Dirty Chai Chats is a podcast series all about sexual health, love, and relationships at Tufts. This podcast was founded and produced by Florence Almeda and Giovana Torres-Lorenzotti in collaboration with the Tufts Observer and Tufts Sex Health Reps (SHR)
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Join reps Sophie and Audrey for part two of their two-part miniseries exploring the ethics and standards of the porn industry. From its history to its role in sex education and societal stigmas, they dive into what makes porn 'ethical' and why it matters. Don't miss this thought-provoking and informative conversation! This episode was produced by Sophie Carpenter and Audrey Maloy, edited by Elizabeth Gallop, and transcribed by Laila Azari.Access the fully transcribed episode here.To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps, visit:SHR InstagramSHR LinktreeMake an appointment at the CARE Office
Join Reps Myles, Jordyn, Manek, Tea, Poppy, and Jerrica as they recap some of the top-voted anonymous stories submitted at this year's Smut Slam! From a daddy kink taken way too literally to an unexpectedly slippery situation, to a golden shower gone... medically wrong, we're diving headfirst into the messy, the wild, and the downright iconic.This episode was produced by Myles Silsby, Jordyn Monk, and Manek Khedia, featuring Chamomile Kovacik, Jerrica Bellagosi, and Penelope Orchard, edited by Audrey Maloy, and transcribed by Elizabeth Gallop. Access the Fully Transcribed Episode HereTo learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps, visit:SHR InstagramSHR LinktreeMake an appointment at the CARE Office
Join reps Sophie and Audrey for part one of a two-part miniseries exploring the ethics and standards of the porn industry. From its history to its role in sex education and societal stigmas, they dive into what makes porn 'ethical' and why it matters. Don't miss this thought-provoking and informative conversation!This episode was produced by Sophie Carpenter and Audrey Maloy, edited by Laila Azari, and transcribed by Sophie Carpenter.Access the fully transcribed episode here.To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps, visit:SHR InstagramSHR LinktreeMake an appointment at the CARE Office
It's Trans Day of Visibility, and Tea, Ashton, Dom, and Jordyn are here to celebrate with plenty of tangents, hot takes, and maybe a little oversharing. What does TDOV mean to us? Who knows, because we got distracted halfway through. Grab a drink and join us for a messy, hilarious, and very on-brand conversation.This episode was produced by Dominic Balise, Ashton Gerber, Chamomile Kovacik, and Jordyn Monk. This episode was edited by Alma Mark-Fong and Jordyn Monk and transcribed by Jordyn Monk.Access the fully transcribed episode hereTo learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps, visit:SHR InstagramSHR LinktreeMake an appointment with the CARE Office
Reps Tea and Alma travel to Hubba Hubba near Central Square to pick up some prizes, showcased by Laila and Elizabeth as a sneak peek to kick off Sex Health Week 2025!This episode was produced by Alma Mark-Fong, Chamomile Kovacik, and Jordyn Monk. This episode was edited by Elizabeth Gallop, and transcribed by Jordyn Monk.Access the fully transcribed episode hereHubba Hubba InstagramTo learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps, visit:SHR InstagramSHR LinktreeMake an appointment with the CARE Office
Reps Ashton and Caroline sit down with Tufts assistant professor and licensed clinical psychologist Dr. Eileen Crehan to explore the intersections of sex education and autism.This episode was produced by Ashton Gerber, Caroline Lever, and Dr. Eileen Crehan. This episode was edited by Audrey Maloy, and transcribed by Sophie Carpenter.Access the fully transcribed episode hereDr. Crehans research websiteTufts Diverse Minds InstagramTufts Disability Queers InstagramTo learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps, visit:SHR InstagramSHR LinktreeMake an appointment at the CARE Office
In the final episode of the semester, Reps Elizabeth and Caroline get a crash course in pelvic floor therapy from Board Certified pelvic floor therapist Dr. Julianna Allen. This episode was produced by Elizabeth Gallop, Caroline Lever, and Dr. Julianna Allen. This episode was edited by Elizabeth Gallop and transcribed by Caroline Lever. Access the fully transcribed episode here. Dr. Julianna Allen's Website OMGYes To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps, visit: SHR Instagram SHR Linktree Make an appointment at the CARE Office
Reps Jordyn and Caroline continue their discussion with bondage experts Mr. R and Arby, diving into topics like finding community, the challenges of defining BDSM, and bottom erasure. This episode was produced by Jordyn Monk, Caroline Lever, Mr. R, and Arby. This episode was edited by Audrey Maloy, and transcribed by Caroline Lever. Access the fully transcribed episode. List of resources mentioned in the episode Bondage N' Boston Instagram Bondage N' Boston Website To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps, visit: SHR Instagram SHR Linktree To lear more about Tufts CARE Office, visit: CARE Website CARE Instagram
Reps Manek, Jordyn, Kidest, and Kelly share their experiences navigating dating and relationships in predominantly white spaces. They chat about cultural influences, family expectations, stereotypes, and how race can impact connections and perceptions. This episode was produced by Manek Khedia, Jordyn Monk, Kidest Hailu, Kelly Jimenez, and Caroline Lever. This episode was edited by Manek Khedia and transcribed by Sophie Carpenter. Access the fully transcribed episode. To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps, visit: SHR Instagram SHR Linktree
In the first episode of a two part series, Reps Jordyn and Caroline interview two kink experts from Bondage n' Boston about the misconceptions and basics of rope and bondage! This episode was produced by Caroline Lever, Jordyn Monk, Mr. R, and Arby. This episode was edited by Caroline Lever and transcribed by Elizabeth Gallop. Access the fully transcribed episode. Bondage n' Boston Instagram Bondage n' Boston Website List of resources mentioned in episode To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps, visit: SHR Instagram SHR Linktree
In this episode of Sexy Sips, Sex Health Reps Sophie and Audrey chat with Green Dot Co-Coordinator Reilly about consent, boundaries, and planning for a safe and fun Halloweekend. *EDIT* Green Dot does not "approve" parties. Green Dot provides trainings for campus groups and gives these groups literal green dots to write Sober Monitors' phone numbers on to hang up at parties. This does not mean the parties are approved; it just means that the campus group hosting the party has been trained by Green Dot in the past few years. This episode was produced by Caroline Lever, Audrey Maloy, Sophie Carpenter, and Reilly Uiterwyk. This episode was edited by Caroline Lever and transcribed by Sophie Carpenter. Access the fully transcribed episode. To learn more about Green Dot, visit: Green Dot Instagram To learn more about Sex Health Reps, visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's Linktree
In this episode, Sex Health Rep Kara interviews Lauren Kourabas from Fenway Health's Violence Recovery Program to discuss the queer intersections of intimate partner violence, as well as resources and healing for queer survivors. This episode was created in honor of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and as such, contains discussion of intimate partner violence. Listen with care. All resources mentioned will be linked below. This episode was produced by Kara Moquin, Lauren Kourabas, and Caroline Lever. This episode was edited and transcribed by Caroline Lever. Fenway Health Violence Recovery Program The Network La Red Tufts CARE Resources List Access fully transcribed episode To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps visit: SHR Instagram SHR LinkTree Join our E-List
In this episode of Sexy Sips, Sex Health Rep Manek gives recommendations for movies, books, and TV shows to watch over the summer. All recommendations come from the reps and either accurately portray love/sex/relationships/etc. or have a message about these topics. This episode was produced, edited, and transcribed by Manek Khedia. Access the fully transcribed link. To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's Linktree Join Our E-list
In this episode of Sexy Sips, in collaboration with THREAD (Tufts Harm Reduction Education for Alcohol and Drugs), Sex Health Rep Jerrica explores cannasexuality, or the use of cannbis during sexual experiences. Special thanks to Laura Michelson from THREAD for providing resources, her voice, and her support on this episode. This episode was produced by Jerrica Arnett This episode was edited by Manek Khedia. This episode was transcribed by Jerrica Arnett. Access the fully transcribed episode here. To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's Linktree Join Our E-list
Happy Sex Health Week! In this very special video episode of Sexy Sips, Sex Health Reps Audrey, Jerrica, Manek, Zora, Caroline, and Sophie rate sex playlists on Spotify, discuss relationships/dating/hookup experiences at Tufts, and unbox some very unique sex toys! This episode was produced by Audrey Maloy, Jerrica Arnett, Manek Khedia, Zora Dyer, Caroline Lever, and Sophie Carpenter. This episode was edited by Manek Khedia. This episode was transcribed by Jerrica Arnett. Access the fully transcribed episode here. To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's Linktree Join Our E-list
Happy Sex Health Week! In this episode of Sexy Sips, listen to the Sex Health Reps narrate our craziest, steamiest, most wild submissions for Smut Slam 2024! Vote for your favorite story using the Q&A option on Spotify. Here are the stories by name and in order, comment your favorite one! Story 1: HOW MANY YEARS??? Story 2: New Allergy Unlocked Story 3: Mindblowing Head Story 4: Colombian Lover Story 5: Cocky Guy Story 6: Three's a Crowd Story 7: Parisian Lover Story 8: A Halloween Fuck(?)-Up Story 9: Family Ties This episode was produced by Audrey Maloy, Caroline Lever, Alexander Fial, Myles Silsby, Chamomile Kovacik, and Mikey Cox. This episode was edited by Audrey Maloy. This episode was transcribed by Sophie Carpenter. Access the fully transcribed episode here. To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's Linktree Join Our E-list
In this episode of Sexy Sips, Sex Health Reps Caroline and Sophie discuss Valentine's Day in all of it's glory, including anonymous storytelling and conversations about juicy history, holiday commercialization, and more! This episode was produced by Caroline Lever and Sophie Carpenter. This episode was edited by Caroline Lever. This episode was transcribed by Sophie Carpenter. Access the fully transcribed episode here. To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's Linktree Join Our E-list
In this episode of Sexy Sips, listen to Sex Health Reps Manek and Caroline taste test aphrodisiacs and tell you all about them - in ASMR! This episode was produced by Manek Khedia and Caroline Lever. This episode was edited by Caroline Lever. This episode was transcribed by Kara Moquin. Access the fully transcribed episode here. To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's Linktree Join Our E-list
In this episode of Sexy Sips, listen to Sex Health Reps Audrey and Tess discuss the origin of love languages and talk about their experiences with them and the influence of the book "The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate" by Gary Chapman. This episode was produced by Audrey Maloy and Tess Kaplan. This episode was edited by Audrey Maloy. This episode was transcribed by Hana Kebede. Access the fully transcribed episode here. To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's Linktree Join Our E-list
In this episode, we will unravel the history of prostitution in the Middle Ages. We will cover a broad scope of history from the 1100s to the late 1700s. More specifically, we will be exploring the religious foundation of prostitution, its legal framework, and its role in society. While prostitution varied among European countries and cities, we will discuss some general themes with specific historical examples. Access the fully transcribed episode here. This episode was produced by Gio Torres-Lorenzotti and Hana Kebede. This episode was edited by Gio Torres-Lorenzotti This episode was transcribed by Hana Kebede. To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's Linktree Join Our E-list
Welcome back to Sexy Sips! In the first episode of Season 6, we have SHR rep Manek and some guest students discussing the way religion has impacted the way they view and have experienced intimacy, sex education, relationships, and more. This episode was produced and edited by Manek Khedia. This episode was transcribed by Hana Kebede. Access the fully transcribed episode here. To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's Linktree Join Our E-list
In this episode Reps Mikey and Audrey conduct a Q&A with Emma Cohen, CARE Associate Prevention & Response Specialist, about the different resources on the Tufts campus for Sexual Assault Awareness Month. This episode was produced by Mikey Cox, and Audrey Maloy, Emma Cohen, and Julia Gonzalez. This episode was edited and transcribed by Mikey Cox and Audrey Maloy. Access the fully transcribed episode here To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's linktree Join Our E-list
BIPOC SHR reps Manek, Isha, Kaitlyn and Jinnie chat about all things love, relationships, sex, and more all in the context of being and growing up as a person of color-- following up the BIPOC Sexy Sips discussion event with their own discussion! This episode was produced by Manek Khedia, Kaitlyn Taliaferro, Isha Mayor, and Jinnie Mannion. This episode was edited and transcribed by Audrey Maloy. Access the fully transcribed episode here To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's linktree Join Our E-list
In this very special VIDEO EPISODE of Sexy Sips, Sex Health Reps Julia, Manek, Kaitlyn, and Zora get together to celebrate SHR's Sex Health Week! In this video, the reps read and react to Reddit ‘Am I the Asshole?' stories about sex and relationships, play a sexy trivia game, and answer your questions in a Q&A! This episode was produced by Julia Gonzalez, Manek Khedia, Kaitlyn Taliaferro, and Zora Dyer. This episode was edited by Julia Gonzalez, and transcribed by Audrey Maloy. Access the fully transcribed Video Here To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's linktree Join Our E-list
In this episode of season five of Sexy Sips, Sex Health Rep Zora chats with Sex Health Reps Julia and Kaitlyn to talk all things sex and taboos! We discuss the meaning of a taboo, how do taboos come into place in our society, and how we can reframe our thinking and experience in the face of societal shame! In this chatty episode, taboos discussed include: making noises, "vanilla" sex, BDSM and power play, anal sex, "size matters" for folks with penises, and more! This episode was produced by Zora Dyer, Julia Gonzalez, and Kaitlyn Taliaferro. This episode was edited by Julia Gonzalez, and transcribed by Manek Khedia. Access the Full Transcribed Episode Here Link to Luna Matatas Sex and Pleasure Communication and Safety Resources To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's linktree Join Our E-list
In this first episode of season five of Sexy Sips, Sex Health Rep Julia sits down with Certified Nurse Midwife and Women's Health Nurse Practitioner, Robin Watkins, and Director of Public Policy, Tara Mancini, from Power to Decide, a national non-profit with the mission to advance sexual and reproductive well-being for all. In this interview full of important information and resources, topics of discussion include: options for unplanned pregnancy, abortion access and procedure, policy on abortion and reproductive health care access, and tips and resources for young people making decisions about their own reproductive health and wellbeing. About Robin Watkins and Tara Mancini Resources Mentioned in the Episode: All-Options is a toll-free talk-line that provides unconditional, judgment-free support for people in all of their decisions, feelings, and experiences with pregnancy, parenting, abortion, and adoption. AbortionFinder.org features the most comprehensive directory of trusted (and verified) abortion service providers and assistance resources in the United States. judicialbypasswiki.ifwhenhow.org from If/When/How has information about for abortion seekers who are under 18 years old on parental involvement laws by state and how to get a judicial bypass. Child Welfare Information Gateway provides information for expectant parents, birth parents, and relatives on adoption planning, finding an adoption agency or lawyer, maintaining connections with children who are adopted, and the emotional impact of adoption. Pregnancy information from the March of Dimes This Resource from ACOG contains information about how to identify a crisis pregnancy center. Article from Bedsider about the difference between EC, birth control pills, and medication abortion. This episode of Sexy Sips was produced and edited by Julia Gonzalez. Click Here to Access a Full Transcript of the Episode To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps, Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's linktree Join Our E-list
In this mini teaser of season five of SHR's Podcast with its new name, SEXY SIPS, we discuss the changes we've made to our podcast for the upcoming semester, why we decided to make them, and how we plan to move forward with our new name. We also talk about some exciting new episodes in the works. Join us as we dive into our new journey together! This teaser episode of Sexy Sips was produced and edited by Gio Torres-Lorenzotti and Julia Gonalez. Click For Full Transcribed Episode Available Here To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps, Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's linktree Join Our E-list
In the last episode of season four of Dirty Chai Chats, “Finger Lickin' Lubes”, Sex Health Reps Mikey and Sofie chat about different types of personal lubricant and how and why they're used. Besides a little lube education, they will dabble in ASMR and taste test some Sliquid brand flavored lubes. Whether you're a lube connoisseur or checking it out for the first time, this episode is sure to provide some insight. So come join us, let's get lubed up, and let the fun begin! This episode of Dirty Chai Chats was produced by Mikey Cox and Sofie Lasko. This episode was edited by Mikey Cox. Click Here to Access a Full Transcript of The Episode To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's linktree Join Our E-list
Modern dating can be so weird! Join SHR reps Jaden and Zora in a casual talk about dating apps, hookups, and more! This episode of Dirty Chai Chats was edited by Sex Health Rep Julia To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's linktree Join Our E-list
In this episode, Sex Health Rep Gio dives into the application of queer theory as it is applied to sex work and the presence of gender roles. Some of the questions explored are what is sex work? How are gender roles portrayed in the industry? What does any of this have to do with queer theory? Join Gio as they discuss these questions rooted in academic research and will serve as their final project for Sarah Luna's class: Queer Anthropology. This episode of Dirty Chai Chats was produced and edited by Gio Torres-Lorenzotti Visit Sara Luna's Tufts Faculty Page Here To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps, Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's linktree Join Our E-list
In collaboration with AMPT (Association of Mixed People at Tufts), join Sex Health Rep Jessica and three special guests from AMPT: Kailani, Ian, and Alex, to talk about the intersections of being mixed race/ethnicity/culture with sex, dating, and love! Learn about our identity crises, differing attitudes of sex in a multicultural households, interracial dating, fetishization, and more. This episode of Dirty Chai Chats was produced and edited by Sex Health Rep Jessica. To learn more about AMPT: Follow us on Instagram @ampt.tufts Join our E-list here to be updated about our events, discussions, and bondings! Check out our linktree! To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's linktree Join Our E-list
In this episode of Dirty Chai Chats, join sex health rep Henry in discussing and debriefing the history of HIV and AIDS. Once labeled the “gay disease,” HIV/AIDS fundamentally changes how we look at queer sex health of present. He'll dive into the politics of HIV/AIDS, how the legacy of the virus impacts modern queer life, and the basics of HIV prevention.
In this Dirty Chai Chats episode, "Make Me CUM!", join sex health reps Zora, Julia, Gio, and Sofie in a round table conversation on sexual exploration, pleasure, and the struggle for orgasm for people with vulvas. Our recent Hump Day question inspired this episode, "I'm a cis woman. I can orgasm alone, no problem, but I always struggle when I'm with a partner. What can I do?" Topics include factors in arousal, performance anxiety, masturbation, the pleasure gap, and tips and tricks. Please note that this episode focuses primarily on the experiences of cis women. This episode was produced by Zora Dyer, Gio Torres-Lorenzotti, Sofie Lasko, and Julia Gonzalez. This episode was edited by Julia Gonzalez. To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's linktree Join Our E-list
As a part of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we're welcoming back Emma Cohen, Associate Prevention and Response Specialist with the CARE office. She's here talking with one of our reps Lucy Morison about what relationship violence looks like in young adult relationships, what to watch out for, and where you can go if you need help. The CARE office is an amazing Tufts resource — you can reach out to them if you want to talk about an experience in an unhealthy relationship, or anything to do with sex and/or relationships. This episode was produced by Lucy Morison and Paige Duff, and edited by Gio Torres-Lorenzotti. To make a confidential appointment with CARE, click here: To access the Power and Control wheel, click here: To access the Equality Wheel, click here: *CONTENT WARNING: This episode will be discussing domestic violence.*
In collaboration with the Latinx Center, Sex Health Rep Julia González chats with 4 special guests: Audrey, Liani Astacio, Alan Veloz, and Angel Cruz-Salvador, to celebrate Latine Heritage month and have an open conversation about sex, love, and relationships in the Latine community. Topics include dating while latine, queerness, fetishization, family dynamics and gender roles, and more. This episode was edited by Sex Health Rep Jessica Lomasney. . . To learn more about the Latinx Center visit: Latinx Center Student Life Website Tufts Latinx Center Instagram Tufts Latinx Center linktree To learn more about Tufts Sex Health Reps Visit: Sex Health Reps Instagram SHR's linktree Join Our E-list
In part one, Polyamorist expert Dr. Eli Sheff discussed what polyamory and nonmonogamy are on a foundational level. In the second part of this episode, Dri. Eli Sheff delves deeper into polyamory. Some of the questions that are explored in this episode are: Can anyone mold themselves into a polyamorous relationship? If an individual is in a long-term relationship, how can they go about negotiating the terms of their monogamy? Is there a way to determine how well we bond with others? ------------- Learn more about Dr. Eli Sheff and her work linked below! Linktree Bonding Project Sheff Consulting Website Psychology Today Blog Twitter Facebook
What is polyamory? What distinguishes polyamory from other practices of nonmonogamy? How does one go about navigating relationships shifting from monogamy to polyamory? Leading polyamorist expert Dr. Eli Sheff delves into these questions to establish a foundation of polyamory and practices of nonmonogamy and how individuals can explore this in their own life. Tune in next week for part two of this conversation. Learn more about Dr. Eli Sheff and her work linked below! Dr. Eli Sheff's Consulting Website Linktree Psychology Today Blog Bonding Project Twitter Facebook LinkedIn
Casey is back with the final episode of the Sex & Disability Miniseries. Today, they share a conversation with Jennifer Cook, best-selling author and autism expert on Netflix's Love on the Spectrum. They talk about navigating college and dating with autism, supporting friends and partners who are on the spectrum, and coaching strategies from the show. Content warning: this episode does include mention of eating disorders, sexual violence, and abusive relationships. Here are links to all the resources discussed in the podcast, and feel free to visit the CARE office in the Campus Center to check out Jennifer's books: The Asperkid's Secret Book of Social Rules, Sisterhood of the Spectrum, and Autism in Heels. Jennifer's Instagram Jennifer's Website The Chicklist Checklist Here is a link to the full transcript for this episode.
Casey is back to share an excellent conversation with Frank Vaca, an ELEVATUS peer educator and support coordinator for the Michigan Disability Rights Coalition. In this episode, we talk about sexual self-advocacy, the overlap of queerness and neurodivergence, and strategies for inclusive peer education. Check out Frank's website and the resources/organizations discussed in the podcast: Frank's Blog Michigan Disability Rights Coalition End Abuse of People with Disabilities @able.tufts on Instagram @tuftsdiverseminds on Instagram @crehanlab on Instagram Massachusetts Advocates Standing Strong Rainbow Groups Here is a link to the full transcript for this episode.
CARE summer intern Casey Weaver shares an incredible conversation with Katherine McLaughlin, the founder and CEO of Elevatus Training, an organization that creates and delivers sex education curriculum to people with intellectual and developmental disabilities. In this informative episode, Katherine speaks from her 25 years of experience as a sexuality educator and provides personal anecdotes, giving insight on increasing social media accessibility and dismantling ableism within our culture of dating, hookups, and sex ed. Here are some resources Katherine mentions in the podcast: ELEVATUS Training Podcast: Cripping Up Sex with Eva Disability After Dark Plain Language Checklist Here is a link to the full transcript for this episode.
Outgoing co-host Flo Almeda and Sex Health Rep Nikki Peters share a wonderful conversation Justine Ang Fonte, M.Ed, MPH, an internationally recognized intersectional sex health educator, speaker, consultant — and creator of an instagram account called @_good.byes_ in which she writes and posts scripts for how to respectfully set boundaries within relationships. In this episode, Justine talks about the evolution of this account, trends she's seen around boundary setting in the digital age, and more. Be sure to follow Justine's work on IG: @imjustineaf, her ghostwriting account, @_good.byes_ and her website https://www.justinefonte.com/
As part of sexual assault awareness month, we have invited Emma, Associate Prevention and Response Specialist from the CARE office, to discuss navigating sex with triggers. To learn more about this topic, you can head over to CARE's Instagram @CARETUFTS and read their post on “Navigating Sex With Triggers.” The CARE office is an excellent confidential resource to talk about sex and relationships, whether around a sexual experience, assault, or concerns about a relationship, and learn more about this topic. To make a confidential appointment with CARE, you can head over to: https://care.tufts.edu/ *Content warning: This episode will discuss the topic of sexual assault and triggers.*
What is Grindr? How does it work differently than other dating apps? What things should I consider during and while using the app? Sex Health Rep Henry delves deeper into protecting your safety and well-being while using Grindr. You can check out SHR's recent Sexy Saturday post on this topic by going to our Instagram @TuftsSHR
What is aftercare? Why is it important? How can I practice aftercare? Inspired by a recent “Sexy Saturday” post on SHR's Instagram, Tess delves into these questions surrounding aftercare. To read this Sexy Saturday, visit SHR's Instagram page @TUFTSSHR
Have you ever wondered what it is like to go to a local sex shop? In this week's episode, Sex Health Reps Julia, Nikki, Tess, Sofie, Gio, and Flo, take a field trip to Good Vibrations in Harvard Square. Tasked to explore different sections of the store, they came back to the studio to reflect upon the accessibility, selection, and price ranges in the shop.
What are the five different love languages? What do I do if I have a different love language than my partner? In this episode, Gio, one of SHR's coordinators, explores how to navigate conflicting love languages with useful tips and examples.
The topic of long-distance relationships (LDR) is one that Sex Health Reps get asked about frequently. As Tufts is now on winter break and people may be studying abroad during the spring semester, there could not be a better time to try and tackle LDR. In this episode, Julia, Zora, Hana, and Gio share valuable strategies to navigate some of the difficult things that come up in a LDR.
In Episode 2, Gio and Flo take apart their friend's dating profile.
In our first episode of the semester, Gio and Flo invite Sex Health Reps Maeve and John for a lively round table discussion on dating apps. We discuss our takes on our personal favorites, what we think different apps are used for and why, and our experiences using them on a college campus.
In the final episode of the first season of Dirty Chai Chats, Gio & Flo dive into their personal experiences of navigating relationships during the pandemic. From the idea of the “bubble” to dating apps, to campus hookup culture and testing, they touch upon several ways in which this year has reshaped the way in which we communicate and relate to one another.
In Part 1 of the Relationships and Dating During Covid episode, Gio & Flo answer questions about from our listeners about coming up with creative, Covid-safe date ideas, managing fears, and coping with loneliness. Stay tuned for Part 2 where we will be talking about our personal experiences navigating relationships in the time of Covid.