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    • May 26, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
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    Pride Bootcamp (anxiety and goal avoidance, intro to emotional defenses)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2025 71:28


    Pride Bootcamp (anxiety and goal avoidance, intro to emotional defenses)

    Pride bootcamp (changing lifestyle patterns, queer high holy days)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2025 64:48


    Pride bootcamp (changing lifestyle patterns, queer high holidays days)

    Politics and Conclave and Religion (LGBT stuff)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 90:00


    Politics and Conclave and Religion (LGBT stuff)

    Side gig $ goals per week, Pride planning

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2025 26:53


    Side gig $ goals per week, Pride planning

    Will I go to a Meetup? Trying to change my fitness and eating (various updates)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2025 43:34


    Will I go to a Meetup? Trying to change my fitness and eating habits (various topics and updates)

    More about Yentl (second discussion of the movie, gender and sexuality topics)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2025 65:19


    More about Yentl (second discussion of the movie, gender and sexuality topics)Check out Theory and Theology on Spotify if you want some other religious context

    Yentl- the movie (spoiler alert, synopsis begins at minute 30)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2025 93:49


    Yentl- the movie (spoiler alert, synopsis begins at minute 30)Movie link: https://youtu.be/oGjPhV2Hn_I?si=Rr470_pOamR7XigRThis is the first part and I'll post the more niche second part right afterwards. If you want the second part created for other noches, the email to message me for the link will be provided at the start of the second part. Enjoy!!

    Seeing Progress (my life hacks, tracking, data)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2025 75:17


    Seeing Progress (my life hacks, tracking, data)

    Lunar Eclipse March 2025 and Queer Socializing Thoughts

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2025 28:00


    Lunar Eclipse March 2025 and Queer Socializing Thoughts

    I have homophobic and anti semitic friends! (Prejudice, non aligned values)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2025 68:44


    I have homophobic and anti Semitic friends! (Prejudice, non aligned values)Are there answers for how to deal with this? I value love, peace, compassion and authenticity. That is already a very difficult battle. Do I stay friends with prejudice people? Do I keep extending a hand when I feel like they don't recognize their own hate? Do I call it out? Do I ignore it?

    How I am Deleting Everybody, No More Politics (topic starts @ 38mins, values in a opposite culture)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2025 86:57


    How I am Deleting Everybody, No More Politics (topic starts near 38min, is it possible to practice values in a culture with opposite values?)

    LGBT Friendly Ramadan 2025 Virtual meet and Quran Study (Los Angeles Based)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2025 0:16


    LGBT Friendly Ramadan 2025 Virtual meet and Quran Study (Los Angeles Based)Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/iqracommunity

    Happy Ramadan 2025! Ramadan of Last Year 2024 Recap Story and New Ramadan 2025.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2025 104:22


    Ramadan of Last Year 2024 Recap Story and New Ramadan 2025 (Brainstorming and Experiences)

    When your family finds your gay content online!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2025 55:34


    When your family finds your gay content!

    Homophobic Social Media Fakes (Calling Out Inactive Incels)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2025 68:35


    Homophobic Social Media Fakes (Calling Out Inactive Incels)

    Approaching Political Differences (managing and repairing relationships as a queer person)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2025 95:58


    Approaching Political Differences (managing and repairing relationships as a queer person)

    My Queer Dreams- the ski trip & the restaurant (+ some talk about platform censorship of LGBTQ+)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2025 47:23


    My Queer Dreams- the ski trip & the restaurant (+ some talk about LGBT content creators and platform censorship and visibility)

    MY QUEER DREAMS- Masc Clothing and the Old School (& a weird dream & 2 other dreams)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2025 52:57


    MY QUEER DREAMS “Masc clothing and the Old School” & WEIRD DREAM 2 other dreams

    My Queer Dreams- the Instagram plan

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2025 33:04


    My Queer Dreams- the Instagram plan

    Human Rights vs. Current President vs. Religion

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2025 88:59


    Human Rights vs. Current President vs. Religion

    Internet?! Information Control, Disconnecting, Addiction (nice long rambling)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2025 78:08


    Internet!? Information Control, Disconnecting, Addiction (nice long rambling)Talking some more about censorship, about some hesitations for posting content, experiences in past religion where mainstream media was more limited. What constitutes addiction with internet and social media?

    LA Fires, go back, belongings

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2025 66:04


    LA Fires, go back, belongings

    LA Fires hang in there fellow Angelinos (volunteering, views of poverty vs wealth, self care)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2025 92:40


    LA Fires hang in there fellow Angelinos (volunteering, views of poverty vs wealth, self care)

    LA Fires

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2025 46:47


    I love you LA.Talking about the fires and the pride we have for LA. We love our city. Please get to safety.

    Alternative ways to meet dates, and stories

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2025 118:17


    Alternative waste to meet dates, and stories

    Happy 2025! Happy Imani! Happy Kwanzaa and Hanukkah!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 2025 13:28


    Happy 2025! Happy Imani! Happy Kwanzaa and Hanukkah!

    HAPPY Holidays 2024

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 25, 2024 15:11


    Happy holidays

    Dating and Anxiety (Communication on Dating Apps, Queer Social Life Series Continued)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2024 34:48


    Dating and Anxiety (Communication and Understanding Patterns on dating apps, Queer Social Life Series Continued)Dating and anxietyPatterns- communication, schedules, routines.

    Queer Social Life and The Choice to NOT Come Out (Let's talk about this other option)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2024 68:32


    Queer Social Life and The Choice to NOT Come Out of the Closet (let's talk about this other option)

    Queer Social Life and the impact of positive energy of others

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2024 32:28


    Queer Social Life and the impact of positive energy of others

    Queer Social Life and holiday meet ups

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2024 29:20


    Queer Social Life and holiday meet ups

    Queer Social Life and asking out a date

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2024 40:30


    Queer Social Life and asking out a date. I have asked someone out. We have been speaking for about a week. Let us see how or if we even meet and how things might unfold.

    Queer Social Life and Dating Apps Update

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2024 33:48


    Queer Social Life and Dating Apps Update. Some new experiences with an online dating app. Talking about some old journal entries and short stories from my past.

    Queer and Socializing

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2024 62:43


    Queer and socializing. Social life as an LGBT person. And general thoughts around American social interactions.

    Coping with The Trump (2024 general election)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2024 33:28


    Coping with The Trump (2024 general election)

    Queer Dating- attunement to help attunement

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2024 42:25


    Queer Dating- attunement to help attunement

    My queer dreams- the weather adventure

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2024 11:29


    My queer dreams- the weather adventure

    My queer dreams- Queer work dorms

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2024 6:49


    My queer dreams- Queer work dorms

    Dating- What Do You Bring to the Table?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2024 86:34


    Dating- What Do You Bring to the Table?

    My Queer Dreams: The Poetry Bar

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2024 27:18


    My Queer Dreams: The Poetry Bar

    Columbus Day, Indigenous People's Day, General Human Rights (Some Related Thoughts)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2024 38:42


    Columbus Day, Indigenous People's Day, General Human Rights (Some Related Thoughts)

    Reflection (health, breaks, rest, recovering)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2024 49:37


    Reflection (health, breaks, rest, recovering)

    Coping with Ego & Career

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2024 81:39


    Coping with Ego & Career. Some ideas about why people might remain in unhealthy work spaces, self-doubt, reflections, goals, and economy.

    Writing projects and pod plans brainstorms (rambling)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2024 102:57


    Writing projects and pod plans brainstorms (rambling). TIMSTAMPS (sorta...) 0-intro what I'm up to in general17min- ramble on social media and ads28min- brainstorming ideas and telling stories

    My Queer Dreams (the pop up rave crush)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2024 15:10


    My Queer Dreams (the pop up rave crush). Part of the My Queer Dreams series. I have been recording what I can remember of any dreams that contain queer themes. Enjoy! And check out the others if you haven't already.

    Tidbits on Religion and Communication (quickie and Some about dating apps, but more to continue on that topic in the future)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2024 24:52


    Tidbits on Religion and Communication (quickie and Some about dating apps, but more to continue on that topic in the future)

    Religion and Dating

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2024 91:19


    Religion and Dating

    "Just One Of The Guys" (Movie; SPOILER) Gender Movie Review

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2024 98:52


    *SPOILER ALERT (see timestamps and movie link below) TIMESTAMPS (approximately): 0-9 minutes: rambling 9-37 mins: SPOILER! movie review 37+ mins: my opinions MOVIE LINK: "JUST ONE OF THE GUYS" https://youtu.be/xUWQ6RfjUwQ?si=GWBnX3g4azFlkggH CURRENTLY FREE ON YOUTUBE (this may change as yt often changes their free status on movies.

    Authenticity In Relationships (friendships, subcultures)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2024 79:57


    Authenticity In Relationships (friendships, subcultures)

    Attracting Others (also some ramble about work and career path updates)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2024 45:30


    Attracting Others (also some ramble about work and career path updates)

    Gay Dating and Potential Deal Breakers

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2024 83:23


    Gay Dating and Potential Deal Breakers

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