, Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert, Trauma Media Consultant, and Comprehensive Sex Educator. She is the host of Trauma Queen - a podcast for survivors of assault and our allies. The podcast focuses on uplifting voices in all communities and exploring our collective journey to healing. Jimanekia is the Founder of Tending The Garden- a nonprofit in service of sexual assault survivors who have been marginalized, offering retreats, online summits, community and education. She is also the co-founder of Cintima, bringing increased representation to the field of Intimacy Coordination in the film industry. In 2021, Jimanekia joined Lenora Claire Consulting as a SA & trauma expert for film & television productions. Jimanekia has been working in mental health for over a decade with youth, adolescents, and adults. She has led trauma-informed comprehensive sex and sex toy workshops at multiple universities including Columbia University, Georgetown University, Colorado College and Rhodes College. She has been the keynote speaker at Princeton Women's History Month 2021, UCSB Women of Color Conference 2019, UNCC & UC Merced's Take Back the Night Events 2022. Jimanekia has been a featured panelist at the MAC Belfast, Soho House, San Diego University, Converge Con and GirlSchool LA. Her work as a sex educator has been featured in Marie Claire, Playboy, Cosmo, Mind Body Green, Well + Good, Nylon, and many more. Contributors: Jordiana Diana: Website: https://earthtojordi.com Eugene Hsiang: @eutothegene Sonalee Rashatwar: @thefatsextherapist, https://www.sonaleer.com/, https://twitter.com/SonaleeR Social media: Website: https://traumaqueen.love/ Instagram: @jimanekia Twitter: @Jimanekia Facebook: Jimanekia Eborn   Bodies are Telling was written by Jimanekia Eborn. Production by Lucy Carr and James Deacon. Sound design and mixing by Ben Williams. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Bodies are Telling is a two-part exploration of the often complex relationship between the body and the self, told by Jimanekia Eborn through an intimate, personal reflection of her own journey to self-discovery. What are the psychological effects of growing up in a body that is constantly objectified? How do outside influences and expectations impact the way we perceive ourselves? What does it mean to reconnect to our body and heal after experiencing sexual assault? This started out as a podcast discussing bodies that have been impacted by shame and guilt. But it turned into a candid sharing of deep truths; an examination of personal trauma and what it's like to come out on the other side. While also calling in others' journeys and ideals around their own bodies, this is a story that, sadly, many will listen to and be able to connect with, but, hopefully, it is also a story that many can discover a place of understanding, realisation, and, ultimately, hope. TW: This series mentions sexual assault and eating disorders. More about Jimanekia: Jimanekia Eborn is a Queer, Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert, Trauma Media Consultant, and Comprehensive Sex Educator. She is the host of Trauma Queen - a podcast for survivors of assault and our allies. The podcast focuses on uplifting voices in all communities and exploring our collective journey to healing. Jimanekia is the Founder of Tending The Garden- a nonprofit in service of sexual assault survivors who have been marginalized, offering retreats, online summits, community and education. She is also the co-founder of Cintima, bringing increased representation to the field of Intimacy Coordination in the film industry. In 2021, Jimanekia joined Lenora Claire Consulting as a SA & trauma expert for film & television productions. Jimanekia has been working in mental health for over a decade with youth, adolescents, and adults. She has led trauma-informed comprehensive sex and sex toy workshops at multiple universities including Columbia University, Georgetown University, Colorado College and Rhodes College. She has been the keynote speaker at Princeton Women's History Month 2021, UCSB Women of Color Conference 2019, UNCC & UC Merced's Take Back the Night Events 2022. Jimanekia has been a featured panelist at the MAC Belfast, Soho House, San Diego University, Converge Con and GirlSchool LA. Her work as a sex educator has been featured in Marie Claire, Playboy, Cosmo, Mind Body Green, Well + Good, Nylon, and many more. Contributors: Jordiana Diana: Website: https://earthtojordi.com Eugene Hsiang: @eutothegene Sonalee Rashatwar: @thefatsextherapist, https://www.sonaleer.com/, https://twitter.com/SonaleeR Social media: Website: https://traumaqueen.love/ Instagram: @jimanekia Twitter: @Jimanekia Facebook: Jimanekia Eborn   Bodies are Telling was written by Jimanekia Eborn. Production by Lucy Carr and James Deacon. Sound design and mixing by Ben Williams. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

*Content warning: sexual assault, rape, domestic violence, and murder.  Jimanekia Eborn is a survivor, advocate, and mental health professional whose expertise focuses on healing from trauma and sexual assault. Despite experiencing  great loss and grief as early as she can remember, she has also always been a loving force to be reckoned with. Thus, she utilizes her own grief and experiences, as well as her status as a co-victim of murder, to advocate for victims from marginalized communities and beyond. We are so grateful she joined us today to share all that has come next for her amidst her professional, personal, legal, and media journeys. Jimanekia's website https://traumaqueen.love/ Jimanekia's Podcast, Trauma Queen https://traumaqueen.love/podcast Jimanekia's Instagram https://instagram.com/jimanekia Jimanekia's X https://twitter.com/Jimanekia Tending the Garden https://www.tendingthegarden.love/ Lenora Claire Consulting https://www.lenoraclairellc.com/ For additional resources visit http://www.somethingwaswrong.com/resources And don't forget to check out Inhuman Podcast wherever you listen to podcasts! 

Audience note: This is Part Two of a Two-Part Episode. Jimanekia Eborn is a Queer Media Consultant, an esteemed Comprehensive Sex Educator, and a highly knowledgeable Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. With a Masters's in Health Psychology and over 14 years of experience in mental health, she has dedicated her career to the fields of sex education and providing support to those affected by sexual trauma. In addition to her professional accomplishments, Jimanekia is also the esteemed host of the empowering podcast mini-series called "Trauma Queen," designed specifically for survivors of assault and their allies. This remarkable podcast aims to amplify voices from diverse communities and embark on a collective journey toward healing. Jimanekia is the visionary Founder of Tending The Garden, a transformative healing retreat exclusively tailored for survivors who have experienced marginalization. This retreat serves as a haven for survivors, offering them a space to heal, grow, and reclaim their power. Jimanekia's extensive expertise and passion for advocacy and healing make her influential in trauma support, sex education, and marginalized survivor empowerment. Jimanekia's links: Website: https://traumaqueen.love Instagram: https://instagram.com/jimanekia Support group: https://traumaqueen.love/support-group Tending The Garden: https://www.tendingthegarden.love  Survivor boxes: https://www.tendingthegarden.love/healing-box ***Join our Survivor Squad True Crime Podcasting Course!*** https://coaching.terranewellsurvival.com/ethical-true-crime-podcasting/ Survivor Squad Podcast links: https://linktr.ee/thesurvivorsqaud Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thesurvivorsquad • Terra's links: https://linktr.ee/terranewell  • Collier's links: https://collierlandry.com/links • Collier's Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-collier-landry-show/id1551076031 • Book a 1-on-1 with Terra for trauma/ toxic relationship coaching: https://calendly.com/terranewell91/15-minute-coaching-consult?month=2023-06  • Join Terra's Complementary Trauma Support Group: Every 1st and 3rd Monday 5:00 PM PT mailto: Terranewellcoaching@gmail.com   It's important to consider seeking support from a licensed mental health professional or support group. Talking to a trusted friend/family member can also be beneficial in overcoming trauma and its aftermath.  •Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ •Trauma-Recovery.org: https://trauma-recovery.org/ •American Psychological Association: https://www.apa.org/ •National Institute of Mental Health: https://www.nimh.nih.gov/index.shtml •National SA Hotline 1-800-656-4673 https://www.rainn.org/ •National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 https://www.thehotline.org/

Audience note: This is Part One of a Two-Part Episode. Jimanekia Eborn is a Queer Media Consultant, an esteemed Comprehensive Sex Educator, and a highly knowledgeable Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. With a Master's in Health Psychology and over 14 years of experience in mental health, she has dedicated her career to the fields of sex education and providing support to those affected by sexual trauma. In addition to her professional accomplishments, Jimanekia is also the esteemed host of the empowering podcast mini-series called "Trauma Queen," designed specifically for survivors of assault and their allies. This remarkable podcast aims to amplify voices from diverse communities and embark on a collective journey towards healing. Jimanekia is the visionary Founder of Tending The Garden, a transformative healing retreat exclusively tailored for survivors who have experienced marginalization. This retreat serves as a safe haven for survivors, offering them a space to heal, grow, and reclaim their power Jimanekia's extensive expertise, coupled with her passion for advocacy and healing, makes her an influential figure in the fields of trauma support, sex education, and marginalized survivor empowerment. Jimanekia's links: Website: https://traumaqueen.love Instagram: https://instagram.com/jimanekia Support group: https://traumaqueen.love/support-group Tending The Garden: https://www.tendingthegarden.love Survivor boxes: https://www.tendingthegarden.love/healing-box ***Join our Survivor Squad True Crime Podcasting Course!*** https://coaching.terranewellsurvival.com/ethical-true-crime-podcasting/ Survivor Squad Podcast links: https://linktr.ee/thesurvivorsqaud Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thesurvivorsquad • Terra's links: https://linktr.ee/terranewell  • Collier's links: https://collierlandry.com/links • Collier's Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-collier-landry-show/id1551076031 • Book a 1-on-1 with Terra for trauma/ toxic relationship coaching: https://calendly.com/terranewell91/15-minute-coaching-consult?month=2023-06  • Join Terra's Complementary Trauma Support Group: Every 1st and 3rd Monday 5:00 PM PT mailto: Terranewellcoaching@gmail.com   It's important to consider seeking support from a licensed mental health professional or support group. Talking to a trusted friend/family member can also be beneficial in overcoming trauma and its aftermath.  •Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ •Trauma-Recovery.org: https://trauma-recovery.org/ •American Psychological Association: https://www.apa.org/ •National Institute of Mental Health: https://www.nimh.nih.gov/index.shtml •National SA Hotline 1-800-656-4673 https://www.rainn.org/ •National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 https://www.thehotline.org/

TW: sexual assault, rape, trauma, conversation about murder (time stamp: 6:40-7:00), suicide (time stamp: 41:40-42:30), unconscious rape (time stamp: 51:00-55:30), self harm (time stamp: (1:15:45-1:20:00)Boy oh boy are y'all in for a treat. This week we have the incredible Jimanekia Eborn (she/her) to talk about the realities of sexual assault and intimacy after abuse. Jimanekia Eborn is a Queer, Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert, Trauma Media Consultant, and Comprehensive Sex Educator, who has worked in mental health for the past 13 years in sex education and sexual trauma support. Jimanekia is the Founder of Tending the Garden, a non-profit for sexual assault survivors of different marginalized identities, and Co-founder of Cintima, bringing increased representation to the field of Intimacy Coordination in the film industry.It was such an honor to chat with Jimanekia. Her work has played such a vital role in my healing and my ability to recognize my own trauma, and I can't say enough how thankful I am for her and her work.If you want to follow Jimanekia and support her, you can find her on IG @jimanekia and online here for all things podcast, retreats, support groups, classes, and more. You can also find her non-profit, Tending the Garden, on IG here and online here. She has also recently released a healing box subscription boxes through Tending the Garden which you can purchase here. Support the showMindful Minds is a podcast centered on mindfulness and intentionality. Fina is passionate about growing in her own life journey whilst actively unlearning what no longer has a space in her life. In every episode, she invites her listeners to do the same.Please rate us 5 stars and leave us a review! You can find all things Mindful Minds here. You can also follow us on Instagram (@mindfulmindspod) or on Tik Tok where I do a lot of deconstruction content (@fina__bina). Mindful Minds is owned and operated by Serafina. All content belongs to Serafina. Please feel free to contact us at mindfulmindspod@gmail.com for any and all questions, sponsorships, or guest requests!

Jimanekia Eborn, sex educator, trauma counselor, podcast host, and founder of non-profit Tending the Garden, shares the traumas she's experienced in her own life, what her healing journey has been like, and what led her to help others in her work. They discuss sex after trauma, going on self-dates to learn what you like (and don't like), the importance of communicating with your partner(s), and how to get out of your head and into your body. Learn more about Jimanekia's work helping marginalized survivors of sexual assault at tendingthegarden.love If you have experienced sexual assault and you need help or information, call the national sexual assault hotline at 1-800-656-4673, or visit RAINN.org Check out our great sponsors! Prose: Take your FREE in-depth hair consultation and get 15% off your first order at Prose.com/trust Babbel: Get up to 55% off your subscription when you go to Babbel.com/trust Got your own story about cults, extreme belief, or abuse of power? Leave a voicemail or text us at 347-86-TRUST (347-868-7878) OR shoot us an email at TrustMePod@gmail.com CHECK OUT OUR MERCH!! bit.ly/trustmemerch INSTAGRAM: @TrustMePodcast @oohlalola @meaganelizabeth11 TWITTER: @TrustMeCultPod @ohlalola @baberahamhicks TIKTOK: @TrustMeCultPodcast

CONTENT WARNINGS: Mentions of Murder, SA.Welcome to the sixth episode of our new series: The Life Of A Wrestling Fan, where we will be chatting with individuals with amazing careers in a wide variety of sectors who also happen to be wrestling fans! Jimanekia Eborn is a longtime wrestling fan who is also a Trauma Specialist, Sex Educator and has recently began working with AEW to provide therapy to their talent/roster. The duo discuss:Jimanekia's love of professional wrestling that started in the late 90's and what wrestlers/promotions keep her interested today.What prompted Jimanekia to begin her career as a trauma specialist, sex educator and the owner of Tending the Garden.How Jimanekia is able to provide mental health support to AEW talent and how this experience has treated her so far.Why mental health support and services are important in professional wrestling.Tending The Garden's latest endeavor, The Grounding Box, and what those receiving the box can expect.What self care and time management skills Jimanekia has incorporated in her busy life to remain successful.What advice Jimanekia would give to those looking to enter the trauma and sex education fields.Music- Prod. by Jay 808Logo Design- Joy Lin ArnessTwitter: www.twitter.com/wwdcastInstagram: www.instagram.com/wwdcastTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@wwdcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/wwdcast/Follow Jimanekia on Social Media!Twitter: https://twitter.com/Jimanekia Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jimanekia/

This week, we talk with the one and only Jimanekia Eborn about the journey to self love, the struggles that can come with loving yourself radically and why Girl Scout cookies should come in a multi-pack.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow our Guest - Jimanekia Eborn: Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Danielle talks with Jimanekia Eborn, a sexual assault & trauma expert and trauma media consultant. They discuss trauma-informed sex education, healing from trauma through different modalities, and what it means to be a trauma consultant for film and television productions. CW: sexual assault, rape, violence, and trauma. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den, Uberlube, Magic Wand, Future Method, and Freya. Get discounts on all of DB's favorite things here! --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb YouTube: Sex Ed with DB Twitter: @sexedwithdb Facebook: @edwithdb --- Want to get in touch with Sex Ed with DB? Email us at sexedwithdb@gmail.com. Want exclusive Sex Ed with DB content? Join DB's crew on Patreon. --- About Sex Ed with DB: Sex Ed with DB is a feminist podcast bringing you all the sex ed you never got through unique and entertaining storytelling, centering LGBTQ+ and BIPOC experts. We discuss topics such as birth control, pleasure, LGBTQ+ health and rights, abortion, consent, BDSM, sex and disabilitity, HIV, sex in the media, and more.  --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 Team: Creator, Host, Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) Co-Producer and Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen Co-Producer: Brian Peoples Social Media Intern: Sarah Kelly

Guest: Jimanekia Eborn, healer, sex educator, visionary Jimanekia Eborn joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about her work in sexual healing and education. She runs and is in the process of expanding the Tending the Garden retreat for sexual assault survivors. We talk healing and how various identities interact with the theraputic process. Then things get fun and we chat being bisexual, dating, and passion.   Social Media and Websites TraumaQueen.love @Jimanekia on Instagram and Twitter  

Jimanekia is the host of the podcast Trauma Queen, founder of Tending the Garden (a non-profit dedicated to sexual assault victims and their allies) and co-founder of Centaury Co, an intimacy coordinator group for TV and film. In this episode we talk about the definitions of trauma and triggers, self care practices and how to approach 'looking down there' when there has been trauma or assault. Oh...and we talk about wrestling. www.traumaqueen.love www.lookdownthere.com/the-show --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/look-down-there/support

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There are a lot of misconceptions and myths surrounding the LGBTQ+ community as a whole. In this episode, Dr Jackie is joined by Jimanekia Eborn, a Queer, Trauma Media Consultant, Comprehensive Sex Educator, and Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert, to discuss sex & gender misconceptions and issues faced by this community.  They talk through the different gender identities and what they mean, dispel common assumptions made by people outside of (or brand new to) the queer community, talk about sexual health and sexual trauma unique to LGBTQ+ folks, and so much more.  For those part of the LGBTQ+ community, or those looking to get a better understanding of issues queer individuals and communities face, this episode is a must-listen.   For those looking looking to connect with Jimanekia, or learn more about her Tending The Garden organization, a non-profit in service of sexual assault survivors of different marginalized identities, visit https://traumaqueen.love.   Connect with me on IG @therealdrjackie and check out my book THE QUEEN V for more sex, intimacy and down there health care tips!   Produced by Dear Media

Comprehensive Sex Educator and Trauma Expert Jimanekia Eborn joins Jameela this week to discuss Jimanekia's own journey with trauma, where the term "gaslight" originates, Jimanekia's work teaching children about consent and rejection, taking yourself on a date, finding your own boundaries, and more.  You can learn more about Jimanekia's work and the classes she offers at traumaqueen.loveYou can follow Jimanekia Eborn on Instagram and Twitter@jimanekia You can find transcripts for this episode on the Earwolf website. I Weigh has amazing merch - check it out at podswag.com Jameela is on Instagram and Twitter @Jameelajamil And make sure to check out I Weigh's Twitter, Instagram, and Youtube for more!  

When it comes to healing, the path is not linear. Whether you are are a survivor of sexual assault or have experienced trauma in your life, you are worthy to pursue wholeness and healing. It can be a hard road to find the right community to heal with, especially if you identify as part of a marginalized community. Prevalently, therapy and therapeutic services cater largely to one group, evidenced by the fact that approximately 86% of psychologists are white, and less than 2% of American Psychological Association members are African American, and for people in the LGBTQ+ community, the offerings are similarly limited. Our guest for this episode in the For the Love of You series believes that healing and help for trauma and abuse is for everyone. Jimanekia Eborn is a queer trauma media consultant, comprehensive sex educator, and a sexual assault and trauma expert. Her work lands at the intersection of healing and community for marginalized folks. Not only that, Jimanekia is a survivor herself, and talks about her experience with vulnerability and honesty, creating a welcoming and comforting atmosphere for her clients. Jen and Jimanekia talk through the boundaries that exist for marginalized communities as they seek out mental health care, how to help those closest to you after traumatic experiences, and why caring for ourselves allows us to care for others better.    Content Warning: A quick note for you listeners. This episode touches on sexual assault and sexual trauma, so it may not be suitable for young audiences or survivors on the path to healing.   * * *   Thank you to our sponsors!   ThirdLove | Get 20% off your first order at thirdlove.com/forthelove.    Betterhelp | Get 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/forthelove.  Rothy's | Get $20 off your first purchase at rothys.com/forthelove.

Jimanekia Eborn is a Queer, Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert, Trauma Media Consultant, and Comprehensive Sex Educator. She is the host of Trauma Queen - a podcast for survivors of assault and our allies. The podcast focuses on uplifting voices in all communities and exploring our collective journey to healing. Jimanekia is the Founder of Tending The Garden- a nonprofit in service of sexual assault survivors who have been marginalized, offering retreats, online summits, community and education. She is also the co-founder of Cintima, bringing increased representation to the field of Intimacy Coordination in the film industry. In 2021, Jimanekia joined Lenora Claire Consulting as a SA & trauma expert for film & television productions. Jimanekia has been working in mental health for over a decade with youth, adolescents, and adults. She has led trauma-informed comprehensive sex and sex toy workshops at multiple universities including Columbia University, Georgetown University, Colorado College and Rhodes College. She has been the keynote speaker at Princeton Women's History Month 2021, UCSB Women of Color Conference 2019, UNCC & UC Merced's Take Back the Night Events 2022. Jimanekia has been a featured panelist at the MAC Belfast, Soho House, San Diego University, Converge Con and GirlSchool LA. Her work as a sex educator has been featured in Marie Claire, Playboy, Cosmo, Mind Body Green, Well + Good, Nylon, and many more.

Jimanekia Eborn, trauma specialist and founder of Tending the Garden, joins us again to process her life story from the previous episode. After witnessing her mother's murder at age one, Jimanekia's inner child has had a lot of healing to do. But she candidly tells us that self-healing has not always been on the forefront of her mind. In her early years, many times, she admits to going off course down roads that led to more trauma for herself. Other times, through her work in the mental health industry, she has put another survivor's healing before her own. Regardless, she explains that she has always had the instinct to “make her mommy proud” and so both her self-healing and her vision for helping others has persevered. In this episode, we talk about everything from her unexpected connection to pro wrestling, her philosophy on the importance of positive destruction along with her desire to “fuck up and rebuild the sex ed community”, a rally cry that all three of us can get behind for the good of humankind. Finally, she fleshes out her vision for the future that includes continuing her crucial life's work with Tending the Garden. Please join us for another captivating episode of Open Deeply. About guest, Jimanekia Eborn: Jimanekia Eborn is a Queer Media Consultant, Comprehensive Sex Educator, and Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. With a Masters in Health Psychology, she has worked in mental health for the past 13 years in sex education and sexual trauma support. Jimanekia is the host of Trauma Queen - a podcast mini-series for survivors of assault and our allies, and the Founder of Tending the Garden, a healing retreat for survivors of assault of different marginalized identities. In 2020, Jimanekia co-founded Centaury Co., bringing increased representation to the field of Intimacy Coordination in the film industry. Where to find Jimanekia Eborn: Trauma Queen website https://traumaqueen.love/ Jimanekia's Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jimanekia/?hl=en Tending the Garden Website https://www.tendingthegarden.love/about-us Tending the Garden Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tendingthegarden.4.sas/ Where to find co-host Kate Loree: Website http://kateloree.com Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kateloreelmft Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree YouTube https://youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ Where to find co-host Sunny Megatron: Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk Open Deeply podcast is not therapy or a replacement for therapy. Please know this episode has themes of sexual and emotional abuse and neglect. If you catch yourself becoming emotionally overwhelmed by this episode's content, please get support. Call a friend, therapist, or an emotional support hotline, such as, 800-273-talk (8255).

Jimanekia Eborn, who refers to herself as a “child of trauma”, takes us on her powerful life journey from witnessing her mother being brutally murdered at the age of one to becoming an inspiring expert in the areas of sexual trauma support and sex education with a special love for helping those with marginalized identities. Her childhood included many struggles related to class, race, and bodily autonomy. By age twelve, she had already learned that Black bodies are commodified which contributed to her difficulties with internalized body shame and her choice to keep her sexual awakening very private. Despite never being kissed until age seventeen, college was a game changer. Here, she discovered the “power of her pussy”. She organically found non-monogamy and even experienced her first play party. After college, Jimanekia traversed the mental health field, finally finding her soul's love while holding space for sexual abuse survivors, helping them heal while concurrently educating on healthy, shame free sex. Please join us for this amazing episode of Open Deeply. Episode Links: Information on EMDR: https://www.emdria.org/about-emdr-therapy/ Information on somatic psychotherapy: https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-somatic-therapy-can-help-patients-suffering-from-psychological-trauma#1 Information on parts work therapy: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapy-types/internal-family-systems-therapy Resources for abuse survivors: RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Male Survivor https://malesurvivor.org/about-malesurvivor/ National Sexual Violence Resource Center https://www.nsvrc.org/ About guest, Jimanekia Eborn: Jimanekia Eborn is a Queer Media Consultant, Comprehensive Sex Educator, and Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. With a Masters in Health Psychology, she has worked in mental health for the past 13 years in sex education and sexual trauma support. Jimanekia is the host of Trauma Queen - a podcast mini-series for survivors of assault and our allies, and the Founder of Tending the Garden, a healing retreat for survivors of assault of different marginalized identities. In 2020, Jimanekia co-founded Centaury Co., bringing increased representation to the field of Intimacy Coordination in the film industry. Where to find Jimanekia Eborn: Trauma Queen website https://traumaqueen.love/ Jimanekia's Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jimanekia/?hl=en Tending the Garden Website https://www.tendingthegarden.love/about-us Tending the Garden Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tendingthegarden.4.sas/ Where to find co-host Kate Loree: Website http://kateloree.com Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kateloreelmft Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree YouTube https://youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ Where to find co-host Sunny Megatron: Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk Open Deeply podcast is not therapy or a replacement for therapy. Please know this episode has themes of sexual and emotional abuse and neglect. If you catch yourself becoming emotionally overwhelmed by this episode's content, please get support. Call a friend, therapist, or an emotional support hotline, such as, 800-273-talk (8255).

Seniors Katarina Watson and Courtney Smith connect with Jimanekia Eborn in the second episode of SAPE Speaks. Jimanekia is a queer media consultant, comprehensive sex educator, and sexual assault and trauma expert. Katarina, Courtney, and Jimanekia explore activism and survivorship, how to navigate relationships after trauma, and how to best implement trauma-informed practices. We will continue to have these crucial conversations in Jimanekia's SAPE-hosted workshop, “Moving from Ally to Accomplice: Self-Preservation in Survivor Activism,” on April 21st at 3:30 PM EST. Make sure to register for the event now at https://tinyurl.com/allytoaccompliceevent. If you want to learn more about the work that SAPE is doing, check out @gu_sape on Instagram and georgetownSAPE on Facebook. For immediate assistance, to talk to someone, or learn more about how to help a friend, please check out Georgetown Sexual Misconduct Resource Center. The website consolidates all the confidential, semi-confidential and nonconfidential resources that are available to Georgetown University students. It also provides information about the process of reporting an incident of sexual misconduct. Additionally, if you or someone you know have concerns relating to sexual assault, relationship violence, and stalking, the Sexual Assault Response Prevention team has several experienced clinicians who you can confidentially talk to. Please email sarp@georgetown.edu to reach a confidential clinician. Transcript.

On our fifth episode, our host and Jimanekia speak about trauma. It is important that if you listen you take care of yourself while ingesting this information, these topics are deeply personal, and although important to address and witness, proceed with care! Jimanekia's Website and booking information: https://traumaqueen.love/ This episode is Ad-free, want to advertise with us? Contact Us: admin@mathmagazine.com @mathmagazinepod

(Trigger Warning: murder mention, sexual violence) Taylor is joined by Jimanekia trauma specialist and sex educator on this week’s episode. They explore the collective trauma and exhaustion many of us are feeling. They get real about the intersections of trauma and how to begin your healing journey. Jimanekia shares her personal story and how she is working to find pleasure and worthiness for herself and others. Jimanekia also shares why she loves wrestling so much! This episode is a gem; don’t miss it! Let’s Talk About It Podcast Instagram Taylor’s Instagram 30 second Listener Survey Jimanekia’s Instagram Jimanekia’s Website Feed the Streets Instagram Healing Intersections Website Tending the Garden Website Jimanekia’s Podcast Jimanekia’s Venmo: queengem Jimanekia’s CashApp: $queengem58 Jimanekia’s PayPal: Jimanekia@sogem.com More podcasts on WAVE!

(CW: Sexual Trauma) The Broads are joined by Jimanekia Eborn (aka Trauma Queen) for a Part 2 of the “Answering Sex & Relationship Questions” from the #broadsquad! They have some reality TV tangential moments, chat about the amazing things Jimanekia is currently doing and then dive into sex/dating relationship chats (00:08:00). They discuss dating yourself during the current times, lube necessities, sex with vaginismus, partners who won’t go down, learning your points of comfort when it comes to pleasure, partner check ins,dealing with intrusive thoughts during sex, tips to being more confident in bed, and much more! JIMANEKIA EBORN: WEBSITE: Traumaqueen.love   IG @Jimanekia   Intimacy consulting: www.centaury.co  IG: Centaury.CO Healing Intersections: Healingintersections.com IG: @HealingIntersections Feed the streets IG LA: @feedthestreets_la  Feed the streets IG NY: @feedthestreets_NY  ALSO: For the sex worker support program has an Amazon wishlist: Amazon Custom Gift List First Chatty Broads EP with Jimanekia: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/98-trauma-queen-jimanekia-eborn/id1441571050?i=1000457222761 THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: ***JENNI KAYNE: Go to JENNIKAYNE.COM and use code CHATTY at checkout for 15% off! ***THRIVE MARKET: Get 25% off your first order AND an exclusive FREE gift by going to  THRIVEMARKET.COM/CHATTY ***BEST FIENDS:Download Best Fiends FREE today on the Apple App Store or Google Play! ***FEALS: Go to FEALS.COM/CHATTY and you’ll get 50% off your first order with free shipping! ***STAMPS.COM:Get a 4-week trial PLUS free postage and a digital scale by going to stamps.com and clicking on the microphone at the top of the homepage and type in CHATTY FOLLOW CHATTY BROADS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chattybroads/ Bekah: https://www.instagram.com/bekah/ Jess: https://www.instagram.com/thebaddmom/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCzx2N1qxFObhvSvf9tp7ayQ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

IN this episode Jimanekia aka the Trauma Queen. Sits down with the two humans that have helped her curate her dream of Tending The Garden. We also talk about why the retreat didn't happen this year. What we are looking forward to and so much more. You can find out more about info at TendingTheGarden.Love FUNDRAISING: Tending The Garden | IFundWomen Dan Owens-Reid: IG: @danowensmgmt Twitter: @danowensmgmt Jessie Yamasaki: IG: @_01101010__ @jreiphoto Online Therapy - www.betterhelp.com/queen ACCESSIBILITY - Link to Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1y167RdecMkza20R1YWvYKTaieS-GGWGhYJAu9YfPda8/edit?usp=sharing --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/traumaqueen/support

IN this episode Jimanekia aka the Trauma Queen. Sits down with one of her business partners, to share with you about Healing Intersections I wanted to introduce you to Angie Gunn (SHE/HER) as well as give you an idea of what we are creating. And how you can work with us. You can find out more about info at HealingIntersections.Com links to articles: Angie Gunn - Sex Therapist - Portland, OR | YourTango Experts Social Media: Angie: Trauma-Informed Therapy | Connective Therapy Collective | Portland,HealingIntersections.com, @healingintersections Jimanekia: TraumaQueen.love, @jimanekia Transcript: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1KDed2bQ9DgX1DnlwQOC8P6GJsmqCY6heziW5v0PoBpA/edit?usp=sharing --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/traumaqueen/support

IN this episode Jimanekia aka the Trauma Queen. Sits down with some of her business partners, to share with you about CENTAURY.CO. I wanted to introduce you to Mia Schachter(THEY/THEM) & Yehuda(He/Him/They/Them) as well as give you an idea of what we are creating. And how you can work with us. You can find out more about info at Centaury.Co. links to articles: Lena Waithe & Mia Schachter Talk Intimacy Coordination (refinery29.com) Hillman Grad Productions Commits To Use Of Intimacy Coordinators – Deadline How Lena Waithe’s Hillman Grad Prod. plans to keep actors safe on set : TheGrio Social Media: MIA: Share the Load. - Mia Schachter (sharetheloadinc.com), @ConsentWizard Yehuda:Yehuda Duenyas (xxxyehuda.com) ,@xxxy_1 Jimanekia: TraumaQueen.love, @jimanekia Transcript: https://docs.google.com/document/d/19AZDgfM5SrzA9U7mf4w71LaUJQB4OlhbxdbFN3Rge7w/edit?usp=sharing --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/traumaqueen/support

Jimanekia, the one and only Trauma Queen, and I talk about self care plans, putting together care pods, and running a business. Jimanekia is a co-founding member of Centaury Co., our Intimacy Coordination training program. You can find her on Instagram @jimanekia and you can find her podcast Trauma Queen wherever you get your podcasts.

Hey #shiftshapers, come and expand! Join us for episode 16 of Shaping the Shift: Expanding Our Trauma with our special guest, Jimanekia Eborn!⁣ ⁣ Jimanekia (@jimanekia) has worked in mental health for over a decade and saw the need for more assistance in sexual trauma support for survivors of assault and comprehension sex education - partnering with multiple support groups. Jimanekia is passionate about creating safe spaces to reclaim our joy and playfulness. Among her other roles, she's now an Intimacy Coordinator collaborating with Lena Waithe on future projects. Connect with Jimanekia through her Instagram and website www.traumaqueen.love We want to be mindful not to cause harm within our community and encourage you to tune into this episode when you are ready, as it does explore layers of sexual trauma. Please take care while listening. www.shapingtheshift.com    

EPISODE ORIGINALLY DROPPED ON NOVEMBER 19, 2019 (TRIGGER WARNING: Sexual violence and trauma are discussed) The Broads sit down with the incredible Jimanekia aka Trauma Queen aka Queer Media Consultant, Comprehensive Sex Educator, and Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. They discuss how Jimanekia found her passion in this area, consent, boundaries, helping survivors, the current “system”, Jimanekia’s upcoming retreat “Tending the Garden”for sexual assault survivors who identify as femmes of color, and much more.  MORE JIMANEKIA:  Jimanekia's Site: https://traumaqueen.love/ Jimanekia's Socials: Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/jimanekia/) // Twitter (https://twitter.com/Jimanekia) Link to donate: https://www.effing.org/support_tending_the_garden Links to the application-- Paid Application Link (https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdW6bb57GgGGNYpia3qds6k7KfdwbKMTGnBn5xKDUGI7W-Q_A/viewform) & Scholarship Application Link (https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScyzJOx_MW5FSrOQiDRpm7yBgpN-SfM9zOwVNCSfxnJZ8Of_A/viewform)

Jimanekia Eborn is a Queer Media Consultant, Comprehensive Sex Educator, and Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. She is the host of Trauma Queen - a podcast mini-series for survivors of assault and their allies. The podcast focuses on uplifting voices in all communities and exploring our collective journey to healing. Jimanekia is also the Founder Continue Reading…

Jimanekia, Sex educator and Trauma Specialist joins Pro Hoe Founder Penda N'diaye to discuss how Boundaries are sexy, commodification of Black voices on social media, interracial relationships and more. Plus, Jimanekia address unlearning sexual shame, and her advocacy for kink and BDSM as a means of finding community and releasing fear of judgment. Follow Jimanekia on social: @jimanekiaSupport her retreat, Tending the Garden here: https://ifundwomen.com/projects/tending-the-garden See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Jimanekia Eborn is a Queer Media Consultant, Comprehensive Sex Educator, and Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. She is the host of Trauma Queen - a podcast mini-series for survivors of assault and their allies. The podcast focuses on uplifting voices in all communities and exploring our collective journey to healing. Jimanekia is also the Founder Continue Reading…

This week, Raya is joined via phone by Jimanekia Eborn AKA The Trauma Queen, who has worked in the mental health field for 12 years, specializing in sexual education and sexual trauma support. Raya and Jimanekia define trauma as being more than just physical and how it can affect every type of relationship. Jimanekia also explains how to navigate your sexuality and future relationships after a traumatic event. Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at ‪(424) 245-5102 or email her at WTGFYPodcast@Gmail.com and you might hear your call/email on the next episode! For more Raya on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

(TRIGGER WARNING: Sexual violence and trauma are discussed) The Broads sit down with the incredible Jimanekia aka Trauma Queen aka Queer Media Consultant, Comprehensive Sex Educator, and Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. They discuss how Jimanekia found her passion in this area, consent, boundaries, helping survivors, the current “system”, Jimanekia’s upcoming retreat “Tending the Garden”for sexual assault survivors who identify as femmes of color, and much more.  MORE JIMANEKIA:  Link to donate: https://www.effing.org/support_tending_the_garden Links to the application-- Paid Application Link (https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdW6bb57GgGGNYpia3qds6k7KfdwbKMTGnBn5xKDUGI7W-Q_A/viewform) & Scholarship Application Link (https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScyzJOx_MW5FSrOQiDRpm7yBgpN-SfM9zOwVNCSfxnJZ8Of_A/viewform) Main Event Page (locked until the 20th) https://www.imiloainstitute.com/tending-the-garden-apr-1-6-2020/  Jimanekia's Site: https://traumaqueen.love/ Jimanekia's Socials: Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/jimanekia/) // Twitter (https://twitter.com/Jimanekia) THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS:  ***PRETTY LITTER: Go to prettylitter.com and use promo code CHATTY for 20% off your first order! ***LOLA: For 30% off your first month’s subscription, visit mylola.com and enter CHATTY30 when you subscribe! ***STANCE: LISTENERS GET A FREE PAIR OF SOCKS WITH THEIR NEXT ORDER BY GOING TO STANCE.COM/CHATTY  ***OMAX OSHOT: Go to omaxhealth.com and enter code “chatty” to get 20% off O-Shot and all OMAX products sitewide!

Jimanekia Eborn is a Queer Media Consultant, Comprehensive Sex Educator, and Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. She is the host of Trauma Queen - a podcast mini-series for survivors of assault and our allies. The podcast focuses on uplifting voices in all communities and exploring our collective journey to healing. Jimanekia has worked in mental health for the last 10 years, which is where she saw the need for sexual education and sexual trauma support. This has led to her passion for assisting and supporting those that are sexual assault survivors and those without access to comprehensive sex education. Her compassion and passion for these populations has pushed her to continue building safe spaces for clientele, sharing education, and supporting their mental spaces.

Ev’Yan chats with comprehensive sex educator and trauma expert, Jimanekia Eborn, about sexual trauma and healing. Jimanekia speaks truth about the ways trauma shows up in our lives, the importance of knowing your triggers, and how to find compassion for yourself as you respond to being triggered. The advice in this conversation gives the healing and affirmation everyone needs—no matter where you are in your sexual liberation journey.Other things they discuss: Jimanekia’s personal journey to becoming a sex educator and trauma expert; how to adequately support survivors as both a friend and a lover; the difference between an accomplice and an ally; and some words of encouragement and love to survivors that will provoke healing.Click here for show notes + a transcript of this episodeTo revisit old episodes and keep the TSLW thriving, go to sexuallyliberatedwoman.com.You can find more about Ev'Yan and her work at evyanwhitney.com. Follow her on Instagram: @evyan.whitney.. . .CREDITSMusic: Otis MacDonald and Comfort FitEditing help: Samantha RidellCover photo: Celeste NocheDesign: Bianca Ng See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

On episode 84 of American Sex Podcast, you’re a fly on the wall during a candid conversation between Dirty Lola, Jimanekia Eborn & Sunny Megatron. What started as a twitter debate opened the door to a much larger, systemic issue in both the sex ed community and the world at large. We examine what happens when our well-meaning feminist activism leads way to paternalism, savior complexes, and intersectionality that’s more of a buzzword than something that’s widely understood. We touch on performative allyship vs being an accomplice, when it’s appropriate to speak up on issues affecting marginalized communities and when “stay in your lane” applies, how anti-blackness rears its head even in the most liberal communities, and more. Take a deep breath, listeners, there’s a lot to unpack in this episode.   Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 84 Links Jimanekia Eborn Website: https://traumaqueen.love/ Jimanekia EbornInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jimanekia/ Jimanekia Eborn Kink Kit The Art of Healing Box: http://bit.ly/HealingQueen Dirty Lola Instagram https://www.instagram.com/dirtylola/ Dirty Lola Twitter https://twitter.com/dirtylola?lang=en To book Lola for workshops, bachelorette parties or her infamously funny and educational Sex Ed A Go-Go send requests to Lola@SexEdAGoGo.com Dirty Lola’s “Dirty Loladex” aka Twitter list of marginalized Sex Educators you should be following https://twitter.com/DirtyLola/lists/the-dirty-loladex/members Dirty Lola's tweet thread mentioned in this discussion  https://twitter.com/DirtyLola/status/1113078814932963329 Jimanekia's tweet thread mentioned in this discussion https://twitter.com/Jimanekia/status/1113552797478219776 Sunny's tweet thread mentioned in this discussion https://twitter.com/SunnyMegatron/status/1112847630076268544 Episode 70 of American Sex Podcast about Sex Toys http://sunnymegatron.com/how-to-choose-the-best-sex-toy-podcast/ Our upcoming “Proud American Fucker” merch design: https://www.instagram.com/p/BvwaWfIhuwl/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We’re sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 84 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get your FREE birth control prescription delivered to your door from Simple Health -- go to http://simplehealth.com/SUNNY  or enter the code SUNNY at checkout   CalExotics Instagram giveaway (ends 4/26/2018) https://www.instagram.com/p/BvsyuR8hc4R/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed

Welcome to Season 3 of horizontal! This is the podcast of intimacies recorded while reclining.   It’s still Slow Radio. It’s still consensual eavesdropping. It’s still us lying down, sharing secrets, in your ears. But while the first two seasons had me lying down with only one person at a time, season three will often add another guest to my pillow.   I’ll be lying down with people who are in some kind of relationship with one another. And I intend to encompass as many types of human relationships as I can. They might be friends, family members, teammates, mentors and acolytes, business partners, lovers, exes, metamours, co-parents… You know what this means, right? That’s right: This season is going to be a Lila sandwich.   My first two guests of Season 3, Dan and Jimanekia are a manager and her client, as well as friends.   Jimanekia is a Sex Educator, Queer media consultant, Sexual Assault expert, and Trauma Specialist. She is widely-studied and deeply-informed. Her work comes from the well of her own transformations, her personal navigation through profound pain and culture shock after culture shock, and the fierce desire to protect others from suffering at the intersection of sexual assault, race, class, privilege, and trauma.   She is the host of the podcast Trauma Queen, a mini-series about healing for assault survivors and their allies. She speaks with survivors, therapists, partners, educators, and experts. Her podcast a gift to the world, a resource for survivors and those who love them, and, everyone with a beating heart, really, with each episode providing actionable, practical steps. She teaches without teaching, educates without educating. You’ll see. Find Jimanekia on her website Traumaqueen.love and you can follow her on Twitter and Instagram @Jimanekia.   Dan — also known as Dannielle — Owens is a queer Femmeboy activist, and Jimanekia’s manager. Dannielle also manages two other previous horizontal guests, Stevie Boebi, the go-to lesbian sexpert on YouTube, episodes 42 & 43, and Meghan Tonjes, singer-songwriter and accidental leader of the booty revolution, episodes 24 & 25. Dan uses the pronouns he/him as well as she/her, interchangeably. Let me model how that might go for you:   He is the CEO of genderfluid clothing label & inclusive marketplace Radimo, which plays with gender the way I love to see gender played with, and focuses on directly supporting clothing made by queer, trans, black, POC, plus-size humans, women, and disabled small business owners. Radimo’s pieces are modeled by folx with different body types, skin tones, and gender identities. You can find the whole line on the website Radimo.LA … She engages in all sorts of glorious gender fuckery, on Instagram with the handle @boygodking , on YouTube as Dannielle Owens-Reid, and her forthcoming book, “From One Cult To The Next,” is a memoir about ending toxic relationships and the healing thereafter.   Many of you know that all the part twos of each episode are available exclusively to patrons of $5 a month and up. I’ve revamped my Patreon tiers with shiny new perks, and the upgrades will all go into effect next Friday, April 12th, alongside the release of part two of my conversation with Dan & Jimanekia. If you become a patron of $5 a month in the next seven days, you will be grandfathered in with access to The Full Horizontal, and my gratitude for being an early patron of the horizontal arts!   After April 12th, the first tier of patronage will be $10 a month, and it will include: access to all the part twos & the secret patrons Facebook group with behind-the-scenes access, along with a monthly video with curated intimacy tips! If you adore the love poem of the month, fret not, O patron my patron, it will be part of the video! The perks for $25, $50, and $100 a month are even more delectable, and include my favorite new perk, in which I will plan a monthly date for you! With yourself or with a friend or a family member or a lover. Check Patreon.com/horizontalwithlila for all the saucy details.   I’m also running a sweet little special offer. If you become a $10/month patron by the end of April, I’ll send you a handwritten thank you love note and a bit of horizontal swag (maybe a magnet, maybe a bumper sticker, maybe something else) in the actual MAIL. Sigh! I still Love getting mail as much as I did when I used to send bedazzled letters back and forth with my friend from summer camp in 1995. Also, I’ve been told that my handwriting is “ridiculous,” “astonishing,” and “like a font!” These are actual reviews, with no exaggeration.   In this first part of this episode with Dan and Jim, we tell our origin stories, which include loneliness, divorce, cancer, sex-positivity, intimacy, braces, bio dads and adoptive dads, relocating 10 times by the age of 9, latchkey kids, alcoholism, bipolar disorder / intervention, manipulation, therapy PTSD / advice columns, gaslighting, inclusivity, gender neutrality / queerness, microaggressions, racism, sluthood, LGBTQIA in the black community, rape, eating disorders, being an empath, burnout, sex ed   ….and how we came to possess our superpowers.   We cover a lot of ground in this one. We’d better get into it.   Come lie down with us in Los Angeles, California.   ***   Chad Michael Snavely has edited every horizontal episode since the beginning of Season 2. He’s a podcast impresario, and you can find his whole body of work on chadmichael.com. Alan Markley composed the intro music, and he’s busy being a rock star on Instagram as plasticcannons. Shana Shay created my saucy cover art, and you can hire her on 99 Designs.   Next week’s episode, part two of my episode with Dan and Jimanekia, in which we dig into their relationship with each other, is available exclusively to patrons of the horizontal arts. Remember that if you’d like access to The Full Horizontal for $5/month, you’ll need to become a patron before April 12th, next Friday. And if you become a $10/month patron before the end of April, I’ll send you a handwritten thank you love note in my glorious handwriting, plus a bit of horizontal swag!   Until next week: may you have someone (or someones) to love, something to do, and so many things to look forward to.

This episode is the beginning of a mini-cluster or mini-arc that will conclude season three of Secret Feminist Agenda. The coming episodes will focus on other feminist podcasters and/or public scholars, starting with this week’s incredible guest, Jimanekia Eborn, creator and host of the podcast Trauma Queen. We talk about podcasting, sex education, respecting your guests, … Continue reading Episode 3.24 Trauma Queen with Jimanekia Eborn

Ep.165- Here's my interview with one of the contributors in my consent book, The Consent Guidebook (www.TheConsentGuidebook.com), Trauma and Sexuality Coach Jimanekia Eborn. We chat about how the conversation around consent has a generational element, how caring about consent will set you up to win in relationships, and more! About Jimanekia: Jimanekia Eborn is a Sex Educator with a decade of experience in mental health work. Her focus within sexual education is teaching adolescents sexual education via More Than Sex-ED and though private classes, consultations, media appearances, and more. She's also the Director of Education for a nonprofit called More Than 'NO.' She is based in Los Angeles, California. SEWJim is expanding to all offer consulting for television, books, and film on the context & representation of sexual trauma, as well as sexual education. After years of watching cringe-worthy representations of survivors & sexuality in television, she wants to push forth a true narrative through this avenue and support the creative process.

The first episode of Trauma Queen with special guest Manager Dan(@Boygodking)! We discuss what you can expect from the very first season of Trauma Queen and why Jimanekia decided to start the show. It's time for survivors of assault to be heard and to be given a platform for us all to heal together. www.traumaqueen.love Online Therapy - www.pridecounseling.com/queen www.unboundbabes.com Use the code: TRAUMAQUEEN for 15% off ! ACCESSIBILITY - Link to Transcription: bit.ly/TQTemiDan --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/traumaqueen/support

Jimanekia Eborn takes a heavy subject and makes it feel like a breath of fresh air. Overcoming sexual trauma can be incredibly difficult. Jimanekia tells us about her journey of healing from her own trauma and the work she now does with other survivors*. She also discusses the ways in which people of color can experience trauma differently and why. This episode is jam-packed with ideas for working through trauma, helping friends and partners heal, and includes (low cost!) therapy resources. Sunny takes a vow for some much-needed self-care plus Ken & Sunny confess their love for watching Dr. Miami perform surgery on Snapchat. *Episode contains detailed accounts of sexual assault and partner abuse. It also mentions childhood sexual assault.          Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999Sunny & Ken, xo! _____________________________________ Episode 49 Links Jimanekia Eborn Twitter twitter.com/jimanekia Jimanekia Eborn Instagram  instagram.com/jimanekia Jimanekia Eborn Website sewjim.com Better Help http://tryonlinetherapy.com/jimanekia (You fill out a survey and get matched with a therapist who understands your experience within 24 hours. Costs as low as $30 a month. You can talk via skype, texting, phone, etc.) Juicebox https://www.juiceboxit.com/ Use promo code JIMANEKIA to get 60% off your first week Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) $100 off Midori’s Forte Femme July (New York) or August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny http://www.fortefemme.com/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching!) adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Episode 49 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Pretty Love Ford clitoral silicone stimulator giveaway ($69 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

Jimanekia Eborn is a Sex Educator, as well as director of Education at More Than No. Her work in the mental health field for 10+ years revealed a need for more sexual education and sexual trauma support. Also, being a survivor inspired her passion for assisting and supporting those that are sexual assault survivors and/or without access to comprehensive sex education. Learn more about her offerings at sewjim.com.