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Hi everyone in this episode I talk about how coffee dates are less than the bare minimum and should never be acceptable when looking for a romantic partner. Coffee dates required no effort and many times guys will set you up for coffee dates just so that they can see where your standards are. If you have no standards, immediately find some! FOLLOW ME ON Instagram bluntsandroses_podcast . --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bluntsandroses/support

In this episode, I talk about how raising your standards will only be beneficial to you. Are you tired of the same jokes/men? Well, the good news is that you don't have to settle and you don't have to put up with anything that you don't want to put up with anymore. Life is continuously evolving, and every month will give us different challenges and people will come BACK into our lives, or into our lives to teach us about ourselves. It's your job to decide that you no longer want to put up with Low effort men and low effort PERIOD! The type of man you want is out there but you have to say goodbye to the old you. The NEW you doesn't put up with things that you have already over came and that goes for the people you've allowed in your life and continuously allowed to come in and out without rising your standards. This is your reality and you don't have to be who you were yesterday and you don't have to settle for anyone or anything low vibrational. Its time to make a change and start treating yourself at your highest value and if you still are not there, I promise with time and door closing you will get there! FOLLOW ME on IG @ bluntsandroses_podcast . --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bluntsandroses/support

In this episode, I talk about having a plan when you let a man back into your life. As I emphasized in past episodes boundaries are super important because they allow you to understand what you will, and will not allow with anyone new or old. When it comes to people from our past, we tend to forget the bad times we had with them, and only remember the good and that's why we allow them to enter our lives again, and again. This episode is to give you an idea and a plan as to how you will need to change your mindset in order for you NOT to go through the same things you've been through with the person who you are allowing back into your life. People make mistakes and maybe they are not the same person they were in the past, but you can't gamble your journey because we are supposed to be evolving AND learning from our mistakes, and not making them after we learned from them. You don't have to be a bitch per se, but you do need to know how to handle certain people, especially if they have taken you for granted before, and you felt like in the past, you were putting more effort than the other person or not being treated the best. You are in charge of your life and only you know what you will allow, and what you want. Always have an EXIT strategy when it comes to people from your past because it allows you to let go of them sooner than later, when you understand that they are not meeting the criteria.

Most of us have been here, time, and time again, because we have not learned our lesson. As most of you know, life will keep throwing the same lesson at you if you don't learn to evolve and grow from your past and that includes the same man that you are allowing to lower your standards as well as your value. I'll say this again men will say anything to you to just see how far they can get with you, and that could be in the bedroom or just to see how far you allow them to use you in any way, or how bad you allow them to mistreat you. REMEMBER if you allow someone to mistreat you you're only hurting yourself and showing others how to treat you and what you will put up with. If you put up with nothing then no one can ever lower your standards or decrease your value as a woman or as a person it's time to stop crying and get back up and understand that if you don't like the way that your life is going, you can always walk away and start over, if you've been going left for a long time, start to go right and change the way that you date the way that you allow others to treat you and increase your value by not putting up with the same things that you have always put up with. As loving as you are, you deserve the best because you are the best!! GO FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM : bluntsandroses_podcast --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bluntsandroses/support

As much as I emphasize, valuing yourself and loving yourself, I also want to emphasize that the moment that you allow anyone especially a man to treat you less than you are, you have lost because you cannot take that image away ever again. The amount of times that I've allowed myself to devalue myself in front of a man has been the times where I lost myself the most. It cost me so much time and healing to get back to who I once was and who I am today. Life is way too short to have to deal with someone who truly doesn't love you, love doesn't hurt and you are not your past. Tomorrow is always a new day but its also not promised so don't live your life and suffer, love your life, love yourself and NEVER SETTLE !!!! Message me on IG @ bluntsandroses_podcast --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bluntsandroses/support

In this short episode, I talk about how over explaining to a man or just anyone how to treat you is always going to go against you. There's no reason why you need to ask someone why they are treating you the way that they are or deal with someone when you see the way that they are handling you. You are a precious cargo and you should never allow anyone to mistreat you or treat you any way they feel besides the BEST! This is your reality and this is your life, so if you want to kick people out of your life because of the way, they handle you, I'm for it! As always, don't forget your worth, and remember that you are always the prize. Follow me on Instagram : bluntsandroses_podcast

In this episode, I talk about how valuing yourself is essential for the way that others ( especially the man you're dating ) will treat you. When you vibrate on a higher frequency it is noticed. Energy is always felt whether we know it or not. The way that we treat ourselves is the way that others will treat us the moment that you allow someone to disrespect you and get away with it they will continue to do so. Life is a beautiful journey that is filled with lessons that we must learn from and grow from. Although we can keep making the same mistakes in different forms, it's important that if we don't learn from them, we won't grow from them and they will continue to be in the cycle of our life. If you want to be treated better you have to do better for yourself. It always starts with you and how you feel about yourself and the way that you let others treat you that sets the tone. ❤️ p.s. I love you all. I'm taking a social media break at this time but Please always feel free to message me on. @ bluntsandrosesposcast --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bluntsandroses/support

Hi girls, in this episode, I talk about how you have to be fed up in order for you to make a change. Change comes within, I have always said that, but sometimes it is forced out of us, because we are tired of the same end result, and our own behavior. Life is short, and if the people that you were interested in are not showing you interest, remove them. Life takes a toll on us and we change for the better and it makes us stronger, mentally and emotionally and sometimes even spiritually. I have gone through a lot and I have only witnessed things that I shouldn't have gone through so young but as always, I use my wisdom, and what I've learned from my past experiences to help the next woman. I hope this podcast finds you when you need it most. FOLLOW me on Instagram : bluntsandroses_podcast

Hi girlies, in this episode, I talk about how I gave a lot of me and changed myself, including my appearance to satisfy men who didn't deserve me. It's hard to be a single women and it's hard to date, and it's hard to believe that you deserve love, but you deserve everything

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Hey, we're back in the car again, I promise I'm going to start doing regular episodes, but right now I feel like doing these on the spot episodes have been really helping a lot of you ladies. In this episode, I talk about how you should never reach out to a man no matter how you guys left off whether it was good or bad, the man is always supposed to do the initial contact and pursuing so if he's not reaching out, don't reach out to him even if it's just for

In this episode, I talk about how a lot of us are in the situation we are in with certain people/men because we do not take accountability for the shit we let slide. I said it numerous times you have to set the tone with men and people because people/men only treat you as good as you allow them to, and will only treat you as bad as you allow them to. You need to learn how to stop scratching the itch that's in the habit you want to kick! If YOU want to change you have to CHANGE. Stop allowing shit you would allow in the past! Look you might not know this but YOU DONT HAVE TO BE THE SAME PERSON OR WAY YOUVE BEEN BEFORE. You can change RIGHT NOW , this MINUTE, you can change tonight and be a different person tomorrow who values and respects themselves. FOLLOW ME ON IG : bluntsandroses_podcast . --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/bluntsandroses/support

As healing has become more popular, some don't understand the magnitude of pain that comes with it. Healing is a beautiful journey, but it is also a very painful one. Throughout the years, you can hurt yourself more than you know from the actions that you take and the excuses that you make for others who hurt you. But you cannot blame yourself for the things that you didn't know which would change you. It's so easy to say to let go of others, and to move on when things don't work out but for most of us we make excuses and stay places much longer than we would and by the time things are over, we have lost ourselves and who we are seems like a distant memory. As healing takes place, we discover traumas we created in our adulthood, but also we revisit childhood traumas and begin the shadow work within, which requires a lot of forgiveness for ourselves and our past mistakes, and for the things that we didn't know then, and now we blame ourselves for. FOLLOW my NEW INSTAGRAM NAME : bluntsandroses_podcast --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/bluntsandroses/support

Say goodbye to the old you, and say hello to the new you. There's no doubt that some men are weird as fuck, and they will do things to trigger you or give you less than the bare minimum and think they are the prize. When it comes to men distance is key and predictability is not. In this episode, I talk about how giving a man distance will cause him to humble himself, but also keeping you in his mind as a high value woman. When a man doesn't meet your standard, you leave! When a man is disrespectful and not showing behavior of him being absolutely smitten, and how he adores you then he has to go. Leaving a man will not only cause you to be held at a higher pedestal, but it also lets him know that you are not a woman that he can disrespect or treat less than the queen that you are. It raises the standard on you as a woman and what your expectations are for a man. FOLLOW NEW IG PAGE :bluntsandroses_podcast --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/bluntsandroses/support

HAPPY NEW YEAR ! In this episode, I talk about a personal experience of mine, and also understanding and now implementing a lot of what I already know, but have yet to do in the past. Im DONE with my old unhealthy, unhealed habits and I decided A long time ago I wouldn't settle for anyone no matter what. As 2022 comes to an end I have grown so much and I've come to the realization that my worth is so valuable, and at any moment that I decide to renegotiate my worth for anything, or anyone that is when my value goes down and I am treated less. High value dating is serious work, and it starts with you, and the saying goes that don't judge a book by its cover, but after I read the book, I've decided to leave it there and never open that book again. I had so much trouble closing doors that have so much potential, but that's all it was, Potential. People will show you who they really are and its our job to believe them. FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM : realbitchshit_podcast --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/real_bitch_shit/support

We in the Car again SHAWTY !! Hi everyone in this episode I talk about how settling for the wrong person or things will have you paying for your mental and emotional health later and during ! At the end of the day a lot of us settle, because we are afraid to miss out on some thing that can get better not understanding that there's a lot of resistance in forcing things to stay together or work (You are not a constructional worker, let it go) . I also get into how we self sabotage ourselves and cock block ourselves from the blessings that the universe and God has for us when we REFUSE TO LET GO OF WHAT NO LONGER SUITS US. Diving into this episode I was not sure what I would be talking about but I feel like I was guided to give this message to whoever needs to let go of someone or situation that no longer aligns with them or their future. Settling will never have you feeling your best, It will instead have you anxious, stressed out, overthinking, and even devalued. I hope this episode helps those who need it, please follow me on Instagram realbitchshit_podcast …

WE IN THE CAR SHAWTY! Hi everyone this is another unedited car episode, I'm keeping it real as always and authentic, in this episode I talk about how knowing your worth will have you feeling very lonely, and when someone walks away from you and hurts you it's so easy to want them and want to be with them but its because when you lose access to someone or someone doesn't show interest in you it makes you want to chase them or it also makes you want to think about them and have feelings of negotiating your worth just to be with them or to get back to them. Understanding that these are all emotions of fear of missing out will have you understanding that if what you lost was not benefiting you and wasn't healthy then you lost nothing at all. It's hard to let go but it's even worse to be somewhere where you are not adored, desired, appreciated, and celebrated. Keeping strong, keep evolving, and keep your head up. FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM: realbitchshit_podcast

In this episode I talk about how controlling your emotions is essential to not only yourself but others around you. A lot of the times when you show your emotions too soon and your vulnerability men usually will take you for granted or take advantage of you. I also give you tips on how to adjust yourself to the way that life is very cutthroat and it's not very fair especially when it comes to love and relationships…. love is a beautiful thing and unconditional love is a beautiful thing but just make sure that your standards are being met and the person you're falling for is falling for you too, because our emotions will make us do crazy things.

Hello everyone, in this episode I talk about how forgiving yourself is very essential just like forgiving others is essential, we must remember that we are humans too and we make mistakes. At the end of the day we are spiritual beings living a human experience and we should enjoy the ride because we cannot live this life twice. I also talk about how I was dating this guy and he made me catch so much feelings to the point where I actually chased him away because I couldn't give him space, and because of that I felt like it was my fault that he ran for me. I never felt so low. As I was wanting for him to make me feel safe and secure, once he got caught he switched … But as I always say everything you chase runs away. STAY TUNE AND UP TO DATE ON FUTURE EPISODES . FOLLOW ME ON IG @ realbitchshit_podcast

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PEP TALK SHAWTY!!!! In this episode I talk about how vulnerability is a beautiful thing but just make sure that you take your time before you become vulnerable with him. It is true that in order for you to be loved you have to be vulnerable but when you give a man vulnerability way too soon he often takes advantage of it and you become an option. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/real_bitch_shit/support

PEP TALK SHAWTY ! hi everyone, and this episode I talk about detaching yourself from people and the outcome of things. When you detach yourself from things everything comes to you. I talk about how I used to hold a tight grip on some people I loved and cared for but I've quickly found out that when you keep grips on people and in life it pushes everything and everyone away. Let it flow and let it go when its time !

In this episode I talk about the power of letting go but also how much we live in nostalgia and in a fantasy world where our reality isn't actually happening, after whatever we wanted ended. So we hold onto the past in hopes that things will come together but not understanding that when we let go, everything comes together. Having FAITH is what keeps us moving and living. FOLLOW ME ON IG real_bitch_shir1 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/real_bitch_shit/support

Hello everyone, in this episode I talk about how you allowing others to treat you a certain way will eventually cause a ripple affect of causing you to lower your higher self if it DOESN'T ALLIGN WITH YOUR HIGHER SELF

In this episode I talk about showing up and loving others more than they love you. Many times we tend to love others more than they love us but it has absolutely nothing to do with them and has everything to do with us. Don't regret your big heart and others Inability to Match your energy. Having a big heart is what makes you that much more special and DIFFERENT. In this episode we get spiritual and we talk about GOD

Hi everyone, this episode is about allowing a man to be a man and also focusing on letting a man pursue you. There's nothing wrong with reciprocating, but as WOMEN WHAT WE WONT be doing is CHASING a man or showing him that we want him more than he wants us. Stay tune there is more to come these are short episodes, but the big ones are coming. FOLLOW ME ON IG real_bitch_shit1

Hi everyone this episode is about reacting to other people‘s actions and how understanding that every action doesn't need a reaction and it's always better to take the highroad because that is where peace is. It's so easy to jump out of character and let people get under our skins but at the end of the day none of that even matters. Those people don't even matter. I love you guys as always and I hope that this short little episode really helps someone out there. As always love and light

In this episode I will be talking about red flags, online dating, getting back on the streets (dating scene) /getting your groove back when it comes to dating online but also in general. Are you dating a red flag loser? Is there any possible chance that maybe you lack common sense at times when it comes to love??? WELL GUESS WHAT GIRL! I'm giving tips and tricks on how to overcome men with red flags, how to spot a man and it's full of red flags and bull sh*****, and also how you spot the ones that have the green flags for my single hot and ready to get back on the saddle lol (if you know what I mean ) . As always love and light

In this episode I talk about what it's like to date a man who gives you constant make signals. I also talk about knowing your worth and when it's time to walk away from things and people Who constantly drain your energy and make you lower your vibration. I also talk about my personal experiences and my recent talking stage that went down south quick. In this episode we are being accountable and not tolerating bullshit . Make sure to follow me on my Instagram account at real_bitch_shit1 . As always light and love --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/real_bitch_shit/support

This episode is about loving yourself after things don’t work out with a person that you thought you’d last forever with. It’s about someone awakening your love but not loving you correctly at the end of it. It’s about choosing yourself first and understanding that you’re so much more than your pain. In this episode I talk about how much your person hurt you and the realizations that it takes for you to understand that it was never you, it was them. Hurt people, always hurt people especially the ones to try to love them. I hope you enjoy this episode. Happy anniversary to a real bitch shit. Please make sure to follow me on Instagram @ real_bitch_shit1 . Light and love

In this episode I talk about what it’s like to be in a relationship after trusting someone And being vulnerable to someone and that broke you , hurt you which let you with traumas and now you carry those on accident into your new relationship. I’m giving tips and advice on how to overcome the traumas and also how to love your significant other correctly and be healthy. We are not our traumas and every day is a healing day remember that. Please follow me on Instagram add real_bitch_shit1 . As always light and love --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/real_bitch_shit/support

In this episode I talk about what it’s like to go through a heartbreak , I also give a story time in this episode about personal experiences that I have faced that made me wiser and stronger, when it came to healing and learning new lessons that built me into who I am today.I also give 16 tips on how to move on how to heal and how to mend you heart just a little quicker

In this episode I talk about tips and advice on how to start your own business how to support small businesses and what you can do that is absolutely free when it comes to being a entrepreneur as well as being a supporter. Because absolutely nothing to be the best version of yourself, it all starts with you. As always light and love please follow me on Instagram at Real_bitch_Shit1 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/real_bitch_shit/support

In this episode I discuss how to move on when you are in a relationship or in a situation ship such as a friends with benefits or a entanglement. I discuss also how to get the person who you are in a friends with benefits relationship to start chasing you/court you. I have lots of tips and tricks up my sleeve , I hope you enjoy this episode. As always love and light please follow me on Instagram at Real_bitch_Shit1 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/real_bitch_shit/support

In this episode I kick off my MALES Series with my GUEST MALE CO-HOST and Best Friend DANNY. We talk about everything such as what women do to make men not want to be with them! Why it’s important to listen to men when he talks to you on some real shit. Why your worth is a lot more important than the man you’re chasing, and why you shouldn’t be chasing ANY MAN EVER ! Here’s the REAL DEAL LADIES We get MALE ADVICE in this episode!!! Get in tune with this episode make the man you want come to you HASSEL FREE❤️ As ALWAYS LOVE AND LIGHT . Make sure to follow me on my Instagram @ Real_bitch_Shit1 and Twitter @ Real_bitch_Shit --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/real_bitch_shit/support

In this episode I give tips and advice on how loving yourself and putting yourself first is essential. I talk about the company that you have in your life is not always meant to stay with you through it all and sometimes we have to analyze the company and the things that we have in life that bring us down and hurt us in different ways from growing or going on To our next chapter in life. This episode holds so many keys and too many to name to loving yourself again or loving yourself for the first time. Self-love is a journey and I hope we can all get there. As always love and light

In this episode my guest cohost and I talk about online dating and all the tips and tricks to look forward to when online dating . I also give very crucial advise. We also share some story time and how my guest Co host caught her online flings SHIRT ON FIRE

In this episode me and my Guest Co-Host talk about what men do to make us women act fucking crazy. We also talk dating and relationship advice. We even brought up threesomes. Would you let a third in your relationship ? This episode is so much fun :) ENJOY . As always LOVE AND LIGHT

In this episode I talk about Making a online dating profile when I am newly single. I end up meeting someone and going on vacation with that person and finding out Hell is real and Its him! It’s story time bitches , grab your drinks

In this episode my guest cohost and I talk about the talking stage while dating. We’re also doing some Q&A with listeners questions. Talking Lots of advice and personal story time and we find out if the talking stage is worth it and what will happen during that time as well as men saying whatever to get between your legs ? Stay tune and listen in ❤️ as always LOVE AND LIGHT :) follow me on IG real_bitch_shit1 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/real_bitch_shit/support

Giving you the TEA WHEN IT COMES TO DATING . Whether it’s Friends with Benefits, being Ghosted , the talking stage , knowing your worth. You name I’m talking about it. Hope you all enjoy thank you so much for listening :) love and light as always ❤️ Follow me on IG @ Real_bitch_shit1 and Twitter @real_bitch_shit --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/real_bitch_shit/support

Hello everyone this episode is about toxic relationships it speaks for itself whether you have been in one or are currently in one this episode will give you a lot of insight into my personal past life as well as my guest Co-Host . It’s a great episode. Please enjoy :) LOVE AND LIGHT AS ALWAYS ❤️ Jazzy Barries https://instagram.com/jazzy.berries?igshid=1qv870m83kpjc Follow me on IG @ Real_bitch_shit1 and Twitter @real_bitch_shit --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/real_bitch_shit/support

In this episode we talk about what it’s like to have a friends with benefits , tips on how to have a friends with benefits. Also, what to do and what not to do when having a FWB. We also talk about personal experiences of mine and my guest cohost. Love and light everyone as always , I hope you enjoy :) --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/real_bitch_shit/support

In this Episode I discussed with my guest cohost who just recently got out of a relationship how it’s important to heal herself properly before continuing to move forward in life. So that she does not project her hurt to other people who never hurt her . We also talk about ways to stop being co-dependent, healthy boundaries and the healing process . Please always make sure to subscribe and follow me on Instagram real_bitch_shit1 and Twitter real_bitch_shit . Love and light as always ❤️ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/real_bitch_shit/support

Giving dating advise , sex advise, and the known of the zodiac Rotation as well as serving personal experience (TEA) of my co-host jewlz and of course myself . Enjoy everyone and make sure to subscribe , comment and follow me on all my social media IG real_bitch_shit1 and Twitter real_bitch_shit . Love and light --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/real_bitch_shit/support

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