Podcasts about high functioning

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Dr Mark Rackley is a psychologist specialised in ADHD with more than two decades of experience helping Neurodiverse people with their mental health. He's back by popular demand to deep dive into the struggles of ADHD and to help you understand yourself. Chapters: 00:00 Trailer  02:36 What is high functioning ADHD  07:32 The mask of overcompensation  11:52 What high functioning RSD looks like  14:31 Is high functioning ADHD a coping strategy for RSD 17:36 Can being high functioning delay a diagnosis  20:54 High functioning loneliness  23:23 Tiimo advert  30:43 What is low functioning ADHD 35:24 Link between high functioning ADHD and addiction 41:01 Audience questions (washing machine of woes) 45:09 A letter to my younger self  Find Dr Mark on Instagram

Struggling with high functioning depression? You might look successful on the outside but feel empty inside. I've been there. In this episode, I share the exact spiritual and clinical toolkit that helped me heal and reconnect with life. In this episode, I open up about my personal journey through high functioning depression and the four-part approach that transformed my emotional and spiritual well-being. What you'll learn: What high functioning depression really looks like (and why it's so easy to miss) DBT therapy techniques: Opposite Action, Radical Acceptance, and the TIPP method How Jesus taught about "the kingdom within" as a model of conscious awareness Abraham Hicks' vibration-shifting approach through appreciation Matt Kahn's groundbreaking self-love practices Key practices covered: Timestamps: 0:00 - My High Functioning Depression Story 2:00 - What It Really Looks Like 4:00 - DBT Foundations: 3 Life-Changing Practices 8:00 - Jesus as Conscious Teacher: The Kingdom Within 11:00 - Abraham Hicks: Becoming a Powerful Creator 14:00 - Matt Kahn: The Love Revolution 16:00 - Your Practical Toolkit to Start Today Resources mentioned: DBT Therapy for Dummies (Marsha Linehan) Abraham Hicks teachings Matt Kahn's work You're not broken. You're not behind. You're exactly where you need to be for your next evolution.

Are you loving it? Send Ash a text! What was meant to be a little pause turned into almost a year and a half off the mic.August 2024 to October 2025.Time is fake, apparently.In this catch-up episode, I share where I've been, why I chose life (again and again) over momentum, and how I rebuilt my days around values that actually feel like mine, even when it meant letting go of things that once defined me.If you've ever felt torn between who you're “supposed” to be and the life you actually want, this one's a full-blown compass reset.TOPICS & TANGENTS: • The unexpected 18-month break and why returning mattered • Worldschooling adventures from Washington to Brazil • Building community and life in Colorado • Choosing what fits instead of chasing balance • Values vs. ideals: letting your real life show what matters • Perfectionism as a sneaky burnout driver • Stepping away from social media and finding peacePOINT OF THE STORY: Regulation isn't about perfect calm. It's about choosing what matters when it costs you something, over and over again. When your values get honest, your life gets simpler.

What if your ‘success' is actually what's draining your power?  For years, I believed my worth was measured by how much I could give, achieve, and manage. I wore the cape, smiled through the fatigue, and convinced everyone—including myself—that I was fine. But beneath that polished performance lived a quiet truth: I was burning out while trying to be everything for everyone. In this episode, I share what it really takes to break free from high-functioning burnout—the kind that hides behind success. Together, we'll explore how slowing down isn't losing ground, why rest is the most radical form of self-trust, and how to finally stop performing your life and start living it.   What we explore: How high-functioning burnout disguises itself as competence The emotional cost of over-giving and people-pleasing Three powerful shifts to release the Superwoman identity Why rest, stillness, and softness are essential to true strength How to return to your essence—without the cape If you're ready to step out of performance mode and into presence, visit nancylevin.com to explore courses, coaching, and resources to help you come home to yourself.   Connect with me: Newsletternancylevin.comInstagramFacebook  

Not all trauma screams. Some whispers.And those quiet wounds—the ones wrapped in politeness, performance, and perfectionism—shape far more lives than we realize.In this episode, Denise explores the unseen impact of subtle childhood trauma: how emotional underfeeding turns into adult overfunctioning, and why high-achieving, self-aware people often feel disconnected, numb, or “fine” but never fulfilled. If you've ever wondered why peace feels foreign or stillness feels wrong, this conversation will name what's been missing—and what healing really looks like.

Send us a textWhat if the most “spiritual” parts of your life have quietly taken God's place? We open a candid conversation about high-functioning idolatry—the subtle way good gifts like family, ministry systems, church culture, politics, education, and even worship styles become the things we trust most. Through personal stories, Old Testament insights, and honest self-audit, we unpack how fear disguises itself as prudence and how easy it is to rely on what we can control while calling it faith.We don't stop at diagnosis. Together we outline three concrete practices that re-center our hope: choosing assignments that require God to move, listening beyond our circle with Spirit-led curiosity, and worshiping with our resources through generosity, tithing, service, and availability. Along the way, we revisit Jonah 2:8 and Judges 21:25, reflect on the bronze serpent that became an idol, and contrast systems that help with systems that quietly replace the Spirit. The thread running through it all is the love of God—stronger than cultural turbulence and steadier than any outcome we can engineer.If your prayer life feels flat, your schedule too tight for interruption, or your peace tethered to headlines and bank balances, this episode is an invitation to trade control for communion. Hear how dependence revives faith, how compassion grows when we sit with people who see differently, and how generosity breaks the grip of lesser kings. Listen, reflect, and then take one courageous step that only makes sense if God shows up.If this resonated, subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a review to help others find the show. What's one “good thing” you're ready to put back in its proper place?Support the show

Your exhaustion isn't 'normal' despite what you've been told. There's a reason why you are consistently tired and exhausted. High stress leads to High-Functioning Fatigue and Burnout.  So, if you have ever wondered if your constant stress levels have anything to do with your daily fatigue, brain fog and sleep issues… you are in the right place! The short answer is YES! Your constant stress levels play a big role in your daily fatigue, brain fog and trouble sleeping.  Today I share how your stress affects your energy levels and can lead to an adrenal crisis. A fatigue condition not talked about very much.  This is an episode that was loved by many women just like you fighting fatigue and thinking it was her new normal. (It's not. I promise you.) If you missed it the first go round here's your chance to catch it without endlessly scrolling through episodes. And, if you've been a long time listener, you will still benefit from a refresh. Women suffer from a lot of "busy-ness" syndrome, pushing through and ignoring their own bodies signals (and screams.) The body is 2/3 of the way sick generally before any diagnosis is even made. But THIS diagnosis is largely overlooked, dismissed and ignored.  Adrenal fatigue or adrenal dysregulation is a very real condition that driven women especially in this midlife season are suffering with.  So, no sister, your daily exhaustion isn't 'normal'.  Good health is your birthright in Christ Jesus!!  I pray this pre-recorded episode blesses you today! XO, Michelle   Get rid of your stress induced fatigue, brain fog and belly fat in 12 weeks without dieting, deprivation and disappointment! So that you can wake feeling refreshed, have a clear mind for your day and have the energy to be fully present with your family in the evening. Book your  Fatigue Freedom Breakthrough Call today!   Online Supplement Dispensary Info: https://us.fullscript.com/welcome/michelle-mccoywellness ***Join our community, Fight FATIGUE over 40 with FAITH & Holistic Health, to be supported, encouraged and educated as you take back your health WITH God at the center. **Catch the Treasured Wellness Podcast on https://christianmix106.com/   AND YouTube   ***DISCLAIMER: By listening to this podcast, you agree not to use this podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition in either yourself or others. Contact your own physician for any medical concerns you have. This entire disclaimer also applies to any guests or contributors to the podcast. Under no circumstances shall Treasured Wellness, LLC, guests or contributors be responsible for damages arising from the use of this podcast.

High-Functioning Depression: Signs, Struggles, and Steps Toward HealingIn this heartfelt episode of It's Going to Be Okay, Nicky Asher-Bowling opens up about the hidden reality of high-functioning depression — when life looks “fine” on the outside, but inside, it's a daily battle.

Do you struggle with feeling like your happiness lives ‘out there' in the future – in the next partner, the next job, the next milestone?  In this episode of the Healing + Human Potential Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Judith Joseph, a renowned psychiatrist and researcher, to explore the difference between the happiness we chase and the joy we cultivate. Together, we unpack why so many high performers confuse burnout with depression — and how to rediscover a grounded, internally sourced sense of aliveness. Dr. Joseph shares the subtle signs of high-functioning depression, how unprocessed trauma can hide beneath busyness, and practical ways to reconnect with yourself. You'll learn her Five V's framework — Validate, Vent, Values, Vitals, and Vision — plus the 5-4-3-2-1 sensory practice to return to the present moment and healthy ways to release emotion without “trauma dumping.” We also dive into her latest research on joy in the digital age — including why two weeks without a smartphone can lift mood as powerfully as an antidepressant. You'll walk away with simple, science-backed tools to reset your nervous system, protect your mental health, and design your own blueprint for lasting joy and wellbeing.   0:00 – 1:20 Setting the frame: Why we chase happiness externally and how science tallies “points of joy.” 1:20 – 3:40 Joy vs. happiness: cultivating an internal resource for resilience (presence over postponement). 3:40 – 6:20 Burnout or depression? The stigma, the “always on” brain, and signs of high-functioning depression. 6:20 – 8:05 Inner restlessness, anhedonia, and why “I can't relax” persists even away from stressors. 8:05 – 10:15 The 5-4-3-2-1 practice: a sensory ritual to reclaim presence (mindful eating, savoring, connection). 10:15 – 12:05 Make it routine: how predictability settles your nervous system (Dr. Judith's coffee ritual). 12:05 – 14:30 “Pathologically productive:” succeeding on paper, suffering in silence — a 2020 wake-up call. 14:30 – 16:35 Why prevention matters: studying high-functioning depression before a full breakdown. 16:35 – 18:30 Not all trauma is “capital-T”: neglect, scarcity, and the invisible experiences that shape us. 18:30 – 21:05 Scarcity trauma vs. scarcity mindset: epigenetics, inherited behaviors, and overworking on autopilot. 21:05 – 23:00 Distinguishing love of learning from fear-driven achievement; checking the operating system. 23:00 – 25:10 The Five V's (part 1): Validate (name what's true) and Vent (without trauma dumping). 25:10 – 27:00 Healthy venting: emotional consent, reciprocity, journaling, prayer, and crying (90-second waves). 27:00 – 28:40 The Five V's (part 2): Values—prioritizing the priceless over the performative. 28:40 – 30:35 Collective & vicarious trauma: protecting your brain in a 24/7 news cycle. 30:35 – 32:10 RESET method: Realize, Educate, Strategy, Expectations, Thoughtfulness (boundaries with tech). 32:10 – 34:10 Smartphones & joy: why a “flip-phone fortnight” can feel like an antidepressant (more sleep, nature, connection). 34:10 – 35:10 The self-scrutiny trap: always seeing our own face, rising criticism, and lost social joy. 35:10 – 36:30 Digital age sanity: sleep hygiene, light exposure, and device boundaries that restore your brain. 36:30 – 37:35 “Understand the science of your happiness”: mapping your bio-psycho-social fingerprint. 37:35 – 39:00 The Five V's (part 3): Vision—plan your joy and celebrate small wins daily. 39:00 – 40:00 Closing: Joy heals communities; permission to feel good now + where to connect with Dr. Judith.   === Want to go deeper on healing trauma? Watch this recent episode with Gabby Bernstein on YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oih4wNFchEk ====   

In this episode, Ash, a therapist who pulled her kids out of school to travel the world for three years while running her business as the sole breadwinner, shares the raw truth about high-functioning burnout - the kind that looks like success from the outside but slowly kills you on the inside. From making half a million dollars while working 10-15 hours a week to burning out the following year trying to "professionalize" her business, Ash reveals why our attempts to fix burnout with to-do lists and perfect systems are actually making it worse. This episode will challenge everything you thought you knew about productivity, self-care, and what it really takes to break free from cortisol addiction.Here's What We Cover:What is high-functioning burnout? — Why the most successful-looking women are often the most burnt out (and why no one checks on them)The cortisol addiction trap — How our bodies become addicted to stress and why "peace" can actually feel unsafeWhy perfectionism leads to burnout — Ash's story of making $500K in a relaxed, unstructured way, then burning out the next year trying to make her business "professional"The dangerous myth of multitasking — Why trying to do everything at once drains your energy faster and creates only "elusive peace"Why self-care often doesn't work — The truth about performing self-care as another box to check instead of actual healing... and so much more!Resources Mentioned:Burnout Breakthrough: https://ashmcdonaldmentoring.com/burnout-breakthrough

What happens when you're so good at keeping everything together… that you forget to take care of yourself? In this episode of The Total Health in Midlife Podcast, I'm joined by Master Certified Coach and people-pleasing expert Sara Fisk to explore a surprising culprit behind so many women's exhaustion, resentment, and stalled health goals: high-functioning codependency. We're not talking about the kind of codependency tied to addiction. This is the polished, over-performing version that shows up in moms, partners, daughters, and leaders—the women who hold everything and everyone together… and quietly fall apart in the process. Sara shares how people-pleasing, perfectionism, and control patterns drain your energy, chip away at your physical and emotional health, and keep you stuck in a cycle of doing for others while ignoring your own needs. If you've ever found yourself running ragged fixing other people's problems, this episode will help you come back to yourself—with honesty, compassion, and a few practical tools to help you start saying yes to you again. About Sara Fisk Sara Bybee Fisk is a Master Certified Coach and Instructor who teaches women how to tame the rampant people-pleasing, perfectionism, and codependency that is causing them so much frustration and resentment.  She is an anxious optimist and born-again feminist who listens to more books than she sits down to read. She loves a good hike, good dark chocolate, and good conversations.  Her big dreams include learning to sail and to sing and dance like JLo and helping thousands of women create the big, juicy lives they want to be living. She is a wife and mom of 5 and she enjoys those roles most of the time.  WHAT YOU'LL LEARN What high-functioning codependency looks like (and why most women don't recognize it in themselves) How trying to “help” others can actually be a way to avoid our own discomfort Why over-controlling others can sabotage your health, relationships, and peace of mind—and how to shift the pattern RESOURCES Too Much by Terri Cole The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner Sara Fisk's Free Guide: How to Have a Difficult Conversation The Ex Good Girl Podcast with Sara Fisk Sara's Stop People Pleasing Group Program Total Health in Midlife Podcast Episode 160: Ex-Good Girl with Sara Fisk Total Health in Midlife Podcast Episode 161: People Pleasing & Self-Care Total Health in Midlife Podcast Episode 127: Best Supporting Actress In Your Life Get full show notes and more information here: https://elizabethsherman.com/243  

Are you married but feel like you're living with a roommate with a ring? You've built a great life and run the house well, but emotionally, something vital is missing. You're leading parallel lives, and the silence is deafening. You are not alone—a 2021 study found that 34% of long-term married couples describe themselves as roommates more than partners.In this episode of Rich in Relationship, host Rich Heller breaks down the widespread phenomenon of "roommate syndrome" and explores why logistical excellence often comes at the cost of emotional intimacy.You'll discover:- The difference between logistical maintenance (schedules, bills) and relationship maintenance (emotional check-ins, vulnerability).- Why couples drift apart even without fighting, and why noticing something is missing is a sign of emotional maturity.- The hidden cost of thinking "we're fine" and how emotional neglect compounds invisibly over years.- The dangers of "business creep" and becoming a "human doing" instead of a "human being" in your relationship.- The simple, actionable investments you can start making today—like regular emotional check-ins—to schedule in intimacy, fun, and connection.It's time to stop just coexisting and start co-creating a marriage that is both efficient and truly alive.Grab your free resources and join the community here to help you bring life back to your marriage: www.richhinrelationship.com

"You're pursuing busyness for the sake of busyness, but it's actually high-functioning unbelief." Virgil Walker Join pastors Kyle Swanson, Jason Stinson, Virgil Walker, Todd Burgett, and Darrell Harrison as they dive deep into the tyranny of busyness and its impact on the modern Christian life. Is busyness a badge of honor—or a spiritual distraction? In this episode, the pastors unpack how culture, faith, and rest intersect, drawing rich insights from Scripture. They offer practical wisdom for prioritizing your relationship with God and your family over the frantic pace of life. You'll be encouraged to pursue biblical rest over worldly productivity and discover how true satisfaction is found in Christ, not in a packed calendar.

Discover how ADHD symptoms show up in high-functioning adults, and why success on the outside can mask daily struggles. The post How Do ADHD Symptoms Present in High-Functioning Adults? appeared first on Marla Cummins.

Are you juggling a million things while feeling totally drained? I sat down with my friend Michelle McCoy to talk about high-functioning fatigue in women with Hashimoto's — and trust me, this episode feels like a heart-to-heart with a friend who gets it. We keep it real: how food, mindset, breath, and gentle movement can help your body feel safe enough to heal. If you're tired of being dismissed and ready for simple, doable steps to get your energy back, this one's for you. In this episode you'll discover: Why high functioning fatigue is a key clue to Hashimoto's. How your body is designed to heal when given the right tools, like nutrition and holistic care. Four simple practices—thoughts, breath, stretch, and nutrition—to start easing fatigue today. Press play now to learn how to stop ignoring the signals your body is sending and start finding answers that bring you hope and energy. Listen to Treasured Wellness podcast Michelle's website: www.treasuredwellness.com    JOIN THE HEALTH WITH HASHIMOTO'S COMMUNITY Find all links on my resource page: https://healthwithhashimotos.com/resources/   ABOUT THE PODCAST & ESTHER: The Health with Hashimoto's podcast will help you explore the root causes of your autoimmune condition and discover holistic solutions to address your Hashimoto's thyroiditis. It is hosted by Esther Yunkin, a registered nurse, holistic health educator, and Hashimoto's warrior.   This podcast is for informational and educational purposes. Please discuss any questions or concerns with your healthcare professional. These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. Products mentioned are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease.

Send us a textHow do we treat our physical health versus our mental health? Former London Metropolitan Police officer Jonathan Kemp spent 12 years in law enforcement while battling undiagnosed bipolar disorder, depression, and dyslexia—yet refused to seek professional help until his late 30s."I was determined to fix myself on my own," Kemp reveals in this powerful conversation. "I saw it as an insult to go and see a doctor. It was a weakness or admission of defeat." This mindset, particularly prevalent among first responders and those in high-pressure careers, kept him struggling silently for decades before finally seeking the treatment that transformed his life.Kemp articulates the profound disconnect in how we approach different aspects of our wellbeing: "If you had a chronic knee problem, you'd go and see a knee specialist. It defies logic that we're happy to see a professional for the rest of our body, but when it comes to the brain, we have this almost inbuilt default that you should figure it out yourself." This insight cuts to the heart of why many resist mental health support despite overwhelming suffering.The conversation explores how structured environments like policing can sometimes mask mental health challenges, while shift work can exacerbate them by disrupting sleep patterns—what Kemp identifies as his "#1 foundation" for mental health stability. He shares practical advice for supporting struggling colleagues and navigating recovery resources when confidentiality concerns arise, especially in professions where stigma remains powerful.Now an advocate and author, Kemp discusses his upcoming book "Finding Peace of Mind" (releasing on World Mental Health Day) and his ambitious seven-month awareness walk across the British Isles beginning January 2026. Through both initiatives, he's transforming his decades of struggle into resources that might help others find support sooner.Visit Jonathan at the following links: https://www.viscountrochdale.com/https://www.facebook.com/jonathankemplondonhttps://www.instagram.com/Jonathankemplondonhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/jonathankemplondonYou can order his book at Amazon: www.amazon.com/jonathankempFreed.ai: We'll Do Your SOAP Notes!Freed AI converts conversations into SOAP note.Use code Steve50 for $50 off the 1st month!Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the showYouTube Channel For The Podcast

High-functioning depression is one of the most misunderstood mental health struggles of our time — and psychiatrist, professor, and author Dr. Judith Joseph is on a mission to change that. In this powerful conversation, Dr. Joseph, who has been featured on The Today Show and interviewed by Mel Robbins, shares insights from her groundbreaking new book High Functioning. Drawing from years of clinical research, her personal journey with mental health, and her work advocating for more accessible care, she sheds light on how high-functioning depression quietly affects millions, especially women and those in caregiving or healthcare roles. This content is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment and is not intended to replace care provided by a mental or physical health professional. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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High-functioning depression is a silent struggle for many. Are you walking through life, feeling overwhelmed, but still managing to keep it all together? Dr. Joseph shares insights from her groundbreaking, peer-reviewed study, the first of its kind on high-functioning depression. She explains why many people with depression symptoms continue to function, showing up to work and managing their responsibilities, often while wearing a mask to hide their pain. They may not experience joy or pleasure, a symptom known as anhedonia, which can be a key indicator of this condition. Episode sponsors: • BABBEL Get up to 55% OFF: https://www.babbel.com/kati • MINT MOBILE Premium wireless service for just $15 a month. https://www.mintmobile.com/kati • HEADSPACE Receive a free 60-day trial: https://www.headspace.com/askkati My new book is available for pre-order: Why Do I Keep Doing This? → https://geni.us/XoyLSQ If you've ever felt stuck, this book is for you. I'd be so grateful for your support. Our conversation challenges the traditional medical approach to mental health, which often requires a person to reach a point of crisis before they can receive a diagnosis or treatment. We explore why this "wait until you're at stage four" mentality is so flawed and how we can instead adopt a preventative mindset, similar to what we see in cardiology. We also dive into the fascinating link between past trauma and the need to be constantly busy. Dr. Joseph's research shows that high-functioning individuals often avoid dealing with their pain by taking on more work and distracting themselves. In this episode: 00:46 - What is High-Functioning Depression? 02:47 - The connection between trauma, being busy, and high-functioning depression 04:21 - The medical field's narrow definition of trauma 07:12 - The idea of "white knuckling" life 08:32 - The difference between happiness and joy 11:23 - The importance of small moments of joy 14:16 - Using the Bio-Psychosocial Model to find joy 25:50 - The significance of body and emotional awareness 27:50 - The impact of social media and technology 31:53 - The importance of in-person connection 37:48 - The future of AI in therapy 40:39 - The connection between people-pleasing, perfectionism, and trauma 45:54 - Why people return to abusive relationships 48:38 - A 5-step model for finding joy 53:40 - The joy of writing and creative work Order Dr. Judith Joseph's book, High-Functioning: https://amzn.to/3Iotjvx Kati's Main Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Katimorton#podcast #psychology #drjudithjoseph KATI'S BOOKS Traumatized https://geni.us/Bfak0j Are u ok? https://geni.us/sva4iUY ONLINE THERAPY (enjoy 10% off your first month) While I do not currently offer online therapy, BetterHelp can connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://www.betterhelp.com/kati PARTNERSHIPS Nick Freeman | nick@biglittlemedia.co Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You want the truth? Here it is: High-functioning exhaustion isn't a badge of honor, it's a fracture running straight through your sense of self.  You call it strength, call it emotional fluency, but really, it's a crisis of identity. You know how to care for everyone else, yet when the noise stops, you don't even know what rest is, except for the collapse that comes after you've spent every ounce.  This isn't about self-care routines or bubble baths; it's about unlearning survival as your default. If you're ready to face the reality behind your relentless drive, keep listening. We're stripping it all down, starting now.  00:00:58 – The Survival Pattern & Rest as Collapse  00:01:56 – Redefining Real Rest  00:02:50 – Personal Story: Finding Rest in Movement  00:04:03 – Nature as a Reminder to Release Control  00:04:49 – Rest as Alignment, Not Inactivity  00:05:41 – The Myth of Stillness: The Hyperactive Mind  00:07:05 – Emotional Overload: When Even Connection Feels Like a Chore  00:07:40 – Coping Mechanisms for an Overactive Mind  00:09:00 – Rest That Gives Back: The Joy of Creating  00:10:54 – Find What Reintroduces You to Yourself  00:12:10 – Folding the Seasons: Letting Go & Moving Forward  00:13:20 – Simple Rituals as Daily Reset  00:14:29 – Quiet Irritability & Internalized Stress  00:16:25 – The Cost of Disconnection & Perpetual Performance 00:17:39 – Guided 1-Minute Reset Practice  00:18:53 – Rest Is Alignment, Not Selfishness

Ever feel like life just feels… flat - even when, on paper, nothing is wrong? In the finale of our 5-part High-Functioning Burnout Exposed series with Awaken the Muse, Natalie, Alexi Panos and Emily Gallagher dig into numbness, stuckness, and the urge to burn it all down. You'll discover why flatness is actually a signal of misalignment, how to tune into your inner GPS, and the small shifts that bring you back online without overhauling your entire life. You'll learn a simple self-audit to spot what needs to shift, how to create breathing room when your to-do list never ends, and what it really looks like to design your days with more aliveness, joy, and ease. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 When numbness and avoidance take over 01:55 Stuckness as a signal: what your inner GPS is telling you 03:20 Numb isn't nothing: why flatness is still information 05:27 Do you really need to blow up your life? 06:52 The self-audit: what to add in, what to let go of 08:34 Designing instead of reacting: subtle shifts that create energy 12:12 The 80/20 Reset: Creating space when your list never ends  15:24 The real reason change never sticks until you change you 17:10 Gentle discipline: 3–5 minute daily practices that nurture presence RESOURCES + LINKS Click Here To Join Soft Success: A Free Live Masterclass Experience Taking Place On September 24th To End High-Functioning Burnout And Redefine Success On Your Terms. Sign Up For Our Free Weekly Newsletter & Get Insights From Natalie Every Single Week On All Things Strategy, Motherhood, Business Growth + More.  Drop Us A Review On The Podcast + Send Us A Screenshot & We'll Send You Natalie's 7-Figure Operating System Completely FREE (value $1,997).

Why does resentment creep into the relationships of ambitious women - especially when you feel like you're “doing it all”? In Part 4 of our 5-Part High-Functioning Burnout Exposed series with Awaken the Muse, Natalie, Alexi Panos and Emily Gallagher unpack how unspoken needs, over-functioning, and self-betrayal quietly erode intimacy + how to rebuild connection without abandoning your drive. You'll learn a clearer frame for reverse polarity (respect vs. cherish), how to shift from blame to vulnerable truth, and a simple reset that restores your sense of power and wholeness in a relationship. You'll leave with tools to read your nervous system, name the desire under the complaint, and create more safety, softness, and spark - without carrying all the emotional load. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Why resentment builds for high-performing women 03:20 Modern roles & reverse polarity: respect vs. being cherished 06:52 The resentment–self-betrayal loop (micro “yeses” when you mean no) 08:58 Softness, vulnerability, and nervous-system safety in love 12:30 From complaints to desires: how to ask cleanly 15:40 “I'm tired of the emotional labor” - a different way forward 17:55 The 90-day self-first reset to reclaim your clarity and choice 31:20 Tending triggers: inner child work, grief, and self-intimacy 37:10 Green lights and micro-appreciations: small shifts that change dynamics RESOURCES + LINKS Click Here To Join Soft Success: A Free Live Masterclass Experience Taking Place On September 24th To End High-Functioning Burnout And Redefine Success On Your Terms. Sign Up For Our Free Weekly Newsletter & Get Insights From Natalie Every Single Week On All Things Strategy, Motherhood, Business Growth + More.  Drop Us A Review On The Podcast + Send Us A Screenshot & We'll Send You Natalie's 7-Figure Operating System Completely FREE (value $1,997).

Why does “one more launch… one more zero… one more goal” never feel like enough? In Part 3 of our 5-part High-Functioning Burnout Exposed series with Awaken the Muse, we're exploring the perpetual chase - that constant striving for more, even when you've already achieved so much. This episode unpacks why accomplishment rarely brings the fulfillment we expect, how cultural conditioning keeps women tying their worth to output, and what it really takes to feel satisfied now instead of always chasing the next milestone. Walk away with a sturdier definition of “enough,” a simple way to expand your capacity without overloading your plate, and a journal prompt that helps you create from abundance, not scarcity. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 The treadmill of “more”: why achievement never feels like enough 02:33 The warning signs of draining energy and constant mental load 07:10 Craving more things vs. craving more of yourself 08:42 Why rest, play, and pleasure are actually productive 10:31 Breaking the self-sacrificing blueprint so many women inherit 12:39 The impossible standards that keep women stuck in exhaustion 16:40 Living a big life from enoughness (and why capacity grows with safety) 23:16 Why growth doesn't stop, but the fuel behind it must change 25:26 A journal practice to end the chase and start living now RESOURCES + LINKS Click Here To Join Soft Success: A Free Masterclass Experience To End High-Functioning Burnout And Redefine Success On Your Terms. Sign Up For Our Free Weekly Newsletter & Get Insights From Natalie Every Single Week On All Things Strategy, Motherhood, Business Growth + More.  Drop Us A Review On The Podcast + Send Us A Screenshot & We'll Send You Natalie's 7-Figure Operating System Completely FREE (value $1,997).

Amelia's Inspiring Journey Overcoming OCD & Anxiety with Matt CoddeIn this powerful episode, Amelia shares her decade-long struggle with OCD and anxiety and how she found real recovery through Matt Codde's Restored Minds approach. Discover key lessons about facing fear, nervous system healing, and why true freedom comes from letting go of the obsession's content.

Why do so many high-achieving women do all the right things - get 8 hours of sleep, take the supplements, follow the routines - yet still wake up exhausted? In the first episode of this series, we unpacked the overwhelm loop. In Part 2 of our 5-part High-Functioning Burnout Exposed series with Awaken the Muse, Natalie, Alexi Panos and Emily Gallagher dive into energy, vitality and why sleep isn't solving what's actually nervous-system and emotional-load related. You'll hear why healthy habits alone can't create true vitality, how to reconnect with the signals your body is sending, and the exact reflection that reveals where your energy is leaking: What are you avoiding or pretending not to know? After listening to this episode, you will walk away with simple regulation tools, a new way to understand your body's needs, and a gentler path to real, sustainable energy. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Doing all the things… and still running on empty 01:18 Vitality vs. cortisol: a new definition of energy 04:33 Burnout as initiation (when old tricks stop working) 08:03 Rebuilding self-trust: listening to your body first 12:16 Looks vs. feels: caring for your body from the inside 14:18 Feeling the unfelt (grief, numbness, stored emotions) 16:48 The diagnostic question: What are you avoiding/pretending not to know? 24:07 The true cost of not looking (energy, love, creativity) 29:14 A one-week practice to reveal what you're avoiding RESOURCES + LINKS Click Here To Join Soft Success: A Free Live Masterclass Experience Taking Place On September 24th To End High-Functioning Burnout And Redefine Success On Your Terms. Sign Up For Our Free Weekly Newsletter & Get Insights From Natalie Every Single Week On All Things Strategy, Motherhood, Business Growth + More.  Drop Us A Review On The Podcast + Send Us A Screenshot & We'll Send You Natalie's 7-Figure Operating System Completely FREE (value $1,997).

Why is it that the very habits that drive ambitious women to succeed - the hustle, the long hours, the “I can do it all” mindset - are often the same ones that lead to burnout, anxiety, and resentment? In the first episode of our 5-part series with Awaken the Muse - Natalie, Alexi Panos and Emily Gallagher pull back the curtain on what they call the overwhelm loop - the cycle of urgency, overcommitment, and dysregulation that so many high-achieving women mistake for normal. Together, they share raw stories of postpartum identity shifts, hidden resentment in relationships, and the nervous system patterns that keep us chasing more even when we already feel depleted. You'll learn what “functional freeze” actually looks like, why capacity can be a mask for self-abandonment, and the micro-practices that help you exhale, reset, and build a more sustainable kind of success. If you've ever felt like slowing down means falling behind, this episode will prove the opposite - that nervous system regulation is the real key to growth, profit, and fulfillment. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 The hidden cost of high-functioning burnout 01:26 From biohacking to balance: how hormones tell the truth before we do 03:35 The LA hustle spell and the pressure to “stay relevant” 05:24 Postpartum wake-up calls: splitting yourself between business and baby 08:49 The identity crisis no one talks about after becoming a mother 11:27 Why your nervous system equates chaos with safety 15:10 How relaxing (not pushing harder) actually expands capacity 16:40 Soft CEO era vs. hustle culture: finding a middle ground 25:36 Functional freeze explained and why high achievers miss the signs 33:37 Resentment as a red flag for self-abandonment 38:23 Simple regulation tools you can use in under a minute 41:34 The myth that transformation has to be hard, and what actually works RESOURCES + LINKS Click Here To Join Soft Success: A Free Masterclass Experience Taking Place On September 24th To End High-Functioning Burnout And Redefine Success On Your Terms. Sign Up For Our Free Weekly Newsletter & Get Insights From Natalie Every Single Week On All Things Strategy, Motherhood, Business Growth + More.  Drop Us A Review On The Podcast + Send Us A Screenshot & We'll Send You Natalie's 7-Figure Operating System Completely FREE (value $1,997).

This episode of the Tactical Living Podcast, hosted by Coach Ashlie Walton and Sergeant Clint Walton, takes a candid look at the hidden mental health battles many first responders fight (Amazon Affiliate) while appearing perfectly fine on the outside. The discipline, structure, and professionalism that make them effective in the field often double as masks—concealing anxiety, depression, trauma, or burnout from colleagues, family, and even themselves. Defining “High-Functioning” Struggles: How success and competence can hide serious internal distress. The difference between coping and truly healing. Why First Responders Mask Symptoms: Cultural pressure to appear unshakable. Fear of stigma, career repercussions, or losing trust. The Role of Routine in Concealment: How structure and discipline can maintain outward stability. Why routines can become a crutch instead of a lifeline. The Cumulative Toll of Silent Struggles: The long-term health risks of untreated anxiety, depression, or trauma. The emotional cost on family relationships and personal well-being. The Danger of Self-Deception: How “I'm fine” becomes a habit, even to oneself. Why high-functioning doesn't mean healthy functioning. Strategies to Recognize and Address the Issue: Normalize Conversations Around Mental Health: Peer leaders and supervisors openly sharing their own experiences. Look for Micro-Signs in Yourself and Others: Changes in sleep, irritability, withdrawal, or overworking. Encourage Early Check-Ins, Not Crisis Interventions: Making mental health maintenance as routine as physical training. Use Trusted, Confidential Resources: Peer support, vetted therapists, or off-the-record consultations. Reframe Help-Seeking as Tactical Strength: Position mental wellness as part of operational readiness. This episode is a reminder that a polished uniform and a strong performance in the field don't always mean someone is okay—and that the bravest thing a responder can do might be to take off the mask.  

You know when you feel like you're constantly going through the motions between work, family, and endless responsibilities—but inside, everything feels flat? That's the reality of high-functioning depression.  In this episode, I'm joined by the talented psychiatrist, author, and nationally recognized expert in women's mental health, Dr. Judith Joseph, to unpack what high-functioning depression really is.  We dive into the secret signs of high-functioning depression, especially in midlife, and why it often goes unnoticed in women who seem to have it all together.  Dr. Joseph shares powerful strategies and practical tools to help you move from surviving to truly thriving.  We also discuss how to recognize when a loved one might be struggling behind the mask of success—and how to offer meaningful support.  If you feel emotionally drained despite keeping it all together on the outside, this episode will give you the clarity you need for more happiness in your life. Dr. Judith Joseph, MD MBA Dr. Judith Joseph is a psychiatrist, researcher, award-winning content creator, and author of the National Bestselling book “High Functioning, Overcome Your Hidden Depression and Reclaim Your Joy”. Dr. Judith was named as a 2024 Black Health Hero by PopSugar Inc. She was also named a 2024 VeryWell Mind Top 25 Mental Health Thought Leader and a 2024 NAACP Top 6 Mental Health Champion. IN THIS EPISODE Warning signs for high-functioning depression in midlife  Understanding the science of happiness  Most common symptoms of high-functioning depression  Why many high-functioning people have trouble slowing down  The difference between happiness and joy  Strategies for navigating high-functioning depression  How to support a loved one with high-functioning depression  QUOTES “People who go through perimenopause and menopause often mask how they feel just to show up for the job and for others. So they often have this underlying high-functioning depression that is made worse [from] hormonal fluctuations.” “Gratitude practices are really helpful in staving off high-functioning depression or sustaining your joy. It's hard to be grateful when you don't know what brings you joy.” “Don't give up. You may feel hopeless, but know that there's always something you have not tried. There's always hope. That's why I like the idea of support groups, because many times you not only help others with your story, but you also learn from other people.” RESOURCES MENTIONED

Most of us think codependency looks like someone clinging to a toxic partner, losing themselves to someone else's addictions, or being a doormat. But Terri Cole, licensed psychotherapist, global relationship and empowerment expert, and author of Boundary Boss and her brand-new book Too Much, is here to blow that outdated definition out of the water. Terri has spent over two decades working with everyone from stay-at-home moms to Fortune 500 CEOs, helping them break free from self-sacrificing patterns and build healthier, more authentic relationships. She inspires more than a million people weekly through her blog, social media, signature courses, and The Terri Cole Show podcast. In this episode, Nicole and Terri unpack high-functioning codependency—the kind that hides behind promotions, praise, and the “she can handle it all” reputation. Spoiler: it still feels like shit. Together, they dive into how to spot the signs, why resentment is the red flag you can't ignore, and how boundaries, self-consideration, and surrendering (without self-abandoning) might be the antidote you've been missing. Because friend, if you're exhausted, resentful, and constantly over-giving, this episode is your permission slip to drop the cape, stop fixing everyone else's mess, and finally start considering yourself. Connect with Terri: Website: https://www.terricole.com/  Book: hfcbook.com  IG: https://www.instagram.com/terricole/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/TerriColeLCSW/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/terricoleny Podcast: https://terricole.com/itunes Related Podcast Episodes Healing Relationships: The 4 Essential Pillars for Lasting Love with Dr. Rachel Glik | 283 7 Rules of Self-Reliance with Maha Abouelenein | 240 How To Be Selfish with Naketa Ren Thigpen | 329 Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform!

What if the person who seems to have it all together is actually struggling in silence?In this episode, I'm joined by the extraordinary Dr. Judith Joseph – psychiatrist, researcher, and author of High Functioning – to unpack a form of depression that so many people relate to but rarely talk about: high-functioning depression.We dive into why it's often missed, how it hides behind achievement, and what it really means to live without joy – even while ticking every box of a “successful” life.Dr. Judith shares insights from her groundbreaking research and her own personal experience, with wisdom that's as validating as it is actionable. We also explore the mind-body connection, the role of trauma, and the small but powerful “points of joy” we can reclaim in our everyday lives.Whether you're running on empty or supporting someone who is, this conversation will help you feel seen – and maybe even a little more hopeful.Try Bettervits for yourself, head on over to bettervits.co.uk and get 15% off your 1st order with my code PANDORA15.Find Dr Judith Joseph:Website: https://drjudithjoseph.com/Book: https://amzn.eu/d/bZZreAaInstagram: @drjudithjosephStay Connected with Hurt to Healing:Instagram: instagram.com/hurttohealingpodTikTok: tiktok.com/@hurttohealingpodLinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/hurt-to-healingSubstack: substack.com/@hurttohealingWebsite: hurttohealing.co.uk Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Healing You Method Podcast, where we bridge the gap between ancient wisdom and modern science to decode the science of soul healing.   In this episode, we dive deep into the overachieving patterns that often fuel success—but at the cost of burnout, emotional suppression, or disconnection.   Through a lens of healing through science, we uncover the hidden patterns of success in science that not only drive achievement but can also catalyze profound soul growth.   Discover how transformative science concepts can reveal the inner mechanics of your behavior, and how the science behind self-improvement helps you evolve with more clarity, alignment, and intention.   This is your space to understand the patterns of healing in psychology, and how rewiring your inner blueprint can help you achieve more with science—not by doing more, but by healing more.   Because true transformation doesn't come from hustle. It comes from understanding the pattern behind why you hustle in the first place.   For more such content, follow me on:   Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/healing_you... LinkedIn-   / glorialybecker     Website- https://glorialybeckercoaching.com   Gail Donohue - https://www.gaildonohuecoaching.com   Keep shining and living from your heart.   #HorsesAndLifeLessons, #ResettingAfterFailure, #EquineWisdom, #LessonsFromHorses, #OvercomingFumbles, #MindfulnessWithHorses, #EquestrianLifeSkills, #EmotionalResilience, #HorseInspiredGrowth, #FumblingForward

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You might think depression looks like sadness, withdrawal, or losing all motivation. But what if it could also look like achievement, productivity, and relentless drive?This week's guest, Dr. Judith Joseph, psychiatrist, researcher, and author of High Functioning Depression, reveals why so many high performers silently struggle with emptiness, anxiety, and disconnection, despite looking like they “have it all.” Drawing from both her clinical expertise and lived experience, Dr. Joseph breaks down why society rewards overwork, how masking with busyness becomes a dangerous coping strategy, and why prevention, not crisis, is the future of mental health. Her work is reshaping how we understand success, resilience, and joy.Together we explore: – The hidden signs of high-functioning depression and why it's so often missed – Why constant productivity can be a coping mechanism for unresolved pain – How anxiety and depression overlap more than we realize – The role of social media, overstimulation, and Gen Z's rising mental health crisis – Why toxic relationships and lack of validation fuel burnout – Dr. Joseph's “5 V's” framework for reclaiming joy and building resilience – How to slow down, self-validate, and truly savor life without losing ambitionThis is not about lowering your standards. It's about rewriting the script on success, one where ambition and well-being can co-exist. If you've ever wondered why achievement alone doesn't make you feel fulfilled, this conversation will give you the clarity and tools to change that.Love,Sarah Ann

Wasabi Technologies (a Boston-based cloud storage company with over $530M in funding, a decade of hypergrowth, 450+ team members, and multiple exabytes of storage deployed) sets high standards for its finance and analytics teams.  Both teams are under pressure to deliver fast, accurate, and actionable insights. Marcos Bento, Director Business Intelligence at Wasabi Technologies and David Suter, Director, Financial Planning And Analysis at Wasabi Technologies join us for a special two-parter. They delve deep into how their teams work together, across functions to turn raw data into real-time financial intelligence. In this episode:  Building and gaining trust between BI and FP&A  Getting from “10% out” to within a couple percentage points for forecasting  KPIs such as dollars per terabyte  BI and FP&A as investigative reporters  Predictive analytics: forecast in the 6 or 12 months working with sales  The manifesto for AI at Wasabi 

Melissa Fletcher Stoeltje's story is one that resonates deeply with anyone who has experienced the hidden struggles of addiction. Imagine maintaining a successful career while secretly battling high-functioning alcoholism. Melissa opens up about her journey from denial to recovery, sharing the pivotal moments that led her to seek help. Her memoir, "Drunk Love: A Marriage Under the Influence," serves as a testament to the resilience required to overcome such a gripping hold on life. Her candid reflections offer a beacon of hope for those facing similar battles or supporting loved ones on their path to sobriety.Navigating a marriage entangled in the web of alcoholism presents its own set of challenges. Melissa and her husband share their experience of confronting the underlying issues masked by alcohol. Through therapy and recovery programs, they learned to rebuild their relationship, finding healthier ways to communicate and support each other. This episode explores themes of personal well-being, the importance of choosing the right therapeutic support, and the powerful transformation that sobriety can bring to personal and familial dynamics. Rediscovering one's identity and passions, such as Melissa's love for writing, are highlighted as key elements in the journey to recovery.In this episode, you will hear:Melissa Fletcher Stoeltje's battle with high-functioning alcoholism and the role of denial.The impact of alcoholism on Melissa's marriage and the journey to recovery and healing.Rediscovering personal identity and passions through sobriety, with a focus on Melissa's love for writing.The significance of choosing the right therapeutic support and the potential necessity of ending unhealthy relationships.Embracing radical honesty in recovery and the surprising support from colleagues.The transformative power of community and fellowship in overcoming addiction.Follow and Review:We'd love for you to follow us if you haven't yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We'd love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast.Supporting Resources:Drunk Love: A Marriage under the InfluenceSobertown InterviewNovusMindfulLife.comhttps://www.theaddictedmind.com/community Episode CreditsIf you like this podcast and are thinking of creating your own, consider talking to my producer, Emerald City Productions. They helped me grow and produce the podcast you are listening to right now. Find out more at https://emeraldcitypro.com Let them know we sent you.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The Secret Life of High-Functioning Addiction On the surface, high-functioning alcoholics and addicts seem to have it all together—successful careers, stable families, and a polished exterior. But behind closed doors, there's often a hidden world of planning, hiding, and emotional turmoil that most people never see. In this episode, we're pulling back the curtain on the secret life of high-functioning addiction. You'll learn: The subtle signs that are often missed The internal battles they fight daily The steps toward lasting recovery Whether you're living this reality yourself or you love someone who is, this conversation will give you the clarity and tools you need to move forward.

In this episode, Dr. Judith Joseph explains what happens when success hides suffering, and the importance of understanding high-functioning depression. She explores why many people who look fine on the outside are quietly suffering on the inside with something we rarely talk about: anhedonia, the loss of joy, or the loss of ability to feel pleasure. This is an important conversation that highlights this often overlooked and underplayed challenge of high-functioning depression that so many of us deal with, and most importantly, how to overcome it.Key Takeaways:Concept of high-functioning depression and its characteristicsSymptoms of anhedonia and their impact on daily lifeLimitations of current diagnostic criteria for depressionImportance of early recognition and intervention for mental health issuesBiopsychosocial model for understanding mental healthRole of personal agency and choice in managing mental healthStrategies for emotional validation and expressionThe significance of reconnecting with personal values for joyImpact of technology and social connections on mental well-beingImportance of celebrating small wins and planning for future joyIf you enjoyed this conversation with Dr. Judith Joseph, check out these other episodes:How Identity Can Affect How You Deal with Depression with Kimi CulpEmerging Perspectives on Depression with Alex RileyStrategies for Depression with Therese BorchardFor full show notes, click here!Connect with the show:Follow us on YouTube: @TheOneYouFeedPodSubscribe on Apple Podcasts or SpotifyFollow us on InstagramSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

How to Know If You're in the Loop (Even If You're High Functioning)You may seem fine on the outside, but internally feel trapped by OCD or anxiety. In this episode, Matt Codde, LCSW, explains how high-functioning individuals can still be stuck in the loop—and what true recovery really looks like.

You can be successful, self-aware, and high-functioning—and still completely lose yourself in a relationship.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm joined by integrative therapist and somatic practitioner Megan Sherer for a deeply honest conversation about how even the most self-sufficient women can unconsciously self-abandon when love is on the line. We unpack how nervous system conditioning, attachment styles, and childhood trauma shape our romantic patterns and why it's so hard to walk away from someone who feels like home, even when they aren't safe for your healing.   If you've been losing yourself in relationships that require you to shrink, fix, or prove your worth, this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Megan's book: www.megansherer.com/book Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/   What We Discuss: What self-abandonment actually looks like in high-functioning women Why emotionally unavailable partners can feel so familiar How nervous system dysregulation ties into who we choose and why The role of “somatic safety” in building real trust with yourself Why clarity is found in the body—not just the mind How to stop abandoning yourself and finally choose aligned love   Find more from Megan Sherer: Instagram: www.instagram.com/megansherer   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

You're not needy. You're not the damsel in distress. You get shit done.But what if I told you that your excellence, your leadership, your "I've got this" attitude is actually a sophisticated form of codependency that's keeping you emotionally trapped?In this raw, unfiltered solo episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on the high-functioning codependency that disguises itself as strength but leaves you drowning in resentment while everyone else gets to rest.What You'll Discover:The Real Face of CodependencyWhy it's not about being needy—it's about needing to be needed so badly you abandon yourselfHow your "strength" became your prisonThe difference between being helpful and being codependentThe Hidden Traits That Don't Look CodependentYou anticipate others' needs before being asked (and call it leadership)You intellectualize feelings but avoid actually feeling themYou see your value in what you do, not who you areYou never ask for help but resent people who doHow It Shows Up Everywhere:At Work: You're the emotional air traffic controller managing everyone's moodsIn Parenting: You over-function for your kids while under-functioning for yourselfIn Love: You choose potential over reality and call it commitmentThe Codependent Loop That's Stealing Your Joy:Obsession (disguised as leadership)Control (disguised as being proactive)Resentment (disguised as martyrdom)Collapse (disguised as "having a lot on your plate")Hope (disguised as optimism)RepeatThe Hard Truth:You've built an empire on "not good enough." You're constantly chasing, constantly proving, constantly giving—but never arriving at that place where you feel genuinely fulfilled.Your life looks amazing on the outside. But on the inside? You're exhausted, disconnected, and wondering why success doesn't feel the way you thought it would.The Way Out:This isn't about becoming selfish or uncaring. It's about coming home to yourself. It's about moving from codependency to sovereignty—knowing who you are without all the masks and coping mechanisms.The Three A's:Awareness: Seeing these patterns without judgmentAcceptance: The gateway to transformationAction: Detachment, boundaries, and reparenting yourselfReal Talk:How much longer are you going to stay in this loop? How much longer will you pat yourself on the back for being "so strong" while your joy slips through your fingers every single day?The cost of doing nothing isn't just your well-being—it's your relationships, your health, and the woman you're meant to become.If This Hit You Like a Freight Train:This episode might be one to listen to twice. There's a lot here. And if you're sitting there thinking "holy shit, this is me"—that's your nervous system recognizing the truth.You have a choice right now. You can keep pretending these patterns are just "being responsible," or you can decide that today is the day you stop abandoning yourself for everyone else.Ready to break the cycle? Visit LisaCarpenter.ca/WWM and fill out the application. Let's have a real conversation about what it looks like to reclaim your life.If this episode rocked your world, share it with another high-functioning human who needs to hear this. That's how we change lives—one honest conversation at a time. Resources Mentioned:Work with Lisa: LisaCarpenter.ca/WWMFollow Lisa on Instagram: @LisaCarpenterInc"Codependency isn't about weak people. It's about people who have been conditioned to believe their worth depends on being needed, accepted or approved by others." - Ross Rosenberg

Dr. Judith Joseph is a Board Certified Psychiatrist, professor of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry at NYU Langone Medical Center. She has conducted over 100 clinical research studies in pediatric, adult, geriatric and women's mental health as the Principal Investigator of her research lab, Manhattan Behavioral Medicine. Dr. Joseph is also a leading voice in the fields of high-functioning depression and the science of happiness. Today on the show we discuss: why so many successful people still feel empty inside, why you can't “out achieve” your childhood trauma, the difference between burnout and depression, the real science of happiness and why chasing doesn't work, the hidden mental health crisis of high functioning depression, steps you can take to reclaim joy and happiness in your life and much more.  ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to health and mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you've consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org.  SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a textFor 30 years, he fought a war inside his own mind without knowing who the enemy was.In this gripping and profoundly honest conversation, author Jonathan Camp joins Lira to share his story of living with undiagnosed bipolar disorder, depression, and dyslexia while navigating a life of British privilege and a demanding career in law enforcement. He was a high-functioning, successful man to the outside world, but internally he was battling a relentless cycle of chaotic highs and crushing lows, a struggle he believed was a personal failure of willpower.This episode is a rare, unflinching look inside the mind of someone grappling with complex mental health conditions. Jonathan provides a vocabulary for the invisible battles many people face, describing the "grey mist" of depression and the "sandstorm" of a bipolar crash with startling clarity. This is more than a story; it's a testament to the power of a proper diagnosis and the courage to seek help, even when you've been taught your entire life to handle it on your own.This is a must-listen for anyone who has ever felt like something was wrong but couldn't explain what. You will discover:The 30-Year-Old Diagnosis: The incredible story of how Jonathan finally got the answers that explained a lifetime of struggle and why it's never too late to get help.The Truth About Bipolar II: A raw, first-hand account of hypomania and the devastating crashes that follow, moving beyond clinical definitions to real, lived experience.Privilege vs. Pain: A candid discussion on why wealth and status are no defense against mental illness and how privilege can create its own unique barriers to seeking help.Rewriting Your Inner Narrative: Jonathan shares the powerful self-reflection tools he developed to redefine success, reclaim his peace, and turn his pain into a mission to help others.This conversation is a powerful message of hope that will leave you with a deeper understanding of the human mind and the incredible resilience of the human spirit.If this story moved you, please show your support by liking, following, and subscribing to the Self-Reflection Podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, and wherever you listen. Every subscription helps us amplify these crucial conversations and build a community where no one has to feel alone in their struggle.Support the showCall to Action: Engage with the Self-Reflection Podcast community! Like, follow, and subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube (Self-Reflection Podcast by Lira Ndifon), and all major podcast platforms. Share your insights and feedback—we value your contributions! Suggest topics you'd like us to explore. Your support amplifies our reach, sharing these vital messages of self-love and empowerment. Until our next conversation, prioritize self-care and embrace your journey. Grab your copy of "Awaken Your True Self" on Amazon. Until next time, be kind to yourself and keep reflecting.

This episode gets real. We're talking about something that's often hidden behind a smile, a to-do list, and a busy schedule — high-functioning depression.I open up about my own struggles with it… because honestly, I've been feeling drained. And if you're listening to this feeling exhausted but still “getting things done,” you might be going through it too.We dive into what high-functioning depression actually looks like, why it's so hard to recognize — even in ourselves — and how we can start healing without guilt. This isn't about having all the answers; it's about starting the conversation.If you've ever felt like you had to keep it all together for everyone else while falling apart on the inside — this one's for you.

Are you struggling with depression, self-sabotage, or anxiety that no one else can see? In this deeply honest episode of Ask Katie Anything, licensed therapist Kati Morton explains what high functioning depression really feels like and why you might feel so empty inside, even when life looks “perfect” on the outside. We'll explore how childhood trauma, emotional neglect, and attachment wounds shape your mental health today — and how they're connected to self-sabotage, memory gaps, and anxiety symptoms like itching or shaking. Kati shares practical steps to break free from guilt, reconnect with yourself, and start healing. My new book is available for pre-order: Why Do I Keep Doing This? → https://geni.us/XoyLSQ If you've ever felt stuck, this book is for you. I'd be so grateful for your support. Ask Kati Anything ep. 270 | Your mental health podcast, with Kati Morton, LMFT Questions & timestamps 1. Could you talk about high-functioning depression and what it really looks like? For context, I feel like I have a “perfect” life; supportive parents, a stable home, pets, a car, and all the basic things I need to live comfortably. I haven't experienced any trauma, and from the outside, everything seems fine... 00:00:43 2. I accept my flaws and want to grow, but I zone out or give up easily. I've been stagnant in my studies for 3 years. How do I build real, lasting change when it feels so hard to even begin? 00:12:07 3. I've recently realized there are a lot of things I do not remember about my childhood. My sibling was sharing stories and kept looking at me asking, “Do you remember that?” and I rarely did. We lived in the same house so how does she remember so much more than me? 00:17:49 4. Could you please explain why people itch when they are anxious? It's something I have recently started doing without even knowing it was related to my mental health. Could you please tell me why we do this? And how we might be able to stop? Thank you love your videos and podcasts! 00:22:29 5. My question is about attachment regarding military life, having a parent unavailable but not by choice. I often hear you mention your dad being gone for work frequently when you were a child and how you believe it has an effect on your upbringing. My dad was in the military for 25 years and was often gone during my childhood—not for super long periods (maybe 4 months max), but he left and returned so often... 00:29:11 6. I've been on a healing journey in the last 2 years in trauma therapy. I've worked a lot on myself with the big challenge of feeling my own feelings. I've learned to sit with my feelings and finally felt safe with my therapist. I've set boundaries with family, lost relationships, and even lost a pet during therapy... 00:38:59 7. My old therapist is having a baby and I will no longer be able to see her. She has been so helpful and I have been able to move on from her in the past (when I “graduated” DBT). All of the therapists I have had since seeing her don't quit live up. It's possible that she's my favorite person. How do I move forward with my life? 00:42:31 ONLINE THERAPY (enjoy 10% off your first month) While I do not currently offer online therapy, BetterHelp can connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://betterhelp.com/kati PARTNERSHIPS Nick Freeman | nick@biglittlemedia.co Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Check out the JVN Patreon for exclusive BTS content, extra interviews, and much much more - check it out here: www.patreon.com/jvn  JVN is joined by the brilliant Dr. Judith Joseph, a board-certified psychiatrist and researcher, to explore high-functioning depression — what it is, how to recognize it, and why so many people struggle with it in silence. Together, they break down the signs that often go unnoticed, unpack the stigma around seeking help when things "seem fine," and share tools for finding support and healing. Whether you're curious about your own mental health or looking to better understand a loved one, this episode is for you.  Full Getting Better Video Episodes now available on YouTube.  Not A Phase.  Trans Lifeline Follow Dr. Judith Joseph on Instagram @drjudithjoseph  Follow us on Instagram @gettingbetterwithjvn Jonathan on Instagram @jvn Senior Producer, Chris McClure Producer, Editor & Engineer is Nathanael McClure Production support from Anne Currie and Chad Hall Our theme music is also composed by Nathanael McClure. Curious about bringing your brand to life on the show? Email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com. DISCLAIMER: This episode includes a discussion of mental health, including high-functioning depression, neurodivergence, and suicide. While we're joined by a licensed medical professional, the content of this podcast is intended for informational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to this episode does not establish a doctor-patient relationship. If you or someone you know is struggling, please seek help from a qualified healthcare provider. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, please contact a mental health professional or reach out to a suicide prevention hotline in your area. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What if numbness is the hidden wound of high-functioning depression? In this episode, Shan sits down with Dr. Judith Joseph, a board-certified psychiatrist, clinical researcher, and internationally recognized mental health advocate. They dive deep into anhedonia, the loss of pleasure or interest in things that once brought you joy, and how it shows up, especially for those living with high-functioning depression. Dr. Joseph expands on how joy is our birthright and how it connects to our biopsychosocial blueprint. Expect insights on: ✨ How high-functioning depression operates ✨ Why anhedonia is so often overlooked ✨ The three-part psycho-socio-biological model that explains it ✨ How to begin reconnecting with your desire and vitality

You're showing up, doing the work, checking the boxes, but something feels…off. You're not falling apart, but you're not really okay either. And you're certainly not alone. This week on Hello Monday, Dr. Judith Joseph joins Jessi Hempel to name and unpack this experience: high functioning depression. Dr. Judith is a board-certified psychiatrist, researcher, and educator at Columbia and NYU. Her new book, High Functioning: Overcome Your Hidden Depression and Reclaim Your Joy, offers a roadmap for understanding and addressing a kind of mental health struggle that often goes unnoticed—and untreated. Together, Dr. Judith and Jessi explore: • What high functioning depression looks like—and how to recognize it in yourself and others • The five Vs method for healing: Validation, Values, Venting, Vitals, and Vision • The power of naming hard feelings like anhedonia • Why we must treat mental health as proactively as physical health • How small steps can help us reclaim joy This episode is a starting point for anyone who feels stuck in the motions but wants more from their life.

If you're tired of picking apart your appearance, hiding your body, or never feeling good enough, this episode is for you. Today, you'll learn the 4 simple steps you can take to build lasting confidence and finally feel good in your body. This powerful episode was inspired by a raw and emotional conversation Mel had with viral comedian Jake Shane. When Jake admitted he hates how he looks and struggles with self-worth, it opened the door to a bigger truth: millions of people feel the exact same way—but don't know what to do about it. So, Mel called in the experts. In this episode, you'll hear from Mel and Jake and learn tools from two renowned psychiatrists: -Dr. Judith Joseph, MD, double board-certified psychiatrist, professor at Columbia and NYU Medical Schools, and author of the bestselling book High Functioning. -Dr. Ashwini Nadkarni, MD, Harvard Medical School professor and psychiatrist at Mass General Brigham who specializes in anxiety, OCD, PTSD, and depression. Together, they break down the surprising psychology behind body shame and give you a practical, proven roadmap to feeling better, starting now. You'll learn how to: Break free from body shame, obsession, and constant comparisonRewire your brain for confidence and lasting self-acceptanceUse 4 science-backed steps to heal how you see yourselfUnderstand the hidden psychology behind body image and self-talkUnpack the shocking research on how screens and modern life are distorting your self-image (and how to fix it)This isn't just a conversation. It's your roadmap to healing, backed by science.  After listening you will have the tools, the science, and the mindset shift you need to stop hiding—and start seeing yourself clearly. Because when you change how you see yourself, you change everything. For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page. If you liked this episode, you'll love listening to this one next: How to Build Real Confidence: 7 Truths to Unlock Your Authentic SelfConnect with Mel:  Get Mel's #1 bestselling book, The Let Them TheoryWatch the episodes on YouTubeFollow Mel on Instagram The Mel Robbins Podcast InstagramMel's TikTok Sign up for Mel's personal letter Subscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ to listen to new episodes ad-freeDisclaimer