The Fun Road with Kass & Steve

We've been so conditioned to think about others first, that we've started to believe that prioritizing our own wants, desires, and needs makes us a bad person. Being selfish is viewed as a negative thing in our society and being labeled as selfless is almost worn like a badge of honor, regardless of what it costs the individual. We're here today to flip the script on that thinking! Being selfish isn't always bad and being selfless isn't always good! It is actually possible to practice a healthy level of selfishness in your life. Being healthy selfish is all about meeting your own needs first so that you can show up as your best self, with presence and power in your own life. In this episode, Kass and Steve talk about the difference between good and bad selfishness. It's not about the act of focusing on yourself OR focusing on others—it's about finding a way to do both by prioritizing your own needs first.

Connection is a huge part of every relationship and human interaction in your life. We cannot have healthy, authentic, meaningful relationships without connecting on some level. And those connections are a huge part of what makes our lives happy and fulfilling. Whether it's your coworkers, your boss, best friend, partner, spouse, kids, whoever—communication is key to connection. Do you ever find yourself struggling to speak up and voice your opinion? Or maybe you feel that even when you do, you're misunderstood? Do you ever find yourself communicating ineffectively because you're too reactive? We as human beings have a deep desire to be loved and understood, to feel heard and seen. It's impossible to do that if we are unable to communicate effectively in order to connect with those around us. In this episode, Kass and Steve discuss how to connect on a deeper, more authentic level through effective communication.

Ever heard of paralysis by analysis? It's basically when over analyzing or over thinking a situation causes forward motion or decision making to be “paralyzed.” When you end up not even making a decision because you're so wrapped up in trying to figure out the best option. Here's another one for you:  Decidophobia - the fear of making the wrong decision. It makes sense to weigh your options and consider the risks of making a decision one way or another, but sometimes it can really halt your progress in life when it goes on for too long. Sometimes, the heaviness of carrying an unmade decision can outweigh the decision itself. It's like Steve says, it's like a little bag you add a stone too every time you think about the decision without making it—over time it gets heavier and heavier. As soon as you make the decision, you can drop that heavy bag.  In this episode, Kass and Steve give 4 tips on how to overcome paralysis by analysis and decidophobia so that you can move forward with your life. After all, action brings clarity.

As we travel through our day to day lives, we all experience a myriad of emotions! Whether you're happy, sad, content, angry, frustrated, joyful, or whatever it may be—it's important to pay attention to how you are expressing that. Saying things like “I am mad” or “I am frustrated” comes pretty naturally to most of us, but is that the most effective or healthy way to express or think about your emotions? When we use “I am” statements with negative emotions, we are labeling ourselves as a fleeting emotion, something that we don't want to be forever. You are not mad, you feel mad, and though that may not seem like a big difference—changing the way you think about and vocalize your emotions can help you take back your power. In this episode, Kass and Steve talk about the difference between “I am” and “I feel” statements, and the power behind the words you use to describe yourself.  After all, we are the creators of our lives. So what you say matters, because it dictates your future.

We all run into a midday slump from time to time and it sucks! You know those days where you start off strong and productive and then you leave for your lunch break and by the time you get back, your drive is gone? It's like you hit a wall and suddenly you just feel drained and out of focus. It can be super hard to get back in your groove. This is a super quick episode, all about finding a way to recharge and reboot so you don't get stuck in that midday slump! Are you spending your breaks scrolling through social media, being bombarded by hundreds of other people's emotions and  energy? Do you let others distract you from actually resting when you've got the time? Maybe you're even unknowingly keeping yourself from utilizing that free time to revitalize your energy. In this episode, Kass and Steve share what works for them and give a few suggestions on how you can keep your energy and productivity up!

Sometimes we get wrapped up in our responsibilities and life seems to drift into a mundane routine. We've got work and family responsibilities and all the day to day tasks to keep up on. But life should also be full of excitement and passion!  So what can you do when you feel stuck in this heavy rhythm? It's time to revitalize and refuel with a passion project! I know you might be thinking, “How could I possibly find the time for another project??” The thing about passion projects is that the return on investment is so much higher than the cost! A passion project can re-introduce a level of excitement and drive into your life that you may not have felt in a long time. It'll yank you right out of that feeling of being stuck and maybe even bored, and give you something to look forward to each day. Plus, you get to decide how much time and effort you put into it. Passion projects don't have to be a huge, all consuming thing. In this episode, Kass and Steve talk about finding time for personal projects, shifting your mindset to make space for them, and aligning your passion with purpose.

Have you ever gone to a restaurant, a store, or a service provider and had a really sub-par experience?  Maybe you've even had one of those experiences that was so bad, you just had to get on Yelp or Google and leave a one star review. On the flip side, have you ever seen a really good movie? The kind that makes you want to share it with everyone, and you can't stop talking about how good it was with all your friends? We're constantly reviewing the experiences we pay for, whether we actually write a review or not, but when was the last time you did this in more personal aspects of your life? Do you ever leave a get-together with a friend and wish you'd just stayed home? When you get off work do you feel totally drained and discouraged thinking,“Wow, this is really what I spend 40 hours of my week doing.” In this episode, Kass and Steve talk about writing a review of your own life. Learning to take inventory of and analyze your experiences, relationships, your job, and the activities you participate in is vital to a happy life.  When you learn to analyze that way, you learn to find solutions and you learn to take positive steps forward in your life.

These days, it can kind of feel like everything is a tough topic! Speaking your mind can be a scary thing, especially lately with the world feeling unstable or out of wack with the pandemic, the political climate, and growing division in our communities. We're living in a world where it feels like speaking your mind will separate you from those that have a different opinion, even if you love them. It doesn't have to be like this though!  Part of the beauty of this world is the diversity of its people. If everyone was the same, the world would be grey instead of color. There is power in recognizing that your world and the way you view it, is not the only world or the only way… and that's okay. That's good even! In this episode, Kass and Steve dive into why it's important to use your voice, and how we can do that without devaluing the opinions or experiences of others. Let's seek to understand others the way that we hope they will try to understand us!

Society has conditioned us to believe that we can't have it all. It's either this or that, not both. You can have a career OR you can have a family. You can make a lot of money OR you can have a job you love. You can have this OR that, you have to choose. But do we really have to choose? Or can we have this AND that? In this episode, Kass and Steve talk about the limitations that we sometimes place on ourselves and our expectations for life. They talk about breaking out of a “this or that” mentality and living with the mindset that you don't have to choose between two great things, you can have them both. You can have a happy home life AND a thriving career. You can have a job you love AND make good money. “Your brain always finds solutions to what you are planting the seeds for. It'll always be looking for solutions.” Don't get stuck in the “it's not that bad” cycle that leads to settling for less than what you want and deserve. Stop compromising on things that you don't HAVE to compromise on. Stop placing limitations on your happiness and embrace a life where you can have this AND that.

We as humans are flawed! It's what makes us human, and it's beautiful! However, it's pretty natural for us to have insecurities and sensitivities, and there will always be people who capitalize on those things and try to use them against us. Oftentimes we give too much power to those kinds of people (bullies) and we can tend to let the words of others dictate how we feel about ourselves.  Sometimes bullies are strangers on the internet, but sometimes they can even be our friends or family. More often than not, bullies are projecting their own insecurities or flaws onto us and either intentionally, or unintentionally hurt us. So how do we ‘block the haters' and move forward, loving ourselves with all our imperfections? In this episode, Kass and Steve share some of their personal experiences with bullies and how they've learned to handle the negativity in a positive way. They talk about the importance of setting boundaries, communicating in a non-reactive way, learning to laugh at your flaws, and taking the high road when you feel like you're under attack.

What's getting in the way of your mental toughness? Your internal, insecure voice. Insecurity doesn't just tell us, “no you can't” or “you shouldn't.” Insecurity oftentimes causes us to highlight other people's abilities or success and minimize or compare our own in a negative way. This trap of insecurity we get stuck in can seriously deter and distract us from our own progress and fulfillment in life. So how do we avoid the insecurity trap? In this episode, Kass and Steve discuss the pitfalls of comparison and how to quiet and overcome your internal insecure voice. We can learn how to celebrate and cheer on the success of others without it taking anything away from us. In fact, doing so can actually inspire us and instill hope that there is success to be had! Other people have found success, happiness, and fulfillment so we can too! This episode is all about shifting your mindset, focusing on your own journey, and leaving behind the distraction of comparison. Being secure and confident is all about seeing the greatness in others AND the greatness within yourself. The moment we stop comparing ourselves is the moment we are able to see how great we are actually doing.

As humans, sometimes it feels selfish to set boundaries and put our own needs first.  In reality, putting yourself first has nothing to do with, ‘I'm not thinking of anybody else.' It has everything to do with ‘How do I make myself happy so that my relationships and life as a whole are healthy and fulfilling?' It's like they tell you before every flight takes off — you've got to put your own oxygen mask on first, before you can help someone else! This episode is all about learning how to be “healthy selfish,” because figuring out, communicating, and prioritizing your needs isn't actually selfish! Boundaries make the world go round if you can learn how to speak up about yours and advocate for your needs and values.  Whether it's a relationship, family, friends, or your job, learning to be “healthy selfish” will only bring good to you and the people around you.   Kass and Steve talk about boundaries, speaking up for yourself, and why it is so important to ask for what you want in life.

If you don't take care of the first dandelion that makes its way into your yard, pretty soon you'll have a whole field of them, right? You've got to nip it in the bud! The same thing applies with a lot of difficulties, challenges, or even just tasks we're presented with in our lives.  Whether it's in your relationships, your job, or at home, we all have those things that sit in the back of our brain nagging away and causing us to worry and stress. Over time they get built up in our minds as this huge roadblock we have to overcome and it can be overwhelming. In reality, most of these issues can be taken care of with 5% effort if we “nip it in the bud!” If we can learn to dedicate 5 minutes here and there as problems arise, they won't become a 5 hour issue down the road! In this episode, Kass and Steve talk about the difference that daily “5 minute miracles” can make in your life with their own personal examples and stories. Really small shifts make a huge impact, you can change any day from crappy to happy within five minutes.

Kass and Steve talk about how to deal with the fear of the unknown. And how to differentiate between fear, worry, and awareness. Fear can be paralyzing, when you don't know from one thing or the other you tend to lean towards fear and worry. Worrying about what could happen is different than being aware of the things that could happen. Do you see the difference? Worrying paralyzes you, awareness educates you. When you think about your fear, does the fear measure up to the possibility of that thing you are worried about happening? The solution to overcome the fear is a lot easier than living with the fear and worry. When trying to make yourself aware, you have to make sure that you don't go down the rabbit hole of reading and listening to everybody so that it turns into worry and fear. Kass and Steve talk about some of their fears they had growing up. Can you relate to any of these? We hope you get a good chuckle out of their fears just like they do! Don't forget! Kass and Steve have a YouTube channel! Tune in to watch them record their podcasts, and get in on the fun! Get more information on www.thefunroad.com

How do you wake up in the morning? Would you call yourself a morning person? Kass and Steve are talking about how to handle your “Hot Buttons”. Hot Buttons can be described as something that triggers you into making you angry. Hot buttons are when you are overly sensitive about something and it is something that you yourself needs to work through. Recognizing that there are thing(s) that trigger you to anger can make you wonder if other people have those same hot buttons. Kass and Steve talk about their own hot buttons, and how they are able to work through that emotion. They also talk about how hot buttons can vary; depending on your relationships, your work environment, etc. You might have a hot button with coworker, and a completely different one with a close friend. Kass and Steve also talk about how to communicate with people who's hot buttons have been triggered by something youhave said to them. Communication is key. Take the higher road, and be the person to diffuse the situation and squash the problem before it even gets to a breaking point

Do you ever feel like taking control of your life is selfish? On this episode Kass and Steve are talking about how making your life count may look selfish to others, but it is beneficial for you. Changing your mindset on how to be selfless for yourself can put your life into the direction you wanted. Are you afraid that you are in a box and you can't get out of that box that society has put you in? Maybe you're a stay-at-home mom who wants to work, or you want to change your career, or whatever it is you feel is holding you back, you can do it. You need to give yourself the permission to be selfish for your own success. Kass and Steve talk about their own experiences with how being selfish with their own lives benefited them and others in the long run. It is imperative that you are selfish mentally, physically, and emotionally. That way, you can help others do the same when they need it. Life is a road, it's a journey of trying to find yourself and what you are meant to do. It's time to make your life count! Don't forget you can catch them on their YouTube channel! See what they are really doing behind the scenes

Are you the type of person that makes resolutions? Are you afraid that you will fail? On today's episode, Kass and Steve are talking about turning your resolutions into results. Have you ever wondered why your resolutions aren't sticking? When you make resolutions, do you come up with a game plan? Are you clear on what your steps are? Clarity comes from action, creating opportunity fires signals in your brain to look for new possibilities. This will open a doorway to success. Whatever thing you are feeding in your soul, it will win. If you are telling yourself negative thoughts and why you won't succeed at something, or if you are telling yourself that you shouldn't start a resolution because you feel like you'll fail, you will. Changing your mentality to a plan of action, and deciding to get things done is the way to success. Whether it's waking up 30 minutes earlier, going to the gym, reading more books, etc. Whatever your resolution is, take action. When you realize that resolutions take work, success takes work, and take ownership of that, your resolutions will turn into habits, and those habits turn into results. Don't forget you can catch them on their YouTube channel! See what they are really doing behind the scenes. 

When you hear the word Addiction, where does your mind go? Does it go to physical addiction? Kass and Steve are talking about addiction on today's episode. They are talking about the addictions you can't see. Such as someone who is addicted to self loathing, or putting themself down. Or addicted to creating some sort of unnecessary drama in their life. Do you know someone like this? Maybe you are guilty of this type of behavior addiction yourself. And while they mention confidence a lot, today they are talking about how confidence is the keystone to everything else. It is the the thing that holds your success, friendships, careers together. Whatever your ambition is in life, confidence is the glue. Kass and Steve talk about the time we spend thinking about the things that are bad about ourself, or thinking about all the things we don't have. That inner dialogue is something that can be an addiction. The first step is admitting that you do it, and the next step is to work on it. Growing from it and getting better every day is what this Fun Road is all about. Habits can turn into addictions. Snapping out of a bad attitude can create the habit of being positive, and then becoming addicted to the positive! Kass and Steve have a YouTube Channel! Tune in to see what is happening live.

Confidence is the Keystone to success. It is the glue that holds everything else together. Kass and Steve talk about confidence in this podcast. And while they mention confidence a lot, today they are talking about how confidence is the keystone to everything else. It is  the thing that holds your success, friendships, careers, whatever your ambition is in life, confidence is the glue. Kass and Steve say that confidence over competence beats it every time, and they are here to share their stories of how confidence got them to where they are today. That doesn't mean they haven't failed, they have their share of failures. But, through maintaining confidence they have found success. Fear is going to hold you back. Fear of failure, too scared to try, you will always be heading down the same road. Confidence is the moving force that pushes you in the successful direction. Confidence takes practice. Just like riding a bike, it takes muscle memory. Being confident is not being arrogant. Kass and Steve talk about the differences of these two words as well. Kass and Steve have a YouTube Channel! Tune in to see what is happening live. Get more information on www.thefunroad.com

Let's talk about Beauty. And no, we aren't talking makeup and hair tips. We are talking REAL beauty. Kass and Steve ask the question: what is beautiful to you? Usually when people ask you about beauty, you immediately think about appearance. But Kass and Steve are going deeper than that. Kass and Steve have traveled all over the world and know for a fact that there is beauty in all things. Cultures, music, people, places, foods, you name it and they can find the beauty in it. Real beauty in a person is the light that shines from within you, it is the what comes from the inside and shows on the outside of someone. Being different from someone else is beautiful. Different cultures teach us things that are not familiar to us, and the unfamiliar can have power to show beauty to us. Being unique is something that Kass and Steve have come to realize is what makes this world so beautiful. Try looking for the beauty in something you never thought of as beautiful, and you'll be surprised at what you find. Want to see what is happening live? Kass and Steve have a YouTube channel! Tune in to watch them record their podcasts, and get in on the fun!

This week Kass and Steve are talking about the Art of Progress and make a big announcement about The Fun Road. Kass and Steve dive into this episode talking about how successful people only take one successful step forward every day. You should pick one thing you want to focus on, and what you can do to make an issue shrink so it leaps you into progression instead of perfection. Progression is more important than perfection. So, when you're looking at passive action, it takes a lot of time but it isn't pushing you like active action does. The power of progress is so important in improving your life, and Kass and Steve have a special surprise that goes along with this principal! You will need to listen to the podcast to hear what the surprise is, but you don't want to miss it. All the details are in this episode. Want to see what is happening live? Kass and Steve have a YouTube channel! Tune in to watch them record their podcasts, and get in on the fun!

Have you taken an inventory of your life lately? On this week's episode, Kass and Steve are talking about where they want to be in ten years from now and taking an inventory of your life right now to get to that point. Taking an inventory can mean a lot of different things. What do you have right now? What are you missing? What do you need more of? There are lots of different ways to figure this out for your life and your situation, you just need to find the one that works for you. Maybe you want to be out of debt, maybe you want to travel a certain number of times, maybe you want to advance your education or improve your relationships. Taking an inventory means that you check what you have and how you can improve those things, not throw them away. Kass and Steve ask each other where they want to be in ten years, and the answers may surprise you. Take an inventory, write it down, and start making it happen for you! And Kass and Steve have us on the edge of our seats with a special announcement coming up, so don't forget to tune in weekly to find out! Follow along on Youtube to see exclusive behind the scenes footage and pictures from Kass and Steve.

If you could turn back time and undo one thing, would you? What would you undo? On this week's episode, Kass and Steve ask the question: what is one thing you did that you wish you could take back? What is the first thing that comes to your mind? Maybe it was not taking the job or talking badly about someone you wish you hadn't. Maybe you quit something that you wish you wouldn't have quit? All of these things are possible, and most people have had these experiences. Kass and Steve ask each other the same question they ask the listeners, and they share their experiences with wishing they could take something back. Wishing you could turn back the clock and take an opportunity, or not involving themselves in a conversation that was hurtful for someone else. If you can't take anything back, you can sometimes fix what you did. But it's also important not to live in the past. It's good to keep moving forward and realize that life is to be lived and everybody makes mistakes. Even Kass and Steve! Follow along on Youtube to see exclusive behind the scenes footage and pictures from Kass and Steve.

Have you ever felt backed into a corner when it comes to saying Yes? On today's episode, Kass and Steve are talking about saying yes and saying no, and the power those two small words can hold. Saying yes all the time has the same benefits of saying no all the time, which aren't a lot of benefits. Kass and Steve break it down and tell us why that is, and why it's important to have boundaries. Learning how to say yes at the right moment and learning how to say no at the right moment is going to serve a better purpose to you and the people in your life in the long run. It might be uncomfortable at first, but it will save you from over committing or being pressured into a situation you never wanted to be in the first place. Having boundaries is ok. Saying yes is ok. Saying no is ok. Saying yes to adventure when you don't normally will give you life experience. Saying no to situations you know won't make you happy in the long run is important too. Follow along on Youtube to see exclusive behind the scenes footage and pictures from Kass and Steve.

Who doesn't like a good meal with friends? So, let's sit down with Kass and Steve and chat! On this episode, Kass and Steve are winding down their day with some dinner and friendly conversation. Showing us that even a casual dinner can lead to opening your heart and mind to new possibilities. And, it's fun to hear about other peoples day right? Especially Kass and Steve! Listen in as they talk about books they are reading, experiences they have had, how they can gage their happiness and more. Listening to others experiences about life can teach us a lot about perspective and our life and this episode is a great example of just that. Grab yourself your favorite meal and tune in. It'll feel like you're sitting at the dinner table with your good friends. Follow along on Youtube to see exclusive behind the scenes footage from Kass and Steve...Like them actually eating dinner.  

In a world of instant gratification, how do we navigate this power of want? Kass and Steve dive into this human thought process and how to handle it. Our world is full of scrolling these days, and when you see someone on that vacation, or losing weight, or all those swipe up links, it can be hard to stop yourself from getting instant gratification. The power of wanting what everyone else has can lead you to never feeling satisfied, or comparing yourself to everyone. Looking at olympic athletes, musicians, surgeons, you will see that they worked for years and sacrificed so much to get to where they are today. You might look at them and say that they are overnight sensations, when really they have worked behind the scenes for years. Don't compare your life to someone else's highlight reel. When you stop wanting everything instantly and start working for the things you want, you will be happier with your results. Figure out the process, avoid the endless swipe ups, and remember that comparison is the thief of joy. Don't forget! Kass and Steve have a YouTube channel! Tune in to watch them record their podcasts, and get in on the fun!

Do you have positive or negative perspectives? Kass and Steve are talking about perspectives on life on today's episode. You often hear people say that they are a negative person or a positive person when it comes to their outlook on life, but Kass and Steve are here to tell you that it's about your perspective, and how you can change your mindset. Changing your perspective can make all the difference in how you see things or deal with situations in your day. It is that tiny shift that makes the biggest impact. You can look back on your life at the things that have happened, whether they were good or bad and with a perspective shift, you will realize that those have shaped you into the person you have become. Kass and Steve refer to events in their own life as a perfect example of this practice. It can be beneficial to have different perspectives on life. There will be hard times and great times and shifting perspectives are beneficial for both circumstances. Follow along on Kass and Steve's YouTube channel!

Kass and Steve discuss what are referred to as the twelve most beautiful questions ever asked. They can reveal your deepest desires, your truest friends, and your realest self. Take some time to listen with a friend if possible. Pause after each question and answer honestly. You may think you already know the answers, but saying them out loud to yourself may surprise you. Asking these questions to a friend may help you build a stronger more honest relationship with each other.

How do you talk to teens these days? Well, we have a teen who is answering questions today! On this episode, Kass is sitting down with her oldest son, Dayne! A 15 year old teenager who is giving us an inside look into what teen life is like in 2019. And on the flip side, Kass is giving us a peek into what being a mom to a teenager is like. If you have teenagers, and are worried about how to communicate with them, this podcast is for you! Kass asks Dayne all the questions parents shouldn't be afraid to ask their teen. She asks about social media, girls, cliques, how cool of a mom she is, and more. Her biggest tip is instead of asking 'yes' or 'no' questions, switch to interesting questions instead. This will help drive conversations between parents and teens. Kass reminds Dayne that she has never been a parent to a teenager before, and raising a child is a lot of pressure. Do you feel like that with your oldest? This podcast will help ease your minds and know that trying your best is all you have 

Who are your Clutch Friends? Are you familiar with that term? Clutch friends are those five people in your life that you know will be there in a second. When life gets crazy, who do you call? In this episode, Kass and Steve talk about their clutch friends. They also talk about the friends they used to have that were not a good influence in their lives. They remind us that people can be draining, so find people who don't drain your positive energy. Pick people who fill up your bucket! It's ok to ask your friends for help, and let your friends know that you'll be there for them too. That's what coming in clutch means! Do you consider yourself a clutch friend? Do you think Kass and Steve made each other's lists? Only one way to find out... Press play! Follow along on Youtube to see exclusive behind the scenes footage from Kass and Steve.

You read that right. Contrary to popular belief, they don't love to work out. With Zumba Fitness, their job had forced them to stay in shape and ‘embrace the suck' that can be working out everyday. In this episode Kass and Steve rewind time to talk about their journey to become fitness Guru's and how unlikely it was for both of them. They talk about what sports they played as children and the attitudes that helped them to become some of the best in the industry. Surprise!!!! Setting realistic goals and having some form of accountability are the hallmarks of fitness success. (Boring, I know) But it works, and it's the ONLY way it works long term. They LOVE Zumba because its so much fun. It's exercise in disguise. Tell us what you do for a fun workout. Kass and Steve have a YouTube channel! Tune in to watch them record their podcasts, and get in on the fun!

This episode is just as crazy fun as Kass and Steve are! Get ready to laugh, folks! In this episode, Kass and Steve take a trip down memory lane and re-visit some of the zany things that have happened to them. They are calling it “Tales from the Crypt”, because the vault is open and they are sharing the best of the best. Listen as they talk about funny things that have happened to them in their lives and why it's important to laugh at yourself. Kass and Steve have their own experiences and things that have happened to them together, but through it all they laugh. They remind us that it's ok to laugh at ourselves and that it makes life better. Not taking things too seriously and always knowing that through a crazy experience it always makes for a good story later. Follow along on Youtube to see exclusive behind the scenes footage and pictures from Kass and Steve. Get more information on www.thefunroad.com

How do you wake up in the morning? Would you call yourself a morning person? Kass and Steve are talking about how you wake up in the morning and how that impacts your day. How you start your day can determine the whole outcome of your attitude throughout the day. It's a mind shift from thinking you aren't a morning person to saying you are and believing it. Thoughts create your feelings and your feelings create your actions. Kass and Steve are breaking down their morning routines, and explaining how they get into their morning mindset. Steve explains how even getting into routine the night before a big morning can help improve the routine for the next day. Kass and Steve have a YouTube channel! Tune in to watch them record their podcasts, and get in on the fun!

It's part 2 of Kass and Steve taking your questions! This episode Kass and Steve are finishing up answering the questions that you guys asked. They are still as candid and funny as ever as they recall how they became such good friends, where it all began, and how they maintain that friendship. It was a match made in heaven, and the rest is history! Kass and Steve dive deeper into their connection, and how important it is to find people that want the same things you do. Which leads them into the question of how they met their partners? All the juicy details are here in this episode! Who doesn't love a good love story? Sparks fly in this episode! Tune in for the final conclusion of question and answer with Kass and Steve. And remember you can catch them on their YouTube channel! See what they are really doing behind the scenes

Kass and Steve are taking questions and answering them for you guys! On this episode, Kass and Steve are answering the questions that everyone wants to know. And like always, they are being candid and open about their answers. They are talking about their favorite thing to do, down to the least favorite thing. And you'll be happy to know that their answers are probably your answers as well! Kass and Steve prove once again that they are just like everybody else. They have their pet peeves, their flaws, and their hard times that they have overcome. They don't hold anything back. Which is why we love them! Tune in for this weeks part one episode for the first series of questions and answers. And don't forget you can also watch it on their YouTube channel! See what they are really doing behind the scenes.

Kass and Steve are here talking more about visualization. Have you ever been driving in your car and you are running late? And you start to spiral into every red light you're going to hit, or the upcoming traffic that you know is there? When in reality, you don't know if any of these things are true. You are just visualizing all the bad things that could happen instead of the opposite. You actually have the power to visualize what you want out of life. Something as small as driving in the car can be a great starting point into learning how to visualize better outcomes. You need to think of solutions before you ever think of other problems that may or may not happen. Kass and Steve talk about how visualize different circumstances pays off for them in the long run. They have all the tips and tricks, so why wouldn't you want to listen? And don't forget, tune into their YouTube channel to see the filming in real time!

What does being perfect mean to you? What about being authentic? Can you tell the difference? Do you find yourself always chasing the idea of perfection and failing? When you have grand expectations of what you think life is supposed to be, you leave room for disappointment. Kass and Steve explain how they fall short meeting other peoples expectations when it comes to being perfect. They have a new idea for you: The idea of perfectionism should be swapped with the idea of being authentic. Listen as Kass & Steve talk about the differences between being perfect and being authentic. Authentic means you embrace all parts of your personality. You are true to who you are. Don't let other people decide what your authentic self should be. Only you can be you! The key is to live as good of a life whatever good means to you. We are not allowing ourselves to be free when you chase the idea of perfect. What might be perfect for someone else might not be perfect for you. We are created different for a reason. Don't forget! Kass & Steve have a YouTube channel! Tune in to watch them record their podcasts, and get in on the fun!

Guess what?? Kass & Steve have a YouTube channel where you can watch them as they record their weekly podcast. Check it out at The Fun Road YouTube This week Kass & Steve are talking about consistency. If you decide to do something, you stick with it. That is the only way to get results in life. Momentum is consistency's reward to you. Once you have momentum, there is very little that can stop you from reaching your dreams. Listen as Kass & Steve talk about areas in their life that they are succeeding and struggling with consistency.

The moment you've all been waiting for! Kass sits down with her sister, Emily! On this episode, Kass sits down with her older sister Emily. You've probably seen her on Kass's instagram, or heard Kass refer to her as “the hair”, but today she is talking about what it's like to be the big sister of Kass Martin. They talk about their relationship and how they got to be so close even though they are six years apart. Kass asks Emily about where she gets her positivity, how Kass influenced her to start teaching fitness classes, and how Emily was her cheerleader when Kass gave birth to her kids. Emily has five kids herself, so she knows what she is talking about! They recall stories about hard times and when they had to lean on each other for moral support, and how they can turn any sad moment into a funny one. Emily loves to be a positive influence in her daily life, and talks about the health challenges she runs. Follow her on instagram! You won't be disappointed. And maybe, just maybe, she will let you in on her hair secrets!

What do you talk about at the dinner table? Kass and Steve invite you to one of their after dinner conversations in this weeks episode. After dinner, they like to chit chat as friends and colleagues. They talk about people in their lives, their relationships, their job, priorities, just to name a few subjects. This weeks dinner conversation is prioritization. How to shift goals towards a different career path or something broader. Kass and Steve talk about why people can be afraid to grow in their endeavors and why it can be scary. Kass and Steve take turns asking each other questions, including what their biggest character flaw is. Yes, even Kass and Steve have their flaws! On this episode, you really get the vibe like you're sitting down with a friend for dinner and the feeling that you are getting to know your friends. When was the last time you had dinner with a friend? Maybe it's time to give them a call and set a dinner date! You'll be pleasantly surprised where the conversation takes you.

Kass and Steve are talking insecurities in this episode. What is success? What is beauty? Who decides what those are? Insecurity is something we all struggle with. It can feel like you are dragging around a giant weight. Sometimes our insecurities can stem from a comment someone made. The problem is that people say a lot of stupid things. Chances are that the person who made a rude comment has NO idea they have scarred you. We give that comment power, and wear it like a chain, but don't have to...

Kass and Steve are world travelers, and usually while traveling we tend to take a break from our fitness routines and healthy eating. But, when you have a travel schedule like Kass and Steve, you need to figure out how to stay fit on the go. Kass and Steve are here to help! Deciding you are going to go to the gym the next day will get you in the right mindset. Laying out your clothes the night before and having them ready will help keep you motivated. Working out first thing in the morning is helpful. Finding a gym close to you or using the hotel gym will make sure you don't have any excuses. It can be hard to stay on the right track with your diet while you are traveling. Kass and Steve tell us what they do when they are cornered with a buffet and endless options. Don't forget to eat a lot of color! Taking the stairs instead of the elevator, walking places instead of driving, and stretching to increase your flexibility will help maintain and increase your fitness level and healthy lifestyle!

Sometimes, society puts people in boxes. Whether that's ethnicity, body type, sexual orientation, etc. People tend to think that their box that they belong to makes the world go round. But people that are different from you aren't actually a danger to you. Kass and Steve have met people from all over the world and what they have found out is, people are the same. People are people and everybody has their problems. Kass and Steve both share when they were going through difficult times in their life and how people communicating with them helped them realize they weren't alone or entirely different from other people that had been through something similar. Realizing that someone might not know how to communicate will also make communicating with them easier. Using “I” statements helps you feel control of your own situation and how you help solve your problems. Kass goes into more detail on how to use this communication technique.

Kass and Steve are here talking about communication, and how different types can affect us as people. Sometimes, society puts people in boxes. Whether that's ethnicity, body type, sexual orientation, etc. People tend to think that their box that they belong to makes the world go round. But people that are different from you aren't actually a danger to you. Kass and Steve have met people from all over the world and what they have found out is, people are the same. People are people and everybody has their problems. Kass and Steve both share when they were going through difficult times in their life and how people communicating with them helped them realize they weren't alone or entirely different from other people that had been through something similar.

Kass and Steve are back with more travel tips, and we are glad they are spilling more travel tricks with us! From booking hotels to packing a small suitcase, Kass and Steve know all the ways to make you successful for any trip. Did you know that when you book through a secondhand website for a hotel, that the hotel loses a percentage? It's true! We tell you all about how to book through a hotel with a killer deal, and also how to gain perks from booking! Kass and Steve have had plenty of practice packing for any situation. There are small gadgets that everyone can use to make their packing more efficient and more practical. You can even get your daily vitamins into a travel efficient system, and ease the stress of packing pill bottles and taking up extra room.

Kass and Steve have been have traveling extensively for many, many years. They have seen it all and sometimes it can be huge source of stress. Don't let the the nuts and bolts of travel ruin the fun of a trip. In part 1 of this series Kass and Steve discuss picking airlines, frequent flyers, getting upgrades, booking tickets, picking seats, how to dress, and products that can really help on those long flights.

Kass' husband Brian fills in for Steve on this episode. Brian works constantly with Kass and Steve behind the scenes. You've seen him on Kass' Instagram feed, but today Kass and Brian talk about what its like to work together, how they manage the crazy travel and what it's like being married to Kass Martin. You CAN create the lifestyle you want! Kass and Brian are the living proof that self improvement and confidence are the biggest keys to success.

Do you ever read a text or email and assume the tone is negative? Or see someone laugh in your direction and assume they are talking about you? We often project our own insecurities into a situation and assume the worst, when we really do not have enough facts to judge. Be aware that sometimes written words may not portray the emotion of the sender, and may be received with filter of insecurity. Everyone has their own truth. The way we see the world is our truth, and it may be different from someone else's truth.

Let's talk mornings. Are you someone who wakes up with a skip in their step? Or are you not to be bothered? Regardless if you think you you're a morning person or not, waking up and having a routine in place can be vital to how the rest of your day goes. No matter what, when you wake up is still the start of your day. It sets the temperature for how the rest of your day is going to go. Maybe you hate waking up because the sound of your alarm makes you cringe, but you just know you won't be able to wake up to something more pleasant. Truth is, you can and you will. Try setting your alarm to a song that instantly puts a smile on your face and gets your mood and mindset in the right direction. We have our favorite wake up songs, what are yours?

How many times a day do you look in the mirror? What are you thoughts when you do? Does your mind start going towards the negative? Do you tell yourself that your hair is, skin, body, clothes, etc. aren't good enough? Do positive thoughts about yourself appear after the negative ones have made their way into your mind? Have you ever stopped to wonder what you see when you look in the mirror is not what your best friend thinks when they see you? When you start telling yourself the negative things, figure out where they came from in the first place. Why did this thought start? There are so many limiting self beliefs that can make themselves known even in grade school. Watch your thoughts when something doesn't go right, watch where those thoughts spin. Where did that come from? Why live this long with those thoughts when you can change your mindset on how you see yourself? It is such a freeing way to live!

What are the ingredients for success? Ever stop to think about that? Lets say you have a garden. You have seeds, and all you need is water and some sunlight. What if you forgot to water the seeds? What if it was cloudy for days on end, and you were watering the seeds, but they wouldn't budge? The seeds would never grow. They would never reach their full potential. See what we are trying to say here? Now that we've talked about the perfect recipe for your tomato plants, apply that to ambition, talent, and passion. Passion is the seed, talent is the water, ambition is the sunlight. All three of these things can make you successful.