Helpful topics where we discuss dating, communication, complexities of relationships, style, social norms, and topics related to allies and LGBTQ+ humans.
Fitness Program 18, 17, 16 days left (LAWS# 19,20,21)
Fitness 21/20/19 Days Left (LAWS # 16/17/18)
Menstrual cycles, PMS, weight rambling: Fitness Program (23 days left and 22 days left- LAW #14 #15)Discussing some experiences with menstrual cycles, some potential gains with healthy eating and decreased PMS symptoms, maintaining gains lately, problem solving areas affecting my plans and routines.
25 and 24 days left- LAW #12 #13 (Fitness Program)
Fitness Program (26 days left- LAW # 11 sleep)
Fitness Program (Days 28 and 27 left- LAWS # 9+10
Fitness Program (29 days left- LAW # 8 surprise your muscles). Keeping the muscles engaged in a variety of types of movements and creating a new element can lead to more growth.
Fitness Program 30 days left (LAW #7- lift fast)
Fitness Program (31 days left- LAW #6 Go Slowly). Well, things are going well. The tracking is helpful. I need to fine tune and plan out some of my working out according to the caloric intake. I am still fine tuning and waiting for the upcoming "30 days left" so I can have a 30 day workout streak for the rest of this experience. At this point I am thinking more about strategies to combat heavy snacking, munchies, caffeine crashes, fatigue, skipping workouts or having too many distractions.
Fitness Program (32 days left- LAW #5 Muscle Growth & Consistency). I talk about my own journey of times when I was most or least consistent, what I noticed with depression and insomnia in those times, and what I noticed about my energy, focus, and mood as well as just general intellectual abilities. How I am doing with tracking meals, eating healthier ingredients, deciding about which fitness routines to use for caloric deficits versus caloric surpluses.
Fitness Program (33 days left- LAW #4)Woops! I had accidentally stated that this was "34 days remaining." It is actually 33 days remaining. So far I am honing in on tracking. I definitely need to improve my sleep.
Fitness Program (34 days left LAW #3)
Fitness Program (35 days left LAW #1- bulking formula
Fitness Program (36 days left- bulking)
Fitness Program (38 day countdown)“Winners Only” by Matthew Davies:
My Queer Dreams (airport & shower)Magazine Link “Dirty Dyke”'https://www.instagram.com/dirtydykemagazine?igsh=MXR0Zm1kanZvbWEyaQ==My queer dreams: airport & showerI was somewhere like a park with a trampoline talking to a queer friend. I got notice back that a magazine was looking for interviews. I had talked to them previously and they were responding back to me in person while at this park. I was there with a straight friend as well as a queer friend. The straight friend had previously needed a ride to the airport, to which we had went, and they some reason didn't need to go after all. So we were doing a combo of driving, talking, listening to music and going between this park. Eventually they needed the ride again and we had about 20 mins before we needed to leave the area. So I dropped by somewhere that looked similar to my place as far as the dining area and living room. But there were 2 showers near the area of the layout where there in reality is 1. I went to the main one and the water pressure kept turning off. Then the second shower worked. But was only cold water. My folks were in the living room with my dad complaining about something. My friend who needed the ride was waiting outside the bathroom area for me. I could overhear my family in the other room.
Venting About Straight Homophobic Friends (is LGBT+ queer representation infringing on straight privilege?) I've referenced this Queer Collective podcast episode #128 from YouTube (before watching it)https://youtu.be/Ea5aKc9c_VY?si=E07g6cKKWbEgrDNF so I'm hoping it's relevant based on only seeing their intro thus far. But I want to talk about some of the conversations I've been in with straight friends. 99% of my straight friends are allies and are amazing, maybe they don't know everything BUT WHO DOES! I'm not talking about those people. I'm talking about the people who consider themselves friends but don't think that LGBT people should have rights equal to their own straight rights. That queer people should not be able to do or say or act similarly to how straight people act (ex. PDAs, song lyrics, casts of shows and movies, reading materials, multi media, dress-codes, and more). These straights don't necessarily state that they are prejudice, or homophobic, and are not willing to see different perspectives. They tend to land on trying to quote texts of religions, religions that they themselves do not even follow, from books that they don't follow any other teachings. And even don't follow the teachings within the same page of texts that they quote. I call this hypocritical. But overall the bigger issue is the flaw of the human mind. We ALL experience discomfort with challenging our own views. Which is why I invalidate these straight opinions. I can see that they speak from their own experiences. But also if they are the majority with more privilege, the weight of their rules and preferences gain more distance than that of a gay minority. These are the bigger psychological and political issues.
Anti LGBT Policies, Bans (Reading Comments)
LGBT Leather and BDSM culture under attack (anti-LGBT policies and homophobia on mainstream platforms)
Censorship of Gay Content (anti-LGBT platforms)
Torrance 1st Annual Pride Experience (Los Angeles County, California, New pride events)Shop EBay: (Thorn Bloom Pride 2025 T-Shirts). https://ebay.us/m/gRj3Ru (50 cents of all profits go to the Torrance LGBT+ Center in Los Angeles County, California)Blog: Tomboyofficial.blogspot.comIG: TomboyOfficialig
Homophobic Platforms (boycott YouTube, boycott Google, they are homophobic)Shop EBay: (Thorn Bloom Pride 2025 T-Shirts) https://ebay.us/m/gRj3Ru (50 cents of all profits go to the Torrance LGBT+ Center in Los Angeles County, California)Blog: Tomboyofficial.blogspot.comIG: TomboyOfficialig
My General Social Experiences Lately (how I'm spending my time today)Shop EBay: (Thorn Bloom Pride 2025 T-Shirts) https://ebay.us/m/gRj3Ru (50 cents of all profits go to the Torrance LGBT+ Center in Los Angeles County, California)Blog: Tomboyofficial.blogspot.comIG: TomboyOfficialig
Messages from a homophobic transphobic dude (is this homophobic?)
Are People Secretly More Hateful Lately? (Pride Bootcamp, KNOW propaganda online). Encouraging people to think for themselves. Mind control to create hatred and negative mental states.
Pride Bootcamp (anxiety and goal avoidance, intro to emotional defenses)
Pride bootcamp (changing lifestyle patterns, queer high holidays days)
Politics and Conclave and Religion (LGBT stuff)
Side gig $ goals per week, Pride planning
Will I go to a Meetup? Trying to change my fitness and eating habits (various topics and updates)
More about Yentl (second discussion of the movie, gender and sexuality topics)Check out Theory and Theology on Spotify if you want some other religious context
Yentl- the movie (spoiler alert, synopsis begins at minute 30)Movie link: https://youtu.be/oGjPhV2Hn_I?si=Rr470_pOamR7XigRThis is the first part and I'll post the more niche second part right afterwards. If you want the second part created for other noches, the email to message me for the link will be provided at the start of the second part. Enjoy!!
Seeing Progress (my life hacks, tracking, data)
Lunar Eclipse March 2025 and Queer Socializing Thoughts
I have homophobic and anti Semitic friends! (Prejudice, non aligned values)Are there answers for how to deal with this? I value love, peace, compassion and authenticity. That is already a very difficult battle. Do I stay friends with prejudice people? Do I keep extending a hand when I feel like they don't recognize their own hate? Do I call it out? Do I ignore it?
How I am Deleting Everybody, No More Politics (topic starts near 38min, is it possible to practice values in a culture with opposite values?)
LGBT Friendly Ramadan 2025 Virtual meet and Quran Study (Los Angeles Based)Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/iqracommunity
Ramadan of Last Year 2024 Recap Story and New Ramadan 2025 (Brainstorming and Experiences)
When your family finds your gay content!
Homophobic Social Media Fakes (Calling Out Inactive Incels)
Approaching Political Differences (managing and repairing relationships as a queer person)
My Queer Dreams- the ski trip & the restaurant (+ some talk about LGBT content creators and platform censorship and visibility)
MY QUEER DREAMS “Masc clothing and the Old School” & WEIRD DREAM 2 other dreams
Human Rights vs. Current President vs. Religion
Internet!? Information Control, Disconnecting, Addiction (nice long rambling)Talking some more about censorship, about some hesitations for posting content, experiences in past religion where mainstream media was more limited. What constitutes addiction with internet and social media?
LA Fires hang in there fellow Angelinos (volunteering, views of poverty vs wealth, self care)
I love you LA.Talking about the fires and the pride we have for LA. We love our city. Please get to safety.
Alternative waste to meet dates, and stories
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