Heartbreak State of Mind

This episode we welcome a new guest to the pod. Delving into their past of  cheating, toxic relationships, and balancing independence and being a homemaker.Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/jeff-kaale/moonlitLicense code: 0BT4CG7IQBSKIKX5

This episode the crew breakdown being a good friend to a not-so-good friend, different ways in which friends can provide support, growing and evolving together, and the importance of reciprocity in friendships.Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/all-good-folks/summertime-jamLicense code: QZZIX0DAHA3XSAG7

In this packed episode the crew explores,  recognition and appreciation of fathers on Father's Day,  trust, jealousy, the challenges of navigating relationships in blended families,  men's mental health and the challenges they face in expressing their emotions. Delayed episode.Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/avbe/night-in-kyotoLicense code: FKFSFKTTPRRSRGJ7

This episode the team discuss the viral clip of a man calling a woman a liability and explore what makes a partner a liability. They touch on topics such as maturity, career paths, financial stability, and the capacity to teach and lead.  They also touch on the challenges of addressing triggers and traumas in relationships, and the importance of clear communication. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/jeff-kaale/moonlitLicense code: 0BT4CG7IQBSKIKX5

In this episode, the Kennedy shares a story about her experience with a Taurus man and how he ruined her birthday. The hosts then discuss the appropriate gifts to give in a dating relationship, disappointing gifts, lack of effort, and the cost of the gifts. They then delve into the legal troubles surrounding Diddy, including allegations of sexual misconduct and settlements. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/pecan-pie/evening-kissesLicense code: APBCL8ZNUG0IKJ4M

In this episode, the hosts catch up after a long break and discuss whether it is acceptable to keep money secret from a partner and explore the implications of financial transparency in a relationship. The changing perception of marriage in society is discussed, as well as the shared responsibility and the fantasy versus the realities of marriage. The conversation concludes with insights on self-reflection and personal growth in a relationship and strategies for dealing with defensive partners.Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/jeff-kaale/moonlitLicense code: 0BT4CG7IQBSKIKX5

Should you be refunded for a missed date? How do you feel about your partner communicating with past flames? Is it appropriate for the step parent to interfere with the biological parent relationship? 

Welcome Kennedy to the HBSM family with special guest City. How long are you willing to entertain a side piece? How hard is it to date with kids?

Would you share other's business on social media? Would you serve your man on a real plate? Could your friend interrupt a romantic evening for any reason? Can your partner have friends of the opposite sex?

Would you date long distance over seas?  When and why do you post your partner on social media?*Again sorry for the audio quality. Recorded on location.

The team starts ironing through some in the sheet details. An argument of women attention starvation. Then different forms of dating.*Sorry for the audio issues and the abrupt end to the pod.

On this return episode the crew with special guest Kim give there thoughts on black night life and the culture associated with it. Then they change gear a discuss the different roles in house keeping in relationships.

Catch up with the crew as we  delve into new year perspectives, things we want to change, and commitment with special guest Kennedy.

Join us for this deep dive into our growth and short coming  in 2022 and our plans for improvement in 2023.

In the wake of the tragic death of twitch, the team discuss the mental health and need of black men.

Join the debate, The gang debate the Gunna plea deal, YSL Rico case, and the ramifications of supporting street culture over community. 

How do you navigate given advice as a father or father figure?  How do women secure a man?

Ye has the world and  in turn the HBSM podcast in a uproar. The guys go deep on the Kanye controversy  the take  a hard turn to when its acceptable to have sex while dating.0:00 - Stalking11:00 - Ye50:50 - First date sex

With the absence of Lashunna, the fellas switch it up and talk Hip Hop. Back to your regularly scheduled Heartbreak next episode.

9:10-Navigating dating and fatherhood16:00- Dating a friend's parent23:00- Your child dating much older

This episode the team digs in their past and explore hardships that made them who they are today. With Special Guest Brandon Spalding

Can men wear lace fronts?  Is it a double standard? Lamarcus and Lashunna get deep on this one. With special guest Jess.

This episode the team tackles the hard question. Why do we cheat? 

Money in relationships, how to improve financially, and breaking generational curses.

This episode the crew delves into the nuance of sex, how to navigate certain situations and obstacles to a healthy sex life. P.S. Sorry for this episodes audio quality.

1:12 -The heartbreak crew catch up3:37 - Demon slaying with Tre15:20 - Emotional Unavailability

Working titles for this episode include:Goin Guy FishingLadies Gun ClubThe Real WNBALittle Miss Dick CheneyFollow us on Instagram & Twitter: @HBstateofmind Follow Lashunna on  Instagram: @lashunnastakes  Follow Tre on  Instagram: @intunetre Follow  Lamarcus on  Instagram: @cooka_grandson   Follow  KC on  Instagram: @kcpersona

2:18 - Trust35:46 - The Stallion & Lanez48:00 - TrickingFollow us on Instagram & Twitter: @HBstateofmind Follow Lashunna on  Instagram: @lashunnastakes  Follow Tre on  Instagram: @intunetre Follow  Lamarcus on  Instagram: @cooka_grandson   Follow  KC on  Instagram: @kcpersona

Join us in the part 2 of the cabin trip special as the deep dives in and plays Tonight's Conversation Cards Relationship Debates by @acemetaphor. 

This week tune into a live recorded episode just in case you missed it. Join us in the cabin trip special as the deep dives in and plays Tonight's Conversation Cards Relationship Debates by @acemetaphor. Follow us on Instagram & Twitter: @HBstateofmindFollow Lashunna on  Instagram: @lashunnastakes Follow Tre on  Instagram: @intunetreFollow  Lamarcus on  Instagram: @cooka_grandson  Follow  KC on  Instagram: @kcpersona

The fellas of Heartbreak investigate and breakdown the incident at the 94th academy awards, in which Will Smith slaps Chris Rock.Follow us on Instagram & Twitter: @HBstateofmindFollow Lashunna on  Instagram: @lashunnastakes Follow Tre on  Instagram: @intunetreFollow  Lamarcus on  Instagram: @cooka_grandson  Follow  KC on  Instagram: @kcpersona

5:00 Giving Birth23:15 Sex Education46:14 Girls playing the game55:00 Consent & BoundariesFollow us on Instagram & Twitter: @HBstateofmindFollow Lashunna on  Instagram: @lashunnastakes Follow Tre on  Instagram: @intunetreFollow  Lamarcus on  Instagram: @cooka_grandson  Follow  KC on  Instagram: @kcpersona

0:00 Being a god parent13:50 Kanye & Kim36:56 Rebounds1:04:00 Lies in relationshipsFollow us on Instagram & Twitter: @HBstateofmindFollow Lashunna on  Instagram: @lashunnastakes Follow Tre on  Instagram: @intunetreFollow  Lamarcus on  Instagram: @cooka_grandson  Follow  KC on  Instagram: @kcpersona

March 8th is International Women's Day. In celebration Heartbreak State of Mind presents to you a very special episode featuring our friends Katelyn and Ciara. Your host Lashunna journeys with these ladies through trials, tribulations, and triumphs. Follow us on Instagram & Twitter: @HBstateofmindFollow Lashunna on  Instagram: @lashunnastakes Follow Katelyn on Instagram: @ekatelynbrownFollow Ciara on Instagram: @moonhoneydoula @cimoresaylessTwitter: @cimoresayless

5:25 Love at first site?9:00 Can friends be attracted to each other?22:00 How freaky is too freaky?33:00 Did you have a hoe phase? 38:00 What is dating?

2:15 What happened during valentines?6:30 What the romantic thing you ever did? 29:45 What is the friend zone?34:15 Love & Basketball Recap.46:00 ... So the "Friend Zone"1:26:00 Will you trade places? 

Are emotional connections enough to sustain a relationship?

3:28 - Can men be  abused in a relationship?19:14 - How should men communicate external pressures in a relationship? 30:00 - Why do we get "comfortable"?48:34 - What are your physical turn offs?1:09:24 - Culture Clips Drake, Hot Sauce, and Safe Sex

Should be willing to do an act you're not comfortable with in the bed room? Can adult entertainment be detriment to a relationship? If the end was near what would you do?What legacy would you want to leave behind? Is there anything you would do differently?

Can you marry someone if the law isn't involved? Is monogamy the norm in today's society? Why do men struggle with monogamy? 

Is cancel culture real? How do black people effect culture? Is budgeting during a date cool? How much is self evaluation take into account in relationships? 

What's an alpha male? Do women desire a financially stable man? 

How did the presence or absence of a father effect you? How does your childhood mold our future interactions? Should you eat the box? When Should you live with a significant other? Is there love at first sight? How does your partner have to make?

Is street code still a thing? What should our kids be exposed to? Is it acceptable to kick your 3 month old child's mother?

Who get more passes in relationships? Should men be accountable for their friends? What to expect the first few weeks dating?

Can men get taken advantage of? Why do we date older or younger? How to navigate money in friendships?