That Sexciting

In this episode, Yancy lets ChatGPT roast the podcast's Instagram profile—spoiler alert: it did not hold back! After the roast, Yancy tackles a round of questions from GPT and even shares a spooky dating story that's perfect for the season.Do you have thoughts on AI and want to be featured on the podcast?Leave a voicemail: https://memo.fm/thatsexciting/Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ the podcast to share your thoughts on this week's episode!Let's keep in touch on social media!Instagram: @thatsexcitingTikTok: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Pride vibes all around! In this episode, Yancy and co-host Kas sit down with Jade Fox, content creator, to dive into her journey with identity, community, and a little Haitian Creole lesson.

In this episode, Yancy virtually sits down with the fabulous Shan Boodram—bestselling author, and sex and relationship expert. Shan spills all the tea on building a roster, navigating friends with benefits, and non-monogamy. With a library of insightful content on love, relationships, and sex on her YouTube channel, Shan BOODY, she's here to break it all down.Want to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeReady to Be In the Room you dream of?Connect with THE best coach, Lauren Morrison: https://www.beintheroomcoaching.comWant to be featured on the podcast?Leave a voicemail: https://memo.fm/thatsexciting/Let's keep in touch on social media!Follow today's guest: Instagram: @shanboodramYouTube: Shan BoodyInstagram: @thatsexcitingTikTok: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Yancy virtually sits down with Eliza Boquin, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist. Eliza helps us unpack the reasons behind why people cheat, debunks popular myths around infidelity, and answers questions from our listeners.Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to share your thoughts on this week's episode!Want to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeWant to be featured on the podcast?Leave a voicemail: https://memo.fm/thatsexciting/Let's keep in touch on social media!Follow today's guest: Eliza BoquinInstagram: @elizagboquinFacebook: @elizagboquinWebsite: https://flowandeasehealing.com/Instagram: @thatsexcitingTikTok: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Yancy virtually sits down with Yasmin Benoit, an asexual activist, educator, and lingerie model. Yasmin shares her journey navigating (the lack of) intersectionality and educates us on the nuances of asexuality and aromanticism. We break down misconceptions, discuss the intersection of race and sexuality, and explore how Yasmin has carved her own path in a world that often doesn't understand or represent her.Want to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeWant to be featured on the podcast?Leave a voicemail: https://memo.fm/thatsexciting/Let's keep in touch on social media!Follow today's guest: Yasmin BenoitInstagram: @theyasminebenoit Twitter: @theyasminbenoit Instagram: @thatsexcitingTikTok: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Guess who's back (and actually caught up)? Yep, me! Consider it a mid-season cliffhanger that's finally resolved.

How have your personal experiences with loss shaped your approach to living?In this episode, Yancy virtually sits down with her friend Corbin. Corbin shares her story: the emotional weight of losing a spouse, the intricate process of grieving, and the journey of rediscovering herself. Yancy also speaks to her mom to learn more about her unique perspective on death, the loss of her late husband, and her thoughts on her own mortality. This episode dives deep into the personal experiences and emotions tied to loss, aiming to offer insight and perhaps a sense of solidarity to those facing their own encounters with grief.Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode. Want to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet's keep in touch on social media!Instagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingResources mentioned:[NYT Article] What to Say (and What Not to Say) to Someone Who's Grievinghttps://www.nytimes.com/2019/02/14/smarter-living/what-to-say-and-what-not-to-say-to-someone-whos-grieving.html [Harvard Article] Ways to support someone who is grievinghttps://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/ways-to-support-someone-who-is-grieving[Healthline - Not mentioned] Stages of griefhttps://www.healthline.com/health/stages-of-grief#length-of-each-stageConfidential & Anonymous Phone Lines have personally helped me navigate grief as someone who experienced it and for supporting others. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Super (s)exciting news... The podcast is back!It feels so good to get back into it! Today's episode is a check-in to fill you in on what happened behind the scenes, what is in the works for the podcast, and more.

Super (s)exciting news... The podcast is back! It feels so good to get back into it! Today's episode is a check-in to fill you in on what happened in the behind the scenes, what is in the works for the podcast and more.

Let's talk about Sex Education! Yancy virtually sits down with Mariah from the @sexedfiles to discuss what comprehensive sex education is, school curriculums and answer a popular sexedfile question!Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode. Feature in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWWant to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet's keep in touch on social media!Follow today's guestInstagram: @sexedfilesTikTok: @sexedfilesFollow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingResources mentioned:Sex check-list by Scarleteenhttps://bit.ly/44qkWWgMattxiv's Instagram Post: “There's no such thing as an LGBTQ child” https://bit.ly/411GLIV

This week, Yancy sits down with old crush (now good friend) Naika to discuss types of intimacy, and check in on their friendship. Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode. Feature in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWWant to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet's keep in touch on social media!Follow today's guestInstagram: @naikachampaigneSolo Album "Painted Imageries": https://linktr.ee/NaikaChampaigneFollow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingArticle mentioned: https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-intimacy-in-a-relationship-5199766

That Sexciting is a year old! Dive with Yancy into the top moments of 2022.Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode. Feature in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWWant to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet's keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow Liv's author journey!Instagram: @oliviapreyaauthorhttps://bit.ly/cuspofdarkness

What's the current dating pool like today? This week, Yancy virtually sits down with Rome Green Jr. to discuss the current dating market. Rome opens up about his dating experiences, the difference between relationships and connections, the lack of accountability and self-awareness of prospects and how his views on relationships evolved after his trip to Africa. Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode. Feature in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWLet's keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingSponsor SUTIL: https://bit.ly/sutillubeFollow today's guestInstagram: @iromealotPodcast: @cthpodcastwww.shadysideup.comBook MentionedGame of Desire by Shan Boodyhttps://www.thegameofdesire.com/workbook

So… who's the man? This week, Yancy sits down with her partner to discuss what feminine and masculine energy are for them. They explore how they view their partnership, why Yancy views herself as more masculine and how they grew in love. Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting) SUTIL: For Silky And Luxurious Pleasure https://www.thatsexciting.co/sutil (Sutil Lube) Sexual Green flags: shorturl.at/vxTZ8

SHAME! It all affects us in unique ways in our sexuality. Navigating unlearning these beliefs is a journey. This week, Eleanor Gershman, social work and sexual health scholar, shares her knowledge on purity culture. Yancy is joined by Kaci Mial to further discuss what sexual shame is, how it is experienced and how one can start the healing journey. Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting) Follow today's guest  Instagram: @sexcoachkaci Website: www.sexcoachkaci.com.com SUTIL: For Silky And Luxurious Pleasure https://www.thatsexciting.co/sutil (Sutil Lube) Information mentioned: Sex Positive Families Instagram: @sexpositive_families Website: www.sexpositivefamilies.com

In our society, navigating sexuality can be one tricky experience… Exploring how sexual shame may have been internalized is one step towards shedding shame and approaching YOUR ideal sexuality. This week, Yancy models how to explore your internalized sexual shame through 5 questions. Grab your pen and paper, reflect and connect the dots looking backwards. This episode does not substitute seeking mental health services. If you need support, we encourage you to reach out to a professional or a recognized community group in your area. Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co GoFundMe: https://www.thatsexciting.co/gofundme (GoFundMe) Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting)

When did you understand that patriarchy was the problem and not your body? This week, Yancy sits down with one of her favourite visual artists Miss Me Art. They talk about meeting our own patriarchal mindset, the sexual shame for people with vulvas, Miss Me's art as therapy and she shares the emotional story of how she discovered that her body is not the problem.  Furthermore, Yancy explores with Andrea Cooks the power and benefits of art therapy. Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co GoFundMe: thatsexciting.co/gofundme Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting) Follow today's guests  Miss Me Instagram: @miss_me_art Instagram backup: @missmeart2  Twitter: @TheArtfulVandal http://www.miss-me-art.com/shop/ (www.miss-me-art.com/shop) Andrea Cook Instagram: @intimagetherapie Facebook: @INTIMAGEtherapie Clinique Intimage la thérapie par les Arts

This week, Yancy virtually sits down with Jimanekia Eborn, a queer Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. They talk about the power of self-identifying, navigating sexuality as a survivor, how we can show up for ourselves and how we can support our peers.  Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting) Follow today's guest  Website: https://traumaqueen.love/ (www.traumaqueen.love)  Instagram: @jimanekia Twitter: @jimanekia  Ressources mentioned:  Books: The Tao of Trauma by Alaine D. Duncan, Kathy L. Kain http://shorturl.at/qrUX2 (shorturl.at/qrUX2) What Happened to You? By Oprah Winfrey & Bruce D. Perry http://shorturl.at/kmPX8 (shorturl.at/kmPX8 ) The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk M.D. http://shorturl.at/dNRS3 (shorturl.at/dNRS3) TRE stretching exercices: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eFV0FfMc_uo&t=42s (Vagus Nerve Reset To Release Trauma Stored In The Body (Polyvagal Exercises) - YouTube) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=26zoFKZzbQc&t=10s (TRE, Trauma Releasing Exercises - YouTube) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=67R974D8swM&t=112s (TRE® : Tension and Trauma Releasing Exercises, an Introduction with Jessica Schaffer - YouTube)

Miss me yet? Yancy gives a little update on the... GoFundMe! But, don't worry. We're coming back next week with our regular long format/check-in program. GoFundMe: To this date, the podcast is funded, curated, produced, edited and marketed by your truly, one-woman-band Yancy. It goes without saying that podcast production is expensive, especially for a solopreneur... Help the project and our mission to create more discussions and content around intimacy, relationships and sexuality. The podcast is raising funds https://gofund.me/a762f582 Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Facebook: thatsxciting Email: contact@thatsexciting.co

We missed you! Yancy's popping in for a check in episode and letting you know what she's been up to for the last month. We'll pick up the long format episodes later this year → follow us on Instagram to stay up to date Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting) Things mentioned: Listening line in Quebec https://www.211qc.ca/en/psychosocial-support/helplines-talklines (https://www.211qc.ca/en/psychosocial-support/helplines-talklines)  List of emotions https://www.courts.ca.gov/partners/documents/2011SRL3gNVC.pdf (https://www.courts.ca.gov/partners/documents/2011SRL3gNVC.pdf)  The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck https://www.amazon.ca/dp/0062641549/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4VXM33RP60ZBM9778DYR (https://www.amazon.ca/dp/0062641549/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4VXM33RP60ZBM9778DYR)

The podcast is starting the summer break sooner than announced. Stay tuned and follow us on Instagram to know when we'll be coming back with the summer program (a.k.a check-in episodes). Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting) Music: Only 1 from Mel Pacifico Produced by Caulder Nash https://open.spotify.com/track/12FXn1PkW0M6UqTfilF5i3?si=281126847f4049bf

This week, Yancy sits down with Sara Hini, a Queer Algerian-Amazigh Photographer. They discuss Sara's journey as a photographer, what is intimacy and have a raw conversation about fears and love.  Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting) Follow today's guest  Instagram: @sara_hini Patreon: www.patreon.com/sarahini Mentions: The Four Horsemen: https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-recognizing-criticism-contempt-defensiveness-and-stonewalling/ (https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-recognizing-criticism-contempt-defensiveness-and-stonewalling/) Esther Perel https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P964sIANSWI&t=3s (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P964sIANSWI&t=3s)

Do you know what Ethically produced porn is? This week, Yancy virtually sit down with adult performer Mickey Mod. They explore the question of what is ethically produced pornography, the history of porn and the impact of porn on Mickey's intimacy. Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancy.chery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting) Follow today's guest  Instagram: @themickeymod Twitter: @themickeymod OnlyFans: @themickeymod Source mentioned:  Your Guide To Ethical Porn: What Makes It Different & Where To Find It https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/ethical-porn (https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/ethical-porn)  **Correction: Cinematographic images dates from the late 1800s. Not early 1900s :-)!

When was the last time you reflected on your sexual desires? Specifically about the different pathways to sexual arousal? This week, Yancy passes the mic to Maya Glenn for a check-in episode. Maya invites you to ponder on what makes you feel turned on and to do so in an explorative and mind-expanding way. Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting) Follow today's guest  Instagram: @intimacywithmaya Twitter: @mayac_glenn

What did your caregivers tell you about sex? Did you ever have a sex talk at home? This week, Yancy and Preach talk about the Sex talk he had at home, his relationship with his sibling and how the sex talk goes down in his men group. Yancy was also joined by her cousin Mike Martial that shared his sex talk growing up, the one he had with his son and pornography. Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting) Follow today's guest  Instagram: @kingpreachthepetty YouTube: @abaandpreach Podcast: @abavspreach & @lesfallopes

What relationship structure do you adhere to? Monogamy? Open relationships? Polyamory? This week Yancy is joined by Carole to discuss Ethical Non-Monogamy. They explore what is Carole's ideal relationship structure, how jealousy plays out and the importance of taking ownership of one's emotions and healing. Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting) Follow today's guest Carole Instagram: @blackartbyme Books mentioned: The Ethical Slut https://www.amazon.ca/Ethical-Slut-Second-Relationships-Adventures/dp/1587613379 (https://www.amazon.ca/Ethical-Slut-Second-Relationships-Adventures/dp/1587613379)  Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy https://www.amazon.ca/Polysecure-Attachment-Trauma-Consensual-Nonmonogamy/dp/1944934987 (https://www.amazon.ca/Polysecure-Attachment-Trauma-Consensual-Nonmonogamy/dp/1944934987)  Ethical Non-Monogamous structures definitions.   https://shrimpteeth.com/structures (https://shrimpteeth.com/structures)

Is flirting selfish? This week, Yancy is joined with Jared Brady for an explicit discussion on flirting. Tune in to this raw and honest conversation on what is Jared's definition of flirting, our flirting types as well as relationship styles and how to keep the spark alive in a marriage. Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting) Follow today's guest  @enjoyjaredbrady @enjoythepodcastofficial Enjoy The Podcast on YouTube www.youtube.com/c/Enjoy248

This week on That Sexciting, join Yancy and one of her role models, her cousin Nookie, for a raw and intimate conversation about coming out and exploring one's sexual orientation. Listen to cousins of different generations speak about their online dating experiences, their coming out stories and the importance of having a community and a chosen family. Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting)

This week, Yancy is discussing STDs and STIs with sex-positive STI and STD researcher and physician, Dr. Ina Parks.  While the stigmatization behind STDs and STIs might make you want to run away, Yancy and Ina's discussion is the reason you should stay. They break down how often one should get tested, how to have the “I got tested” talk as well as the misinformation and negative ideologies surrounding the topic at hand through a True or False Game! Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting) Follow today's guest  @inaparkmd Website: www.inapark.net Books mentioned: Strange Bedfellows: Adventures in the Science, History, and Surprising Secrets of STDs https://www.amazon.ca/Strange-Bedfellows-Adventures-Science-Surprising/dp/1250206626

This week on That Sexciting Yancy discusses erotic literature with romance author Olivia Preya. Together they define the literary genre and discuss the elements that make erotic literature so different from other means of sexual expression and representation. Yancy and Olivia also delve into Tumblr's significant role in the growth and exploration of the literary genre. In that spirit of exploration, we also placed an auditory surprise just for you in this episode! Be cautious, it's NSFW! Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting) Follow today's guest  Instagram: @olivia_preya Books mentioned: Princess Trap by Talia Hibbert Erotica Authors mentioned: Talia Hibbert Katee Robert Naima Simone

How often do you think about sex? Specifically about how you define it, what you like, what you desire, etc? This week, Yancy invites you to reflect on your sexual journey. A guided meditation to explore 5 questions from the game Sex Talk ©. Please note that it is not a sponsor. Yancy just LOOOOOVES this game! Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting) During sex, I want to feel… https://www.instagram.com/p/CNlPgAeFBtc/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link (https://www.instagram.com/p/CNlPgAeFBtc/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link)

Did you know that 67% of women have faked an orgasm at least once in their lifetime? This week, Yancy is joined by Professor Dr. Laurie Mintz. Together they discuss the orgasm gap's origin, how the current sex education system is failing us and tips on how to improve communication in the bedroom! Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting) Follow today's guest Dr. Laurie Mintz! Instagram: @drlauriemintz Website: www.drlauriemintz.com Dr. Laurie Mintz's Book https://www.drlauriemintz.com/books-about-sexuality Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters--And How to Get It Four Techniques Women Use To Enhance Pleasure During Intercourse https://www.drlauriemintz.com/post/sexually ARTICLE CITED: Sexual Revolution | Orgasm Gap | How to Pleasure a Woman https://www.drlauriemintz.com/post/sexual-revolution-orgasm-gap-how-to-pleasure-a-woman

Can you remember the first time that you heard gender and sex are distinct? This week, Yancy is joined with Maya who breaks down what Gender Essentialism is. The theory suggests that a person's essence is either feminine/female or masculine/male. Maya expands on how this concept is flawed and brings nuance to sexuality, gender and sex through a sociological lens.  Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting) Follow today's guest Maya! Instagram: @intimacywithmaya Sexual Greenflags explanation from Intimacy with Maya https://www.instagram.com/p/CXjzsEYvXc6/ (https://www.instagram.com/p/CXjzsEYvXc6/)  Loops and instrumentals by J.u.D. https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/ (https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/) Gender Essentialism Is Flawed — Here's Why https://www.healthline.com/health/gender-essentialism (https://www.healthline.com/health/gender-essentialism) Information mentioned: Becoming a Gendered Body: Practices of Preschools https://observatorio.campus-virtual.org/uploads/21717_Martin_ASR1998_Becoming-gendered.pdf (https://observatorio.campus-virtual.org/uploads/21717_Martin_ASR1998_Becoming-gendered.pdf)  The Egg and the Sperm: How Science Has Constructed a Romance Based on Stereotypical Male-Female Roles https://web.stanford.edu/~eckert/PDF/Martin1991.pdf (https://web.stanford.edu/~eckert/PDF/Martin1991.pdf)  LGBT+ Statistics https://news.gallup.com/poll/329708/lgbt-identification-rises-latest-estimate.aspx (https://news.gallup.com/poll/329708/lgbt-identification-rises-latest-estimate.aspx) The future of sex and gender in psychology: Five challenges to the gender binary https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2018-32185-001 (https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2018-32185-001)  Bilingual Glossary on Gender Identity https://www.jurisource.ca/prj/phpnfzuAL1522955217.pdf (https://www.jurisource.ca/prj/phpnfzuAL1522955217.pdf)

This week Yancy is joined by queer dating coach Ariella Serur. Together they discuss dating in a fulfilling and healthy way, with a focus on the queer community. Join us for a vulnerable conversation where Yancy opens up about her self-discovery, dating journey and engages in a conversation that forces one to examine their own boundaries, dating expectations and inner saboteur!  Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting) Follow today's guest Ariella Serur! Instagram: @queerdatingcoach Website: www.queerdatingcoach.com Sexual Greenflags explanation from Intimacy with Maya https://www.instagram.com/p/CXjzsEYvXc6/ (https://www.instagram.com/p/CXjzsEYvXc6/) Loops and instrumentals by J.u.D. https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/ (https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/) Books mentioned:  Deeper dating - Ken Page  The Ethical Slut - Janet W. Hardy Mating In Captivity - Esther Perel Unlonely planet - Jillian Richardson Stay curious cause That Sexciting!

Do you know what's your attachment style? In this week's episode, Yancy explores and deconstructs Attachment theory with behavioural scientist and counsellor, Lucille Shackelton. Attachment theory is founded on the idea that our caregiver-child relationship dynamics shape how we hold close intimate connections as adults. In essence: “your attachment style is a blueprint of your basic assumptions about safety and trust*.” Yancy and Lucille discuss the theory's history, its four distinct attachment styles, and the sometimes uncomfortable questions it invokes! Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting) Follow today's guest Lucille Shackelton! Instagram: @centredselftherapy Website: www.centredselftherapy.com Her Upcoming Podcast: Relationship Realities  Turn on trigger quiz by Shan Boodram  https://www.thegameofdesire.com/quiz (https://www.thegameofdesire.com/quiz) Sexual Greenflags explanation from Intimacy with Maya https://www.instagram.com/p/CXjzsEYvXc6/ (https://www.instagram.com/p/CXjzsEYvXc6/) Loops and instrumentals by J.u.D. https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/ (https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/) Books mentioned:  Wired for Love by Stan Tatkin Wired for Dating by Stan Tatkin Your brain on love by Stan Tatkin Attached by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller - *Annie Chem LMFT, The Attachment Theory Working

Intimacy, relationships and sexuality: so many conversations to be had and topics to explore, yet so little space to talk about it in our society! By that, I mean curiously, openly and shamelessly. Join in every Tuesday as your host Yancy, intimacy enthusiast and content creator, opens the conversation on these topics. Every week, you will hear from experts, professionals and people from different walks of life. Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting) Instrumentals and loops: https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/ (https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/)

Intimacy, relationships and sexuality: so many conversations to be had and topics to explore, yet so little space to talk about it in our society! By that, I mean curiously, openly and shamelessly. Join in every Tuesday as your host Yancy, intimacy enthusiast and content creator, opens the conversation on these topics. Every week, you will hear from experts, professionals and people from different walks of life. Don't forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode.  Let's keep in touch on social media! Follow your host @yancychery Instagram: @thatsexciting Twitter: @thatsexciting_ Email: contact@thatsexciting.co Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting (https://paypal.me/thatsexciting)