Utah Survivors

Rabbi Avremi Zippel was abused by his family nanny for years and thought he was to blame until therapy taught him that he was a victim. In December of 2013, Avremi Zippel was ordained at the Rabbinical College of America in Morristown, NJ. After his marriage in January of 2014, Avremi and his wife, Sheina, moved to Utah to serve the Jewish community of Salt Lake City. Avremi and Sheina currently reside in Utah with their three children.In February of 2019, Avremi came forward and spoke publicly for the first time about the decade of sexual abuse he'd endured at the hands of a childhood caretaker. Since coming forward publicly, Avremi has been an advocate for survivors, working hard to combat sexual abuse in communities around the world.Follow Rabbi Zippel on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter: @utahrabbiBuy Rabbi Zippel's book "Not What I Expected: A 20-Year Journey to Reclaim A Child's Voice" here: https://www.amazon.com/Not-What-Expected-20-Year-Journey/dp/1957616210Support the show

Survivor Voices: Elevate. Engage. Effect Change.Join us this week as we highlight different organizations and their roles in helping achieve the goals of National Crime Victims' Rights Week 2023!Today we talk with Danica Baird from the Utah Coalition Against Sexual Assault's "Utah Sexual Violence Policy Alliance"Support the show

Survivor Voices: Elevate. Engage. Effect Change.Join us this week as we highlight different organizations and their roles in helping achieve the goals of National Crime Victims' Rights Week 2023!Today we talk with Erin Jemison from the Utah Domestic Violence Coalition.Support the show

Survivor Voices: Elevate. Engage. Effect Change.Join us this week as we highlight different organizations and their roles in helping achieve the goals of National Crime Victims' Rights Week 2023!Today we talk with Hilde Koenig from the Utah Office for Victims of Crime. Support the show

Brandon and Alex are joined by Brooke, Hannah, and Brittany from Fight Against Domestic Violence a relatively new nonprofit that provides much needed financial assistance to victims of domestic violence. Learn more about the programs, types of funds, volunteer opportunities, and how to donate at https://www.fadv.orgIf you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show

This week we are doing a special episode highlighting legislation recently passed in Utah that affects victims of crime. Every April, the Justice Department's Office for Victims of Crime (OVC) leads communities across the country in observing National Crime Victims' Rights Week (NCVRW) to honor crime victims, promote their rights and recognize victim advocates. This year's observance, the 41st annual commemoration, takes place April 24-30, 2022 with the theme: "Rights, access, equity for all victims" by "helping victims find their justice". The bills discussed in this podcast are SB 246: https://le.utah.gov/~2022/bills/static/SB0246.htmlSB 167: https://le.utah.gov/~2022/bills/static/SB0167.htmlSB 87: https://le.utah.gov/~2022/bills/static/SB0087.htmlSB 85: https://le.utah.gov/~2022/bills/static/SB0085.htmlHB 321: https://le.utah.gov/~2022/bills/static/HB0321.html HB 314: https://le.utah.gov/~2022/bills/static/HB0314.htmlHB 266: https://le.utah.gov/~2022/bills/static/HB0266.htmlHB 208: https://le.utah.gov/~2022/bills/static/HB0208.htmlHB 196: https://le.utah.gov/~2022/bills/static/HB0196.htmlHB 117: https://le.utah.gov/~2022/bills/static/HB0117.htmlIf you or someone you know is a victim of sexual assault or rape here are some national and local resources to help-National:https://www.rainn.org/about-national-sexual-assault-telephone-hotlinehttps://victimsofcrime.org/help-for-crime-victims/national-hotlines-and-helpful-linksLocal:https://victimsofcrime.org/help-for-crime-victims/national-hotlines-and-helpful-linkshttp://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/resourceshttps://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.html Support the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

Brandon and Alex visit with UCASA staff Jocelyn and Nick to talk about UCASA and International Denim Day! Learn more about Denim Day here: https://www.denimdayinfo.org/Learn more about UCASA here: www.ucasa.orgIf you or someone you know is a victim of sexual assault or rape here are some national and local resources to help-National:https://www.rainn.org/about-national-sexual-assault-telephone-hotlinehttps://victimsofcrime.org/help-for-crime-victims/national-hotlines-and-helpful-linksLocal:https://victimsofcrime.org/help-for-crime-victims/national-hotlines-and-helpful-linkshttp://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/resourceshttps://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

This week Alex and Brandon are joined by Tanya McGrath, co-founder, and Krista Flink, projector director, of Bikers Against Domestic Violence (BADV). In part three we talk with Tanya and Krista more about Bikers Against Domestic Violence, how they help survivors, and the future of their organization. Learn more at about BADV here: https://www.bikersagainstdv.org/homeSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

This week Alex and Brandon are joined by Tanya McGrath, co-founder, and Krista Flink, projector director, of Bikers Against Domestic Violence (BADV). In part two we talk with Tanya and Krista about how exactly they know each other, more about Bikers Against Domestic Violence, their purpose now, and how their organization differs from other domestic violence awareness and advocacy organizations. Learn more at about BADV here: https://www.bikersagainstdv.org/homeSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)Support the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

This week Alex and Brandon are joined by Tanya McGrath, co-founder, and Krista Flink, projector director, of Bikers Against Domestic Violence (BADV). In part one we talk with Tanya about her experience as a survivor of domestic violence, the beginnings of BADV with Tanya and Krista, and how the shared experience of losing a loved one to domestic violence gave the push to start BADV. Learn more at about BADV here: https://www.bikersagainstdv.org/homeSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

Gabe Archuleta Policy Analyst for YWCA Utah talks with Brandon and Alex about the vital role YWCA plays in Utah. YWCA Utah believes that better lives for women leads to stronger families and communities.The YWCA is committed to advancing the well-being of women in Utah through safety – offering family violence services, opportunity – with leadership and education programs, and advocacy – as a voice for change.Learn more or donate at https://www.ywcautah.org/Support the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

In previous episode's we talked with Jamie's* parents about their perspective of what their teen daughter went through when she was sexually assaulted. Jamie asked to come talk with Alex and Brandon about her life and experiences being a survivor of sexual assault. Support the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

In previous episode's we talked with Jamie's* parents about their perspective of what their teen daughter went through when she was sexually assaulted. Jamie asked to come talk with Alex and Brandon about her life and experiences being a survivor of sexual assault. Support the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

When Jane and John's* (names changed to protect identities) daughter left home without saying goodbye Jane knew something was wrong. When she finally got home she started acting strange, lashing out, and being not herself.Their daughter eventually told them what had happened to her. She was talking with a boy on snapchat and that boy sexually assaulted and raped her. Hear how these parents dealt with their daughter having to go through all of that.Support the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

When Jane and John's* (names changed to protect identities) daughter left home without saying goodbye Jane knew something was wrong. When she finally got home she started acting strange, lashing out, and being not herself.Their daughter eventually told them what had happened to her. She was talking with a boy on snapchat and that boy sexually assaulted and raped her. Hear how these parents dealt with their daughter having to go through all of that.Support the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

When Jane and John's* (names changed to protect identities) daughter left home without saying goodbye Jane knew something was wrong. When she finally got home she started acting strange, lashing out, and being not herself.Their daughter eventually told them what had happened to her. She was talking with a boy on snapchat and that boy sexually assaulted and raped her. Hear how these parents dealt with their daughter having to go through all of that. Tune in next week for part 2! Support the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

Jane had just started an internship with the crime victims legal clinic when she went to the mall to get a massage after her first day of work. She was sexually assaulted by the employee there but did not receive the help she should have right away. After talking with her co-workers at the Utah Victims Legal Clinic they helped her navigate the process and helped her get the police to take the claims seriously. Thankfully other victims came forward and the person was later arrested. Even though the perpetrator was arrested Jane does not feel the criminal justice process was a success. IN the aftermath of the crime was years of untreated trauma. Listen to Jane's story of victimization and her path to survivorship! If you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

Surviving domestic violence is tough enough but being required to maintain any relationship with your abuser because you share a child is a continual trauma. This week Alex takes the helm solo and interviews a domestic violence survivor who still has a child with her abuser and has to maintain a minimal relationship with him to follow custody orders and give their child a relationship with their father. Our guest also connects the cycle of domestic violence to the need for social justice within our community and how these two experience share many similarities. Music- “DNA by Na-G feat. Amber Lynn”If you are victim of crime and are seeking help there are resources available- National:https://victimsofcrime.orgLocal-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/ https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

You wanted to hear more so we got you a sequel! In what could only be described as Lifetime movie script, Rachel has been through hell and back on more than one occasion, and survived multiple homicide attempts from her former best friend and roommate. This roommate injected her with E. Coli, K. Oxytoca, VRSA and attempted to inject her with MRSA. She messed with her medications and injected her with insulin and other non-traceable but potentially deadly items. Hear how Rachel went from bed-ridden to thriving! Music- “DNA by Na-G feat. Amber Lynn”If you are victim of crime and are seeking help there are resources available- National:https://victimsofcrime.orgLocal-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/ https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

After her husband's recovery from leukemia, Shelaine Maxfield and her husband Derek found themselves in the same room Derek made a promise to friend that he would do something to help the world. Aware of the long-term impact child sexual abuse has on survivors, they envisioned creating an organization that could offer free resources and services to provide healing, education, and hope. In order to fund this organization they started Younique Products. The main program of the Younique Foundation is "The Haven Retreat" an immersive experience that begins with a 4-day educational retreat and continues with a 9-week online course. The retreat is designed to help survivors learn about the effects of childhood trauma, introduce concepts and practices that can promote healing, and offer tools survivors can use to address the effects of trauma on the brain and body.If you are a survivor of childhood sexual assault and would like to apply to The Haven Retreat click here: https://youniquefoundation.org/the-haven-retreat/To learn more about the Younique Foundation and their other program and services click here: https://youniquefoundation.org/To learn about Defend Innocence click here: https://defendinnocence.org/Mental Health Month Links: https://youniquefoundation.org/may-is-national-mental-health-month/If you or someone you know is a adult survivor of childhood sexual assault here are some links to help.National:https://www.rainn.org/about-national-sexual-assault-telephone-hotlinehttps://victimsofcrime.org/help-for-crime-victims/national-hotlines-and-helpful-linksLocal:https://victimsofcrime.org/help-for-crime-victims/national-hotlines-and-helpful-linkshttp://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/resourceshttps://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlhttps://slcfamilyjusticecenter.org/https://www.youniquefoundation.orghttps://dcfs.utah.gov/Support the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

May is National Mental Health Month and to honor that we are featuring survivors and organizations that advocate for and serve survivors through mental health services.  Martha didn't tell anyone she had been assaulted as a child until she was an adult. She went to therapy and things got harder. After encouragement from her family, she applied for and attended the Younique Foundation's Haven Retreat. She credits the Haven Retreat with not only saving her life but saving the lives of dozens of other people she has helped and encouraged to receive mental health services as a result of that.Mental Health Month Links: https://youniquefoundation.org/may-is-national-mental-health-month/If you or someone you know is a adult survivor of childhood sexual assault here are some links to help.National:https://www.rainn.org/about-national-sexual-assault-telephone-hotlinehttps://victimsofcrime.org/help-for-crime-victims/national-hotlines-and-helpful-linksLocal:https://victimsofcrime.org/help-for-crime-victims/national-hotlines-and-helpful-linkshttp://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/resourceshttps://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlhttps://slcfamilyjusticecenter.org/https://www.youniquefoundation.orghttps://dcfs.utah.gov/Support the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

In what could only be described as Lifetime movie script, Rachel has been through hell and back on more than one occasion, and survived multiple homicide attempts from her former best friend and roommate. This roommate injected her with E. Coli, K. Oxytoca, VRSA and attempted to inject her with MRSA. She messed with her medications and injected her with insulin and other non-traceable but potentially deadly items. Hear how Rachel went from bed-ridden to thriving! Music- “DNA by Na-G feat. Amber Lynn”If you are victim of crime and are seeking help there are resources available- National:https://victimsofcrime.orgLocal-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/ https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

This week celebrate National Crime Victims Rights Week, which is from April 18-24. So, this week is a little different than our other podcasts. We interview several victims and victim advocates and ask them why this years NCVRW theme is so important. "Support Victims. Build Trust. Engage Communities."If you would like to speak to someone about victims rights, feel free to call Utah Crime Victims Legal Clinic at 801-746-1204.Participate in this weeks social media campaign to bring awareness to victims rights in Utah by painting one ring finger blue. "Paint One Blue Nail to Stand for Victims’ Rights" and use the hashtag #1nailblue and #NCVRW2021For the events scheduled go to Utah’s National Crime Victims Rights Facebook Page for more details: https://www.facebook.com/ncvrwutahVictims Rights can be found here https://le.utah.gov/xcode/Title77/Chapter37/77-37.html?v=C77-37_1800010118000101Victims Constitutional Rights can be found https://le.utah.gov/xcode/ArticleI/Article_I,_Section_28.html?v=UC_AI_S28_1800010118000101Music- “DNA by Na-G feat. Amber Lynn”If you are victim of crime and are seeking help there are resources available- National:https://victimsofcrime.orgLocal-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/ https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

Corey met her stalker while she was canvassing for her election. At first he seemed helpful but things quickly took a turn when he started harassing her and sending her inappropriate messages and pictures. Corey was able to get a stalking injunction which her perpetrator violated multiple times. Listen as Brandon and Alex talk with Corey about her experience as a survivor and with the justice system. If you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

Chad Sorenson has a passion for helping victims of crime and the communities he continues to serve. Listen as Brandon and Alex talking with Chad about his experiences as a homicide detective in Salt Lake County. Utah Homicide Survivors' therapy group happens every other Wednesday from 7 pm - 9 pm. to sign up visit http://www.utahhomicidesurvivors.org/supportIf you are a survivor of homicide there are resources for you. Please reach out to Utah Homicide Survivors to get connected with these resources at 801-500-9077 or http://www.utahhomicidesurvivors.org If you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

When Wendy came forward about her victimization she realized it made her a better advocate for other victims of sexual violence. Wendy serves as a victim advocate for Cedar City/Iron County Sheriffs offices and is a strong voice for those who finally feel safe enough to come forward and tell there story. If you are a victim of crime and are in need of financial assistance due to your victimization you can reach the Utah Office for Victims of Crime at 801-238-2360If you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlhttps://www.utahhomicidesurvivors.org/Support the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

Before applying to be Rita's handler, Cari had never even pet a dog before! Learn how Rita the Salt Lake City Police Department Facility dog came to SLCPD and how she helps victims of traumatic crime. Rita's Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/rita_the_facility_dogIf you are a victim of crime and are in need of financial assistance due to your victimization you can reach the Utah Office for Victims of Crime at 801-238-2360If you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlhttps://www.utahhomicidesurvivors.org/Support the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

This week Ashley Drew from Pet Partners joins the show to talk about how animals can help individuals in many capacities and how their mere presence can calm those they are around. Visit their website to get involved with your pet nationwide: https://petpartners.org/If you are a victim of crime and are in need of financial assistance due to your victimization you can reach the Utah Office for Victims of Crime at 801-238-2360If you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlhttps://www.utahhomicidesurvivors.org/Support the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

In this episode Brandon and Alex discuss what they have learned from the past year of sharing stories of survivors and organizations. Support the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

This week, Brandon and Alex are joined by Melanie Scarlet. Melanie is the Assistant Director and Reparations Program Manager at the Utah Office for Victims of Crime (UOVC). Melanie talks with Brandon and Alex about the reparations program, appeals, funding, and pilot programs in her office. If you are a victim of crime and are in need of financial assistance due to your victimization you can reach the Utah Office for Victims of Crime at 801-238-2360If you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlhttps://www.utahhomicidesurvivors.org/Support the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

Jodie's sister, Amanda was killed in a senseless murder. We previously spoke with Amanda's mother, speaking with Jodie she shares about how she handled the death of her sister, being there for her nieces and nephews, and finding ways to remember and honor her sister all around her. If you are a survivor of homicide there are resources for you. Please reach out to Utah Homicide Survivors to get connected with these resources at 801-500-9077 or www.utahhomicidesurvivors.org If you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

Shannon's journey into victim advocacy started when she was working for the Department of Corrections. While working in the prison system she saw a need for more resources for women leaving prison who were also victims of trauma. Listen to Shannon's story and how Journey of Hope helps women throughout Utah build a new life after prison and trauma. If you are a victim and also struggle with addiction or recent incarceration visit: https://journeyofhopeutah.org/If you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

Misty has been through hell and back several times. She started drinking at a young age and by age 13 she was a daily meth user. Her first day of high school she was raped. She got pregnant and lost her baby and because she refused to tell the school principal why she had missed school she was kicked out of school. That led to more destructive behavior. She was in several relationships where she was abused and assaulted. She was sober on and off for a few years. After a suicide attempt she decided she had to stop or she was going to die. Listen to Misty's story of survival and how she has stayed sober for 16 years. If you are a victim and also struggle with addiction or recent incarceration visit: https://journeyofhopeutah.org/If you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

This week Alex and Brandon are joined by Nick Arteaga. Nick talks with us about the LGBTQ+ acronym, pronouns, and how to help LGBTQ+ victims of crime. Pride Center: https://utahpridecenter.org/If you are victim of crime and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlhttps://justice.utah.gov/Crime/Support the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

Harrison Spendlove woke up one morning with no recollection of what had happened to him the night before. What followed next was months of sickness until one day he got an answer. He tested positive for HIV. Listen to Harrison's story, how he maintains his sense of self, his compassion for others and how we can all be a little more accepting of our LGBTQIA+ neighbors, friends, and family. "You Are A Survivor" mobile app: http://www.ucasa.org/appIf you or someone you know is a victim of rape here are some national and local resources to help-National:https://www.rainn.org/about-national-sexual-assault-telephone-hotlinehttps://victimsofcrime.org/help-for-crime-victims/national-hotlines-and-helpful-linksLocal:https://victimsofcrime.org/help-for-crime-victims/national-hotlines-and-helpful-linkshttp://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/resourceshttps://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlhttps://utahpridecenter.org/This podcast is supported in part by grant 18W2025 from the Utah Office for Victims of Crime, awarded by the Office on Violence Against Women. The opinions, findings, conclusions, and recommendations expressed in this program are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of the Office on Violence Against Women, the U.S. Department of Justice or the Utah Office for Victims of Crime.Support the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

Tyler Schwab joins Brandon and Alex to talk about Operation Underground Railroad (O.U.R.) and their aftercare programs. Tyler's unique experience starting his own anti-trafficking nonprofit brought him to O.U.R. where he has grown O.U.R.'s aftercare programs helping child sex trafficking victims after they are rescued. Music- “DNA by Na-G feat. Amber Lynn”If you are victim of sex trafficking and are seeking help there are resources available- National:https://www.dahliashope.org/https://ourrescue.org/https://www.humantraffickinghotline.org/Local-https://www.dahliashope.org/https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

Adopted to be trafficked, Kimberli Kocherhans endured severe physical and sexual abuse by the person who adopted her. Through the years of abuse and torture she was sold and traded within a vast community of abusers and as a result she suppressed many of these memories until she was a young adult. Now through years of therapy and healing she speaks out to help not only her healing process but the healing process of others trapped in the trafficking world. Read Kimberli's story at http://www.anunexpectedlight.com/my-story/ Learn about the Healing Center for Complex Trauma: https://www.thehealingcenterforcomplextrauma.org/Music- “DNA by Na-G feat. Amber Lynn”If you are victim of sex trafficking and are seeking help there are resources available- National:https://www.dahliashope.org/https://www.ourrescue.org/https://www.humantraffickinghotline.org/Local-https://www.dahliashope.org/https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, so this week we talk with the largest domestic violence coalition in Utah: Utah Domestic Violence Coalition. This weeks guests are Samantha Candland and Andi Tremonte from the Utah Domestic Violence Coalition. Join us as we talk about UDVC programs, LINKLine and how Dungeons and Dragons make them better advocates. Samantha Candland is the volunteer coordinator at UDVC. She has been involved with UDVC for almost two years. Her primary responsibility is to manage the LINKLine, which is a 24/7 anonymous and confidential crisis hotline where volunteers answer calls to help anyone experiencing domestic violence. All volunteers participate in an extensive 40-hour training before they take any calls because they are dealing with dangerous and highly sensitive situations. Volunteers help callers with everything from information, safety planning, advocacy and referrals to services.Andi has an educational background in Psychology and Women and Gender Studies. Andi is the Education and Outreach Coordinator for UDVC. They support domestic violence service providers, sexual assault programs, and government organizations in Utah, offering support services for underserved clients as well as trainings and technical assistance.If you would like to volunteer for the LinkLine or UDVC visit: https://www.udvc.org/get-involved/If you or your organization would like to receive one of the many community or advocate trainings UDVC offers visit: https://www.udvc.org/training/If you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

Jane* (name changed to protect her identity) met her no ex-husband in high school. She was enamored by him, they got married at a young age but as soon as they were married her husband told her he didn't actually love her. This began years of emotional abuse. During the early years of their marriage Jane's husband became a law enforcement officer. The emotional and isolating abuse continued and eventually escalated into physical abuse, marital rape, and physical abuse to their children. Listen to Jane's story of survivorship, why she reconciled with her abuser multiple times, and how she helps women escape abusive marriages today. If you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/ https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

September is Homicide Victim's Remembrance Month, so this month we are focusing on the stories of families of homicide victims or as they are known in their community: Homicide Survivors.This week's organization guest is a BIG one. Brandon Merrill, your co-host sits down with Alex to talk about Utah Homicide Survivors, the organization he started. Listen as Brandon explains the services of Utah Homicide Survivors, legal aspects of homicide victim cases, and a special appearance by Bekah Sparks from last week talking about how Utah Homicide Survivors helped get her through the darkest time in her life. Utah Homicide Survivors' therapy group happens every other Wednesday from 7 pm - 9 pm. to sign up visit http://www.utahhomicidesurvivors.org/supportIf you are a survivor of homicide there are resources for you. Please reach out to Utah Homicide Survivors to get connected with these resources at 801-500-9077 or http://www.utahhomicidesurvivors.org If you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

September is Homicide Victim's Remembrance Month, so this month we are focusing on the stories of families of homicide victims or as they are known in their community: Homicide Survivors.Bekah Sparks lost her younger sister, her "person", Lisa Williams, to domestic violence homicide. Lisa was an amazing young woman, she was giving, loving, and do no wrong. Unbeknownst to the hosts beforehand, we recorded this episode on Lisa's birthday, September 17. After Lisa's death, Bekah tried to find meaning in her life, she has worked through the grief process with her family, and the Utah Homicide Survivors support group. After receiving help from Utah Homicide Survivors through the legal processes, Bekah felt like she needed to give back to those who have gone through the same experience as her, so she accepted the invitation to join the Utah Homicide Survivors Board of Directors. Listen to Bekah as she shares her experiences about the criminal justice system, the grief process, and how she found new meaning in her life after her sister's death.If you are a survivor of homicide there are resources for you. Please reach out to Utah Homicide Survivors to get connected with these resources at 801-500-9077 or https://www.utahhomicidesurvivors.org If you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

September is Homicide Victim's Remembrance Month, so this month we are focusing on the stories of families of homicide victims or as they are known in their community: Homicide Survivors.According to Maria, Brandon Merrill (one of the hosts of this show) tricked her into helping create and run Utah's first group therapy program that is exclusive for homicide survivors. Homicide survivors are close friends and family of homicide victims. This new group has helped survivors find community and those that understand their particular form of grief. The therapy group happens every other Wednesday from 7 pm - 9 pm. to sign up visit www.utahhomicidesurvivors.org/supportIf you are a survivor of homicide there are resources for you. Please reach out to Utah Homicide Survivors to get connected with these resources at 801-500-9077 or www.utahhomicidesurvivors.org If you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

September is Homicide Victim's Remembrance Month, so this month we are focusing on the stories of families of homicide victims or as they are known in their community: Homicide Survivors. Jolene's daughter Amanda was killed in a senseless murder. Before Amanda's death, Jolene received custody of Amanda's two daughters due to Amanda's struggle with addiction. Now 4 1/2 years later Jolene still finds herself struggling with the tragic loss of her daughter but is hopeful that others who have lost someone in this manner can find community and hope when they realize there are others out there who understand what they are going through. If you are a survivor of homicide there are resources for you. Please reach out to Utah Homicide Survivors to get connected with these resources at 801-500-9077 or www.utahhomicidesurvivors.org If you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.html Support the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

BreAnn Wilkes joins Brandon and Alex this week to discuss system based advocacy, the importance of having a therapist, and how to last in a job that is emotionally draining. If you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

Nick is your typical college student. Outgoing, friendly, fun. One day he accepted a message request from a stranger asking him about his LDS mission in Alabama he had recently returned from. The messages escalated from a few a day to hundreds everyday. When he cut off contact this person escalated their behavior and began stalking and harassing Nick, his family, and friends. One day Nick confided in his best friend who helped introduce him to the resources he needed to get this person to stop. But she didn't stop, and this led to her being convicted and spending time in the county jail. Hear how Nick was able to hold his stalker accountable, how he still struggles, and his story of being a male survivor. If you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

How often are we told we need to practice self-care and it just feels like another thing to add to our to-do list? This week we talk with Deborah Dilley about yoga, meditation, essential oils, and other way to provide self care after a trauma. Whether the trauma be personal or within an organization it is important to identify and care for ourselves in a realistic manner tailored to our needs. Deborah is all about making yoga accessible to all body types and lifestyles as well as affordable. Deborah offers training to individuals and agencies on creating self-care and trauma stewardship plans- helping individuals find a plan that works for their unique needs and resources.Email Deb: deborah.ann.dilley@gmail.comWebsite: http://ddilleyenterprises.com/home/empower/Book on organizational trauma: http://organizationaltraumaandhealing.com/resourcesIf you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local-https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/ https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

When Deborah was was working towards a Master's degree. She met a charming young man. She fell for him...fast. Unfortunately, it wasn't the love story she was searching for. The charming young man she met was not who he seemed to be. He used her and controlled her. She learned 7 months into their marriage that she had married a man using a fake identity. One day, he packed his bags to leave for a job and never returned. But her story of survivorship didn't begin there. Listen as we talk with Debbie about how she survived an emotionally and financially abusive marriage and re-discovered who she was. Power and control wheel: https://www.theduluthmodel.org/wheels/If you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/Local- https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/ https://www.ucasa.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

After seeing a gap and need for aftercare services for adult survivors of sex trafficking, Cherstyn Stockwell started Dahlia's Hope. Dahlia’s Hope provides holistic aftercare services to survivors of sex trafficking who are ready to create a new life. It is the first treatment facility of its kind for trafficking victims in Utah. It will incorporate a few services in close proximity to each other, including: an education/training/treatment center, various therapy locations (including clinical therapy, recreational therapy, equine therapy, art therapy, animal therapy, and horticulture/garden therapy, to name a few), vocational training, life skills training, and, soon, residential housing. The treatment facility will also help connect survivors to medical and dental services. The primary goal of the organization is to help transition survivors into independent living, meeting each survivor exactly where they are in their own journey. The residential housing facility will be an off-site location that will provide safe housing for individuals who necessitate longer term care or cannot afford housing while receiving services from the treatment facility. Music- “DNA by Na-G feat. Amber Lynn”If you are victim of sex trafficking and are seeking help there are resources available- National:https://www.dahliashope.org/Local-https://www.dahliashope.org/https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

When Suzie Skirvin was 19, she was planning to join the Air Force. She moved to California, where she met someone on Tinder, dated him, and eventually agreed to move in with him. Just before she moved into his place, he took her out to a nice dinner. During the meal, he placed her purse with her phone, keys, and wallet on his chair and then asked her how she was going to pay for what he was providing. He then told her she was going to be a stripper and an escort. Suzie was trafficked and used by the man but eventually she was able to escape. Soon after her escape she visited a Dr. who told her that she was pregnant. Listen to Suzie's story of triumph and why she chose to become a police officer to be a voice for survivors of sex trafficking. Music- “DNA by Na-G feat. Amber Lynn”If you are victim of sex trafficking and are seeking help there are resources available- National:https://www.dahliashope.org/Local-https://www.dahliashope.org/https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/ https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

This week celebrate National Crime Victims Rights Week, which is from April 19-25. So, this week is a little different than our other podcasts. First we talk about the history of victims rights, where to find them, and what victims rights are in Utah. We then interview several victims, asking why victims rights are important to them. If you would like to speak to someone about victims rights, feel free to call Utah Crime Victims Legal Clinic at 801-746-1204. Participate in this weeks social media campaign to bring awareness to victims rights in Utah by painting one ring finger blue. "Paint One Blue Nail to Stand for Victims’ Rights" and use the hashtag #1nailblue and #NCVRW2020 Due to the current corona social distancing, all activities to have been postponed to June. In June there will be a candle light vigil and a day of remembrance where we light the city blue. Turn to Utah’s National Crime Victims Rights Facebook Page for more details. Victims Rights can be found here https://le.utah.gov/xcode/Title77/Chapter37/77-37.html?v=C77-37_1800010118000101 Victims Constitutional Rights can be found https://le.utah.gov/xcode/ArticleI/Article_I,_Section_28.html?v=UC_AI_S28_1800010118000101Music- “DNA by Na-G feat. Amber Lynn”If you are victim of crime and are seeking help there are resources available- National:https://victimsofcrime.orgLocal- https://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/ https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)

Susan Griffith is the Executive Director of Timpanogos Legal Center. She has 30 years of experience in working with family law and domestic violence issues. Susan has been part-time faculty at Brigham Young University’s Law School since 1995. She teaches clinical courses in Family Law, Domestic Violence Intervention, Child Advocacy as well as externship classes and skills-based courses. Susan was a founding member of Timpanogos Legal Center and loves the challenge of finding ways to help more people and involve more attorneys in pro bono work.TIMPANOGOS LEGAL CENTER IS A GROUP OF VOLUNTEER ATTORNEYS WHO PROVIDE FREE LEGAL ASSISTANCE. TLC’S PURPOSE IS TO PROVIDE LEGAL SERVICES, AND TO LIFT THOSE COUNSELED IN IMPROVING THEIR LIVES.https://timplegal.com/801-649-8895Tuesday Night Clinic: Every Tuesday evening from 5:00-8:00 p.m. 1st floor of the Health and Justice Building, located at 151 S. University Ave. in ProvoIf you are victim of domestic violence and are seeking help there are resources available: National- http://ncadv.org/ Local- https://victimsofcrime.org/our-programs/past-programs/stalking-resource-center/stalking-laws/criminal-stalking-laws-by-state/utahhttps://www.utahlegalservices.org/https://www.legalaidsocietyofsaltlake.org/https://timplegal.com/http://www.utahvictimsclinic.org/ https://www.udvc.org/resources/get-help-now.htmlSupport the show (https://secure.givelively.org/donate/utah-domestic-violence-legal-services)