Rich in Relationship

Are you living with the quiet cousin of emotional death? In this episode of Rich in Relationship, host Rich Heller dives deep into the Early Warning Signs of Marriage Fatigue. This is the subtle, slow erosion that happens when there are no explosions, just... quiet.If you find yourself saying, "My spouse says they still love me, but they aren't in love with me anymore," you are not alone. Marriage fatigue happens when partners stop growing together and curiosity fades, replacing an alive connection with predictable politeness. Rich explains how entropy affects relationships—if you stop spinning the plate, it falls. Learn the difference between destructive conflict and creative disagreement, why the word "fine" is so dangerous, and how to tell if your marriage is living in overdraft protection.Discover how couples like Brad and Gwen moved beyond parallel lives and reawakened their love not with a radical change, but with a strategic reset. You don't need to blow everything up; you need to empty the accumulated gas and start with micro-changes. It's time to treat your relationship as an organism that needs care and reinvestment.Join our free community group, The Bridge, for tools and a complimentary consultation: www.richinrelationship.com#marriagefatigue #relationshipadvice #richerrelationship #saveyourmarriage #marriagehelp #emotionaldebt #relationshipgoals #positivecommunicationprogram

Are you living with the quiet cousin of emotional death? In this episode of Rich in Relationship, host Rich Heller dives deep into the Early Warning Signs of Marriage Fatigue. This is the subtle, slow erosion that happens when there are no explosions, just... quiet.If you find yourself saying, "My spouse says they still love me, but they aren't in love with me anymore," you are not alone. Marriage fatigue happens when partners stop growing together and curiosity fades, replacing an alive connection with predictable politeness. Rich explains how entropy affects relationships—if you stop spinning the plate, it falls. Learn the difference between destructive conflict and creative disagreement, why the word "fine" is so dangerous, and how to tell if your marriage is living in overdraft protection.Discover how couples like Brad and Gwen moved beyond parallel lives and reawakened their love not with a radical change, but with a strategic reset. You don't need to blow everything up; you need to empty the accumulated gas and start with micro-changes. It's time to treat your relationship as an organism that needs care and reinvestment.Join our free community group, The Bridge, for tools and a complimentary consultation: www.richinrelationship.com#marriagefatigue #relationshipadvice #richerrelationship #saveyourmarriage #marriagehelp #emotionaldebt #relationshipgoals #positivecommunicationprogram

In this episode of Rich in Relationship, Rich Heller breaks down how the “little things” in a relationship—unwashed dishes, sharp comments, small irritations—stack up and push couples into emotional overdraft.If you've ever gone from zero to sixty over something that shouldn't be a big deal, your emotional bank account might be running low. Rich explains how these moments accumulate, how emotional debt forms, and how couples get trapped in a cycle of blame, defensiveness, and resentment.You'll hear:- Why small triggers feel massive- How emotional bankruptcy builds slowly- Why partners start viewing each other as “the problem”- What Brad and Gwen's story shows about repairing emotional overdraft- The real antidote to resentment (and it's not just love languages)- How to shift from destructive conflict to constructive connectionIf you're ready to rebuild emotional wealth and restore safety, trust, and connection in your relationship, join our free community, The Bridge, where you'll find tools to help you start repairing your emotional bank account today.Join The Bridge (FREE community): www.richinrelationship.com Subscribe for new weekly episodes of Rich in Relationship.#relationships #marriageadvice #relationshiptips #couplestherapy #emotionalhealth #communicationskills #relationshipcoach #marriagehelp #healthyrelationships #selfawareness #personaldevelopment

In this episode of Rich in Relationship, Rich Heller breaks down how the “little things” in a relationship—unwashed dishes, sharp comments, small irritations—stack up and push couples into emotional overdraft.If you've ever gone from zero to sixty over something that shouldn't be a big deal, your emotional bank account might be running low. Rich explains how these moments accumulate, how emotional debt forms, and how couples get trapped in a cycle of blame, defensiveness, and resentment.You'll hear:- Why small triggers feel massive- How emotional bankruptcy builds slowly- Why partners start viewing each other as “the problem”- What Brad and Gwen's story shows about repairing emotional overdraft- The real antidote to resentment (and it's not just love languages)- How to shift from destructive conflict to constructive connectionIf you're ready to rebuild emotional wealth and restore safety, trust, and connection in your relationship, join our free community, The Bridge, where you'll find tools to help you start repairing your emotional bank account today.Join The Bridge (FREE community): www.richinrelationship.com Subscribe for new weekly episodes of Rich in Relationship.#relationships #marriageadvice #relationshiptips #couplestherapy #emotionalhealth #communicationskills #relationshipcoach #marriagehelp #healthyrelationships #selfawareness #personaldevelopment

You're working, providing, and accumulating wealth—everything required for your family's success. But your partner says you're "losing the family," and the emotional connection is gone.In this powerful episode, Rich Heller tackles the Provider Paradox: the moment when material focus causes emotional debt. The core issue isn't money; it's the "love of money"—when its pursuit becomes the primary focus, eclipsing purpose and presence.We reveal why this imbalance leaves both partners exhausted and leads to quiet drift, parallel lives, and the transfer of generational emotional debt to your children.Discover the 4 Pillars of Prosperity: True prosperity is built on more than just income. It requires aligning on four essential areas:- Provision: Financial and emotional stability grounded in connection.- Presence: Emotional availability, achieved through emotional fluency (not just intelligence).- Partnership: A commitment to supporting each other's growth and highest purpose.- Purpose: Aligning individual and family choices with a greater purpose beyond accumulation.Learn the lessons from the true story of Brad and Gwen, and find out how you can have both financial success and a relationship that is truly rich in connection.Resources: If your relationship feels rich on paper but poor in connection, join our free community group, The Bridge, for tools and a complimentary consultation: www.richinrelationship.com#richinrelationship #richheller #relationshiptips #providerparadox #emotionaldebt #wealthbuilding #marriageadvice

You're working, providing, and accumulating wealth—everything required for your family's success. But your partner says you're "losing the family," and the emotional connection is gone.In this powerful episode, Rich Heller tackles the Provider Paradox: the moment when material focus causes emotional debt. The core issue isn't money; it's the "love of money"—when its pursuit becomes the primary focus, eclipsing purpose and presence.We reveal why this imbalance leaves both partners exhausted and leads to quiet drift, parallel lives, and the transfer of generational emotional debt to your children.Discover the 4 Pillars of Prosperity: True prosperity is built on more than just income. It requires aligning on four essential areas:- Provision: Financial and emotional stability grounded in connection.- Presence: Emotional availability, achieved through emotional fluency (not just intelligence).- Partnership: A commitment to supporting each other's growth and highest purpose.- Purpose: Aligning individual and family choices with a greater purpose beyond accumulation.Learn the lessons from the true story of Brad and Gwen, and find out how you can have both financial success and a relationship that is truly rich in connection.Resources: If your relationship feels rich on paper but poor in connection, join our free community group, The Bridge, for tools and a complimentary consultation: www.richinrelationship.com#richinrelationship #richheller #relationshiptips #providerparadox #emotionaldebt #wealthbuilding #marriageadvice

You tell yourself you're working hard for your family, but lately, your partner says you're using work to avoid them. Why is work a more comfortable and clear space than home?In this episode, Rich Heller dives into workaholism—a cultural disease and a socially sanctioned escape hatch from the complexities of emotional connection.The Escape Hatch: Work is often preferred because it offers clear goals and instant rewards (dopamine hits), unlike marriage, which is a constant process without simple "check" marks. This environment fosters an addictive quality, turning the virtue of providing into the vice of avoidance.The Cost of Escape: We discuss the high price of this pattern, often seen in the primary wage earner (a role held by men in 55% of marriages and women in 29%). When providing morphs into avoidance, the cost is the loss of intimacy, goodwill, and emotional fluency at home.Learn How to Shift: We share the story of Brad and Gwen, who replaced avoidance with alignment by:- Establishing strict work cutoff times and transition rituals.- Practicing emotional labeling and micro-connections.- Reframing his drive for achievement to align with family values.If work has become your hiding place, it's time to move from defensiveness to genuine partnership.Resources: If work has become a hiding place for you, join our free community group, The Bridge, for resources to help you build emotional fluency and strong boundaries: www.richinrelationship.com

You tell yourself you're working hard for your family, but lately, your partner says you're using work to avoid them. Why is work a more comfortable and clear space than home?In this episode, Rich Heller dives into workaholism—a cultural disease and a socially sanctioned escape hatch from the complexities of emotional connection.The Escape Hatch: Work is often preferred because it offers clear goals and instant rewards (dopamine hits), unlike marriage, which is a constant process without simple "check" marks. This environment fosters an addictive quality, turning the virtue of providing into the vice of avoidance.The Cost of Escape: We discuss the high price of this pattern, often seen in the primary wage earner (a role held by men in 55% of marriages and women in 29%). When providing morphs into avoidance, the cost is the loss of intimacy, goodwill, and emotional fluency at home.Learn How to Shift: We share the story of Brad and Gwen, who replaced avoidance with alignment by:- Establishing strict work cutoff times and transition rituals.- Practicing emotional labeling and micro-connections.- Reframing his drive for achievement to align with family values.If work has become your hiding place, it's time to move from defensiveness to genuine partnership.Resources: If work has become a hiding place for you, join our free community group, The Bridge, for resources to help you build emotional fluency and strong boundaries: www.richinrelationship.com

You have the career, the beautiful home, and external success, but your life feels numb, flat, and joyless. Why? You may be stuck in the Dopamine Trap.In this deep-dive episode of Rich in Relationship, Rich Heller explains how the over-release of the brain's reward chemical—driven by quick hits from screens, gaming, and pornography—leads to a decreased baseline for happiness.Discover why the constant chase for "more, better, different" eventually blunts you emotionally, makes real-life connection feel inadequate, and kills intimacy with your partner.In this episode, you will learn:- Why without contrast, life feels flat—and why you must embrace challenge for true joy.- How the insidious nature of pornography and competitive gaming are destroying sexual intimacy and emotional connection.- Why men are statistically more vulnerable to these behavioral addictions, and how to spot the signs.- Practical strategies to reset your system, establish boundaries around screens, and move from external reward to internal growth.The only antidote to the flatness of the dopamine trap is to build a life rich in relationship—starting with yourself.If you or your partner are struggling with disconnection or behavioral addictions, join our community at www.richinrelationship.com for tools and support.

You have the career, the beautiful home, and external success, but your life feels numb, flat, and joyless. Why? You may be stuck in the Dopamine Trap.In this deep-dive episode of Rich in Relationship, Rich Heller explains how the over-release of the brain's reward chemical—driven by quick hits from screens, gaming, and pornography—leads to a decreased baseline for happiness.Discover why the constant chase for "more, better, different" eventually blunts you emotionally, makes real-life connection feel inadequate, and kills intimacy with your partner.In this episode, you will learn:- Why without contrast, life feels flat—and why you must embrace challenge for true joy.- How the insidious nature of pornography and competitive gaming are destroying sexual intimacy and emotional connection.- Why men are statistically more vulnerable to these behavioral addictions, and how to spot the signs.- Practical strategies to reset your system, establish boundaries around screens, and move from external reward to internal growth.The only antidote to the flatness of the dopamine trap is to build a life rich in relationship—starting with yourself.If you or your partner are struggling with disconnection or behavioral addictions, join our community at www.richinrelationship.com for tools and support.

In this episode of Rich in Relationship, Rich Heller dives into the growing phenomenon of digital sedation—the quiet addiction to screens that's replacing real human connection.For many men, screens feel safer than emotions. Work emails, texts, and productivity apps offer instant rewards and a sense of control—while intimacy can feel unpredictable and vulnerable. But what starts as “just checking my phone” can slowly erode emotional connection, leaving partners feeling unseen and unheard.Rich explores:- Why men are more prone to digital sedation- How productivity becomes an emotional escape- What couples can do to reconnect without nagging- Practical ways to set healthy tech boundaries and rebuild presenceThis isn't just about screen time, it's about rediscovering real connection in a world that's constantly online.Get free relationship resources, live discussions, and tools to help you stay connected—to yourself and your partner. Join the community Now! https://richinrelationship.com

In this episode of Rich in Relationship, Rich Heller dives into the growing phenomenon of digital sedation—the quiet addiction to screens that's replacing real human connection.For many men, screens feel safer than emotions. Work emails, texts, and productivity apps offer instant rewards and a sense of control—while intimacy can feel unpredictable and vulnerable. But what starts as “just checking my phone” can slowly erode emotional connection, leaving partners feeling unseen and unheard.Rich explores:- Why men are more prone to digital sedation- How productivity becomes an emotional escape- What couples can do to reconnect without nagging- Practical ways to set healthy tech boundaries and rebuild presenceThis isn't just about screen time, it's about rediscovering real connection in a world that's constantly online.Get free relationship resources, live discussions, and tools to help you stay connected—to yourself and your partner. Join the community Now! https://richinrelationship.com

Why does he stay late at work or scroll his phone instead of opening up?Because for many men, doing feels safer than feeling.In this episode, relationship coach Rich Heller breaks down the reality of post-masculine confusion—a modern crisis where men lose their emotional compass amid shifting gender expectations.Learn why men often retreat into work, screens, or silence—and how couples can bridge the emotional gap to build deeper trust and connection.You'll discover:- Why emotional withdrawal happens in modern relationships- How societal roles and expectations shape men's behavior- Ways to reconnect with empathy, understanding, and balanceWhether you're a husband, wife, or couple navigating emotional distance, this episode will help you understand what's really going on—and how to heal together. Join the Rich in Relationship community — where we explore real tools for emotional growth, better communication, and stronger connections. www.richinrelationship.com#relationshiptips #relationshipadviceformen #relationshipgoals #marriage #husbandlife #richheller #richinrelationship

Why does he stay late at work or scroll his phone instead of opening up?Because for many men, doing feels safer than feeling.In this episode, relationship coach Rich Heller breaks down the reality of post-masculine confusion—a modern crisis where men lose their emotional compass amid shifting gender expectations.Learn why men often retreat into work, screens, or silence—and how couples can bridge the emotional gap to build deeper trust and connection.You'll discover:- Why emotional withdrawal happens in modern relationships- How societal roles and expectations shape men's behavior- Ways to reconnect with empathy, understanding, and balanceWhether you're a husband, wife, or couple navigating emotional distance, this episode will help you understand what's really going on—and how to heal together. Join the Rich in Relationship community — where we explore real tools for emotional growth, better communication, and stronger connections. www.richinrelationship.com#relationshiptips #relationshipadviceformen #relationshipgoals #marriage #husbandlife #richheller #richinrelationship

What does it mean to be a man in today's world and in a marriage that's constantly evolving?In this episode of Rich in Relationship, relationship coach Rich Heller dives deep into the shifting roles of men, the rise of “post-masculine confusion,” and why so many men retreat into their phones, work, or distraction instead of connection.As traditional definitions of masculinity fade, many men feel lost between the old expectations of being the provider and the new demands for emotional presence, partnership, and shared responsibility.Rich explores:- Why men (and increasingly women) escape into work and screens- The cultural conditioning behind emotional withdrawal- The gap between media portrayals of men and real-life emotional needs- How couples can redefine roles together for healthier connectionWhether you're a husband feeling disconnected, a wife wondering why he's so distant, or a couple trying to navigate new dynamics—this episode will give you clarity, compassion, and a way forward.

What does it mean to be a man in today's world and in a marriage that's constantly evolving?In this episode of Rich in Relationship, relationship coach Rich Heller dives deep into the shifting roles of men, the rise of “post-masculine confusion,” and why so many men retreat into their phones, work, or distraction instead of connection.As traditional definitions of masculinity fade, many men feel lost between the old expectations of being the provider and the new demands for emotional presence, partnership, and shared responsibility.Rich explores:- Why men (and increasingly women) escape into work and screens- The cultural conditioning behind emotional withdrawal- The gap between media portrayals of men and real-life emotional needs- How couples can redefine roles together for healthier connectionWhether you're a husband feeling disconnected, a wife wondering why he's so distant, or a couple trying to navigate new dynamics—this episode will give you clarity, compassion, and a way forward.

You've achieved the career, the family, the independence—everything you were told would bring fulfillment. Yet, you're constantly exhausted, feel invisible, and wonder, "Why does something feel missing?"In this episode of Rich in Relationship, Rich Heller focuses on the intense pressure faced by professional women that leads to burnout (reported by 42% of working mothers). We explore the damaging cultural pressure to "do it all" and why outward success often masks inner fragmentation.The Reality of the Double Load:- Women still carry 65% of childcare and domestic tasks, even in dual-earner households.- 60% of women in leadership feel pressure to outperform male peers just to "prove their worth."- The human trap: equating self-worth with external accomplishments.Rich challenges the flawed sequence of Do-Have-Be and shows how Being-Doing-Having leads to true fulfillment. Learn how to stop sacrificing yourself for "having it all" and start building relational richness—the true foundation for sustainable success.If you're ready to stop the burnout cycle and build a relationship rich in connection, join our free membership group, The Bridge, for tools and a complimentary consultation: www.richinrelationship.com#richinrelationship #richheller #relationshiptips #relationshipadvice #femaleburnout #havingitall #selfworth

You've achieved the career, the family, the independence—everything you were told would bring fulfillment. Yet, you're constantly exhausted, feel invisible, and wonder, "Why does something feel missing?"In this episode of Rich in Relationship, Rich Heller focuses on the intense pressure faced by professional women that leads to burnout (reported by 42% of working mothers). We explore the damaging cultural pressure to "do it all" and why outward success often masks inner fragmentation.The Reality of the Double Load:- Women still carry 65% of childcare and domestic tasks, even in dual-earner households.- 60% of women in leadership feel pressure to outperform male peers just to "prove their worth."- The human trap: equating self-worth with external accomplishments.Rich challenges the flawed sequence of Do-Have-Be and shows how Being-Doing-Having leads to true fulfillment. Learn how to stop sacrificing yourself for "having it all" and start building relational richness—the true foundation for sustainable success.If you're ready to stop the burnout cycle and build a relationship rich in connection, join our free membership group, The Bridge, for tools and a complimentary consultation: www.richinrelationship.com#richinrelationship #richheller #relationshiptips #relationshipadvice #femaleburnout #havingitall #selfworth

You're the primary wage earner, successfully holding the family's financial security together. Yet, beneath that strong exterior, you feel utterly drained, unappreciated, and emotionally unavailable.In this episode of Rich in Relationship, Rich Heller dives into the intense pressure of breadwinner burnout. We explore why the social value placed on materialism makes the primary earner feel isolated and unable to admit weakness—even to their partner.This burden creates an intimacy strain, where competitive workplace energy clashes with the need for connection at home, often leading to resentment and power imbalances.You will learn:- Why the primary earner, whether male or female, reports higher stress and lower relationship satisfaction.- The tell-tale signs of burnout: irritability, withdrawal, and emotional distance.- Why silence is the enemy, and how naming the feeling is the first step toward change.- Practical strategies to share the load, redefine success beyond money, and increase relationship satisfaction by sharing financial decision-making.It's time to trade the exhaustion of carrying it all for the strength of a true partnership.Join our free community for resources on emotional fluency and building a true partnership: www.richinrelationship.com

You're the primary wage earner, successfully holding the family's financial security together. Yet, beneath that strong exterior, you feel utterly drained, unappreciated, and emotionally unavailable.In this episode of Rich in Relationship, Rich Heller dives into the intense pressure of breadwinner burnout. We explore why the social value placed on materialism makes the primary earner feel isolated and unable to admit weakness—even to their partner.This burden creates an intimacy strain, where competitive workplace energy clashes with the need for connection at home, often leading to resentment and power imbalances.You will learn:- Why the primary earner, whether male or female, reports higher stress and lower relationship satisfaction.- The tell-tale signs of burnout: irritability, withdrawal, and emotional distance.- Why silence is the enemy, and how naming the feeling is the first step toward change.- Practical strategies to share the load, redefine success beyond money, and increase relationship satisfaction by sharing financial decision-making.It's time to trade the exhaustion of carrying it all for the strength of a true partnership.Join our free community for resources on emotional fluency and building a true partnership: www.richinrelationship.com

Do you feel like your opinion doesn't count because your partner earns more? Does handling the "big financial stuff" make one of you feel responsible, and the other, resentful?In this episode of Rich in Relationship, Rich Heller unpacks the subtle and often subconscious relationship between money and control. We explore why financial imbalance—regardless of who the prime earner is—can lead to covert control, feelings of being voiceless, and resentment.Real financial security isn't just about the numbers; it lies in trust, transparency, and shared responsibility.You'll learn:- Why money equals survival in the mind, fueling power struggles.- How financial decisions are a common battlefield (76% of marriages report money conflict!).- The four key red flags that show control has replaced collaboration.- The difference between financial leadership and financial control.- How to create a system of individual spending plans and clear leadership lanes to foster equal power and build true emotional wealth.Stop fighting over money and start investing in your emotional partnership.Join our free membership group, The Bridge, for more relationship resources: www.richinrelationship.comFollow us for more relationship advice & insights:Follow us on social media for more relationship advice:Facebook -https://www.facebook.com/richinrelationship/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/richinrelationship/ Pinterest - https://www.pinterest.com/richinrelationship/Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@richinrelationshipLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/rich-in-relationshi

Do you feel like your opinion doesn't count because your partner earns more? Does handling the "big financial stuff" make one of you feel responsible, and the other, resentful?In this episode of Rich in Relationship, Rich Heller unpacks the subtle and often subconscious relationship between money and control. We explore why financial imbalance—regardless of who the prime earner is—can lead to covert control, feelings of being voiceless, and resentment.Real financial security isn't just about the numbers; it lies in trust, transparency, and shared responsibility.You'll learn:- Why money equals survival in the mind, fueling power struggles.- How financial decisions are a common battlefield (76% of marriages report money conflict!).- The four key red flags that show control has replaced collaboration.- The difference between financial leadership and financial control.- How to create a system of individual spending plans and clear leadership lanes to foster equal power and build true emotional wealth.Stop fighting over money and start investing in your emotional partnership.Join our free membership group, The Bridge, for more relationship resources: www.richinrelationship.comFollow us for more relationship advice & insights:Follow us on social media for more relationship advice:Facebook -https://www.facebook.com/richinrelationship/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/richinrelationship/ Pinterest - https://www.pinterest.com/richinrelationship/Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@richinrelationshipLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/rich-in-relationshi

You have the career, the beautiful home, and the "perfect" lifestyle, yet you feel lost, hollow, or like you're failing at home. Why does success in the world often lead to strain in your relationship?In this deeply personal episode of Rich in Relationship, Rich Heller shares his own experience of transitioning from a wildly successful business to his current work after realizing his life, despite all the outward markers, felt empty.We explore why couples prioritize the logistics of life over love, leading to a loss of spontaneity and passion. You'll learn how focusing on external achievement can mask the erosion of your sense of self and the intimacy in your partnership.Discover:- Why "doing and having" without conscious "being" leads to dissatisfaction.- How unresolved inner struggles find expression in passive-aggressive acts.- The dangerous link between a lack of intimacy and the risk of infidelity.- How financial success shifts power dynamics and creates identity strain.It's time to look beyond the surface and commit to the progress over perfection required to build a connection that truly supports your individual and shared greatness.If you want to talk about your situation, join the free Rich in Relationship Group to grab educational pieces and schedule a free consult with Rich Heller: www.richinrelationship.com

You have the career, the beautiful home, and the "perfect" lifestyle, yet you feel lost, hollow, or like you're failing at home. Why does success in the world often lead to strain in your relationship?In this deeply personal episode of Rich in Relationship, Rich Heller shares his own experience of transitioning from a wildly successful business to his current work after realizing his life, despite all the outward markers, felt empty.We explore why couples prioritize the logistics of life over love, leading to a loss of spontaneity and passion. You'll learn how focusing on external achievement can mask the erosion of your sense of self and the intimacy in your partnership.Discover:- Why "doing and having" without conscious "being" leads to dissatisfaction.- How unresolved inner struggles find expression in passive-aggressive acts.- The dangerous link between a lack of intimacy and the risk of infidelity.- How financial success shifts power dynamics and creates identity strain.It's time to look beyond the surface and commit to the progress over perfection required to build a connection that truly supports your individual and shared greatness.If you want to talk about your situation, join the free Rich in Relationship Group to grab educational pieces and schedule a free consult with Rich Heller: www.richinrelationship.com

We have the house, the car, and the success we thought we wanted—so why do we feel so empty?In this episode of Rich in Relationship, host Rich Heller dives into the true meaning of prosperity, distinguishing between material wealth (survival, stability) and emotional wealth (shared vision, safety, trust, intimacy). While material success is the "icing on the cake," chasing it often causes couples to ignore the foundational emotional work.Rich explores surprising statistics showing that high-income couples often report less happiness than lower-income couples, arguing that busyness and over-focus on "doing and having" replaces the essential "being" of a partnership.You'll learn how to shift your focus to build a truly wealthy marriage:- The three stages of creation: Be, Do, and Have, and why we often get them backward.- Why couples substitute possessions and goals for emotional depth.- Practical ways to schedule relationship rituals and why spending money on experiences (not possessions) builds long-term marital satisfaction.It's time to stop thriving in comfort and start flourishing in connection.If you want to talk about your situation, get a free consult and join the free Rich in Relationship Group: www.richinrelationship.com

We have the house, the car, and the success we thought we wanted—so why do we feel so empty?In this episode of Rich in Relationship, host Rich Heller dives into the true meaning of prosperity, distinguishing between material wealth (survival, stability) and emotional wealth (shared vision, safety, trust, intimacy). While material success is the "icing on the cake," chasing it often causes couples to ignore the foundational emotional work.Rich explores surprising statistics showing that high-income couples often report less happiness than lower-income couples, arguing that busyness and over-focus on "doing and having" replaces the essential "being" of a partnership.You'll learn how to shift your focus to build a truly wealthy marriage:- The three stages of creation: Be, Do, and Have, and why we often get them backward.- Why couples substitute possessions and goals for emotional depth.- Practical ways to schedule relationship rituals and why spending money on experiences (not possessions) builds long-term marital satisfaction.It's time to stop thriving in comfort and start flourishing in connection.If you want to talk about your situation, get a free consult and join the free Rich in Relationship Group: www.richinrelationship.com

Are you married but feel like you're living in a silent marriage? You perform harmony for the world—you don't fight, your life looks great—but underneath, you feel profoundly lonely and disconnected. This is the marriage where substantive conversation is avoided at all costs.In this episode of Rich in Relationship, host Rich Heller explains the true cost of prioritizing "peace" over honesty. We dive into why couples become systemized in their roles and dodge all real talks at home, and why this avoidance of conflict is one of the top predictors of divorce.You'll learn:- The difference between prioritizing logistical excellence and relationship maintenance.- Why suppressed difference equals suppressed intimacy.- The steps you can take to stop avoiding conflict and start building dialogue that builds lasting intimacy and authenticity.It's time to stop letting your marriage die on the inside.If you want to talk about your situation, join the free Rich in Relationship Group to grab educational pieces and schedule a free consult with Rich Heller: www.richinrelationship.com#richinrelationship #richheller #relationshiptips #relationshipadvice #silentmarriage #loneliness #avoidanceofconflict #emotionalintimacy #marriageadvice

Are you married but feel like you're living in a silent marriage? You perform harmony for the world—you don't fight, your life looks great—but underneath, you feel profoundly lonely and disconnected. This is the marriage where substantive conversation is avoided at all costs.In this episode of Rich in Relationship, host Rich Heller explains the true cost of prioritizing "peace" over honesty. We dive into why couples become systemized in their roles and dodge all real talks at home, and why this avoidance of conflict is one of the top predictors of divorce.You'll learn:- The difference between prioritizing logistical excellence and relationship maintenance.- Why suppressed difference equals suppressed intimacy.- The steps you can take to stop avoiding conflict and start building dialogue that builds lasting intimacy and authenticity.It's time to stop letting your marriage die on the inside.If you want to talk about your situation, join the free Rich in Relationship Group to grab educational pieces and schedule a free consult with Rich Heller: www.richinrelationship.com#richinrelationship #richheller #relationshiptips #relationshipadvice #silentmarriage #loneliness #avoidanceofconflict #emotionalintimacy #marriageadvice

Are you married but feel like you're living with a roommate with a ring? You've built a great life and run the house well, but emotionally, something vital is missing. You're leading parallel lives, and the silence is deafening. You are not alone—a 2021 study found that 34% of long-term married couples describe themselves as roommates more than partners.In this episode of Rich in Relationship, host Rich Heller breaks down the widespread phenomenon of "roommate syndrome" and explores why logistical excellence often comes at the cost of emotional intimacy.You'll discover:- The difference between logistical maintenance (schedules, bills) and relationship maintenance (emotional check-ins, vulnerability).- Why couples drift apart even without fighting, and why noticing something is missing is a sign of emotional maturity.- The hidden cost of thinking "we're fine" and how emotional neglect compounds invisibly over years.- The dangers of "business creep" and becoming a "human doing" instead of a "human being" in your relationship.- The simple, actionable investments you can start making today—like regular emotional check-ins—to schedule in intimacy, fun, and connection.It's time to stop just coexisting and start co-creating a marriage that is both efficient and truly alive.Grab your free resources and join the community here to help you bring life back to your marriage: www.richhinrelationship.com

Are you married but feel like you're living with a roommate with a ring? You've built a great life and run the house well, but emotionally, something vital is missing. You're leading parallel lives, and the silence is deafening. You are not alone—a 2021 study found that 34% of long-term married couples describe themselves as roommates more than partners.In this episode of Rich in Relationship, host Rich Heller breaks down the widespread phenomenon of "roommate syndrome" and explores why logistical excellence often comes at the cost of emotional intimacy.You'll discover:- The difference between logistical maintenance (schedules, bills) and relationship maintenance (emotional check-ins, vulnerability).- Why couples drift apart even without fighting, and why noticing something is missing is a sign of emotional maturity.- The hidden cost of thinking "we're fine" and how emotional neglect compounds invisibly over years.- The dangers of "business creep" and becoming a "human doing" instead of a "human being" in your relationship.- The simple, actionable investments you can start making today—like regular emotional check-ins—to schedule in intimacy, fun, and connection.It's time to stop just coexisting and start co-creating a marriage that is both efficient and truly alive.Grab your free resources and join the community here to help you bring life back to your marriage: www.richhinrelationship.com

From the outside, everything looks perfect—the house, the vacations, the careers, the lifestyle. But inside, many couples still feel lonely, disconnected, or unfulfilled. Why? Because external success doesn't always equal emotional satisfaction.In this episode, we explore:- Why “keeping up appearances” leads to emptiness- The hidden emotional imbalance behind successful marriages- How to build relational quality over roles and responsibilities- Creating a shared vision—for yourself, your partner, and your family- Why emotional intimacy and growth are the real gold standard in marriageA true “golden marriage” isn't about how good it looks—it's about how deeply it feels. It's about creating a partnership that is alive, synergistic, and emotionally rich.Ready to explore what a fulfilling marriage looks like for you?Visit richinrelationship.com and check out The Bridge, our free membership site, where you can connect directly with Rich, ask questions, and dive deeper into creating a relationship that feels truly golden.#marriage #relationships #emotionalintimacy #richinrelationship

From the outside, everything looks perfect—the house, the vacations, the careers, the lifestyle. But inside, many couples still feel lonely, disconnected, or unfulfilled. Why? Because external success doesn't always equal emotional satisfaction.In this episode, we explore:- Why “keeping up appearances” leads to emptiness- The hidden emotional imbalance behind successful marriages- How to build relational quality over roles and responsibilities- Creating a shared vision—for yourself, your partner, and your family- Why emotional intimacy and growth are the real gold standard in marriageA true “golden marriage” isn't about how good it looks—it's about how deeply it feels. It's about creating a partnership that is alive, synergistic, and emotionally rich.Ready to explore what a fulfilling marriage looks like for you?Visit richinrelationship.com and check out The Bridge, our free membership site, where you can connect directly with Rich, ask questions, and dive deeper into creating a relationship that feels truly golden.#marriage #relationships #emotionalintimacy #richinrelationship

The traditional idea of a "good provider" may feel suffocating in the 21st century. As more women out-earn their partners, a new set of challenges has emerged. Is your partnership an equal team, or is one person carrying the full emotional and financial weight?In this episode, Rich Heller explores:- The differences between a kept woman and man keeping, and how both can lead to imbalance and resentment.- The biological and social reasons behind traditional roles, and why modern couples must challenge them.- The psychological cost of feeling less-than, even when you're contributing in a different way.- How to shift your mindset from a "kept" dynamic to a co-creative partnership with shared responsibility and authority.You'll hear real-life examples and powerful insights to help you build a more equitable, synergistic relationship that supports both of you.Join our free community at www.richhinrelationship.com to get more resources, connect with others, and learn how to navigate modern relationships!#richinrelationship #mankeeping #emotionallabor #mentalload #partnership #relationshipgoals #modernrelationships #datingadvice #familylife #genderroles

The traditional idea of a "good provider" may feel suffocating in the 21st century. As more women out-earn their partners, a new set of challenges has emerged. Is your partnership an equal team, or is one person carrying the full emotional and financial weight?In this episode, Rich Heller explores:- The differences between a kept woman and man keeping, and how both can lead to imbalance and resentment.- The biological and social reasons behind traditional roles, and why modern couples must challenge them.- The psychological cost of feeling less-than, even when you're contributing in a different way.- How to shift your mindset from a "kept" dynamic to a co-creative partnership with shared responsibility and authority.You'll hear real-life examples and powerful insights to help you build a more equitable, synergistic relationship that supports both of you.Join our free community at www.richhinrelationship.com to get more resources, connect with others, and learn how to navigate modern relationships!#richinrelationship #mankeeping #emotionallabor #mentalload #partnership #relationshipgoals #modernrelationships #datingadvice #familylife #genderroles

Mansplaining. Emotional oversharing. Control and insecurity. Why do these patterns show up in relationships, and how can couples break free from them?In this episode of Rich in Relationship, Rich Heller dives into the dynamics behind mansplaining and emotional oversharing. You'll learn:✅ Why insecurity often drives control✅ How men and women communicate differently—and why it matters✅ The role of empathy and curiosity in building connection✅ How to stop correcting and start connectingWant to take the next step? Join our FREE community filled with resources, workshops, and conversations to help you grow stronger relationships: www.richinrelationship.com

Mansplaining. Emotional oversharing. Control and insecurity. Why do these patterns show up in relationships, and how can couples break free from them?In this episode of Rich in Relationship, Rich Heller dives into the dynamics behind mansplaining and emotional oversharing. You'll learn:✅ Why insecurity often drives control✅ How men and women communicate differently—and why it matters✅ The role of empathy and curiosity in building connection✅ How to stop correcting and start connectingWant to take the next step? Join our FREE community filled with resources, workshops, and conversations to help you grow stronger relationships: www.richinrelationship.com

Are you feeling like you're always carrying the emotional or practical load in your relationship?

Are you feeling like you're always carrying the emotional or practical load in your relationship?

Ever hear “I just can't do it right” when it comes to chores, childcare, or responsibilities in your relationship?

Ever hear “I just can't do it right” when it comes to chores, childcare, or responsibilities in your relationship?

Are you feeling overwhelmed carrying the entire financial load in your relationship?

Are you feeling overwhelmed carrying the entire financial load in your relationship?

Is your partner exhausted from carrying the emotional load for your family? In this episode of Rich Relationship, Rich Heller breaks down the traditional roles that have led to this imbalance and explains why it's a major source of conflict in modern partnerships.From tracking birthdays and managing family relationships to being the one to remember every little detail for the kids, one person often takes on the mental and emotional work that keeps a family running—and more often than not, it's women.In this powerful episode, you'll discover:The Emotional Load Defined: Learn what the emotional load really is and how it impacts your relationship and family dynamic.Why Traditional Roles Are Outdated: We'll discuss why the old ways of doing things no longer work in a world where financial and social dynamics have shifted.A Practical Action Plan: Rich provides a step-by-step guide for partners to map out responsibilities, set goals, and work together to create a more balanced and fulfilling partnership.This isn't about one partner becoming the other. It's about each person leaning into their strengths and building a synergistic relationship where both partners feel supported and empowered.Listen now to learn how to create a truly equal partnership and build a more joyful, abundant family life!Follow us on social media for more relationship advice:Facebook -https://www.facebook.com/richinrelationship/ Instagram - ttps://www.instagram.com/richinrelationship/ Pinterest - https://www.pinterest.com/richinrelationship/_createdTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@richinrelationshipLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/rich-in-relationshipWebsite - www.richinrelationship.com

Is your partner exhausted from carrying the emotional load for your family? In this episode of Rich Relationship, Rich Heller breaks down the traditional roles that have led to this imbalance and explains why it's a major source of conflict in modern partnerships.From tracking birthdays and managing family relationships to being the one to remember every little detail for the kids, one person often takes on the mental and emotional work that keeps a family running—and more often than not, it's women.In this powerful episode, you'll discover:The Emotional Load Defined: Learn what the emotional load really is and how it impacts your relationship and family dynamic.Why Traditional Roles Are Outdated: We'll discuss why the old ways of doing things no longer work in a world where financial and social dynamics have shifted.A Practical Action Plan: Rich provides a step-by-step guide for partners to map out responsibilities, set goals, and work together to create a more balanced and fulfilling partnership.This isn't about one partner becoming the other. It's about each person leaning into their strengths and building a synergistic relationship where both partners feel supported and empowered.Listen now to learn how to create a truly equal partnership and build a more joyful, abundant family life!Follow us on social media for more relationship advice:Facebook -https://www.facebook.com/richinrelationship/ Instagram - ttps://www.instagram.com/richinrelationship/ Pinterest - https://www.pinterest.com/richinrelationship/_createdTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@richinrelationshipLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/rich-in-relationshipWebsite - www.richinrelationship.com

Have you ever felt like you're "keeping" your partner, or that they are "keeping" you? The outdated dynamic of one person over-functioning in a relationship—whether it's financially or emotionally—is still a reality for many couples.In this episode, host Rich Heller tackles the term "man keeping," and its flip side, "woman keeping." We'll dive into the statistics behind shifting financial roles in modern relationships and explore how traditional gender roles have influenced both emotional and financial management.This isn't about blaming anyone. It's about empowering both men and women to step into their full potential and build a true partnership. You'll learn:How to create a balanced partnership by leaning into each other's strengths.The importance of financial fluency for women and emotional fluency for men.Why "cross-training" in your partner's area of expertise is essential for a resilient relationship.Follow us on social media for more relationship advice:Facebook -https://www.facebook.com/richinrelationship/ Instagram - ttps://www.instagram.com/richinrelationship/ Pinterest - https://www.pinterest.com/richinrelationship/_createdTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@richinrelationshipLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/rich-in-relationshipWebsite - www.richinrelationship.com

Have you ever felt like you're "keeping" your partner, or that they are "keeping" you? The outdated dynamic of one person over-functioning in a relationship—whether it's financially or emotionally—is still a reality for many couples.In this episode, host Rich Heller tackles the term "man keeping," and its flip side, "woman keeping." We'll dive into the statistics behind shifting financial roles in modern relationships and explore how traditional gender roles have influenced both emotional and financial management.This isn't about blaming anyone. It's about empowering both men and women to step into their full potential and build a true partnership. You'll learn:How to create a balanced partnership by leaning into each other's strengths.The importance of financial fluency for women and emotional fluency for men.Why "cross-training" in your partner's area of expertise is essential for a resilient relationship.Follow us on social media for more relationship advice:Facebook -https://www.facebook.com/richinrelationship/ Instagram - ttps://www.instagram.com/richinrelationship/ Pinterest - https://www.pinterest.com/richinrelationship/_createdTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@richinrelationshipLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/rich-in-relationshipWebsite - www.richinrelationship.com

In today's episode of Rich in Relationship, host Rich Heller dives into the buzzword everyone's been talking about lately: man keeping. From Forbes to The New York Times to social media, this topic is sparking conversations about emotional labor, balance in relationships, and how men and women are redefining their roles in modern partnerships.We explore questions like:Why do women often feel like they're carrying both their own emotions and their partner's?How does the history of household roles shape today's expectations?What strengths do men bring to the table that can help close the emotional gap?How can couples shift from resentment and imbalance to teamwork and respect?Rich breaks down why many men struggle to recognize invisible emotional work, how cultural conditioning plays a role, and—most importantly—practical ways couples can rebalance responsibilities without turning it into a fight. This episode is packed with strategies for both men and women to step up, communicate effectively, and build stronger, more connected relationships.

Why Women Feel Like They're “Man Keeping” in 2025 | Rich in Relationship PodcastIn today's episode of Rich in Relationship, host Rich Heller dives into the buzzword everyone's been talking about lately: man keeping. From Forbes to The New York Times to social media, this topic is sparking conversations about emotional labor, balance in relationships, and how men and women are redefining their roles in modern partnerships.We explore questions like:Why do women often feel like they're carrying both their own emotions and their partner's?How does the history of household roles shape today's expectations?What strengths do men bring to the table that can help close the emotional gap?How can couples shift from resentment and imbalance to teamwork and respect?Rich breaks down why many men struggle to recognize invisible emotional work, how cultural conditioning plays a role, and—most importantly—practical ways couples can rebalance responsibilities without turning it into a fight. This episode is packed with strategies for both men and women to step up, communicate effectively, and build stronger, more connected relationships.

Is gaming replacing real connection in relationships? In this episode of Rich in Relationship, host Rich Heller explores how screens, gaming, and digital distractions impact men, women, and partnerships.From PlayStation marathons to missed date nights, many couples face the same struggle when hobbies turn into escapes and relationships take the hit. Rich looks at why so many people are hooked on screens, how gaming affects emotional presence, and what the rise of “mankeeping” means for modern couples. He also shares practical steps to manage screen time and strengthen your marriage.Stay tuned for our upcoming Mankeeping Series, where we'll explore gender dynamics, equality, and emotional responsibility in relationships.Get free tools to support your relationship at: richinrelationship.comDon't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more conversations on love, growth, and building stronger partnerships.Follow us on social media for more relationship advice:Facebook -https://www.facebook.com/richinrelationship/ Instagram - ttps://www.instagram.com/richinrelationship/ Pinterest - https://www.pinterest.com/richinrelationship/_createdTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@richinrelationshipLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/rich-in-relationshipWebsite - www.richinrelationship.com

Is gaming replacing real connection in relationships? In this episode of Rich in Relationship, host Rich Heller explores how screens, gaming, and digital distractions impact men, women, and partnerships.From PlayStation marathons to missed date nights, many couples face the same struggle when hobbies turn into escapes and relationships take the hit. Rich looks at why so many people are hooked on screens, how gaming affects emotional presence, and what the rise of “mankeeping” means for modern couples. He also shares practical steps to manage screen time and strengthen your marriage.Stay tuned for our upcoming Mankeeping Series, where we'll explore gender dynamics, equality, and emotional responsibility in relationships.Get free tools to support your relationship at: richinrelationship.comDon't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more conversations on love, growth, and building stronger partnerships.Follow us on social media for more relationship advice:Facebook -https://www.facebook.com/richinrelationship/ Instagram - ttps://www.instagram.com/richinrelationship/ Pinterest - https://www.pinterest.com/richinrelationship/_createdTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@richinrelationshipLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/rich-in-relationshipWebsite - www.richinrelationship.com

Technology isn't going away, but that doesn't mean it has to control your relationships. The key to long-term success isn't eliminating screens—it's learning how to live with them mindfully.In this final episode, we'll recap the major insights from the series and give you a roadmap for maintaining balance, fostering deep connection, and making intentional choices about technology in your marriage and family. You'll learn how to create habits that stick, use tech in ways that strengthen relationships, and build a future where love and connection come first.