30 Something, Black, and Gay

In part 3 of 3 of our “Questions” series we finish up Season 4 with the last of our Thirty Something Questions. (Season Finale)

In part 2 of this 3 part episode we’re asking each other more random, thought provoking, self reflective, absolutely ridiculous questions.

In part 1 of this 3 part episode we’re asking each other random, thought provoking, self reflective, absolutely ridiculous questions.

This week we discuss hot topics and the pursuit of perfection with our Special Guest Brian Eric Alexander.

This week we discuss loneliness, sex, and dating.

This week we discuss body image with a special guest!

Will Zoë be the Selina Kyle we deserve? Has Todrick paid his dancers? Is RuPaul a bad Mutha? And is Jane the Virgin... or the Racist?

This week we finish our 2 part conversation about Race and Love.

Part 1 of a 2 part discussion about Celebrities, Race, and Love.

Hot Topics

This week we discuss how real reality tv is, what it has done for scripted television, and how big screen stars have embraced (or not) the small screen.

Are Influencers a fad or are they here to stay? This week we’re talking about how influential influencers actually are, who should (or shouldn’t) be influencers, and what it is they actually do.

This week we’re discussing a phenomenon that many of the world’s most powerful and influential people have admitted they’ve been plagued with. Spoiler alert... it’s all in their heads.

On this week’s episode: Titus vs. Andy, Mo’Nique vs. Oprah, and *deep negro spiritual sigh* The Lion King. 

This week we discuss Groupthink and the many ways it can impact society, progress (or lack thereof), and our ability to self reflect.

Oh the perils of Social Media. This week we talk about the many elements of social media and how to find a healthy balance for you.

This week we’re discussing the allegations against Michael Jackson and R. Kelly and how our attempts to preserve the legacies of Black entertainers may be doing more harm than good.

We’re back this week finishing up our discussion about Lil Nas X, the music industry, and why “coming out” may be harder for Black artists.

What does success actually mean, what does it look like for you? This week we’re discussing finding success and how to take the good days with the bad days.

This week we’re talking Disney, the music industry, and the coming out of Lil Nas X!

Isis King stops by to talk Ava Duvernay’s “When They See Us”, her start on America’s Next Top Model, and how finding her true self changed her life.

Season 4 premiere! We’re starting this season by discussing the hate crime that probably possibly could have happened... allegedly.

Booksmart, the directorial debut by Olivia Wilde, hits theaters nationwide this Friday 5/24 and we have two of its stars, Austin Crute and Mason Gooding with us to talk about it! We will return in June with all new episodes!!!

As 2018 comes to an end we’re sharing a clip show of some of our favorite moments of Season 3! Enjoy and Happy New Year from 30 Something, Black, & Gay!

This week we discuss Individual 1, Kevin Hart and his Oscars fumble, and we ask what’s going on with Halle Berry’s career. 

This week we discuss surveillance, social credit, and restraining orders. 

This week we’re joined by Communications Provokateur Coach Jean Lloyd who shares her passion for empowering communities in the areas of love, communication, and relationships.

3 friends, in a room, talking.

This week we have some unsolicited advice for Onika and also... how do you solve a problem like Ciara?

Cardi B. vs. BlacSwanMUA. Should people post videos exposing celebs for “bad behavior”?

Its Shangela! RuPaul’s Drag Race All Star Shangela Laquifa Wadley pays us a visit to talk “A Star is Born”, Drag Race, and her closeness to  30sBAG fav Jenifer Lewis!

Kehlani’s got a bisexual Baby Daddy, Kanye links trap doors to the unabomber, and Haji learns that “Takeoff” is a person.

We’re back and we’re talking A Star Is Born, Insecure, and Beyoncé.(stay mad)

Swipe culture, false personas, and immediate gratification make finding love the “old fashion way” difficult, but is it impossible? 

They’ll huff, They’ll puff, and They’ll burn their own damn houses down. Nike wins, Serena loses, and Cardi B is KNOT here for it!

Have you ever seen a stage going Apeshit? What about a dancer? This week we discuss Insecure and The Carters’ stage breach.

This week we answer listener questions involving dating, sexual roles, and boundaries. 

We discuss a week of Hot Topics and round out our series on Family as we discuss our relationships with our Dads.

Continuing our conversation from last week, this week we focus specifically on our relationships with our Moms and discuss how they may have influenced us as gay men.

Is blood thicker than water? From chosen families to bloodlines we’re talking about how being gay has changed our ideas of family, life, and love.

Infidelity, Confessions, and Wedding Plans. From Beyoncé to R. Kelly we’re talking media, race, and PDA.

Dyllón Burnside joins us as we talk about Ryan Murphy’s Queer sensation “Pose” on FX and his upcoming benefit concert, “Up Clise & Personal.”

R. Kelly is nasty, RuPaul hates black people, and “Whitney” sets the record straight! Has fear of failure or rejection caused you to miss out on something good for you? Is fear a figment of our imagination? Let’s talk...

Verizon celebrates Pride Month, Bitch Better Have Dame Dash’s Money, and Netflix’s Queer Eye Reboot is the emotional rollercoaster none of us asked for but all of us deserve! 

Most importantly, The Carters. In unrelated news we’re talking about Ego and Masks.

From Social Media to Dating Apps, all of our expectations seem to have sky rocketed... but does anyone REEAAALLLY know exactly what they’re looking for??? Is dating really that hard, or are we creating problems for ourselves? 

It’s Season 3 and we’re back Bitches!   Janet is snatched... sorta, Roseanne is chopped, and we’re all OBSESSED with the 90s! We’re talking Film & TV reboots and we have some ideas for Hollywood! 

It’s our 1 Year Anniversary and we’re sharing a bonus episode to celebrate! Beychella is Life, Revry is Home, and somebody’s a Zaddy! Thanks to all of our loyal listeners and we’ll be back with a new season very soon!

Jayson still isn’t here for Mo’Nique’s antics, Brian says sex really isn’t that important, Haji explains the “3 month rule,” and Mikey joins the convo to give his perspective on Monogamy in relationships. Season 2 Finale

Monogamy, Polyamory, Polygamy... who has it right!?!? Are we meant to be monogamous or are other relationship constructs better suited to the human experience? Spoiler alert, we have no idea! Part 1 of 2 of our supersized Season 2 Finale!

First things first... Black Panther. Join us as we talk Black Cinema’s biggest weekend, kids in school, and ultimately as we compare some of music’s most influential artists (past and present).