They/Them/Theirs - A Monthly Non-binary Discussion

It's episode 30, Rayne is joined by Gracie Pryor were together they discuss The Furry Allure, Neopets ( are we seeing a trend ? ) , Rat Tatts, What If We Just Enjoyed Things? Which Shrek, How to throw a great party, tik tok beef, and of course, Gender. Gracie can be found at @Graciedraws and https://gpryor.myportfolio.com/ Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server! Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

Jo returns to the podcast to catch up with Rayne and occasionally touch on gender. Topics include: OLD is a great movie, and SPIDER-MAN is not How Time This Year Has Been Weird The Glory of NEOPETS and Modern Social Media Jo's Healthier Podcast Balance The Dark Times of WInter THE MATRIX: RESURRECTIONS and Gender (and how it slaps so hard) More Movies, Mostly Horror, Video Games??? Hell Yeah, Projects More Movies: Gender Edition Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server! Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

This month Rayne is joined by Riley L Hopkins to discuss: Repressed & Father Confirmed Childhood Clown Trauma Entertaining as a means of connection Game Design, how the heck do you do that? Steven Kings' Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles Riley's Gender Jpegs Bionicle Curse The Worst Popeye Impression Rayne's Ever Heard @RevRyeBread https://www.linksmithgames.com/ Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server! Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

Rayne & Casey record in person! Casey has news, Casey's Dad has an eyepatch, Audacity took a nap, and Rayne's mental health is normal CW: Eyeball talk Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server! Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

Rayne & Casey talk with Harry-Anne (she/they) from “across the pond” (sorry) Some things we talk about are: Publishing Having a very cool (and fully funded) kickstarter Queer Erotic Comics Yaoi PEOW Print Sexy Print Prowess & Problems Going to the gender clinic because you're definitely cis, right? More Comics!! Harry-Anne online: https://linktr.ee/HarryAnne https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/khaoskreator/nectar-trans-femme-and-non-binary-erotic-comics-anthology Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server! Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

Rayne and Jo are joined by Jay IRL to discuss being a sequential masochist, Rayne's apology tour, Jay's Shrek Dating Rules, the Shrek 2 soundtrack being a cultural reset, Ring of Keys by Allison Bechdel, MS Paint Warrior Cats animation, the appeal of labor intensive art, Ouran Host Club and gender, M. Night Shyamalan (again), and vaping. Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server! Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

First up, Casey & Rayne talk with Nayland Blake ( Artist, Furry, Lover of Culture ) Some topics covered include : Representation Exploration Furry Fandom Space Furries in the Fine Art Space Finding Community at Conventions Manifesting your unique presence in the world Labels as a means of exploration vs dismissal Performance art, Feeder 2 https://hammer.ucla.edu/take-it-or-leave-it/art/feeder-2 NFT’s suck make zines Make a Wikipedia page for the creators you love! Nayland’s Website : http://www.naylandblake.net/about/ Twitter : https://twitter.com/naylandblake?s=21 Instagram : @Naylandw Jo talks about movies for a sexless palette cleanser ( Lady in the Water whips ass Jo, you don’t know what you’re talking about ) Carta Time (significantly more NSFW) “Just Roommates” Carta’s Boobpedia https://www.boobpedia.com/boobs/Carta_Monir Carta’s tweet https://twitter.com/cartamonir/status/1392197520881639425?s=21 The M&M’s are gay https://twitter.com/mmschocolate/status/615220459253141504?s=20 Carta Talks Extensively About Her Body Innovations In At Home Genital Molding The Shirt https://diskettepress.com/products/carta-monirs-dick-fanclub-shirt Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server! Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

Rayne & Casey talk about : Bad Backs ( Casey’s Turn ), Knightscoop, Documental, Running, is it good? ( no ) [editors note from Jo: running is good actually], Some Gender with None Government, ranma 1/2, Rayne’s Garden Mystery, And “the most controversial book ever written in Canada” Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server! Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

CW : death, detransitioning, needles Rayne & Casey Catch Up We’re Tiny Whiney Nonbiney Beautiful tik tok Queers & Educators Robin Tran on Tiktok https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeycrPfW/ Racist Origins of the phrase ‘Grandfathered In” https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeycaDp9/ Jojos bizarre adventure is just so good ? Have you watched it? Detransition Awareness CW detransitioning, death, Transness in relation to misogyny, gender imposter feelings Books Mentioned https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/A-Quick-Easy-Guide-to-They-Them-Pronouns/Archie-Bongiovanni/9781620104996 https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/A-Quick-Easy-Guide-to-Queer-Trans-Identities/Mady-G/9781620105863 Interview with Yhasmin Wilder Zine Fests, Bass Playing, Festival Organizing & Time Management Twitch streaming Rayne busts their knee opening paper They as Hell a free zine by Yhasmin https://gumroad.com/boymonsta https://www.etsy.com/shop/shopboymonsta https://www.instagram.com/boymonsta https://www.twitter.com/batattackk https://www.twitch.tv/batattackk https://www.redbubble.com/people/boymonsta/shop https://www.tiktok.com/@boymonsta Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server! Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

The month is FEBRUARY and Rayne and Casey sit down to discuss back pain, bad conventions, good anime, bad apps, bad art theft, and they interview their good friend Austin (he/they/she). Together they discuss nerd shit, movie snow, gender, therapy, Matt Damon, and Pikachu humor! Join the discussion in the Orange Groves Discord Server! Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

This month is a DOUBLE HEADER as Rayne and Casey talk their usual talk but are also joined by artists Gabi and Bonnie! Topics discussed include: "Do you watch tv?" West Michigan Dutch Food MTG's new relatable character, Niko Aris AHAB (Assigned Hero at Birth) Rankle, Master of Pranks Dysphoria Buster Big Jug Jug Best Liquid To Throw On A Car Iggy Craig (Vtuber) In the interview, topics include: "I'll show you, gender!" Top Surgery as a femme nonbinary person Was I just supposed to find out Lachlen Watson is nonbinary from this interview or was someone gonna tell me $500 Refund For No Nipples Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server! Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

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Content warnings for fiction discussed throughout include mentions of: sex , death, mental illness, miscarriage Together, Rayne and Casey discuss several books, Nic Cage, Shrek, and more. Rayne if you're reading this please watch Moonstruck it's getting a Criterion release soon The Left Hand of Darkness Donna Jo Napoli Enchanted Forest Chronicles Nemesis comics (Hark a Vagrant) Pre-order Moonstruck (1987) from Criterion releasing Nov 17th Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server! Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

Content Warning: discussion of the Star Trek episode _The Outcast _ includes fictional depictions of discussion of electroshock therapy and conversion therapy This month Rayne and Casey sit down to discuss how trans Digimon are, talk more comics, gender in Star Trek, and of course, Now You See Me 2. Links from today's episode: Meet Blu del Barrio, the first non-binary 'trekkie' on the USS Discovery My Dragon Girlfriend by Fawnduu Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server! Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

The Podcast Returns! Rayne hangs out with fellow artist Casey Nowak as they tackle a revolutionary new take on the format of podcasting: Casey is the cohost. Listen as Casey introduces themself, and then as the duo discusses comics, podcasts about horses, and then some more comics. Links mentioned: https://twitter.com/ringofbees https://twitter.com/shadowfactspod http://www.keevacomix.com/ https://twitter.com/peprally Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server! Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

BRB Jo On Twitter: @ghostofjo Rayne On Twitter: @smallsmallwitch Join the Orange Groves Discord Server

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April has come and gone, and we're back in the GENDER ZONETopics of this episode in include: - FF7R's Gender (here is the twitter thread mentioned) - BIT (2020) - PROMARE (2019) - The 2020 Census (Safe???) - "Northam signs Va. non-binary driver’s license bill into law" - "Trans United Fund will provide emergency grant money to trans and nonbinary people of color" - Uppercut Crit - #TransPizza on Twitter - "Temidayo Amay: Being, among other things, a nonbinary actor” - Monster Movies - Puzzles??? - Z A T H U R A - Todd Haynes' POISON (1991) and DOTTIE GETS SPANKED (1993) - Stream "Queer Recovery Club" on SpotifyJoin our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server!Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

We didn't plan for this episode to come out on TDOV so we will probably talk about it in April! Also, if you'd like to skip the majority of our COVID related conversation in this ep, skip ahead to 11 minutes in. That One Piece tiktok Tokyo Godfathers: "How Shakina Nayfack used her voice to reclaim trans representation in animation" Marvel: Introducing the New 'New Warriors' Trans Lifeline Hotline: 877-565-8860 Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server!Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

This month we discuss the weather's affect on presentation, films about hedgehogs and birds, various other February interests WaPo on gendered awards Casey Mongillo's website BBC: "Transgender users accuse TikTok of censorship" CNN: "Bill banning gender reassignment treatments for transgender youth fails in South Dakota" Trans Youth on Horseback, Hell Yeah AJJ's "Body Terror Song" Jo's Feature on the Masculinity of Christopher Nolan's films VICE on Skatune Network A LONG WALK (2014) (trigger warning for depictions of suicide) Trailer for GIRLHOOD / BANDE DE FILLES (2014) Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server!Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

#NotAMoviePodcast #IAmNonbinary on Twitter Avery Pokemon Dot PNG 10 Feet Tall by Cavetown Life Is Strange Developer Making Xbox Exclusive With Trans Main Character "3rd gender option on state identifications could ‘change lives’" “Spokane developers aim to help trans community through transition with new app Solace” Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server!Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

This month we unwind to and remain unwound for a discussion spanning the topics of: Michigan Gender Marker Changes Made Easier They is the word of the year (we discuss for 14 seconds) Jo Reviews CATS (2019) PROMARE (2019) and Trigger Studios _FIVE MOVIES JO LIKED LESS THAN JOKER (2019) ON THE DAY OF RECORDING _ They is the word of the year Rayne Visits the Gender Tree The Sine Wave of Gender The Spectre of Strega Nona snom The Spectre of Strega Nona (Reprise) Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server!Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

This is as close as we're getting to "festive" We got STICKERS "GOU WAS INTENDED TO LOOK ANDROGYNOUS IN THE UPCOMING POKEMON ANIME [UPDATE]" Jo's Tweet about the above article w/ screenshot Transfigure Print Co. Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server!Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

A quick check in before we dive into our first INTERVIEW YOOOOOOGet They/Them/Theirs logo stickers here! FUCK TERFS FURBY Five tips for journalists on covering trans and nonbinary people GC2B's Racerback binder collection Dekaylee's Drag Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server!Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

We're back after our break to discuss our busy time away, and then dig into several topics and how they make us feel, all while trying to make puns with the words they and them whenever possible (with varying success) Inverse's article covering John Wick 3 including a nonbinary character SonicFox's tweet coming out as nonbinary "Mattel Launches New Gender-Neutral Dolls" "All hail the gender non-binary fragrance" Definition of They "Showers, Uniforms, Pronouns: Testimonials of Non-Binary Student-Athletes" Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server!Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

Whoops we're too busy this month, here's some bonus content! Jo learns about Dutch Guilt, Rayne learns about the "hit or miss" video, and fun is had by all.E-mail us questions or ideas for future topics at theythem@theorangegroves.comJoin our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server!Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

Back at it again at the Gender Krispy Kreme **does 3 backflips and kicks the binary sign** DapperQ Qwear's Style Guide for Wedding Guests Rebirth Garments Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server!Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

Click here to enter the Pride Month Giveaway, running until July 4th!This month we end up talking a lot about names, and how we're treated as a result of the weight those decisions we make, and those made for us. Gender Outlaws: by Kate Bornstein and S. Bear Bergman Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server!Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

This month, we had a relaxed rainy day chat to catch up and talk about some listener questions! Defining: Neopronouns Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server!Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

Here is a list of LGBTQ focused hotlines and online services!Welcome to April, in which we talk about packing for vacations, and travelling, finding out best self through transition, and answer listener questions! Harry Josephine's Twitter thread Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server!Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

At around 45:20 into this episode we talk about our experiences with a transphobic slur and concept, so heads up!This month we sit down and bounce between topics and conversations about media that gave us questions about ourselves early on, and other formative experiences where we began to figure out what we are certainly still figuring out: gender and sexuality. Hit Like A Girl's very good tweet and their music on Spotify No More Dysphoria's website Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server!

Together this month, but not actually, we discuss existing outside of our usual safer spaces, Carlito the Raccoon, binding, presentation, choosing clothes, navigating dysphoria and experimentation, and queer owned clothing brands.Links for things we discuss/recommend during this episode: Stream music by Worriers (Spotify) gc2b's Transitional Apparel, binders and other clothing Flavnt Streetwear Style is Freedom - Clothing, Streetwear Tell us your most comfortable outfits in The Orange Groves' Discord Server!Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

This month we sit down to bounce between several topics, including gender comics, SonicFox, finding the right pronoun for you, the fear of "deciding" vs experimenting and fluidity, Jablinski, metaphors, cowboys, and Nintendo's naming conventions. You know, the usual.Links for things we discuss/recommend during this episode: Rayne's thread Alex Morris' "Nice Gender" comic Citations Needed #57 A Quick & Easy Guide to They/Them Pronouns The Queer Art of Failure by Judith Halberstam Lana and Lilly Wachowski: Sensing Transgender by Cael M Keegan (which is way more affordable off Amazon!!) Benny Kay Hope's Twitter Stream Flicker by Rina Sawayama (Spotify) Pronoun Island (pronoun.is) You can join the (more than monthly) discussion in The Orange Groves' Discord Server!Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

In our inaugural episode, we sit down and talk a little about our history with gender and being non-binary, what it's like explaining being non-binary and coming out, dysphoria, finding ourselves in media, our favorite vines, and cats.Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.